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by Rip & Marsha Naquin-Delain Email: marsha@ripandmarsha.com

The Chevron NO/AIDS Walk will Celebrate its 26th Year with Festival For Life in Audubon Park NO/AIDS Task Force, now a division of CrescentCare, will celebrate its 26th Chevron NO/AIDS WALK on Saturday, Sept. 26 in Audubon Park with the traditional walk at 8:30 a.m. followed by a new Festival for Life celebration.

The annual walk serves as a fundraiser for the NO/AIDS Task Force and the organization’s efforts to combat the spread of HIV/AIDS in the New Orleans community and surrounding areas. All donations stay within the service territory to provide testing, treatment, prevention and counseling to individuals and families affected by HIV/AIDS. Partnered with Chevron, the Festival for Life will follow the WALK to celebrate those who are living longer, healthier lives due to the medical advancements of HIV testing and treatment.

Registration for the 2015 Chevron NO/AIDS Walk and Festival for Life will begin at 8:30 a.m. in Audubon Park. The Honorable South band will play at noon, accompanied by food, drinks and entertainment for the whole family. Christian Le Blanc of “The Young and the Restless” and New Orleans tv host Chriss Knight, will serve as the honorary chairs, with a guest appearance by fellow Y&R cast member and comedian, Sean Carrigan, who plays the character “Stitch” on the show.

To register for the Walk and to make a donation, visit www.noaidswalk.com.

For more information, call 504.821.2601 ext. 256.

NO/AIDS Task Force has served the New Orleans community for over 30 years to provide hope and care for men, women and families affected by HIV and AIDS. Now a division of CrescentCare, a federally qualified healthcare center, the task force has expanded its service to offer a range of healthcare solutions to anyone and everyone who is seeking healthcare in Greater New Orleans and Southeast Louisiana.

44th Southern Decadence Breaks all Records; Over 180,000 Raking in over $216 Million The 44th Annual Southern Decadence celebration of LGBT+ Life, Music and Culture broke all records bringing in over 180,000 participants Labor Day weekend 2015 in New Orleans. With an economic impact of a whopping $216 million, this will be one for the history books. The economic impact may be much more since the spending average per person is based on a very conservative $1,200. The end of summer circuit weekend is the 5th largest in the city following Mardi Gras, Jazz Fest, Essence Fest, and French Quarter Fest.

Totals from this 44th Annual Southern Decadence celebration have been added to the records kept by the official website, www.SouthernDecadence.com.

Since 1996 the celebration has had a 1 billion, 705 million dollar economic impact on the New Orleans economy, with estimated crowds now totaling over 1 million, 757 thousand.

This year saw another first with five grand marshals leading the festivities including Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLI Steven Mora, Rip Naquin, Marsha Delain, Misti Ates and Frankie "Fierce" Wingerter. This was also the largest parade in the history of Southern Decadence with over 1,000 participates.

And funds raised minus expenses brought in the most money ever for Southern Decadence Charities at over $30,000 for the LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana preserving the past, Louisiana Equality Foundation preserving the

Gay History Month, Natl. Bullying-Prevention Month, Natl. Coming Out Day out Sept. 29; DEADLINE: Tues., Sept. 22

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Amon-Ra's "Girls Gone Broadway" Sept. 20 @ House of Blues The Krewe of Amon-Ra presents it’s annual "Girls Gone Broadway: Welcome to the Cabaret" Sunday, Sept. 20! Cabaret style, it's a spectacular and outrageous evening of performances with lavish costumes, comedy, and more! The event also includes a mega silent auction and has been the highlight of the krewe each and every year! A sumptuous buffet is included in the ticket price. Doors open at 7 p.m. with show starting at 8 p.m.

It's your chance to experience an event from the krewe who has won Gay Mardi Gras Ball of the Year for the past four years and in 2008.

Tickets are available at https:// www.eventbrite.com/d/la--new-orleans/ girls-gone-broadway/?view=list.

Amon-Ra Community Sponsors include: GrandPre's, Four Seasons, John Groth II, Golden Lantern, Wood Enterprises, Corner Pocket, Formal Connection, Ambush, Orlando Aloe, Lynda & James, and House of Blues. Info: www.KreweOfAmonRa.com.

Louisiana Gubernatorial Election Set for Oct. 24 The Louisiana Gubernatorial Primary election is set for Saturday, October 24.

The last day to register to vote is Wednesday, September 23. Early voting will last from October 10 through October 17.

The General Election is set for Saturday, November 21.

Nine candidates for the office have qualified with the Secretary of State’s Office: Scott Angelle (R), Beryl Billiot (I), Jay Dardenne (R), Cary Deaton (D), John Bell Edwards (D), Jeremy Odom (I), Eric Paul Orgeron (I), S.L. Simpson (D), David Vitter (R).

LA Gubernatorial Candidate Forum New Orleans, LA – Campaign for Healthcare for Everyone—Louisiana will host a gubernatorial candidates’ forum on Tuesday, Sept. 29 at 6 p.m. at the Professional Schools Building (PSB), Georges Auditorium, located at 2601 Gentilly Blvd., New Orleans.

The League of Women Voters New Orleans (LWVNO) is one of the local sponsors of the forum. The public will hear gubernatorial candidates discuss issues

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spotlight feature 41st Southern Decadence Grand Marshals Lead Largest Parade in History of the Holiday Weekend Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLI Steven Mora, Rip Naquin, Marsha Delain, Misti Ates and Frankie "Fierce" Wingerter made history in 2015 leading the largest parade of Southern Decadence. With over 1,000 participants in the parade, and an estimated 40-50,000 along the parade route, it was a spectacle to behold. Much like Elizabeth Taylor's portrayal of Cleopatra arriving in Rome, the grand marshals and their entourages stretched almost two city blocks leading the colorful assortment of gods, goddesses, kings, queens, mermem, mermaids, groups, bands and individuals celebrating Southern Decadence XLIV. It kicked off with the 41st Southern hoped I would leave an imprint in Decadence Parade banner carried by people’s heart and minds as so many of members of the Appletini Review. them have... A special moment I will >The youngest Grand Marshal never forget is when my Co-GM Frankie Frankie "Fierce" Wingerter, as King Fierce and I went to do the toast at of the Mermen, kicked off the parade GrandPre’s... There were several of with his entourage, many scantily clad. the previous GMs there and they came They included Tony Leggio, Topher JB, up and congratulated us and shared in Carla Rabasca, Keith Hernandez, Jody our toast... And of course, the moment Cotes, Jason Emrick, Monique we turned on Bourbon and St. Ann, was Michaels, Matt Feline, Derick Lindsey, amazing!!! All I can say is thanks to James Roberson, Mr. Gay Canada everyone who did their part, both big 2012 Brian Webb, Nick Helmer, Michael and small, to make this parade a huge Bingham, Jasmine Essex, Joshua success on so many levels... Thanks Arnouville, Tiffany Alexander, Bradley for the memories..."

Latham and Karli LaCorre. The cos>Grand Marshal Steven Mora tume included back piece by Bruce was next as Posiedon, God of the Sea, Orgeron; leather harness, loin cloth, with an entourage carrying his train and cuffs by Scott Garrett of CUIR; and which was 33.5 feet long, and included lieutenants costumes by Jody Cotes a portion of the historic Sea To Sea and Monique Michaels, with sequin Rainbow Flag which was at the Sushorts courtesy of QT Pie. preme Court on June 26th for the hisAccording to Frankie, "My experi- toric court ruling same sex marriage ence leading the parade was the time legal in all 50 states. His costume was of my life. It was a dream of mine as a designed by Elizabeth Zibilich, and inlocal boy to lead the SD parade. Mind cluded the Sea To Sea Rainbow Flag blowing and life changing! Thank you to (section 93 of a 1.25 mile flag created all my lieutenants and entourage. Thank by the originator of the rainbow flag, you to all the former SDGMs for every- Gilbert Baker), in care of Mark thing to make me a better GM. Thank Ebenhoch. His entourage included Chad you Reba Douglas for making me Boutte, Derek and Jon PentonSDGM, and thank you New Orleans for Robicheaux, Amanda Thompson, all the support!!!"

Eugenie Orgeron, Florida State Repre>Grand Marshal Misti Ates as sentative David Richardson, lead plainthe Roman God Mars followed with an tiffs in marriage equality case Florida entourage of Roman Gods and God- Aaron Huntsman and married partner desses. They included lieutenants William Lee Jones, lead plaintiff in Catherine Gaither, Electra City, Philip marriage equality case Alabama Paul Palumbo, Raymond DuBose-La Hard, New Orleans attorney Taetrece Fontaine, Persana Shoulders, and en- Harrison, Joseph and Shannon Cubria tourage Rachel Bufkin, Sharon Barreca, Farris, Clarence Jackson and LouisiSherri Melton, Marshall Harris, June ana Equality Foundation volunteers.

