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WATCHING ATHLETES winning competitions is always inspiring, ^OL[OLY P[»Z [OL ÄYZ[ WLYZVU [V JYVZZ the line in the London marathon, the champions in the football league or more recently the medallists in the Invictus Games. Their determination and stamina is tremendous and yet we rarely see the journey leading up to the competition, which for many is usually a very tough one. For Invictus Games rower Cowan Botha (page 8), and many like him, his route to the Games came at a high price and he had to battle through emotional and mental challenges alongside the physical training to reach his goals. We all face challenges in our lives and ^L [HJRSL [OLT PU KPɈLYLU[ ^H`Z 0U this issue of Contact Cowan is among several people who share their stories of how their faith in God has helped them through some of the ‘mountains’ VM KPɉJ\S[` PU [OLPY SP]LZ Ex-soldier Nigel Baldwin (page 6) tells his extraordinary story of being one of the survivors in a plane crash in 1989 and how it almost wrecked his life. He explains how God didn’t abandon him and although he tried to run away from his problems, it was his discovery of a relationship with a living God that turned his life around and saved both him and his family. >OPSL [OVZL PU [OL TPSP[HY` HYL VɈ KVPUN OLYVPJ [OPUNZ P[ JHU IL Q\Z[ HZ KPɉJ\S[ for their partners left behind. RAF wife, Tricia Holley (page 10), shares how she found her husband’s absences hard to cope with and, in times of desperation God’s promise that He will provide for our needs has been one of the rocks that has kept her steady through the storms of separation. 0 OVWL `V\ ÄUK [OLZL HY[PJSLZ HUK V\Y regular columns encourage you to hold onto God’s promises whatever the future holds.

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contents HMS BULWARK to the rescue charting the navy’s humanitarian response

Faith in the aftermath how a soldier found faith after a plane crash

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Journey to the Games - a rower rediscovers his faith after injury

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hello - goodbye one RAF wife’s perspective on being apart

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regulars Owen’s blog Martin’s memo life with Katie Kyle book reviews caption competition

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from the Letter to HMS BULWARK Archbishop of Canterbury, Justin Welby: “To see the reports of the nate fes pro sional and compassio S HM of w way in which the cre cue res the in ed act Bulwark has is a and care of so many people e hav You e. cause for genuine prid of ns itio trad t bes performed in the like to the Royal Navy, and I would H[PVU TPY VɈLY `V\ T` WLYZVUHS HK s for yer pra of for that and assure rk.” wo ing tinu con r all you

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Commander Engineer of HMS BULWARK, Mark Barton writes about his eventful year with the ship, which included an unexpected rescue operation in the middle of the Mediterranean... A YEAR ago I joined HMS BULWARK as the Commander Engineer – which was somewhat unexpected. I have had a very varied career that has involved several experiences of working to move peace forward, from organising a peace JVUMLYLUJL MVY [OL )VZUPHU JVUÅPJ[ [V working out of Mogadishu trying to help the government there rebuild, but I had not expected to still be racking up sea time at my age and seniority. The original programme was balanced and interesting with the Gallipoli commemorations followed by a series of exercises in the Mediterranean - then home for maintenance and summer leave. But all was to change. As we completed the commemorations at Gallipoli, we heard a number of lives were lost at ZLH VɈ 3PI`H HUK [OL 7YPTL 4PUPZ[LY

committed BULWARK to operations there. Our visit to Istanbul was cancelled. However, the Royal Navy did what it is so good at and changed role to a JVTWSL[LS` KPɈLYLU[ [HZR >OPSZ[ HU` ZOPW is legally liable to respond to a call for an incident at sea under SOLAS (Safety of Life At Sea) regulations, it is not usual to be deliberately put in an area where this is expected to occur. So we dashed across the Mediterranean ]PH H X\PJR Z[VW PU *YL[L [V VɊVHK the armoured vehicles and take on O\THUP[HYPHU Z[VYLZ ;OLU ^L ^LYL VɈ to Sicily joining up with 814 Naval Air Squadron and embarking two troops of 45 Commando to provide security manpower. We also quickly embarked various specialists to assist including cultural specialists and linguists and an

