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JEREMY HESPELER-BOULTBEE Advocate for Ethiopiaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Children

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Donna Forster channelled her compassion for sex-trade workers in the Mary Magdalene Program, which she founded 11 years ago. Read her story on page 18. COVER PHOTO: Jeremy HespelerBoultbee lends support to a unique group of talented children and young people in Ethiopia. Story on page 6. Photo: Roy Ferguson Publisher Barbara Risto Editor Bobbie Jo Sheriff Contributors Norman K. Archer, Pablo Archero, Goldie Carlow, Faye Ferguson, Roy Ferguson, Judee Fong, Gipp Forster, Tessa Graham, Christel Martin, Mayo McDonough, Carrie Moffatt, Pat Nichol, Enise Olding, Lynda Racobs, Ray “Grizzly” Racobs, Michael Rice, Vernice Shostal, Barbara Small, Peter J. Smith, Betty Trask, Seana van der Valk, Kathleen Zaharuk Design Barbara Risto, Bobbie Jo Sheriff Proofreader Allyson Mantle Advertising Manager Barry Risto For advertising information, call 479-4705 Ad Sales Staff IMG Innovative Media Group (Victoria) Mathieu Powell 250-704-6288 John Dubay 250-294-9700 Ann Lester (Nanaimo) 250-390-1805 Barry Risto (Vancouver) 604-807-8208 Shelley Ward (Comox) 250-702-3731 Distribution Ron Bannerman, Jim Gahr, Bob O’Neill, Ron Peck, Lorraine Rhode, Barry Risto, Betty Risto, Ted Sheaff, Mark Stratford, Tanya Turner Contact Information Senior Living, 153, 1581-H Hillside Ave.,Victoria BC V8T 2C1 Phone 250-479-4705 Fax 250-479-4808 E-mail (General) office@seniorlivingmag.com (Editorial) editor@seniorlivingmag.com Web site www.seniorlivingmag.com Subscriptions $32 (includes GST) for 11 issues. Canadian residents only. No portion of this publication may be reproduced in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Senior Living is an independent publication and its articles imply no endorsement of any products or services. The views expressed herein are not necessarily those of the publisher. Unsolicited articles are welcome and should be e-mailed to editor@seniorlivingmag. com Senior Living is distributed free throughout Vancouver Island. Senior Living is published monthly by Stratis Publishing Ltd. ISSN 1710-3584 (Print) ISSN 1911-6403 (Online)

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2 Age-Friendly Communities

10 VICTORIA’S PAST REVISITED The Tale of Amor De Cosmos

Saanich participates in this global World Health Organization project.

38 TASTY TRADITIONS

6 Advocating for Ethiopia’s Children

46 AUTHOR

Jeremy Hespeler-Boultbee raises money (and hope) for children.

8 The Reward of Helping Others

Family pets lend a helping paw through Therapy Dogs International.

12 The Art of Hand Blown Glass

Shawnigan couple shares their lifelong vocation with tourists and locals.

Fond memories and heritage recipes Daryl Ashby

Columns 4 The Family Caregiver Barbara Small

26 Ask Goldie Goldie Carlow

28 Scam Alert Mayo McDonough

36 Courageous & Outrageous

18 Offering Hope

Pat Nichol

20 Planned Giving

48 Just Rambling

Reaching out to sex-trade workers be- 37 Bygone Treasures Michael Rice comes one woman’s personal mission. Leaving a legacy for future generations.

30 Driven

Nanaimo resident is at home behind the wheel–at work and at play.

32 Move Over Meat and Potatoes

Gipp Forster

and nd... Home Support Directory 34 Crossword 39 Events 44 Classifieds 47

Victoria couple attribute their health to nearly 50 years of vegetarianism.

40 Love After Loss A Valentine story of hope.

42 Courting Happiness

Research suggests happiness is within everyone’s grip.

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AGE-FRIENDLY COMMUNITIES BY TESSA GRAHAM

he World Health Organization is leading a global project to develop a tool that will assist cities to become more senior friendly as the population in most countries ages significantly. Canada has taken the lead in this project and, at the provincial level, British Columbia is one of three provinces, along with Manitoba and Nova Scotia, who were asked by the federal government to participate. Even more exciting, the municipality of Saanich was chosen through a call to all local governments with a population over 10,000, to be the pilot site for British Columbia. Saanich, with a population of 113,000 and a large seniors population, fit the bill. Sidewalks with no cracks, bank doors light enough for one person to open, restaurant bathroom stalls wide enough to accommodate a walker, businesses which actively recruit older adults as employees and recreation programs that mix the old and young are just some examples of what makes an age-friendly community. Such a community prevents and corrects the barriers that people increasingly encounter as they grow older. In an agefriendly community, policies, services and structures related to the physical and social environment are designed to support and enable older people to live in security, enjoy good health and participate fully in society. Saanich is a large suburban commu-

nity, which has worked on a number of initiatives. Whether it’s their Adaptable Housing Bylaw, Active Aging Strategy, Senior-Friendly Pilot Project in the Shelbourne Corridor, or Living Actively in Your Community program, the municipality understands seniors are valuable to community life. “There is no doubt Saanich is changing,” says Councillor Judy Brownoff. “Having had many conversations with our maturing population, it is evident that they consider Saanich a good place to age, but they do face some challenges in their day-to-day life.” “There is an African saying: ‘It takes the whole village to raise a child,’” says Brownoff, “and I believe it takes a whole community, from municipal government, senior government, businesses and neighbours to help ensure we are age friendly now and in the future.” In collaboration with the UVIC Centre on Aging and the Ministry of Health, focus groups with seniors, caregivers, businesses, municipal leaders and nonprofit organizations discussed what makes an age-friendly city. Issues covered included outdoor spaces and buildings, transportation, housing, respect and social inclusion, social participation, communication and information, civic participation, employment, community support and health services. The focus groups finished in Decem-

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ber and the results will be collated over the spring and added to the results of the other 27 participating cities around the world. Other cities include Rio de Janeiro, Mexico City, London, Geneva, Istanbul, Moscow, New Delhi, Tokyo and Melbourne. Saanich, Vancouver Island and British Columbia are truly part of a global community. The Guide for Age-Friendly Cities will be released around the world on October 1, 2007, International Day of Older Persons. Given this project focuses exclusively on cities, Canada is also leading a parallel project that specifically examines rural and remote communities. Similar to the city project, a call went out to all local governments with populations less than 2,500 to seek their participation in the rural and remote age-friendly community project. Two small communities chosen as pilot sites were Lumby and Alert Bay, B.C. “We are very pleased to partner and participate in the Age-Friendly Rural and Remote Communities Initiative,” says Mayor of Lumby, Eric Foster. “It is our belief that an age-friendly and healthy community consists of all residents and ages being considered in community decisions, and with an ever-aging society, it would be our objective that through this initiative our community will be in a position to have our residents age in place with all necessary services available, and that the results of this initiative will be of assistance to other communities in achieving their objectives.” Focus groups in these two communities will begin in the spring and include seniors, caregivers, local businesses and organizations as well as municipal employees and other community leaders. “The Village of Alert Bay, in partnership with our neighbours, the Namgis First Nation, is extremely pleased to be chosen to take part in the Age-Friendly Rural and Remote Communities Initiative,” says

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lthough we expect to grieve when someone dies sources of support. Reach out to others to help reduce feelings or is diagnosed with a terminal illness, we may of isolation. not expect the recurring grief we can experience • Join a support group. Support groups provide caregivers throughout the time we care for that person. Facing ongo- with the opportunity to share with other caregivers and learn ing loss is one of the many challenges that family caregivers from one another. The Family Caregivers’ Network and other encounter as we adjust to changes in our family member’s disease-specific agencies, such as the Alzheimer’s Resource Centre, provide support groups for health. With each change, we can experience feelings of loss. Each “...the worst loss of all was the loss family caregivers. • Honour your memories while loss requires mourning. of being two people who cared for Depending on the specifics of acknowledging the present situaand about each other. Gone were your family member’s illness, you tion and what is still possible. may be struggling with one or more • Write down your feelings. our shared interests. Gone were of the following losses: Though not for everyone, writing our dreams for the future. Gone or journaling is a wonderful way to • Independence were the stimulating conversations express feelings of loss and grief. • Privacy and thought-provoking discussions. • Read a book on coping with • Hopes and dreams for the future grief and loss. Gone was my sense of security and • Financial security • Make time for yourself. Do safety. Gone was the husband I had • Changes in the relationship what works for you: garden, read, • Your social life known and loved.” go for a walk or visit with others. • Your job –Kay Marshall Strom, • Ask for help to meet the deA Caregivers’ Survival Guide, 2000 • Your home mands of caregiving. Grief can manifest itself in • The Family Caregivers’ Netmany ways including guilt, anxiety, helplessness, irritability, work Society offers a workshop “How to Live with Ongoing anger or frustration. It is important that caregivers deal with Loss: A Challenge for Family Caregivers” on Saturday, Feb. these emotions as they occur rather than allowing the grief to 10, 9:30 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Call the FCNS office at 384-0408 build. SL for more information. In addition, the chronically ill person may also have to Next month: Community-based Support Services cope with relinquishing their hopes and dreams and facing the fear of more ongoing loss. Changing roles in family, work Barbara Small is Program Development Coordinator and social situations that result from a person’s illness can for Family Caregivers’ Network Society. create additional adjustment problems. Some steps for coping with caregiving-related loss include: • Recognize and talk about your feelings. Good friends, family members or local religious organizations can be good

