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Catch a Cheater Manual

Catch a Cheater Manual

Franklin White

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About The Author

A resourceful and detail-oriented professional with keen observational, analytical and reporting skills honed by more than 10 years of experience in investigation and surveillance work.

Key Skills:

 Risk Assessment / Management  Personal and Property Protection  Surveillance and Counter Surveillance  Report Writing

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 Investigative Research

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Catch a Cheater Manual Table of Contents Chapter 1: Warning Signs of Infidelity …………………………………………………….. 5 Top 10 Signs of Cheating……………………………………………………. 5 Other Warning Signals to Watch Out For……………………………………. 8 Chapter 2: Why Do Cheaters Cheat? ……………………………………………………….. 9 Why Do Men Cheat On Their Partner?………………………………………. 9 Why Do Women Cheat On Their Partner?……………………………..……. 11 Chapter 3: Online Relationships, Are They Really Cheating?..………………….……….. 13 What about Online Affairs?...............…….………………………….……. 13 How Cheaters Use the Internet to Seek New Romance.………………………. 15 Chapter 4: Common Mistakes Cheaters Make………………...………………….……….. 16 Chapter 5: So, What’s Next? ?..…………………………………………………….……….. 18 Pros and Cons of Spying on a Cheater...…….………………………….……. 18

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Pros and Cons of Hiring a Private Investigator…………………..……………. 19

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Chapter 6: How to Catch a Cheater?..………….………………………………….……….. 21 Guidelines for Spying on a Cheating Partner...………………………….……. 21 DIY Spy Equipment You Can Use………….…………………..……………. 23 Computer Spy Software…………………...………………………….……. 25 Cell Phone Spy Software & Apps.………….…………………..……………. 31 Conclusion and Final Words………….…...…….……………………..………. 40


Foreword It is a difficult situation when crossing a cross road of the unknown. Infidelity is one of the hardest emotional stresses a human can ever face. And if you are in that situation, always remember that it is not your fault. But you cannot run nor hide from it. You've have got to do something about it. You deserve the truth and you deserve to have a peace of mind.

If you have downloaded this report in search of the truth, chances are your suspicions may be true. This report aims to provide you with information that may help you understand your situation and why things are happening and why they seems to spin out of control. It also aims to provide you with some workable and practical tips on how to get the proof you need if an infidelity has happened indeed.

Just a word of caution though, please be aware that the use of some spy gadgets, surveillance equipment and software are illegal in certain circumstances and additional regulations vary from country to country and state to state. If you decide to use surveillance equipment, it is important to do so in a way that does not violate any law. It is your responsibility to be certain that any spy and surveillance tools recommended on this report will not be used to violate the privacy rights of others, or any local, state or Federal laws. Phone tapping and eavesdropping may be illegal in certain countries and states. Check your local laws and statutes regarding these issues.

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The publisher and author of this report nor its subsidiaries, employees, partners or affiliates will not be held legally responsible for inappropriate use of this report or the tools recommended herein. Seek legal advice before using any of these methods or devices describe therein.

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Chapter 1: Warning Signs of Infidelity Associated Press reported that: 

22 percent of married men have strayed at least once during their married lives.

14 percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their married lives.

Younger people are more likely candidates; in fact, younger women are as likely as younger men to be unfaithful.

70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men did not know of their spouses’ extramarital activity.

5 percent of married men and 3 percent of married women reported having sex with someone other than their spouse.

22 percent of men and 14 percent of women admitted to having sexual relations

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outside their marriage sometime in their past.

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17 percent of divorces in the United States are caused by infidelity So, do you suspect that your husband or wife is cheating on you? If you think that your spouse is cheating, you may be looking for confirmation. Before you take steps to start spying on your spouse or before you decide to hire the services of a costly private investigator, read the signs below to see if your spouse may truly be cheating on you. 1 – A Change in Physical Appearance


Men and women who cheat often want to impress or entice the individual they are having inappropriate relations with. When doing so, they often change or improve their appearance. If your spouse starts paying more attention to their weight or buys new clothes, they may be having an affair.

2 – Distance or Lack of Communication Until you recently started noticing a problem, how was your communication with your spouse? If your spouse has recently stopped talking to you or distanced themselves from you at home, there is a good chance that they may be cheating on you. This is because they may be afraid of making a mistake and talking about their affair or they may already be discussing their problems with someone else.

3 – They Constantly Work Late Depending on your spouse and his or her career, they really may have to work late. With that said, be on the lookout for changes and use your best judgment. Has your husband or wife all of a sudden started working late? In terms of using your best judgment, know what careers often call for late nights, such as lawyers, doctors, and so forth.

Spending time with friends does not always signal a cheater. In fact, healthy relationships also depend on healthy outside friendships. With that said, be sure to use your best judgment. Look for the appearance of new friends or an increased amount of time. Has your husband or wife gone from spending one night a week with friends to three or more?

5 – You Don’t Know Where They Are When you are married, there is never really any reason why you shouldn’t know where your spouse is, especially late at night or for long periods of time. If you do not know, chances are your spouse is cheating. When they arrive home, they better have a good reason for being late or not letting you know where they were.

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4 – They Spend Too Much Time with Friends

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6 – You Hear Rumors Many men and women are not careful about cheating. This often involves them telling someone or someone seeing them out on a date. In these types of situations, people often talk. Listen to what you hear. If people are telling you that your spouse is cheating, it might be time to start listening.

7 – No Sex Has your relationship recently become sex-free or has the sex that you do have decreased in intensity and in frequency. If so, there is a good chance that your spouse is cheating on you. Men and women who get sex elsewhere don’t always need to have it again when they return home.

8 – You Are Accused of Cheating In today’s society, cheating is a major concern. If your spouse accuses you of cheating, have you been displaying behavior that may lead them to that conclusion? If you haven’t, there is a good chance that they are accusing you of cheating to make themselves feel less guilty.