LUOHUJLTLU[ [V V\Y TLKPJHS Z[HɈ ZV [OH[ we could man each landing craft. Now whether the government was right to task us is something that you will have your personal view on, but it was a role that BULWARK was extremely well equipped to undertake. The survivors were usually on board either wooden ÄZOPUN Z[`SL ]LZZLSZ ^OPJO OLSK ZL]LYHS hundred people, or in giant rubber PUÅH[HISL AVKPHJZ OVSKPUN HYV\UK >OPSL LHJO YLZJ\L ^HZ KPɈLYLU[ BULWARK had the huge advantage of carrying Landing Craft Utility (LCU) which could lower their ramps to below the KLJR VM [OL NPHU[ AVKPHJZ HUK [OLYLMVYL enable an almost dry transfer and then

energy bar and water and then try and establish basic details (name, nationality and whether or not they were minors), give clothes if needed and a blanket if hosting overnight. Medical treatment was available and many came forward seeking help, usually for illnesses from years ago or for medications you would normally expect a person to carry for themselves. They would then lie down and go to sleep. The next day they would become chattier. Many talked to each other in groups, possibly formed on the journey. The majority were men, although there were several women and a few children. A high percentage of the women were pregnant. While we had various shipborne rumours regarding

the concept of a red zone and green zone. Any area is regarded as green until it becomes used by survivors at which point it becomes red. All personnel within the red zone need to wear Personal Protection Equipment (PPE) which, depending on their role, includes a facemask, gloves and separate coveralls. On leaving the zone all personnel go through a decontamination process. If you had smelt the stench you would have realised the need for this precaution. We were not the only vessel conducting this work, but we were by far the best equipped and even the vessels operated by charities worked closely with us

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drive into the ship to [HRL [OLT VɈ HNHPU ]PH H KY` [YHUZMLY [HRL [OLT VɈ HNHPU ]PH H KY` [YHUZMLY When we picked up the survivors many were dehydrated and exhausted and some were very unclean. Many had nothing other than what they were standing up in. They rarely had any luggage. On board we would medically triage them, search them, remove weapons (usually home made knives for self protection) and drugs, give them an

their giving birth, including one about twins called Gull and Able, we did have one birth on board and then one lady who went into labour and was landed via helicopter. We routinely exercise conducting a NonCombatant Evacuation Operation (NEO) that assumes people can be distributed around the ship, in this operation it was necessary to keep the survivors segregated. It is important to provide self-protection for the ship’s company so that illness does not sweep the ship. This led to the adoption of the protection principle that the Italian Navy uses, with

sometimes transferring their rescued survivors to us for safe transit to land. This was as directed by the Italian authorities and would be somewhere in Italy or Sicily and there we would pass the survivors over to the Red Cross. We then would quickly reset and return to the area of likely further incidents. While the work was repetitive, it was well within our skill set and capabilities. The ship held up well, despite erroneous press reports to the contrary, and overall we dealt with rescuing 4797 survivors without injuring or losing a single one. At one time we had nearly 1200 on board so no wonder we had to keep them in a (continued on page 9)

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after the crash... Ex infantry soldier Nigel Baldwin recalls the night he was on board a plane that crashed into the motorway and how God stepped into his life in the aftermath... “BRACE, BRACE, brace...” those were the last words 20-year-old Nigel Baldwin heard before he bent his head towards the seat in front of him on British Midland ÅPNO[ )+ 4PU\[LZ LHYSPLY MLHYM\S that they were going to crash, he had THKL Z\YL OPZ HYT` 0+ JHYK ^HZ [V OHUK and was recalling the emergency drills he’d been trained in for an incident in Northern Ireland. Immediately after the plane hit the embankment, Nigel said he blacked out. “I remember being in a pitch black room,” he said. “It was as if I was suspended face down looking into nowhere and it was silent. Then it was like someone switched the volume and lights back on and I started to hear all the screams and smells around me. I had blood running down my face like water and I couldn’t see. It was like I’d just come out of the water, it was swimming down my face.”

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When he cleared the blood from his eyes he could see the whole interior of the plane had disintegrated and been blown out and wires were hanging down all [OL ZLH[Z (Z [OL ÄYL ZLY]PJL ILNHU [V appear he tried to move and realized he was paralyzed from the waist down. An infantry soldier, Nigel was on his way back to duty in Northern Ireland with the Queen’s Regiment after a weekend nd WSHUUPUN OPZ ^LKKPUN ^P[O OPZ ÄHUJtL L

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/LH[OLY ^OV OHK ÅV^U IHJR VU HUV[OLY plane a few hours earlier. Nigel had joined the army at 17 and had started his tour on his 18th birthday. “I joined the army partly to get away from all the problems at home with my parent’s divorce and I loved it. I was one of only 19 recruits out of 53 to get through the IHZPJ [YHPUPUN 0 ^HZ ]LY` Ä[ HUK WHY[ of a team – I suppose we thought we were invincible.” Nigel had been due to be promoted soon after the crash and was on his second tour in Northern Ireland.

