April 2009 Senior Living Magazine Island Edition

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April 2009 TM

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CELEBRATING SENIORS IN OUR COMMUNITY

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APRIL 2009

FEATURES 4 Believe it. See it.

Eagle artist Robert Cerins with his finished work. Story on page 4.

COVER: Renowned Chinese landscape artist Andy Shutse Lou at work in his studio. Story on page 24. Cover Photo: Judee Fong Publisher Barbara Risto Editor Bobbie Jo Reid Sheriff Contributors Norman K. Archer, Mikell Callahan, Goldie Carlow, Judee Fong, Gipp Forster, Andrew Fyson, Frank Hajer, Mary Anne Hajer, Stephanie Linn, Pat Nichol, Enise Olding, Max Rogers, Adriane Schroeder, Rosalind Scott, Vernice Shostal, Barbara Small, Judy Stafford, Marg Thorsell Design Bobbie Jo Reid Sheriff, Barbara Risto Proofreader Allyson Mantle Advertising Manager Barry Risto For advertising information, call 479-4705 sales@seniorlivingmag.com Ad Sales Staff RaeLeigh Buchanan 250-479-4705 Ann Lester 250-390-1805 Mathieu Powell 250-704-6288 Barry Risto 250-479-4705 Distribution Ron Bannerman, Rhonda Donkersley, Gail Fattore, Jim Gahr, Lorraine Rhode, Barry Risto, Betty Risto, Sheila Rose Richardson Contact Information Senior Living, 153, 1581-H Hillside Ave.,Victoria BC V8T 2C1 Phone 250-479-4705 Toll-free 1-877-479-4705 Fax 250-479-4808 E-mail (General) office@seniorlivingmag.com (Editorial) editor@seniorlivingmag.com Web site www.seniorlivingmag.com Subscriptions $32 (includes GST) for 12 issues. Canadian residents only. No portion of this publication may be reproduced in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Senior Living is an independent publication and its articles imply no endorsement of any products or services. The views expressed herein are not necessarily those of the publisher. Unsolicited articles are welcome and should be e-mailed to editor@seniorlivingmag.com Senior Living Vancouver Island is distributed free throughout Vancouver Island. Stratis Publishing Ltd. publishes Senior Living Vancouver Island (12 issues per year) and Senior Living Vancouver & Lower Mainland (12 issues per year). ISSN 1710-3584 (Print) ISSN 1911-6403 (Online)

Even when artist Robert Cerins temporarily lost his sight, he didn’t lose his vision.

8 Pickleball

Fitness, strategy, friendships, fun – pickleball offers them all.

Columns

12 Found Art and Assemblages

2 The Family Caregiver Barbara Small

After 25 years of pursuing his passion, Tom Faue finally feels comfortable enough to call himself “artist.”

10 Victoria’s Past Revisited

16 Wasn’t That a Party?

28 Scam Alert

Senior Living magazine hosts its annual festival.

20 Nature Unblemished Visiting what some believe is the most beautiful place on earth.

Norman Archer

23 Ask Goldie

Goldie Carlow Rosalind Scott

38 Courageous & Outrageous Pat Nichol

48 Reflections: Then and Now

24 East Meets West

Andy Shutse Lou adds an Asian touch to B.C.’s beautiful landscape.

30 Kid Appeal

Children’s author Julie Lawson finds inspiration in unexpected places.

Gipp Forster

and...

Resource Directory 39 Events 44 Crossword 46 Classifieds 47

34 The Pesticide Connection Tips from the Canadian Cancer Society for cultivating a pesticide-free community.

36 Just Add Water

Nanoose Water Colour Group keeps getting better – with a little help from local artists.

40 Garden Paradise

Denman Island gardeners open their doors – and their gates – to visitors.

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THE FAMILY CAREGIVER

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amily caregivers can experience a wide range of emotions in response to the demands of caregiving: anger, sadness, guilt, frustration and worry, as well as happiness and satisfaction. Finding a safe and appropriate outlet to express and manage these emotions is important, especially the ones that can drain your energy, such as anger and guilt. Left unexpressed, these emotions can lead to caregiver burnout and health problems. Trust your emotions. Negative feelings can be a signal that the current situation is not working for you, or that your own needs are not being met. When you feel happy and energized, take note of the situation and use that information in the future when you need to lift your spirits. Below are some ideas to help manage emotions that tend to drain your energy: • Attend a caregiver support group at the Family Caregivers’ Network (FCNS) or through one of the many disease-specific organizations, such as the Alzheimer’s Resource Centre, MS Society or the BC Cancer Agency. • Talk to a friend, a fellow caregiv-

The Emotions of Caregiving

er, a co-worker, clergy or professional counsellor. Many community organizations, including FCNS provide telephone support as well. • Ensure you make time for activities that energize you and that you enjoy, such as going for a walk on the beach, working or sitting in your garden, painting, playing with your pets, watching a funny film or listening to music. • Examine the expectations you have for yourself, the person you are caring for and the current situation. Are your expectations realistic or are you setting yourself up for further frustration and guilt? • When you feel angry or resentful, take a break and leave the situation, if possible. A quick walk or some deep breathing can help defuse your feelings. • You may feel guilty when you experience anger or when you take time for yourself. Many caregivers often feel guilty about their actions. Remind yourself that you are doing the best you can, at the time, with what you know. Also, if you take some time to care for yourself, it will benefit the person you are caring for because you will feel more relaxed and focused, and less irritated.

BY BARBARA SMALL

Finally, remember that feelings are transient. They come and go continuously throughout the day. What you feel now is not what you might feel in another hour. Take a deep breath and examine what is motivating the emotion and what small change you could make to shift that feeling. Join us in celebrating Family Caregivers Week 2009 and FCNS’ 20th Anniversary while, at the same time, learning strategies for coping with the feelings of caregiving at our upcoming presentation: Family Caregiving: An Emotional Journey, Friday, May 8, 9:30 a.m.–1:30 p.m. Workshop registration includes a buffet lunch. Visit our website at www.fcns-caregiving. SL org for more information. Next month: Communicating with Healthcare Professionals

Barbara Small is Program Development Coordinator for Family Caregivers’ Network Society.

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Believe it See it

BY JUDY STAFFORD

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yes see much more than just the surrounding visual stimulation. After spending most of this past summer temporarily completely blind, artist and musician Robert Cerins found out first-hand how much he could see beyond his vision. Fifteen years ago, Robert had an initial warning that his eyes might have problems, but that didn’t prepare him for two detached retinas and four surgeries that found him laying still for five weeks, painting only in his mind and having 4

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endless conversations with himself. “When I couldn’t see, I had to lie in the same position without moving and my body was saying, why am I laying in the same spot? Where are my pillows? Why is my head draped upside down so I feel nauseous? I’m six feet seven inches tall and my whole body is designed to look down, so it felt completely backwards.” Born in Winnipeg, 54 years ago, Robert had two major fears as a young boy – being held down and losing his sight.


