THE ONE, the only sound in the room came from me, quietly sobbing into my handkerchief. I’m all about tradition, but it’s refreshing to see some of the rigid rules for weddings thrown out the window. I have a friend whose great-niece wants her to be a bridesmaid. My mother was my Matron of Honor. Back then, people acted like I had grown a third eyebrow, but it was an act of rebellion I’ve never regretted. Surrounding yourself with those who mean the most to you should have no pre-qualifiers, and my friend would be as beautiful as any 25-year-old. I recently saw a video of a bride’s teenage brothers in flowered tuxes somersaulting down the aisle in a flurry of rose petals. It was the sweetest and most joyful thing I’ve ever seen. I can’t imagine Sara’s brother in the role of flower boy, but I laugh out loud every time I think of it. We’ve told Lewis what time to be there in his tux so that box is checked. He’s more than happy with that. Thoughts of toasts and first dances have him flustered enough. It’s an exciting time, and I must admit that I’m having a ball. Friends have been so kind to host showers and parties, and it’s gratifying to know that so many want to help us celebrate this happy occasion. As of this moment, we’re three months out and still have a lot of things to check off the list. Some will follow the etiquette guidelines. Some may throw tradition out the window. It’s a joy to know that the day will reflect the couple either way. When May 21st, 2022, arrives, Lewis and I will celebrate our 39th anniversary, and our daughter and new son-in-law will begin their lives together. Something old, something new. We can only hope that the date will be as blessed for them as it has been for us. Best wishes, Sara and Gillie. We love you. AM
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