9 – Hearing the Phrase “We are Just Friends”

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The “just friends,” phrase is a big sign of a cheater. As with all other friendships, it is important to use your best judgment. If the friend of the opposite sex and are they are a newly acquired friend? If so, something may be up.

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10 – A Bad Feeling Bad feelings are not something that should be easily dismissed. If you have reason to believe that your husband or wife is cheating, they may be. If you do not want to be in a relationship with a cheater, it is important for you to follow your heart. Take additional steps to see if they are truly cheating. These steps may involve hiring a private investigator or spying.


Some Other Warning Signs  When they will not allow you access to their computer or they suddenly shut down the computer when you walk into the room. They may password protect their laptop or computer to keep out suspicious eyes. Or they stay up to “work” or “play a game” on the computer after you go to bed. Excessive internet usage, especially late at night, is a red flag.

 When they suddenly need a cell phone and you are discouraged from ever looking at it or using it. They also may make certain their cell phone cannot be answered by you by hiding it or taking it with them wherever they go. They are secretive about their cell phone bill and pay it themselves when you have always paid the bill in the past.

 When they get mysterious phone calls or when they hurry to answer the phone, leave the room to talk on the phone and when you ask who called, they say, “No one”, “Wrong number”, or “Why do you care?”

 When they suddenly begin to treat you extremely nice; more so than usual. Simple trips, such as to the grocery store or bank, take hours rather than the time it should take.

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 When you notice that they are reluctant to kiss you or accept your affection.

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Chapter 2: Why Do Cheaters Cheat? Why Do Men Cheat On Their Partner? One of the most common questions asked by women who have been cheated on is “why do men cheat?” When it comes to determining why men cheat on their wives or their girlfriends, it is difficult to come up with an exact reason. Why? Because men cheat for a wide range of different reasons. For example, your boyfriend may cheat for one reason, but one another man may be cheating for a whole other reason.

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Despite the fact that it is difficult to determine exactly why men cheat, there are a number of common reasons. These reasons, a few of which are highlighted below, may be the cause of your cheating husband or boyfriend.

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1 – To Get Out of a Relationship What do you do when you decide that you went to end a relationship? If you are like many other women, you breakup with your boyfriend or ask for a divorce from your husband. For some men, this is a lot easier said than done. Those who fear breakups, often opt for cheating instead. These men often wish to get caught, as most women will not put up with a cheating partner. What does this mean? It means that some men use cheating as an easy way to get out of a relationship. Unfortunately, most men don’t take the pain of a broken heart into consideration.


2 – Unfulfilled Desires Unfulfilled desires is another common reason why some men cheat. In these instances, men do not want to end their relationship with their girlfriend or wife. In fact, they may truly love their significant other, it’s just that their desires aren’t being fulfilled. All individuals, including both men and women, have sexual desires. If those desires aren’t being met at home, a man may turn elsewhere. Aside from the sexual standpoint and the act of cheating, these types of men often have otherwise healthy relationships at home. 3 – An Improvement in Self-Confidence There comes a point in every woman’s life when she looks in the mirror and thinks “what has happened to me?” Men go through this same experience. Whether it be increasing in age, a change in physical appearance, or a generalized decrease in self-confidence, many men are afraid of what they see or what they have become. These men often need an uplifting experience. Unfortunately, not all men opt for something adventurous like skydiving or rockclimbing. Many other men decide to have an affair. 4 – Convenience Unfortunately, many wives and girlfriends make the mistake of assuming that affairs are longterm term and last for weeks, months or years. In fact, a large percentage of men who cheat only have what is commonly referred to as one night stands. This is when they have sexual relations with another woman and return home to you, possibly never seeing that woman again. As for why men have one night stands, many do so because it is convenient and because they can. Also, in these types of situations, alcohol is typically a factor.

As highlighted above, there are a number of common reasons why men cheat. With that said, it is important to remember that men are not the only ones who cheat. Some women are just as bad. Don’t let yourself become one of those women, especially if your only goal is to seek revenge.

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5 – Just Because It is important to remember that a man doesn’t have to have a reason to cheat. There are some men who honestly don’t care about who they hurt in the process. There are other men who simply just make a mistake. If you think that your man is cheating on you, it may be more important to focus on what you should do, as opposed to dwelling on why he decided to cheat in the first place.

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Why Do Women Cheat On Their Partner? When it comes to cheating, many of us instinctively think of men who cheat on their girlfriends or wives. Yes, this is a common occurrence, but women are just as capable as carrying on affairs as men are. In fact, many women do. If you suspect that your wife or girlfriend is cheating on you, you may be curious as to why. When it comes to determining why women cheat on their boyfriends or husbands, an answer is actually hard to come across. This is because women, as well as men, cheat for a wide range of different reasons. Just because one woman likes to cheat because it is easy to do so, it doesn’t mean that is the same goal and motivation of your significant other. Although it is difficult to pinpoint the exact reason why women cheat on their men, there are a number of common reasons. A few of these reasons are highlighted below. They may be what is causing your wife or girlfriend to cheat on you.

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1 – Unfulfilled Desires at Home Do you have a preference when it comes to sex? Most men do, but did you also know that most women do as well? Have you asked your wife or girlfriend what she likes in bed? If not, you may not be fulfilling her desires. It is important to remember that women do have sexual needs as well. If your sex life is dull, boring, or decreasing, there is a good chance that your significant other is cheating on you. Remember, she may be doing so to fulfill her sexual desires or her fantasies.

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2 – To Get Out of a Relationship There was a point in time when a simple breakup note or a phone call was an easy way to end a relationship. Now, it seems as if cheating is the easiest alternative. Many women use cheating as a way to get out of their relationship. Some women fear the responses that they will receiving when trying to breakup with a boyfriend or ask for a divorce. Violence is one of those fears. If you have noticed that your relationship has been suffering for some time now, there is a chance that your woman is trying to find an easy way out of your relationship.

