The Visitor | January & February 2017

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TheVisitor

Asbury First United Methodist Church Newsletter January/February 2017 • Vol. M No. 1 • www.asburyfirst.org

IN THIS ISSUE A Pastoral Reflection 3 Community News 4 Lent & Easter News 5 AFUMC News 6 Community Outreach & Needs 16 Financial Update 17 Library News 18 The Last Word 19

Spring Education and Events Booklet Enclosed


MISSION STATEMENT

The Visitor

Through worship, education, outreach, and care, we develop disciples of Jesus Christ who live and proclaim the Gospel and thereby work to transform our culture.

Vol. M No. 1

(USPS 558-470) is published 9 times a year, monthly with combined issues for November/December, January/February, and July/August, by Asbury First United Methodist Church. Periodical postage paid at Rochester, N.Y. POSTMASTER: Send addresses changes to Asbury First UMC Visitor 1050 East Ave. Rochester, N.Y. 14607-2239 (585) 271-1050

FOUR WAYS TO WORSHIP AT ASBURY FIRST Traditional Worship in our Sanctuary 8:30 & 11 am Sunday mornings Chancel Worship with Holy Communion 10 am Sunday Mornings

Staff

The Rev. Dr. Stephen Cady II Senior Minister Kathy Thiel Minister for Pastoral Care and Outreach Katie O’Hern Minister for Discipleship and Mission David Strong Music Administrator; Assistant Organist Dr. William Weinert Director of Music Paula Dugan Children’s Ministry Director Holly Temming Children’s Ministry Assistant; Director, Children’s Music Mike Mullin Youth Minister Richard Moncrief Financial Administrator Morgan Dornsife Development Director Melody Guadagnino Administrative Assistant Ken Carr Property Care Manager Michele Cooley Dining & Caring Center Director Jamie Least Communications Coordinator Duane Prill Organist Carol Lamica Director, Youth Music Elizabeth Church Director, Bell Choir Brian Bohrer Director, Asbury Singers Larry Dugan Director, Youth Theater Eric Townell Director ad interim, Sanctuary Choir

Emeriti Staff

Rev. Dr. Theodore Weeden, Sr., Pastor Emeritus Dr. Roger Wilhelm, Director of Music Emeritus Marian R. Craighead*, Organist Emeritus *deceased Cover Photo Credit: Glenn Peck

Please send all submissions, questions, comments, or concerns to communications@asburyfirst.org or 585-271-1050, x109. Deadline for submitting content to the next issue: February 13, 2017

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INCLUSIVITY STATEMENT Asbury First United Methodist Church prayerfully strives to live in its community with open hearts, open minds, and open doors. Affirming that each person is of sacred worth, we seek to be a fully inclusive church, believing that all people are God’s children, created in God’s image, loved and blessed equally by God. It is our purpose to be a Reconciling Congregation. This means extending hospitality and encouraging full participation of all, regardless of age, race, national origin, gender, gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, marital status or family structure, education or economic background, and physical or mental ability. We recognize that we hold a variety of opinions. We do not seek to erase our differences, but to journey together in faith toward greater understanding and mutual respect. We believe that reconciliation to God and to one another is central to our mission and ministry.

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A Pastoral Reflection God is Still Speaking | Rev. Dr. Stephen M. Cady II Every Sunday when I step into the pulpit, I pray that the words of my mouth and meditations of all our hearts are acceptable in God’s sight (from Psalm 19). It’s an earnest prayer which reminds me and, hopefully, the congregation of the moment into which we are stepping—a moment when we listen together, preacher and congregation, for how God might be speaking to us. Fortunately for all of us, the pulpit is not the only place we can hear God’s voice. God is speaking through our children. For those who missed the pageant this year, it’s worth going back to view it on the archive. Not just because of the mishap with the pony (thanks to those who were briefly deputized into the sexton staff ), but because they were able to share the gospel message with clarity and heart. The children stood poised and prophetic as they shared the good news that unto us a child is born—a savior for a world in need of a savior. Maybe it was the excellent planning and execution by our children’s ministry, youth, and music staff, but in that moment it was easy to see the light shining in the darkness and the hope which can come from a child. God is speaking through the labyrinth. Last week I happened to run into a woman just after she was leaving the labyrinth for the first time (open the second Wednesday of each month). As she prepared to head out, she shared with me how meaningful her experience of the labyrinth had been. She spoke of her current life challenges and the aid the labyrinth had provided her as she listened for God’s promise of grace. God is speaking through our outreach volunteers. Nearly every day when I arrive on campus, someone else is already here. Usually it’s a Storehouse volunteer sorting items prior to opening, or a Dining and Caring Center volunteer who is just finishing up getting everything back into place following breakfast. When I leave in the evening, it is not uncommon for the Wellness Clinic volunteers to be taking in guests. When RAIHN rotation is on campus, as they were recently, a volunteer stays all night to be present with families in case they are needed. While these volunteers are not always proclaiming the gospel with words, they are living it with their lives. God is speaking through the altar guild. Let’s face it, there are moments when our minds wander during the worship service (I see you out there). The altar guild ensures that even if you’re not looking at the pulpit, that which you see is communicating something about God. From the surreptitious heart in the poinsettias this Christmas, to the beauty of the sanctuary each week, the altar guild does what they can to make sure that God is seen as well as heard in the beauty of the sanctuary. We could keep going. God is speaking through the finance committee, the youth, the trustees, the church council, the SPRC, the prayer shawl ministry, the Sunday school classes, the Stephen ministry, the ushers, the musicians, the intercessory prayer team, the greeters, the welcome desk workers, the person who notices a need and does it without recognition, the phone calls to those we miss, the meals to those in need, through each and every person who uses their gifts to share God’s love. God is still speaking through you. Thanks for listening, Asbury First. Grace and peace, Stephen

