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Project SAFE–– Smoke Alarms for Everyone

One piece of technology no home should be without is a smoke alarm. To help make sure every home has one, the Findlay Fire Department has teamed with two other agencies to send smoke alarms home with the city’s 3,500 elementary school children. Called Project SAFE (Smoke Alarms for Everyone), the project hopes to raise at least $10,000 in order to purchase smoke alarms. The fire department, Findlay City Schools and the Hancock County chapter of the American Red Cross hope to get smoke alarms into more homes by distributing them to younger school children. They hope to start the program in October, which is Fire Prevention Month. Over the last seven years the fire department has overseen smoke alarm giveaways that have distributed more than 10,000 alarms to community members. Yet Captain Jerry Greer says the department still responds to house fires where smoke alarms were not in use. The early warning from a smoke alarm can help a family get out of a fire safely, he said. Those interested in learning more about the project may call the American Red Cross at 419-422-9322 or Greer at the fire department, 419-424-7129.

The ribmeisters have been tweaking their recipes for the 19th annual Rib Off on Broadway, Findlay’s annual barbecue beat-down to determine the best BBQ in Flag City. This year’s event begins at 3pm August 3 and brings together up to eight vendors who compete for barbecue bragging rights including “Judge’s Choice” and “Best Sauce.” A people’s choice award will let attendees judge for themselves based on sampling ribs from at least three vendors and submitting a ballot up until 10pm. The Rib-Off, sponsored by The Arts Partnership and Hancock Federal Credit Union, will also play host to its first Battle of the Bands followed by classic rock from Funk Factory. Admission is $5 for adults, $3 for children 12 and under, and free for children in strollers. The event will be held in downtown Findlay, around Broadway behind the Findlay Hancock County Public Library. Proceeds from the Rib-Off support programs and events offered by The Arts Partnership. The Rib-Off is being held in conjunction with another event, Car Tunes on Main, which features car shows and other family activities downtown from 3pm to 11pm.

Jamming to Car Tunes

Never has a traffic jam been so much fun. The annual Car Tunes on Main and the Community Cruise pull in to downtown Findlay on August 3, bringing with them cool cars and family festivities. The day starts with a Community Cruise from 11am to 2pm, which is a chance for folks to catch the classic and hot rod vehicles around town. The downtown Car Tunes on Main show, where trucks, motorcycles and cars vie for attention, will be from 3pm to 11pm, coinciding with the Rib Off on Broadway a mere block away. Awards will be presented at 8pm. “This will be a huge community event,” said Tamera Rooney, communications director of the United Way of Hancock County, which is partnering with the Flag City Corvette Club. “Last year we had 400 cars parked on Main Street.” The day will also feature a family activities area and music entertainment. Information about the pit stops the cars will make around town during the Community Cruise will be available at www. cartunesonmain.org.

Brief-Hancock County Fair

From calf-roping to concerts, there is something for everyone at the 74th Hancock County Fair August 28 through September 2. The fair, at 1107 East Sandusky St., features traditional livestock judging, baked-good auctions, horse shows and rides. Gospel sings, exhibits by the University of Findlay Equestrian programs, a cheer expo and a cookie eating contest to continue the fun. Other highlights include a Calf Scramble Wednesday at the North Grandstand, Tongue N Groove at the North Grandstand on Thursday, the Broken Horn Rodeo on Saturday at the Grandstand, and a Demolition Derby on Sunday at the South Grandstand. “We try to mix it up a little bit, but keep some continuity,” said Dave Thomas, operations manager for the Hancock County Agricultural Society. Daily admission fee is $7 at the gate, which allows in one adult and dependents under age 15. Entire fair tickets are $21 and school tickets are $12 and $15 – all are

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available before the fair starts at the Hancock County Agricultural Society’s office at the fairgrounds. Veterans and adults over 60 pay $2 the first day of the fair. Other events, including the Broken Horn Rodeo, may have additional admission fees. All tickets include parking. For more information, visit www.hancockfairgrounds. com or call 419-429-7344.

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Pizza Station skates in with new flavor by Sarah Mayle

by Laurie Wurth-Pressel

There’s a new restaurant in town, and owners Tim and Lori Thwaits say the pizza has a fresh, distinctive taste all its own. “The pizza has a fabulous taste,” said Tim Thwaits. “It doesn’t taste like any other pizza in Findlay. All of the ingredients are so fresh – the dough and sauce are made fresh on a daily basis.” Pizza Station opened June 1 inside of Rolling Thunder Skating and Family Fun Center. The franchise restaurant helps the Thwaits to offer more variety to their skating customers, while serving the public as well. Pizza Station serves an array of tasty foods including cheese and specialty pizzas, stromboli and prime rib sandwiches, salads, chicken wings, and succulent desserts such as funnel cake fries and fancy brownies. If you’re really hungry, order the “Sheet Kicker,” a 3-foot by 26-inch giant pizza that contains 105 slices.“It takes four people to get it out of the oven,” Thwaits said, laughing. Foods served at Pizza Station that would normally be sizzled in a deep fryer are instead cooked in a greaseless fryer, Thwaits said. Their wings, fries and mozzarella sticks contain 20 to 40 percent less fat than normal. Whole-wheat, gluten-free pizza crust is also available. The Thwaits love kids and are proud to provide a safe, fun place for families. It is their hope that Pizza Station will raise the bar for fun even higher. “We know people know the rink is here,” Tim Thwaits said. “We hope people will come on out and try the place. You don’t have to be a child to have fun here. And when you add (Pizza Station) it’s just even that much more fun.” Open daily, 11am-2pm, carry out only. Evenings: Sunday-Thursday, 5-9pm; Friday & Saturday, 5pm-10pm. Delivery available in the evening. 2225 Keith Parkway. 419-422-7251. www.rollingthunder-findlay.com

