LIVE LOVE AND EAT Heal t h | Wellbeing| Nutrition
ISSUE 80 NOVEMBER 2022/ ISSN 2689-7741
For this I am grateful......
NUTRITION FOR HEALTH CONDITIONS
WHAT IS THE PELVIC FLOOR AND WHAT IS GOING ON "DOWN THERE"?
National Authors Day
4 Key Tips to help you do uncomfortable things Post - rain High Creating the perfect self care routine during the holidays
6 Tips to stay healthy and not gain weight during the holidays Total Lunar Eclipse in Taurus and what you can expect according to your sign
HOW TO STOP FEELING GUILTY FOR EATING OR NOT EXERCISING
The Joy of moving around
CONTACT US LIVE LOVE AND EAT 4497 Wyndtree Drive #212 West Chester Ohio 45069
New Stories, New writers
NOTE FROM EDITOR
513 2758081 bernadine@liveloveandeatmagazine.com www.liveloveandeatmagazine.com
It is the month of November. November is all about gratitude! Gratitude is noticing and appreciating good things in the world. I am grateful for my family, my business, and being healthy. I am also grateful for the challenges I had to face this year and for turning challenges into success. And then as always, I am grateful for YOU as a reader! Thank you for all your support throughout the year and for making this magazine a success. We are working hard on getting the magazine out in print in Barnes & Noble. My goal was and is to reach even more people that are struggling with their health, nutrition, and spirituality. We at Live Love and Eat strive to reach out and touch all people with a the message of love and wellness. In this issue, we have amazing articles. If it is your health, fitness, or goals we have you covered. Be sure to check out our recipe section for healthy Fall recipes. Be sure to catch up with episodes on our podcast. The Live Love and Eat Show. New episodes coming soon. We partnered with Energy Bits, Get a 20% discount by using the code: LiveLoveEat. https://www.energybits.com/ Kick back, relax and soak up some quality time with Live Love and Eat
We hope that you enjoy this issue. BERNADINE OTTO Editor-In-Chief
EDITORIAL BERNADINE OTTO Editor-In-Chief
SUBSCRIPTIONS SUBSCRIBE ONLINE https://www.liveloveandeatmagazine.co m/order-your-copy
LIVE LOVE AND EAT
WHAT IS INSIDE ISSUE 80
FUN IDEAS FOR A HAPPY THANKSGIVING
07
RECIPES Looking for a healthy recipe for Fall? We have you covered. Enjoy these simple recipes.
79 MEET OUR CONTRIBUTORS
05
All articles are written by health coaches and professionals whom have all overcome their own personal life and health challenges.
LIVE LOVE AND EAT
ARTICLES 08 What is the pelvic floor and what is going on "down there"? 14 Nutrition for health conditions 28 Total Lunar eclipse in Taurus and what you can expect according to your sign 37 National Authors Day
ARTICLES 41 For this I am grateful..... 43 The Joy of moving around 46 How to stop feeling guilty for eating or not exercising
ARTICLES 59 6 Tips to stay healthy and not gain weight during the holidays 62 Four key tips to help you do uncomfortable things 66 Creating the perfect self-care routine during the holidays 77 Post-rain high
MEET OUR CONTRIBUTORS 4497 Wyndtree Drive , West Chester 45069 513 275 8081 | bernadine@liveloveandeatmagazine.com
Managing Editor Bernadine Otto Contributor Jace Jacobs
Bernadine Otto
Contributor Judy Brown
Jace Jacobs
Judy Brown
Victoria Kleinsman
Dr. Danielle Litoff
Sherry Parks
Contributor Victoria Kleinsman Contributor Tracy Markley Contributor Maayan & Gal Contributor Dr. Danielle Litoff
Tracy Markley
Maayan&Gal
Contributor Sherry Parks Contributor Linda Watson Contributor Ingrid HarmErnandes
Linda Watson
Ingrid HarmErnandes
Sharon Clare
Contributor Sharon Clare Book feature Tracy Markley Recipes Bernadine Otto
4497 WYNDTREE DRIVE, WEST CHESTER, OHIO, 45069 513 2758081 BERNADINE@LIVELOVEANDEATMAGAZINE.COM WWW.LIVELOVEANDEATMAGAZINE.COM
Copyright © 2022 Bernadine Otto. All rights reserved. Published by Live Love and Eat
THANKSGIVING DAY Thanksgiving is celebrated each year on the third Thursday of November. Americans have the chance on this day to gather with friends and family over a big meal.
NOVEMBER FLOWER The flower for the month of November is the chrysanthemum. The word chrysanthemum comes from the greek words Chrys and anthemum , meaning golden flower. In the language of flowers, the chrysanthemum is considered to symbolize honesty, joy and optimism.
REMEMBARANCE DAY We honor those who have served in the United States Armed Forces, which falls annually on November 11th.
Fun Ideas for a Happy Thanksgiving
Make it a Potluck Get active Get crafting Watch Football Have a family photo shoot Dig out your Christmas Decorations Volunteer at a soup kitchen Create a black Friday List
Remember to give thanks on Thanksgiving! Gratitude is linked to our emotional and physical health. It’s important to stop and practise gratitude for all of the good and positive things that have happened to us and to say thanks to those who have made them happen.
What IS the pelvic floor and what is going on “Down There”
WRITTEN
BY
INGRID
HARM-ERNANDES
That is one of the most common questions I get as a pelvic floor physical therapist. There is so much information out there and it can often be quite confusing. It can be equally confusing to understand how the pelvic floor is connected to many pelvic conditions. The pelvic floor is actually a group of muscles called the levator ani. They run from the sits bones (literally the bony part of the pelvis you sit on) on each side of the pelvis as well as from the front of your pelvic bone to your tailbone. You can picture them as a hammock or sling at the base of your pelvis forming a bowl shape. Your levator and muscles are like any other skeletal muscle in your body and they behave just like any other muscle. They can be tight, weak, sore, lacking in endurance, unable to react quickly, or lacking in coordination. They can be what is called overactive or hypertonic (i.e., taut or holding too much tension) or underactive or hypotonic (i.e., loose, weak, or low tone/tension). This hammock-like muscle group is responsible for many bodily functions. These functions include pelvic content support, bladder and bowel function, and sexual function. It also works in concert with the rest of your pelvis and body creating overall stability and control of our everyday motions.
The levator ani actually contains three layers of muscles, each with a slightly different function. The outermost layer of the pelvic region is comprised of the bulbocavernosus, ischiocavernosus, and superficial transverse peroneal. The bulbocavernosus is particularly important during penetrative vaginal sex because it surrounds the vaginal canal. Because it surrounds the vaginal canal, it acts as the “guardian of the vaginal canal”. If it is tight, it can potentially cause pain with intercourse or inserting a tampon. The middle muscular layer of the pelvis contains the sphincters (urethra and anus). These special types of muscle tissue help close or open your urethra, the tube through which urine flows from your bladder to the outside of your body when you urinate. If the sphincter is weak, your risk of urinary leakage increases and if it is tight, you may have difficulty getting your urine stream started. You also have a sphincter at your anus. If this area is weak, your risk of fecal incontinence increases and if it is overactive, you may experience constipation.
The innermost muscular layer (puborectalis/ pubococcygeus, iliococcygeus, and coccygeus) of the pelvis is very important to the overall function of the pelvis. These muscles help support our entire pelvis every time we lift, carry, during pregnancy, and even when we cough and sneeze. It coordinates with the hip, back and abdominal muscles to coordinate all our core activities.
It is now easy to see that the pelvic floor has significant and numerous responsibilities, but we pay little attention to it. For many years there has been a gap in knowledge and little attention to the musculoskeletal system of the pelvis and that the musculature of the pelvic floor and pelvis is indeed strongly connected to many pelvic diagnoses. Unfortunately, this can lead to delayed diagnosis and care. Weakness, tension, and poor functioning muscles anywhere in the body can lead to reduced ability to carry out daily tasks. The pelvic floor is no different. What might be some of the conditions that can occur when the pelvic floor is not functioning correctly? Pelvic pain is a broad term that can be used to describe a very large category of conditions. It can be a condition in its own right or a symptom of another condition. Chronic pelvic pain (also known as persistent pelvic pain) is defined as pelvic pain that lasts for six months or more. Literature has shown that approximately 85 % of people with chronic pelvic pain have a pelvic musculoskeletal origin to the pain. Interstitial Cystitis (IC) or Bladder Pain Syndrome (BPS) is a condition that causes bladder pressure, bladder pain, and sometimes more widespread pelvic pain.
Imagine the feeling you have when your bladder is full. Now imagine experiencing this feeling much of the time, but it is painful, rather than just a feeling of pressure. Pudendal Neuralgia is when compression occurs at the pudendal nerve. One possible cause of this can be tight muscles and fascia that can create compression on the nerve. The pudendal nerve runs from the back of the pelvis through the deepest part of the pelvic floor near the base of the penis or vagina. Symptoms can include a tingling or sharp pain, discomfort, or numbness in the pelvic floor or genitals. Pudendal Neuralgia can make activities such as sex, sitting, and bike riding difficult or painful. Endometriosis is defined as the growth of tissue that is similar to the uterine lining but it grows outside of the uterus (womb) in females. Scar tissue can develop following an injury or surgery and can create compression or pressure on other structures like muscles and nerves and create a wide variety of symptoms. Sexual Dysfunction is a term used to describe a number of symptoms and as a diagnosis, it can be confusing and frightening. To add to the confusion, there are both older terms and newer terms for the same diagnosis that you might see on the Internet and in professional papers. For example, you might see dyspareunia (pain with sex), vaginismus (involuntary muscle spasms in the vagina), penetration disorder, genito-pelvic pain, and erectile dysfunction.
They can all dramatically change the life of a person suffering from these conditions. Hormones and changes in organs are often thought to be the cause but again, tight muscles can be the cause. Obstetric Pelvic Pain occurs during or after pregnancy. It is usually caused by overstretched muscles, ligament laxity, and irritation (which leads to reduced joint support) strained muscles, and muscle weakness at the pelvic floor, pelvis, or both. Post-Partum or fourth trimester (after pregnancy) issues are a time period when there is an increased risk of pelvic floor issues but, unfortunately, there are a lot of assumptions that what occurs after giving birth is “normal” for a woman. Urinary and fecal incontinence, and back and pelvic girdle pain are all not normal. The greatest amount of healing from delivery is in the first six weeks, but the body continues to heal for months later and requires attention and care for much longer than the six-week time period. Pelvic physical therapy can treat these conditions easily and prevent issues later in life.
Hysterectomy is thought of as a surgery to resolve uterine issues and for many women can eliminate pain related to fibroids, cancers, and heavy bleeding and cramping. What is often not considered is that there can be a reduction in function before and after surgery related to muscle weakness or muscle and fascial restrictions in and around the pelvis. Hip/Low Back Pain is commonly thought of as just an orthopedic condition. It can, however, be a pelvic floor issue. If the support from the pelvic floor is not present then the entire core can suffer and as a result back pain, hip pain, and more can occur. Prostatitis is the swelling and inflammation of a small walnut-sized gland in males called the prostate. The prostate sits just below the bladder. Symptoms of prostatitis can include difficulty urinating, pain in the groin, and pain in the pelvic area. The muscles of the pelvic floor can increase or cause symptoms if they are not functioning well. Cancer care can lead to many changes throughout the body that are a result of treatments (e.g., radiation and chemotherapy) that are necessary to shrink or eliminate cancer cells. Cancers of the pelvic region, vagina, ovaries, uterus, and prostate, as well as breast cancer, are all examples of cancers that can increase the risk of pelvic pain and other pelvic conditions. This is often due to changes in hormones, the impact of medications necessary to treat cancer, and changes in activity levels, which in turn can impact the ability of the pelvic floor to function. Although treatment is usually focused on the area of cancer the pelvic floor should not be ignored as this can significantly impact the quality of life.
