November 2016
COMPLIMENTARY
Giving Thanks
Hacksaw Ridge
Living the Great Commission
Keeping God’s Commandments
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Year Round Thanksgiving For some believers, the Thanksgiving holiday is just a one-day big event of gathering with friends and family, eating, ball game watching, more eating and, yes, even giving thanks. As you and your family look towards Thanksgiving Day later this month, think about how to have Thanksgiving Day every day of the year. Giving thanks to God is taught throughout the entire Bible, Old and New Testaments. As God’s people, each and every day of our lives should be a day of thanksgiving to God. Here are just a few of the scores of Scriptures that reference giving thanks to the Lord. Think of your favorite verses regarding thanksgiving. “Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, And into His courts with praise. Be thankful to Him, and bless His name.” Psalm 100:4 “And when you offer a sacrifice of thanksgiving to the LORD, offer it of your own free will.” Leviticus 22:29 “Oh, give thanks to the LORD, for He is good! For His mercy endures forever.” 1 Chronicles 16:34 “We give thanks to You, O God, we give thanks! For Your wondrous works declare that Your name is near.” Psalms 75:1 All Scriptures above are from the New King James Version After Thanksgiving, as we get back to the grind, it is easy to forget how the Lord blesses us in so many ways every day. If we focus on things to complain about, we should stop, reverse our thought process and focus on the good that He has provided to and for us. Don’t think you have anything to be thankful for?. Then just slow down, look to heaven and thank God for His goodness, His kindness, His mercy and salvation through his Son, Jesus. November is also the month that our country honors the men and women who have served our country in the armed services. Either on Veterans Day or sometime this month, spend quality time with a Veteran and thank them for service to our nation which has preserved our freedom over many years and many wars.
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November 2016 DEPARTMENTS
Contents
Volume 8, Number 1
3 From the Publisher 6 Senior Scene Very Important Information For Seniors 7 Are We There Yet? A Visit To the Ark Park
ON THE COVER
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Hacksaw Ridge - The story of one of the greatest war heroes in American history who never fired a bullet.
FEATURES
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Body & Soul - Are you “Mr. or Ms. T”?
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The Great Commission, a local church acts on Jesus’ command
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Church of the Month: NorthField Church
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Mighty Men - Recalling a True Hero
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Pot Luck - The Mission of Pieology
11 Best Books Great Read – True Story 11 Hassle Free Zone Don’t Just Keep On Pushing!
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12 Healthy Living Change Your Life By Changing Your Mind 12 City Scene Hometown Hero Gives Back Through the Local Airwaves 18 Teachable Moments Focus on Scattering Not Gathering We Should “Work” At Being Thankful 20 In His Grip As the Apostle Paul Did, We Must Pursue Excellence 22 Mission Makers It Takes Godly Effort To Follow Jesus’s Instructions
NEXT ISSUE Remembering the Reason for the Season
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23 God’s Plan For Salvation and Eternal Life 23 An Encouraging Word Preparing Our Hearts For Thanksgiving 25 Kids Korner Kids Get Connected With the Bible Using Simple Science Experiments 26 Calendar 26 About Our Advertisers
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GOBBLING VS. GRATITUDE:
Stuff of Happiness not Stuffing The alarm goes off at 4:45 a.m. — and Mr. T springs out of bed with a smile on his face and heads for the shower humming a tune. Freshly showered and dressed for work he hops into the car eager to get to work on time. A car suddenly swoops in front of him using no turn signal, but Mr. T keeps his cool. "They must be stressedout or late" he thinks to himself, and so Mr. T says a little prayer for them along the way. Bouncing into his place of employment with a spring in his step, Mr. T puts in eight hours of his very best whether the boss is around or not, and spreads a little encouragement to others throughout the day while ignoring the workplace gossip. While stuck in a bad traffic jam on the way home he takes a few moments to reflect on how grateful he is for having a reliable automobile with a good radio and CD player. A mere two miles from his home, he is pulled-over by a police officer and given a ticket for driving 10 mph over the speed limit. Mr. T is careful to be polite to the officer, and thanks him for his diligence in patrolling the streets and ensuring public safety. Arriving home he greets his wife with a kiss, and never fails to tell her once a day of how thankful he is to have her. Mr. T's wife has had a hectic day, and so the evening meal consists of TV dinners. A simple prayer of "blessing" is said over the TV dinners with an attitude of thankfulness for having a meal when many people in the world go to bed hungry. Who is Mr. T? He is Mr. "Thankful." If you had a few snickers at the preceding story, you're not alone. The average American is nothing like Mr. T. We stumble out of bed grumbling all the way to the shower and don't exactly look forward to another day of "the grind." We give a few choice words (or gestures) to those inconsiderate drivers, and commiserate with our fellow employees about our boss' shortcomings. We don't normally have grateful thoughts when stuck in those traffic jams, and often give that ticketing police officer a "piece of our minds." If a lot of husbands suddenly expressed their gratitude for a TV dinner and told their wives how glad they were to be married to them, there might be a rash of passed-out wives lying on the floor. Thanksgiving is here this month, but I really have to wonder if most Americans honestly know how to have a thankful spirit. That first Thanksgiving Day proclaimed by the Plymouth colonists in 1621 involved three days of feasting and prayer. What were they so thankful for? — their first harvest and for surviving that first Massachusetts winter. Sounds like it didn't take much to make them happy. Perhaps true thankfulness is unrelated to our "modern progress" but rather stems from a relationship to our Creator. The more our modern culture veers away from that relationship and pursues individualistic material prosperity, the more we collectively lose that sense of gratitude. That's food for thought. Happy Thanksgiving. — Stephen Rowland is chaplain for the Knights For Christ (Christian Motorcyclists Association) in Columbia, Tenn.
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MEDICARE OPEN ENROLLMENT What's next?
