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Angelina wearing dress by Morphew and coat by Andrew Yu, Monte wearing suit supply coat “I’ve always admired that about Monte, and we try to teach our children,

‘Have your feet planted firmly on the ground, but have no fear of heights’,”

Angelina agrees, without missing a beat. Truly in harmony, it seems as if they’re reading from the same script with a common agenda, but their interplay is just as much of a musical call-and-response based on a clear ideal of mutual respect.

When asked, “So this is all a childhood dream come true?”Monte started to answer, but thinking the question was for her, Angelina said first, “Yes. This is a childhood dream come true for me. Really and truly, when I was 19, I actually wrote a list of all the things I wanted in the perfect man...and Monte checks off every box on the list. He’s humble, kind and loving, and a great dad.” ...A little embarrassed, Monte corrected, “It’s you, Angelina, that makes me a better person.”

Angelina (Davis) was also born in Brooklyn, to British parents of Jamaican descent, who had come to New York for her dad to work as a doctor. Similar to Monte, Angelina’s parents also divorced when she was ten. She relocated to Miami with her mom, attended Gulliver Prep, and spent summers and vacations in London and the UAE, visiting with her dad. She achieved a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from Columbia University, a Master’s Degree in Psychology from New York University, and a dual-PHD in Social Personality and Industrial Organizational Psychology from New York University. She went on to work in the fields of management consulting and applied research and also worked as an assistant professor at the Business School of Columbia University, conducting research, mentoring graduate students, and teaching the MBA negotiation course.

“I’m a research psychologist by trade, and I’m interested in the psychology of management and how teams and people work,” Angelina explains. “This concept has continually evolved for me. When I decided to leave academia to become a full-time mom, it was hard to switch that part off. I’ve become more and more focused on discovering ways for society to make quality mental health more accessible. As a natural evolution of this ambition, I’m releasing a book titled Blocking The Noise: A Roadmap to Happiness, which I want to illustrate an actionable and accessible path to wellness.”

Angelina and Monte first met at a lounge downtown in New York City. “Now that I have a 13-year-old daughter, I wish I could say we met at church or temple,” laughs Angelina. After a two year courtship, they were married at what was then their Bedford weekend home. “We’ve been best friends from the start, and we work well together,” Angelina continues. “We’re both pretty driven and a little too organized.”

The Lipman’s home is a stately European manor home situated among a classic Bedford backdrop of lush greenery. Every inch of the inside and outside of the house, which has a history dating back to 1903, is meticulously maintained. The house itself includes elegant rooms with old-world wood paneling, carved molding and woodwork, fireplaces, and large French doors and windows. One specific piece of artwork, 82 NOV/DEC 2021BEDFORD & NEW CANAAN above the mantelpiece in the ball room, which draws particular attention, is a large multi-media piece by

