TheVisitor Asbury First United Methodist Church Newsletter July/August 2017 • Vol. M No. 6 • www.asburyfirst.org
MINISTRY & SPACE: We Are Now Building the Future of Asbury First See the Plans on Page 8 IN THIS ISSUE A Pastoral Reflection 3 Community News 4 Ministry & Space Campus News 8 Tent Week News 10
Community Outreach & Needs 11 On Holy Ground 12 Library & Reading News 13 The Last Word 14
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Love God and neighbor. Live fully. Serve all. Repeat.
FOUR WAYS TO WORSHIP AT ASBURY FIRST Outside Worship with Holy Communion (weather permitting) 8:30 am Sunday mornings
Staff
The Rev. Dr. Stephen Cady II Senior Minister The Rev. Kathy Thiel Minister for Pastoral Care & Outreach The Rev. Mike Mullin Youth Minister David Strong Church Administrator; Assistant Organist Dr. William Weinert Director of Music Paula Dugan Children’s Ministry Director Holly Temming Children’s Ministry Assistant; Director, Children’s Music Richard Moncrief Financial Administrator Morgan Dornsife Director, Development & Communications Melody Guadagnino Administrative Assistant Deb Bullock-Smith Administraitive Assistant to the Senior Pastor Ken Carr Property Care Manager Michele Cooley Dining & Caring Center Director Jamie Least Communications Coordinator Duane Prill Organist Carol Lamica Director, Youth Music Elizabeth Church Director, Bell Choir Brian Bohrer Director, Asbury Singers Larry Dugan Director, Youth Theater
Emeriti Staff Rev. Dr. Theodore Weeden, Sr., Pastor Emeritus Dr. Roger Wilhelm, Director of Music Emeritus Marian R. Craighead*, Organist Emerita *deceased Cover Photo Credit: Michael Fisher, Churchwide Carnival, June 11, 2017
Please send all submissions, questions, comments, or concerns to communications@asburyfirst.org or 585-271-1050, x109. Deadline for submitting content to the next issue: August 1
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INCLUSIVITY STATEMENT Asbury First United Methodist Church prayerfully strives to live in its community with open hearts, open minds, and open doors. Affirming that each person is of sacred worth, we seek to be a fully inclusive church, believing that all people are God’s children, created in God’s image, loved and blessed equally by God. It is our purpose to be a Reconciling Congregation. This means extending hospitality and encouraging full participation of all, regardless of age, race, national origin, gender, gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, marital status or family structure, education or economic background, and physical or mental ability. We recognize that we hold a variety of opinions. We do not seek to erase our differences, but to journey together in faith toward greater understanding and mutual respect. We believe that reconciliation to God and to one another is central to our mission and ministry.
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A Pastoral Reflection A New Day | The Rev. Dr. Stephen M. Cady II In some ways, nothing has changed. As a congregation, we have always done our best to love God and neighbor, to live fully, and to serve all. Now, however, we have made it official. I was thrilled with the vote and the conversation on June 25th. With a 97% affirmation, we are clearly behind this mission and vision. Now comes the hard part—putting it into practice. The Dreamscape, after all, is only as good as the people who are willing to bring these dreams to life. Fortunately, we have put careful plans and structures in place to ensure this vision will be realized. The Church Council, our Church Administrator, the staff, and leadership of Asbury First all have designated and distinct roles within the implementation portion of this plan. In the end, however, it will be all of our jobs to do more good in our daily lives of ministry (within Asbury First and beyond) to bring it to life. Only then will we be able to judge the Dreamscape a success. The Dreamscape is already clarifying and shaping important conversations within our community—in particular, the ongoing conversation about how we best align our space with our mission. Because the Dreamscape was so clear about the value this congregation places on being open to all, on worship, on outreach, and on community (among other things), our work on the Ministry and Space Task Force has become much more focused. The projects we have been exploring over the last five years are now much clearer and we now have the final project recommendations. Described in this Visitor, the projects we are recommending will better enable us to live out our mission and vision as a congregation. Over the next couple months, leading up to a special church conference with a vote for approval on September 24, 2017, we will be hosting a series of town hall presentations to share in-depth information on each of these projects (see page 8 for details). We hope that you will mark your calendars and lend your voice to the conversation. This is an exciting time to be at Asbury First. If we have learned anything through the process of developing the Dreamscape, it is that it takes all of us working together to bring our dreams to life. Grace and Peace, Stephen
Worship
worship schedule SUNDAY JULY 2 SUMMER SERVICE TIMES Memorial Day Weekend to Labor Day Genesis 22:1-14 The Rev. Dr. Stephen Cady, Weekend (Inclusive) Preacher 8:30 am – Outside Worship with Holy Communion (weather permitting)
SUNDAY JULY 30 The Rev. Craig Brown, Senior Minister of First UMC of San Diego, Preacher
Meet Guest Preacher, Rev. Craig Brown
SUNDAY JULY 9 Song of Solomon 2 The Rev. Kathy Thiel, Preacher
10 am – Traditional Worship in the sanctuary
SUNDAY JULY 16 The Rev. Mike Mullin, Preacher SUNDAY JULY 23 The Rev. David Lubba, Preacher 3
Rev. Craig Brown currently serves as Lead Pastor at First United Methodist Church of San Diego. He holds a B.A. Degree in Biblical Studies and Theology from Biola University and a M.Div. from Fuller Theological Seminary. He is the co-author of Keep It Positive: A New Approach to Successful Parenting, and is a frequent teacher and leader at conferences and retreats.