Pennick, Ethan Ates, Christopher La According to Steven, "Leading the Fontaine and Tittie Toulouse. The cos- Southern Decadence Parade meant tumes were designed by John Joseph we had accomplished a lot as a team of Delgadillo.

5 Grand Marshals and it was our day to According to Misti, "Leading the celebrate with the community, showing parade was so surreal... it was amaz- our successes in our prideful faces and ing to have so many of my friends and amazing costumes. We walked as some family members who marched one, although we had our groups with with me... It was so wonderful to see a us, one behind the other. It was the lot of familiar faces in the crowd that fireworks to our celebration and hard was cheering us on as we were walking work!" by... As I was walking, I thought about >The final Grand Marshals Rip how I wanted to freeze this moment in and Marsha Naquin-Delain, as Marc time so it would not end... I thought Antony and Cleopatra, rode in on a about all the grand marshals who walked New Orleans themed mini float. They before me years ago and how that I were accompanied by three Sally-FLYs

Jeffrey Palmquist, Solitaire and MonicaSynclaire-Kennedy, and their entourage of Coca J. Mesa and Athena Jewelle. Their ornate costumes were designed by Sally-FLYs Opal Masters and Darwin Reed who spent 150 hours on the masterpieces.

According to Rip and Marsha, "Although we were in the wings for 22 years as Susan Lucci's, we could have never imagined the thrill to finally lead the 41st Southern Decadence Parade!

From our sensational costumes, to the thousands of well wishers along the route, this day ranked as one of the best in our 42 years together as a couple. It was more than we ever expected it to be. This is one on our bucket list that would not have been possible if it were not for our dear friend

Southern Decadence Grand Marshal XL Aubrey Synclaire who chose us as her successor. Thank you, thank you, thank you! And to the entire LGBT+ community, your help and support this whole season was unbelievable. Thank each and every one of you, and our 85 sponsors." > Their were numerous groups who made the parade simply the best.

Some included: Black Storyville Babydolls, AUX Colors in Motion, Satin Babydolls, Star-Steppin' Cosmonaughties, Muff-A-Lottas, Jailhouse Rockers, Krewe of the Rolling Elvi, PussyFooters, Disco Amigos, Lords of Leather, Pair-A-Dice Tumblers, Camel Toe Lady Steppers, The Organ Grinders, Roux La La and more.

the real cheese

by Felicia Phillips Email: fphillips1011@gmail.com Photo by Hubert S Monkeys

Only in New Orleans Only in New Orleans could so much happen in such a short period of time.

Since my last "Real Cheese," I started slinging drinks behind the bar at GrandPre's, seen one of the city’s brightest souls and infamous running buddies who was a muse to many of my stories leave town for his own further adventures, I survived all of Southern Decadence including the parade while keeping a few good friends from all killing each other, and seen the arrival of my biological sister here for a five day experience only after two days of my recuperation.

First off I had big panties to fill bartending as I took Wilhemina’s place as she ventured back over to the other side of the Quarter to the Lantern. It had been ten years since the last time I poured drinks into other people's glasses instead of over my lips while getting paid, and I admit I was more than a bit nervous, but the first time Ken GrandPre growled at me I knew it would be just like riding a bike, or a hot twenty-seven year old, just get on and it will come back to you. Needless to say its been a blast, and bartenders hear more dish than even the most seasoned old queens, so me being both, I should have material for an infinite amount of future columns!

My first day bartending was bitter sweet , for at the same time I was being welcomed we were also saying goodbye to Madison Faile who had received an offer he just couldn’t refuse and I’m sure involved good pay, benefits and champagne. To say he will be missed is an understatement. Of course it has kept me out of trouble at undisclosed locations and I’ve made it home with both of my shoes every time I’ve been out since he bid farewell.

Now on to the parade, and what a parade it was! I’m sure all the stats will be out in this issue of Ambush , but I can personally attest it was the largest turn out I’ve seen in the last five years and I have no doubt it its history. The

day started at 8 a.m., trying to turn this sleep deprived old mug into something that didn’t look like it had been beaten with my grandmother's 100 year old iron skillet. I almost achieved success if not for the next few hours in the sun that was hotter than Nick Jonas’s treasure trail! No one had to pour a pale of water on this witch for me to melt, although it was less torturous than last year. SDGM Misti Ates and wife Catherine, along with son Ethan and his girlfriend, and Sharon and Rachel, all were helped into our costumes and regalia (designed and constructed by John Delgadillo) by none other than Lee ‘Bunny’ Brasseaux who of course came prepared with safety pins, superglue, customized water bottles and color coordinated sweat rags!

Once we arrived at The Friendly Bar the amazement as to all the costumes that everyone worked so hard on began, so many to mention, but stand outs were Todd Blauvelt, former SDGM Tami Tarmac, Monique Michaels, Tony Leggio, and Countess C. Alice’s whose headpiece and makeup were fabulous!

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a community within communities

by The Rev. Bill Terry, Rector St. Anna’s Episcopal Church, New Orleans Email: fr.bill@stannanola.org

"It is our humanity and it is our very soul..."

While there is darkness all around us there is light among us. In too many ways, as has been noted in previous articles much seems to be afoot that is damaging our sense of safety. Yet, there is light. Among the killings there is light, amongst the poverty there is light, amongst the marginalization, racism, and rancor – there is light.

letter to the editor ACLU of Louisiana Issues Letter to OMV on Driver’s Licenses for Transgender People New Orleans - The ACLU of Louisiana sent an open letter today to OMV Commissioner Stephen Campbell, urging his office to amend its policies on driver’s licenses for transgender people.

“Louisiana has no legitimate interest in forcing someone to alter their appearance in order to satisfy stereotypes,” writes Executive Director Marjorie R. Esman in the letter, “particularly when doing so will result in a photograph that bears little resemblance to the person.”

The letter may be read in full below, or at https://www.laaclu.org/resources/ 2015/091015OMVTransLtr.pdf OPEN LETTER TO THE LOUISIANA OFFICE OF MOTOR VEHICLES REGARDING DRIVER’S LICENSES FOR TRANSGENDER PEOPLE Mr. Stephen Campbell, Commissioner, Louisiana Office of Motor Vehicles, P.O. Box 64886, Baton Rouge, LA 70896 Via email and regular mail Dear Mr. Campbell: The Advocate reports that the Office of Motor Vehicles in Baton Rouge has refused to issue a driver’s license reflecting the stated gender of a transgender woman. This letter is to advise you that the policies regarding licenses for transgender individuals should be changed, as quickly as possible, to allow individuals to receive licenses reflecting their true identities.

Requiring someone whose birth certificate reads “M” for “male” to remove makeup to obtain a driver’s license makes no sense, and could be viewed as sex discrimination. Women who are identified as “F” on their birth certificates generally are allowed photographs in makeup and often with hair that has been colored. There is no challenge to these alterations in appearance despite the fact that they could, potentially, be used as a disguise.

To require some people but not others to remove these kinds of alterations is arbitrary, discriminatory, and bears no relation to public safety. The standards for what might “misrepresent” someone’s identity can be subject to individual judgment and lack clarity, so that each official may interpret them differently.

In fact, to prohibit someone from being photographed as they appear in public encourages, rather than discourages, confusion and false identification. If the purpose of the photograph is to identify someone as they look, it should, in fact, reflect how the person looks. Requiring someone whose birth certificate reads “M” to alter their appearance for the purpose of obtaining a license could make it more difficult to identify the person from the picture.

Recent litigation has led to changes in similar polices in states such as West Virginia and South Carolina (see http://www.foxnews.com/us/2015/07/08/westvirginia-adjusts-driver-license-policy-on-gender-changes-for-transgender/ and http://www.reuters.com/article/2015/04/22/us-usa-south-carolinatransgender-idUSKBN0ND1RA20150422 , both accessed September 10, 2015).

Those states now recognize that public safety requires a driver’s license that looks like the person.

Louisiana has a legitimate interest in preventing fraud, and a rule that prohibits using a driver’s license for fraudulent purposes, including alteration of appearance in order to deceive, is reasonable. But Louisiana has no legitimate interest in forcing someone to alter their appearance in order to satisfy stereotypes, particularly when doing so will result in a photograph that bears little resemblance to the person.

We urge you to amend these policies immediately, and allow individuals to be photographed as they appear.

---Sincerely, Marjorie R. Esman, Executive Director

I know this to be true. Here is how I know. Recently I had the joy of marching from pub to pub following a gaggle of bedazzling hoop skirted Queens and a few Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence.

Princess Stephaney, the ‘alpha Queen’ was proudly strutting her stuff down the streets and into the pubs. Each location was met with joy and no small amount of libation. It is true that our little band of Belles seemed to dwindle with time, distance, perspiration, and jello shots.

I was in my clergy collar and of course several folks felt the need to talk about faith along the way. Conversations ranged from I left the church and ain’t going back, to I was an altar boy and miss the church, to what is “Episcopal?” That told me that we live in a spiritual realm where people want connection howsoever it works out. At this point I want you to know that YOU are welcomed to return to a faith that now expresses the truth of Jesus as a Savior of Love and radical acceptance.

