Encounter December 2018/January 2019 by Anglican Diocese of Newcastle

ENCOUNTER DECEMBER 2018 JANUARY 2019 | ISSUE NO. 480

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CELEBRATING CHRISTMAS WITH GOODWILL

PEACE HOPE JOY + CHANGE

CHRISTMAS SERVICE TIMES

Bishop Peter reflects on slowing down this Christmas season to stop, listen, and celebrate Christmas with grace and goodwill.

Bishop Sonia discusses change in the season of Advent as we come to new understandings of how God relates to us and we to God.

Find your local parish Christmas Service Times inside to celebrate Christmas with peace, hope and joy

CELEBRATING CHRISTMAS WITH GOODWILL BISHOP PETER STUART bishoppeter@newcastleanglican.org.au I think Anglicans are known for arguing the finer points of things. Some of us seem hard-wired ready for debate! Nothing seems to promote fierce dialogue like the question, "When do you put up the Christmas lights?" Just recently I saw a social media post of the Archbishop of Canterbury turning on some Christmas lights in November to which one priest had added the comment, "But it is not even Advent yet!" The Christmas lights were switched on in Oxford Street London on November 6. In our home the tree normally goes up on Advent Sunday but I really liked an Aldi device projecting stars that I put it in the garden the day I bought it! As I write this article the mad rush to slowing down is still underway. People are trying to cram in appointments and complete tasks in order that they might have some room for pre-Christmas drinks and some days off after Christmas. Every year the busyness keeps building until it almost seems like someone has whispered "you've done enough now" and it stops. I enjoy the little signs of Christmas that go up everywhere. The silver and gold of shopping centre tinsel. The dazzling array of Christmas lights on people's homes. The invitation to a Christmas function as well as the sounds of the first Christmas carols. This year I am trying to avoid some of the

scrumptious Christmas treats that adorn the supermarket aisles. So far I am not altogether successful. I like the fact that as we get closer to Christmas there are some outbreaks of increased kindness and generosity. Occasions where people go out of their way to be a little nicer to one another, whether that be to family, friend or stranger. In Luke's Gospel we hear the angels sing out, "Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace, goodwill toward all!" Some translations suggest "and goodwill to those who find favour with God," but the overall consensus is that the good will is extravagantly offered to all. We are invited then, by the text, to comprehend the reality that as Mary gave birth to Jesus there is a cosmic outpouring of grace that continues to echo through time and space. We are then invited to continue to express that benevolence and kindness in our thoughts, words and deed. Unsurprisingly, as we are reminded of Jesus' birth we rehearse and repeat our charitable demeanour and actions. So put up the lights, fling open the doors, bake some mince pies, and invite friend and stranger a little closer. Pick up some rubbish in the street, make your gratitude heard, hold the door open, stop and listen. Celebrate Christmas with lots of goodwill!

WAR AND PEACE In Isaiah Chapter 2 we hear how nations "will beat their swords into plowshares and their spears into pruning hooks. Nation will not take up sword against nation, nor will they train for war anymore." As people of faith, we are invited to align with and work to see a different world unfold in which war will be no more. We take this call seriously as the worldwide Anglican Communion. It is expressed in the fourth of five common marks of mission where we accept the responsibility "to transform unjust structures of society, to challenge violence of every kind and pursue peace and reconciliation." As we think about peace and justice, we remember those who have gone to war, especially those who went and never returned. This year, Remembrance Sunday marked the 100th anniversary of Armistice Day. As we reflected on the rolling peace that began at the eleventh hour of the eleventh month, we recognised that the end of war and the permanency of peace is reflected in the way we act now â&#x20AC;&#x201C; how we treat our neighbour, how we vote at the ballot box, which causes we align with, and how we might allocate our discretionary given. I reflected that, at heart, I'm a pacifist. My deepest desire is that we should not take military action in any circumstance; that we would resolve international disputes were resolved through mediation, common sense, arbitration, negotiation. My deepest desire would be that wealthy nations found ways of transferring their riches to poorer nations, that all people might be educated and have access to appropriate levels of medicine and healthcare. Yet, my pacifism is confronted by the reality of evil, and the will of people to do harm. It is confronted by the reality that, in some circumstances, the only way of confronting evil is to use violence. We are challenged that

the shortest way to long-lasting peace may be through entering into battle. As a nation we continue to honour those who went and never returned. Those who shall not grow old as we that are left grow old. We continue to remember them at the going down of the sun and in the morning. We honour those who did return but were scarred on their bodies and in their minds by what they had seen, what they had done and what was done to them. We honour those who were welcome home and those who were treated with disdain.

"...the permanency of peace is reflected in the way we act now â&#x20AC;&#x201C; how we treat our neighbour, how we vote at the ballot box, which causes we align with, and how we might allocate our discretionary given." My yearning for peace and justice remains. I long for a world in which the Way of Jesus is seen to be attractive; his pursuit of peace and justice, his giving of mercy and grace. I pray for a world which echoes with the song of the angels at the incarnation, and at the birth. Glory to God in the highest, and peace to all people on earth. Finally, I pray peace for you and your household! May you each know the rich blessing of our Heavenly Father revealed through Jesus Christ his Son, in the power of the Holy Spirit. A joyful Christmas to you all and may 2019 be filled with experiences of grace. + Peter

Reflections

CHANGE! WORDS BY BISHOP SONIA ROULSTON

You will know the old joke… "How many Anglicans does it take to change a light bulb?" There are two answers: Version 1: "Change? What's that!" Version 2: "10 – one to change the light bulb and nine to say how much they liked the old one!" Change is a theme that comes to mind when I think about this year. As a Diocese we have seen change in several ways: • With the celebration and welcome of Bishop Peter Stuart as our new Diocesan Bishop; • With the appointment of Bishop Charlie and myself as assistant bishops; • With the call to parishes to reflect deeply on their life, mission and ministry; to consider how we might be both a diocese and parishes "Flourishing by Grace"; and how we might at the same time all contribute, as we are able, to the needs of these days. In our parishes and diocesan ministries people have engaged seriously with this latter call. As a part of this work locally, we have seen some ministries draw to a close, with thanksgiving for what has been. In other cases we have seen new ministries begun with the hope of seeing new growth in our parishes and in our engagement in our communities. As a Diocesan leadership team we have been using the image of the fig tree (Luke 13:6-9) as we reflect on these things. Change has obviously been part of my own year this year with a new ministry. It has been quite a learning curve, but also a rich new ministry. I am honoured to share this ministry with Bishop Peter and Bishop Charlie under Bishop Peter's generous leadership and guidance. I take this opportunity to express my gratitude to the many people who have encouraged us. How might change also be an advent theme? As I think about this, and discuss it with others, it is clear that the events we celebrate in Advent are about great change… change in the life of Mary as she says yes to

God's call to become the mother of Christ, change for our world as God does this amazing new thing we call the incarnation, and change for us as we come to a new understanding of how God relates to us and we to God. For in Advent we celebrate that God is God who comes to us, and who is with us In every part of our humanity. This is life changing! In Advent, as we prepare to celebrate once more the incarnation, God who is God-in-the-flesh with us, we do so with great thanks both for this miracle and for the constant presence of God with us in these changing times. For even in the incarnation God has not changed, though our understanding of who God is does.