Worship

worship schedule SUNDAY FEBRUARY 5

SUNDAY FEBRUARY 19

SUNDAY FEBRUARY 26

8:30 am – Traditional Worship

Matthew 5:13-20

Matthew 5:38-48

Psalm 46

10 am – Chancel Worship with

Rev. Dr. Stephen Cady, Preacher Rev. Dr. Stephen Cady,

Holy Communion

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11 am – Traditional Worship

Matthew 5:21-37

SUNDAY SERVICE TIMES

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Preacher

Rev. Dr. Stephen Cady, Preacher 3

Kathy Thiel, Preacher


Community News Our Living

in Community

Deaths – We offer our prayers and sympathy to …

The family and friends of Betty Ware who died on June 1, 2016.

Marriages – We celebrate the marriage of …

Dave and Beth Rice and family on the death of Dave’s father Donn Rice on October 25, 2016.

The family and friends of Ferne Merrill who died on November 23, 2016.

Courtney Foreman and Scott Handy on October 22, 2016.

Ken Saltzman and Duane Prill on the death of Ken’s mother Arlene Saltzman on November 6, 2016. Sally Woods-Winslow and Roy Sowers on the death of Sally’s cousin Janet Reno on November 7, 2016 in Miami, FL.

The family and friends of Peg Lamberton who died on December 12, 2016. Baptisms – We celebrate the baptism of … Julia Catherine Singer, daughter of Stephen and Lynn Singer, baptized on January 8, 2017.

Welcome The Newest Members of Asbury First!

Dave Crawford

Julie & Dave McIntosh

Jan DeJager

Joe & Vickie Stankaitis

Tori Starr

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Lent and Easter News Looking Ahead To Lent and Easter

❆ Labyrinth Wednesdays During Lent 5-7 pm

❆ Good Friday Friday, April 14 6 am-Informal Holy Communion: 6 am with the Men's Prayer Group. 12 pm-Holy Week-themed art and music by Voices Chamber Choir. A beloved Asbury First tradition. 6-7:30 pm- A come-when-you-wish childfriendly event with communion, a labyrinth walk, and prayer stations.

❆ Taizé Wednesdays During Lent 6:15-7 pm ❆ Ash Wednesday Wednesday, March 1 7 pm-We begin the holy season of Lent with a service that reminds us of our humanity and our reliance on the gift of God’s grace. This service will include communion and the imposition of ashes.

❆ Easter Sunday Sunday, April 16 6:30 am- Held at Colgate Rochester Crozer Divinity School, 1100 Goodman Street, 14620. 8:30 am-Traditional service 10 am-A brief service of communion 11 am-Traditional service

❆ Maundy Thursday Thursday, April 13 6:30 pm-Sanctuary open for silent meditation. 7 pm-Living tableaus of scenes from the life of Christ will be presented in the chancel. 7:30 pm-Worship begins with communion and a candlelight re-enactment of Christ's last night, ending with the placement of the cross on the East Avenue lawn by our Christ-figure.

Kids Pretzel Sunday is March 5! Pretzel Sunday is March 5th from 9:45 to noon. This is an Asbury First tradition more than thirty years old, when the children gather and make delicious homemade pretzels and explore a lenten lesson in fun and new ways.

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AFUMC News A Closer Look at the New Christ Candle By Robert J. Trout

This past Christmas season, you may have noticed the new Christ Candle used during worship. The staff and congregation of Asbury First extend a very special "thank you" to Robert for his invested time and effort in making this beautiful addition to our church, and we asked Robert to share with us his experience in creating this piece. I have been working with metal most of my adult life, first at Xerox as a sheet metal fabricator and welder and later as a blacksmith; which led to an interest in Arts & Crafts style copper. I became a juried Roycroft Renaissance Master Artisan in metal in 1988.

stand. The stand was in rough shape and I felt inspired to perhaps create a new stand out of metal. I spoke with Stephen Cady after church the following week and shared some design ideas with him. I was given the go-ahead to build the stand. I am happiest in my workshop, and the experience of designing and making this Christ Candle was both humbling and exciting. I listened to sacred music as I worked and felt like my head, my hands, and my heart were instruments of my faith and my church. It was a privilege to be able to make this Christ Candle and I pray that its light will shine for many years to come.

In December of 2015, a fellow member of the Asbury Men’s Prayer Group, John Smalt, and I were talking and he shared with me that he had been asked to repair the wooden Christ Candle

Christ Candle, Designed and Fabricated by Robert J. Trout November 2016 “By hammer and hand, thou craft does stand alone”* The Christ candle is made of mild steel, copper, and brass with a wrought finish. The piece was fabricated using traditional joinery methods; riveting, forging and shaping, hand fastening. The wrought finish is intended to reproduce the look of metalwork crafted in the 16th century. The finish is obtained by placing the metal in a coal burning fire and heating it until the metal blisters, creating dark spots on the metal’s surface. It is then wire brushed while still hot to remove the scale. This process is done three times. After the metal cools, it is hand sanded using 80 grit emery paper, creating minute high and low areas on the surface. Linseed oil and turpentine are then applied and after drying a clear coat of lacquer is added. The design inspiration came from the lanterns hanging in the sanctuary of Asbury First. Ornamental design features were influenced by various religious symbols found in gothic churches. The Christ Candle Crown: •The 12 spires on the crown represent the Twelve Tribes of Israel. •The trefoil on the tops of the spires represent the Trinity. •The 12 copper rivets represent the original Twelve Apostles. •The 4 quatrefoils represent the Four Gospels •The 3 support wings at the base of the crown repeat the Trinity symbolism The Candle Holder within the Crown: •The three crosses represent the Crucifixion of Christ and the two thieves, one on the right and one on the left. The Base: •The base contains three feet with 3 divisions in each continuing the Trinity motif. •There are four rosettes on the base, again representing the Four Gospels •Each rosette has 12 scallops, representing the Twelve Tribes. The shaft can be removed from the base for processing. The candles are 2” x 9” and are a tight fit in the candle cup to prevent wobbling. *Variation of a Blacksmith’s Motto, source unknown. 6