But that is not the story here to be told.

On our wanderings I heard laughter and fellowship and care. What a joy it is to be alive in New Orleans. What a joy it is to be in a fellowship that goes beyond the pews. What a joy it is to simply meander around our streets.

At the end of a long trek we found ourselves leaving the Golden Lantern and heading back to Mag’s our jaunt about wrapping up. There was Stephaney hoop skirt and eyelashes flapping. Anyone who knows her will tell you that she is one Queen that doesn’t have to many boundaries, I’m not sure she has any, and that is part of her persona. She turned around to me and said that she had been collecting an

offering at each venue as a donation to our children’s program at St. Anna’s.

She then said she was going to add $100 of her own money. I, of course, was very grateful and thanked her while looking into her eyes. There was both a softness and hardness at the same time. With a caustic twinkle in her eyes she said, “Oh honey, I stole the money from you and they were all $1 bills.” I laughed and shall not repeat what her other shot was but it was funny and yes way out of bounds.

I couldn’t shake that little conversation. Why? Because we all see what it is: A veiled attempt to deflect the acknowledged generosity. After years of hurt and rejection, I don’t know what all she has been through, but her foil is caustic out of bounds repartee. But she gave. She wants to help but she does not want to be acknowledged for her helping and giving spirit. I suppose it is like the street kid that has to keep his game face on as a way to deflect neighborhood predators. But, and she will argue the point, has a heart of gold.

It is just masked in sarcasm and that is because our world can be dark. Yet, in it is light, yes the light of Stephaney and hundreds of other Stephaney’s.

Please while we wait and watch and throw our wit and wisdom and those who would hurt us keep that heart that compels us each to do marvelous works. Hide it if you must but hold on to it tightly. It is our humanity and it is our very soul. May the peace of God which passes all understanding keep your hearts and minds in the knowledge and love of God ….BE BLESSED this quirky community.

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private parts again (first time hairless down there since the age of 12!) but no it was Tittie Toulouse flat down on the street! Now rumor on the devil’s tool Facebook is that she was pushed, but she said it was simply that she went to sit on the back of a golf cart that moved before her ass did. Maybe, but I will say that Electra somehow ended up in front of her in time to have her picture taken for the front page of the newspaper. Maybe it was just a coincidence.

But no other casualties I am happy to report. Heading down Royal the largely straight crowd was beyond huge and enthusiastic, even at one point drowning out the church people’s megaphones with their cheers, only thing I heard was about burning in hell, to which I replied have you seen my makeup in this sun? We burning right now! The crowd let the protestors know with no doubt this is the year of the Gays!

Upon the end of the parade of drag queens, kings, twinks in booty shorts and 70 years old in chaps, lesbians, transgender and every other genre their could possibly be. Several of us attended the traditional Southern Deca-

tions. Coming around the corner to get the first glimpse of SDGM’s Rip and Marsha was literally breath taking, Opal Masters created sheer master pieces.

A buffet was provided, but I decided to go healthy and have some vitamin C via a couple of mimosas.

Once the line-up was started we were ready to roll, unfortunately the tractor for Rip and Marsha’s float wasn’t, we were told via megaphone what was up, so my fellow walkers Persana Shoulders and Adrian Claveria were smart and found a café with AC to duck into. Someone worked magic and the tractor was replaced and we were ready to roll. Now I mentioned before that no friends killed each other through this spectacle. Although I will say part of my no bloodshed deal worked out means, I will need volunteers to let Reba Douglas be in their entourage whether it be to dinner, movies or just to walk down to Café Envie at least once a month, and please somebody give her some t-shirts. There was however an injury, just a couple of blocks down Royal we all here gasps from the crowd behind us. I figured Bradley Latham was just showing off his freshly shaved

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moments in gay new orleans history

by Professor Frank Perez E-mail: f.perez@sbcglobal.net Photo by: Larry Graham, GrahamStudioOne.COM

“Recovery and Uniqueness” Another Southern Decadence has come and gone and by all accounts it was extremely successful: 180,000 visitors, no hurricanes, a $216 million economic impact, an unforgettable parade, good times and great memories. And a lot of exhausted locals who work in the service industry, including yours truly.

Some years ago I developed a French Quarter walking tour that highlights New Orleans’ incredibly rich LGBT+ history. The tour is offered throughout the year and usually goes out three or four times a month, but during Southern Decadence week, it goes out twice daily, and this year was no exception.

The theme of the tour is obviously history and, in the course of unpacking that history, my approach is two-fold— recovery and uniqueness.

First, I aim to recover those parts of our history that remain in the closet but also to recover and claim the unrecognized yet profound contributions LGBT+ folk have made to New Orleans. A great part of that recovery process involves discussing gay folk like the philanthropist William Ratcliffe Irby, who saved the French Opera House from financial ruin and repaired St. Louis Cathedral after a hurricane damaged its roof and donated the lower Pontalba Building to the State of Louisiana. Or writers like Lyle Saxon who advocated for the French Quarter’s preservation and attracted other writers to the enclave in the 1920s. Or Gaston Pontalba, who designed the beautiful cast ironwork on the Pontalba buildings that made cast iron fashionable in New Orleans. Or Storme Delarverie, who grew up in New Orleans and is widely believed to have thrown the first punch at the police at the Stonewall Inn. Or Frances Benjamin Johnston, who was the first official White House photographer and one of the nation’s first female photojournalists. Or Barbara Scott, who was the first openly lesbian candidate to run for office in New Orleans in 1971.

Or Mary Collins, who co-founded Café Lafitte, the oldest gay bar in the United States. Or John Rechy, whose book

about his experiences as a street hustler became a landmark work in gay literature. Or anyone of a dozen others.

Many of the aforementioned people, Irby and Saxon for example, are well known among historians and tour guides. What is not so well known, even among people familiar with them, is that they were gay. These men, because of the times in which they lived, did not openly identify as gay.

Nothing Saxon wrote would today be considered “gay,” and when Irby restored buildings, it was not a “gay restoration.” But these were in fact gay men. Some might ask, so what? Why does it matter? It matters because LGBT+ people have made significant contributions to New Orleans—the city would be very different without them— and the fact that these contributions were made by LGBT+ people should be acknowledged. To not do so is to perpetuate the legacy of shame engendered by the closet. What makes these contributions, whether they be in bricks and mortar or arts and letters, even more remarkable is that they were made in the midst of a social and power structure specifically designed to oppress and criminalize the contributors.

In this respect, the queer history of New Orleans is similar to that of other cities. Despite New Orleans’ laissez faire attitude of tolerance and letting the good times roll, it was not always a good time for LGBT+ people in the “City that Care Forgot.” The gay bashing murder of Fernando Rios in Pirate’s Alley in 1958 was just one of a hundred similar hate crimes that occurred across the nation in those years. As in other cities, police raids of gay bars were de rigueur in New Orleans until the 1970s.

Being out meant risking your job, family, jail-time, and even psychiatric con-

finement.

But there are some things that make the LGBT+ history of New Orleans unique. Three in particular that I emphasize on the Gay New Orleans Walking Tour are Southern Decadence, Gay Carnival, and the Up Stairs Lounge fire.

I suspect the vast majority of revelers who attend Southern Decadence have no idea of its origin or history.

Many are surprised to learn it did not start out as a gay event. In 1972, a group of bored college students (gay/ straight, black/white, male/female) who were sharing a home in Treme had a dilemma. Labor Day weekend was approaching, the last weekend before the fall semester started. One of their own, Michael Evers, was moving away and a new arrival, Maureen from Manhattan, would not stop complaining about the heat and “not having anything to do.” The group decided to kill three birds with one stone and have a party.

The problem was that many bars in 1972 were segregated by race and gender. So they decided to have the party at their home. The invitations read, “Come dressed as your favorite Southern Decadent.” About 50 people attended the party. A parade was inaugurated the following year and by year three, the tradition of selecting a Grand Marshal was begun. What began as a small party for a few dozen friends has now grown into a five day weekend extravaganza that attracts over 160,000 people to the city each Labor Day. Before Southern Decadence became such an extraordinarily gay phenomenon, the premiere gay event in New Orleans was Mardi Gras, in no small part because it was the only day of the year it was not illegal to crossdress. Gay Carnival began in 1958 when a group of friends formed the Krewe of Yuga. Originally, Yuga “Ball” was held in member’s private homes.

That changed when the popularity of the event demanded a larger space.

The police raid of the ill-fated Yuga Ball in 1962 is well-documented. From the ashes of Yuga rose several other gay carnival krewes, which reached their peak at about a dozen or so in the early 1980s. The art and craftsmanship that went into producing the legendary gay krewes’ Bal Masques was unparalleled. Many of the gay artists and

costume designers also worked for the mainline Carnival krewes in the production of their parades and balls.