Sphincteric conditions can include urinary incontinence: losing urine (pee) when you don’t want to. This can be losing urine during sneezing, coughing, or jumping and during bladder urgency. Fecal incontinence is an involuntary loss of bowel matter (poop) and can occur with urgency, straining, sneezing, and even with unknown cause. Constipation is not always due to just the bowels but can also be a pelvic floor issue. Irritable bowel syndrome can equally be impacted by the pelvic floor.
There are many more conditions that can occur secondary to pelvic floor dysfunction. These are the most common someone will encounter. There is much more detail in “The Musculoskeletal Mystery: How to solve your pelvic floor symptoms” on all of this and more. Basic knowledge of what the pelvic floor and pelvic musculoskeletal system are, and how they should function, can go a long way toward understanding what happens when these muscles are not functioning well. Additionally, knowing what symptoms to look for and where they are coming from can help to alleviate concerns. Lastly, being able to understand and know about muscles of the pelvis and pelvic floor correctly will help you— and hopefully empower you—to talk with your medical practitioner, particularly a pelvic physical therapist, if you need treatment. This can get you the care you or your loved one needs more quickly and effectively.
Ms. Harm-Ernandes has been a physical therapist for over 38 years and began specializing in Women’s Health over 26 years ago. She recently retired clinically from Duke University Health System where she treated a wide variety of pelvic patients in the Urogynecology and Physical Therapy clinics. She was the Co-Director and a mentor for the Women’s Health Physical Therapy Residency Program, responsible for the Women’s Health team program development, and participated in PFDN research projects. She is board certified in Women’s Health (WCS) and Pelvic Bloor Biofeedback. She has served on APTA SACE committee and various committees for AUGS including serving as the Chair and Vice Chair for the APPTAH SIG and AUGS APP conference committee. She enjoys presenting the importance of recognizing and assessing the pelvic musculoskeletal system. She has presented on pelvic physical therapy-related topics including sexual dysfunction, prolapse, pelvic pain, vulvar pain, urinary and fecal incontinence, and the mysteries of the musculoskeletal system for various organizations and societies nationally and internationally. She published “Assessment of the Pelvic Floor and Associated Musculoskeletal System”, in the FPMRS journal in December 2021. In 2021 she published her book, “The Musculoskeletal Mystery: How to solve your pelvic floor symptoms”. She was featured in the summer issue of Bella Magazine and has been a guest on national and international podcasts. Her goal is to provide individuals with the knowledge they need to get proper pelvic care and for everyone to realize that pelvic conditions are common but not normal. Instagram: harmernandes LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ingrid-harm-ernandes-5057773b/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ingrid.harmernandes.71/
NUTRITION FOR HEALTH CONDITIONS Written By Sharon Clare In this article, we are going to offer nutritional advice on several health conditions including heart disease and strokes, cancer, osteoporosis, and diabetes. Heart disease and stroke Heart disease and stroke are major causes of death worldwide. In the UK, heart disease by itself is the biggest single cause of death; with 15% of male and 10% of female deaths in 2014. The number of deaths from heart disease has been decreasing in recent years but it is still one of the major causes of premature death (before 75 years) in the UK and a leading cause of ill health. But the good news is it is largely preventable! Eating a healthy diet can help reduce your risk of heart disease and stroke. The condition that causes most heart attacks and strokes are known as atherosclerosis Atherosclerosis is the build-up of fatty material inside arteries (blood vessels) like the coronary arteries that supply blood to the heart. The build-up of fatty material causes a narrowing in the artery, and as these become more severe, they can restrict the flow of blood so enough blood cannot reach the heart. This can cause the symptoms of angina (such as chest pain and shortness of breath). If the fatty material breaks down (or ruptures), a blood clot can form, which can completely block the artery and lead to a heart attack. Strokes occur if such ruptures happen in arteries in the brain, stopping the flow of blood. Who is at risk? There are several risk factors for atherosclerosis and heart disease. A risk factor is something that that increases your chance of getting a disease.
High blood pressure (hypertension) Having high blood pressure puts strain on your heart that can lead to your blood vessels becoming damaged, making them more at risk of heart disease. Smoking Quitting smoking is the single best thing you can do for your heart health. High blood cholesterol High levels of cholesterol (a type of fatty substance) in the blood can build up in the walls of the coronary arteries, restricting blood flow to the heart and the rest of the body. Diabetes The increased levels of blood glucose that can occur in type 1 and type 2 diabetes can damage the coronary arteries, increasing the chances of heart disease developing. Lack of exercise Not exercising regularly increases the chance of high blood pressure, higher cholesterol levels, and being overweight and obese. These are all risk factors for developing heart disease. Being overweight or obese Research shows that being overweight or obese can raise your blood cholesterol levels, increase your blood pressure and increase your risk of developing type 2 diabetes. Family history of heart disease You are considered to have a family history of cardiovascular disease (CVD) if your father or brother was under age 55 years when they were diagnosed with CVD, or your mother or sister was under age 65 years when they were diagnosed with CVD. Ethnic background For the South Asian population (Bangladeshis, Indians, and Pakistanis), and people with an African Caribbean background, CVD risk can be higher than for the rest of the UK population. Age Your risk of developing heart disease increases with age. Gender Men are more likely to develop heart disease earlier than women.
The more risk factors you have, the greater your personal risk. But there are many things you can do to reduce your overall risk and keep your heart healthy. It’s never too late to start! Even though you cannot do anything to change some of these risk factors, there are several lifestyle behaviors that put you at increased risk that can be changed. The main ones are: smoking a poor diet excessive alcohol consumption lack of physical activity. These factors contribute to the risk of obesity, type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol levels, which are some of the strongest risk factors for heart disease.
Top tips for good heart health Cut down on saturated fat and replace it with unsaturated fats – for example, swap butter and coconut oil for rapeseed, olive, and sunflower oils and spreads made from these. Have fish twice a week – one should be an oily type (such as mackerel, salmon, or sardines). Watch your salt intake – aim for less than 6g a day. Check the nutrition label on foods, and do not add salt in cooking or at the table. Include high-fiber and wholegrain foods in your diet like wholegrain breakfast cereals, wholewheat pasta, and pulses (such as lentils and beans). Fruit and vegetables are good fiber providers too. Give up smoking – this is one of the best things you can do to protect your heart. Keep active – aim for at least 150 minutes a week (around 30 minutes a day, five days a week) of moderate physical activity. Do not drink to excess – adults should drink no more than 14 units a week, with several alcohol-free days each week. Aim for a healthy weight.
Maintaining a healthy body weight Maintaining healthy body weight and shape can significantly protect your heart. People who are overweight or obese tend to have a higher risk of certain risk factors for heart disease, such as increased levels of blood cholesterol, high blood pressure, and an increased risk of developing type 2 diabetes. As well as body weight (measured as body mass index [BMI]), your shape can affect your health risk. If you are overweight and carry fat around the waist (apple-shaped), you are at greater risk than if you carry fat on the hips and thighs (pear-shaped).
If you are a man, your chance of developing health problems is higher if your waist measurement is more than 94cm (37inch), and higher still if it is more than 102cm (40inch). If you are a woman, your chance of developing health problems is higher if your waist measurement is more than 80cm (31.5inch), and higher still if it is more than 88cm (34.5inch). Type 2 diabetes prevalence is strongly associated with ethnicity. The International Diabetes Federation and South Asian Health Foundation agree that men from South Asian and Chinese ethnic groups are at increased risk of type 2 diabetes if their waist size is greater than 90cm. Together with being physically active, eating a healthy, balanced diet will help you maintain healthy body weight as well as provide your body with all the vitamins, minerals, and other nutrients it needs to keep healthy. Read on for top tips for eating to keep your heart healthy!
Reducing the risk of cancer In this article, you will find information for those who are interested in knowing how they can help reduce their risk of cancer. If you are a new mum, then breastfeeding may help to protect you and your baby from the risk of certain cancers later in life. Breastfeeding reduces the mother's risk of breast cancer. Evidence also suggests that being breastfed may protect children against being overweight and obese, which in turn reduces their risk of cancer in the future. Top tips for reducing your risk of cancer Eat a healthy, balanced diet – try to eat plenty of fruit and vegetables and include high-fiber and wholegrain foods in your diet like wholegrain breakfast cereals, wholewheat pasta, and pulses (such as lentils and beans), nuts, and seeds. Keep track of your red and processed meat intake – if you on average eat more than 90g (cooked weight) of red and processed meat a day (that’s around 600g a week) cut down to 70g a day (that’s less than 500g a week). Watch your salt intake – aim for less than 6g a day. Check the nutrition label on foods, choose reduced salt versions of foods, and do not add salt in cooking or at the table. Maintain a healthy weight – being overweight or obese is the second biggest preventable cause of cancer after smoking. If you need help losing weight speak to your GP for advice on the support that is available to you. Keep active – aim for at least 150 (2 hours and 30 minutes) minutes a week of moderate activity – that’s the type of activity where you raise your heartbeat and sweat but you are still able to talk. This can be fast walking, dancing, or even housework or gardening if you put enough brisk activity into it! Drink in moderation – try to drink no more than 14 units a week, with several alcohol-free days each week. Give up smoking – smoking is the biggest preventable cause of cancer
Cancer risk It is estimated that healthier diets could help prevent 1 in 10 cancers in the UK. The strongest dietary links are with cancers of the digestive tract – mouth, food pipe (gullet or esophagus), stomach, and bowel (colon). Each year in the UK, more than 331,000 people are diagnosed with cancer. The four most common cancers are breast, prostate, lung, and bowel (colorectal) which make up over half of all these cases. It is estimated that 1 in 2 people will develop cancer at some point in their lives. Many people are affected by cancer, either directly, or because they know somebody who has been affected by the disease. Unfortunately, there are no proven ways to prevent cancer, but the good news is there are some lifestyle measures you can take to help reduce your risk. Cancer is a complex disease, and the risk of developing cancer depends on a combination of factors. Some risk factors you cannot change like your genes but other aspects of your life you can control, for example: smoking overexposure to the sun or sunbeds drinking too much alcohol being overweight or obese lack of physical activity For more information on genetic and other causes of cancer see the Cancer Research UK website. Tobacco is the single biggest avoidable cause of cancer in the world. Smoking causes over a quarter of cancer deaths in the UK and nearly 1 in 5 cancer cases. Obesity is the second biggest preventable cause of cancer after smoking. But eating a healthy, balanced diet can play a key role in reducing your risk of cancer. Eating a healthy, balanced diet Overall, research suggests a link between healthy eating patterns and a reduction in cancer risk, rather than any specific foods, vitamins, or nutrients. There is good evidence that a healthy, varied diet based on the principles of the Eatwell Guide may help to lower your risk of developing certain cancers. Try to:
There are recommendations on certain aspects of the diet and cancer risk, for example, eating too much red and processed meats and salt, may increase the risk of developing some cancers like colorectal cancer and stomach cancer. While eating plenty of foods, such as fruits, vegetables and foods high in fibre, may help reduce the risk of some cancers like mouth, throat and colorectal cancer. Diet and fibre There is strong evidence that eating plenty of foods containing fibre can reduce the risk of bowel cancer. However, many people are not eating enough fibre. On average, adults in the UK get about 18g a day of fibre but should aim for at least 30g a day. Fibre is found in foods that come from plants. Foods high in fibre include wholegrain pasta, bread and breakfast cereals. Pulses, fruit and vegetables, nuts and seeds also contain fibre. A healthy, balanced diet can provide enough fibre to meet the recommendations, but you will need to eat your 5 A DAY, beans and pulses, and other high-fibre foods like whole grains and potatoes in skins. Eating foods high in fibre may also help you to feel fuller for longer, which can help if you are trying to lose weight. Fruit and vegetables Several studies suggest that eating plenty of fruit and vegetables may help reduce the risk of certain cancers. It has been suggested that the beneficial effect of fruit and vegetables might be due to the package of nutrients that they contain such as vitamins, minerals and fibre. They also contain substances called phytochemicals (phyto means 'plant' so these are chemicals naturally found in plants), which may help to protect cells in your body from damage that can lead to cancer.
