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African Print Flared Skirt Set: Blue Embrace your femininity with this ultra-elegant African skirt set. Made of soft 100% cotton, this garment features elegant black and gold scroll designs on a vibrant blue background. One size fits most; fitting up to a 60" bust and skirt fits up to a 64" waist. Top is 27" in length and skirt is 45" in length. Made in Ghana.
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EDITOR’S PICKS FOR BLACK HISTORY MONTH
Embody African Elegance Transform that plain suit into an attractive reflection of African culture with this authentic Kente bow tie.
Bright colors make this exotic hat stand out! Fun and popular. One size fits all. Approx. 22-24" circumference.
For a hint of culture This kente tie set gives you that accent of Africa that will capture attention anywhere. 100% cotton, best if
Bright colors make this exotic hat stand out! Fun and popular. One size fits all. Approx. 22 -24" circumference.
Embody African Elegance Transform that plain suit into an attractive reflection of African culture with this authentic Kente bow tie.
For a hint of culture This kente tie set gives you that accent of Africa that will capture attention anywhere.
For an array of new looks Try this set of twelve kente scarves. Each one represents wealth and royalty throughout Africa; and the style will give you a look of African luxury to love.
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Sophisticated yet Cultural Try this kente style tie set for a subtle display of exoticity. Made of 100% cotton, best if hand washed
Embroidered Brocade Skirt Set . 100% Cotton. Top fits up to 44" bust x 24" long. Wrap skirt fits up to 64" waist x 45" long. Includes Head scarf. One size fits most. Made in Ghana.
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AMOIZE CONTRIBUTORS
OBY OSUIGWE JULIUS BABATUNDE PASTOR
UCHE ARIZOR BLOGGER
A dynamic pastor, teacher, and destiny pilot. Pastor Julius Babatunde is the Lead Pastor of LIVING HOPE CHURCH, Lagos, Nigeria, a church committed to RESTORING THE DIGNITY OF MEN AND WOMEN. He's a spiritual Juggernaut and a Divine Wisdom professional with an Apostolic Mandate to restore dignity to mankind
I'm uia and Extraordinary Too is a place meant for me to share photography, ramblings, and some things I wear. I think our best ordinary is extraordinary and I am inspired by all sorts of people who are awesome, bold, and unashamedly themselves. That's the kind of person I try to be. Anyway, I hope you like what you read and see. Thanks for stopping by!
CREATIVE EDITOR Oby is the global girl who works behind the scenes. She believes in kindness and calling out the song in each other’s hearts. She also believe that Love can cover so much–our gaps, our mistakes and the distances between us. She is married to Kem, has two sisters and two brothers. She enjoys spending time with family and friends and has never met a person she doesn’t like.
WORDS OF WISDOM Wealth diminishes with usage; learning increases with use. ~ Nigerian proverb
Women are part of the origin of life’s big mystery on earth; they know the secret of a good life. ~ Kuba Proverb
When a man thinks he is too big or great to fall, it only takes a little thing to bring him down. ~ Unknown
The man may be the head of the home, but the wife is the heart.~Kenyan proverb
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"Peace is costly but it is worth the expense" ~ African proverb
When a king has good counselors, his reign is peaceful. ~Ashanti proverb
"When you follow in the path of your father, you learn to walk like him." ~ Ghanian Proverb
When there is peace in the country, the chief does not carry a shield. ~Ugandan
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A MESSAGE FROM THE EDITOR-IN-CHIEF
The beginning of a new year brings two perspectives into play. First, to look ahead and resolve to make the coming year better than the one we just left behind. Secondly is to look back, examine and really take a moment to applaud ourselves for what we have achieved. The year 2014 brought us a newly revamped website, offering far more information for our readers and a more sophisticated look to the public viewing audience. This is the time that many people create resolutions for the New Year. I’ve never been one for resolutions, I suppose because I’m really bad at keeping them, or even remembering what they are after a few weeks. I think I’ll just remind myself about the good things from the past year and focus on the potential 2015 brings. And my Dallas Cowboys are going to be in the divisional playoffs! Okay, that’s not relevant to humanism at all, but I am really, really happy about it. Our January/February cover Star Crystal Chinelo Onyeador lets You into Her World. I sincerely hope that you will enjoy this issue and I am looking forward to hearing any further suggestions to make Amoize magazine as impactful as possible. What would you like to see AMOIZE cover in 2015? What do you like best or least about AMOIZE? Write to me at editor@amoize.com. We hope that the coming year will be better for everyone, better for our readers, better for our editors and referees, better for ESCMID and its members; in short, better for those who are frightened or discouraged by the brutal and violent shock we have suffered. We wish you peace, goodwill and happiness, and offer our commitment to provide for you, our readers, an even better product in the New Year. Uchechi B. Saka Editor in-chief
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EDITOR’S
VALENTINE’S DAY GIFTS
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The Dark Chocolate Delicacy Chest features a eclectic variety of dark chocolate flavors and varieties $103.00
The Venice Galore Gift Basket is an impressive collection of Italian delicacies. $123.00
Our Be Mine Valentine basket features a Split Bottle of Veuve Clicquot Champagne from France, an array of Godiva Delicacies, etc. $127.00
The Godiva Chocolate Chest is a beautiful gift, filled with gourmet chocolates and presented in a beautiful keepsake
The Hearts on Fire Valentine Favorite gift basket features an eclectic mix of treats $109.00
A Heart Tower filled with Gourmet Chocolate Love. This beautiful Heart themed tower is filled to the brim with delicious treats for your special someone. $94.95
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The Godiva and More Chest is a beautifully presented chest filled with Godiva chocolates and other delicious treats. $143.00
The Godiva Gift Basket is the perfect way to spread delicious color and happy valentines to family, and friends. $123.00
The Thinking of You gift basket lets that special person in your life know with or withut occasion that they are on your mind. $78.00
The Ghirardelli Gift Trunk of Excellence is a perfect gift for a true chocolate lover. $123.00
The Chocolate Love Gift Basket features a diverse collection of chocolate treats, ranging from the sweet and salty to pure chocolate. $129.00
The Tool Box of Chocolates gift basket is a thoughtful gift for that handy individual in your life who loves delicious chocolates. $88.00 Shop at www.britefuturesales.com
The Total State of Zen spa gift basket is a beautiful and unique way to extend the gift of rest and relaxation. This basket includes a variety of products. $93.00
The Sip and Relax tea basket is brimming with delicious tea and accompaniments. $65.00 The Fields of Lavender basket is ideal for sharing the gift of rest and relaxation. Basket features a well rounded collection of lavender scented products $79.00
The B. Witching Bath Co. (TM) One Hundred Roses Spa Basket features a variety of hand crafted bath products. The products are uniquely formulated with the finest therapeutic botanicals, wholesome ingredients, essential oils and minimal preservatives. $139.00
The Purple Passions Spa Gift Basket includes shower gel, body mist, bubble bath, a candle, body oil, shampoo and conditioner as well as a soft loofah and pedicure kit. $134.00
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The Fresh Morning Brew Basket is a beautiful arrangement of coffee, coffee accessories and coffee pairings. $136.00
Popcornopolis Pop-corn can filled with four different flavors of their famous popcorn all wrapped up in decorative packages. Great gift for any popcorn lovers! $76.00
CONTENTS BEAUTY 26 OLIVE OIL The only beauty oil you need 46 LET’S TALK ABOUT NATURAL HAIR 48 NATURAL BEAUTY INGREDI ENTS Black Soap How this hand made soap gets made 50 DEAD SEA BATH SALT
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INSPIRATION 32 SPIRITUAL GROWTH How spiritual growth is influenced By our words 35 25 BEFORE 25 Happy You Year
36 THE PROBLEM OF MARRIAGE INSTITUTION 38 THE KEY TO SUCCESSFUL OUTCOME IN 2015 41 SIX WAYS YOU CAN BE MOTIVATED
TRAVEL 28 OUR AFRICA BOTSWANA ATTRACTION Chobe National Park, Botswana 30 GHANA ATTRACTIONS Top 4 Places to visit in Ghana The Cape Coast Accra, Ghana’s Capital Kakum National Park Kokrobite Beach 33 MOROCCO ATTRACTIONS The Beautiful Amanjena hotel in Marrakech, Morocco
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Crystal Chinelo Onyeador, graces the cover of our January/February issue and talks about discovering your Godgiven purpose
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CONTENTS PEOPLE + PARTIES 60 A MEMORABLE DAY IN MY LIFE 72 IRIJI MBAISE IN DALLAS, TEXAS 80 HONORING EIGHT DECADES OF LIFE
BUSINESS 42 FINANCIAL RESOLUTION FOR 2015 67 DEVELOPING EFFECTIVE LEADERSHIP SKILLS
FASHION & STYLE 17 THE LOOK The fashion statement that we’re loving in 2015 22 THE LOOK Black History Month 57 BLACK HISTORY MONTH AND WAX PRINT FABRICS 71 WHAT MAKES AFRICAN FASHIONS SPECIAL?
CULTURE 47 CELEBRATING BLACK HISTORY MONTH 78 AFRICA WOMEN OF POWER 2015
EDITOR’S PICKS 4 BLACK HISTORY MONTH ACCESSORIES
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Contributors
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Editor’s Note
14 Editor’s Picks 78 AFRICA WOMEN OF POWER 2015 86 A TRIBUTE Dr. Myles Munroe: On Leadership, Vision, Purpose And Maximizing Your Potential
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18 Publishers’ Note 20 Spotlight
PUBLISHER & EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Ezioma Anosike EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Uchechi B. Saka CONTRIBUTING EDITORS Ashley Okolie Matt Kwasi John Lunden CONTENT MANAGER Abba Osei MANAGING EDITOR Agbenyaga Thorpe INTERNATIONAL EDITOR Onye Ubanatu FASHION EDITOR Siti Sawia BEAUTY DIRECTOR Wambui Abasi DESIGN DIRECTOR Craig Jones Adrian Abayomi CONTRIBUTORS Pastor Julius Babatunde Uche Arizor Canon Dan Ofoegbu Dr. Linda Amerson Dr. Faith Abraham Juka Ceesay PHOTO JOURNALIST Hasson Diggs Eric Lax MEDIA MANAGER Liz Megiddo
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the fashion statement that we’re loving in 2015
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Publisher’s Message
What Only God Can Do! Part 2
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s we enter the New Year, it's easy to feel overwhelmed with resolutions and the desire to improve upon last year's success or the lack thereof. But, sometimes the hardest part is placing proper focus on the right priorities. Setting goals has always been a regular part of my New Year’s resolutions. Each December, I usually sit down for a few days to review the year’s goals and prayer requests and chart out my hopes and goals for the future. I always set specific personal and business goals. Along with my personal goals, I try to outline three or four spiritual goals that will remain on my heart for the entire year. I do it because I want to be more like Jesus—even though I am a work in progress! In 2015 I am setting more spiritual goals. Spiritual Goals. In 2014, I took one line from the Lord’s Prayer—“Thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven”—and stayed with it for almost the whole year. I decided on this because I find myself too focused on this world and not enough on the glorious life of heaven or on helping bring heaven down to earth. I felt I needed to be more open to the possibility of Jesus performing miracles in people’s lives and bringing more people to conversion. I needed to set my mind on the truth that this world can look more and more like heaven. Jabbok? It did not mean anything to me before last November – after I went through the Jabbok experience, it became one of the most important words in my spiritual vocabulary.