AFUMC News Stream Asbury First Services On Your TV! Do you have a Roku or Apple TV? You can now stream Asbury First events like Sunday worship right to your television! This is a wonderful way to stay connected and to worship with us when your schedule is just too full or the weather is keeping you home. Here’s how to get set up and start streaming: On your streaming device, search for and select the Sunday Streams channel. Once selected, your device will provide you with a verification number and instructions to log on to your computer. (For example, if you are on a Roku, you will be prompted to go to www.sundaystreams.com/roku.) From there, you will need to enter the verification number and the Church ID (which is AsburyfirstUMC). Once entered, your device will process your submission, and you will be all set to start streaming live from Asbury First!

Celebrating the Second Annual City Sing for Peace and Unity On December 18th at 4 pm, hundreds of people from all walks of life gathered at School #17 in the JOSANA Neighborhood to walk together in solidarity singing songs of peace. This is the second year that different faith congregations, non-profit organizations, and local leaders have come together in the name of peace and solidarity against the pervading violence and division in our world. Participants met up at School 17 at 4 pm, and after a few inspiring words from Rabbi Till, they walked out into the JOSANA neighborhood in groups of 1012 singing songs. The songs were from a book of songs compiled by the different participating organizations. Groups walked for about a mile, and met back at the school. Upon arrival back to the school, participants enjoyed coffee and cocoa provided by Coffee Connection. The evening was capped off by the Muslim call to prayer, which was performed in the parking lot with the crowd circled around them. “We Shall Overcome” was the last song to which everyone raised their voices. A fitting way to end a beautiful evening. 7


AFUMC News Interfaith Educational Community Series Recap Did you know that Buddhism ranks fourth among world religions, in terms of number of active participants? Recent reports cite roughly 500 Million active Buddhists in the world (compared to 1 Billion Hindus, 1.6 B Muslims and 2.2 B Christians).*

its history, the basic precepts of the faith, and examples of how the faith is practiced today, both locally and around the world. Brad discussed the major branches of Buddhism, describing the strong points of each, and then dove into his personal experience with Zen. Brimming with interesting stories, he told us about the “historical Buddha” as well as providing interesting parallels between Buddhism and Christianity. He also covered yoga, meditation, koans (meditation riddles or puzzles), the Four Nobles Truths, the 8-Fold Path, and the goal of Enlightenment. Brad Craddock leading the Buddhism 101 class

If you had come to Asbury on a cold and rainy Tuesday in January, you might have learned this from Brad Craddock, a local Buddhist, actor, author, and English and Creative Writing teacher at the nearby School of the Arts. He was speaking at the Interfaith Educational Community (IEC) series, held the first Tuesday evening of the month in the Asbury Gathering Center. The IEC series, organized by Kathy Thiel, Ellen Lamb, and others, began in November and will continue into the Spring.

The similarities between the 8-Fold Path and our own Ten Commandments were particularly striking. Being a professional actor, Brad also kept the discussion lively and fun. Interested in finding out more? Are you curious about what other faith traditions believe? Would you like to learn about the B’Hai faith? Do you want to know what Sikhs believe? Join us on the first Tuesdays of each month for the coming months as we host our sisters and brothers, our neighbors in different faiths. A faith leader and a member or two from these communities will be here with us to share about their culture, tenets of their faith and traditions. Our hope is to make differing religious faiths less a mystery and more about dialogue and continued conversation. There will be an opportunity for questions and answers, and a time of fellowship afterward. These events will take place in the Gathering Center, from 7-8:30 pm. All are welcome!

“The similarities between the 8-Fold Path and our own Ten Commandments were particularly striking.”

Interfaith Educational Community Series Events Tuesday, February 7, 2017 - Spiritus Christi Tuesday, March 7, 2017 - Sikhism Tuesday, April 4, 2017 - Spiritualism Tuesday, May 1, 2017 - B’Hai

Organized around the idea of learning more about other faith journeys, the series has included sessions on Judaism and Islam. Planned are additional sessions on the Hindu, Bahai, and Sikh faiths. On the night that Brad spoke, he introduced topics including the basic concepts of Buddhism as well as in-depth discussion about

*source: http://www.pewforum.org/2015/04/02/religious-projections-2010-2050

Please Welcome Dr. Eric Townell! We welcome Dr. Eric Townell to worship leadership as the interim director of the Sanctuary choir through May while Dr. William Weinert is away on sabbatical leave from his position as the Director of Choral Music at the Eastman School of Music. Mr. Townell is currently the Artistic Director of the Rochester Oratorio Society. Dr. Eric Townell celebrates a decade as Artistic Director of the Rochester Oratorio Society in 2016-17. Eric has conducted choral, orchestral and operatic performances across the U.S. and internationally for 35 years. A frequent guest conductor for the Rochester Philharmonic Orchestra, Artistic Director of the Rochester Lyric Opera and an effective communicator on arts topics, Eric is host and producer of ‘In The Spotlight,’ a series of interviews with arts leaders broadcast statewide via cable access television.