One of the more seminal moments in gay New Orleans history was the Up Stairs Lounge arson in 1973. The arson, which claimed 32 lives, remains the deadliest fire in New Orleans history and the deadliest crime against LGBT+ people in United States history.

Yet until recent years, the fire was largely ignored in the LGBT+ national historical narratives that began to proliferate in the 1990s. Some have compared the Up Stairs fire to New Orleans version of Stonewall, but the analogy doesn’t quite work. Whereas the Stonewall rebellion resulted in a tangible movement, the effects of which are still reverberating today, the tragedy of the Up Stairs Lounge caused the gay community to retreat deeper into the closet.

While it is true the fire caused a flurry of activism, it was, for the most part, short-lived. The first significant demonstration for gay rights in New Orleans was the Anita Bryant protest in Jackson Square in 1977.

New Orleans is unique among American cities and it is, therefore, not surprising that its LGBT+ history is also unique. What is surprising is that a city so in love with its own history still refuses to acknowledge its queer history. Much of that history remains in the closet—a sad reality I developed the Gay New Orleans Walking Tour to combat.

the real cheese ...from 10 dence Bead Toss at the Ambush Mansion. We all cooled off, relaxed, and threw beads after getting some quick flashes from people on the street.

We knew it made all the madness of the weeks leading up to it worth wild.

And I can honestly say that having been bartending the whole week, I had more than one, actually seven customers to be exact, that told me they had not been to Decadence in years, many since before Katrina, but knew this was the year to come, and were happy to give their support. In a future column I will be telling all about Coca Mesa’s on point new look, perfect eyebrows and all!

And that’s "The Real Cheese!" Till next time dahlins, I’m Felicia Phillips the Cheese Queen of New Orleans.

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celebrazzi Southern Decadence Grand Marshal XLI Frankie "Fierce" Wingerter reigned as King of the Mermen leading the 41st Annual Southern Decadence Parade through the streets of the French Quarter celebrating the 44th Southern Decadence Celebration of LGBT+ Life, Music and Culture.

Southern Decadence Grand Marshals Rip and Marsha Naquin-Delain were next, reigning as Marc Antony and Cleopatra, riding in a New Orleans themed mini float. Keep abreast of everything Southern Decadence at www.SouthernDecadence.com, or follow www.Facebook.com/SouthernDecadenceNOLA.

The 22nd Annual Southern Decadence Bead Toss followed the 41st Southern Decadence Parade. Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLI Rip Naquin, Steven Mora, Misti Ates, Frankie Fierce, and Marsha Delain; and invited lieutenants and guests tossed thousands of beads to the throngs below.

Southern Decadence Grand Marshal XLI Misti Ates reigning as the Roman God Mars followed with an entourage of Roman Gods and Goddesses.

Your Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLI Steven Mora, Misti Ates, Rip Naquin, Marsha Delain and Frankie Fierce would like to thank everyone who made the 44th Southern Decadence the largest in the history of the celebration. And they invite you to the 45th Annual Southern Decadence Celebration of LGBT+ Life, Southern Decadence Grand Marshal XLI Steven Mora was Music and Culture Aug. 31-Sept. 5, 2016. For the latest information next reigning as Posiedon, God of the Sea, with an entourage on Southern Decadence visit www.SouthernDecadence.com, or follow www.Facebook.com/SouthernDecadenceNOLA. carrying his train which was 33.5 feet long.

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RuPaul's Mrs. Kasha Davis kicks off Southern Decadence @ Four Seasons ~ Metairie, LA ~ Photos by Michael Bingham

Jayme and Bob serving it up @ B-Bob’s in Mobile

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New Orleans, LA [504] QT PIE BOUTIQUE - 241 Dauphine St., 581. 6633

florists Baton Rouge, LA [225] FOUR SEASONS FLOWERS & GIFTS, 3482 Drusilla Ln., Drusilla Shopping Center, 924.1386, 1.800.237.5381

galleries New Orleans, LA [504] CASSELL-BERGEN GALLERY, 1305 Decatur St., cassellbergengallery.com, 504.524.0671

guides America Damron Travel Guide, 800.462.6654, www.damron.com Gulf South/United States AMBUSH Mag, 828-A Bourbon St., New Orleans, LA 70116-3137; 504.522.8049, AmbushMag.COM; marsha@ripandmarsha.com

groceries/delis New Orleans, LA [504] QUARTERMASTER DELI, THE NELLIE DELI, 1100 Bourbon, 529.1416

hair salons New Orleans, LA [504] Head Quarters Hair Salon, 906 Bourbon

lodging/accommodations New Orleans [504] AARON INGRAM HAUS, 1012 Elysian Fields, New Orleans, LA 70117, PHONE: 504.949.3110, www.ingramhaus.com/xqey, e-mail us at ingramhaus@yahoo.com. Condos with queen-size beds, private entrances; located only six blocks from Bourbon Street and walking distance to most New Orleans attractions. Several favorite bars are within one block.

[0715] BURGUNDY BED AND BREAKFAST, 2513 Burgundy St., New Orleans, LA 70117, PHONE/FAX: 504.942.1463, Toll Free (Continental US only): 1.800.970.2153, theburgundy.com, E-mail us at theburgundy@cox.net. Gay owned and operated in newly renovated 1890's double. Four guest rooms with private baths, guests' parlor and "halfkitchen", courtyard and half-open tubhouse with spa (hot tub/whirlpool). Clothing optional in sunbathing and hot tub area. Walking distance to French Quarter. Immediate vicinity of gay and lesbian bars/venues.

[0815] CHATEAU LEMOYNE FRENCH QUARTER, 301 Dauphine St., New Orleans, LA 70112, Phone: 504.581.1303, http:// www.hiclneworleanshotelsite.com/gayhotelsnew-orleans. Enjoy a stay enriched with the culture and history of New Orleans at Chateau LeMoyne. Our historic building features all the best of old-time architecture and our prime location allows guests to stay just steps from the French Quarter, while still at enough distance to enjoy a peaceful night’s rest. Versatile guest accommodations include charmingly appointed suites and cottages, while on-site amenities include drinks and dining, a scenic courtyard area and pool, and meeting and event space. When you’re ready to explore, top New Orleans attractions are only moments away. We look forward to welcoming you to the “Big Easy.”

[0915] ELYSIAN GUEST HOUSE, 1008 Elysian Fields Ave. New Orleans, LA 70117, Phone: 1.504.324.4311, info@elysianguesthouse.com.

The Elysian Guest House is within walking distance to all the fun spots. Five to steps to a few blocks to all the action. We have a Jacuzzi too.

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[1115] THE FRENCH QUARTER GUEST HOUSES, 1005 St. Peter, New Orleans, LA 70116, Phone: 1.800.367.5858, FrenchQuarterGuestHouses.com, email: Info@frenchquarterguesthouses.com. Four meticulously restored boutique inns located in the heart of the French Quarter's most popular LGBT neighborhood. Each building's individual character and charm provides an unforgettable authentic French Quarter experience!

FRENCH QUARTER SUITES HOTEL, 1119 North Rampart St, New Orleans, LA 70116, Phone 504.524.7725, Toll Free: 800.457.2253,FrenchQuarterSuites.COM. Email us at Reservations@bpmhotels.com. Official Host Hotel of OZ New Orleans. A locally owned and operated French Quarter hotel that has been beautifully transformed into spacious multi-bedroom suites. Several historical townhouses are also available to accommodate larger groups of up to 26. Just 3 blocks from Bourbon St., free WiFi, swimming pool, and continental breakfast included. Off street parking is available.

NEW ORLEANS COURTYARD HOTEL, 1101 North Rampart St, New Orleans, LA 70116, Phone 504.522.7333, Toll Free: 800.457.2253, NOCourtyard.COM. Email us at Reservations@bpmhotels.com, Official Host Hotel of OZ New Orleans. A 19th century home that has been historically restored and transformed into a locally owned and operated hotel. Experience the rich history and hospitality of New Or-

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marketing & printing New Orleans, LA [504] SIR SPEEDY, 343 Carondelet, 586.9812, 586.9817, offering printing and marketing services including web design and hosting. info@sirspeedyneworleans.com, sirspeedyneworleans.com

massage New Orleans, LA [504] RIGHT TOUCH MASSAGE -- Christopher - Full body therapeutic massage (Swedish/Deep Tissue); heated table; private studio; tropical garden; Faubourg Marigny Area, French Quarter.