During his time of complete immobility, he found himself experiencing both fears at the same time. So, he turned to meditation, trying to understand himself more and getting deeper into himself. “I’ve had a great deal of pleasure playing my instruments and I draw and paint every day,” he says. “But during that time, I couldn’t get up to draw and paint, and I didn’t know if I was ever going to be able to do that when it was all said and done. So I would meditate for hours and hours, then I would say, OK that’s enough of that, now what can I do? My old goal was to get good at not thinking, so I got pretty good at that. But then I tried actually holding on to a thought. I would practise that, and I would catch myself holding onto a negative thought. And I decided, at that point, not to get into deep conversations with myself on what I don’t want – only what I do. And now, I practise loving everything.” Stephanie Linn, Robert’s true love of five years, cared for him and continued to love him without a flicker of abandonment during a time that ended up bringing the couple closer together. While looking into each other’s eyes, when Robert’s sight started to reappear, brought a realization that their connection has become divine, and has helped Robert find his centre. Even without his normal eyesight, oddly enough, Robert helped Stephanie find her way around Vancouver on one of their many trips from the Island to the hospital. “I used to live in White Rock and, one time, when we took the ferry over, Stephanie had never been that way before. So, I directed her by memory to the hospital. It was like I had a GPS in my head and I could get everywhere. I didn’t even know I had that – and it worked. We’re not as Godwit helpless as we think just because one thing turns off,” he says. “We are richer than we think and I’ve received some very powerful gifts from everything that has happened.” Music is another gift he’s shared with the world since he was in Grade 4. As a young boy, he had the precocity to collect a few fellow musicians, write some songs, and was given permission to play at a school assembly. They went

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on to renting a hall and even if they only had enough songs to play for an hour – they had the ingenuity to repeat songs, pretending they were playing requests. Lately, joining with friends and jamming has brought Robert back to the great joy of music. “There is this incredibly enlightened feeling and glow that comes out of all of us when everyone is so satiated after playing for hours. Music puts us all in the same vibe and, when we are jamming and playing in the moment, we feel safe. When you stay in the blissful state with some old friends and some strangers and you communicate with instruments – it’s very divine. We don’t talk about the key, we don’t worry about the structure – every note is correct. We don’t listen to a song as it should be; we just play what’s in our hearts.” As another integral part of his healing journey, Robert and Stephanie have slowly adopted a 75 per cent raw foods diet, including sprouting. While his eyes are healing, everything else

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is healing as well. He’s learning to tap into his inner eye more and he can even hear better. He’s found that his ability to communicate with himself has also increased dramatically. “That is partly due to the combination of having to hold still for so long and having conversations with myself,” he says. “No matter what we face, we can find a way to cope. There is incredible safety in knowing that. There’s a feeling of calmness and understanding that no matter what happens – you have yourself. That brings you back to loving yourself completely.” Learning to see the correlation between emotions and the physical manifestations is yet another dimension in Robert’s quest for understanding. “Pay attention to what you hear, pay attention to what you feel, understand what you feel because your emotions are great barometers of what you’re thinking. All of a sudden you think, ‘oh, I am having an upset stomach.’ But are you? No, you are having an emotion. The emotions are there to guide you in a direction that is predestined to be good; the emotions may feel yucky, so pay attention and change your thoughts. Pay attention to what you’re thinking and own them. Then when you own them, you can change them. I actually change them back to practising loving everything. Why worry? In fact, don’t even answer that ‘why worry’ – just feel love instead.” Love and gratitude keep coming back to Robert. He’s written that down countless times in the stacks of journals he’s sketched in over the years. Knowing and honouring that belief has brought him opportunities to continue sharing his art and passion. Previously part of the Spirit Bear in the City project in 2006, Robert was recently asked to participate in the Eagles in the City project in Victoria. For six weeks, he travelled with Stephanie to the CHEK TV studio and painted the seven-and-a-half-foot fibreglass bald eagle. In his unique, creative and whimsical style, he’s encoded braille messages amongst the swirling cas-

cades of black and white. Some of his favourite inspirational sayings such as “honesty is sexy” and “meditation is my medication” have found their way onto the majestic bird. And if you look closely, you’ll see subtle acts of protest in the eyes of the fish in the form of the “no-tanker loonies.” His eagle, named “CHEK My Bald Ego” will become part of the Bald Eagle Flight Path Map; all the painted masterpieces will be auctioned off this summer with proceeds benefiting Easter Seals. Robert’s future is soaring. “It’s my choice whether I enjoy what I’m doing or not, so I do what I enjoy – that’s the main thing isn’t it?” he asks. “I’ve had people question me on that – that you can’t be doing whatever you want all your life.” But Robert is proof a person can. SL

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Pickleball player Susan Guest lines up to serve.

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ickleball, played with a hard paddle and perforated plastic ball, a game similar to badminton and tennis, began as a backyard family game in 1965 on Bainbridge Island, Washington. The game, now played with formalized rules on a badminton court, was named after a family dog called Pickles who chased the balls and hid them in the bushes. Eventually, Pickles’ ball became pickleball. Today, pickleball is recognized as a fast-paced game, great for hand-eye co-ordination, mental alertness and socializing. “The first time I tried pickleball, I became hooked,” says former educator and current Victoria/Nanaimo USA Pickleball Association (USAPA) co-ambassador, Susan Guest, who tries to promote pickleball whenever she can. “Ask anyone who knows me. I mention pickleball within the first half hour of meeting someone new.” Susan first tried pickleball five years ago in Kelowna when a friend in her aerobics class suggested she try playing “pickle something,” a game Susan had never heard of. The friend was so enthusiastic about the game that Susan decided to try it. Claiming to have been a non-racquet playing person, Susan found pickleball “easy to learn and loads of fun. A beginner can learn to play pickleball in less than an hour.” Two years ago, after playing pickleball in Florida and Arizona, Susan came home with the B division silver medal for her age group in doubles play at the Arizona Senior Olympics. “The most challenging part of the sport is placing the ball accurately,” says the 30-year cancer survivor. “It’s not a sport of brute strength; it’s

about accuracy and placement. You learn different techniques and strategies from other players. One of the challenges of this game is developing fast reflexes to respond to a wide range of shots to return over the net,” says Susan, who plays the game three times a week. “You need to learn to work with a partner to cover the court and be ready to return the ball from all areas. There is a skill in being able to strategically return the ball so your opponents find it hard to return it.” Having spent 25 years as a long distance runner completing numerous races including half marathons, 10 official and six unofficial marathons, Susan is currently training for the Times Colonist 10k run this month. Susan also belongs to Club Tread, dances several times a week with the Victoria Ballroom Dance Society, takes Argentine Tango lessons, plays table tennis once a week, does aerobics twice a week and plays card and board games with her grandchildren. “It seems the more I do, the more energy I have,” she says. Lois and Jeff Watt came to Canada from Australia in 1967 to teach and travel for a year; they stayed another 40. The Watts lived in Southwestern Ontario until their children grew up and decided to head West. “When we retired, we decided to join them, and we are really pleased to have made the big move across the country,” says Lois. Lois was first introduced to pickleball a year ago when Susan came to her table tennis group with a flyer outlining the game. Lois and some of her friends decided to try it out and, like Susan, they got hooked. e ar Watt sh Lois and Jeff e net. Lois’ husband, Jeff, who had hip replacement sura laugh at th gery in 2008, was unable to get into the game until