Peter Tunney with the word GRATTITUDE, presiding over the space. Angelina says, “For us, making this our fulltime permanent residence was really about the local community. Monte can get into his office in Manhattan quick enough and has the real convenience of being about 15 minutes from Westchester Airport, and yet you’re really in a country neighborhood, filled with great people and all sorts of special local services and amenities.” Of the area, Monte adds, “Katonah really is home for us. We’ve really worked at putting some deep roots into the community.” To that end, the couple have become major supporters of the Westchester Land Trust, and Angelina has served on the Rippowam Cisqua School Board. Angelina also just joined the Board of the Bedford Riding Lanes Association. Angelina adds, “We’d cleared the riding trails that run over our property but had little involvement because we don’t ride. But during covid we learned we could use the BRLA trails for hiking and other fun, and now taking the family for a walk on the trails is one of our favorite activities.” And well beyond local boundaries, the Lipmans are substantially involved in charitable work and are renowned philanthropists, with a general focus in the areas of cancer and addiction. Monte is on the board of the TJ Martell Foundation for aids and cancer research. Monte and Angelina are on the leadership committee of DKMS (concentrated on eliminating blood cancer) and have been honored by the organization for their significant support. The Lipmans are recognized supporters of the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation, the City of Hope, and The Neil Lasher Music Fund at Caron Treatment Centers, which advocates for addiction recovery treatment. And the UJAFederation has honored Monte and Avery for their substantial generosity. When asked to identify a few guests - dead or alive - they would have to a fantasy dinner party, Angelina immediately named, “Toni Morrison, because being introduced to her writing as a young girl, and realizing this is an extraordinary black woman producing works of great importance and beauty, was pivotal in my own development.” And then, asking if she “...could reserve the right to add to the guest list before the date of the party,” Angelina added “Audrey Hepburn, because I love her style and grace, and Billy Porter, because I think Billy’s a true artist and really changed the narrative in fashion.” It’s worth noting that Billy Porter recently also signed with Republic Records. Monte added, “Martin Luther King, because he is one of those extraordinary beings who made the world a better place. Joe Namath, because he was the best. And I think the pioneer and legendary film producer and movie studio head, Louis B. Mayer, would be interesting. And definitely Nick Saban, head coach of the University of Alabama’s football team.” Whereupon Monte insists on a trip to the basement. Not to see the walls and walls of hundreds of gold and platinum records, but into his clean, white and attractive, but nonetheless clearly ‘man-cave’ of a room, featuring maybe a hundred authentic NCAA college football helmets, and an absolute shrine to college football. “Look,” Monte points out with obvious pleasure, “Saban signed this hat for me! I think running a college football team and running a record label share a lot of parallels. It starts with recruiting the best executives and coaches in order to build a powerful infrastructure. I admire and I’m inspired by Saban and his constant pursuit of excellence.” In many ways, the holidays tell you everything you need to know about the Lipman family. The Christmas tree is laden with Hanukkah menorahs and other beautiful tidings of happiness and joy - all illustrating a commitment to inclusivity. Monte is Jewish, and Angelina was born into an evangelical family, but say they’re raising the kids in an interfaith environment. Angelina says, “We’re blessed to have unparalleled harmony between our two large families. For the holidays, we start Christmas morning with a traditional Jewish lox and bagels breakfast and we end the evening with a Jamaican jerk turkey for Christmas dinner. Monte’s family brings Christmas gifts, while my family has developed a deep appreciation for the Jewish holidays...and particularly my mother who now makes potato latkes with a Jamaican flare. It sounds a little corny, but we’re one big happy family and the Holidays are our favorite time to get together.” For the Holidays everyone will gather at Monte and Angelina’s house...with beautiful tidings of happiness and joy. Delightful music indeed!

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Repair the World

An Ancient Message; Temple Shaaray Tefila’s Modern Mission

Written By Rabbi David Greenberg, Rabbi Emeritus and Founding Rabbi of Temple Shaaray Tefila in Bedford

Tikun Olam is a Hebrew term which literally means ‘to repair the world’. It’s an ancient message - which Temple Shaaray Tefila makes its modern mission. It refers to deeds of caring and compassion which serve to repair some of the brokenness of our existence. Tikun Olam is our reaching out and strengthening those who go without so much that we tend to take for granted. Tikun Olam is feeding the hungry, housing the homeless, giving strength and hope to the weak, and uplifting those who have fallen in one way or another. Tikun Olam implies the opening of our eyes and our hearts, and acting to repair the suffering that so many people endure.

Tikun Olam… As we’ve done for many years, this Thanksgiving, and then again at Christmas, people of different religions, and some with no religious affiliation, will again come together in our community hall to cook, prepare and distribute some 3,000 meals on each holiday for those who would otherwise go without. It’s a beautiful sight: hundreds of people of different faiths working together to bring a little joy to those who are homeless and find themselves living in shelters throughout Westchester or otherwise lacking the means for a special dinner. Tikun Olam… I have little mechanical skill, but remember finding myself cutting and laying PVC pipe in the devastated community of Marianna in Puerto Rico. Following Hurricane Maria, and the resulting destruction and agony, groups from Temple Shaaray Tefila traveled to Marianna 9 times, to do whatever we could to restore life and hope to a shaken community of people. We did lots of physical work during those days, but we also spent time meeting and speaking with people who had lost so much.

Tikun Olam… I look back on many trips to Nicaragua and the Dominican Republic, in partnership with Bridges to Community, a wonderful organization whose mission is to build a more just and sustainable world through service learning and community development by engaging volunteers to work in developing countries. Teenagers and adults from Shaaray Tefila and from the Bedford Presbyterian Church traveled together to Central America to build modest houses in which families can live in safety and dignity. These volunteers returned after each trip with a deeper resolve to bring healing and hope to those who live with so little. Alli West, Shaaray Tefila’s Director of Member Engagement, reflected on her trips leading our congregations’ teens, saying “It’s striking how profoundly changed each of our teens is when we walk off the plane back in NY. These service-learning trips teach our youth the value of ‘giving back’ and being part of something bigger than themselves.”