Fall is in the air so you know what that means – yes it is Medicare open enrollment time. Starting Oct. 15th and ending Dec. 7th if you are on a Medicare Advantage (MA) Plan you have the option to make changes to your current carrier. This includes MAPD (Medicare Advantage Prescription Drug) plans or PDP (Prescription Drug Plan) or MA plans. Your current carrier’s plan is good through Dec. 31st and you should have received an ‘Annual Notice of Change’ (ANOC) letter stating the changes in your plan for 2017. If you have not had any issues with your plan and the changes for 2017 is acceptable to you, you need not do a thing – you will be renewed for the plan year 2017. “However” states Ben Davis, CSA (Certified Senior Advisor) who is the Director of Outreach for Select Pointe, LLC “this is a great time to look at the other options available in your county/area”. He has been in the Medicare arena since 2005 and has seen many changes since MA plans started being sold in the middle Tennessee market. “Drug formularies change, tier co-pays change, co-insurance amounts change, and providers may change”. “It can be a bit overwhelming for the over 65 age group especially for those folks that are new to Medicare”. There are 3 options when it comes to selecting Medicare plans. Which option is right for you? “That depends, says Davis, and that is why you should seek out professional help to guide you to the best decision as it relates to your current situation”. That is what he and the other agents at Select Pointe, LLC have done since 2012. Do you want to have original Medicare (Parts A, B, and D), or add a Medicare Supplement (also known as Medi-gap), or is a MA/MAPD (parts A, B, C, and D) plan right for you? “We have been helping people for the last 4+ years by asking them questions they didn’t even know to ask and then make a decision based on that information”. Making sure Hospitals, Doctors, and providers accept a MA/ MAPD plan is very important. Although Medicare Advantage plans have been in the Nashville area since 2006 there is still some confusion about what all is covered and what is not. There are 4 parts to Medicare: Part A is Hospital insurance coverage, Part B is Medical insurance coverage, Part C Medicare Advantage coverage, and Part D is Prescription Drug coverage. The types of Medicare Advantage plans are Health Maintenance Organizations (HMO), Preferred Provider Organization (PPO), Private Fee-for-Service (PFFS), and Special Needs Plan (SNP). This information as well as other information can be found in the ‘Medicare & You 2017’ booklet that has just come out. So if you need help, have questions, or you are just getting started with Medicare coverage give Ben a call and let’s get the process started. Ben is available to do workshops/seminars at your Church or organization. See our ad on page 9. — Ben Davis, CSA, Director of Outreach, Select Pointe, LLC 615-584-4946 ben.davis@selectpointe.com, www.selectpointe.com
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The Ark Encounter
Author Beth Fine, far left, visits the Ark Encounter in Grant County Kentucky, about a 3 hour drive from Nashville.
moving waste products; and storing/distributing food for both animals and people alike.
Specialized areas held a carpenter shop to make repairs on the ark; a kitchen to prepare meals; decorated living quarters to reflect the taste and diverse cultures of the wives of Noah’s sons: Ham had married a black woman; Shem, another Semite; and Japheth, a fair-skinned woman. These progenitors represented mankind as one blood, one race while hinting at great variation suspended in the DNA of people whose traits changed or distilled gradually as they spread over the earth to different environments.
Recently on my way from Tennessee to Detroit, I visited the newly opened Ark Encounter in Williamstown, KY. This $30 million dollar extravaganza proved an incredible feat and delightful tourist attraction devised by Australian biologist Ken Ham. So well done, it was painstakingly built to biblical dimensions and fashioned with great skill by craftsmen, artists, and artisans, many of them Amish. Requiring a demonstration of highest efficiency and work ethic, the Holy Spirit surely inspired workers… “And whatsoever ye do, do it heart- A look inside the full-size Noah’s Ark, built acily, as to the Lord” (Colossians 3:23 KJV). cording to the dimensions given in the Bible- 510 feet long, 85 feet wide, and 51 feet high.
The question of how the Ark held all the world’s animals was explained in the term “kind.” God gathered to the Ark every “kind” of creature that had potential over time to mate, reproduce, and diversify within its DNA range. The petting zoo exemplified that premise with its Zonkey (zebra+donkey) and Zorse (zebra+horse). God chose immature animals and smaller versions of a species that needed less space and food for the journey.
Sometimes we err thinking ancient generations lacked Photos: Keegan D’Alfonso To learn more about visiting this fascinating attracconstruction or engineering knowledge and yet quickly tion, go to www.arkencredit the Egyptians with ability to design/execute the counter.com. pyramids. Bible students know God often instructed men how to work with materials like metals, stone, clay, fabric, jewels, skins, and wood. Therefore, — Beth Fine, Author of popular mysteries for middle I was not surprised to observe the highly researched, archaic, yet ingenious schoolers including the new series, The Picaresque of methods used in the Ark for trapping/dispensing fresh water; collecting/reÍmagine Purple, www.imaginepurple.com
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T h e G r eat C om m i ss ion
Brentwood Baptist Church Responds to Area Needs Through its Middle Tennessee initiative Nashville is known as the “Buckle of the Bible Belt,” but as, senior pastor of Brentwood Baptist Church, Mike Glenn says, “It's no wonder our nation's pants are falling down.” One of the fastest growing cities in the nation, metropolitan Nashville is home to 1.8 million people with an estimated 85 new residents moving to the area each day. The city boasts over 700 churches. However, with the rise in the number of religiously unaffiliated, churches are increasingly shutting their doors. Over 60% of the city’s population is not connected to a local church. The high number of unchurched A member of The Church is not unique to Nashville. In a Pew Research reat Avenue South reads to port the number of individuals across the country local children. who do not regularly attend any church, frequently referred to as the ‘nones’ increased in 2014 to 23% from just 16% in 2007a. In fact, people are psychologically distancing themselves from the institution of church. A separate Pew study shows the number of people who believe that religious institutions play a significant role in solving social problems now has dropped sharply to only 58% in 2016 down from 75% in 2001b. Of course, throughout American history Christians have without doubt shaped the nation and our society as it stands. Many of the most well-respected schools, such as Harvard, Yale, and Princeton were founded by Christians. In fact, Harvard was named in honor of its first benefactor, a Christian minister, John Harvard. Similarly, the civilized world’s modern hospitals were introduced because the Roman emperor Constantine heeded Christ’s call to care of the sick and infirm. Today, one in six patients is cared for in a church-run hospital. Nonetheless, many Nashvillians remain disconnected from the Church. In addition to this, and maybe because of this, our Tennessee communities suffer from hunger, overwhelming neglect of children, and rampant drug addiction. It is typical to think of sending missionaries to another country, but three years ago it became apparent to Mike Glenn and the leaders of Brentwood Baptist that Nashville and the surrounding towns needed a dedicated missions team to help solve the problems we face right here at home. From that realization, they created the Middle Tennessee Initiative (MTI). The goal of MTI is to meet the communities’ needs of poverty, education, and healthcare for the sake of evangelism through establishing regional campuses, starting churches, renewing existing churches in transition, and establishing people-group congregations. Already, Brentwood Baptist has established a Ministry Residency program and has added five regional campuses, each with its own teaching pastor. Ministry Residency As Billy Graham said, “The men who followed Jesus were unique in their generation. They turned the world upside down because their hearts had been turned right side up.” Brentwood Baptist leaders realized that in order to achieve great change, strong leaders need to be built up. Those new
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leaders would be essential to sufficiently achieve the vision of Middle Tennessee Initiative. To do this, they established a Ministry Residency program, a one-year residential experience in which the next generation of pastors, ministers, and church starters are trained while gaining practical ministry experiences. The first class graduated in 2016, and many of those new leaders are now working in various ministerial capacities around the Nashville area. The Church at Station Hill Launching in 2010 with 50 families, the church now has a new 50,000 square foot facility and has grown to such an extent that it will be launching its third Sunday morning service early next year. The church, led by Pastor Jay Strother and Worship Minister Cliff Duren, has a laid-back atmosphere and straightforward approach to teaching that many in the Spring Hill area appreciate. Recently, the church Medical dental unit volunteer shares the Gospel. hosted a food drive for The Well, a local food pantry, and collected over 3,000 pounds of food for the community. The Church at Avenue South Located in Nashville’s Melrose/8th Avenue neighborhood, The Church at Avenue South was started inside the historic Acuff-Rose building. Pastored by Aaron Bryant the church embraces a culture of authenticity and hospitality, and demonstrates its heart to serve through its monthly Serving Saturdays and its exceptional community outreach. The campus works with inner city youth programs and schools, and offers dental health care clinics to provide free oral health care to those in need. The Church at West Franklin After going through a series of transitions, in June of 2014 the congregation at West Franklin Baptist Church overwhelmingly decided to join with Brentwood Baptist. This was the first church renewal to come from MTI, and it has been a great success. Pastor Matt Pearson who recently joined the church sees the community experiencing a revival. The church offers discipleship groups not only in the church building but in houses in surrounding neighborhoods. Every Nashville community is unique, and, in keeping with the Middle Tennessee Initiative to address societies problems through the local church, each campus to come from MTI will be different in order to be most effective. With this fresh approach to containing church decline, Brentwood Baptist continues to grow God’s Kingdom. — Kate Akers
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NorthField Church, Gallatin, Tenn.