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AFUMC News A Community Called Taizé This May, Mike Mullin and Katie O’Hern will lead a group of six young adults on a spiritual pilgrimage to the Taizé community in the Burgundy region of France. As part of their preparation, the group is reading A Community Called Taizé: A Story of Prayer, Worship and Reconciliation by Jason Brian Santos. The book offers a very helpful and clear overview of the community, from its founding in 1940 by a man now known as Brother Roger to its ministry throughout the world in the present day. Today Taizé welcomes 6,000 pilgrims each week during the summer months, and nearly all of those who make the pilgrimage are young adults. Over the course of a year over 100,000 young people will spend time living, working, and worshiping with the community. When Brother Roger began his small community, he never imagined it would look the way it does today. He did not set out to create a space of worship and community for young people, but rather sought to minister to and with a small town that had been torn apart by war. But when he and his fellow brothers noticed the increase in young people who were drawn to what they were doing, they had to ask, “Now what?” Their willingness to minister alongside the people God sent their way (even when they weren’t the people the brothers expected) is a true testimony to their faith and trust. The philosophy of the community continues to be ever evolving to meet the needs of the young people it seeks to serve, but it is centered around three pillars: simplicity, mercy, and joy. The brothers live and worship simply; they show mercy to all they meet, especially the poorest; and they live in the joy of God’s light. With these pillars at its core, the Taizé community seeks to be a place of reconciliation and peace. People of all Christian traditions – and indeed all faith backgrounds – find they are welcome at Taizé, and to many it quickly begins to feel like home. Asbury First’s Spiritual Life Committee is helping to sponsor this trip through financial contribution to reduce the cost to participants and through prayer partnerships with each of Asbury First’s pilgrims. In addition, members of the committee will be reading A Community Called Taizé alongside the young adults who are making the pilgrimage. All members of Asbury First are invited to participate by reading the book as well (a copy will soon be available in the church library) and by holding the group in prayer. During Lent, Asbury First offers a taste of Taizé-style worship on Wednesday evenings in the Sanctuary, for those who are interested in experiencing the community’s unique style of worship. Upon their return, the young adults from Asbury First will be sharing more about their experience. If you’d like to support the trip in other ways or are interested in learning more, you can contact Katie O’Hern or Mike Mullin.

A Choir for Those Living With Memory Issues This year, we have started a special chorus of individuals living with memory loss together with their care partners. We enjoyed a wonderful beginning with rousing singing. We expect to meet once a week to sing together—hymns, show tunes, folk songs, choral music, and more. No commitment is necessary. Please feel free to come as often as you like. All are welcome, Asbury First community members, and friends and family and neighbors. You do not have to be a member of Asbury First to participate in this group, and it is not necessary to have any musical experience. We all have

a song in our heart! Groups such as this have been created around the country and have proven to uniquely enhance the lives of those living with memory loss and their caregivers. This group meets weekly from 11:30-12:30 in Wesley Hall (the room where the choir rehearses). If you are caring for a loved one or know of someone who is, and if you would like to know more about this opportunity, please contact Mary Berk at maryberk@rochester.rr.com, or contact the church office.

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AFUMC News Ministry & Space: Big Changes Ahead The Ministry & Space Task Force was created in 2012 to evaluate how we use our campus and recommend any changes which could help us better utilize our space to live out our mission. Our goal as a congregation is to steward all our resources well, including all spaces on our campus. We want our physical space to represent the convictions and purposes of Asbury First. Our buildings are ministry tools that should help us to achieve our mission and be accessible by all.

In September 2015 we presented our recommendations at a special Church Conference, and the congregation voted to move forward with more detailed estimates and plans for the following areas: •Completion of Major Maintenance on 1050 and 1040 •HVAC Replacement and electrical upgrades 1040 •Replacement of front and side steps to Sanctuary •Adding an Elevator to 1050 •Building an accessible restroom in 1050 •Renovation of third floor of 1050 •Additional Maintenance and Space Issues •Partial Air Conditioning in Sanctuary •Columbarium •Consolidated music space •New Sanctuary lighting and controls •1040 Window Repair & Maintenance •Updating Fellowship Hall Kitchen Equipment •Porte Cochere off Welcoming Hall

The committee began with a room-by-room, hour-by-hour analysis of every building and a review of major deferred maintenance items that needed to be addressed. We interviewed over fifty groups on campus in order to understand usage and hopes for future ministry. The committee quickly discovered that our space usage and accessibility varies significantly—while some of our space on campus is very well used and accessible, other spaces on our campus are under-utilized, inaccessible, or in need of repair and or improvement. We used this information to identify major themes and engaged an architect to help us think through better uses of our space. We identified the following areas of focus: •Accessibility of All Buildings •Inadequate Space for The Dining and Caring Center and Storehouse •Maintenance Issues

Three items were added by the trustees following that meeting: •Organ repair and Curtain Replacement •Basement upgrades in 1010 and 1050 ASBURY FIRST CAMPUS

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•Potential Usage of Third Floor of 1050 •The future of 1010