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January 2009. Now, the couple plays pickleball twice a week. “It has helped me regain my energy, stamina and rebuild muscle tone in my legs after having limited mobility for almost a year,” says Jeff. Since moving to Victoria, the Watts have become involved in table tennis and golf and enjoy walking on the many pathways and trails around Victoria. As Jeff regains his mobility, they are also getting back into dancing. “We enjoy meeting and interacting with others,” they say. James Guzzo, a former car dealership Internet sales manager, found pickleball easy to pick up physically, but he could see how finesse and strategy would be more important than pure physicality. “The game usually takes about 15 minutes to play, so you can easily have five or six games in a session allowing you to have a number of different partners and opponents, which adds quite a social aspect to the game,” says James, who finds pickleball a combination of fun, working out and having “a thoroughly good time.” James explains that the short, hard paddle is “an extension of your hand,” and the light plastic perforated ball doesn’t require a lot of strength to hit. “Anticipation, timing and a sense of touch are all that you need. Moving your opponents around with shot placement is more important than physical power. It’s sort of like chess, but more sweaty.” In 2004, James came to Victoria from Ontario where he spent most of his life in the family sporting goods, restaurant and real estate businesses. He continues to work casually and is looking at becoming an ESL teacher or getting his BC Fitness Instructor Certification, much like the Fitness Instruction Certification he had in Ontario. “Life is a verb,” says the former fastball player who works out or plays snooker when he isn’t playing pickleball. These pickleball enthusiasts emphasize the social side of the game. “The playing area is fairly small and since we usually play doubles, there is laughter, light-hearted joking and simply having fun combined with a bit of a workout,” says James. A fast-growing sport on the Island, pickleball is played in several recreational centres in Victoria, and one in Courtenay. SL To learn more about pickleball, visit www.usapa.org or e-mail Susan at sguest47@hotmail.com

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T S A P S ’ IA R O T C I V

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ohn Tod was odd. At least most people thought so, and this may be why the house he built in Victoria, 2564 Heron Street, probably the oldest house in Western Canada, is said to be haunted by a ghost with a penchant for Christmas cards and rattling chains. Renovations to the house in 1952 revealed the skeleton of a native woman buried in the backyard. It may also be the reason the remarkably fascinating Inlet named after him, whose waters lap the shores of Butchart’s Gardens, is a place of solitude and seclusion. John Tod was a gangly youth and all through his life, his limbs never appeared to be properly connected to his body. He used this idiosyncrasy to good effect, when, in a heated debate, his arms would flail the air like a berserk windmill. The American historian Hubert Howe Bancroft said this of him: “Tod could no more tell his story seated in a chair than he could fly to Jupiter while chained to the Rock of Gibraltar; arms, legs and vertebrae were all brought into requisition, while high-hued information, bombed with oaths, burst from his breast like lava from Etna.” He was born in October 1794, on the bonny, bonny banks of Loch Lomond in Scotland, the oldest of nine children. He resented his harsh religious upbringing;

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he resented the dull teaching methods of the Parish School; he resented the domineering attitude of his first employer; and he resented the scorn of his family and neighbours who dubbed him a “ne’er do well.” His relief came when he heard about Lord Selkirk’s illconceived agricultural colony of Red River in what is now Manitoba. Excited by the concept, he enrolled for a fiveyear apprenticeship as a clerk with the Hudson’s Bay Company, experiencing some bitterly harsh winters in the most primitive conditions with far from adequate clothing and supplies, but quickly learned the fur trading business. In 1816, he was posted to northern Ontario, just at the time when the rivalry between the Hudson’s Bay Company and the Northwest Trading Company had reached its ugly peak and the Bay men were often on the losing side. John Work, who became a great friend, replaced Tod as District Manager. Work ended his career in Victoria, while Tod became an officer at the Company’s headquarters in York Factory. But Tod always had problems with authority and this weakness of character, together with his quick temper, was to daunt his footsteps throughout his years with the Company. George Simpson was the able but cold-hearted and

vindictive Governor of the Hudson’s Bay interests in the area. On one occasion, Tod came to blows with Simpson’s bumptious Secretary, Tom Taylor, who ran immediately to his superior to report the event. The irate Simpson demanded an explanation from Tod who characteristically waved his arms in his impassioned response. Simpson thought he was about to be struck, stumbled back, fell over a stool and roared, “You shall hear from me, sir!” Tod’s transfer in 1826 to the harsh and dreaded New Caledonia (which included parts of British Columbia, Washington and Oregon) came swiftly, and when Simpson gleefully announced the move, Tod replied that was exactly the place he hoped he would be sent! He believed it couldn’t possibly be as bad as he had heard. It was a terrible journey through the Peace River country and across the Rockies to Fort George, commanded by a veteran Hudson’s Bay Officer James Yale, who also had been banished to these parts because of a disagreement with Simpson. It wasn’t long before Tod was in trouble again and was transferred to Fort McLeod, the worst of all possible Hudson’s Bay postings, but where he was provided with a young assistant named

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James Douglas, destined to become the founding father of Victoria and a future Governor of British Columbia. The situation at the Fort became so unbearable that Tod decided to trek back to York Factory in 1834 and present his resignation in person to George Simpson. To his amazement, Simpson was warm, friendly and begged him not to resign, offering him a promotion and a vacation in England and Scotland. On his return, Tod was given several temporary postings across Canada, including a few months with James Douglas in 1839 at Fort Vancouver at the mouth of the Columbia River. Later, he was sent back to the Interior to establish Fort Kamloops, where the natives described him as “the ugliest man at the Fort.” The erratic and temperamental Tod is said to have had seven female companions, four as legitimate wives. He is also reputed to have fathered 10 children. His first liaison was in 1818 with a partnative girl named Catherine Birstone, whom he had met in Lake Winnipeg. He was glad to be rid of her when he was transferred to New Caledonia. Tod played the flute and the fiddle and was delighted to find another female companion of native descent with a fine ear for music. However, he aban-

doned her in 1834 when he took his European vacation. On this trip, he married a Welsh lady named Eliza Waugh in London and brought her back to his fur trading posts. But it was soon evident to his colleagues that poor Eliza had problems and they wondered why Tod would marry a “cracked-brained chambermaid.” Only three years later, realizing he had a mad woman for a wife, he took her back to Wales where she was admitted to an insane asylum as a “confirmed lunatic.” In 1843, at Kamloops, a native girl named Sophia Lolo, who was at least 30 years his junior, became his mistress. In 1850, Tod was one of Victoria’s first retirees and built his house, The Willows, near the shores of Oak Bay. He busied himself at home by enabling Sophia to produce five children. He obviously did little else because James Douglas described him as a poor old gentleman who was not very enterprising. He was 55. In Victoria, he dabbled in politics, abandoned the Presbyterian religion of his ancestors, embraced spiritualism, gave up farming, speculated profitably on land, reared his brood of children, but despised his sons-in-law. After getting the news that his legitimate wife Eliza had died in 1857 in the

Welsh Asylum, Tod knew he was free to marry Sophia, but was in no hurry to do so. To complicate matters, Catherine, his first mistress whom he now disliked, turned up in Victoria in 1863, claimed she was Tod’s wife and insisted she be addressed as “Mrs. Tod.” This spurred Tod into legitimizing his relationship with Sophia and the marriage took place the same year, robbing Catherine of her assumed title. Tod suffered many personal setbacks, quarrels, health issues and financial losses over the years. He became sad, lonely and morose. He was one of the first Hudson’s Bay officers to retire in Victoria and, after 32 years of retirement, was the last survivor of the old Company pioneers. He died of prostate cancer on August 31, 1882 at SL the age of 87.

