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EDUCATION Connect Before the bell rings FOR THE STUDENT
It’s the beginning of the school year and that means new beginnings for everyone in the family, so be prepared for all of the new, exciting fun coming your way. Start this year off right by getting yourself actively involved in your child’s academics. On Tuesday, August 20 from 10 a.m. until noon, Families Helping Families of Greater Baton Rouge, 2356 Drusilla Lane, will be hosting Before the Bell Rings. Before the Bell Rings is a two-segment workshop designed to help you get the most out of your child’s school year. Cynthia Chesterfield will discuss parental involvement and advocacy through addressing ways that parents can become more actively and successfully involved during those school days. One of the most important things a parent could do is be actively involved with their child during the school year. Also, Kara Shupe will discuss steps to a successful school year through teaching how to avoid unnecessary problems by keeping proper documentation. ▪ www.beforethebellrings.eventbrite.com
Back-to-school haircuts
There’s no better way to go back to school, then to go back in style. Remington College School of Cosmetology. 4520 Sherwood Forest Blvd., provides free back-to-school haircuts for children ages 17 and younger through their “Cuts for Kids” program. This year, the school has expanded its services and will continue to provide haircuts throughout the month of August. Be sure to visit the Remington College Baton Rouge Campus from 9:30 a.m. to 2 p.m., Monday through Friday, for your haircut. Also, throughout August, Remington College student salons will be collecting school supplies for local schools. Anyone who brings in a donation will receive a complimentary haircut, manicure or pedicure. ▪ (225) 291-4660
NOT SO UNIFORM
Children grow out of uniforms rather quickly and buying new uniforms to keep up with their continuous growth can easily break the bank. Some of us have experienced a hit from the economy, making it difficult to pay for rent, utilities, food and uniforms, but with the Uniforms for Kids drive, students are able to receive the uniforms they need without emptying your wallet. If you happen to have any outgrown or gently-used uniforms lying around the house, donate them to the Uniforms for Kids drive by dropping them off at any Kean’s location in Ascension, East Baton Rouge, Livingston, Pointe Coupee, Tangipahoa or West Baton Rouge Parishes. The Uniforms for Kids drive helps make a student’s first day of school a success. The Uniforms for Kids drive will end August 9, so empty out those closets and donate those uniforms for a good cause. ▪ www.svdpbr.org
BACK-TO-SCHOOL FUN
Going back to school has never been quite this exciting! Enjoy Sunday in the Park on August 4 at BREC North Sherwood, 3140 North Sherwood Forest Dr., from 5-7 p.m. for music, games, food, DJs, inflatables and free haircuts. For more information, call (225) 239-7864. Also, Sunday, August 11 is the 2nd Annual Partnering to Keep Children First event from 1-4 p.m. School supplies, book bags and uniform donations will be accepted. There will also be free haircuts for young men. ▪ (225) 925-4859 24
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Farewell to Rev. Miles Walsh
Director of Religious Education, Carmel Acosta, and Principal, Brian Moscona, of Our Lady of Mercy Catholic School, presented Rev. Miles Walsh with a farewell gift from the school’s faculty and students. Following a liturgy, students bid farewell to Fr. Walsh who has served as the Pastor of Our Lady of Mercy Church since 2001. Fr. Walsh faithfully served the parish church and school. During the celebration, a gift was also presented to Parochial Vicar, Fr. Todd Lloyd. The administration, faculty and students of Our Lady of Mercy thanked the leaders for their incredible support of the school and its mission of providing Catholic foundations for a life of prayer, knowledge and service.
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Before taking on the role as Principal at Cypress Heights Academy, Cesar Rico graduated from Louisiana State University immediately going on to work as a middle school English/ Language Arts teacher at Cypress Heights Academy. Rico said, “I’ve worked with the school for ten years before accepting the honor of leading the school as their principal. Through continuous positive growth and excellent academics, we strive to form Christian leaders.” Rico’s love for his job is obvious as he is excited for what’s to come. “I am extremely excited to work diligently with awesome teachers, wonderful parents and students and in the great city of Baton Rouge.” said Rico. AUGUST 2013 | BRPARENTS.COM
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COMMUNITY Connect
Walk to cure diabetes
JDRF is a global organization focused on type 1 diabetes (T1D) and one way people can show their support is through JDRF’s Walk to Cure Diabetes. Type 1 Diabetes is an autoimmune disease in which a person’s pancreas loses the ability to produce insulin. More than 15,000 children and adults are diagnosed each year, and because of this JDRF holds more than 200 walks to connect people who are committed to fighting this disease. On Sunday, August 4, JDRF will be having the Walk Kickoff Celebration and Diabetes Fun Day. Visit the Hilton Baton Rouge Capitol Center, 201 Lafayette Street, from 3-5 p.m. to gather fundraising materials and enjoy a fun afternoon with activities for the whole family. ▪ www.louisiana.jdrf.org
Laugh zone at Broadmoor United Methodist Church
It’s always a good time for a laugh and no one knows that better than Bob Smiley. On Sunday, August 11 at 6 p.m., Bob Smiley will be taking the stage at Broadmoor United Methodist Church, 10230 Mollylea Drive, to deliver some laughs through an energetic, stand-up comedy performance. Bob Smiley is said to be “one of the nation’s most in-demand, hilarious and cleanest comedians,” and he definitely shows his love for his craft through each performance. Admission to the show is free but attendees are asked to bring a canned good to the performance. ▪ www.broadmoormethodist.org 26
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TAILGATING FAMILIES
Football season is here and there’s no better way to celebrate than with an awesome tailgating party. On Saturday, August 24 from 5-8 p.m. at the Baton Rouge River Center, 275 S. River Road, party-goers can experience the biggest tailgating party of the year. Attendees will be able to sample food and beverages from many of the best restaurants and caterers in the area so be sure to come hungry. Also, while you’re enjoying the party, be sure to check out the huge assortment of LSU merchandise and collectables out on display. Any football fan, old or young, can enjoy this tailgating party. ▪ www.brrivercenter.com
Zoom zoom zoo
Get your running shoes on, and grab your favorite running partners and head out to BREC’s Baton Rouge Zoo, 3601 Thomas Road, on Saturday, August 24 for the eighth annual Zoo Zoom 5K and Kids’ Half-Mile Fun Run. It doesn’t matter whether you prefer to run as fast as a cheetah or walk as slow as a turtle, all levels of skill are welcome in this family-fun run. The Kids’ Half-Mile Fun Run will begin at 7:45 a.m. and the 5K will begin at 8:15 a.m., so be sure to get there at 7:30 a.m. so you won’t miss out on anything. Prizes will be awarded to the first male and female in each age group, and a portion of your registration will benefit the Zoo’s conservation programs for threatened and endangered animals. Participants get to help the animals and get healthy. How cool is that? ▪ www.brzoo.org
Swim, bike and run at PARDs
Find your best pair of sneakers and get ready to get fit in a fun way. On Saturday, August 10 and Sunday, August 11, runners aged six and up are invited to participate in Livingston Parish’s First Triathlon, Splash Roll & Run at PARDs, corner of Eden Church Rd. and Lockhart Rd. On these two exciting days of activities, participants will go for a swim, ride a bike and finish the race with some running, all while testing their strength and running toward healthier lives. After the race, be sure to stick around because there will be food and entertainment for all to enjoy. ▪ www.pardsla.com AUGUST 2013 | BRPARENTS.COM
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COMMUNITY Connect
Casas for CASA
Give your little Scarlett a playhouse she can show all of her friends during the annual playhouse fundraiser. Capital Area CASA Association’s 19th annual Casas for CASA is a playhouse fundraiser that supports CASA’s efforts to speak up for abused and neglected children. Visit the CASA playhouse exhibit at the lower level elevator in the Mall of Louisiana where you can purchase a raffle ticket until Sunday, August 11. Also, CASA Kids Day will be on August 11 from noon to 5 p.m. and will feature a free, fun-filled afternoon of performances and activities for children at the Mall of Louisiana. This event will mark the end of the playhouse fundraiser and you won’t want to miss out because LSU’s mascot, Mike the Tiger, will be visiting at 2 p.m. ▪ www.casabr.org
ENJOY THE CIRCUS
Come one, come all to the 2013 Capable Arts Artists Reception on Friday, August 9 from 5:30 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the Shaw Center for the Arts, 100 Lafayette Street. Invite your family and friends to enjoy a few selected works from the Capable Artists. Capable Arts is a program of the McMains Children’s Development Center and this year’s theme for the artists was “The Circus.” Don’t miss out on this one-of-a-kind circus and check out all of the awesome work put together by these talented children. ▪ www.mcmaindscdc.org 28
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Express yourself with cans
You haven’t seen art quite like this. The Louisiana Art and Science Museum will present art structures using an entirely new medium—cans. These structures were created for the Baton Rouge CANstruction competition where teams built structures made entirely of cans and other nonperishable food items. When the display closes, all of the food will be donated to the Greater Baton Rouge Food Bank. ▪ (225) 936-5215
Muddy Mayhem at Tiki Tubing
School is back in session but families can still have fun together. On Saturday, September 7 at 7:20 a.m. at Tiki Tubing, 33203 Hwy. 1019, Muddy Mayhem will return for the muddiest event in Denham Springs. Runners must be 18 years of age or accompanied by an adult to participate in the event that features water crossings, mud trenches and floating platforms. Enjoy live entertainment and a BBQ Cookoff, benefitting the Jason Ard Scholarship Fund! Muddy Mayhem benefits the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Research Center of Baton Rouge. ▪ www.muddymayhemla.com AUGUST 2013 | BRPARENTS.COM
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Junior Achievement Preparing the Workforce of Tomorrow By Elena Jambusarwalla
In our bottom-line-driven society, it's never too early to start teaching children about finance, and Junior Achievement is doing just that. Children start as early as kindergarten, learning business basics with an emphasis on work readiness and entrepreneurship. The organization focuses on getting students right here in Baton Rouge ready to succeed in an international market. JA of Greater Baton Rouge and Acadiana provides programs in both private and public schools across the 10-parish region. With more than 16,000 students involved, the organization is developing an entrepreneurial spirit across the state. Over 700 business and community leaders are involved, and their support is crucial to the organization's success, according to President Kathy Arnes. AUGUST 2013 | BRPARENTS.COM
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The organization was founded in 1919 and has been educating children for nearly a century. Besides its focus on the business world, Junior Achievement teaches children the importance of education in general, encouraging students to excel in school and emphasizing the opportunities education can create. The local JA chapter began in 1956 and works with local organizations such as the Rotary Club of Baton Rouge and the Port Allen Rotary Club, working to build programs like JA Finance Park, JA in a Day, and the new Entrepreneurial Program. “Volunteers are the key to the success of JA programs – without volunteers, there is no JA,” Arnes said. JA’s Development Manager Michelle Carbo explained, “Helping kids engage with volunteers who can teach them about the roles that work and the role money can play in their lives allows them to better connect what they
learn in the classroom to real life.” The organization relies on members of the business community, parents, college students and local organizations to help advance its mission. Volunteers donate their time, knowledge and skills to educate the students involved, presenting programs on a variety of related topics over the course of the school year. Luckily, they
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have an incredible network of more than 180,000 volunteers. With the help of such a massive volunteer force, JA students “develop the skills they need to experience the realities and opportunities of work and entrepreneurship in the 21st-century global marketplace,” Arnes explained. Business leaders across the country cite Junior Achievement as an introduction to entrepreneurship, as it presents real-life, local role models for children to look up to. New Orleans production company Parasol Productions was founded by four aspiring filmmakers, including three graduates of Catholic High School right here in Baton Rouge. Founder Adam Lipscomb remembers thinking about opening a business of his own in elementary school when he began the program. “I always liked the idea of working for myself, but I think Junior Achievement first taught me what that actually meant,” Lipscomb said. “We were required to participate in Junior Achievement in school, and I think it was a good decision on the administration's part.” “No matter what you do, you always need a good business sense and a grasp on finance,” Lipscomb added. Individuals like Lipscomb remember the impact of the volunteers who first taught them such lessons, and many donate their own time in hopes of inspiring future business leaders to take their places in the community. All school clubs have their fun, but not all are entirely practical. JA merges the two facets, planning fun and exciting events for the youth involved, but also gearing them up for a future of success. Meet-ups go far past educational programs, as the group organizes a variety of fun outings for students
as well as fundraisers with other non-profits and charities. Currently, JA is gearing up for the Back To School Bowl-A-Thon, which takes place on August 12 at All Star Lanes. This event is one of a number of team building activities JA employs to strengthen bonds between the student participants as well the adults who volunteer. Connections like this can often be the start of a child's focus on a certain career field. This is exciting for many volunteers who look forward to the prospect of bright, new minds entering their industries. JA students' “success bolsters the local workforce and contributes to economic growth,” Arnes explained. This, of course, benefits the community as a whole.