Community News Our Living Deaths – We offer our prayers and sympathy to …
in Community Births – We celebrate the birth of …
Jim and Michelle Coene on the death of Jim’s father, Philip Coene, on May 4, 2017 Chris Linsner-Cartwright on the death of her sister Diane Linsner on June 1, 2017, in Clifton Springs, NY. Tim and Ann Fulreader on the death of Tim’s brother Jack Fulreader on May 27, 2017.
Baptisms – We celebrate the baptism of … Wesley John Barr, son of Jesse and Laura Barr, baptized on June 11, 2017. Luke Gabriel Antinore, son of Brian and Amanda Antinore, baptized on June 11, 2017. Leia Presley Clark, daughter of William and Susan Clark, baptized on June 11, 2017. Rosalee Maria Maffuci, daughter of Steven and Jennifer Maffucci, baptized on June 18, 2017.
Nora Rose, born on April 24, 2017, daughter of Stacy and Rob Saltiel and grandchild of Cindy and Jim Connell. Brayden White, born on April 16, 2017 and Harrison Dorofy, born on May 21, 2017. Brayden and Harrison are the grandsons of Deb and Roger McLean. Marriages – We celebrate the marriage of … Erin Sharp and John Brandt, married on May 27, 2017.
Welcome The Newest Members of Asbury First! Elizabeth and Bob Stevenson
Bassie Turay
Christopher Goerss
Donna and Hugh Cunningham
Tiffany and Tippett Reinson
Emily Short
Erin and Danny Sirianni
Peggy and Greg Foust
Kim Evans
Amy Polisseni
Donna Kunkel and Kathleen Fithen
Hayley Payne
Roy Sowers and Sally Wood Winslow
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Community News They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts. -Acts 2:46
Dining In for Outreach
Sound familiar? Dinner Among Friends is now Dining In for Outreach. All are welcome to the table so that more can be served! For the past ten years, Asbury Dining & Caring Center volunteers have organized this church-wide fundraiser where Asbury First members host a dinner in their home and guests donate money in support of this very important ministry. This year, the event will benefit not only the Asbury Dining & Caring Center but also the many other ministries supported by Asbury First. Thanks to the passion of many, God’s children near and far are served. Through our ministries, we are following Jesus’ command to love our neighbors as ourselves. Below are the main ministries Asbury First supports through gifts of time, talent, and treasure. Funds raised from this year’s Dining In for Outreach will be available for all our ministries and for new ones that may develop in the year ahead. The procedure for requesting funds from the Outreach Ministry Area has been in place for several years and will continue. Proposals for funds are presented to the ministry area for discussion and a subsequent vote.
A LOOK AT OUTREACH International Outreach Project Chacocente Miracle Garden Global Ministries Local Outreach Asbury Dining & Caring Center Asbury Storehouse UR Wellness Center Grocery Bag Ministry RAIHN School 41 West Ave. Teen Café Together in Service Habitat for Humanity
Your help is most welcome. Sponsor the event! Host a dinner! Attend a dinner! For further information or to volunteer, please contact this year’s Dining In for Outreach chairpersons: Bob Castle at 166rcastle@gmail.com or Adelaide Svoboda at ajsvobod@gmail.com.
Be sure to save the date – October 14, 2017! All are welcome at the table!
Family Movie Night on July 19! Family Movie Night Wednesday, July 19 6 pm in Fellowship Hall Come join us for a Polynesian dinner followed by Disney's movie Moana. RSVP to Paula Dugan at pdugan@asburyfirst.org.
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Walk the Labyrinth This Summer Wednesdays, July 12 & August 9 (During Tent Week) 5-7 pm Come, walk, and listen to beautiful music as you experience some quiet, meditative time this summer!
Community News Name Change: The Basement Sale is Now The Storehouse Summer Sale THE STOREHOUSE SUMMER SALE AT ASBURY FIRST Thurs, Aug 3: 4-7 pm Fri, Aug 4: 10 am-7 pm Sat, August 5: 10 am-4 pm (Items 1/2 price until 3 pm!)
Sun, August 6: 11 am-1 pm Thousands of Items: Costume jewelry, housewares, furniture, linens & quilts, crafts, fine china, glassware, lamps, pictures, and much more. Our boutique area features handbags, vintage clothes, and other unique items!