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om Faue’s family has eight siblings. He’s the only boy. The talented octet includes a painter, a pianist and a sculptor. And Mom is a fabric artist. It’s not surprising, then, that Tom followed suit. But it wasn’t until later in life that he fully developed his artistic side. Failing to be accepted into the military at the tender age of 17, Tom decided to travel. One of his sisters accompanied him on part of his journey, which included Europe, the Middle East, Pakistan, Afghanistan and India. The sights, sounds and experiences of the year of travel were to have a profound influence on young Tom, opening his mind and his senses. Eventually, Tom arrived in Vancouver and, for about a year, he worked as a janitorial supervisor, until he visited a friend on the Gulf Islands. “I moved to the Shoal Islands, where there was a deserted hunter’s cabin, and I moved into it,” he says. “It was beautiful to be on the Island,” he smiles. “To explore the beautiful coast was very fulfilling.” All it took was $20 a month to live there in 1970. Surviving sufficiently on rice, milk and vegetables, Tom decided to stay. The freedom of this type of lifestyle suited Tom but, from time to time, he’d turn his hand to paying work as his needs demanded. He moved to the Cowichan Valley area when life took an unexpected turn. His dog needed veterinary attention, so he took it to a vet who happened to be building a 50-foot [15.2 m] trimaran to take his family to the South Pacific. Tom was enthralled with the project and all the work involved. “I’d visit him and watch him build the boat thinking how great it would be to have my own boat,” recalls Tom. His vet friend encouraged him to build a smaller-sized boat, egging him on with the comment, “you don’t need any plans; a 10-year-old kid could do it.” With a little help to get started, Tom set to building his own boat. It took him three years to build his 39-foot [11.9 m] catamaran. It was ready to launch in 1976 and, luckily, Tom discovered Genoa Bay Marina. He was travelling in


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the back of a friend’s pickup truck down an old dirt road. When they got to the end of the road, they found 10 boats moored in a bay. To Tom, ”it looked like a little Shangri-La” and he moored his boat, Alfresco, there. Knowing there were beautiful areas to sail in B.C., Tom travelled up and down the coast. He toured around Vancouver Island for four years stopping, from time to time, to work in logging camps, or in mines, or wherever there was work to bring in some money. Tom lived on Alfresco for about 18 years, and it was his artwork that eventually forced him onto almost dry land. At some point, in all the years of nautical wanderings, Tom visited with one of his sisters and her husband, who was a carver. He encouraged Tom to walk along the shore and find a piece of wood that “speaks to you, and make your first carving.” Much to Tom’s satisfaction, the piece of art he produced was way beyond his expectations. He continued to produce driftwood carvings, and has sold many pieces over the years. It was in 1982 that Tom began to concentrate on his art. Thinking back, he realizes he’s always been an artist having done batik work in the ’70s, and taking art classes in high school and college. After all, “the boat was my biggest sculpture,” he laughs, “built without plans and more or less custom carved.” As he became more focused, he produced more sculptures. Continuing to expand his artistic horizons, his work evolved into found objects and assemblages, “mostly because the materials were inexpensive,” says Tom. Many of his materials come from junkyards or around the marina and, often, people bring him items they think he’ll enjoy working with. By now, Alfresco couldn’t provide the type of workspace Tom needed, so he hauled a boatshed from the beach in Cowichan Bay and tied it to the dock in Genoa Bay with Alfresco tied up on the other side. He had a place to work. Soon, the metal work, being big and heavy, became a hassle to move around to galleries or art shows, so he hung it on the outside of his boatshed. Eventually, he ran out of room. Now, the entire dock of float homes and boathouses are adorned with an amazing array of Tom’s sculptures and assemblages. Not

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only are Tom’s works along the dock, but they are also in various places in and around Genoa Bay Marina. Occasionally, someone will come along and buy a piece and, Tom grins, “it’s world class art at Genoa Bay prices! I’m not in it for the money; it is something I do as a vocation and obsession. I have a game with myself to see what I can create out of what I find,” says Tom. People’s responses to his art are his reward. “I’d rather have them out there being seen by everyone than in a gallery or in storage.” Still, his work has been featured in galleries in Maui and on Vancouver Island. It took Tom a while to feel confident enough to call himself an artist, “but after 25 years of doing this work that is my passion, and around which everything else revolves,” he’s comfortable with being his own boss and enjoying the freedom it allows him. “In the summer, I do my cruise work and the rest of the time I do my art.” So, Alfresco is not entirely out of the picture. A few years’ ago, Tom decided to run charters aboard Alfresco out of Genoa Bay and into the local waters. He got through all the necessary red tape, training and other requirements for 14

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Wasn’t That a Party? STORY AND PHOTOS BY VERNICE SHOSTAL

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ozens of participants within 12 entertainment acts, exhibitors and around 2,000 visitors congregated at the 50+ Active Living Celebration at Pearkes Arena on Friday, March 13 to sing, dance, visit over 140 exhibits, meet people they hadn’t seen in a while and generally be entertained. “Courageous and Outrageous” columnist Pat Nichol, who invited people to tell her about their courageous and outrageous stories, once again emceed the daylong celebration. Visitors from all over the Island attended the event. Barbara Risto, co-publisher of Senior Living magazine and event host, said the festival had attracted visitors from as far away as Ontario. The 50+ Active Living Celebration was the premier event of Embrace Aging Month, joining 25 health-focused free workshops available for seniors sponsored by the Greater Victoria Eldercare Foundation. “Incorporating art, fitness, education, family, community and wellness into our daily lives leads to a more positive way of life,” said Lori McLeod, Executive Director of the Eldercare Foundation. Admission to the festival was by donation and visitors who contributed $5 or more received a free copy of Senior Living columnist Gipp Forster’s popular book, Reflections, Rejections and Other Breakfast Foods. Senior Living “Bygone Treas16

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ures” columnist Michael Rice was also on hand to provide free valuations on small, unique antiques brought in by visitors. To kick off the entertainment, the City of Gardens Chorus and their Sweet Adeline four-part harmony were back for the fourth year in a row. They were followed by Celtic piano accordionist, instructor and adjudicator and first-time performer at the festival, Mary Ross, who played renditions of Scottish, Irish and German music while the audience stomped and clapped to the rhythm. The all-male voice Grandview Quartet performed for


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Before the program ended, the audience was invited to join the ballroom dancers for a lesson, although some people, enthused and excited about the music and performances, didn’t wait for the lesson. Occasionally, couples danced around the chairs or wherever they found space, when the music inspired them. The M’Toni Malaika Marimba Band, the final item on the program, played vibrant traditional South African music, which visitors loved enough to get on stage to imitate the African dances. Throughout the day, the Aquaterra Café provided food at reasonable prices. Tables and seating permitted a full view of the performances. Exhibits at the festival included every kind of interest from financial and tax assistance to holiday tours, health and wellness, charity, education, entertainment and fitness activities. At the Book Nook, several authors, some profiled in Senior Living magazine were on hand to offer their books at special festival prices. According to the greeters, people coming in and out of the building couldn’t say enough about how much they enjoyed the day. “The highlight of the festival is the spirit that comes with it,” said Barbara Risto. “When you walk around and see people having a good time, greeting people they haven’t met in a while, we feel good about it. That whole attitude makes us SL feel great that we are able to contribute.”

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There is a calm tranquility which stretches from the smooth surface of the reflecting water straight up into infinity. The deep calm of eternal silences is only disturbed by the muffled roar of throbbing waterfalls as they plunge down from sheer cliffs. There is no scenery in the world that can beat it. Not that I’ve seen the rest of the world. I don’t need to. I’ve seen Princess Louisa Inlet. –Erle Stanley Gardner, Log of a Landlubber

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rincess Louisa Inlet, considered by some to be the most beautiful place on earth, is nestled deep in B.C.’s coastal range and accessible only by water or air. Surrounded and protected by mountains as high as 2,100 metres, it is the premier destination on the coast for recreational boaters, as well as a major attraction for visitors from all over the world. Time and effort, however, are needed to get there. Boats must first navigate 80 kilometres up the long and winding Jervis Inlet to Princess Louisa Inlet’s narrow opening. There, unless equipped with engines powerful enough to handle the surging current, they must wait for slack water to safely navigate the Malibu Rapids that guard the entrance. I first saw Princess Louisa Inlet in the summer of 2002. We were relatively new to boating, and this was the farthest we had travelled from our home base of Bridgeport (now River Rock) Marina on the North Arm of the Fraser River in Richmond. The previous day had been sunny and hot without a breath of wind, 20