The spirit of NorthField Church is best shown in our extreme volunteerism, something which developed out of necessity as we spent our first six years meeting in a local school. Setting up (and then removing) every item needed for Sunday services and classes, from sound equipment to chairs to pencils and paper, built a culture where everyone expected to serve and participate. When you visit NorthField now, you will see a small army of our owners (we call members "owners" but more about that in a minute) in green or orange shirts, eager to help you park, find the auditorium, check in your kids or grab a cup of coffee. As you may have guessed from the last sentence, God blessed us with a property of our own in early 2016, and we have been busily making repairs and getting it ready to be a tool for serving our community more than ever. I am so happy to tell you NorthField is now located at 2100 Nashville Pike, Gallatin Tenn., just at the edge of Hendersonville and Gallatin in Sumner County.
The second most noticeable aspect of NorthField is the intensity of our mission and how it plays out in our church family. "Love God, love people and make Jesus known" is etched on our walls and on our hearts, and informs our choice to be a non-denominational, community church. Our hallmarks are practical teaching, exciting programs for children and great worship. You've probably heard most of our songs on the radio. We try to be a place where people who have been far from God can find Him again, and those who have never met Jesus can get to know Him. We believe it's more important for people to come to Christ than for us to be comfortable so we try to be approachable, casual and welcoming. And, you may ask, why do we call our members "owners"? Well, it's just that members have privileges and owners have responsibilities! We want everyone to participate and use their talents for the Lord. We’d be honored to meet you and hope you will consider bringing your family to NorthField any Sunday at 9:30 a.m. For all things going on at NorthField check us out at www.northfieldchurch.net — The Staff at NorthField Church
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Falling Free
Following Jesus can lead to forms of ruination. The abundant life Jesus promised has nothing to do with a nice house, financial security, or respectable social status. Since these things are unimportant to God, they should not be important to us. Unfortunately, they are. When the cost of discipleship requires sacrifice, when bank accounts are wrecked and lifestyles are disrupted, when the call of God leads us to give until it seems scandalously unwise, following Jesus can feel dangerous. Perhaps that’s why the just must live by faith, for without a deep trust in God’s presence and direction such sacrifices would be foolish indeed. Shannan Martin had a happy life. She lived on a small farm, nurturing her family in a safe environment and worshiping God with those she loved. Then Jesus walked by and invited her to follow him and leave it all behind. Falling Free - Rescued from the Life I Always Wanted (Thomas Nelson, $16.99) is her story, one filled with decaying sidewalks and broken humans. Like the message of Jesus, it is subversive. In losing her life, she found it. In giving, she has received. In living with less, she found abundance and riches which money can’t buy.
Falling into the will of God can be like jumping out of a plane. Screaming in terror and laughing with joyous exhilaration are both reasonable responses. The good news is that God knows it’s scary. Perhaps that’s why Shannan Martin Jesus constantly told his followers not to be afraid. If God has called you to a new chapter in life, one that looks risky and filled with possible ruin, then Falling Free has a message you need to hear. Run to the battle. Take the plunge. Fall into the life God has called you. Let Him rescue you from the life you have and replace it with His dream for you. — Darrel Holcombe
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In Greek mythology there was a treacherous king named Sisyphus. He was so irritating to the gods that they banished him to hell, but he was such a wily character that he escaped. Nevertheless, his trickery finally caught up with him and he was condemned to an eternity of rolling a huge boulder to the top of a hill. Then, every time Sisyphus arrived with his rock at the top of the hill, it would roll back down to the bottom. Sisyphus, according to the Greeks, is still struggling with that stone today. In issues of faith many of us lead are Sisyphean. We are always pushing that rock up the hill only to see it slip away just as we arrive at a resting place. Proof of our effort is betrayed by words like: “I have got to do better…I must try harder…I need to give more…I should pray longer…I’m not good enough…I ought to read the Bible more often.” Faith becomes a terribly heavy burden, and like Sisyphus, with his shoulder eternally shoved against the stone, or like the perpetual hamster on a never ending exercise wheel, we turn liberating grace into a repressive pseudo-holiness that is nothing short of a deathtrap. This concept is completely foreign to the spirituality of Jesus. Matthew 11 frames the contrast best. I love Eugene Peterson’s translation of Jesus’ anti-Sisyphean maxim found there: “Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you'll recover your life. I'll show you how to take a real rest. I won't lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you.”
the old Protestant work ethic hanging around our necks like a yoke. Boiled down to a bumper sticker mantra we think: “If it’s going to be, then it’s up to me.” That’s nothing short of sacrilege, even if it sounds resolute and brave. Being a follower of Christ is not about being an adherent to one of the world’s great religions. God save us from enduring any more of that. No, being a follower of Christ is the discipline of being still, and learning to trust the way that leads to life. — Ronnie McBrayer is a syndicated columnist, blogger, pastor, and author of multiple books. Visit his website at www.ronniemcbrayer.net.