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Jabbok is a place where Jacob wrestled with the Lord. It is a place where he made his total surrender to God. It is where he got his new character, and a new name – Israel. It was a place where he cast down his last idol, and won his greatest victory. Jabbok also stands for struggle, to empty and pour out. It is a place where the people of God discover the secret of power over every besetting sin. It represents a life and death crisis, one that leads to absolute surrender. So, this year, I am going to set fasting as one of my goals. I want to think and pray about the way fasting helps us come in touch with God’s power and blessings. Given all of this, I thought it would be a good idea to focus on spiritual goals for this issue of Amoize. I want to encourage all of us to make goals so that we can be more open to God’s grace. Our heavenly Father wants us to keep growing in holiness. He wants us to dedicate ourselves to becoming more and more like his Son. So think about your goals for this year. More important, pray about them. Ask the Spirit for some guidance, and set only one or two spiritual goals that you will try to follow. God won’t push His way in. You must ask. And when you do, get ready for the ride of your life.
Romans 8:28
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SPOTLIGHT
Sosena Aseffa Amoize: How would you best describe yourself? Sosena: I am a motivated young lady who is inspired by both education and fashion. I am currently studying biology at the University of North Texas, and I aspire to become a Doctor in the future. I am passionate about runway modeling, print, and fashion in general. Amoize: How did you become the President of African Student Organization for 2014 - 2015 school year? Sosena: I decided to run for President of ASO, because I realized letting go of ASO meant letting go of a part of me. Our members voted for me because they expect me to bring ASO to its greatest potential. Amoize: What is the biggest misconception the media gives Africa? Sosena: The biggest misconception is the idea Africa is a country, and not a continent with different cultures. The second misconception is the lack of resources, vast spread of starvation, and wide spread of diseases. The media projects a bias view of these misconceptions. Africa has one of the richest grounds with resources such as oil, diamonds, gold, iron, cobalt, uranium, petroleum and many more. The media makes Africa look undeveloped by minimizing the time they air the urban life. I am a proud African and I am not ashamed of our short comings. I believe the media should equalize the amount of time they invest in airing Africa between the positive, and the side that can prosper with aid. I don’t believe the media gives fair credit to the greatness of Africa/Africans. Recently (April 21,2014), CNN announced Meb Keflezighi as the first American man to win the Boston Marathon since 1983. Meb Keflezighi, a family man, is a refugee from Eritrea. When someone like Keflezighi accomplishes the imposable he is considered an American. Let he have done something disgraceful he would be claimed as the Eritrean refuge who boomed an elementary school, or whatever the case may be. Africa has been robbed out of its riches.
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Amoize: What inspires you most? My family has always been my biggest inspiration in my life. They have thought me the importance of tradition, culture, and to never forget my origin. The fact they gave up a lot to provide me with opportunities pushes me to set my goals high. My father Ayele Wuhib attained his masters in Agricultural Engineering in Europe, and shortly after graduation he returned back to Ethiopia to work for the government. I always keep this story in mind, so I won’t forget about my origin. My mother Mihret Woldabe was denied her education because of her nationality, nevertheless she never let anything stand between her and her education. She now works at Parkland hospital with my sister Brehan Ali, both Nurses. Amoize: What makes you proud to be African? Sosena: I am proud to be an African, because of the rich tradition. Our people are humble, in a way I have never seen anywhere else. I am happy to know I will always have a home away from my current one. Amoize: Best piece of advice you ever received was? Sosena: My sister Blene Aseffa once told me, “Always be proud of who you are.” This has helped me stay away from peer pressure through high-school. It has helped me stay connected to my roots, and gave me the confident I need to be an independent model. Amoize: Anything you want to add to close this interview? I want to thank AMOIZE Magazine for this opportunity. I am open to any question on my interview via email, sosena0907@yahoo.com. I hope you all enjoyed. Thank you.
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FASHION & STYLE
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BLACK HISTORY MONTH By Julie Aghedo
As February rolls in, so does Black History month. Americans young and old will celebrate the many contributions African-Americans past and present have brought to this country. Reflections of their art, history and culture are reflected in almost every aspect of the society, from infrastructures to fashions. As, such, Brite Future Sales would like to take a moment to highlight some of the beautiful African fabric prints and textile designs, both modern and traditional, that are available for our fabulous customers. Visit www.britefuturesales.com
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EDITOR’S PICKS
St Valentine's Day is part of Britain's culture, for one day a year we invest in cards, flowers, meals, holidays, hotels, just about anything that can be given in the form of a gift to show our nearest and dearest that we love them (even if we do often do it grudgingly). Yet, for all the attention that is devoted to the day each year, how many people actually know who St Valentine was? Or what he or she did to merit St Valentine's Day. Simply enough, there is no single St Valentine. In early Christianity there were several St Valentines of which two claim February 14th as their feast day. These two are Valentine of Rome and Valentine of Terni, both of whom are buried on the same street in Rome. Neither of these two men have any proven link to romance. There is some suggestion that a third St Valentine may be able to claim February 14th as his own. Early Catholic martyrologies (not always the most reliable source) suggest that a Valentine was martyred in Africa with a group of followers, but little is known about him aside from those few details.
The History Of Valentine's Day By Maricruz Tennill
Moving from the strictly historical to the world of fiction, stories start to emerge about one of our St Valentines. In one account from an early medieval text Emperor Claudius II puts St Valentine to death for his Christianity, but only after Valentine, in an attempt to convince the Emperor of the holiness of Christ, performs a miracle by restoring the sight of the blind daughter of his jailer. So far, so platonic. Until the 1900s when the story was given another, entirely fictional, twist. Valentine was allegedly arrested by Claudius for illegally performing marriage ceremonies for young men who had been ordered to remain single by the Emperor. As he is en route to being killed, Valentine is reported to have written a love note (or a Valentine's Day card) to the daughter of the jailer mentioned above. Other stories place the credit for Valentine's Day at the door of Chaucer, who some argue mentioned the day in a work that he created for the wedding treaty of Richard II to Anne of Bohemia which was signed on May 2nd. May 2nd is the Saints Day for Valentine of Genoa, who'lly unconnected to February 14th, but probably the reason for the connection of love to Valentine's Day. So, how do we get from this tenuous link to the modern St Valentine's Day? Partially via the
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courtly love poets of the 14th and 15th centuries, who, tradition has it, sent poems and messages to the objects of their loved ones, particularly on Valentine's Day. Hence our tradition of giving cards. Unfortunately there is no clear explanation for our modern St Valentine's Day. It seems most likely that there was a confusion between the Saints Day of Valentine of Genoa and the more famous Saints Days of the two Valentines of Rome. Either way, it seems Chaucer has a lot to answer for.
FASHION & STYLE
the Look the Makeup She is wearing a neutral, matte dark brown bronzer color (no glitter, no orange) to the higher parts of her face, cheeks and forehead and bridge of the nose. This helps warm up her complexion, giving your face a healthy glow.
THE WEDDING GOWN
Designed by Tekay Design What gives this wedding gown it’s oomph?
This gown is named after Empress Candace of Ethiopia. Fine champagne colored lace fabric covers the satin fabric on body and cathedral train of the dress. Scalloped lace trim is stitched in front and back of the dress top. Available at www.tekaydesigns.com
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EDITOR’S PICKS
Valentine Recipes Delicious Puddings For Your Sweetheart By Amy Taylor
Valentine's Day is just around the corner. Here are Recipes of Delicious Valentine Puddings for your special person coming to dinner on Valentines's Day. Try these Valentine Recipes to make this day more Romantic. Valentine Recipe:1 HONEY PUDDING Mix one-half cup of honey with six ounces of bread crumbs and add one-half cup of milk, one-half teaspoon of ginger, grated rind of half a lemon and yolks of two eggs. Beat the mixture thoroughly and then add two tablespoons of butter and the whites of the eggs well beaten. Steam for about two hours in a pudding mold which is not more than threequarters full.
Valentine Recipe:2 CHOCOLATE PUDDING Take half a cake of chocolate broken in one quart of milk and put on the range until it reaches boiling point. Remove the mixture from the range. Add four teaspoonfuls of cornstarch mixed with the yolks of three eggs and one cup and a half of sugar. Stir constantly until thick. Remove from the fire, flavor with vanilla and pour the mixture in a dish. Beat the whites of the three eggs to a stiff froth and add a little sugar. Cover the top of the pudding with a meringue and set in the oven until a light brown. Serve cold. Valentine Recipe:3 JELLY PUDDINGS. Two cupfuls of fine stale biscuit or bread crumbs, one cupful of rich milk cream, if you can get it; five eggs beaten very light, half a teaspoonful of soda stirred in boiling water, one cupful of sweet jelly, jam or marmalade. Scald the milk and pour over the crumbs. Beat until half cold and stir in the beaten yolks, then whites, finally the soda. Fill large cups half full with the batter, set in a quick oven and bake half an hour. When done, turn out quickly and dexterously. With a sharp knife make an incision in the side of each; pull partly open, and put a liberal spoonful of the conserve within. Close the slit by pinching the edges with your fingers. Eat warm with sweetened cream. Valentine Recipe:4 APPLE CUSTARD PUDDING. Put a quart of pared and quartered apples into a stewpan, with half a cupful of water and cook them until they are soft. Remove from the fire and add half a cupful of sugar, two tablespoonful of butter and the grated rind and the juice of a lemon. Have ready mixed two cupful's of grated bread crumbs and two tablespoonful of flour.
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Add this also to the apple mixture, after which stir in two well-beaten eggs. Turn all into a wellbuttered pudding-dish and bake forty-five minutes in a moderate oven. Serve with sugar and cream or hard sweet sauce. Valentine Recipe:5 APRICOT PUDDING Take 1 tin of apricots, 6 sponge cakes, 1/2 pint of milk, 2 eggs. Put the apricots into a saucepan and let them simmer with a little sugar for 1/2 an hour. Take them off the fire and beat them with a fork. Mix with them the sponge cakes crumbled. Beat the eggs up with milk and pour it on the apricots. Pour the mixture into a wetted mould and bake in a hot oven with a cover over the mould for 1/2 an hour. Turn out; serve either hot or cold. Valentine Recipe:6 CARROT PUDDING Take three or four clear red carrots, boil and peel them, take the red part of the carrot, beat it very fine in a mixing bowl, put to it the crumbs of a penny loaf, six eggs, half a pound of clarified butter, two or three spoonfuls of rose water, a little lemon-peel shred, grate in a little nutmeg, mix them well together, bake it with a puff-paste round your dish and have a little white wine, butter and sugar for the sauce. Valentine Recipe:7 CHEESE PUDDING Take breakfast-cupful of milk into a saucepan with a piece of butter the size of a large egg. Let it remain until the butter is melted, then pour it over three-quarters of a pound of bread crumbs and half a pound of grated cheese; let these soak for twenty minutes, then add a pinch of salt and 4 eggs, well beaten. Pour the mixture into a well-buttered dish and bake in a quick oven up to 40 Minutes.
with the oil and covered in cotton overnight. Plus it's great for your cuticles. Equal parts olive oil and sea salt make a fantastic and natural exfoliant for face, body and even cuticles.
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Olive Oil: The Only Beauty Oil You Need
Yes, that's right, olive oil, the same stuff you cook with or sprinkle on your salad. Not only does it have health benefits when it's part of your regular diet, olive oil is one of the greatest and most beneficial beauty products you can find. It's the do-almost-everything bottle.
By James Lunden
Of-course, it does have some dietary benefits as well! Extra virgin olive oil is commonly used in salad dressings, bread dips and as a standard base for cooking, frying or baking. The wonders of olive oil have made it a household staple for years, and many women swear by eating a spoonful every single day.
Olive oil is a natural moisturizer, protectant and skin softener. Known as the golden oil, it literally works from head to toe. Dull, flat and dried out hair is transformed to shiny, smooth and soft when conditioned with olive oil. A few capfuls in your bath water will leave your entire body richly hydrated as well as supple and soft. No time for a bath? Try some on a body buff while you are in the shower.
