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Ambush Gives You Pre-Halloween & Oktoberfest Ambush Magazine, now in its 33rd year, brings to you its annual PreHalloween and Oktoberfest edition. Don't know where to begin? Just flip through these pages, and find the hottest events and parties in the Gulf South. Halloween, of course, is always huge in New Orleans, but Oktoberfest has grown in recent years. There's every kind of German delight to experience, not only the food varities, but those that are pleasing to the eyes! Catch us online at www.AmbushMag.com, and www.Facebook.com/AmbushMag.

Halloween New Orleans Announces 2015 Event Schedule: Lazarus Ball, HNO Glo [Neon Party], Fall of The Pharaohs Halloween Bash, Disco Brunch & Second Line "Fall of The Pharaohs" presented by Avita Pharmacy is the 32nd Anniversary of Halloween New Orleans (HNO) four-day weekend. Considered one of the only volunteer run charities remaining in the U.S., 100 percent of the weekend’s proceeds are donated to Project Lazarus - a long-standing local support facility for people living with HIV/AIDS.

The Lazarus Ball kicks off festivities Thursday, October 29th, 7:3010:30pm at Il Mercato, 1911 Magazine St. with Black Tie preferred attire. This year’s event will feature live entertainment provided by Boomtown Casino, local cuisine - including an oyster bar from Acme Oyster House, and a silent auction with items from local businesses, galleries, restaurants, and entertainment venues. Forty bottles of wine will be raffled off to one winner. HNO Glo in collaboration with Pride.com is set for Friday, October 30th, 9pm-2am, at Republic New Orleans, 828 S Peters St. A huge hit in 2014, the Neon party of Halloween New Orleans is back and rebranded as HNO Glo. Glow sticks, glow paint, glow harnesses...whatever! Just come

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in your best neon attire. It features international headliner/producer and 2014 “DJ of the Year” nominee - DJ Grind. "Fall of the Pharaohs" is the big night Saturday, October 31st, 10pm4am, at Contemporary Arts Center, 900 Camp St. Costume is required at entry. Sand, scarabs, skulls...this is where the golden fortune, fame, and power of Egyptian royalty collides with the dark and dead from it’s past. From the “Market Bazaar” to the temple wall of hieroglyphics, prepare to be immersed in a story of lust, betrayal, and revenge at the main Halloween event, "Fall of The Pharaohs." Doors open at 10pm (9pm for Hosts and Patrons). The Absolut Costume Contest begins at 10:30pm and ends

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just before the returning midnight show. Judges of the contest include comediennes Shawn Pelofsky and Jill-Michele Melean along with Grammy legend, Thelma Houston. Featuring up-and-coming DJ Blacklow and New Orleans own, DJ Joe Gauthreaux, the after-party continues at official bar sponsor, Oz with DJ. Disco Brunch & Second Line closes out the weekend Sunday, November 1st, 1-4pm at House of Blues New Orleans, 225 Decatur St. Rally the troops at the end of Halloween weekend for one last hurrah. Great fried chicken, comedy, and dancing down Bourbon Street - the Sunday brunch and second line returns to House of Blues. If you strut your stuff on stage for the Saturday night costume contest, you might get an award for it on Sunday. (Categories include: Pharaoh’s Choice, Best Group Costume, Best On Stage Performance, Best Individual Costume, Hott Mess Award, People’s Choice). The brunch features a performance with meet and greet by Iconic Disco/ Dance/R&B legend and ally to the LGBTQ community - Thelma Houston, and is hosted by comedienne and Atlantis Cruise queen, Shawn Pelofsky. After you fill-up, laugh, sing and dance, follow the sound of New Orleans jazz as you walk in the HNO Second Line - a unique local tradition that marches down Bourbon Street and ends at Oz New Orleans. For more information and to purchase tickets, visit www.halloweenneworleans.com. Ambush Magazine is a proud sponsor of Halloween for almost 30 years.

B-Bob's Celebrates 24th Anniversary Oct. 17 All roads will lead to Mobile, Alabama's popular nightclub B-Bob's Downtown on Saturday, Oct. 17. The largest LGBT club in Mobile will celebrate its 24th anniversary with a giant blowout. Bar Baron Jerry Ehlen has a lot in store for revelers that evening featuring the talents of Colt Studio's sizzling hot Seth Fornea. You can chill out on the main floor, and dance and see a show on the second level. Open nightly, shows are held of Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays under the direction of Show Director Miss Cie. Entertaining Mobile since 1992, the club is located at 213 Conti Street. Visit www.b-bobs.com or call 251.433.2262 for more information.

NOLA Leather to Geaux Oct. 16 -18 Whether you’re into leather, rubber, kink or something else, you’ll want to attend this year’s New Orleans leather run: NOLA Leather to Geaux.

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Scheduled for October 16 – 18, this run weekend offers many opportunities for the indulgences of your desires. Participants will have the unique experience of wearing his/her leather or fetish gear while drinking in the streets with a “go cup” in hand. Check out the playful dark spaces in the bars while celebrating leather and kink in a way possible ONLY in New Orleans. Purchasers of the weekend package will enjoy a welcome cocktail party at the Hotel St. Pierre on Friday evening

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Mr. Louisiana Leather 2016 Tim Goodman Ambush: What does winning Mr. Louisiana Leather 2016 mean to you? TG: My winning Mr. Louisiana Leather 2016 signifies I’ve embraced the leather side of myself. The title also shows others I’ve come out as a Leatherman. Lastly, the

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title confirms that I’ve found a leather community to call home. I was asked during the interview portion of the contest “When did my interest in leather start?” I thought back to when I was a kid in grade school. My mom would take my brothers and me into a small clothing store for school clothes and new shoes. The shoe section was in the back of the store. I remember entering the shoe section and seeing the leather shoe section. The smell of the leather shoes, and boots was so intense and intoxicating that I would sit in front of the leather boots waiting to try on my shoes. I wanted to stay close to the leather boots and thus the leather smell they produced. My interest in shoes is a whole other issue/fetish. I’ve continued my love of leather but hide it, just like being gay. I bought a pair of khaki colored leather pants after HS and wore them out in public. I was turned on by the thought of knowing I’m wearing leather as a kink but people didn’t know. After HS it was the era of Michael Jackson leather jacket phase, so it was trendy. However, for me it was no trend it is my inner soul. When I finally came out at 26 years old I wasn’t out as a Leatherman. Yet, I always ended up hanging out in the Leather/Levi bars. It’s comforting to be around others who share the love of leather and the leather subculture. In NOLA I’ve found my home and a community of friends who share my love of leather and for that I’m thankful. To me winning Mr. Louisiana Leather enables me to come out as a Leatherman to my family and friends. My family and friends can see I’m proud to be a Leatherman, and a Leatherman who will do good deeds with the opportunities afforded by the Mr. Louisiana Leather 2016 title. Ambush: What will you do to promote the Mr. Louisiana Leather 2016 title? TG: My platform is to bring back leather education to NOLA, and to provide nutrition education to those in need. If you want to sum up what I stand for its Education. Knowledge is power. groups or factions and even politics. However, I believe that we all, deep down, want the same things for our families and friends - equality, respect, opportunity, and peace. These are inalienable rights for all, which we should champion as we learn more about each other and how to love each other better. Social media is wraught with examples of how we are divided, jealous, and sometimes ugly with each other. We often seem to focus more on how we are different, rather than how we are alike. This is the reason I have chosen to focus on peace and inclusion.

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Miss Louisiana Leatherette 2016 Vanessa Carr Ambush: What does winning Miss Louisiana Leatherette 2016 mean to you? VC: I am honored to have been chosen to represent the Lords of Leather as Miss Louisiana Leatherette 2016. Winning this title will allow me to promote my platform of Inclusion and Peace within our community. I am well aware that our community can sometimes be divided by various

I am currently in talks, with my Sash Daddy, Jason Ashford, Mr. Louisiana 2015, to create a business plan to do various demonstrations open to the public at various locations. The goal is to have demonstrations spanning various parts of BDSM – Flogging, Bondage, Dom and Sub, etc. Also we’re looking to have demonstrations and education on Bootblacking, Pup play, and other Kinks of interest. Finding a place willing to give up space for education will be key to the success of bringing Kink education back to NOLA. If anyone with a bar or space big enough to house education classes please let me know via email: truck4me2@yahoo.com. To promote nutrition education I plan to become a fundraiser for Second Harvest Food Bank. Monies raised will be used to fund one hour nutrition and food budgeting classes called Cooking Matters at the Store. The class is intended to help people learn about nutrition and budget shopping. If people would like more information: http://no-hunger.org/cooking-mattersstore/ Ambush: Will you compete in IML (International Mr. Leather)? TG: Yes. I’m looking forward to representing Louisiana at an international level. My journey to IML has already started with my starting to network with former IML participants worldwide. Plus plans to network at leather events across the country. always strive to acomplish the next level of performance, dedication, and purpose. My friend, Derek PentonRobicheaux, reminds me that we are responsible for uplifting and educating our community, as we also hold them accountable. My wife, Desiree Chevalier, challenges me every day to live with a purpose that is not focused on myself, but one that makes the greater community stronger and more beautiful. This is how I plan to represent Miss Louisiana Leatherette.

Ambush: What will you do to promote the Miss Louisiana Leatherette 2016 title? As Miss Louisiana Leatherette 2016, I have certain obligations with the Lords of Leather. Among those are: performing at the Mister Leather contest, attending the Royalty Appreciation Party, performing at the Lords of Leather Ball Masque and coordinating two fundraisers. I have two additional fundraisers I plan to coordinate for causes that are very dear to me. I will be raising funds for the Louisiana Equality Foundation, which will specifically focus on suicide prevention among LGBT youth, and I will also be raising funds in cooperation with the Big Easy Sisters of The Big Easy Sisters: Sisters of the Muddy Waters Perpetual Indulgence in order to help support were ordained as an "official house" of the Sisters of their mission. Perpetual Indulgence in ceremonies at their Exequatur As I prepared myself for the Miss Louihosted at Oz New Orleans. Sister Houses from across siana Leatherette Pageant, I was reminded the nation were in attendance for this momentous by many individuals my responsibility to the occasion. The Big Easy Sisters also announced their communtiy does not begin and end with Patron Saint Marie Laveau, and granted Sainthood to winning a title. Clint Taylor, Saint of Levis & Leather; Adikus Sulpizi, My Drag Mother, Monica SynclaireSaint of Easy & Friendly; and Princesse Stephaney, Kennedy, continuously encourages me to Saint of Barbitches & Barmaids.