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museum/arts New Orleans, LA [504] BEAUREGARD-KEYES HOUSE, 1113 Chartres, 523.7257 CABILDO, 701 Chartres, Jackson Square, CAC [Contemporary Arts Center], 900 Camp St., 528.3805, cacno.org EDGAR DEGAS HISTORIC HOME, 2306 Esplanade Avenue, tours by appointment: 504.821.5009, the house tour lasts one hour, is led by a great-grand-niece of Degas, and includes the award-winning documentary video, Degas in New Orleans: A Creole Sojourn 1850 HOUSE, 523 St. Ann GALLIER HOUSE, 1132 Royal, 523.6722 GERMAINE WELLS MARDI GRAS MUSEUM, 2nd Floor Arnaud's, 819 Bienville HERMANN-GRIMA HISTORIC HOUSE, 820 St. Louis, 525.5661 HISTORICAL PHARMACY MUSEUM, 514 Chartres, 524.9077 HISTORIC NEW ORLEANS COLLECTION, 533 Royal, 523.4662 LONGUE VUE HOUSE AND GARDENS, 7 Bamboo Rd, Metairie, 488.5488, MUSEE CONTI HISTORICAL WAX MUSEUM, 917 Conti, 525.2605 NEW ORLEANS MUSEUM OF ART, City Park, 1 Collins Diboll Circle, 488.2631 OGDEN MUSEUM OF SOUTHERN ART, 925 Camp St., 539.9600 OLD U.S. MINT, 400 Esplanade PRESBYTERE, 751 Chartres, Jackson Square ST. LOUIS CATHEDRAL, Jackson Square WORLD WAR 2 MUSEUM, 945 Magazine, 527.6012, http://nationalww2museum.org

music New Orleans [504] SKULLY'Z RECORDZ, 907 Bourbon St., 592.4666

organizations New Orleans, LA [504] ACLU and ACLU Foundation of Louisiana, P.O. Box 56157, New Orleans, LA 70156, 504.522.0628 x25, Fax: 888.537.0384, laaclu.org AIDS HOTLINE, 821.6050 in New Orleans, 1.800.99.AIDS[2437]-9 toll free statewide

AIDSLaw of Louisiana, 3801 Canal St., Suite 331, 568.1631, AIDSLAW.org ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, 838.3399 BIG EASY STOMPERS, Country & Western line dancing. Weekly lessons and monthly Country & Western dance party, www.bigeasystompersneworleans.com, info@bigeasystompersneworleans.com BELLE REVE NEW ORLEANS, AIDS Residence for Families, PO Box 3305, 70177; 945.9455 BreakOUT! builds the power of youth ages 13-25 in New Orleans to end the criminalization of LGBTQ youth of color, 504.252.9025, 1001 S. Broad St. #119, NOLA 70125, @youthbreakout, www.youthbreakout.org, COMMUNITY ACTION NETWORK, a project of the NO/AIDS Task Force which works with the gay community to implement HIV prevention activities, 507 Frenchmen St., 945.4000, noaidstaskforce.com COPS 8 (Citizens' Organization for Police Support in the 8th District), 840 N. Rampart St., #51, 70116; 588.COPS (2677), cops8.org FOOD FOR FRIENDS, 944.6028 FORUM FOR EQUALITY, 336 Lafayette, Suite 200, 70130; 947.2981, ForumForEquality.COM FRIDAY NIGHT BEFORE MARDI GRAS (FNBMG), PO Box 791376, New Orleans, LA 70179-1376; 733.3311, fridaynightbeforemardigras.com, fnbmg@cox.net GAY APPRECIATION AWARDS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137; 522.8049; AmbushMag.COM/GAA GAY EASTER PARADE, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, info@gayeasterparade.com, GayEasterParade.COM GAY MARDI GRAS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, GayMardiGras.COM GAY NEW ORLEANS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, GayNewOrleans.COM HAART (HIV/AIDS Alliance Region Two, Inc.), 4550 North Blvd. Ste. 250, Baton Rouge, LA 70806, 225.927.1269, www.haartinc.org, offers a complete continuum of care to people living with HIV/AIDS including housing, primary care, medications, case management, and an array of supportive services. In addition HAART provides HIV prevention education and FREE testing to the Baton Rouge area.

HALLOWEEN IN NEW ORLEANS, INC., PO Box 52171, 70152-2171; halloween neworleans.com/ambush KREWE OF AMON-RA, PO Box 7033, Metairie, LA 70010, KreweOfAmonRa.COM KREWE OF ARMEINIUS, PO Box 56638, New Orleans, LA 70156-6638, kreweofarmeinius.org KREWE OF MWINDO, PO Box 51031, 70156; 913.5791, KreweOfMwindo.ORG, krewe@kreweofmwindo.org KREWE OF NARCISSUS, PO Box 3832, New Orleans, LA 70177. Contact: 504.228.9441 KREWE OF PETRONIUS, PO Box 1102, Kenner, LA. 70063-1102, www.kreweofpetroius.net KREWE OF QUEENATEENAS / KING CAKE QUEEN ROYALTY CLUB, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 522.8049, GayMardiGras.COM/KCQ KREWE OF URSUS, kreweofursus@aol.com LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana, 1308 Esplanade Ave., New Orleans, LA 70116, 504.475.7911, www.lgbtarchivesla.org LORDS OF LEATHER, 1631 Elysian Fields, #161, 70117, www.lordsofleather.org Louisiana Equality Foundation, serving the Louisiana LGBT Community through education, activism, and awareness. www. l o u i s i a n a e q u a l i t y f o u n d a t i o n . o r g , info@louisianaequalityfoundation.org Metropolitan Community Church of New Orleans, services at 10am, 6200 St Charles Ave., New Orleans, LA 70118; 504.270.1MCC www.mccneworleans.org MYSTIC KREWE OF SATYRICON, 2443 Halsey Ave., New Orleans, LA 70114, 504.906.7990 Todd J. Blauvelt / Secretary, krewe.of.satyricon@gmail.com,

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pets New Orleans, LA [504] DR. MIKE'S ANIMAL HOUSE, 1120 N. Rampart, 523.4455

pharmacy Baton Rouge, LA [225] AVITA PHARMACY, offers personalized, convenient care to those affected by chronic illnesses. Avita offers free delivery, co-pay assistance, benefit coordination, and refill reminder calls as well as access to a pharmacist 24/7.

Every prescription filled today helps Avita give back to the community tomorrow. www.avitapharmacy.com New Orleans, LA [504] AVITA PHARMACY, offers personalized, convenient care to those affected by chronic illnesses. Avita offers free delivery, co-pay assistance, benefit coordination, and refill reminder calls as well as access to a pharmacist 24/7.

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by Tony Leggio Email: ledgemgp@gmail.com Photo by: Larry Graham

Hot Happenings Well we survived another Southern Decadence and now we are on a downhill roll towards the holiday season and fall, finally. Here are just a few of the top picks of events for the coming weeks. Have fun!

Tuesday, September 15 – Sunday, September 20, 2015 I cannot wait to be part of his world when the Little Mermaid comes swimming into the Saenger Theatre (1111 Canal Street). In a magical kingdom fathoms below, we meet Ariel, the little mermaid who is tired of flipping her fins and longs to be part of the fascinating world on dry land. Joining her are Sebastian, Ariel’s crabby sidekick; Ursula, the evil sea witch; Triton, King of the Sea and the handsome and human Prince Eric. Based on the Disney animated film and hit Broadway musical, The Little Mermaid is making its New Orleans debut. So dive on in! Life is the Bubbles, under the sea! Times are 7:30 p.m. Tuesday through Thursday and Sunday at 8 p.m. Friday and Saturday with a 2 p.m. show on Saturday. For tickets and more information, go to www.saengernola.com.

Saturday, September 19, 2015 Not able to make Burning Man this year, well New Orleans has its own unique and less famous version of this celebration. Once a year, tens of twenties of people gather in St. Patrick’s Park in Midcity (4700 Baudin Street) to create Cirque D’so-lame, a temporary metropolis dedicated to vulgarity, beet worship, self-gratification and old timey carny fun. In this den of iniquity, all are welcome. This year Inane Clown Posse Presents: Cirque D’So-lame 5: FLAMING MAN! All of your favorite games and events will return! New features (and failures) will surprise, amaze and disgust! Visit our all new Circus sideshow area! This year’s Birth Canal: heavy flow edition will be juicier than ever! Will you be the one to be lard and feathered? A $10 donation to the Mystic Krewe of Inane grants you entry to all of the madness, access to kegs of beer, performances and debauchery.

Bring cash for food and games chances.

VIP entrance including luxury glamping tent, unlimited access to the waterslide, and VIP drinks in the air conditioned is available at the door. Cirque D’SoLame is a 21+ event. Mystic Krewe of Inane is not responsible for any physical injury or PTSD you experience as a result of this event. Play at your own risk. For more information, go to www.twatlife.com.

Saturday, September 19, 2015 Jack Inman presents Unleashed, A twisted show featuring your favorite Drag Kings, Drag Queens and everyone in between at Cutter’s (706 Franklin Avenue). There is no cover for the show that starts at 10:30 p.m. The cast includes Mr. Jack Inman, Solitaire, Crystal Farmer, Napoleon Bonerparte, Nikcole Sweetington, Lady Godiva and more.

