Mothering Sunday: BEYOND FLOWERS & CHOCOLATES
Ah, Mother’s Day – or as it was more traditionally known, Mothering Sunday, the one day of the year we are all supposed to thank the women who gave life to us and the ones who raised us (they aren’t always the same people).
But did you know that the UK Mothering Sunday probably has very little to do with honouring our birth mums and carers?
Although the facts are murky (thanks Wikipedia for all the conflicting accounts!) it appears that the day is connected more closely to Christianity than to showing our mum how much we love her.
You see, in the UK, Mothering Sunday is not a fixed day as it is in the US, instead it is linked to Lent, the Christian period of abstinence preceding Easter. And as we all know, Easter, and therefore Lent, is a moveable feast (or nonfeast in the case of Lent!). Mothering Sunday always falls on the fourth Sunday in Lent (Laetare Sunday), three weeks before Easter Sunday – this year, that means March 10th.
If you try to search the history of Mothering Sunday, you will find claims it was initially linked to The Feast of Annunciation, a day devised to celebrate the Virgin Mary – Mother Mary, and held each year on March 25th. I read, “it is no coincidence that over time, March 25th, or the nearest Sunday, became a celebration of all motherhood.”
I’m not altogether sure I believe this…
The alternative view is that by the 16th century people were moving away from the areas in which they had been born, and therefore
baptised, but would return once a year around Lent to visit their “Mother Church”.
Another tradition dating back to the same time is those working in the fields, farms, and grand houses of wealthy landowners would be given the day off on the fourth Sunday of Lent to visit their mothers and possibly go to church. With no cars, buses, or railways, that may have been a difficult task, and it certainly marked a move towards the more family focused Mother’s Day we celebrate today.
Whatever the origins, Mother’s Day should not be the only day we give extra love and attention to all the mothers in our lives. I would rather see my grown-up children regularly bearing no gifts than have them turn up once a year with a bunch of flowers and a box of chocolates! The hype surrounding this one day helps those who don’t really care about family tick a box on their social conscience calendar…”card and flowers for mum” – tick.
Buy a card, make a card (us mums will always remember the ones made by little hands at school more than the ostentatious shop bought ones), give flowers, give chocolate and cakes…but most of all, give love and thanks to the person who carried you inside them for nine long months…and don’t just do that once a year!
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THE GREAT MINERS’ STRIKE: AN EXHIBITION
From Monday 4th March 2024 until Wednesday 27th March 2024 this exhibition will be held at the Market Hall Assembly Rooms, Chesterfield. The exhibition will give the perspective of those men and women who took action in defence of their jobs and communities. The exhibition will also include film shows, talks and lectures as well as music and songs from the Strike. Many former miners, their partners and widows will come along to have a look at the photos, banners, reflections and recollections.
Clay Cross Social Centre, Market Street every Monday 10AM -1PM. They also offer a drop in at Grassmoor Community Centre on New Street every Friday 9AM –11.30AM, and at North Wingfield Community Resource Centre on Whiteleas Avenue every Tuesday 1PM - 3.30PM
Good Friday Service
Meeting together around the Lord ’ s Table. A time for reflection. Friday 29th March 2024, 7:30pm.
Easter Treasure Hunt
Journey around the Holmgate Estate looking for clues. Suitable for all. Saturday 30th March 2024, 10am - 2pm
Easter Sunday Morning
Come and celebrate the RISEN Jesus Christ!
Family friendly. Sunday 31st March 2024, 10:30am .
Valley Road, Clay Cross, S45 9QF
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BOOK REVIEW
THE GRACE YEAR - KIM LIGGETT
The Grace Year by Kim Liggett is a fast and furious read. It’s a mix of The Hunger Games, The Handmaid’s Tale and a female Lord of the Flies set in a dystopian society where girls and woman are believed to have “magic” which they use to control men’s minds and which has to be driven out of them in a Grace Year when they are 16. The best that can be hoped for in this misogynistic patriarchal society is to become a wife. Enter the rebel, Tierney James, brought up by her father to be
the son he never had and consequently taught a lot of useful stuff. These girls aren’t sent to a nunnery to drive out their magic – they get an island where they have to survive against brutal odds. The ones that come back are the lucky ones – or are they?
It’s entertaining and a page turner – the sort of thing you could polish off quite happily on a cross country train journey. It’s not high literature, but it does grab your attention.
