How To Stay Composed When You’re Not Invited?
Let me ask you a question upfront, have your ever expected an invite and have never received it? Yes then, we are sure you must have felt deeply hurt and betrayed just like most of us. What have you done in such a case? Probably, you must have stopped talking to the person altogether or you must have shown an aggressive behaviour towards that person or you must have done the same with him/her. Well no matter what you have done in the past, here are some quirky ways to deal the situation when you’re not invited to a friend’s wedding or party.
It’s Not Personal
Any kind of celebration, be it a wedding, a birthday party or any other kind of party calls for a lot and lots of preparation and arrangements. In some cases, it happens that the host gets too involved in all this and forget some people by mistake. May be, you are the one to suffer their mistake but, it was never too personal.
Stay Away From All This
There are lots of people who gets highly pissed off if they are not invited and in this anger, they keep poking the couple or their friend to seek an invite or explanation but, in place of doing this, we would suggest you to focus your energy on something more constructive and innovative. You always have an option to ask things out later.
Social Media Can Be Pain
For most of the people social media is a boon that keeps them update with all the latest happenings of their close friends and relatives but, when you are not invited to someone’s Wedding Celebration, the very same update mechanism turns into a huge pain as it keeps reminding you that you could have been a part of these glamorous pictures too.
Vent Out
Keeping things to your heart makes you simply annoyed and you would become revengeful but, once you vent out your anger and frustration, you become relaxed. When you are not invited to a party, we would suggest you to vent out your anger to someone else. You can either vent out the frustration in front the culprit or to some other close friend of yours.
Try To Understand
Okay, this is something that not everyone could understand but, it is really advisable to know if the other person has invited each and every one to their wedding or party or there is only a selection of people being invited. We would recommend you to figure out the reason why you are not invited to the celebration in place of getting frustrated. Once, you understand the real logic, we are sure you would feel relaxed.
About the author
Saurabh Agarwal Saurabh Agarwal is the co-founder of A2zWeddingCards. With his years of experience in wedding card designing, he excels in writing exclusive wedding related blogs. His website is a splendid space for latest wedding invitations designs and ideas. He is highly devoted and amorous for the work he performs. With his remarkable work in the industry, he continues to be a palpable wedding columnist with an incredible and prodigious writing talent.