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the "official" dish ...from 4 from 6 – 9pm hosted by the Lords of Leather and NOLA PAHs (Pups and Handlers) and a “meat” and greet event at Rawhide 2010 afterwards. A Saturday 11am walking tour of the historic French Quarter led by local tour guide Chad Boutte will be followed by a BBQ lunch/Beer Bust hosted by the Knights d’Orleans at the Phoenix Bar. A play party follows from 2-6pm upstairs at the Eagle Bar in the Phoenix. Then on to Bourbon Street for the leather/fetish dress code-enforced NOLA Leather to Geaux Dance Party at Oz beginning at 10pm. Special guest DJ will be Robbie Leslie, who has worked in NYC, Florida and The Coast from the 1970s through the 1990s. He began his career at Fire Island’s disco The Sandpiper, then on to NYC at Studio 54, Palladium, Underground, The Red Parrot, The Saint and 12 West. He was the prototype of the modern “circuit party DJ,” travelling internationally to spin at one-night party extravaganzas, events and fundraisers. He would continue as a circuit regular until 2002. He was the last of 10 renowned disc jockeys performing at the marathon 40-hour closing party of New York’s private club, The Saint, from April 30 through May 2, 1988. He continues to perform in clubs around the country and internationally. He produces a weekly show on Sirius/XM Studio 54, “Robbie Leslie Presents” where he shares his classic recordings, current international shows and legendary DJ showcases. You won’t want to miss it this special night at Oz! Sunday features a late lunch leading up to a French Quarter bar crawl which will begin at GrandPre’s on North Rampart and end at Lafitte’s on Bourbon Street where love and napkins have been tossed in the air for 26 years on Sunday nights. Each run package includes a run pin, a t-shirt, a souvenir plastic “geaux cup” and a “swag” bag in addition to the aforementioned meals, tour and parties. Register now at www.nolaleathertogeaux2015.doattend.com and sign up today. Don’t miss out on a great weekend! Hotel St. Pierre at 911 Burgundy in the Quarter is this year’s host hotel, call 504.542.4401 and mention NOLA Leather to Geaux to get the special rate. Rooms are limited so don’t delay. Admission to single events (available to anyone who did not register for the weekend package) is as follows: Friday Night Cocktail Reception/ Welcome Party $15, Hotel St. Pierre, 6-9pm; Saturday FQ Walking Tour $10 Hotel St. Pierre, 11am; Saturday Cookout/Beer Bust/Play Party $20, Phoenix Bar, 2-6pm; Saturday Dance Party/Sash Bash VIP Room for Drink Specials, $10 plus Oz cover, Oz, 10pm – until. Two (2)

pieces of wearable leather or fetish gear required for entry; Sunday Late Lunch, $15 GrandPre’s Bar, 1:30 – 3:30pm. Sunday Bar Crawl Finale, 4pm starting at GrandPre’s. Open to everyone in the community. See destinations and approximate times for each stop on website. All are welcome to participate! For more information and details please visit www.nolaleathertogeaux.wordpress.com or Facebook (NOLA Leather to Geaux).

26th NO/AIDS Walk Raises Over $198,400 The 26th Annual NO/AIDS Walk presented by Chevron has raised a whopping $198,497.14 to date. It's not to late to join in the efforts, just visit www.noaidswalk.com to make your donation. Top Individual Walker went again this year to Toby Lefort who raised over $30,000. The Top Teams included Team Young & the Restless bringing in $5,610, Team Avita $3,560, and Ben Franklin Student Government Association $2,175. Congratulations to all whose efforts made this another successful year. Christian LeBlanc of “The Young and the Restless” and New Orleans tv host Chriss Knight, served as the honorary chairs, featuring a guest appearance by fellow Y&R cast member and comedian, Sean Carrigan, who plays the character “Stitch” on the show. NO/AIDS Task Force has served the New Orleans community for over 30 years to provide hope and care for men, women and families affected by HIV and AIDS. Now a division of CrescentCare, a federally qualified healthcare center, the task force has expanded its service to offer a range of healthcare solutions to anyone and everyone who is seeking healthcare in Greater New Orleans and Southeast Louisiana. Ambush Magazine has been a proud sponsor of NO/AIDS Walk for the past 26 years.

Amon-Ra's "Find Your BOO" Bash Oct. 18 The Krewe of Amon-Ra wants you to "Find Your BOO" Sunday, Oct. 18th, 4-6:30pm at The Corner Pocket, 940 St. Louis Street in New Orleans. See the hot Corner Pocket Boys on the bar, food, and more entertainment featuring Queen Amon-Ra L Opal Masters, and Queen Amon-Ra XLVIII Deja DejaVue', plus Clorox Bleachman, and Jeremy Weinberg as the male lead? Donation is $10 at the door. Funds raised benefits the krewe's 51st Mardi Gras Ball on Jan. 30, 2016. For more on the krewe, visit www.KreweOfAmonRa.com or www.Facebook.com/kreweofamonra.

Ambush Endorses John Bell Edwards for Governor; Louisiana Gubernatorial Election Set for Oct. 24 Ambush Magazine endorses John Bell Edwards for Governor. The Louisiana Gubernatorial Primary election is set for Saturday, October 24. Early voting will last through October 17. The General Election is set for Saturday, November 21. Nine candidates for the office have qualified with the Secretary of State’s Office: Scott Angelle (R), Beryl Billiot (I), Jay Dardenne (R), Cary Deaton (D), John Bell Edwards (D), Jeremy Odom (I), Eric Paul Orgeron (I), S.L. Simpson (D), David Vitter (R).

Narcissus Celebrates Halloween Oct. 30 The Krewe of Narcissus is throwing it's Halloween bash Friday, Oct. 30th, 8pm-12midnight. Put on your costume for an old fashioned dance party at the krewe's Boogie Nights party. Hosted at Mags 940, 940 Elysian Fields in New Orleans, the event features a DJ, Halloween Costume Contest, Ghoulish Buffet and more for a night out on this festive Halloween weekend. Door donation is $10. Funds raised benefits the krewe's 2nd bal masque in 2016. For more on the krewe see Krewe of Narcissus on Facebook.

Alan Robinson to be Honored at 1st Annual Oracle Gala The late Alan Robinson, long-time New Orleans gay activist and former owner of the Faubourg Marigny Bookstore, will be honored by the LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana at its first annual Oracle Gala, to be held Saturday, November 14, at the Healing Center in New Orleans. The event will be MCd by Varla Jean Merman and Michael Sullivan and will feature live musical entertainment, dinner, a silent auction, and a tribute to Robinson. All proceeds benefit the LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana, a non-profit organization dedicated to the preservation of local LGBT+ history. More information is available on the Archive Project’s Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/ lgbtarchivesla?fref=ts Tickets are $40 for Archive Project members and $50 for non-members and can be purchased at http:// oraclegala.eventzilla.net/web/ event?eventid=2139078775.

NOBA Opens 2015-16 Season with Twyla Tharp's Exclusive 50th Anniversary Tour The New Orleans Ballet Association’s 2015-16 Main Stage Season kicks off with one of the most influential choreographers of this time, the Tony Award-winning visionary Twyla Tharp. This exclusive performance is part of a ten-week national tour that celebrates Tharp’s groundbreaking, five-decade career of dance-making for both modern and ballet companies, television, the Broadway stage and Hollywood films. New Orleans is one of only 17 stops in the U.S. where Tharp will premiere her new works, which were created specifically for this historic tour. The performance of Twyla Tharp 50th Anniversary Tour will take place Saturday, October 24, at 8pm at the Mahalia Jackson Theater of the Performing Arts. “We are very proud to be a part of history in sharing the ingenuity and brilliance that is Twyla Tharp and her 50th Anniversary Tour in New Orleans,” says NOBA Executive Director Jenny Hamilton. The 50th Anniversary Tour will be the first time since 2002 that Tharp has toured a group of dancers. The company is comprised of 13 hand-picked artists who have long histories with Tharp, appearing in her Broadway shows Movin’ Out and Come Fly Away, as well as in her various dance troupes and in the ballet and contemporary dance companies on which she has set works. Instead of touring a retrospective of her greatest hits, Tharp decided to use this 50th anniversary celebration to showcase the masterful evolution of her career over the past 50 years. The performance will feature two brand new works – Preludes and Fugues and Yowzie. Preludes and Fugues, which is set to Bach’s WellTempered Clavier, was created from Tharp’s memories as a watcher of dance. It is her tribute to four choreographers who influenced her early on – Merce Cunningham, Jerome Robbins, Martha Graham and George Balanchine. Yowzie, set to a score by New Orleans jazz great Henry Butler and Berkeley-raised trumpeter Steven Bernstein, features slapstick business, Buster Keaton hijinks, vaudeville turns and pratfalls. ”Dance can evoke many emotions, but it’s impossible to leave after seeing these works without understanding the world is a better place for having them in it.” (Star-Telegram) In 1965, at age twenty-three, Tharp founded her own company, Twyla Tharp Dance, and her works became known for their creativity, wit and technical precision coupled with a streetwise nonchalance. Tharp’s work for her own