Serenity Farm offers a haven of healing for children and teens struggling with physical or mental disabilities and behavioral problems. With a tranquil country setting, caring and experienced counselors, certified instructors and “one thousand pound motivators,” Serenity Farm reaches kids who seem unreachable, says Debra DeHoff, executive director and founder. In the past 10 years, DeHoff has witnessed children overcome abuse, walk for the first time, and say their first words––all because Horses at Serentiy Farm help of the healing power of horses. “Horses kids who are struggling have a way of breaking down barriers,” she says. Located in Luckey, Ohio, just 12 miles northeast of Bowling Green, Serenity Farm provides therapeutic riding and equine-assisted activity therapy. Dedicated staff and volunteers keep the farm running smoothly, but the bulk of the workload rests on seven therapy horses––from the 175 pound miniature horse, Thunder, to the 1,100 pound quarter horse, Easy. Serenity Farm also opens its doors to the community. Summer programs such as “Manes-N- Makeup” give young girls the chance to interact with horses and build their self esteem. The farm’s field trips, coordinated by retired teachers, receive “rave reviews” from Scout groups, elementary classes and homeschoolers, with a blend of team building, crafts and learning. This fall, Serenity Farm will debut an anti-bullying program for kids in kindergarten through 6th grade, using the horses as teaching partners. For more information about Serenity Farm, visit www.serenityfarm.org, call 419-833-1308, or email info@serenityfarm.org.

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THE LINES TWEEN advice for parents with children 10-16

Local teen has his eyes on the prize A conversation with high-achiever Sam Duling by Sarah Mayle

For 2013 Findlay High School graduate Sam Duling, the start of classes at the University of Toledo can’t come soon enough. It was through the Hancock Leadership program that Duling found his interest and great enthusiasm in what will be his major there – political science and communication. During his senior year, Duling was a member of Engage Youth Council, was on the Youth Advisory Board for the Findlay-Hancock County Public Library and was president of the National Honor Society. While each leadership and service role was rewarding, Duling found Hancock Youth Leadership to be life-changing. Duling completed the program as a junior, then served as a student mentor and HYL board member his senior year. The 18-year-old has been busy this summer. In June, Sam spent a week volunteering at Camp Discovery, a math and science camp for 1st through 5th graders. He sat in with the Hancock County auditor’s board of revisions to learn more about local government, and, through contacts he’s made, has likely secured himself an internship with Rep. Bob Latta’s office this fall. To relax, he’s been spending time with friends and reading, but feels that it’s when he’s busy that he thrives. What is Hancock Youth Leadership? “It is essentially a leadership program that helps students from all around the county. You have to ap-

ply and write an essay. Once you’re admitted to the program, the Board of Hancock Youth Leadership fashions a program for the year where you meet with about 40 other kids. You go throughout the community and see what makes it function and prosper. There are different categories for the sessions such as agriculture, county government, justice and law...then you usually travel to different locations to be educated by someone who works in that field.” Which session was most rewarding to you? “Justice and law was most rewarding, because I do want to go into politics someday, and that day we were connected with people in the community who talked about how our local government works. So many kids my age say they want to be president someday, but they overlook and skip so many steps. That day gave me information I’ll take with me throughout my career.” What would you say to a student who is considering the program? “I would say definitely go for it. It’s the most effective, fun and eye-opening leadership program that I have ever partaken in...It changed the way I look at the community, potential friends, and changed the

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Sam Duling is outstanding

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way I carry myself. It’s so evident that you have been in the program because those that do go through HYL, they’re often leaders throughout their lives. It has a profound, positive effect on your character.”

l o o h c S o Back t Survival Guide: By Laurie Wur th-Pressel

How to... SAVE on school supplies without spending a ton

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HELP those in need

Many struggling families in Findlay and around Hancock County need help getting their child outfitted for school. Here’s what you can do: Stuff the Bus, a community school drive sponsored by McDonalds and WFIN/ WKXA radio stations, collects items like pencils, glue, markers, folders, scissors, watercolor paints, backpacks and more for families in need. If you missed the buses parked at the two local McDonalds in July, you can still drop off supplies at Chopin Hall, located in the Family Center, 1800 North Blanchard Street. Chopin Hall will distribute the supplies on August 10 from 9 am to noon. Pre-registration is required to be a recipient. Contact Chopin Hall at 419-422-6401. Owens Community College collects school supplies for kindergarten children in the area. “The need continues to be great,” says Laura Moore, director of alumni relations. “We receive such a generous response, because people recognize that students can’t be successful without tools.” Owens will select a local school to receive the donated supplies. For more information, call 567-661-7876 or email alumni@owens.edu. You can drop off backpacks and other school supplies at Books-A-Million in the Findlay Village Mall or at the Education Center Atrium on the Findlay Owens campus, 3200 Bright Road until August 18.