Eating 5 A DAY Different fruit and vegetables provide different amounts and combinations of nutrients so it’s important to eat a wide variety of different types of at least five portions (1 portion = 80g) of fruit and vegetables each day. Fruit and vegetables are also low in energy (calories) and high in fiber, so could help to prevent weight gain. This is important as obesity is a major risk factor for cancer. Red and processed meat Meat is a good source of protein, vitamins, and minerals, such as iron and zinc, and can be enjoyed as part of a healthy, balanced diet. However, evidence suggests that high consumption of red and/or processed meat is linked with an increased risk of bowel cancer – the evidence is stronger for processed meat. But to put it into perspective, the overall risks of developing bowel cancer because of your consumption of red and/or processed meat are small compared to other factors linked to cancer such as smoking. 'Red meat refers to beef, pork, and lamb. 'Processed meat' refers to meat preserved by smoking, curing or salting, or addition of chemical preservatives, and includes bacon, sausages, salami, and ham.
Salt A high intake of salt and salted foods is linked with an increased risk of stomach cancer. Our intake of salt should be less than 6g (2.4g sodium) a day. On average, people in the UK consume more salt than is recommended. Three-quarters of the salt we eat is already in everyday foods such as bread, ham and bacon, sauces, gravies, and ready meals. So use the information available on food labels to help you identify which foods are high in salt. Dietary supplements If you have low levels of particular nutrients, you may need to take dietary supplements, and your GP may prescribe particular nutritional supplements in certain situations. For healthy individuals, nutritional needs should be met through diet alone, rather than relying on supplements (although vitamin D should be considered by the population in winter months). Dietary supplements are not recommended for cancer prevention. In a review of the evidence, some studies suggested certain high-dose supplements seem to protect against cancer, but others seemed to increase cancer risk. This research was done on specific groups of people and not on the public so making recommendations on the benefits or risks of supplements for everyone is not possible. Therefore, for most people, eating a healthy, balanced diet is a better way of reducing your cancer risk than taking supplements.
Turmeric and cancer The spice, turmeric, popular in South Asian cuisine, has been associated with cancer prevention and treatment. Research has shown that an association between low rates of certain types of cancer and countries where people eat curcumin at levels of about 100 to 200mg a day over long periods of time, although the reasons for this could be because of other factors in these countries. Some laboratory-based studies have shown that curcumin, the active ingredient in turmeric, at high enough doses can kill cancer cells and prevent more from growing. However whilst these studies are promising a larger number of good quality clinical trials are needed in humans before we will know if turmeric has any potential benefit, In the meantime turmeric should not be used instead of cancer treatment but can be enjoyed in a curry as part of a healthy, balanced diet. Maintaining a healthy weight Being overweight or obese is the second biggest preventable cause of cancer after smoking and is estimated to cause 18,100 cancer cases each year in the UK. Worryingly, many people are unaware of the link between obesity and cancer. Being overweight or obese can increase your risk of developing cancers of the esophagus (the tube leading from your mouth to your stomach), stomach, bowel, pancreas, endometrium (lining of the womb), ovaries, prostate, kidney, liver, gallbladder, and breast (in post-menopausal women). Try to make sure your body mass index (BMI) stays within the healthy range of 18.5 to 24.9. This can be done by eating a healthy, varied diet and being physically active every day Staying physically active As well as helping to control your weight research shows that being active or doing exercise has a direct role in preventing some cancers like bowel, womb (endometrium) and breast cancer. Being active can also help to protect against cancers that are linked to being overweight and obese.
Physical activity recommendations for health recommended that we do moderate aerobic intensity physical activity such as cycling or fast walking, for at least 150 minutes over the week in bouts of 10 minutes or more. Moderate activity will raise your heart rate and make you breathe faster and feel warmer. One way to tell if you're working at a moderate level is if you can still talk, but can't sing the words to a song. Or we can take part in 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity, such as running or a game of singles tennis, every week. Vigorous activity makes you breathe hard and fast. If you're working at this level, you won't be able to say more than a few words without pausing for breath. Physical activities to improve muscle strength that works all major muscle groups (legs, hips, back, abdomen, chest, shoulders and arms) should be carried out at least two days per week. If you’re not used to doing much activity, start by working towards 30 minutes a day – remember that doing something is better than nothing. Try and incorporate physical activity into your daily routine, for example, take a brisk walk in your lunch break, cycle or walk as part of your commute to work (or all the way if it isn’t too far), use the stairs instead of the lift, or get off the bus one stop before you usually do and walk the rest of the way to your destination. Sedentary behaviour Sedentary behaviour is a group of behaviours that occur whilst sitting or lying down that require very low energy expenditure such as watching TV, sitting in front of a screen or using your car to take all journeys. Sedentary behaviour is different from physical inactivity, which is a lack of physical activity in everyday life. You can still be sedentary even if you are physically active, for example, if you sit at a desk during the day and exercise in the evening. Interestingly there has also been some research that suggests sedentary behaviours are also associated with increased risks of colon cancer, endometrial cancer and lung cancer. Drinking less alcohol. Alcohol is one of the most well-established causes of cancer. Drinking alcohol regularly can increase the risk of cancers of the mouth, throat, oesophagus, liver, breast and colon.
New evidence of the health harms from regular drinking has emerged in recent years. There is now a better understanding of the link between drinking and some illnesses, including a range of cancers. Stronger evidence has emerged that the risk of a range of cancers, especially breast cancer, increases directly in line with the consumption of any amount of alcohol. To keep the risks of developing these types of cancer to a low level, try to limit your alcohol consumption to no more than 14 units of alcohol per week and have several alcohol-free days a week: half a pint of 4% lager = 1 unit a small glass of wine (125ml) = 1.5 units single spirit and mixer = 1 unit If you do drink as much as 14 units per week, it is best to spread this evenly over three days or more rather than having one or two heavy drinking sessions Breastfeeding Breastfeeding is recommended for several reasons including protecting your baby against certain infections. Breastfeeding also has long-term health benefits and protects you from certain chronic diseases later in life, including some cancers. The Department of Health recommends that babies are breastfed exclusively for 6 months. After that, breastfeeding alongside giving your baby family food for the first two years, or for as long as you and your baby want, will help them grow and develop healthily.
What do these recommendations mean to me? Evidence over several decades points to a simple, fact that you can reduce your risk of cancer by a series of long-term healthy behaviors such as not smoking, eating a healthy, varied diet, keeping active, maintaining healthy body weight, and cutting back on alcohol Reducing the risk of type 2 diabetes This article is aimed at people who do not have a diagnosis of type 2 diabetes but would like to learn more about how they can reduce their risk of developing this condition. Key messages Type 1 and type 2 diabetes occur when sugar in the blood cannot be used properly, and this can cause serious health complications. About 90% of people with diabetes have type 2 diabetes. Type 2 diabetes is strongly linked with overweight and obesity and can be prevented. Although there are several risk factors for type 2 diabetes that are beyond control, eating a healthy, varied diet, being physically active, and losing weight (if necessary) can greatly help to reduce the risk of developing this condition How can I reduce the risk of developing type 2 diabetes? Eating a healthy, varied diet, being physically active, and losing weight (if necessary) can reduce your risk of type 2 diabetes. This page gives you tips on how to do this. Become more active Try to be physically active and maintain healthy body weight (BMI 18.5-25 kg/m2) to reduce your risk of type 2 diabetes. It is recommended that adults choose activities that include aerobic and strength exercises. The recommended minimum amount of physical activity for adults per week is 150 minutes of moderate-level aerobic activity (this should raise your heart rate and make you breathe faster and feel warmer) or 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity (this should make you breathe hard and fast) (or a mix of the two types of aerobic activity). Plus strength exercises (such as yoga, exercises like sit-ups or press-ups, or heavy gardening like digging) on two or more days of the week. But don’t worry - you do not have to join a gym! Walking, dancing, swimming, gardening, golf, bowling, and cycling are all activities that count towards physical activity. Activity can also be spread out throughout the day so you can make small changes to your lifestyle, which can add up to a lot more activity. For example, use the stairs instead of taking the lift, leave the car at home for small trips, or get off the bus one or two stops earlier. Even housework can count! These are all achievable ways to incorporate activity into your daily routine
Eat a healthy, varied diet Making healthy food choices and cutting down on the amount of energy (calories) you consume can help achieve healthy body weight and maintain weight loss (if needed) and reduce your risk of developing type 2 diabetes. Calorie and portion size control are very important for those wishing to lose weight. In the UK it is recommended that a healthy, varied diet is based on starchy foods and plenty of fruit and vegetables, and is low in saturated fat, sugar, and salt. These recommendations are based on the latest evidence and apply to the general population If you have a diagnosis of diabetes, foods containing starchy carbohydrates remain an important part of a healthy, varied diet. However, as these foods affect blood sugar levels, it is recommended that you talk with your diabetes healthcare team about the best type and amount to incorporate into your diet. The following recommendations will help you eat a healthy, varied diet: Try to eat meals at regular times throughout the day. Base meals on starchy foods, such as potatoes, rice, pasta, bread, and breakfast cereals, choosing wholegrain or higher fiber versions where possible. Just over a third of the food, we eat each day should be fruit and vegetables. Aim for at least five portions a day and try to eat a variety; green leafy vegetables in particular are associated with reduced risk of type 2 diabetes. Foods high in saturated fat and sugars, such as chocolate, cakes, biscuits, full-sugar soft drinks, butter, and ice cream are not needed in the diet and so, if included, should only be eaten infrequently and in small amounts. Choose beans, pulses, and other vegetable sources of protein (like tofu), lean meat, poultry, and fish, instead of fatty meat or processed meat products. Choose low-fat and low-sugar dairy foods, such as skimmed or semi-skimmed milk and low-fat, unsweetened yogurt. Use unsaturated oils, such as vegetable, rapeseed, and olive oils, in cooking but only in small amounts. Swap butter for lower-fat spreads. Where possible, use cooking methods that reduce the amount of fat in your dishes (such as grilling meat and fish instead of frying and having a boiled or poached egg instead of fried). Choose products lower in salt and use less salt in cooking. If you drink alcohol, do so in moderation - no more than 14 units per week for both men and women
Keep hydrated, and try to drink 6-8 glasses of fluid a day. Swap sugary soft drinks for those without sugar, such as water, tea, coffee, and diet drinks. Osteoporosis Osteoporosis affects 3.5 million people in the UK. It is a condition in which bones lose their strength and are more likely to break (fracture), usually following a minor fall. Fractures caused by osteoporosis can happen in various parts of the body, they occur most often in the wrists, hips, and spine. Half of women and 1 in 5 men (20%) over the age of 50 years experience fractures, mostly because of low bone strength.