3 – To Feel Young Again


It is no secret that women fear aging. In fact, many women enter into crisis mode when they notice aging signs on their body. These signs may include wrinkles, grey hair, or weight gain. Some women choose to improve their physical appearance by getting a makeover or starting a weight loss plan, others decide to go out and have an affair. In these types of situations, affairs are typically short and may also only be one night stands. Some women just want to be able to go out for a while, have a good time, feel young again, and return home. 4 – Convenience Convenience is another common reason why women cheat on their men. Say your girlfriend or wife is out to dinner or at a bar with a group of friends. A man provides them with attention and pays them compliments. Many women will eat this right up. It goes with the above mentioned reason of feeling young again and improving self-confidence levels. At this point in time, many women also think “why not?� If they have a man there who is willing to provide them with passion, even just for one night, many women choose to go for it because of convenience.

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As highlighted above, it is important to remember that men are typically typecast as the cheaters, but women can cheat just the same. If you suspect that your wife or girlfriend is cheating on you, you may want to spend less time focusing on the why or the how and more time deciding what action you will take. Do you want to save your relationship or is it not worth the pain?

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Chapter 3: Online Relationships, Are They Really Cheating? What about Online Affairs? Does your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend spend way too much time on the computer? If they do and if you do not know what they are doing, you may be wondering if your significant other is having an online relationship. Unfortunately, online relationships are often viewed differently, but that doesn’t mean that they can’t be considered cheating.

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When it comes to relationships that develop online, there are typically two sides to the story. The first side is that of the cheater or the individual carrying on the affair. If you ever catch your significant other having an online relationship, they may claim that it isn’t really cheating. This is because sometimes a physical meeting never takes place. So, essentially, your partner has never kissed or had physical sex with the person at the other end of the computer.

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The second side of the story, where online relationships are concerned, is the side of the husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend who catches their partner acting inappropriately online. For starters, it is important to know that many individuals nowadays don’t just talk online. There are social networking websites, dating websites, and other similar websites that make it easier for internet users to meet up with each other. Just because you are told that a physical meeting did not occur, it does not mean that you are getting the truth. In fact, a meeting may have been planned right around the corner. In keeping with viewing emotional affairs from the viewpoint of those who are being “cheated,” on, it is important to examine the harm caused. Phone sex is a popular activity for couples in long distance relationships. This may be occurring or it may be done online. Despite the fact that physical contact has still not been made, inappropriate actions are still being performed. Plus, even if sexy or seductive emails are the only thing exchanged, it can


still hurt. For many men and women, emotional affairs can be just as painful and as heart breaking. So, do you suspect that your partner is having an inappropriate relationship online. If you do, there are a number of steps that you can take to get answers. For starters, try to enter the computer room. If it is locked, there is a good sign that something inappropriate is going on. Next, when you enter the room, place all of your focus on the computer screen. Does your partner quickly change what is appearing on the screen? Next, approach them, as if you intend to give them a hug or a kiss. Towards the bottom of the screen should be a task bar. This bar will give you information on programs that are open, including pornographic websites, video players, and so forth. If you suspect that your partner is having inappropriate relationships online, it is a good idea to first think about your actions. Unfortunately, many men and women are so surprised when they do catch what is happening that they don’t know how to act. Be prepared. Do you want to limit computer use, get rid of the computer altogether, take a break, or completely cut ties? There are a number of benefits to having a set plan in place before you confront your cheating spouse.

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Remember that online relationships can often develop into more than just a few flirty emails here and there.

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How Cheaters Use the Internet to Seek New Romance The internet has made it very easy for cheaters to seek new romance. Not only is the internet making online affairs easy and convenient, but many cheaters think the internet makes it harder to get caught. Unfortunately for them and luckily for you, the computer often tells the tale. As for how men and women use the internet to seek new romance online, there are a number of different approaches taken. One of those is social networking websites. Now, it is important to know that social networking sites, like MySpace, have increased in popularity over the past few years. Just because your partner uses a social networking website, it does not mean that they are cheating on you. They may truly just be interested in connecting with old friends. Be cautious, however, of a profile that you cannot see or access or the appearance of old girlfriends.

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Dating websites are also how many cheaters use the internet to seek new romance online. Unfortunately, dating websites are more risky than social networking websites. If your husband, wife, girlfriend, or boyfriend uses an online dating site, they may have the intention of actually meeting the person at the other end of the computer. This is when an affair stops becoming just an emotional affair and often starts becoming a physical affair. If you ever find that your partner is using an online dating website, be aware because there is a good chance that they are cheating on you or intend to start soon.

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Chapter 4: Common Mistakes Cheaters Make Many cheaters make simple, yet costly mistakes in their relationships. These mistakes can actually make it much easier for you to catch your cheating spouse or partner. A few of the common mistakes that cheaters, both men and women, make are outlined below.

Mistake # 1 – Believing They Won’t Get Caught The biggest mistake that cheaters make is believing that they won’t get caught. This often leads cheaters to become bolder, braver, as well as display reckless behavior. Yes, it is true that some men and women are able to carry on affairs for years without their spouses or romantic partners knowing, but this is actually quite rare. Due to the other mistakes that are listed below, most cheaters end up getting caught at one time or another. Mistake # 2 – Believing Their Partner Will Forgive Them

Mistake # 3 – Believing They Did or Are Doing Nothing Wrong As previously stated, many cheaters expect not to get caught and those who do get caught expect to be forgiven right away. These same individuals likely believe that they aren’t doing anything wrong. The good news for you though is that men and women who assume they aren’t doing anything wrong by cheating, don’t always cover their tracks. This means that it should be easier for you to catch a cheating spouse or romantic partner and take the appropriate action.

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If you are unfortunate enough to learn that your spouse or romantic partner is cheating on you, you may be surprised with their actions. Many cheaters, regardless of gender, appear shocked when their significant other is upset. This is because many cheaters expect their partners to automatically forgive them, like by writing off the cheating as a simple mistake.