So the next time you notice that your cuticles are looking ragged, your hair is looking dull or your feet are feeling rough, look no further than your kitchen cupboard. Reach for that bottle of golden olive oil, it's the only beauty oil you really need.
Olive oil is an ideal skin conditioner due to its deeply penetrating nature. Dry, chapped hands or feet will be revitalized when masked Tech Times Issue 00 Month Year Healing, Soothing Emu Oil This highly valued oil used for centuries by the Aborigines of Australia, is now available here! This purifying oil contains large amounts of Vitamin E and A which soften and heal skin. Linoleic acid helps to ease muscle aches and joint pain; Oleic acid is a famous antiwrinkle agent.
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World over in February young couples celebrate Valentines Day with laughter and promises of undying love. The celebration knows no barriers and whether 4 or 80 years old, people with hope treasure the phrase "Will you be my Valentine." Mid- Feb heralded in ancient Rome, the coming of spring and even in preChristian times people celebrated a "fertility" festival with great joy. Much later the festival celebrated on Feb 14th was in honor of St. Valentine who is believed to have signed a letter to his beloved on his death bed as "from your Valentine." Red hearts, beautifully wrapped chocolates, balloon bouquets, and so on flood the markets and most young men are in a quandary as to what will make a "memorable gift."
10 Best Valentines Gifts To Give Here are a few ideas to set your creativity rolling: 1. Abandon all ideas of dinner in a crowded restaurant where couples will be jostling for space. Plan a special "time for two" either on a patio overlooking a garden or on a boat sailing down a moonlit river or sea. Choose to pack a picnic basket with foods that triggers off memories. For example perhaps the two of you had enjoyed chocolate donuts one day, or a pizza with toppings both love, or a cookie specially baked by you. Take along music or compose a song to sing to her. Serenade her like knights used to on bent knee. 2. If you have gathered many pictures or video clips of your time together then put together an album with specially written captions and a witty heading. You could even say "this gamine grimace enchanted me," be original and let your imagination and sense of humor take wing. 3. If you are going to be away on Valentines Day meet online for a special chat. Make it a cyber date--the World Wide Web will close up the distances. 4. Avoid the run-of-the-mill activities and plan to go to an amusement park or fair. Have a rollicking time on the roller coaster.
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5. If you know of a movie she has been dying to see -get it and plan an evening enjoying the film. 6. If she loves gizmos get her a digital camera or video phone. 7. Don your apron and chef's hat and cook a special meal. 8. Pamper her by gifting her a session at a spa she loves. 9. Plan a weekend get-away and take her somewhere special. 10. Pot a special plant for her. One that will grow and bloom along with your relationship. Valentines Day is special so consider something unique. Most people will not have the spirit of adventure in them and try something different. They feel safer going with the crowd and presenting their love with cards, red balloons, hearts cut out of red paper or fabric, Godiva's chocolates, or a dinner in a favorite restaurant. Dare to be different and you will be remembered.
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Chobe National Park, Botswana
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otswana is a premier safari destination in Africa offering some of the best wildlife viewing on the planet, especially in and around the Chobe and Okavango Delta region. The Kalahari desert and San Bushman culture is another of this country's great attractions and should be on everyone's itinerary. The Chobe National Park is located in Botswana’s north eastern district, with the Chobe River forming the Park’s northern border. It is flanked in the south west by the Okavango Delta and Moremi Game Reserve, and by the Chobe forest reserves which run parallel to the Zimbabwe border in the east. From its north-east entry gate, it’s less than 100km to Victoria Falls. The ideal location for any visitor interested in a combination of the natural wonder of the Victoria Falls and magnificent wildlife sightings in Chobe National Park is the town called Kasane, a small town sandwiched between the Zimbabwean border and the Chobe National Park.
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The variety of accommodation is from a normal Campsite to a private lodge on a private concession. The campsite in the Chobe Park is secluded from the main game drive activities and there are no fences around your camps. This allow animals to be free within your camping area and the ground level experience with the wildlife of Botswana offers an unforgettable time to all visitors. A 4 x 4 vehicle is essential to enter the Chobe National Park . It is not uncommon to see between 500 and 5000 Elephants on these floodplains at one time. The highlight of a visit to Chobe National Park is the combination of wildlife, Birdlife and reptiles along the banks of the Chobe River. This is a photographers dream. The key to this safari area is Chobe's animal migrations. Chobe's animals move in complex, ancient patterns determined by the rain and available food.
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Best time to Visit Chobe National Park The best time to visit Chobe is during the dry season from April to October. The pans dry up and the animals tend to congregate close to the river banks making it easier to spot them. The dry season also means the trees and shrubs lose their leaves, and the grasses are short, making it much easier to see further into the bush to spot wildlife. But the "green season" after the rains start in November to March is also very rewarding, This is the time of year that the little ones are born and nothing can be cuter than baby zebra, warthogs and elephants. Birdlife is also best when its green and watery from November to March, as migrating flocks come to visit. What to See in Chobe National Park Chobe is famous for its huge elephant herds, and the other members of the Big Five are also commonly spotted. On my last visit I saw leopard, lion, buffalo, giraffe, kudu, and jackal in just a single morning game drive. Chobe is also a fabulous place for spotting hippo in and out of the water, even during the day. It is also one of the few places you'll see Puku, Waterbuck and Lechwe. The Birds Over 460 species of birds have been sighted in Chobe National park, a remarkable figure. Every official safari guide will know a lot about birds, so do ask them what you might be looking at when you're on a cruise or drive since an amateur eye may find it hard to discern between species. The flash of color from a carmine bee-eater is wonderful, but spotting an African skimmer is just as fascinating when you get to know its characteristics. I happened to meet up with some keen birders on a recent visit to Chobe which was fantastic. Within a two hour period we spotted more than 40 species of birds including raptors, eagles and kingfishers. What to do in Chobe National Park The wildlife is the number one attraction in Chobe. The lodges and camps offer three hour safari drives, three times a day in open vehicles. You are allowed to take your own vehicle into the park, but it should be
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a 4x4. During the dry season in particular, (April - October) even a noon safari drive can yield a large amount of sightings as the wildlife heads to the Chobe River for a drink as the day hots up. Half way through the drive you'll be able to get out of your vehicle for a drink and snack to stretch your legs, usually at the banks of the river during the dry season. Safari cruises are a highlight of any visit to Chobe. The larger cruise boats usually sail on the Chobe River in the morning or afternoon and take about three hours. Drinks and snacks are available on board, and you can go on to the flat roof for better photo opportunities. I recommend you charter a small boat for your party if possible. It gives you more flexibility to get close to a pod of hippo, group of elephant, or any other wildlife on the river banks. If you are a keen birder, a smaller boat gives you the opportunity to stay still and marvel at the African skimmers, Fish eagles and the host of other wonderful birds that live here. Where to Stay in Chobe National Park The best place I have stayed in the Chobe area is on a Ichobezi luxury safari boat. A truly wonderful experience, that I highly recommend. Spend at least two nights to make the most of it. The boats have five rooms with en suite bathrooms. Delicious meals are served on the top deck and the bar is open all day. Each room has its own small boat that will take you on a river safari once the boat has docked at various beautiful locations along the banks of the Chobe. The Ichobezi lodge offers transport to and from Kasane, and they will help you with immigration formalities since they are on the Namibian side of the river. Other recommended lodges close to Chobe National Park include: Zambezi Queen,Sanctuary Chobe Chilwero, and Ngoma Safari Lodge.
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Top 4 Places to Visit in Ghana
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hana's Atlantic Coast is lined with old forts (castles) built by various European powers during the 17th Century. The Cape Coast Castle was built for the slave-trade and is one of the most impressive of Ghana's old forts. Most historians believe that Cape Coast Castle was originally built as a small trading lodge which was subsequently added to and enlarged until it became a fortification. In 1637 the lodge was occupied by the Dutch. Then, in 1652, it was captured by the Swedes, who named it Fort Carolusburg. For a time, both the local people and various European powers fought for and gained possession of the fort. Finally, in 1664, after a four-day battle, the fort was captured by the British and re-named Cape Coast Castle. The Castle served as the seat of the British administration in the then Gold Coast (Ghana) until the administration was moved to Christianborg Castle in Accra on March 19,1877. The Cape Coast Castle Museum’s facilities include conference halls; a library;
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an art and craft studio; a book store and gift shop; curio shops, a car park; and an open courtyard for outdoor activities. The Cape Coast Castle also hosts the Building History Museum. There is also a 45-minute guided tour, which allows visitors to view the castle’s dungeons, the condemned cell and the “Door of No Return”. Touring the Castle There's no doubt that the highlights of Cape Coast Castle are the museum and the dungeons, but there are plenty of other historical touches that bring the place to life. One of the more lifeaffirming is the fact that when the British abolished slavery they walled up the entrance of the tunnel that leads from the male dungeon to the beach where the slave ships would drop anchor; not only this, the Fante tribe have turned this walled section into a shrine to their local gods, because there used to be a shrine on the site of Cape Coast Castle before the Europeans stuck their oars in, and it's now back in operation, smothered in animal skins, wine, schnapps,
bowls, cloths and various other bits and bobs. Meanwhile the tunnel to the beach was converted by the British into a cistern for fresh water, a huge improvement on the previous use; it's good to see a guilty conscience being put to good use… The castle itself is a delight too, and it's in good condition, despite the peeling white paint that makes it look like an obruni wilting in the tropical humidity. The fort went to seed a bit under British rule, especially after the capital was moved to Accra, and by 1960 it was home only to the town's main post office, the law courts, the port's customs house, and a prison in one wing of the fort. In the 1960s the post office and law courts moved out of the castle grounds and into the town; then, in 1962, Cape Coast port was closed to international shipping, and the customs house was closed and became derelict (it was demolished in 1996). Finally, in 1993 the prison was closed, well after the public had started to visit the fort; this was no doubt because the tour through the governor's quarters accidentally enabled
Accra, Ghana's Capital Accra is a sprawling city with about 2 million residents and one of Africa's safercapitals. Accra has a mixture of modern buildings, shanty towns, occasional castle and lively markets. The central hub is around the Makola Market, just south of the market is the Atlantic ocean. ETW ORKS Accra's Nmain attractions include
The National Museum has wonderful displays about Ghana's culture and history including the slave-trade, and Ashanti Kingdom. Makola Market isRcolorful, bustling, and you can buy absoSECU ITY lutely everything. Beaches -- there are some nice beaches in and around Accra, check out Labadi Beach, Coco Beach and Bojo Beach.
Kakum National Park Kakum National Park is a dense tropical rain forest in southern Ghana. The forest is home to over 40 species of larger mammals including forest elephants, forest buffalo, Mona-meerkats and civets. The bird life is fantastic as well with over 250 species living in the forest. The highlight of any visit to Kakum, is a stroll on the Canopy Walkway that is built 30 meters above ground, crosses several bridges and is over 1000 feet (350 m) in length. The canopy walkway offers a unique viewing perspective of the wildlife and unique plants of the forest Trained guides are on hand to take you on a tour and provide detailed insight into the medicinal uses of the forest plants.
Kokrobite is located 30 kms (19m) outside of Accra and has some of the nicest beaches and local peoples. The Academy of African Music (AMA) is located here. It offers a great restaurant and some great performances from some Royal drummers. You can take dance and drum lessons here too. A little further on, about 5 minutes with a tro-tro, is Langma, still in the Kokrobite area. Every evening you can watch the local fishermen getting their nets out of the water. There are also some turtles nesting.