The organization is currently busy at work planning future events, like next year's Crawfish Cook-Off, which benefits not only JA, but also the local Big Buddy chapter. Coordination with other non-profits fosters community while teaching students the importance of charitable action. Events like the Crawfish Cook-Off illustrate the well-rounded base JA is creating in its students. Arnes and others hope they are molding not only savvy businesspeople, but also caring and charitable individuals. After all, current students will be the leaders of our community in the years to come. For more information on Junior Achievement of Greater Baton Rouge and Acadiana, find the group on Facebook. There you can read more on upcoming events and ways you can get involved. Consider sharing some of your knowledge, and you never know—the
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PATRICK MULHEARN By Kimberly Fortner | Photography by The Wallace Standard
Patrick Mulhearn quotes Samuel Goldwyn, “The harder I work, the luckier I get.” Mulhearn loves this quote—probably because it is representative of his life as he has been the Director of Studio Operations at Celtic Media Centre for four years. He negotiates movie contracts, communicates with Hollywood executives on the West Coast and rubs elbows with the stars. Mulhearn is a Regional Emmy Award winner, former The Greater Baton Rouge Business Report’s Top Forty Under 40, past president of the Louisiana Film and Entertainment Association and one of 225 Magazine’s Locals to Follow on Twitter. He’s already achieved so much in his life; however, he doesn’t have to be pulled down to earth, because he’s already there—enjoying life to the fullest with his wife, Sarah, and young sons, Jack and Owen.
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How do you balance your professional and personal lives? It’s tough but you have to make the kids a priority. Whether it’s making sure someone is there for soccer practice, a play or science fair. A lot of times it’s divide and conquer. If it means clearing your schedule and bumping meetings with important people, you do it. It’s about prioritizing—including them in things you like to do, like watching football or hunting. What’s your favorite time of day? The evenings when I get home. I get to spend a little time with the kids before they go to bed. We watch TV—maybe Duck Dynasty—or play outside if there’s enough daylight. What motivates you? I want to see my kids have opportunities I didn’t have. That transcends my work. In the film industry, there are opportunities here that we didn’t have a decade ago. One day when they are looking for a job, they will have an easier time than I did. I hope everybody finds that Baton Rouge is stepping up its game. Do you ever feel like you are living in a fantasy world? I never would have thought I would be working at a worldclass studio in Baton Rouge. Now, it’s just work. Things tend to happen for a reason around here. If we miss out on an opportunity, it always seems that something better comes along. It’s great to be a part of that. I have to pinch myself sometimes. What inspires you? Hard work and perseverance inspire me. I hate when people just settle for second best. Our standards in Louisiana have been too low for way too long. It’s great when people take pride in what they do and the places they work—no matter how small it may seem. I can see progress in Louisiana and change in our community. World class companies are coming to Louisiana and people have put in effort to bring businesses here and the money goes into our local economy. Anybody who is not willing to accept the status quo and wants to see progress and positive change is an inspiration in my opinion. 40
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How have your parents influenced your parenting? My dad included me in his hobbies and free time. If he went hunting, he would take me with him. He would include me and I do the same thing with my kids. My parents put an emphasis on family first and that rubbed off on me. Two: I learned from them to respect my kids and not force them to do activities. There’s so much pressure for grades, sports, etc. It’s one thing to encourage children but another thing to pressure them. You can have high expectations but pressuring them does more harm than good. Also, just let kids be kids—they grow up too fast. What’s the most important characteristic you want your children to possess? Compassion for others. I don’t ever want them to think the world revolves around them. Their time on earth is more for others than for themselves. They’ll get that. What are you most proud of? I think I’m most proud of the fact that there’s never a dull moment in my life. I always have someone to spend time with or something to do—at home or work. I’m never bored. I should also say that I’m proud that Jack knows every single scene from Star Wars. Do you have any advice for other parents? I think it’s important to not shelter your kid from the outside world, like with TV. Truth be known, it’s how they relate to other kids; it’s how we relate to others. We talk about pop culture: what’s in the movies, what’s on TV. The most important thing is that you spend time together. Don't underestimate them. With a degree of certainty, you know they aren’t going to act out. Most kids know movies and television are fantasy. My kids would find a way to watch Ironman even if I weren’t with them. How do you want your children to view you? I hope that one day, they’ll think of me the way I think of my dad: as more than a parental figure but also as a friend. I hope that they will want to spend time with me—not because they have to—but because they want to.
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DINING WITH RESTRICTION
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The skinny on staying gluten free
A grocery list and a restaurant menu should not create anxiety, but if your child has just been placed on a gluten-free diet, trying to provide safe meals and snacks can be nerve-racking. Gluten is a protein found in wheat, barley and rye. Because this substance provides elasticity, improves taste and refines texture,
it is added to many foods, such as deli meats, French fries, ice cream, bread, cereal and sauces. This seemingly endless list of banned foods can be quite intimidating. But, just as confidence and expertise comes after bringing your new baby home, so will your understanding of a gluten-free diet once you’ve taken the plunge.
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The most common reason for a glutenfree diet is due to a diagnosis of celiac disease or a non-celiac gluten sensitivity. This dietary transition is a dramatic change, and should not be undertaken without professional supervision. A routine trip to the grocery store can become an exploration instead of a quick trip. The FDA does not require gluten-free labeling, so learning to decipher labels is essential. Wheat-free is not the same as glutenfree, as rye or barley may be an ingredient. As with other allergies, there is always the possibility of cross-contamination during the course of food processing. With high consumer interest in this type of diet, an increasing number of products are available. Labels boast “gluten-free” in large block letters. Still, the old adage of caveat emptor prevails: “buyer beware” and read labels carefully. Just as you might have nervously faced hosting your first large family dinner, the goal of creating a gluten-free kitchen might seem impossible. Begin by making certain that all food preparation surfaces and kitchen equipment are free of any remnants of gluten products. Melanie Chandler, LDN, RD, CDE of Our Lady of the Lake Hospital, says that most of the time the entire family will transition to a gluten-free diet. She strongly recommends working with professionals when beginning this program. Guidance will be needed to help with school lunches, family meals and dining out. Once the diagnosis is made, the family pantry and fridge will have to be purged of all foods containing gluten. Fruits and vegetables, and most dairy products, are permitted. Unopened items can be donated to the Greater Baton Rouge Food Bank, whose ability to serve our community has been diminished by natural disasters and the economy. Many school cafeterias now receive food from a central location instead of preparing it on-site. This could make evaluating ingredients more difficult. If choosing this option, you will need to notify the appropriate school personnel and provide a letter from your physician stating the diagnosis and your child’s dietary restrictions. Packing a child’s lunch might be simpler than using meals offered at school. Consider the student’s preferences and caution 44
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against swapping their food with friends and schoolmates, or sharing food on someone else’s plate. This rule should also apply to parties and field trips. Many restaurants are eager to woo those who need or want to follow this diet. Just a few minutes online revealed a list of major restaurant chains that offer glutenfree choices: Bonefish Grill, Outback, P.F. Chang’s, BJ’s Restaurant, T.G.I. Friday’s, Godfather’s Pizza and Chili’s. Though some local eateries will undoubtedly do the same, knowing which chains are safe may reduce stress when traveling. If you are just beginning to venture into the gluten-free world, it may be less complicated to limit your outings to a few restaurants until you become more familiar with the diet. The staff will get to know you, and the menu choices will become more familiar. There are steps you can take that will allow you to continue to enjoy a night out at your favorite spots. To avoid being tempted into making the wrong choices, don’t arrive hungry. Call ahead to make certain the restaurant is able to meet your needs. Explain your requirements to the server as soon as possible. Emphasize the importance of your diet restrictions by comparing this to a food allergy, stating potential ways dishes can be dangerous. Assume nothing and ask for ingredients contained in marinades, soups and sauces. If possible, give your gluten-free order last so the server will then be headed directly to the kitchen. Be willing to consider a second choice. If no gluten-free options are listed or offered, ask if the chef can sauté plain meat or chicken in olive oil or butter. It’s better to settle than risk suffering with the side effects. Children will learn very quickly that adherence makes them feel better, so they may adapt more quickly than expected. As parents, you taught your children safety in other areas of their lives, and they will undoubtedly acquire this skill just as they learned to safely cross the street or the danger of playing with matches. Finding support online is easy and essential. Although many sites are very credible, be cautious about information that seems too outrageous. Stick to reliable organizations that have name recognition or medical connections and endorsements. ■
HELPING CHILDREN COMPLY • Set a good example by maintaining a positive attitude • Use language appropriate for child’s level when explaining diagnosis and changes in diet/food choices • Involve your child in grocery shopping and menu planning • Teach your child to look for key words on labels • Role play so that your child learns to handle situations where they may be tempted by inappropriate foods
Resources for Gluten-Free Living www.celiacdisease.about.com www.celiac.com www.eatright.org www.NASPGHAN.org www.medicine.edu
Books
Gluten-Free on a Shoestring, by Nicole Hunn Incredibly Easy Gluten-Free Recipes, by Louis Weber Student’s Gluten-Free Cookbook for Dummies, by Nancy McEachern
Children’s Books
Cilie Yack is Under Attack: a story about a boy with celiac disease, by Caryn Talty Mommy, What is Celiac Disease?: A look at the sunny side of being a gluten-free kid, by Katie Chalmers
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I n Case of Emergency, Please call... By Amanda Miller
It’s the beginning of the school year and among all of the paperwork to fill out is your child’s emergency contact card. This document is usually considered one of the easiest forms to complete because it’s so simple to jot down the name and number of your nearest relative or close friend. However, this form should be taken seriously because the people you’ve designated are going to be contacted in case of a real emergency; they are going to be responsible for your child if, for any reason, you cannot be reached. Your child’s wellbeing can lie in the hands of those you’ve designated.