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Mistake # 4 – Changing Their Appearance When men and women have affairs, they often feel revived. This often results in them wanting to take better care of themselves and improve their physical appearance. Of course, it is important to remember that there may be a good reason for your significant other to get a makeover or change their wardrobe, but it is often a sign of cheating. In fact, it is such a common and well-known sign that you have to wonder what your significant other is thinking when openly making these changes. Mistake # 5 – Making Themselves Unavailable When a husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend suspects that their partner is cheating on them, they often try and contact their significant other whey they don’t know where they are. This contact is often made by phone. One mistake that cheaters make is not picking up the phone. Yes, they are probably “busy,” but cheaters who answer the phone and come up with a plausible excuse for not being home or being out of reach, are likely to get away with cheating longer. Mistake # 6 – Talking Too Much or Flaunting Affair

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In keeping with the mistake of believing that they will get away with it, many cheaters make the mistake of talking about their affair or getting braver. This may involve going out in public, as opposed to meeting in secret. What many cheaters do not realize is that people talk, even the people who they believe they can trust and those closest to them. In fact, this is how many people become aware of a cheating spouse or romantic partner; they hear the rumors that are flying.

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The above mentioned mistakes are just a few of the many, but common mistakes that cheaters make. Be on the lookout for a few of these mistakes, as they may be a good sign that you significant other is cheating on you.


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Chapter 5: So, What’s Next? The Pros and Cons of Spying on a Cheating Spouse To get confirmation that their spouses are cheating, many men and women make the decision to spy on their spouses. There is no better proof than catching a cheater in the act. Of course, you can take the spying approach, but it is important to know that there are a number of pros and cons to doing so. One of the many cons or downsides to spying on what you believe to be a cheating spouse is the fact that it may take up a considerable amount of time. Cheaters cheat differently. You might assume that your husband or wife is having inappropriate relations with another individual on a daily basis, but it may only end up being on a weekly basis or even a monthly basis. This means it could take a while for you to actually catch your cheating spouse in the act.

Another con or downside to spying on a cheating spouse is that it can be costly. To properly document the affair for divorce proceedings, you need to have proof. This proof may require the purchase of a video recorder or a digital camera. You may also end up missing work to spy on your cheating partner. Although you will not lose actual money, it is important to take into consideration the time that you will be spending away from your loved ones, like your children. When spying on what you believe to be a cheating spouse, it is important to remember that you can get caught. Unfortunately, many of those doing the spying believe that this will just not happen. Of course, keeping your distance, wearing a disguise, and using a friend’s car

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In keeping with the amount of time that it takes to catch a cheating spouse, you may get frustrated with the whole process. This may involve you slacking off or even brining your kids with you. This is something that you will never want to do. If you cannot handle the possibly long and frustrating process of trying to catch a cheating spouse, you may want to call on the services of a professional private investigator.

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can lessen the chances of this happening. With that said, be sure to always have a plan in place if you get caught. In keeping with getting caught, when spying on a cheating spouse, it is important to know that spying can be dangerous. You may be brought into unfamiliar and unsafe areas of towns. If your husband or wife is known for their jealousy, physical or emotional abuse, you may end up putting yourself in serious danger if you were to ever get caught. For that reason, be sure to always let someone know where you are going and why. Always carry a cell phone with you. Despite the fact that there are a number of cons or downsides to spying on a cheating partner, there are also a number of pro or plus sides to doing so as well. The biggest being that you will now know that your husband or wife is cheating on you. This can allow you to proceed with a divorce, make a decision if you want to work on your relationship and so forth. It can also give you the urge to get yourself tested for sexually transmitted diseases, as they are a risk when cheating and multiple partners are involved. As a recap, there are a number of pros and cons to catching a cheating spouse. If you want to do the spying yourself, as opposed to using a private investigator, be sure to use your best judgment. As much as you want to know that your husband or wife is cheating on you, it is important to be safe. Endangering your safety is not worth it, even to get proof the proof that you have been wanting.

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The Pros and Cons of Hiring a Private Investigator to Catch a Cheating Spouse

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As for what a private investigator does, you will find that their actions will vary. Different investigators handle their cases differently. For example, you may receive direct, one-on-one service from the investigator that you hire or you may end up working with one of their close associates. Either way, your spouse will likely be followed. Their behavior may be documented in pictures or videos. A private investigator may also examine your computer or your phone records. Before deciding to use the services of a private investigator, it is first important to know that there are a number of pros and cons to doing so. One of those pros or plus sides is that you have solid proof. This is important if you are looking to get a divorce. If you want or need


to receive support or alimony payments, you need to have proof that your husband or wife was cheating on you. There is no better proof than professional videos and pictures taken by an experienced and certified private investigator. Another pro or plus side to hiring the services of a private investigator is that you do not have to do the work yourself. Tracking a cheating spouse can be easy, but it can also be very difficult. Some cheaters go through great lengths to ensure that they do not get caught. You may essentially be sent on a wild goose chase. On the other hand, many private investigators already know where to look, what behavior changes to look for, as well as what traps to not fall for. Perhaps, the greatest benefit of using the services of a private investigator is that you do not have to see the act being committed yourself. Yes, you will still likely get video footage and pictures of your spouse cheating, but that is much different than seeing the act with your own eyes. In fact, you don’t even have to look at the documentation your private investigator provides you with. Well-known and reputable private investigators do not lie. Take the proof and pass it on to your divorce attorney. Although there are a number of pros or plus sides to using a private investigator to help you catch your cheating spouse, there are also a number of cons or downsides to doing so as well. One of those being the cost. When hiring a private investigator, it is important for you to use your best judgment. Spend as little money as possible, but make sure that you hire an individual who is trustworthy and who has a good reputation. In this situation, quality is more than worth the extra cost.