AFUMC News At the time, we recommended leasing 1010 and building an Outreach Center to house all of our ministries. The Outreach Task Force was then formed to further explore our outreach ministries with an eye toward the future. This committee was led by Diana Carter and they spent the a last sixteen months on this vital work. Their conclusion was that outreach needs to be done in the most cost-effective way possible, and encouraged us to evaluate existing space as compared to building. After extensive discussion, both the Storehouse and the Dining & Caring Center came to the independent conclusions that they would rather solve the issues in their current space than build or move. With all of this information, and cost information from the architect, Ministry & Space is ready to make our final recommendations. Priority A •Boiler & Air Handler with partial cooling in 1040 •Updated electrical service and fire code •Replacement of chancel lighting and control •1050 Accessibility (elevator, new entrance, site changes) •1050 Third Floor Rehab •Update of Fellowship Hall kitchen •Replacement of front and side steps •HVAC improvements in Ed Wing •Waterproofing and HVAC improvements in DCC and Storehouse •Organ curtain replacement •Organ maintenance •Columbarium

More detailed information about each of these items can be viewed through the church website at asburyfirst.org. We will soon have a major announcement regarding an exciting potential use for 1010. We plan to hold a congregational meeting after the 11am service on Sunday, February 12 to discuss this opportunity and hope that you will plan to join us for that conversation. Ministry & Space will hold several Town Hall style question and answer meetings through the winter, and a special charge conference following Easter when we will vote on moving forward with these projects and a capital campaign. Should you have any questions, please feel free to contact Chuck Hanrahan, Chair of Ministry & Space at chuck.hanrahan@gmail.com, or 585 383-8794 (H)

Priority B •Music Suite •Replacement of Ed Wing windows •Porte Cochere at Welcoming Hall

You're Invited on February 12: Special Meeting on the Future of Building 1010 Please join the leadership and congregation of Asbury First on February 12 at 12:30 pm (following the 11 am service) in Fellowship Hall for a special meeting to discuss exciting new opportunities for the use of Building 1010!

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AFUMC News What’s the Difference Between Charity and Justice?

A group that Stephen Cady called together in the spring of 2015 spent more than a year pondering the question, "What's the difference between charity and justice?"— among other questions—as it sought to create a unified strategy for Asbury First’s outreach programs. As space needs at the Dining and Caring Center and the Storehouse called for solving, it seemed wise to review all of Asbury First’s poverty initiatives before deciding whether to build a new building, renovate, or seek new space off campus for these legacy programs.

guests and working with them to address the unjust forces that leave some people in perpetual poverty. This a very large goal. It will require us to get to know our guests’ needs better, and look at longerlasting solutions than food for a week or clothing for a season. These solutions might take the form of healthful cooking classes, or internships that can lead to jobs. And to accomplish them, we will need to partner with other churches and agencies. Meanwhile, however, we fully expect to continue providing merciful assistance.

issues are being worked out.

Now we invite all of you to be justice seekers, too. You can start by reading the report or asking questions of any of the committee members below. In weeks, months, and years to come, you’ll hear about educational programs where you can learn more. We hope you’ll prayerfully consider joining in.

"...move the focus of our anti-poverty efforts from solely doling out charity to seeking justice. "

The Outreach Taskforce issued its final report, A Way Forward for Outreach, in October 2016 and that report is now available to read online. It contains the first-ever assessment of each of our outreach programs. To create this assessment, members of the Taskforce interviewed leaders, participants and guests in each ministry. We also created a mission statement supported by common values to guide ongoing outreach efforts. Two main thrusts came out of our work, embodied in our recommendations for the church. The first is to move the focus of our anti-poverty efforts from solely doling out charity to seeking justice. This means moving from a pattern of one-way giving to having a deeper relationship with our

The second thrust is a recommendation to equip ourselves by training our volunteers and congregation in justice work and by adding staff—a social worker and outreach coordinator, for example. Each ministry will be asked to survey the people it helps each year to more fully understand their needs. We expect to offer training both in volunteer positions and in dealing with diversity and poverty issues. In addition, we hope to bring our missions more closely together so they work in concert with each other. All this work will take time, phased in over five years. The Outreach Committee has agreed to oversee adoption of this new way of doing outreach. And the Church Council agreed to this new philosophy late last year. Financial details and the original space

Outreach Taskforce members: Laity Diana Carter, chair; Gary Brown, Bob Castle, Judy Cohen, Robyn Gage, Carolyn Hamil, Rick Kuempel, John Smalt Staff Stephen Cady, Katie O’Hern, Kathy Thiel

New: Outreach Mission Statement and Values Mission Statement As disciples of Jesus Christ, we cultivate hope and fullness of life. Values

Faith in Christ- As disciples of Jesus Christ, we model our lives on his words and deeds. Love- All our actions testify to our love for God and for all people. Community- We welcome a sense of community and partnership with everyone. The safety and wellbeing of our guests and volunteers is important to us. Sharing- God has bestowed gifts upon us and others; we share these through fellowship, hospitality and service. Justice- We believe all people are equal, deserving of having their immediate needs met with dignity and their injustices and inequities addressed righteously. Stewardship - We are called to be good caretakers of ourselves, our resources and the world God created for us all. Joy- We share and experience the promised joy of life by reaching out to those in need. 12

The mission statement and values were developed by the Outreach Taskforce as part of their report which was accepted by Church Council on December 12, 2016. They will help to guide our outreach ministries as we move forward. The Outreach Committee welcomes your participation and support, as we strive to live out this mission.


AFUMC News Meet the Asbury First Older Adult Council The Older Adult Council (OAC) has been a vital part of Asbury First for many years. The purpose of the committee is to provide a connection between the church and those in our congregation who are 80 years or older.