Thursday, September 24 – Sunday, September 27, 2016 Get a jump start on your Halloween horror at the NOLA Horror Film Fest happening around the city. See first run movie premiers, film shorts, screenplay readings and panel discussions.

In their fifth year, NOLA Horrro Film Fest’s goal is the promotion of horror/ sci-fi/fantasy filmmaking in Louisiana, as well as nationally and internationally.

The NOHFF is committed to celebrating the craft and advancing the art form of genre films. Start the weekend off at Mag’s 940 on Thursday, September 24th for the Opening Party to meet and mingle with horror filmmakers and fans.

There will be live music by The NOLA Treblemakers, drink specials, food available for purchase. This event is open to the public. The cover is $5. For more information: http://nohff.com/.

Saturday, September 26, 2015 The Chevron NO/AIDS WALK 2015 has moved to a Saturday. This exciting event will be held at Audubon Park with registration starting at 8:30 a.m.

NO/AIDS Task Force, now a division of CrescentCare, is in its 26th year of the WALK in the New Orleans community. Over the years, their walkers have walked to the moon and back two and half times (that’s more than a million miles) and have raised more than $5 million dollars, funds that stay in New Orleans for AIDS care and services of NO/AIDS Task Force. Your dollars support our many services to the 2,500 clients we serve annually.

Those service consist of: primary medical care, testing and prevention services, home delivered meals and food pantry services, case management, behavioral health, legal services, lifeskills classes, peer support, housing, sexual health and wellness and our PrEP clinic. For more information, go to http://www.noaidswalk.com.

Party Down The weeks leading up to Southern Decadence was crazy with all sorts of events from premiers and grand reopenings to a costume party and carni-

val. It is truly never a dull moment in NOLA. I am all about the Happy Hour in this city and I have discovered a great new one at Morton’s Steakhouse in Canal Place. My co-workers and I were invited on Tuesday evening for their Power Hour to check out their venue, private dining spaces and their incredible Happy Hour. Now this is a happy hour done right with delicious bar bites at great prices (their sliders are to die for) and wonderful wine and cocktails at half prices. We also got to see their well-appointed private dining/ party rooms which have an impressive view of Canal Street and the streetcars passing. Check this place out.

The next day I participated in Clue Carre which is one of those escape adventure games with some co-workers. You and your friends are locked in a room and have sixty minutes to figure out a way out through clues given to you via a television screen and ones you find on your own (very “Saw” like). We did The Voodoo Room where rumor has it that Voodoo Queen Marie Laveau has hidden her last surviving bottle of her elusive Love Potion. This was so much fun, I cannot begin to tell you, better than a rollercoaster ride and we actually got out with 8 seconds to spare - very edge of your seat. Then afterwards we went for cocktails next door at the Victory Bar, a very ritzy craft cocktail lounge. I highly recommend this game located on Camp Street in the CBD. For more information, go to www.cluecarre.com.

Everyone loves a carnival and Frankie Fierce proved that on Friday at his Southern Decadence Carnival at the Tulane Avenue Bar. There were all kinds of fun games like the bean bag toss, darts, and ring toss where you can win several fun prizes, like goldfish, which I added to my pond. It was a festive time as people played the games of chance, dined on hot dogs and hamburgers then enjoyed the drag show afterwards featuring Jasmin Essex and Monique Michaels. Then afterwards, I went to the Quarter to catch the ever so delightful Retro Review at the Golden Lantern. This show is always different thanks to the antics of Princesse Stephany, Clorox Bleachman and Regina Adams. I ended the night bouncing between Mags 940 and the Phoenix visiting with friends.

Saturday was another Southern Decadence celebration at the Hotel Storyville. It was a lovely night under the stars at this costume soiree that boasted great performances by the Dapper Dandies, the Rolling Elvi and Bella Blue.

The House of Blues hosted a wonderful festival on Sunday called Brewsiana. This music, food and beer festival spotlighted all the incredible beers and breweries from our state.

Attendees enjoyed music from Bonerama and Hazy Ray while drinking brews from Abita, Gnarly Barley Brewing Company, Parish Brewing, and Nola

Brewing just to name a few. After partaking in some tasty taps, I went to Albert Carey’s condo for a martini dinner party.

Now what was it beer before liquor or the other way around, either way I woke up the next morning with one helluva of a hangover. As you get older, you learn that Sunday Fundays lead to Monday Migraines.

My next week started on Tuesday, which was an exciting evening that started professionally and ended in screams! Literally. I attended the mixer at the Loew’s Hotel to introduce the hospitality community to the new general manager. The new renovations of the Swizzlestick Bar made for a nice setting to this networking event.

Then I lucked out to attend the premier screening of Scream Queens at the Prytania Theatre. Scream Queens is the new horror comedy series created

by Ryan Murphy, who is the mastermind of American Horror Story. Guest were treated to popcorn, sodas and gift bags as we Fox 8 introduced star of the show Emma Roberts, who is absolutely fabulous in person. She spoke to the audience before the first episode was played in its entirety and I am hooked. It mixes all the best atmosphere of horror movies with biting comedy. Emma Roberts and Jamie Lee Curtis are brilliant in the show.

After the episode, some more of the very hot and sexy cast came out for a question and answer session about the show and our city. Skyler Samuels, Abigail Breslin, Lucien Laviscount, Billie Lourd, Glen Powell and the super handsome Diego Boneta all were there. It is a dream cast of new, young and very talented stars do not miss this show that premiers on September 22.

On Thursday, as the anniversary of Katrina neared, I could not think of a more fitting celebration than the grand re-opening of the Orpheum Theatre.

The event was just magical and wandering around this stunning building was just heartwarming. The Orpheum is a nearly century-old Beaux Arts theater in the heart of New Orleans’ Central Business District directly across from the Roosevelt Hotel. Built in 1918, the iconic space is one of the few remaining vertical hall designs in the US. It has hosted vaudeville acts, films and countless performances by the Louisiana Philharmonic Orchestra. But it has sat dormant since 2005, when Hurricane Katrina floodwaters ravaged the building. With a full renovation and passionate preservation completed, this classic space will open once more to the music-loving public as a fully restored, incomparably luxurious entertainment space. More than a stunning historical structure, this reimagined space brings an entirely new tier of entertainment venue to New Orleans. The Orpheum’s impeccable acoustics, said to rival that of Carnegie Hall, will once again delight concert goers. The food, the cham[continued on 27]

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My friends and I posed on the red carpet and mixed and mingled with New Orleans finest before going to the historic Sazerac Bar in the Roosevelt.

After a few Ramos Gin Fizzes by one of the sexiest bartenders alive, our group retired for the night. Elegance and a little decadence, now this is what this city is all about.

Saturday was all about that kitty when I attended Kitty D Liter’s show at the Tulane Avenue Bar. It was an eventful evening filled with martinis, great performances and a spot on celebrity lookalike. Dead serial killer Aileen Wuornos made a guest appearance from the great beyond. I mean this person was spot on and who knew she could dance. Kitty’s cast was lively and their outfits were fierce.

My two week romp ended pretty tame with a drunken Sunday Funday (which is quickly becoming my go to way to end the week). My friends Beaux and Barrett joined me for brunch at Biscuits and Buns on Banks Street.

Say that three times fast. This fun little neighborhood restaurant is hugely popular and always has a long wait, so we went across the street to Banks Street Bar and Grill, an eclectic lounge with a very folksy feel to it. They have live

music, indoor and outdoor seating, funky art, fabulous bartenders and one of the best Bloody Marys in the city that has steak in it. It is a meat lover’s dream.

Then we went to Biscuits and Buns for brunch whish was a comfort food extravaganza. If you have not been put it on your must try list and you can bring your own liquor. There specialty is there waffles, but everything on the menu is delectable. So two bottle of champagne later, we were off to tool around the city before attending a quaint dinner party at Laura Tennyson’s house.

Homemade Indian cuisine, good wine and great friends, I can think of any other way I would like to end my weekend.

So because of Southern Decadence we have now added more week of my mayhem, so here we go. On Wednesday, I added a little culture to my life before I dive headfirst into the craziness by attending the Culture Collision event at the World War 2 Museum. This event brings all non-profit organizations together to promote their seasons, causes and events in an exhibitor style format. So the Louisiana Philharmonic, New Orleans Opera, Le petit Theatre, City Park, were all their just to name a few. It is a great opportunity for locals to see what is on the horizon for the new cultural offerings.

On Thursday, I went to Bingo at the Allways Lounge. This fun-filled event is

always crowded because you just never know what zaniness Vinsantos (your host) has in store for you. There were lots of people getting their Decadence pre-party fix as they played several games of unique Bingo. But this is unlike any other bingo in the city, it is part drag show, part bingo game and all comedy routine. Vinsantos keeps things lively and moving.