Thank you for your many emails, phone calls, and notes regarding the renaming of the Basement Sale! As mentioned in the last Visitor, the Storehouse Board and Sale Committee felt “Basement Sale” didn't sufficiently describe our amazing sale. The number of items, quality of the donations, and how the sale supports our oldest Outreach Ministry weren't always conveyed in our notices and advertising. The Storehouse Board and Sale Committee voted on all the entries, and the overwhelming winner was “The Storehouse Summer Sale at Asbury First.” This name, as well as more information about how the proceeds benefit this ministry, will be a part of our advertising both within the church and beyond. And while the sale will still be in Fellowship Hall—yes, our basement!—we hope it will no longer conjure up images of the negative aspects of a basement. Please remember to bring in your contributions—and bring an extra friend or two when you come shopping! Congratulations to Betsy Christiansen for the winning entry!
Our Journey to Taize!
by The Rev. Mike Mullin In May, eight young adults from Asbury First United Methodist Church went on a spiritual pilgrimage to Taizé, France. In 1940, this small village in central eastern France became the home of Roger Schütz who established a monastic community there that has grown to over one hundred brothers and can welcome several thousand pilgrims during any given week. When our group of young adults arrived at Taizé, there were about 400 pilgrims, and when we left there were 3,400. The main reason for this influx in visitors was due to Ascension Day—a holiday that most of Europe gets off from work and school. The average day in Taizé is as follows:
morning prayer; breakfast; work assignments; midday prayer; lunch; Bible study; afternoon tea; dinner; evening prayer. The cost to stay at Taizé is less than $20 a day. Everyone receives a work assignment that varies from cleaning bathrooms, to preparing meals, to cleaning and preparing the prayer space. Of our eight young people, two worked on meal preparation, and six worked in the church. During our week in Taizé we had the opportunity to commune with our ecumenical family of faith from across the globe in a unique and deeply meaningful way. We look forward to continue to share about our stories and experiences with the congregation in the fall.
Congratulations to the 2017 Graduates of Asbury First In the last edition of The Visitor, we recognized the recent graduates of Asbury First! We regrettably omitted one individual and wish to take this opportunity to recognize him. Andrew Kennedy Webster Thomas High School Next Steps: Attending SUNY Binghamton
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Honors: Principle Trombone, Music Educators National Honors Orchestra Principle Trombone, New York All State Orchestra Eagle Scout (Tent Week Interfaith Night) Eagle Scout Project of the Month All-Greater Rochester Soccer Goalkeeper
Community News by Patti Crawford, Stewardship Committee Member and Trustee Member
How Many Individuals Found Financial Peace at Asbury First In today’s microwave world, it is easy to get caught up and excited about the next new “quick” scheme (i.e., make $1,000 while you sleep or lose 10 pounds while watching TV). It is so easy to think that, with little or no effort, we can have the life of our dreams. Unfortunately, this just isn’t how life works! We are part of a sowing and reaping world, and if we want to reap, we HAVE TO SOW!
"I am thrilled to report that in just 9 weeks, 6 couples were able to save $9,800 and pay off $17,166 of debt! " This past spring, I led the first Financial Peace University class at Asbury First. It was an honor to have so many people from our congregation and the Rochester community join together on a journey to take control of their finances. Through Dave Ramsey’s 9-week course, we discussed the importance of having an emergency fund, how to budget (telling our money where to go instead of it running away), and how to plan wisely for the future. Most importantly, we discussed tithing and why it is a necessity in every season.
changing behavior and winning with money, they were improving their communication within their families. Many couples in the class shared that for the first time, they were on the same page and felt they could be fully honest and present regarding finances. I am thrilled to report that in just 9 weeks, 6 couples were able to save $9,800 and pay off $17,166 of debt! What a huge financial gain for those in this class! I’m sure some of you may be assuming a personal finance course wouldn’t be fun and enjoyable. Well, we laughed until we cried, got emotional, hugged and high-fived throughout our 9 weeks together. In fact, I don’t think anyone walked away bored after any lesson! In the church, it has sometimes been said that money is “the root of all evil.” I am here to tell you that we have seen a disservice in this way of thinking. Money is an amoral object, meaning it does not have morals. We as humans create and impose those restrictions. In fact, the commonly misquoted verse in the Bible to which I just referenced comes from 1 Timothy 6:10 which actually says, “for the LOVE of money is the root of all evil.” In Financial Peace University, we acquire the knowledge and tools as directed by God to help us be good stewards of the financial resources with which we have been entrusted. We are stewards of God’s gifts, because we all know we don’t take anything with us when we die.
Each week, we held an interactive lesson on a specific topic, broke into smaller discussion groups to answer questions, and gave each other support. Each of our members got more and more excited about the process, (Baby Steps) and the impact it was having on their money. Not only were people finding they were
Save the Date! Financial Peace University begins Wednesday, September 13 for 9 weeks (ending Wednesday Nov 8). Each class takes place from 6-8 pm. Sign up at www.daveramsey.com/fpu/ classes Proverbs 13:22 states “A good person leaves an inheritance to their children’s children.” I invite you to come join us this fall and begin changing your family tree and legacy! If you are interested in taking Financial Peace University or have any questions please send me an email patticrawford@live.com.
"I invite you to come join us this fall and begin changing your family tree and legacy! " I look forward to helping support you through your financial growth and journey over another exciting 9-week Financial Peace University Class! May God Bless!