Since there are a number of pros and cons to catching a cheating spouse with the assistance of a private investigator, you are urged to examine your own personal wants and needs. Do you want proof that your spouse is cheating on you? Do you want proper and professional documentation that can be used in divorce proceedings? If so, a private investigator is worth the look.

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In keeping with costs, it is also important to take time into consideration. There are some men who cheat on a daily or weekly basis, while others only do so on occasion. It will honestly all depend on your spouse. Your private investigator may follow your husband or wife for weeks before they find any concrete proof that your spouse is cheating. Despite getting proof in the end, this time period may be costly and agonizing for you.

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Chapter 6: How to Catch a Cheater? Guidelines for Spying on a Cheating Partner Despite the fact that you do have a number of different options, you may resort to spying on your cheating partner. When doing so, it is important to know what you are doing. For that reason, a few helpful tips are outlined below.

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Before outlining a few tips that can help you spy on a cheating partner, it is important to know that professional help is available. You can hire a private investigator to follow and spy on your cheating partner for you. This approach is convenient and safer for many men and women, typically women. Although you may not want to pay for something that you could do on your own, it is still an option that you may want to seriously consider.

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If you do decide to spy on your cheating partner yourself, it is important to maintain your distance. Whether you follow them in your car or at a public place, like a shopping mall, stay as far back as possible. If you are seen, a confirmation may ensue. Also, cheaters who suspect that they are being followed or caught are likely to change their ways or at least the approaches taken. This may result in you not getting concrete proof that your significant other is cheating on you. Speaking of which, do not let your husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend know that you know they are cheating until you have solid proof. As previously stated, they may change the approaches taken, such as their meeting places. Not letting your significant other know that you know about their cheating is important, especially if you are looking to use the affair in your divorce proceedings, as you need to have concrete proof. As important as it may be to catch your cheating partner in the act, it is important not to put yourself in danger. Unfortunately, many cheaters meet in dangerous, unsafe parts of towns and cites. This is because many mistakenly believe that they will not run into or see anyone


that they know. Always be aware of your surroundings. If you enter into an area that seems unsafe, leave immediately. Remember, putting yourself in danger isn’t worth catching a cheating partner. Chances are, you will have other safer opportunities to catch them in the act. In keeping with safety, it is important to let someone know what you are doing. As difficult as it may be to admit that you think that your significant other is cheating on you, be sure to do so. Let a trusted friend or relative know of your suspicion and your intent to spy on your partner. If possible, bring a friend along so that you are not alone. If you do not want to tell anyone, be sure to leave a note behind. This may seem like going overboard, but you can honestly never be too careful where cheating, unfamiliar areas, and relationships are concerned. When spying on a cheating partner, especially a husband or wife, it is important to document everything. If you will be using the affair in your divorce proceedings, there is no such thing as having too much proof. Get the license plate number of the man or women meeting with your spouse, write down all meeting locations, take pictures or video. Until you decide to confront your significant other with the proof, keep it in a safe place, possibly a safety deposit box.

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Should you decide to spy on or catch your cheating partner, the above mentioned points are just a few of the many that you will want to take into consideration. As a reminder, if you find it too difficult or dangerous to do so, call upon the professional expertise of a private investigator. For an affordable fee, they can help you get the proof that you need.

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DIY Spy Equipment You Can Use Catching a cheater is not as easy as it sounds. However, many cheaters leave tracks, like on a computer or a cell phone. If you have an overwhelming feeling that your husband or your wife is cheating on you, don’t let worry consume you. Instead, get answers to clear your mind. And certainly you can with a few of spy gadgets outline below. 1.

Hidden Spy Cameras

These devices are functioning digital cameras and video recorders, but you would not be able to tell. The camera is hidden in a small pinhole, the reason for the name. Most husbands and wives resort to following to catch the cheating spouse which is a risky and inefficient way of spying. It is then recommended to opt for wearable devices. You can buy baseball caps, sunglasses, cell phones, watches, backpacks, purses, pens and almost anything that your partner usually use with pinhole cameras or video recorder inside. 2.

Hidden Audio Recorders

As with hidden spy digital cameras and video recorders, audio recorders come in different formats. You can buy them in common items such as pens, sunglasses, mp3 players and common household items. Your best option is to purchase a small handheld audio recorder. By opting for a small device with a large storage disk, you can hide the device in your cheating spouse’s car or any unsuspecting place to capture their conversation.

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Using GPS Tracking Devices

You can also spy your cheating spouse using a GPS tracking device. Using GPS tracking device allows you to see where the car is or where it has been. You can check if your cheating spouse is where they said they will be or where they were. You can also verify if your spouse is visiting the same house after work. Using GPS is relatively an easy way to catch your cheating spouse. There is a little risk and work involved. You do not have to follow them. You just sit at your computer and watch. For more information on how to use GPS tracking device to catch cheating spouse click here.


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Cell Phone Spy Software

You can also spy and catch your cheating spouse through mobile phone. With cell phone spy software you can track calls both calls made and received by your spouse, record and listen to the actual calls, retrieve and read SMS and track locations. These can be installed remotely and stealthily. 5.

Computer Spy Software and Keyloggers

One of the best ways to catch cheating is through the computer. A computer spy software is one of the is a surveillance tool that allows you to silently and secretly see, monitor and record your cheating spouse’s online activities. After installing it on the computer, it enables you to record keystrokes, e-mails sent and received, chat conversations, passwords, websites visited, and capture screen shots at intervals you set and deliver this information through your e-mail. All information that will be gathered in real-time and you can now easily and remotely spy your cheating spouse’s online and offline activities. The above mentioned gadgets can easily help you spy and catch a cheater. With that said, the key is to use these devices properly. Don’t draw unwanted attention to yourself. Since most must follow to catch a cheating spouse, opt for a disguise. If you are walking around with a digital camera or camcorder, play the look of a tourist. Throw on a baseball cap, pair of sunglasses, and tourist shirt, available for sale at most gift shops. Your spouse and those passing by will just assume you are a tourist, not a spy with a purpose.