"...it is clear that the events we celebrate in Advent are about great change… change in the life of Mary as she says yes to God's call to become the mother of Christ, and change for us as we come to a new understanding of how God relates to us and we to God." Lisa Cressman writes, "When we mark Advent as a season of waiting and anticipation, we change to make room for this child of God who affects us in ways we can't begin to imagine." My prayer for us as we begin the season of Advent this year is that we will once again open ourselves to God's constant presence and seek his guidance, grace and strength as we live in these changing times. Perhaps our prayer this Advent can be reflected in the words of Henry Francis Lyte: "Oh though who changest not abide with me".

THIS EDITION

Contents

Encounter

2 Bishop Peter: Celebrating Christmas with Goodwill 4 Bishop Sonia: Change! 7 Topics 8 Peace Hope Joy 14 Second Session of the Fifty-Second Synod 20 Around the Diocese 28 Christmas Service Times 30 Recipe 31 What's On

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Reflections on Synod The Second Session of the Fifty-Second Synod of the Diocese of Newcastle took place at Christ Church Cathedral on Friday 26 and Saturday 27 October. Encounter spoke to the Rev'd Karen Jansson from the Parish of Clarence Town on this new look Synod. I thought it was the best Synod that I've attended so far! It was not so heavy and bogged down in procedure as in the past - there was a sense of order but in a relaxed way. We were all made to feel comfortable about coming before the Synod to speak and so a variety of voices were heard instead of the same few. The venue was a wonderful idea with the cathedral being utilised for church purposes other than worship. There was a sense of gathering together as the body of Christ for both worship and Godly work. I really liked the coloured cards for responding to questions as it was easy for those asking (and for those

of us responding) to clearly sense how everyone else was thinking. I was overwhelmed by the report given by Robert Fitzgerald, more so his manner of speaking the cold hard truth which left no room for any excuses but in such a way as to not point fingers. It was like we were all at one in our abhorrence of the abuse and the mishandling of it by some leaders but also confident in our determination and commitment to prevent anything like it ever happening again. He also mentioned those brave few who, in attempting to bring what was happening to light, were themselves victims. This drew our hearts and minds to the wider scope of the depth of this insidious mindset!! It has to be said that our Bishop and our assistant Bishops, work very well together and appear to have a great sense of calling by God to bring both accountability, healing and direction to this Diocese. I left Synod feeling that we are in very capable and loving hands and that the gospel truth will shine through all the darkness. Read more about the Second Session of the FiftySecond Synod on page 14.

New Look Encounter Magazine 2019 Look out for the new look quarterly Encounter magazine in 2019. Encounter will become a quarterly publication in 2019, focusing on the key seasons of the Anglican Diocese of Newcastle. We look forward to bringing you more editorial and stories from across the Diocese. Stay tuned for the next edition in Autumn 2019.

In Brief ORDINATION OF PRIESTS

APPOINTMENTS

The Rev'd Nicole Baldwin was ordained to the priesthood on December 1 2018. The Rev'd Jacqueline Drewe was ordained to the priesthood on December 1 2018. The Rev'd Philip Morris was ordained to the priesthood on December 1 2018. The Rev'd John Quilter was ordained to the priesthood on December 1 2018.

The Rev'd Nicole Baldwin was appointed as Priest in Charge of the Parish of Branxton Greta Lochinvar. The Rev'd Jacqueline Drewe was appointed as Priest in Charge of the Parish of Morpeth. RESIGNATION The Rev'd Robyn Fry has resigned. Robyn's last day of ministry in the parish of Swansea was on October 21. MEMORIAM The Rev'd Helen Holliday's mother-in-law, Mrs Naida Holliday, died on October 5 2018.

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peace WORDS BY FR ANDREW EATON

"For a child has been born for us, a son given to us; authority rests upon his shoulders; and he is named Wonderful Counsellor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." (Isaiah 9:6) One of the claims of Christianity in the story of the incarnation is that Jesus, born of Mary, is the "Prince of Peace" for whom Israel had been waiting. We joyfully proclaim in song "Hark! the herald angels sing, glory to the newborn king, peace on earth, and mercy mild, God and sinners reconciled." But what does this promised peace on earth look like? Reformed theologian JĂźrgen Moltmann writes, "Peace is not merely the absence of war; it is also the overcoming of injustice and oppression. In positive terms, it is life that is blessed, affirmed, loved and successfulâ&#x20AC;&#x201C;life as shalom. Anyone who wants to serve peace must serve life." So if we are serious about a desire for true shalom, for peace to cover the earth, we must serve life by overcoming injustice and oppression. We must be actively seeking to enable others to live lives of wholeness and wellbeing free from oppression and war. In Hebrew, the words "peace" - Shalom, and "wholeness" - Shleimut, come from the same root. There can be no real peace in our lives while hundreds of millions of people around the world are prevented from living lives of wholeness. Pope Francis echoed the same idea in a world peace day message on refugees: "In a spirit of compassion, let us embrace all those fleeing from war and hunger, or forced by discrimination, persecution, poverty and environmental degradation to leave their homelands." Our Diocesan Synod recently sought to understand our role in offering compassion towards those who have fled war and terror, unanimously passing a motion calling on the Australian government to "remove from Nauru to Australia, as a matter of urgency, all asylum seeker children and their families." We had heard about the appalling reports of children as young as ten self-harming, and suffering from traumatic withdrawal syndrome - unable to eat, drink or walk to the toilet. We heard the call from the Australian Medical Association, Medicans Sans Frontiers and others, that the situation on Nauru was a "humanitarian emergency requiring intervention." Since our Synod motion, Saint Luke's Wallsend, like many parishes, have been ringing our church bells on Fridays at 5pm, once for each child still detained on Nauru. My two girls aged 6 and 8 have been helping, ringing the bells 23 times on Friday November 9. I tried explaining to them why we were ringing the bells, why the children were kept on

Nauru in the first place, but to them, they simply couldn't understand why our country would not simply welcome children in need to come live here in the first place. "Jesus was a refugee", my kids remind me referring to a badge I wear to refugee events, and of course in the story from Matthew chapter 2. Joseph receives a message in a dream from an angel of the Lord: "Get up, take the child and his mother, and flee to Egypt, and remain there until I tell you; for Herod is about to search for the child, to destroy him". The Holy Family obey that command becoming refugees in the land in which their ancestors were slaves. It is a part of the Christmas story you won't see on any gift-wrapping or inside a Christmas card. In fleeing persecution and seeking safety in Egypt, Joseph, Mary and Jesus lived the experience of so many refugees seeking safety in our country. As the numbers of refugee children remaining on Nauru have continued to decrease, at last count 23, we might think our work is done, and the battle has been won. But until every child, and their families, have been removed from Nauru to Australia, and every genuine refugee re-settled where they have a chance of living a life of wholeness, we as a country will not find true peace. We as a nation will not be whole. That is why I invite your parish to continue to ring your bells to help get the kids off Nauru. Continue to write to our MPs calling on them to develop a humane and compassionate policy in how we deal with refugees and asylum seekers coming to Australia. Continue praying that the Prince of Peace may indeed bring deep, lasting and abiding peace on earth. ď&#x201A;&#x201E;