They are a treasured and valued part of our church family and may or may not be able to attend church or participate in activities as they once did. Special thanks are due Nancy Boerner. Nancy has stepped down from her position as leader of OAC for 12 years, and she was a member of the committee prior to that. Some dedicated members have served as visitors for 20 years or more. They have brought joy and companionship to those members of Asbury First who, for one reason or another, have not been able to attend church services. The good news is that the

tradition of serving this community will continue. Meredith Pixley and Ruth VanDerLinden are the new co-leaders of the OAC. Although the leadership of this ministry has changed, it is the committee’s intention to continue many of the events of the past as well as encourage new ventures. Among the beloved events are the Fall and Spring Luncheons. On October 6, 2016, about 60 people attended the luncheon prepared by Tasteful Connections and served by members of the Older Adult Council. Seasonal flowers adorned the tables, as well as memorabilia from years gone by. Conversation was the ‘program’ for the day, and at times, it was difficult to stop the talking to make announcements! So be it. What a joy to see so many people enjoying themselves. The Spring Luncheon is currently being planned, and you are invited to help, as servers will be needed at this event. If you are 80 years young, you are invited to attend as our guest. Invitations will be sent, so the church office will need to have your birthdate (yes, including the year!) on file, along with your current address. You need not be a shutin to attend; you might know of someone who needs transportation, and if so, you are invited to bring that person along with you. Watch for more information in the bulletins and on the Asbury First website. Another important activity of the OAC is assisting the pastors in planning worship services with Holy Communion in various adult living facilities in our area. In 2016,

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Mary Anna Geib, Patricia Jones, Carole MacMonagle, and Donna Schwendy made plans for Advent services held in late November and December. Dick and Marsha Wilke, Lorraine Fusare, Betty Stewart, and Linda Specht all provided support. Worship services to be held during the Lenten season are currently being planned. At Christmastime and again at Eastertime, seasonal flowers are delivered to over 40 people, a gift from the church to remind them that the church is thinking of them. In the delivering of the flowers, conversations may take place, and those conversations may lead to further visits. This is a way to help the member who may not be able to get to church to stay connected with all that is going on. It is also a way to let the church know what is going on with someone who may not be able to get to church. While we have many ways of ‘tuning in’ to Sunday morning broadcasts of the sermons, that may be a difficult task for some—and personal contact becomes important. Ruth and Meredith are eager to have new members join the continuing OAC members. In addition, Meredith is organizing the Compassion Network, asking members of the congregation to share their gifts of time and talent to help the older adults in our community of faith at times of particular need or celebration. Talk with Meredith or Ruth to learn more about this effort.


AFUMC News Join Us for Financial Peace University Nine Weeks, Starting March 8 6-7:30 pm Building 1040, Room 200 Financial Peace University will help MAKE IT HAPPEN! Millions of people have gone through Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University (FPU) and learned God’s ways of handling money. They’ve worked a plan, rewritten their stories, and changed their future! On average, FPU graduates pay off $5,300 in debt and save $2,700 in only the first 90 days! FPU consists of a nine-week video curriculum taught by financial expert Dave Ramsey, and it incorporates small group discussions that help encourage accountability and discipleship. Groups meet once a week for 90 minutes, and the course is just as fun as it is practical! Interested in finding out more or are you ready to register? Visit http://www.daveramsey.com/fpu/ classes/1035420

Doublers Class & 50+ Fellowship Winter Program Changes The Doublers and 50+ Fellowship will be meeting together for their Sunday morning programs this winter season. The groups will meet together on the first floor of Building 1010 at 9:45 am each Sunday.

"Financial Peace University is not just a course on financial management, it is a life-changing course on how to control your money, instead of money controlling you; all while serving God. I have taken the course twice and learned something new every time. I strongly recommend this class for all church members." -Cory Tylenda, AFUMC Stewardship Committee Chair

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The Right to Die

Rev. Lawrence Hargrave,

Kathy Thiel, Presenter

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SUNDAY FEBRUARY 19

SUNDAY MARCH 5

Rev. Lawrence Hargrave,

Start of Lent

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Rev. David Lubba, Presenter

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AFUMC News Mini VBS Introduces Camp H2O! Please join us at "Camp H2O" Mini Vacation Bible School, where kids explore the Bible stories about water, on February 21, 22, and 23 from 9 am to noon at Asbury First United Methodist Church. There is no cost. VBS is for children from ages four through fifth grade. For more information contact Paula Dugan, (585) 271-1050 x111 or pdugan@asburyfirst.org. Please return this form to the Welcome Desk in the Welcoming Hall on Sunday mornings or to the church office during regular business hours. Child’s Name

Child’s Age

Allergies

Parent/Guardian Information Name:____________________________________________________________________________________________ Address:__________________________________________________________________________________________ Best phone # during VBS hours:________________________________________________________________________ Email:_____________________________________________________________________________________________

Medical information Please list any special instructions or conditions VBS volunteers should be aware of:_____________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________ ______________ Emergency contact ______________________ Phone #____________________________________________________ Relationship_______________________________________________________________________________________ In the event of an emergency, I do hereby give consent to Asbury First UMC to administer the necessary medical treatment. Signature of parent/guardian:_________________________________________________________________________ Date______________________________________________________________________________________________ Please list the people who have the permission to pick up your child(ren):_____________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________ Would you like to be a VBS Volunteer? YES NO What is your area of interest?_________________________________ _________________________________________________________________________________________________

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Rochester, NY 14607

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www.asburyfirst.org


Community Outreach & Needs Asbury First Storehouse Celebrates 51 Years of Service On Saturday, November 5, Storehouse volunteers gathered at their annual Volunteer Recognition Brunch. Led by Chairpersons, Charlene Lajewski and Bonnie Kay, the event was enjoyed by all. Volunteers were fed in style and feasted on French toast, an egg bake and plentiful fruits and sweet breads; all prepared and served by Tasteful Connections. Guest speakers were representatives of University of Rochester Baby Love Program.