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H ealthy L ivi ng
You ARE What You Think Self-limiting believes, doubt, fear, worry, and negative thoughts are all variables that we have experienced at one point or another in our lives. Some of us are able to win over these debilitating experiences while others are paralyzed by the conversations that we have with ourselves in our heads. It was a wrestle for me for so long! I wrestled tirelessly until one day I thought to myself, “there has to be a better way of living and there has to be an escape from my mental torment!” Most of my fears, worries, and self-limiting believes were conected to relationships and little did I know, all of them were tied to the seeds that were first planted as a child from my father. I quickly began to realize that in order to deal with my present day mindset I needed to go back to the past where all of the lies were planted and replace them with truths! So, I set out on a journey to be healed from my past. Long story short, my biological dad ends up reaching out to me 20 plus years later. I rejected him at first. Two more years went by and God finally gave me the green light to call after He saw that my heart had truly forgiven him. We talked for a few minutes for the first time and he told me that he loved me and that he wanted to be in my life. When he said these things I immediately thought to myself, “I have been lying to myself!” I had been telling myself things such as “I’m not wanted” and “I’m not good enough.” No one every said those things to be but I imagined and created them from that one seed that was planted when my parents got a divorce! In a matter of minutes the truth that had always been there shone through. Those lies were completely broken once it was exposed to truth and truth not just from anyone but truth from the very source where the lies began. So you may be thinking, “well that person that plant-
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Hometown Hero:
Air Waves for Change Justin Singleton is a social worker who gives his free time to serve others through a show called “Noize” that is featured on a non-profit radio station. Throughout each week, Justin and his team at “Radio Free Nashville” prepare for their segment that airs from three to five on Saturday afternoons. Justin strives to help others, and this radio show gives him an outlet to not only inform people of the latest news, but also to bring them joy through stories, jokes, and new music. Justin’s work on the segment consists of researching interviews and compiling a playlist for the show during the week. Then on Saturday afternoons, he meets up with two of his friends to co-host the segment. He describes their team like a tight-knit family. Together, the three of these volunteers share news stories and local music with the public, with the hope of brightening people’s days. Justin says that a million smiles is better than one million dollars. When asked about volunteering, he explained, “I volunteer because it brings joy to my heart to give back. I was always taught to give back because sharing your time and talents can bring life to the world.” Justin’s daily goal in his job and his volunteer work is to help others. He is specifically passionate about youth engagement, and he enjoys supporting kids so that they may become better leaders within their communities. Justin loves to see others get involved because he finds so much joy in giving back to his community and says that volunteering is the smallest thing one can do to
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ed that seed is no longer alive or I no longer have access to them so how do I break my lies?” I first took those lies to God and He is the one that gave me those truths. When God speaks a word He often confirms it on Earth. His way of confirming it for me was through the mouth of my father. He may confirm it differently for you such as in a song, a sermon, or from a friend. Either way, the most important thing is that you hear the new truths and put them in the place of the lies! If you want to change your life then change your mind. Change your mind about the way you think of yourself. Change your mind about the way you think of your past and future possibilities. And most importantly, change your mind about the way you think of your Creator. If you have self-limiting believes I wonder what you think about the God who created you. — Trillion Small, MS is an author of two books, a mental health counselor, and a leadership development coach in the Brentwood, Tenn. and Greenhills area. For more information visit www.trillionsmall.com leave an imprint on the world. Each week, Justin’s days are full of service to children and the people in his work environment. However, Justin’s work doesn’t stop at that. He chooses to give his free time to volunteer with Radio Free Nashville every week because he wants to bring an uplifting show to the media. “Noize” does this by filling the radio with information, laughter, and joy. This show wouldn’t be possible without Justin and his team’s dedication to their community. Nashville’s Volunteer of the Month is
Justin Singleton, Nashville’s Volunteer of a program of Doing Good, a 501c3, the Month, lives his passion of music, on non-profit organization which educates the radio and off.
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“I Don’t Know How I Can Live With Myself If I Don’t Stay True To What I Believe.”
war at age 23, nothing changed. His life would honor God’s Law, no matter the cost.
These are the words of Desmond Doss, a simple man of great faith. A man born in the foothills of Lynchburg, Virginia to parents deeply rooted in the Seventh Day Advantest faith. A man whose convictions were tested and tried beyond measure but never compromised.
In keeping with the Sixth Commandment, Doss requested the army provide him “non-combatant” status. Instead, the army designated him a “conscientious objector.” Doss would argue this moniker was completely unfounded, as conscientious objectors typically don’t believe in the United States flag, the uniform, or the cause to fight for our Country’s freedom. Doss believed in all this and more.
Desmond Doss
Doss is the subject of an award-winning Hollywood film set to be released November 4 in theaters throughout the country. Hacksaw Ridge, directed by Mel Gibson, is the true story of Doss’ life; from childhood to the battlefields of WWII where he served in bloody combat without ever handling a weapon, saved over 75 soldiers lives, and eventually received two bronze stars, three purples hearts, and the Medal of Honor; the military’s highest award for bravery. Who is Doss? Born in 1919, Doss was the oldest of three children, son to a devoted Christian mother and an alcoholic father wracked with PTSD from WWI. His early years were spent diffusing heated and sometimes dangerous arguments between his parents. What kept him grounded was an antique picture of the Ten Commandments that hung on his kitchen wall. Doss not only read the Commandments daily, but he allowed them to settle into his soul. Every conversation or action was conducted against the backdrop of these tenants: Thou Shalt Not Kill, Thou Shall Have No Other Gods, Remember the Sabbath, etc. When he joined the
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Furthermore, Doss held steadfast to the Fourth Commandment, Honor The Sabbath. For Doss, this meant Saturdays were a complete day of rest. While his fellow soldiers endured boot camp and chores, Doss sought the Lord through prayer and Bible study. Personal convictions are just that, they are personal. While we’d like others to respect our convictions sadly some can’t. This was the case for Doss. Fellow soldiers and commanding officers mocked and persecuted him. Doss was beaten, ostracized, jailed, tasked with deplorable duties, and even threatened to be court-martialed. Other men may have crumbled under pressure but not Doss.
