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Mom to Mom
A Budding Career in Accounting —Karen Gordon
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Eating Well With Kim Good & Cheap Eats
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Doctor Dad Be Resolute in your Resolutions —J. Ron Eaker, M.D.
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Smart Mom’s Guide To... Unique Birthday Gifts —Cammie Jones
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The Party Guide ON ThE COvER: Israel, 3, Sofia Grace, 4 and Judah, 19 months are the children of Sherman and Alana Burnett. Photo by Chris Thelen at The Pink Dipper Ice Cream Parlor.
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or parents of young kids, planning a birthday party can be one of the more stressful occasions of parenthood.
Long gone are the days when you had an old-fashioned birthday party at home with a few friends, cake, ice cream and a game of pin the tail on the donkey. Today’s birthday parties have become more elaborate and thinking of new ideas every year is not always easy. It’s important to be in-the-know about what’s trending in town in 2018.
LeeAnn Rhoden Naimah Shaw Paige Tucker Dustin Turner Augusta Family Magazine is published 10 times per year and distributed throughout the Augusta and Aiken area. Send press releases, story ideas or comments to the editor at renee.williams@augustafamily.com or mail to 725 Broad Street, Augusta, Ga., 30901. For advertising information, telephone (706) 823-3702. For circulation/distribution, call (706) 823-3722.
In this issue of Augusta Family, we help you with the biggest part of the party equation: the venue. Take a look at our Annual Birthday Party Guide to find a venue that fits your needs and suits your child’s personality perfectly. Pick a date and time and get to planning because the key to party planning is to start early since dates book up quickly. From extreme air sports, parties inspired by magic and comedy, petting zoos, singing princess bashes of every variety to boy-perfect soirees featuring high tech video games, pirates, ninjas and even swamp treks, we’ve got you covered. We’ve rounded up the best party themes for the guest of honor. So keep turning the pages to find the party that best matches your little birthday boy or girl. Regardless of your child’s birthday month, hold onto our guide to have as a resource when the special day arrives. As always, we wish your little ones the most amazing, sensational, incredible, awesome, brilliant and fantastic birthday ever.
We look forward to hearing from you; visit our website www.augustafamily.com and on facebook and twitter. Facebook.com/ augustafamilymagazine @AUGFamilyMag
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Mom to Mom b y Ka ren G o rd o n
“Hey!! Don’t judge me!”
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o many things have happened since my last column both locally and globally. The holidays were pretty cool, except that our adult children and a few siblings were unable to come home for Christmas. I guess that’s one of the perks of them growing up –
they start their own families and traditions. It still sucks though. Especially because I remember 30 some years ago when I thought I was grown up enough to not come home for the holidays. I was in college. I was an adult. I was living on my own or so I thought and I could do what I wanted. I had everything figured out, except not so much. But I digress. It’s 2018 and it’s time for all things to be made new. SayWhatScooter is growing up so quickly and I don’t think I’m quite ready for it. As of this writing, he is 10 days away from his 9th birthday. Geez, he’s practically an adult. “Hey!! Don’t judge me!” I’ve been hearing this a lot lately from LeScoot as he is increasingly exposed to forces beyond our control in these streets. He has a tablet and somehow has created his own YouTube channel and an Instagram account. What the HECK?! At this point, my preference is an abacus and hieroglyphics… smoke signals… So, delete. Because he’s the only child in the house, the Bossman and I try to have him around as many kids his age as possible, although they may be doing some unconventional things. For example, The Scoot and his 9 year old cousin Jamil started selling boiled peanuts at the Augusta Market late last year. They’ve got their own logo, started making their own money and they are expanding their product line to include slime and who knows what else? Getting up at 7:00 a.m. on Saturday cuts pretty deep into their leisure time and Scooter is sure to ask about his work break every 10 minutes, but their bottom line is growing and they get to spend time together… before they get on each other’s nerves. Personally, I figure that if he makes enough money doing his own thing then he’ll forget how much I owe him from the swear jar… no need to get into that right now. Needless to say, “musician language” is frowned upon in our house. LeScoot still wants to be a preacher and a superhero when he grows up and I’m hoping that he adds artist to that list as well, but I think he has a future in accounting. As I write this, I’m reminded that the jazz concert I just bought tickets to is on Valentine’s Day. And it’s in Atlanta. So, of course, my reaction is, “What the h*ll?!” And, of course, Scoot walks in…“Hey Mom, you owe me $26.00.”
Karen Gordon is a singer, songwriter and the founder of Garden City Jazz. She works with the City of Augusta to present the Candlelight Jazz Concert Series each year and has partnered with RCBOE to develop interactive courses such as Taking Notes: Jazz & The American Story and Jazz4Kids.
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app-tastic! tinyBeans
mommy minute
take care of yourself Mothering is hard work because it is constant work. It is easy to stop caring for yourself once you become a mom, but your ability to care for your child is impacted by how well you care for yourself first. Don’t forget to put your own healthcare appointments on the calendar too. Schedule mammograms, skin exams, pap smears, get your flu shots, vision screenings and visit your dentist for an annual exam and cleaning. Here are a few well-women recommendations based on ages 19-39. Sexuality and Reproductive Appointments Discussion of a Reproductive Health Plan Preconception and Genetic Counseling
Tinybeans, The modern baby book app. Perfect for parents and moms-to-be! Chronicle your little one’s life in a keepsake baby book and journal by saving a sweet memory each day. Privately share pregnancy and baby pics with your family off of social media. Your family receives daily email updates no smartphone needed. Invite as many people as you’d like and get unlimited storage. Built by parents, for parents, to privately share your baby’s milestones. Download today to join over 2 million people that trust Tinybeans for their baby journal. Featured on Forbes and CNBC and it’s free. No more digging out the big book, Tinybeans calendar organizes the daily details. Family and friends can view your journal, comment and even add their own moments. Your journal is also available on their website, which is great for sharing with the grandparents. *Keep and Share Memories in One Place Forever, *Unlimited Storage, *Painless Printing *Private Photo Sharing, *Automatic email updates.
“Let us always meet each other with a smile, for a smile is the beginning of love.” Mother Teresa
Fitness and Nutrition Appointments Physical activity Dietary& Nutrition assessment (including eating disorders and obesity) Psychosocial Evaluation Appointments Interpersonal & Family relationships Lifestyle & Stress Sleep Disorders Cardiovascular Risk Factors Appointments Family History Hypertension Diabetes Health & Risk Assessment Appointments Breast Exams & Self-Awareness Injury Prevention-Exercise and Sports involvement Hearing & Occupational Hazards Skin exposure to ultraviolet rays Mental Health Issues, Depression or PostPartum.
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Are we there yet? RIVERBANKS ZOO AND BOTANICAL GARDEN By LeeAnn Rhoden
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he Riverbanks Zoo and Botanical Garden in Columbia, SC is a treasure trove of activities and opportunities. It is close enough to visit just for the day and with the many exhibits and interactive activities, it will take the whole day to see and enjoy the complete park. The zoo and gardens are open daily from 9:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. Riverbanks has natural habitat exhibits for the larger animals and provides a number of viewing angles to make it easy to observe the animals. You should see these first thing in the morning when the animals are most active. The zoo has theaters for some of their animal exhibits with scheduled shows so you can see the care and training that the keepers take with the animals. There are also a number of indoor exhibits such as the aquarium, aviary and reptile house which you should save for the afternoon. For smaller children, there is the Riverbanks Farm which is home to animals such as goats, owls and alpacas where children learn how people and animals serve each other. There are a number of interactive activities that children and parents can enjoy such as feeding the animals or walking through open pens. You can easily plan your tour of the zoo and participate in most, if not all of the activities. Backstage tours are offered with some of the animal exhibits that let you see and assist the handlers in making meals, feeding and even physically interacting with the animals. There is also an opportunity to participate on stage with the sea lions and seals. These tours have specific times, days and additional costs so be sure to check with the Visitor’s Center or online. Riverbanks Zoo has a number of rides. There is an old fashioned carousel, a rock
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Riverbanks Zoo wall for climbing, a four story vertical ropes course and pony rides. For the more adventurous, there is the zip line course which takes you through the zoo and across the Saluda River. Be sure to check out the requirements for the rides at the Visitor’s Center or online. The botanical gardens is across the Saluda River and Waterfall Junction is a 30acre play area for kids. There is a gigantic tree house, dinosaur dig and splash pad. This is a great place to let the little ones play, climb and explore. More than just a day visit, there are opportunities for birthday parties, events, educational and also extracurricular learning opportunities and programs. And don’t forget their fund raising events such as Lights Before Christmas, Boo at the Zoo, Twilight in the Garden, Brew at the Zoo and the wine tastings. You can find out more online at www.riverbanks.org. DISTANCE: 74 miles, 1 hour 10 minutes BUDGET: $15.95 for adults, $13.50 for children ages 2-12. Children under 2 are free. Discounts for military and seniors. Parking is free. Be prepared to pay for lunch and snacks and don’t forget the gift shop. Annual memberships are available and some packages include admission to the special activities. WHAT TO SEE: See the whole park . Be sure to take the opportunity to participate in some of the interactive activities too. IF YOU GO: Wear comfortable clothes and shoes and be prepared to walk all day.
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SAFE KIDSFAST FACTS BUTTON BATTERY DANGERS
By Renée McCabe, RN, BSN Injury Prevention & Safe Kids Coordinator
Electronic devices are getting smaller, slimmer and sleeker. There are mini-remote controls, small calculators, watches, key fobs, flameless candles and musical greeting cards. Kids love to pick them up, play with If your children received anything them and take them apart, often releasing the dangerelectronic for Christmas, chances are ous button batteries inside. the toy or device is powered by batteries. Any battery can be dangerous in the hands of a child, but the one that parents When a button battery gets stuck in a child’s throat, should really watch out for is the button battery. the saliva triggers an electrical current. This causes a chemical reaction that can severely burn the esophagus It’s hard to believe that something so small can wreak in as little as two hours. such havoc on children but the button battery is no trivial thing. Each year more than 2,800 kids are treat- Symptoms may be similar to other illnesses such as ed in emergency rooms across the U.S. after swallowing coughing, drooling and discomfort but because the child button batteries – that is one child every three hours! is still able to breathe, it is very difficult to know when your child is in trouble. Multiple surgeries, feeding and Furthermore, the number of serious injuries and breathing tubes can be necessary to repair the damage. deaths has increased about nine-fold in the last decade. Children under age four are at greatest risk To help prevent mishaps with button batteries, take because they tend to put everything in their mouths. these safety steps:
• Look in your home for any items that may contain coin-sized button batteries. • Place devices out of sight and out of reach of small children. • Keep loose or spare batteries locked away. • If a child swallows a button battery, go to the emergency room immediately. • Do not allow the child to eat or drink anything until an X-ray is done. • Do not induce vomiting as this can worsen the damage. • Warn others about the dangers of button batteries to children. • Enter the National Battery Ingestion Hot line (202-625-3333) into your phone. Call anytime for additional treatment information. Safe Kids Greater Augusta, led by Children’s Hospital of Georgia, works to prevent accidental childhood injury, the leading killer of children ages 1 to 14. Safe Kids Greater Augusta is a member of the Safe Kids USA network. To find out more about local Safe Kids programs, call 706-721-7606 or visit grhealth.org/safekids.
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Eating well with Kim b y Ki m B e a v e rs , M S , R D, L D, C DE
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Eating well with Kim
Good And Cheap Eats Does your budget dictate your buying decisions? Budget definitely affects my purchasing decisions but admittedly my profession as a culinary nutritionist funnels a larger than average portion of household income into the food budget. However, when working with patients and clients, I sometimes hear murmuring about how it costs more to eat healthy. And while that can be true, there are many strategies one can utilize to make eating healthy more cost effective than eating poorly. I say that with even more confidence after reviewing this lovely and free-to-download cookbook Good and Cheap: Eat Well on $4/Day by Leanne Brown (www.leannebrown.com). Beyond the recommendation to eat more beans, (which is a favorite recommendation of mine, albeit more for the health than the “wealth” of that particular advice) here are some of my favorite budget friendly strategies from Leanne’s book. 1. Cook for yourself: The skill of cooking is powerful and meaningful, yet slightly undervalued in our hurried lives. Yes, cooking is a money saving and a health promoting skill. Begin with things you already know and add on a new skill or recipe each month. You can do it! 2. Start building a pantry: If possible each week reserve part of your food budget to buy a semi-expensive ingredient or staple such as extra virgin olive oil or a certain spice. 3. Always buy eggs: A quick to cook and inexpensive source of protein is a good description of an egg. Even if you buy higher priced farmers market eggs (worth the money!!!) you are still only paying about .33 cents per egg. Think scrambled egg toast: eggs dropped into a skillet of sautéed veggies…yum and yum. I tried Leanne’s Brussels Sprout Hash and Egg recipe and it is a winner. 4. Get creative with wilted vegetables: Ahhh the forgotten vegetable, we have all been there when we find a slightly wilted whatever in the back of the vegetable drawer. Wilted vegetables are not quite fit for salads but they are still lovely in a sauté, an omelet or soup. 5. Don’t buy drinks: All you need is love (I mean water). Really-- we only need water to drink. Leanne describes drinks as overpriced sugar delivery liquids that do not fill you up the same way whole fruits and veggies do. She suggests you try her aqua fresca, smoothie recipes or that you simply make your own tea when you want something beyond water. Good and Cheap: Eat Well on $4/Day provides many more strategies for budget friendly eating along with plenty of delicious recipes so download or buy your own hard copy to see for yourself. Here is one more budget friendly recipe and it is my favorite recipe for salmon cakes. Recipe reprinted with permission from Best Body Cookbook & Menu Plan (http://squareup.com/store/nutriwellness4health).