Tikun Olam… I recall years ago when our Temple congregation sponsored and settled a family from the former Soviet Union in our community. We provided the support and friendship they needed in their quest to become Americans. Today we marvel at how this family has flourished in our land of freedom. And now we look to the plight of Afghan refugees who are in need. Our congregation is collecting clothing and necessities, and we are working with various local houses of worship to sponsor an Afghan family and help them resettle in Westchester County.

Tikun Olam.. It was close to 40 years ago when we convened a meeting of clergy with the goal of establishing a Food Pantry; Today, the Mt. Kisco Interfaith Food Pantry serves some 450 people per week, providing food in a dignified and sensitive way.

Tikun Olam…. When our teens and adults participate in Midnight Runs, feeding & clothing the homeless and food insecure population in NYC. It has been very gratifying to see our teens engaging with those less fortunate.

Tikun Olam… Temple Shaaray Tefila has had a wonderful tradition called ‘Mitzvah Day’. (A mitzvah refers to a commandment of our Torah and is often understood as a ‘good deed’.) This is a multi-generational day when our community comes together to prepare food for those in need, knit & crochet blankets, and collect and sort clothing and canned goods for the Interfaith Food Pantry.

Tikun Olam… Members of our congregation visit our local senior community with DOROT; we make cards and goody bags for Friends of Karen (serving children and families who are struggling with illness); we collect and distribute much needed personal care items for women and children who are victims of domestic violence in partnership with My Sister’s Place; we visit children at the Cottage School to bring some joy into their lives, and; we raise awareness for the ASPCA (and we always have a dog present for adoption!).

Tikun Olam… Alongside 16 houses of worship, Shaaray Tefila is a founding member of the Emergency Shelter Partnership. Throughout the winter months, we welcome and shelter the homeless in our respective buildings, providing meals along with a safe and warm place to sleep.

Tikun Olam… Our congregation has provided over 28,000 sandwiches over the course of the pandemic – and we’re still going strong. We’ve been preparing sandwiches every day, at home, which are picked up and delivered to the Broadway Manor Homeless Shelter in Yonkers and the Community Center of Northern Westchester.

Our Social Action Chair, and longtime Temple Shaaray Tefila congregant, Richard Leroy, said it well: “The act of repairing the world creates ripples in our congregation and it spreads…. as people get involved, we create community here at the same time as we help communities outside of our own walls. I’m not a ‘religious’ man, but my code is tikun olam. For me, one of the most important highlights of Yom Kippur, our holiest day of the year, is our High Holy Day food drive which provides thousands of pounds of food for the hungry.”

As I look back upon my 45 years as a Rabbi, I have come to know that such caring actions are indeed the highest expression of religion. Housing the homeless and remembering the poor and the needy are moral obligations central to all of our religious traditions. Something great is expected of each of us, and I’ve learned that we each become richer the more of ourselves we give away. Too few understand that the ultimate purpose of Judaism is to make the world more humane...and that’s what we try to do at Shaaray Tefila.

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But what does this have to do with the best coffee in Bedford? Well, as Nic tried to spread the word to the community about the new shop and offering, she spent most weekends selling oHHo CBD products at the John Jay Farmers Market out of a little yellow truck called Buttercup. A self-proclaimed “non-morning person,” Nic discovered no one was selling coffee at the Farmers Market and figured, “what a missed opportunity.”

Although Nic tried reaching out to some roasters to form some kind of collaboration, as a start-up from a small town, most didn’t pay her much attention. So she and James decided to do it themselves, with the help of a good friend, Esteban. That is, they started their own line of coffee…. Flying Coffee…And now, it’s taken off too!

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It goes without saying that the pandemic has had unparalleled impacts on nearly every facet of our lives. Even with 2022 fast approaching, we’re still feeling the effects of the worldwide shutdown so tangibly. In the height of the uncertainty, isolation, and confusion of the global health crisis, many of us relied on our homes more so than we could have ever predicted. As remote living became our new normal, we began using our homes in ways we never anticipated: the kitchen table became a fully equipped office setup, the mudroom became a disinfecting station, the guest bedroom became a home gym, the playroom became a remote day school, and so on.