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so we had motored up Jervis Inlet from Egmont in our sailboat, the Zephyr, taking close to five hours for the 60-kilometre trip. We saw few other boaters on this leg of our journey, and even fewer signs of human habitation on shore. The area was much as Captain George Vancouver would have found it when he and his men rowed up the inlet in longboats in the summer of 1792, charting the shoreline in their search for the Northwest Passage. Like him, we passed between steep walls of granite, some as high as 2,500 metres, scarred with evidence of past avalanches and punctuated by numerous waterfalls. In places, forests of hemlock, cedar and Douglas fir clung precariously to the rocky slopes, in places reaching all the way down the mountainside to dip their lower branches daintily into the water. It was mid-afternoon when we made the turn into Queen’s Reach, the most inland section of Jervis Inlet, and too late that day for a slack tide during daylight hours. So, we dropped the hook at Patrick Point, a small anchorage off the western shore, and the same place Vancouver and his men spent the night over 200 years before. They had missed the entrance to Princess Louisa Inlet, the s-shaped curve of Malibu Rapids deceiving them into thinking the rapidly flowing water was simply another creek. Frank and I spent the rest of that day alone in the wilderness. We basked in the sun, bathed in the clear water, ate our leisurely dinner in the cockpit surrounded by a million-dollar view, toasted the sunset and fell asleep listening to the gurgle of a nearby stream. Early the next morning, we struggled out of our berths before dawn, pulled on our fleeces and made a thermos of coffee. We started our engine, hauled up the anchor and pointed the Zephyr’s bow across the water to Malibu Rapids, adjusting our speed so we would arrive at the slack. Usually, a boat going through the rapids has to take its place in a line of at least half a dozen others but, at this early hour, we were the only ones heading in, although we met a few boats leaving. Just as we entered the Inlet, the first rays of the rising sun appeared above the mountains in the east, bathing the opposite peaks in a sea of molten gold that, as the sun rose higher, flowed slowly down the tree-covered slopes to the still water below. Not a whisper of wind stirred the surface of the Inlet as its colour changed from black to indigo and, finally, to a clear cerulean blue, always mirroring the sky above. Thick forests covered the lower reaches of the surrounding mountains in heavy green blankets, torn in places by avalanches that left gashes of bare rock


in their wake. Innumerable small waterfalls splashed into the Inlet, turning the salt water at their base a milky white. When we reached the public dock at the head of the Inlet, our feeling of solitude in paradise vanished. The early departures had left space for us to tie up, and those already there were happy to catch our lines and help us manoeuvre into place. The dock was crowded with pleasure boats of all kinds – luxury yachts and sleek, expensive sailboats shared the space with handyman’s specials like the Zephyr. Some skippers had anchored their boats at the base of Chatterbox Falls, the largest of the Inlet’s waterfalls and the focal point of the marine park. Thousands come to the park every summer now, but just a few centuries ago, the only visitors were the Sechelt Indians, who used the Inlet as a seasonal campsite. Then, in 1900, a German army deserter named Herman Caspar homesteaded the flat area at the mouth of the Inlet. According to the Sunshine Coast Museum Archives, he worked as a blacksmith for local loggers, performed songs he had composed on his zither and raised cats – 26 in all. In 1940, Caspar sold his land to the aviation tycoon, Thomas Hamilton, who built the Malibu Club, a luxury resort designed to attract the rich and famous. Although initially successful, by 1950, it was no longer financially viable, and Hamilton abandoned the project.

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after a 100 years, the colours will disappear,’ pointed out the Canadian. And the Chinese artist replied, ‘I’m not going to be here in a 100 years, so that won’t be my problem!’ Another Canadian asked if the rice paper was 100 per cent acid-free. When the Canadian heard the rice paper was not acid-free, he was horrified and told the Chinese artist that over many years the paint will react with the rice paper turning the paper yellow. ‘But that’s the beauty of aging,’ replied the Chinese artist.’” Andy laughs with delight at the differences in Western and Eastern attitudes. Embracing his life with enthusiasm and joy, Andy continues producing his visually appealing landscapes. Thoughtfully, Andy says, “When I paint, I try to keep it loose and spontaneous. I tell my students relax, just paint and enjoy. There is no right or wrong way. Just go with the flow and SL see what happens.” For more information on Andy’s China tour in August or the A & A Gallery, call 250-658-9381 or e-mail Andy at aalou@shaw.ca

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Dragon’s Pearl, a retelling of an ancient fable. In her dragon research for a teaching project, Julie discovered a picture of a white jade amulet with a carving of a tiger and thought “white jade tiger” would make a great title for a future book. The whole idea simmered in the back of her mind. “I took my class on a field trip to

Chinatown,” Julie recalls. “We visited the Chinatown Trading Store where the rooms keep winding their way to more rooms until you reach the last room with an exit door. But there was a ‘No Exit’ sign on the door and we asked if we could go out that way. The clerk nodded permission. When we found ourselves in Fan Tan Alley, I had this ‘What if?’ moment of a 12-year-old on a field trip


to Chinatown who goes out this same door and finds herself back in the 1880s. I loved writing White Jade Tiger!” Besides winning the prestigious Sheila A. Egoff Award, White Jade Tiger is also one of the popular Chinatown tours, given by Charlene Thornton Joe and historian, John Adams. “I would visit schools on the Mainland and the kids would tell me of their trip to Victoria and taking the White Jade Tiger tour with Charlene,” says Julie. On her visits to schools and libraries, Julie’s audiences know they will be magically transported to another time and place. Researching material in Halifax for her twentieth book, No Safe Harbour, leading up to and after the Halifax Explosion in 1917, Julie recalls the opportunity she had interviewing a 94-year-old survivor. “This lady had an incredible memory of the tragedy and I was able to talk with her for three hours. I didn’t have a tape recorder with me so I jotted down her expressions, the way she spoke of things and used her phrasing to give the book that authentic Nova Scotian speech. When I visited the schools, they didn’t believe I wasn’t from Nova Scotia!” No Safe Harbour was chosen as the Hackmatack Children’s Choice Award. In 1998, Julie successfully applied as “Writer-in-Residence” at the Berton House Writers Retreat in Dawson City. “This was Pierre Berton’s childhood home for the first 12 years of his life in Dawson City. When he became famous, he purchased his childhood home, had it fixed up and do-

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he Nanoose Water Colour Group was started in 1992 by four talented women and, over a period of 17 years, has expanded to a group of 16 creditable and esteemed local artists. Originally watercolour purists, the members have learned to embrace many new mediums and techniques, allowing them to keep pace with the fast moving art of today. The group’s success pays tribute to the well-known B.C. artists who have shared their knowledge and experience in three-day workshops held each year in October. These artists include Grant Fuller, Eileen Fong, Marilyn Timms and Janice Robertson. This year, Maggie White will lead the workshop. All the group’s artists feel their paintings show the benefit of these intense classes. Rain or shine, the ladies meet each Monday from September to the end of April to share coffee and camaraderie, along with the painting and critiquing of their latest works.

missed, and the day often ends at the local pub for a glass of wine. During the year, the artists’ works can be seen at the Coastal Community Credit Union in Red Gap Centre Nanoose, Fairwinds Centre and at Nan-

Summer finds the more ardent painters carrying their painting supplies to local points of interest. Sunny beaches like Brick Yard Park, Parksville Beach, Buttertub Marsh and members’ flowering backyards. Four-day visits to Thetis Island include painting, exploring, hiking and enjoying the outdoors. Meals are never

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HAPPY TIMES, DANCING FEET “We’re older than we look, but not inside.”