“Lord, Just Let Me Get One More… Just One More Lord.” Desmond Doss
Things turned around for Doss when his comrades realized their lives depended on his skills
as a medic and his bravery under fire. He often said, “I will be right by your side saving lives.” Isn’t that what Christ says to us? In 1945 Doss and his division headed out to the Pacific, specifically Okinawa, where they fought thousands of Japanese soldiers atop at 400-foothigh escarpment. Amidst days of round-theclock fighting, explosions, demolitions, blood, terror, and death, Doss did what he joined the army to do. He saved lives. Hundreds of men perished in the battle, but many remained alive yet severely injured. They could not retreat down the escarpment, so Doss lowered them down. He fashioned a harness out of thick rope and singlehandedly, for hours on end, lowered 75 men to safety. He crawled over broken, bloody bodies and dodged bullets from the enemy to ensure no man was left behind. Doss engaged in rescue efforts under fire for the next two weeks until he was wounded by a grenade that riddled him with injuries. Later he would suffer a compound arm fracture due to Japanese fire. Doss spent more than five years in hospitals being treated for his wounds. His infirmities rendered him unable to work so he spent the last season of his life devoted to his church and working with young people. He died in March 2006 and is buried in Chattanooga, Tenn. Up until his death Doss took no credit for what he did, rather he left all the credit to Christ. “From a human standpoint, I shouldn’t be here to tell the story,” Doss told the Richmond Times-Dis-
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patch in 1998. “All the glory should go to God. No telling how many times He spared my life.”
“I Believe In A First Class God, A First Class Message, and A Film That Honors Both” Terry Benedict, Producer
Andrew Garfield stars as 'Desomnd Doss' in HACKSAW RIDGE.
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Doss died in 2006, but before his death several people shared his story. He appeared on countless national talk shows, was the subject of a book, The Unlikeliest Hero, and a 2004 documentary, “The Conscientious Objector.” Terry Benedict is the producer of that award-winning documentary and perhaps the closest friend to Doss during his final days. “Doss was like a grandfather to me,” Benedict explained. “I set out to make a documentary about this man I’d been fascinated with since I was a young boy. In the end, I made the truest of friends.”
Photo Credit: Mark Rogers
Director Mel Gibson on the set of HACKSAW RIDGE.
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Desmond Doss received two bronze stars, three purples hearts, and the Medal of Honor; the military’s highest award for bravery.
Following the acclaimed documentary, Benedict was approached by a Hollywood cast of heavy hitters intent on bringing Doss’ story to the big screen. Mel Gibson, director of Braveheart and the Passion of the Christ, signed on because he believed in the eternal message of the film. “I hate war, but I love the warrior. They believe much, and they give much,” said Gibson. “War movies like this compel us to face the atrocities of battle head on and to offer compassion to those who fight. I hope this film entices audiences to love and respect our veterans in a way we’ve not before.” Benedict, who spent nearly 14 years getting the story to film, wants even more, “The thematics of Doss’ life are global…Religious freedom, liberty, conviction, human life, and bravery. Every one of us will find ourselves in tough circumstances, and we all have spiritual options even if we don’t’ realize it at the time. Hacksaw Ridge is a redemption story can we can’t help but be touched by.”
Ten Commandments 1. Thou shalt have no other gods before me 2. Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image 3. Thou shalf not take the name of the Lord thy God in vain 4. Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it Holy 5. Honour thy father and thy mother 6. Thou shalt not kill 7. Thou shalt not commit adultery 8. Thou shalt not steal 9. Thou shalt not bear false witness 10. Thou shalt not covet
Andrew Garfield (The Amazing Spider Man, The Social Network) portrays Doss in the film and is awestruck by Doss’ level of conviction. “I see Doss as a man of extreme strength who stayed true to himself through oppression and tyranny. Violence and war go together, but Doss found a way to be himself in an environment that called him not to be.” When asked his hopes for the movie, “We need more compassion for our veterans who come home following horror we cannot imagine. How can we successfully integrate them back to society and give them the honor and dignity they deserve?” Hacksaw Ridge opens November 4th in local theaters. Critics claim it is a mix of faith and patriotism. The film received standing ovations at the acclaimed Venice Film Festival, Canes Film Festival, and in private showings across the country. It is the first R-rated Hollywood war movie where curse words and taking God’s name in vain are not used. For more information turn to the official site: www.HacksawRidge.Movie or preview HacksawRidgeResouces.com for advanced group tickets, press kits, downloadable digital Bible study tools, and more. — Susan Reinfeldt is owner and president of The Write Word, a marketing communications firm located in Nashville, Tenn. While her passion is writing, you can also find her hiking, biking, running, or tending to her two amazing kids.
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Untold Memories of Daddy, the Vet I hold only a few memories of my dad as a veteran. I’m sure he had far more war stories, but he didn’t talk much about them. I learned in school to call it “the great war,” “the war to end all wars,” “the war of the greatest generation.” I had no idea my dad was a great-generation guy. He was just my daddy, and I knew him as the hardest working farmer ever—a farmer who loved his work, was awarded “Farmer of the Year” for his innovative techniques, and was a deep thinker and a beautiful dreamer. He could have patented many of his innovations around the farm. If he needed a way to transport his equipment down the 41 Highway to another farm, he used his self-taught welding skills to fashion wheels on the top side of the equipment, flip it over, and roll on down the road pulling it with his red Farmall tractor. He was always courteous to other drivers, pulling way over to the shoulder of the two-lane country road and motioning traffic around him. That’s probably why he wasn’t too fond of big truckers—the ones who tried to run him off the road, threatened him with logging chains, and yelled nasty words at him. He was mostly a quiet man; it took a lot to get him riled up—truckers could do that when they threatened his safety while he was protecting theirs. No, Daddy almost never mentioned the war, but when he did, I got very quiet. I could tell he was in another world, and questions didn’t seem right. Now that I think back on what he did talk about, I realize he kept the stories G-rated. Except once or twice. I remember particular phrases acutely—something about his buddies being gut-shot and crying for their mamas—and another phrase or two that I won’t write ‘cause I don’t want you to have WWII wordpicture memories. That story stuck with me.
