March 2014 Visitor by Asbury First United Methodist Church

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Asbury First United Methodist Church Newsletter March 2014 • Vol. XLVIII No. 3 • www.asburyfirst.org

In This Issue Women’s Retreat, 6 AFUMC Soloists, 7 Human Sexuality, 8 Chacocente, 9 Youth News, 10 Book Club, 12 Talent Show, 13

Mission Statement

The Visitor

Through worship, education, outreach, and care, we develop disciples of Jesus Christ who live and proclaim the Gospel and thereby work to transform our culture.

Vol. XLVIII No. 3 (USPS 558-470) is published 10 times a year, monthly with combined issues for January/February and July/August, by Asbury First United Methodist Church.

we are connected A Pastoral Reflection

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Staff

Rev. Susan S. Shafer Rev. Stephen Cady

Rev. Lawrence Hargrave

Kathy Thiel David T. Strong Dr. William J. Weinert Paula Dugan Melissa Bohrer Mike Mullin Richard Moncrief Melody Guadagnino Scott Ross Michele Cooley Mary Van Keuren Duane A. Prill Bozena Granat Elizabeth Church Brian Bohrer Larry Dugan Rev. Linda Clemow

Senior Minister Minister for Faith Formation – Hospitality & Membership Care Minister for Outreach and Community Connection Ministries Visitation Minister Music Administrator; Assistant Organist Director of Music Co-director of Children’s Ministry Co-director of Children’s Ministry Director of Youth Ministries Financial Administrator Administrative Assistant Property Care Manager Dining & Caring Center Director Communications Director & Editor Organist Director, Children’s Music Director, Bell Choir; CoDirector, Youth Music Director, Asbury Singers Director, Youth Theater; CoDirector, Youth Music Artist in Residence

Unless otherwise noted, photos are by Greg Francis. Cover: Son-rise on Easter morning. Please send all submissions, questions, comments, or concerns to Mary Van Keuren at mvankeuren@asburyfirst.org or (585) 271-1050 x109. Deadline for next issue: Friday, March 28

Beloved, let us love one another, because love is from God; everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. – 1 John 4:7 Many of us wonder, even as we might believe that we should love God and our neighbor. We wonder how far we must go, how far we can go, how far we will go to demonstrate that we love our neighbor. If you believe that we are all connected, our connections are as close as the person near us or as far away as our neighbor on the other side of the planet. Albert Einstein said “Strange is our situation here upon earth. Each of us comes for a short visit, not knowing why, yet sometimes seeming to a divine purpose. From the standpoint of daily life, however, there is one thing we do know: That we are here for the sake of others ... for the countless unknown souls with whose fate we are connected by a bond of sympathy. Many times a day, I realize how much my outer and inner life is built upon the labors of people, both living and dead, and how earnestly I must exert myself in order to give in return as much as I have received.” We are connected to each other in ways that are not always apparent. I, like Albert Einstein, believe that I stand on the shoulders of many persons who have gone before me. I recognize ways in which their efforts have helped to make it possible for me to do what I do. Do we consider that love has transcended generations? I consider the Rev. Dr. Howard Thurman, who although born poor in Daytona, Florida, grew to have friends in India, including Mahatma Gandhi. He went on to co-found and serve an intentionally multi-racial church in San Francisco and through his service as dean of Marsh Chapel at Boston University, touched the lives of many. As a mentor to the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., Thurman gave spiritual weight and witness to nonviolence. Howard Thurman, in The Luminous Darkness wrote “... a strange necessity has been laid upon me to devote my life to the central concern that transcends the walls that divide and would achieve in literal fact what is experienced as literal truth: human life is one and all humans are members of one another. And this insight is spiritual and it is the hard core of religious experience.” Howard Thurman’s work continues to connect us long after his death in 1981. Albert Einstein’s work affects us long after his death in 1955. I continue to constantly consider the many ways in which we are all connected to one another. The more that we really know one another, the more that we see similarities rather than difference, the more that we can realize that we are connected. Beloved, let us love one another because love is from God and it is through God…that we are all connected.

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AFUMC news Save the Date!

If you have questions, please email asburystorehouse@gmail. com or contact Betsy Christiansen at 585-329-2285.

In 2014, Together in Service (formerly Great Week of Service) will be October 11 to October 18. As in the past, we will be serving together with the members of Baber AME Church. We are looking forward to having members bring their time and talents in service to others. Our hope is to have opportunities for all ages, from three to 103, to be in service. Our plan is to provide a wide variety of opportunities, so there is something which appeals to each of us.