Fractures associated with osteoporosis can cause significant pain and serious disability, often leading to a reduced quality of life. For example, a hip fracture needs treatment at the hospital and is linked to lower life expectancy. Bone Basics Did you know that bone is a living tissue? It changes constantly, with bits of old bone removed and replaced by new bone. You can think of bone as a bank account, where you make “deposits” and “withdrawals” of bone tissue. During childhood and teenage years, much more bone is deposited than withdrawn, so the skeleton grows in both size and density. The amount of bone tissue in the skeleton is known as bone mass. Up to 90% of the peak bone mass you will have in your lifetime is developed by age 18 years in girls and by age 20 years in boys, so it is important to “invest” in your bone health even at an early age. Bone mass reaches its ‘peak’ in our late 20s, but the level of bone mass reached varies from person to person. Bone mass begins to fall in both sexes around the age of 35 years. In women, there is a phase of fast bone loss in the 10 years or so following menopause (when monthly periods stop). This is because after menopause the level of estrogen hormone, which protects bones, falls. The decrease then slows but continues throughout the post-menopausal years. In men, there is a steady decline in bone strength with advancing age. The higher the peak bone mass we can get as a young adult and the slower the loss of bone mass in later adulthood, the better. This is partly determined by your genetics, but diet and lifestyle can play a part. Can we reduce our risk of osteoporosis? Many risk factors can lead to bone loss and osteoporosis. Some of these things you cannot change like: ·your genetics - osteoporosis tends to run in families, if a family member has osteoporosis or breaks a bone, there is a greater chance that you will too. your gender: women are more at risk. your age: older people are more at risk. your ethnicity - White and Asian women are at the highest risk. Black and Hispanic women have a lower risk. But there are other things that you can change, and there are many steps you can take to help keep your bones healthy. To help keep your bones strong and slow down bone loss, you can: take regular exercise (you can find more information on the National Osteoporosis Society website) not drink alcohol in excess or smoke maintain a healthy weight - being underweight may increase the risk. Osteoporosis is more common in anorexia nervosa (an eating disorder where a person keeps their weight as low as possible). Eat a diet rich in calcium and vitamin D A healthy diet with enough calcium and vitamin D throughout life is important for bone health. Find out more about the food sources of these nutrients in our resources Calcium Counts and Vital Vitamin D below. Other nutrients for bones There are many other nutrients including protein, vitamin K, magnesium and zinc that play a part in maintaining normal bones. These nutrients are all readily available from a balanced diet and, if you eat a wide range of foods from all the main food groups, it is likely that you will be getting enough and do not need to take supplements. Sharon can help you achieve your fitness goals in the gym, at home & also outdoors. Personal training is available 1-2-1, in couples & also in small groups. Body coach fitness has a holistic approach to health & wellness, fitness, nutrition & sports performance & is dedicated to educating people on the benefits of a healthy lifestyle! Whatever your goals Sharon will help you achieve them. When not training others to achieve their goals Sharon works towards her own, training hard to compete at an international level as a natural physique competitor. www.bodycoachfitness.com www.bodycoachfitness.org https://www.facebook.com/sharon.clare.14
TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE IN TAURUS AND WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT ACCORDING TO YOUR SIGN
Written By Linda Watson
This month marks the last Lunar Eclipse of the year. This is a Total Lunar Eclipse occurring on November 8, 2022. The maximum Eclipse will be at 5:59 am EST. Since it is a total eclipse, the Moon will appear to have a reddish or coppery color and is known as the Blood Moon. It is quite breathtaking and I encourage you to step outside to take in this sight. A Lunar Eclipse occurs only during a Full Moon when the Moon passes into the shadow of the Earth. The Sun, Earth, and the Moon are in perfect alignment with each other, with the Sun and Moon on opposite sides of the Earth. Eclipses often open up gateways in the part of our lives being triggered by the Full Moon and can signify the end of a particular phase in our life. A Full Moon is the high point and climax of the lunar cycle, and because this Full Moon is a Total Eclipse, expect to feel the effects of this cycle even more intensely. The Moon is no longer in darkness, it is no longer growing toward illumination, it is completely and astoundingly at her very brightest. She is illuminating all that was hidden before. All the cards are on the table now. We are able to clearly see all of our ideas and plans. It is time to reap the rewards of all that has been leading up to this point in time. Look back on how far you have come and the progress that has been made. This is also the phase when it is important to practice releasing and forgiving. This phase encourages a meditative discipline and a willingness to practice mindful behavior, compassion and kindness toward others. When we release control of anything toxic and negative on a regular basis, we ourselves are cleansed and able to interact in the world from a place of positivity and understanding. When we can truly forgive, we can truly move on. It is one of the healthiest things we can do for ourselves. This is the perfect time for inner work, healing and letting go of lower vibrational energies. Once you have acknowledged forgiveness, it is very important to express gratitude. Forgiveness and gratitude go hand in hand. Gratitude is the perfect replacement for all of the anger, resentment, and grudges you were able to let go of, and allows harmony and balance to be welcomed into your life. The sign that the Moon is in will influence our mood, feelings and activities related to the quality or modality of the sign and the collective tone of the eclipse. Where the eclipse falls in your personal chart will also offer clues about the area of life that will be front and center during this time period. The energy of an eclipse can last up to 6 months or until the next eclipse occurs. This Lunar Eclipse will be in the sign of Taurus. Taurus is a Fixed Earth sign. This indicates a time to get down to business. This is a practical and realistic energy. You may feel a great need for financial or foundational security. Taurus is rooted in its relationship to money, the material side of life, and all that we want to manifest and grow for our sense of self-worth and security. This eclipse is symbolic of fruitfulness, productivity, practicality, luxuriance, and fertility. It brings an instinctive connection to nature. To refresh your memory, this is part of the series of eclipses that occur on the Taurus/Scorpio axis ending next year on October 28, 2023. The opposing Sun will be in the sign of Scorpio, which is a passionate and intense water sign. This cycle is encouraging us to use our will power and passion to manifest our dreams. Venus as the ruler of Taurus, brings determination to our creative pursuits and encourages us to live life through our senses. Pluto being the ruler of Scorpio knows how to transform and shed old worn-out beliefs and habits that are no longer working for us.
What are some of the things we may want to ask ourselves during this Lunar Eclipse in Taurus in order to release and forgive and be able to move on? How do I define my self-worth? Through my possessions, finances, family, relationships, career? Do I look for my value through materialism or status? Where have I been feeling insecure in my abilities? Have I been overindulging in life’s physical pleasures and luxuries? How can I appreciate and value my talents and creative potential? This is the best time to let go of any feelings of unworthiness and be more flexible and open to receiving a new inspired way of being. Develop a spiritual practice based upon earth-based wisdom such as living in harmony with nature and nature’s cycles, following the moon cycles, or working with plants or essential oils from plants and flowers. *For a more personal and in-depth look at your chart and what may be coming up for you, please visit www.soulguideastrology.com and schedule a one-on-one reading. When you sign up for my newsletter, you will receive a complimentary Moon Phase Guide to help you plan your monthly activities. Linda Watson is the owner and creator of Soul Guide Astrology. She is a member of the American Federation of Astrologers. She provides birth chart readings and solar return (yearly) chart readings, offering support, insight and guidance to better help others find their focus and move forward with their dreams. You can schedule a consultation by visiting her website, www.soulguideastrology.com. Find her on Facebook at Facebook.com/linda.watsonastrolog or on Instagram at instagram.com/soulguideastrology
WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM THIS ECLIPSE ACCORDING TO YOUR SIGN
ARIES – March 21 – April 19 Find a balance between your personal financial obligations and the financial obligations you have with others. Prepare for a change or transformation surrounding investments, money from clients or business, or shared resources with a partner. This eclipse can help you more fully and deeply understand and value what it takes to feel secure and supported in a foundational way.
TAURUS – April 20 – May 20 This is an important eclipse for you because it is happening in your sign. It is a powerful time to stand up for who you are, shift your persona and style, and be proud of the person you are becoming. The emphasis is completely on the self in all ways. However, the Scorpio sun opposition is in the 7th house of relationships, so you still need to take into account your close relationships. This time period will shed light on who you are, who you are within your relationships both personal and business, and whom you can ultimately become.
WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM THIS ECLIPSE ACCORDING TO YOUR SIGN
GEMINI – May 21 – June 20 The emphasis is on nurturing your inner most being and spiritual self and bringing change to your mind/body connection. Since this eclipse occurs on the 12th/6th house axis, combine some of this 12th house spiritual work with the daily routines in your life. Your spiritual journey can be integrated with selected portions of your day-to-day activities. Allow your intuition to show you where you most need self-care.
CANCER – JUNE 21 – JULY 22 Since the Moon is your ruling planet, eclipse cycles affect you on a deep level. This eclipse is shining a light on what you have been dreaming of. It is activating your future hopes, wishes and visions. You may feel an emotional need to belong to a group ideal or to receive validation from your social circle. The 5th/11th house axis is emphasized, with the 5th house empowering creative beginnings and the 11th providing a little help from your friends.
WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM THIS ECLIPSE ACCORDING TO YOUR SIGN
LEO – July 23 – August 22 This eclipse shines a light on your life path and direction. These next months will be about focusing your emotional energy on your career and also your home. You’ll be seeking answers to questions about your commitment to your goals, if you are happy in your current role, and where you want to go next. Because this is on the 10th/4th house axis, both career and home are up for transformation. Time to realign your priorities. Change is coming, so now is the time to figure out how to best direct it.
VIRGO – August 23 – September 22 The eclipse is in your 9th house and it is all about growth and development. This is the house of expansion and higher learning. You are being shown that you have outgrown those more narrow and restrictive thoughts and are ready for an adventure in expanding your mind and spirit. If you are involved in communications or writing, now is the time you may reach a wider audience or secure a publishing contract.
WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM THIS ECLIPSE ACCORDING TO YOUR SIGN
LIBRA – September 23 – October 22 This eclipse is all about transformation and examining the deep recesses of all topics considered taboo: sexual intimacy, psychological issues, intimate bonding, and other people’s money or resources. Whatever the topic that rings true in this area of life for you, will certainly bring about a transformation or a rebirth on a deep level. The goal is to gather up your emotional courage and turn your deepest fears into constructive accomplishments.
SCORPIO – October 23 – November 21 This is an important eclipse for you since it is on the Taurus/Scorpio axis. The eclipse is moving through your house of partnerships and relationships, so these next few months will be critical in evaluating your relationships and how you relate to others. Make the most of this time period by practicing the skills of negotiation and compromise. Decide who you are interested in bringing into your life, what you need from others to feel complete, and how you want to structure those relationships to best serve you both on a mutual level.
WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM THIS ECLIPSE ACCORDING TO YOUR SIGN
SAGITTARIUS – November 22 – December 21 Your focus during this eclipse period is all about your daily routines, including service to self and others, and your overall health. Release any problems you have had in breaking habits that are inhibiting the daily rhythm of your life. This lunar eclipse is your chance to hit the reset button when it comes to taking care of yourself. The Moon can illuminate the goals we have been working towards, whether it involves the workplace, a health and fitness goal, or a daily lifestyle habit. Find a balance between your daily responsibilities and some quiet alone time to understand what you need on a spiritual level.
CAPRICORN – December 22 – January 19 The emphasis is going to be on your creativity and personal self-expression. This eclipse is shining a light on what you truly desire and it is activating the areas of your life that bring you the greatest joy. It is about having fun. This is the time to reap the rewards of a creative project you may have been working on by finally releasing it to the public. Expect to feel more passionate and spontaneous during this time, so go out and play, find romance, and embrace your inner child.
WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT FROM THIS ECLIPSE ACCORDING TO YOUR SIGN
AQUARIUS – January 20 – February 18
PISCES – February 19 – March 20
This eclipse can bring up intense emotions regarding your home and family, and feelings of safety and security. Moving to a new home, renovations, changes in the lives of family members or in family dynamics, or new career opportunities can all develop for you during this eclipse cycle. You may finally come to realize where you truly belong and what connects you to your family and ancestors. It is also a time when you may come to understand the importance of balance between your personal life and professional life.
Your 3rd/9th house axis is being stimulated by this eclipse. For the next few months, your attention is focused on the things that are closer to home and not in the wider expanse of the world. With the lunar eclipse in the 3rd house of communication, you may finally have the opportunity to settle unresolved misunderstandings with close family members or neighbors. Let other people know how you really feel in a way that they can understand and that allows you to be heard. Mostly it is a time for a deeper focus on thinking, observing, learning and sharing information that will take place in your local community or region.