Although the plane came down on an embankment of the M1 not far from Nottingham, it was en route to Belfast and Nigel mistakenly thought they had crashed in Northern Ireland. After telling [OL Ă„YLTLU OL ^HZ PU [OL TPSP[HY` HUK wanted to help, he managed despite his injuries to get out of his seat and push it forward to free the woman behind him whose legs were broken. “I laid her on my chest and pulled myself over the back of the seats with my arms, then a Ă„YLTHU [VVR OLY VɈ TL š OL L_WSHPULK “I wanted to stay and help; it must have been the adrenaline keeping me going and my army training kicking in.â€? When he eventually allowed the emergency service to help him his biggest fear was that he would be taken to the wrong hospital in Belfast and put himself in further danger from the

to bring up their young daughter alone. Nigel married again and moved to Spain with his new wife Regan, where his bouts of drinking continued. One night he met a Spanish Christian called Alfonso trying to recruit leaders for his church children’s clubs. It was a meeting that changed his life. “I wore many masks to cover up what was really going on,� he explained. “I was very wary of Alfonso because I knew he was a Christian, but I agreed to go for a beer with him. I ended up leaving the restaurant that evening having had an experience of the Holy Spirit and my life changed from that moment onwards. It was a like a miracle.� Nigel found his life turned around when he became a Christian. His wife Regan also gave her life to God and the whole family, including their four children,

admit I need help. I couldn’t talk to my mates after the crash because I didn’t want to seem weak.â€? Nigel has a website called hopeintheaftermath.com where he shares his faith and his life story. He said, “I was listening to a song from Hillsong called ‘Aftermath’ and in the lyrics it says, ‘you lifted me out of the wreckage’. Hearing that made me think of how I had been lifted out physically by the rescuers, but emotionally God had lifted me out of the wreckage I was trapped in‌ since I NH]L T` SPML [V [OL 3VYK 0 OH]LUÂť[ Z\ɈLYLK emotionally.â€? Working with other Christians in CVM who have been through traumatic experiences, Nigel hopes to write down some of things he’s learned to help others. He says, “I’m open about my faith

emotionally God had lifted me out of the wreckage I was trapped in 09( /L JH\NO[ OVSK VM H WVSPJL VɉJLY and told her he was military personnel and needed a police escort. “When she told me we were on the M1 I stopped panicking and that’s when I knew I was in safe hands and I went unconscious.â€? Nigel’s pelvis had broken in four places and he had injuries to his face, chest, knees and ankles. He was in hospital for months with his physical injuries but he says it was the emotional and psychological injuries that were the worst. A couple of years later Nigel faced further tragedy. Having been medically discharged from the army and on heavy medication he wasn’t coping well and was drinking heavily. His wife Heather ^HZ HSZV Z\ɈLYPUN HS[OV\NO OL KPKUÂť[ recognize it, and she took her own life while he was out one night, leaving him

began to attend church. They moved back to the UK in 2007. Nigel now works as a courier and also actively shares his faith around the UK and abroad. He is part of the ministry team for the East of England with Christian Vision for Men (CVM) and is passionate about sharing faith with ordinary blokes.

now and I’m passionate about sharing the gospel with ordinary blokes in a way that they can relate to. Statistics have ZOV^U OV^ PUÅ\LU[PHS TLU JHU IL PU [OLPY families when they become Christians – 93% of men introduced to Jesus also ZLL [OLPY ^PML HUK JOPSKYLU ÄUK MHP[O That’s what happened in my family.�

He says God has given him a new direction and changed his life, helping him have the courage to face up to the awful experiences in the past. “I’d buried a lot of things. It’s almost as if you barge past them‌but someday you’ve got to go back and pick up the pieces. I’ve noticed that pattern with my army mates too. If I hadn’t got the right help around I don’t think I would be where I am today. My faith has enabled me to swallow my pride (soldiers have massive pride) and

On his website he writes, ‘I don’t know where God will have me go next but I know it is to contribute to setting the lost and hurting free from the bondage of this world by sharing the Gospel of Christ.’ For more details see: http:// hopeintheaftermath.com and for details on CVM see: http://cvm.org.uk

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Game c Invictus Games bronze medallist 2014, Cowan Botha, was back competing again in the 2016 games. Although he narrowly missed out on a medal this year, he says the Games are one of the best things that have happened to him… that, and his renewed Christian faith. COWAN WON a bronze medal for rowing in the 2014 Games which he said was an immense personal achievement just a few months after being told he wasn’t going to get better and was to be discharged from the army on medical grounds, following further surgery and rehabilitation. A former Lance Corporal in the Royal +YHNVVU .\HYKZ *V^HU OHK ZLY]LK PU the military for nine years completing operational tours in Iraq and Afghanistan. But during pre-deployment training for a tour to Afghanistan, he took part in a weighted run. He explained, “Unfortunately for me, that was the day my life changed. Whilst running with