Choosing the proper contacts
The following are recommendations to consider when choosing a proper emergency contact: Availability. Local teacher, Lauren Hutchinson, recommends that parents should “choose someone with a flexible schedule who is also readily accessible by phone.” Choosing someone with limited availability due to job requirements, class schedules, etc. is not recommended. Do not choose someone who is required to travel regularly, turn their phone off or not answer it for extended periods of time. 46
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Transportation. Each person you designate should have their own means of transportation. Having someone on the list who relies on public transportation or others is not recommended; they must be able to get to your child as quickly as possible. Reliability and stability. Choose someone with a proven track record of availability and reliability—someone who can remain calm and make quick decisions if needed. Awareness. Each emergency contact must be notified that they have been designated as such, be aware of your child’s allergies, medical needs, etc. and all medications
being taken for each condition, know the contact information of your child’s school, pediatrician and/or hospital of choice, be aware of your child’s medical insurance status, and know how to proceed on your behalf. For example, if your child is having an allergic reaction or asthma attack and you cannot be reached, your contact must be aware of the proper treatment and/or protocol to follow. Comfort level. Never designate a contact simply because their information is readily available to you. It should be a well thought-out decision based not only on
your trust level with that person, but also your child’s. In an emergency, your child may feel afraid and vulnerable; they need to trust the person that you’ve thoughtfully designated to make decisions in your absence. Listing current romantic interests or new people in their lives should be avoided. Ellison Smith, a mother of one, said, “I choose people who really know my daughter. I consider who I’d want to deal with in an emergency situation and who would truly be concerned with my child’s well-being first and foremost.” Back-up plan. Lastly, designating backup contacts is essential in the event your first choice is unavailable.
Emergency preparedness
In order to have an effective emergency contact list, there are a few things you can do to ensure that things run smoothly in any emergency. After completing your emergency contact list, notify the contacts you’ve designated and provide them with the school’s name and phone number, as well as the medical information mentioned above. Ask them to store the information in their phone to avoid ignoring the call just because they don’t recognize the number. Make sure all of the information is correct and legible. Hutchinson says, “This information needs to be clearly printed on the card and returned to school with the child.” If a number changes during the school year, be sure to change it on the card. Keep the contact list as current as possible. Updating the information is as simple as going to the office and asking for the card.
Cellular safety trick
Perhaps you aren’t filling out an emergency card but want to program your phone to be emergency ready. If so, follow these simple steps: In your contacts list, place a period (.) or “A” in front of the contact’s name that you’ve chosen as your emergency contact. By doing so, that person’s name will appear first under your Contact List in your phone, thus allowing you or the person using your phone to access the contact(s) needed quickly. Use the ICE method. Place “ICE” (in case of emergency) in front of those contacts you want notified. Emergency technicians and hospital personnel will usually check under the letter “I” for emergency contacts. ■ AUGUST 2013 | BRPARENTS.COM
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Yes, it’s time. Summer is, unfortunately, coming to a close. Parents will soon be hearing those famous words, “Just five more minutes!” Getting back into a new sleep schedule can be tricky for some. Your children are used to going to bed late and waking up late. Setting a new bedtime routine and sticking to it is vital, especially for young children. The popular book, The No-Cry Sleep Solution by Elizabeth Pantley, offers some wonderful advice on helping your children transition back into their school schedule: 50
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Maintain consistent bedtime and waking time seven days a week. Children respond best to a set bedtime. Surprisingly, the earlier a child goes to bed, the longer and better they will sleep. An ideal bedtime would be between 6:30 and 7:30 p.m. for toddlers and preschoolers. Children between the ages of three and 12 need approximately 10-12 hours of sleep per night. So if you want your child to wake up at 7 a.m., putting him to bed around 7 p.m. would be beneficial to attaining a new sleep schedule. Even if your child does not go to sleep immediately or other minor sleep problems arise, stick with the new schedule. If you decide to put them to bed at 7:30 p.m., make sure you do so every night. Children respond positively to, and profit from, consistent routines, especially bedtimes. Encourage regular and daily naps. Isn’t it ironic that children detest nap times, but we, as adults, would absolutely LOVE one daily? Naps are important for many reasons: a nap-less child will start the day off behaving quite cheerfully but, as the day progresses, will become moody, hyper-alert and agitated. An energetic child will find it difficult to get through a day without a break. After five years of age, naps are not necessary, but a good “time-out” or break could be useful. Everyone needs time to unwind, even adults! Set your child’s biological clock. As Pantley states in her book, “Darkness causes an increase in the release of melatonin, the body’s sleep hormone, and it is the biological ’stop’ button. You can help align your child’s sleepiness with his bedtime by dimming the lights in your home during the hour before bedtime. Exposing your child to morning light is like pushing a ‘go’ button in her brain—one that says, ‘Time to wake up and be active.’ So keep your mornings bright!” Also, if your child sleeps with a night light, make sure the bulb is blue vs orange or white. Color makes a difference: orange and white bulbs are brighter and in closer range with the sunlight, as opposed to blue, which is more in cahoots with Mr. Moon. Develop a consistent bedtime routine. Routines = security. Children are comforted by knowing what is going to
happen next. Pantley points out, “An organized routine helps you coordinate the specifics that must occur before bed: bath, pajamas and tooth-brushing. It helps you to function on auto-pilot at the time of day when you are most tired and least creative.” Reading a bedtime story is also a great step to incorporate into your child’s routine. It is a chance for you to spend some quality time with your child, as well as helping him wind down after a busy day.
time snacks include: bananas, yogurt, whole wheat/grain toast, cheese, lowsugar granola and peanut butter. These foods have carbohydrates which have a calming effect on a child’s body (as well as an adults.) Help your child live a healthy lifestyle. A sedentary lifestyle of too much television and not enough exercise are detrimental to your child’s health, as well as their sleep habits. However, running around one to two hours before bedtime
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Create a cozy sleep environment. Having a comfortable sleep environment plays a significant role in helping your child get a good night’s sleep. Let them pick out their PJ’s, grab their favorite pillow or stuffed animal; even a sweet lullaby are perfect examples of creating such an environment. Another key factor is room temperature. Make sure the temp is just right. You don’t want your child waking up in the middle of the night because of being too hot or too cold. Provide the right nutrition to improve sleep. Did you know that what your child eats can play a huge role in their sleep performance? Certain foods affect energy levels as well as sleepiness. Of course, we all know that sugar is a big no-no for a child right before bedtime. Dr. Jennifer Trachtenberg said, “On average, children who drink caffeinated beverages lose 30 minutes of sleep nightly. But kids, like adults, vary in their caffeine sensitivity. If you think it's a sleep issue with your children, try to cut off caffeine after two or three in the afternoon.” Also, foods that are high in protein should be avoided. Some great pre-bed-
is not recommended, but he needs to have an active and productive day. Most children who participate in many physical activities during the day fall asleep more quickly and sleep longer. Be creative: ask your children to come up with some fun outdoor games to play together as a family. Physical education in school is also a wonderful asset that your child receives during the school year. Teach your child how to relax and fall asleep. “Many children get in bed but aren’t sure what to do when they get there! It can be helpful to follow a soothing pre-bed routine that helps create feelings of sleepiness,” says Pantley. As previously mentioned, reading a bedtime story to your child is not only an opportunity to bond with them, but it also has a very beneficial calming effect for both of you. Hopefully these simple steps will help you and your child ease into your new back-to-school bedtime routine; however, implementing these steps all year ‘round could make your back-to-school transition much easier next year. ■ AUGUST 2013 | BRPARENTS.COM
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Think Your Child Can’t Self-Calm?
Think Again! By Jacqueline Bodnar
“Landon has been able to calm himself through the use of his pacifier. As soon as he puts it in his mouth, his entire demeanor changes,” shares Christine Lefler. “He is calm, quiet and much more relaxed. I realize he shouldn't be on it for much longer, but it sure helps to soothe him when needed.” Lefler is one of the many in-tune parents that have identified a way to help their child self-calm. While her 19-monthold son won’t be turning to the pacifier forever, he’s learning an important skill along with the process. He’s finding that he can take control of his emotions and calm himself when he’s upset. Later on, he’ll be able to transition that same energy into some other technique that’s more age-appropriate. Teaching children how to self-calm is an important tool in helping them cope with the unavoidable stressors in life. In the meantime, when Lefler decides it’s time to pull the plug on her son’s use of the pacifier to self-calm, she’s going to need a replacement.
What is self-calming?
