The villain in Vampire Diaries 2009- actress Nina Dobrev Katherine is the ultimate villainistic seductress and mysterious character
Sometimes, the only person who will have your back is you This means you must love yourself and look after yourself. You can’t rely, trust or believe everything someone says to you as they may not have your best interest. Always look out for yourself. Be smart. Remember that you are the love of your life. Don’t be afraid to go after what you want You should have dreams that you are brave and determined to conquer. So be happy when you succeed and fight for what you want. Emotions are overrated
Don’t be illogical and always try to balance your thoughts and feelings. Don’t cry over a boy in front of him. Some people just don’t deserve to see your vulnerable side. Keep yourself together, you’re not inferior to anyone. You win by moving on in silence. Don’t give them the satisfaction. Always have a back-up plan (and a back-up plan for the back-up plan) Always be organised and plan everything in advance so you can get your way as you deserve to. Create a plan A, B,C and even D just in case. Always rise to the occasion and defend the people you truly love Don’t be a bystander and always protect and help your close friends and family Practice makes perfect Never stop working until you’re happy with your accomplishments. Don’t be jealous of others and instead work till you’re satisfied with yourself and your achievements.
Don’t be shy — get your sexy on!
Find out what fashion styles you like and go shopping! Embrace your beautiful features and wear what makes you confident Don’t make a habit of second guessing yourself
Be decisive, self-assured and confident, you must always know what you want in order to get it
A bubble bath can melt away the stress of a long, hectic day Know how and when to relax, you need a break and a self-care day to come back stronger than before Don’t sweat the small stuff!
Victory and success only comes with failure and many times of trying so don’t be hard on yourself and keep at it!
Honesty is the best policy
Be true to yourself and others, your lies will only catch up with you so be genuine to others and you will earn respect, honour and trust
Remember how strong you are At the end of the day look how far you have come, you are so tough and brave and have fought through so much. This means you can get through anything so believe in yourself and stay positive.
‘The Dark Feminine is the freedom for expression of the dark, positive, and necessary energy that captures the mysteries of womanhood and magic, the chaos of creation and destruction, death and birth, transformation, rage, fierce compassion, seduction, and pure spiritual ecstasy.’ It’s the ability to not give a fuck, be unapolagetic and finally let women live powerfully, strongly, beautifully, unbothered and magically.
Megan has beautiful dark features and ocean blue eyes. From watching interviews, you can see she is very dark humored, bold, flirtatious and down to earth. Her eye makeup, plump lips look and seductive voice presents us with the ‘siren’ image. Not to mention the fact that her iconic role as ‘Jennifer Check’ in Jennifer’s Body was a literal maneater (she was a monster and seductress). She has also been described as a vampire by herself and reporters due to her aura, style, femme fatale epitome, aesthetic and sexy personality.
Try:
- wearing more pink to attain these iconic looks of Megan’s
- grey/blue/pink eyeshadow -mascara/ fake lashes on outer eye
- rosy cheeks with blush - rose pink/ magenta lip gloss
- straightened long dark brown/black hair
- buying colourful chick high heels - wearing low waist jeans and cropped tops
- chic elegant princess-like dresses
Megan Fox is an icon and sex symbol as well as a fashion icon to millions of girls worldwide. Megan is a successful established actress and model in Hollywood. The funniest film I’ve seen her in was definitely ‘How to lose friends and alienate people’ (2008). I totally recommended it because Megan takes on Sophie Maisie’s role here who is a clueless, gorgeous actress who’s in the beginning of her fame & celebrity era.
Simon Pegg is the protagonist and it is a british comedy film that I LOVED and could watch 10 more times.
‘Oh no, what if he doesn’t like me? Am I good enough?’ ‘forgot to text him back, I hope he isn’t mad’ ‘He’s probably talking to prettier girls, ugh!’ ‘What if a boy can’t deal with my problems?’
‘I am afraid of heartbreak, being single and being mistreated’
‘I can’t imagine life without them’
‘I wish he would appreciate me, value me and treat me better’
‘Why is it so hard to get a boyfriend?’
‘I am unapologetically myself. Do I even like him? What can he offer me?’
‘I’ll get back to him when I am free and have time’ ‘I’m so amazing and he’s lucky I’m giving him a chance’
‘No one is perfect but I am ready to heal and resolve my issues. It’s my duty to be independent.’
‘I always attract genuine and good people. Everything is temporary and of course I won’t date the same person forever’
‘I am the love of my life. My life revolves around me and I love my own company because I make myself the happiest’
‘I deserve better so I am cutting him out of my life and moving on. It is always his loss. I am a 5* girl
‘There is more to life than relationships. I will become the best version of myself and work on all areas of my life first. I am hot & smart, guys do want me.