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“Remembering Charlene Schneider” Upon graduating from high school, Charlene Schneider landed a job as a cryptographer with a private company that subcontracted with NASA. Charlene worked at Michoud Assembly Facility, in New Orleans East, where she had a toplevel security clearance. It was a great job and she was devastated when she was fired for being a lesbian. She had been arrested in a lesbian bar and in the early 1960s, this was grounds for dismissal in most jobs. The injustice of it all had a profound impact on Charlene, who resolved to fight for gay and lesbian equality. The consequences of that decision reverberate still today. Being arrested in a gay bar usually couraged her to open a bar for lesbimeant the person’s name and picture ans. Charlene, always fearless, dewould appear in the next day’s news- cided to take a chance. Having no paper, which, in turn, often resulted in experience in the bar business, the person being fired or evicted or Charlene called upon Kitty Blackwell, generally ostracized by friends and who had opened The Grog on N. Ramfamily. Charlene went on to be ar- part Street in 1969, to help her set up rested in bar raids six more times. the bar. (Blackwell would go on to own Typically, women in a lesbian bar would Ms. Kitty’s on Burgundy Street, Missisbe charged with “lewd behavior” or sippi River Bottom on St. Philip Street, sometimes even prostitution. Charlene and Kathryn’s Upstairs-Downstairs in later recalled, “You didn’t get arrested Metairie.) if you had a purse, though.” Charlene’s, located at 940 Elysian After leaving Michoud, Charlene Fields, opened in 1977. Over the next took a number jobs, including stints at 22 years, Charlene’s would earn a Western Union and the Times-Pica- prominent place in the pantheon of yune. She was working as the Social legendary New Orleans bars. Director at the Country Club when SuBars often take on the personality san Landrum and Doddie Finley en- of their owners, and Charlene’s was no

exception. Saundra Boudreaux, a regular in the 1980s, recalls, “Charlene cared about her girls, they were family” and “She always made us feel loved and safe.” The notion of Charlene’s being a “safe space” is a recurrent theme in many women’s memories of the bar. At the time, Charlene once recalled, “women’s bars were like boxing rings.” The late Toni Pizani remembered, “She worked toward giving women a better space.” Charlene would often accompany patrons to their cars upon leaving the bar. Her charisma was underscored by the care and concern she had for her guests. She would often sit with women at the bar and ask them about their lives and offer them encouragement or advice. “She genuinely cared about us,” one regular recalls. And whenever a new girl would come into the bar, Charlene went out of the way to make her feel welcome. On such occasions, Charlene probably remembered her first time at a lesbian bar. In 1957, while still in high school, Charlene went to the Tiger Lounge (originally on Tchoupitoulas Street but later on Burgundy Street), which was owned by a former nun named Jo Jo. In an interview with Curve Magazine, Charlene once described going to the Tiger Lounge that night, “I felt at home, because finally, I knew where I belonged. It was wonderful seeing people like myself. I saw eight of the butchest women you’ve ever seen in your life. I fell in love with each and every one of them.” In addition providing a warm, safe space for lesbians, Charlene’s was also a hotbed of political activity. Charlene fought tirelessly for equal rights and often held voter registration drives at her bar. She often invited LGBT friendly politicians to come to the bar to address patrons. Charlene was instrumental in working with LAGPAC (Louisiana Lesbian and Gay Political Action Caucus), which often held meet-

ings at her bar, and Councilman Johnny Jackson in getting the New Orleans City Council to pass a non-discrimination ordinance in 1991. She was one of the first members of the New Orleans chapter of PFLAG (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) and she helped start Pride Fest. She had a leading role in the protest rally and march against Anita Bryant in 1977 when the homophobic singer came to New Orleans and she participated in the National March on Washington for Gay and Lesbian Rights in 1979. It was not uncommon for Charlene to grab the microphone at events at her bar and lecture the crowd on the importance of voting and being political active. On closing night at Charlene’s in 1999, Loretta Mims recalled, “I wouldn’t have voted if it wasn’t for Charlene.” Another regular, Bridgette, observed, “Charlene showed us how to get into politics.” And Rebecca Stilley described the closing of Charlene’s as “the end of an era for women in the city.” For her work on behalf of equal rights, Charlene Schneider was the recipient of the Human Rights Campaign Equality Award, the Forum for Equality Community Service Award, and the Gay Appreciation Award for Lifetime Achievement. Her bar also received the first Gay Appreciation Award for Bar of the Year. Linda Tucker, Charlene’s long-time partner whom she met at the bar one Sunday afternoon in 1987, remembers, “A lot of grass roots came out of her club. She would be amazed today by how far we’ve come.” After Charlene’s closed in 1999, Charlene and Linda enjoyed a quiet life in Bay St. Louis on the Mississippi Gulf Coast until Charlene’s death in 2006. Reminiscing on their time together, Linda Tucker told me, “We had such a wonderful life together. She was a wonderful soul and our relationship was just magical.”

the "official" dish ...from 8 company and for the noted ballet companies she has created dances for – The Joffrey Ballet, American Ballet Theatre, New York City Ballet and more – made her among the first to demand a “crossover” dancer, someone equally skilled at ballet and modern dance technique. With her ingenious and dynamic movement and her sense of discovery, Tharp has been in demand everywhere for her irreverent choreography that appeals to a vast array of audiences all over the world. A recipient of the Kennedy Center Honors and a National Medal of Arts honoree, Tharp is a phenomenon in American dance history, a choreographer who has crossed stylistic borders, extended the notion of dancing, and thrilled audiences, all the while seeking new challenges for herself.

Tickets for Twyla Tharp 50th Anniversary Tour range from $24 to $129 and can be purchased through the New Orleans Ballet Association Box Office at 504.522.0996 or www.NOBAdance.com, and through Ticketmaster at 800.745.3000 or www.ticketmaster.com. Subscriptions for NOBA’s 2015-16 season and discounted tickets for groups of 10 or more, students and seniors are available. Twyla Tharp 50th Anniversary Tour is sponsored by Regions Bank and Sheraton New Orleans Hotel. Follow @nobadance on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

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The Big Easy Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence Exequatur @ Oz New Orleans ~ Photos by Darwin Reed

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Fried Green Tomatoes topped with Crawfish-Shrimp Cream Sauce @ Chef Ron’s Gumbo Stop in Metairie

Carl & Opal cocktailin’ @ Oz for Big Easy Sisters Exequatur Thumbs down Sally-FLY

Lord Consort & King XXXII Tommy Stubblefield & Troy Powell @ Big Easy Sisters Exequatur @ Oz Ken GrandPre behind the bar, a rare experience @ GrandPre’s!

New bartender James & bar baron James have a moment @ The Golden Lantern

Big Easy Sisters Exequatur Second Line on Dumaine St.

Crescent City Tour Booking Agency’s Frank Perez doing his Gay History Walking Tour outside World famous Clover Grill

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Bartender Kevin welcomes you to Bean Mondays @ Cutter’s

Get your Sunday rolling with one of Cafe Lafitte in Exile’s famous Bloody Mary’s

BBQ Shrimp @ Ambush Mansion, shrimp courtesy of Joshua Sevin

Frank Perez had one too many Bloody Mary’s @ Lafitte’s

Cheesy Thursday with the Mississippi Gang @ GrandPre’s

Sally-FLY Monica SynclaireKennedy in Big Easy Sisters Second Line

SDGMs XLI Marsha & Rip with SDGM XV Olive @ GrandPre’s for Cheesy Thursday

Sexy bartender Cameron welcomes you to Oz

VJDJ Kyle David in the booth @ Dance Bar of the Year Oz

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The Big Easy ~ Metairie, New Orleans ~ Photos by Paul Melancon, Rip Naquin

Ambush's Marsha joins Chef Ron in his new party room @ Chef Ron’s Gumbo Stop in Metairie

John Michael helping Trent find his potatoes & carrots for crock pot cooking @ Golden Lantern

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Bartender of the Month

Hot Happenings

I love the month of October for many reasons, but one of the major ones is that the weather is perfect for sitting on a balcony and watching the world of the French Quarter unfolding in front of you. One of the perfect places is also where my bartender for the month of October works. I am talking about none other than the upstairs bar, Queen's Head Pub, at Good Friends Bar, and my bartender of the month is the hysterically lovable Jeremey Larkin Cole (now that is a soap opera name).

Halloween is quickly approaching with all its spooky delights. But before you go trick or treating (for some people more tricks than treats), here are just a few of the top picks of events for the coming weeks. Have fun!

Bartender of the Month Jeremey Larkin Cole Good Friends Bar Great service and a stunning view of the nighttime antics of the French Quarter await you upstairs at Good Friends. Jeremy hails from Houma, Louisiana and has worked at the bar for a year now. This fun-loving individual enjoys his job so much it shows in his work and demeanor. He literally beams when he waits on you. Visiting him is like catching up with an old friend, even if you do not even know him. His laid back charm does not diminish his professionalism in serving you quickly and with flair. His favorite drink to make is a martini, both traditional and flavored. I can attest to his dirty vodka martinis, they are delicious. His signature drink, which is quite tasty, is the Blueberry Lemonade, which he boasts is tart and sweet just like him. But even though he is quite the mixologist, his favorite drink to consume on his own time is Bourbon and Coke. So now that the air is cooler and the nights seem longer, go to the second floor of Good Friends and try on one Jeremy’s special Blueberry delights, you will not regret it. Good Friends is located at 740 Dauphine Street.

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Wednesday, October 14 – Thursday, October 22, 2015 I am ready for my close up Mr. DeMille. It is that time of the year for the New Orleans Film Festival. Running for one week, there are numerous screenings, seminars, panel discussions, workshops and parties. Mix and mingle with stars, filmmakers and everyone in between in the movie industry both locally and around the world. Celebrating its 26th anniversary this year, the Oscar-qualifying New Orleans Film Festival has firmly established itself on the regional film fest circuit as one of the most reputable in the country. For more information and tickets, go to www.neworleansfilmsociety.org. Friday, October 16 – Sunday, October 18, 2015 Get ready for NOLA Leather To Geaux: a Leather Run Weekend for the Leather, Kink & Fetish community. Get your “to go” cup, fill it with your favorite drink and spend it in this fun-loving city for a weekend with other leather daddies, boys and gear wearers. Enjoy a fun time wearing your leather/kink/fetish gear while celebrating all that New Orleans has to offer. Host hotel, welcome party, brunch, dance, BBQ, beer bust, walking tour of Historic French Quarter, and a closing bar crawl Sunday evening. Visit their Facebook page or web site for more information.https:/ /nolaleathertogeaux.wordpress.com. Saturday, October 17, 2015 The Krewe of Armeinius is once again hosting their hugely successful event Cocktoberfest. Everyone knows that an event like Cocktoberfest is bound to be a sausage-fest. That’s why this event is billed the most fabulously strange Oktoberfest in New Orleans. Served up with a bottomless beer garden and fun German themed entertainment, this is bound to be a night you don’t want to forget. After growing the past couple of years Cocktoberfest is now going to be celebrated at the Armeinius Den located at 433 N Broad St in Mid-City. This event goes to benefit the Krewe of Armeinius and the Gay Historical Preservation Society and is truly an event that is a smash for everyone 21 and up. Come help preserve some of the most unique traditions