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o began the chorus of the 4th annual Follies at Somerset House. Each year, the residents, under the direction of well-known Director Barbara Poggemiller, take out their top hats, polish up their canes and dance, sing and deliver sketches worthy of an old-time vaudeville show. This year was no different. With passion and creativity, to a packed standing-room-only crowd of their peers, about 25 residents, led through the evening by emcees Frank Fish and Art Poggemiller, kept the audience laughing, singing and clapping. As with any good vaudeville performance, clowns delivered weather reports throughout the show. Plus, an Easter Parade, a Mad Hatter’s Tea Party, and Dinner at Somerset, a sketch that laid the waiter out. The piano man, Bill Watt, started playing the keyboard a few years ago when he found he no longer had the wind to play the trumpet. Bill’s keyboarding skills added to most of the evening’s numbers. When Bill’s skills were needed elsewhere in the program, Phyllis

Cripps took over the ivories. Musical numbers ranged from sweet, “Alice Blue Gown,” a little raucous, “Get Me to the Church on Time” and “Side by Side,” “Singing in the Rain,” complete with umbrellas, a little rap accompanied by a bass guitar playing chef, and a men’s chorus complete with beer mugs. To all the singers, dancers, poets and musicians, we applaud you. The evening ended with the full chorus and the audience singing “When You’re Smiling.” We did. The audience was delighted with how the staff jumped in and assisted in the background or became part of the “Follies.” It was amazing the things that Kristina kept pulling out of her neckline. At a time when some people think about slowing down, this group at Somerset House gets going. The practices and rehearsals went on for weeks and, like Christmas morning, it was over too soon. Has someone suggested taking it on the road? Courageous and outrageous! This group of people is the epitome of both. I salute you all. Thank you for pulling up your courage and being the SL wonderful outrageous people you are.

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most everyone does on Denman.” She finds the coastal climate benevolent. “Despite the odd hard winter that happens every 10 years, you can grow so many tender plants here,” says Mikell. “As long as you can keep the deer out, it is easy to succeed on so many levels.” The Callahans have what appears to be a Denman monastery garden. Here, walled gardens are essential to keep out the voracious and cheeky Columbian Black Tail deer. Such garden walls are usually opaque with rambling roses and clematis, and give one the sense of being enclosed in a sacred space. The Callahan’s little entrance garden has the added attraction of numerous songbirds that come to the birdfeeders and roost in the curly hazelnut. Despite offering a garden full of narcissus, daffodils, tulips, Globe Master alliums, three colours of clematis, irises, blooming apple trees and a beautiful little weeping birch that will have just leafed out red, Mikell considers her garden a secondary attraction to her house. The house, built by Etienne de Villiers, is a superb example of a contemporary West Coast beach house. The couple designed the house after reading A Pattern Language, a best-selling 1977 book on architecture, but credit de Villiers with refining many of the architectural details. Mitch Moncrieff built the massive stone fireplace in their living room, and local craftsman John Harned produced the stained glass in the front door and in the ohana. Ohana is a Hawaiian word meaning family or guest quarters. Look for Gordon

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People over the age of 55 appreciate the one-stopshopping we offer. - Geoffrey Beattie

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Road and walk the short distance (it will be signed) to their home, freeing up limited parking on their property for disabled visitors. Andrew has a PhD in botany and Robert is an art historian and violinist. The couple lived in Europe, and later moved to Toronto at Andrew’s request. Robert didn’t care for Toronto and demanded they move back to Europe, or that Andrew show him what was so special about Canada. The quest to find Canada’s wonders led to Denman Island, and staying with Jimmy. They fell in love with the Island and bought a house, where they have lived for three-and-ahalf years. Together, they are creating a huge garden, complete with its own heritage cider-apple orchard, flowers beds, a rockery and a vegetable patch. They even have a small vineyard. Sharing a garden is not without its perils. Robert says he respects Andrew’s expertise as a botanist, but has an artist’s eye in the garden. “He gets annoyed with me when I mow down three-foot-high weeds that he says are wildflowers,” says Robert. “Andrew did back-breaking work building berms of irregular shapes for the garden beds, but I am more interested in flowers. I

The entrance to Mikell Callahan’s garden.

Jimmy Tait’s trout lillies

Photo: Tobey Callahan

Hutchins’ raku pottery on the wooden cabinets, all built by local craftsmen. Mikell has a Le Clerc loom she weaves rag rugs on. “I am going to try to have a weaver working when we have our show,” she says. Another little treasure is the Callahan’s stained glass windows from the Old Italian Club in Seattle. The one in the kitchen depicts, in an abstract form, the sails of the Nina, the Pinta and the Santa Maria. Turn your head and see the three sails coming over the horizon. Two others are in the dinning room and the master bedroom. The Callahan’s house is home to an impressive art collection. Tobey’s father, Kenneth Callahan, is a wellknown American artist. Their collection includes works from all periods of Kenneth’s painting career and traces his artistic development from his youth to the masterpieces of his final months. On their huge property, paths will be open to visitors who want to walk in the mossy stillness of the costal forest. The trails cross through the territories of four or five Winter Wrens, making this an excellent opportunity to see these shy birds. Andrew Fyson and Robert Newton, youngsters for Denman at 54 and 55, are new to the garden tour. Their home and garden are just off Wren Road. They hope people will park on Wren

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like roses, but Andrew calls them cabbages.” This friendly push and pull is creating a unique garden. Robert builds wooden structures in the garden, including a lytch gate as a place to sit. He also built the frames for cultivating beans and the clever trellis a couple of feet from the deer fence so their young roses and climbing plants wouldn’t be eaten by the deer pushing their noses through the fence. Andrew seems a little nervous hosting his first garden tour. “I didn’t want to be on the tour yet,” he says. “I wanted to be on in five years.” To get ready for the show, he planted 1,500 bulbs. He is also planning to do some compost education about how they use seaweed, spoiled hay and horse manure, as well as how to brew seaweed tea, which is all he feeds his tomatoes. Their huge log house, built by Martin Woods in 1982, will be open for visitors. The floors are all Denman maple and their small galley will display Andrew’s nature photography. His close-up photos of insects are beautiful and interesting. “We have a wetland here and see Bald Eagles and Pileated Woodpeckers frequently,” he says. Visitors can count on seeing hummingbirds in the garden, as they love the red valerian, or one of the 40 species of birds often spotted on the property. Andrew hopes people will take the time to enSL joy nature during their visit. Tickets are $1 5 and can be denmangarden reserved online tour@gmail.com at or by at 250-335-1802 calling Lee And . Tickets will be ra held for pickup Community H at the all on Denman Island on tour book a B&B, go da ys . To to www.denman island.com Money raised by the tour suppor ts the Denman servancy Assoc Coniation. This gr ou p buys land for conservation. S nature ee their new pa rk opposite the House. For mor old School e information on the Conservan www.denmanco cy, visit nservancy.org/ and click on H Garden Tour. ome and

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Anne Grimm, Benjamin Butterfield, and Chalium Poppy and orchestra

Tickets: $25 adults, $22 senior, $10 students Children under 12 free when accompanied by a ticket holder

Available at Ivy’s Bookshop, Christ Church Cathedral office, Larsen Music, Long & McQuade, and from choir members. Tickets also available at the door. Since 1989, CapriCCio Vocal Ensemble has been delighting audiences by performing works from early music to contemporary

for information visit www.capriccio.ca or phone 652-3508

Stage 1 - Water Conservation Bylaw

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HUGE GARAGE SALE Apr 18

Victoria Harbourside Rotary Garage Sale where you’ll find books, furniture, sporting goods, clothes, kitchen items, art and specialty items on sale. Proceeds go to Central middle School and Rotary. 9am–1pm at Central Middle School, 1280 Fort Street. 877-551-7283.