Halloween New Orleans hosted their Leather and Champagne Decadence event for the second year in a row at Apres Bar on Fulton Street. Hot men were aplenty as the vodka drinks flowed readily. There is no better way to start jump your night then an open vodka bar before hitting the Quarter for mayhem. Friday and Saturday nights were partying nights stopping at all the watering holes, Golden Lantern, Oz, Pub, Lafitte’s in Exile and Friendly Bar before having my nightcap at the Phoenix Block Party which was bigger than ever. Kudos to them for creating one of the coolest events of the weekend three nights in a row.

pened and we stopped at every gay bar. Good lord, it was long, hot and so much fun! But I have to say it was exhausting. Thank god we were dressed like Roman gladiators for the theme, because it would have killed me to wear something extremely warm.

After numerous cocktails, a parade under my belt, several house parties (some I do not even remember). Here’s to another successful Southern Decadence and to all those people who made it great, we appreciate all your hard work. After all the drinking and carousing I did on Sunday, the Roman Empire fell and I took my sad little self home. So with one broken sandal, no sword (lost that somewhere) and having to ask a stranger on the street to unzip the back of my costume so I could get out of it, I stumbled to my humble abode and collapsed.

Needless to say, little Nero laid on the couch the next day not moving. Did they even have hangovers in ancient Rome.

Decadence Sunday started off with getting ready at the Friendly Bar with all the other Grand Marshals and their entourages. I was honored to be one of Frankie Fierce’s lieutenants this year and it was an absolutely amazing experience. The camaraderie with the other grand marshals as you got ready was just wonderful. Then the parade hap-

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18th Southern Decadence Outer Loop Bar Crawl @ Corner Pocket, Double Play & GrandPre's ~ New Orleans ~ Photos by Darwin Reed

Annual Southern Decadence Grand Marshals Drag Show @ The Golden Lantern ~ New Orleans ~ Photos by Michael Bingham, Rip Naquin

New Orleans Human Relations Commission Executive Director Larry Bagneris presented a certificate from Mayor Mitch Landrieu recognizing the reigning Southern Decadence Grand Marshals XLI including Rip Naquin, Marsha Delain, Misti Ates, Frankie Fierce & Steven Mora (accepted by Derek Penton-Robicheaux)

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trodding the boards

by Brian Sands

Email: bsnola2@hotmail.com

Be A New Orleanian: A Swearing In Ceremony at The Theatre at St. Claude through Sept. 26 If there’s anyone who can instruct an audience on how to be a New Orleanian, Jim Fitzmorris, Crescent City native and scion of a Louisiana political family, can.

And in Be A New Orleanian: A Swearing In Ceremony, he does just that.

Offering six broad topics that range from “Put On Costumes” to “Indulge”, Fitzmorris takes us on a whirlwind tour of the mythology of the city, the do’s and don’t’s that separate locals from tourists and arrivistes, “NPR soulville cliches” from “spooky voodooville” authenticity.

On a set festooned with beads, booze and a football, Fitzmorris alternately sits at a desk or prowls the stage letting us in on the meaning of different NOLA smiles and the driving habits of the city (“Nobody uses blinkers...no one lets anyone merge”).

In a series of sharp observations (“Dorignac’s—the Yat Whole Foods”) and riffs on such topics as how we never say “Enough” here (“Festivals in August—god forbid we should ever have a break”), Fitzmorris lovingly demonstrates that, despite its flaws, “You live in the best place in the world.”

Seen on its opening night, Fitzmorris’ commanding stage presence brought his smartly written script to life. Occasionally he read directly from his notebook, rather than just glancing at it for guidance; if this broke, slightly, the griot-like spell he had created, who can blame him for wanting to get his precisely detailed words just right.

Be A New Orleanian is peppered with many funny moments but some of its ultra-specific references, especially in the “Where’d you go to school?” section, may go over the heads of those who didn’t grow up here—which may be wholly intentional on Fitzmorris’ part.

Similar to Urban Education Smackdown, his superb one-man show about working in the local school system, Be A NOian is pure Fitzmorris, a distillation of the authorial voice heard in his multi-character plays. At his most penetrating, Fitzmorris advises “Ya gotta believe,” and elucidates the ubiquitous role of religion here even if you’re not religious.

Directed with a sure hand by Mike Harkins, at just over an hour, Be A New Orleanian does not feel too long, but some passages come off a smidge preachy and there’s about one (seeming) finale too many. These are just quibbles, though, which, with a little massaging, could easily be adjusted leaving room for more of Fitzmorris’ wise insights.

With his great facial expressions and passionate emotions, Fitzmorris at times appears apoplectic and you fear he may explode. But he seems to be having a grand old time. And those who want to be true New Orleanians will too.

Marie Antoinette at NOCCA’s Nims Black Box Theatre through Sept. 20 I have long admired The NOLA Project. In their first ten seasons, they have given New Orleans such memorable productions as A Midsummer Night’s Dream, Camille, Adventures in Wonderland, and Assassins, among others. I might not have been a fan of every show, but I could always respect the choice of material.

Which makes me wonder what was NOLA Project thinking when they decided to present David Adjmi’s Marie Antoinette. With hundreds of contemporary plays to choose from, this tale of the French queen who lived in a royal bubble until she didn’t would be an odd one at any time.

But to ask an audience to empathize with a lead character who’s best known for her putative utterance “Let them eat cake” when on the nightly news thousands of desperate refugees try to escape war-torn countries; as young girls are brutally raped by barbarians as an act of war; and as terrorist attacks take place worldwide— really? Marie Antoinette? Boo. Hoo. And in case we miss the point, the program contains quotes from Amy Winehouse, Marilyn Monroe and Janis Joplin bemoaning their fates as cultural icons. If there is at best a tenuous connection between these three artists, who sadly succumbed to various addictions, and theAustrian-born queen, a victim (if that’s the right word) of social, political and historical forces, who among us wouldn’t at least consider trading places with any one of them? You may not make it to 40, but I can’t work up too too much pity for someone who was head of a country or the paramour of John Kennedy.

All this might be moot if Marie Antoinette was simply a better play.

Adjmi gives us a precis of Marie’s life but fails to dig beneath the surface,

offering an audience little that anyone with a passing knowledge of world history doesn’t know already.

Yes there are some witty lines (“I had the goats and sheep perfumed. I don’t like rustic smells.”) and some touching ones (“Sometimes I feel like a game that other people play, but without me.”), but we never get a vital sense of why Adjmi wrote this story in this way. Or as Ben Brantley put it in his NYTimes review, “This ‘Marie’ is occasionally affecting but never surprising.”

Which is a shame as Adjmi is not an untalented writer. I’ve read his play Stunning, about Brooklyn housewives in an emotionally stifling Syrian-Jewish (Adjmi’s own background) community, and found it to be finely textured and quite moving. Marie Antoinette’s sympathetic yet talky and superficial portrait of celebrity and privilege, however, is as appropriate now as a Confederate monument.

Director Mark Routhier’s production looks like a million thanks to Shauna Leone’s gorgeous, witty costumes and Bill Walker’s imaginative set that features an array of mannequins wearing 18th century outfits looking on like silent witnesses. Matt Jackson’s sound design is excellent and evocative while Christopher Arthur’s wigs are fabulously inventive. Duncan Becker’s bold projections help move the story forward but though the white period shirts used as a screen are a nice touch, they occasionally make the titles difficult to read.

With her patrician bearing and Valley girl elocution, Cecile Monteyne convinces as the youthful queen. But she could have infused her Marie with even greater regalness; this after all was the daughter of the imperious Maria Theresa and it would have made her fall that much more tragic. If Monteyne evokes our pity in the final scenes, it’s hard not to root for her (now) underdog status and appreciate her, to some degree, wiser outlook.

As the nebbishy Louis XVI, A.J. Allegra is by turns childish, whiny and confused as to his lot in life, but he always makes sure we’re aware of his royal pedigree and the innate sense of privilege that comes with it. It’s another incisive portrayal by this outstanding

actor.

Other stand-outs include James Yeargain as a close friend of the Queen; William Bowling as Marie’s prudish brother, more concerned with politics than his sister’s welfare; and James Bartelle as a sheep who, in a surrealistic, if overlong, turn, counsels the Queen.

After all, she was inclined to dress up as a shepherdess at Versailles. The things those wacky rich folk do.

Still, I would’ve vastly preferred a tale told from a peasant’s perspective.

In this noxious age of Kardashian, it would be only fair.

Livin’ New Orleans...Hot Wet & Naughty Though its run has ended, Livin’ New Orleans...Hot Wet & Naughty might turn up again around town and if you’re in the mood for an old-fashioned cabaret with deep roots in Nawlins, it’s an enjoyable way to spend a few hours.

The inimitable Becky Allen headlines with her distinctive bullfroggy voice and if some of her jokes go back to the Revolution (“Let’s stroll through New Orleans’ culture. Opera, chess, now we’re finished with it.”) this alumna of the High School of Occasional Chastity knows how to put them over with aplomb.