While the disruption of 2020 is slowly fading away and the familiarity of daily life is coming into view, the concept of ‘pandemic-proofing’ in architecture is becoming increasingly fashionable. How can we change the way we build now to anticipate the future? We sat down (albeit virtually) with an industry expert, Chuck Hilton - the renowned architect and co-founder of Charles Hilton Architects - to discuss the emerging trends in residential home design. Charles Hilton Architects specializes in the finest quality custom residential architecture, sustainable design and waterfront projects. Over 30+ years, Charles Hilton Architects has earned a reputation for producing traditionally inspired residences, landscape features, and architectural interiors, and they are well versed in a wide variety of ‘healthy home’ techniques to create environments as good for one’s health and well-being as they are attractive.

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Perhaps the most obvious trend identified here is the need for suitable working and learning setups in the home. “Even after the pandemic is over and businesses revert to more normal operations, I expect that working and learning from home will continue to be significantly more prevalent than it was previously,” said Hilton. Designing a home with a workstation poised for a full- or part-time remote position requires careful attention at all scales, from room orientation to capture views and light, down to the specifics of choosing comfortable and practical furniture. More important than all of that, however, is having the proper infrastructure in place to support a seamless home office. “Increasingly, our office is integrating mechanical, electrical, and plumbing systems down to the fraction of an inch to ensure all the conduit, cabling, and technology are properly accounted for and to reduce surprises and compromises in construction. Building workspaces that are soundproof and acoustically isolated from the noise of the house is critical, particularly if multiple family members are working from home simultaneously.” Hilton explained. One of the most stringent demands that quarantining put on our homes is the need for flexibility in our built environment. Having the luxury of space gives us the opportunity to adapt our surroundings and allows us to have room to grow. Where excess space is not an option, building in versatility to your home design is key both to use the space you have efficiently, and to pivot as your needs change over time. As an effect, Hilton has noticed “...the previously very popular open plans are still popular but are giving way to more defined plans with rooms that can be closed off for privacy.” Using pocket doors as a tool allows spaces to be designed to feel open and connected while maintaining the ability to have privacy and quiet when necessary. Considering adaptability while designing or renovating your home not only allows you to plan for the unexpected, but also affords the ability to consider how your needs in your home will change over time. The concept of ‘aging-in-place’, or planning our homes to be comfortable for all stages of life, is becoming a norm.

Hilton continued, “Another layer to the flexibility of a home is creating transitional indoor/outdoor spaces: greenhouses, pergolas, trellises, gazebos, loggias, or even a sliding glass wall. Finding a way to bridge the interior and exterior can allow us to bring fresh air into the home and encourages us to extend our enjoyment of the outdoors into the inclement months.” This charming limonaia (image to the left) designed by Charles Hilton Architects to be nestled into the treeline says it all.

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While wellness and health have been leading topics at the forefront of contemporary building science for the past several decades, the pandemic cemented the importance of well-considered details, materials, and construction practices in making a space healthy for inhabitants. Indoor air quality is one of the major components of a healthy home. Especially given how much time is spent indoors, properly ventilating and eliminating pollutants from the air in our homes is essential. Working with an architect to prevent opportunities for mold growth in exterior wall assemblies, specify low-VOC finishes, choose high-performance HVAC systems, install HEPA filters, and make the right choices to prioritize long-term health, can all have a major impact on the indoor air quality of your home.

Equally important to the air we breathe is the water we drink. According to Hilton, some people do not realize that “...many areas have well water that contains mineral deposits that are unpleasant to drink and stain indoor and outdoor surfaces over time. Even municipal water sources contain unwanted contaminants. We are typically filtering drinking water of all types and sometimes using whole house filtration on certain well water.”

Designing homes to embrace our natural circadian rhythms is another factor of a healthy home. Orienting buildings to capture natural light, positioning windows in rooms to diffuse daylight, and even using calibrated LED bulbs to simulate the hue of daytime/nighttime cycles on dark days can make a noticeable difference in alertness and mood throughout the day.