Mostly, when Daddy did tell war stories, he talked about the PX or the mess hall and the sea rations and even being stationed a while in “God-forsaken” Newfoundland where he never saw ground in the frigid snow and ice—not so good for a farm boy. Being a WWII veteran wasn’t something he wanted to remember. So, on those rare occasions when he did talk, I listened and unconsciously tried to arrange the proffered puzzle pieces. I still work on that occasionally. Since then, I’ve learned about PTSD, the term coined for the trauma suffered by my generation of Viet Nam soldiers. I wonder if that’s what Daddy meant when he referred to some of his buddies. He called it “shell shocked”—said they came home with miserable nightmares. He never applied the term to himself, but I wonder. When Daddy woke up at night yelling loud enough to wake the household, I thought it was just another of his “snake dreams.” He never liked snakes—always warned us to watch out for them in the hay stacks or the feed sacks in the shed. When I was a kid, I didn’t associate his nightmares with those of his buddies. Now I wonder. Daddy didn’t want to go to war—of course, he wasn’t my daddy then since I wasn’t even thought of for several more years. He didn’t want to leave his family or the farm in Chattanooga. As he walked down the road toward the bus that took him away for four years, he listened to his mama and his sisters squalling after him and saw his dad standing just a little apart. Daddy was a big, good-looking, black-haired home-boy of Irish-heritage long before home-boy became pop vernacular. Five decades later, Daddy didn’t want a military funeral or grave marker. I still wonder about his untold stories. If I could, I’d ask more questions now, but I’d be gentle about it. — Sheila Moss: teacher, speaker, and author of Living to Matter: Mothers, Singles, and the Weary and Broken
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It’s Not What You Gather Is your status, your sense of significance, based on what you have gathered in this lifetime? This month let’s review the difference between what possessions we have and what positive influence we have. An anonymous source gave us this bit of wisdom: “It’s not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells the kind of life that you have lived.” We are likely to consider what we own as our legacy to the next generations but this is only a part of the story. We can have considerable impact upon future generations in what we pass on to them to make their lives easier and to make more things possible in their lives. This can be money, physical possessions, reputation, faith, principles on how to live our lives and a great example. We should endeavor in this life to prepare our children and their children as well as society for the years to come. In one of our recent programs we talked about being a role model. If we are guided by another anonymous quote: “He who has the most toys at the end wins,” then we will want to gather the most real estate, money and physical objects by the time we die to consider that we have won. Won what? If having the most toys is the object of life we have missed the reason of why God created us. The toys can be the diversion Satan puts before us to attract us down his path. The people who are the most admired are not the wealthiest or those who appear to have the most toys. We all desire to have some of the toys of life. The Bible does not condemn having the toys of life. The Bible condemns making them #1 in our life. Look at the life of Job. Job had much but it was taken from him to see if he would turn away from God. Job stayed firm in his faith. Note that Job ended life with many possessions that God returned to him. Yet the quote at the beginning suggests that there is something even more important than the things we gather. Let’s repeat it: “It’s not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells the kind of life that you have lived.” What is it that we “scatter?” We are told in the Scripture to be servants of others, to love one another. We influence and serve others every day. We “scatter” by our relationship to God, what we say, the principles of life that we share, what we do, the influence we have, how we utilize our time, how we utilize our resources, how we relate to other people and how we take care of ourselves. Note that power and the number of toys we have are not on the list. What we “scatter” today and tomorrow will build the legacy that will tell “the kind of life that we have lived.” What will others say about what and how you scattered during your lifetime? Study questions are available for this program. You can obtain them by writing to info@godsplanforservice.org or calling 615.268.7223. May God continue to bless you. — Kenneth Oosting, PhD FOR STUDY QUESTIONS, GO TO christianfamilynashville.com, SPRITUAL, TEACHABLE MOMENTS
Elect Thanksgiving for Work
The Middle Tennessee economy is booming. Construction in and around every town. Retail establishments popping up all over the region. It seems so easy to get lost in the busyness of the times. Busyness tends to exaggerate the time we let down our guard. We tend to lose reality to the point that nothing matters except what’s happening today - right now. We really don’t appreciate what we have. Most of the folks that can work are doing so at this time. Some people are working too much, just to make ends meet. I was sitting outside my house just thinking about everything God has given us in this day. We ask Him to give us this day our daily bread. He gives us so much more than our bread; He gives us Life. He loves us to go to Him. This month we elect a new president for our nation. Once you vote, the election is out of your hands. You have exercised your right to cast a vote for our leader. Can you be thankful for whoever it may be? Know that God will use all things to get us closer to Him. He wants your thankfulness; He desires a grateful heart for Him. Nothing pleases God more than using the circumstances of this world to bring Him honor. It is good to be Thankful Psalm 92:1. Thankfulness begins in the heart. It ALWAYS depends on our attitude or thoughts towards the people or circumstances at the time. To be thankful means to show appreciation. Are you thankful for the job you have? How about the riches or hardships you’ve encountered? To be Thankful is an active verb! We are told not to cease giving Thanks - Eph 1:16. It is never self-seeking, self-edifying or self-directed. To show gratitude is to look to others and away from ourselves. As we enter into the season of Thanksgiving let us capture the thoughts of gratitude first. Think about what you are grateful for: The God you serve, the people you love, and the nation you reside. Take time now to give Thanks. Don’t let the world rob you of the joy of Thanksgiving. It actually seems more difficult to be thankful because of all the distractions of life. Take time now to be thankful for what’s going on in your life. God makes it very clear in His Bible that Thanksgiving is from Him. He tells us to continue steadfast in prayer, being watchful with Thanksgiving, pray with Thanksgiving. He promised that He will grant your heart’s desire and fulfill all your plans. Psalm 100:4 says we are to enter His gates with thanksgiving, and his courts with praise! Give thanks to Him; bless His name! Remember to give thanks to the Lord for He is good, His love endures forever. It would be wonderful if you could email what or who you are thankful for, I would consider it a joy to read. — Tom Toner, tomt@ourcompanychaplain.com