“Self-calming is the ability of a person (whether child or adult) to regulate their emotional well-being,” says Elizabeth Crary, author of several books on the subject, including Dealing with Disappointment (Parenting Press, 2003) and Self-Calming Cards (Parenting Press). “The ability to control feelings is useful for several reasons. First and foremost, kids will simply feel better.” When children learn that they can control how to express their emotions, they feel much more in control of their lives because they are making the decision about how to respond to a situation. They are also able to think more clearly. According to pediatrician Dr. Lakisha Lee, “Most normal-developing infants learn to self-soothe as early as four months, but averages around five to seven months.” “When a person is angry or scared, chemicals flood the bloodstream,” says Crary. “That makes it possible for you to do physical things (run faster, move boulders, etc.) but also impairs the problemsolving (or executive) function of the brain. This physical strength was helpful in primitive times, but since we are not dealing with saber-tooth tigers, it doesn’t do much good now.” 52
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Let’s face it: life doesn’t always meet our expectations, especially those of a young child. The most common motivation behind a typical toddler tantrum is not getting their way. They get upset, but don’t know an appropriate way to express those feelings, so they have a meltdown—if that’s all they’ve ever learned. It’s never too soon to start guiding children towards being aware of what they are feeling and how to express it in a healthy way. It’s important to teach them that it’s normal to experience feelings of frustration, anger and disappointment, but that there are appropriate and inappropriate ways to express them. “Helping your children to self-calm will help them to develop self-calming skills is the key to preventing infants and children from being rude and bad-tempered,” says pediatrician, Dr. David Olson. “Essentially, we as parents need to emphasize their good behavior and try our best to ignore their out-of-control behavior.” Dr. Lee agrees: “I cannot state enough how important it is to positively reinforce ‘good’ behaviors, even the very small ones. Positive reinforcement is far more likely to transform behavior than any level of negative reinforcement or punishment.” Dr. Olson explains that professionals oftentimes recommend “time-outs” for poor behavior in children, but that reinforcement of desired behaviors is equally important. “The notion that parents give their kids subtle and not-so-subtle positive encouragement is paramount in molding a child’s behavior to be kind and cooperative,” adds Dr. Olson. “We call this ‘timein,’ and this praise is more important than any negative discipline.” However, there are times that behavior simply cannot be ignored. Lee says, “Not all behaviors should be ignored. Defiant behavior should be addressed immediately and consistently. How you address your child during these tense moments influences how they learn to self-soothe and when they implement their soothing skills. It is absolutely necessary for the parent, no matter how tired or frustrated they are, to remain calm.”
Self-calming skills
Keep in mind that self-calming techniques will need to be discussed and taught
when the child is calm. Introducing a new self-calming method when the child is emotionally distraught will not work. You may have to try a variety of methods before finding one that fits for your child. What works for one child won’t necessarily work for another. It’s a good idea to try one method at a time until you find something that works.
When a child is angry or scared, chemicals flood the bloodstream. “Temperament plays a large part in how children express their feelings,” says Crary. “If they have a very intense temperament, their displays will be loud, both when happy and mad. If their expressions are mild, it doesn’t mean they don’t care as much, only that they are less overt. These kids may need coaching on how to express their emotional needs in order to get them met.” Self-calming tools that work for children include singing a song, hugging a stuffed animal or comfort object or learning to do breathing exercises. Some people respond better to visual cues and may find that looking at a particular picture, poster or video is helpful. As children grow, journaling about their feelings is another tool that has proven to be effective for addressing the issue. Once they begin to understand that they have the tools needed to take control of their emotions, you can keep a reminder of those methods on the refrigerator, in their bedroom or on the bathroom mirror. When the child is having a meltdown, suggest they choose an option from the list. If they refuse, gently remind them that it’s their choice.
The bottom line
Perhaps the most important means of teaching your child how to react appropriately and display their feelings is through modeling. Research has shown that the most powerful role models in a child’s life are their parents. So, whether you consistently display appropriate or inappropriate behavior, your child will learn to do the same. ■ AUGUST 2013 | BRPARENTS.COM
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A Parent’s Guide to the Modeling Business
It happens pretty often: driving down the road you catch a glimpse of a billboard or while waiting in the doctor’s office reading a magazine or while you’re watching a commercial—you’ll see some kind of advertisement—for Baby Gap or mini vans—and a super cute kid will be featured. But, your child is cuter, right?
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Parents often wonder how to get into the modeling world and if, in fact, their child has what it takes to stand out. After all, so many children—or parents—dream of a high profile, lucrative career in modeling but it takes much more than just a dream. Ashley P. Wilkinson, Academy Director at John Robert Powers New Orleans, explained that
a portfolio is a must. Many models are booked for print jobs based on portfolio pictures alone. Without professional industry standard pictures, you are not truly marketing yourself to your highest potential. As an actor/actress, you most likely will not even get an audition without a professional headshot. Is there an age too young to get your
you’ll see some kind of advertisement — and a super cute kid will be featured. But, your child is cuter, right? excitement, energy and hard work could be your ticket to ride in the business. After you’ve established that the modeling business is something you would like to try on behalf of your child, you have to do your research. Thinking of connecting with the professionals? Research their credentials, ask others who have dealt with them and read the reviews. Also, be realistic and know that most children won’t become a Cover Girl. Let’s face it, there aren’t many of them out there. If you choose to pursue the world of modeling, your child is certainly going to be rejected at some point or another. Maybe you’ll get a letter or you’ll never receive a call you really want. Don’t take it to heart. There are some gigs your child may just be too cute for! You have to keep at it and your hard work will pay off eventually. Wilkinson offered her expertise on the subject. Is it necessary to have an agent? If you want to be taken seriously in this business then yes. If this is something you plan to do recreationally then you could get away with finding a very few small jobs that probably aren't even paid jobs on your own. If you are looking to pursue this as something a little more [than that], then having the right team working with you is an absolute necessity. Many jobs won’t work with you if you do not have representation but it is not impossible to book some work without an agent. How important is a portfolio? For anyone trying to work in this industry as a model
children in the field? No age is actually too young but we do not start developing a child until age four. Many reasons go into our decision to wait until this age but mainly because children really need to be able to take direction in this business and be able to understand the terminology to work their best if auditioning for a potential job. Yes, there are a few jobs that come for small
feature film where he plays Oprah's onscreen son, she gave him some great advice. She said, “People will say if you ‘made it’ then you're lucky but it's not luck that got you where you are today. It's about being prepared for when the time comes—you'll be ready to SHINE.” In your experience, do you ever see parents put too much pressure on their children to succeed in the business? Do we see it? Yes. Do we work with them? No. Overbearing stage parents are what we in this business run from. First, your child has to want to do it whether you know they can or not. If they are pushed, they will not be successful and only make our jobs and the jobs of agencies, directors that much harder. Honestly there are too many children out there that love this and want to do it to work with that we can stay far from the ones who don't. Word of advice, we can spot a stage parent from miles away even if you think you’re hiding it. Do you have any advice you would give those parents who are willing to make a commitment? My advice to any parent looking to pursue the industry with a child is to make sure you are truly doing it because your child loves and wants it. If they do then everything else will be worth it. Breaking into the industry is a lot of hard
Word of advice, we can spot a stage parent from miles away even if you think you’re hiding it. children and babies but not many so most agencies will not sign a child that young. What are the odds for success, you think? What is success? I think success depends on what you are looking to get out of it in the first place. I do believe that you do not get far in the business without hard work. Preparation is key. I'll quote one of my students who worked on set with Oprah: “If you fail to prepare then you are prepared to fail.” On set of his upcoming
work and you need to have a blast doing it. Having a true interest in this business is very important to truly be successful. Is there anything else parents need to be aware of? Don't be afraid of this industry. It is very hard to break into but not impossible. Know the facts. There are so many opinions on how this industry works so trust in a reliable source to provide the accurate information. With the knowledge, hard work and the right team, the sky truly is the limit. ■ AUGUST 2013 | BRPARENTS.COM
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By Jamie Lober
In today’s economy, even parents are taking the back-to-school plunge, either to enhance employment opportunities, to expand or learn a new skill set, even if they are the primary caretaker of young children. With this growing trend of Mommies going back to school, adjustments will undoubtedly have to be made on the homefront. Fortunately, we’ve discovered some practical tips for creating new schedules and routines that will prove that it is possible to balance the mommy/student lifestyle.