"Refujesus" illustration by The Naked Pastor at www. nakedpastor. com

joy WORDS BY THE REV'D GREG COLBY

Christmas time is one of those times of year when "Joy" is meant to fill the air and pervade our thoughts, yes? But what if it doesn't? What if joy is the exact opposite of what you feel at Christmas time? My joy levels take a nose dive every year around the Christmas holidays. I wish I was in another dimension en"joying" solitary time away from all the tinsel and singing and merrymaking! I picked the wrong gig to experience that kind of emotion; I mean being a priest should place me front and centre in the midst of joy at Christmas time, shouldn't it? I'm sorry to say it, but it doesn't. I try to be joyful for my wife, for my children, for my parishioners. In past years things I've tried to spark up the joy of life have inevitably led to a sense of failure and melancholy. I'm not the only one who feels like this at Christmas. In fact, I am confident we could fill a large church with all the people each of us know who find Christmas anything but joyful. My life has had a series of events that have led to Christmas time being a time of sadness; it's not just one thing I could point to that is to blame.

"The joy of Christmas then is not something that I, nor anyone else, needs to have a lived experience of to enjoy – we need only turn to and trust in God." Over the years however, especially the past couple of years as I've been in my training parishes and now serving my own parish, I've discovered there are ways I can bypass the sadness and actually experience some of the joy of Christmas. I've found comfort and strength in scriptures such as Romans 15:13 where Paul writes, "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit".

Joy, in the scriptures, is never based upon any thing that is occurring around us; joy is always a gift from God to his children. In fact, the Greek word in the scriptures for joy; chara is a derivative of the same root as the word for 'grace' charis and 'happiness' chairo. The joy of Christmas then is not something that I, nor anyone else, needs to have a lived experience of to enjoy – we need only turn to and trust in God. CS Lewis once wrote "[Joy] must be sharply distinguished both from happiness and from pleasure". Our experience of the world is not what is going to bring us the "Joy of Christmas". We need only look around us to see the state our world is in; polluted by crime, disease, violence, oppression, fear, starvation, and we know that there is not much going on to base our joy upon. Someone once said, "If you're not angry, you're not paying attention"! Martyn Lloyd Jones however suggests a totally different way to look at the world. In his study on the first letter of John he argues that it is only in focusing on Jesus in every aspect of our lives that we will ever find real joy. Focusing on Jesus. Isn't that what Christmas is all about? If you walk around the shops and see the focus on material things, you might be forgiven for thinking that Jesus hasn't a great deal to do with Christmas for most people. For us though, we are aware of what Christmas means. We know that it is in this season that the church celebrates the great and marvellous event of the Incarnation (no, not a super cool flower), the intrusion into this world of God, laying down what it is to be God and living life as one of us. Contemplating that will bring real joy at Christmas. This Christmas, Belmont North Redhead parish will be hosting A Very Messy Carols service at Redhead (we do this every year), where young children and parents enjoy craft, face-painting, pony rides and, an animal petting zoo. In amongst all of this we will sing songs such as O Holy Night, O Come O Come O Come Emanuel and, Joy to the World, songs which we hope will remind people that the real joy of Christmas is to be found only in fully trusting in Jesus and in contemplation of the work he does in us, for us and, through us. Our parish family wishes your parish family a very blessed Christmas filled with Peace, Hope, and Joy. 

hope IN PARTNERSHIP WITH SAMARITANS

Samaritans Emergency Relief Centres prepare to give hope to locals this Christmas As we approach Christmas, Samaritans Emergency Relief Centres get busier. Samaritans operates 13 Emergency Relief Centres located throughout the Diocese offering crucial support to children, families and others in need. At the start of November, Emergency Relief appointments had already started to fill up and by Christmas they expect to book out completely. Emergency Relief Co-ordinator Beth Hanna shares why demand for their service increases during this time of the year. "Often in the lead up to Christmas people struggle as their casual jobs are cut over the Christmas break, meaning they lose income. Sometimes bill cycles fall over Christmas and on top of that parents are trying to buy toys and prepare for back to school expenses. "Families and single mums, are so worried they won't have enough money to buy gifts for their child. I see parents go without food or toiletries themselves, so they can afford toys for their child." Emergency Relief centres provide local families with hope. Not only do they get someone to talk to, but they also receive food, clothing, access to medicine and connection to other support services, including counselling.

Spreading Joy this Christmas at Samaritans On Christmas Day Samaritans will serve lunch to over 1500 people. Samaritans hosts three lunches in Wyong, Singleton and Newcastle for guests, who may otherwise have nowhere to celebrate Christmas. • Newcastle Foreshore Railsheds commencing at 11am • Wyong Race Club commencing at 11am • Singleton Senior Citizens Centre commencing at 11am.

During Christmas families can also visit the Samaritans Christmas Assistance Centre to choose toys for their children as well as attend Christmas Lunch at any of the three Samaritans events throughout the diocese on Christmas Day. Whether a family needs gifts, food or somewhere special to celebrate on Christmas Day, Samaritans will step up. The work of Samaritans this Christmas is made possible by the community and the generosity of parishioners in supporting its 2018 Christmas Appeal. To donate please visit www.samaritans.org.au/donate, call 1300 656 336 or return the enclosed flyer. For more information on Christmas at Samaritans and other ways you can assist please visit www.samaritans.org.au/christmas

Samaritans Christmas Assistance Centre Samaritans operates a Christmas Assistance Centre offering families who are unable to afford Christmas gifts for their children, the opportunity to register for assistance. The Assistance Centre offers items for babies, children, teenagers and even adults, and they are on display so families can choose the gifts they would like to give their loved one. All the toys and items have been generously donated by local businesses, parishes and community members. For more information about Christmas at Samaritans please visit: www.samaritans.org.au/christmas 

SECOND SESSION OF THE FIFTY-SECOND

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Former Royal Commissioner, Mr Robert Fitzgerald AM, addresses Synod

On Friday October 26, former Royal Commissioner, Mr Robert Fitzgerald AM, addressed the Synod of the Anglican Diocese of Newcastle at Christ Church Cathedral. The address formed part of the formal proceedings of the Second Session of the Fifty-Second Synod of the Anglican Diocese of Newcastle, which took place at the Cathedral over Friday 26 and Saturday 27 October. The Synod commenced with Bishop Peter Stuart addressing the Synod about the Royal Commission, the work of changing the culture of the Diocese and other matters related to the work of the Diocese. "Our deepest desire should have been and should be that everyone is safe within the community or within the church. As a nation, a church and a diocese we have been confronted by the truth that lasting harm was done to those who should have been able to look to institutions for safety," Bishop Peter said. "The Diocesan Council has committed the Diocese to the Child Safety Standards proposed by the Royal Commission. In keeping with the practice of the Human Rights and Equal