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BY FAYE FERGUSON

ithin the breast of Jeremy Hespeler-Boultbee beats the heart of a true historian. Ask him about memorable events in his life and he eagerly shares tales about his presence at historical events around the world. Ask him about his favourite places, and he names locales steeped in history. Little wonder that Jeremy has a particular fondness for Ethiopia, a country with a recorded history that dates back over 3,000 years. “To me, it is quite the most extraordinarily interesting country in all of Africa,” says Jeremy. “It’s the oldest country in the world.” Jeremy has always had a special connection with Africa. As a child, he and his brother accompanied his peripatetic mother around the globe from Canada to California, Panama, Jamaica, Britain, South Africa and Australia. For a child, it was a great adventure and, throughout all the journeys, he particularly loved the stories his mother told him about Africa. “Ever since I was a child, I’ve had this thing for Africa,” he says. As a young man, Jeremy spent time in Africa, firstly as an infantry officer with the British Army fighting the Mau Mau uprisings in Kenya. Later, in the early 1960s, he returned as a freelance newspaper reporter. He travelled to Angola and Mozambique and was in the Congo just as it achieved its independence from Portugal. “It was an incredible time to go there, seeing countries throwing off colonialism,” says Jeremy. “It was just so interesting.” 6

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Advocating Advocating for Ethiopia’s Ethiopia ’s Children It also sparked his interest in Portugal. In 1963, Jeremy was pleased to find himself in Portugal witnessing the upheavals of the Salazar regime. The political forces afoot in Portugal at that time fascinated him, as did the country itself. “The culture of the place is so incredibly rich,” he says. In the early 1970s, Jeremy returned to Canada and decided to pursue his lifelong interest in art. He enrolled at the University of Victoria where he studied art history, three-dimensional design and ceramic sculpture. “I spent four years doing precisely what I wanted to do,” he says. “It was a very alive time.” By 1974, Jeremy had completed his Fine Arts degree and realized that dramatic events were taking place in Portugal. “The Captain’s Revolution was occurring,” he says. “I dropped everything and went there.” As a journalist, he covered the revolution, then the following year, accepted a post as lecturer at the University of Lisbon. Jeremy stayed in Portugal for 25 years, learned the language and taught English and Art History. While there, he also took pleasure in redesigning and restoring old Portuguese homes. Working alongside a local master craftsman for 12 years, he absorbed the secrets of traditional indigenous construction and Portuguese stonemasonry. Jeremy’s first trip to Ethiopia was in pursuit of an historical Portuguese explorer who had visited the Ethiopian Highlands in the late 1400s. Once in the ancient African country, he noticed many of the old stone buildings reflected Portuguese influences. In due time, Jeremy researched and wrote a book that explores the relationship between Portugal and Ethiopia during the Renaissance period, with particular emphasis on the architectural ties that evolved at that time. The book entitled A Story in Stones was first published in Portuguese and, more recently, in English. Jeremy has visited Ethiopia seven times, most recently this past December and January. While his initial visits were focused on researching his book, he is presently drawn to Ethiopia to

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lend support and watch over a unique group of talented children and young people who make up the Yenegew Tesfa Circus. A young woman, named Wude Zeleke, started the Yenegew Tesfa (which means, “tomorrow’s hope”) Circus, in 1999. Born in southern Ethiopia, Wude showed an early aptitude for gymnastics and, as a very small child, enrolled in the local circus. In Ethiopia, the term “circus” refers to a performing troop that executes elaborate gymnastic displays. Wude’s abilities lead her to Addis Ababa, where she became a star attraction with the famous Circus Ethiopia. She performed with the national circus for 14 years before moving with her family to the northern city of Bahir Dar. There was no circus in Bahir Dar, but great numbers of street children, many of them AIDS orphans. Wude immediately set to work, supported by her mother and brothers, to establish the Yenegew Tesfa Circus. Initially training 58 children, Wude developed a skilled group of gymnastic performers who easily draw a crowd whenever they perform.

“To me, it is quite the most extraordinarily interesting country in all of Africa.” –Jeremy Hespeler-Boultbee

“They’re incredible. They’re amazing,” says Jeremy. In the few years the circus has existed, the hard-working children have tumbled and somersaulted their way into the hearts of everyone in their community. And, beyond the somersaults, the YT Circus serves as an educational tool to bring HIV/AIDS awareness to audiences. In the middle of every performance, the action stops while the audience is given information on the dangers and ways to prevent HIV/AIDS. Providing AIDS education as part of popular entertainment has proven to be very effective. Wude, herself, often travels to outlying districts within Ethiopia to consult on how to establish educational circuses. She recently journeyed to South Africa to share her expertise. “The circus exists today because of the strength of character of Wude and her family,” says Jeremy. Even though circuses are popular throughout Ethiopia, it is difficult for the Yenegew Tesfa Circus to be self-sustaining. Performances are often given in the market square or on the street for enthusiastic, but impoverished, locals. Consequently, money for the necessities of life (food, lodging, clothing) as well as specific requirements of the performers (equipment, costumes, music) has been in desperately short supply. Also, with increasing numbers of children joining the circus, the need for financial support escalates almost daily. Thanks largely to Jeremy’s efforts, the Vancouver Island Diocese of the Anglican Church of Canada have recently de-

cided to include the Yenegew Tesfa Circus as one of its outreach projects. As of this past December, the Friends of the Yenegew Tesfa Circus had raised close to $7,000, which will go a long way in a land where $50 will feed 58 children for a month. Jeremy hopes the money will support the work of the circus, educate the children and provide vocational training funds for those who leave the circus. In a recent pamphlet he wrote for the Friends of Yenegew Tesfa Circus, Jeremy gives insight into why this group of exceptional children has captured his heart. “The extraordinary zest and pride of the young performers is testament not only to their aspirations and abilities, but also to their determination to forge a life for themselves in a land where life too often hangs by a thread.” It was his passion for history and architecture that initially drew Jeremy to Ethiopia where he is, once again, enmeshed in another historical phenomenon – the African AIDS pandemic. With heart and head, he is finding ways to support a small band of talented, hardworking and determined young SL Ethiopians do their best to survive and thrive. All proceeds from Jeremy Hespeler-Boultbee’s book, A Story in Stones: Portugal’s Influence on Culture and Architecture in the Highlands of Ethiopia 1493-1634, will go to the Yenegew Tesfa Circus fund. For more information on the book, see: www.ccbpublishing.com/jjhb.html For more information on the Yenegew Tesfa Circus and how to donate see: http://friendsytcircus.org

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can get out of here on time.” Only half of the warm-blooded bodies assembled paid attention. A few of the trainees yapped, while others decided to lie down and wait for something to happen. After order was restored, Janice spoke again. “Let’s start by introducing yourself and your partner to the group.” She pointed towards the lady beside me in a non-verbal command for her to start. “I’m Terry and this,” as she pointed to her companion, who occupied her lap, “is Tucker.” Tucker did not speak nor did anyone expect him to. Terry then looked over to me to indicate I was next. I obliged her with, “Hello, I’m Ray, a.k.a. Grizzly, and this is Oso, a.k.a. The Incredible Dog.” My introduction brought about a few laughs from some of those in attendance, Oso Oro is a therapy dog that visits seniors and children but not one bark in his spare time. Photo: Ray “Grizzly” Racobs

.K. gang, let’s get started,” shouts Janice Ronald to the class. The group had been mingling around the large meeting room for some time, waiting for everyone to sign in. Our instructor, in another attempt to quiet the crowd, spoke again with her outside voice. “We need to begin so you

came from the 20-odd canines. This was good, because barking is one trait that could boot a four-legged applicant out of the class. Come to think of it, barking by a dog’s master might exclude them, too. The evening was the first of three training sessions, followed by a night of testing, in a process to certify as a Therapy Dog and Handler Team through Therapy Dogs International. In order to qualify, therapy dogs must be at least a year old, but there are no stipulations as to a particular breed; pure and mixed breeds are accepted. Oso’s class consisted of dogs of all sizes. It included Terry’s terrier, a shih tzu, a cocker spaniel, an American bulldog, a poodle mix, a sheperd/lab mix, a collie, three golden retrievers, a sheepdog and an assortment of others. Most of the class were larger dogs like my Oso Oro (Spanish for “Gold Bear”), who is a great Dane/golden cross. He stood above the whole class until test night when two huge mastiffs arrived on scene. “Is it possible for the dog to pass and its handler flunk?” I asked Janice. She informed me that handlers would not pass if they were abusive in their manners or actions towards any dog, and might be disqualified if it appeared they were not taking proper care of their animal.

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The testing of dog and owner/handler is more accurately an evaluation of how the team (mostly the dog) reacts to various situations. My favourite scenario involved Janice and her assistants, Kelly and Cathy, in a meet-and-greet session with a twist. The three had taken on the role of being handicapped in one way or another. A wheelchair, a walker and a cane were used as props. Each handler/dog pair was directed to roam in and around the evaluators and paws, oops, I mean pause, in the middle of the three. The team is required to remain calm during this period when Janice and company closes in to pet the dog on one end and possibly grab a tail (the dog’s tail) at the other end. Another “test” involved walking the dog alongside food placed in the pathway. Neither the dog nor his master is allowed to make a lunge for the food.

A handler, whose dog jumps up on people, is aggressive to other dogs or even barks too much (an objective call) will find his or her duo out of the program. For me, the training and testing charges, the application fee and vet services (over what I would normally incur) came to over $150 and I’m not counting the cost to certify Lynda, my wife, who also went through the sessions with Oso. Why would anyone invite an expense to perform a volunteer service? Although I’m new to the program, I’d say the answer is simply that we want to help others who are in need of what we can provide. As their title indicates, a dog’s mere presence has a therapeutic value to kids with special needs in schools, and patients, both young and old, in hospitals. Their greatest use, however, probably occurs in nursing and care homes across the country. Since some are not permitted to have pets, elderly residents at long-term care facilities are separated from an important part of their lives. The rewards a handler receives are from the smiles they bring to the faces of those they meet. SL To learn more, log on to www.tdi-dog.org Ray “Grizzly” Racobs is a humour columnist and the author of Oro, The Incredible Dog, a book about a telepathic dog.