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Remember that boundaries are good for family and schoolwork because they help you protect yourself. Before finalizing your decision, experts recommend a family discussion. “Talk honestly about it and say it is going to be a big change and [will] take you away for some time,” suggests Dr. Christine Belaire, professional counselor and marriage and family therapist with Belaire Counseling Services. Relate it to your child’s experiences. “Just like you do homework, I have to do the same thing and if you want time with me and are missing it, you need to tell me,” said Belaire. Make sure the discussion stays at an age-appropriate level. “Today there are online degrees so you may not even have to leave the house to continue your education,” says Melissa Silva, executive director of the Mental Health Association for Greater Baton Rouge. Moms have been able to balance school and family life in the past and you can, too. Although the balancing act may not be easy, our family experts have offered the following advice. “You have to balance multiple balls and sometimes you have to let one fall because you cannot get it all done,” says Silva, “and you have to let go of [the] guilt.” No one can do it all. “You have to be able to accept that you cannot have perfection at all times and, [as] with everything, you have to set your own standards and
ule, which means having a backup plan,” Silva explains. “You cannot spend ten hours doing schoolwork and expect to have a quality life at home, so you have to set boundaries for when your work day stops and when you want to spend time with your family.” Dr. Belaire adds, “Many people do family time but they do not do
You have to balance multiple balls and sometimes you have to let one fall because you cannot get it all done. couple or one-on-one time with kids.” Try to plan special outings–away from books and computers—to stay connected with your family. Quality time. When you do carve out time for your family, make the most of it. Belaire recommends taking time to “sit
Find out what tips and tricks hold your family together and stick to them. create time for yourself,” said Silva. You have to take care of yourself so you can be available for others. “Find a way to relax to relieve tension and minimize stress,” said Silva. Develop a routine. Time management is a common struggle. “You have to be a good time manager and set a sched60
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because they help you protect yourself,” advises Silva. Sometimes you will have to compromise by refusing to take on extra projects or drive your child to every social event. “Create your standards to live by and do not go by everyone else’s,” said Silva. Does the house really need to be scrubbed right now? “[Use] paper plates or paper cups so you do not have to do the dishes and can spend that time doing something else,” says Belaire. Delegate amd never procrastinate. “Write a to-do list of everything you have to do from the time you wake up until the time you to go bed in your academic and family life and delegate to your spouse and child[ren] to make home life work better,” said Silva. Cynthia DuBois, professional or-
down and talk or play a game together because those are important moments just like the big trips. Everybody should unplug … and talk.” Prioritize. Be prepared to say ‘no’ from time to time. “Remember that boundaries are good for family and schoolwork
ganizer, agrees. “Look for ways to simplify, but take care of things in the moment.” She also advises moms to keep realistic expectations. “Know what your child is capable of doing, and do not have the expectation that it is going to be done perfectly or the way you would do it.” It’s simply “a way to remove things off of your plate and help them take ownership in the family life.” Dubois recalls the time her own mother went back to school. “She was honest with us and said she was not going to be around as often but I never at any point felt that she was neglecting us because she was committed to spending quality time with us.” Be optimistic. “Let your child know that school is good, school is fun and when this is over, life will be better,” says Dubois. Explain it at a level that they understand and in positive terms. Who knows: your upbeat attitude toward school might rub off on them! Find out what tips and tricks hold your family together and stick to them. “It is a harmony that you create,” said Silva. ■
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Navigating the School Year Advice for Divorced Parents
By Mark Friedman
From purchasing back-to-school supplies to Open House, divorced parents should work together to ensure that their conflicts do not affect the child during this already stressful time. But that could be difficult, said Wally Goddard, professor of Family Life. When two parents are at odds and somebody's still hurt by [the] other, it’s hard to keep their focus on the child sometimes,” he said. “Issues involving the ex-spouse–while possibly important and urgent–should not intrude on the child’s needs,” he adds. Divorced parents should strive to keep each other informed about the child’s school progress and activities. “And for that to be successful, the parents need to not fight with each other [or] argue about details about who is responsible for what,” Goddard said. “Divorced parents who constantly argue in front of their child could leave him vulnerable,” says Ally Orsi, a physiotherapist. She compares being a
child of divorce to being a passenger on an airplane witnessing an argument between the pilot and co-pilot in the cockpit. “You feel pretty scared. Who’s flying the plane?” Orsi said. “That’s how children feel during divorce situations.” Donna B. Fargason, M.D., a local psychologist, observes this situation firsthand. “One of the most tragic situations I encounter in my work with children and families is the issue of feuding exes. It’s the most challenging for me to navigate as a professional, and therefore I truly feel for the children who are affected by this problem. They are rendered completely helpless when caught between two parents who are more engaged in the battle than they are the well-being of their child.” But the experts say that–with effective communication and planning—the child of divorced parents can succeed in school. “Stress is not a good environment for learning or growing up,” said Ell Kellner, author of The Pro-Child Way: Parenting with an Ex. “The child can experience divorce
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without stress. Adding stress is the choice the parents make.” But if parents can’t reach an agreement on a steady, predictable routine together, they need to seek advice from a therapist to “help them do that for the sake of their child,” Orsi said. Fargason notes, “Even though parents divorce, they are always a ‘family’ because they are still the parents of their children. Therefore, they will have to
Being left out of the loop causes resentment and confusion. navigate decisions, events and emotions together (whether they like it or not). While we all know it’s ideal for parents to put their feelings aside and focus on the child, it can be a very difficult thing to do without professional guidance.” Fargason added, “I recommend coparenting therapy for all couples who are divorcing or divorced. It can help to have a neutral third party guide them and remind them of what strategies and interventions may be best for the children.”
Back-to-school supplies
Shopping for back-to-school supplies is a good place for divorced parents to start working together. Kellner recommends that, “When the school supply list is released, one parent should tell the child that the supplies will be taken care of.” “[Y]ou are immediately addressing with the child that you are taking care of it,” she said. “And taking care of it might mean that the other parent gets involved. But, the communication to the child is, ‘I’ll make sure this gets done for you,’” which helps children feel more secure by not being placed in the middle. The two parents should work together to develop a plan for buying supplies. However, Kellner states that getting involved shouldn’t be forced on the other parent. “It should always come from the position of it’s your choice if you want to be involved with this and here's an opportunity for you to do so,” Kellner said. The author also suggests that, before school starts, parents should review the school calendar and tell the child which 64
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events they will be attending that year. If only one parent has the school calendar, they should inform the other about upcoming events. “Sometimes it’s tempting for a parent to want to set the other parent up for failure, but the only casualty there is the child,” Kellner said.
Homework
Once school starts, Goddard advises that divorced parents should be realistic about expectations for homework and studying. He states that one parent can make requests of the ex-spouse of how homework and studying should be done, but if the child doesn’t do it, there’s no need to overreact. Parents should be reasonable about the requests they make, and then let it go. If “the more involved parent just pesters the other parent, it makes it less likely that they will help,” Goddard said. “That's obviously counterproductive.” Kellner says that the focus should be on the child and the child’s needs. If a parent is unable to assist with homework, that parent could make arrangements for a tutor or teacher's aide for assistance.
The whole point [of an open house] is to celebrate what your child is doing. “So it’s being aware of all the key things that have to happen for the task to get done and finding ways within your visitation arrangement to make that happen,” she said. “And usually when it’s done in a way that’s not threatening, the other parent will appreciate the solution that you are coming up with.”
Parent-teacher conferences
Both parents should attend parent-teacher conferences. “The child only benefits when there are two sets of ears hearing what a teacher has to say,” Kellner observed. But if one parent is unable to attend, the other parent should take notes and discuss the meeting with the other parent, Goddard recommended. “And not in the sense, of well, you didn’t help him with his home-
work and now they're failing science,” he said, “but in the spirit of here’s what the needs are as reported by the teacher.” Fargason said, “One strategy I have implemented which has worked well in my practice is to invite both parents to attend sessions together and also to include each other on email communications. That helps to eliminate the he said/she said phenomenon that so often occurs in the battle. This may be a good guideline for parents to follow or at least to request of the ex: to be included in all communications that occur with teachers, doctors, coaches or others who are involved in their children’s activities. Being left out of the loop causes resentment and confusion. Inclusion in the plans/schedules/discussions allows for a more neutral and unified approach.”
Parents should think of themselves as partners in parenting Open House
Open House is an opportunity for the child and parents to meet the teacher for the upcoming school year and to highlight events on the calendar. “Even if you’re not speaking to your ex, it doesn’t matter,” Kellner said. “You are not there to talk to your ex; you are there to focus on your child and what it is your child wants to share with you.” If parents have new partners, they should also attend. “The whole point is to celebrate what your child is doing,” Kellner said.
Goals
Orsi said parents should think of themselves as partners in parenting. Even if they can’t stand each other, they should agree to speak cordially to one another and have the same goals for their child, which is to become a productive adult. “And the biggest hurdle actually isn’t what to do, it’s how to keep from losing your temper (with your ex-spouse) because you do have to work with that person,” she added. Orsi added that communication is the key to success to be “partners in parenting when you can’t be partners in life.” ■
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DRIVERS bus drivers are effective, and the training
drivers are required to conduct routine found in the bus transportation hand-
responsible individuals, as well as provide
MAINTENANCE DISCIPLINE by all bus drivers that buses are to be in-
A school bus with undisciplined passengers is a dangerous situation, not only for the students but the driver as principal is responsible for the supervi-
Cameras have been installed on 30 East Baton Rouge Parish school buses, with 50 more buses slated for camera installation.
a part of his duties, the principal should bus driver, and assist bus drivers as -
prior to the beginning of each school sesdriver is required to personally contact
obtain eight hours of in-service training every two years which is provided in have to spend days waiting for these re-
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to the parents of other children riding
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parents could be unaware of dangerous tecting the privacy of students and staff
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Saturday, September 14, 2013 10 a.m. - 3 p.m. Exerfit/Crawfish Aquatics This annual event offers children in the Greater Baton Rouge Area and surrounding communities the chance to appear on the cover or within the editorial pages of Baton Rouge Parents Magazine.
personnel for the welfare and safety of
and school level policies for school bus transportation, having children ready and to avoid detaining the driver on the It is apparent that school bus safe-
Walk safely to the bus stop and don’t play in the street while waiting for your bus. When unloading from the bus, take ten big steps away from the bus to make sure the bus driver can see you clearly. If you have to cross the street, look both ways and cross after your bus driver signals you to do so.
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When the bus is in motion, be sure to remain in your seat. It’s important that a child listens to their bus driver at all times.
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Bring the family and enjoy the fun at Birthday Bash, held in conjunction with The Cover Kid Event, it’s the biggest party in town!