Opportunities Commission, these standards will become principles and form part of a national regulatory framework (www.humanrights.gov.au/national-principles-child-safeorganisations). We will return to these principles again and again as we seek to assure ourselves and the community of our commitment to child safety. "As we continue to face the past, we recognise that at least 100 individuals were harmed in the Diocese. The extent of this suffering is intensified when we include those who were and are close to them, such as their families. The true number of people affected by abuse within the Diocese will never be known. So many stories are yet to be told and some will never be told. We are moved by the courage of survivors to speak of their experience. We honour them today." At what was the first meeting of Synod since the release of the Final Report Royal Commission and the Findings of Case Study 42 into the Diocese, Mr Robert Fitzgerald addressed the Synod on adopting a culture in which the protection of children is to be considered an ongoing conversation â&#x20AC;&#x201C; not a passing issue. Mr Fitzgerald also acknowledged the steps the Diocese had taken since the royal commission. "Today, surely light must follow darkness," Mr Fitzgerald said. "In this diocese, in this church and in this community, a community that has been heavily affected by sexual abuse not only in the Anglican church but in the Catholic church and in the community generally, surely light must follow. "But light does not follow unless you want it to. Light does not follow unless you light the flame." Mr Fitzgerald received a standing ovation from all present. Bishop Peter Stuart said, "It was of huge significance that Mr Fitzgerald spoke to the Diocese about the Royal Commission in the Cathedral which featured both in the course of the Commission's deliberations and symbolically as the media reported on the Commission." Throughout the two days, the Synod moved a motion in regards to the Report of the Royal Commission into Institutional Responses to Child Sexual Abuse on the Diocese of Newcastle, renewing its commitment redress and to taking the steps that are necessary to ensure that the Newcastle Diocese is a safe place for all people especially children and vulnerable people. Two members of Synod also reaffirmed the National Apology and expressed again the apology of this Synod in 2015. ď&#x201A;&#x201E;

motions to synod 12.2 Celebrating the Sacramental and Preaching Ministry of Women in the Diocese of Newcastle

20.1 Report of the Royal Commission into Institutional Responses to Child Sexual Abuse on the Diocese of Newcastle

Mrs Sue Williams to move: This Synod, celebrating the 25th anniversary of the ordination of women as priests in December 2017 and rejoicing in the appointment of Bishop Sonia Roulston to serve as a bishop within the Diocese, restates its affirmation of women exercising sacramental and preaching ministries within the Anglican Church of Australia. Seconder: The Rev'd Andrew Eaton Carried Formally

Bishop Sonia Roulston to move: On this first occasion that the Synod has met since the release of the Case Study 42 by the Royal Commission into Institutional Responses to Child Sexual Abuse on the Diocese of Newcastle, this Synod: a. acknowledges with deep shame the fact that the cumulative effect of systemic issues within the Diocese enabled a group of perpetrators to operate within the Diocese for at least 30 years; b. hears and acknowledges the assessment of the Royal Commission that at the time of its report the contemporary systemic issues were: • a minimising of the nature and impact of the offending • a reluctance among some clergy to implement risk management strategies for accused or convicted clergy where those clergy shared longstanding professional or personal relationships • a focus on protecting the reputation of the church and of individual members of the church, particularly those in positions of power and influence • a misrepresentation of abusive and predatory sexual relationships as consensual homosexual relationships; c. renews its commitment to taking the steps that are necessary to ensure that the Anglican Church in this Diocese is a safe place for all people especially children and vulnerable people; and d. reaffirms its resolve to take the steps that are necessary to ensure proper redress to victims and survivors of child sexual abuse within the Anglican Diocese of Newcastle. Seconder: Bishop Charlie Murry

Read Bishop Peter's Presidential Address to the Second Session of the Fifty-Second Synod of the Diocese of Newcastle in the Annual Review 2018 at www. newcastleanglican.org.au/ annualreview

The members of the Synod stood in their places in silence to signify their assent to the motion which was carried.

20.2 Apology to Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse within Institutions

20.3 Call for the Removal of Asylum Seekers from Nauru and Manus Island

The Rev'd Kesh Govan moved: In this week of National Apology to Victims and Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse within Institutions this Synod joins with that apology and expresses again the apology of the General Synod in 2004 and this Synod in 2015. We express our deep and profound regret that children were both harmed within the Anglican Church and not believed when they came forward to seek help. Seconded: Mrs Lyn Wickham

The Rev'd Andrew Eaton moved: That this Synod, 1. notes with deep concern: a. the plight of asylum seekers held indefinitely on Nauru and Manus Island by the Federal Government of Australia. b. that many people seeking asylum in Australia have lost access to core services and financial support due to Government changes in the Status Resolution Support Services (SRSS), and that up to 12,000 people seeking asylum in Australia are at risk of losing access. c. that charities are already struggling to support destitute asylum seekers. 2. calls on the Federal Government to: a. remove from Nauru to Australia, as a matter of urgency, all asylum-seeker children and their families. b. remove to Australia all other asylum-seekers held on Nauru and Manus Island. c. reverse the changes made to SRSS so that those seeking asylum are not forced into destitution. 3. commends to members of the Diocese for attention and action: a. the Kids Off Nauru Campaign www.kidsoffnauru. com and b. the Dignity not Destitution Campaign www.acrt. com.au/dignity-not-destitution-changes-to-supportservices-for-people-seeking-asylum-srss/ Seconded: Dr Ann Taylor Carried Formally ď&#x201A;&#x201E;

The members of the Synod stood in their places in silence to signify their assent to the motion which was carried.

2015 Apology of the Synod of the Diocese of Newcastle: "That this Diocesan Synod affirms the apology made by the General Synod of the Anglican Church of Australia in Fremantle in 2004 and in so doing states "That this Synod and we as members of it acknowledge with deep regret and repentance the past failings of the Church and its members. On behalf of the whole Anglican Church in this Diocese we apologise unreservedly to those who have been harmed by sexual abuse perpetrated by people holding positions of power and trust in the Church. We apologise for the shameful way we actively worked against and discouraged those who came to us and reported abuse. We are ashamed to acknowledge that we only took notice when the survivors of abuse became a threat to us. We apologise and ask forgiveness for the Church's failure at many levels to listen to and acknowledge the plight of those who have been abused, to take adequate steps to assist them, and to prevent abuse from happening or recurring. We commit the Church to listen to survivors of abuse to respond with compassion to all those who have been harmed, both to those who have come forward and to those who may choose to do so in the future, and to deal appropriately, transparently and fairly with those accused of abuse and negligence."