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Pieology Pizzeria was founded in 2011 with the simple idea to turn America’s most craveable food into an affordable and interactive dining experience. Using only the freshest ingredients along with signature sauces and crusts, Pieology Pizzeria offers hand-crafted, artisan-style custom pizzas that are stone oven fired in less than three minutes. With more than 40 flavorful toppings to choose from, guests create their custom pizzas in endless flavor combinations and always for one affordable price. The mission of Pieology is to inspire individual creativity in a positive atmosphere where guests can gather with family and friends, while enjoying their delicious pizza and salad creations. Along with providing great food and a memorable dining experience, Pieology is committed to making a positive difference in the communities it serves, one pie at a time. A passion and commitment to supporting local for-cause organizations, such as Show Hope, the Boys & Girls Club, Best Buddies and Leukemia & Lymphoma. Pieology also seeks these key qualities in all who join their growing family. Positioned in historic downtown within a building dating back to 1900, the Franklin Pieology is in an area of the city that has been kept in pristine condition. This location is so unique and rich with history that Pieology’s master franchise group, Segovia Aslan Enterprise’s (SAE), selected this storefront as its corporate headquarters, which can be found directly above the restaurant. “We fell in love with Franklin and we’re thrilled to open our flagship Pieology in this beautiful city,” said Segovia Aslan Enterprise’s Managing Partner and CEO, Lin Stinson. “We knew our central office needed to be in a town with a strong faith-based community and we couldn’t be happier to call Franklin our home!” The Pieology experience starts with fresh house-made dough that is pressed into 11.5-inch thin pizza crusts, which is typically larger than others in the custom pizza segment. Guests select from eight signature sauces, moving down the line to choose from dozens of fresh and flavorful meats, cheeses, vegetables, herbs and spices. The customized pizzas are then stone oven fired to perfection in less than three minutes. To finish, guests have the option to add after-bake “Flavor Blast” sauces, including fiery buffalo, pesto and BBQ, to really make it their own! Pieology also offers gluten-free crust, whole wheat crust, Daiya vegan mozzarella cheese and a selection of seven signature pizzas, which can be customized upon request. Pieology’s custom salad option allows guests to create
made-to-order salads by choosing from three fresh lettuce options of organic field greens, romaine hearts or spinach. Guests then select from any of Pieology’s large variety of toppings, including sunflower seeds, garbanzo beans and candied walnuts, along with a choice of five dressings made inhouse. Pieology also offers a signature Classic and Caesar salad, which can be personalized with additional ingredients upon request. The generous portioned salad and pizza are the perfect pairing for a shareable meal. The Franklin Pieology is a staple within the community and SAE made sure to preserve the historic character of the Main Street building, including keeping the original hardwood floors intact. It showcases unique features including a beautiful mezzanine floor that can be rented as a private meeting and party room for up to 30 guests. Perfect for birthday parties, business meetings or private functions, the room has full AV capabilities and offers an isolated dining experience...plus, delicious pizzas and salads are only a few steps away! Based in the greater Nashville area, SAE is a faith-based organization focused on giving back to every community it serves. During Pieology Franklin’s grand opening event, SAE gave away free pizzas to the community while encouraging a donation for local non-profit, Show Hope, which amounted to over a $5,000 donation that went directly to the charity.
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Pieology Franklin also holds the company’s “Pie-Centage” fundraising nights where guests are encouraged to donate to a local organization. Nonprofit supporters invite friends and family to enjoy a delicious Pieology takes care of the rest. At the 25% of sales generated by the group to
“We absolutely love giving back to the Franklin community and we’re grateful for the tremendous welcoming we’ve received,” said general manager, James Meyers. “We’re dedicated to supporting local organizations, and encourage schools, churches or any other groups throughout the Franklin community to plan their next fundraiser at Pieology!” Open daily from 11:00 a.m, Pieology is located at 346 Main Street at 4th Ave N in downtown Franklin. This location offers online ordering where guests can place their order online, or guests can order by phone at (615) 716-8414 and skip the line. — Chuck McAulay, Director of Marketing and PR, Segovia-Aslan Ent, LLC Master
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Golfing great Jack Nicklaus stood in the U.S. Capitol Rotunda and wiped away tears. On the table near him was the Congressional Medal of Honork with an inscription explaining why he was being awarded America’s highest civilian honor for, “Excellence in sport, promoting integrity and sportsmanship, and dedication to philanthropy and children's healthcare, with a lifelong commitment to family." What an honor for a man who has done so much throughout his life through the game of golf. But here is a question for you. What would your Christian life look like if you pursued Jesus with the same commitment to excellence with which Nicklaus pursued golf? I admit, I'm not totally there, but I want to be. I want to pursue Jesus with everything I've got. I want to be excellent for Him, so I keep striving toward that goal. You should too. Excellence is our calling as Christians. "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus." (Colossians 3:17; NIV) "So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God." (1 Corinthians 10:31; NIV) The Apostle Paul wrote both of these verses and he picked two of the most mundane activities in which a human being can engage – eating and drinking – to represent that is to be done with excellence that honors God. Paul was no compromise on challenging Christians to not only pursue excellence, but to achieve it. In Romans 12:1-2, he urges believers to offer their entire lives as a sacrifice to God. He tells us we must elevate the mind to the point that our old ways of thinking, ways that were entrenched in sin and thinking only of ourselves, are transformed to focus on God. He also tells us this way of transformed thinking is a sacrifice to God. Think about that. You have nothing to offer God. If you did you wouldn't need a Savior. There would be no need for Jesus to bridge the gap between you and the Father. However, in response to the reconciliation and forgiveness of sin God brought through the salvation He's provided, Paul calls us to give the only sacrifice we have to offer: our lives. And if that’s what we’ve got to give, then let’s give it with excellence...begininning today! — Scott Lehman is President of In His Grip Golf Ministry and author of the popular book, “More than a Game.” Scott and his family live in Thompson Station, Tenn.
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I’ve been driving with LYFT rideshare occasionally for a few months. I was about to call it a night. But, since I’m driving by the airport, I left the app open. PING! A ride request. I had just seen a plane land, I figured it was from there. I accepted before I looked at the location. Oh! it’s at the grocery. The last time I got a late-night call there, it was from an unpleasant man wanting a ride to his house, half a mile away. Regretting accepting the request, I never cancel, even if it is the same, unfriendly gentleman and the gas will cost more than the ride. When I arrived, I picked up a young couple (thankfully not the grumpy man). The destination is Murfreesboro. Not exactly the short ride I was expecting from the grocery. So, away we go. Talking to Dan. I discovered that he was from a place about 50 miles from where I grew up. About half way to the destination, I learned that Dan was out of work. The ride request came from a family member that was helping them get to shelter for the night. As we talked, I mentioned that I need help moving some furniture from storage to my apartment and asked if he was willing and knew someone else that could help. I didn’t have much, but was going to pay someone, and I felt a burden on my heart ask Dan. His girlfriend said she could help and was “pretty strong”. So, I got their number, set a day to work and dropped them off.
