M AGAZINE The Absence of Abstinence: Students Reflect on Sex Culture and Policy at BC

When Ryan Kruft, CSOM ’23, ran for UGBC vice president in the spring semester of 2021, one of the major goals of his campaign was to “legalize sex” at BC. Though he lost this election, Kruft said he still thinks the University’s ban on sexual activity in the Code of Conduct is unnecessary.

“I understand where the University is coming from as a Jesuit Catholic institution, but at the same time, you can’t really enforce a rule like that,” Kruft said.

“We were just like, ‘Why is that something that the University is so worried about?’”

Kruft said students seemed to agree with his campaign on social media, but he and his running mate, Spencer Sandusky, BC ’22, were not taken very seri ously.

“We were sort of a joke campaign as much as I hate to say it, so I don’t think anyone was taking us super se riously,” Kruft said.

Though Kruft said their campaign platform was not super serious, he believes BC’s policies still have a serious impact on students. Kruft added that BC’s Catholic values should not get in the way of encouraging sexual health.

“Promoting safe sex shouldn’t be an issue of religion,” Kruft said.

BC’s policy regarding sexual activity also creates a harmful stigma around the subject, according to William Kelly, MCAS ’26, who also said the University’s policies are naive.

“Kids definitely don’t follow the rules,” Kelly said. “Sex is a taboo topic on campus, but I think that’s something that [the University] is fine with.”

Vice President for Student Affairs Shawna Cooper Whitehead did not meet The Heights’ deadline for comment.

Hookup Culture, Dating Culture, or Something in Between

Kruft said the University’s pol- icies surrounding sex might make some students feel shameful—but that does not necessarily mean everyone, or even most students, let this shame deter them from engaging in sexual activity.

“I would say there’s more of a hookup culture at BC,” Kruft said.

“It definitely feels like people are more interested in hooking up than they are in like, meeting somebody and starting a relationship.”

Nicholas Astolfi, MCAS ’25, agrees that most students do not follow BC’s policy on sexual activity.

“We make our own culture,” Astolfi said. “The Jesuit influence doesn’t necessarily have any effect - pus, Astolfi said BC students tend to focus on Kelly, on the other hand, said thereup culturepus where students embrace casual

“It’s much more of a hookup culture than a dating culture,” Kelly said. “For the most part, it’s like transactional hookups.”

Although Kate Salomon, MCAS ’26, does not know many people on dating apps, she said certain popular apps are associated with hookup culture in stead of se rious dating.

“The stigma sur rounding dating apps depends on which app,” Salomon said. “Tinder is known for hookup culture.”

Some professors weave the topic of hookup culture into their curriculum, but Salomon said most class discussions feel like a guilt trip.

“For one class we had a whole unit on hookup culture and why it’s bad,” Salomon said. “I feel like they’re trying to push people away from that and make you feel guilty.”

Condoms and Catholic Values

Kelly, Salomon, and Astolfi were all unaware of what sexual health resources BC provides.

“I don’t know of any sexual health resources on campus aside from maybe STD testing,” Kelly said. “I’m just unaware because it’s not talked about.”

Director of University Health Services Douglas Comeau said UHS offers testing and treatment for students with sexually transmitted infections.

“University Health Services (UHS) has daily appointments for women’s health and men’s health concerns,” Comeau said in an email to The Heights “If there is a clinical concern for sexually transmitted infection (STI), an appropriate laboratory work-up would be performed. Depending on the test results, appropriate point of care treatment or prescription treatments are provided.”

Comeau did not respond when asked if UHS offers contraceptives to students.

Because BCSSH cannot dis - tribute contraceptives on campus due to the University’s policy, the group sets up a table outside of McElroy Commons on the corner of College Road, according to Emily Parra, former president of BCSSH and BC ’22. This location is not on University property, so BCSSH is free to hand out con traceptives. attend a Catholic high school, and she said all of her friends from home went to liberal arts col leges where sexual health resources are made wide ly avail able. So when Parra first arrived at BC, she was shocked to realize that sex is a taboo subject on campus and conversations surrounding sexual health are uncommon.

“I think BC does a very effective job at making it like a very secretive and embarrassing and shameful conversation to be having, which I think only does students a disservice,” Parra said.

Regardless of the University’s policies surrounding sex, Parra said students still engage in sexual activity.

So, she said the University should be proactive and acknowledge sexual health as an vital aspect of overall student health.

“At the end of the day, they’re just turning a blind eye to some- thing that’s obviously happening on campus,” Parra said. “So I think that that is a very ignorant way of treating a student body.”

To fight the taboo she witnessed on campus, Parra worked to expand the resources offered by BCSSH during her time at BC. Through their tabling efforts and their Rubber Hub and condomgram services, Parra said BCSSH members hope to make sexual health resources available to

“Condoms are not that cheap,” Parra said. “It’s expensive to go buy them. You have to go off campus. If students don’t have cars it’s not just something you can naturally happen upon if a school is not offering it.”

By changing its policies and making contraceptives accessible on campus, Kelly said the University can support the student body and confront the stigma surrounding sexual health.

“Everyone’s uncomfortable talking about it,” Kelly said. “Maybe even RAs should have condoms to give to their kids if they need them.”

Because, after all, students are still going to have sex, Kelly said.

“It’s college and it’s 2023—sex is a normal thing,” Kelly said. n