20.4 An Apology to the LGBTIQ+ Community and a Commitment to Listen

22.1 Gratitude to the Royal Commission and Mr Robert Fitzgerald AM

The Rev'd Andrew Eaton moved: That this Synod: 1. Welcomes the intention of the General Synod motion (21.5), which offers an apology to the LGBTIQ+ community for the hurt the church has done in the past, and which commits the Anglican Church in Australia to fostering churches and fellowships where compassion and grace abound, and where LGBTIQ+ people feel safe. 2. Gives thanks for the Diocesan Strategic Directions and Work Plan (BAAB026) which commits the Bishops to ensure the diocese responds to LGBTIQ+ people, their families, the church community and wider community in a manner consistent with the Gospel. 3. Supports and encourages the Faith and Order Commission to listen to the experience of LGBTIQ+ people and develop a diocesan understanding to what we hear (FAOC002). Seconded: The Rev'd Canon Janet Killen Carried Formally

The Rev'd Kesh Govan moved: This Synod expresses its gratitude for the work of the Royal commission into Institutional Responses to Child Sexual abuse. In particular it expresses its appreciation for the address delivered to this session of Synod by Mr Robert Fitzgerald AM. Seconded: The Rev'd Anne Lye Carried

motions of thanks 23.1 The Rev'd Julie Turnbull moved: This Synod gives thanks to the President, Bishop Peter Stuart for: • His leadership of this Synod • His vision in calling this Diocese to Flourish by Grace • His relentless commitment in implementing the recommendations of the Professional Standards Review and recommendations of the Royal Commission • His care and compassion for all survivors who have approached this Diocese ensuring they are heard well, treated respectfully and cared for compassionately so that they and we may indeed follow the darkness of the past with light and walk with confidence into the future of safety and hope in our Diocese. Seconded: The Rev'd Melinda McMahon Carried by standing ovation

22.2 Drought Mr Alan Green moved: This Synod recognises the significant psychological and financial impact of the current drought on communities of the Hunter and beyond. We prayerfully stand with those of you impacted so plainly, in the trials and tribulations of this time. We also pray for seasonal weather and to the end of this drought and urge parishes to regularly consider practical ways in which to support rural parishes.. Seconded: The Rev'd Chris Bird Carried

23.2 The Rev'd Julie Turnbull moved: This Synod expresses its thanks and celebrates the ministries of the Assistant Bishops, Bishop Charlie and Bishop Sonia. We appreciate their support of Bishop Peter and their own leadership as they offer so much of themselves to support their episcopates. Seconded: The Rev'd Melinda McMahon Carried by acclamation

23.3 The Rev'd Julie Turnbull moved: This Synod expresses its thanks and appreciation to: • Mr Robert Fitzgerald AM • The Chancellor, Acting Judge Christopher Armitage, • The Chair of Committees, Mr Geoff Spring, • The Synod Secretaries, the Rev'd Scott Dulley and Mrs Wendy Armstrong and their assistants, • Dean Katherine Bowyer, Mr Robert Gummow, Mr Ryan Gummow, the Rev'd Jacqueline Drewe, the Rev'd Dr John Quilter and all those who have assisted from the Cathedral, • Grinners Catering and the catering team from Wallsend Auxillary, and • The staff of the Diocesan Office, for their care and attention to detail in and about the running and reporting of this Synod. Seconded: The Rev'd Melinda McMahon Carried by acclamation 

Around the Diocese

Christ Church Cathedral #KidsOffNauru Vigil Christ Church Cathedral hosted a #KidsOffNauru Vigil on Friday November 2 as part of a nationwide call to prayer and action for children on Nauru. At midday, cathedrals across Australia united together to remind ourselves, our leaders, and our nation that followers of Jesus will not remain silent about the gross injustices

that have been committed against children and their families on Nauru, as well as men on Manus Island. Churches across the Diocese will continue to toll their church bells every Friday once for each refugee child still on Nauru.

Anglican Churches across Newcastle and the Hunter joined the nationwide #RefugeeBell campaign on Friday November 2 to bring #KidsOffNauru. Every Friday, churches across the Anglican Diocese of Newcastle will join churches across Australia to ring bells for each of the children remaining on Nauru. St Eanswythe's Anglican Church in Altona, in Melbourne's west, five weeks ago began tolling a bell every Friday for each of the asylum seeker children effectively detained on Nauru because of the Australian government's offshore regional processing policy. At the first vigil the bell tolled 95 times. The Rev'd Andrew Eaton, Rector of Wallsend, is one Newcastle Anglican priest calling for the removal of Asylum Seekers from Nauru and Manus Island. "The ringing of our bells is a small but significant symbol of the growing voice of public opinion against incarcerating children and families on Nauru. People of goodwill all across the country are asking how we allowed this to happen in the first place, and how soon can we close the camps and bring all refugees and asylum seekers to Australia."

Past ABM Workers Honoured at Special Gathering The strong connection between the Diocese of Newcastle and Anglican Board of Mission (ABM) was rekindled at a special gathering held at the Diocesan head office on September 21. Guests from across the diocese heard Dr Julianne Stewart, Africa Programs Co-ordinator, speak of the ABM difference and were updated on some of ABM's work. Together the group established some ways the diocese can strengthen our ABM support. "For nearly all of my life as a Christian I have been inspired by the work of ABM," Bishop Peter said. "ABM has had a leading role in connecting and serving churches in the Anglican Communion especially churches in our nearest national neighbours. From the missionaries of former years, to emergency relief, to education and health projects ABM has been at the forefront of making a

difference shaped by the Gospel and drawing on the gifts God has given our partner churches. "Along the way, Anglicans in Australia have learnt so much as we have witnessed the grace of Christ lived by Christians in other places." A highlight of the event was the presentation of ABM's Coaldrake Award which was given to 10 recipients in acknowledgement of their past and present service to ABM in various capacities and over many years. The Coaldrake medal, named after the Rev'd Canon Frank Coaldrake who served as a missionary and later as Chairman of the ABM Board, is a means to recognise the valuable contribution of former ABM missionaries and staff members. The Coaldrake recipients were Chris Garland, Nancy Garland, Fr Philip Thirlwell, Margaret Thirlwell, Noelene Jeffs, Donald Mortimer, Rosemary Mortimer, Melbourne Nelson, Gary Parker, and Benita Parker.

"From the missionaries of former years, to emergency relief, to education and health projects ABM has been at the forefront of making a difference shaped by the Gospel and drawing on the gifts God has given our partner churches."

Australia takes Cursillo to Hong Kong

BY JIM & BARB WARLAND The Australian Cursillo movement was invited to introduce Cursillo to the Church in Hong Kong during the week commencing October 8. A team of 14 from dioceses across Australia plus two from the Cathedral in Hong Kong gave talks and led worship in the short course in Christian living. Anglican Cursillo #1 in Hong Kong â&#x20AC;&#x201C; So, what was it like? Well, it was an incredible privilege to be asked by Archbishop Paul Kwong to bring Anglican Cursillo to Hong Kong; and believe us when we say that the team got as much out of it (if not more) than the candidates. The team was made up of volunteers from the Dioceses of Bendigo, Bathurst, Tasmania, Perth and Newcastle (Newcastle representatives were Bill Nicolle, Jim and Barbara Warland). Our Hong Kong brothers and sisters in Christ were an absolute blessing and encouragement to us. There were 14 candidates from Hong Kong plus Fr Will and Fr Robert from the HK Cathedral both of whom were on the team and an enthusiastic asset.

All the talks were given and received with enthusiasm and the discussions amongst our table communities were open and responsive. The weekend theme was "Fan into Flame the gift of God in you" (2 Tim.1:6). The team were welcomed with enthusiasm and the Silesian retreat where the Cursillo was held on Cheung Chau Island was adequate to the task (although the solid nature of the beds tested a few of us). The Chapel was really fantastic and was set with seats in a circle surrounding a central altar. Tai Chi was held every morning led by Liz Palmer and this proved relaxing and very popular with everyone. Each of the Dioceses represented on team donated items, banners (including one beautifully made by Newcastle's Cath Chegwidden), crosses (Lay Directors, speakers Chapel Cover etc.), bells, theme bags, tripod etc. as well as generous gifts for the candidates. Melbourne Diocese gave a large monetary donation. All of these gifts were given to help Hong Kong establish HK #2 Cursillo which they are already enthusiastically planning for October 4-7 2019.