Thanks from Member Jim Stinehour One thing about a stay at Strong Memorial Hospital is that they take care of your wardrobe for you. Besides an airy gown, each patient is issued coded “footies” to wear while in residence. Red socks indicate that you cannot walk the halls without some sort of human assistance; someone at your side to Ensure you do not fall. Grey socks mean you can roam the halls at will, fully unattended. Blue socks are in between, no need for human assistance, but some sort of support such as a walker is required. It has been two months now since my diagnosis. I have experienced countless tests and one operation. During this time of recovery and healing I have received calls, visits, countless emails, gifts, and numerous cards expressing your best wishes for wellness and your prayers. And I have been moved. They have been my support; they have been my “red footies.” They support me as I walk my path. Now I begin my next phase of my treatment. I do not know what that may bring. Am I uneasy? Yes. Do I know what this journey holds? I do not. But what I do know is that I walk this path with the love of God and many caring disciples; my “red footies”, I do not walk it alone. And for that I want to thank you all very much. – Jim

Genesee Valley UMW Communion Breakfast Genesee Valley District United Methodist Women will hold their annual communion breakfast at Asbury First on Saturday, April 12. Registration begins at 8:10 a.m., followed by a service at 8:30 a.m. Breakfast will be served in the Gathering Center. Cost is $7.00 (checks payable to Asbury First UMC with communion breakfast in the memo line). An offering will be taken for mission giving with checks payable to Genesee Valley District. For more information or to register contact Beth Woolever, (585) 355-4381, ewoolever03@gmail.com, 240 Cobb Terrace, Rochester 14620. Registration deadline is April 4.

Thank You Dinner for RAIHN Volunteers 2014 marks the tenth year that Asbury First has served as a host church in the RAIHN (Rochester Area Interfaith Hospitality Network) program. As a host church, Asbury First is home for homeless families for one week four times a year. In that time, hundreds of volunteers have participated in this important effort.

Storehouse Tax Receipts The Asbury Storehouse is changing the way they provide tax receipts for donations, simplifying the process and following a model that is used by other charitable organizations. When donors bring items to the Storehouse, a signed and dated receipt will be provided by the Storehouse volunteer staffing the reception desk. The donor can then use the receipt to list the items donated and place a value for tax purposes. If you wish a receipt for tax purposes, the Storehouse encourages you to drop off items during the hours they are open for donations:

In recognition of this ten years of service and the many volunteers who have helped create a home and meals for those in need, an Asbury First RAIHN volunteer appreciation dinner is being held on April 8. This special dinner provides a thank you for the gifts of time and talent given to the RAIHN program by volunteers. All past and present RAIHN volunteers are welcome and encouraged to attend. For those who do not receive an e-mail invitation, call or e-mail Chris and Doug Lee at (585) 451-7692 or c_s_lee29@msn.com or contact Melody Guadagnino at the church office, (585) 271-1050, x103 or mguadagnino@asburyfirst.org for additional information or to make reservations.

Monday 9:30 a.m.-2:30 p.m. Tuesday 9:30-11:30 a.m. and 1-2:30 p.m. Wednesday 9:30-11:30 a.m. and 1-2:30 p.m. Thursday 9:30-11:30 a.m. and 1-2:30 p.m. Friday CLOSED Saturday 9:30-11:30 a.m. (closed 5th Saturday) 3

worship schedule WORSHIP Sunday Service Times 8:30 a.m. Traditional Worship with Asbury Singers 10:00 a.m. Informal Worship with Holy Communion 11:00 a.m. Traditional Worship with Sanctuary Choir Sunday March 23 Third Sunday in Lent Exodus 17:1-7 Rev. Stephen M. Cady, preacher Sunday March 30 Fourth Sunday in Lent Rev. Stephen M. Cady, preacher

Our Living

Sunday April 6 Fifth Sunday in Lent

Births & Baptisms God has sealed you unto love and grace divine.

Sunday April 13 Palm Sunday Matthew 2:1-11 Rev. Stephen M. Cady, preacher

William Thomas Snyder son of Jason and Stephanie Snyder, born February 14, 2014.

HOLY WEEK see full schedule of Holy Week services below

Lucas Michael Mattioli son of Pat and Colleen Mattioli, baptized on March 9, 2014.

Sunday April 20

Deaths

Easter Sunday John 20:1-18 Rev. Susan S. Shafer, preacher

Merciful God, we entrust to your never-failing care and love. We offer our prayers and sympathy to Ken and Laurel Harrington on the death of Laurel’s brother Richard George Downing on February 7, 2014 in the state of Washington.

Sunday april 27 Second Sunday of Easter John 20:19-31 Rev. Stephen M. Cady, preacher

in Community We offer our prayers and sympathy to Lorraine Baker on the death of her son Thomas K. Baker on February 14, 2014. We offer our prayers and sympathy to the family and friends of Larry Hoffman who died on February 20, 2014 in West Lafayette, Indiana. We offer our prayers and sympathy to Mary Lynn Vickers on the death of her mother Peggy Jordan who died on February 23, 2014 in Tempe, Arizona.

He Is Risen! Join us at Asbury First During Easter Week

Maundy Thursday April 17 / 7:30 p.m.

Good Friday, con’t. Family Prayer Night 6:00-7:30 p.m. A come-when-you-wish child-friendly event.

Tenebrae Service Candlelight re-enactment of Christ’s last night & Communion service.

Easter Sunday April 20

Good Friday April 18 / noon and 7:30 p.m.

Traditional Service 8:30 and 11:00 a.m. With festive music.

Envisioning the Passion Holy Week-themed art and music by Voices Chamber Choir.