Free Entrance Birthday party exhibitors with sample products and information about birthday party planning options. Entertainment by local magicians, face painters and balloon artists. Games and many door prizes
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the standards this fall, and students will be standards and are pushing core-aligned tests -
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whether a state will or will not participate, all parish school boards and public school teachers in Louisiana are being required to -
PRO. “The Council for a Better Louisiana (CABL) supports more rigorous Common Core standards. It will help us do a better job of training students. We’re losing jobs to competing nations. LEAP testing was good, but we are lower than other states. Our children have to do more to be competitive. Filling jobs of the future will require a stronger academic foundation.” — Stephanie Desselle of CABL PRO. “Common Core is back to basics. The teacher will determine what will be taught in the classroom. The federal government should not determine the ‘how’ of teaching in the classroom. The State of Louisiana is out of the business of dictating everything a teacher should do everyday. We’re out of the business of telling schools everything they should do everyday.” — Louisiana Supt. of Education John White PRO. “When we talk about Common Core, we’re talking about what a student should be
to put together their own curricula to help
CON. “Top-down federalized ‘Common Core’ standards are now sweeping the country. It’s important to remember that while teachers-union control freaks are on board with angered and frustrated as parents about the Big Ed power grab. The program was
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lobbyists for the liberal Bill Gates Foundation), statist business groups and hoodwinked Republican governors. As I’ve reported previously, this scheme, enabled by the Obama administration’s ‘Race to the Top’ funding mechanism, usurps local autonomy in favor of lesson content and pedagogical methods.” — Michelle Malkin, syndicated columnist CON. “Common Core is completing the nationalization of our education system. It will ultimately place education under the control of one entity — the federal government. The federal government has gone from no control of local schools to great control. Ultimately, this administration will enforce compliance with federal curriculum standards. This goes beyond states rights. It gets into indoctrination. Society is being fundamentally transformed.”— Mary Kass, mother of three and founder of Greater New Orleans Tea Party
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cause they were developed in collaboration between state and education leaders
Common Core Standards posed to provide a consistent, clear under-
Core books. Our center takes no position on Common Core, but we urge caution in how Common Core will be used to evaluate teachers.” — Dr. Scott Baldridge of LSU, the lead writer of a federally-funded math curriculum PRO. “My fellow teachers and I are busy writing the curriculum we’ll use in our school this fall. It is a pretty overwhelming task.” — Debbie Parker, former math teacher at Parkview, now teaching in Ascension Parish NEUTRAL. “Common Core came from the governors’ sense of urgency. This is not coming from a party. It is bipartisan. Before we didn’t have a way to measure students’ progress in comparison with other states. This is not a curriculum but standards. Local school boards have authority to decide materials.” — Dr. Gary Jones of Louisiana Department of Education
The Gates Foundation is one of the primary groups funding Common Core. They are heavy funders of the Tides Foundation and Planned Parenthood, which funds abortion. I don’t want them writing the standards for curricula. Socialism happens incrementally. They’ll have you take a bite and give you the rest later. Please look at who is behind this, such as Bill Ayers. The teachers implementing this cannot know what is really behind it.” — Laura Bilderbach of Shreveport, mother and representative of Louisiana Power Coalition PRO. “We’re competing with the entire world. How will we know our students are ready without testing across state lines?” — Raymond Allmon of Stand for Children
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given high priority, particularly in the early high school unprepared to successfully pardards are intended to prepare students to -
on fewer topics, and ones that coherently
is whether the federal government will step in. Common Core is about setting standards, testing, and data. Yes, curriculum will be set locally but testing will be done nationally. That means ultimately curriculum will be set nationally. This was not brought to the legislature. Yes, we need to be able to compare our students with those in other states, but we need to be careful how we do it.” — State Sen. A. G. Crowe (R-Slidell) who authored a resolution against Common Core CON. “Parents have not been involved in the creation of these standards. Yet, the feds have tied funding to these standards.” — Beryl Amedee, Chairwoman, Terrebonne Parish Council CON. “This was put together behind closed doors. It was not vetted in public meetings or hearings. Contrary to their claims, it has not been ‘internationally bench-marked.’ In fact, it hasn’t been tested anywhere.” — Sandy McDade, state president, Eagle Forum PRO. “There’s a core of knowledge everyone should have. That’s what Common Core is about.” — Dr. James Cailett of the Patrick Taylor Foundation PRO. “If Common Core works, two things will happen. First, teachers will be empowered to develop their own concept of teaching without being bound to a statewide curriculum. Second, students will no longer be simply consumers of of information but will be writers, thinkers, and producers of information. We are committed to making Common Core work.” — Lee Ann Wall, state president, A+PEL NEUTRAL.
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CALENDAR Play ST. ELIZABETH’S KIDS FEST. On Saturday, August 17 from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. in the Gym Building at Lamar Dixon, join St. Elizabeth Physicians for a day full of health & wellness just for kids. There will be free health screenings, handson activities, exciting entertainment and demonstrations and a 1K Fun Run. For more information, call (225) 647-8511.
August 1 THURSDAY
MOM’S DAY OUT.
BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. Class at Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-8:30 p.m. and August 24 from 9:30-11:30 a.m. Includes informal, open discussions, a terials. Cost is $15. For more information, call (225) 231-5475 or visit www. womans.org.
Reservations required. For more information, call (225) 769-0005. SATCHMO SUMMER FEST. -
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a jazz mass and second-line parade more information, call (504) 522-5730. YOUNG WRITERS CLUB. From 5-6 love to write poems and stories will Library. Also on July 16. For more information, visit www.main.mylpl.info.com.
2 FRIDAY 14TH ANNUAL SCHOOL SUPPLY GIVEAWAY. Held at In His Hands BapBarrow. For more information, call (225) 413-6063.
A QUESTIONABLE SHAPE. 7 p.m. For more information, visit (225) 926-2600. BELLE OF BATON ROUGE CONCERT SERIES: WAYNE TOUPS. Free more information, visit www.belleofbatonrouge.com. FAMILY-FRIENDLY CONCERT. Hear -
formation, call (225) 763-2260. MOUNT PILGRIM BAPTIST CHURCH YOUTH TAKING JESUS BACK-TO-SCHOOL WORKSHOP. ing giveaway. For more information, call (225) 775-2740. MUSICAL PETTING ZOO. -
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GARDEN TOUR. Plantation State Historic Site, St. Francisville, at 10 a.m. For more information, call (888) 376-1867. MOM’S DAY OUT. See August 1. SATCHMO SUMMER FEST. See August 1.
at 10:30 a.m. For more information, visit www.ebrpl.com. REACH ONE CHILD TO SCHOOL EVENT. from 10 a.m.-1 p.m. For more information, call (225) 922-5593. SAND SCULPTURE. Free community
3 SATURDAY
a.m.-2 p.m. Prizes will be awarded. For more information, visit www.brec.org. SPECIAL DELIVERY. Woman’s Hospital from 1-5 p.m. and on August 13 and 15 from 6:30-8:30
ily activities. For more information, visit www.brec.org. A WALK WITH THE BIRDS. Led by a
cost is $35 couple. For more information, call (225) 231-5475 or visit www. womans.org.
Field guides and binoculars optional
Weston Broome and Councilwoman call (225) 359-9400. BACK TO SCHOOL EXPO. Held at
and entertainment. For more informaBACK TO SCHOOL GIVEAWAY. Held
(225) 654-0804. BATON ROUGE ARTS MARKET. 8 a.m.-noon. Special arts activities for artsbr.org GARDERE INITIATIVE 7TH ANNUAL BACK TO SCHOOL EXTRAVAGANZA. -
tion, email dpourso@brgov.com. JUNIOR LEAGUE OF BATON ROUGE HIGHLIGHTS RIVER ROAD RECIPES . information, visit (225) 766-1337. MEET THE MOUNTED POLICE PATROL UNIT. Bluebonnet Library at 10:30 a.m. to
GED PREPARATION. 4:30-6:30 p.m. today on social studon science. For more information, visit www.events.ebrpl.com. IDENTITY THEFT: A FINANCIAL SEMINAR.
more information, call (225) 274-4440. BABY AND YOU ORIENTATION TOUR. 6:30 and 8 p.m. and on August 18 at 1:30 and 3 p.m. Registration required. For more information, call (225) 2315475. BACK TO SCHOOL WITH LEARNING EXPRESS.
to see an animated movie. Feel free to SUMMER CHESS TOURNAMENT. istration required. For more information, call (225) 231-3750. TE ACHER APPRECIATION DAY. more information, visit w w w.officedepot.com. THE NIGHT OF THE COMET. at 1 p.m. For more information, call (225) 926-2600. YELP! BR FUNDRAISER. Held at Quarters from 11 a.m.-5 p.m. 30 perand billiards revenue will be donated to www.quartersbr.com. YOUR CHANGING BODY. a.m. Registration required. For more inSATCHMO SUMMER FEST. see August 1.
4 SUNDAY CIVITAN DANCE.
information, call (225) 243-4985. FREE FIRST SUNDAY. Free admission For more information, visit www.visitbatonrouge.com.
to perform CPR rescue and foreign body airway obstruction for infants and formation, visit www.brgeneral.org.
tions. For more information, call (225) 239-7864. SATCHMO SUMMER FEST. See August 1.
p.m. Registration required. For more information, call (225) 354-7050. MONDAY MOVIE @ FAIRWOOD. -
applies. For more information, call (225) 757-8905. BACK TO SCHOOL EVENT. Held at from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. and sponsored by
from 3-5 p.m. For more information, visit www.louisiana.jdrf.org. SUNDAY IN THE PARK FAMILY EVENT. -
5 MONDAY
tion, call (504) 589-4841 or visit www.
ALSEN SPORTS DAY.
JDRF’S WALK TO CURE DIABETES BATON ROUGE WALK KICKOFF AND DIABETES FUN DAY. Held at
more information, call (225) 924-9386. POTENTIAL ADOPTIVE PARENTS INFORMATIONAL MEETING. Spon-
K-9 DOGS. quired. For more information, call (225) 756-1160. KINDERGARTEN SING-A-LONG. istration required. For more information, call (225) 231-3750. THE STITCHER MIXER.
100B, at 5:30 pm. For more information, call (225) 753-5551. SHARK WEEK EXTRAVAGANZA.
Library today and August 20 at 7 p.m.
Registration required. For more information, call (225) 665-8118. TOUR FOR TWO (OR MORE). Free
7 WEDNESDAY
scarf. For more information, call (225) 231-3740.
For more information, visit www.brgeneral.org.
6 TUESDAY AFTER BABY COMES (ABC): BABY CARE AND PARENT CARE. A class at Woman’s Hospital and on August 8 from 6:30-9 p.m. or August 25 from 12:30-5:30 p.m. Cost is $35 per couple. For more information, call (225) 2315475 or visit www.womans.org. A MUSICAL STORYTIME.
songs. Registration required. For more information, call (225) 658-1860. CPR FOR FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
BATON ROUGE MOPS.
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more information, visit www.brvineyard. org or email mops@brvineyard.org. FIRST WEDNESDAY OPENING RECEPTION. information, visit www.batonrougegallery.org. FRESH IDEAS FOR THE FALL SEASON.
fall entertaining. For more information, call (225) 389-4967.
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CALENDAR Play PADDLE UP 3. River from 7:30 a.m.-noon for ages ten and older. Cost is $15. Pre-registration required. For more information, call (225) 272-9200.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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p.m. $30 per couple. For more information, visit www.brgeneral.org. JOB AND INTERVIEW SKILLS.
Americain for $10-15. For more information, call (225) 924-9841.
Library from 2-4 p.m. for teens and adults. For more information, call (225) 354-7050.
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A BABY IS COMING-SIBLING PREPARATION FOR CHILDREN. A dren ages 4-8 years from 11 a.m.-12:30
$5. Preregistration required. For more information, call (225) 231-5475. EL DORADO!
(225) 231-5475. 10 a.m. Registration required. For more information, call (225) 756-1150. FAMILY FUN LUAU. Held at Liberty
4 years old
MUSICAL PETTING ZOO. See August 3.
COUNCILWOMAN CHAUNA BANKS-DANIEL’S DISTRICT 2 FOR U BACK TO SCHOOL EXPO. Held at ter, 2013 Central Road, from 10 a.m.2 p.m. for more information, call (225) 389-8331. DOULAS AND COMFORT MEASURES FOR LABOR.