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VICTORIA’S Past REVISITED “A long and lean wolf in that sheep’s clothing, steeped in duplicity.” That is how Victoria’s first newspaper, the Victoria Gazette, described the flamboyant founder and first editor of its archrival, the British Colonist. He became British Columbia’s second Premier and probably should have been its first, because without him, there may never have been a Canadian province on the Pacific coast. William Alexander Smith was born in Nova Scotia on August 20, 1825, the son of Jesse and Charlotte Smith, United Empire Loyalists. He was educated at King’s College, Windsor, before his parents took their six children to Halifax in 1840, where Bill joined the Dalhousie College Debating Club. Since the family finances were limited, Bill worked as a clerk for Whitham’s, a wholesale grocer. Then came the California Gold Rush. In 1852, he travelled via New York, St. Louis and Salt Lake City and set up shop as a photographer in California at a place known as Mud Springs, later renamed El Dorado. A name change struck Bill as a good idea. There were so many “Bill Smiths” around, how could one establish one’s identity with a name like that? He became the first person in California to

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Quickly sensing the restlessness many people felt towards the rigid and dictatorial position taken by the government, Amor De Cosmos’ British Colonist soon honoured its claim to be the voice of the people and, issue after issue, took direct aim at the Governor. Thus infuriated, Douglas imposed an obscure law and demanded that the British Colonist post an £800 sterling bond. But Douglas had underestimated the readers who, as soon as the paper reported it, rose to the occasion and came up with money. De Cosmos’ paper went from strength to strength, and soon drove the Victoria Gazette out of business. De Cosmos confessed he had started his newspaper “for amusement during the winter months,” but he quickly discovered what a powerful tool he had in his hands to shape his own political ambitions. He wanted to be known as a true political visionary, a representative of the people and a social reformer. But neither his appearance, nor his personality, helped his cause. He was seen as aloof, vain, arrogant and, as Dr. Helmcken once remarked, “uncommonly egotistical.” The cane he carried was not only to help him plod through the muddy streets of the city, but was often used to rein-

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y Petrel of B.C. Politics force his sidewalk debates as a weapon both of offence as well as defence. Somehow, he managed to antagonize everyone, both his allies and his enemies. John Robson, who also later became Premier, said, “We have no reason to love him – as a politician we differ from him in many things and distrust him in everything.” But still he battled on, and one cannot help but admire his steadfastness of purpose. He argued passionately for a number of causes: public education, an end to special privileges for the upper class, the institution of responsible representative government through an elected assembly, the union of Vancouver Island with the Mainland, a Confederation of all the North American colonies into a united Canada, a coast-to-coast railway and a diversity in the economy - what he called the “Three F’s” – farming, forestry and fishing. Then he came up with the preposterous idea of a ferry service between Swart’s Bay and the Mainland. What amazing foresight! To advance his causes, he left the newspaper business, entered politics and became an elected member of Vancouver Island’s Assembly, pushing his point until the Island became part of the new province of British Columbia in 1866.

His second goal was to spearhead the entry of British Columbia into what he conceived as an independent Canada, loosely associated with Great Britain. He achieved this goal in 1871 against violent local opposition, but earned for himself the well-deserved title as one of the “Fathers of Confederation.” He was somewhat grudgingly rewarded with election as both Victoria’s representative in the Provincial Legislature and its Member of Parliament in Ottawa. But his volatile temper did not endear him to the establishment and although, from many perspectives, he was the natural choice as the first Premier of the province, he was passed over in favour of a lesser man, John Foster McCreight. But a year later, McCreight resigned after a non-confidence motion, and De Cosmos stepped into his shoes on December 23, 1872. With the bit between his teeth, De Cosmos, supported by his liberal-minded cabinet, pursued his objectives of political reform, economic expansion and the establishment of public schools. Then, he turned his attention to a new vision – the building of a dry dock in Esquimalt. He fudged the accounts, manipulated the terms of Union to extract money from the federal government and ruffled

BY NORMAN K. ARCHER

too many local feathers. An angered local populace marched down to the Legislative Buildings, chanting to the tune of “John Brown’s Body,” “We’re gonna hang de Cosmos on a sour apple tree.” Terrified for his life, the Premier escaped by a back door and submitted his resignation next morning. He lost his seat in Ottawa at the next federal election, and in retirement in Victoria, his eccentricities escalated. He never married and had very few friends. He had grandiose manners, was prone to public outbursts. He had strange phobias, such as a paranoid fear of electricity. Always a loudmouth and a heavy drinker, he became totally incoherent. In 1895, he was declared insane and removed to the asylum. He died two years later at the age of 71, and is buried in Ross Bay Cemetery. Only a few dozen people bothered to show up for his funeral on a warm summer afternoon in July, to lay to rest the “stormy petrel of British Columbia’s politics.” SL

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hen people enter GBS, the welcome they’ll get from Ann Fowle is as sparkling, warm and alive as the delightful array of glass objects that surround her. Full of enthusiastic energy, Ann is eager to introduce studio visitors to the mysteries and wonder of glass. This is a working studio, where one sees the entire glass making process, from fiery beginning to sparkling end; and leave much the wiser and appreciative of all that goes into this ancient art. Glassblower Grahame Fowle glances up from his work and often sees visitors peering around the door as he creates a glass object amidst sparks, whirrs and flashes of flame, and he realizes his professional life’s work has come full circle. As a lad in the U.K., Grahame grew up next to a glassworks, and on his way to and from school he’d peer through

the open doors into the hive of activity within. None of his family worked in the glass industry, but what he saw in those early years intrigued and fascinated him so much that at age 15 he became an apprentice with the U.K. branch of the big glassworks firm of Corning, New York. It took about five or six years for Grahame to master the skills and, in 1980, he and Ann opened their own glass blowing business.

With a rapidly growing business and a staff of 25 glassblowers and other specialists, Ann and Grahame thrived. They both enjoyed the challenges producing glassware – from practical, to artistic, to exotic – for all the major stores in Europe, including Harrods, and in producing specialty items for customers such as British Nuclear Fuels. Life was hectic and exciting, the business flourished and they loved what they were doing. Then, in 1995, they visited Canada. “We were blown away by the place, and Vancouver Island in particular, and the friendliness of the people,” says Ann. They kept returning to Canada and always came back to Vancouver Island, where the Shawnigan/Mill Bay area especially appealed to them. Then the decision was made. “Life is too short,” they said to each other, “so we closed our business in the U.K. and moved to this area, where we could set up a glass blowing studio [GBS].” What they really wanted was to share their passion with others and to make the fascinating process of creating glass objects available to everyone. With friendly, outgoing personalities, the couple enthusiastically welcomes everyone into their studio and sweeps them up in the intrigue and mystery of glassmaking. They’ve created their dream in GBS Glass Blowing. Left, Glassblower Grahame Fowle demonstrates the art and science of glass blowing for studio visitors. Right, his wife, Ann Fowle, holds GBS’s popular wine glasses and oil lamp (page 14).

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“We wanted to combine all the best elements of what we have, concentrate them on one site and let people see it being done and have a chat.” Both Ann and Grahame are fully engaged in the studio and its products. They work with each other on designs and practicalities of items. And, much research goes into what is popular and attractive to the people of the area. “What’s attractive in Europe is not necessarily seen that way here,” says Ann. Music lovers really like the treble clef design lamp; the hummingbird artifact is very popular; and the practical, but attractive, indoor/outdoor oil lamps are really appreciated and useful in this area. “We take pride in doing everything ourselves,” says Grahame. The wine glasses, with their distinc-

tive colour beads, are based on a design Grahame particularly liked. “I could never find a glass I really liked, so I made some,” he says. From his own personal taste, grew a line of wine glasses that are now featured in the studio, along with liqueur glasses. Grahame makes every glass and so no two are exactly alike, they are

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not pressed or moulded, but made freehand and individually blown. And the Fowles love a challenge. A visitor to the studio told them about the endless search he’d been on to find, or have recreated, some old brandy pipes to match those he’d inherited, which were now broken. He asked if GBS could make them, and the reply was “Yes, when do you want them?” Two days later, after working with the man, Ann and Grahame sketched the design, fine-tuned the drawing and produced the long lost brandy pipes. GBS oil lamps, and other items, are used at various resorts and restaurants including the Aerie Resort and Malahat Mountain Inn, the Masthead and The Grand Pacific Hotel. Not only are the items attractive, but they are safe. The wicks don’t burn; they are made of fibreglass and draw the oil. The oil is 99 per cent pure paraffin, is smokeless and has no odour. Colour can be added to the oil to suit preference. Because the glass bottoms don’t get hot, the lamps can be set on glass, wood or other surfaces. And if, by chance, they get knocked over, the oil extinguishes the flame. By the same token, if the oil runs out, the flame will go out. All items made at GBS are fired or annealed to take all the stress and tension from the glass; otherwise the glass is subject to breaking itself. Often, say the Fowles, people bring

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Baptist Church in Royal Oak, Donna says the program is not about preaching to the sex trade workers she visits each week. The approach is holistic; the program is about letting them know someone cares and offering resources to help improve their situation. In support of the program, every second week, the pastor of the Gateway Baptist Church joins Donna to extend support, hope, and to listen without judgment. “I was terrified on that first Thursday, 11 years ago. But not for my safe-

ty,” says Donna. “It is a difficult thing to stand up and say, ‘I am a Christian’; there is a real fear of rejection. I wasn’t sure how I would be received.” Now, Donna is known in the sex trade community, and the women expect her and welcome her visits. Along with kind words, counselling and simply bearing witness to the situation on the streets, Donna hands out “goodybags” filled with candy, food vouchers, perfume and other useful items. Yet, the Mary Magdalene Program offers so Photo: Seana van der Valk

ow many times have people heard the saying, “don’t judge a book by its cover”? Even when a book is tattered, abused and placed on a bottom shelf, it still holds a story. Like books, every person has a story, one not defined or predicted by its cover. Donna Forster understands this first hand. Donna is a courageous, caring woman who dares search society’s “bottom shelf,” seeking out the stories of Victoria’s sex trade workers. “Every single one of these girls has a story,” says Donna, 70. “It’s easy to judge, but you don’t really know what puts them on the street unless you ask.” Why does Donna care? For her, the answer is simple – it is her calling. More than 11 years ago she founded the Mary Magdalene Program, an outreach program for sex trade workers in Victoria. On Thursday evenings, regardless of the weather, Donna takes to the streets, walks the “stroll” and offers hope and solace to women victimized by street prostitution. “I felt I was called by God to begin this program,” says Donna. “I don’t do this for any other reason than because I have a deep compassion for them. When you get to know the girls, it is hard not to love them.” As an active, dedicated Christian, Donna feels compelled to go to those whom society has seemingly forgotten, those who are broken-hearted and wounded, and tell them God loves them, she loves them and wants to help them. For Donna, this is what being Christian is about. While the Mary Magdalene Program is an outreach mission supported by the Gateway