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my squad down a steep gravel track, I slipped and fell. An ultrasound scan, MRI and MRA revealed that I had torn the labrum in my hip and that a para-labral cyst had also formed. ¸+LZWP[L Z[PSS ULLKPUN Z\YNLY` 0 KLWSV`LK to Afghanistan in October 2012 with my regiment. All I wanted to do was HKK ]HS\L HUK OLSW T` WLLYZ +LZWP[L being on constant pain medication I was motivated by the thought that if I could OLSW [OLT H]VPK Q\Z[ VUL 0,+ P[ ^HZ worth my being there. “Upon my return to the UK in March 0 \UKLY^LU[ [OL ÄYZ[ VM [OYLL surgeries. The whole experience was

extremely testing and very challenging mentally. When I had my medical board and was told that my military career was over it absolutely crushed me. Knowing that all the pain I had been through to try and stay in the army had meant nothing was very hard to overcome.” Before leaving South Africa and joining the army Cowan had been very involved in his local church and still continued to attend church in England, also attending services while he was out in Iraq. But he admitted he had gradually been drifting away from God. He said, “After my initial injury and surgery I don’t think that my relationship ^P[O .VK ^HZ HɈLJ[LK PU MHJ[ 0 [OPUR 0 spoke to Him more, just kind of hoping He would listen and help me get better. Following my medical board in early 2014 when I was told that I would be discharged, I probably pushed God away (along with everyone else around me as I

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changer was quite hurt and upset) and wondered what I had done to deserve this. I wondered why it was happening to me.” +\YPUN OPZ YLOHIPSP[H[PVU ^OLU OL ^HZ at a very low point in Headley Court, he met another injured solider, AFCU member, Bruce Ekman. They instantly hit P[ VɈ HUK ILJHTL MYPLUKZ *V^HU ZHPK “Bruce really looked after me and helped me out of the hole I had found myself in. I started my upward spiral and started to believe there was something more after the army and that maybe God had another plan for me.” Cowan joined the Help for Heroes triathlon team and also participated in Ironman 2014 as part of an injured serviceman relay team. He said, “It was a huge privilege to compete and really boosted my morale.” Towards the end of a very emotional year, he was selected to represent Great Britain in the 2014 Invictus Games. He said, “It was an amazing feeling to represent my country and compete in the games and even better to win a bronze TLKHS MVY YV^PUN MVY HSS VM T` LɈVY[Z ;OL 0U]PJ[\Z .HTLZ PUZWPYLK TL [V ÄUK myself again and look forward instead of backwards at what I had left behind. I believe it was God’s plan for me to be in the 2014 Games at the time when I needed it most and it helped me to instil pride back in myself and repair the bonds in my family life. I was completely transformed after the Games and I believe that Prince Harry and his vision to help the injured serviceman community was God’s plan to get me on the right path.”

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Competing for the country he served, he said, was a major motivational factor and also to be competing with the best injured service personnel out there was a privilege. “When you’re a soldier you’re so proud,” he explained, “But when you leave the forces a lot of that pride goes. -PNO[PUN [V ^PU VU [OL ZWVY[Z ÄLSK PZ H very similar feeling to being a soldier and it gave me something else to focus on. It was good to be part of a team in the Games and be alongside service men and women again.” “I don’t know what would have happened to me if I had stayed in the army, but maybe God does and knows that I had done my duty and it was time MVY TL [V [HRL H KPɈLYLU[ YVHK HUK IL with my family.” Cowan and his wife Samantha, who was his childhood sweetheart in South Africa, celebrated their wedding in South Africa in March. It was also a turning point for them both in terms of their Christian faith. The vicar helping them prepare for the big day asked them to think about their lives and where they were going. Cowan said, “We want to bring our children up in a really good environment and that became a light bulb moment MVY \Z 0»T H ÄYT ILSPL]LY [OH[ .VK W\[Z things in your path – whether you take [OLT \W VY UV[ PZ H KPɈLYLU[ Z[VY` ¹ *V^HU UV^ ^VYRZ ^P[O [OL -+4 NYV\W PU IT project management and is currently contracted to a construction company. He said he hasn’t given up on getting another medal and hopes to begin training again for the next Invictus Games in Toronto. “I think I’ll give it another go… I can only get better and stronger!”

What a year! And it will certainly be one that I will look back on with huge pride. Directly helping save nearly 5000 lives was hugely satisfying and the fact that we avoided any one being injured or lost was a huge testament to the professionalism of our team. What was really noticeable was that each and everyone had a story to tell as to why they were there. While many falsehoods were stated by some, there were some genuinely moving stories. We had a blind person who no one realised was blind until he was on board. He had got into the boat in Libya and transferred to the landing craft and then onto BULWARK without ever letting others realise.