Quinoa Salmon Patties
Salmon is a wonderful source of Omega-3 fatty acids. Canned salmon is a convenient and economical way to add more Omega3s to your diet. Vegetable oil cooking spray 1 tablespoon olive oil, divided 1 bunch green onion, whites and greens chopped but separate 1 stalk celery, chopped Zest of one lemon (about 1 teaspoon) 2 teaspoons lemon juice 2 teaspoons chopped fresh dill 1 (15 ounce) can salmon ½ cup cooked quinoa 2 teaspoons Dijon mustard 1 egg ½ teaspoon black pepper Serve with Lemon Wedges 1. Spray a non-stick skillet with vegetable oil cooking spray and add ½ teaspoon oil to the pan, place over medium heat. Once hot add the white part of the green onions, and the celery. Stir and cook until the celery is soft (about 2 minutes). Remove from pan and allow vegetables to cool. 2. Add the ½ of the remaining onion tops to the bowl of a food processor with the lemon zest, juice and dill. Pulse the onions for 5-6 one second pulses until onions are minced. 3. Drain, de-bone and remove the skin from the salmon. Place the salmon in a large bowl and break up with a fork and then add to the food processor. Add the quinoa, mustard and celery mixture, to the food processor and pulse until a dough begins to form and ingredients are mixed (~ 10 pulses). 4. Using the bowl the salmon was in whisk the egg and black pepper with a fork. Add the salmon mixture from the food processor to the egg and mix well. If you have a smaller sized egg it may be necessary to add an extra egg white to help hold the patty together. Divide the salmon into 4 equal patties and set aside. 5. Add the remaining 2 ½ teaspoons of oil to the same pan the celery was cooked in and place over medium heat. Once the oil is hot add the patties and cook until golden brown (~3 minutes). Carefully flip and cook on the other side until heated through (~2-3 minutes). Yield: 4 Servings Nutrition Breakdown: Calories 210, Fat 12g (2.5 saturated fat, ~750mg Omega-3), Cholesterol 70mg, Sodium 480mg, Carbohydrate 7g, Fiber 1g, Protein 18g. Diabetes Exchange Value: ½ Starch, 2 ½ Medium fat meat
Kim Beavers is a Registered Dietitian and Diabetes Educator for University Health Care System. She lives in North Augusta with her husband and two children and she is the co-host of the culinary nutrition segment Eating Well with Kim, which airs at noon Monday, Wednesday and Friday on WRDW. To be notified of new recipes join Kim’s facebook fan page at www.facebook.com/ eatingwellwithkim. To search for specific recipes go to www.universityhealth. org/ewwk. You can also watch the segments at www.wrdw.com/ewwk.
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BE RESOLUTE IN YOUR
RESOLUTIONS If it’s post New Years, it must mean resolutions! It is a strange quirk of human psychology that prompts us to seek restitution, resolution, and revolution at the beginning of each year. I think intuitively we realize our failings from times past and hope for better things to come. After all, hope is the power that fuels change, and change is what New Year’s resolutions are all about. And this is a good thing! It is both healthy and necessary to periodically evaluate where we are physically, spiritually and emotionally, and, more importantly, determine where we want to be. Resolutions are really goals, and without goals our journey is chaotic.
Goal setting is part of any true success formula. You have to know where you are going to be able to get there! A pilot friend of mine once told me that when they set a bearing for a particular airport, rarely are they ever following the exact path of the flight plan. They have a goal of landing at a particular site but reaching that goal involves numerous adjustments and recalibrating. Likewise, once you know where you are going, you have to constantly be vigilant, re-evaluating your progress. A map or plan is worthless unless you know exactly where you are heading. That’s why we set resolutions or goals, to know our destination, the key question is how do we keep them? Inevitably, keeping a goal or resolution involves change, and change is hard. That’s why we don’t automatically alter our lifestyles even when we understand the advantages. We persist in our habits, even in the midst of unhealthy behaviors that we know are killing us. Why? Because there is a perceived comfort in the known. I want you to understand that there is actually terrible danger and discomfort in the status quo. The good news is that you can win the mental battle needed to carry out those resolutions. You have to decide now that this is absolutely what you must do. You have to be passionate about it. Psychologists tell us that primarily two things motivate people to action; the avoidance of pain and the pursuit of pleasure. Think about a simple everyday task like brushing your teeth. The reason you do this is either to avoid the pain of decaying teeth and people passing out from smelling your breath or to have the pleasure of a beautiful smile. My guess is that the avoidance of the pain of social isolation equates with the pleasure of a toothy grin. In fact, studies indicate that people will go to greater lengths to avoid pain than they will to seek pleasure. Our behavior can be altered by changing what we believe about the pain or pleasure of a situation. Take eating as an illustration. There is a type of treatment called aversion therapy where the practitioner associates a certain food
with a highly negative physical perception. For example, every time a subject eats a cookie he gets a mild electric shock. After a while, the person learns that eating a cookie is harmful and stops doing it (unless he is a Congressman, they don’t ever seem to be averse to taking things). Don’t misunderstand; I’m not suggesting we hook you up to a car battery every time you sit down to eat a fried green tomato. The point is that the negative reinforcement …in this case the electric shock… can be replaced by a thought. Studies indicate that an imagined painful consequence of eating the cookie is just as powerful as the physical stimulus. The mind is incredibly effective at creating its own perception of reality. What does all this have to do with making healthy lifestyle choices and keeping resolutions? Simply this...by understanding the negative consequences of being overweight, poor eating, and not exercising, you can form an association in your mind that inhibits the destructive behavior. You avoid the pain. After avoiding pain, people change behaviors most often to pursue pleasure. One source of pleasure is actively listing all the benefits that you will realize by keeping a resolution and posting them boldly on the refrigerator door. It serves as a constant, in your face, reminder of the good that comes from healthy goals. Then you have to take the next step and which is to take action! It all begins with a thought! If we don’t think it first, we don’t do it. John “The Penguin” Bingham, an overweight, out of shape, middle-aged non-runner, writing in his monthly column about his first marathon says, “The miracle isn’t that I finished. The miracle is that I had the courage to start.” You must now find the courage to start on a path to health for you and your family. That’s really what New Year’s resolutions are all about. Dr. Eaker is an Augusta Ob/GYN and author. He and his wife, Susan, have two daughters in college. Visit his website at www.roneaker.com.
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Smart Mom’s Guide To... b y C a m m i e Jo n es
Unique Birthday Gifts When it comes to gift giving, I have to admit I am not the best. We all have that certain someone who has the knack for finding that perfect present but I am more of the last minute gift giver. Birthdays creep up on me and the next thing I know, I am working against time while racking my brain to get that perfect gift. Same goes with children’s birthday gifts. I tend to do something age appropriate but mundane. What are some unique gifts you can give to any birthday child to make gift giving a little more personal and outside the box?
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1. Photo Album This is not your momma’s three-ring photo album with the pull back plastic and sticky pages. There are many websites that allow you to use photos you have saved on your computer or on a shared site that you can use to create a personal photo album. If it’s one of your child’s friends, create a book using the pictures you have from their time together through the months or years. Have your child help you with it. This does take some time, thought and effort but is worth it in the end when you end up with something they will treasure forever. 2. Gift thAt KeePs on GivinG Who doesn’t like to get something in the mail that is not junk or a bill? Set up a delivery of something that the child would like. For older girls, there are sites such as Birchbox which delivers skin and makeup sample items once a month. There are many scheduled delivery plans from which to choose that will meet your budget. Another ideas is to give an annual magazine subscription. There are many child-friendly/teen-appropriate magazines that can be delivered directly to the child. Think Sports Illustrated for a boy or Teen Vogue for the preteen girl. Again, it’s always fun getting stuff in the mail! 3. Gift CArds My daughter recently turned 16 and many of her friends did too. Needless to say, they are so happy to be behind the wheel and eager to hit the fast food restaurants to pick up a snack or coffee after school. With a gift card, they can use that instead of their own cash (or yours). Gas prices are going up so a gas station gift card is also useful as well. Many folks think that gift cards are not personal and an easy way out, but kids love to pick out what they most desire using a gift card. You can make it more personal by taking them to the store yourself so that you can be part of the choosing process. 4. frAmed PiCture & Written note Do you have that perfect photo that just begs for a frame? Print the picture at your local drugstore photo center and pick out a frame to put it in. You can even get the frame monogrammed at many local gift shops in town. This is the perfect gift for any age child — boy or girl. Also, frames not only come in many shapes and sizes but also many price ranges so you can be budget-conscious if needed. Add a handwritten note that refers to the photo and the experience you had with your friend at that location to make it even more personal.
5. Give As mAny Gifts As the AGe of the Child As mentioned above, my daughter turned 16 last year. My mother-in-law (gifted in the gift giving ability, by the way) came over with a basket of individually wrapped gifts - 16 of them — for her Sweet 16. It was so much fun as she opened each one. This can be done at any age and with any budgeted amount. Just put a number on each wrapped gift if you want the birthday boy or girl to open them in order. 6. somethinG old, somethinG neW Do you have an old spoon or something that is meaningful in your family just laying around your home or stored in the closet or attic? My mom recently gave me a spoon key chain and the spoon was of my grandmother’s everyday stainless. Do you have an old teacup that can be given as is to your family member? A bible? What about an old brooch that can be made into a bracelet? You don’t always need to go to the store to get a gift. There might be something sentimental just under your nose that will mean much more than something store bought. 7. ColleCtible Who doesn’t like to collect stuff? For girls, this might be the start of their silver where each year they get a fork or a spoon. This can get pricey so there are other less expensive ways to start a collection for a loved one. What about starting a charm bracelet for a little girl? Each year you can add another meaningful charm to add to it. One year it could be a tennis racket because they love to play tennis or a dog because they have a new pet. This is handy for the gift giver each year because they will know exactly what to give to the child without having to spend much time thinking it through! 8. Gift of time We don’t have enough of it, and this is something we all need to focus on. Do you get to spend enough time with your niece or nephew or do you need to spend more time with one of your own chidlren? Give them a day with you — this can include lunch and maybe some type of fun activity. You can paint pottery, go skating or play miniature golf. Do something they enjoy but don’t get to do everyday. Believe me, the birthday child will remember this much more than any material thing you give him! Cammie Jones is an Augusta freelance writer and mother of three.
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Party Guide By Naimah Shaw
Celebrate every milestone with the magic of play and adventure while creating lifelong memories! Let this guide be your personal birthday party planner as you aim to make this year’s birthday more elaborate and fun filled than the last. Turn to one of the many trusted professionals in the CSRA so everyone can focus on being more present in the moments that are sure to be filled with exhilaration and wonder. Whether providing a thrilling location or supplying services in your home, these party pros offer a wealth of choices to suit all ages and interests.
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Birthday Parties
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MOOVE AND GROOVE Active climbing 643 S. Old Belair Rd., Grovetown, GA 706 922-1054 www.activeclimbing.com Choose between the Climbing Party or the Ninja Party (14 and up) The Climbing party costs $250 and includes: • One Hour and 45 Minutes • Includes twelve kids – Add more for $10 each • Roped Climbing • Bouldering Cave • 20 Foot Slide • Rental Harnesses Included • Free Birthday Shirt The Ninja party includes: • One Hour and 45 Minutes • Includes twelve kids – Add more for $10 each • Warped Wall • Cliff Hanger • Jumping Spider • Salmon Ladder • Free Birthday Shirt
AirStrike extreme Air SportS 1249 Augusta West Pkwy, Augusta, GA 706-510-0010 www.airstrike.info.com AirStrike’s indoor jumping facility includes a huge Ninja obstacle course, over 60 connected trampolines, foam pits, a trapeze and a Euro wall trampoline. Party package pricing begins at $225 for Monday-Thursday for up to 10 jumpers, $275 for Friday and Saturday.
www.augustajcc.org Rent a banquet room starting at $300 (50 persons) for six+ hours, the pool (available from Mother’s Day through Labor Day) for $225 for two hours ($75 for each additional hour) or the entire facility, including tennis courts, baseball fields, soccer fields and the basketball court for $1500 for 10 hours. Pool rental and entire facility rental includes two lifeguards for up to 25 swimmers. Additional lifeguards are required for greater than 25 swimmers at $15 per hour.