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Start out on the right foot with your child’s new teacher by following this advice from area teachers:

“Meet the Teacher night or any type of informal meeting is essential. Most teachers ask you to fill out an informationa l questionnaire on your kiddo. Make sure you do this. It opens up communication and gives you a chance to voice concerns, fears, excitement or stories related to your child.” —Audrey Stoffel, kindergarten, Jefferson Primary.

open house. “Attend the school’s ing to not only en ev is th e us rs he ac Te but with the d, il ch e th h it w t ec nn co send home a rs he ac te y an M s. nt re pa lps parents he is th r, te et sl w ne y weekl in to know what is going on the classroom.”

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ade, – Lana Roth, fourth gr Lincoln Elementary

“I strongly encourage parents to attend any mee tings at the start of the school year. volunteer your time to help out in the classroom. Even if you can’t take off work, perhaps there’s something you can help with from home. Inform your child’s teacher of any health issues, proble ms at home, cultural differences, or anything that may impact your child’s well-being. Never be afraid to contact your child’s teacher, whether it’s by pho ne, email or in person. It’s important for parent s and teachers to keep open lines of communication and to work together.” —Ann Small, first grade, St. Michael School

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HOW TO... Dress for Success Photos courtesy of JL Photography

The hippie look is making a comeback!

Don’t sacrifice comfort, but do include a little glitter, neon and tie-dye in the wardrobe. Kids love flip flops, but school administrators don’t. Flip flops are prohibited at many local schools. Stick to sturdy shoes that offer support and won’t be a tripping hazard. Bryants Shoe Store, 624 S. Main St., in business since 1932, sells the popular kid brands like Stride Rite in a variety of sizes and widths and they measure and fit each pair of shoes. Kiya Benschoter is ready to learn in style

(From left) Oliva Matthes, Schelby Beach, holding Calloway Jordan, Kiya Benschoter, Maggie Ferrier, Sydney Burrier, Kayla Wooden and Elizabeth Nagy are eager to move to the head of the class wearing fun fashion finds

Add some bling on top. Big headbands, colorful flowers and sock buns (using

an old sock with the toe cut out to make a donut-shaped bun) are hot. Check out videos on Youtube for sock bun instructions. Cheer on your team! Bring in a pair of jeans, a t-shirt or shoes to Kiya Papaya’s, 404 S. Main Street (www.facebo+ok.com/KiyaPapayaBoutique) and they will transform them into one-of-a-kind creations that show school spirit.

Don’ t discard old clothes, upcycle

them! “We can turn Dad’s old shirt into a cute dress, or make a pair of jeans last longer,” says Kriss Bishop, owner of Kiya Papaya’s.

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EAT This!

How to... Ease first-day jitters My daughter, Grace, wasn’t thrilled about starting preschool a few years ago. I tried to reassure her. “You’ll love school,” I said. “Preschool is filled with lots of fun things, like new friends, toys and games.” Grace remained unconvinced. “But they don’t have mommy,” she replied. She had me there. Starting school is a big step, and each child must take that step on his or her own.

While you can’t attend school with your child, you can ease those first day jitters.

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1. First, make sure your child gets sufficient sleep. Parents tend to get lenient with bedtimes over the summer, so start implementing earlier bedtimes a couple weeks before the start of school. Refreshed kids can handle new situations better.

2. Second, visit the school a few times. Peek in your child’s classroom, walk around the building, check out the library, lunchroom and gym. Don’t miss out on any open house night. Your child will feel more comfortable if he or she becomes familiar with their new environment ahead of time.

3. Third, talk about how much fun your child will have. Share stories about your favorite teachers, classmates, and learning experiences. Plan something special for after school, like a favorite snack or fun activity that your child can look forward to.

4. Finally, take this advice from Audrey Stoffel, kindergarten teacher at Jefferson Primary School: “Set your child up for success by looking at school as a brand new adventure!”

How to... Pack a healthy lunch Your kids will actually eat Satisfy even the pickiest eater with these tips from Julie Russell, outpatient dietitian at Blanchard Valley Hospital, for packing a delicious and nutritious lunch.

Do’s:

• DO let your child make choices • DO include a variety of different textures and colors • DO include all five food groups • DO include an occasional treat, but not every day

Don’ts:

• DON’T allow sugary drinks, stick to water or low-fat milk • DON’T pack the same items every day, mix it up • DON’T forget that students have short lunch periods, so skip hardto-eat foods • DON’T forget to use eco-friendly packaging

Try packing these items in your child’s lunch:

GRAINS – bagels, breads (whole wheat, rye), tortillas, rice cakes, crackers, pretzels. PROTEINS: turkey, ham, tuna salad, cottage cheese, cheese, peanut butter, hummus, cream cheese, egg salad, hard-boiled egg. VEGETABLES: green peppers, cucumbers, grape tomatoes, carrots, celery. FRUITS: fruit cups in light syrup, blueberries, strawberries, blackberries, apples slices, kiwis, asian pear or mangos. MILK/DAIRY: low-fat milk, yogurt.

