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Hobby Horse Insider: Q&A with Kristin Darnall-Titov
HOBBY HORSE INSIDER: How to be Good at Not Winning An Interview with Kristin Darnall-Titov, CEO of Hobby Horse Clothing Company
WORDS BY KRYSTA PAFFRATH | PHOTOS BY KIRSTIE MARIE PHOTOGRAPHY
Kristin Darnall-Titov, CEO of Hobby Horse Clothing Company, has unique views on “not winning”. One would think that with over $130,000 in NRHA earnings including multiple aged event championships and two NRHA Non Pro Futurity Reserve Championships, she would flush out the non-wins. However, she claims learning to fall short is just as important as learning to win.
WHAT IS ONE THING THAT EVER ONE SHOULD KNOW GOING INTO A COMPETITION?
“Not winning happens to everyone. We tend to only see the wins and shining moments on social media, but everyone has had bad days, bad runs, and spells of nonwinning. Always remember that it happens to the very best, and it is going to happen to you as well.”
HOW CAN PEOPLE MOVE PAST NOT WINNING TO BETTER THEMSELVES AND THEIR MINDSET?
“Don’t dwell on failure — learn from it. I could think about each time I was a non-winner and be disappointed. Or I could move on from it with the lessons it taught me. With each time you don’t win, there is a lesson in it for you. You will be more prepared for the next challenge and will be able to pull from the new knowledge when you need it most.”
WHAT IS ONE THING YOU WISH YOU HAD KNOWN WHEN YOU STARTED COMPETING?
“Not to take things personally. It is easy to focus on your nonwinning and let it get you down. The key is to review the run one time (ideally with an objective third party) and discuss what went well and what didn’t. Take your learnings and figure out how to incorporate them into your next show. Then let the rest go.”
WHAT IS SOMETHING COMPETITORS SHOULD PRACTICE AFTER EVERY SHOW REGARDLESS OF THE OUTCOME?
“Stay positive. Don’t keep negative thoughts in your head. Tell yourself what you will do next time instead of focusing on what not to do. Don’t tell yourself to not run short. Instead, tell yourself, to run long. Negativity doesn’t help anyone.”
HOW CAN COMPETITORS SUPPORT EACH OTHER?
“Be a supportive friend to everyone. Don’t let your non-winning get in the way of you supporting your friends and fellow competitors. Whether you are a cheerleader, moral support, or help them in their routine, don’t let non-winning get in the way. At the end of the day people won’t remember you by your success in the show pen, they will remember who you were outside of it as well.”