There is also Big Milly's Backyard, run by a lovely English woman called Wendy. Big Milly's is a resort mostly designed for the rugged traveller but they have just added air conditioned rooms, so it now suits most tastes. Big Milly's has a fine restaurant that serves lobster and other dishes.
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How Spiritual Growth is influenced By Our Words By: Mark Walters
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e are able to show the world our true nature by the words that we use. Words are the guardians of our emotions and our emotions guard our thoughts. The words that we employ and their impact on Energy Healing will be the focus of this article. Our ideal state is gained through the process of Energy Healing. Having attained our complete state we can see that our true nature easily shines through. And we are the thankful hosts of our true nature given to us by the creator.
By paying attention to what we say we can substitute the positive for the negative. To have our thoughts and emotions become more positive we need to make our language become more positive. The more we clear away the negative the more the positive grows and
To let our true nature shine through we need to take off the many filters that distort our projected inner beauty. What are these filters made up of? The filters are made of our thoughts and emotions. Our language are what expresses both our thoughts and emotions. Why have the words that we use become my main focus? I could simply have focused on thoughts or emotions. The reason I have chosen words is because they are the easiest to observe. And our friends and associates can easily show us our employ of Language. If someone states that you appear sad that is an interpretation that you could disagree with. But if they said that you said "I hate everybody" or "I love everybody" that is hard to challenge. Growth is judged by the language that we use. Your life can easily change by changing your language. Thoughts fly by so fast it is hard to grab them to change them. I am sure you have noticed how your thoughts roam from topic to topic. It is very hard to stop them long enough to see what is going on. The same is true for your emotions. I am sure you have been surprised by your emotional reactions. Usually by the time we recognize an emotional state, such as anger, we might be too far gone to be able to change what is going on. But language is different. When you speak a sentence you have the ability to immediately change it. You can change your words completely or simply change the order of what you have said. Instead of saying "You make me mad" you could say "What you are doing makes me mad." It is easy to see that these sentences are very different.
You may wonder how this helps with changing the filters that block our true nature from coming through. Negative emotions are our main filters. Emotions such as fear, hate, jealousy, anger, etc. These negative emotions are best replaced with positive emotions such as gratitude, love, patience, kindness, etc.
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“The problem that we have with a victim mentality is that we forget to see the blessings of the day. Because of this, our spirit is poisoned instead of nourished.” ― Steve Maraboli,
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The Beautiful Amanjena hotel in Marrakech, Morocco
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orocco has so many great things to offer that it would be folly not to get there at least once in your lifetime. You could choose to stay at the exquisite Amanjena, a place of dreams, where pleasure comes first and worries vaporize into ether. Located half an hour away from the International Airport in Marrakech and two and a half hours away from Casablanca, Amanjena is set on one of Morocco’s idyllic beaches, in Marrakech. The resort reflects the styles which used to be and still are traditions for the Arabian people, depicting Berber-influenced designs and mirroring the magnificence of the Atlas Mountains. Amanjena sports 32 private pavilions built with traditional manufacturing techniques, from natural materials. The sunken fires, terraces with gazebos, lantern-lit seating spots and high domes confer a superb appearance to the resort, while eight of the pavilions are decked with private pools, perfect for a place where some of the hottest temperatures in the world can be often experienced.
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There are a few exquisite options for dining as well, like enjoying tasty cuisine watching those using the golf course from The Pool Terrace, Thai menus on the beach or exclusively Mediterranean and Moroccan dishes inside the main restaurant, served outdoors during the hot season. Additional Moroccan cuisine, plus entertainment sustained by local dancers and musicians, can be enjoyed within the Amanjena Tent Experience, which can be booked in case guests feel the need for something truly original. During daytime guests can also borrow the resort’s custom-made green Mercedes for unforgettable journeys throughout Amanjena’s surroundings. In addition, entertainment irradiates all over the place: manicured golf courses await enthusiasts, a lurid heated outdoor pool will definitely baffle those feeling like taking a dip, clay tennis courts wait for the pools to pop, while a timber-floored gym is ready to see fitness addicts practicing.
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Welcome to 2015! That five looks so authoritative, like this year is guaranteed to be strong and firm for everyone. A good sign of what's to come appeared to my family on the first of this year. My dad traveled this holiday season so the mother-daughter trio went to New Year's Day brunch at the Blue Mesa Grill. Oooh, the food was delicious! While my momma and I were focused on our waffles and mimosas, a woman approached our table. She said that she wanted to cover our brunch, in a small act of kindness, a pay it forward gesture. We were so surprised and overwhelmed by her generosity. Brunch buffet for $20 per person is no small thing! My family has experienced some not so pleasant moments, especially in the last quarter of this year. So to ring in the new year with such a beautifully positive and unexpected gesture speaks volumes. That five looks fierce for a reason! 2015 will be especially special.
Now, instead of a list of resolutions or a new theme (although gorgeousness will never go out of style), I've decided to create a 25 before 25 bucket list. A few months after I turned 24, I read a Klassy Kinks post about the founder, Ijeoma's 24th birthday. She solicited her readers for ideas for her 25 before 25. And I thought, "I should do that.� Why didn't I think to do that?" But I let time pass by, unable to think of 25 unable to think of 25 things I would and could do before next August. And now I've cheated myself out of four months. I've got less than 8 months to inspire change and challenge my comfort zone before I reach that mid-twenties mark. I still can't believe I'm this old. Sometimes I give the wrong age when asked and then immediately realize "Oops, I'm actually not 23 anymore."
Well, here they are. Maybe I should have counted one of the 25 things as "Think of 25 things," because it has essentially taken me four months to come up with this bucket list (and most in the last 30 minutes). Tsk tsk. 1.
2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8.
Learn enough conversational Igbo to say something more than odimma and kedu (I'm serious and I've already got the iPhone apps to show a lil' somethin' lol) Treat my parents to a nice dinner (somehow I've never done this) Run a 5k Get the flu vaccine Sing to an audience (karaoke counts) Learn how to change a tire Learn how to cornrow my hair (or flat-twist in any direction) Find and reach out to a professional mentor (eek!)
25 Before 25
By Uche Arizor
25. Make a new friend, keep a new friend Whew, done! Cheers to the things on this bucket list! I'll update along the way and I'll do my best to complete them all. But since time is short and 2015 continues past my birthday, I think a little leeway would be acceptable. Don't you? Happy New Year to all you beautiful people!
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Fortify bridges (as opposed to burning them): connect to colleagues regularly Be okay speaking in front of people (Toastmasters maybe?) Read the Bible weekly, on a day besides Sunday Relearn how to cook stew Get stronger (i.e. perform more than 5 push-ups non-stop) Visit half of the museums in Houston's
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15. Post on this blog at least twice per month 16. Perfect one makeup look 17. Address my edges (i.e. what exactly am I supposed to do with this thick castor oil?) 18. Learn how to cook five new meals 19. Learn how to swim 20. Become certified in first aid and CPR
21. Attend a conference or convention (for public health or blogging or faith or cultural celebration or whatever) 22. Figure out and write out a specific career goal (what, when, where, how and know the why) 23. Finish transcribing my grandfather's unfinished memoirs 24. Save $1000 (towards a camera and accessories or a trip)
AMOIZE INSPIRATION The Problem of Marriage Institution By The Rev’d Canon Daniel Okwuchukwu Vicar/Church Planter, Emmanuel Anglican Church, Dallas
Marriage is a noble and honorable institution ordained by God to be parted only by death, but when the creator is taken out of marriage, marriage becomes man-made union that can end in shame and confusion. If you ignore creation origin and its order in marriage, what you get is baseless union of man and woman which ends up in disarray any time and ceases to exist. Man-made marriage goes astray even before it starts. God is God and we are not. We change but God does not change. Almost all the religions I know believe in God one way or the other. People should listen to God in that way or the other, especially where marriage is concerned.
that even some pastors/preachers shy away from preaching it in churches these days but rather sympathizing with those who see the text as sexist/bigot or chauvinist? It is because God’s people fail to get the real meaning of the text and what God is telling them about marriage institution. Consequently, “Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands---” and “For the husband is the head of the wife---” have become offensive statements to those who fail to grasp the real meaning of the full statements and the big responsibilities the statements placed on men.
To start with, God created everything including man straight out of dust and breathed the breath of life into man’s nostrils and man became a living being; (Gen. 2:7). Realizing that man does not have suitable helper, God took a rib out of man and made woman and brought her to the man; (Gen. 2:22). Woman originates from man (1 Cor. 11:8) therefore nature places big responsibility on man over a woman.
A wife’s submissiveness to her husband is the God-appointed task seen by God as an actual part of her obedience to Jesus. All God’s people are equal heirs of the gracious gift of life in Jesus but within the context of spiritual equality, man remains man and woman remains woman as Gen. 1:27 tells us. Their roles in marriage and society remain unchanged. 1 Peter 3:28 says: “Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers”
Why is it that Ephesians 5:22-23 (“Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior”) has become such a taboo
Many men and women have failed in their marriages because of misplaced values they brought to the union. It has become very common that people go into marriage with the ultimate aim of what they will personally get out of it and has no
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consideration of his or her partner. This is wrong. Again, people have gone into marriage for economic reasons, it is not right! A man in a marriage has rights, privileges and responsibilities that go along with being “--the head of the wife—“. God has made the husband the head of the family, which makes him carry a major responsibility for the success or failure of his marriage and the wife is ordered to submit, to love, to respect, assist, and develop gentle and quiet spirit; these responsibilities are for the success or failure of her marriage. If husbands would assume the leadership God planned, and wife the submissive nature God outlined, most of the problems facing many Christian homes today would crumble. Mathew 19:4 says; “Husband, cleave to your wife: and the two shall be one flesh” that is to say, no one should be closer to a man than his marriage partner, and the same to the wife for the sake of their oneness. Also, Ephesians 5:25 says “Husband, love your wife as Christ loved the church”; which means that a man’ welfares, his will and his needs should become secondary to that of the wife. If a husband loves his wife, in the true meaning of the word, and the wife does the same, they will be willing to give themselves very easily to each other. Let me end this by quoting Alexander Pope who says, “Act well your part; there all the honor lies.” To expect successful marriage, both man and woman should rely in serving God together and diligently contribute to the marriage in accordance to the word of God. Emmanuel Anglican Church 5923 Royal Lane, Dallas, Texas 75284. 469-767-5584
"A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers." ~Ruth Bell Graham
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AMOIZE INSPIRATION again...and so on. Segun did all of this out of the goodness of his heart love), but he named one (and his desire to assist true condition: I had to reach each goal before we would move on to the next. It took me about two months to learn to play the full song. The next month was learning to play and sing the lyrics at the same time. It was one of the most challenging things I've ever done. The result? Well ten years later, (with three kids) my wife's eyes still light up when she tells our "proposal story."
GOAL SETTING:- THE KEY TO SUCCESSFUL OUTCOME IN 2015 By Julius Babatunde You can find a lot of material out there on the value of setting goals. Experts will tell you to design goals that are SMART (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, Timely); a few will tell you to forget setting goals altogether. I'm a big believer in using small goals as stepping stones to reach larger ones. Here's a personal story to illustrate: About ten years ago, I decided to ask the love of my life to marry me. Of course, I wanted to make the proposal special, so I racked my brain to come up with something she wouldn't totally expect. My girlfriend happens to be a talented musician (she plays two instruments), and she knew that I couldn't play anything...other than my radio. So I decided to completely surprise her-by learning to play a song on the guitar.
I went to a close friend of mine (Segun, who happens to be one of the best guitarists on the planet) and asked how feasible it was, that I can learn to play and sing my proposal--in three months. I'll never forget our conversation: Me: So, is that possible?