MUSIC

This year’s spring concert series is a rousing show filled with folk songs from World Wars I and II and favourites from the Swingin’ Sixties. The Singers will be joined by Highland dancers, Irish dancers, pipers, a flautist, a guitarist and once again the inimitable Jim Kingham as Master of Ceremonies. From “My Fair Lady” to the Beatles, from “Annie Laurie” to Andrew Lloyd Webber, don’t miss this songfest from the British Isles and Ireland. Apr 24 & 25: 7:30pm. Apr

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26: 2pm. Mary Winspear Community & Cultural Centre, 2243 Beacon Ave., Sidney. Tix: $20. 250-656-0275.

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OF CASTLES, KITLS AND LEPRECHAUNS Apr 24–26

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ARTS & CULTURE WEEK Apr 25

Music, dance, poetry, various times and locations. Info: CVCAS c/o Kathy, 250-416-0382 or k_6032@hotmail.com

FILL THE BUS May 2

Support Harvest House food bank’s “Fill the Bus” challenge, Waterwheel Park. Non-perishables, hygiene products needed. Enjoy live music. Mary: 250-246-1009.

SING JOY May 3

The Monterey Chorus presents their concert, “Sing Joy,” an eclectic mix of folk, popular, theatre, spiritual and classical music at 2pm, Church of St. Mary the Virgin, 1701 Elgin St., Oak Bay. The 50-voice seniors’ choir will be accompanied by piano, guitar, string bass and violin. The concert will benefit African AIDS orphans. 250595-5390.

SILVER ANNIVERSARY May 2

The COV celebrates their Silver Anniversary with an afternoon of glorious music under the leadership of conductor George Corwin. Commencing with Bizet’s “Carmen” Suite no.2, the concert continues with the well-loved “Serenade” op.7

Senior Driver Refresher  Build Confidence  Learn new rules & regs  Prepare for re-examination  Compensate for age related changes Monterey Oak Bay June 3 & 10 1 - 4:30 pm “

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Roadmasters Safety Group Inc. (250) 383-6041 www.roadmasters.org

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E. flat-major by R. Strauss along with Vaughan Williams’ “Serenade to Music.” Refreshments and a chance to meet Maestro Corwin and members of the orchestra will follow. Tix: 12, 2pm at the Alix Goolden Performance Hall, 907 Pandora Ave. cynthiamoorhouse@shaw.ca

MUSIC OF SCANDINAVIA Apr 26

St. Michael’s Presents concert: Annette Lampson & Friends. Folk and art songs, 7pm, St. Michael’s Church, Chemainus. Info: www.smpconcerts.ca or 250-246-2522.

OUTDOOR 3D ARCHERY SHOOT Apr 4–5

Open to public, must preregister. Registration fees for adult, youth, family, senior, Bow Swap, awards, prizes. Call 250-338-5015 or shaun_ con@shaw.ca

EASTER BUNNY HUNT Apr 11–13

Bring grandchildren for a Kids’ Easter Bunny Hunt in Milner Gardens. At the Welcome Centre, kids can pick up maps to find the bunnies in the garden, and then return the map to the Pool House Gift Shop to receive an Easter treat. Age 12 and under free admission when accompanied by an adult. 10am–5pm at the Milner Gardens, 2179 West Isl. Hwy. 250-752-8573.

SPRING PLANT SALE Apr 18–19

Milner Gardens & Woodland 8th Annual Spring Plant Sale, from 10am to 4pm, entry by donation. Add a piece of this Heritage Garden to your own garden. A large selection of propagated material will be offered for sale. www.milnergardens.org or 250-752-6153.

SPEAKERS AND WORKSHOPS HOW TO COMMUNICATE PAIN OR ILLNESS Apr 18

Are you having difficulties communicating with the person you are providing care to? Is their disease, injury or pain speaking louder than the person you want to talk with? Join with other family caregivers and learn simple, concrete strategies to navigate this unique and challenging three-way relationship. Facilitator: Allison


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Reeves, M.A., Registered Clinical Counsellor. 9:30am–12:30pm at the Canadian Cancer Society, 2202 Richmond Road. $30, limited seating, register by April 14. 250-384-0408.

STRATEGIES FOR COPING WITH CAREGIVING May 8

Family caregiving can be a rich source of fulfillment and satisfaction. It can also be one of the most stressful endeavours we may ever undertake. This workshop will offer stories and exercises to help you discover positive, practical strategies for coping with all these emotions. Buffet lunch included in registration fee. Seating is limited, register by May 4, $40. 9:30am– 1:30pm in the Banquet Room at the Vacation Inn, 3020 Douglas Street. 250-384-0408.

VICTORIA FLOWER ARRANGERS GUILD Apr 14

Workshop for Floral Art Jewelry for pre-paid and pre-registered members. Experienced designers please bring your own materials to execute a version of the Floral Art Jewelry. For “Show and Share,” members are encouraged to bring a vertical design learned at last month’s workshop. New members and visitors welcome to watch. 250-655-1524.

LOOKING FOR GROWTH? Apr 7

Open your heart and volunteer with NEED Crisis and Information Line. Training starts May 2. Next Information Session Tuesday, Apr 7, 6:30pm. UVic Sub Room 110B. Call 250-3866328 or visit online www.needcrisis.bc.ca

NANAIMO & NORTH ISLAND DAFFY DAZE Apr 11–12

Kids parade, studio tour, giant community Flea Market, cycling races, hanging basket planting for kids sponsored by the Communities in Bloom at Saywell Park, teen theatre production & much, much more. 250-749-3244.

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AFRICAN MARIMBA DANCE Apr 18

Featuring Marim-Bam-Buzz, including an African craft sale and silent auction. Tix: $15, 8pm at Errington Hall, Errington BC. 250-954-3522.

SPRING TEA May 2

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TAOIST TAI CHI – 20TH ANNIVERSARY May 2

11:30am–12pm: Gathering and Socializing. Official Opening. First Nations’ Prayer. Presentations. Lion Dance. 1pm–2:30pm: Free Jai Lunch. Taoist Arts Demonstrations. Practice Classes. 1724 Bowern Road. 250-753-6905.

Nanaimo Star Society for OES#43. 1pm– 2:30pm at Brechin United Church Hall, 1998 Estevan. Delicious refreshments, home baking, and handicrafts. Admission $6. Contact Maralyn 250-758-2852.

DANCE GALA 2009 Apr 4

Each year, the dance section of our festival is extremely proud to present the best and most entertaining dance performances in Dance Gala. Chosen to perform by our adjudicators, dancers from communities across Vancouver Island will provide you with an evening of outstanding entertainment. All seats $16, 7pm at the Port Theatre, 125 Front St. 250-754-4555.

GOOD ROCKIN’ TONIGHT Apr 14

Jaguar Music Group Presents: The Sun Records Story. A two-act play that dramatizes the amazing-but-true story of the birth of Rock’n’Roll in the 1950s. In Act One, listen and learn the recording secrets behind classic songs like “I Walk The Line,” “Blue Suede Shoes” and “Whole Lotta Shakin.” Act Two is full of great music and laughs! Complete with 1950s radio commercials, fan-mail and wacky stunts. $36.75, 7:30pm at the Port Theatre, 125 Front St. 250-754-4555.

open house The secret’s out. Come on in. • • • • • •

Free yoga classes Free wellness workshops Sample our spectacular food Chat with our retreat leaders Library book sale Tours of the building, grounds, pool and labyrinth

sat. may 9, 9:30am - 3:30pm queenswoodvictoria.ca/openhouse 2494 Arbutus Road | 250.477.3822

THE OTHER SHOE DROPS Apr 30

Derek Edwards’ new one-man show is a riotously funny 90-minute “unguarded moment” with a Canadian comic icon. Enjoy his unique curve ball delivery and inimitable quirky perspective. All seats $40, 8pm at the Port Theatre, 125 Front St. 250-754-4555.