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A + How to...

Motivate your kids to do their BEST Children who are genuinely loved and supported at home bring their best to school, says Mr. Bruce Otley, principal at Liberty-Benton Middle School. Encourage your kids to put forth 100 percent effort with these tips from Mr. Otley: Recognize, respect and reward, and you’ll see results. Teach time management skills. Set boundaries and don’t be afraid to discipline. Show your child that work and fun can be one in the same, it’s all about attitude. Expect your child’s best each day, because as Lady Bird Johnson once said, “Children are likely to live up to what you believe of them.”

Why does Ke$ha have a dollar sign in her name?

Analzying your own ‘hip-ocalypse’ By Rose Roccisano Barto

One of the many Mongolian adventures taken by this traveling dad

Traveling Dad:

A dad’s absence brings appreciation for home Matthew L. Reger

This summer has brought its share of memorable events in our family — horse lessons for my daughter, potty training for my son, another trip to Central Asia for me, and testing the patience and endurance of my wife. The Mongolia trip is an annual adventure that takes me to remote places as an election monitor. Through this ongoing project I have visited some far-flung parts of Central Asia, fulfilled an unending passion for travel and came home to a family enthusiastic about my return. After one of these trips, though, my wife admitted she did not know whether to “hug me or hit me.”

Taking the long way home...

The 2011 Kazakhstan presidential election looked like a great opportunity to visit somewhere I had never been. This was a ten-day trip and my wife insisted she would be fine alone with the kids. Even though I had some trepidation, my desire to travel caused me to overlook any harbingers of trouble. My days in Kazakhstan went fast and soon my obligation was complete. I was in the remote western edge of the country when we began our return. Before leaving, I contacted my wife after what had been an extended time of no contact. It was then that I found out how frustrated she was and how tough things had been. The news from home was “get home as soon as you can.” The first leg of my return was a flight to the capital. The plane took off, but two hours into the flight we were diverted to another city because of weather. I rolled with it, even though I realized I was going to miss my next flight to Frankfurt and thereafter, the connecting flight to get home. The plane landed, our group of monitors disembarked and tried to

figure out what was going to happen next. While several members of our group argued about the best move, I found a wifi connection and texted my wife. The response to “how are you” was “the car broke down, what should I do?” I decided to hold off telling her about my own situation. “What happened?” I texted. “I don’t know. It just stopped running. I am visiting mom and I don’t know what to do!” “Call my dad,” I texted back. “I did. He gave me options. Did not help!” That is not what she wanted. My dad is a mechanic and she wanted him to solve her problem.

Use in Emergencies Only

I decided to call her on the “use only in an emergency” phone. This seemed to qualify. Through the frantic call I hurriedly explained my predicament while she shared her’s. I never felt more helpless. The kids had been difficult; her mother had been critical of her child rearing; the dealership told her the only option for the car was to spend $3,000.00; my father had not helped and all I could do was tell her that I was stuck in Central Asia. Ultimately, she got my father to speak to the dealership and the car was fixed for less than $100; I returned a day later than scheduled and we all met at the airport. It was there that I saw in her eyes a desire to hit me; she had every right. But in spite of her frustration she hugged me. There certainly is no place like home, even for a father with an annual wanderlust that his wife patiently indulges.

Walking by my teenager’s room the other day, I heard an unmistakable reggae beat. “Hey, is that The Police?” “The who?” “Not The Who. The Police.” “Um, no Mom. It’s Bruno Mars.” “Who?” And so it went. I never feel my age quite as much as when I hear what’s on my daughter’s playlist. It’s just a larger symptom, however, of having fallen behind the curve of technology and pop culture itself. I remember black and white television and rotary phones. Google was just a funny word that referred to a number with a bunch of zeroes, and Wikipedia was an actual encyclopedia. Now, my kids look at me like I have three heads when I talk about those bygone days. A few decades ago, I was hip. I swear it. Kate Bush and Bruce Springsteen were on heavy cassette rotation. I rocked the big hair, hoop earrings and black wardrobe like everyone else. And my first stereo system, with speakers the size of second graders, was the best out there. Now? Kate and Bruce qualify for AARP membership. More than one television show focuses on making over women with big hair, big hoops and black wardrobes. And stereo systems fit in the palm of your hand. The signs of the hip-ocalypse were subtle at first. I didn’t recognize the moustached celeb in the “Got Milk” ads. I would buy a whole CD even though I only liked one song. And I couldn’t figure out why MTV — started by my generation — never played any actual music television. But I refused to admit defeat until, despite a lifelong love of music, I could not recognize one artist in the Top 10. Why do some of them have dollar signs in