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Segun: That depends. How much guitar can you play right now? Me: Umm...zero. Segun: OK (chuckling). Do you want to just play the chords, or like, the real song? Me: Come on--this is for my future wife here! Segun: OK, OK. Well, it's possible, but it's definitely not going to be easy. But if you're committed, I think you can do it. Me: I'm definitely committed. We got to work. Segun met with me every three days for the next three months, and at every meeting, he gave me a new goal. In the beginning, I had to learn how to play four notes at a time. (Sound simple? Trust me, it's not.) Over the next three days, I would need to master those four notes; then, Segun
So what does any of this have to do with you and your business? Let's extract four major lessons: 1. Get yourself a mentor. I never (there is no way to emphasize this enough) would have accomplished this without Segun's help. Not only was he a genius guitar player, he was an excellent teacher, an awesome motivator, and the perfect coach. He knew the task ahead was formidable, but he never discouraged me, always remaining positive. Of course, we don't all have friends that make wonderful business mentors. But I didn't always have access to my own personal George Benson, either. My friendship with Segun began a few years earlier--as a professional relationship. Never underestimate the power of your network. 2. You need smaller goals to reach bigger goals. Imagine Segun met with me on that first night, showed me how to play half the song, and said: "There it is. I'll see you again in a month." My first goal was to learn four notes. Four notes. A gargantuan task for me, but a small fraction in relation to the big picture. Those four notes led to the next four, which led to the next four, etc.
Important: You define the ultimate objective, but your mentor can help you determine which goals will get you there. 3. Keep focused on the end product. There were obvious challenges to finding time to practice every day, and these threatened to impede my progress. But I had a strong belief in the symbolism of what I was trying to do: Marriage was more than just a piece of paper to me--it would mean a lifetime of commitment and hard work to be truly successful. Undertaking this incredibly difficult challenge was my way of saying to my girlfriend: I'm ready to do whatever it takes to be able to wake up next to you for the rest of my life. Focusing on this, as well as on the joy of surprising my (potential) fiancee, kept me going...despite the obstacles that got in the way. Similarly, when you encounter difficulty (and you will), view these as challenges to be overcome--not as dead ends. Focus on your end goal. Remember: The harder you work for something, the more valuable it becomes. 4. Get started! I can't remember exactly how long I tossed this idea around before I got moving, but it wasn't long. I knew that every minute sitting around thinking about it was a minute lost--and I was in no position to waste time. Lesson: There's no perfect time. There are no perfect circumstances. It's not going to be easy...and there will be setbacks. But once you've determined what you want to do, what's holding you back? So...what are you waiting for? Get up, and get a move on! At the end of the day, you'll be that much closer to what you hope to accomplish. I can't promise that you'll reach every aspiration you set your heart on. But having set (and reached) a considerable number of goals in my life, I can testify that following the steps above can help you achieve great things. And if you don't believe me... Just ask my wife.
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AMOIZE INSPIRATION Six ways you can be motivated to start a great 2015 By Julius Babatunde I wear many hats, and one of them is being a motivational speaker. I love that part of my work, but when I get hired, without fail, the client always asks, “Can you really get them motivated? Can you really give them drive?” And I always reply with utter confidence, “Yes, I can.” Because I know the motivation they’re seeking really starts from within. Motivation is an individual response to an unfolding of pattern of inner needs, ranging from respect to recognition to relevance. Motivation answers the basic question of why people do what they do and why they behave in a certain way. So if I can address people from within, I know they will be motivated.
Here are a few motivators: Recognition. The need to be recognized is a significant motivator. We all want to know that we are appreciated. We seek validation from external sources. Feeling undervalued or unappreciated usually ends up as a lack of motivation. Freedom. The need to have freedom is an important motivator. Freedom activates our own self-empowerment. Freedom prompts us to make decisions, to take
ownership, to be responsible, to make plans, to dream big Impact. The urge to have an impact is powerful motivator. People who have influence chance things. They get things done and they attain respect. The idea of having impact motivates us to think deeper about how we can use our talent and influence.
Ser v ice: The urge to be of service is one of our strongest motivators; it comes not from our ego, but from our heart. It is based not in personal gain but in making a difference in people’s lives. Pa ss ion : The power of our passion is a profound motivator. The desire to get things done, to excel, to give of ourselves—those are all grounded in passion, the powerful feeling of enthusiasm that we all have inside of us. M ean in g: The desire for meaning is a revealing motivator, because one of the things we all share is a desire for a higher purpose, a yearning to be part of something bigger than ourselves. It is meaning that makes our lives into a calling. The specific motivators are different for each person, but we can find ours by addressing our value system. That means the most reliable source of motivation will come from one person, and that person is you. Motivators compel you into action. Values are principles that guide your actions. There are many ways to motivate AW ARENESS others, but first you must know what motivates you. Only a motivated leader motivates others.
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AMOIZE BUSINESS 10 Financial Resolutions for the New Year
By Joshua Kennon
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he New Year is a great time to overhaul your financial life for the better, and one excellent place to start is by making good resolutions that can help get you closer to your money goals. Here are a few you might considering to your own personal agenda.
Financial Resolution 1: Know What You Want Have a clear, concise financial goal for the year. It isn’t good enough to say,
“I want to have my credit card paid down and more money in the bank”. Instead, you should say something like, “I have the balance on my credit card paid down to $0, over $5,000 in my savings account, and a fully funded IRA.”
Financial Resolution 2: Prioritize Your Debts Not all debt is equal. Make a list of your liabilities and organize them by the annual interest rate. Those with the highest rates (most likely your credit card debt)
should be paid off immediately. It does no good to invest money while you are paying 19%+ each year. In a lot of cases, the wisest course of action is to sell any certificate of deposits, savings bonds or other cash holdings and use them to pay the balance. Why? If you owe $10,000 on your credit card and pay 19% interest annually ($1,900 per year), while at the same time, own a $10,000 certificate of deposit at a bank, paying you 4% interest ($400 a year), you would actually save yourself $1,500 a year by paying the debt!
Financial Resolution 4: Enroll in an Automatic Savings Plan
Financial Resolution 3: Open an IRA If you haven't done so already, open an individual retirement account (or IRA for short). Your financial planner or accountant should be able to tell you whether a Traditional or Roth IRA is better for you. Both offer important tax advantages that can add up to a significant amount money by retirement.
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Automatic savings plans are now offered for everything from brokerage accounts to government bonds. Simply call your broker and tell them you want a certain amount of money withdrawn from your checking or savings account each month, on a certain date, and deposited into your investment account. This way, you are forced to save because the cash is drawn directly from your bank before you can get your hands on it. Investors can often sign up for ASP's through a company's direct stock purchase plan. In these instances, the money is withdrawn and used to purchase additional shares of stock in the particular company. The United States government offers a similar service to those interested in investing in savings bonds.
Financial Resolution 5: Close Unnecessary Accounts
Financial Resolution 7: Collect Your Change
Banks and financial institutions charge fees for everything under the sun. Is it really necessary to have several credit or checking accounts? Although there are exceptions, in the vast majority of cases the answer is a firm no! To put things into perspective: imagine your bank charges you $8 each month for your checking account. In thirty years, that $8 will have added up to more than $8,500 after
Any time you make purchases with cash, only spend whole dollar amounts. If you go to the grocery store and your ticket comes to $67.39, pay $70 in cash and pocket the change. The first thing you should do when you go home is throw the money in a large container (empty water jugs are perfect.) If you adhere to this policy and don’t spend any of the change, you are likely to save several thousand dollars over the course of a year. Use the money to pay down debt, buy stocks and bonds, or go on vacation.
taxes!*
Financial Resolution 6: Make Money Doing What You Love Most people can name at least one thing they are truly passionate about. One of the ways to enjoy your work is to only do the things you enjoy. Find a way to turn your passions and hobbies into profit. The world is full of amazing jobs such as fulltime ice cream tasters and video game testers!
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Financial Resolution 8: Give Money I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: one of the most effective ways to realize the value of money is to give it. The next time you get your paycheck, take 5% of your salary in cash (the greenbacks in your pocket will make it seem far more real than if you simply wrote a check or used a debit card). Walk into a Starbucks and anonymously pay for the other customers in line. If you pass a child in WalMart staring at a new video game, take out your wallet and buy it for them. In both cases, the recipients are sure to remember your kindness for years to come. It is a powerful and effective way to change other people’s lives for the better while giving you a better sense of freedom financially. Suddenly, you realize just how much promise $20 contains.
“To achieve what 1% of the world’s population has (Financial Freedom), you must be willing to do what only 1% dare to do..hard work and perseverance of highest order.” ― Manoj Arora
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Financial Resolution 10: Read a Financial Book Each Month Financial Resolution 9: Begin Using Personal Finance Software Knowledge is power. If I asked ten people on the street how much they spent last year on books or movie tickets, nine of them probably couldn’t answer. With a few keystrokes, however, someone using personal finance software such as Microsoft Money or Quicken can find out. Personally, I print a report at the end of every December and spend an evening studying and going over my income and expenditures for the year. I’m often surprised at the amount I spend on small items such as ATM bank fees and cappuccino.
If you want to learn to cook, you read cookbooks. If you want to learn to fix an engine, you ask someone to show you. The printed word is amazing in that it allows you to communicate directly with the most brilliant financial minds of the past century. By picking up a copy of The Intelligent Investor , One Up on Wall Street , orCommon Stocks and Uncommon Profits , you can be taught how to value investments, set up your portfolio, and spot the characteristics of a classic growth stock directly from the men who did it most successfully. Through the written word, their death, retirement, or physical location is rendered meaningless; their ideas, philosophies, and techniques live on. It’s as if you are inviting Benjamin Graham or Philip Fisher into your home, any time you choose, at a moment’s notice, simply by picking up a copy of their work and turning the page. Consistently applying yourself to learn as much as you can about the financial markets, the nature of money and investments in general is absolutely essential to creating long-term wealth
“Time, not money, is your biggest asset in life. You need time to invest in relationships (with yourself and your family) or to chase your passion. "Think again" if you are still trading off time for money. Let your money work for you. You don't work for money. That is exactly what Financial Freedom is...” ― Manoj Arora
“As you give to fund God's needs, are you forced to trust Him to provide for yours? That's what a growing faith is about. And over the long haul, it's not enough just to commit to a percentage. Growth means reviewing your giving goals and occasionally increasing the percentage you give.” ― Andy Stanley
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CELEBRATING BLACK HISTORY MONTH WITH DASHIKI’S
Are Dashikis my Style? Dashikis are traditionally loose fitting pull-over shirts for men with a ornate v shaped collar. They range from casual to formal with an easy to wear look. While the more casual kind are usually cotton shirts with little or no embroidery, higher end dress shirts will often be made of a silk brocade. More formal African Dashikis can have intricate embroidery along the neck or collar and at the sleeve ends. While the common dashikis found in Dashikis are worn in movies, mentioned the US today are comfortable and in print, and worn by famous people all cheap clothes, the dashiki has a long over the world. Wilt Chamberlain, Samhistory that originated in West Africa my Davis Jr., Stevie Wonder, even Washington DC mayor Marion Barry and was originally a shirt were known to make many covering the entire chest as appearances in Dashikis. well as in a much longer Why do people press This dashiki is even worn in a version called the grand very famous musical number boubou. Dashikis were loose fitting and light love dashiki's so in the Disney film Enchanted! enough to offer protection Dashikis are also often worn for the sun and heat, very much? during modern Kwanzaa important with the West celebrations and become very popular African climate! each February for Black History Month The dashiki has made a huge breakwhen people become mindful of getting through from Africa since the African back in touch with their heritage. American culture struggles of the 1960's where it became a symbol of Why do people love dashiki's so much? affirmation, it stood for “black is beautiDressing in African style is fun! ful,” and signaled a return to African Dashikis are very comfortable, esperoots. Dashiki's first started being made cially in warm weather because of their in Harlem around the summer of 1960 loose fit. and now find a home all over the US. 47 AMOIZE.COM JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2015
AMOIZE BEAUTY Natural Beauty Ingredients that work wonders Avocado is a very recent discovery in skin treatment and remedies, and so far it has had outstanding results. Avocado oil is made from the pulp of the avocado fruit. It is rich and heavy but penetrates the skin for a nutritive and therapeutic experience. Avocado oil contains more than 20% essential unsaturated fatty acids as well as vitamins A, C, D and E, proteins, beta-carotene,
lecithin, fatty acids and the “youth mineral� potassium. Avocado oil is high in unsaponifiables (sterolins), which are famous for being beneficial in reducing age spots, healing scars and moisturizing the upper layers of the skin.