NATIONAL AUTHORS DAY
WRITTEN BY TRACY MARKLEY
I find it fascinating to learn the history of a claimed “National Day.” I like to find the who, why, and how the specific day came about. So, what is an Author? The word Author comes from the Latin word: Auctorem, meaning founder, master, or leader. Webster's dictionary defines an author as A writer of literary work, such as a book. While referring all the way back to the 1600s an author is someone who uses their words to move their readers. The word “readers” is still used but readers are also referred to as followers. Of course, currently, we live in a time when we read or hear the word “followers” and we instantly think of social media followers. Those who are authors of books have “readers” and “follows” of their writing work and books. Before social media and Amazon self-publishing began it was much harder for an author to get their written work published and to attract readers to their books. They had to wait for a publisher to be interested in their idea of a book and writing. The book had to like and accepted by a publisher to move forward to become an author of a book. The National Day Website shared the following story about National Author’s Day. In 1928, the Illinois Women’s Club president, Nellie Verne Burt McPherson, produced the idea to create a day that recognized American authors. She was an avid reader and an educator. While she was in the hospital during the First World War, she became inspired to create a holiday that honored authors. She had just read the book “Eben Holden’s Last Day A-Fishing” by Irving Bacheller. Nelle sent a letter to the author expressing her love for the book. When Irving Bacheller received this letter, he responded by sending her a signed copy of another one of his books.
Nellie became overwhelmed by his kindness and generosity and thought of a way to repay him. She quickly arrived at the idea that a national day for authors would achieve what she wanted. She presented the day to the Generation Federation of Women’s Clubs. The club approved, and in May of 1929, issued an endorsement to celebrate American Authors on National Author’s Day. The U.S. Department of Commerce acknowledged National Author’s Day in 1949. It did take 20 years, but a day to honor and celebrate the author's hard work became a reality as she wanted. This holiday has been celebrated every year since 1949. When Nelle passed away in 1968 her granddaughter took on the responsibility of promoting the holiday. She urges readers to send appreciation notes to their favorite authors to celebrate their hard work and to recognize those who have contributed to American literature.
While I was living in Oregon for 8 years, I participated in a Literary Salon that one of the local authors put together a couple of times a year. That was magical. A group of authors gathered and read a few pages from their books, poems, or writings of some kind. If you are an author and have a chance to participate in a literary salon or just go to one, I encourage you to go. It is a fun way to gather with other authors. Literary salons originated in the seventeenth century in France. Writers, philosophers, artists, and political figures gathered in private rooms. They called these salons. The participants found it brought them creative stimulation in an atmosphere removed from the strict protocols of the French court. The earliest literary salons date back to the early 1600s. A French aristocrat named, Marquess de Rambouillet, hosted the first literary circle. They were informal gatherings where everyone who attended shared thoughts, ideas, and opinions about their own work as well the writings of others there. The movie “Midnight in Pairs” by Owen Wilson is a fun movie where he goes back in time as an author who meets in these literary salons with famous authors such as Fitzgerald, Hemingway, and other legends of Paris in the 1920s. In this movie, you can get a feel of how the original salons may have been.
On November 1st, celebrate National Authors’ Day by curling up with one of your favorite books. Appreciate the writers who, help teach us, inspire us, comfort us, and entertain us. Authors have countless hours, days, weeks, months, and sometimes years to get to their finished “book” product that we hold in our hands. Authors play a significant role in our lives in many ways. Remember authors throughout the year as you, your kids, your family, and your friends read a book. I have written ten books and I have just finished a collaborated book with twenty-seven other authors.
I know the challenging work, the tears, the joy, the struggle, the flowing times, the stuck times, the editing, and more that authors endure getting the finished product for their readers. Authors have a passion in their souls to write and share what they put in their books. Mine is to help educate others to help them better their lives, mentally, emotionally, and mainly physically since I am a Fitness Specialist and work with healing, fall prevention, stroke recovery, and more. I encourage readers to thank their authors and give them five-star reviews on Amazon and other sources that list books. Happy National Author’s Day to all authors out there. Tracy Markley is the owner of Tracy's Personal Training, Pilates & Yoga Studio. She is the author of 11 books. Her work is known for training stroke survivors. She is the 2021 IDEA Personal Trainer of the Year. She also created the CEC course "Stroke Recovery Training" for the fitness industry. Tracy was one of the IDEA 2020 Personal Trainer of the Year Finalists. She is recognized for her work, and books, and for helping stroke survivors worldwide. She is an NFHOF Pro (National Fitness Hall of Fame) Recognized as one of "Today's Top Trainers" in 2019. She believes “Knowledge is Power” and has earned many certifications in the fitness industry. . www.tracymarkley.com www.amazon.com/author/tracymarkley www.instagram.com/motivate_healthyfit www.facebook.com/tracyfitt www.twitter.com/TracylMarkley www.tracys-healthy-365.blogspot.com www.linkedin.com/in/tracymarkleyfit
For this I am grateful…. Written By Judy Brown Thanksgiving reminds us of our many blessings. What are yours? I wake each day and look up to the sun and all that the day will hold. For this I am grateful. The taste of fresh apples inspires my culinary spirit. For this I am grateful.
The smell of pumpkin bread takes me to my childhood. For this I am grateful. Witnessing changes around me is a gentle reminder to be adaptable. For this I am grateful.
The sound of the crackling fire brings me warmth. For this I am grateful.
Seasonal rituals bring sustains me. For this I am grateful.
Pausing to look at the people in my life with loving eyes warms my heart. For this I am grateful.
Knowing that many are celebrating a day of gratitude gives me hope. For this I am grateful.
Sitting quietly on my front porch brings me peace. For this I am grateful.
comfort
that
Thinking of those that are alone prompts me to reach out and share blessings. For this I am grateful. Time stops as we step away from our routines and this brings relief. For this I am grateful. Celebrating autumnal harvests is colorful and nurturing. For this I am grateful. Watching the remaining leaves fall from the trees reminds me to shed old thoughts. For this I am grateful. Stillness in the cold November air reminds me to pause and breathe. For this I am grateful. For all these blessings and more, I give thanks. May your celebration of Thanksgiving remind you of all that is good.
Judy Brown has a BA in Biology from Connecticut College and is a Certified Holistic Health Coach trained by the Institute for Integrative Nutrition. She coaches women in their midlife years who want to reclaim their health and discover a more balanced and vibrant lifestyle. Judy provides individual and group coaching, workshops, smoothie demos, and guided meditations for groups. She has a blog and several published works. She has two grown children. Judy loves to read, write, walk in the woods, sail, have afternoon tea, and explore the world with her husband. Also in her spare time, Judy makes and sells cards and photo art from her photography. www.judyswellnesscafe.com https://www.facebook.com/judyswellnesscafe/
The Joy of Moving Around Written By Maayan & Gal
If you've ever attempted to learn how to dance, you probably know that there's a difference between knowing the steps and actually dancing. Living abroad is very much the same. When moving abroad, there is a lot to learn. The culture, language, and local habits. Things like the weather and when you should wear both a scarf and sunglasses or where to find almond milk and kale in an unfamiliar country, - are enough to get you tangled. Whether you're tangled or not, you should learn the steps just like you would in a dancing class, right? As a result, you gradually learn more about the new place you’re in, adapt, adopt, and physically start to move. Every step at first feels weird, uncomfortable, and a little robotic.
Without any Spanish, trying to find a pumpkin spice latte in Barcelona can result in a green matcha . . and frustration.
People who decide to relocate abroad frequently experience stress as a result of this confusion and overwhelm. We've dealt with it before, having moved countries at a young age and several times since. We attempted to dance to the local rhythm several times, but the first steps were always unnatural to us, making it difficult to follow. Stress was always present, especially in the beginning, even if with practice we learned the steps and how to dance in each place we lived. As we learned to better manage stress and its symptoms, we realized we didn't have to run away from it; we could even dance with it. Even so, it doesn't necessarily mean you're free to immerse yourself and actually enjoy dancing. Whether you live abroad, plan to do so, or are just going through a life change, we're guessing you're not unfamiliar with stress. Sleepless night? we hear you. But the important thing to remember is that, while stress is common in today's society, it should not be a 24/7 love story. Even if you know all the steps and have it all figured out, you won't be able to fully immerse yourself in dancing your life if you're constantly stressed. It’s been said before . . . you got to ‘Free your mind, the rest will follow’ - En Vogue
National Stress Awareness Day is observed on November 2nd to raise public awareness and assist people in recognizing, managing, and reducing stress in their personal and professional lives. On this occasion, we'd like to share with you a couple of practical things you can do if you're feeling stressed. Whether it's from your time abroad or other areas of your life.
Stop & Breath - Might seem stupid and simple, but the first thing you should do when you are stressed is to stop everything and focus on your breathing. Whether you take a couple of minutes or longer than that, the goal is to distance yourself from the source of your stress. Bring enough oxygen to your brain so that you’ll be able to think more clearly and take the right action.
Break It Down - When we are stressed, we often perceive the situation to be bigger than it is, more complicated, overwhelming, and even frightening. By breaking the situation down into smaller pieces, we can identify the true source of our stress and help ourselves face it directly, bit by bit, rather than all at once.
Maayan & Gal is sisters, the founders of Smoozitive, and are expat experts. They are guiding and supporting women to experience a smooth & joyful journey abroad no matter where they live. IG: @smoozitive
Bring The Fun - Even if you have to force it. By doing things that are fun to you, you can elevate the energy, elevate your mood resulting in a lighter feeling and a sense that things are more ok than you think. Fun is everything that makes you feel good. Might as well try dancing. FYI dance has been proven to reduce stress levels and anxiety, just as any other physical activity.
The last phase of learning to dance is actually enjoying it. Let go of everything that is holding you back, and just have fun. Even if you don’t 100% know the steps or the choreography, you should allow yourself, your body and your mind to flow and enjoy it. In life abroad, and in general, you don’t have to figure it all out to enjoy the present moment. That is our invitation to you to dance no matter where you are.
HOW TO STOP FEELING GUILTY FOR EATING OR NOT EXERCISING
W r i t t e n B y V i c t o r i a K l e i n s m a n
I had a question in my DMs
…I am assuming not unless you’ve literally stolen
“Can you please share tactics on how to tackle
it…
feelings of guilt when not exercising or counting calories and how to ride the need to
Are you committing a crime if you haven’t
binge/purge?”
exercised, even though you told yourself you would?
What is guilt? …Thought not. According to God Google, guilt is specified as: The fact of having committed a specified or
Ok, so let’s move on to the second definition of
implied offense or crime.
guilt “A feeling of having committed wrong or
A feeling of having committed wrong or failed
failed in an obligation.“
in an obligation.
Have you really done something wrong if you eat food that you haven’t logged/counted/that goes
Firstly, are you committing a crime if you eat food
over your syns/points?
that you haven’t logged on to MFP? (FYI – I’m changing the name to My Fitness Foe)
Have you truly failed if you didn’t exercise when you or your eating disorder told you to?
The feeling of doing something wrong is real I get it. I really do. Even if you can see logically that you haven’t done anything wrong or bad, the feeling is often still there. How does guilt feel for you in your body, physically? For me, it’s like a rush of heat that starts in my chest and floods up to my face simultaneously feeling like there’s a pit in my stomach. The feeling is still there because even if you can consciously understand that you haven’t actually done anything wrong, your unconscious beliefs are driving the feelings of guilt. You believe that eating without tracking, or not sticking to your diet, or eating processed foods is “bad”. You believe that not exercising when you or your ED is telling you to is a failure. It’s your beliefs that are keeping you stuck. Not only that but most of us believe that feeling bad about ourselves for doing something or not doing something will somehow motivate us to change and then eventually we’ll be happier. Nothing could be further from the truth. All that ends up happening is; we either stay stuck in the cycle of setting ourselves rules around food and exercise, not sticking to them and then feeling awfully guilty and shitty about ourselves. OR we manage to stick to our rules but feel so petrified of breaking them and “falling off the wagon” that we stay stuck in our own prison and don’t actually live.