Marshall Harris sports stylish outfits and a pleasing tenor voice that he puts to good use in Elvis Presley, Randy Newman and Jerry Lee Lewis songs as well as in his duets with Becky. I just wish he could get his snazzy hats to stay securely on his head as his constant adjustment of them distracts from his performance.

Piano man Jim Walpole keeps the tempi brisk and the momentum flowing as he tickles the ivories with panache; his jazzy stride piano solo is one of the evening’s highlights.

Chalmatian jokes, Mardi Gras medleys, special guests (the day I saw it, Elizabeth Bouvier did a highly effective version of the Charles Aznavour song What Makes A Man) all add up to a good-natured 90 minutes, that as the seasons change, may not be as hot and wet as they were in August but will certainly be fun (and a wee bit naughty).

matters of health

by Eugene Collins, Director of Development @ HAART, ecollins@haartinc.org

STI rates on the rise I’ve known you for 27 years and all I can say is if God was giving out sexually transmitted diseases to people as a punishment for sinning, then you would be at the free clinic ALL the time!” – Dixie Carter.

If you haven’t heard yet, there’s been an increase of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in Louisiana, with significant increases among gay men in

Baton Rouge and New Orleans; in fact, statewide and across the gulf coast.

This article will focus on the rapid rise of syphilis in the state.

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by Attorney Troy A. Tureau Email: thelawprofessor@comcast.net

Have You Lost a Parent?

You Might Be Able to Obtain Your Inheritance While Your Other Parent Is Still Alive!

This is not a long column, but the implications are huge. I recently got a call from a friend who told me a sad story about his nephew, who we will refer to as “John.” His mother had died of cancer when he was about nine years old. She did not have a will. When his mother died, his parents owned a house and a good bit of rural property. His father remarried within months. John had a difficult time accepting his mother’s death and his father’s remarriage. As a teenager and in his twenties, he was constantly in and out of trouble as a result of alcohol and drug addiction. He was never able to keep a job for long and became homeless. My friend invited John to stay with him until he got back on his feet once he discovered that he had been sleeping in his truck. John had gone to his father to see if he could stay with him. Sadly, his father had turned him away, saying that he was busy raising his new family. All of this time, John’s father had continued living on that same piece of property that he’d owned when his first wife had died.

Between the passage of time and John’s father’s continued development of the property, the property has substantially increased in value.

Now the good part…. Under Louisiana law, when one spouse dies without a will (called “intestate”), that person’s property is inherited by his or her children. However, the children don’t get the property immediately because the surviving spouse gets to continue to

use the property. In Louisiana this use of the property is called a usufruct.

There is one caveat though – the surviving spouse gets the use of the children’s property until death or remarriage.

“Well, wait a minute,” you’re probably thinking, “didn’t John’s father remarry

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symptoms including flu-like illness, nonitchy rash covering whole body or in patches, flat warts on vulva and anus, white patches on roof of mouth, patchy hair loss. During this stage, syphilis is very infectious and can be easily transmitted sexually. These symptoms can occur for years. If left untreated, syphilis will progress to the most serious and final tertiary stage. > Tertiary: During the third stage, all previous symptoms will disappear.

At this stage, heart and nervous system damage, and death can occur.

Syphilis can be treated and cured in this tertiary stage, but damage that occurred up to that time may not be reversible. > Congenital syphills: (mother to child transmission at birth) In 2013, Louisiana ranked 1st nationally in congenital Syphilis case rates at 51.3 per 100,000 live births.

ally. NOLA.com, from CDC generated reports, recently reported that Louisiana leads the nation in the rates of cases of gonorrhea and syphilis, and it ranks third in the rates of chlamydia cases. We all know that our HIV rates are among the highest in the country as well, which is why it’s so important to protect yourself from contracting or spreading an STI infection. Although our public health sector has continued to implement risk reduction strategies over the past three decades, the CDC report says, “sexually transmitted diseases continue to threaten the health and well-being of millions of Americans, particularly gay and bi-sexual men and young people.”

Is that what I have?

The major problem is that, if a person shows symptoms, which is unlikely, the symptoms can be minor and often go unnoticed. Symptoms of syphilis include: > Primary: (3 weeks – 3 months after infection) Painless ulcers (chancres) appear at infection site. They are not always easy to see, but they are highly contagious. Usual places they show up include – vulva, cervix, penis, anus, mouth. Ulcers take about 2-6 weeks to heal without treatment. If treatment is not sought during this time, syphilis will progress to the secondary stage. > Secondary: After chancres,

Highest rates concentrated in Metro areas As of the latest 2013 data, the Office of Public Health reports there were persons diagnosed with primary and secondary (P&S) syphilis in 43 of Louisiana’s 64 parishes. More significantly, only four parishes accounted for 55% of all P&S syphilis diagnoses; Caddo (Shreveport area), Orleans, East Baton Rouge, and Jefferson.

Louisiana ranked 3rd in primary and secondary (P&S) syphilis case rates (9.2 per 100,000 population); about twice the national average. Although

just a few months after his mother’s death?” Exactly!

So, what does all of this mean for John? When John’s mother died without a will, he inherited his mother’s half of the property that she and John’s father co-owned at the time of her death. John’s father was able to continue to use John’s inherited portion of the property until he died or remarried.

When John’s father remarried, he lost the ability to continue using John’s inherited property - the same property that he had refused to allow his son to remain on when he was homeless.

Therefore, John can now demand that his father divide the land with him or give him the value of his portion. If his father refuses, John can file suit to have the property divided or sold!

Bottom line: Giving a surviving spouse the use of a child’s inherited property until death or remarriage is extremely popular when that spouse dies with a will (although a will can delete the loss of the usufruct upon remarriage). However, if a person dies without a will, it is the law. So, if you have lost a parent who died without a will, remember that you are entitled to your inheritance upon your surviving parent’s remarriage. For those who have lost a parent who did have a will, you should check the terms of the will carefully to see if the use of the prop-

Louisiana also ranked 3rd for P&S syphilis in 2012, there was a 23% increase in case rates from 2012 to 2013; up from 339 statewide cases in 2012 to 423 in 2013.

The report indicates the highest number of women were diagnosed in Caddo, East Baton Rouge, and Iberia parishes and that Caddo Parish also had the highest P&S syphilis case rate for females. The areas with the highest numbers of men with P&S syphilis were in Orleans, Caddo, and East Baton Rouge parishes.

What do I do now?

The discouraging part of this epidemic, is that Syphilis is treatable and curable. These troubling facts recently led public health professionals to create a task force to focus on rates in Shreveport, offering targeted testing and treatment. As a result of those efforts, rates have begun to decrease in Shreveport, and expansion of the taskforce into other regions will be next.

Meanwhile, if you picked something up at the bar that’s staying with you longer than you had planned, contact your primary care doctor. If you are uninsured, or a little shy about confessing to your regular doctor, seek out one of the Gay Men’s Wellness Centers offered around the state at AIDS Service Organizations like Crescent Care in NO, HAART in BR, Philadelphia Center in Shreveport, GO CARE in Monroe or Acadiana CARES in

erty was given to the surviving spouse and, if so, if that use ends upon remarriage. If you are like John, a discovery like this has the potential to completely change your world. I urge you to contact me or another attorney if you would like to learn more about inherited property.

As always, I invite your comments and questions. (These are the personal views of Troy A. Tureau, and nothing here is intended to be legal advice of any kind.) Troy A. Tureau, J.D., L.LM., Attorney at Law, Tureau Legal, 4631 S. Carrolton Ave., New Orleans, LA 70119, thelawprofessor@comcast.net 504.308.1608.

book review George. Alex Gino.

Scholastic Press, 2015.

ISBN: 978-0-545-812542. 198 pages. $16.99.

by Frank Perez George is a charming debut novel written for middle grade readers, aged 9-12. When George’s classmates see her, they think they are looking at a boy, but inside, George knows she’s a girl.

Her secret torments her until one day her teacher announces their class play is going to be Charlotte’s Web. George desperately wants to play the role of Charlotte but her teacher says she can’t even try out for the part because she’s a boy. Then, with the help of her best friend, Kelly, George comes up with a plan, to not only play Charlotte but also to let everyone know who she really is.

Until recent years, transgenderthemed children’s books were virtually non-existent and the few that were published were considered taboo. The first novel to feature a transgender teenager published by a mainstream publisher was Julie Anne Peters’ Luna in 2004. This year, about a dozen books featuring transgender characters will be published.

Information and resources for transgender children and their parents are scarce. Thankfully, that is beginning to change. George is a book that many transgender people will one day, years from now, look back on and be grateful.

Alex Gino grew up in Staten Island and now resides in the San Francisco Bay area.

Gino identifies as genderqueer and has been involved with queer and trans activism for twenty years. George is Gino’s first book.

Lafayette. Or, call Public Health’s hotline number 1-800- 99AIDS9. Dixie would be proud of you!

By Tim Young and Eugene Collins Tim Young is CEO of HAART in Baton Rouge and Eugene Collins is Director of Prevention there.

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