while enjoying a rooster filled evening of fun. The party begins at 7pm. For more information, go to http:// armeinius.org/. Saturday, October 17, 2015 New Orleans is a port city along the mighty Mississippi, so water plays a huge role in our culture. We rely on it for literally for our life, our commerce and even our recreational time spent. So come enjoy the night and have a little Halloween fun at the same time at the 8th Anba Dlo Halloween Festival and Water Symposium. This event is free for the first time this year. The New Orleans’ spirit has always survived by celebrating life; whatever the situation may be. This spirit is the basis for Anba Dlo; when we come together to honor New Orleans’ important and changing relationship with water all while educating, inspiring and celebrating. The day’s events include: WATER SYMPOSIUM (10am4pm) What is New Orleans’ relationship with water as we move further into the 21st century? While most of the country is experiencing more severe and common droughts, New Orleans faces unique challenges as our surrounding water level slowly rises. The morning will kick off from The Healing Center with a Walk and Learn (10am-noon) with experts informing goers of New Orleans’ relationship with its river and surrounding area. The Water Symposium (noon-4pm) will energize attendees through every avenue of learning with 18 interactive art exhibitions and panels of scientists and city planners. PARADE (5:30-7pm) Kick off the evening the proper New Orleans’ way; a parade through the city. Launching from the corner of Royal and Franklin Streets at 5:30pm, this parade will feature many boisterous groups that will get the crowd off their feet and dancing throughout the streets. These groups include The Star Steppin’ Cosmonaughties, The Muff-aLottas, BateBunda, NOLA Cherry Bombs and more! HALLOWEEN FESTIVAL (7:30pm1am) Get decked out in your best Halloween costume at this not-to-bemissed FREE festival. Three stages will keep guests entertained all night with performers, burlesque, acrobats, interactive art exhibitions, water alters, live auctions, physic readings, New Orleans food and drink and more! The Healing Center will be completely transformed into an underwater mystical getaway with headliners including: Tank and the Bangas, Sweet Crude, 101 Runners, BateBunda and Doombalaya. Come and experience the exclusivity of Lasiren’s VIP Lounge with complementary food and drinks, private viewings of the main headliners, physic readings and the ability to rub shoulders with your favorite bands and performers. VIP tickets are only $25 and can be

bought at the door or online at http:// www.anbadlofestival.org/#!vip/c2ad. For more and complete information on artists, lineups, bios, festival history, general questions and more, visit our newly launched website at http:// www.anbadlofestival.org. Saturday, October 24, 2015 A night of music, mascara, and mayhem await you at Divas Doin’ It For Themselves: a fundraiser for the New Orleans Gay Men’s Chorus. The event will be held at mags 940 (940 Elysian Fields) from 8 – 11pm. The men of NOGMC get in touch with their feminine sides for a night of incomparable entertainment. Local celebretants Elizabeth Bouvier and Guadloupe will be your emcees for the evening. Tickets are $10 at the door. Tuesday, October 27 – Sunday, November 1, 2015 Is anyone looking for a shoe or maybe a prince? Rodgers + Hammerstein’s Cinderella is the Tony Award-winning Broadway musical from the creators of The Sound of Music and South Pacific that’s delighting audiences with its contemporary take on the classic tale. This lush production features an incredible orchestra, jaw-dropping transformations and all the moments you love — the pumpkin, the glass slipper, the masked ball and more — plus some surprising new twists! Be transported back to your childhood as you rediscover some of Rodgers + Hammerstein’s most beloved songs, including “In My Own Little Corner,” “Impossible/It’s Possible” and “Ten Minutes Ago,” in this hilarious and romantic Broadway experience for anyone who’s ever had a wish, a dream... or a really great pair of shoes. For tickets or more information, go to www. saengernola.com. Thursday, October 29 – Sunday, November 1, 2015 Halloween New Orleans is once again upon us in all of its spooky and lusty glory with the title: The Fall of the Pharaohs. This benefit weekend helps Project Lazarus. Journey with us into the Pyramid of the Pharaohs where you’ll experience the luxuries of Egyptian royalty and uncover the horrifying secret crypt where the dead are laid to rest. Will you follow the path of the rich or the path of the dead? The four day event includes the Lazarus Ball at Il Mercado on Thursday, the Neon Party at Republic on Friday, the Main Event at the Contemporary Arts Center on Saturday and ends with Brunch and a second line on Sunday at the House of Blues. For tickets or more information, go to www.halloweenneworleans.com.

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Our Town at Le Petit Théâtre du Vieux Carré through Oct. 18 Le Petit’s new Artistic Director Maxwell Williams chose to make his New Orleans directorial debut with Thornton Wilder’s Our Town. His fairly traditional approach to this classic work evoked mixed feelings in me. On one hand, it may be just as well that there was nothing misguided about it, no uber-trendy bells’n’whistles, but rather, judging from photos in the playbill, it served as a respectful nod to Le Petit’s history and the show’s two previous productions there in 1939 and 1956. On the other, I wish Williams had done something, anything, to make this Town more singular. As the show proceeded, I waited for something like the hyperrealistic coup de théâtre that David Cromer conjured in the third act in his 2009 New York production. If Williams wisely avoided any copycatting, we will have to wait for future shows for a unique directorial vision to appear from Williams. Still, Williams is to be commended for his one masterstroke, namely casting Carol Sutton as the Stage Manager. While, in these days of color- and gender-blind casting, having an African-American actress in a role typically played by a white male is hardly eyebrow-raising (and, let’s face it, the Anthony Bean Community Theater offered a fully mixed race production five years ago), Sutton’s performance fully

embodies all that makes Our Town the masterpiece it is. For beyond its talking-to-the-audience style and little scenery/no set/ minimal props, things which no longer seem revolutionary as they did in 1938 when Our Town premiered, the humanism which permeates the script gives it its agelessness. Sure, Town can seem a bit simplistic now— The Skin of Our Teeth, Wilder’s other

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band Mojeaux followed by a late night DJ. Afterwards, I ran home for a quick change into a costume and then I was off to Metairie for Ryan Delaney’s Super Nineties Party. This noteworthy house party changed slightly this year to a different decade (was the eighties the past few years). So I picked up a new habit, actually a nun’s habit and went as Sister Mary Clarence from Sister Act. Whoopi Goldberg would have been proud. It was a festive evening filled with hot guys in various costumes (or for some sluttier people, lack thereof). Weirdly enough this was my second costume event and it had not even turned October 1 yet. After twirling for a little while there I made a quick end of the night stop at the Four Seasons to say hi to the crew there and catch the tail end of Dominque DeLorean’s show. Sunday was the second to last Halloween Host Party at Philips Bar Uptown. The gorgeous men came out in full force after the devastatingly bad Saints game. Nothing like vodka and beer to drown your sorrows after a Saints loss. As Halloween draws near, you can tell the rush is on to get your costumes together. I love this event, not only for the costumes, but the fact that each of the four events is totally different from the others so there is something for everyone. The following week’s events started on Wednesday with the Hobknobber’s networking event at the recently opened

events. It is also a great month for playing dress-up. Like many New Orleanians, I love a costume and this is the perfect month for it. So my two weeks was full of rooftops, theatre, art and some very hot men so let’s begin. My event started on Thursday when Biz Magazine, New Orleans premier business publication, hosted an event at the Four Winds on their spectacular rooftop. The Four Winds is a premier luxury apartment building in the New Orleans Central Business District. The building includes the largest residential rooftop pool and sundeck in the New Orleans CBD. Additionally, Four Winds Nola boasts a 3D movie screening room that is beyond cool. And speaking of a view, I have to say this rooftop has one of the best panoramic vistas in the entire city. But it also has a lot of history built in 1927 by Emile Weil, a prominent New Orleans architect. 210 Baronne Street housed professional offices and one of the largest banks in the South for almost 90 years. The next day I went to City Park’s Love in the Garden, a fundraiser that combines music with amazing food and cocktails served from local restaurants and bars. The night was ideal for a breezy evening under the stars meandering around New Orleans Museum of Art’s Sydney and Walda Besthoff Sculpture Garden. The food was amazing and the entertainment kept people dancing all night long with the hot dance

Pulitzer Prize-winning play, remains as a more profound statement—but it never hurts to be reminded of basic values. For this, Sutton delivers just the right balance of warmth and knowing wisdom, taking the play’s occasional flinty New Englandness and leavening it with Southern charm without ever becoming sentimental. She exudes a contemporary yet timeless presence, one that is not at odds with the play’s early twentieth century setting. And the small, playful acknowledgments, along with one serious one, of Sutton’s nonWASPiness are delectable lagniappe. To make such a deceptively difficult part, with no arc or drama inherent in it, seem so natural and inviting is a challenge that Sutton conquers with a magnificent effortlessness. It is a highlight in an already distinguished career. Elsewhere, in Williams’ graceful staging, Silas Cooper and James Howard Wright give solid performances as the two fathers, making them the kind of Dads everyone wishes they had. Ann Dalrymple makes a satisfactory Mrs. Gibbs who yearns to go to Europe some day. As Mrs. Webb, Michelle Benet was acceptable but a little too “actor-y” for me; less would have been more. With a brilliantly precise comic por-

trayal of the busybody Mrs. Soames, Mary Pauley steals each scene she’s in while Emma Fagin, a NOCCA student, is assured and displays rich potential as the Gibbs’ young daughter. In the key roles of George Gibbs and Emily Webb, lifelong friends whose relationship blossoms into romance and marriage before they turn 20, Greg Chandler Maness and Sara Minerd, however, are simply miscast. Maness looks about as much like a teenager who wants to be a farmer as I do; instead, unlike me, the 30-yearold Maness, with his stylish haircut, could have just stepped out of a Abercrombie & Fitch ad. Maness might have overcome this if he had sturdier acting chops; I once saw a 50-year-old Maggie Smith convincingly portray a woman half her age. But something was missing here. For example, in the scene in which his father upbraids George for not chopping wood for his mother, if there aren’t tears as well as bone-deep remorse, and I detected neither, then Mr. Gibbs handing his son a handkerchief with which to wipe his nose makes no sense and the play is robbed of the critical component of George’s sensitivity. Such

New Orleans Creole Cookery restaurant located on Toulouse Street in the French Quarter. This is a hidden gem with a gorgeous courtyard, oyster bar and delectable New Orleans cuisine. The venue is owned by the Tusa’s who also own Crazy Lobster and Time Out Sports Bar in Spanish Plaza as well as several well-known dining spots in Destin, Florida. Theatre was on the menu for the following night as I attended the latest offering from Southern Rep “Stage Kiss.” I loved this comedy by Sarah Ruhl who also wrote another one of my favorite plays called “In the Other Room” or the “Vibrator Play” about the history of the vibrator. The show was at the Ashe Powerhouse Theatre right off of Oretha Castle Haley in Central City, one of the city’s up and coming neighborhoods. The main two actors’ characters where funny and flawed, basically the perfect combo for a comedy. Two ex-lovers who are also actors meeting again on stage when they work on a new play, imagine the possibilities. Keeping on the cultural slant these two weeks, Frankie Fierce and I helped my friend Contessa Breaux host her Art for Art’s Sake intimate soiree at her house before the art walk. Martinis and champagne flowed freely as we got well liquored up before we strolled down Magazine Street. It is always better to have a few cocktails when looking at art. You seem to understand things better, in my opinion. It was a fantastic night with the cool weather and gentle breeze. This annual event is

one of the fabulous free parties the city hosts every year. From the galleries to the shops and restaurants and bars, every place along Magazine was packed with people. I saw so many friends, and also bought myself some baubles. Until next week, enjoy the wickedly fabulous month of October and remember cocktails and costumes never go out of style.