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It’s not east to catch a cheating spouse but with the help of spy gadgets you may be able to do so secretly. The gadgets provided are just a guide it is still your responsibility to use them appropriately.

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Using Computer Spy Software to Monitor Computer Usage One approach that you may want to take involves using the internet to your advantage. The internet makes it relatively easy to men and women to develop secret relationships and to carry on affairs online. When it comes to using the internet to catch a cheating spouse, you may not know where to proceed. If you do not consider yourself to be computer savvy, the whole process may seem hopeless. The good news is that you can catch your cheating spouse online and you may be able to do so in a few simple steps. The easiest way to catch a cheating spouse who uses the internet is to install a keyword tracker program, also commonly referred to as a keylogger, on your computer. These software programs are actually similar to programs that hackers use to get information from your computer. They can also help you find out if your spouse is using the internet to cheat on you. What these programs will do is record all words that are typed on a computer. This allows you to examine emails, chat sessions, and so much more.

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If you are interested in using computer spy software or a keylogger, be cautious of the programs that you do choose. As previously stated, some hackers do use this similar technology. Spending a few extra dollars to purchase a program, as opposed to using a free version online, is advised. Many of these programs are marketed as internet safety tools for parents.

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Another easy way to use the internet to catch a cheating spouse is to visit the online websites of their email accounts. Even if you do not have a password to get into their account, there are still some things that you can do. For example, most websites, like Hotmail and Yahoo, will automatically save the email address of the last person who used the website. Examine these websites to see if one does show up. Is it your partner’s main email address or are they using multiple accounts? This may be a sign of a cheating spouse. Your computer’s internet history may be a wealthy source of information for you. Most computers allow you to check the websites visited within the last week or at least day by opening up a new internet window. Next, click on the history icon button, which appears towards the top of your screen. This icon displays a small clock with a green arrow wrapped around a portion of it. What websites has your significant other visited in the past few days? Be on the lookout for adult chat websites, pornographic websites, dating websites and so forth.


In keeping with the checking of your computer’s internet history, be suspicious of no information at all. Has your computer’s internet history recently been cleared? There are very few good reasons why it should have been. Remember that many cheaters research ways, especially online, to not get caught. A cleared internet history is a good sign that your husband or wife has something to hide. If you suspect that your husband or wife is using the internet to cheat on you, there are two different approaches that you can take. One of those approaches involves talking to them. If you found proof online, show that proof to them. You will then need to decide, together, where your relationship wants to go. If you do decide to work on your relationship, please be cautious. It is important to remember that your husband or wife now knows that you know how to track their movements online.

Recommended Remote Computer and Tablet Spy Software Sniperspy Snierspy is a high-tech monitoring software will allow you to see exactly what your teenager is doing on Facebook and elsewhere in real time. It will also allow you to monitor any employee who uses the company computer(s).

It doesn't matter where you are, because installation to your remote PC easily takes place via email. This extremely easy tool will allow you to install to your PC whether it's in the next room or the next continent! It is fully compatible with any version of Windows, including Windows 7. For more information, you can read my SniperSpy review or visit their website at http://www.retinax.com/sniperspy.

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The tracking software is completely stealth and works independently. The system does not rely on the computer's various histories. So even if the user tries to delete their tracks, the data will still be viewable.

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Ardamax Keylogger Ardamax Keylogger is a keystroke recorder that captures user's activity and saves it to an encrypted log file. The log file can be viewed with the powerful Log Viewer. Use this tool to find out what is happening on your computer while you are away, maintain a backup of your typed data automatically or use it to monitor your kids. Also you can use it as a monitoring device for detecting unauthorised access. Logs can be automatically sent to your e-mail address, access to the keylogger is password protected. Besides, Ardamax Keylogger logs information about the Internet addresses the user has visited. This invisible spy application is designed for 2000, XP, 2003, Vista, 7 and Windows 8. For more information, you can read my Ardamax Keylogger review or visit their website at http://www.ardamax.com/keylogger. PC Pandora

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PC Pandora is powerful computer monitoring software that records ALL activity on the computer. This powerful software provides parents, employees and spouses’ edge by knowing EXACTLY all activities on the computer and Internet.

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PC Pandora gives you the ability to view detailed screen captures and text-based data logs of all activity, so you can know everything that happens on the computer. From instant messenger chats to websites visited (and how often and for how long) to programs and applications run – can see everything! For more information, you can read my PC Pandora review or visit their website at http://www.pcpandora.com

007 Spy Software


007 Spy Software is an extremely powerful monitoring software which allows you to secretly record all computer activities including emails sent and received, websites visited, keystrokes and passwords of all programs/websites including Outlook, Facebook, Myspace, AOL, Twitter, Webmail etc. It also records file operations(copy/move/delete), online IM conversations including ICQ, MSN, AOL, AIM, Skype, gTalk and Yahoo Messenger etc, and take screen snapshot at set intervals just like a surveillance camera directly point at the PC/Laptop. For more information, you can read my 007 Spy Software review or visit their website at http://e-spy-software.com. Perfect Keylogger The Perfect Keylogger is a new generation keylogger which is virtually undetectable. It is a popular award-winning tool, translated into 20+ languages. It was created as an alternative to very expensive commercial keylogger products. It has a similar functionality, but is significantly easier to use. Complex internal mechanisms are hidden from the user behind the friendly interface. You can install Keylogger and use it immediately without messing with settings.

eBlaster

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For more information, you can read my Perfect Keylogger review or visit their website at http://www.blazingtools.com.

