Woking and Sam Beare Hospice Bereavement Booklet

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The loss of a loved one can be a distressing time. This leaflet aims to provide some practical advice following a bereavement.

Registering the Death

When someone dies, the doctor who looked after them will need to complete a Medical Certificate of Cause of Death (Death Certificate). Sometimes they are required to discuss the death with the Coroner’s Office prior to writing the Death Certificate. When the Death Certificate is complete the Hospice will electronically send this onto the Medical Examiner’s Office (MEO).

You will receive a phone call from the MEO to confirm you can make an appointment to register the death.

You will need to attend a death registration appointment in person at the office you have selected.

To book an appointment visit the website: www.surreycc.gov.uk/birthdeath-and-ceremonies/death

Or you can call 0300 200 1002 (9am to 5pm, Monday to Friday, excluding bank holidays. Emergencies only at all other times)

The register offices for Surrey are in Camberley, Guildford, Leatherhead, Reigate or Weybridge.

Unless the death has been referred to the coroner, it is a legal requirement to register the death within five days.

Who can register the death?

 A relative of the deceased

 The person who is arranging the funeral

 A person present at the death

What

the Registrar needs to know

The Registrar will ask you to provide the following information:

 Date and place of death

 Name and surname of the deceased - this should be the name they were known as at the time of their death. You should also establish if they are known by any other name currently or previously.

 Gender of the deceased

 Maiden surname of woman who has been married or civil partnership

 Place of birth - town and county or only country if born outside UK.

 Occupation

 Marital status - this will be the marital status of the deceased at the time of his or her death.

 Spouse/civil partner’s name and surname

 Spouse/civil partner’s occupation

 Usual address

It would be helpful if you are able to locate the deceased’s NHS number, which can be found on their NHS card or prescription (however this is not essential).

It is essential that all information, names including spelling and dates are correct, as this is a legal document. If there are any errors in the registration, you will be required to apply for a formal correction, which will incur a charge.

 Date of birth

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What the Registrar will give you

The registrar will:

Issue the Certificate for Burial or Cremation [known as the Green Form] and email it directly to the Funeral Director, unless the coroner has issued an Order for Burial or a Certificate for Cremation already.

Register you for the Tell Us Once service and give you a reference number, enabling you to inform multiple local and central government departments of the death in one contact.

How much does it cost?

There is no charge for the death registration itself or the Tell Us Once registration.

Death Certificates

No death certificates are issued free of charge. The cost for each death certificate is £11. Payment can be made by debit/credit card. This information is correct when going to print but may be subject to change.

The Registrar will ask you to check all the information that they have recorded in the register. This is a legal document and therefore it is important that the registration is accurate.

You will need copies of the death certificate to give to organisations such as banks, building societies, mortgage companies, insurance companies and solicitors.

Funeral arrangements

Your loved one may have left specific instructions about their funeral and they might have discussed it or left instructions in their will.

Most people appoint a Funeral Director to make arrangements for the funeral and they can be contacted for advice even prior to registration. We do however advise that you do not book a firm date until you have received the Death Certificate.

We are not able to recommend individual Funeral Directors but can give you information about directors in the local area, you can also contact the National Association of Funeral Directors www.nafd.org.uk.

All Funeral Directors should be able to give you a detailed estimate of all charges, which can vary considerably and remember to check if your loved one had a funeral plan in place.

They will also be able to guide you through how to organise donations to a charity in lieu of flowers as many families and friends now choose to do.

Help with funeral costs

If you are on a low income and need help to pay for a funeral you can find out more information on the government website at www. gov.uk/funeral-payments.

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Practical Information

The government website www.gov.uk has a wealth of practical information on what to do when someone dies. It includes information on probate and inheritance and bereavement allowance.

Below is a check list of people you may need to notify who are not on the Tell Us Once Service:

 Bank/Building Society

 Private Pension Providers

 Solicitor

 Household Utilities

 Royal Mail Deliveries

 Clubs/Associations

 Credit card companies

 Employer (former employer)

 Insurance

 Rental Companies

 Mortgage providers

 Trade union

 Newsagent/Milkman

 Library/Books on Wheels

 Online shopping accounts

 Mobile phone companies

The Bereavement Register is a free service to reduce direct mail sent to those who have died www. thebereavementregister.org. uk or telephone 020 7089 6403 Automated phone line registration service: 0800 082 1230

The Bereavement Advice Centre is a free helpline and web-based information service which can also help with practical information and sign-posting to other services.

Telephone 0800 634 9494

www.bereavementadvice.org

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Grieving and remembering

At Woking & Sam Beare Hospice we aim to continue to provide care and support through our Bereavement Services.

We offer counselling for both adults and children up to a year after a bereavement. Our counsellors are specially trained to help with the feelings and difficulties which

are so often associated with bereavement.

If you would like to speak to a member of our Counselling Team please contact our Counselling Services Manager on 01483 881750 or email

counsellors@wsbh.org.uk

Light Up a Life

Light up a Life is a time for families and friends to come together to celebrate and remember the lives of love ones.

We set aside time to reflect and look back on the lives of those loved ones who are no longer with us and remember the joy they brought to our own lives.

We invite those who have had a loved one cared for by the Hospice and of our local community to write and add their own personal messages of remembrance to the Memory Tree.

The date of our Light up a Life service varies slightly each year but usually takes place at the beginning of December.

For the most up to date information on Light up a Life please visit our website wsbh.org.uk/lual or call 01483 881771 to speak to a member

Light up a Life takes place in November and December Page 7

Woking & Sam Beare Hospice and Wellbeing Care

Goldsworth Park Centre Woking Surrey GU21 3LG

wsbh.org.uk

Reference: Woking & Sam Beare Hospice Bereavement Book Review Date: April 2027

Publication Date: April 2024

Registered Charity No’s. 1082798/1115439

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This information is correct when going to print but may be subject to change.

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The Hospice would like to thank RNS Publications for publishing this information and the following pages contain some features from services o ering their help at this time.

Whilst the Hospice is grateful of their support it does not endorse or recommend any of the services that they provide.

STOPPING JUNK MAIL

It is distressing to deal with a bereavement and unsolicited mail can be insensitive and destructive during a grieving process.

By scanning the below QR code on your phone or visiting www.stopmail.co.uk, we are able to securely share this information with mailing organisations and under the Data Protection Act the information will not be used for any other purpose.

Other benefits reduce the possibility of identity fraud, such as assumed identity and you will only have to supply the information once.

This publication has been jointly developed between ourselves and the hospice. We hope that it has been or will be of help at this time and we welcome any comments or suggestions that you may have.

Please contact us either by phone, email or by post. RNS Publications, Trium House, Unit 15, Broughton Way, Whitehills, Blackpool FY4 5QN

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