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In Other Gay (Sports) News The Greater New Orleans Tennis Association (GNOTA) presents the 7th Annual Fleur de Lis Tennis Tournament, part of the Gay and Lesbian Tennis Association’s (GLTA) world tour. Opening rounds begin Friday, October 16th and conclude Sunday, October 18th. The tournament takes place at the University of New Orleans tennis facility at 6500 Press Drive in New Orleans, and features players of all skill levels, from beginner to expert. While geared towards Gay and Lesbian players, the tournament is open to all, and includes a banquet and trophies in singles and doubles categories at five different skill levels, as well as a consolation draw. The tournament donates a portion of its proceeds to charities such as Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG). The GNOTA also maintains a Saturday round-robin style play each week at the UNO facility at which everyone is welcome. For more information or to register go to NOLAtennis.net or GLTA.net.

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such a great approach.) Minerd is not aided by Alison Parker’s costumes for Emily, a shortshort white lacy number in Act I and Act II’s come-hither dress cut thigh-high on the sides, two of the most inappropriate outfits I have ever seen on stage. It’s not that the designs seem just-offthe-mall-rack, but that they simply do not fit Emily’s modest character. The rest of Parker’s sartorial choices pass muster but, especially for the women, they seem unfocused, not fully defining small town life, whether early 20th century, early 21st, or somewhere in between. At least, Fitz Patton’s sound design provides the proper atmosphere of nature contrasted with encroaching modernity. As Williams settles in to Le Petit and New Orleans, I wish him the best and hope he will provide us with a range of new works and new ways to illuminate old ones. Our town deserves as much.

Carol Sutton in Our Town (photo by John B. Barrios)

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so much without a suitable partner for many of her scenes. Interestingly, her mid-20s appearance causes Emily’s concerns about whether she’s pretty to come off as neurotic insecurity rather than typical teenage angst. It made me wonder what a Freudian approach to Our Town might reveal; after all, Freud published his seminal works during the play’s time period. (Ok, maybe not

While over a dozen shows will be opening on Broadway in the next few weeks, when I was in New York in September, the biggest draw was Pope Francis. Which was fine as I got to enjoy a variety of things far from the Great White Way. First and foremost was Annie Baker’s The Flick (Barrow Street Theatre through Jan. 10), the richly deserving Pulitzer Prize winner of 2014. Its story is a simple one of three young people who work in a movie theater in a small Massachusetts town not far from a university. Yet, like Thornton Wilder before her, Baker makes her New England tale a profound meditation on the human condition. In a series of short scenes, Baker’s sympathetic vision charts the loves, petty failures, and moral conundrums faced by her three 20something, prickly characters, Sam, Avery and Rose, people subsisting on a lower rung of the socioeconomic ladder. Hyperrealistic but offering a slightly skewed perspective, with sly humor The Flick can pivot from small talk to revelatory conversations of personality-defining substance. Baker’s finely etched dialog allows you to envision the many people whom the characters merely refer to, but with its debates about the merits of Avatar and film vs. digital techniques, The Flick subtly comments about how we create and experience art (“It was a really good story in my head but now I don’t know what it was.” and “People freak out when an art form moves forward.” are two such casually tossed-off lines.). Much has been made of The Flick’s just over three hour length. Pay no attention to that. Though it starts off leisurely, drawing you into its world, eventually I didn’t want it to end, so involved had I become with its wholly individualistic characters. Daring in its silent scenes and fiercely intelligent throughout, The Flick was directed by Sam Gold with keen sensitivity to its rhythms and details. Kyle Beltran, with a permanently worried look on his face, as the dorky Avery and original cast member Matthew Maher as the social misfit Sam are both heartrendingly wonderful; Nicole Rodenburg’s high-strung Rose is first among equals. It pays to come to The Flick energized, so have some java first. Just don’t miss it. The Flick originated at Playwrights Horizons where The Christians, Lucas Hnath’s examination of the fall-out from a fascinating theological debate, is playing through October 25. Probing into how valid actions can lead to unintended consequences, The Christians begins when Paul, the pastor of a megachurch, rethinks his beliefs and preaches that the church and its members will no longer believe in an

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a community within communities by The Rev. Bill Terry, Rector St. Anna’s Episcopal Church, New Orleans Email: fr.bill@stannanola.org

The city of New Orleans seems to be changing all the time. Post Katrina for the better and for the worse. I suppose it depends on what “worse” means. It seems that the cost of housing is sky rocketing which mean profit for land owners and impoverishment for working folks. It seems that we are moving away from stoop sitting and chatting and more toward texting and tech-ing. High rise here and there seem to be the trend. Our transit system seems to be improving while many of the streets are becoming increasingly reminiscent of Baghdad. The French Quarter with its proposed tax may become an island unto itself with high security while the rest of the city has to wait to catch up with police recruitment. Yet, we stay here and love it don’t we? Even in the midst of all of this change we languish in the splendor of our somewhat tattered pace of kindliness and good tidings. We enjoy the company of one another and a pleasantry on occasion at the supa market. Our pace is our own and no matter what influences descend upon us we keep our pace. Sometimes this pace is for the better and sometimes for the worse. But it is how we choose to live. In the context of our coming and going we need to remind ourselves that we are not islands alone but part of a larger whole. There is a fabric that binds us together. Perhaps it is culture, perhaps it is sexual orientation, perhaps it is food, or music or simply being in New Orleans but there is unmistakably a fabric with seems and threads. So how do we keep from tearing apart? One way is recent initiatives for better mental health. St. Anna’s along with other agencies are promoting better mental health. I want to promote better mental and spiritual health. They are after all linked. Here’s the thing: there is an abundant prejudice against seeking mental health care. For some it is a legacy of using mental health as a weapon against certain groups, in particular gays and lesbians and people of color. For others we think that our “weakness” or perhaps our “oddness” is some sort of character defect that is a weakness. Before we get spiritually healthy we need good mental health. For the better part access to mental health is a bit obscure but there are places to call and counsel to be sought. Try calling St. Anna’s and ask for Diana Meyers, RN who is doing a lot of work in the field these days. The thing is, mental health is so often a product of acute life challenges coupled with some biology that has gone a little off for a

time. Depression, as an example, is often a biological as well as situational issue. The prescription is not another drink but a professional to talk with and perhaps, if recommended, a prescription that can get your hormones or enzymes where they need to be. Disparity and loneliness is not just a state of being. On occasion one can handle some degree of isolation with good mental health support. I am the survivor of a family member who committed suicide. My daughter was bipolar and was untreated. What a waste. She was flamboyant, she was attractive, she had a flash in her eyes, she was intelligent and she was untreated. That was over 30 years ago. Today, she could well receive excellent drug therapy and skilled counseling and be alive and making us a bit richer for it. I don’t want to see others go the way of Tonya, my daughter, for lack of treatment. I cannot even think of the idea of someone who can’t or won’t access mental health when they are in trouble because of bias, prejudice, or ignorance. If you or a loved one is experiencing high anxiety, deep depression, big time mood swings from a little to hyper-happy to deep darkness, please reach out and let’s get it handled. We

trodding the boards ...from 22 actual Hell. The church’s associate pastor challenges this and seems to lose, but through a variety of Ibsen-esque twists, Paul, despite scoring all the good points, has his life completely uprooted. I thoroughly enjoyed Les Waters’ bracing production of Hnath’s formally inventive drama in which the Bible’s words are parsed with passion. Yet it was clear that most of the hardened New York audience I saw it with simply didn’t connect with a play in which characters treat Hell as a real place; afterward, I overheard one audience member declaiming “The premise was ridiculous!” Backed by a live choir, all of the actors (Emily Donahoe, Philip Kerr, Larry Powell, Linda Powell, and Andrew Garman who perfectly captured Pastor Paul’s cadences) were just right. But this is one show that probably plays better south of the Mason–Dixon line. Playing right where it should is Isle of Klezbos, an all-women’s klezmer sextet, which I caught at 54 Below, a club beneath where the legendary Studio 54 used to be. With its wonderful earthy, Eastern European sound, Isle of Klezbos is like Fiddler on the Roof

can do so as a great community of compassionate care givers one to the other. Did you know that among teens, the highest suicidal population, the rate is double for gay kids? We need to stop that. It can’t continue and need not continue. If you know a kid that is being picked on or is subject to predatory behavior by others; reach out to the kid and put them in contact with the M.C.C. Church or St. Anna’s Church or PFLAG. But reach out. Let’s be a healthy community that shows mutual support. It

used to be that it was “none of my business” but aren’t we all in some way responsible for each other at least valuing life? If you agree lets be vigilant as a community and keep an eye on one another and together fight mental illness in whatever form it takes dramatic or subdued. Because don’t we all want to be happy, carefree, and safe? It is what our Savior wants of us, it is what our God wants of us, and even if that is not enough it is what we should all want of each other. Not alone but safe.