What if… You were never subjected to society’s ideology of thinness and brainwashed by diet culture? You believed that food was a neutral, delicious part of life that you simply can’t get right or wrong? You believed that your body knows what it’s doing and if you could get out of your own way and build a relationship with your body, then it would let you know when and how to exercise and when and what to eat. You believed that your body has its own natural set-point weight and so no matter how much willpower you conjure up, your body will always fight to stay at its happiest and healthiest set-point weight. What would your life look like then…? If you’re not on a wagon, you can’t fall off it… If you’re not following any food and exercise rules, you can’t break them. Therefore there’s nothing to feel guilty or bad about. I know it might sound like I’m chatting shit right now but trust me, there IS a life available to you that doesn’t include counting calories, points, macros, syns and or having set exercise regimes… And boy does that life feel good! More than good. So freaking free and liberating that I can’t even describe it in words. Freaking out? If what I’ve said so far makes sense yet you’re freaking out because “how the hell can you just not have food or exercise rules?!” then again, I feel you. Feelings are always feedback so what is this feeding back to you? What are you so scared of? What do you think would be the worse thing that could happen if you were to stop trying to control your food and exercise? I can confidently say that 99.9% of you will say something along the lines of: I am petrified of gaining weight. I just can’t give up the control. I will never stop eating and I’ll just get fatter and fatter and be miserable forever and ultimately die alone.
That was also me in 2018. Literally all of those things. Yet here I stand. Eating whatever I want, when I want in any amount I want. Exercising because I want to and only when it feels good. Choosing foods that nourish my body and my soul. And honestly… sometimes not quite believe how happy I am and how far I’ve come from my eating disorders and body hate days. I am no longer scared of weight gain. I’m at peace and weirdly happy knowing that I can’t actually control much in my life at all apart from how I choose to respond to my thoughts and circumstances. I did stop eating. I didn’t keep getting fatter. I’m in a loving relationship. And no my love, you are not the one exception. This is all available to you too. Here come some questions for you to journal: How has abiding by food and exercise rules been going for you? Lost weight permanently yet? If yes, are you happy? Do you feel free? If not, are you ready to give up this pointless self-destructive cycle? Do you think that you’ll “let yourself go” if you stopped trying to control yourself around food and exercise? Why or why not? What does “let yourself go” mean to you? How could that actually be a good thing? Do you absolutely know that giving up your food and exercise rules will lead to weight gain? Why are you so scared of gaining weight? What are you making weight gain mean? Are you willing to be open to the possibility that you could actually be the happiest you’ve ever been at a higher weight? (like myself) Why or why not?
Poem by Nina Manolson He said: “You’ve let yourself go” YES. I have let myself go I stopped wearing Spanks I stopped counting macros, points and calories I said no to the botox I let the grey show The truth is… I did let myself go I let myself relax I let go of expectations I’ve let myself be at home in my skin I let myself have pleasure I let myself feel and rage I let myself listen in I let myself not care about what everyone else thinks I let myself free
What’s worse? Staying in your eating disorder / disordered eating knowing what your future will look like. or Giving up all your rules and control but healing your relationship with food and your body and living in food freedom and body love for the rest of your life…? Both are hard, but only one is worth it. I can hold your hand each step of the way and support you through 1:1 or group coaching to get you there. Tangible tips Here are some tangible tips to help you on your way to dropping the guilt when you “fall off the wagon” or don’t exercise. Get off the wagon! Seriously. I know it’s hard but it is the only way. You can do it. Delete My Fitness Foe. Quit slimming world or weight watchers (or is it called wellness wankery, I mean wellness watchers now? Que eye roll…either way, it’s restriction and restriction doesn’t work… they have a great business model…) Get rid of all of your food and exercise rules. Yes, your diet fukery ED voice will be freaking out but that’s ok. Let it freak. Remind yourself that it’s not you.
Practice trusting your body Your body really does know what it’s doing. She keeps your heart beating, she breathes you, she digests your food, she regulates your body temperature, your appetite, your metabolism, and MUCH MORE. Surrender to your body’s wisdom. Eat when you’re hungry and eat what you feel like eating. Stop when you feel satisfied and safe in the knowledge knowing that you can have more later or tomorrow. Trust that you will want what you need. Honor that. If you’re stuck in chronic restriction such as anorexia and you have no hunger cues, follow a minimum eating guideline to ensure that you’re eating enough. I promise your hunger cues will come back soon. When anorexic or in severe restriction and malnourishment, the body actually stops sending hunger signals. This is for a few reasons: The body has been sending hunger signals for so long yet it has still not received enough food. Therefore it stops using precious calories by sending hunger signals that are not acted on and instead conserves energy to keep the organs alive. Brain scans show that the reward system goes offline for those with anorexia so they don’t receive the same sense of reward when they eat. There is no drive to eat anymore. Methodically eating more and enough will bring this all back. Mantra up When you drop the food and exercise rules, you’re going to feel bad when you do a behavior that is the opposite of your old rules. This is normal. Your brain is literally physically wired that way due to years of having the belief that you’re doing something wrong, so therefore thinking and then feeling “bad” when you have broken your rules previously countless times. You can rewire your brain! Create some mantras to remind you that you’re no longer choosing to believe those BS beliefs that have kept you so unhappy for so long. Here are some I like: I want what I need. I trust my body to guide me with what and how much to eat. If I ate it then I must have needed it. My body is so wise and I can trust her 100%. I surrender to that truth. The fearful thoughts that are trying to make me feel bad are not true. They are not my thoughts. I wasn’t born with them, I learned them from toxic culture. I will ask my body if she’d like to exercise today and if so, what movement she’d like to do. “Effort” is not the same as discipline. I am worthy of putting effort into myself if it feels right. I trust my body to do what is best for me. My job is to take care of myself and my body will be what it will be.
Find evidence Whatever your biggest fear was when I asked you “what are you scared of if you gave up your rules?” I want you to find evidence against the limiting belief underneath the fear. For example, if your fear was: “I am petrified of weight gain“ To find the limiting belief underneath the fear you have to ask a few questions to get to it… Why are you petrified of weight gain? “Because if I gain weight then I will hate the way I look.” And what does it mean if you hate the way you look? “That I won’t ever be happy” Is your happiness dictated by your weight? “Yes, I guess it is.” Here is the limiting belief: “I cannot be happy unless I am at a certain weight.” Is it absolutely true that you can never be happy unless you like the way you look? “It feels absolutely true right now” Are you willing to be wrong about that? “I’d love to be wrong about that!” So with this limiting belief – I cannot be happy unless I am at a certain weight. – I want you to find evidence against that belief. Start off by imagining that you’re writing a school paper arguing a case against the statement – “People cannot be happy unless they are at the weight they want to be at” Take yourself out of it and see what you come up with. Then do the same again using your original statement – I cannot be happy unless I am at a certain weight.
Write a list of everything that brings you happiness and start doing them. You’ll soon have enough evidence that your limiting belief is not true. As you go through this experiment you can adopt the mantra “I can be happy regardless of whether or not I like the way my body looks.” Then move on to the next limiting belief. Over time you will also notice shifts. When you are living in body acceptance, you will be able to access body love and body positivity.
Act as if Act as if you already believe the new belief you want to adopt. This is a case of “faking it until you make it” but only if it isn’t going to traumatize you. For example, if your new belief is “I feel confident in a bikini”. How would that confident version of you be thinking and acting? Would they think: “My body doesn’t define my worth and I deserve to wear a bikini as much as the next person.” Would they then: Put on the bikini and go about their business? Over time this will get easier and your beliefs will change. Plus you’ll be feeling freer and more liberated each time so it makes it all worth it. Challenge any sneaky fear-based thoughts When any sneaky fear-based thoughts pop up, lovingly challenge them. A few questions you can ask: Can I absolutely know that this thought is true? Has previously believing this thought brought me love, freedom, and happiness? Who would I be without this thought? Is there any positive reason to hold onto this thought? How would it feel to believe the opposite of this thought?
Meet yourself with compassion Always. Hold yourself with love and kindness as you transition through these. It’s a huge deal to break free from your food and body prison. Acknowledge yourself. Celebrate yourself. Be gentle with yourself. How to ride the need to binge/purge Firstly, bingeing is only ever a reaction to physical or emotional deprivation. If you’re not allowing yourself to eat the food you truly want to eat and/or you’re judging your food choices, that’s restriction. Restriction creates a reaction aka bingeing. The obvious is to stop restricting it straight away! So really the question here is “How do ride the need to purge”… This does take mental strength but I know you’re strong enough.
Challenge your purging thoughts As I have explained previously in this episode. Delay purging behavior An intense urge can be overwhelming and feel everlasting. Delaying the engagement in the behavior by five minutes can make the process seem less overwhelming. At the end of five minutes, a commitment to another five minutes may be possible, and perhaps the next time may be delayed to 20 minutes. Regardless of the amount of time, simply creating that space for a delay provides an opportunity for a different decision to be made rather than acting on autopilot.
Remind yourself of the dangers and consequences of purging Something that helped me was reading factual literature on the damage that I was doing to myself by doing purging behaviors. AND understanding that the purging doesn’t “work” as well I thought it did. I did have thoughts such as “yeah but this won’t happen to me” but something did start to sink in. Write a letter to yourself & remind yourself of your recovered vision Writing a letter to yourself about why you don’t want to engage in the purge can be a helpful reminder. Think about writing a letter to your struggling self during strong urges. What would you need to hear, what would be helpful at that time? Often letters are comprised of validation for how difficult the current experience is, a reminder of life goals and how this behavior interferes with achieving them, and encouragement to take some other specific actions instead. Keeping your letter close is encouraged as it can be a powerful tool to have in the throes of urges.
Mantra up As I’ve already spoken about. Create some mantras for yourself that address your fears of not purging. Reach out for support This is where a coach, friend, or loved one can step in and support you through the urge. But you first have to let them know that you need their support. Now. Distract yourself Write a list of 10 things you could do to distract yourself from purging so you have it on hand. Put yourself in an environment where you can’t do the purging behavior. Set yourself up for support in the future Ask someone you live with to stay with you after meals or set up a phone date after meals if you live alone Don’t buy laxatives Cancel your gym membership or have a workout partner you trust to support you from purging through excess exercise If running is your purging behavior then literally get rid of your running shoes and sports bra
#9 Keep track of the days you don’t purge, with support The longer your streak of not purging – the more you’ll feel motivated to keep going. The person or people supporting you can celebrate your progress and encourage you to keep going. #10 Work on your limiting beliefs As I’ve talked about during this episode. When you change the beliefs that drive the purging behaviour, the behaviour will stop by itself. Victoria is a Certified Transformational Life Coach specializing in helping high-achieving women to heal their relationship with food & their body. She is a coach, mentor, speaker, and writer; working with women from all around the globe, speaking at worldwide events, and is a writer for Live Love And Eat Magazine. Victoria has lived with eating disorders and body hate for over 20 years. (she was diagnosed with Anorexia Nervosa in her early teens and then Binge Eating Disorder and Bulemia in her early twenties). Through her own personal experiences, education, certification, and countless hours spent on personal development, she holds the skills, knowledge, and empathy to guide and support you to food freedom whilst building a loving relationship with yourself and your body. Victoria has profoundly helped many women around the world to transform their lives and she knows the importance and value of constantly investing in and improving herself in order to serve her clients powerfully. Her goal is to positively impact millions of women from all around the world. https://www.victoriakleinsman.com/ info@victoriakleinsman.com https://www.facebook.com/victoriakleinsman https://www.instagram.com/victoriakleinsman/ Podcast: https://anchor.fm/victoria-kleinsman “Victoria’s Secrets To Health & Happiness” on any podcast platform Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1g1H40rbSQ6Trmcha59kDg
6 Tips to Stay Healthy and Not Gain Weight During the Holidays
WRITTEN BY DR. DANIELLE LITOFF
It’s that most glorious time of year, the holidays! But if you are a woman living on planet Earth, all that joy does not “just happen” – there is a lot we do as moms, wives, sisters, and friends to bring the sparkle. And sometimes that added stress feels a little bit better while enjoying one of the cookies we’ve made (or bought and put on a plate). Stress (good and bad) combined with foods we do not usually eat can be a recipe for weight gain over the holidays. So here are six tips to help keep you feeling healthy while still enjoying this special time with friends and family. Keep Your Workout Routine – or at Least Keep Moving! With all the special holiday programs and events this time of year, it can disrupt your normal routine, including your gym time. Make working out a continued priority. If the kids are out of school, see if your gym offers a kids club they can hang out in for an hour while you get your sweat on. If that’s not an option, take a bike ride as a family so you still get that movement. Also, if you find your time compressed, instead of a normal whole-hour workout, do a 15minute AMRAP (as many rounds as possible) or take 5 pauses in your day and knock out 25 squats each time. Don’t Overschedule Yourself This one is SO hard to do around the holidays. There are a million things going on and they all sound so fun at the time until you look at the calendar and have something going on every night/day for the next two weeks! That increased level of busyness can cause unneeded stress, which can affect your cortisol and even your sleep. Both lack of sleep and increased cortisol can cause weight gain. Do yourself a favor and only say “yes” to the things that really give you and your family joy. Everything else can be a polite decline. Don’t Go to Parties and Events Hungry A little peckish, sure, but hungry, no. This is when the bad decision monster comes out and you are much more likely to overindulge or eat very rich foods that are not a part of your normal diet. We get it, it’s the holidays and a little indulgence is fine, but if you have a healthy snack before you go to the party, you are less likely to go nuts with the artichoke dip.