their name, like Ke$ha? Don’t they know that Prince was the granddaddy of that trend by renaming himself an unpronounceable symbol in 1993? Wait. Is Prince an actual granddaddy? Lately, however, I’m finding that I’m not as tragic as I’d feared. Thanks to Glee, I know most of the songs my kids are humming these days. I get to explain that “Don’t Stop Believin’” was an actual song done by an actual band that could actually sing before it was a mangled mashup. Some of my older daughter’s ballet choreography is done to “Mr. Blue Sky” by Electric Light Orchestra — and no, they are not an actual orchestra. I recently walked by my daughter’s room and heard a pulsing synthesizer. No, it couldn’t be. A blast from 1983? “Hey, is that the Eurythmics?” “The who?” “No, not the — oh, never mind.” I walked away humming Eurythmics’ “Sweet Dreams.” I’m not going to ask how she found the song. I’m just glad she did. A true classic never goes out of fashion — and for once, I’m hip. Until the next time.

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A victim of fashion

Mother Mayhem attempts to be stylish By Mary Helen Darah

Until I got hips, I wore my brother’s hand-me-downs. It was actually a blessing since back in the day there were hardly any others that would fit. I towered over the “you must be this tall to ride” sign at the amusement park and could experience the scariest of coasters in the second grade. I loved skirts, not out of a burning desire to be feminine, but because I didn’t have to deal with my “Jolly Green Giant” inseam. Things have improved since then. However, the last time I was in Ann Taylor, I commented to the saleswoman that I had never seen capri pants made of corduroy. She curtly responded, “Those are NOT capris.” Eddie Bauer recently shortened their “tall” pants an inch so I guess I am destined to look like I am anticipating high water at any given moment. At least I have progressed from wearing holiday sweaters and homemade sweatshirts my girls decorated for more “toned down” options, but I refuse to give up my “critter attire” including my moose boxers and the ones with the big fish on the behind that proclaims “NICE BASS.” I have somehow managed to rise above the “fashion faux pas” moments of my past. The most memorable was when a gentleman came up to me during the intermission of a theater performance and asked “Are you having trouble telling them apart?” I had no idea what he was talking about until my child pointed out the big “L” (for large) sticker that I neglected to remove from my left breast. I am still recovering from the trauma of not trying on a swimsuit my friend lent me before a pool party I was to attend. She was adamant that my one piece Speedo was far too conservative. I had a “Meet the Parents” moment in a bikini as I spent the night hiding behind any and all objects that would cover me. Thank God for that well-placed ficus tree. In need of an exit strategy It is important to check and see if garments have an “exit strategy.” My friend Claudia kindly came over and helped me get into an “Alice in Wonderland” dress for a photo shoot. It wasn’t until everyone departed that I realized I couldn’t get out of it solo. There is nothing like spending eight hours as a Disney character to find your “inner Alice.” My friend also experienced a terrible case of “stuckness.” She had the brilliant idea of safety pinning her Spanx bodysuit to her strapless dress—as if a garment containing the chemical components equivalent to a seal suit would budge. She discovered when she was trying to go to the bathroom that she had pinned the zipper as well. She lost her balance when she tried to get free from her self-imposed bondage. Needless to say, her physical pain healed far faster than the emotional ordeal of being found spread eagle on the bathroom floor still wrapped in the shower curtain she had grabbed to break her fall. 14

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A family matter Other family members have had their fair share of dressing disasters. My usually conservatively dressed father was convinced to step “outside the box” by a persuasive salesperson when he rented a tux for a charity event. He received numerous comments and questions about his attire most notably, “What instrument do you play?” He was wearing the same

tux as the band members. My daughter showed up at a family event wearing a t-shirt she got for free during spring break. Working in the medical field, she has been exposed to Latin, but her Greek still needs work. This became evident when her greatgrandmother read her t-shirt with Greek symbols that said, “I love Sigma Epsilon Chi” or in English “SEX.” All Gram could do is give her a knowing smile— especially since she once looked like the Hunchback of Notre Dame after one of her blouse’s shoulder pads came loose during a church service. It ended up taking up residence in the middle of her back. Gram and her new “hump” ended up on the prayer request list. A bit of wisdom I have learned a lot of fashion wisdom over the years. Remember, even if the chart on the back of the panty-hose box states, “up to six foot” the crotch will be four inches south from where it should be and if you hear a strange swishing noise while walking in the woods, it’s most likely coming from your 80’s parachute workout pants and not some unknown creature. In the future, I will desperately try to keep the Canadian mammal attire to a minimum (my Mom has a loon and wolf wardrobe that defies explanation), check my view from the “rear” for any unwanted external cling-on undergarments, and do what I always do: Rely on my inner beauty and sense of humor while wearing comfortable shoes. Contact Mother Mayhem at mothermayhem@adamsstreetpublishing.com

From career to volunteer

Julie Brown lives a life for others

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by Kathy Miller

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From career to volunteer A mom first, Julie was a CPA in a former life. Wife to Byron for thirty years and mother to three, she says she “was lucky enough to be able to parent my children full-time for fifteen years.” During that time, she began to shape what her path would be after child-rearing, remaining connected to the community by volunteering, and creating a home “very committed to social justice.” When the time came, Julie shares that she “suddenly knew that I was called to serve people as I had in my volunteer roles rather than return to corporate America.” Acting on pure instinct, Julie took the “wildest risk” of her life and became director of a grassroots food pantry, a career shift which eventually led to her current position.