our budget. Would I do it again? ABSOLUTELY! I had a good Christian brother tell me there was no way he could imagine doing this. But, the fact is, he wasn’t called to, we were. My question to everyone is this. Are you willing to answer the call, no matter what? The Bible tells us the road isn’t always easy. There are no promises of happiness. God just wants us to be faithful. I don’t share this story to bring attention to myself. I share this to challenge every one of us to be aware and willing to answer when God calls, regardless of what it may be. And, to make everyone aware that we have many homeless today through challenging circumstances. God may just lead you to be blessed with a new friend also. — Durward Blanks is a Professional Santa, Wellness/Christian Life Coach in the Nashville area. Contact him at DurBlanks@gmail.com
When I called to pick Dan and April up, she said that they were near the state line, in the opposite direction from where I left them, asking if this was a problem. Hadn’t planned to go 80 miles out of the way, but “Sure, no problem at all”. On the way, I learned that they had been planning to spend the night in the woods when I first picked them up. Someone had stolen all their belongings and all they had were the clothes they were wearing. We worked all day, clearing the storage and on to the apartment. I was much more pleased than I expected with their work. Knowing they had no place to stay, I got them a room for the night. The next day, we took Dan to get his physical for a new job. April stayed with us helping in the apartment. We invited them to stay with us if they didn’t mind the floor and couch. So, for the next few days, we got to know one another. April had to go to the ER, and the next day to a doctor. Through friends, we located a clothes source and got a suitcase full of clothing (including the suitcase). Throughout the week, God was working in all our lives. We talked about faith, marriage and what lies ahead. I told Dan the night we met that I don’t believe in coincidences. When I got that request for a ride, God was working in all our lives. We attended church on Sunday and then on Monday, I took them to get the truck he would be driving for his new employer. We stay in touch and I plan to see them again soon. There are plans for a wedding, which I’m looking forward to. The money I had planned to spend for moving this furniture became much greater than expected. It stretched
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Hello Christian Family! Can you believe this year is almost over? What a year it has been. It seems like the older we get, the faster the days and nights pick up speed; like some little Gremlin hit the fast forward button and life keeps going faster. It also seems like there is a general consensus, a meeting of the minds if you will, that we have an election like no other throughout the history of time. Prayer, commitment to obeying God’s counsel, and faith will see us through. We need only seek the Lord, perhaps uttering Jeremiah 33:3. “Call on Me and I will show you great and mighty things (fenced in and hidden) which you do not know.” America has to make a comeback. God shed His grace on her. She has been the land of the free, the home of the brave, and the scared stiff, sometimes as well. It’s true and comforting to know that Almighty God is still on the throne and His grace is forever sufficient. Most assuredly His will shall be done.
We all tend to take so much for granted and forget how blessed we are to live in a nation without foreign rule. A nation where we can roam freely and watch autumn leaves cascade to the ground. A land where we can drink cool, fresh water, live with roofs over our heads, and have food on the table day in and day out. As you ponder your blessings and prepare for Thanksgiving may this prayer comfort and guide you:
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Oh Heavenly Father, thank you for Your grace to do what we cannot do on our own. Thank you for your Son who died for us and took all our sins. Lord, we pray for our nation to be great again. We want you to know how thankful we are to live in the land of the free. Thank you for all our loved ones and the blessings you bestow. From all your family, Happy Thanksgiving, Lord Jesus.”
To this we say, “thank you.” Thank you Lord for dying for us, listening to our pleas, acting on our behalf, and giving us a hope and a future. What a perfect time to address our gratitude than the month of November and Thanksgiving.
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— Tammy Leigh Merritt resides in Columbia, Tenn. with her cat, Egypt. She truly loves to study the Bible and write for God’s glory. She has a degree in Communications and Commercial Entertainment.
Has something in the magazine or something you have discussed with someone or some thoughts that you have had or something that you have heard, brought you to a point of realizing that you want and need to know Christ in the truest and personal sense?
If so, below is a simple outline for someone of any age who is not a Believer to act on their desire to accept Jesus Christ into their heart as their Savior. God’s Plan of Salvation God created us to honor and serve Him Revelation 4:11: “You are worthy, O Lord, To receive glory and honor and power;For You created all things, And by Your will they exist[b] and were created Each of us has sinned against God Romans 3:10: As it is written, “There is none righteous, no, not one” Romans3:23: For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
Jesus Christ died on the cross in our place, paying the penalty for our sin Romans 5:8: But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. We each must accept Jesus Christ as our personal Savior Romans 10:9: that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. Romans 10:13: For “whoever calls on the name of the LORD shall be saved.”
The penalty for sin is eternal separation from God and Heaven Romans 6:23: For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Good works cannot ever earn God’s forgiveness and Salvation Titus 3:5: not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us. God loves each of us John 3:16: For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
To accept Christ into your heart and life, pray a simple prayer along these lines - “Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and I am sorry for my sins. I know that Jesus died for my sins and the sins of the world. Right now, I ask Jesus into my heart and receive Him as my personal Savior. Forgive me of my sins, thank you for saving me through the blood of Jesus. Please Lord, help me live for you. In Jesus name, amen.” All scriptures are taken from The New King James Version of the Holy Bible.
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EXPLANATION The orange without the peeling sinks, while the orange with the peeling floats. The orange peeling is filled with tiny pockets of air, which makes the orange less dense than water, causing it to float. When the peeling is removed, the orange become denser than water, and sinks.
INGREDIENTS • Two Oranges • Large Transparent Bowl • Water • Digital Scale
INSTRUCTIONS STEP 1: Fill the large transparent bowl half of the way with water. Describe the water by using its observable properties. STEP 2: Remove the peeling from one of the oranges. Describe the oranges by using their observable properties. STEP 3: Using the digital scale, determine the mass of the orange without the peeling and the orange with the peeling. Using this measurement, identify the oranges based on this property. STEP 4: Drop the orange without the peeling in the water. What happens? Drop the orange with the peeling in the water. What happens?
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If you have an event you would like listed in the Nashville Christian Family Community Calendar e-mail us at: NCFPublication@gmail.com subject line - Calendar Goodwill Will Pickup Your Donation “If you can’t get it to us, we’ll come get it from you.” That’s the gist of Goodwill’s new Home Donation Pickup Program, which in just a few months has grown to serve communities in more than 16 Middle Tennessee Middle and West Tennessee counties (Davidson, Montgomery, Robertson, Sumner, Wilson, Rutherford, Dickson, Cheatham, Maury, Dekalb, Bedford and Perry, Madison, Henderson, Gibson and Decatur). www.giveit2goodwill. org/pickups November 11 – Veterens Day
Please thank and honor our armed services heroes November 18-20 Deer Run’s Married Couples Fall Romance Weekend at The Lodge Spend an intentional intimate weekend focusing on each other without interruptions and without to-do lists! For couples in all seasons of marriage — relaxing couple time, valuable speaker sessions, relationship-building activities and delicious meals prepared on site by Deer Run’s chefs including a romantic candlelit dinner. Bruce and Marlina Martin lead the weekend sessions — Lord of the Rings: Fighting for Your Marriage. Call 615.794.2918 or for more info and registration go to http:// deerrun.camp//events. November 24 - Thanksgiving Day Let’s thank God for all that He has given to us.
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