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Unsaponifiables are a group of compounds called plant sterolins. Sterolins soften the skin, having an amazing moisturizing effect on the upper layer of the skin and reducing scars. The sterolins in avocado oil have been found to diminish age spots. Oils with the highest unsaponifiables are shea butter, avoca-
do oil, sesame oil, soybean and olive oil. In a 1991 study at the Department of Food Engineering and Biotechnology, Technion-Israel Institute of Technology found that skin treatment with avocado oil significantly increases water soluble collagen content in the dermis, which effects the aging of the skin. Avocado is used in many folk medicines as an aphrodisiac. Avocado oil is an emollient and very stable. According to many dermatologists avocado does help make the skin feel softer and smoother, reduce roughness, cracking and irritation. Avocado also removes the fine wrinkles of aging and help protect the skin from ultraviolet rays.
Black Soap: Home remedies for acne and oily skin African natural black soap is one of the most healthful yet unheard of soaps you will find. This black soap contains more benefits for healthy skin than you can imagine. Read some of the information below and you will know why. Although traditionally made as a bar soap, there are now many exciting recipes being produced to give every type of person the experience they're looking
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Black soap has a long history of helping to treat eczema, freckles, dark spots, and fine lines. Among it's list of uses black soap is one of the best acne products on the market. Being a gentle soap, it won't irritate sensitive skin, also making it a good option for babies or the elderly. Black soap's deep cleansing properties are great for clearing up oily skin stopping acne from forming. Shea butter and other botanicals will help dry out and heal current blemishes leaving your skin radiant in no time.
How this handmade soap gets made All natural African black soap is made from dried plantain skins, palm leaves, cocoa pod powder, and palm kernel oil for an all-natural cleansing process. Many recipes also include shea butter made from the nuts of the Karite tree. Plantains skins are largely what make this black soap so effective. They are a natural source of vitamins A & E and iron. When black soap is made, the skin of the plantain is dried under the sun and then roasted in a clay oven. The heat must be
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Sodium – Provides energy for cell moisture Bromine – Acts as a soothing antiseptic
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dead sea are recognized worldwide in the treatment of dermatological diseases, particularly psoriasis, atopic dermatitis, vitiligo, and mycocis fungoides. Exposure to dead sea bath salts is highly acclaimed for nourishing the skin, easing rheumatic discomfort, activating the circulatory system, and relaxing the nerves. See below for a list of benefits found by using dead sea bath salts.
Physiological Benefits: Helps give the body relief from pain Stimulates natural circulation for improved health Helps detoxify the body and fight off viruses Acts as a natural anti bacterial
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Muscles and bones: Relaxes tense, aching muscles and joints Helps relieve chronic lower back pain Helps relieve arthritis and rheumatism
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Soothes skin irritations such as psoriasis and eczema Smoothes and softens skin Encourages skin renewal Speeds up the healing of scars Restores moisture balance to the skin
Tension reliever: Relieves tired, aching feet and leg muscles Eases tension in hands and wrists Helps relieve sports injuries
Fun bath salt recipes and ideas! - Ingredients2 tbsp. dead sea bath salts 2 tbsp. shea butter Pour the bath salts and shea butter in bath and let dissolve while the water is running. The combination of dead sea minerals and shea butter moisture will give you a total skin makeover. Try today and see instant results!
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Aloe Vera There are over 240 different species of aloe, growing mainly in the dry regions of Africa, Asia, Europe and America. The aloe leaf contains over 75 nutrients and 200 active compounds, including 20 minerals, 18 amino acids, and 12 vitamins. Cleopatra was the first person to discover aloe vera. She used it in her bath water and on her eyes and lips, and since her day many cultures have used aloe vera for skin and beauty care. The bulk of the aloe leaf is filled with gel, 96% water with the other 4% containing other properties. Applied to wounds, aloe is a mild anesthetic, relieving itching, swelling and pain. It also acts as an antibacterial and antifungal, increases blood flow to wounded areas, and stimulates the healing process. The benefits of aloe are as follows:
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C
rystal Chinelo Onyeador may not be a household name, but a lot can be said about this courageous, talented, and smart young woman.
22 year old Crystal Chinelo Onyeador graduated from the University of Notre Dame last year. She had planned on taking a year off before going to optometry school. But God had other plans, July 1, 2014 she was diagnosed with hodgkin's lymphoma (cancer) If you meet Chinelo, you would hardly know that she was sick. She is very upbeat and positive and happy. She doesn’t sit around feeling sorry for herself, instead she is using her blog ihaveapurpose.org to help others. Her aim for her blog is to help others find the joy in life even during difficult times in their life and she certainly is leading by example. Chinelo has an amazing spirit and is facing her diagnosis with unparalleled bravery and a good dose of humor. What I like most about this young woman is that she’s not arrogant or mean or stuck up like some young women her age, she’s just not like that. She’s always a delight to be around. Two months ago I asked Chinelo if she'd mind answering a few questions about her life and her blog “I have a purpose,” and thought I'd share her answers.
AMOIZE: Are there any family stories told about you as a baby?
AMOIZE: Who is Crystal Chinelo Onyeador? CHINELO: Crystal Chinelo Onyeador is so many things, but first and foremost I’m a child of God. He created me to be so multi-faceted that I can’t even completely answer this question. God gives us all so many gifts and abilities and I still haven’t discovered them all because every day He shows me more “Life is too of them. AMOIZE: One of the things that makes each of us special is the particular circumstances we are born into. How would you describe your parents?
not commit yourself to God. “ Chinelo Onyeador
CHINELO: I always brag about my parents because of the relationship we have. Talking and comparing with some of my friends, I see that we have a unique bond. I can come to them with any and everything. We’re very open with each other and as strange as it may sound, my parents come to me for advice almost as much as I come to them. I think about what I want in a parent-child interaction for my future children and I hope I can be half of what they are to me. I appreciate that we have a friendship but I still have that respect for them as my parents. 53 AMOIZE.COM JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2015
CHINELO: This same story always sticks out to me. I don’t have any siblings so one day when I was 5 or 6 years old, my mom and I were out running errands, and apparently I said to her “mommy, can we go to the short to store and buy me a sister to play with?” I guess I was tired of playing with them. AMOIZE: Perhaps the next strongest influence on us after genetic makeup is our cultural heritage. This will be stronger for some than others. What family or cultural celebrations/traditions were important in your life growing up?
CHINELO: I generally think that I’m a person that really values tradition and cultural customs, so I was always interested in all those things. For example any time we go somewhere, I pay attention to the Igbo traditional presentation of the kolanut. I always notice when it’s done incorrectly and it bothers me so much. My dad is really big on tradition so he taught me a lot about it which probably led me to be really active in the African Students Association in college.
COVER STORY AMOIZE: What pressures did you feel as a teenager, and where did they come from? CHINELO: To be honest, peer pressure is something I never really had an issue with as a teen. I remember in first or second grade I had a friend who told me to do something and I got in trouble for it. My parents gave me a lecture about having my own mind and ever since then I haven’t had a problem saying no to things I didn’t want to do. My early years in college, everyone was getting drunk and trying to get me to do it too and I just had no desire to. Those things just never got to me. If you see me doing something, you can pretty much guarantee it was my choice. AMOIZE: What was your first experience of leaving home and going to college like? CHINELO: I was actually really excited. Most of my friends stayed in Texas, but I was eager to branch out and meet people from all over the place. After about a month I got pretty homesick though. But I’ll never regret going so far away. It really made me appreciate home, which I felt like a lot of my high school friends didn’t. AMOIZE: Many of us struggle with finding and living our purpose. I did for years and it was one of the most frustrating and painful times of my life. What has been your most important lesson in life, outside of the classroom? CHINELO: I would definitely say getting cancer has been so important for my growth. I have learned so much about myself and the people around me from this disease. I’m honestly grateful for it. I used to think I was immune from cancer and all those things you see on TV, but I’m learning the importance of valuing my time with others and dedicating
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myself to strengthening my relationship with God. Although I have unwavering faith that my battle with cancer will be won, it made me realize how short life is. Sometimes it takes something extreme to do that. AMOIZE: How do your spiritual values and beliefs affect how you live your life now? CHINELO: Going along with what I said earlier, life is too short to not commit yourself to God. He has blessed me and so many ways and it’s only my faith in Him that is getting me through the chemotherapy and all the doctor’s visits. I have so much trust in Him and that’s what keeps me going every day. AMOIZE: What matters the most to you now? CHINELO: My family, including my Notre Dame family and the Nigerian community, and my friends. They have shown me so much support through this time in my life. I definitely know that God blessed me with these people for a reason. AMOIZE: What hidden talents do you have? CHINELO: I guess you could say that painting is my hidden talent since I just started doing it last year. I also have played the violin for almost 13 years. I think I’m pretty good at putting clothes together too, if that’s considered a talent. AMOIZE: What is your ultimate aspiration? CHINELO: I just hope that I can impact someone in some way. Whether it’s through helping them see as an eye doctor or through telling my story, I want anyone’s encounter with me to be a positive one. Stay in touch with Crystal Chinelo Onyeador www.ihaveapurpose.com wwww.twitter.com/chinelogonwerk www.facebook.com/chinelo.onyeador
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FASHION & STYLE
Wax prints fabric hold a special meaning in the hearts of African’s because they each tell a story to the wearer. You see, in Africa clothes aren’t just clothes. The colors, the designs, even the fabrics used are completely unique in that they each have their own history, their own story, their own symbolism. For example, the color purple often symbolizes royalty or prosperity. Wax print fabrics actually originated in Indonesia and were exported to the Gold Coast and then spread over West Africa into Central Africa. They became extremely popular and over time the Africans customized and personalized their own designs. Today, African wax print fabrics are primarily made in Ghana or Mali, and they have a strong cultural, social and economic importance. Since there are so many varieties of wax print fabrics, and so many different artists telling their own stories it’s hard to interpret each one. The colors often times hold significance as they can represent social standing, age, tribal orientation and marital status. Many times the wax print fabrics use pictures or symbols that promote religious themes, renowned individuals, historical occasions, popular songs and religious hymns. They are also commonly used as a way to state proverbs and metaphors. Whether you choose to make clothing out of wax print fabrics, or for crafting, you will have something hand-made that is truly unique and truly a reflection of the artist and of Africa.