Build the foundation At The Community Foundation, Julie’s work as a senior program officer accentuates her strength in building bridges, in this case between organizations and donors. She labels herself an extrovert who “draws energy from others,” a characteristic that makes one of her greatest gifts her ability to connect others. Through her work, she enjoys “learning about many social service

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sectors and knowing the caring people who provide direct service, “calling the agencies that are awarded grants,” and working with the “amazing group” at the Foundation. Her enthusiasm is on display when she mentions a current project, the Foundation’s funding of an Alzheimer’s documentary featuring local advocate Reverend Darrell Prichard, a film of which Julie is fiercely proud and which debuted on June 29, at Winebrenner Theological Seminary. In her spare time, Julie values time with loved ones, and plays hard, “keeping up with friends, visiting her parents, walking with her husband, reading, writing, and going to sporting events.” Her children are off in different areas pursuing varied interests, yet they are never far from her mind. With all she’s doing, and has done, for Findlay through her professional endeavors, Julie’s proudest accomplishment, “raising three great kids,” is clearly a personal one for this Hancock County mom.

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THE SHORT COURSE

Ralphie’s Sports Eatery Family friendly and comfortable for all by Rose Roccisano Barto

Ralphie’s Sports Eatery 1523 Broad Avenue 419-423-1403 www.ralphies.com Open Sunday through Thursday 11a.m. to midnight and Friday and Saturday 11a.m. to 1a.m. Want a pub atmosphere that offers a kids’ menu? Feel like some friendly wagering while you wait? Don’t want to miss the big game but don’t want to do dishes, either? There’s a restaurant for that. There’s a little bit of everything – and something for everyone – at Ralphie’s Family Sports Eatery. On a recent weekday we decided to try Ralphie’s, 1523 Broad Ave. Our children were toddlers the last time we walked in, so it was high time to take the now teenager and tweenager back to try it again. When we stepped into the restaurant it was indeed a fun step back in time – for us, anyway. Among the five arcade games in the back was an old-school Centipede. In the Age of Xbox, it was still mesmerizing to watch our kids outrun insects. In the dining area, many of the booths had laminated tops that covered sports cards, both vintage and new, and the walls were decorated with various sports items. The sound system played music from our youth that never seems to get old – Joan Jett, ZZ Top, The Who and Joe Walsh. Adults can enjoy Keno and pool.

Menu specials

Specials abound all week at Ralphie’s, from Wicked Wing Monday to Handy Dandy Sunday. If you need to catch-up, or can’t decide, try Wednesday’s Week in Review where any of the specials are available. A gluten-free menu section features chicken breast and steak burger entrees, as well as a jumbo stuffed, baked potato. A kids’ menu offers mini hamburgers and cheeseburgers, fish and chips, chicken fingers and other favorites. One rather unique tabletop amenity had us smiling: A full roll of paper towels for our use. How did they know we can be complete slobs while we eat? It was nice to know if something spilled or dripped we could take care of it right away without waiting for extra napkins. It might seem like a small thing, but if you have younger children it’s nice to have instant access.

A slight dilemma

One issue stumped us right away, though: What to order? Sandwiches are big in our house, and the selection had the teenager stumped. “I know I want the club wrap this time, but I want to try the chicken tender wrap next time,” she said, already

anticipating another visit. She did indeed order the club wrap with French fries ($7.99). The tween ordered a philly steak and cheese with waffle fries ($9.99), while the husband had the pub-style fish sandwich and a side salad. I ordered the veggie wrap and onion rings ($7.99) which the staff happily grilled for me. We all enjoyed our selections, and at least a few bites made it into to-go boxes. That didn’t mean we were done, however, since we often take part of a meal home in order to have dessert. It was probably the first time we were warned about dessert, however. Ralphie’s offers ice cream sundaes, but the star of the show was Captain Dave’s Buried Treasure, a homemade ice cream cake with caramel sauce, hot fudge, crumbled Heath bars, vanilla ice cream and whipped cream. Our waitress said the dessert was more than enough to share. One huge dessert and four spoons later, we knew she was right. It wasn’t just a dessert; it was a challenge. In fact, you could certainly go to Ralphie’s for the dessert alone. But you’d be missing out on a vast menu of sandwiches, wraps and burgers. Instead, take our advice and take part of your meal home so you can enjoy what has to be one of the best and biggest desserts in town.