Informal Communion service 10:00 a.m.

on holy ground Let It Snow, Let It Snow, Let It Snow By Rev. Dr. Timothy James Johnson not fear…”( Judges 6:23-24). In the ensuing silence after snow, may each of us hear Yahweh-Shalom saying to us “Peace be unto you.” Might we allow God to displace the stressors, the disruptions and the violence of the world in which we live?

“Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow” was the number one hit song on the 1946 musical billboard. Some will think this title ill-chosen, given the superabundance of snow that has inundated a large part of the United States, including Rochester. In my mind’s ear I can hear many Rochesterians saying “we are not amused!” We offer here a juxtaposition of the idea of “On Holy Ground” and a “theology of snow” as a segue into the Lenten season. Just think about the copious amounts of snow that has fallen in recent weeks, leading to huge drifts and plowed-up mounds. What is beyond comprehension is that it is said that no two snowflakes are alike. Our creating God has placed us in this wonderfully complex universe. “Elohim” is the Hebrew name of God used in Genesis 1:1, meaning “God creator.” We are reminded that this carpet of winter snow has been placed here by none other than “Elohim.” Another aspect of snow is that it absorbs sound, acting as a buffer to the quotidian noises of modern life. Have you ever gone outside after a heavy snowfall, allowing

A final observation regarding a “theology of snow:” Living out in a somewhat rural area, I am always amazed by the way the surrounding countryside loses its definition as rivulets, ditches and the gently sloping ground becomes a smoothed-over plain of whiteness. The sanctifying covering of snow blots out the blemishes of the countryside, truly becoming a metaphor of the words spoken by the Prophet Isaiah: Jay Nelson

yourself to be surrounded by the peaceful “holy hush” that remains?” This soundmuted, sacred interval after the snowfall ends brings to mind that God is YahwehShalom, meaning the “Lord Our Peace. “ This is the name of God, spoken by Gideon after God said to him “peace be unto you, do

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Every valley shall be lifted up, and every mountain and hill be made low; the uneven ground shall become level, and the rough places a plain. (Isaiah 40:5) Even the Trinitarian structure of the song title “Let it Snow, Let it Snow, Let it Snow” reminds us of the sacred and the holy as we allow snowfall and snow covering to speak God’s truth to our hearts and minds.

Labyrinth Wednesdays in Lent 5:00-7:00 p.m

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Throughout Lent, we will gather for Taizé services. These services are designed to offer a contemplative atmosphere and time for reflection, prayer, and the celebration of communion. We come together in silence, and during the 45 minutes of service, we sing and sit in silence, taking communion when we are so moved. There are many ways to connect with God, and many experience God in music. This song is one from a book of Taizé music, and the words, said or sung repeatedly, can offer a blessed experience of peace. Taizé songs are available on iTunes, on CDs, and on YouTube. There are many varieties and we hope that you find one that works for you. – Kathy Thiel 5

Taizé Service Wednesdays in Lent 6:00-6:45 p.m

Luminosity

by Rev. Linda Clemow

n April we celebrate Easter! Gone are the solemn days of Lenten reflections, gone are the dark days of winter (we hope) and gone are the somber muted tones of all that surrounds us. NOW is the time to celebrate: to see light, to feel light, to be light! In the colors of spring, in its sounds and smells, we are reminded of God’s presence in our lives, in our hearts and our creation. Life has overcome death. We celebrate! Luminosity is the word that describes these feelings of joy, hope and faith to me. I see brightness; a glowing of all that surrounds me. There is a glowing thread that unites us all and binds us together; the light of God shining in us and around us

for all to see. Luminosity. Luminous. Words that speak to me of a feeling beyond words. A condition of holiness and reverence.

show the love and light of Mary as the feminine face of God. The second series is called “Luminous Peace.” In this series I wanted to capture the luminous feeling of peace – not peacekeeping or peacemaking – just peace.

I have been on a particular kind of spiritual journey over the past few years to create the Luminous in art. I have created two distinctly different bodies of work that capture the luminous for me. One series is called “Luminous Mary.” This is a series of mixed media collages that represent the luminous faces of many women. I have called them all ‘Mary’ as they

In both these series I used luminous paint – aptly called luminere – to represent the Holy. Wherever one sees the bright glow of warm luscious colors, there I have placed the luminosity of God. Colgate Rochester Crozer Divinity School has offered to present

these two series in an art show to be held at the school during their spring lectureship series. This will be held the week after Easter, April 21-25. My art will be hanging in the Kreshauer Lounge just outside the chapel. I will be there on Thursday to speak about my work in chapel and then to be present at the show to answer questions. I am so honored that my seminary, my alma mater, invited me to do this. I enjoy showing my work and I appreciate the opportunity to show it to this community. If you wish to participate in the lectureship, it is open to the public. You may find more information about it on the school’s website at www.crcds.edu. Hope to see you there!