Get Sleep Those sugar plums dancing in heads are not just for children. This busy and stressful time of year can wage war on your good night’s sleep. Sleep is so vital to your health. Lack of sleep can affect hormones, ultimately affecting metabolism. Adults need to get seven to nine hours of sleep a night for optimal function. Getting less than seven hours of sleep a night is considered sleep deprivation, and that makes us crave glucose (sugar). A study presented at the North American Association for the Study of Obesity found that those who got less than four hours of sleep a night were 73 percent more likely to be obese than those who got the recommended seven to nine hours of rest. Control the Risk of Temptation If you leave little snacks and goodies out on the counter, it is much more likely that you will absentmindedly snack on said goodies. Only leave those things out if there is company or an intention to enjoy the treats. Otherwise, put them away, bring them to the office (this is usually a sure way they will magically disappear), or bring them to the next party you attend. Try and limit placing tempting holiday snacks in your everyday traffic pattern. Have a Go-To “Good” Recipe When you go to dinner at someone’s house over the holidays, you have little control over the menu. Have a go-to recipe for a side dish or appetizer that is yummy but relatively healthy. You can make and bring that dish and then you know there is an option that helps you stick closer to your traditional style of eating. Usually, these recipes are very veggie-forward and incorporate dairy or meat alternatives. The Paleo Mom and Elana’s Pantry have some great ideas to keep it festive and waist-line friendly. And remember, this time is meant to be enjoyed! Do your best this holiday season, but don’t beat yourself up if you fall off the wagon a few times. That’s what new year’s resolutions are for! Hopefully, these tips will help you be more mindful of your body and your health this holiday season so you can continue to be stronger than yesterday. Dr. Danielle Litoff DPT is a Doctor of Physical Therapy and Health Coach at Battle Born Health in Reno, NV. Her practice focuses on the principles of modern, proven medicine, delivered with an old-fashioned commitment to patient care and one-on-one relationships. For more wellness tips, visit her blog where she writes about various topics of nutrition, health, and physical therapy." https://www.battlebornhealth.com/ https://www.facebook.com/battlebornhealth/ https://www.instagram.com/battlebornhealth/
FOUR KEY TIPS TO HELP YOU DO UNCOMFORTABLE THINGS Written By Sherry Parks
Uncomfortable things, ick. Am I right? It seems like I've been encouraging myself (along with all the coaches I've ever had) to do more uncomfortable things. For. Year. Now.I’ve found that it requires me to get out of my comfort zone and use the discomfort to: - Build my coaching practice - Become more connected to people - Increase my self-confidence - Allow more creativity to flow We all desire comfort. Our bodies and minds are designed to keep us comfortable and that’s because being comfortable means safety. Unknown things could lead to danger. Yet, in truth, uncomfortable doesn’t always mean danger. So, it can be a battle to change what we do and to create new things. And it does work. Doing the uncomfortable stuff does often lead us toward our dreams. After if we want different things in our lives, it requires us to take different actions. Getting uncomfortable helps us get there. When staying in our comfort zones does just that, it keeps us comfortable. I know I want more for my life….and I still crave my comfort. I often ask myself, why? Why is comfort and being comfortable so appealing?? I'm human. That may be the only reason there is. In fact, it doesn’t require any other answer. We are human beings and we are wired to stay comfortable. I don't always do the uncomfortable thing - and I still do it a lot. And when I do, I find that I always get closer to my goals. Always. Recently, I've been feeling some kind of way. In fact, some would call it survivor’s guilt. I live in Florida in the United States. We are in hurricane season right now and Hurricane Ian was headed toward the Tampa Bay area (where I live). At the last moment, it turned. It hit a few hours south of me instead. We had prepared and certain areas evacuated and literally had a week of prep time. The last-minute turn meant that the storm hit an area that had very little notice to prepare. And it was a bad storm. Lots of damage occurred.
Homes were lost. Complete communities were obliterated. And, sadly, lots of lives were lost too. I've been thinking about how I might help. As I was googling options, I saw a list of the top 10 ways to help. I read through the list and one of the items was a big ole fat "NO" inside of me. Donate blood. Nope. Yet, something else inside said to do it. Go, donate blood. This might sound like a simple thing. For me, it brings up a lot of anxiety (and that is a story for another day). Even as my brain was saying - don't do it! - I clicked the link. The site said that O+ and Oblood types were in short supply and to please donate if you have either. Dag went on it anyhow! Why do I have O+ blood? And I knew that I had to do it. So, I clicked the link, found a location near me, and scheduled an appointment. Let me be clear, this wasn't a great experience. I ended up with a hematoma, two-needle sticks, and a couple of hours of my life gone.
Yet, afterward.... I felt amazing. I did something in service to others. Something that I didn't want to do. Something that was super uncomfortable (on all kinds of levels). As I think back on the experience, I see four clear steps that really supported me through the process of getting uncomfortable, and I thought they might help you too. Take action as soon as an idea hits. This one is true for just about anything, and particularly true for things we don't want to do. Our minds are constantly processing and thinking, and our brain often moves on to something else. If we don’t take immediate action to lock in the decision/idea, we lose it.
I’ve found it to be true about ideas for articles, ideas to help clients, and even solutions to problems in my accounting work. Making immediate note of those ideas my brain gives me has helped me so many times. And it will help you too. Make an appointment - better yet make an agreement or commitment to yourself. I made an appointment, but inside I also made an agreement with myself that I was going to do this thing. When we commit to something on that level, it changes us. It helps us be unwavering. It gives us a reason to follow through. And if you find that you are a person who keeps commitments to others, and waffles when it comes to commitments to yourself, then here is a chance to practice. YOU are as important as other people and keeping a commitment to yourself will do amazing things for you. Try it! Keep going. There were times when I thought this is taking too long, I could leave. Or, when the phlebotomist blew my vein and had to stop - he gave me an out and told me I could totally walk away, I didn't have to let him stick my other arm. Now I had permission to leave - and I remembered my commitment, so I stayed.
Sherry Parks, CPA, is a Money Mindset Coach who helps women escape feeling trapped by their finances. She is passionate about helping women change mindsets, emotions, and actions regarding money so that they learn to keep what they have and generate more. Check out her 5 Steps to a Better Money Story workbook ( https://livesinbalance.lpages.co/5-steps-to-a-better-moneystory/) or join her women-only Facebook group More Than Enough Money Sisterhood.
When things get uncomfortable or difficult, it is easy to come up with “reasons” why it’s okay to quit. And continuing on is the way to go. No matter the outcome, keeping on will serve you and help you do this uncomfortable thing. And really help you when it comes to more uncomfortable things in the future. Acknowledge yourself. After it's done, you do deserve a pat on the back. So, take a moment and absorb what you did. Take in that feeling of confidence, accomplishment, and satisfaction. You're going to want to remember that the next time you face an uncomfortable thing. Plus, acknowledging yourself is a way to truly see how awesome you are. You are a person who CAN and DOES hard things! How do you move past your desire for comfort and do those uncomfortable things? If you find yourself avoiding them, test out these tips, then reach out and tell me how it went!
h t e g p n i e t r a fect e r C
SELF CARE ROUTINE DURING THE HOLIDAYS
WRITTEN BY BERNADINE OTTO
Why Self Care is so important? Focusing on self-care is potentially one of the most important things we can do for our physical, emotional, and mental health. “No matter what diet you follow, how much you exercise, and what supplements you take, if you’re not managing your stress, you will still be at risk for modern degenerative conditions like heart disease, diabetes, hypothyroidism, and autoimmunity.” - Chris Kresser, M.S., L.Ac. According to the Mayo Clinic, “Stress symptoms may be affecting your health, even though you might not realize it. You may think illness is to blame for that irritating headache, your frequent insomnia, or your decreased productivity at work. But stress may actually be the cause.” If you are feeling stressed, burned out, and out of balance, one of the most effective ways to take back control and push the reset button is through SELF-CARE.
Getting started Think back to the last time you chose to take time to care for yourself or have some “me” time. You may have taken some quiet time to relax, meditate, read a book, go for a walk, or enjoy a hobby. How did it make you feel? Did you feel relaxed and happy, or did it bring up feelings of guilt that you did something for yourself? Maybe it made you feel like your time could be better spent working or doing something “more productive”?
This will walk you through the benefits of self-care, science-backed self-care strategies, and how you can ditch the guilt and find a self-care routine that works best for YOU! It can be easy to feel guilty or selfish when we spend time and energy focusing on ourselves. Still, it’s just as easy to feel as if a piece of ourselves is missing when we give all of what we have to the people around us, sparing nothing for ourselves, which leaves us feeling stressed and burned out. Focusing on yourself and your needs as an individual is not selfish; it’s essential to good physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual health. Self-care is acknowledging and recognizing your emotions and building a routine that improves your mindset, energy levels, motivation levels, relationships, etc., and helps you better serve those around you because your cup is FULL. Self-care is any activity that you do deliberately to take care of your mental, emotional, and physical health. (1) You get to determine what that activity is for you. What works for you will probably be different from someone else. It’s essential not to get caught up in what the wellness industry (or anyone else)thinks self-care should be for YOU because it’s a unique and personal journey. Self-care routine can result in Improved mood Reduced anxiety or stress Improved relationship with yourself Improved relationships with others Better physical and mental health Mental clarity & increased energy levels More joy and fulfillment If your self-care routine feels forced or involves doing things you don’t like, then it’s time to try something else. Self-care is meant to be enjoyable, not something you dread, so choose something you enjoy.
Decide which one or two self-care routines you want to incorporate in the next few days. Mindfulness Being mindful means tuning into your thoughts and emotions and making decisions based on logic AND intuition. Your gut has neurological pathways, so when you get ‘that gut feeling,’ it’s usually because your body is trying to tell you something. When you listen to yourself and become more aware of your surroundings, it’s easier for you to feel more in touch with your life and the world that surrounds you. A mindful activity Being mindful starts by examining the world around you every day. You can start to build more mindful habits by assessing the choices you make and asking yourself this question: “If I choose this path, will it help me reach my goals?” For example, if I choose fast food over prepping healthy, nourishing food at home, does that move me closer to my goals? The mindful decision is the one that answers, “Yes, I am building a better, healthier me.’ Movement Movement is good for the body, mind, and soul. Finding an exercise routine that’s right for you is the key to making it last. Here are some great ways to start moving your body that doesn’t necessarily involve going to the gym for an hour every day: Walking for 20 - 30 minutes Dancing or kickboxing Yoga or Pilates Swimming Strength training How to build a routine that works for you Building a successful, long-lasting exercise routine starts with making small changes that add up over time. Start with 20-minute low-impact exercises (walking, yoga, etc.) and slowly build up when you have found something you enjoy that you can also work into your schedule. You can answer “how did that make me feel” every time you finish exercising to assess whether or not it was right for you. NOTE: Check with your doctor before beginning a new exercise program.