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To avoid wait Consider off-peak times Bathroom amenities Changing table in women’s restroom High Chairs Yes Got Milk Yes, both white and chocolate, along with lemonade Kid’s menu? Yes Anything healthy for the kids? Side choices include green beans, salad and cottage cheese Food allergy concerns? There is a gluten-free section of the menu

August 2013

Friday, August 9-Sunday, August 11

Flag City BalloonFest

Don’t leave your summer plans up in the air, plan on taking the family to Northwest Ohio’s most unique festival. Now in its 14th year, Flag City BalloonFest will feature over forty hot air balloons and family-friendly activities throughout the weekend. Not only will the event be a fantastic photo opportunity from the ground, visitors will also have the chance to take rides too! Other attractions include a car show, motorcycle show, 5K run, helicopter rides, and cornhole tournament. There’s also a children’s area with inflatables, carnival games, and other activities. Friday-Sunday, open daily 7am. Free. Emory Adams Park, 1528 South Blanchard St. 567-208-0026. www.flagcityballoonfest.com—JG

1 THURSDAY 140th Wood County Fair Experience all your fair favorites—agricultural & livestock competitions and exhibits, demolition derby, arts & crafts competitions, entertainment and on Saturday, August 3 The Beach Boys perform! Through August 5. Monday-Thursday & Sunday, 8am-11pm; Friday & Saturday, 8am-12am; Monday, August 5, 8am9pm. $6 / Free, children nine and under. Wood County Fairgrounds, 13800 W. Poe Rd., Bowling Green. 419-352-0441. www.woodcounty-fair.com

3 SATURDAY Doll & Teddy Bear Show - Doll lovers and collectors will enjoy browsing in Founder’s Hall as exhibitors share their antique dolls, original dolls, teddy bears, and modern collectibles as well as accessories, supplies, artist reproductions, clothing, doll furniture, books and patterns. A special guest artist will be at the Village for the weekend to sign dolls and talk with collectors. There will also be workshops, lectures and other doll-themed activities throughout the weekend. 10am-4pm. $15 adult / $8 student / 5 & under free. Sauder Village, 22611 State Route 2, Archbold. 800-590-9755. www.saudervillage.org Rib Off on Broadway - Take a stroll down Main Street and see a variety of automobile displays from classic cars to modern cars. Then head on over to Broadway, behind the Findlay/Hancock County Library, and enjoy tasty ribs from 5 local eateries and listen to live music from the main stage. There will be a battle of the bands event from 3-8pm, followed by a performance by Funk Factory at 9pm. 12-10pm. $5 adult / $3 children 12 and under / Free, children in strollers. Broadway St., Downtown Findlay. 419-422-3412. www.artspartnership.com

4 SUNDAY Hands On History: School Days School is in session at the McKinnis House and visitors are welcomed to attend! School will be held from 2-4pm for all those who wish to attend. Those who are willing to learn may come and go at any time. 1:30-4:30pm. Free. Litzenberg Memorial Woods, McKinnis House, 6100 U.S. Route 224. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

5 MONDAY Discovery Story: Skunks - Come and have fun learning about the skunk family. Recommended for ages 3-6 with an adult companion. Program includes a story, activities and a craft. 10am, 1pm & 7pm. Free. Oakwoods Nature Preserve,”Doc” Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

6 TUESDAY First Day Jitters - Books and songs will get kids excited about their first day of preschool or kindergarten.10:3011:30am. Free. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. www.findlay.lib.oh.us

9 FRIDAY Henry County Fair - The 2013 Henry County Fair will be the event’s 160th year! August 9th-15th families will enjoy NTPA Grand National Tractor Pulls, the Tomato Festival Parade & Pageant, demolition derby, music from Thomas Rhett, midway rides and more. Visit website for full schedule. August 9-15. Gates open everyday at 7am. $7 adult / Free, children 12 and under. Henry County Fairgrounds, 821 S. Perry St., Napoleon. 419-592-9096. www.henrycountyfair.org Cont. on pg 18

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MONDAY-FRIDAY

Mom & Tot Skate, Bring the little ones to the Cube for open ice skating Monday-Friday. 10am-11am. $2 child/$3 adult skates included. The CUBE, 3430 N. Main St. 419-424-7176. www.findlayohio.com

TUESDAYS & THURSDAYS

Story Time, Hear stories with songs and a simple craft. For all ages. 10:3011:30am. Free. Findlay-Hancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419422-1712. www.findlaylibrary.org

TUESDAYS

Starflight First Grade Trail Starter, Camp Fire USA connects children and families with caring, trained adults in an intimate group atmosphere through our club programs, first and third Tuesdays. 3:30-4:30pm. $15. 733 Wyandot St. 419-422-5415. www.campfireusa-nwohio.com

WEDNESDAYS

Toddler Art Zone, Includes a story, art project and music. For ages one to four. 11:30am-12:15pm. $5-$10. YMCA, Downtown Branch, 300 E. Lincoln St. 419-422-8249. www.findlayymca.org

THURSDAYS

Jr. Teens in Action, This is for children grades six to eight. Curriculum is based on the Five Trails of Camp Fire USA. The Trail to Knowing Me. The Trail to Family and Community. The Trail to Creativity. The Trail to the Environment. The Trail to the Future. 5:30–6:30pm. Camp Fire USA, 305 W. Hardin St. 419-422-5415. www.campfireusa-nwohio.com