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Ministry & Space Campus News Building the Future of Asbury First The following is a report of proposed capital projects based on recommendations from the Ministry & Space Task Force, presented by Chuck Hanrahan, Chair and Trustee. Please plan to attend a Town Hall meeting (see below for dates) for questions and discussion. The official VOTE to approve the Capital Campaign, charged with raising funds for these projects, will be held on Sunday, September 24.
watching via live stream. The system was designed by professional lighting experts and will help all those in the chancel to see their music and to be seen by the congregation. Budget: $128,000 - $141,000 Project: 1050 Accessibility and Third Floor Rehabilitation
Project: HVAC Project—Sanctuary Our Sanctuary building is heated by a steam boiler installed in the 1960s. It is actually the newer of two boilers; the older original boiler has been out of service for years. The new design will expand the footprint of the current boiler room by removing the wall between the existing room and the adjacent bell room, allowing for three new air handlers and two new boilers to be located on the basement floor. In addition, the system is being designed to provide some air conditioning to the Sanctuary and Fellowship Hall. Budget: $1,144,200 - $1,258,620 Project: Updated Electric Service and Fire Code—Education Building This project will replace all electrical panels, wiring, outlets and switches, and install occupancy sensors for lighting control per code requirements. Emergency lights and exit signs will also be added. The project will also replace all smoke detectors, and program the elevator for recall to lobby if smoke detectors activate. It will add CO detectors and lower all manual pull stations, and add smoke detectors to areas where they are not currently. Budget: $159,500 - $175,450
Due to changes in the City Fire Code, we are now able to utilize the third floor for the first time in over 50 years. This third floor, representing over 3000 square feet, will need a complete refurbishment including insulation, heating and air conditioning, lighting, plumbing and wall repair. Additionally, our proposal includes the addition of an elevator to access all floors.
The elevator would be located at the rear of 1050 near the copy room. We will also rework the entrance with changes to the back porch, which will allow all people to enter at grade and either take the elevator or a new staircase to a re-configured reception area on the main level. Budget: $1,150,300 - $1,438,00 Project: Fellowship Hall Kitchen Earlier, we shared that a part of the HVAC replacement will require the ceiling in the kitchen to be removed in order to access the ductwork. While this work is happening, we have an opportunity to install new lighting, as well as update all appliances. This way, the many groups that use this kitchen on a daily basis will have beautiful facilities in which to prepare food! Budget: $75,000 - $100,000 Project: Replacement of Front and Side Steps The limestone is crumbling from our harsh winters and snow melting materials (salt). The steps were replaced about twenty-five years ago with the same type of stone the builders of our church used during its construction. We are now proposing granite steps, which will endure the weather much better and have longer life expectancy. The handicap ramp does not meet current ADA standards, and is no longer in a convenient place. We have added handicapped accessible entrances on both the North and South sides of the building—the Welcoming Hall and the Gathering Center. Our recommendation is to remove this deteriorated ramp and return to the original architecture of the building. Budget: $210,100 - $230,000 Project: 1010 Outreach Center This project will consolidate our Outreach ministries (DCC, Storehouse, UR Well Clinic) into 1010. We propose to improve accessibility by adding a new entrance addition with an elevator accessible through a refurbished patio. The elevator will service the lower level,
Project: Sanctuary Lighting and Control This project will replace all of the chancel lighting with appropriate high efficiency LED lights mounted as discreetly as possible, and provide much better viewing and control, both by people in the sanctuary, as well as those 8
Ministry & Space Campus News first and second floors. We propose rehabilitating the lower level to add an accessible bathroom and shower, and to add improved heating, cooling and humidity control. We also propose to waterproof this space by excavating the exterior foundation, waterproofing the walls, and adding footing drains. We will add approx. 500 ft² to the DCC under the refurbished patio. Budget: Approx. $2,000,000
Project: Organ Curtain Replacement A decorative wood screen has been proposed to replace the original organ curtains. A generous gift has already been received to pay for this project. Budget: $70,000 - $75,000
Project: Columbarium We propose the addition of a columbarium (a room with niches for storage of urns, holding the cremated remains of the deceased). Several locations are being evaluated, and more information will be provided when the committee has finished their evaluation. The columbarium is somewhat self-funding, however we will need to build-out and finish the room before the niches can be sold. Budget: $330,000 to $350,000 Project: Fellowship Hall Improvements We are already replacing electrical infrastructure, ceilings and lighting, as well as adding capabilities for theatre productions. This project is intended to upgrade the overall appearance of the space to be in keeping with the Columbarium and with the Gathering Space. Budget: Cost currently being evaluated
Budget Total Priority A Projects: Approx. $6 Million plus Financing Priority B Projects: These are not currently planned to be a part of a Capital Campaign
Project: Organ Maintenance This project includes restoration of several portions of the organ and replacement of certain electronic components including the pedal board, console roll-top, bellows and other components. Also, potential addition of tones including chimes and bass notes could be included. Budget: $72,970 - $91,000