matters of health by Eugene Collins, Director of Development, HIV/AIDS Alliance for Region 2, Inc., ecollins@haartinc.org

Trick or Treat Pretty soon, our streets will be filled with goons and goblins. On every street corner you’ll see Batman or maybe even Superman. Yes, it’s that time; it’s Halloween and some of us will dress as our favorite hero or naughty nurse, but let’s not be tricked. Our state has over 19,000 people living with HIV/AIDS and some of us still believe that we can judge a person’s health by how they look. Some of us fail to realize that clothing, abs, pecks, and facial features can be a part of a costume. We sometimes see clients engaging in risky behaviors, based on a person’s physical appearance and not based on their HIV/AIDS status. Some predict HIV/AIDS statuses based on the custom and not the lab form. We’re treating ourselves to the tricks that life can send our way. We must engage our partners in conversations around risk and testing,

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on steroids. Klezmer is happy music; you can’t help but feel good listening to it. In the chic 54 Below space with its flattering orange, pink and blue soft-toned lighting, Isle of Klezbos presented a mix of old and new tunes. Many of the more recent ones were written by various band members and combined klezmer tradition with a contemporary, jazzy edge. Featuring intricate harmonies, Klezbos is a really tight ensemble. Drummer Eve Sicular gives voice to the group with her engaging presence as she shares historical tidbits about the songs. If you should be in NYC on November 15, you can catch Isle of Klezbos at City Winery’s Klezmer Brunch (155 Varick St.). Coming up at 54 Below are Tovah Feldshuh (Oct. 13, 17 & 18), Kerry Butler (Oct. 15 & 16), Sondheim Unplugged (Oct. 25), and Ethel Merman’s Broadway (Oct. 27). Sounds like fun! Speaking of fun, no one knows better how to provide a fun time than the “King Of Queer Sleaze” Daniel Nardicio. I caught his debut party, Night of a Thousand Inches, at 93 Second Avenue and only wish I could be there for Swalloween! (Oct. 31st of course) which will have such treats as a Gorey Hole, Jack-Off-O-Lantern and 6 Hellowiener dancers. I may be able to stop by his legendary Thanksgiving Eve Underwear Party at Slake (251 W. 30 St.); not sure about the turkey but I’ll certainly check out the gravy and the stuffing.

Coming soon Ten clowns walk into a bar—really—in Adam Szymkowicz’s immersive comedy Clown Bar and audiences will be invited to enter the seedy clown underworld where ex-clown detective, Happy Mahoney, finds himself unwillingly pulled back by the murder of his brother Timmy, a tragically unfunny clown. The NOLA Project will send in the clowns at the upstairs Ramp Room of the Little Gem Saloon (445 S Rampart St.) October 21 through November 8. The Contemporary Arts Center (900 Camp St.) presents How to Build a Forest (Oct. 23-29). Beginning in an empty space, Shawn Hall, Katie Pearl and Lisa D’Amour—along with a team of artists—will construct, dismantle, and remove an elaborately fabricated forest. Inspired by 100 trees lost at a Louisiana family home following Hurricane Katrina, part visual art installation and part theater performance, this durational event unfolds over eight hours. Audiences are welcome to come and go at any time during the performance. Sounds very intriguing. Twyla Tharp’s 50th Anniversary Tour touches down on October 24 at the Mahalia Jackson Theater of the Performing Arts. Featuring two new works, Preludes and Fugues and Yowzie, which is set to a score by New Orleans jazz great Henry Butler, this New Orleans Ballet Association presentation received a rave review in the NYTimes. Just in time for Halloween, it sounds like it’ll be quite a treat.

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New Orleans, LA [504] QT PIE BOUTIQUE - 241 Dauphine St., 581. 6633

florists Baton Rouge, LA [225] FOUR SEASONS FLOWERS & GIFTS, 3482 Drusilla Ln., Drusilla Shopping Center, 924.1386, 1.800.237.5381

galleries New Orleans, LA [504] CASSELL-BERGEN GALLERY, 1305 Decatur St., cassellbergengallery.com, 504.524.0671

guides America Damron Travel Guide, 800.462.6654, www.damron.com Gulf South/United States AMBUSH Mag, 828-A Bourbon St., New Orleans, LA 70116-3137; 504.522.8049, AmbushMag.COM; marsha@ripandmarsha.com

groceries/delis New Orleans, LA [504] QUARTERMASTER DELI, THE NELLIE DELI, 1100 Bourbon, 529.1416

hair salons New Orleans, LA [504] Head Quarters Hair Salon, 906 Bourbon

lodging/accommodations New Orleans [504] AARON INGRAM HAUS, 1012 Elysian Fields, New Orleans, LA 70117, PHONE: 504.949.3110, www.ingramhaus.com/xqey, e-mail us at ingramhaus@yahoo.com. Condos with queen-size beds, private entrances; located only six blocks from Bourbon Street and walking distance to most New Orleans attractions. Several favorite bars are within one block. [0715] BLUES60 GUEST HOUSE, 1008 Elysian Fields Ave. New Orleans, LA 70117, Phone: 1.504.324.4311, www.blues60guesthouse.com, info@blues60guesthouse.com. The Blue60 Guest House with 5 suites provides a peaceful retreat in the center of the Faubourg Marigny, just blocks from the French Quarter and Frenchman St. [1115] BURGUNDY BED AND BREAKFAST, 2513 Burgundy St., New Orleans, LA 70117, PHONE/FAX: 504.942.1463, Toll Free (Continental US only): 1.800.970.2153, www.theburgundy.com, E-mail us at theburgundy@cox.net. Gay owned and operated in newly renovated 1890's double. Four guest rooms with private baths, guests' parlor and "halfkitchen", courtyard and half-open tubhouse with spa (hot tub/whirlpool). Clothing optional in sunbathing and hot tub area. Walking distance to French Quarter. Immediate vicinity of gay and lesbian bars/venues. [0815] CHATEAU LEMOYNE FRENCH QUARTER, 301 Dauphine St., New Orleans, LA 70112, Phone: 504.581.1303, http:// www.hiclneworleanshotelsite.com/gayhotelsnew-orleans. Enjoy a stay enriched with the culture and history of New Orleans at Chateau LeMoyne. Our historic building features all the best of old-time architecture and our prime location allows guests to stay just steps from the French Quarter, while still at enough distance to enjoy a peaceful night’s rest. Versatile guest accommodations include charmingly appointed suites and cottages, while on-site amenities include drinks and dining, a scenic courtyard area and pool, and meeting and event space. When you’re ready to explore, top New Orleans attractions are only moments away. We look forward to welcoming you to the “Big Easy.” [0915] THE FRENCH QUARTER GUEST HOUSES, 1005 St. Peter, New Orleans, LA 70116, Phone: 1.800.367.5858, FrenchQuarterGuestHouses.com, email: Info@frenchquarterguesthouses.com. Four meticulously restored boutique inns located in the heart of the French Quarter's most popular LGBT neighborhood. Each building's individual character and charm provides an unforgettable authentic French Quarter experience! FRENCH QUARTER SUITES HOTEL, 1119 North Rampart St, New Orleans, LA 70116, Phone 504.524.7725, Toll Free: 800.457.2253,FrenchQuarterSuites.COM. Email us at Reservations@bpmhotels.com. Official Host Hotel of OZ New Orleans. A locally owned and operated French Quarter hotel that has been beautifully transformed into spacious multi-bedroom suites. Several historical townhouses are also available to accommodate larger groups of up to 26. Just 3 blocks from Bourbon St., free WiFi, swimming pool, and continental breakfast included. Off street parking is available. NEW ORLEANS COURTYARD HOTEL, 1101 North Rampart St, New Orleans, LA 70116, Phone 504.522.7333, Toll Free: 800.457.2253, NOCourtyard.COM. Email us at Reservations@bpmhotels.com, Official Host Hotel of OZ New Orleans. A 19th century home that has been historically restored and transformed into a locally owned and operated hotel. Experi-

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marketing & printing New Orleans, LA [504] SIR SPEEDY, 343 Carondelet, 586.9812, 586.9817, offering printing and marketing services including web design and hosting. info@sirspeedyneworleans.com, sirspeedyneworleans.com

massage New Orleans, LA [504] RIGHT TOUCH MASSAGE -- Christopher - Full body therapeutic massage (Swedish/Deep Tissue); heated table; private studio; tropical garden; Faubourg Marigny Area, French Quarter. Upgrade (Salt Scrubs Bodywork & Thai/Sport Stretching massage). Call/text 504.458.5996 / For pictures http://www.christophernola.com. License #LA4553 [is2515]

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museum/arts New Orleans, LA [504] BEAUREGARD-KEYES HOUSE, 1113 Chartres, 523.7257 CABILDO, 701 Chartres, Jackson Square, CAC [Contemporary Arts Center], 900 Camp St., 528.3805, cacno.org EDGAR DEGAS HISTORIC HOME, 2306 Esplanade Avenue, tours by appointment: 504.821.5009, the house tour lasts one hour, is led by a great-grand-niece of Degas, and includes the award-winning documentary video, Degas in New Orleans: A Creole Sojourn 1850 HOUSE, 523 St. Ann GALLIER HOUSE, 1132 Royal, 523.6722 GERMAINE WELLS MARDI GRAS MUSEUM, 2nd Floor Arnaud's, 819 Bienville HERMANN-GRIMA HISTORIC HOUSE, 820 St. Louis, 525.5661 HISTORICAL PHARMACY MUSEUM, 514 Chartres, 524.9077 HISTORIC NEW ORLEANS COLLECTION, 533 Royal, 523.4662 LONGUE VUE HOUSE AND GARDENS, 7 Bamboo Rd, Metairie, 488.5488, MUSEE CONTI HISTORICAL WAX MUSEUM, 917 Conti, 525.2605 NEW ORLEANS MUSEUM OF ART, City Park, 1 Collins Diboll Circle, 488.2631 OGDEN MUSEUM OF SOUTHERN ART, 925 Camp St., 539.9600 OLD U.S. MINT, 400 Esplanade PRESBYTERE, 751 Chartres, Jackson Square ST. LOUIS CATHEDRAL, Jackson Square WORLD WAR 2 MUSEUM, 945 Magazine, 527.6012, http://nationalww2museum.org