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much more than this; it offers a lifeline. Donna is a trusted friend of Victoria’s sex trade workers. She even hands out a card with her cellphone number, and is on-call 24/7. On occasion, when the circumstances are dire, she has even brought women into her home. “Many of the women in the sex trade are desperate for help, but don’t know where to turn. Many are mothers, good mothers. But society condemns them as unfit and removes their children,” says Donna. “This makes them more desperate.” Another goal of the program is to promote understanding and awareness in the wider community. Almost every society has struggled with, and to some degree, tolerated, prostitution throughout history. Even Victoria, though deemed worthy of being named after royalty, is no exception. In the late 1800s, there was an active red-light district in Victoria’s downtown core, and nearly 125 years later, prostitution is still an issue. But today, the stakes are higher. Drugs, violence, pimps, and homelessness often force women to the streets. “These are not throw-away people,” says Donna, “they have fallen by the wayside for many different reasons. If God granted me one success, it would be to convince society that these girls are no different than the rest of us.” At one time, Donna says she would speak to 25 or more women on her Thursday night visits, but now, there are less than 10 she encounters on any given Thursday. She contributes this to a shift in the region’s sex trade industry to escort agencies and other less visible “off-street” prostitution services. The sex trade is real, even if people can’t see it or try to ignore it. Donna personally knew two victims in the Pinkerton tragedy and still wonders how society allows its women to disappear with no significance and why it takes the disappearance of 10 or 20 women before people take notice. “Some people actually spit on our homeless and sex trade workers,” says Donna. “Instead of passing judgment, a smile, a hello, a simple acknowledgment might just be enough to convince them they don’t deserve this,” says Donna. The Mary Magdalene Program hopes to begin a transformation by consistently telling sex trade workers they are loved and do not deserve this life. Donna’s long-term goal is to rally enough support to open a safe house. More than shelter, she would like to provide re-training and rehabilitation. She believes one day it will happen. “This is a difficult ministry, because many people can’t understand. When I meet up with these girls, they always have positive attitudes, and you can see a glimpse of hope.” Ultimately, Donna feels honoured to do what she does, and the reception she receives from the women she meets on her Thursday evening strolls. She is convinced people can make a difference, and our witness keeps the spark alive – taking notice offers hope. Donna finds treasures in society’s “throw-away” people. Through her work and devotion to the Mary Magdalene Program, she challenges people to reconsider what they judge to SL be trash, and exile to society’s bottom shelf.

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PLANNED GIVING LEAVING A LEGACY “From a tiny acorn grows the mighty oak.”

ike the acorn in this old maxim, regardless of the size of a bequest, it can grow into a lasting legacy. The Community Foundation of Canada lists a number of reasons why people include bequests to registered charitable foundations in their wills: A personal and positive experience with a specific organization; a wish to remember a friend or relative; a need to help others less fortunate; a desire to give back to the community and the bonus of tax benefits. Financial advisors often hear the same question, “Shouldn’t I leave my entire estate to my children and relatives?” Depending on the current tax laws, adding a bequest to a favourite charitable organization can reduce the final personal taxes owing after death. Financial/tax advisor for KPMG David Denley says, “The simplest way to leave a bequest is in your will, naming the charitable organization with the specific dollar amount they are to receive.

Be sure the organization or foundation is a registered charity that can issue receipts. B.C. has no estate taxes but there is a probate fee. The value of all your assets, at the time of death, will be taxable income on the final tax return. Your estate will benefit from a tax-deductible charitable bequest.” Other kinds of bequests may be an insurance policy or an RRSP naming a charitable organization as the beneficiary. A charitable remainder trust is another source of income one might consider bequeathing to an organization. This type of trust allows the donor to retain the income and receive the tax benefits for life, but upon death, the remainder passes to the designated charity. This type of trust cannot be taken back, is not subjected to probate fees and is not included in the

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PLANNED GIVING when their estate benefits. The story of Burges Gadsden and the Victoria Foundation illustrates how one man made a difference. During the Depression, Burges struggled to keep Victoria’s only soup kitchen, the Sunshine Inn, operating. At the same time, he had a vision of forming a foundation, funded by donations that would go back to helping the community. In 1936, the B.C. Legislature established the Victoria Foundation, making Burges’ dream a reality. In 1937, the Foundation received its first donation of $20 from Burges’ mother. Despite its slow start and almost forgotten existence, the Foundation accumulated $7,000 by 1969, and gave out grants for community use. Today, the Victoria Foundation is the second oldest and one of the 10 largest community foundations in Canada. Donations to the Victoria Foundation are invested, creating a lasting endowment fund that benefits the community. Like the tiny acorn, a small start of $20 grew to $90 million with monies distributed to healthcare, education, research, arts, music and sports. Some of the diverse organizations under its umbrella are B.C. Cancer Foundation, Camosun College Foundation, Canadian Guide Dogs for the Blind, Greater Victoria Eldercare Foundation, United Way of Greater Victoria, MS Society Tomorrow Fund and Pacific Opera Foundation. “The Foundation also researches where community needs are greatest,” says Sandra Richardson, CEO of the Victoria Foundation. “At present, the homeless is one area of deep concern. After talking to city officials and shelters, we have suggested to our donors, giving a grant to help.” For seniors, the bewildering maze of estates, trusts, wills and bequests can be confusing. Elder Planning Counsellor, Julia Jenkins explains her role in helping untangle the labyrinth.

“I gather all the facts regarding a person’s estate, likely tax liability on death, needs of dependents and considering other laws that impact on what can or should be done through a will or through a trust, I write a report and recommend how to proceed.” Jenkins and her client then review all the options, drafting a will or trust proposal for a lawyer’s final legal document. As a member of the Canadian Association of Gift Planners (CAGP), Jenkins explains to her clients the importance and benefits of planned giving. Later, Jenkins remains with her client and the lawyer, ensuring a clear understanding of her client’s wishes. CAGP, a national organization, brings together professionals from various disciplines to ensure a donor’s bequests go to the charitable organization closest to the donor’s heart. LEAVE A LEGACY is a licensed public awareness program under CAGP. “LEAVE A LEGACY encourages people from all walks of life to make gifts through a will to the registered charities of their choice,” says spokesperson, Peter Walmsley of Victoria’s Gurney Walmsley Group. “We assist the public by directing them to the appropriate adviser such as financial estate planner, lawyer, notary public, trust officer or insurance agent to get the maximum tax and legal advantages allowed for their gift.” Members all work towards educating the public on the importance of planned giving. Peter Chipman, Director of Planned Giving for Variety – The Children’s Charity of B.C., which endorses LEAVE A LEGACY, says since Variety’s creation 16 years ago, generous donors have made bequests in their wills totaling $16 million dollars. X

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Steve began his career as an MVI at the Burnaby testing station in 1982. In 1983, a promotion took him to Smithers and a territory spanning from the Queen Charlottes to Endaco and Kitimat to the Yukon border, driving an average of 40,000 miles/year.

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teve Jaques lives and breathes driving. Passionate about all that runs with an engine and holds a steering wheel, this former dirt bike racer now races dwarf cars, volunteers for Red Nose, and makes his living as a B.C. Area (formerly Motor) Vehicles Inspector (MVI). In everything he does, safety comes first. “Any time I can find something on a vehicle that is truly dangerous, in other words that meets the criteria to condemn that vehicle, take if off the road, I believe that I may just have saved a life – the person who was driving the vehicle, their passengers or somebody else,” says Steve. While he appreciates those donations to Red Nose that raise money for kids’ amateur sport, “the biggest thing is to get the potential catastrophe off the road.” Quite a switch from a 16-year-old Steve who, within months of receiving his learners’ permit, practically demolished his father’s 1959 Chrysler. At 18, his life revolved around “motorcycles, beer and burgers.” Marriage slowed him down, but dirt bike racing on his Yamaha 360 MX and backyard mechanics took up any slack. He taught himself auto repairs on his first car, a Morris Oxford – “something you had trouble getting into trouble with,” says Steve, citing his parents’ criteria. That experience lead to a job at Dominion (Vancouver) Motors, where he completed his apprenticeship in automotive mechanics. His boss got used to seeing Steve hobble in on crutches after a weekend of dirt racing with “torn ligaments; never a broken bone.”