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Christians carry a divine mandate to love the alien and to welcome the stranger. Our response to human desperation and migration should not be fear, but love. Jesus laid out some of the marks that identify those who are of his kingdom in Matthew 25:35-36. “For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.” Although these may be uncomfortable words it is a good description of the people trying to reach Europe’s shores and those we helped on HMS BULWARK. ࠮ In April Cdr Mark Barton became Chairman of Trustees for the Naval Christian Fellowship

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hello... goodbye RAF wife, Tricia Holley, found her life was a rollercoaster ride of comings and goings, so she found new ways of managing the ups and downs... WHEN TRICIA said, “I do,” she had no idea what kind of life she was marrying PU[V -P]L `LHYZ VU OLY O\ZIHUK +H]PK PZ frequently away and with a toddler and a teenager to care for the comings and goings don’t get any easier… but she has found support in surprising places.

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Tricia was brought up in South Africa and when she was nine years old the family emigrated from South Africa to England. She said, “I became a Kentish lass and went to school in Hythe and Folkestone.” Her father was a commercial pilot and she actually met her future husband +H]PK ^OLU ZOL ÄYZ[ TV]LK [V [OL UK and they found themselves living on the same road and playing in the snow together. “We only realised the connection many years later when we met again,” she said.

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After school Tricia completed a degree in Leicester where she settled for a few years. “I turned away from the Christian faith in which I’d been brought up at around 13 years of age and became very cynical. I’d describe myself as a very hard nut to crack.” But a woman in [OL VɉJL [\YULK V\[ [V IL H *OYPZ[PHU who wouldn’t let her forget God was on her case. “When I realized she was a Christian, I thought, ‘Oh no, I’m trapped here with her’, and she never gave up talking to me about God. When I eventually decided to go back home, she told me it might be a good idea to go to church and maybe go on an Alpha course. I was a single mum with a daughter in tow and I felt like a female version of the prodigal son. When I moved back home I told my mum I’d like to go to church and she was very surprised.” Tricia went on an Alpha course and had a dramatic experience of God and the Holy Spirit. She said, “Everything changed.” A

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week then including him again when he suddenly arrives back after time away. I have a set way of doing things and he will come back like a bomb blast and will KV [OPUNZ JVTWSL[LS` KPɈLYLU[S` ¹ The challenge of adjusting to the ‘hellogoodbye’ lifestyle of a military wife has made Tricia rely more on her faith. “I know I’m in exactly the right place ILJH\ZL +H]PK PZ T` YVJR L]LU [OV\NO

OL JVTLZ HUK NVLZ :VTL[PTLZ 0 ÄUK it hard though. One day when I was particularly struggling, I needed space so I drove down to the sea. I was crying and I said, ‘God I can’t do this. Sometimes he goes away and I don’t know where he is going because he can’t say and I don’t know if he is safe. There’s no consistency.’ Then I was looking at the waves crashing in and I felt God say, ‘Look at the ocean and the waves they come in and they go out, again and again, like the waves I will rebuild you, again and again. ’ I stand on that word every day - I know I can’t be a military wife in my own strength. Tricia said she has found with God’s OLSW UL^ ^H`Z VM JVWPUN ^OPSL +H]PK PZ H^H` :OL ÄUKZ ^H`Z [V OLSW [OLPY ZVU to remember him with photos around the house and talking about him when he’s deployed for long periods. “God helps to keep my heart soft, and stops me from getting hard-hearted and independent. I have to rely on him and this helps me to be a better mum to the children,” she said. Support also comes from a number of sources including colleagues at work, church and her mother. “My mum had the experience of my dad being away a lot as a commercial pilot and she is always a support. There are other people too who I call ‘wise owls’ who encourage me to go onwards and upwards and stop me from wallowing in what’s wrong. At MAF there is someone whose husband was in the military.

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She knows what it’s like and with her encouragement I’ve joined a local military community choir. She has been an incredible support along with the sound advice I get from the pastor and his wife at our church.” Tricia said she is looking forward to [OL M\[\YL ºKVPUN SPML» ^P[O +H]PK I\[ isn’t quite sure what that might bring.

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“What has been good are all the great connections with my work at MAF HUK ^OH[ +H]PK KVLZ PU [OL 9(- >L L]LU MV\UK [OH[ HPK +H]PK OHK SVHKLK VU[V HPYJYHM[ MVY 5LWHS ^HZ [HRLU VɈ I` 4(- Z[HɈ H[ [OL V[OLY LUK +H]PK ÅPLZ OPZ V^U NSPKLY MVY WSLHZ\YL HUK just likes being near planes. It’s funny that I’m now working with an aviation organisation and who knows what the future will bring for us.”