Judy Cohen, Norma Andzer, and Betsy Christiansen

Our tables were decorated with flower pot angels. Our bookmark favors stated, “I’ve seen and met angels wearing the disguise of ordinary people living ordinary lives.” (Tracy Chapman) This certainly describes each and every volunteer who serves the Asbury First Storehouse. Without their dedication and love of service to our community, there would not be this outstanding ministry. Thanks be to God!

Honored at this year’s celebration were Judy Cohen and Betsy Christiansen for their leadership as Co-Chairpersons from 2012 through 2015. Norma Andzer was also honored. Every Monday, for twenty years, Norma has gathered infant and toddler clothing, carrying them to her home for sizing and marking, and then faithfully returning them to their proper place for storage or immediate use by our shoppers.

Snow Removal Volunteers Needed

Wanted Pickup Drivers for Asbury First Dining & Caring Center

Asbury First is looking for volunteers to assist with campus snow removal. Mornings at 6 am and during days if we have snow in the forecast. Anyone willing to assist can call Ken Carr at 271-1050 ext:120 or e-mail at kcarr@asburyfirst.org.

Drivers are wanted to make weekly runs to BJ’s, FoodLink, etc. for pickup of donated food items. This would be a nice outing for a couple with an SUV, pickup truck, or van. Please contact Rand Warner at 425-8586 or Michele Cooley at 271-0692.

New or Gently Used Coats Wanted The Asbury First Storehouse is in need of new or gently used coats for children, teens, and men. Other items needed include winter hats, gloves, mittens, scareves, and boots.

We need Asbury First Welcome Desk Volunteers on Sunday Mornings!

All donations can be made to the Asbury First Storehouse, located at 1050 East Avenue, Rochester, NY.

A person can volunteer at the desk 1 hour, 2 hours...or what ever time you have. We are flexible! The Welcome Desk is open between the hours of 8:15 am to 12:15 pm Sunday mornings. Volunteers will greet people as they approach, hand out name tags if they have ordered them, hand out visitor welcome bags, answer questions and guide them. It is a great way to meet people! If you have questions or are interested in volunteering, please reach out to Janda Hemming at jhemming01@earthlink. net or 381-6902.

Have questions or want to get involved? Contact the Storehouse at (585) 473-0950 or email asburystorehouse@gmail.com for more information. 16


Stewardship Campaign 2017 Dream to Life

Thank You! BECAUSE OF YOUR COMMITMENT AND GENEROSITY, ASBURY FIRST’S CAMPAIGN TO FUND THE 2017 ANNUAL OPERATING PLAN (AOP) WAS A SUCCESS. What is the AOP exactly? Good question. The AOP represents all money received and spent by the church in a given year. It’s much like your own budget: just as you determine how much you can spend on groceries, gas, and other expenses based on your income, so Asbury First must plan for all the expenses that result from the many ministries of a large, vibrant church community.

HERE’S ANOTHER WAY TO LOOK AT THE IMPACT OF YOUR GIVING: 1

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PLEDGES WERE RECEIVED FROM:

2016

$1,068,507

458

2017

$1,123,606

households

721

DESIGNATED (i.e., meant for a particular ministry, such as the Storehouse or the music program) AND UNDESIGNATED GIFTS TO THE AOP.

people

47 NEW HOUSEHOLD PLEDGERS

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AVERAGE PLEDGE

$1,789

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HOW DID PLEDGES CHANGE THIS YEAR?

191 Number of households that increased their pledge

3.3%

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Library News January/February 2017

January and February provide perfect reading weather. Picture yourself in a comfy chair in a warm place with one of the following books. Join us in exploring the library resources. Take a look at the following books available in the library’s collection of books for children, teens and adults. Children

Crossover by Kwame Alexander This 2015 Newbery Medal Winner will appeal especially to ages 9-12. It is a family’s story in verse, in this fast and furious middle grade novel of family, basketball, and brotherhood.

Excuse Me! A Little Book of Manners by Karen Katz It’s a perfect way to introduce those magic words that all little ones should know. Toddlers will have fun lifting the flaps to discover the right words to say-”Excuse me!” and “I’m sorry!”

Adult

Does God Know How to Tie Shoes by Nancy White Carlstrom These picture book questions raised are typical of those posed by young children, and the result is a book that presents the concepts in an understandable, concrete way perfect for sharing on a lap or with a small group.

Not in God’s Name: Confronting Religious Violence by Rabbi Johathan Sacks In this powerful and timely book, award-winning author Jonathan Sacks tackles the phenomenon of religious extremism and violence committed in the name of God. Rabbi Sacks shows that religiously inspired violence has as its source misreading of biblical texts at the heart of all three Abrahamic faiths.

In the Beginning there was Joy by Matthew J. Fox, illustrated by Jane Tattersfield

This Year It will be Different and Other Stories by Maeve Binchy This holiday book by New York Times bestselling author Binchy brings 15 stories of holidays that precipitate change, growth, and new beginnings instead of Christmas homilies.

This beautifully illustrated story celebrates the author’s joyful teaching about creation. It is the biblical creation story, one that is full of hope, wonder, and the joy inherent in any creative act. Especially recommended for ages 9-12.