Anglican Schools Farewell Year 12 Students At the end of Term 3 Bishop Tyrrell Anglican College farewelled their Year 12 students at a Valedictory Assembly and Formal. Bishop Sonia led the worship at the Manning Valley Anglican College Valedictory Service to commemorate the years of dedication the students gave to the College as community ambassadors and exemplary leaders.

Scone Grammar School also held a final and moving Chapel Service to farewell the Year 12 cohort for 2018. "Thank you for all you have given SGS â&#x20AC;&#x201C; we wish you well in the upcoming HSC exams and in your next exciting chapter of life."

Two Bishops' Dialogue

On October 23, Bishop Peter Stuart met with his Catholic counterpart Bishop Bill Wright, in the Maitland suburb of Chisholm, to discuss common concerns of both churches and to hear questions from the mixed audience.

The Two Bishops' Dialogue is an opportunity to gather as an Ecumenical and Interfaith community and discuss current topics in the Christian community. Conversations were had around the questions: "How do we reach out to the community?" and "What can we do together to fill the missing gaps?"

Maitland Parish Celebrates 180 Years A wonderful celebration was held at Maitland on Sunday September 23 to recognise 180 Years for Maitland Anglican Parish. The anniversary was celebrated with a special thanksgiving service and a high tea held on the site of the original St Mary's church.

All Saints Boolaroo 50th Anniversary of the Consecration of the Church Around 100 people, including three former incumbents, the Rev'ds Milton Fowell, John Onions and David Hesketh, came to join in the celebration of this milestone in the church's history on November 4. The service, which was conducted by the Rev'd Gary Atherton, began with the Rev'd Graham Gordon rededicating the refurbished Mothers Union banner. The Rev'd Milton Fowell, the guest preacher, spoke about his experiences in the Parish of Boolaroo in the 1960s when he

was the Priest in Charge before being appointed as the parish's first Rector. He was instrumental in changing the name of the parish to North Lake Macquarie which at that time extended around the lake from Valentine to Cockle Creek Railway Station. Brunch was held in the Car Club Hall (the former parish hall) and those present renewed friendships and looked through many photo albums, pew slips, along with other memorabilia. It was a great occasion for all who attended.

Gifts fit for a King! Christmas inevitably leads us to think of gifts being exchanged between family and friends. The New Testament contains a few instances of gifts given to Jesus. Initially, we think of the wise men from the East, who bow down and worship the infant Jesus, and present their treasures of gold, frankincense and myrrh. These indeed are gifts fit for a king (Matthew 2:11)! But there is another story of gifts being given to Jesus which is easy to miss. In Matthew 25 we find the story sometimes called the Parable of the Sheep and the Goats. In this story the people to Jesus' right ask when it was that they responded to Jesus' physical need. The King replies "Truly I tell you, whatever you did to one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did to me." Serving those in dire humanitarian need is a way of serving our Lord, and our service is a gift to him. This is the theme of Anglican Overseas Aid's (AOA) Christmas Appeal this year. Over the past 12 months, AOA has responded to a number of crises around the world. From famine in South Sudan, to the Rohingya refugee crisis, to the recent tsunami in Sulawesi, Indonesia, AOA has responded with immediate care for people in dire need. These immediate and life-saving needs include food, shelter, clean water, safe spaces for children, and medical care. AOA has been able to respond to these crises with money in a Rapid Response Emergency Fund. This fund exists to enable them to respond quickly, usually through Anglican Church partners, when humanitarian disasters strike poor and vulnerable communities.

Now however, the reserves in the Rapid Response Emergency Fund are running low and need to be replenished so that AOA is always in a position to provide immediate assistance. This is where you can help those impacted by humanitarian emergencies. You can enable AOA to serve the most vulnerable all year round by donating to help them replenish their Rapid Response Emergency Fund. It is a very fitting gift for Christ our King. Money from the Rapid Response Emergency Fund has been used to help women like Aliyah. She is one of many who have been displaced by widespread armed conflict engulfing South Sudan. The camp she lives in, run by the Episcopal Church, is home to over 5,000 internally displaced persons. When we see images like the one of Aliyah and her child, do we see Jesus? Do we respond knowing that we are actually responding to Jesus himself? We never know when disaster will strike. When it does however, and we are called on to provide emergency relief and life-saving aid, we need to again find generous hearts. Without your support, AOA will not be able to respond as quickly as they have in the past. Your financial support saves lives. We urge you to donate to AOA's Christmas Appeal to help people recover and resettle after disaster strikes. You can find out more about Anglican Overseas Aid's Christmas Appeal on the back cover of Encounter.

LEAVE A GIFT IN YOUR WILL TO THE CHURCH Once you have made provision for your loved ones, you have the opportunity to make a lasting gift to God, by leaving a bequest to his church. A gift in your will is one of the most valuable and lasting ways you can continue to support its mission and ministry within your community. Contact Linda Wilson at the Diocesan Office for more information on 4926 3733.

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CHRIST CHURCH CATHEDRAL Dec 2: 7pm Advent Carols Dec 24: 5pm Service for Children and Families with Carols; 7.30pm Nine Lessons and Carols a service with traditional and contemporary carols for choir and congregation; 11pm Midnight Mass with procession and blessing of the crib Dec 25: 7am Eucharist; 8.30am Choral Eucharist; 10.30am Eucharist for Families (Children – bring a favourite present to be blessed!); No Evening Service

BELMONT Dec 24: 6pm All Age Worship with Holy Communion; 11.30pm Midnight Mass Dec 25: 8am Holy Communion

BERESFIELD/THORNTON Dec 2: 6.30pm Blue Christmas, St Paul's Dec 24: 5.30pm Children's Christmas Pageant and Mass, St Michael's; 11.30pm Midnight Mass, St Paul's Dec 25: 8am St Michael's; 9.30am St Paul's Dec 26: 9.45am St Stephen's, Tarro site of St Stephen's Church Dec 28: 9:45am Holy Innocents, St Michael's Jan 5: 5:30pm Epiphany Blessing of the Waters, Hunter River at Hexham

LAMBTON Dec 23: 9am 4th Sunday in Advent service Dec 24: 7pm family and friends service with supper with St Nicholas to follow Dec 25: 9am Christmas Day service MEREWETHER Dec 2: 6pm A Celtic Blue Christmas Dec 16: 7pm Festival of Nine Lessons and Carols Dec 24: 6pm Children's Service; 11.30pm Midnight Eucharist Dec 25: 8am Christmas Eucharist MICA MINISTRIES Dec 24: 7pm Family Service with Eucharist, St Mark's Islington; 11pm Midnight Mass, St Andrew's Mayfield Dec 25: 8.30am Eucharist, St Andrew's, Mayfield