8 THURSDAY A YANKEE BLITZKRIEG STUMBLES: BATON ROUGE, AUGUST 5, 1862. For more information, visit www.westbatonrougemuseum.com.
JUST DANCE: DANCE OFF. Held at brary at 6 p.m. for teens. For more information, call (225) 665-8118. AFTER BABY COMES. See August 6.
9 FRIDAY BASICS OF BREASTFEEDING AND PUMP POINTERS. an’s Center for Wellness from 11:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. Cost is $20 person. For more information, call (225) 231-5475 or visit www.womans.org. LAFFERTY’S WAKE . today, August 10, 16 and 17 at 7:30
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more information, call (225) 216-7474. HOMESCHOOL RESOURCES @ THE LIBRARY. Center Library at 10:30 a.m. For more information, call (225) 389-4959.
CAJUN DANCE. p.m. Cost is $10 per person. For more information, visit www.batonrougecajundance.com. CHRISTMAS ORNAMENT FELTIES. a.m. Registration required. For more information, call (225) 389-4967.
KIDS’ LAB.
TYKE HYKE. Sibling Preparation for
a.m., noon and 2 p.m. and Sundays at
Hospital, 9-10:15 a.m. Cost is $25. For more information, call (225) 231-5475. LAFFERTY’S WAKE . See August 9. MUSICAL PETTING ZOO. See August 3.
activities, including slime and electric demo stations. Included in price of gram. For more information, visit www. lasm.org. LABOR OF LOVE. Class at Woman’s Center for Wellness from 9 a.m.-3 p.m. and August 11 from 1:30-4:30 p.m. and and 25 from 1-5 p.m. for couples want-
or's t i d e icks p Back to School Expo.
11 SUNDAY ARTICULATE ARTIST TALK.
Saturday Morning with Scooby. Wear your pajamas to West Baton
information, visit www.batonrougegallery.org. BOB SMILEY. Free comedic perfor-
www.westbatonrougemuseum.com. Duck, Duck Goose Day.
accepted. For more information, visit more information, call (225) 231-5475 or visit www.womans.org. LIFE IN THE GARDEN. -
Sickle Cell Community Walk/Run.
The Chris Shivers Pro Bull Riding Invitational.
Francisville, from 1-3 p.m. For more information, call (888) 677-2838. MAIN TEEN CREW. p.m. For more information, call (225) 231-3770. PROMISED LAND BAPTIST CHURCH BACK TO SCHOOL GALA. p.m. For more information, call (225) 922-5593. REDSTICK ROLLER DERBY. All Stars
Center on Saturday, August 24 at 7:30 p.m. For more information, visit www.brrivercenter.com. CASA KIDS DAY.
Zoo Zoom 5K.
ternoon of performances and activities
more information, visit www.brzoo.org.
visit at 2 p.m. For more information, visit www.casabr.org. PARTNERING TO KEEP CHILDREN FIRST. -
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SATURDAY ARTS FOR FAMILIES: WATERCOLOR.
tion, call (225) 925-4859. PERSEID METEOR SHOWER. View-
inspired by Walter Anderson. Free. For more information, visit www.lsumoa.org. SCRAPBOOKING FUN.
from 10 p.m.-2 a.m. For more information, visit www. www.brastro.org. THE PERSEID METEOR SHOWER: A LIVE PRESENTATION.
tion required. For more information, call (225) 658-1540. SECOND SATURDAY CHESS AND CHECKERS. -
7-8 p.m. For more information, visit www.lasm.org. KIDS’ LAB. See August 10. LABOR OF LOVE. See August 10. LAFFERTY’S WAKE . See August 9. SPLASH, ROLL AND RUN. See August 10.
more information, call (225) 658-1860. SPLASH, ROLL AND RUN. Held at
12 MONDAY
and older and on August 11 for ages -
BATON ROUGE ASTRONOMICAL SOCIETY MEETING.
by food and entertainment. For more information, visit www.pardsla.com. THE BASQUE INFLUENCE IN LOUISIANA. Louisiana Basque-American Society
p.m. Free for ages 14 and older. For more information, visit www. www. brastro.org.
Explore the dynamic world of chemistry in hands-on Kids’ Lab workshops for children ages 6-12 and a parent or caregiver. This exciting program is sponsored by BASF and offered at LASM on the 2nd and 4th Saturdays and Sundays of each month! SEPTEMBER ACTIVITY: HAPPY HANDS WORKSHOPS (45 MIN)
SATURDAYS | SEPT 14 & 28 10:15 AM, 12 PM & 2 PM
SUNDAYS | SEPT 15 & 29 1:30 PM & 3 PM
Free for LASM members and included in the price of general admission for non-members. Sign up on a first come, first served basis on the day of each program. Members may pre-register by noon Thursday prior to the program by contacting kidslab@ lasm.org. (Groups may schedule in advance.) One adult caregiver required for every four children.
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SPONSORED BY
istration required. For more information, call (225) 763-2283. TWILIGHT CLASSIC 5K AND 1 MILE FUN RUN. 6:30 p.m. For more information, visit
BAKER TEEN BOOKS TO MOVIES PART I. p.m. Registration required. For more information, call (225) 778-5960. ZOO AND ME MORNING. Program -
100 RIVER ROAD SOUTH D O W N TO W N B ATO N R O U G E
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CALENDAR Play guardian and $30 per session for two
PROBLEM BEHAVIORS.
Registration required. For more information, call (225) 775-3877. GED PREPARATION. See August 6. SPECIAL DELIVERY. See August 3.
p.m. and sponsored by Families HelpRegistration required. For more infor-
For more information, visit www.main. mylpl.info. PUZZLE AND GAME PARTY. -
14 WEDNESDAY
15 THURSDAY
Library at 4 p.m. to enjoy puzzles and games. Registration required. For more information, call (225) 778-5960. SPECIAL DELIVERY. See August 3.
MONEY, SAVINGS AND BUDGETS. Registration required. For more infor-
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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BEGINNING STAND UP PADDLE BOARD CLASSES. Held at Wampold
2012 Cover Kid 9 years old
Pre-registration required. For more information, call (225) 272-9200.
PSYCHO. atre at 8 p.m. Cost is $8.50. For more atre.org.
PUPPET SHOW AND FAMILY STORYTIME.
required. For more information, visit CORDUROY VISIT. p.m. For more information, visit (225) 926-2600. SUNSHINE SOCIAL. “Wild Wild West Ball.” Cost is $5. For more information, call (225) 216-7474. LAFFERTY’S WAKE . See August 9.
16 FRIDAY
17 SATURDAY
ALICE IN WONDERLAND TEA. Held
ANIME CLUB.
at 2 p.m. and August 17-18 at 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. Cost is $35 for adults and
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For more information, call (504) 5964773. AVENUE Q THE MUSICAL .
read, learn about Japanese culture, eat mation, visit www.main.mylpl.info. A NITE OF INDIAN CINEMA. Baton Rouge Bengali Association festival at -
days at 7:30 p.m., Sundays at 2 p.m. and August 24 at 2 p.m. For more information, visit www.brlt.org. BROKE-OLOGY. -
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COFFEE HOUR WITH DR. FELIX:
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Suite 200, from 10-11 a.m. and sponsored by Families Helping Families of
BATON ROUGE SICKLE CELL ANEMIA WALK. Held downtown at 8 a.m.
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CALENDAR Play Daily Ongoing Events All That Jazz: New Orleans Jazz and Heritage Festival Posters. www.lasm.org. Cuts for Kids.
$25. For more information, visit www. brscaf.org. BREASTFEEDING BASICS. Class at Woman’s Hospital from 1:30-5 p.m. -
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For more information, call (225) 291-4660.
common problems. Cost is $35. For more information, call (225) 231-5475 or visit www.womans.org.
Hunt for Treasure.
1-5 p.m. to join a fantasy football league and participate in a live draft. For more information, visit www. events.ebrpl.com. LANDMARKS AND MONUMENTS OF BATON ROUGE. Lecture by Hilda bonnet Library at 10 a.m. Sponsored by torical Society. For more information, visit www.batonrougegenealogy.org. LIGO SCIENCE SATURDAY. -
will be “Bubbles.” For more information, call (225) 686-3173 or visit www.ligo-la.
video presentations. For more information, visit www.westbatonrougemuseum.com. Inclusive Basketball League Registration.
16. Cost is $10 per player. For more information, visit www.brec.org. Large Films and Planetarium Shows. -
MO’NIQUE, THE QUEEN OF COMEDY AND FRIENDS. Performance at formation, visit www.brrivercenter.com. OWL STORY/CRAFT.
mation, visit www.lasm.org. Liberty Lagoon.
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tion, visit www.libertylagoon.com. CHILDBIRTH CLASS. perienced labor and delivery and post-
The Faith and The Fury: Noel Rockmore and His Patron. Walter Inglis Anderson: Everything I See Is New And Strange. more information, visit www.lsumoa.org.
cal Center from 8 a.m.-3:30 p.m. A $25 fee covers registration, materials and call (225) 755-4854. DANCING IN THE PARK AFTER DARK.
Weekly Ongoing Events
tion required. For more information, call (225) 924-9386. PADDLE UP 1. Held at Liberty Lagoon from 7:30-8:30 a.m. and 8:30-9:30 a.m. and 31. Cost is $10. Pre-registration required. For more information, call (225) 272-9200.
$30 per couple. For more information, call (225) 620-0500. DUCK, DUCK, GOOSE DAY.
Around Town TV Show. prizes. Cost runs $4-5. For more information, visit www.brec.org.
Baby Boot Camp at Mall of Louisiana.
PARK CLEANUP DAY. Volunteers are
ness program for pre- and post-natal women. For more information, call (225) 788-1200.
a.m.-2 p.m. For more information, call (888) 677-2364. ST. ELIZABETH KIDS FEST: A DAY OF HEALTH AND WELLNESS JUST FOR KIDS.
Belle of Baton Rouge Concert Series. Free concert Fridays at rouge.com.
p.m. For more information, visit www. STRANGE FRUIT. Scotlandville Library at 3 p.m. for adults
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unionla.com. FANTASY FOOTBALL LIVE DRAFT (TEEN LEAGUE).