n Women’s Retreat n Saturday-Sunday, April 5-6

Camp Asbury, Silver Lake, NY Led by spiritual director Bonnie Matthaidess, and based on the book Praying In Color: Drawing a New Path to God, by Sybil MacBeth. Cost: (including one night’s stay at Camp Asbury, lunch and dinner on Saturday and breakfast on Sunday) is $90. Scholarships are available. Learn a new way to pray with the help of a book that critics call “The most invigorating and enabling book about prayer ... in years!” MacBeth’s witty and wise words will help you to talk to God in a bold, unexpected, and whimsical way. Bonnie Matthaidess, a member of Asbury First, is a seasoned spiritual director and lay minister who currently serves as a Prayer Guide at Mercy Prayer Center in Rochester. Being with people, listening to their personal stories, and hearing how this connects with God’s story brings her great joy. We hope you will join us for a meaningful gathering as we learn from Bonnie and each other, share fellowship and worship, and enjoy Camp Asbury. Questions? contact Rev. Susan Shafer, 271-1050 x110 or sshafer@asburyfirst.org or Kathy Thiel at 271-1050 x112, or kthiel@asburyfirst.org). Please register by contacting Melody Guagagnino at 271-1050 x103 or mguadagnino@asburyfirst.org by Monday, March 31. 6

• lifting our hearts in song •

Introducing our Asbury First Soloists

ne of the most uplifting elements of Asbury First worship services is the music. From congregational hymn sings to the soaring voices of our choral groups, we use music to praise God and ask for God’s blessings. In this issue of The Visitor, we introduce you to four individuals who play a large role in making our musicial offerings beautiful: our section leaders, who perform a solo anthem during the 8:30 and 11:00 a.m. services each Sunday. You know their faces; now learn a bit more about the extraordinarily talented singers who provide such a rich musical experience to our Sunday services. Soprano Elizabeth Phillips’ versatile repertoire ranges from early music to contemporary opera to avant garde. In addition to being an accomplished recitalist, she has also been a featured soloist for orchestras throughout the United States. Her eclectic style has led to collaborations with Julianne Baird, Malcolm Bilson, Steve Reich and Bobby McFerrin and is also evident in her work with the acclaimed avant cappella trio, F’loom, which performs and teaches throughout the U.S., Canada and in Europe. Bess holds an adjunct faculty position at the Rochester Institute of Technology. She manages a thriving private studio and her master class, Instinctive Singing, offers coaching in vocal performance and dramatic interpretation to students from high school through the collegiate level. An experienced adjudicator, she facilitated the Proctors

Theatre A Cappella Festival in Schenectady, NY, where she also co-curated The Dangerous Music Series. She is a graduate of the Eastman School of Music, where she was awarded their prestigious Performer’s Certificate in Voice. She lives with her husband, her daughters, a three-legged cat and an enormous dog. Megan McFadden, a mezzo-soprano, is a native of Gettysburg, Pennsylvania. She earned her bachelor’s of music degrees in music education and music therapy from Mansfield University of Pennsylvania in 2010. A student of Katherine Ciesinski, she is currently pursuing a master’s in vocal performance at The Eastman School of Music. Megan has sung with the Mendelssohn Club Chorus of Philadelphia under the batons of Alan Harler, Charles Dutoit and Rossen Milanov in venues such as Verizon Hall at the Kimmel Center, The John F. Kennedy Center for Performing Arts, Saratoga Performing Arts Center and Carnegie Hall. Past stage roles include that of Aldonza in Man of La Mancha and Ms. Pennywise in Urinetown at Mansfield University. After receiving her bachelor’s degree, Ms. McFadden was employed by the school district of Philadelphia, where she taught kindergarten through eighth grade general and vocal music. She was also employed as a music therapist at the Kardon Institute for Arts Therapy (Philadelphia, PA) and enjoyed working primarily with children with autism and adults with developmental disabilities. Recently, she has performed the role of Olga Olsen in Eastman Opera 7

Theatre’s production of Street Scene and as a soloist with the Eastman Rochester Chorus, Eastman Repertory Singers, Hobart and William Smith Colleges Community Chorus and Ad Hoc Chamber Ensemble. She will appear in Eastman Opera Theatre’s production of Handel’s Xerxes as Amastre. Tenor Daniel McInerney is a familiar face to many at Asbury First, having been a frequent substitute tenor section leader for more than a dozen years before finally committing to the position “full-time” last fall. He received his bachelor of science degree in music education and clarinet performance from Hartwick College in Oneonta, N.Y. Upon moving to Rochester in 1994, he began an active career as a choral singer with the ensembles Madrigalia and Voices, as well as the larger Rochester Oratorio Society. In 2012, he was tenor soloist for the Finger Lakes Choral Festival performances of Berlioz’ Requiem in Rochester and in San Francisco (Davies Hall). He has also appeared as featured soloist in the “Cantata” series at Resurrection Lutheran Church and with the Irondequoit Chorale, Rochester Oratorio Society, Hobart and William Smith Colleges Community Chorus and others. Since 1996, he has served as business and concert administrator for Madrigalia, working in the fields of fundraising, marketing, development, and patron management. He also works part-time for UPS. Dan serves on the boards of directors for the Finger Lakes Choral Festival, the Greater Rochescontinued on page 12