BELMONT NORTH/REDHEAD Dec 24: 2pm Christmas on the Beach Redhead Beach; 6pm Christmas Eve Family Service, Belmont North; 11.30pm Christmas Eve Midnight Eucharist, Redhead Dec 25: 8am Christmas Service, Belmont North BOOLAROO Dec 19: 7pm Carol Service Dec 24: 6pm Christmas Eve Family service Dec 25: 8.30am Christmas Day Mass CARDIFF Dec 24: 6pm Family Service; 11pm Carols; 11.30pm Midnight Mass Dec 25: 9am Mass SOUTHLAKES Dec 24: 7pm Family Eucharist; 11.30pm Midnight Mass Dec 25: 8am Eucharist SWANSEA Dec 24: 5pm Family Service with Holy Communion Dec 25: Holy Communion; 10am Holy Communion, Gwandalan Community Hall

NEW LAMBTON Dec 24: 5.30pm Carols and children; 8pm Carols and candles Dec 25: 9am Carols and Communion WALLSEND Dec 9: 5pm-7pm Carols on the Lawn / Family BBQ Dec 24: 5pm Family Service with carols, blessing of crib and Nativity Play; 11pm Carols; 11.30pm Midnight Mass Dec 25: 9.30am Christmas Day Mass with Carols

BRANXTON/GRETA/LOCHINVAR Dec 24: 6pm St John the Divine Branxton; 11.30pm Midnight Mass, St John the Divine Branxton Dec 25: 8am Holy Trinity Lochinvar; 10am St John the Divine Branxton CESSNOCK Dec 14: 6.30pm Millfield Community Carols Picnic Style, St Luke's Dec 20: 6.30pm Blue Christmas Service, St John's Cessnock Dec 24: 6.30pm All Age Worship (Kids come dressed as Angels and Shepherds), St John's Cessnock; 11.30pm Midnight Mass, St John's Cessnock Dec 25: 8.30am St John's Cessnock; 8am St Luke's Millfield MAITLAND Dec 24: 6pm Family Service; 11.30pm Midnight Mass Dec 25: 9am Sung Eucharist MORPETH Dec 2: 6pm Advent Procession Dec 7: 6pm Carols@Closebourne Dec 24: 4pm Family Service; 11.30pm Midnight Mass Dec 25: 9am Christmas Mass

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BATEAU BAY Dec 24: 6pm Family Service (Communion); 9pm Holy Communion Dec 25: 8.30am Holy Communion

CLARENCE TOWN Dec 24: 6.30pm St Thomas's at Glen William Dec 25: 7.30am St Columba's at Karuah

GOSFORD Dec 24: 6pm Kids, Gosford; 6.30 Carols, Mangrove Mountain; 11.30pm Mass, Gosford Dec 25: 8am Mass, Mangrove Mountain; 9.30am Mass, Gosford

DUNGOG Dec 15: 6.30pm Blue Christmas service, Christ Church Dungog Dec 24: 6pm Children's Christmas Eve Service and Pageant, Christ Church Dungog; 8pm Christmas Eve Eucharist, St Peter's Bendolba; 10.30pm Carol singing and Midnight Mass, Christ Church Dungog Dec 25: 9am Christmas Eucharist, Christ Church Dungog

FORSTER/TUNCURRY Dec 24: 5.30pm BBQ followed by 6pm All age carols service, St Alban's Forster; 7pm Traditional Carol service, St Paul's Nabiac; 11pm Traditional Communion service, St Albans Forster Dec 25: 9am All-age Communion Service, St Alban's Forster; 9.30am Traditional Communion, St Nicholas' Tuncurry

KINCUMBER Dec 24: 6pm Family Event Dec 25: 7.30am and 9am services ST ALBAN'S Dec 24: 6pm Christmas Eve Service of Readings and Carols, preceded by Christmas cake and fizz in the hall from 5.30pm TERRIGAL Dec 24: 5pm Children's and Family Eucharist; 11pm Midnight Mass Dec 25: 7.30am Sung Eucharist; 9.30am Holy Eucharist THE ENTRANCE Dec 24: 10.30pm Holy Communion Dec 25: 9am Holy Communion WOY WOY Dec 24: 4.30pm Family Crib Service with Traditional Carols, St Andrew's; 11pm Midnight Mass, St Luke's Dec 25: 8am Christmas Communion, St Andrew's; 10am Christmas Eucharist, St Luke's Dec 30: 10am Combined Parish Service, St Andrew's WYOMING Dec 23: 7.30am and 9.30 am services Carol Services with Holy Communion: the Christmas Story told in words and carols Dec 24: 6pm All-age Christmas Celebration (with nativity costumes for the children); 11.30pm Midnight Holy Communion Dec 25: 9am Informal all-age worship with Holy Communion WYONG Dec 16: 5pm "Facing Christmas without Them" Service (Light supper served afterwards) Dec 23: 5pm "Keepsake Christmas" Making Christmas Memories at the Manger- a Family Christmas Event (FREE sausage sizzle and ice cream afterwards) Dec 24: 8pm Nine Lessons and Carols by Candlelight Dec 25: 9am Christmas Holy Communion

GRESFORD/PATERSON Dec 23: 8.30am Gresford; 10.30am Paterson followed by Christmas lunch Dec 24: 6pm St Mary-on-Allyn followed by Christmas nibbles Dec 25: 9am Gresford RAYMOND TERRACE Dec 7: 6pm Lighting of the Christmas Tree in association with Raymond Terrace Bowling Club in the Old Rectory grounds with Christmas Message and Carols Dec 11: 6pm Loaves and Fishes Eucharist and Confirmation with Bishop Sonia, Riverside Park Dec 16: 6pm Readings and Carols at St John's Dec 23: 9am Episcopal Visit – Bishop Sonia; 6pm Blue Christmas Service at St John's Dec 24: 6pm Christmas Eve – Nativity and Carols; 11.30pm Christmas Eucharist Dec 25: 9am Christmas Eucharist STOCKTON Dec 16: 5pm Christmas Carols - A special all age event on the December 16 from 5pm for a free BBQ and carols from 6pm Dec 23: 7.30am Traditional; 10am All Age with children's program Dec 24: 9pm Traditional Christmas Celebration Dec 25: 9am All Age Christmas Celebration WILLIAMTOWN/ MEDOWIE/ MALLABULA Dec 21: 4.30pm Messy Christmas, Mallabula Dec 23: 8am Williamtown Holy Communion; 10am Mallabula Holy Communion; 4pm Medowie Family Service Dec 24: 8pm Medowie "Pop-Up" Christmas Service Dec 25: 8am Williamtown Holy Communion; 10am Mallabula Holy Communion