Billie Holiday. For more information, call (225) 354-7550. THE AXMAN OF NEW ORLEANS. place, at 1 p.m. For more information, visit (225) 926-2600. THE SASSI STRIPPERS QUILT GUILD QUILTING DEMONSTRATION. at 10 a.m. For more information, call
(225) 756-1150. THE TUDORS ON FILM AND TELEVISION . Library at 2:30 p.m. Registration required. For more information, call (225) 756-1150. ALICE IN WONDERLAND TEA. See August 16. AVENUE Q THE MUSICAL . See August 16. BROKE-OLOGY. See August 16. LAFFERTY’S WAKE . See August 9.
formation, call (225) 344-8558 or visit
ATRE.
BECOME A PIECE OF THE PUZZLE @ THE LIBRARY. tion required. For more information, call (225) 778-5960. BEFORE THE BELL RINGS 20132014.
series. Free admission. For more information, visit www.lsumoa.org. BACK TO SCHOOL BOOKMARK MAKE AND TAKE. Library at 3 p.m. For more information, call (225) 231-3750. HELLO BABY! FINANCIALLY PREPARING FOR YOUR NEWBORN.
Registration required. For more infor-
Registration required. For more infor-
Springs Library at 3 p.m. and August strate tools of acting. Registration required. For more information, call (225) 274-4440.
AVENUE Q THE MUSICAL . See August 16.
18 SUNDAY
23 FRIDAY BREASTFEEDING TIPS FOR MOMS ON-THE-GO. 10:15-11:30 a.m. Cost is $20. For more information, call (225) 231-5475 or visit www.womans.org.
SEVEN BRIDES FOR SEVEN BROTHERS . p.m. Cost is $6. For more information,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
BINGO. a.m. for adults. For more information, call (225) 231-3740. BOOK BUNCH. ary Library at 4:30 p.m. will discuss
Mikaela A.
Martin H.
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CHRIS
4 years old
ALICE IN WONDERLAND TEA. See August 16. AVENUE Q THE MUSICAL . See August 16. BABY AND YOU ORIENTATION TOUR. See August 5.
19 MONDAY ALZHEIMER’S CAREGIVERS SUPPORT MEETINGS. information, call (225) 756-1150. GREAT EXPECTATIONS. Class at Woman’s Hospital from 6:30-9 p.m. nancy. Cost is $25 per couple. For more information, call (225) 924-8444.
istration required. For more information, call (225) 756-1150. THE BACKYARD ASTRONOMER AND OUR SUN. well Springs Library at 6 p.m. for teens and adults. For more information, call (225) 274-4440. ZZZZZZ YOUNG WRITERS CLUB. See August 1.
21 WEDNESDAY
SHIVERS
INVITATIONAL.
runs $50-65. For more information, visit www.feterougebr.com. MOONLIGHT PADDLE. Held at ages ten and older. Cost is $10 per boat. Pre-registration required. For more information, call (225) 272-9200. AVENUE Q THE MUSICAL . See August 16.
24 SATURDAY
p.m. for teens. For more information, call (225) 665-8118.
ARTY ON!
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ACT PRACTICE TEST.
PADDLE UP 4.
Library from 9:30 a.m.-1:30 p.m. Reg-
22 THURSDAY ART21 STORIES @ MANSHIP THE-
org. GEOCACHING.
more information, visit www.batonrougegreen.com HEALTHY HAPPY PETS.
tration required. For more information,
For more information, visit www.man-
20 TUESDAY
EDWIN MCCAIN TRIO WITH DAVID RYAN HARRIS.
um, Port Allen, from 10:30-11:30 a.m. followed by a documentary at noon. For more information, visit www.westbatonrougemuseum.com. GREEN PARADISE PARTY. Annual -
BACK-TO-SCHOOL FAMILY NITE BINGO.
ages 12 and older. Cost is $20. Preregistration required. For more information, call (225) 272-9200. POLTERGEIST.
p.m. $50 per couple. For more information, call (225) 763-4000 or visit www. brgeneral.org.
Rouge River Center today and August 24 at 7:30 p.m. For more information, visit www.brrivercenter.com. FOOD AND WINE FEST. Annual event
Prizes will be given. Registration required. For more information, call (225) 756-1150. COFFEE WITH KELLY: ENHANCING SOCIAL SKILLS THROUGH DRAMA AND ACTING. -
TEEN BOOK CLUB.
a.m. For more information, call (225) 354-7560. CHAIRISH THE CHILDREN. Annual live music and silent auctions featuring munity partners. For more information, visit www.lcm.org. CHILDBIRTH PREPARATION CLASS.
Registration required. For more information, call (225) 658-1860. SELF DEFENSE TACTICS.
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BROWN BAG LUNCH AND MOVIE.
at 6:30 p.m. For more information, visit www.PrincetonReview.com. ASK A LAWYER. Free legal counselserved basis. For more information, call (225) 756-1150. ASPIRING ACTORS INTERACTIVE WORKSHOP. Professional Acting
quired. For more information call (225) 924-9386. IBERVILLE AND MORE-COME WITH ME TO RIVER ROAD. Free 1 p.m. For more information, call (225) 687-7197. LEARN HOW TO MAKE AN APPLE SWAN. to cut a simple apple into a swan at -
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Weekly Ongoing Events
WORKSHOP. See August 24. AVENUE Q THE MUSICAL. See August 16.
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For more information, call (225) 768-9948. Friday Lunch Live.
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information, visit www.brgeneral.org. Friday Night Lecture Series.
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in price of general admission for nonmembers. For more information, visit www.lasm.org. Model Trains.
visit (225) 926-2600. LSU COMMUNITY SCHOOLS CLEANUPS.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Brent Joseph H.
BOUND
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gram. For more information, call (225) 226-3723. MUSIC TOGETHER DEMONSTRATION. Join local violist Sonia Feres-
14 years old
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
istration required. For more information call (225) 924-9386. PADDLE UP 2 AND FATHER/SON LASER TAG. Pre-registration required. For more information, call (225) 272-9200. Polos and Pearls. Held downtown St. food and music. For more information, call (225) 635-4224. SIK NIC CAR SHOW. -
Teddy H.
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KIDS’ LAB. See August 10. LABOR OF LOVE. See August 10. SIK NIC CAR SHOW. See August 24.
9 am.-5 p.m. and August 25 from 9 a.m.-4 p.m. For more information, visit
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
3473 or visit www.greaterbrrailroaders.com.
Kelli Holmes. 2012 Cover Kid
Red Stick Farmers Market. Held from 8 a.m.-noon on Saturdays
7 years old
Red Stick Mobile Farmers Market. brary on Wednesdays from 9-11 a.m. For more information, call (225) 354-7540.
27 TUESDAY BAKER TEEN BOOKS TO MOVIES PART II. 3 p.m. Registration required. For more information, call (225) 778-5960. LSU’S SCIENCE CAFÉ. -
Safari Night. and older. For more information, call (225) 775-3877 or visit www. brzoo.org.
STARTING A NONPROFIT.
Scrabble Nite @ Jones Creek.
more information, call (225) 389-4964.
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formation, call (225) 756-1150. Solar Viewing.
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and a Q and A. Food and door prizes available. For more information, call (225) 578-3870.
TEEN BOOK CLUB.
Story times.
information, call (225) 274-4470. TOASTED MARSHMALLOW STORY/CRAFT.
barnesandnoble.com. Tea Thursdays.
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DAY
dren ages 5-9. For more information, call (225) 389-4959. ZOOM, ZOOM, ZOO.
call (225) 769-0005. USABMX Races.
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tion, visit www.brec.org. Zachary Farmers Market.
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Zoo’s conservation programs. For more information, visit www.brzoo.org. AVENUE Q THE MUSICAL . See August 16. BODY BASICS FOR GIRLS. See August 1. CHRIS SHIVERS INVITATIONAL. See August 23. KIDS’ LAB. See August 10. LABOR OF LOVE. See August 10. PADDLE UP 1. See August 17.
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er Library from 6-7 p.m. for grades 8-12. For more information, call (225) 665-8118.
28 WEDNESDAY CARING FOR YOUR FAMILY’S TREASURES. 10:30 a.m.-noon. For more information, visit www.westbatonrougemuseum.com. MY PET DRAGONFLIES. Registration required. For more infor-
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fest.org.
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$5 or free for members. Free popcorn. For more information, visit www.ba-
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
grow and succeed in your business at
Asher G.
Registration required. For more information, call (225) 381-8434. BEGINNING STAND UP PADDLE BOARD CLASSES. See August 14. GED PREPARATION. See August 6.
2012 Cover Kid 6 years old
THE BROADWAY BOYS. Profession-
29 THURSDAY
30 FRIDAY
WILSON
BATON ROUGE CANSTRUCTION.
COLONIAL HOME SCHOOL DAY.
For more information, visit www.man-
teams of participants from area design, building and business communities build structures made entirely of cans
St. Francisville, from 9 a.m.-1 p.m. for pre-registered students. For more information, call (888) 677-2838.
SHRIMP AND PETROLEUM FESTIVAL. See August 29.
from 7-9 p.m. For more information, call (225) 936-5215 .
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Reagan H.
PHILLIPS.
Performance
31 SATURDAY EXPLORING ENTREPRENEURSHIP. International business consultant, entual International Business Solutions,
2012 Cover Kid 10 years old
Registration required. For more information, call (225) 756-1150. MOVIES LAWN. SHRIMP AND PETROLEUM FESTIVAL. -
AND
MUSIC
ON
THE
PADDLE UP 1. See August 17. SHRIMP AND PETROLEUM FESTIVAL. See August 29.
Upcoming Events 1 SEPTEMBER FREE FIRST SUNDAY. See August 4. MEGA FEST. See August 31. SHRIMP AND PETROLEUM FESTIVAL. See August 29.
2 SEPTEMBER
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
SHRIMP AND PETROLEUM FESTIVAL. See August 29.
Kendall W.
2012 Cover Kid
7 SEPTEMBER
7 years old
. Cost is
2013 BBQ COOK OFF. GROWING UP: GIRLS.
beginning at 5 a.m. and sponsored by -
Cost is $15. Pre-registration required. For more information, call (225) 621-
LSU VS. UAB. more information, visit www.lsusports.net. MUDDY MAYHEM. ing at 7:20 a.m. Runners must be 18 and older or accompanied by an adult. Afterwards enjoy live entertainment, required. For more information, visit BATON ROUGE ARTS MARKET. See August 3. JANE AUSTEN DAY. bon State Historic Site, St. Francisville, 1810 style dance. For more information, call (888) 677-2838. MEGA FEST. Festival by Street Legal more information, visit www.streetlegalriders.com. RECYCLED READS. only. For more information, call (225) 231-3741. 90
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