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headlights or had an electrical problem only to find out that he was impaired. Called the RCMP, they dealt with him.” When he’s not dealing with vehicles on the road that are operating illegally, such as improperly secured loads, improper licensing and mechanically defective vehicles, Steve inspects school buses to make sure they meet all mechanical standards and have the proper licences and permits. He also supervises the vehicle inspection program now performed by government-certified private shops, and investigates accidents and fatalities involving heavy vehicles, buses and taxis. “We do the mechanical [investigations] for the RCMP the coroner makes use of our reports,” says Steve. “I’ve done over 200 fatal investigations – you start to realize how stupid and senseless the death and maiming is. In so many cases, it’s totally avoidable. Because someone didn’t know what they were doing and they put the brakes in backwards and fouled up the grease seals, a kid loses control, flips the car, and ends up killing his passenger. Or someone passes out because of carbon monoxide poisoning because the car had a terrible exhaust system and holes in the floor. You just look at this stuff and you know, these people didn’t need to die.” Since 1990, Steve has preached safety to central Vancouver Island drivers. Some, while unhappy at losing their automobiles and despite hefty fines, have thanked him for explaining how hazardous their vehicles really were. Steve still drives 40,000 miles/year, but now it’s half work, half play. After he parks the government’s Tahoe, he drives a specially modified pickup carrying his dwarf car to racetracks in Victoria, Campbell River, and Vernon. “In Vernon, we were running 140 mph on a half-mile track – I did it once. I have no intention of doing it again.” Dwarf cars are very small and light with roll cages and bodies designed to withstand crashes at 80-90 mph. “You wouldn’t survive at 140,” he says. Steve joined the Vancouver Island Dwarf Car Club in 1994 and sits on the executive as secretary. These days he sits uneasily. Two seasons ago, his dwarf car ricocheted off a two-car crash, became airborne and with only four inches of ground clearance, “came down absolutely flat on the frame on the pavement; A perfect one-point landing,” says Steve, grimacing and leaning forward. “If I don’t finish, I don’t get the points [for himself and his club]. So, I finished” – with a broken tailbone. Despite his first-ever break, Steve says racing is safe compared to driving on public roads. “We have safety cages, helmets, fire suits, neck braces, collars, emergency crews sitting at each end of the track. I have three fire extinguishers in my toolbox [and one] in the car. Our cars are designed for and expected to crash on a regular basis because if you’re racing, you’re on the ragged edge of losing control – or you’re not racing; adrenaline is a perfectly legal drug. You want to get high, do it on a racetrack where it’s safe for everybody.” For more information about Dwarf Car racing, contact: http://www.idccr.net/idccr_001.htm SL FEBRUARY 2007

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Move Over Meat and Potatoes STORY AND PHOTO BY CARRIE MOFFATT

etired IBM art director, former graphic artist and cartoonist Bob White looks slender and fit for his 74 years. His wife, Ruth, a former hatha yoga instructor and homemaker, also looks healthy and much younger than 72. So, what is their secret? The Whites (pictured) have been lavo-octo vegetarians since 1960. Bob initiated the change in their diet when he was introduced to vegetarianism through a correspondence meditation course. A lavo-octo vegetarian is someone who does not consume meat or fish, but does consume eggs and dairy products. Vegans consume no animal products. “Whenever Ruth cooked me a vegetarian meal, I raved about it, and when she didn’t, I didn’t say very much!” laughs Bob. Ruth came around after awhile. “I was embarrassed about it,” she says. “But I liked the idea of not eating animals. I love animals! So when I thought about it some more, I thought, ‘I don’t want to eat them.’” Vesanto Melina, dietician and co-author of Becoming Vegan and Becoming Vegetarian points out the large body of research that indicates the health benefits of a vegetarian or vegan diet. “We are certain that with a vegetarian or vegan diet, your tendency to gain weight as you age is less,” says Melina. Studies also indicate that the incidence of obesity, diabetes, cancer, and cardiovascular disease are all significantly less in the vegan population, and longevity is increased. Melina, 64, 32

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Breaking the news about their vegetarianism is not al- farms, especially pigs. ways easy, and the Whites emphasize the importance of beBob and Ruth have also considered the source of their ing non-judgmental. food. “There are some people who are offended by the fact that “You don’t think of [meat] as what it is,” says Bob. “When you don’t eat meat – it’s a very touchy subject. You have to you go to the store, you see it all neatly packaged.” let them know it’s nothing to do with them, it’s our choice,” “I think there’s a lack of consciousness. People ask, says Ruth. ‘would you like a leg of lamb?’ I love lambs!” says Ruth. Melina has found that older men seem to be more acWhile seen as radical in the past, vegetarianism is now cepting of vegetarianism. A number of men she knows have more mainstream, and it’s easier to find alternatives to meat. had colon cancer scares, heart attacks, hypertension, or other For these seniors, eating a plant-based diet is a lifestyle serious health issues. choice, which includes exercise and spiritual growth. “Whereas before they would eat whatever and fire up the “It’s nice to be able to care about animals and people,” barbecue, they’re starting to realize how damaging that has says Melina. SL been for them,” she says. High fruit and veggie intake protects against those things that will strip one’s quality of life away as they age, such as macular degenera3 Build Confidence tion, vision loss, cataracts, respiraLearn new rules & regs 3 tory disease, and breast, stomach and 3 Prepare for re-examination colorectal cancer, according to the 3 Compensate for age related changes WHO. Saanich Silver Threads Feb 9 & 16 9am - 12:30 pm Register 382-3151 In addition to the health benefits, James Bay New Horizons Feb 21 & 28 1 - 4:30 pm Register 386-3035 many vegetarians have ethical reaMonterey Oak Bay April 19 & 26 1 - 4:30 pm Register 370-7300 sons for choosing not to eat meat. “55 ALIVE” Refresher Course Roadmasters Safety Group Inc. Most disturbing for Melina was learn(250) 383-6041 www.roadmasters.org Developed by the Canada Safety Council ing how animals are treated in factory

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Courageous Outrageous As we move toward knowing more, Being more conscious, We also then become More connected with ourselves, And in connecting with ourselves, We can form connections with others. –Virginia Satir

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rom the mid-’90s to the early 2000s, on the second Wednesday of every month, I took three hours for myself. Along with 15 to 40 other women, I spent time at a drop-in session for women led by Patricia Shreenan, c a l l e d Spiritspace Gathering of Women. Patricia trained with Virginia Satir in the ‘80s, and decided to share her skills with women who sought a safe community in which to be themselves. No matter how frazzled my

life was or how tired I felt, the energy I regained from that three hours on a Wednesday night seemed to carry me through the next month until it was once again time for Spiritspace and a new energy fix. Every month had a different theme, and we talked, laughed, cried and sang with all our hearts. The one thing Patricia required was that we spoke in first person. We learned also that in order to honour the wonderful spirit we carry within, we had to always bring our attention back to the present. When our discussions drifted into second or third person, reminiscing or fantasizing, Patricia would gently bring us back to our own person in the present. Years have passed since I’ve attended Spiritspace, and yes, I’ve missed it, but the lessons learned carried me down many different paths in life. Now, those of us who, at one time, wouldn’t miss a second Wednesday of the month, have a fresh opportunity to attend Spiritspace

Rallying of Women on February 14th (the 2nd Wednesday) at Queenswood Centre from 6:30 to 9 p.m. Wear Red; Bring Chocolate. If former members bring a guest(s) who is the age now that they were when they attended Spiritspace Gathering of Women then, the admission is $10 for the group. Register by calling 250-4773822 or online at www.queenswoodcentre.com For the past 20 years, my energy has been directed to people connecting physically, mentally and spiritually. This gathering of women helped me to do that. I will be reconnecting once again on February 14th at Queenswood. SL See you there!

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BYGONE Treasures Treasure

BY MICHAEL RICE

Mementoes From A Grand Adventure

hile the age of steam is long past, readers may have childhood memories of train trips through the Rockies, or even more exciting voyages across the Atlantic to visit almost forgotten relatives or see the sights in countries known only through the pages of National Geographic or the Boy’s Own Annual. There were several distinct periods of travel during the past century. Many Canadians arrived as immigrants, their worldly possessions newspaper-wrapped in tea chests or packed in battered leather suitcases. Their focus was on life in a new land, and ship-board souvenirs were practical in nature, likely made of paper, and included ticket folders, baggage labels and passenger lists. Through the 1920s and 1930s, those families who could afford it, indulged in the “Grand Tour of Europe,” taking in museums, cathedrals and art galleries, while staying at fascinating hotels and cruising on the Rhine. Following the Second World War, there was another wave of overseas trips. Veterans returned with their families for a fresh look at a land seen only through the eyes of war. Imagine a trip from Victoria, B.C. to Europe in the 1930s. Starting out to Vancouver on the SS Princess Charlotte of the B.C. Coast Steamship Company, there was just enough time to pick up a menu and sailing schedule, and perhaps a cup and saucer from the dining room. Collectors avidly seek anything and everything, no matter how inconsequential it may appear, bearing the logo or a ship name from the B.C. Coast Service or from the Union Steamship Company. From Vancouver, the train offered up playing cards, glassware and china and, if a porter could be sweet-talked, perhaps

a silver-plated creamer and sugar bowl. A deck of railway playing cards showing scenes across Canada, when complete with jokers and in its original box can bring $20 to $30 on today’s market. Look among stored odds and ends for items marked with the logos of the CPR or the CN, and for dated items such as train schedules. Once aboard a ship from Montreal, headed for Southampton, there was a wealth of free or nominally priced items. The crew guided passengers through games of shuffleboard and “horse races,” which provided score sheets and tally cards. Other free material included baggage labels, daily menus, wireless daily newspapers, deck plans, gangway passes and paper drink coasters. Gift shops offered souvenirs such as spoons, miniature ship bells or metal ale tankards, featuring the shipping line logo and often the name of the ship. Also available were sailor dolls with the ship name on the cap tally, blazer badges and a range of inexpensive jewelry. Brooches in the form of a ship’s wheel with the ship name are very collectable. Most in demand with collectors are items from the White Star Line, of Titanic infamy, followed by Cunard, whose ships included the Queen Mary, the CPR, with their Empress and Duchess ships, and scores of other lines, whose vessels crossed the oceans until the end of the steam era in the early 1960s. When it comes to paper souvenirs, older is better, with baggage labels bringing $3 and up apiece, and deck plans starting at $10. Values on purchased souvenirs vary with the shipping line and the ship herself. A souvenir spoon from the Empress of France rates $10, while a wheel brooch from the

Aquitania sells for $50. Ashore in Europe, the suitcase filled quickly with mementoes. There were labels from hotels, brochures and pamphlets from famous buildings, ornate menus and miniature Eiffel Towers. Most of these do not have great individual value, but they were saved in small bundles, and values add up. If the family took time from travelling to attend, for example, a championship golf tournament in Scotland, or a premier league football game in England – and kept the program – these are worth significant money. Collectors will pay hundreds for a single-sheet day program from a prewar British Open golf tournament. Popular souvenirs picked up at resorts in England were small delicate china pieces bearing the crest of the local town. The best of these were made by Goss (the name’s on the bottom), and came in every imaginable shape from Roman urns to little busts of Churchill. Values start at $5 and range up to $50 for unusual designs. Most of this is from a simpler era, when travel was a great adventure rather than a hectic annual prepackaged exercise. This was a time of sad-eyed seaside donkeys, the whistle and smoke of a railway engine and singsongs in the grand salon of an ocean liner at sea. Don’t throw out these souvenirs. Collectors would love to add them to their collections, and help sellers buy that next trip to Reno. Next time: Milady’s Dressing Table. Comments and suggestions for future columns can be sent to Michael Rice at Box 86 Saanichton, B.C. V8M 2C3 or SL fenian@shaw.ca FEBRUARY 2007