Parties include: • Birthday child jumps for free • One hour flight ticket • 45 minutes in the party room after jumping • Party hostess to assist with setup and cleanup • Party table cover, plates, utensils, cups and napkins (or you’re welcome to bring any themed paper goods and decorations you wish) • Flight shirt for the birthday child • Parents can bring food and drinks
City of Aiken—Citizens PArk Sprayground & Track Rentals 945 Barry Johnson Blvd., Aiken, SC, Citizens Park 803-642-7761 If you are looking to host a birthday party, gathering or special event, consider a rental of the citizens park fields, sprayground, or track. Call for details and information about our rental availability and pricing.
AuguStA JewiSh community center 898 Weinberger Way, Evans, GA 706-228-3636
Jump city 4446 Washington Rd., Suite 7, Evans, GA 706-262-4653 www.jumpcity.us, www.augustamoonwalks.com or
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Party guide email at jumpcityrentals@gmail.com Jump city delivers the party to your backyard. Rent inflatable slides, bounce houses, obstacle courses and water slides beginning at $140, depending on the apparatus. Up the fun with a Sumo suit ($155), a dunk tank ($150), a rock wall (call for quote), a popcorn machine ($50), a sno-cone machine ($50) or a cotton candy machine ($50). Tables, chairs, generators, inflatable movie screens and sound systems are also available.
Jump’n Jitterbugs North Augusta, SC 803-571-9001 www.facebook.com/JumpinJitterbugs. Rent inflatable bounce houses, water slides and combo units. Free delivery and set up. Call for pricing.
Family y oF aiken County 621 Trolley Line Rd., Graniteville, SC 803-349-8080 www.thefamilyy.org Indoor parties are available on Saturdays for children ages two and older. Younger children will enjoy the soft-play room. Children ages five and over will want to party in the game room with X-box system, art station and more. For a two hour party, members pay $150; non-members pay $200. Plus $50 deposit. Outdoor parties in the water park are available seasonally,. Includes one hour of water park play and one hour in the party room for one to 20 guests. For non-private parties, members pay $250 and non-members pay $300. Winter time pool rental does not include the water park and rents for $200 for members and $250 non-members. Rent the water park for a two hour private party: Members pay $300; non-members pay $350. Whether celebrating indoors or out, parents supply cake, food and drinks.
The Family y oF GreaTer auGusTa— Wilson branCh 3570 Wheeler Rd., Augusta, GA 706-922-9623 www.thefamilyy.org The Family Y of Greater Augusta offers two types of indoor birthday parties for members and non-members. Call for pricing, guest size and party details. Parents supply cake, ice cream and decorations. Clubhouse Parties with Play in the Two-Story Tree house. Include: • Birthday games upon request • Inflatable fun • Two party assistants • Invitations Family Adventure Center Parties Include:
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• Rock-climbing wall • Inflatable fun • Tumbling area fun • Two party assistants • Invitations
pool parties at the Wilson branCh indoor pool and Water park lphall@thefamilyy.org Enjoy a pool party year round by hosting your child’s party at our indoor pool! Private and Non-Private options are available. Outdoor water park parties are seasonal with private and non-private pricing options. Please call for pricing, guest size and party details. Parents supply cake, ice cream and decorations. Pool and Water Park Parties Include: • Invitations • Pool time/party time in private room • Lifeguard • Music by request
The Family y oF GreaTer auGusTa— marshall Family y 1202 Town Park Lane, Evans, GA 706-364-3269 www.thefamilyy.org Children ages three to 12 can have a birthday party at the Marshall Family Y on Saturdays between the hours of 12:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m. or on Sundays between the hours of 1:30 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. Younger kids will enjoy the soft-play room. Older kids will like the Kids Club House stocked with video games and a foosball table. Please call for pricing, guest size and party details. Parents supply cake, ice cream and decorations. Parties Include: • Two attendants to help set up, clean up and supervise. • A separate room for food, presents and cake
neptune dive and ski 2305 Redwood Drive, Augusta 706-737-7900 www.neptunediveandski.com, email at neptunedivenski@aol.com Indoor pool parties available on Saturdays only. Party package is $125 for two hours, up to 15 children, one lifeguard; $150 up to 25 children, Two lifeguards. Parties Include: • Pool use • Lifeguards • Tables and chairs
the salvation army kroC Center 1833 Broad St., Augusta, GA
706-364-5762 www.salvationarmyaugusta.org or email Allyson_campbell@uss.salvationarmy.org Party like a Kroc star in the gym or the indoor pool. Party packages start at $225 for up to 20 guests and $330 for up to 40 guests for two hours. Reserve your party day and time with a $50 deposit. Al la carte options for an additional charge include food, beverage, themed packages and extra space. All Parties Include: • A party planner (Two hours) • Party room • T-shirt for birthday child • Invitations. • Paper products • Lemonade • Cupcakes • Plates and utensils
splash in the boro 1388 Highway 24 East Statesboro, GA 912- 489-3000 www.www.splashintheboro.com Under The Dome” Party Availability Days • Saturday: 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. Included In The Party Package • Party host for two hours • $150 for 15 people ($5 per extra party guest) • Pool admission for 15 people from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. ($5 per extra party guest – paid on date of party) • Personalized birthday cake “Get Splashed! Happy Birthday ‘Insert Name.’” • Drinks (water and punch/lemonade) • Party Kit (candles, plates, utensils, cups and napkins) • T-shirt for birthday child • Table(s) for presents and drinks/cake • Splash balloons and table cloth
PLENTY OF PAMPERING tiaras & pearls 3241 Washington Road, Augusta, GA 706-922-7721 www.tiarasandpearls.net Princess Party: • Up to two hours for eight girls (this number includes the birthday girl) • Mini Manicure/Mini Pedicure • Spa robes provided while receiving services • Runway—choice of princess dress or tutu • Eight standard invitations. Additional invitations are $.50 each
Party guide • Toast to the birthday girl • Photos of the party on a DVD • All parties are expected to start at its scheduled time, otherwise, a $35 late fee will be added to your total • Additional girls are $30 each Glamorous Party: Additional girls are $40 each. In addition to the Princess Party package this party includes: • Party lasts up to two and one half hours • Makeup application/princess face painting Enchanted Party: Additional girls are $50 each. In addition to the standard party package this party includes: • Makeup application/princess face painting • Special goodie bag for the Birthday Girl • Karaoke • Includes flatware, plates and cups The Royal Treatment Party: Additional girls are $50 each. In addition to the standard party package, this party includes: • A Tiaras & Pearls Princess that will accompany your princess in a limousine to deliver up to eight invitations to her guests • Makeup application/princess face painting The Spa-Jama Party (Especially for Tweens—Friday nights only): Tweens come dressed in your favorite PJs, bring blanket and pillow. This party can only be booked on Friday nights, 7:30-11:30 p.m. Party Duration: Up to four hours. Party to accommodate 10 tweens (this includes the birthday girl). Additional girls are $50 each. In addition to the standard party package this party includes: • Make-up • Tattoo • Magazines • Signature Drink • Two Large, One topping pizzas. • Popcorn • Dancing • Karaoke • PG-Rated Movie (Birthday Princess’ choice) • LOTS of girl talk! Other packages available (call for information): • T&P BFF Package (on the go) • Tiaras & Pearls Package • Tiaras & Pearls Ultimate Package • A la carte Services
HORSE AROUND Hilltop Riding StableS N. Range Rd., Building 508, Fort Gordon, GA 706-791-4864
www.fortgordon.com Party fees are $220-sponsored or $250-unsponsored. Available party times are 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. or 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. Reservations must be made in advance. Parent provides cake, food and drinks. Includes: • Four ponies on a carousel for onw hour (for ages six and under) or four one hour guided trail rides (for ages seven and up). Extra horses available for $23 each. Extra ponies available for $11 each. • Tablecloths • Balloons and streamers • Party room • Picnic areas, some with grills
gRayStone RancH and Wildlife education centeR 1017 McManus Rd., Hephzibah, GA 706-360-0808 www.www.graystoneranch.com My First Pony Parties are a fantastic introduction to horsemanship for children up to age 10. Larger ponies and horses are also available. The Graystone animal experts will assist children in riding saddled ponies and horses. Other saddled animals are also available. $225 for one hour. Lots of party packages from which to choose. Visit their website for more details.
Hidden foRReSt equeStRian centeR 1333 Jackson Rd., Augusta, GA 706-825-6216 www.hiddenforrest.net Pony parties for ages four and up with up to eight children. Parties start at $200 and include pony rides, games, use of the entire facility and an area for cutting the cake. Parents provide cake, food, paper products and other party supplies.
almoSt Heaven StableS 220 Golf Course Rd, Warrenville, SC 803-663-3001 www.almostheavenstables.com Within minutes of Aiken. Staff hand-leads two horses in the large arena for one hour, then you can stay and enjoy the picnic area for an additional two hours. Picnic area has covered shelter, grill, fire pit, wood provided for fire pit, ping pong, basketball, volleyball, horseshoes, sand box and restroom. $200.
MAKE AND CREATE Build-A-BeAr Workshop Augusta Mall, 3450 Wrightsboro Rd., Augusta, GA 706736-0895 or 1-877-789-2327
www.buildabear.com Each guest makes his or her own stuffed animal friend. Party pricing starts at $12 per guest. Five-guest minimum. The party leader makes sure kids have fun while staying within your pre-set budget. Parties last 45 minutes to an hour. Includes: • A party leader • Printable invitations and thank you cards
delightful Bites CAkery 3801-C Washington Rd., Augusta, GA 706-294-5067 www.delightfulbitescakery.com or email at events@delightfulbitescakery.com Celebrate in style at Delightful Bites! Our Party coordinators will work with you to ensure that your CUSTOM party will be complete with all the details covered so that your group will have a blast. All parties are hands-on participation and are all-inclusive. Parties last approximately one and a half hour and are $25/child (eight children minimum), additional children at a reduced rate of $15/child. (10 children maximum) Extended parties are available upon request. Included with every party package: • Personalized invitations for your party • Two hosts/hostesses • Decorating activity—Choose from several that are ageappropriate for your group. All ingredients and decorating tools needed are included. • A custom birthday cake and punch for the guests • All participants will receive a small goodie bag filled with age-appropriate favors and a free cupcake card to use at the Cakery • Snacks for adults. Parties are designed to be drop-off events, however parents are welcome to get involved, or linger in the cozy consulting room Parties for ages Four to 2nd grade: • Choose one of the following activities: Cookie decorating, cupcake decorating or candy making. Parties for grades 2-4: • Choose one of the following activities: Cookie decorating, cupcake decorating, candy making, cake pops or assembling and decorating six-inch cakes (additional $5 per child). Parties for ages 10 and up: • Choose one of the following activities: Cookie decorating, cupcake decorating, candy making, cake pops, assembling and decorating six-inch cakes (additional $5 per child) or “Cupcake Wars” (additional $5 per child). Extended Parties for ages 10 and up: • Cupcake Wars Ultimate: Teams bake and decorate their own cupcakes using secret ingredients and then presents them to be judged by the hosts and your birthday child. • Or Choose Two: Cookie decorating, cupcake decorating, candy making, cake pops, assembling and decorating six-inch cakes (additional $5 per child) or “Cupcake Wars” (additional $5 per child). Add-Ons: • Delightful Bites catered lunch or dinner (price is based on selections).