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A MEMORABLE DAY IN MY LIFE By Acho Orabuchi
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n this concluding part of my story, I must confess that I was overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and kindness the Nigerian community in the United States, including those in Nigeria, showered me with during the Roasting/Special Honors on July 12, 2014. I was speechless and words could not describe the effusiveness of such adoration and my emotional response to the people’s gestures. However, before I share my response and appreciation, let me first invite you to read what some people expressed about me. The Obi of Obinugwu, His Royal Highness, Eze (Dr.) Cletus Ikechukwu Ilomuanya (CON), Chairman, South East Council of Traditional Rulers, National Coordinator (South East Zone) in the National Council of Traditional Rulers of Nigeria as well as Member, Presidential Committee on Public Awareness on Security and Civic Responsibility said in his goodwill message, “Indeed, this honour unarguably confirms you as a prophet duly recognized by his own people. Your immense transformational services, accomplishments as well as humanitarian and patriotic activities have not gone unnoticed. You have proven to be a true nationalist and worthy ambassador of our country, Nigeria and Nigerians in the USA unanimously attest to this fact. The honour being bestowed on you is well deserved and I feel very proud to associate myself with it. You are incontestably, a rare gem and a pride to Nigeria as a nation.”
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Dr. Acho Orabuchi
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Similarly, Dr. Orji Uzor Kalu (MON) expressed, “Your patriotism and selflessness in all spheres of life has made you outstanding in the society. It is indeed, a well deserved honour.” Dr. Barth Akubukwe who participated actively said after the event, “Dr. Acho Orabuchi Roasting and Special Honors event was unique and was the first time the Nigerian community extolled the virtues of an individual publicly in the midst of culturally diverse audience. It was one of the African events in the Dallas metropolitan area where guests adhered to a dress code. It really attracted creams of Nigerians from all over the United States. It was a great night to remember!” My Remarks and Appreciation: I am elated and thankful to God for all His blessings! I thank friends, colleagues, and well-wishers from various parts of the country for making time out of their busy schedule to share this moment with me. It is really not out of serendipity that we are here tonight, but out of shared values.
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“My greatest achievement so far is that I've been able to continue with my normal life. I love what I do, but more so, I'm glad to have people who care about me close by.”
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Thus, it is with a great and unimaginable sense of humility and excitement that I express my sincere gratitude to the Nigerian community, who thought I deserved this immense honor. I am thankful to the general committee members and those who conceived the idea of honoring me. I am indebted to the sponsors who donated freely and generously to ensure that tonight is possible. It would be remiss not to acknowledge the Planning Committee members, Sir Iyke Ginigeme, Chief Johnson Ihemeremadu, Hon. Ngozi Echebelem, Hon. Emmanuel Ibe, and Prof. Charles Mambula, for working diligently in various aspects of the planning to actualize the roasting and special honors to me. I sincerely thank them for a job welldone. I appreciate you and God will reward your genuine sacrifice. For your singular act of kindness and commitment, your names have been recorded in the annals of Nigerian history.
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“The roots of true achievement lie in the will to become the best that you can become.”
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Let me seize this moment to give special thanks to my wife, Ngozi Orabuchi and my children, who have played a unique role for the success of this event. I thank my brother, Hon. Nwokedi Orabuchi, as well as Nze Elvis and Chief Longers Anyanwu, who traveled from Nigeria to witness this occasion. I must not fail to thank the Ambassador and Consul-General of Nigeria, Ambassador Geoffrey I. Teneilabe, Dr. Ifeanyi and Mrs. Rose Okpalobi, and Dr. Barth Akubukwe for coming. Fellow Nigerians and Americans, I am deeply proud of our heritage. Your sincere love and admiration as well as your expressions of me in your well-crafted words and unforgettable imagery of me indicate a testament of who you are as a people—a people with proud history and tradition. You have reached into our rich tradition that values virtues of enormous importance. With your acclamation tonight, you have asserted that I humbly epitomize cherished virtues. Indeed, this shows your character and most importantly, your sacrifice and selfless deeds to devote today, tonight to extol me.
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“Nothing stops the man who desires to achieve. Every obstacle is simply a course to develop his achievement muscle. It's a strengthening of his powers of accomplishment.”
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I owe your exaltation to my children, my wife, parents and those I have come in contact with, including all of you here tonight. To those on whose shoulders I stand, I humbly bow my head. Thank you and remain blessed! In a crowd of about 400 people, it will be difficult to mention everyone that was in the audience. Some of the people in attendance were Ambassador Geoffrey I. Teneilabe, Ambassador and Consul-General of Nigeria, in Atlanta, Georgia; Hon. Nze Elvis Agukwe, National Coordinator, South-East Amalgamation for Jonathan/Sambo 2015; former Imo State Commissioner for Information & Strategy; Hon. Chief Longers Anyanwu, Chairman, Imo State Subsidy Reinvestment & Empowerment Programme (SURE-P), Nigeria; Prof. Charles Mambula, Chair, Department of Management, School of Business, Langston University, Langston, Oklahoma; and Igwe & Lolo Sabinus Akas, a Dallas-based philanthropist.
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There is no short cut to achievement. Life requires thorough preparation - veneer isn't worth anything‌.
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Developing Effective Leadership Skills
Show them you care and that you listen to what they say when they talk. Make them feel respected by acknowledging their thoughts, ideas and concerns. An open line of communication at all times is essential to ensuring the right individuals receive the right message and information. Be clear when giving instructions, be positive, and always be polite no matter what circumstances you are operating under. Team empowerment is vital, especially when individuals are required to make decisions. You need to involve people in the leadership process as much you can. Help strengthen their skills by giving them tasks to challenge and excite them. You will help encourage and build-up future leaders, motivate individuals to do better, and improve team morale.
Ways To Effectively Develop Your Leadership Skills For Successful Management efore you set about developing your leadership skills, you should fully understand the role of a leader. Qualities you need include integrity, determination, and a positive attitude. You need to be someone people can look up to and respect. The position requires you to motivate, empower, positively influence, inspire, and encourage people to be the best they can be.
natural traits of a leader, do not just assume you are doing a good job. It is a great idea to obtain feedback from members of your team to find out what they think of your management style. While criticism can be hard to take, you will gain valuable information about your behavior and mannerisms, allowing you to pinpoint areas needing improvement. You cannot fix something if you do not know what is wrong.
The following tips will assist you in building leadership skills, so you can achieve successful management.
Communication is important, so focus on enhancing your skills in this area. Make connections with members of your team by listening.
If you are someone who possesses the
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Planning is vital if you intend to manage successfully. Through the development of your leadership skills you will learn to put yourself a step ahead of what is going on around you. Prepare for every possible eventuality to ensure you handle the situation with ease and conduct yourself like a professional. Never lose control. Your coping mechanisms need to be honed in order to control your reactions, especially when under tense pressure. It is important to remember you are the person individuals will come to when they need affirmation and guidance, so be there for them. This is when your organizational and decision-making skills will be needed most. Often it is easier to do the job yourself to ensure it is done properly. However, delegation is important. You need to be able to supervise effectively, which means you must rely on the capabilities of your team to get a job done. Aim to create a team committed to achieving goals and organizational objectives.
CUISINE
Three Reasons To Eat Vegetables Choosing greens almost on a regular basis could possibly be by far the most healthy ways of eating you can follow -and one of the simplest, diet advisors report. In fact, the health benefits of consuming more vegetables is much better for your thinking, your emotional stability and your physical health. So, get committed to eating more vegetables tomorrow. Eating salad greens is a really convenient way to sneak in some servings of veggies. Green salads are found on the menu of pretty much every dining establishment. It is easy to even choose a little salad with lettuce, carrots, celery and tomatoes, available with fat-free or reduced fat salad dressing, for a few dollars at a large number of fast food places. Additionally, you can make a salad at in your own kitchen in 10 min's, with some pre-washed mixed greens, carrots and several other vegetables and fruits, and a bottle of light salad dressing.
Fresh salads are light, energizing and healthy. A lot of people enjoy eating salads, including teens and young children. You can create salads to suit your food cravings: fresh fruits, chicken breast, olives and perhaps grilled steak.
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By Ezioma Anosike
Here are some very convincing health reasons for why you need to enjoy a salad every single day: 1. Salads contain fiber. A high fiber diet program can help you lower bad cholesterol and prevent constipation. 2. Eating more fiber might help you feel fuller, eat less, and consequently lose weight. 3. Try eating salads for the natural health benefits of fruits and veggies. Many health officials recognize that Americans really need to eat more fruits and vegetables. In fact, dark green and brilliantly colored vegetables like broccoli and bell peppers are considered some of the most effective. No matter which vegetables you decide to eat, just start eating more of them tomorrow than you had today.
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Vegetable Stir fry Ingredients 2 tablespoons olive oil 1 red bell pepper, cored, seeded, and julienned 1 yellow bell pepper, cored, seeded, and julienned 1/2 cup thinly sliced red onion 1 cup half-moon sliced yellow squash chunks 1 clove garlic, minced 1/2 cup teriyaki sauce (check the label: no more than 2 grams sugar per serving) 1/4 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper 1/4 teaspoon kosher salt Directions Start by preparing and cutting all the vegetables and measuring your ingredients so that they are ready to go. Once you begin stir-frying, it goes very quickly. In a wok or large skillet, heat olive oil over high heat until almost smoking. Add the peppers and onion while stirring constantly. While continuing to stir, add successively the squash, garlic, and teriyaki sauce. Cook, stirring, constantly for 2 minutes. Add the , sprouts, pepper, and salt and cook, stirring, until crisp-tender, about 2 minutes more and remove from heat. Serve immediately.
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Tilapia & Lemon Ingredients Season 1 or 2 Tilapia Fillets with Lemon Juice, Ground Black Pepper, and Mrs. Dash Seasoning Directions Grill or “fry” in a sauté pan with some bit of Olive Oil. Cook until flaky- usually about 4 minutes on each side on medium heat. Once cooked, squeeze just a bit more lemon juice on top to keep it moist Wash and cut off the ends of 1-2 cups of fresh green beans Slightly steam them in a sauté pan with 1/4 cup of water on medium heat (this will soften the rough exterior of the green beans) Once the water evaporates (usually 5 minutes), then add 1 lemon’s juice, ground black pepper, and fresh crushed garlic Sauté on medium heat until green beans are cooked through- about 7 more minutes *If you like more seasoning, sprinkle on your favorite flavor of Mrs. Dash.
African Spiced Salad Ingredients 1 head romaine lettuce- rinsed, dried and chopped 1 red onion, thinly sliced 1 (6 ounce) can pitted black olives 1 green bell pepper, chopped 1 red bell pepper, chopped 2 large tomatoes, chopped 1 cucumber, sliced 1 cup crumbled feta cheese 6 tablespoons olive oil 1 teaspoon dried oregano 1 lemon, juiced Ground black pepper to taste Directions In a large salad bowl, combine the Romaine, onion, olives, bell peppers, tomatoes, cucumber and cheese. Whisk together the olive oil, oregano, lemon juice and black pepper. Pour dressing over salad, toss and serve.
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Most of the African clothing available at Africa Imports is hand made. Fabrics like mudcloth, brocade, kente, and kuba cloth give African clothing a unique feel and design. Clothes are made not just with a flat cotton, so you get more with African fashions then mass produced western clothing can ever provide! Colors and what they represent in African fashions Color in African clothing gives even more meaning! Here's what a few of these colors represent in African fashions. Yellows, gold, and mustard These colors represent wealth and fertility both. Gold represents both precious metal; and the yolk of an egg. Gold is one of the most popular colors in the African fashions. This color is used in both the fabric and the embroidery. Unlike here in the US, red in African fashions is not considered the color of love. It is viewed as the sacrificial color of blood and represents the mood of tension in the political or spiritual world. Blue is a harmonious color of peace and love and is used to symbolize the sky where creation cam from. Green is a medicinal color that symbolizes life and prosperity. Meanings behind African fashion jewelry In African jewelry different jewelry is worn for weddings, for everyday wear, and for other occasions. Bone jewelry symbolizes prosperity in some African cultures. A cow can be considered sacred within people groups who raise cattle. Because a cow bone can represent wealth, bone or imitations of it are very popular in jewelry throughout Africa. Another common ingredient to African jewelry from Africa Imports is cowry shells. In African culture cowry shells are a symbol of prosperity and fertility. You can find out more about thehistory and meaning of cowrie shells here. This article is free. You can publish or circulate this article on other websites as long as you give credit to Africa Imports; and include a link back to www.africaimports.com at the end of the article.