Nature Spending time in nature has been shown to help with mental health issues such as anxiety and depression. Finding activities outside can be a wonderful form of self-care. (2) Spending a reasonable amount of time outdoors can help with seasonal affective disorder and help to prevent Vitamin D deficiency. Some amazing outdoor activities that you can do to improve your mood include: Nature walks Biking & hiking Swimming Going to the beach Gardening Spending time with your family outside (picnics, rock collecting, outdoor craft activities) Breathwork and meditation Meditation and controlled breathwork are essentially exercises that teach you to control your breathing rate to bring more awareness to your breath and create a sense of calm. This can be done while in meditation or throughout the day in 5 minutes to an hour of deep, rhythmic breathing techniques. The benefits of doing meditation and mindful breathwork are vast! Many people report more clarity, reduced stress levels, increased alertness, and a boost to the immune system. Apps such as Headspace, Calm, or Buddhify can help guide you on your meditative journey.
Getting started is always the hard part, but breathwork and meditation can become an effortless part of your routine once you get the hang of it. You can begin in a quiet space with no distractions, breathing in 2-minute increments, and slowly build up to longer periods of time. A Nourishing diet Taking care of your mental health should always go hand in hand with taking care of your physical health, and a nutrient-rich diet full of whole foods can help. The gut and brain are connected in numerous ways, so consuming foods that don’t provide enough nourishment can affect how you feel. Some ways you can tell that your body isn’t properly nourished include: Fatigue Blood sugar imbalances Craving and consuming too much sugar Impaired cognitive function
De-clutter Believe it or not, some experts say that clutter can negatively impact your mental health and increase stress levels: When things are cluttered, and you can’t find what you are looking for, your adrenaline levels can increase. Your environment can have a direct impact on your mood and mental health. If your surroundings make you feel stressed, see if you can pinpoint what it is so you can work on it (more on this in a moment). It can seem overwhelming but decluttering starts one step at a time. You can start by setting aside a few minutes each day to tidy up one place. Start with the area that is causing the most stress or annoyance. It could be a messy room or closet. Get rid of items you no longer need or want (trash or donate) to clear out your environment. The gradual process will help you feel happier, more relaxed, and more in control over time, rather than feeling stressed and disorganized. Take mindful breaks from work/you to-do list Sometimes it’s hard to pull ourselves away from our daily priorities like work, chores, and errands. Still, it is important for your overall mental health and well-being to separate yourself from your to-do list and take well-needed breaks throughout your day. This also includes time away from social media. Some ways you can take mindful breaks include: 5-minute stretch sessions or a 15-minute yoga session Unplug from social media by a certain time each day and take one social media-free day at least once a week Go for a walk Listen to music or mindset podcasts (search ‘mindset’ in your podcast app) Breathwork or meditation sessions Find a hobby you enjoy (painting, drawing, writing, calligraphy, scrapbooking, crafting, etc.) Sleep Getting adequate sleep is a form of self-care too. Sleep problems can impact how you feel, and reducing stress can help you sleep better. The good news is that you can utilize strategies to ensure you are getting adequate levels of uninterrupted sleep every night and make sure your mind is rested and your body is restored. Chronic sleep problems affect 50-80% of people with mental health issues (4), and sleep problems are closely associated with depression and anxiety. Experts suggest that treating the sleep disorder can help alleviate the symptoms associated with these mental health problems. Getting a good night’s rest can help foster mental and emotional resilience. Alternatively, poor (and chronic) sleep deprivation can contribute to negative thinking and emotional disturbances. During the most important part of your sleep cycle (called quiet sleep), the body relaxes, and the heart rate and breathing slow down, which produces changes in the body that help boost your immune system.
Things that may happen if you are not getting quality sleep every night include: Dependencies, such as stimulants or depressants (caffeine, alcohol, nicotine) Lack of motivation to eat healthily or workout Poor cognitive function Lack of motivation Anxiety and depression What are some ways you can improve sleep on a nightly basis? (Good sleep hygiene) Avoid stimulants such as caffeine a few hours before bedtime Manage blood sugar levels Get some physical activity during the day (but not too close to bedtime) Relaxation techniques such as meditation Remove screen time before bed (2 hours prior) Yoga or gentle stretching Decide what self-care routine you can commit to this month What is one simple thing you can start with to incorporate self-care into your life? Write it down and put it on your calendar as a reminder, if needed. Decide on your affirmation and put it in a place you will see it throughout the day. Post your affirmation and/or your self-care choice in the Facebook group. You may just inspire someone else!
Bernadine Otto is a Certified Transformational Nutrition Coach & an EFT Practitioner and the Managing editor of The Live, Love and Eat Magazine. She helps women to make peace with food, cravings, and emotional eating by using a technique called The EFT Tapping Method for Weight Loss and Cravings. She also works with women who are tired of dieting, and women who have a negative body image. My approach is not to focus on calories or the scale but to find the root cause so my clients can have the happy, healthy life that they deserve. https://www.bernadineisthebodyshrink.com/
Health & wellness tips Health & Nutrition & Wellbeing
TO YOUR HEALTH
and Wellness
From eating the right food to the perfect exercise routine, find the best path to a healthier and happier you.
Food Tip: Use Parsley as a digestive aid Parsley is useful as a digestive aid. It is a natural breath freshener, and anti-carcinogen, contains three times the amount of vitamin C as oranges, and twice the amount of iron as in spinach.
Wellness Tip: Have a daily green smoothie Green smoothies as a snack or simple, on-the-go breakfast is an easy way to get your greens in each day
''Happiness is the highest form of health.'' - unknown
Kelli O'Brien Watson, Tracy Markley, Todd Durkin, and Greg Justice of Scriptor Publishing.
Proceeds from this book will be donated to The Durkin IMPACT foundation was started in 2012 by Todd and his wife Melanie, when his hometown of Brick, New Jersey, was destroyed by Hurricane Sandy. We knew we had to do something to help the people in Brick who were struggling as a result of the hurricane. Ten years later, The Durkin IMPACT Foundation not only helps those in need but also awards college scholarships to high school athletes from both Brick Township High (BTHS), Scripps Ranch High School (SRHS), and a few other schools chosen at random each year. Each scholarship ranges from $500 to $1,500 and to
Challenge Produces Opportunity In 2020, as the pandemic swept across the globe, people were immediately impacted, and businesses closed down. The fitness industry was no exception. Gyms and training facilities shut their doors and then immediately pivoted by finding creative new ways to deliver services to clients. The saying, “necessity is the mother of invention,” never rang more true as these challenges produced opportunities for innovation and growth.
date we’ve awarded more than $250,000 in scholarships.
What’s Next? compiles the insights of 28 health and
OUR MISSION
wellness experts who weathered the challenges because
The Durkin IMPACT Foundation is a 501(c)(3) that
they were focused on finding better ways to help people
was founded in 2012 on the heels of Hurricane
become healthy. In this book, they share their knowledge,
Sandy devastating my home area of the Jersey
experience, and vision.
Shore. Our Mission: The Durkin IMPACT Foundation was established to motivate, educate,
Within these pages, you will discover:
and inspire people to be their best, to foster a spirit of giving back and paying forward, and to create a
*The top 10 areas of growth in the fitness industry
positive IMPACT in the world. Now our IMPACT
*The most innovative technologies and methods being used
Foundation is raising money for scholarships to
in fitness, health, and wellness
non-privileged, under-served student-athletes going to college who exemplify the qualities, traits, work ethic, and attitude of an “IMPACT” person. In addition, our funding priorities help those in need who are affected by natural disasters, childhood obesity, and diseases such as heart disease, disability, and cancer. For more information, or to make a donation, go to: https://todddurkin.com/impact-foundation/
*What’s new in the world of self-improvement *Creative ideas for growing your fitness or wellness business *Specializations that will become the wave of the future Order your copy here: Amazon
Post-Rain High WRITTEN BY JACE JACOBS
Written By Jace Jacobs
The cool rain subsides and gives way to blue skies. I find myself loving those moments right after. I especially love when the sunbeams sneak through the clouds. It's then that the birds take flight and life gets back to a new normal. I've got that post-rain high. Namaste Jace Jacobs Appreciate Everything ~ Love Fully ~ Need Nothing
Post-Rain High I'm out here chasing rainbows Those birdies flying by Cool colors all around I've got that post-rain high I'll say a little some something These words in my mind Gonna take a look inside And share what I find So let's not mess up this moment With the troubles of yesterday Let's get grounded in the present And embrace what we love today I'm out here chasing rainbows Those birdies flying by Cool colors all around I've got that post-rain high There will be some rainy days and adversity along the way. We could get caught up in yesterday's troubles or we can embrace what we love each day. What is your version of a post-rain high?
Meet Jace Jacobs! Jace Jacobs is a Happy Mindset Poet, Performer, and Creator @ jacejacobs.com. Jace is an author and spoken word poetry performer. His Happy Mindset Poetry books are available on Amazon or via jacejacobs.com. Jace enjoys helping cool souls raise their vibrational state so they can experience more confidence and clarity in their life.Appreciate Everything ~ Love Fully ~ Need Nothing#HappyMindsetPoetryVisit the social media links below for video performances of spoken word rhyming happy mindset poetry. https://www.facebook.com/jacewjacobs/ https://www.youtube.com/jacejacobs https://www.instagram.com/jacejacobs https://twitter.com/jacejacobs
WHAT'S COOKING
Air fryer Chicken parmesan By Bernadine Otto
The Ingredients 2 Chicken Breasts sliced in half 3/4 teaspoon Salt 3/4 teaspoon Italian Seasoning Mix Breading 1/4 cup All Purpose Flour 2 large Eggs 1/2 teaspoon Garlic Powder 1/2 teaspoon Salt 1 cup Panko Breadcrumbs 1/2 cup grated Parmesan
The Method Sprinkle with salt and Italian seasoning mix. Set aside. Place flour on a plate. In a deep dish, whisk together egg, salt, and garlic powder. Mix panko breadcrumbs and parmesan on another plate.. Dust the chicken with flour. Dip it well into the egg mixture, and shake off the excess egg., then coat the chicken in the parmesan panko mixture. Place the chicken on a wire rack and repeat with the remaining chicken. Place in the basket of the air fryer and cook at 390 degrees for 5 minutes. Flip the chicken and cook for an additional 5 minutes. Cook in the air fryer until the chicken reaches 165 degrees
Perfect Roast Turkey
By Bernadine Otto
The Ingredients 1 (18 pound) whole turkey ½ cup unsalted butter, softened salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste 1 ½ quarts chicken stock
The Method . Preheat oven to 325 degrees F (165 degrees C). Place the rack in the lowest position of the oven. Remove the turkey neck and giblets, rinse the turkey, and pat dry with paper towels. Place the turkey, breast side up, on a rack in the roasting pan. Rub the skin with the softened butter, and season with salt and pepper. Position an aluminum foil tent over the turkey. Place turkey in the oven, and pour 2 cups of chicken stock into the bottom of the roasting pan. Baste all over every 30 minutes with the juices on the bottom of the pan. Whenever the drippings evaporate, add stock to moisten them, about 1 to 2 cups at a time. Remove aluminum foil after 2 1/2 hours. Roast until a meat thermometer inserted in the meaty part of the thigh reads 165 degrees F (75 degrees C), about 4 hours. Transfer the turkey to a large serving platter, and let it stand for at least 20 to 30 minutes before carving.
“There is October in every November and there is November in every December. All seasons melted in each other’s life.” – Mehmet Murat ildan