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Party guide My Best Friend’s sewing rooM 3850 Washington Rd., Suite 4C, Augusta, GA 706-993-8819 www.facebook.com/mybestfriendssewingroom Two-hour sewing parties for children’s birthdays, with enough time to sew a simple project and enjoy cake and beverages. The birthday child and guests complete a simple sewing project. Parents supply cake and beverages. Children ages nine and up machine sew a pillow, a drawstring backpack or a small tote bag. They learn how to pin, make a straight stitch and are guided in using an iron. Children ages seven to eight stuff a plush animal and use hand sewing to make stitches and sew on buttons. Ask about other options. $240 for eight children minimum (they can take up to 10 at their discretion). A $100 nonrefundable deposit is required to reserve date. The party must be paid in full five days before the party date. There is a drawing for a prize Parties Include: • Sewing machines, supplies and sewing instruction • Invitations • Paper products • Decorations
Michaels 211 Robert C Daniel Pkwy., Augusta, GA 706-738-9330 www.www.michaels.com Book a party for a crafty kid and up to 10 guests. Cost is $50 plus the cost of project supplies for each child. Cost of supplies varies according to the craft project selected for the party. The party includes a decorated room, paper products and the assistance of a store associate for two hours. All the cleanup is done for you, too. Parent brings food, cake and drinks. Reserve your child’s party at least one week in advance. Birthday Package Includes: • Craft supplies for nine children • Decorated room • Assistance of associate • Two hours in party room • Drawstring party bag for the birthday child
shali’s artery https://www.facebook.com/ShalisARTery/ Shali’s ARTery offers Paint Parties for children and adults, Personalized Wreaths, Hand Painted Door Hangers, Acrylic Portraits and more!
sMocks art Parties 742 McClure Drive, Augusta, GA 706-833-9696 jennifer@smocksaugusta.com. A Smocks Art Party is a unique way to celebrate your child! Choose your favorite artwork from our collection,
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and let Smocks take care of all of the planning, prep, entertaining, and clean up while your child and their closest friends have a blast creating their own painting (the ultimate party favor!) All you need to do is provide the cake and beverages. Birthday parties are scheduled on Fridays and Saturdays for children turning six or older and last two and a half to three hours. Parties are held at our home studio. Package A: 12x12 or 11x14 gallery wrapped canvas (Two and a half hour party) $310 for nine children. Package B: 16x20 gallery wrapped canvas (Three hour party) $340 for Nine children. Add up to two additional children for $20 each. Both packages include: • Personalized party invitations • Thank you notes • Coordinating paper plates, napkins and spoons • All art supplies • Party decorations • Birthday gift (11x14 personalized canvas) • Balloons • Photographs of the party • Two hours of step-by-step instruction by owner, Jennifer Rucker • 30 minutes allotted for cake and presents
artsy Me 4275-B Washington Rd., Evans, GA 706-432-6396 www.artsymestudio.com or email at cricket.artsyme@ gmail.com Birthday parties for kids ages five and up with a minimum of six children for one and a half hour. A $40 deposit secures the date. Parents bring food, drinks and paper products. Party room holds up to 20 people. Choose from a variety of party packages: • Artsy Party includes a ceramic plate, mug, bowl or critter for each child to paint and is $18 per child. • Extra Artsy Party includes a plaque, bank or keepsake box for each child to paint and is $20 per child. • At the Canvas Celebration Party each child createsan 11×14 canvas with acrylic paints ($20 per child). An Artsy Me staff member walks each child through creating a masterpiece. • The Glass Galore Party opens the world of glassfusing while creating a six inch glass-fused sun catcher or plaque for children ages eight and up, $25 per child.
little diPPers Painting Parties 706-699-4449, contact Haley Tam www.sip-and-dip.com Each child creates his or her own masterpiece in a fun, step-by-step painting class. All supplies are included. Parties last one and half hour to two hours. Birthday girl or boy may choose the painting from the gallery on the website. Ages five nd up. Free printable invitation. Adult supervision required for children under the age of five.
Three canvas sizes available: $35/child for a 16”x20” canvas (Five person minimum), $25/child for a 12”x16” canvas (Six person minimum) and $15/child for a 9”x12” canvas (10 person minimum). Party may be held at a location of your choice or at the MAC on Main Art Gallery in Thomson, Ga., for no extra cost. A $50 deposit is due two weeks prior to the event.
arty Party oF augusta www.artypartyfun.com eprice@artypartyfun.com 706-267-8453 Plan an Arty Party at your home or the venue of your choice. Professional, artistic face painting is $120 for one hour of $75 per hour for two or more hours. Henna parties, great for teens and adults and are the same price. Canvas parties for children and adults are $300 for up to ten artists and $25 per additional artist. A 50% deposit reserves your party. Check out “Arty Party of Augusta” on Facebook for beautiful photos of their work.
Van gogh and Vino 110 Pleasant Home Rd., Suite 2-B. Le Pavilion Shopping Center. Augusta, GA 706-284-6649 VanGoghandVino.com Kids Painting Parties are fun, educational and an exciting new way for your child to be creative. “Mini Vinnie” Parties (Ages six to14) Cost for parties: $150 deposit required to reserve the date. Balance due at time of event. $275 covers up to 10 painters. Each additional painter is $25. “Mini Vinnie” parties are scheduled on Saturday’s from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m., 1:30 p.m. to 3:30 p.m. or Sunday from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. Parties include: • A theme-specific painting for your party (with three weeks advanced notice). • All the painting materials, art instruction and fun!
GET IN THE GAME skateland oF augusta 2451 Windsor Spring Rd., Augusta, GA 706-796-4048 www.www.skatelandofaugusta.com They take care of everything but the cake, with several party packages to choose. No charge for non-skating parents. Choose from options to have party during public session, on a weekend or night or a private party. Basic party (public session) includes ($130): • 10 children, $8 each additional child • Ice cream cup for each child • Unlimited soda • Birthday child receives a t-shirt, speed skate rental, and
Party guide free pass for future visit • Free skate rentals for guests • Party table area, paper goods, table cloth and balloons. 50 minutes in party area • Invitations • Dedicated party hostess • Parents of birthday child skate free • Make it a hotdog or pizza skate party for an additional charge Super Duper (public session) Party ($260): • 10 children, $11 each additional child • Everything in the basic party plus two large single topping pizzas • 10 glow products • One pair of GTX-500 speed skates for the birthday child
Brunswick national lanes 3067 Washington Road, Augusta, GA 706-860-1668 www. bowlbrunswick.com Choose the Birthday Party KidZ package for a birthday celebration with bowling, pizza, soft drinks and more. Or, provide your guests with MEGA fun at a MEGA value with our MEGA Birthday Party KidZ package – including extra goodies for the guests and a keepsake signature bowling pin for the birthday kid that the guests can sign.
Gordon lanes BowlinG center Ft. Gordon, Bldg. 33200, 3rd Ave., Fort Gordon, GA 706-791-3446 www.fortgordon.com Bowlopolis Birthday Parties includes one hour of bowling and one hour in the party room, shoe rental, choice of three meals and treat bag. $11 per child (minimum of 10 children).
auGusta aquatics center 3157 Damascus Rd., Augusta, GA 706-261-0424 www.www.augustaga.gov Parties are held on Saturdays from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. for children ages 12 and under. $150 fee includes admission for up to 20 swimmers. Call to make reservations. Includes: • Party room • Beverages and Goodie bags • Paper products • Display board message for birthday child
Premiere martial arts 401 West Martintown Rd., North Augusta, SC 803-640-8443 706-432-6963. 701 Devika Dr., Grovetown, GA www.hensleypma.com or email at info@hensleypma.com Qualified martial arts instructors at Premier Martial Arts
will lead the children in games, activities, and a safe karate lesson. Parents can sit back and watch or they can participate in all the activities themselves! They accommodate any size party from five guests to 50. Parties last one and half hour to plenty of time for cake and ice cream. The fee is $195. They also can offer appearances by any and all four of the ninja turtles or Panda. The fee is $50 per character to make a 10 to 15 minute appearance and for picture taking. By request they also have a 30-foot inflatable tumble track at the North Augusta location. For a $25 fee party guests get 30 minutes of jumping and tumbling fun.
auGusta GreenJackets Lake Olmstead Stadium, 78 Milledge Rd., Augusta, GA 706-922-9467 www.milb.com or email at thenderson@greenjacketsbaseball.com Watch the game and celebrate together. $15 per person. Season starts in mid-April. Little Caesar’s Birthday Party Includes: • Reserved tickets • Autographed baseball for the birthday child • Little Caesar’s Pizza and dessert • Free Admission to the Fun Zone • Table in the Fun Zone for food and cake • Sing Happy Birthday on the dugout
c & c Gymnastics 1340 Augusta West Parkway Augusta, (706) 364-4785 www.candcgymnastics.com or email Flip@CandCGymnastics.com Birthday parties start at $175 for up to 15 kids, $5 each additional child. Parties with gymnastics, games and fun!. Parties Include: • Full hour of gymnastics with a coaching staff. • Party space for Cake and presents
Gymnastics Gold 124 Cedar Ln., Augusta, GA 706-650-2111 www.gymnasticsgold.com Kids enjoy age-appropriate games using a variety of gymnastics equipment. Party packages for ages four and up to accomondate up to 20 children. Prices are $150 for members, $175 for non-members. Additional fees for additional children. Parties last one and half hour nd are held Friday nights and Saturdays. No parties scheduled in June and July. Two trained instructors supervise. Make reservations at least two weeks in advance. A $25 deposit is required. Includes: • Party area and we clean up afterwards
• Drinks • Invitations • T-shirt for the birthday child
Haydens Gymnastics and cHeer academy 4300 Evans to Lock Rd., Evans, GA 706-868-0608. www.haydensgym.com. The Hayden’s birthday experience for up to 10 children begins with games in the gym, followed by an obstacle course and time on the trampoline and in the pit. Trained coaches supervise. Parties last 90 minutes for $250. Additional half hour of gym time can be scheduled for $50. Parent supplies food, cake and paper products. Pay $5 for each additional guest. A $50 deposit reserves the date. Pool parties may be scheduled during summer months. Includes: • Professional instructors • Set up and clean up • Invitations • Table decorations • Goody bags. • Special gift for birthday child.
Platinum sPorts and comPlete Game 3855 Washington Road Evans, GA 706-814-5916 www.www.playpscg.com/ Whether its an athletic event or a birthday party, all specific needs will be met.Private facility Rental: $225 for two hours, Half court rental $30/hr, Full court rental $50/hr (long term contract and special pricing available) Birthday Special includes: • full facility- $250 for two hours • pizza and drinks for 10 kids • T-shirt for birthday child • price is for 10 children -$4 for each additional child
Putt-Putt Fun Center 3763 Martinez Blvd., Martinez, GA 706-868-0083 www.www.augustagabirthdayparties.com Birthday party packages range from $9.99 per person to $14.99 per person. Kids can participate in activities including laser tag, the game room and batting cages, in addition to playing putt-putt. Secure your desired party day and time with a $25 deposit. All packages include: • One attraction of your choice • 15 gameroom tokens • Indoor total play (soft play area) • One Hour in a private party room • Rita’s Ice Custards or substitute a birthday cake
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Party guide • Unlimited soft drinks while in the party room • Party invitations and paper goods • Birthday gift for the honoree. • Group party photo • Party supervisor
Red Wing RolleRWay 3065 Washington Rd., Augusta, GA 706-860-1548 www.redwingrollerway.net Open session parties start at $195 for up to 10 guests and a two hour private parties are $325 for up to 20 guests. The birthday child participates for free in both packages and additional guests are $7 each. Birthday parents skate free. Includes: • DJ • Games • Skates • Invitations • Balloons • Soft drink, hot dogs, chips and cake • Paper products • T-shirt for birthday child
SeigleR’S KaRate CenteR 4471 Columbia Rd., Martinez, GA 706-855-5685 West: 370 Furys Ferry Rd., Ste. 1, Evans, GA 706-364-3535 The perfect party for active kids! Karate and games…plus you can cut your cake with a real samuri sword! Ninja party for up to 20 guests is $399 and includes: • One and a half hour of facility use • Two instructors, one rubber ninja star for each guest • Two cheese pizzas, beverages, plates and napkins • One Ninja suit for the birthday child • Karate class and Ninja obstacle course • Birthday child board breaking • Ninja cutting sword ceremony • $5 for each additional guest • Other party themes available
StaRS and StRiKeS Kid PaRtieS! We do all the work, you have all the fun. Make their day special and memorable with a bowling party, arcade, laser tag and more with family and friends. Several packages to choose. For more info and more package options, visit www.starsandstrikes.com or call 678-965-5707. Extreme Bash! $20.99 Per person Bowling Shoe rental 1 session of laser tag
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1 session of bumper cars $5.00 arcade game for each guest $17.50 arcade game for birthday child Extreme bash gift for birthday child. Two hour party (Minimum of 10 children, tax & gratuity not included) www.starsandstrikes.com.