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TASTYTraditions BY BETTY TRASK

Cinnamon Pinwheel Biscuits

an you imagine raising five feisty children on a small farm in the early ’40s? Today, we are so used to fast foods and the convenience of grocery store shopping, we forget how hard our mothers had to work to keep up with our appetites. Resources and time were scarce commodities. I’m sure that every afternoon, Mom would wonder, “what will I feed that hungry bunch after school today?” These cinnamon biscuits appeared often and were always a big hit. Mom never did tell me just how to do the butter, sugar, cinnamon step, but I was allowed to help sometimes. This is what I remember, and, as the saying goes, “try it, it works!” Mom’s recipe for a double batch of biscuits: 4 cups flour, 8 tsp. baking powder, 2 tbsp sugar, pinch of salt. Cut in 1/2

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cup shortening; add milk to the right feel. Knead a bit, roll and cut. My recipe for Cinnamon Pinwheels: Ingredients: 2 cups flour (can be 1/2 whole wheat) 4 tsp. baking powder 1 tbsp. sugar pinch salt 1/4 cup cold shortening or butter 3/4 cup milk Filling: 1/4 cup softened butter 3/4 cup brown sugar 2 tsp. cinnamon chopped walnuts and/or raisins (optional) Preheat oven to 400 degrees. Combine flour, baking powder, sugar and salt in medium bowl. Cut shortening or butter in with pastry blender or 2 knives until mixture is the consistency of coarse cornmeal. Make hole in centre; add milk all at once, stirring quickly to combine. Knead a few times on lightly floured board; roll out to 1/2 inch thickness. Spread with the softened butter, sprinkle on brown sugar and cinnamon, and, if using, the raisin and walnuts. Roll loosely like a jelly roll. Cut in 1-inch slices, place on greased baking sheet. Bake 12 to 14 minutes. SL Put the kettle on for tea, and enjoy! Please send us YOUR favourite Heritage Recipe along with the memories it evokes. Without your contributions, Tasty Traditions doesn’t exist. Contact us at editor@seniorlivingmag.com or 153, 1581-H Hillside Ave., Victoria, BC V8T 2C1

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LOVE AFTER LOSS BY KATHLEEN ZAHARUK

ean and Al Glougie had a plan. They wanted to work less and play more. Through astute financial planning and clearly defined goals, they succeeded. Ten years ago, they took their first annual trek south to winter in Arizona. Those who knew the couple envied not only their chosen lifestyle, but also their loving relationship, which endured nearly three decades. Running was an activity they enjoyed, and they routinely put in two-and-a-half miles, every other day. “I guess we found something we could both do, which was good for us and made us feel really good about our ability to do so, especially Al, at his age of 67.” On February 8, 2003, Jean and Al registered for a 10K run in Yuma, Arizona. She had decided to run 5K and Al was to complete the total 10K. Jean recalls: “Al was ahead of me in the pack and turned and said, ‘Break a leg.’ I laughed and said, ‘I think that’s for the theatre people.’” That was the last time she saw her husband alive. “After the awards for the 5K, I was wondering as I saw some of the 10K runners arrive, where Al was. I knew approximately how his times were, and started to get worried. Organizers called me up to the front and the co-ordinator of the races took my hands in his and said, ‘Your husband, Allan, fell and has been taken to the hospital.’ I asked if it was his heart (I don’t know why I said this) and he said he didn’t

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know and I should go to the hospital. My brother, Fred, and I scurried around looking for our vehicle. Al had parked it after he dropped me off earlier that day. We were thinking out loud: maybe it’s a broken leg, maybe he had chest pain, trying to convince each other it would be fine.” Upon arrival at the hospital, doctors informed Jean that Al had died of a heart attack. The days, weeks and months following Al’s death were a litany of decisions, choices, confusion and grief to the point where Jean realized she was near the breaking point. “I really can’t remember who put me onto the Nanaimo Community Hospice Society, but it was a lifesaver. I called the hospice and said I was at my wits end and needed help. They fit me in for an appointment almost immediately. Although I was desperate at the time, I was also relieved and happy to have a path to follow through this crisis.” The next day, Jean joined the hospice walking group. She says she felt an immediate sense of family being with people who “got it.” They understood how she felt and, because they were still able to After the sudden death of walk around and function, it her husband, Jean found gave her hope. love again with Ron. Jean and her new friend, Carole, whom she’d met through the walking group, attended an eight-week grief course offered by hospice. Through this time of getting to know each other, Carole invited Jean for lunch with her and her son, Ron, who was visiting from the Mainland. “I felt immediately impressed by Ron’s manners and his gentle nature.” Even though it had been less than a year since her husband’s death, Jean said she was attracted to Ron. “This was a very strange phenomenon,” says Jean. “I felt a great love for my deceased husband but, at the same time, found myself drawn to this man!” Eventually, Ron (who had recently lost his father

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and his sister within a few months of each other) suggested to his mother that if Jean needed an escort for a Christmas function, he would help her out. Jean sensed the attraction on his part as well, and said yes. Not surprisingly, Ron was concerned Jean would be too fragile at such an early stage of grieving. He wished he were her second or third date after being widowed, rather than her first. Ultimately, Jean and Ron made contact and they got together over that Christmas for their first date. The relationship, though long-distance, has blossomed, while much of their getting to know each other has happened over the phone. They visit on weekends and intermittently during the week when Jean is not working. Ron’s business on the Sunshine Coast and his other responsibilities make long-range plans difficult. But they do hope to be together and Ron has given Jean a ring as a symbol of that commitment. In the meantime, Jean continues to work part-time at Nanaimo Regional General Hospital as a transcriptionist in Medical Imaging, maintains her home in Nanaimo, and attends the grief support group through hospice. “The comfort of being with people going through the same grief and pain is a very powerful gift,” says Jean. “The walking group represents that gift. I have made very close friends whom I will cherish forever. We have helped each other and the initial pain that united us has blossomed into great friendships. As I move forward in my relationship with Ron, they glory in my happiness and encourage it at every step.” Does Jean believe in love after loss? “Yes, I am living proof. Just think of children. If you have one you wonder how you could love another; then, if there are more, you love them all. Your heart expands with the amount of love you give and receive.” SL

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Courting Happiness BY FAYE FERGUSON

appiness. It’s that feeling of pleasure, fulfillment or contentment people all seem to be perpetually pursuing. Why is happiness so elusive and transitory? What makes people happy? Since the early ’90s, a good deal of research, generated by psychologists and others, has attempted to answer these very questions. The outcomes of this research show some interesting, and often surprising, results. Many studies, for example, have confirmed what most suspected – advertisers lie. Wealth and the accumulation of consumer goods do not contribute significantly to contentment. A study of lottery winners, for instance, found that they were not significantly happier after their win than before. Apparently, once a person’s basic needs are met, additional income contributes little to contentment. Neither education nor intelligence seems to play lead roles as enablers of happiness. Nor does youth. In fact, most studies show that older people are more consistently satisfied with their lives than younger folks. Evidence suggests that genetics plays a role in happiness. Genes influence personal traits such as how easygoing people are, how well they deal with stress and the degree to which they experience anxiety or depression. Perhaps some people are genetically blessed – almost pre-determined to be happy. 42

Certainly, when researchers examine differences between people who are generally happy and those who are generally not, they see strong differences in personality traits. Looking

at responses from over 5,000 people, researchers have noted that happiness is most strongly associated with core character traits that were labelled “heart strengths,” and included gratitude, hope, zest and the ability to love and be loved. For those who do not have character or personality traits that predispose

them to contentment, several studies show that anyone, even the gloomiest of individuals, can raise their happiness quotient through certain activities. One successful way to court happiness is to savour life’s many special gifts: the sweetness of ripe fruit, the smell of the ocean in the morning, the smile of a baby. Some psychologists suggest taking “mental photographs” of pleasurable moments, then storing them in one’s memory for review in less happy times. Research also indicates that developing gratitude increases happiness. Gratitude exercises, such as keeping a daily diary that lists what a person is thankful for, increase feelings of contentment for as long as the diary is maintained. These exercises, carried out over time, have also been found to raise energy levels, improve physical health and even relieve pain and fatigue. It would seem that gratitude, in whatever form, is an affirmation and reminder of the goodness in life. Little wonder then, that performing acts of altruism or kindness on a regular basis will boost contentment. These acts may be random, for example, letting a harried mother have the parking space nearest the store, or systematic, like bringing Sunday supper to a shut-in friend. The outcome is the same – an increased sense of well-being. An extremely potent gratitude exer-

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cise involves the expression of thankfulness or appreciation to another person. In one study, participants were asked to write and personally deliver a gratitude letter to someone who had been particularly kind to them, but who they had never adequately thanked. This gratitude visit was found to be more effective in increasing happiness and decreasing depression than any of the other research activities. Overwhelmingly, research shows that ...savour life’s many the biggest factor in happispecial gifts: the sweet- developing ness involves personal ness of ripe fruit, the relationships. Those who nurture smell of the ocean in people close, meaningful inthe morning, the smile terpersonal ties tend to be more content. Being of a baby. able to give and receive affection, combined with a life full of enjoyment, commitment and purpose seem to produce individuals who are uncommonly happy and fulfilled. It is a goal for which all can strive. For additional information about happiness research and questionnaires that assess authentic happiness, visit: www.authentichappiness.org SL

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Great wines of Europe and epicurean delights. Bottles valued at $50 and up for $5 per sample, cash only. Proceeds to support the Saanich Volunteer Services Society. 7-9pm. $45, adults only. Cedar Hill Recreation Centre, 3220 Cedar Hill Rd. For more info, call 475-7121.