TAREE Dec 14: 6.30pm The Blue Cross Festival of Trees Opening Night Celebration, Latham Centre Dec 16: 4.30m Christmas MINI Market plus Sausage Sizzle; 6.30pm Lessons and Carols - a special evening of music and Christian celebration Dec 23: 8am Sunday Eucharist; 10am Christmas Eucharist, Our Lady of Fatima Old Bar Dec 24: 6pm Christmas Family Service Dec 25: 8am Christmas Day Service WINGHAM Dec 16: 5pm Carols in the Bush Under the Stars - All welcome for a truly uplifting celebration of the miracle of Christmas in our lovely bush setting at St Mark's, St Mark's Marlee Dec 24: 6pm Children's service; 10.15pm Drinks and Nibbles under the stars; 11pm Holy Communion Dec 25: 7.45am Tinonee; 9.45am Wingham UPPER HUNTER DENMAN Dec 16: 2pm St Martin's Martindale Dec 19: 6.30pm Christmas story and carols, St Luke's Widden Dec 24: 6pm Followed by a bring and share supper, St Mark's Wybong; 11pm Christmas Carols with service beginning at 11.15pm; St Matthias Denman Dec 25: 8.30am St Matthias Denman; 10.30am St Matthew's Mt Dangar MURRURUNDI Dec 2: 5.30pm Advent Lessons and Carols followed by a light supper Dec 16: 5.30pm December Blue Christmas Service followed by refreshments in the Church grounds Dec 24: 7.30pm Christmas Eve Service Dec 25: 9am Christmas Day Service; 12noon Christmas Lunch in the Church Hall

WHITE CHRISTMAS ICE-CREAM SANDWICHES FOR AN EASY MAKE-AHEAD CHRISTMAS DESSERT, YOU CAN'T BEAT THESE FRESH AND FESTIVE ICE-CREAM SANDWICHES, MADE FROM SWEETENED CONDENSED MILK. 5:35 PREP MAKES 12 EASY

INGREDIENTS 60g (24) natural ice-cream wafers 375m (1 1/2 cups) thickened cream 395g can sweetened condensed milk 270ml can coconut cream 70g (2 cups) rice bubbles 160g (1 1/2 cups) frozen raspberries, plus extra, to serve 290g packet white chocolate melts, melted 20g (1/4 cup) shredded coconut, toasted 40g (1/4 cup) chopped pistachio kernels

METHOD Step 1: Line a 20 x 30cm slice pan with 2 layers of plastic wrap, extending 10cm over the sides. Arrange 2 rows of 6 wafers, side by side in the pan, leaving a 2cm gap down the middle of the pan. Step 2: Use an electric mixer to beat the cream, condensed milk and coconut cream on high for about 8 minutes or until the mixture thickens and triples in volume. Fold in the rice bubbles and frozen raspberries until just combined. Carefully spoon over the wafers and smooth the surface. Cover with rows of remaining wafers to line up with the base wafers, leaving a 2cm gap in the centre. Fold over the plastic wrap. Place in the freezer for 4 hours or until firm. Step 3: Use the plastic wrap to lift the ice-cream slab out of the pan and onto a chopping board. Trim off the excess ice-cream around the wafers and down the 2cm centre gap. Working from the centre, carefully slice the slab into 12 wafersized sandwiches. Place the sandwiches on a tray lined with baking paper and return to the freezer for at least 1 hour or until you are ready to decorate. Step 4: Taking one ice-cream sandwich from the freezer at a time, dip one end into the melted chocolate to come 2cm up the sides. Sprinkle half the sandwiches with coconut and half with pistachio. Return each sandwich to the tray in the freezer. Repeat for remaining sandwiches. Place in the freezer for 1 hour or until firm.

WHAT'S ON December DEC 3

DEC 21

Scone Grammar School will be holding their annual Christmas Carols Service at the school at 6pm on Monday December 3.

Christmas – Diocesan Office Closure: We wish to advise that the Diocesan Office will be closed from 3.00pm Friday 21 December 2018 and will reopen at 8.30am Wednesday 2 January 2019.

DEC 5 The Parish of Beresfield/Thornton will be having an Advent Luncheon on Wednesday December 5 at 12noon in the St Paul's Hall, Lawson Avenue, Beresfield. Donation $15. Guest Speaker will be The Dean of Newcastle, The Very Rev'd Katherine Bowyer. All welcome. For enquiries please phone Denise 49661192. DEC 12 Samaritans Chaplaincy Advent Service for the International Month of DisAbility. Celebration for clergy, parish links , staff and others we engage with at 2pm. Service leader Josephine Snowdon with address by CEO Brad Webb, St Marks Islington

DEC 25 Samaritans Christmas Lunches will take place across the diocese for guests, who may otherwise have nowhere to celebrate Christmas. Newcastle Foreshore Railsheds commencing at 11am; Wyong Race Club commencing at 11am; Singleton Senior Citizens Centre commencing at 11am. DEC 25 Cameron Park Anglican Church Cameron Park Anglican Church is a recently established Anglican worshipping community. Our church gathers at 10am at 3 Kippax Street Cameron Park each Sunday. On Christmas Day this year we will gather for our first Christmas celebration at 8.30am. If you would like more information about the Cameron Park Anglican Church, or our Christmas Day celebration, please contact Colin on 0406 096 190.

Reverse Advent Drive Pondee Aboriginal Church is running a "Reverse Advent Drive" for families in need. It would be great if families could help them. The idea is that families place an item in a basket or crate each day of December. On the December 20, the church will collect the baskets and distribute to families we know that are in need. The Reverse Advent Drive is a good chance to teach your kids about giving. Below is a list of foods that may be put in a basket. No Perishables. Contact Rev'd Di Langham for more information. • Tinned goods (beetroot, corn, salmon, peas, pineapple, tinned fruits, baked beans, spaghetti) • Long life milk, custard • Tea, Coffee • Cordial • Noodles, chips, nuts • Spreads • Christmas decorations, tinsel, bon bons • Plain biscuits, rice crackers/jatz • Salsa dip • Pudding/Christmas Cake • Salad dressings • Pasta sauces • Instant mash etc

For more information on events and to find out what's on visit www.newcastleanglican.org.au/events

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A Gift fit for a King 2018 CHRISTMAS APPEAL

Our generosity and service, including gifts of water, food and aid, are received as gifts to the Saviour King himself. Paraphrase, Matthew 25:37-40

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2018 Christmas Appeal Anglican Overseas Aid PO Box 389, Abbotsford, VIC 3067 Donations of $2 and over are tax deductible Anglicord: ABN 39 116 072 050

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The New Testament contains more than one reference to gifts being given to Jesus, our King – one of which is easy to miss. In Matthew 25, the Parable of the Sheep and the Goats, the King replies ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ Serving those in dire humanitarian need is a way of serving our Lord. Our Rapid Response Emergency Fund has been used over the years to respond to disasters in various parts of the world. From famine in South Sudan, to the Rohingya refugee crisis, to the recent tsunami in Sulawesi, Indonesia, money from this fund has been deployed to respond with immediate care for people who are in dire need.

These immediate and life-saving needs include food, shelter, clean water, safe spaces for children, and medical care. Without your support, we would not be able to respond as quickly as we have. Your financial support has saved lives. We never know when disaster will strike a particular location. When it does happen though, responding with the compassion of Christ is something we are called and privileged to do. As our partners mobilise on the ground to provide emergency relief and life-saving aid, we need to again find generous hearts. Please donate to our Christmas Appeal to help people recover and resettle after disaster strikes.

Anglican Overseas Aid is an overseas aid and development agency of the Anglican Church of Australia. Our work is inspired by the gospel of Christ, with a vision for a peaceful, just and sustainable world for all. Anglican Overseas Aid works with Anglican and like-minded agencies to create and strengthen partnerships in developing countries to overcome poverty, injustice and disaster. We support projects in countries across Africa, Asia, the Middle East and the Pacific.