MOTHERS

The Foundation Of Life

BY SUSAN FLETCHER

he brilliance of motherhood is palpable when the day to honor them grows near; so does the barrage of emotional tension, hidden pain, and guilt.

Mothers, who we credit as the backbone of families and the institution of life, are the most selfless and caring members of their tribe. At the same time, they become the targets of anger, jealousy, and frustration.

An incredible feat to bring new life to the planet; a woman’s ability to accept stress, pain, and inconvenience, is a remarkable undertaking; few men would trade places with them.

A mom’s job is to keep the peace, teach, and comfort; they are dangerous when called to protect their mates, but even more perilous if potential harm is bestowed upon their children. They didn’t get the name ‘mama bear’ without cause.

Mothers are tough; they remain buoyant in the face of disappointment and disrespect, and even when feeling attacked or unappreciated, they will continue to make undue sacrifices.

These amazing women, known to have the touch of an angel and the ear of a therapist, possess the uncanny ability to forgive and forget regardless of how they hurt; the unconditional love they show and share with their children often goes unnoticed.

No one will ever be as proud of a child as their mother; the relationship is metaphysical, teetering on the realm of psychic connection—they seem to know when you’re in trouble.

Mothers are dream makers; they’ll support you, even when the odds are against success. And if you don’t make it, they’ll share praise and admiration because they know you gave it your best.

If you haven’t learned by now, your mother will always consider you a child, even when you become a senior citizen. She’ll never cease to ask if you’re hungry, how you’re feeling, and if your spouse adequately cares for you; even if all of these questions are affirmed, they won’t believe it and ask them again the next time they see you.

It’s funny to recall the puppy, kitten, or parakeet you had to have while a child; she knew it would eventually become her pet.

Reflection of the birthday parties, your first glass of wine, and candlelight dinners she created so you’d have experience in preparation for leaving the nest remain fresh in her heart—and hopefully in your mind.

Mother’s Day celebrates a mother’s devotion and strength. While she appreciates gifts, flowers, or dinner, her secret desire is to have you sit with her so she can hold your hand and hear your voice; she understands nothing is forever and cherishes the time she has left to be your mother. H

Mother’s Day celebrates a mother’s devotion and strength. While she appreciates gifts, flowers, or dinner, her secret desire is to have you sit with her so she can hold your hand and hear your voice; she understands nothing is forever and cherishes the time she has left to be your mother.