music New Orleans [504] SKULLY'Z RECORDZ, 907 Bourbon St., 592.4666

organizations New Orleans, LA [504] ACLU and ACLU Foundation of Louisiana, P.O. Box 56157, New Orleans, LA 70156, 504.522.0628 x25, Fax: 888.537.0384, laaclu.org AIDS HOTLINE, 821.6050 in New Or-

leans, 1.800.99.AIDS[2437]-9 toll free statewide AIDSLaw of Louisiana, 3801 Canal St., Suite 331, 568.1631, AIDSLAW.org ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, 838.3399 BIG EASY STOMPERS, Country & Western line dancing. Weekly lessons and monthly Country & Western dance party, www.bigeasystompersneworleans.com, info@bigeasystompersneworleans.com BELLE REVE NEW ORLEANS, AIDS Residence for Families, PO Box 3305, 70177; 945.9455 BreakOUT! builds the power of youth ages 13-25 in New Orleans to end the criminalization of LGBTQ youth of color, 504.252.9025, 1001 S. Broad St. #119, NOLA 70125, @youthbreakout, www.youthbreakout.org, COMMUNITY ACTION NETWORK, a project of the NO/AIDS Task Force which works with the gay community to implement HIV prevention activities, 507 Frenchmen St., 945.4000, noaidstaskforce.com COPS 8 (Citizens' Organization for Police Support in the 8th District), 840 N. Rampart St., #51, 70116; 588.COPS (2677), cops8.org FOOD FOR FRIENDS, 944.6028 FORUM FOR EQUALITY, 336 Lafayette, Suite 200, 70130; 947.2981, ForumForEquality.COM FRIDAY NIGHT BEFORE MARDI GRAS (FNBMG), PO Box 791376, New Orleans, LA 70179-1376; 733.3311, fridaynightbeforemardigras.com, fnbmg@cox.net GAY APPRECIATION AWARDS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137; 522.8049; AmbushMag.COM/GAA GAY EASTER PARADE, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, info@gayeasterparade.com, GayEasterParade.COM GAY MARDI GRAS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, GayMardiGras.COM GAY NEW ORLEANS, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, GayNewOrleans.COM HAART (HIV/AIDS Alliance Region Two, Inc.), 4550 North Blvd. Ste. 250, Baton Rouge, LA 70806, 225.927.1269, www.haartinc.org, offers a complete continuum of care to people living with HIV/AIDS including housing, primary care, medications, case management, and an array of supportive services. In addition HAART provides HIV prevention education and FREE testing to the Baton Rouge area. HALLOWEEN IN NEW ORLEANS, INC., PO Box 52171, 70152-2171; halloween neworleans.com/ambush KREWE OF AMON-RA, PO Box 7033, Metairie, LA 70010, KreweOfAmonRa.COM KREWE OF ARMEINIUS, PO Box 56638, New Orleans, LA 70156-6638, kreweofarmeinius.org KREWE OF MWINDO, PO Box 51031, 70156; 913.5791, KreweOfMwindo.ORG, krewe@kreweofmwindo.org KREWE OF NARCISSUS, PO Box 3832, New Orleans, LA 70177. Contact: 504.228.9441 KREWE OF PETRONIUS, PO Box 1102, Kenner, LA. 70063-1102, www.kreweofpetroius.net KREWE OF QUEENATEENAS / KING CAKE QUEEN ROYALTY CLUB, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 522.8049, GayMardiGras.COM/KCQ KREWE OF URSUS, kreweofursus@aol.com LGBT+ Archives Project of Louisiana, 1308 Esplanade Ave., New Orleans, LA 70116, 504.475.7911, www.lgbtarchivesla.org LORDS OF LEATHER, 1631 Elysian Fields, #161, 70117, www.lordsofleather.org Louisiana Equality Foundation, serving the Louisiana LGBT Community through education, activism, and awareness. www. l o u i s i a n a e q u a l i t y f o u n d a t i o n . o r g , info@louisianaequalityfoundation.org Metropolitan Community Church of New Orleans, services at 10am, 6200 St Charles Ave., New Orleans, LA 70118; 504.270.1MCC www.mccneworleans.org MYSTIC KREWE OF SATYRICON, 2443 Halsey Ave., New Orleans, LA 70114, 504.906.7990 Todd J. Blauvelt / Secretary,

krewe.of.satyricon@gmail.com, MysticKreweOfSatyricon.COM NEW ORLEANS BEAR AND BEAR TRAPPER SOCIAL CLUB, P.O. Box 57756, New Orleans, LA 70157-7756, 504.298.0061, theneworleansbears.com NEW ORLEANS GAY MEN’S CHORUS, 322.7007, nogmc.com; nogmc@aol.com NEW ORLEANS JAZZ & HERITAGE FESTIVAL, nojazzfest.com NO/AIDS TASK FORCE, 2601 Tulane Ave., Suite 500, 70119; 821.2601; NOAIDSTaskForce.COM PFLAG/NO [Parents & Friends of Lesbians & Gays/ New Orleans], PO Box 15515, 70175; 895.3936, 392.0001, pflagno.org, info@pflagno.org PRIDE, NOLAPride.ORG PROJECT LAZARUS, A Residence for PWAs, PO Box 3906, 70177-3906; 949.3609 REGIONALAIDS INTERFAITH NETWORK [RAIN], 523.3755 RENEGADE BEARS OF LOUISIANA, PO Box 3083, New Orleans, LA 70177; renegadebearsoflouisiana@gmail.com SOUTHERN DECADENCE, 828-A Bourbon St., 70116-3137, 504.522.8049, SouthernDecadence.COM ST. ANNA'S EPISCOPAL CHURCH, 1313 Esplanade Avenue New Orleans, LA 70116 947.2121, stannanola.org VOLLEYBALL NEW ORLEANS, PO Box 13306, 70185-3306; volleyballneworleans.com, postmaster@volleyballneworleans.com

pets New Orleans, LA [504] DR. MIKE'S ANIMAL HOUSE, 1120 N. Rampart, 523.4455

pharmacy Baton Rouge, LA [225] AVITA PHARMACY, offers personalized, convenient care to those affected by chronic illnesses. Avita offers free delivery, co-pay assistance, benefit coordination, and refill reminder calls as well as access to a pharmacist 24/7. Every prescription filled today helps Avita give back to the community tomorrow. www.avitapharmacy.com New Orleans, LA [504] AVITA PHARMACY, offers personalized, convenient care to those affected by chronic illnesses. Avita offers free delivery, co-pay assistance, benefit coordination, and refill reminder calls as well as access to a pharmacist 24/7. Every prescription filled today helps Avita give back to the community tomorrow. www.avitapharmacy.com MUMFREY'S PHARMACY, 1021 W. Judge Perez Dr., Chalmette, LA 70043, 504.279.6312, www.MumfreysPharmacy.COM. Supporting & serving the LGBT Community for over 20 years. Local pharmacy offering personalized family-like service, automatic refills & free metro wide confidential pickup & delivery. Also offering shipping for out-side our delivery area. When you call us you speak to a person, not a machine. See our ad.

photography New Orleans, LA [504] GRAHAM/STUDIO ONE NEW ORLEANS, by appointment, grahamstudioone.com

plastic surgery New Orleans, LA [504] New Orleans Center for Aesthetics and Plastic Surgery, Parker A. Velargo, M.D., Dr. Russell Hendrick, Jr., M.D., 2633 Napoleon Ave., Ste. 920, www.plasticsurgerynola.com, 504.533.8848

The Bombay Club, 830 Rue Conti, 577.2237, www.bombayclubneworleans.com Broussard’s Restaurant & Courtyard, 819 Rue Conti, 581.3866, http://broussards.com Clover Grill, 900 Bourbon St., 598.1010, www.CloverGrill.com Country Club Restaurant, 634 Louisa St., www.TheCountryClubNewOrleans.com, 945.0742 Deanie's Seafood, French Quarter: 841 Iberville, 581.4141; Bucktown: 1713 Lake Ave., Metairie, 831.1316; www.Deanies.com Fatoush Mediterranean Grill, Coffee House & Juice Bar, 2372 St. Claude Ave., #130, FatoushRestaurantNOLA.com, 371.5074 Feelings Cafe, 2600 Chartres, 945.2222, www.FeelingsCafe.com Gene's Po-Boys & Daquiris, 1040 Elysian Fields Ave., 943.3861,

www.genespoboys.com Ilys Bistro, 1040 Elysian Fields Ave., 947.8341, www.Facebook.com/ILYSBistro Kingfish Kitchen & Cocktails, 337 Chartres St. 598.5005, www.KinfishNewOrleans.com Little Vic’s Rosticceria, 719 Toulouse, 304.1238, www.littlevics.com Mona Lisa Restaurant, 1212 Royal St., 522.6746 Orleans Grapevine Wine Bar & Bistro, 720 Orleans, 523.1930, www.OrleansGrapevine.com Quartermaster: The Nellie Deli, 1100 Bourbon St. , 529.1416, www.QuartermasterDeli.net

real estate New Orleans, LA [504] New Orleans Relocation, Realtors — gayowned boutique real estate agency for locals and newcomers. 504.273.0088 www.NOLArelo.com

retail/shopping New Orleans, LA [504] BOURBON PRIDE, 909 Bourbon, 566.1570 COK (Clothing or Kinkl), 941 Elysian Fields, 945.9264 CUIR, 708 Toulouse St., 249.5603 HIT PARADE, 741 Bourbon St., Facebook.COM/HitParadeNOLA MARY'S FRENCH QUARTER KITCHEN & BATH, 732 N. Rampart, 529.4465 MR. BINKY'S BOUTIQUE, 107 Chartres St., 302.2095, MrBinkys.com PANDA BEAR, 415 Bourbon St., 529.8064 QT PIE BOUTIQUE - 241 Dauphine St., 581. 6633 RAB DAB CLOTHING AND GIFTS, 918 Royal St., 525.6662

services New Orleans, LA [504] ABC Title Services, www.abctitle.com

theatres New Orleans, LA [504] CAFE ISTANBUL, 2372 St. Claude Ave., #140, 504.974.0786, CafeIstanbulNOLA.COM

tours New Orleans, LA [504] Gay New Orleans Walking Tour, Crescent City Tour Booking Agency, (LGBT Business of the Year) 638 St. Ann St., 568.0717. follow Gay New Orleans Walking Tour @ Facebook.COM Royal Tours New Orleans, 507.8333, 888.537.4750, www.RoyalToursNewOrleans.com

restaurants Metairie, LA [504] Chef Ron's Gumbo Stop & Pub, 2309 N. Causeway Blvd., 835.2022, GumboStop.com New Orleans, LA [504] Addiction Coffee House, 909 Iberville St., 475.5900, www.addictioncoffeehouse.com