FUNDRAISERS “DUALLING” PIANOS Feb 11

Two-piano arrangements by Sergei Rachmaninoff, Leonard Bernstein, Percy Grainger, Francis Poulenc and William Bolcom, (pianists Terence Dawson, Jamie Sver). 2pm. By donation, proceeds for music programs at the Conservatory. Alix Goolden Hall, 907 Pandora Ave. For more info, call 386-5311 or www.vcm.bc.ca

MISC GRANDPARENT’S DAY Feb 16

Grandparents can visit the Maritime Museum for FREE, if accompanied by grandchildren. A treasure hunt will help make the visit interesting and fun. Travel back in time to the days of pirates shipwrecks, exploration and discovery. 28 Bastion Square. For more info, contact Emily 385-4222 ext 106 or www.mmbc.bc.ca

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Hosted by the James Bay Market Society, this is the first garden event of the year with seeds, plants, products for and from the garden, Master Gardeners, community seed exchange, displays, gardening experts. Admission $5. Victoria Conference Centre, 720 Douglas Street. For more info, visit www.jamesbaymarket.com

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MUSIC CELEBRATION OF CHAMBER MUSIC Feb 4

Scottish Songs by Beethoven; Lieder by Mendelssohn and Strauss. Kuniko Furuhata, mezzosoprano, Helmut Brauss, piano, Klement Hambourg, violin; Martin Bonham, cello. 2:30pm. $15 seniors. St Mary’s Anglican Church, 1701 Elgin Rd. For more info, call 598-7726.

UNIVERSITY WOMEN’S CLUB Feb 21

Free public performance by Lianne Seykora and her student colleagues in the Department of Music at UVIC. Donations welcome. 8pm. Philip T. Young Recital Hall, MacLaurin Building, University of Victoria. For more info, http:// web.uvic.ca/~canfeduw/

THE KURT ELLING QUARTET Feb 22

Presented by the Victoria Jazz Society. Kurt Elling’s rich baritone voice spans four octaves. His repertoire ranges from his own compositions to modern interpretations. 8pm. Alix Goolden Hall, 907 Pandora Ave. Tickets $30 advance/VJS members, $35 at the door. Available at McPherson box Office outlets, and Victoria Jazz Society. For more info, call 388-4423.

ANNUAL PRAIRIE NIGHT Feb 25

Presented by the Centennial United Church. Music will be provided by The Greater Victoria Police Chorus. By donation. Refreshments will follow. Wheelchair accessible. 7pm. Courtesy parking. Centennial Church, 649 Gorge Rd East. For more info, call 384-6424.

REID JAMIESON & HOWIE JAMES Feb 25

Be serenaded by two generations of talented troubadours. Howie opens with his well-seasoned brand of jazz-influenced musical mojo. 3:30pm. By donation of cash or non-perishable item for the Food Bank. Call for reservations. Queen Mother Waterside Café. Bottom of Swift St. For more info, call 598-4712.

MONTEREY NOTE-ABLES ANNUAL CONCERT REMEMBER WHEN Mar 30–Apr 1

A nostalgic two-hour performance from the ’30s, ’40s, ’50s and ’60s. The Monterey Noteables are a volunteer group of seniors who have been entertaining audiences for the past 10 years. Tickets $10, available early March at the Monterey Centre, 442 Monterey Ave. For more info, call 370-7300.

OUTDOORS ABKHAZI SALON AN ENTERTAINMENT IN 3 ACTS

Hellebore and snowdrop walkabout. Feb 11–24pm. Readings by aficionados of the late John Betjeman (Poet laureate of England 1972-1984). Feb 17–2-4pm. Music of Eastern Europe with Tony Booker, Alex Olsen and Kate Rhodes. Feb 25–Sun, 2-4pm. Poetry at the Garden. A literary afternoon reading poetry and fiction celebrating the natural world. Delicious tea and cakes. Admission $15 inclusive. Abkhazi Garden, 1964 Fairfield Rd. Call to reserve 598-8096.

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Milner Gardens and Woodland, Qualicum Beach. Come see the early bulbs and Rhododendrons. By donation. 10 am–4 pm.

SPEAKERS/SEMINARS/ WORKSHOPS OSTEOPOROSIS INFO AND SUPPORT GROUP Feb 5

Presents “Bone in Accordance Traditional Chinese Medicine,” with practitioner Kit Wong. 7pm. James Bay New Horizons Seniors Centre, 234 Menzies. Admission $2 drop in. For more info, call 721-0880.

HOW TO LIVE WITH ONGOING LOSS Feb 10

In this workshop, family caregivers learn how to deal with ongoing losses in ways that will enhance the caregiving relationship. Useful concrete strategies. 9:30am-12:30pm. $25 FCNS members, $30 non-members. Limited seating. Registration required by Feb. 5. Canadian Cancer Society, Vancouver Island Lodge, 2202 Richmond Rd. To register, call 384-0408.

PARKINSON’S CONFERENCE Feb 19

Do you have Parkinson’s or know a family living with this health condition? Dr. Jon Stoessl, a world renowned Parkinson’s neurologist, will be the keynote speaker at this day-long conference at UVIC. For more info, call the Victoria Epilepsy and Parkinson’s Centre at 475-6677.

TRANSITION TO RETIREMENT THE UNCHARTED COURSE Feb 22

Carol Baird-Krul and Enise Olding discuss their book, Transition to Retirement: The Uncharted Course. With humour, encouragement and enthusiasm they offer a chance to see retirement through new eyes. Discussion follows. 7-8pm. Seating limited. Nellie McClung Branch, 3950 Cedar Hill. Register by calling 477-7111.

SMART STEPS TO INCOME LONGEVITY Feb 21

Origin Retirement Communities presents “Smart Steps to Income Longevity” with James Pelmore of Dundee Securities, Vancouver. Ensure your money lasts through retirement. Topics include: Qualifying for Guaranteed Income Supplement (even if you have investment income); Guaranteed Alternatives to Low Interest Investments; Eliminating Probate Fees; Will Variation; Qualifying for Gov’t Assistance for health care expenses; Proposed Changes to Spousal Income Splitting and How Much You Will Save. Q&A to follow lecture.Complimentary admission. Complimentary tea and coffee. 1–3pm. Dorchester Hotel, 70 Church St., Nanaimo, “The Opera Room.” For more info and to RSVP: 250-751-7755 or longwood@origin.ca

CNIB PUBLIC INFORMATION SERIES Mar 9

Learn about Age-Related Macular Degeneration and treatment, tips for living well with AMD, peer support groups in Victoria and enjoy refreshments. Presented by Dr Andrew Burnett, Retinal Specialist. Everybody welcome. 23:30pm. CNIB Centre, 2340 Richmond Ave. RSVP by Feb 14 at 595-1100.

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Parents Coalition of BC is hosting an information sharing workshops with the goal of helping grandparents understand how to support their adult child through separation/divorce, and maintain a relationship with their grandchildren. Refreshments provided. Seating limited. 10am–noon. Child Care Resource and Referral, 2001A Douglas St. For more info or to register, call 604-417-4045.

THEATRE TO B&B OR NOT TO B&B Feb 14–Mar 3

Hosts Phillip and Louise Dickens, are anxiously anticipating the final weekend of the bed & breakfast guesthouse they have owned and operated for several years. Nestled in the Alberta foothills, weather can change in a heartbeat, resulting in several days of forced inactivity, frayed nerves and hilarious consequences. Tickets $20. Ladysmith’s Little Theatre, 4895 Chrisite, Ladysmith. (New Senior Sundays) For tickets and showtimes, call 250-245-0658 or www.ladysmithslittletheatre.com

VOLUNTEERS CREW NEEDED FOR ROYAL BC MUSEUM’S TITANIC

120 volunteers are needed to serve as interpreters during the six-month run. Roles vary from conveying what shipboard life was like for Titanic passengers, to construction and departure of the ship. Training for volunteers will include a day of RBCM orientation and a second day that focuses on Titanic: The Artifact Exhibition, in general. For more info, contact Gail Miller, Volunteer Services Manager at 387-7902 or gmiller@royalbcmuseum.bc.ca

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A free, weekly evening gathering of readings and discussions with published poets. Held every Mon, 6-8pm in the Library Writing Centre on the 4th Floor of building 305 at Malaspina’s Nanaimo campus. Feb 5–second Open Mic. Feb 12–Linda Rogers. Feb 19–third Open Mic. Donations gratefully accepted. Registration required for Open Mic nights. To reserve your time in the spotlight, e-mail evnittel@gmail.com. For more info, www.mala.ca/poetsoncampus

Nanaimo Hospice is now accepting applications for their Spring Volunteer Training Program. Course runs over 4 weeks starting Feb 24. For more info, call 250-758-8857 or www. nanaimohospice.com

OF LOVE AND MUSIC ROMANCE THROUGH HISTORY

A concert program that follows our culture’s varied interpretations of romance through history and around the world. Diverse music styles ranging from Baroque opera to Argentinian Tango. $12 seniors, available through each venue and at the door. Feb 4–Victoria Conservatory, 7:30pm at Wood Hall, 907 Pandora Ave. Feb 14–Salt Spring Island’s ArtSpring Centre, 7:30pm at 100 Jackson Ave, Saltspring. Feb 16–Mary Winspear Centre, 7:30pm, 2243 Beacon Ave, Sidney. For more info, call 384-3961.

CANADIAN COMPANIONS Opens Feb 8

Chelsey Braham’s work explores the simplification and repetition of common objects, yet attempts to evoke a very personal response from the viewer. Opening Thurs, 5-7pm. Gallery hours: Tues to Sat, 10am-5pm. Nanaimo Art Gallery, 150 Commercial St, Nanaimo. For more info, call 250-754-1750.

ROMANZA Feb 16

Formerly known as the Maple Leaf Tenors will be performing at the Captiol Theatre on 4904 Argyle St, Port Alberni. 7:30pm. $14 seniors, $18 at the door. Tickets at the Rollin Art Centre. Call 250-724-3412 or 250-723-1195.

