2011 Volunteer Testimonials 2011 Volunteer Testimonials

Ms. Xay Yang, Volunteer

“Volunteering at the House of Peace (HOP) has been one of the most life-changing moments in my life. It amazes me how committed the staff are and how they stay motivated day-after-day. Doing this work can feel emotionally draining, especially when you hear the stories first-hand from the women and children. My time at HOP continues to be a learning experience and I take that with me into my personal and professional life. I am able to have conversations with people about domestic violence and healthy relationships. I stay open to listening to the women’s life stories and advice, as well as reflect on myself as a woman, a partner, a sister, a daughter, and above all, a person. It takes a lot to really look at myself and see what areas in my life have positive reinforcements and healthy relationships, and which parts need work. I have grown so much as a person and my life has definitely changed for the better through being a part of the HOP family. No words can truly reflect the richness of my experience at AWUM.”

Mr. Dan Freborg, Volunteer

“One of the most fascinating aspects of volunteering at AWUM has been witnessing the interactions of the children. Though they sometimes squabble about things that seem inconsequential to adults, I feel like adults can learn a lot from kids when it comes to handling conflict. The children at AWUM are quick to forgive and forget, and they don’t hold grudges. Postconflict, they strive to return their interactions to the “happy” mode as soon as possible. Adults could stand to take a note from kids’ ability to do this! I really respect what AWUM does for families in crisis. They do a great job in creating stability for families working through extremely difficult life situations.”

Ms. Vi-Anh Ngo, Volunteer

“I am in my second year of medical school. My involvement with anti-violence work began in San Francisco with volunteering for a crisis line followed by domestic violence (DV) shelter work. When I moved back to Minnesota in 2011, I was looking to continue learning about DV. Specifically, I wanted to understand the intricacies of its impact in the Southeast Asian communities and how to leverage medicine as a tool to strengthen and support survivors. HOP is a warm environment with a communal family feeling that lends itself to the healing process. I am certain that AWUM participants, staff, and volunteers benefit from such a supportive space. The diversity in cultures, educational and class differences challenge us to create group sessions that meet all of these needs, and also highlight the wealth of knowledge we gain from one another. It is a step away from direct service under a ‘savior’ complex framework towards a mutual partnership that yields growth for everyone. I am proud to continue as an AWUM volunteer.”

Ms. Madison Vue, Volunteer

“Volunteering with AWUM throughout the year was a great eye-opening experience. It gave me a different insight on domestic violence. Seeing the children and mothers so happy and full of life at HOP was an extremely moving experience because I did not expect such behaviors from victims who had experienced great pain and fear. The women and children I interacted with at HOP are such great, strong-willed individuals. Every time I volunteer at HOP I can see how bright these individuals shine. They may not know it, but I have a tremendous respect for what they are doing. Not only do these individuals find strength in themselves, but in the wonderful staff who dedicate themselves everyday for these women and children. The AWUM staff are passionate about what they do and they genuinely care about each and every victim. My time spent at AWUM was definitely fulfilling and life-changing. It has given me a lot to think about as I come to a close with my undergraduate career. Volunteering at AWUM definitely was a great experience and I would recommend this organization for everyone!”