Project: Music Suite A Music Suite has been proposed for the lower level, encompassing Wesley Hall, the Choir Room, the hall and restrooms, and the storage room. We would also incorporate a music library to consolidate all of the music stored in various locations. The project would include an accessible “family” restroom. Asbestos abatement of the floor tiles and ceilings would be included. We are currently not recommending proceeding with this project due to the total cost of all of the projects. Budget: $566,800 – 652,000 Project: Replacement of Education Wing Windows The Education Building has 209 individual windows, all original to the building. Many of the windows have problems (cannot be 9
closed, the mechanisms don’t work, need to be re-sealed). It has been determined that the cost and ability to locate the right firm to repair the windows was nearly equal to replacing them. However, we will never receive a payback over the life of the replacement due to the high cost of installation. We are therefore recommending a limited repair to make the best of what we have now. Budget: $516,860 - $620,200 Project: Porte Cochére on the Welcoming Hall The original design of the drive to the Welcoming Hall drop-off was to include a Porte Cochére to keep some level of the elements off people as they enter and exit vehicles. This project was taken out of our past campaign due to the total cost of the project. We have studied this and reviewed several design options. All of them will alter the look of the church from the parking lot, and may provide a somewhat limited benefit, as all sides would remain open. Budget: $405,600 - $466,440
SAVE THE DATES! July 16 at 11:30 am Town Hall Meeting (Fellowship Hall) TOPIC: Building 1040 August 27 at 11:30 am Town Hall Meeting (Fellowship Hall) TOPIC: Building 1050 August 30 at 7 pm Town Hall Meeting (Gathering Center) TOPIC: Building 1010 September 10 at 12:30 pm Town Hall Meeting (Fellowship Hall) TOPIC: All Buildings September 24 at 12:30 pm Vote to accept these recommendations (Fellowship Hall)
Tent Week News
TENT WEEK SUN, AUG 6 - THUR, AUG 10
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Tent Week at Asbury First aims to give people a great experience of the church, as well as to welcome those living nearby who may be curious about our community. Our theme this year is Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Tent. We host a myriad of events under the tent on the front lawn of Asbury First that are free and open to all! Throughout the week, you can come and enjoy activities and experiences brought to you by Bristol Mountain Aerial Adventures (Monday & Tuesday), Hikeyoga (Monday), Bossy Boutique (Monday), Roc City Pro Jam, local Rochester food trucks, and much, much more!
Sun. Open Doors: Worship Under the Tent
We will be worshiping outside on Sunday morning under the tent, and celebrating in the sun!
Mon. Opening Night: A Neighborhood Party!
Relax at one of our turquoise picnic tables on the front lawn and get to know your local neighbors—but that's not all! Enjoy live music, Hikeyoga, pop-up boutiques, neighborhood historical tours, and more as we come together as a community.
Tue. Diversity Fest! Open Celebration of Inclusion & Culture In the spirit of inclusion, come celebrate the diversity of our city! Enjoy interfaith fellowship, cultural celebrations, and much more. This is a special day that highlights the unique perspectives and experiences of both ourselves and our neighbors.
Wed. Open Mic Night Powered by Lovin Cup
Show off your talents! From exhibiting your magic skills to singing a song, this night is a great time to get to know one another!
Thu. The Farm is Open!
This family-friendly farm-themed night is home to a chicken barbeque, square dancing, a pop-up farmer’s market, and more.
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Community Outreach & Needs Storehouse Summer Sale Donations Needed!
Summer has begun, and sorting and pricing is well under way for our sale to benefit The Storehouse. Our thousands of clients benefit from the donations you give to the sale. All proceeds from the sale support purchases of blankets, underwear and any item we're low on and need for our guests. Items specifically for the sale can be dropped off at the “Space Room� on the lower level of the Education Wing (across from Wesley Hall). Furniture, decorative items, vintage, linens, jewelry, and toys are all accepted. Please no books, electronics/computers, records, or sports equipment. If you need further information or assistance in getting your donations to the church, please contact Elizabeth Church at emchurch418@gmail.com or 461-9802.
Stand With Us! Rochester Pride Parade on July 15 As a Reconciling congregation, we strive to make Asbury First a welcoming place for all of God's children. Again this year, we'll march in the Pride Parade on July 15 along with Covenant UMC, Fairport UMC, and Sofia Community. Join us to show support to the LGBTQ community by marching in the parade or being a spectator. Please contact Deb Bullock-Smith (dbullocksmith@asburyfirst.org), Jamie Least (jleast@asburyfirst.org), Mike Mullin (mmullin@asburyfirst.org) or Angie Burch (acburch26@ gmail.com) for more information.
Medical Personnel Needed Giving aid to others is one of our core Christian values. If you have medical skills and would be willing to help if a medical emergency occurs on campus, please contact us. We have many people with emergency medical training in our congregation, including nurses, EMTs, firefighters, police officers, APPs and doctors. Several people are currently trained to use the AEDs on campus. If you would be willing to participate by having your name on a roster of medical people to contact during an emergency on campus, please send your name and profession to mguadagnino@asburyfirst.org. We are simply asking if you are on campus, during services or other events, and would not mind having an usher or other person who knows you are present contact you for an emergency on campus, please let us know.