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Human Sexuality

Wednesdays, April 30, May 7, 14, 21 6:30-7:30 p.m. | Gathering Center It’s difficult to find a more confusing or contentious issue in The United Methodist Church than human sexuality. The denomination’s conflicting stance on the ordination and marriage of gay and lesbian people is a source of frustration for many. If you have been reading newspaper editorials or hearing references in sermons and wondered what lies beneath some of these challenges, then this class is for you! Join us for a four week class and discussion on human sexuality in The United Methodist Church and how Asbury First might creatively respond to the denomination’s struggles. There are no pre-requisites; we just ask that you come with an open heart and mind. Questions? Contact Rev. Stephen Cady at scady@asburyfirst.org. 8

• A New life in Nicaragua • An Update on Project Chacocente

Editor’s note: Project Chacocente is a nonprofit effort to assist families living in the city dump in Managua, Nicaragua. These families are relocated to a nearby area, where they build homes, farm the land, learn marketable skills, and gain an education. Asbury First has long supported the Project with material and financial assistance. Most recently, Asbury First’s senior minister, Rev. Susan Shafer, asked the Outreach Committee to pledge $10,000 to the Project’s plan to build a house of worship near the relocated families. The Committee enthusiastically agreed, and our support, joined with that of other churches and individuals, will allow these families and others in the area to worship in a sacred space of their own. In February, the Church family (Elizabeth, Rick, and son Johnny) traveled to Nicaragua for a week of mission work at the Project. Here is Elizabeth’s report on that trip. This past February Rick, Johnny and I were blessed with the opportunity to travel again to Project Chacocente. We were excited to see the people and curious about what changes we might encounter. The families greeted us with warm handshakes, hugs and kisses, eager to re-unite for a great week of service! Under their direction and guidance we worked side by side: making rebar, digging and laying foundations, mixing cement, and laying concrete blocks for a new office for the Chacocente Christian School Director.

Some of us also practiced English with the classes and helped prepare for the wedding of Yazmina and Rudolfo, who, since moving from the Managua Dump, have worked hard to build a better life. A joy for me were those moments I stepped back to get a view of the big picture. From an arid, rough land, a vibrant school and neighborhood have emerged. As I looked over the “village green” alive with the laughter of students, music, giggles of new babies, and the aroma of lunch being cooked, I saw this was a place that hums with life! Plantain and banana groves, grenadine vines, hens and pigs are testaments to the effort these families have made to flourish. It’s hard to imagine the obstacles they’ve overcome. Initially there was no potable water, and electricity was needed to provide light and refrigeration. The families had to develop skills to sustain themselves. The women learned to make crafts to sell, men and women learned construction and how to use the land for crops to eat and sell. Even with the successes, these families still live very basic lives on the edge of poverty. These families show us how to be grateful for our many blessings, to love each other, and to reach out to those in need. They have proven that “through God, all things are possible.” While no new families will be moved to the area at this time, there’s still much to

do! The Chacocente Christian School is an amazing example of how “outreach” can be achieved in this poor, rural area. Over 150 students attend this school. Most of the children are from families outside of the Project and attend free of charge. All teachers are certified, and Christian education, cultural dance, music, physical education and computer science round out the classes. While at school the children receive a nutritious lunch. The students help maintain the school and grounds, and can be seen each day picking up the grounds and preparing the classrooms. Plantings line the sidewalks, and beyond the buildings are plantain groves and other crops the older children are learning to cultivate. As a registered NGO, the school is not allowed (by Nicaraguan law) to charge tuition. The school supports its students, teachers and entire staff entirely through donations! As the families transition to the next phase, there are several areas they’ve identified as being important. The families want to continue to work with teams from North America to maintain and upgrade the school as necessary, but take their work one step further, recognizing that their neighbors’ living conditions are very desperate. The families have requested a “Sacred Space” where they can worship. They feel they have been blessed with an abundance of grace and wish to thank continued on page 15

photos courtesy of Elizabeth Church

Hello, Windy City!

youth ministry news

The youth are planning their 38th annual mission trip, this time to Chicago, Illinois, and they could use your help. Approximately 50 youth and adults from Asbury First will work with the DOOR project: Discovering Opportunities for Outreach and Reflection, a national ministry with programs in several cities. The group expects to help with projects including meal preparation, youth programs, senior engagement, environmental care, or HIV/AIDS awareness. This is hard, rewarding work and the group needs you – not to swing a hammer or to feed the hungry, but to do some spiritual heavy lifting through prayer.

Winter Gala Recap Please consider becoming a Prayer Partner. You’ll be matched with a missioner – either youth or adult. Prior to our departure you’ll be asked to write a letter to that person, which will be handed out during the mission trip. You will also be asked to keep them in your thoughts and lift them in daily prayer throughout the week. This year our missioners will be leaving July 5 for this memorable and enriching experience. Look for the DOOR sign in the Gathering Center foyer and sign up there, or contact Diana Carter at blueloon@rochester. rr.com or (585) 473-1187. Please help us support our amazing youth.