3(:; -90+(@! H [`WPJHSS` OHYYV^PUN KH` in the Kyle household (a friend described it on Facebook as ‘a pretty normal day for Katie Kyle’!). Husband had done the school run for me (yay) so everything was going well, for at least 10 minutes. Just needed to walk the dog. Easy. But on the dog walk, I lost the dog. After screaming T`ZLSM OVHYZL PU H ÄLSK JHSSPUN MVY OPT I admitted defeat and went home, struggling with my 13kg toddler on my back (I reckon I would currently breeze through Marine Commando training). As I let myself into the house, I heard an ominous thud from behind. I turned [V ÄUK V\Y KVN Z[HUKPUN WYV\KS` VU V\Y door mat with his make-up gift, a deer’s head with antlers, perfectly severed from its body. I’m starting to realise why my advanced wrinkle repair serum isn’t working... But at least the dog was back. Just needed to dispose of the head in my hallway. A few days later, a neighbour’s dog found the deer’s stomach. At least no one can describe patch life as dull! The theory is that someone killed the deer and discarded the bits they didn’t want. >OLU 0 ^HZ YLÅLJ[PUN VU [OPZ SH[LY 0 thought how odd it was to leave behind the head and antlers.To my mind, the noblest part of the deer was the part that had been discarded. The following verse came to me, ‘The stone the builders rejected has become the cornerstone’ (Psalm 118:22). This verse describes how humankind rejected Jesus because we didn’t understand the ZPNUPÄJHUJL VM .VK»Z TVZ[ WYLJPV\Z NPM[ to us, His Son. It got me wondering how many of God’s gifts I reject because I don’t realise they are gifts. If I’m honest with myself, I’m often a glass half empty person. Get me on my specialist subjects and I could win

prizes es for moaning: 1. 1 Military housing HUK 4` O\ZIHUK»Z KLWSV`TLU[Z +VU»[ get me started on the dribble I shower under and the ancient heating system that allows my son to claim there’s a monster in his room at bedtime. But is the military house I love to moan about a gift from God that I’m rejecting? If it weren’t for military housing, I wouldn’t live in this beautiful corner of Hampshire, walking my dog around ÄLSKZ NYHJLK ^P[O KLLY 4` O\ZIHUK ^V\SKU»[ ^VYR Ä]L TPU\[LZ H^H` HUK be able to come home at lunchtime. Our children might not go to a leafy Christian school. And the deployments and time apart? I hate them! But when I’m at the chiropractors, feeling the stress of single parenting in my neck and back, exhausted because I don’t sleep ^LSS HSVUL .VK ÄSSZ [OL ]VPK SLM[ I` T` husband in amazing ways and my faith in Him is strengthened. The psalm goes on, ‘The Lord has done this and it is marvellous in our eyes.’ (Psalm 118:23) My challenge to myself is to see more of the marvellous things God is doing in this funny military life. Katie Kyle is married to Jack, a Chinook helicopter pilot. She is a parttime solicitor and enjoys writing and dog walking.They live at RAF Odiham, where their three children and Labrador regularly run rings round them!

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and time, heat and cold, and all the colours and tastes, and all the animals and vegetables, are things that God ‘made up out of His head’ as a man makes up a story. But it also thinks that a great many things have gone wrong with the world that God made and that God insists, and insists very loudly, on our putting them right again.” In the context of a world scarred by the LɈLJ[Z VM ]PVSLU[ YLSPNPV\Z L_[YLTPZT JHSSPUN *OYPZ[PHUP[` ºH ÄNO[PUN YLSPNPVU» seems unhelpful at best. But I think it is spot on. Lewis here is not referring to ÄNO[PUN PU H TPSP[HY` ZLUZL I\[ UVY PZ OL talking about a purely ‘spiritual’ concept. Rather, he is talking about Christianity as a religion not only to be believed but to be practised. When we look around us and see pride and wrongdoing and injustice, we should not shrug our shoulders and say ‘It is what it is’, but we

Instead, it is a recognition that since God is not a distant deity sitting on a cloud but is in fact active in creation, who became human to die in order to redeem humanity, we are called to be active in serving him and working for his purposes.The words of James 2.14-17 speak for themselves: “What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, ‘Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,’ but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead”.

being a Christian in a broken world is a daunting task as the church looks to make itself a more welcoming environment for newcomers. Those hymns look unlikely to make a comeback, and I must confess that I am not altogether disappointed by this. However, I would suggest that if we eliminate militaristic language entirely when talking about the gospel then I think that our understanding of it is severely hampered. One of my favourite quotes in this regard comes from C.S. Lewis, who fought in the trenches in WW1 with the Somerset Light Infantry, (one of the antecedent regiments of [OL 9PÅLZ ^P[O ^OVT 0 OH]L [OL NVVK fortune to serve). In his book Mere Christianity he writes, ¸-VY *OYPZ[PHUP[` PZ H ÄNO[PUN YLSPNPVU 0[ thinks God made the world - that space