SoutheRn tang Soo do MaRtial aRtS Studio 2007 Tobacco Rd., Augusta, GA 706-793-6603 www.stsdkarate.com Two-hour parties cost $225 for up to 12 children. Additional children are $8.50 each. Parents are welcome to bring food and snacks. A CD with party pictures is available for $15. Includes: • Karate-themed invitations and thank you notes • Karate uniform for the birthday child • Martial arts headbands for each child • A balloon for each child. • Party tables with karate theme • Cake, drinks and ice cream • Goodie bags with VIP pass for a free karate class for each participating child
EATS AND TREATS ChuCK e CheeSe 3435 Wrightsboro Rd., Augusta, GA 706-737-4557 www.www.chuckecheese.com Plan a birthday party with pizza and games or organize your own walk-in party without reserving a party package. On-line party reservations are available as well as e-vites. Choose from the Star package , the Super Star package or the Mega Super Star package. Minimum of four children. Parties start at $12.99 per child. All Packages Include: • Two hours of reserved table space • Ticket Blaster experience for the birthday child • Crown for the birthday child • Star recognition in the show • Game tokens for each child • Pizza and free refills on drinks • Party host or hostess • Festive tablecloth and plates
BRuSteR’S Real iCe CReaM 1115 Agerton Lane, Augusta, GA, 706-731-9929 516 North Belair Rd., Evans, GA, 706-210-5160 www.realicecream.com Outdoor parties during store hours at Bruster’s are $175 for up to 20 people (Two hours). Additional guests are $20/per person. Please inquire about prices for ice
cream catering for off-site parties. Packages available for Augusta and Evans locations only. We offer a tour of the store, make your own ice cream and more. Includes: • Bruster’s ice cream cake • Nathan’s Famous hot dogs, chips and fountain drinks • Balloons • Paper products • Set-up and cleanup • A birthday message on the leader board
diPPin’ dotS 706-364-3476 3328 Washington Rd., Augusta, GA www.www.dippindots.com Choose from one of three party packages starting at $6.50 per person with a minimum of 10 people, including a party in which each child receives a glitter tattoo for $7.50 per person. Parent can supply cake. They will even open to host parties before regular store hours upon request. Take-home party packs are available by pre-order. Call for details.
the PinK diPPeR 501 Georgia Ave., North Augusta, SC 803-279-4100 Rent their party room by the hour ($25)
BUILD THEIR BRAINS BRiCKS 4 Kidz 706-513-5789 www.www.bricks4kidz.com Two hours of non-stop fun with Lego® bricks. Kids ages four and up will love a Bricks 4 Kidz party. Basic birthday package starts at $185 for eight children and includes invitations, paper products, drinks, a Bricks 4 Kidz t-shirt and an awesome party host! Builder Birthday package starts at $240 for eight children and includes many extras in addition to the basic package such as pizza, mini-figures and mini-models for kids to take home. Parents bring the cake. Parties Include: • Party host • Invitations • Free play time plus lots of games and challenges • Paper products • Bricks 4 Kidz® t-shirt for birthday child • Drinks
edVentuRe ChildRen’S MuSeuM Gervais St., Columbia, SC 803-400-1168 www.www.edventure.org Throw Eddie’s Big Birthday Bash for $184-$207 for mem-
Party guide bers, $230 for non-members for up to 15 guests (Two hours). Additional guests are $15 each. Adults are free. Parent brings cake and ice cream and other food. Party add-ons available for additional charge. Includes: • Birthday parade led by an EdVenture Birthday Buddy • Party room for two hours • Special birthday ceremony in front of Eddie® • All-day admission for party guests • Ready-to-mail invitations • T-shirt for birthday child
OUTSIDE ADVENTURE
pAtrIots pArk 5445 Columbia Rd, Grovetown, GA 706-863-7523 www.columbiacountyga.gov A variety of facilities are available to rent from a multipurpose room to gyms and pavilions. Bobby Waters Gymnasium is a popular place for birthday parties. Rates for the multi-purpose room are $30 per hour or $200 per day. The basketball gyms can also be reserved at a rate of $35 per hour or $200 per day. Patriots Pavilions can be reserved for $75 per day or free of charge on a first-come first serve basis. Other pavilions at Columbia County parks such as Blanchard Woods, Riverside and Wildwood Park can be reserved as well ranging in price up to $200 per day.
AugustA CAnAl InterpretIve Center 1450 Greene St., Augusta, GA 706-823-0440, ext. 7 www.augustacanal.com or hmadden@augustacanal.com Charter a Petersburg boat for up to 36 guests for $350 per boat for one hour, $600 for a three hour trip to the Headgates and back. Bring refreshments of your choice. You can book your party at the Canal’s Interpretive Center.
phInIzy swAMp & nAture pArk 1858 Lock and Dam Rd., Augusta, GA 706-828-2109 www. phinizycenter.org (click on Kid’s Birthday Parties tab) Nature Explorers Birthday parties available. Small party (up to 15 children) $190. Large party (16-25 children) additional $7.50 per child. Members receive a 10% discount.
steed’s dAIry 4635 Wrightsboro Rd., Grovetown, GA 706-564-0220 www.steedsdairy.com Birthday party activities on the farm include petting zoo, jumping pillow, giant tube slide, corn kernel pit, tube swings, rubber duckie races and more. The pavilion rents for $100. Cost per person is $4 except during corn maze season when it is $6 per person. Parent brings cake, ice cream and party supplies.
Party Includes: • Phin & Izzy puppet presentation, activities and games. • Guided explorative nature hike (approx. one hour) •. Popsicles •. Reusable kid’s sports water bottle for each child •. Phin and Izzy kid’s t-shirt for birthday child • Birthday party invitations •. Four hour room reservation—includes time for parent to set up and break down party decorations •. A Phinizy Swamp Nature Guide
MIstletoe stAte pArk 3725 Mistletoe Rd., Appling, GA 706-541-0321 www.gastateparks.org/mistletoe mistletoe.park@dnr.ga.gov A variety of birthday party packages are available featuring ranger-led programs and activities. Program themes vary from lake ecology to carnival games. Packages Include: • A 45-minute ranger-led program with a nature craft • Five park passes and picnic shelter rental • Party decorations Camping Birthday Package Includes: • Two campsites overnight and picnic shelter rental • 45 minute program • Five park passes Additional Options Include: • Souvenir bags • A state park-themed birthday cake. • A t-shirt for the birthday child • A second ranger-led program
reed Creek pArk And wetlAnd Interpretive Center 706-210-4027 3820 Park Lane, Martinez, GA www.ReedCreekPark.com Birthday parties for children ages five and up take the party to nature and the great outdoors with guided activities. Parties last 90 minutes. Member cost is $150 for up to 10 children plus $6 for each additional child. Non-members cost is $200 for up to 10 children plus $7 for each additional child. There is a 14-child maximum. Full payment must be received two weeks in advance of the party date. Includes: • Nature games and activities. • Paper products • Balloons and decorations • Cake, drinks and goody bags • Invitations.
MOVIE TIME! regAl CIneMAs AugustA 1144 Agerton Lane, Augusta, GA 706-667-9713 www.regmovies.com Make your birthday child (ages three to 11) a “Star for a Day” with their own party at the movies. Call for pricing. Adults responsible for their own admission. The party room is available at an additional charge either before or after the movie. Party room rental includes paper products and beverages. Movie Party Includes: • Admission and game tokens • Reserved seating • Zap Pack.
rIverwAtCh luxury CIneMAs 832 Cabela Drive Augusta, GA 706- 664-0925 www.gtcmovies.com Free Movie Ticket for your birthday One free restricted admission available for use seven days before and seven days after your birthday. Call for additional details on special birthday packages.
the sAlvAtIon ArMy kroC Center 1833 Broad St., Augusta, GA 706-922-1533 www. salvationarmyaugusta.org The Movie Critic Party is a two and a half hour party that includes a rated G or PG movie of your choice (pending approval from our movie provider), popcorn for each attendee and up to one hour in the party room after the movie (time is based on length of movie). Party packages start at $225 for up to 20 guests and $300 for up to 40 guests for two hours. All Parties Include: • Party room with a party master • T-shirt for birthday child • Invitations • Paper products • Lemonade • Cupcakes
GO HIGH TECH rollIng vIdeo gAMes www. RollingVideoGames.com rvgaugusta@aol.com 706-830-4389 They set up, entertain and clean up! Packages start at $225 for a one hour party with the Game Coach. A two hour party with the Game Coach, 30 full color invitations and cake is
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$250 and up depending on the day of the week. Includes: • A Game Coach who serves as an on-site tech that assists with playing the games and encourages fun and balanced play for guests • Game Truck and trailer come rain or shine. A fairly level parking area is needed • Xbox 360 and Wii stations allow 16 gamers to game at once or separately • Vibration-rocking stadium seating • Tons of game choices available.
LeveL Up Game Center 3837 Martinez Blvd., Augusta, GA 706-305-3780 www.level-up-augusta.com Three party options from which to choose. Kids 12 and up can plan an all-night party event for $20 per guest. Food and tournaments for prizes are included. A second party option is a private rental with packages starting at $125 per hour. Parents supply the food.
the pLayhoUse 4107 Riverwatch Parkway Martinez, GA 706- 426-8493 www.facebook.com/pg/PlayhouseGA Fantastic family fun and a great party spot. Relax while your children have a blast with the Playhouse Rangers on a large, indoor jungle gym. Want to burn some energy too? Go head to head in the race car video game, basketball arcade game, or a game of pool. Coming soon for ages seven and up. Enjoy a friendly game of Indoor Paintball.
Xp GaminG LoUnGe 4534 Washington Road, Ste. 12, Evans, GA 706-524-2018 www.xpgaminglounge.com or www.facebook.com/xpgaminglounge This family friendly video game lounge is perfect for birthday parties! Equipped with Xbox One, Wii U and high-powered gaming computers. Regular hours: Thursday, 6:00 p.m. to 12:00 a.m., Friday and Saturday, 6:00 p.m. until 2:00 a.m. • Sunday-Saturday Available for private parties • $165 for up to 15 people for a two-hour party • $195 for up to 20 people for a two-hour party
BRING IN THe CLOWNS tmt prodUCtions www.facebook.com/tmtdj21 dj@gmail.com 706-825-1041 DJ entertainment with 10 years of experience. They provide DJ entertainment for birthday parties, weddings, dances, proms, and other events.
Uncle Sam’S magic Show (Sam harden, Jr.) www.unclesamsmagicshow.com 706-945-2053 Professional full-time magician and storyteller, Fun family oriented comedy magic entertainment and balloon twisting. Specializing in children’s birthday parties for ages four and up. These shows are colorful and engaging with full audience participation and the use of selected volunteers. The birthday child is the star of the show.
the CLUbhoUse Kids pUppet theater 350 Marshall St., Martinez, GA www. mjohnpuppet 706951-7938 man.wix.com/theclubhousekids.
magic mike gilliland, magic with a twiSt! 4128 Fair Oaks Road, Martinez, GA 706-855-9177, info@magicwithatwist.com. Call for pricing and availability
Birthdays R Us Package: • Ventriloquist act or puppet show • Comedy magic show and balloons for everyone • $100.00 for one hour up to 40 guests Birthday Bash Package: • Ventriloquist act, puppet show and comedy magic act. • Balloons for everyone plus a lesson on how to make a balloon figure • Birthday person receives a crown and a gift • $150.00 for one hour up to 40 guests
Magic Mike Magic Birthday Show *40 min Magic Show *Magic Wand for the Birthday Child *Jumbo Dollar bill with 4 easy to learn tricks *Magic Set for the Birthday Child
aCme FUn FaCtory www.jinglesandcrew.com 706-294-5910 or 803-652-8335 Schedule clowns Jingles and JJ to entertain at your child’s next birthday party, bring in Mr. Magic to perform or surprise your child with a visit from his or her favorite superhero or character. One entertainer is $150 per hour. Add an additional entertainer for just $75 per hour for up to 15 children. Pay only $1 for each additional child. Acme Fun Factory also rents a variety of inflatables, concession equipment (such as sno-cone and cotton candy machines) and tables and chairs.
vintaGe oooLLee 1121 Broad St., Augusta, GA 706-724-2591. Let mom or dad pose as a friendly character at your next party. Costumes include a kitty, teddy bears, bunny rabbits, puppy dogs and more. Popular storybook character costumes also available. Come in a week before rental date and get fitted. Rentals start at $50.
