The Groom

Yes, the spotlight of the day will no doubt be on the lovely bride – but the groom should look good, too. Whatever the degree of formality the wedding theme may carry, these tips will help when ordering attire.

First, it’s beneficial to know that formalwear can be separated into four styles: black tie, formal, semiformal and casual. The time of your ceremony will strongly influence the level of formality, in turn influencing the attire. Other considerations such as color and theme will also play a part in the selection.

You will want to give yourself plenty of time to order your attire. Formalwear should be reserved or purchased at least six months in advance and all measurements taken at least three months prior to the wedding to allow plenty of time for alterations. If your groomsmen live in different parts of the country, have them measured by a local tailor and the details forwarded to your store. Be sure to check in with your groomsmen periodically to ensure that everyone is on schedule with alterations.

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Feel free to have some fun with your attire. You can set yourself apart with a different vest and tie color, brightly colored socks, or shoes that show off your personality.

The groom, like the bride, has the option of purchasing, renting or having wedding-day attire tailor-made. Purchasing a tux or a suit is a good investment and can be worn over and over again – especially for your career. Rented formal wear usually includes a jacket, vest, shirt, neckwear, cufflinks, pants and shoes.

Remember to recognize the importance of the day and know there are options to fit your style.

groom’s checklist

• Choose your best man, groomsmen, and ushers

• Shop for wedding bands

• Select tuxes or suits for groomsmen

• Arrange for wedding-day transportation

• Buy the bride a memorable gift

• Double-check tuxedo orders and sizes

• Make sure all groomsmen know when final fittings are and where they’ll be

• Pick out groomsmen gifts

• Pick up your wedding rings and double-check engravings

• Plan your honeymoon

• Go over final details with your fiancé

• Pick up the tux or suit, try it on, and check yourself out

• Make sure everyone has wedding attire

• Have your hair cut

• Practice your vows

• Share the wedding-day game plan with your groomsmen

• Decide where to dress and hang your suit for the wedding day

• Give your rings to the person of your choice for safekeeping