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We love children, but sometimes they can interfere with the focus of a bridal appointment. If bringing your or your wedding party’s children is truly unavoidable, most stores will accommodate them in a friendly way. You can help by bringing a favorite toy or a (non-messy) snack. If possible, make arrangements for someone else to watch the kids so the grownups can shop.

Do your research! There is so much information available online and in bridal magazines today that you can easily check out what a store has to offer before you arrive. Take at least a little time to look through current styles so you give your consultant an idea of what you’re looking for. Even sharing what you don’t like is a place to start.

Have a realistic budget in mind and stick to it. Or if you decide to exceed it, know what you can actually spend. A good bridal consultant who knows their inventory can usually help you find the look you want at a price you can afford. They may pull a sample sale dress or a less expensive version of a style you like if it will help you get what you want. Unless you have an iron will, don’t try on the gown that’s $1,000 over your budget. If you let yourself fall in love with something you can’t have, it can take the fun out of the appointment quickly.

Keep an open mind. Your consultant helps brides find the gown they’ve been looking for every day. Offer suggestions and state your budget, then after you’ve tried on a few gowns you’ve chosen, allow your consultant to make suggestions and pull a few things to try. Stylists see these dresses on people all the time and know which gowns may not look like much on the hanger, but can work their figure-flattering magic once on the body.

Understand how much you can do in one visit. Some brides can choose their gown, accessories, and even bridesmaids’ dresses in one visit, but most can’t. This is a big decision, so don’t stress yourself by putting too much pressure on one day. It’s often easier to make a decision about your gown that sets the tone for the rest of the wedding party. Follow up with a Finishing Touches appointment if you didn’t choose shoes, veil, headpiece, jewelry, and other accessories on your first visit. Finally, bring your bridesmaids in to get their dresses ordered and accessories chosen. Again, this is advice from just one store, but it comes from years of experience working with thousands of brides and the ones they love. Wishing you a wonderful shopping experience and, more importantly, a fantastic marriage!

BY: ANNE PUTHOFF