Hocus-Pocus Party Package *40 min Magic Show *Magic Wand for the Birthday Child *Jumbo Dollar bill with 4 easy to learn tricks *Magic Set for the Birthday Child *12 Goody Bags Abracadabra Party Package *40 min Magic Show *Magic Wand for the Birthday Child *Jumbo Dollar bill with 4 easy to learn tricks *Magic Set for the Birthday Child *12 Goody Bags *Inflatable Rental from Magic with a Twist
sinGinG prinCesses www.singingprincessesga.com. www.facebook.com/singingprincesses. The Singing Princesses will help make your little princess’s dreams come to life, even if just for a day! Dressed as fairy tale princesses, these professionally trained vocalists will create an enchanting experience that won’t soon be forgotten. Depending on the party package that is chosen, the Princesses will provide your guests with an afternoon of singing, dancing, storytelling and learning the meaning of true beauty. The experience can conclude with a Fairy Dust Coronation, making each attendee a true princess. The Singing Princesses are available for events throughout the CSRA.
Party Guide information provided by the organizations listed or appear as listed on their website and may change without notice to Augusta Family Magazine.
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bullying and suicide: AN ALARMING EPIDEMIC By DR. DANA HARRIS
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ver the past decade, the link between bullying and suicide has been raised. You have likely read several of the shocking news reports of the tragic loss of a young person’s life. The death of a young person by suicide is indeed a tragic event that leaves parents wondering how did this happen and what could have been done to prevent it? In response to such events, national campaigns, bullying prevention programs and anti-bullying laws and policies –aimed at getting bullied children the help they need has been established. Currently, there aren’t any federal anti-bullying laws but state and local lawmakers have become more vigilant in taking steps in the right direction. This help is aimed at preventing bullying and to protect the physical, emotional and psychological welfare of our children. To date, 49 states have passed anti-bullying legislation. Bullying behavior is prevalent and cuts across every socio-economic, racial/ethnic and cultural lines. Bullying has become an epidemic and is an unfortunate experience that many of our young people are forced to endure during their formative years. Bullying often occurs in our communities, schools and sadly-even in our homes. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and other violence prevention partners have de-
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voted substantial time and energy into learning more about the relationship between bullying and suicide. The goal is to use this knowledge to save lives and prevent future bullying. In recent years, a series of bullying-related suicides has drawn global attention to the connection between bullying and suicide. According to studies by Yale University, suicide is the third leading cause of death of youth between the ages of 12 and 18 and American high school students report that over the course of one year, 14% had seriously considered suicide, 11% made plans for how they would end their lives and 6% actually attempted to commit suicide. For every suicide among young people, there are at least 100 suicide attempts. Youth who are bullied are between two to 9 times more likely to consider suicide than non-victims. According to statistics reported by ABC News, nearly 30% of students are either bullies or victims of bullying. Overall, about 25% of students K-12 have experienced harassment or bullying based on disability, sexual orientation, religion, gender and/or race. All in all, about 160,000 children stay home from school on any given day because they are afraid of intimidation or an attack from bullies. The implications of bullying are quite chilling because 75% of school-shooting incidents have been linked to bullying and harassment. Statistics suggest that re-
venge (due to bullying) is the number one motivator for school shootings in the U.S. What’s even more startling is that over 64% of students who are bullied say they do not report it because they do not feel schools respond adequately.
Know the enemy. There is no universal definition of bullying. However, it is widely agreed upon that bullying is a subcategory of aggressive behavior characterized by hostile intent, imbalance of power and repetition. Bullying is the activity of repeated and aggressive behavior intended to hurt another individual either physically, mentally or emotionally. When most people think of bullying, they envision some kind of physical intimidation but bullying can take on many forms such as emotional and psychological damage as well as physical intimidation and harassment. There are four general forms of bullying: physical, verbal, social and cyber-bullying. Most bullying behavior occurs at school, either on school grounds or on the school bus. Bullying may even occur at home between siblings or in the community. The first and most important step to combating and preventing bullying is paying close attention to the warning signs. Many victims feel alone, isolated and humiliated. If left unaddressed, depression, eating disorders,
post traumatic stress disorder and even thoughts of suicide may occur. For this reason, it is important that parents and teachers realize that bullying is not a rite of passage and it will not make victims stronger but instead bullying has lasting consequences and should be dealt with swiftly and effectively.
Potential warning signs that your child is being bullied: • • • • • • • • • • •
Increased passivity or withdrawal Withdrawal, problems with eating or sleeping A drop in grades; sudden change in behavior or mood A loss of interest in activities he or she previously enjoyed Torn clothing, or other belongings that are often missing Bruises, scrapes, marks, or other unexplained injuries A need for extra money or supplies Not wanting to attend school Complaints of stomach aches, headaches, or saying they’re sick Indicators or statements they have no friends or that no one likes them. Depressed or anxious
Many kids are embarrassed to be bullied and may not tell their parents or another adult right away. If your child comes to you and ask for help with a bully, take it seriously. Parents play a critical role and most states are implementing laws against bullying.
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First, give your child space to talk and be empathetic. Once you’ve opened the door, help your child solve the problem. Role-play situations and teach your child ways to respond. Reassure your child that you’re always there to help and reaffirm your love and acceptance. Pay attention to what your child watches on TV and to what entertains them. The media can play a huge role in influencing children’s behavior so parents should engage in regular conversations about electronic communications, inappropriate behavior online and repercussions of improper usage. Talk with the teacher, the counselor or the administrator at the school and follow up with them to ensure the situation has been resolved. Many times, kids who are being bullied don’t ask for help again. Remain calm in front of your child and don’t make threats or other angry statements about the bullying child or the parents. Teach your child how to solve problems without using violence and praise them when they do Encourage your child to help others who need it and to never remain silent. Support bully prevention programs in your child’s school.
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Children mimic behavior so be careful with regards to your own language and reactions, Model empathy. If an incident of bullying is beyond your comfort level, don’t hesitate to enlist the services of a professional or a colleague with more experience. Don’t give advice if you’re unsure what advice to give.
Is Your Child the Bully? It’s hard for any parent to believe that their child is a bully, but sometimes it happens. Take it seriously! Don’t treat bullying as a passing phase. Even if you’re not worried about the long-lasting effects on your child, another child is being hurt. Talk directly to your child, his or her teacher and the counselor about why this is happening. Don’t ignore the issue – this can give the unintentional message that his bullying behavior is acceptable. Also, don’t just assume he’ll just “grow out of it.”
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Lacks empathy and doesn’t sympathize with others Values aggression Likes to be in charge Is an arrogant winner or a sore loser Often fights with brothers and sisters Impulsive Behavior
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Showing signs of depression, like ongoing sadness, withdrawal from others, losing interest in favorite activities, trouble sleeping or eating problems. Showing an interest in death or dying Engaging in dangerous or harmful activities, including reckless behavior, substance abuse or self-injury Giving away favorite possessions and saying goodbye to people Saying or expressing that they can’t handle things anymore Making comments that things would be better without them Severe and persistent depressive mood
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Friends and relatives of suicide victims also need to talk as they grieve, especially if they are suffering from depression or suicidal thoughts themselves.
Bullying and suicide are tough topics to breach but it is critically important to work with counselors, psychologists, a social worker or school officials who can all expertly assess risk for suicide. A common myth is that asking about suicide will somehow lead someone to consider it, but there’s no evidence to support this theory. Most students have a combination of risk and protective factors for bullying behavior and suicide-related behavior but there is no doubt that bullying can have detrimental effects and that prevention of bullying could improve health and mental health outcomes for our youth. Educators and health care professionals should also consider broadening their scope and focus beyond just providing services to those who are already involved in bullying or suicide-related behaviors, and consider implementing strategies to help prevent bullying and suicide behaviors from occurring in the first place. There is indeed a lot of concern, even panic, regarding this ongoing dilemma among our schoolage youth. Much of the media coverage is focused on blame and criminal justice intervention rather than evidence-based, action-oriented prevention. Through my research, I am strongly encouraged to know that our public health researchers are continually seeking a better understanding of the relationship between bullying and suicide related behaviors in addition to the related risk and protective factors that affect our young people. We should all be optimistic that there has been an increased awareness concerning this devastating epidemic and applications to prevention. This will be crucial as we look ahead. As parents, you have a vital role to play by getting the word out and encouraging others in the community to do the same.
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1800-273 TALK (8255) Suicidepreventionlifeline.org (HTTPS://NOBULLYING.COM/CONTACT-US www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/youthviolence/bullyresearch/index.html Federal Partners in Bullying Preventionwww. stopbullying.gov https://www.educationcorner.com/bullyingfacts-statistics-and-prevention.html http://sicideprevention.nv.gov/Youth/WhatYouCanDo/ 1-800-CDC-INFO (232-4636) www.cdc.gov/ violenceprevention https://nobullymg.com/bullying-suicide-statistics
DR. DANA HARRIS is a retired educator and educa-
tional consultant
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Raising Readers b y Mere d i th Fl o r y
Domestic Literacy Readers, I am so happy to begin writing this column for you for a third year. Whether you’ve been with me since the beginning, or you are new to Augusta Family, I’m excited to have you join me on this journey as we “raise readers” together. As we entered the New Year, my daughter has just begun to sound out words on her own, and is developing a love of graphic novels for kids – it’s so exciting to see her begin to put the pieces together for an act that has brought me so much joy. While literacy will always be my focus in this column, I wanted to begin 2018 thinking about something a little different – domestic literacy. For the next few columns, I’m going to focus on ways to teach children important life skills, such as sewing, cooking, and gardening. Learning these skills can directly connect to other subjects, and give children a sense of responsibility and confidence.
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Raising Readers
I recently spoke with Jordan Nuques, a local mother and owner of My Best Friend’s Sewing Room, where children and adults can learn the art of sewing through creative classes. Nuques offered insights into why this skill is so important, and how her classes can make a great gift for a child or parent in your life. Nuques starting sewing at the age of 12, learning the skill through her involvement with 4-H, but says that she “did not fall in love with sewing until I was a mom sewing for my own kids.” She began to enjoy teaching other stay-at-home moms to sew, but “wished I had more room to teach more students”. After gaining experience at a local quilt shop teaching sewing and embroidery, a change in her family’s schedule gave her the motivation to form “my own business teaching kids how to sew.” She exclaimed, “It was the best risk I ever took!” When we have the access to cloths, linens, and other items so easily and readily accessible, sewing might seem like an oldfashioned skill, and not one taught in as many homes now, but Nuques explains that, “sewing is a valuable life skill. We need to learn how to mend our clothes, hem up pants, and sew buttons.” She continued to list examples showing how it’s a skill that can save money, and create less waste in our homes. It’s also a skill that can be valuable in other activities. As an example she shared that she “had a student who once told me that her dad sewed. He was a doctor…kids need to practice basic hand-sewing for life’s little emergencies.” Many people may think of sewing as a stereo-typically female pursuit, but many fields that require sewing skills, such as tailoring, upholstery, and costume design, frequently employ men, and as a military spouse, I can attest to the fact that uniform maintenance can be cost saving for adults in a number of fields. Exploring sewing may help your son explore his passions through a new skill. Nuques welcomes boys in her sewing classes, and many of her popular themes for classes, like Harry Potter and Minecraft, appeal to boys and girls. She shares, “I am more than happy to offer custom colors and fabric prints for boys. Earlier this year we had a doll sewing camp. My 8-year-old boy student opted to make a Batman. He had so much fun!” Sewing instructions can be complicated, and learning to follow each step allows children to practice reading, patience, and attention to detail. And while reading is importance, Nuques acknowledges that math is a key component of sewing. When creating her own patterns, “for example, there is a mathemati-
cal formula for making a pillow cover for any given size pillow insert. Also, if I have a circular bottom for a tote bag, I will need to know how to find the circumference of a circle and add the seam allowances to find the width of the fabric for the sides.” She compares it to a recipe for cooking – “first, you have to have all the ingredients”, in this case, sewing supplies, and then “follow instructions in order, step by step.” She acknowledges that now Pinterest and You-Tube have allowed many people to receive guidance on sewing if they don’t have someone in their life to teach them, but that “some students need to take a class with a sewing teacher to make learning more approachable for them.” This is where My Best Friend’s Sewing Room comes in for families in the CSRA. Nuques offers scheduled classes, camps, private lessons, and birthday parties, with sewing machine classes starting at age eight. Homeschoolers can find classes during the week, and she offers discounts for Girl Scout troops. Weekend birthday parties run two hours with a cost of $30.00 per student. A non-refundable party deposit goes towards the final cost, and is required to reserve the date. Parents bring the cake and refreshments, and Nuques takes care of the rest with a fun sewing activity for party goers. As a parent, sewing may be a skill you’ve never learned, but you’ve experienced moments such as a torn beloved stuffed animal or blanket, that has made you wish you could find time to learn. While many of her classes focus on children, Nuques offers opportunities for parents as well. She offers Mommy and Me lessons on her schedule or as private events and says, “it’s wonderful to see mother and child working side-by-side, learning a new skill and spending quality time together.” She also offers adult only classes and private lessons, and groups can book “Sip and Sew” parties for a fun Mom’s Night Out. She emphasizes that “modern parents are running from activity to activity and need to learn sewing basics so they can help their child with a school project, Halloween costume, or making a baby blanket. I believe the sewing machine to be a helpful household tool that can be used by both parents and children.” Classes, pictures, and pricing can be found at www.mybestfriendsewingroom.com or on Facebook at My Best Friend’s Sewing Room. Meredith Flory is an Augusta-area freelance writer, military spouse and mother of two. She has a masters degree in children’s literature from Kansas State University and has taught high school and college English.
