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A New Role: Caring For Parents And Siblings
by Jackie Warner
Career Development Facilitator
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parents need care and assistance, for it is difficult to see them start to fade, become frail and sometimes helpless when it comes to their normal day to day routine. It is an emotional roller coaster for both you and them. You start to ask yourself: “How do I do this? Am I mentally prepared, not to mention financially stable enough, to handle what may come next as I support them.” What physical and emotional support will be required? It is not an easy path to navigate, so if you have not started preparations, then start now.
1. Remember, you are only one person and cannot do it all alone; consider additional support resources available in community and through local agencies.
2. Understand that your loved ones are having a mind shift too, and this may be very upsetting and take time to absorb.
3. Be proactive: Talk to your siblings and parents about their wishes and needs.
4. Have a serious conversation about finances, real estate, medical care/benefits, and business documentation.
5. Keep them involved in any health and financial decisions to be made.
6. Know what options should be discussed -- home health care, long-term nursing care, powers of attorney documents, and end-of-life wishes and directive. https://familycaregivers online.net/caregivereducation/strategies-forworking-caregivers/
7. Build a circle of support. This is a group of people who meet regularly to help your parents or siblings achieve their goals. Members of the circle could include family, friends and people in the community.
8. Use technology wherever possible. Keep a notes app and a calendar on your phone to help organize appointments and phone calls. Look into assistive technology that may help with electronic reminders to take medication.
Until Next Time, Be Sincere, Kind and Intentional
Jackie Warner, Community Outreach Specialist
Email: thebridge.us@gmail.com
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