Future Olympians in Training

n February 23, not only were many of us glued to our TVs to watch the closing ceremonies of the Olympic Games, but 50 of our youth and youth volunteers got to participate in an Olympic event of their own. That’s right, our youth went curling! The Olympic event that arguably epitomizes and steals the show every four years has now been experienced by many of our Asbury First youth. We travelled to Rochester Curling Club and got a brief history and curling lesson before being placed into teams for some hands-on instruction on the ice. Before too long, we were expert Olympians in training: deciding which team got the “hammer;” how we would approach the “hack;” “throwing” the curling “stone” as the

“skip” instructed; “sweeping” voraciously as the “skip” commanded; all so that our “stones” could end up in the best positions in the “house.” If you got lost in any of that lingo, be sure to check in with some of our youth, who may now be considered experts in the field! Suffice it to say that a great time was had by all. photos courtesy of Dave Rice.

Thank you to all who attended and helped to make our Winter Valentine’s Gala a great success! We had about 50 people in attendance, and enjoyed music spanning from waltzes, to the YMCA, to some even more modern tunes as the evening wore on. photo courtesy of Sarah Kennedy.

youth ministry news Youth Ministry Team Maps Out Future for AFUMC Programming Feel: We want the youth of AFUMC to feel:

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Faith is a journey;

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Questioning is encouraged;

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Methodist and Christian principles can help meet the challenges of life.

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empowered;

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called to be a positive difference in the world; and

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as at home in the church as everyone else.

We want the youth of AFUMC to love God and others as them selves and practice discipleship through worship, sabbath, service, and generosity.

This statement reminds us as leaders of what we want our youth to actively get out of our meetings, and be encouraged to continue to act upon based on our meetings and events. We hope that the youth will recognize God’s love as something that they are able to share with others through service and sharing their talents with their peers and the world. We also hope that they recognize that being a “disciple” literally means being a “student” or “learner,” and as such that they will continue on their discipleship path through the spiritual aids of worship, sabbath, service, and generosity.

We want the youth of AFUMC to know that: God is always present;

accepted;

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Know

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Do:

To accomplish these goals we began by brainstorming what it is we wanted our youth to “know,”“feel,” and “do” as a result of being a part of youth ministry at Asbury First. Here are the results of those discussions:

All are children of God;

loved;

This statement reminds us as leaders of what we want our youth to emotionally take from our meetings and events. We hope that the youth will not just passively feel God’s love in their life, but that they will feel called to action by this love. We recognize that God calls each and every one of us in different ways, and we hope that we are able to provide opportunities and experiences to our youth that help them recognize and realize God’s loving call in their own lives. This statement also reminds us that we want the church to be a place that exudes God’s love in such a way that everyone feels at home.

n early February about 15 of our youth and adult volunteers with the youth program gathered together for a weekend curriculum retreat. This retreat was run by Ministry Architects, a group that has been working with the Asbury First youth program to help transition and continually strengthen the structure, curriculum, and programmatic offerings for the youth. During the weekend our youth and adult volunteers met for four threehour sessions to iron out our goals for our youth curriculum both specifically for the coming year, as well as for the general scope of a seven-year outlook for ministry.

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By having these “know,”“feel,” and “do” outlines we are able to provide a basis for our youth ministry. Our final step during our weekend curriculum retreat was to apply these concepts to a multi-year programmatic curriculum. This outline will now serve to help in our specific planning as we move forward, to continue to keep us on track and to reinforce these points, and uplift and empower each of our youth to feel their calls to ministry and discipleship in their lives. – Mike Mullin

This statement reminds us as leaders of what we want our youth to cognitively take from our meetings and events. We hope that the youth will not only know that God is present and active in their lives, but that their relationship with faith is ongoing and that questioning and doubt are healthy and necessary responses at different times in our lives.

Library Committee Sponsors Church Book Club

any exciting things have happened as a result of the “Unite Rochester” discussions about race, which began right here at Asbury First. The Library Committee wants to continue those thoughtful discussions by initiating a quarterly book club discussion using books about diversity. Here’s how it will work: we’ll announce a title and make six copies available in the library for loan. We’ll always try to pick a book that’s widely available in public libraries and book stores so if more than six people want to participate, they’ll be able to find a copy. After a couple of months have gone by, we’ll announce a date for the discussion, which will always take place after the 11 a.m. Sunday service, in the library. We’ll provide some light refreshments and invite participants to bring others, if they choose. For more information, contact Diana Carter (blueloon@rochester.rr.com, 473-1187) or any member of the library committee. Our first selection will be Rez Life, by David Treuer. This non-fiction book is an overview of contemporary issues facing Native Americans, and the historical factors influencing them, intermingled with personal anecdotes drawn from Treuer’s own experiences. Treuer is Ojibwe, from Minnesota’s Leech Lake Reservation, and is married to a woman from the Tonawanda band of Senecas who grew up in Rochester. He works as a professor of English at a California college. Our first meeting will be in April, on a date we’ll announce later. Happy reading!