DIXIELAND DANCE Feb 16

St Andrew’s United Church fundraiser dance, featuring the Dixie Down Beat Jazz Band. 7:30 pm. Tickets $15, $25 couples. St Andrew’s United Church, 311 Fitzwilliam St, Nanaimo. For more info, call 250-753-1924.

LOVE LA DIVA A VALENTINE CONCERT FOR THE HEART Feb 16 & 17

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Feb 16–25–3RD ANNUAL TAIWANESE LANTERN DISPLAY. Daily 9am-7pm at the Cumberland Recreation Hall, 2665 Dunsmuir Ave. (Sat, Feb 17, Dragon Boat races and a Lantern Foot parade will be held). Feb 17–10am-3pm: 5TH ANNUAL CUMBERLAND HERITAGE FAIRE at Cumberland Cultural Centre, 2674 Dunsmuir Ave. For more info, call the Cumberland Chamber of Commerce 250-336-8313.

ANTIQUE APPRAISAL SHOW & SALE Feb 17

Start off Heritage Week by having your family treasures appraised by experts. The Nanaimo District Museum and Zonta Club of Nanaimo present their annual antique roadshow at Port Place Shopping Centre, 650 Terminal. 10am4pm. First item–$10, subsequent–$5. Antiques and collectibles will be on sale. More info, contact Debbie 250-753-1821.

ART FROM THE ATTIC SALE Feb 17–Mar 2

If you have art you no longer love, reclaim your investment. Sell it in our sale–you get 60%, TOSH gets 40%. Pick up entry forms now. Sat, Feb 17 bring in paintings to sell from 10amnoon. Sun, Feb 18 buy art. Art on display for two weeks until Mar 2 at 1pm. The Old School House Arts Centre, 122 Fern Rd West, Qualicum Beach. For more info, call 250-752-6133.

ART EXHIBIT Until Feb 23

Artist and architect Catherine Hamel has an ongoing relationship with Beirut, Lebanon–her place of birth, source for childhood memories and traditions, the home she was forced from due to war, and a place to return to through the eyes of the present day. Two series of work that will be featured in displace/graft/retrace. Campbell River Public Art Gallery (Main Gallery), 1235 Shoppers Row (same building as the Visitor Info Centre). Tues to Sat, 12-5pm. For more info, call 250-287-2261.

THE CHAMPAGNE BALL Mar 2, 3 & 4

Presented by Cowichan Theatre and Vancouver Island Symphony. Featuring talented opera comedienne, Natalie Choquette. Fri, 7:30pm at the Cowichan Theatre, 2687 James St, Duncan.Tickets $30 at 250-748-7529. Sat, 7:30 at the Port Theatre, 125 Front St, Nanaimo. Tickets $15 to $42 at 250-754-8550.

A new English version of Johann Strauss’ classic operetta DIE FLEDERMAUS. Fri & Sat, 7:30pm. Sun, 2pm. Admission $25 Members, $30 for non-members. The Port Theatre, 125 Front St. Nanaimo. For tickets, call 250-7548550. For more info, call 250-748-6968 or www. cowichanmusicalsociety.bc.ca

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Digging Into B.C.’s Past

BY VERNICE SHOSTAL

three years working in forestry – something he knew nothing about before he started. When he came back to Victoria, he went into civil engineering, which he says he learned by the side of his bed at night. He started with private consulting and then worked as a city engineer until the trend turned to hiring engineers with degrees. That was when Daryl decided to go back to school to get his mechanics ticket before he went into private business, successfully owning and operating a service station in Sidney. In addition to writing, Daryl has been a realtor for the past 16 years. In his book, Daryl describes John Muir as a simple man who brought his family from Scotland to Vancouver Island at the expense of the Hudson’s Bay Company, which promised him 25 acres of land. In return, Muir, his four sons and a nephew were required to work as “consignee” labourers for the Hudson’s Bay Company for three years. The deal with the Hudson’s Bay Company turned out to be less than they expected, and Muir, along with his sons and other colonists, petitioned the Queen for an electoral government. Eventually, the Queen consented and John Muir, besides being the first magistrate in the colony became the first Member of Parliament for the Metchosin and Sooke area. In his book, Daryl credits John Muir with other firsts. He developed the first successful steam-operated sawmill in B.C., and the largest privately owned fleet of ships in the Northwest. No other man in those early days did so much with so little. Muir was nearly 50 years old when he came to Vancouver’s island. The book is about the last 35 years of his

life, which, coincidentally, are the first 35 years of the colony. “The book is not 100 per cent John Muir,” says Daryl. “It is about the people of the day and how John interacted with them.”

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oon after a tour through the Okanagan Valley, sponsored by the BC Book Prize in July, to promote his book, John Muir, West Coast Pioneer, in schools and at the University of Kelowna, Daryl Ashby was notified he had been short listed for the Victoria Butler Book Prize. “This is the first book I’ve ever written,” says Daryl. “I didn’t expect to be acknowledged in such a way.” Daryl’s interest in writing can be traced to a visit 10 years ago to John Muir’s home, which still stands in Sooke. “I knew there was something there that had not been well profiled,” he says. The more he dug, the more he realized nobody had written about the first settler who survived and stayed in the Sooke area. “John Muir really was the beginning of settlement in the colony,” says Daryl, who was born and raised in Victoria. Daryl spent over three years researching John Muir’s history and approximately three years writing it. The rest of the time was consumed with looking for a publisher. Most publishers thought writing history in the first person rather than the traditional third person would not sell. Daryl disagreed. “I felt like I had gotten under John Muir’s skin,” he says, “and I was writing his words.” He was ready to go the self-publishing route when he got a call from Ronsdale Press, who was interested in his book. Born in 1948, 100 years after John Muir left Kilmarnock, Scotland, Daryl calls himself a simple Scotsman, and like the simple Scotsman he wrote about, Daryl has moved forward in his life from one experience to another. Shortly after marriage, Daryl and his wife moved to Kitimat, where he spent

John Muir, West Coast Pioneer By Daryl Ashby Ronsdale Press $21.95

The popularity of Daryl’s book prompted an invite to speak at the Lieutenant-Governor’s Douglas Tea in November and for the Victoria Historical Society in January. He will also speak for the Nanaimo Historical Society in May. Daryl’s next book is another true story, which required a great deal of research. He says it’s a “James Bond kind of story” about a local figure on the wrong side of the law in the 1970s. He hopes to have the book finished by the end of next year. John Muir, West Coast Pioneer is available at most book stores in Victoria and numerous book stores up and down SL the Island.

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Just Rambling

BY GIPP FORSTER

REFLECTIONS ON THE PAST

had a lot of sweethearts when I was a kid. Well, maybe not lots, but I did have one. Her name was Katherine Case, and she sat in the first row in Grade 4. In fact, she sat in the front seat of the first row, which signified she was the brightest kid in the class. That’s how things were in those days, at least at the school I attended. First seat, first row for the smartest. Second seat, first row for the next smartest and so on. There were five rows with five kids in each row. Sitting in the first row was a badge of honour. Sitting in the second row also had prestige for a nine or 10 year old. At least, that is what I was led to believe by those who sat there. I sat in the last seat in the fifth row. That too held a certain prestige, but one I would sooner forget about. (I’m humble that way!) Katherine, who was called Katherine and who I secretly thought of as “Kathy,” occupied much if not most of my daytime dreams. I don’t know how many times I saved her from certain death. How I beat off pirates single-handedly, who sought to kidnap her, or the wild beasts of Africa that sought to devour her. She was so beautiful, my Kathy was - auburn hair in quiet ringlets cascading down to her shoulders. Bright blue eyes that smiled a mini-second before her lips did. Pink cheeks and white teeth that looked like little Chiclets®. Near Valentine’s Day, my mother would buy my sister and I a large book of partly cut-out Valentines on each page. We were to give them out to all the kids in our classes. I wanted to give all of mine to Kathy, but my mom wouldn’t allow it. She said I had to give one to 48

each kid in my class. “Even Stinky Carbeneau?” I asked. “Even Stinky Carbeneau!” she said. Stinky’s real name was Vic, but I didn’t like him much. That’s why I called him Stinky. He was the most popular and smartest boy in the class. Often when she thought no one was looking, Kathy would sneak glances at him, which made me mad. I don’t know how many times, in my daydreams, I destroyed him, but he always seemed to pop up again. Stinky wasn’t only the best looking, most popular, smartest boy in our class, he was the toughest too. He wasn’t a bully or anything, but no one messed with him. Not even Pee Wee Wise, who wasn’t very tall but could flip taller kids over his shoulder. I beat up Vic lots of times causing Kathy to almost swoon in admiration for me - in my daydreams of course, so there was no blood. She was my Valentine 24 times over. Sometimes she was all I could think about. When I was apart from her, my heart ached and when I was in the same room with her, my heart still ached. She was so lovely, so pristine, so angelic – so distant. It is hard to long for your sweetheart when your sweetheart doesn’t know she’s your sweetheart. Once, I got up the nerve to mumble hello to her in the hall on the way to recess, but she brushed by me without so much as a glance. I wanted to hide! I wanted to die! I wanted to run! Instead I escaped into my daydream and beat the stuffing out of Stinky. Young love is truly wonderful because it is built more on thought than on action. I knew one day I would marry Kathy; I just didn’t know how to go about it.

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MY VALENTINE

Years have the tendency to sweep out old daydreams to make room for new ones. I don’t remember when Kathy got swept out, probably in Grade 7 at another school, when a whole bunch of Kathys started running across my vision. The mind is fickle in its search for lasting love. I don’t know what became of Kathy. Some years later, I heard different stories. One said she married a doctor and had three girls who looked just like her. It was probably Stinky she married. He was smart enough to become a doctor. (I can’t stand a showoff.) Another rumour was that she became a nun; I didn’t even know she was Catholic. Still another tale was that she married and divorced three times and became grossly overweight. (I always knew we had much in common.) Whatever happened to her is a mystery. But one thing remains, the memory of my first sweetheart, my first Valentine, my first love no matter how onesided it might have been. And wherever she is and whoever she is, I know she’s happy. She won’t remember me, but I SL sure remember her!

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