Slimming World Recipe
Hunters Chicken
Method:
1. Preheat your oven to 200°C/ fan 180°C/gas 6.
2. Put the vinegar, paprika, garlic, Worcestershire sauce and chopped tomatoes in a large, shallow, flameproof casserole dish. Put it over a medium-high heat, bring to a simmer and cook for 20 minutes, stirring occasionally. Season to taste.
3. At the same time, gently bash the bacon medallions to flatten them out and lengthen slightly. Stretch a piece of bacon over each chicken breast.
This pub grub classic has the slimming World twist, which means it is super healthy, filling and bang on plan. Enjoy!
4. Nestle the chicken breasts into the sauce and spoon a little sauce over the top. Divide the mozzarella over the chicken breasts and bake in the oven for 20 minutes, or until the chicken is cooked through.
5. When the chicken’s almost ready, steam or boil the green beans for 3-4 minutes, then drain. Scatter the parsley over the chicken, then divide the chicken and sauce between 4 plates, and serve with the beans and baked potatoes.
Ingredients:
• 1½ tbsp red wine vinegar
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• 1½ tsp sweet or hot smoked paprika
• 1½ tsp garlic granules
• 2 tbsp Worcestershire sauce
• 2 x 400g cans chopped tomatoes
• 4 smoked bacon medallions, visible fat removed
• 4 skinless and boneless chicken breasts
• 200g grated mozzarella
• 400g green beans, trimmed
• ½ small pack fresh parsley, chopped, to serve
• 4 microwaved or oven-cooked baking potatoes, to serve
Serves: 4 Ready in: 50 minutes
Syns per serving: 6
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Flake’ s Favourites
Re-walking Rafa’s Rambles
This month the woeful weather left me wondering if dogs could suffer from trench foot. So, we pulled a short but sweet walk out of the bag. Despite this Flake still looked like some sort of bog creature by the time we got him back to the car. So it was straight into the bath when we got home.
The walk begins at Pinxton Wharf from where we head along the canal for a short while before branching off across country towards Selston. We enter Selston briefly and walk past St Helen’s Church. Before heading back across country back towards Pinxton Wharf.
Fingers crossed for better weather in March!
3-MILE CIRCULAR WALK FROM PINXTON WHARF VIA SELSTON
A gentle walk which should take you and your dog around 1½-2 hours to complete. There is a couple of quiet roads so please take care, however most of the walk is on paths and trails. Please wear appropriate footwear and, as always, follow the countryside code..
START: PINXTON WHARF, ALEXANDER TERRACE, OFF WHARF ROAD, PINXTON. NOTTS. NG16 6PL
1. Enter the wharf through a squeeze gate on Alexander Terrace near the railway crossing and continue straight ahead along the footpath directly in front of you. (Pinxton Wharf was the terminus for the Cromford canal, which was built to link the collieries to the River Trent. Pinxton China works were also in operation very close
to the wharf.) After some distance cross over a small wooden footbridge and then a little further on pass over a larger wooden footbridge. Immediately after crossing the 2nd bridge turn right to continue along a footpath with a canal on your right.
2. Continue along the footpath passing ‘The Boat Inn’ on your left, until reaching a squeeze gate. Pass through the gate and then bear right. After a very short distance pass through a gap adjacent to a large metal gate and continue straight ahead along a lane keeping the canal on your right.
3. Continue along the lane for some distance and the immediately after passing some sheds on your left, turn left to pass through a gap in a fence along a marked footpath. The path leads to a farm track. Continue along the track to continue up and over a bridge. Shortly after the bridge and just prior to reaching a large metal gate directly in front of you, turn left to walk along a farm track going uphill.
4. At the top of the hill keep ahead into an open field, passing a yellow marker post on your left. Continue straight ahead over the brow of the hill and down the other side aiming for a small single tree in the hedge row on the far side of the field. Cross over a tiny stream and pass through the hedge to continue straight ahead for a short distance across another field.
5. 5At the far side pass through a gap into another field and now continue with the hedge on your right. Upon reaching a large metal gate on your right, ignore a marked path straight ahead and bear left to continue along the edge of the same field keeping the hedge on your right. At the far side of the field continue straight ahead along a narrow path with a fence on your left until reaching a kissing gate. Cross the stile and continue along the edge of another field with a hedge on your right.