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ter Choral Consortium and the Rochester Oratorio Society. He enjoys cooking and gardening and lives with his wife and four children in Irondequoit. A graduate of the Eastman School of Music, baritone Samuel Krall holds degrees in both vocal performance, studying under Rita Shane, and classical guitar performance, studying under Nicholas Goluses. Previous stage roles include Monsieur Presto in Francis Poulenc’s Les mamelles de Tirésias, Neville Craven in Lucy Simon’s The Secret Garden, Lescaut in Massenet’s Manon, and recently as The King in Rachel Portman’s The Little Prince with the Buffalo-based company

Opera Sacra. Sam has performed in concert as baritone soloist with the orchestras of Hobart and William Smith Colleges and Oswego Community College, with ensembles including Voices, The St. Michael’s Singers, The Eastman Chorale, The Gregory Kunde Chorale, Buffalo Master Chorale, and Vox Lumine; at venues including St. John the Divine in New York City, on series including Eastman’s Bach Cantata Series; and in December 2013, was soloist for the RPO’s performances of Bach’s Magnificat. As guitarist, Sam has appeared on the Eastman at St. Michael’s series, the George Eastman House series, select performances in Kilbourn Hall, and on stage with Rochester Lyric Opera. Sam has narrated performances with the Rochester Philharmonic Orchestra and appeared as the Soldier in Stravinsky’s L’Histoire Du Soldat with Rochester’s Ad Hoc ensemble. He has collaborated as either guitarist, narrator, or baritone with conductors including Cary Ratcliff, Stephen 12

Sulich, Brandon Johnson, James Feddeck, Doreen Rao, and Michael Butterman. In May 2014, Sam will make his Carnegie Hall debut singing the role of Sir Thomas Morton in Howard Hanson’s Merry Mount with the Rochester Philharmonic Orchestra under conductor Michael Christie. Sam is equally passionate about supporting and promoting the arts in administrative capacities. He has eight music entrepreneurship awards and recognitions and four years experience working in development, marketing, strategic planning, and advising roles in orchestral, conservatory, and music series settings. Sam currently serves on the staff of Eastman’s Institute for Music Leadership and recently became adjunct faculty of Eastman’s Arts Leadership Program. Sam is originally from Lebanon, Pennsylvania and completed high school at the Interlochen Arts Academy in Interlochen, Michigan, where he studied both voice and classical guitar.

The

Salon Concert Series at A s b u r y F i r s t

S u n d a y, M a r c h 2 3 | 2 : 0 0 p . m . Mozart Trio in G Major, K. 564 Saint-Saens Trio no 1 in F Major, Op. 18 Featuring Rebecca Penneys, piano; Mikhail Kopelman, violin; and Stefan Reuss, cello. To reserve your tickets call the church office at (585) 271-1050 x103. Tickets are $30 in advance; $35 at the door / free for full-time students.

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e h t e v Sa Date! Asbury

Presenting the annual

First Talent Show Saturday, May 10 6:00 p.m. dinner/6:30 show Fellowship Hall

Rehearsals will be held May 3, 4:00 p.m. and May 4, 2:00-4:00 p.m. (all participants must come to one of these rehearsals). Watch for the registration form in next month’s issue of The Visitor. Start practicing now for your moment in the spotlight!

Library news

his month (Mid-March), in the Church Resource Library and Spiritual Life Library, we’re featuring Lenten and Easter books in the collection. Stop by and take a look at the following selections. The library is located just off the gathering space near the elevators. Everyone is welcome! Children: The Easter Story (232.9), by Brian Wildsmith. This picture book is the story of the last days of Jesus’ life, the crucifixion, and the resurrection, as seen through the eyes of a small donkey. Illustrations, beautifully highlighted in metallic gold, accompany the childfriendly text.

readers will effortlessly be drawn to Milo and his friends and family. This is not simply a book about losing a parent … it is a pitch perfect story of being in middle school, the push/pull of need and independence, and the story of a boy.” Adults: Lent and Easter Wisdom from Thomas Merton (242.34), compiled by Jonathan Montaldo. This book provides daily reflections for Ash Wednesday through the Second Sunday of Easter. The daily format includes an explanation of one facet of the season, followed by Mertons’ writings, appropriate Scripture passages and a daily journal topic.

The Invisible String, by Patrice Karst. Especially for ages 4-8, this 36-page book shows children that they are always loved, whether their parents are near or far. It is a gentle and reassuring story of lifelong connectedness and a heartwarming story that reassures children that even though they can’t always be with a loved one, they’re always in each other’s hearts.

40-Day Journey With Howard Thurman, by Donna Schaper. This book provides forty inspiring passages from the works of the spiritual advisor to Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. to accompany readers on their own spiritual journeys. It is considered ideal for traveling through the seasons of Advent and Lent. Located in the Spiritual Life Library at 1010 East Avenue)

A Child’s Book of Values, by Leslie Wright. The author has made the stories and truths of the Bible more accessible for children in creative ways. This book provides a strong foundation of personal values based on God’s teachings in the Bible. The colorful book explains the meaning of twelve core Christian values and the many practical ways in which these qualities and attitudes can be applied to everyday experiences.