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As the cost of construction materials surge and supply chains are stretched to their limits, homes that are built to last with lower maintenance are looking especially appealing. Choosing cladding, roofing, door, and window products upfront that are durable and reliable can save money in the long run. Not to mention, more resilient materials mean less dependency on replacements, repairs, and maintenance - which reduces stress down the line. On top of this, “With sea levels rising and the frequency of severe storms seemingly increasing,” Chuck Hilton said his practice is “...fortifying many of our homes to protect against natural disasters. With generators, off-grid power sources, resilient exterior envelopes, and strategic landscape design, homes can be far less vulnerable to storms than in the past.”

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Considering that the building and construction industry is a major contributor to waste and pollution across the country, many homeowners are becoming increasingly conscious of the burden we all share to make responsible decisions. Hilton said many of their “...new projects are super energy efficient with LED lighting, high-efficiency appliances, tankless water heaters, high-performance glazing systems, and smart-house controls. Some have geothermal HVAC or electric heat pumps at the home.”

Choosing materials that have lower embodied energy and reduced carbon footprints can greatly reduce the impact a home has on the environment. Some new homes go even a step beyond evaluating materials on their sustainability at installation and look all the way to the ‘end-of-life’ potential, or the ability for a material to be recycled or reused after the eventual demolition of the home.

A NEW CANAAN IMMIGRANT’S StoryBY Anna Urbanska

In October I celebrated my 20 year anniversary of arriving in the US from my childhood home in Poland. I remember that day very well. I boarded the plane with a big smile and excitement about my adventure that awaited me. I was a very young and innocent person who didn’t know how big a step and what a change I was about to experience. I came to the US not knowing anyone and not having much of any support. Looking back now, it’s an amazing and interesting journey I’ve had!

My name is Anna Urbanska, I was born in Legnica, Poland, where I spent my childhood with my mother, a single parent, who gave me lots of freedom to make my own decisions and become independent at a very early age. I was always a very happy and friendly girl. I was brave, strong and had lots of positive energy. I loved going to school, playing outside, meeting new friends and traveling to different parts of Poland and countries in Europe. I grew up during the Soviet Era in Poland when technology wasn’t available, so my hobbies were playing classical music on the piano and flute, and helping homeless animals in my town. I was always helping my mom around the house, taking care of my younger brother, and working during my free time to earn my money and save every bit for my trips. I remember that my favorite things as a child were learning new things at school, getting good grades and making my mom happy. Initially I was planning to leave my home in Poland only for one year. I had a choice to stay in Poland and study in an Academy of Music where I got accepted to a Jazz performance program or study English and experience an American culture in the US. I was very curious how it feels to be visiting places that I have seen on tv growing up. All the images from movies and shows I watched were beautiful, fun and adventurous. I felt like flying to the US became my dream and I finally got a chance to experience it. Saying goodbye to my mom and my younger brother who was only 6 years old at that time was very difficult. I remember that we all had lots of tears. But I had my mind set that everything will be fine and I will make them proud. I knew that I will see them soon again.

I came to the US to study English at the age of 19. I arrived at the JFK airport and started working as a live-in nanny in Stamford CT - which gave me a feeling of safety and a nice home environment. My first few weeks in this new big world felt like a very happy vacation. I didn’t worry much that I don’t know anybody because meeting new people felt very easy and natural to me. I learned very quickly how to have a simple conversation in English and I was lucky I could understand people very well. I always had a smile on my face and felt like everyone around me was very nice and helpful.

I committed to my job as a nanny and worked very hard to not disappoint the family. I was always very patient, loving, gentle and caring. I quickly adjusted to my new living situation, daily tasks and driving to new places. I earned trust, respect and understanding from everyone around me.

My free time I dedicated on making new friends and finding things to do that made me happy. I found parks, libraries, places with music. I noticed all the diverse cultures from around the world. I got information about Polish places and communities. It was very nice to meet my first Polish friends but also to meet friends from different countries who came to the US to study just like me. I visited the nearby schools and chose my college program. I had to be a full-time student in order to maintain the legal status on the international student visa. I didn’t know right away that I will study the exercise science program. One day when I was 20 years old I participated for the first time in a group fitness class. The instructor was this beautiful woman with long dark hair and a big smile. I loved the whole experience and how it made me feel. I was so impressed that in my mind I said to myself that one day I would like to teach a fitness class and exercise with people to help them feel better and stronger.