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should do something about it. There are two sides to this. There is the internal aspect, where we look at ourselves and realise that we fall short VM ^OH[ .VK L_WLJ[Z VM \Z ;OL ºÄNO[» PZ sometimes with ourselves, as we try and pretend that our character failings are simply part of who we are, and mistake God’s forgiveness for divine apathy. Our lives will be immeasurably richer if we do not shy away from our shortcomings but confront them, and ask for God’s grace and help in overcoming them. There is also the external aspect. I disagree with the modern narrative that religious faith is a private matter, because a faith that has zero bearing on how I live my life is no faith at all. This is not an excuse for bigotry and intolerance.

Whilst being a Christian in a broken world is a daunting task, not least because of our own struggles, we have the assurance of God’s help. As the words of Onward, Christian Soldiers have it, “we have Christ’s own promise, and that can never fail”.

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Æying into a storm HI AGAIN. What is this weather all about? For goodness sake we even had snow in May ‌ bonkers. Of course we experienced all sorts of weather at sea. Some incredibly beautiful calm days watching the sun go down over a tranquil blue sea to full on hurricanes where we literally battened down the hatches. I’d like to spin a dit about one storm in particular ‌. ;OL ZOPW /4: :/,--0,3+ ^HZ VU H West Indies deployment heading towards Barbados for a well-deserved two week Z[HUKVɈ PL Z\U RPZZLK ILHJOLZ HUK Y\T cocktails ‌ when a hurricane hit. It was a particularly bad one, called Hurricane Mitch and was the most powerful and destructive hurricane of the 1998 Atlantic hurricane season, with maximum sustained winds of 180 mph. It killed 19,325 people across regions of Central America, with Honduras particularly badly hit. Now, I had chosen to take my TPK KLWSV`TLU[ Z[HUK VɈ PU -SVYPKH ^P[O the family, rather than Barbados. I had Ă…V^U VɈ MYVT 1HTHPJH HUK ^HZ K\L [V re-join in Grand Cayman before the ship headed to Barbados, where I would be on duty for a lot of the time. I left my family in Orlando and was PU 4PHTP HPYWVY[ ^HP[PUN MVY T` Ă…PNO[ to Grand Cayman. There was a lot of activity and everyone seemed on edge. 0 ^HZ HZRLK PM 0 JV\SK Ă…` LHYS` [OH[ ^HZ no problem of course so I was ushered straight through to the departure lounge. There were a whole lot of men there, no women, and all were ex-pats who clearly knew each other. They immediately told me that the island was being evacuated, as a hurricane was about to hit. They had brought their families to the mainland and were heading back to

look after property and other things. All VM H Z\KKLU 0 ^HZ UV[ [OH[ RLLU [V Ă…` ;OL` HZRLK ^O` 0 ^HZ Ă…`PUN V\[ [OLYLHUK ^OLU 0 ZHPK 0 ^HZ YL QVPUPUN :/,--0,3+ they told me it was not there, and it had sailed that morning. It was just getting better‌ heading into a hurricane and no ship! I arrived at Grand Cayman, and sure enough the ship was nowhere to be seen. By now there were a few other members of the ship’s company waiting and we were all in a hotel down near the port. The wind was getting up ^OLU ^L Ă„UHSS` ZH^ [OL ZOPW JVTL V]LY the horizon and the seaboat was sent to get us. I was never so pleased to see the ship to be honest! (They had sailed the day before to answer an SOS call MYVT H [HURLY [OH[ OHK Z\Z[HPULK H Ă„YL Of course it is often safer for a ship in a bad storm to be at sea ‌ you can risk serious danger of being trashed alongside a jetty, especially some of the smaller jetties. We went to sea. It was rough out at sea, but hey we were paid for it, as the hurricane came through, but the news coming in was not good. Once the hurricane had passed we joined the huge rescue operations. The power of the storm was incredible and the human cost very high. But in the midst of all the devastation and loss we were involved in an amazing rescue. We were searching for a ship, in fact it was a luxury yacht called the Fantome, that could not be found (it had sadly been lost at sea). The US Coastguard had alerted us to some wreckage that may have been from the missing ship, so our OLSPJVW[LY Ă…L^ [V OH]L H JSVZLY SVVR HUK saw that it was the roof of a hut, really just a tangle of branches, but clinging to it was a woman. This was 6 days after [OL O\YYPJHUL OP[ HUK TPSLZ VɈ [OL