6. At the far side of this field pass through another kissing gate and then continue uphill to a road. Turn left along the road and after a short distance pass the church on your left. (Take a look at St Helens Church which holds the grave of Gypsy King Dan Boswell. [walk to the left hand side of the church and it is a few feet from the door by a small holly tree] The grave stone faces the wrong way-it is not the original stone which was supposedly broken in two after being kicked by a cow. This dates back to when cows were kept in
the church yard. St Helens Church also contains the only 12thC incised stone in England. This is sited by the Chancel and is really worth viewing.) After passing the church continue along the road for some distance until reaching No.123. Turn left along a marked footpath adjacent to No.123 going downhill. After a short distance cross straight over a lane, pass through a gap and continue straight ahead across a field with a hedge on your left.
7. Continue to the far side of the field, pass through a gap and continue through a kissing gate. Now continue with a hedge on your left. After some distance follow the path over to the right to meet up with a kissing gate at the far side of the field. Pass through the gate and cross over a tarmac lane onto a marked footpath. Pass a farm and then a wind turbine on your left to continue straight ahead going downhill with a hedge on your left.
8. At the bottom of the field keep ahead along a narrow footpath going downhill. At the bottom cross over a railway line and then continue for a short distance to pass through a squeeze gate. Immediately after, turn left pass through another squeeze gate to continue along a footpath. Continue until reaching a road and the start of your walk.
This walk is for illustrative purposes only. Voice Magazines Ltd takes no responsibility for anyone who chooses to follow this route and encourages all walkers to obey all byelaws and signs and to respect the area they are walking in, ensuring they pick up all dog mess and obey the countryside code at all times.
DEVELOPING SKILLS FOR LIFE
National Careers Week takes place in March. Football, beyond its role as a sport, offers invaluable benefits for young people, shaping skills crucial for future careers.
Firstly, football instils discipline and time management. Balancing training and matches with other commitments. Whether striving for a goal on the pitch or a milestone in their future profession, the ability to manage time efficiently is indispensable.
Football also develops resilience and perseverance. Facing setbacks, such as losing a match or struggling with skill improvement, teaches players to bounce back stronger. This resilience prepares them to navigate challenges in the workplace where perseverance is often the key to overcoming obstacles and achieving long-term goals.
Football also develops communication and leadership skills. Effective communication is vital on the pitch, fostering teamwork and camaraderie. In professional settings, clear and concise communication is crucial for collaboration and leadership roles. Football provides a platform for young individuals to develop these skills in a dynamic environment.
The sport encourages creativity and critical thinking. Players must constantly adapt to changing game situations. This ability to think on their feet translates into the workforce, where creative problem-solving is highly valued.
Beyond individual development, football fosters a sense of community. Playing alongside teammates from diverse backgrounds fosters cultural understanding and respect. These experiences broaden young people’s horizons, preparing them to thrive in the world.
The benefits of young people playing football extend far beyond the pitch. Through discipline, resilience, communication, creativity, and community engagement, the sport equips them with a diverse skill set essential for navigating future careers successfully.
As they chase their dreams on the field, they are also laying the groundwork for a bright and prosperous future off it.
If you are interested in Little Ivanhoes, The Wildcat Centre or joining a team please message the clubs facebook page at: www.facebook.com/newtuptonivanhoefc/ visit: www.newtuptonivanhoefc.co.uk or contact the Dave Hoult, Club Secretary on 07759 048 037
Guess the words and Fill in the crossword ! Pitcherwits®
Pitcherwits® are crossword puzzles where some of the clues are in pictures.
Sound easy? It’s not called “Pit-your-wits” for nothing!
Across
1 Massive mammals in the sad West Country, say? (4,6)
Across
9 Cliff, like Craig, is a one-off (4)
10 Stinging insect, initially for a privileged group (4)
11 Heart bypass for Mother, perhaps? (5)
12 Tries out isotherms for resistance (4)
14 Squint, say, at marine platform (4)
Down
3 Made a bit of a hash of it with fiery leftovers (3)
4 Needs kicking out of the resort (3)
6 Salary increase that’s easy to rip out? (3,4)
7 Late application for a bit of a meal (3)
13 River coming up as far as one’s coat (3)
16 Bit too obtuse for employment (3)
17 Scaley bit in Oklahoma? (3)
5 Stressed when the chimp ate the recipe (8)
15 Could be up to luck? “Seat belts on!” (6,2)
18 The canning process that could be captivating? (10)
The mixture of cryptic and picture clues, combined with Professor Rebus’ unique sense of humour, will keep you entertained for hours. These
Down
1 Search for treasure in sandy hairpiece? (9)
2 Sad songs that say so much about a leg, I see? (7)
8 Put caring in jeopardy by taking prisoner (9)
10 Racer that’s going to the dogs! (7)
Down: 1 Not a sausage, 2 Agent, 3 Lists, 4 Minor detail, 5 Begonia, 6 Popeyed, 10 Rural, 11 Truss.