FRIDAYS

Baby Story Time, Infants birth - 36 months will enjoy simple stories, rhymes, music, puppets, movement for the youngest learners. 9:30am. Free. FindlayHancock County Public Library, 206 Broadway St. 419-422-1712. www.findlaylibrary.org

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Planetarium Night: Neptune Neptune will be at its closest approach to Earth and will fully be illuminated by the Sun this month. Come learn more about this blue planet. Recommended for 10 year olds and older. Participants must sit on floor. Ask about handicap accessibility. No fee, but register by Thursday, August 8. 7-8pm. Free. Oakwoods Nature Preserve, “Doc” Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

10 SATURDAY Mill Fest: The Wonders of Woodworking - The 140 year-old Isaac Ludwig Mill forms the backdrop for this day of history, crafts and fun. Witness a 56-inch water-powered saw chew through logs, then see how the same water can power a delicate wood lathe for more detailed work. The best wood carvers, shavers and hewers since the nineteenth century provide demonstrations throughout the day. Save time to ride the mule-drawn canal boat and visit the Providence General Store. 12-4pm. Free. Providence Metropark, 3827 US 24 West (at SR 578), Grand Rapids. 419-4079700. www.metroparkstoledo.com Trees for Tots - Children, ages 3-6, with an adult companion, can join park staff on a guided hike through the woods. Your children will observe differences in shapes, sizes, colors, and textures of leaves and bark that help identify various trees. After the hike, make a tree leaf collage with your tot from leaves collected to review what trees were discovered on the hike. 10am-12pm. Free. Litzenberg Memorial Woods, 6100 U.S. Route 224. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

11 SUNDAY Team Scavenger Hunt Camera Challenge - Search and capture ten digital pictures of plants on the scavenger hunt list. Bring your own digital camera. Register in teams of up to 4 people. Recommended for ages 12 and up, with minimum of one adult per team. No fee, but register by Thursday, August 8. 1-2:30pm. Free. Litzenberg Memorial Woods, Shelter, 6100 U.S. Route 224. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

13 TUESDAY Hands On Youth: Pioneer Dancing Put on your dancing shoes and learn how people in the 19th century danced. Those who sign up will learn how to dance the Virginia Reel, Spanish Waltz, Gay Gordon, and more. Light refreshments will be served. Participants need to wear 21st century clothing and comfortable shoes. Please no hoop skirts or ball gowns. Participants are required to be ages 8 and up and need to register with an adult companion. Register by Monday, August 12. 6-8pm. $4. Oakwoods Nature Preserve,”Doc” Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

14 WEDNESDAY Carnival - Bring the whole family to have some fun at this carnival sponsored by the Camp Fire Northwest Ohio. There will be cotton candy, mascots, carnival games, music, door prizes and more. 5:30-7:30pm. Free. Riverside Park Waterfront and Waterside, on the volley ball courts across from Riverside Pool, 231 McManness Ave. 419-422-5415. www.campfirenwohio.com 18

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Prairies for Families - Find out what makes prairies so spectacular and how Oakwoods is special for having one. A PowerPoint program will take place at 7pm followed by a hike out to explore Oakwoodâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s prairie. After the hike, there will be activities in the Discovery Center. 7pm. Free. Oakwoods Nature Preserve,â&#x20AC;?Docâ&#x20AC;? Phillips Discovery Center, 1400 Oakwoods Ln. 419-425-7275. www.hancockparks.com

17 SATURDAY Backstreet Festival - This annual favorite includes an antique car show, quilt show, antique vendors, and fun & games for kids of all ages! 12-1pm. Free. Hancock Historical Museum, 422 West Sandusky St. 419-423-4433. www.hancockhistoricalmuseum.org

$4, students; Free, youth 5 & under, OHS Members & U.S. Military (Active Duty). Fort Meigs, 29100 W. River Rd. Perrysburg. 419-874-4121. www.fortmeigs.org

28 WEDNESDAY Hancock County Fair - The fair features traditional livestock judging, baked good auctions, horse shows and rides. Gospel sings, exhibits by the University of Findlay Equestrian programs, a cheer expo and a cookie eating contest to continue the fun. August 28-September 2. Open daily from 8am-10pm. $7 / Free, Uniformed Military. Hancock County Fairgrounds, 1017 E. Sandusky St. 419429-7344. www.hancockfairgrounds.com

20 TUESDAY Sandusky County Fair - Experience all your fair favoritesâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;agricultural & livestock competitions and exhibits, rides, games, carnival foodâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;and other activities like the Great Lake Timber Show, Kachunga and the Alligator Show and more! Tuesday & Wednesday are Family Days with free admission until 2pm. Visit website for full schedule. August 20-25. $8 a day / Week passes available. Sandusky County Agricultural Society, 712 North St., Fremont. 419-332-5604. www.sanduskycountyfair.com

24 SATURDAY Life in Early Ohio - Blacksmithing, coopering, and tinsmithing are just a few historic skills that are considered lost arts today. In 1813 they were common skills learned by tradesmen. See historic trades and skills and learn about a different side of life in early Ohio. August 24-25. 9:30am-5pm. $8 adults; $7, seniors;

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