As a beautiful woman you’re going to be undermined and underestimated by many people (just let them think what they want and move on in silence, it’s always their loss)
Don’t allow disrespect but don’t waste your energy on rude people, just leave the situation or create boundaries and always stand up for yourself
Play the dumb fox if necessary so you can get what you want. Use people’s assumptions of you to your advantage. A lot of Bond girls have done this (earning men’s trust and observing their behaviour, thought patterns and opinions)
Stop trying to prove things to others because if they don’t want to believe you then that’s their issue and you shouldn’t care (wait until they see you succeeding as a superstar)
Don’t focus too much on your looks, balance both beauty and brains to become the epitome of success you are by using both to get far in life
Love yourself and appreciate who you are since it is time for women to rise up and value themselves
Have goals and ambitions and ways to get there because you deserve to be hot and smart
Take care of yourself- hygiene is essential, invest in good hair products, perfumes, body mists, deodorant, mouth wash, body creams & skin care products
Be unavailable sometimes since you want to gatekeep yourself somewhat to be mysterious and protect your energy (not everyone should have access to you girl) and absence creates honour and respect
Mind your business and stop gossiping in front of everyone because that is not good for your reputation and mental state
Stay unbothered- who cares if someone is talking behind your back, they are behind you for a reason. They’re jealous and want what you have!
Own up to your mistakes and always be ready to accept if you were wrong in a situation, as there is always room for self-improvement
Receive special treatment because you deserve it. If people are complimenting you/you have pretty privilege then be grateful for it and enjoy it
● Call your friends, reach out to people you trust and let them give you their opinions and cheer you up. You need comfort right now.
● Cry and accept the feelings of sadness. It is justifiable you’re feeling miserable so allow yourself to cry.
● Get closure by writing a letter to them which you’ll never send (include everything such as expressing and communicating your hurt and anger) this will help you move on.
● Understand why it didn’t work and never go back to them. Learn from the red flags. I don’t care if they were special and you miss them, you’ve got to know your worth. Write down a list of reasons why you are better off without them to refer back to when you miss them.
● Remember they are replaceable whereas you are not so yes you will find true love one day but now is the time to forget about that.
● Stay consistent with your goals as distractions from them. Never stop working hard to follow your dreams and taking care of yourself. Focus on your studies/career!
● Success is the best revenge. Who even are they anymore? Exactly, they are non existent, yet your happiness, achievements and self-love is relevant.
● Avoid talking about the person in every single conversation. Remember they are dead to you in your reality so stop whining and complaining and crying to others.
● Patience is key because time does heal and you’ll look back after this and be so proud of yourself for being strong
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Honestly, crying, doing nothing and feeling atrocious is a power move. You need a break and to relax sometimes. Go eat chocolate, watch your comfort movies, sleep, lay in bed all day in lingerie/comfy nightgowns, do your makeup/skincare. You need to release and let go of your fears and worries. Write poetry to self-express, maybe even dance and listen to music in your room. Go eat because you need food and maybe even go for a drive or walk to see nature. You could also work out to feel good again. Just don’t overdo tasks and don’t do anything you’ll regret like cutting your hair impulsively, spam texting people or posting about it. Remember that this feeling will pass and you shouldn’t feel guilty about taking a day off. Try to take a social media break too! Feeling insane during mental breakdowns is normal and if you want to drown in your sadness, then go for it because you know what you must do to heal and recover! :)
For french:
- Find someone you can practice talking to in french who is fluent so you’re confident in the oral exam
- Read the books/plays 2+ times to fully comprehend the storyline and be able to write about it
- Use online revision resources like ‘Massolit’ and ‘SparkNotes’ for help
- Expand your vocabulary by learning lists of new adjectives, connectives, adverbs, etc online
- Master the structure of a PEA essay (1. Point mentioning a technique, 2. Evidence embedded 3. Explain and analyse 4. Link back to point 5. Effect on reader/audience 6. Authorial intention 7. Lastly link back again)
- Practice writing many essays to be ready for the exam
- Time yourself (how many paragraphs can you write in the assigned time?)
- Ask your teacher to give you good feedback
- Always strive to do better and be better
- Read all the mark schemes available
- Listen to your teacher very carefully and try to make the most out of class time so you’re not struggling when revising independently
- Practice writing lots of paragraphs for your final essay - Practice conjugating verbs every week for 3+ hours - Ask lots of questions in class - Use your free time and help of your teacher to consolidate your knowledge - Always show your teacher your updated revision so she can comment on it - Practice all the past papers you can find - Create a study group with genuinely studious and smart people - Make clear and colourful notes
- Create a productive and realistic timetable to revise french - Revise for all the little tests throughout the course
- Try your best even from the start of the IGCSE course because every bit of effort will higher your grade
Remember, before following these steps, a well-rested, hydrated body and positive mind is essential!
Be your authentic self and you’ll enter a new reality where everyone loves the version of you you’re presenting because it’s so genuine and you’re happier. You’ll also attract lots of like-minded friends. We have special & specific anthems for women because we can relate and associate to them. Nothing is better than feeling understood. Girls unite and that is girl power. Girl power promotes your happiness and of the girls’ around you.
‘‘Ascension is the best success. And success is the best revenge. So stop being jealous and start comparing yourself to the girl you were yesterday’’- Amanda
Remember, it’s all about the mindset. Self reinvention is mental, emotional and spiritual because the inner glow up affects the exterior one. Your outside world can only change if your inside does. Thus, healing, releasing sadness/anger creating and transforming yourself mentally and physically will inevitably alter your aura and ‘look’.