The days were always full of activities between work, school, friends and studying. The first few years went by so fast. I communicated with my family by writing letters at the beginning then I discovered a phone card that I could buy and call to speak with my mom. I was very happy to hear her voice and tell her that I am ok and I am able to manage my life here. She was always proud of me that I am so independent and good with people. I didn’t want to disappoint her so I held my sadness of missing Poland in the back of my mind and concentrated on surviving in my life in the US on my own. Not having family here was painful but if I didn’t think about it I could stay more positive and put my energy and effort in my education and career. I never liked to be sad or complain that I am not having much. I feel like I always have everything I need as long as I am healthy and I have a purpose in what I do everyday.

I needed to work a lot in order to support myself and pay for my school. From the beginning I could give piano lessons and then, once I became fluent in English, I started my education in exercise sciences and then, in 2004, I began my career as a personal trainer and fitness instructor. I also volunteered for many years to teach swimming to children at the YMCA. I had my mind set to always say ‘yes’ to any work opportunity to gain experience to improve my professional knowledge and language skills. This work was enjoyable and rewarding. I continued my fitness education to gain as much knowledge as I could to provide a very professional service and education to my clients and students. Besides my college education, I got certified in multiple fitness categories. I worked with one-on-one clients and started teaching my first group exercise classes.

This was the most difficult part of my life in the US. I was going to school and working full-time. The entire time, I was a full-time international student and did not travel to see my family. It wasn’t always easy, but thanks to the relationships I developed with friends and families I have worked for, it made it possible. I knew at an early age that if I was a good, compassionate and hardworking person who cares about others and stays out of trouble, my life will be easier, happier and safer. I ultimately graduated with a Bachelor’s degree from UConn and a Masters degree from Manhattanville College, concentrating on Exercise Science and Physical Education.

There were limitations to what I could do as an international student. It took lots of patience, hard work and sacrifices to get my US residence status. It also affected my approach to work. I was always open to every opportunity that came my way. I appreciated all my small earnings and I learnt the value of all my efforts. I was surrounded by people who were at the same situation as mine who became my friends and gave me support. Being an immigrant taught me lots of respect, tolerance and persistence. I knew when I started something I couldn’t give up because I didn’t know if I could be given a second chance. I survived coming to the US with nothing, I took advantage of every opportunity, I follow and respect the rules and earned the status of US citizen! That whole process shaped the person who I am today.

In 2009 I received my resident status and was able to return to visit Poland for the first time. Finally seeing my family was one of the happiest moments in my life. It is very difficult to describe it in words but I remember that every time I hugged my family member I didn’t want to let go and shed lots of happy tears. I spent beautiful time with my mother and my siblings, grandmothers, cousins and I also reconnected with my father and my step mom, who were not in my life when I was growing up. During the visit I recognized how truly loving, caring and giving my family is. The family bond felt so strong that even being so far away from them for so long didn’t change the fact that they will always be my home and have my back. I made a promise to myself that I will visit them every year.

Now I have a good fitness practice. I do private training at home and at Halo in New Canaan and give classes at the YMCA. My practice includes children, young athletes, senior population, patients with cancer and diabetes condition, special needs population, as well as any one who needs help improving their health and quality of life. I get great pleasure from promoting a healthy lifestyle through various disciplines including yoga, strength training, cardio training and activities not only inside the gym but also the outdoors, like hiking, tennis, biking, running and swimming. I motivate my clients with a very positive attitude, patience, understanding, and my personal stories and I share with them the information they like to know about exercise, stretching techniques, diet and mental attitude. I feel blessed to have developed such a strong bond and relationship with my clients and students - some have been clients for over 13 years. I feel very fortunate working as a health and fitness educator. I discovered that being active and eating healthy food makes me feel great freedom and joy. I made my work become my vocation and avocation. On a personal level, I am living in a beautiful town of New Canaan where I spend most of my time and enjoy the community. I love to have time visiting my great friends, going out to restaurants, listening to live music and dancing, and I volunteer teaching English to immigrants in many different settings. I am so lucky that I could meet and connect with so many wonderful people in the US. Despite the fact that I am living my life here without my family, I don’t feel like I am alone because I receive lots of love and support from my friends and at work every day. I am thankful that I developed such a strong passion for fitness because it gives me the education, motivation and joy to stay always active, healthy and happy. I feel very fortunate that I am able to do what I love for my profession. I will continue sharing my story and positive attitude with everyone I meet. And I’m proud to call myself American!