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eBlaster is one of the most effective surveillance software that parents or managers can use to monitor their children’s or employee's computer activities. The software is designed to be used with ease and allow parents or employers to take control of their children’s and employee's online activity especially the types of websites that they are visiting. eBlaster is so easy to use and operate that you can download and install it 5 minutes! eBlaster spy software is the ONLY software in the world that will capture their incoming and outgoing email, chats and instant messages - then IMMEDIATELY forward you an EXACT COPY. Automatically forwards you an EXACT COPY of their Chats, Instant Messages and Emails - PLUS - Allows you to block access to web sites and specific Chat/IM profiles. For more information, you can read my eBlaster review or visit their website at http://www.eblaster.com. Spytech SpyAgent

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Spytech SpyAgent is an award winning, powerful computer spy software that allows you to monitor EVERYTHING users do on your computer - in total stealth. SpyAgent provides a large array of essential computer monitoring features, as well as website, application, and chat client blocking, lockdown scheduling, and remote delivery of logs via email or FTP.

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SpyAgent's logging capabilities are unmatched. SpyAgent can log anything ranging from what the user typed and the files they downloaded, to who they talked to and emailed, website searches they performed, programs they ran, and much more - all time stamped by date for easy viewing. All logs can be easily saved, archived, and exported into reports for later use. SpyAgent can be configured to log all users on your computer with ease. For more information, you can read my SpyAgent review or visit their website at http://www.spytech-web.com/spyagent.shtml PeekTab


PeekTab is a high-tech monitoring software installed on the tablet that you want to monitor and silently records activities such as web history, emails, Facebook, text messages, iMessages, photos, app usage, calendar, notes and more! The monitoring data is sent via the internet to your online viewing account that you can access from any computer, tablet, or smartphone that is connected to the internet. You'll be amazed by how simple it is to learn about how your child or employee uses the tablet with this monitoring software. For more information, you can read my PeekTab review or visit their website at http://www.retinax.com/peektab/. SPYERA for Tablet Spyera Tablet version is software that you install on a Tablet to monitor everything that’s happening on the tablet.

SPYERA also allows you know the location of the device. For more information, visit their website at http://spyera.com.

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After installation, SPYERA secretly records events (sms, call history, phone book, location, emails, What's App messages, IM, Facebook Chat, Skype, See photos taken and many more...) that happen on the tablet and delivers these information to a web account, where you can view these reports 24/7 from any Internet enabled computer or mobile phone.

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Monitoring Cell Phone Usage and Activities Using Spy Software and Applications Many cheating spouses use their cell phones as an easy means of communication. In fact, did you know that many will use their cell phones as opposed to the family phone? Many do so because there is less of a chance that you or someone else, like one of your children, will pick up the phone instead. Since cell phones are a common means of communication for cheating spouses, you should use this to your advantage. What it is important to know about cell phones is that they keep very accurate records. All cell phones, even those that are older, keep a call log. Often times, the calls that are made, the calls that are received, and the calls that are missed are recorded. You should be provided with a date and a time. If you can get a hold of your partner’s cell phone, do it. Even if you have to grab the phone in the middle of the night and check its history in the bathroom, do so.

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When checking your partner’s cell phone for suspicious activity, you will want to be on the lookout for names or telephone numbers that you do not recognize. Also, look for constant calls to or from a certain number. If your partner is calling one number multiple times a day or every day, they may be cheating on you. In addition to checking the call log, also examine picture messages and text messages. These are easier to delete, but many cheaters do not take the simple step needed to do so because they don’t believe that they will get caught.

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In addition to the cell phone itself, you can also use cell phone bills as method to catch a cheater. This works best if you are married to your partner or if you live with them, as it should be easy for you to gain access to their cell phone. Does your partner’s cell phone bill list the phone numbers that are called or the phone numbers that text messages were sent to? If it does, be on the lookout for unknown numbers or repeated communication. Although not all cell phone bills itemize information, like on the phone calls received or placed, many companies do give you the option of doing so. If you are the one who is responsible for paying the cell phone bill or if you are married, you may be able to change the format of your partner’s cell phone bill. A quick call or email to the cell phone company should be enough to catch your cheating partner the next time that the phone bill arrives. You can also use cellphone spy software or mobile phone spy apps to monitor the activites of the cell phone. The cell phone spy software are mobile monitoring and tracking software app


used to spy on Android-based cellphone and other cellphone units which includes Blackberry and iPhone. These applications are very simple to install and use. Just like any other software applications, this spy apps must be downloaded and installed directly into the cell phone which can be achieve using the internet browser of the phone. As soon as the spy software is installed, it will be undetectable and starts to discreetly record a variety of information straight away and then secretly uploads the gathered information to an account given by the spy app provider. You can then log in to your account and watch and monitor all the activities recorded on the phone. The best cell phone spy software available are MobileStealth and MobileSpy. So, once you start to spot signs like those listed above, then you more than likely have a cheating spouse on your hands and your best way of catching the cheater is to monitor cell phone using Mobilestealth or MobileSpy cell phone spy software. The above mentioned steps are just a few of the many easy ways that you can use your partner’s cell phone and cell phone bill to see if they are cheating on you. If you see that your partner hangs up the phone whenever you enter the room or if they lower their voice, there is a good chance that they are hiding something from you.

Recommended Cell Phone Spy Software

Highster Mobile is the powerful Cell Phone Spy Software. It is the most advanced cell phone tracking and monitoring software used to confidentially record text messages or track call information from a specified mobile. This is the most powerful application used for remotely monitoring all the activities of a specific mobile phone from anywhere in the world. This application is very easy to install either through over the air links (OTA) by directly typing into the cell phone’s web browser or by directly transferring the application from computer to the target mobile through USB cable or via Bluetooth connection. For more information, you can read my Highster Mobile review or visit their website at https://www.highstermobile.com.

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mSpy mSpy is a premium Android keylogger with high quality features that allows you remote access to the information on any Android phone or tablet. You can track GPS location, read text messages and more with our undetectable Android spyware application. mSpy Android spy app is intuitive, easy to install and impossible to detect. It features high quality, top of the line technology that provides results quickly and delivers content seamlessly and reliably to your web-based Control Panel. For more information, you can read my mSpy review or visit their website at http://www.mspy.com.