The Underground Railroad by Colson Whitehead This National Book Award Winner and #1 New York Times bestseller from Colson Whitehead chronicles a young slave’s adventures as she makes a desperate bid for freedom in the antebellum South. It provides a realistic depiction of slavery and features literal underground railroads and many other historical elements.

Youth Perfectly Unique: Praising God from Head to Foot by Annie F. Downs “From the thoughts you think to the steps you take, every part of you is linked to the divine.” This book will take ages 8-13 on a thoughtful, funny, and spirit-filled exploration of the way you were designed and will help you better honor God by learning to value yourself as a perfectly unique creation

Parenting 365 Ways to Love Your Child by Caryl Waller Krueger Caryl Waller Krueger presents 365 ideas in capsule form, to help you make the most of special moments with your child.

Testament by Jim Krueger A graphic novel which is a first-class introduction to the most widely read book in history, the Bible.

If you are interested in serving on the church library committee that meets monthly to deal with library issues, your participation is needed. Please contact any library committee member to indicate your interest. Members include: Bonnie Kay, Monica Gilligan, Kathy Schwar, Peggy Lyons, Diana Carter, Carol Roote, and Beth Woolever.

The Library: A Look Back in the New Year Founded in 1977, the Asbury First Resource Library came into being through the efforts of a church-appointed task force. In its early days, the library consisted of a bookcase in one small room. Currently, it occupies two adjoining rooms located off the Welcome Center filled with hundreds of books on shelves and book cases. The book collection, in 37-plus categories, ranges from general reference, life stages, religion and science, Bible, theology, and spirituality to fiction, church history and Christian education. The library collection is organized using the Dewey Decimal System. A posted chart provides numbers and categories of the books and there is a color-coded chart for the children’s collection. It’s a library for our Asbury First membership that is self-help, easy to use, and totally without charge. Come visit and check us out! 18


The Last Word Having Faith | Michele Cooley December was a month of blessings and strong emotions here at the Asbury First Dining and Caring Center. We experienced great losses which had a profound effect on staff, guests, and visiting outreach workers. We all know how fragile life is—particularly for the homeless—and whenever a life is cut short we grieve. Such was the case when four of our guests passed away within a two-week period. All of these had challenges. One person was left freezing in the street after being hit by a car, as yet an unsolved incident. He was a veteran who had a full military funeral in Bath, NY. Another person had met with an outreach worker and it appeared that his homelessness was soon coming to an end. Three hours later, he was found unresponsive from an overdose. He was a friendly, quiet young man who had been attending church services at Asbury First. Another guest was hit by a car in Greece. He too was homeless and had mental health challenges. He was small and wiry and was always dressed in a blazer befitting the banking position he said he once had. Another guest was a young man with a 6-year-old son. This father was participating in an in-patient addiction program and was a former volunteer at the Dining Center. A big smile and an equally large sense of humor coupled with a sincere work ethic, were his major attributes. He had great faith in God and was committed to sobriety and re-unification with his son. He too passed away due to an overdose.

"We continue to have faith in the Lord..."

These individuals were all vital, dear guests—and part of our large family at the Asbury First Dining Center. Yes, relationships are born here and fostered. None are likely to judge and true bonds are formed. When someone is taken from us, we care as we have lost a family member. And so December began with notable challenges. Before we knew it, we were in the throws of Christmas and our holiday dinner and gift bag distribution were just around the corner. Christmas Day was a beautiful, festive, experience here at the Dining Center. We made 140 gift bags for our guests and all were pleased with our Christmas decorations and delicious roast beef dinner. The Asbury First children’s ministry put together candy bags, and our volunteers from Temple Beth El volunteered for the fourth year in a row. Our Asbury First community also generously donated hats, gloves, scarves, and hygiene items. Many thanks to all of you. We have faith in our ministry here and all of the positive results we continue to see on a daily basis. One of our guests wanted to

share her story of success and redemption. Her story warmed my heart and buoyed my spirits. Amy has been coming here for approximately three years. “I have found very helpful services and I enjoy the food and fellowship. I have found Michele and all of the staff and volunteers to be very warm and caring individuals. I am a former drug addict who decided to get clean over 10 years ago. I had done tremendous damage to my family by lying and stealing and I realize how much I hurt them emotionally and financially. I basically ended up homeless in 2005. My own personal bottom came in 2006 when I went to jail for 8 days. I wanted my life back—but most importantly I wanted 'me' back.

"I have learned to love myself and I give help to others in need. I still enjoy coming to Asbury First to share my strength, experience, and hope with others who are less fortunate."

With probation and intense out patient services and having God in my life, I was able to start my life again as a clean and productive member of society. Today I have a job, which I have retained for 9 years, a car, an apartment, and a family who loves and trusts me again. I have learned to love myself and I give help to others in need. I still enjoy coming to Asbury First to share my strength, experience, and hope with others who are less fortunate. The services at the Dining Center are so very helpful, including the food, coffee, the Asbury First Storehouse, and laundry. I still am in need of these services at times and am very appreciative of all of you. Most of all I enjoy the fellowship." We continue to have faith in the Lord, each other and the promise that while we grieve our brothers who could not escape their individual tragedies, there are many more who are thriving each day, and being served with the love and hope that is the Asbury Dining and Caring Center.

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Mini Vacation Bible School Introduces:

Camp H2O February 21-23 9 am - 12 pm No cost!

This VBS is a great way to have fun during February break. In Camp H2O we will explore the miracles in the Bible that pertain to water!

VBS is for children from ages four through fifth grade. For more information, see page 15 or contact Paula Dugan at (585) 271-1050 x111 or pdugan@asburyfirst.org.


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