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Brother's Keeper It is my hope that by now most of you

know that this column is intended to be a tongue in cheek gossip column, which sometimes is my sarcastic account of my escapades here in New Orleans. On occasion I do touch on topics or issues that are of concern to myself and hopefully others, but still with a sense of humor injected as a good laugh has always been my form of therapy. This week's column was almost finished and would have been a hilarious account of my new nights off and what trouble and fun one can still get into even when not on a weekend, but what I experienced this morning threw my whole train off track, and I must apologize for taking today into my seldom serious thoughts, but I feel I must. I enjoy my days off by walking until deciding upon a place for breakfast, today being no different. While enjoying the beautiful weather I found myself noticing people and things a little more than usual. I passed an older man that often

matters of health ...from 23 tested and what their status is. We’ve developed a mindset that many people won’t be honest anyhow, but this still doesn’t justify not asking. We’re simply not having conversations around risk and testing nearly enough, some are engaging in the treats of that naughty nurse or galloping Cowboy without assessing risk factors. Have the conversation, so that you may get a better idea of what costume you’re climbing into or taking off. Get tested, if not, you may be covering your immune disease with a costume as well. The CDC sites the following reasons for testing: · Knowing your HIV status can give you peace of mind—and testing is the only way you can know your HIV status for sure. · When you and your partner know each other’s HIV status, you can make informed decisions about your sexual behaviors and how to stay safe. · If you are pregnant, or planning to get pregnant, knowing your status can help protect your baby from becoming infected. · If you find out you are HIVpositive, you can start taking medicine for your HIV. Getting treated for HIV improves your health, prolongs your life, and greatly lowers your chance of spreading HIV to others. · If you know you are HIV-positive, you can take steps to protect your sex partners from becoming infected. Don’t trick yourself! Also, wisely and safely enjoy your treats. Happy Halloween!

sits on the sidewalk in his sock feet with a pair of crutches and a plastic cup in front of him. I’ve passed him often and he always says the same thing, morning, I like your shoes, can you spare some change? Most times I just nod and keep walking, but today for some reason I reached in my pocket, pulled out my keys and said I don’t have any change now, but maybe on my way back I will. A few blocks down, near one of my favorite places to eat and people watch, I notice a young guy, not one that I would consider a gutter punk, but just a typical street kid. He had a guitar case, and some cardboard sign in front of him, again he could have been one of many I would pass on any given day, but today for some reason I looked at him directly, and thought to myself, who knows if he is just another street hustler, or possibly someone who is just down on their luck. I often succumb to the fact that I have become jaded and think that ‘those people’ are just out to score a buck for a beer or a hit of something, when in fact I have no idea why they are where they are in their life. I order one of my favorite breakfast items at one of my regular places and settle in to enjoy, while Facebooking and contemplating the ending of this weeks column I was working on. I noticed another young guy talking with the one I had just taken note of outside. This guy was slightly better dressed and much less disheveled looking, not a gutter punk, not even a street kid, just a young guy that wasn’t wearing the latest fashions from H&M or someplace, just a young guy that didn’t look like he had an abundance of wealth by any means. He enters the eatery, which shall remain nameless, looks up at the menu, and then around the tables, the next time I look up he is by the service counter where they have napkins, condiments and such. The counter person in charge, had walked over to me to comment on how good my food looked, food that I spent more than a few bucks on, when a very well dressed older female customer walked over and told her that the young guy had taken food off a plate, wrapped it in a napkin and was walking out with it. Now mind you she didn’t use the term young guy, or man or anything generically polite in her description, but made it a point that the employee should deem him as a ‘bad’ person. The counter girl did walk out to the floor to access the situation and she, at the same time I did, saw the guy handing the food to the other one that had the guitar case and cardboard sign. I saw the change in the first kids face, he smiled big and showed obvious thanks, the second guy just lightly patted him on the shoulder and walked away. Turning my attention back to the employee, and knowing she

saw the same thing that I did, I assumed a good deed was done and witnessed and I was in the right place with the right people. The lady that pointed the situation out had already gone back to her expensive laptop and back to her own business. I thought briefly I wish she would have taken the time to see the whole thing and maybe have, if even for a second, the good feeling I had. This is when it all changed and caused me to sit here now writing a column without humor. The guy who had taken the half eaten, left over food that was about to be thrown out came back into the café and went to the ATM. I saw that he was about to take out some cash, but before he did the counter girl, whom I thought I really knew well, saw him and rather than walk over to him or motion for him to come to her, she loudly in front of everyone in the place admonished and chastised him brutally about what he had done, repeatedly asking him if he understood to never do it again. He quietly replied yes, apologized, and then calmly said I gave it to someone who was hungry. Her reply was I really don’t care. This hit me in the gut, working in the hospitality industry I well know that we all deal with so much daily that can make us quick to judge and assume about people who don’t have as good of shoes or clothes as us, or appear to not work as hard as we do for the money we make, but it really made me think right there at that moment what has happened to us as a society that it is much easier to show an

book review The Rise and Fall of the Yellow House. John Whittier Treat. Big Table Publishing, 2015. ISBN: 978-0-9965405-7-5. 251 pages. $17. by Frank Perez Much of the greatest AIDS literature was written in the 1980s and 1990s when the disease was still a death sentence. William Hoffman’s As Is (1985), Larry Kramer’s The Normal Heart (1985), Randy Shilts’ And the Band Played On: Politics, People and the AIDS Epidemic (1987), Paul Monnette’s Borrowed Time: An AIDS Memoir (1988), Tony Kushner’s Angels in America (1991), and Mark Doty’s Heaven’s Coast (1996) all effectively convey the horror and dread that living with the disease was like in those early years. As treatments changed and AIDS became more manageable, so did the nature of the stories, plays, novels and memoirs being written about the disease. Some might say that AIDS literature has fallen out of vogue as a trendy genre within the world of gay letters, and that may be true considering some of the best AIDS fiction has lately been generated by straight writers. In a sense, Treat’s The Rise and Fall of the Yellow House is a hearkening back to the golden age of AIDS literature, but in another sense, the novel reflects the attitudinal changes that have accompanied the evolution of AIDS treatment. The novel is set in Seattle in 1983.

excess of apathy rather than the slightest bit of empathy? Of course it did not end there, there was an older man standing in line while this all went down, he looked at that time to me as maybe an old hippy ala Willie Nelson, when he went up to order he asked the girl does this mean he can’t take anything off someone else’s plate, I’m think yes! He is about to give her some good old fashion hippy wisdom and get to her heart, but no, with a big laugh and another comment he now appeared to me to be of the Duck Dynasty genre, as he said, yep that’s why I’m all for conceal and carry laws, because of bums like that! What I regret most of all of this experience is that I didn’t say a thing, which I think is why I was so driven to share this now, It did make me think about how I view and judge others as well, and when I headed back home there was the old man with the crutches and the cup, I reached in my pocket and grabbed what silver change I had dropped it in, and said I told you I might have some change on the way back, then took out my wallet and pulled a few dollars and said here I had more change than I needed. These are just my views and thoughts on something that really touched me and I thank you for reading and maybe thinking. And today this is My Real Cheese, till next time dahlings, I’m Felicia Phillips,The Cheese Queen of New Orleans. Jeff, the protagonist, frightened by the growing epidemic that has stricken his friends, flees from New York only to find that AIDS has a foothold in his new home. As he distracts himself with alcohol and one-night stands, Jeff meets Henry, an alluring younger man with a weakness for heroin. Despite the jarring contrasts in their personalities and backgrounds, the two are drawn inexorably together. But as their love develops, so do numerous complications. In an effort to halt their freefall into addiction, Jeff and Henry move in with Nan, a middle-aged divorcee who has turned her home into a sanctuary for gay men in crisis. While a fictional narrative, The Rise and Fall of the Yellow House is a vivid roman a clef that draws from Treat’s own life and from the friendships he made and lost as the epidemic infiltrated the Pacific Northwest. The writing is good, the characters well-developed, and the themes of loneliness and purpose serve to create a generally dark, yet honest, tone. The novel is permeated with hints of existential despair. Writer and critic John Whittier Treat has taught at Yale, Berkeley, and Stanford, and is the author of Writing Ground Zero: Japanese Literature and Atomic Bomb (Chicago) and Great Mirrors Shatter: Japan, Orientalism, and Homosexuality (Oxford). Relocating from New York City to Seattle in 1983, he was witness to the earliest days of the epidemic in the Pacific Northwest. Soon, he became involved with the local recovery community as AIDS affected gay men already struggling with addiction. Treat’s fiction has appeared in literary journals, and his opinion pieces have been published in the New York Times and the Huffington Post. The Rise and Fall of the Yellow House is his debut novel.

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Cliff joins The Cheese Queen @ GrandPre’s “Cheesy Thursday”

Golden Lantern’s legendary Mr. Carl with Lantern Trash Marsha Jerome & DJ Dom celebrate Dom’s 54th b-day @ GrandPre’s

Ambush’s own Tony Leggio does 26th NO/AIDS Walk @ Audubon Park

New Orleans AIDS Memorial @ Washington Square Park

Pedro celebrates Sally-FLY Monica’s b-day with Bertrand @ Golden Lantern

Athena celebrates Monica’s b-day with Paul & Tami @ The Golden Lantern Manager Derek & bartender Brandon horse around @ Rawhide

Adikus can’t keep his eyes open during American Horror Story @ GrandPre’s

Troy & Bob @ The Double Play

Taylor, Eric & Greg start their evening @ Kajun’s Pub

Ambush’s Paul catching up with Chris @ the Phoenix

Teebern & Paul celebrate Monica & Momma Shirley’s birthday @ The Golden Lantern

Slater, Joey & Vinny in action @ The Corner Pocket

Black Penny bar baron Bert & Crescent City Tour Booking Agency’s Frank @ Lafitte’s

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