My motto is kindness. As for the rest, well, Sometimes the life can figure it out itself and brings lots of positive surprises!

CAREMOUNT MEDICAL’S YORKTOWN Women’s Imaging 116 BEDFORD & NEW CANAAN Services

The newly renovated suite at CareMount Medical’s Yorktown Imaging location at 355 Kear Street in Yorktown Heights provides a complete range of diagnostic imaging for women – now in an upscale, spa-like environment. The CareMount team of talented radiologists, nurses, technologists and care coordinators look for every opportunity to understand and help patients by providing immediate results on site.

The following services are now offered:

• 3D Mammography • MRI • CAT Scan • Ultrasound • X-Ray • Prenatal Ultrasound • Vascular Ultrasound If you are considering scheduling a 3D mammogram at CareMount’s newly renovated women’s imaging suite at the Yorktown location, you may have questions about the test. Here are some frequently asked questions.

What is a 3D mammography breast exam?

3D mammography is a diagnostic tool that is used together with traditional 2D imaging to build a finely detailed 3D reconstruction of breast tissue. Radiologists can then scroll through all the images much like a book — one page at a time — to gain a better understanding of your breast health.

What are the benefits of 3D mammography?

Sometimes breast tissue can overlap, which when viewed only with conventional 2D mammography, may look like an abnormal area. Examining multiple images with 2D and 3D techniques allows the radiologist to view tissue more clearly, making it easier to make an accurate assessment and less likely the need for additional views. Abnormalities may be easier to see and evaluate, making it possible to identify cancers at earlier stages when they are most treatable.

What should I expect during the 3D mammography exam?

During the 3D image acquisition, the X-ray arm will move in an arc over the breast, taking multiple images over the course of a few seconds. The radiologist will view the images to ensure they are of the highest quality. The radiology physician will then study the images and dictate the findings in a report to send to your doctor. Your doctor will discuss the results with you.

What sets CareMount’s women’s imaging apart? Immediate results!

Dr. Virna Lisi-DeMartino, chair of the department of radiology for CareMount Medical said “Yorktown Breast Imaging Suite offers a calming, relaxing and beautiful setting for patients to come for their breast cancer screening as we understand how these appointments in particular may be anxiety provoking. The on-site breast imager will discuss results and answer any questions or concerns the patient may have. At CareMount, we feel it is important for patients to have the opportunity to understand their imaging and take an active role in their care.”

John Basile, administrative director of radiology at CareMount has said “Our new center optimizes state of the art technology with highly-trained, compassionate staff, offering the best customer service and patient care in the area. CareMount Medical has exceeded expectations with its new Yorktown Imaging Center which focuses on its women’s imaging services including stereotactic breast biopsies.”

CareMount Medical Radiology has multiple locations throughout the Hudson Valley and NYC offering a full range of women’s imaging modalities such as; 3D mammography, Low-Dose Digital Mammography, Breast MRI, Vacuum-Assisted Biopsy MRI, Wire-Free Radar Breast Localization System, Ultrasound-Guided and Stereotactic-Guided Breast Biopsies, Sonohysterograms, Breast Sonograms, Bone Density Scanning and 4-D Prenatal Ultrasound.

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A PEEK INSIDE

BY Sue DeChiara B&NC MAG Homes Editor (aka: The Zhush @Zhush)

PHOTOGRAPHY: Nichaolas Venezia

Winter is the coziest season. Sweats and a sweater. Curled up with a good book or the latest B&NC Mag, and a warm cup of...whatever. ...One’s thoughts, invariably, turn to...closets. Yes, closets. According to a study conducted by The Telegraph, most women spend an average of a year in front of their closets in the course of their lifetime, or an average of about fifteen minutes a day. While they are, metaphorically, where you keep your skeletons and ‘closet’ your emotions, they must also serve as the bank of you and the fountain from which you in all your personna may emerge. Believe me when I tell you that it may look to my husband like my mind is somewhere else, or in the clouds, but it’s more often than he could imagine...in the closet. Closets are the most intimate part of a home. They may too often be the repository for piles of laundry - or the new clothes you just bought that you haven’t told your spouse about, maybe even hiding under that laundry. They are almost always a store room for our most treasured and personal possessions.

...To reorganize or to renovate, that is the question. Whether ‘tis nobler in the mind to suffer the continued clutter, or to take arms and have the closet of which I dream. To die for, to sleep peacefully nearby...