coast. The winch-man went down and W\SSLK OLY VɈ HUK IYV\NO[ OLY IHJR [V the ship. She was not in a good way but she survived. A fantastic story of hope and survival in amongst the tragedy. Whenever I think back on this it reminds me of the rescue mission of Jesus for each of us‌ As a Christian I believe that all of us have gone against God’s ways, and the only way back into ‘relationship’ with God is through Jesus ‌ he came to earth to ‘rescue’ us ‌ many of us think we are doing OK and all is good, SPML PZ Ă„UL I\[ ^L UL]LY RUV^ ^OLU a ‘hurricane’ will come and tear our lives upside down. The lady was lucky, I\[ P[ JV\SK OH]L ILLU H ]LY` KPɈLYLU[ story. If you want to know more about Jesus’ rescue mission give us a shout I` LTHPS VɉJL'HMJ\ VYN VY KYVW PU[V the chaplaincy and have a chat with the Bish ‌ don’t wait for the storm to hit ‌ Jesus can of course still rescue you in the storm, but why wait? You can read more about the rescue during Hurricane Mitch on line at http:// news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/207607.stm Until next time ‌ Cheers and blessings.

by Steve Martin, Operations Director Christian Vision for Men

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‘HAPPY BIRTHDAY’ your Majesty AS THE nation, countries around the world and members of the armed forces join to celebrate the Queen’s 90th birthday this year, many have focused on her life of service and also her Christian faith. A new book produced by the Bible Society, London Institute for Contemporary Christianity (LICC) and HOPE, pays tribute to Her Majesty in her 90th year and looks at how her trust in Jesus Christ has shaped her life and work. The Servant Queen and the King she serves, by Mark Greene and Catherine Butcher, includes a forward by the Queen in which she wrote, “I have been – and remain – very grateful to you for your prayers and to God for His steadfast love. I have indeed seen His faithfulness.â€? She invites readers to QVPU OLY PU YLĂ…LJ[PUN VU [OL ^VYKZ VM OLY father King George VI in his Christmas +H` IYVHKJHZ[ PU ‘I said to the man who stood at the Gate of Year “Give me a light that I may treat safely into the unknown.â€? And he replied, “Go out into the darkness, and put your hand into the hand of God. That shall be to you better than light, and safer than a known way.â€? The book, which also has an accompanying assembly resource for children, is an illustrated record of her life as a ‘the longest reigning monarch in British history, mother and

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grandmother‌. a senior citizen who works over 40 hours a week, never went to university but has been the adviser HUK JVUĂ„KHU[L [V )YP[PZO 7YPTL Ministers, and who is Supreme Governor of the Church of England and yet feeds her own dogs.’ It states that the Queen is a woman who has looked in two directions throughout her life – ‘upwards towards God, and outwards towards her people.’ It quotes her own words, which express her strong and personal faith in God, and it claims her Christian faith is the secret of her consistency of character and extraordinary contribution to the nation and the world. Quoting her words in a broadcast in 2002, “I know just how much I rely on my faith to guide me through the good times and the bad. Each day is new beginning. I know that the only way to live my life is to try to do what is right, to take the long view, to give of my best in all the day brings, and to put m my trust in God‌ I draw strength ffrom the message o of hope in the C Christian gospel.â€? Th The book is de designed to be a conversation-starter co and a gift from an chu churches to their loca local communities and schools and from individuals to friends, colleagues, or frien fami family. LICC’s website says says, ‘We hope you’ll Ă„UK P[ Ă„UK P[ LUJV\YHNPUN inspir inspiring and easy to pass on.’ For further details and how to order your copy see: https://www.cpo.org.uk/range. HZW_&YHUNL$ WYVK$= );

What is the Armed Forces’ Christian Union (AFCU)? The AFCU is a British military Christian fellowship, tri-service, for all ranks and open to all Christian denominations. It is a fellowship of Christians who wish to grow their faith and share it with others. The basis of membership is prayer and a willingness to pray. Who can join? All who serve in regular or reserve sections of the Royal Navy, Royal Marines, Army or Royal Air Force join as Serving Members. All others, including those who have retired, join as Associate Members. Those serving in foreign armed forces are welcome as ‘honorary’ members. >OH[ HYL [OL ILULĂ„[Z& All members receive the AFCU *VU[HJ[ THNHaPUL 5L^Z =PL^Z and other literature and access to information and resources on the web and the App. The AFCU has a network of Christian contacts across the Armed Forces and members have access to this address list. The AFCU holds teaching events, days and weekends, and holidays. Serving members can link to an Associate prayer group for regular prayer. What does it cost? No subscription, but members are asked to give as they can. Cost of administering each member is about ÂŁ30 per year. How do I join? You can apply for membership on the AFCU website www.afcu.org.uk by clicking on the ‘Join’ button. Or you can email VɉJL'HMJ\ VYN \R VY WOVUL [OL VɉJL MVY H TLTILYZOPW form.

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