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Inspiration Station by D u s t i n T u r ne r
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Autism and Disabilities Support Group
Lee Schel says the goal of the Augusta Autism and Disabilities Support Group is to provide a safe and comforting place that is free of judgment for people with autism and their families. He knows personally – his son, Evan, is autistic. “For me personally this group is very therapeutic in that I can go into a room with other adults and have an adult conversation with people who get it and understand what we are going through. When we are all at home, we are dealing with our challenges but to have a conversation with people I can be comfortable with really recharges my batteries.” Lee and his wife, Svetlana have three children: Natalie, 12; Evan, 10; and Kaylee, 8. When they moved to Augusta from New York a few years ago, they discovered it is not always easy to find resources for children with special needs, so they joined the Augusta Autism and Disabilities Support Group to seek out resources. “We became regular members a few years back when the group met at Children’s Hospital. We
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were one of the few regular members and we were usually doing good to have four or five people at a meeting. We spoke to the people organizing the meetings and suggested moving it to a more accessible location with better parking and more space.” Wesley United Methodist Church on Belair Road has been wonderful, Lee said, in providing them with plenty of room for the group to hold meetings and activities. “So I started helping organize with the people who were doing it. They have since moved away and my wife and I inherited the group. We have grown a lot, which we are very pleased with.” One of the support group’s primary missions is to let people know they are not alone in their challenges. According to the Centers for Disease Control, one in 68 children is diagnosed with autism which affects children across all social and economic groups. The disorder is 4.5 times more common with boys: 1 in 42 boys and 1 in 189 girls is diagnosed. The symptoms, Lee says, can vary widely. “Those affected typically have difficulty communicating,
forming relationships and even using simple language. They call it a spectrum because the range of symptoms and difficulties is very broad.” Many children have sensory issues. It is difficult for them to process lights and sounds. Going out in public can be overwhelming to them. Other children are completely non-verbal their whole lives, and others can carry on coherent conversations but exhibit other symptoms. Though verbal, they may not understand social nuance and the basics of forming relationships. “Evan has a very good vocabulary. He will tell us a lot of what he sees, but he cannot tell you how he’s feeling. We ask and he says, “Fine, thank you,” as a conditioned response but he doesn’t understand.” The Augusta Autism and Disabilities Support Group helps the families of autistic children in many ways. “In our area in Augusta, there are an unbelievable amount of families with special needs children. There is no one place or one doctor in town to give you the diagnosis and resources, so
Inspiration Station families are often left on their own to figure it out.” Families who have found the group often find comfort in realizing they are not alone in the challenges they face. “When you don’t know what to do and how to help your child, it’s very isolating. For a lot of families, just to leave their house and go do everyday things is a worrisome and an ordeal. They worry about what people will think if their child has a meltdown in the grocery store, so to come to a setting and meet other families and to not feel alone is very comforting.” That has been the case for Brad and Heather Jex, whose son, Elijah, 14, is autistic. “It is comforting to find people who understand us, don’t judge us and show compassion,” Heather said at the support group’s Jan. 16 meeting. “We get to bounce ideas off each other and discuss such things as an autistic child transitioning into puberty with parents who have been there.” The Augusta Autism and Disabilities Support Group has partnered with the Augusta University Occupational Therapy Department to provide free childcare during the meetings for special needs children and their siblings. Occupational therapy students volunteer their time to watch the children and engage them with movies, activities and arts and crafts. Letting siblings attend lets them interact with other siblings of autistic children. Vusani and Alyson Nlebgwa have two children: Sean, 7, and Kaitlyn, 10. Sean is autistic but both children come to the meetings with their parents. “Sean is very social,” Vusani said. “He likes to be out of the house and to be in other spaces, even though he is reclusive when he’s there.” Because Kaitlyn comes, too, she is more aware, Alyson said. “She knows what to expect and has learned how to explain it to others.” Having free childcare is important, Lee said, because it allows parents to attend the group and receive support and comfort from other parents. “One of the biggest things we get from the meetings is that it’s a chance to network and share experiences,” Lee said. “Parents have to process a lot of emotions – helplessness, denial, isolation, not knowing what to do for their children. Meeting other families is part of the process to understand, accept your own situation and move forward.” Lee tries to start off every group meeting by giving parents a chance to celebrate their children’s accomplishments. “Sometimes, we get so caught up in the everyday challenges of life with a special needs child that we forget to be happy for our kids
and proud of the improvements they make and the steps they take.” A special needs child might learn to write his name at 12 years old or might sleep in her own bed for the first time at 14. “We might not realize these are things to celebrate because it’s not the norm but for our children, these are big steps. Our children face so many challenges day after day that we often miss the positive steps and things they’ve learned because we are so worried about the next challenge.” Lee and Svetlana are working to celebrate Evan’s accomplishments as much as possible. They have even started writing down events to share in the group. “Evan always had a hard time saying yes; he answered everything with no. Then we realized he was starting to say yes. We also realized that we had been so consumed with the challenges that we were missing accomplishments like that. So in the group, we want to let people relax a little and see their own situation in a little different light.” The Augusta Autism and Disabilities Support Group focuses mostly on autism, but it is designed for families with children who have any special needs, whether it is autism, Down syndrome or learning disabilities. No matter the disability, all the families face many similar struggles and concerns. The group Lee organizes meets twice a month. One meeting usually has a presentation or guest speaker. The other meeting, like the Jan. 16 meeting, is open discussion. People are welcome to discuss and share as much as they want or not at all. Many people find comfort in just being there and listening, Lee said. A group for adults with autism meets once a month and has started meeting at the same time as the Augusta Autism and Disabilities Support group. Dr. Teal Benevides, an assistant professor of occupational therapy at Augusta University, leads the adult group. “There seems to be a misconception that autism is a childhood disease, but children with autism grow up to be adults with autism,” Teal said. “And those adults want the same things any adult wants – employment, social connections and relationships.” Like Lee, Teal works to provide a comforting place for people to find acceptance without judgment and where they can network and find resources. “We discuss a lot things that pertain to adults, such as driving. That can be difficult for people with special needs and it’s not a big deal in big cities with lots of public transportation. In Augusta, though, transportation can be a challenge.” The last meeting of 2017, however, was a little
more laid-back. “We talked about the holidays and laughed a lot,” Teal said. “It gave them a social opportunity that isn’t always there.” Brandt White, 33, who has Asperger Syndrome, enjoys attending the adult group. “To me, it’s therapeutic. It gives me lots of gratitude and satisfaction because I’m meeting with and helping others with the same struggles. It’s a safe haven for kids with a new diagnosis and people my age.” At the Augusta Autism and Disabilities Support Group meeting on Jan. 16, people shared their children’s accomplishments, their frustrations with public schools and resources that might be able to help. Lee said he tends to steer the discussion away from medical topics. “There’s a saying that once you’ve met one child with autism, you’ve met one child with autism. In other words, because the spectrum is so broad, what works for one may not work for another.” Lee uses the meetings and the group’s Facebook group to share resources and activities for special needs children. When he found out that Airstrike was reserving a block of time for special needs children, he made sure the group knew about it. Regal Cinema shows sensory-friendly movies once a month, during which the lights are on, the volume is lower and children can make noise. Lee said he wants people to know that anyone can post information or questions on the group’s Facebook page. He urges people to ask questions, share experiences and resources and let others know about activities and events for special needs children. “You find strength, answers and comfort in numbers and it’s snowballing at this point. I get emails weekly from people who have moved into the area and heard about us. Anyone can use our group as a resource to help find what their family needs.” To families who are considering joining the group, Lee says: “Please come join us and meet other people going through similar challenges. Nothing is expected of you. That’s what we’re all about.” For more information about the Augusta Autism and Disabilities Support Group, including meeting times, email Lee at augustaautismanddisability@gmail.com or go to https://www.facebook.com/ateam.chog/.
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PuPPy Bowl TailgaTe ParTy We want to get our rescue pets off the sidelines and onto a warm couch in time for the Puppy bowl February 1 www.westobou.org
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Special Events February 1. aquinas High School
Open House Drop-In. 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. all interested families are invited to join for our Open House. www.aquinashigh.org. We’d love to hear from you. If you have an event you’d like to add to our next issue, send an email to renee.williams@ augustafamily.com.
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February 1. SeeDS: Westobou’s
Annual Art Exhibition. Westobou Gallery, 1129 broad St., augusta.
The third annual juried exhibition of small works priced at an affordable $300 or less features local and regional artists working with various media in a variety of styles. www.westobou.org. February 2. 36th annual Pasta
Festival-Lunch Immaculate Conception Catholic School. augusta. Presented by the Italian american
Club of the CSra. February 2, 9, 16 & 23. Girls Who
Code at Kroc Center. Founded with a single mission: to close the gender gap in technology... fewer than 1 in 5 computer science graduates are women. Come to the Kroc Center for this after school program for girls ages 11 years 17 years that will introduce you
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SEEDS: WESTOBOU’S ANNUAL ART EXHIBITION
The third annual juried exhibition of small works priced at an affordable $300 or less features local and regional artists working with various media in a variety of styles February 1 | www.westobou.org
to the coding world. Ray and Joan Kroc Corps Community Center 1833 Broad Street, Augusta. www. salvationarmyaugusta.org. (706) 364-5762
dren’s, Young Adult books also - great source for home-schoolers. Hardcover books at $1, mass-market paperbacks at 50 cents each. Get a start on your spring activities – read a book about them! www. arcpls.org
FEBRUARY 2. Cocktail Hour: The Show by Bal-
FEBRUARY 3. TEDxAugusta. This unique pro-
lets with a Twist. The Imperial Theatre kicks off its 100th Anniversary celebration with New York City’s Ballets with a Twist performing “Cocktail Hour: The Show.” Created by artistic director and choreographer Marilyn Klaus, “Cocktail Hour: The Show” reinvents the glamour and excitement of classic entertainment with an original mix of charismatic choreography, intoxicating music and exquisite costume design. For more info, visit www.imperialtheatre.com.
gram is built around the theme Venture – Dare to be Audacious. The daylong event will feature networking, local and national speakers offering inspiring talks on a variety of topics – all centered on the multifaceted theme: Venture. By sharing stories and lessons from thought and action leaders, we hope to inspire the community to dare to be audacious! Purchase tickets at www.event.etix.com. FEBRUARY 3. Puppy Bowl Tailgate party.
FEBRUARY 3. Friends of the Library Big Lobby
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Graced Kennels, 1918 Colony Park Road, Augusta. We want to get our rescue pets off the sidelines and onto a warm couch in time for
the Puppy Bowl (and that other Big Game)? This years Puppy Bowl will be Hands to Paws Rescue (H2P) vs Brass Knuckle Pin Ups Rescue (BKPUR). Each adoption application taken from January 16th through February 4th will count as a filed goal ( 3 points) and every adoption will count as a touchdown. The rescue with the most points wins the 2018 Puppy Bowl, winner announced Feb.4th the same day as the Big Game. This is the 52nd Big Game so we are offering $52 discount on adoption fees during this promotion only! Check back soon to see our rescue line up. www.brassknuckle.com. FEBRUARY 4.
Georgia Bridal Show at Bell Auditorium, Showtime at 3:00 p.m. Tickets are $12 at www. GeorgiaBridalShow.com or $15 cash only at the door. FEBRUARY 7. Horseback Riding Lessons. Hill-
FRIENDS OF THE LIBRARY BIG LOBBY SALE The Main Library Lobby filled with Books for Sale! Non-fiction and Fiction, Many Children’s, Young Adult books also - great source for home-schoolers. February 3 | www.arcpls.org
top Riding Stable. Ft. Gordon. Check off that last thing off your bucket list and learn to ride. www.fortgordon.com. FEBRUARY 8. Symphony Pops: Under the
Streetlamp at Bell Auditorium. Retro never sounded so now! As seen on PBS, Under the Streetlamp performs an electrifying evening of classic hits from the American Radio Songbook. www augustaentertainmentcomplex.com. FEBRUARY 9. Southern Soul and Song, Sam
Bush. Presented by Morris Museum of Art Budweiser True Music. Tickets at box office, (706)722-8341, www.imperialtheatre.com. February 9. Sweetheart Dance. Augusta Richmond County Public Linrary. “All You Need is Love” ~ The Beatles. FEBRUARY 10. Free Family Movie Afternoon.