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PEOPLE & PARTIES 2014 IRIJI MBAISE CELEBRATION IN DALLAS, TEXAS By Prince Richard Nwachukwu Abii
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n August 16th, 2014, Mbaise People in Dallas/Fort Worth & Tyler Texas had a fantastic purposeful celebration. The evening started as tranquil and focused as it was intended and planned. On that day, too, the cream and colorful of Mbaise friends, in-laws and well-wishers were ever festive and full of anticipation because everyone knew Mbaise was working on things far more important than a great good time. If you were there and familiar with the Ezeji title coronation, in the villages, the day would have reminded you of the thanksgiving to God for all his blessing throughout the year, prayers of thanksgiving for a bountiful harvest and the elaborate visiting that last for at least eight market days… and that is where the pain starts for the not so ready to be an “Ezeji”. It is not easy! Basically, folks come out to congratulate the Ezeji-inthe-making, inspecting the Barn of yams in testimony for the accurate harvest or lack thereof of the different types of yams that must have been harvested, not purchased, by the Ezeji-to-be. Each person that comes into that barn will take some yams with them as they depart. Folks do not just come to inspect the barn, take some yams and leave. Oh no, there is more to it. They will be fed pounded yam and different types of soup, or roasted yam with palm oil in salt and pepper or boiled yam in chicken soup peppered with different aphrodisiac and medicinal herbs.
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And they never exclude the palm wine. On and on it continues, morning, afternoon and evening, for at least ‌ eight market days. And you are still not guaranteed an admission into this group of titled men. It is not easy! So it was in Dallas Texas at the Garland Convention Center on August 16th 2014, though with a different flavor and context. The 2014 Iriji Celebration was deliberate to just one celebration by all Mbaise in the area, sponsored by Mbaise Peoples Association and Mbaise Community Association, two associations that used to be one, with an eye towards unification as one great community after close to seven years of planning same celebration and operating separately. And it is working. If you were there and seen all Ezeji Men from Different parts of Igbo Land seated, regarded, respected, being the ones that tasted the food, the drinks (Ukwu Nwanyi Owerri and Bottled Palm Wine, etc)
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And it is working. If you were there and seen all Ezeji Men from Different parts of Igbo Land seated, regarded, respected, being the ones that tasted the food, the drinks (Ukwu Nwanyi Owerri and Bottled Palm Wine, etc) and testify that the food was yam and not potatoes, you may start wishing to be one in this elite and highly respected club of farmers. The Ezeji is respected in the village for their honesty, steadfastness and unflinching integrity. Please before you do, please, please, ask questions because: it does not come easy! And it is still same in Dallas Texas.
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For this celebration, In Dallas Texas, First, all our women decided they will come out as one in their uniforms, and in ever thing else, and then the planning committee worked seamlessly and harmoniously together to ensure unity of purpose and resolved early not to be distracted. There was plenty of Miri oku ji for second rounds and many went for it. Though the celebration was not billed as a fund raising event, a lot of Mbaise friends and wellwishers made the Dollar rain because as one friend declared “it just felt right as before�. And like many, he asked for change (small bills). So it was that at the end we spent far less than we have ever spent in our past Iriji Celebrations, collectively or separately. Ladies and gentleman, most who came to the festivities declared it was a super successful celebration and by the grace of the Almighty, Mbaise will realize their ultimate goal of unifying as one group in Dallas/Fort worth Tyler Texas very soon. Are you in?
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CULTURE
By As Africa continues to rise, so do African women. With the upward economic, social and political trajectory of the continent, a new breed of African women continues to emerge. So much so, that the African Union christened the years 2010 to 2020 as the “African Women’s Decade”. Here’s our pick of Africa Women of Power 2015
2. Biola Alabi, Nigeria Biola is an African media expert and Managing Partner at Biola Alabi Media Consulting - a company designed to provide organizations with access to highly qualified professionals in the broadcast, telecommunications and digital industries. Until recently, Biola served as Managing Director of Electronic Media Network (MNET), Africa’s first private and leading subscription television service. As Managing Director for MNET, Biola worked tirelessly to produce and air
1. Lisa Opoku, Ghana, Chief Operating Officer, Goldman Sachs Named one of Black Enterprise’s “40 Rising Stars Under 40″ and one of “75 Most Powerful Women in Business” Opoku has served as COO for Goldman Sachs‘ securities division for the Asia Pacific region. A University of Minnesota and Harvard Law School alumna, Opoku has had a diversity of career experiences that have led to major boss moves in corporate America, all as a young professional. Opoku Busumbru earned a Bachelor of Arts degree with high honors in Sociology from the University of Minnesota in 1993 and a Juris Doctorate from Harvard Law School in 1996.
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stories created by and about Africa and Africans. Based in Lagos, Nigeria, she spent four years increasing the company’s Africa portfolio, including overseeing the launch of Africa Magic Hausa and Yoruba in 2010 and Africa Magic Swahili in 2011: channels that have made considerable contributions to the promotion of indigenous languages and cultures in Africa. She oversaw four editions of the popular reality series Big Brother Africa, and created the Face of Africa Finale in Lagos in 2010 and the first ever Africa Magic Viewer’s Choice Awards in 2013. Biola was listed as one of the 20 Youngest Power Women in Africa by Forbes in 2013. She previously worked with leading brands Sesame Street, Bigwords.com and Daewoo Motors. She is currently consulting on special projects for MNET.
3. Danai Gurira, Zimbabwe, Actress & writer One of the lead characters on the popular HBO show, “The Walking Dead,” based on the popular American comic book of the same name, now currently in its third season, Gurira plays Michonne, a fearless woman warrior. A graduate of New York University’s prestigious Tisch School of the Arts, Gurira has guest starred on “Law & Order: Criminal Intent”, “Life on Mars”, “Lie to Me” and had a recurring role on “Treme” on HBO. Her movie roles include The “Visitor,” “Restless City” and “MaGeorge.” A recipient of the Obie Award, Outer Critics Circle Award, and Helen Hayes Award for Best Lead Actress for an off-Broadway play, Gurira recently won the 2012 Whiting Award for USD$50,000, bestowed annually to 10 rising stars.
“...talent means nothing, while experience, acquired in humility and with hard work, means everything.” ― Patrick Süskind
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4. Swaady MartinLeke, Ivory Coast, Entrepreneur & Founder, Yswara The former high-ranking General Electric executive left her job in 2011 to launch Yswara, a luxury brand committed to offering the best African teas and cultural experiences. The Yswara collection of teas include “African Queen Health Teas”, “Seven Wonders of Africa” and “Kingdoms of Africa”. Yswaraopened its flagship store in Johannesburg and two more are planned for Cape Town and Nigeria. Swaady is a member of the invite-only African Leadership Network which one of the leading organizations of young, dynamic and influential leaders in Africa.
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PEOPLE & PARTIES - Honoring Eight decades of life - The Momah’s
Reaching eight decades of a life lived is a momentous milestone... one that should be celebrated! Friends and family traveled from all over the world May 30th, 2014 to celebrate with Arunne Ethel Momah as she turns 80. The party that lasted all night was held at the Pioneer Event Center in Grand Prairie. The party lasted through the morning hours and It was a fun night. Ethel was born on May 28, 1934, the second child and daughter of the redoubtable Chief Z.C. OBI (Onu-nekwulu-Igbo and Okemmili Nnewi) of the Igbo State Union fame, and Princess Victoria OBI, daughter of the Igwe Nnewi.
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(Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: "Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all." Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate. Proverbs 31:28-31 (NIV)
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EDITOR’S CHOICE
Dr. Myles Munroe: On Leadership, Vision, Purpose And Maximizing Your Potential By Rose Yabela
He was a mentor to many and leadership coach to business and government leaders around the world, Dr. Munroe, who once said, “the passion of my life: to help as many people as possible, of every nation, race, creed, or social status, to discover their true leadership potential” leaves behind a very powerful and enduring legacy: 1.
“The greatest tragedy in life is not death, but a life without a purpose.”
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“I exist to transform followers into leaders. My philosophy is, trapped in every follower is a leader. My belief is, if that person is placed in the right environment, the leader will manifest herself or himself.”
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“Every human heart cries and yearns for the same thing: a chance to fulfill his or her own dreams and desires. Even the poorest man has a dream.”
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“Paradoxically, freedom requires the need to impose control on self, require more responsibility than slavery, and the decision to accept a destiny of freedom, recognizing the process and discipline that personal and political freedom require.”
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“The greatness of a man is measured by the way he treats the little man. Compassion for the weak is a sign of greatness.”
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“People generally fall into one of three groups: the few who make things happen, the many who watch things happen, and the overwhelming majority who have no notion of what happens. Every person is either a creator of fact or a creature of circumstance. He either puts color into his environment, or, like a chameleon, takes color from his environment.”
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“We are a sum total of what we have learned from all who have taught us, both great and small.”
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“The original purpose for a product determines its design, composition, capacity, and potential. Purpose may be defined as “original intent” or “reason for creation.”
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“We are smarter not wiser, we live longer but not healthier, we have more but enjoy less, we go to the moon but not go home.”
10. “To exercise leadership, you must believe that you are inherently a leader.” 11. “Leader is not a right, but it is a privilege given by the followers.”
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12. “There is nothing as powerful as an IDEA. Everything created began as an idea. Ideas created and controls the world. Pursue divine ideas.” 13. “Your existence is evidence that this generation needs something that your life contains.” 14. “Purpose is when you know and understand what you were born to accomplish. Vision is when you see it in your mind and begin to imag-
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ine it.” 15. “The wealthiest places in the world are not gold mines, oil fields, diamond mines or banks. The wealthiest place is the cemetery. There lies companies that were never started, masterpieces that were never painted… In the cemetery there is buried the greatest treasure of untapped potential. There is a treasure within you that must come out. Don’t go to the grave with your treasure still within YOU.” 16. “Circumstances and crises are God’s tools to move you into your purpose and the maximizing of your potential.” 17. “The Creator caused to be inherent in each created entity – including the apex of his creation, mankind – everything it needs to fulfill its original purpose. The original purpose for mankind, defined and established by the Creator, was to “rule (have dominion) over all the earth”. Since the word ‘dominion’ in this case means to reign and rule, the Creator wired ALL human beings with the capacity and natural ability to lead.” 18. “Death can never kill an idea. Ideas are more powerful than death. Ideas outlive men and can never be destroyed.”
Dr. Myles Munroe, along with his wife Ruth died in a plane crash in 2014
A prolific author with numerous best sellers under his belt, Dr. Munroe authored 69 books covering topics from transformational leadership, personal development, spiritual growth, purpose, marriage and relationships. Some of his best-selling books included “Becoming a Leader”, “The Principles and Power of Vision”, “The Pursuit of Purpose”, “Understanding Your Potential”, “Rediscovering the Kingdom”, “The Purpose and Power of Love and Marriage”, “God’s Big Idea” among others. Dr. Myles Munroe’s book, “The Burden Of Freedom” revolutionized the thinking of many people regarding developing nations, particularly Africa and the Caribbean.
1954-2014
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