Join us at the Red Wings Game on August 27! Let's cheer on the Red Wings and have fun with new and old friends! Come join your extended Asbury First Family as we enjoy America's pastime. We'll root for the home team (Red Wings) as they host the Buffalo Bisons on Sunday, August 27 at 1:35 pm. Group tickets are just $7 per seat and we've secured (70) upper tier seats behind first base. It's a neat way to support a local sports team, enjoy a summer afternoon and catch up with friends! To secure a seat, please send a $7 payment with your name to Melody Guadagnino in the church office. Tickets will be distributed after both Services on Sunday, August 27 in the Welcoming Hall, or they may be picked up from Craig Dennison in front of the Main Entrance to Frontier Field before the first pitch. All are welcome to join! Have questions? Please contact Craig Dennison at 507-9655. Thanks and let's have fun at the ballgame! 11
On Holy Ground by Penny Peterson
“Tell Me the Stories of Jesus I Love to Hear…” (Hymn #277 in our hymnal) As a child I loved the picture books with stories of Jesus. They showed children on his lap, leaning against his legs, sitting around him staring up at him totally enthralled. The pictures always showed Jesus as happy and enjoying himself. Somewhere along the path to and through adulthood, the picture memories faded and everything became very serious—the Sermon on the Mount, the parables, his journeys leading eventually to Jerusalem, and his death and resurrection. Religion didn’t seem much fun nor did Jesus. Then one day I walked into a local Retreat Center and there on the wall was a drawing of Jesus laughing!! It’s title is “The Laughing Jesus”. I was overwhelmed with the joy that radiated from that drawing. Suddenly Jesus was transformed into someone I could relate to. Laughter is so important to me in dealing with the difficult times in life as well seeing the humor in our humanness. Standing and looking at the drawing, I wanted to hear his laugh and to know what was so funny! I found myself thinking, “I would like that man for my friend!” Have you ever thought about Jesus’ laughing? Blessings, Penny Peterson “Laughter is carbonated holiness.” -Anne Lamott
Stewardship: Tithe, Give, Pledge by Len Davidow, Stewardship Committee Member What is stewardship? It can be defined as the faithful and responsible management of God’s blessings in a manner that honors God. Or, as our Dreamscape defines it, we believe we must care for the human, physical, and financial resources with which we have been entrusted. We honor God by doing God’s work. One way we help do God’s work is by sharing our treasures. This concept dates back to the ancient Israelites. Mosaic law required the giving of 10% of produce (currency was rare or non-existent) in recognition and gratitude for the blessings received from God. It was an obligation. Over the years, this has come to be known as the “tithe”, the giving of 10% of one’s income to the church. Although many today believe tithing is a requirement, nowhere in the New Testament is there a command for Christians to submit to an exact tithe. However, you will often hear monetary contributions to support the church referred to as tithes. There are references in the New Testament to giving, and giving freely (ex. Matt. 6: 21, 2 Cor. 8: 1-5, 2 Cor. 9: 6-7, and don’t forget the Widow’s Mite)! You will not see specific amounts or percentages mentioned. It could be said, as Christians we are called to give freely in recognition and gratitude for the blessings we have received from God. Here at Asbury First we ask that you pledge. Pledging is giving freely, so what is the difference? Giving is good, but pledging is better. Pledging allows Asbury First to have an estimation of how much we will receive in the coming year to plan well for God’s work ahead. As individuals and families, you already know it is best for planning household finances if you have some idea what your income will be. This enables you to plan for your future, manage your expenses, and make strategic decisions with your resources. Asbury First is no different! We thrive when we have some idea as to what ministries we can support, improve, and expand. Pledging enables Asbury First to better accomplish our dreams of doing God’s work by letting us know what we can say yes to! No, we are not obligated. Christians are asked to give freely. Do we pledge? How much? This is a decision we all must prayerfully consider. We consider first all we have has been freely given. And we give in response. Hymn #389, refrain: He said, “Freely, freely you have received, freely, freely give. Go in my name, and because you believe, others will know that I live.” 12
Library & Reading News July/August 2017
Summertime and the reading is easy—so let’s do it! What are Asbury First folks reading? Look below and check out the selections of various Asbury First groups over the past year. And if you’ve read all the books suggested in our library news since last summer, you will have read about 88 selections and seen some 11 DVDs. If you have missed reading any of these books or seeing these DVDs, come take a look at them in the library. The library remains open all summer for your use. CHECK IT OUT! Books Selections of Women on Wednesday (WOW) Twelve Steps to a Compassionate Life by Karen Armstrong An important and useful book that will help many readers take on humanity’s most important task: creating a better, more compassionate world. Twelve Steps is not merely a prescription for being more tolerant and loving, it is also a call to action, and a ‘lifelong project.’ This book contains many helpful suggestions for bringing more empathy for others and more compassion into our way of living. Seven Women and the Secret of their Greatness By Eric Metaxas What makes a great woman great? In Seven Women, New York Times bestselling author Eric Metaxas provides an answer by telling the captivating stories of seven women who changed the course of history and impacted the world in astonishing ways. The book focuses on the lives of Joan of Arc, Susanna Wesley, Hannah More, Saint Maria of Paris, Corrie ten Boom, Rosa Parks and Mother Teresa. Seven Women reveals how the extraordinary women profiled here achieved their greatness, inspiring readers to lives propelled by a call beyond themselves.
Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis by J. D. Vance From a former marine and Yale Law School graduate, a powerful account of growing up in a poor Rust Belt town that offers a broader, probing look at the struggles of America’s white working class. Book Selections of the Diversity Book Club Blindspot: Hidden Biases of Good People by Mahzarin R. Banaji and Anthony G. Greenwald Psychologists who “explore the hidden biases we all carry from a lifetime of exposure to cultural attitudes about age, gender, race, ethnicity, religion, social class, sexuality, disability status, and nationality.” The Drone Eats With Me: A Gaza Diary by Atif Abu Saif A memoir of life during wartime as the author, his wife, and two young children attempt to live their lives with a sense of normalcy, in spite of the everpresent danger and carnage that is swallowing the place they call home. The Drone Eats With Me is an essential guide to life in modern Gaza.
Jesus and the Disinherited by Howard Thurman Jesus and the Disinherited delivers a masterful interpretation of how God works in our lives. Thurman was one of the foremost preachers and theologians of the twentieth century, and much of his work centered on the relevance of the Christian message to the contemporary struggles of black people. In this, Thurman's masterwork, he argues that the Gospel of Jesus Christ is not just a map for getting to the next world, but a guidebook for the empowerment of the poor and disenfranchised in this world.
The Bible’s Yes to Same-Sex Marriage: An Evangelical Change of Heart by Mike Achtemeier Readers will discover how reading snippets of Scripture out of context has led to false and misleading interpretations of the Bible’s message for gay people. The author shows how a careful reading of the whole Scripture reveals God's good news about love, marriage, and sexuality for gay and straight people alike. Behind the Beautiful Forevers: Life, Death and Hope in a Mumbai Undercity by Katherine Boo Based on years of uncompromising reporting about the 21st century’s hidden worlds in an age of bewildering global change and inequality as told in the story of families striving toward a better life in Annawadi, a makeshift settlement in the shadow of luxury hotels near the Mumbai airport.
Selections Chosen by WOW for Next Year 2017-2018 Between the Dark and the Daylight by Joan Chittister Explores the concerns of modern life, of the overworked mind and hurting heart.
The Book of Unknown Americans by Cristina Henriquez A New York Times and Washington Post Notable Book, an NPR Great Read. A novel of tales of immigrants from throughout Latin America and of “hopes and dreams, guilt and love—a book that offers a new definition of what it means to be American.”
Thank You for Being Late: An Optimist's Guide to Thriving in the Age of Accelerations by Thomas Friedman A field guide to the twenty-first century, written by one of its most celebrated observers. 13
The Last Word
A Speech Given at RAIHN Car City 2017 | Joan Troutman On May 6 & 7, AFUMC hosted RAIHN Car City to raise awareness surrounding homelessness and to raise funds to help RAIHN and those experiencing homelessness. This speech was given during the event by Joan Troutman, a beneficiary of the RAIHN program.
Good evening ladies and gentlemen, my name is Joan Troutman, and I am a 52-yearold former two-time guest of the RAIHN HOUSE, but consider myself a permanent part of the RAIHN family. I would be honored if I could take a few minutes of your time and share a small but critical time in my life and what role RAIHN played in that time of crossroads. I am a divorced mother of four children ranging from age 32 to age 17. When I first walked in the doors of RAIHN, it was in November of 2008, and I had finally made the decision to leave a marriage that had been very emotional and physically abusive. It was plagued with bouts of drug addiction and I had no direction in which I was headed. I knew there was no place to go but still I had to leave. My world was in shambles, and I had begun to self medicate with pain pills to deal with the dysfunction in which I lived. It didn't take long for the pain I was experiencing to push through my self medication and show its ugly face. It was called addiction. I was drowning and I knew the only thing left to do was to walk away if I was to save the livelihood of my underage children—as well as myself. But to start over with three of my four children was at the very least terrifying. I had no clue where we would end up, but I knew home
wasn't home anymore. It was time to take that chance on a better life. I gathered up my kids and told them to each stuff a book bag with whatever they felt that was important to them and explained we would never be back to live in this house again. I was given the number to RAIHN from what was then known as alternatives for battered women, because their shelter was full. I spoke with the director at that time who we called Mrs. Nancy. I got a very stern and “about the business of saving families” impression from her.