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Mind GAMES

Crossword PUZZLE Across 1. Potato 5. Basic 10. Verge 14. Melody 15. Extreme 16. Heath 17. Female given name 18. Narrow openings 19. Spanish duke 20. Close at hand 22. Inflammation 23. Republic in E Africa 24. Provoke 28. Exclamation of contempt 30. Author’s insertion mark 34. High points 35. Long-continued practice 37. Make odorous 38. Republic on the E coast of Africa 39. Russian leaders

40. Fem. pronoun 42. Turn upside down 43. Understanding 44. Hire cars 47. Gardening tool 52. Trade 56. Pretended 57. Egg cell 58. Seaport in the Crimea 60. Fall short 61. Flat tableland with steep edges 62. Negatively charged ion 63. Enclosure 64. British WW2 machine gun 65. Storage center 66. Decays

Down 1. Stench 2. Rub through a strainer 3. Cause to lose one’s nerve

4. A special loved one 5. Actively engaged 6. Entirely 7. Holdup 8. Showily imitative of art 9. Lethal fever 10. Computer letter 11. Dunce 12. Desert in E Asia 13. Part of a tape recorder 21. Ceremonial immersion in water 25. Search 26. West Vermont town 27. Soils 28. Bundle 29. Against 30. Comb of a cock 31. Ax-like tool 32. Horse of mixed color 33. Sin 36. Plant juice 41. Deformed lip 45. Capital of Jordan 46. Wood nymph 48. Postpone 49. Bird droppings 50. Decree 51. Tumbles 53. Above 54. Think 55. Walking stick 56. Breathe hard 59. Also

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Classifieds SAANICH VOLUNTEER SERVICES. Volunteers do simple income tax returns for Saanich residents who meet the criteria. For info call 250-595-8008. COLLECTOR SEEKING vintage/collectable cameras, binoculars and microscopes. Nikon, Leica, Contax, Rolleiflex, Zeiss, Canon, etc. Mike 250-383-6456 or e-mail: msymons6456@telus.net WANTED: Canadian National Park buffalo and beaver plaques, chauffeur badges, licensed driver badges. Please call Rick at 250-3822283 - Thank you. HOME INSTEAD SENIOR CARE - Would you like a little assistance? Meal preparation, light housekeeping, laundry, shopping, appointments, or respite. We also hire seniors. Call 250-382-6565. THE BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU of Vancouver Island is located at 220-1175 Cook St., Victoria BC V8V 4A1. Toll-free phone line for Up-Island 1-877-826-4222 (South Island dial 250-386-6348). www.bbbvanisland.org E-mail: info@bbbvanisland.org RUTH M.P HAIRSTYLING for Seniors in Greater Victoria. In the convenience of your own home! Certified Hairdresser. Call - 250893-7082.

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WANTED: OLD POSTCARDS, stamp accumulations, and pre-1950 stamped envelopes. Also buying old coins, medals and badges. Please call Michael 250-652-9412 or email fenian@shaw.ca FOR RENT: SENIORS ASSISTED LIVING. 408 - 455 Kingston St. Large top floor, 2 bedroom, 2 bath. Price includes main meal each day, weekly housekeeping, and change of linens, 24 hour security, life line phone. Asking $2400 for one person. Luella Hillmer 250-360-6323. CLARE’S CREATIVE CUISINE. Gourmet meals delivered to your home. Low sodium. Nutritious and delicious. Since 1999. www.clares.ca Phone 250-388-0154. HEDGES AND EDGES. Reliable garden help regular maintenance, or occasional heavy work. Pruning and rejuvenation of hedges and shrubs. Seniors references. 250-893-5285. PERSONALS DWF, 65, health-oriented, spiritually-focused, enjoys classical music, theatre, walking, nature, seeks sincere, kind, warm, intelligent gentleman for friendship and “sharing.” celloangel@shaw.ca

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Reflections THEN & NOW

BY GIPP FORSTER

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ell, it’s finally happened! I looked in the mirror this morning and my reflection refused to look back. Talk about rude. There was some other guy in the place where my reflection should have been, making excuses as to why my reflection could no longer appear. This guy’s beard was white and his hair, what was left of it, was almost as white as the beard; it looked like shredded wheat in a snowstorm. And he had a paunch on him that would make Sydney Greenstreet look athletic. I wonder if this guy’s been hanging around for a while and I only noticed him this morning? No matter! He’s an embarrassment and I’ve decided not to give him satisfaction. I refuse, from here on in, to ever look in a mirror again (well, at least until next time). Let’s see how he handles that! But I am puzzled. Where did that svelte, debonair and dashing, lean future machine go? I’m sure he was there last time I looked. I mean, really looked. And now, this jerk in the glass is telling me I can no longer see my reflection and my reflection can no longer

see me. It sounds like when I was young and a father was telling me I could no longer see his daughter. What nerve! My wife insists the rotund guy with the beard is me, but if I should be right, and that athletic figure of a man I insist is my reflection is actually hiding in there, she says she can live with that. That sounds good, but somehow it just doesn’t sound right! That little gleam in her eye disturbs me. I remember a friend of mine some time ago telling me of a similar situation he went through with reflections. He was his usual Joe Atlas-type self enjoying the admiring ladies’ glances of as they passed by. He said he could hear their giggles and he watched the way they hid their smiles behind their hands. He felt good that day with his shirt unbuttoned down to his navel and four gold chains around his neck, just like the young guys at the time. He supposed the ladies just couldn’t help themselves when they saw a 70-year-old man with the build of a 20 year old! He glanced into a department store window and was shocked at his reflec-

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tion. He stopped dead in his tracks. Some old fuddy duddy was blocking out his true reflection, the real him. He said he rushed home, tore off his shirt and headed for the full-length mirror. Two words described that moment: “sag explosion.” I mean, I could have told him that! But I was his friend. I don’t think up until then he could have handled the truth. He probably wanted to be like me or at least look like me! Poor guy. We can’t all be winners. But now, and I can hardly believe it, the same has happened to me. This elderly, out of shape, sag explosion individual is standing in my mirror blocking my reflection. An impersonator, a culprit, a thief who has stolen and probably imprisoned the real me and is trying to push himself forward, ahead of my real reflection. There outta be a law! I should be able to call the police and say: “Get over here immediately! Someone has kidnapped my reflection and left a sag explosion in its place.” But, unfortunately, there is no such law. So, I am left shouting at my bathroom mirror and threatening violence unless my reflection is returned. My wife just yelled through the bathroom door that she is going shopping and will be back, in three or four weeks. Sag explosion, indeed! SL It’s theft I tell you!


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Parkwood Place 250-598-1565 3051 Shelbourne Street, Victoria

On-site Clock & Watch Repair

Lifestyle Retirement Community Managed by Revera

Our residences offer a range of retirement living options to suit your unique tastes and needs. At Revera, your options may be endless, but your choice is easy.

www.reveraliving.com

On-site Gold & Platinumsmithing

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Your Jewellery is Our Specialty

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www.barclaysjewellers.com 106-2187 Oak Bay Ave. 250-592-1100

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