Kroc Center. Join us in our state-of-the-art the-
ater for a FREE afternoon movie showing! This event is open to the public and concessions will be available for purchase. Children under 16 must be accompanied by an adult. Call for current movie selection or check Facebook! www.augustakroc.org. FEBRUARY 10. Kelsea Ballerini with Special
Guest Walker Hayes at Bell Auditorium.Fueled by a successful sold-out headlining tour last year, THE FIRST TIME TOUR, acclaimed Country star KELSEA BALLERINI is pushing full-throttle with the announce of THE UNAPOLOGETICALLY TOUR. For more info, visit www. KelseaBallerini.com. FEBRUARY 10. Tony Howard’s Motown Review
is back for its 11th straight year! The best of the Motown sound with dance and Elvis. This is Augusta’s Annual event that you don’t want to miss with tributes to: Gladys Knight and the
Pips, Barry White, Jr. Walker & the All Stars, Elvis and special tribute to Bruno Mars. FEBRUARY 10. Dr. Seuss on the Loose 5k &
10k. Ft. Gordon-Augusta. Open to the public. This Family Fun Event that will include a kids story time area with special guest The Cat in the Hat, inflatables, pint-sized obstacle course and music for all to enjoy. Signal Corp Museum will partner to provide tours of the museum and information handouts on Dr. Seuss, the Signal Corp. Soldier and Children author. www.forthordon.com. FEBRUARY 10. Anime & the Graphic Novel.
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ANIME & THE GRAPHIC NOVEL With the popularity of graphic novels on the rise, children and young adults are being inspired to create stories and characters of their own. Your student will learn the basics of storytelling, drawing and inking using both anime and classic comic book art styles. No previous experience required and all supplies will be provided. February 10 | www.krocsales.sauss.net.
styles. No previous experience required and all supplies will be provided. There will be a FREE family movie showing in our state-of-the-art Theater after class. All are welcome to enjoy the movie, so bring family and friends. www. krocsales.sauss.net. FEBRUARY 10. Ribbons of Hope Support
Event. Women coping with any type cancer and their caregivers will love the next Ribbons of Hope support event with guest speaker Dr Sharad Ghamande from the Georgia Cancer Center – Augusta University. Attendees can look forward to Dr. Ghamande’s informative message, refreshments, and friends who understand. Things go better with friends. For more information about The Lydia Project’s free and caring services, visit www.TheLydiaProject.org
or call 706.736.5467. FEBRUARY 14. Miki Howard. Headliners
Worldwide presents the ultimate Valentine’s Day celebration: An Evening with R&B Legend Miki Howard and Friends.Featuring jazz sensation Shableek, spoken word artist JC The Poet, and a special guest comedian.
elegant, but distant, Carol. Defying Carol’s reticence and his lonely sister’s jealousy, Ralph embarks on the trip of a lifetime, and regains a happiness that seemed all but lost. The Last Romance is a heartwarming comedy about the transformative power of love. For more info, visit www.fortgordon.com. FEBRUARY 16. Brantley Gilbert is bringing his
FEBRUARY 14-MARCH 3. Fort Gordon Dinner
Theatre “The Last Romance” A crush can make anyone feel young againeven a widower named Ralph. On an ordinary day in a routine life, Ralph decides to take a different path on his daily walk – one that leads him to an unexpected second chance at love. Relying on a renewed boyish charm, Ralph attempts to woo the
The Ones That Like Me 2018 Tour with Special Guests Aaron Lewis and Josh Phillips to James Brown Arena. www.augustaentertainmentcomplex.com FEBRUARY 17. Daddy, Daughter, Dinner and
Dance. Kroc Center. Come enjoy dinner and dancing with your daughter! Pre-registration is required, and registration closes 2/14/18.
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Price: $30 per daddy daughter pair & $10 for additional daughter. www.krocsales.sauss.net. February 16 Diana Krall. www. millerthe-
ateraugusta.com February 17. Go red 4 Women Fundraiser
event ~ “For My Sweet Heart” Dinner & Dance at Peter S. Knox Conference Center. Valentine’s Day and the color RED are special in that they both represent love. What better way to show love than to gain a better understanding of how to take care of the heart inside your body and the special sweet heart in your life. Heart disease doesn’t care if you’re single, married, dating, engaged, widowed, or divorced....and neither do we. Come out and support our 4th Annual Valentine’s Day fundraiser dinner and dance. Event will feature: Live Band ‘Yesterday’s Dream’, heart-healthy tips, free raffle giveaways and so much more! Also, be sure to dress in your BEST semiformal RED attire and walk the RED carpet! Get your tickets by contacting your Event Hostesses: Andrea Williams (706) 829-8038 or Monique Cruceta (803) 316-3976. February 17. Magic Men Live! Bell Audito-
rium. Showtime: 8:00PM, Price:$102, $72, $52, $27. www.augustaentertainmentcomplex.com. February 17
ronnie Milsap at Miller Theater. www.millertheateraugusta.com. February 17-18. augusta Mini Theatre, Inc.
Presents: LaST CHaNCe. play to honor the work of Dr. Martin Luther King. Written and directed by Tyrone J. Butler. In “Last Chance,” Punkie, the main character, after a friend is gunned down, realizes that her last chance for a better life is through education. www. augustaminitheatre.com. February 18. 4H Family yoga in the Park.
4H is offering a program at Phinizy Swamp Nature Park for youth and their parents: 4-H
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Family Yoga! Join in for a low pressure, fun, and relaxing yoga class for all experience levels. The class will meet at the Visitor Center. Certified Instructors will be teaching the class which will include stretching, concentration exercises, and yoga poses related to the HEAD, HEART, HEALTH, and HANDS. Be sure to dress comfortably and bring a yoga mat or towel. No registration is required, and the class is free! So what are you waiting for? For more info call (706) 821-2349. www. phinizycenter.org.
gym and bounce house. Enjoy spending time playing with your child and helping them make new friends. Parents/guardians must stay with their children. www.krocsales.sauss.net. February 22. blackberry Smoke will continue their extensive nationwide tour in 2018 including a stop in Augusta, GA at The Bell Auditorium with special guest Lukas Nelson & Promise of the Real. www.augustaentertainmentcomplex.com. February 23. 13th annual Home & Garden
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Guess Who Showed up at Dinner at Bell Auditorium, Showtime: 2:00PM & 7:00PM. Price:$57, $51 & $44. www.augustaentertainmentcomplex.com. February 18. Swamp Treks at Phinizy
Swamp. Swamp Treks will bring nature to life for 3rd – 8th grade children. Focused on making the outdoors exciting, Swamp Treks makes it fun to gain respect for the environment and to enjoy wildlife. Split into two age groups, 3rd – 5th, and 6th – 8th, children will explore a new topic each month. Each morning starts with a hike that leads into a hands-on nature based activity. Regular participation is not required, but is welcome! Come learn about animals, camping and survival skills, nature printing, bees, and more! Annual Rate Also Available: $110 per person ($100 Friends of Phinizy) Register online at phinizycenter.org/events or by calling 706-396-1426. Spaces are limited. www.phinizycenter.org. February 20
Scott bradley’s Post Modern Jukebox at Miller Theater. http://millertheateraugusta. com.
Show at James Brown Arena. www.augustaentertainmentcomplex.com. February 23. Friends of the Library Book
Sale. Columbia County Library. Evans. The Friends of the Columbia County Libraries will hold a big book sale on February 23-25, 2018 at the Evans branch from 10-5 pm on Friday and Saturday and from 2-5 pm on Sunday. Books will be on display in the foyer of the library. There will be both fiction and nonfiction books for sale. Evans Branch Library 7022 Evans town Center Blvd. February 23-25
Sister act Presented by The augusta Players This feel-good musical comedy has audiences jumping to their feet! Featuring original music by Tony-and-eight-time Oscar winner, Alan Menken (Newsies, Beauty and the Beast, Little Shop of Horrors). Filled with powerful gospel music, outrageous dancing and truly moving story, Sister Act will leave audiences breathless. A sparkling tribute to the universal power of friendship, Sister Act is reason to REJOICE! www. imperialtheatre.com. February 24
a Classical affair at Miller Theater. www.millertheateraugusta.com.
February 21. bounce & Play Day at Kroc
Center. Join us on the Third Wednesday of most months from 11am-12pm during the school year, for a special drop-in jump and play time for children 2-5 years of age in our
February 24. Songs for a Winter afternoon.
Grover C. Maxwell Performing Arts Theatre. Melanie Wade Larsen, Soprano, and pianist Cindy Wilkinson present a varied program of
HORSEBACK RIDING LESSONS Hilltop Riding Stable. Ft. Gordon. Check off that last thing off your bucket list and learn to ride. February 7 | www.fortgordon.com
Classical, Broadway, and Classical- Crossover repertoire. Special guest musicians include Carl Purdy and Travis Shaw. www.melaniewadelarsen.com.
FEBRUARY 25. Gordon Lightfoot live at Miller
Theater. The legend lives on. www.millertheateraugusta.com.
FEBRUARY 28. Children’s Play: Chicken Little. FEBRUARY 28. Children’s Play: RAPunzell.
FEBRUARY 24. Miller Theater. Prokofiev Sym-
phony No. 1 “Classical”, Haydn Symphony No. 88, Stravinsky Pulcinella Suite, Mozart Symphony No. 31 “Paris”. www.millertheater.com. FEBRUARY 25. The Illusionists – Live from
Broadway™. Taylor BMW Broadway in Augusta presents the performance at Bell Auditorium. Showtime: 7:00 p.m.Price:$76, $65, $60, $54. www.augustaentertainmentcomplex.com.
737-1625 or email literacycenter1401@gmail. com. www.calendar.augusta.edu.
unique twist on this classic fairy tale adds an assortment of musical genres to keep the story rocking along! A princess in a tower, a love-struck prince and endless “bad hair” days highlight this one-of-a-kind adaptation that reinforces the idea that by making good choices you can grow up to be whatever you want to be! The plays are free for both adults and children. For more information and to reserve seating, please call the Literacy Center at 706-
Join Chicken Little, Henny Penny and the rest of the gang on their adventure to tell the king (and we do mean THE king) that the sky is falling! Perilous predicaments, big laughs and an important lesson about following the rules highlight this popular performance! The plays are free for both adults and children. For more information and to reserve seating, please call the Literacy Center at 706-7371625 or literacycenter1401@gmail.com. www. calendar.augusta.edu.
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Rachel Ellis RACHEL ELLIS, 35 is a Swim Team Head Coach and retired from the U.S. Army. Some of Rachel’s community involvement includes working with children at Episcopal Day School, working with developmental groups at the Aiken-Augusta Swim League, working with children who have physical and mental disabilities in Blaze Sports Swim Team and collaborating with the Wounded Warrior Swim Team. Rachel has two cats and one dog. She was born and raised in Austin, Tx. and is a Longhorns fan. Her signature dish is a Queso Cheese Dip that friends always request at parties. Rachel loves kids and has a passion for helping others. Her greatest hope is to get married, have kids and start her own family.
One word you would use to describe yourself? Perseverance.
What are you reading right now? Daring Greatly by Brené
I’ve been through a lot growing up and as an adult. When I’m hav-
Brown.
ing a hard time, I always come back to my mantra, “I’m strong. I’m confident and I can do anything.”
Is there an important life lesson you’ve learned? I was mentally and emotionally abused growing up and then physically injured in
If you could have any job, what would you choose? I absolutely
the military. I didn’t understand at the time why I was being drawn
love kids and have always wanted to be an elementary school
to the lotus flower but I wrote a poem and finally realized that in
teacher.
order for me to bloom and blossom, I had to fight through all the mud, muck and toxic relationships in my life in order to finally be
What quality do you most admire the most? Honesty.
me, to be free and to be happy.
What’s your favorite food? As a swimmer, I love pasta but as a
Favorite TV show: Dexter, Supernatural, Game of Thrones, Grey’s Anatomy and Prison Break, etc.
Texan I love some good Mexican food and a nice slab of brisket.
If you had a super power, what would it be? I would love to fly and transform into the pre-historic warrior I was meant to be-a
Song playing in your head: I just saw The Greatest Showman for the first time and I can’t get the song Rewrite the Stars out
Pterodactyl.
of my head.
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