"I must say that that call changed my life." She instructed me to come to Meigs St. the very next morning at 9 am and help would be there for me and my children. DSS put me and my children in the Cadillac Hotel for that night. I prayed I would get help the next morning—there was no way I could come back here with my kids again. The next morning she welcomed me and my children to be a part of the RAIHN family and assured me that I was doing the right thing and they would be there to help me every step of the way. And they were. While there, I had the chance to attend classes on how to be a better mom, how to manage my finances, and what's needed to maintain permanent housing. I talked to other women who were struggling with homelessness and learned that my feelings of failure and shame were all ok, and expected and that I had experienced a
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certain amount of trauma that has left me with PTSD. I fought against my reality for many weeks before finally accepting what my life had become, and accepting the fact that I was suffering from trauma leading to PTSD, but the people that were there to help me never gave up on me and always showed me patience during my transition to my new reality. I also learned that I was suffering from trauma from all the years of emotional and physical abuse, which can have a consuming effect on your everyday life, as well as your decision making abilities. In order to be a good mom, I had to get some help with the emotional and physical aspect of what was happening in my life and most importantly, learn how to live without the crutch of opiates. I must say that that call changed my life. I remember walking through the doors of the house on Meigs St. feeling very broken and damaged. I remember hiding my face when I got in the van to go to the first church I had ever had to live in, which just so happens to be this very same church. I was truly ashamed. I remember laying awake that first night in this very same church and crying and feeling hopeless and a complete failure as a mom and a wife. “How would I make it now? I'm in a homeless shelter with three kids. Look what my family had been reduced to!” What had my become? I was too good and too proud to ever be homeless, but there I was. I got out of bed and went and sat with a volunteer who was working that nite and told her what I was feeling. She said something to me that I have carried with me
The Last Word from that day to this one. She said, “Honey, life is full of ups and downs and bad choices. The choice to be a better person and spare your children from the abuse you were enduring will never be a bad one,” and she made me a promise that as long as I continue to strive to be better, I will never be a failure in my children's eyes. I promise you that things always get better as long as I love myself first! I must say that the support and the understanding that was given to me and shown to my children was phenomenal and set me on a path that has continued to allow me to grow and be good to myself and my children. I didn't feel pressured to move on. I didn’t have the worry of a weekly visit to Department of Social Services, including the weekly chance of them taking away my housing while trying to gain stability for my family. RAIHN allows families to catch their breath and helps you to figure out what is needed to move forth and remain in permanent housing. The network of support that I was given has and continues to be an important aspect of my family’s here and now. I have been homeless one other time after that due to having a house fire and, of course, RAIHN allowed me and my daughter once again to stabilize and look for permanent housing. That was five years ago and I'm happy to report that I have been in my same home for five years. I have a new car, and for five years I have been totally clean from all substances. I have actively continued my treatment for my addiction as well as my PTSD, and most importantly I have the love of good children and family. I'm a very happy and well-rounded person today. To Miss Kim: Wow! What can I say other than that I consider you a friend and just appreciate all your time and patience that you have shown to me for all these years. The aftercare that I received
has proven to be just as important as the care I received as a resident. To Miss Wanda: You remain in my children's thoughts, especially during the Thanksgiving holiday. They talk about your laughter and how you always made them feel normal and important. And I have to say that all the volunteers that showed up just because they care always made us feel loved and like we were special individuals—so much so that my daughter and myself volunteer our time to this same church that I stand before you making breakfast for the homeless and have been for the last two years. I think we chose this church because the volunteers were so kind (and they made the best brownies!).
RAIHN Mission The Rochester Area Interfaith Hospitality Network is a not-for-profit, interfaith, culturally-competent organization of faith communities that assists homeless families to achieve sustainable independence by supporting them with tailored services including shelter, food, personalized case management, and a diverse network of caring volunteers.
What RAIHN Does • RAIHN provides 14 beds for Rochester-area homeless families in a cost-efficient way due to volunteer-provided meals and housing provided by our faith communities. • RAIHN is one of the few programs in the Rochester area that keeps the family together during their entire period of temporary displacement. • RAIHN is one of 182 interfaith hospitality networks in cities throughout the U.S. that provide shelter, food and case management for homeless families. • RAIHN recently celebrated its 10th anniversary and service to 299 homeless families with the support of 1,900 volunteers.
My children are now young adults and all of which are striving to be productive members of this community. I stand here as a proud mom of two daughters set to walk the MCC stage this June. My 25-year-old has began her career as a member of the Rochester Police Department. My 21-year-old earned a degree in Certified Public Accounting, and my baby girl is going to her first prom this June and will graduate high school in 2018. We are grateful for our journey. It
has really made me humble and be thankful for the really simple things in life and gave me the understanding of the importance of giving back, lending a hand, and if there is any icing on my cake, it is that I have a new church home and family and right before coming here today, I was baptised. RAIHN offers a different approach to homelessness. It truly gives families the opportunity to stay connected as a family. Homelessness is a job and RAIHN allows you to reeducate yourself and learn how to maintain permanent, healthy living situations. I feel rich today and the peace that I enjoy in my heart is thanks to RAIHN and to all the people who care for people like me.
"RAIHN offers a different approach to homelessness. It truly gives families the opportunity to stay connected as a family." Thank you! 15
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Down on the Farm Vacation Bible School 2017 Come spend a few mornings down on the farm at Asbury First, where we will explore the fruits of the Spirit, meet some barnyard friends, and make new friends with each other. During Vacation Bible School, kids will explore life on the farm through games, music, arts and crafts, and science!
Join us August 7-10 at AFUMC from 9 am-12:30 pm We will end our week together with a hoe-down on Thursday night under the big top tent! We hope to see you there! Find out more by calling 585-271-1050 x111 or visiting asburyfirst.org