On a mission for B&NC Mag to find a few of the most luxe closets around, I set off with California Closets - the preeminent closet customization company in the region - as my guide.

The pre-existing closet in this space was very dark and covered the windows. The clients wanted to have it all gutted and revamped using a lighter material for a more feminine feel to the closet. By exposing the windows and incorporating a white textured finish, the entire space received a refresher and made everything more bright and airy.

Immediately upon entering the room you feel like you’ve stepped through the wardrobe door to Narnia or some other wild dream world, complete with tufted poufs, designer shoes, and gowns fit for a princess. As I brushed over the plush white sheepskin, I immediately spotted the window bench, which adds a uniquely inviting component, making me think it would be the perfect spot to even hide-away from a busy house.

“Maximizing storage was key,” explained Melissa, the California Closets designer who worked on this project, “...she had lots of dresses that we decided to showcase through clear glass doors to allow for visibility, and also a neater look and feel.”

The inspiration for this spectacular space is that of a dressing room, rather than a storage space. Somehow, California Closets managed to pull off both in this space - by including lots of open shelving and display cases, but also many hidden compartments and a builtin hutch to draw the eye in immediately upon entering the room.

LED lighting and glass detailing give the space a boutique-like feel, and the grey wood finish gives off a warm and rich aesthetic.

I think it’s common to fantasize about taking an entirely separate bedroom in the house and turning it into a closet for the primary bedroom… and that’s just the fantasy that was realized in this Bedford home, after the couple made it their full time residence during the pandemic. The ceiling angles and beams were not ideal, and presented a challenge for California Closets to work around in the renovation process; but California Closet’s ability to customize the heights and widths of each component made the space not only workable, but even superb for the conversion.

The closet was designed with specific items in mind - to allow for a spectacular bag collection to be highlighted, and to incorporate wishlist features like a vanity, massive island, and an immense amount of mirroring. All while leaving the existing windows for natural light and a beautiful view.

(This couples’ wedding was featured in the Wedding Section of the Jan/Feb 2021 issue of B&NC Mag).

...And short of a redo of the architecture of the closet, every closet could use a little zhush. No matter the physical design, the arrangement of personal artifacts, collections, wardrobe and accessories may be improved to enhance the look of the space. And reducing clutter is...always a good thing!

Although each of the ladies who were kind enough to let us invade had their closets in pretty, pretty, pretty (as Larry David might say) tip-top condition, we nevertheless brought in Jenna Haefelin, an undisputed queen of closets, to help these closets be their best selves for this photoshoot.

Jenna started her business, Spiff, at just twenty-three, when she realized that a lot of people had a need for some organization. Jenna has built a team of experts that are capable of overhauling any space to add functionality, and are capable of elevating the aesthetic in even the highest tier spaces. “A lot of times people think they’re already organized, or that their closet looks amazing, but in reality there are often more efficient ways for them to be set up - allowing for them to see more of their available wardrobe and better enjoy the room,” Jenna explains, “I call it leveling up.”

Although every client and project is different, most closet jobs for Jenna include color groupings. “We also bring a lot of symmetry into the spaces… this is an art to me and I want the result to be beautiful,” Jenna explained. Tactile components are often as important as color. The Spiff team mixes and matches textures to accentuate depth, as if the hanging racks were a painter’s canvas.

While there is an emphasis on decluttering to achieve the clean look that Spiff prides themselves on, that doesn’t have to mean a complete Marie Kondo of the space. “I love helping people get rid of negative energy and unnecessary baggage. Everyone says they have a weight lifted off of their shoulders when we leave. But we also want to give people a spot to save inspirational or memorable items; sometimes that’s a drawer, and sometimes is a framed object, or a glass overlay on an island to showcase some fun vintage pieces.”

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Picali Fine Jewelry offers contemporary style jewelry made of solid gold, precious gemstones, and diamonds. Each piece is exclusively designed and handcrafted by Jewelry Designer Alicia Andros at her home studio in Bedford, NY.

Alicia’s bespoke jewelry was featured in magazines such as Elle Slovenia, Tmrwmag, Weekly Style and in New York and Paris Fashion Week.

Picali Fine Jewelry boutique is located at 1066 North Street, Greenwich CT, 06831 For private appointments and custom orders please call 914-860-5934

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