Across: 1 Netball team, 5 Brews up, 7 Sight, 8 Super, 9 Ulnar, 11 Thyme, 12 Aground, 13 Edible snail.
ANSWERS FOR LAST MONTHS PITHERWITS
Gardener’s Calendar
Top Tip:
Houseplants deserve a bit of TLC after being in centrally heated rooms over the winter so this is the time to replant any which are looking a bit droopy. Give them a slightly bigger pot and fresh compost and remove any dead foliage.
Summer flowering bulbs such as gladioli, alliums, acidanthera, lilies can go in now. They enjoy warm sunny spots either direct into the soil or, if you’re putting them in containers, in a mix of two parts compost to one part grit to give plenty of drainage. Feed them with a high potassium feed about a week after the shoots appear then regularly up till flowering.
Watch out for slugs – they like eating the green shoots of growing things almost as much as gardeners like seeing them and if your garden is particularly prone to slugs, it may even be worth giving the likes of hostas a miss altogether. Otherwise, make sure there’s no left-over leaves from last season on your soil, slugs love sheltering under them. You can try the old favourite traps, half citrus such as orange scooped out and filled with beer. The slugs go in for the beer and goodnight Vienna – at least in theory. Or you can buy nematodes, - a biological deterrent which you water into the soil – from garden centres or online. Some people use bark, others wool, others copper around the rims of pots. Worth trying anything once! And good luck.
You can mow your lawn now if you get a dryish patch of weather. But don’t bother unless it’s actually growing – and that depends on the temperature – and the fact that it will be visibly longer!
VIKING VISITORS TO THE PEAK CAUSE QUITE A STIR
A huge influx of waxwings has caused a big stir amongst birdwatchers and other visitors. The birds have been arriving across northern England from Europe, especially Scandinavia, since early December. As they exhaust the berry supplies (their favourite food) on bushes such as hawthorn, rowan, and whitebeam, and on pyracanthas and cotoneasters in gardens and the like, they head south and west. They were in north Sheffield by December and numbers built on the railway line trail at Hassop by mid-January. The result as the birds halted here to gorge on the abundant berry crop, was a nature spectacle since these are perhaps our most exotic songbirds and moreover, are very approachable. In other words, if you get to see them, they put on a really great show, and it will be memorable.
The waxwing exhibits what we describe as ‘irruptive’ behaviour, as every few years huge numbers migrate south and west from northern Europe into Great Britain. Breeding in loose colonies, they produce young late in the season, so these hatch to coincide with abundant summer fruits. As they search the local countryside for berries and other fruit, in most years waxwings do not travel over long distances but form large flocks that quickly strip trees and bushes of berries. Waxwings also eat sap, buds, flowers, and insects they catch on the ground or in mid-air. However, there is a complication which will be familiar to gardeners, in that the fruit trees cycle good fruiting years with bad. If the Scandinavian fruit crop is good, then the birds do well and so we see relatively few over here. Also, in a good
year they breed well, and waxwing numbers increase. But a good berry crop may be followed by a poor year, now coinciding with high numbers because of a previously good season. If this occurs then the birds, desperate for food, move out en masse producing for us, a ‘waxwing winter’.
Indeed, this is the explanation for this winter’s phenomenon. The outcome of the birds’ behaviour is a splendid treat for birdwatchers. Waxwings are stunning to see, and they come complete with remarkable plumage and their distinctive trilling calls. What makes this even more exciting is that the birds are amazingly tame and approachable. In the case at Hassop Station this January, the waxwings were particularly obliging and allowed people to approach to within just a couple of metres or so. This means that in terms of a birdwatching experience for beginners too, waxwings are the ‘real deal’. They are very unlike many rare birds which tend to be LBJs or ‘little brown jobs’, and which draw in the twitchers but not the wider public. In this respect, waxwing winters are really good PR for naturewatching and therefore for conservation. These Nordic visitors are birds with ‘wow’ factor! Other European visitors are also with us as fieldfares, redwings, blackbirds, and others all stream across the North Sea for a few months of a warmer climate.