Zealot: The Life and Times of Jesus of Nazareth, by Reza Aslan. Zealot is a fascinating, provocative, and meticulously researched biography by an internationally acclaimed writer and scholar of religions. It challenges long-held assumptions about the man we know as Jesus of Nazareth. The book provides an introduction to first-century Palestine, including economics, politics and religion.

Teens: Milo, by Alan Silberberg. “Alan Silberberg has written an astounding illustrated novel that deals with the loss of a parent. Milo’s feelings are real and raw, and he’s busy coping with trying to be in seventh grade, while sorting out needing a parent who is no longer there. Alternately hilarious and heartbreaking, March 23  Psalm 17 24  Psalm 21 25  Psalm 23 26  Psalm 25 27  Psalm 26 28  Psalm 27 29  Psalm 28 30  Psalm 30 31  Psalm 31 April 1  Psalm 33 2  Psalm 34

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Matthew 20:1-19  Matthew 20:20-34  Matthew 21:1-17  Matthew 21:18-46  Matthew 26:1-35  Matthew 26:36-75  Matthew 27:1-26  Matthew 27:27-56 

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Matthew 27:57-66  Matthew 28:1-20  John 20:1-31  John 21:1-25  Hebrews 4:1-13  Hebrews 4:14-5:14  Hebrews 6:1-20  Hebrews 7:1-28  Hebrews 8:1-13  Hebrews 9:1-22  Hebrews 9:23-10:18  Hebrews 10:19-39 

the last word A True Inspiration

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Burt says he loved visiting here in the early days with Bill Lisi, Rand Warner and Grace Scherer, our pioneers. Jumping in to help, Burt says, “I couldn’t just come to eat, I had to help.”

pancake special person recipes, she and hard states: “We worker. He missed Burt was raised when he with a great was gone. ” work ethic, Burt got a which was job cleaning clear from outside up his devotion and down to volunteerEast Ave. and ing here, Park Ave. seven days “They called a week. He me the mayor was on Rand of Park and Marge Avenue,” he Warner’s Burt Ross (right) with Dining Center staffer Terry Ellins. says. I used to Sunday team. see him all of Other days he did maintenance, laundry, hygiene the time and he would smile and stocking, dishes, etc. Eventually he wave, always cheerful. was paid for his efforts. “It wasn’t In December 2012, Burt had a for the money. I did it from my cough and thought he had the flu. heart. I kept it clean here and did “My feet were so swollen I couldn’t all of the shoveling and helped put put my shoes on and my liver was in the washing machine.” twice the size it was supposed to

Bill recognized that Burt was a

As Barb Eltinge and Burt shared

We find inspirations when we least expect them. Many times they are right in our midst unbeknown to us. Burt Ross started coming to the Dining and Caring Center 18 years ago. As I write this article I can hear his voice in the Dining Room. He has just finished assisting us with our Foodlink order and he is munching on some tuna casserole (yesterday’s lunch), talking and eating. Burt never stops talking. He always has something to say, which is one of his charms. I knew he would be a great candidate for a Visitor article. Shy, he is not.

a colonoscopy and I found out I had stage four cancer. My doctors are very encouraging. “After 29 boughts of chemotherapy, I am still coming here to volunteer. I’m used to going all of the time and I get a lot of support from the Dining Center. I like the kindness and helpfulness. They treat you respectfully. Everything I ever hear about Asbury First is good news. Guests all feel comfortable here. “I have a very positive attitude. I am doing good now. I feel that I am blessed. You are ALL healers here. I don’t worry about tomorrow because I have TODAY!” Burt, you are a true inspiration here and epitomize the spirit of giving. We thank you and appreciate you for all you do and pray for you as you continue your treatment. God bless you.

be. I had lost 100 pounds. I had

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God publicly. And they have specifically requested that this space/church be located near the road so that those in the area will see that they’re a Christian community and join then for worship and fellowship. Asbury First has taken a bold step in helping to make this a reality. With Rev. Susan Shafer’s blessing and urging, the Outreach Committee has pledged $10,000 toward the building of this sacred space. The Project board will work with other supporters to launch a national campaign to raise the remainder of the funds.

My family has come away from our trips to Nicaragua enriched for having known these Christian brothers and sisters. We are humbled working alongside men and women who have struggled with issues we can only imagine. Our “mission” trip gives back to us as much as we might give to them. Thanks be to God for all these blessings!

Chocolate for Chacocente Sale

This is clearly a time for rejoicing! This journey of ten years started with a woman, Cheryl Avery, who had a vision. Few could imagine where this community would end up, but with God’s grace they have prospered. The Chacocente Christian School is the anchor that will continue to benefit the families and the neighbors. And while the staff works to develop ways for the school to be self-sustaining, they rely on donations from the many schools and churches that support them. Sponsoring a student, sponsoring a teacher’s salary for a year, or contributing to the operating fund are all ways we can lift up this important work.

Palm Sunday, April 16 Support Project Chacocente by buying your Easter chocolate – bunnies, chicks, and crosses – in the Welcoming Hall on Palm Sunday. We will also have hand-woven bracelets. To pre-order your chocolate, please email Robyn Gage at lgage1@rochester.rr.com. 15

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