Mobile Spy Mobile Spy is the next generation of smartphone spy software. Do you suspect your child or employee is abusing their SMS or vehicle privileges? If yes, then this software is ideal for you. Install this small program directly onto the compatible smartphone you wish to monitor to begin recording.

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Using the Internet capabilities of your phone, recorded activities, logs and GPS locations are quickly uploaded to your Mobile Spy account. To view the results, you simply login to your secure account using any computer or mobile web browser. Logs are displayed by categories and sorted for easy browsing.

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The software is completely stealth and works independently. Mobile Spy does not rely on the phone's call and message database to record activities. So even if your child or employee tries to delete their usage histories, the data will still be retained and uploaded. For more information, you can read my Mobile Spy review or visit their website at http://www.retinax.com/mobilespy.

PhoneSheriff


PhoneSheriff is the next generation of parental control software for mobile phones and tablets. Do you need the ability to filter, block and monitor how your child or employee uses their mobile device? If yes, then this software is ideal for you. Install this small program onto your child's compatible device to begin recording. After the software is installed, you can setup specific restrictions for phone numbers, websites and time periods. The software can also record user activities including SMS text messages, call information and GPS locations. You can view logs on the device itself or in a secure online control panel. Using the Internet capabilities of your phone or tablet, the recorded activities and GPS locations are quickly uploaded to your PhoneSheriff account. To view the results you simply login to your secure account at the PhoneSheriff web site. Logs are displayed by categories and sorted for easy browsing. For more information, you can read my PhoneSheriff review or visit their website at http://www.retinax.com/phonesheriff

StealthGenie is the most powerful cell phone spy and tracking software that lets you monitor ALL the activities of any iPhone, Blackberry or Android phone. The application is super easy to install on the phone you want to monitor. It starts uploading the monitored phone's usage information and its exact location instantly which can be viewed by logging in to your StealthGenie user area from any computer in the world within minutes. This state-of-the-art application works in stealth mode which means that the monitored phone's user will never know that they are being monitored. For more information, you can read my StealthGenie review or visit their website at http://www.stealthgenie.com.

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Mobistealth Mobistealth empowers you to get the answers you truly want and deserve. For anyone looking to secretly monitor cell phones of kids and employees using Mobile Phone Spy Software, Mobistealth is your All-In-One solution. Unlike most cell phone spy applications that only track location, Mobistealth Mobile Phone Spy Software includes ALL the advanced features necessary to truly get you the answers you want and deserve. In just minutes, you can download and install Mobistealth Mobile Phone Spy Software and begin monitoring your loved one with these advanced monitoring features: - Real-Time and Historical Location Tracking - Call Recording - Spy Call (Listen Live to Cell Phone Surroundings) - Video, Picture, Email and Text Message Log - Web History - Contact Details - SIM Change Notification

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You will be able to secretly monitor cell phones because Mobistealth Mobile Phone Spy Software remains completely hidden from the user. Once installed, you can secretly monitor their cell phone activities 24/7 from your Mobistealth user account. Whether you are parent looking to protect your children or an employer looking to monitor company cell phones, Mobistealth gets you the answers you want and deserve starting for around $0.50 a day.

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For more information, you can read my Mobistealth review or visit their website at http://www.mobistealth.com

Using GPS Tracking Device to Monitor and Track Location


How can you catch a cheating spouse with GPS? It allows you to see where the car is or where it has been. Is your spouse not where they said they were? Is the address their car parked at a hotel? Are they always visiting the same house after work? If so, your husband or wife may be cheating. Using GPS is a relatively easy way to catch a cheater. There is little risk and work involved. You do not have to follow them. You just sit at your computer and watch. Before you run right out and buy a GPS unit, it is important to know a few things. For starters, you don’t want a traditional GPS system. These types of systems are advertised on television and available for sale in most retail stores. Yes, these are GPS units, but not the kind you want. They are designed to provide drivers with directions. You do not want a GPS system with a built-in screen. These devices occasionally make noises and the bright screen can draw attention to the device, even if well hidden. So, what type of GPS do you want? Husband and wives looking to catch a cheating spouse, should examine the GPS trackers that trucking companies use. Management uses these devices to track their drivers. They help management determine where their drivers are, if they are on schedule, and if they are doing their job properly. Although most of these devices are designed to monitor a group of vehicles, single vehicle tracking is allowed on most systems.

The key to using a hidden GPS tracker is to hide it well. Some devices need to be placed outside of the car, such as underneath. Devices that can be inside the car should be wellhidden. Does the vehicle in question have an emergency bag? Find a hidden pocket and put the tracking system inside. Another alternative is to hide in the car truck, near the spare tire. The key to catching a cheating spouse is to wait. According to your wife’s GPS coordinates, she is in the parking lot of a local hotel. Don’t accuse her of cheating right when she gets home. Track her movement for a few days or weeks. How often does she visit that hotel? Just because your spouse makes a few abnormal stops on the way home from work does not mean they are cheating. Before letting the accusations fly, use the hidden GPS tracker to

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To find hidden or fleet GPS trackers, perform a standard internet search. When looking at pictures, you want a device that is small in size. You want one that is wireless and without a large display screen. Black is the best color to opt for. Review the product description to see what you get. Order a system with a comprehensive view guide. You don’t want email update about where your spouse’s car is; you want results shown on a map. Look for programs with Google Map, as you can opt for a satellite image. Zoom in and see the exact location of your spouse’s car. You use this to determine which building they are in.

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determine a pattern. Once that pattern is established, it is your decision as to what happens next.

Recommended GPS Tracking Device There are two types of GPS trackers when it comes to tracking methodology, Real Time GPS Tracking and GPS Data Loggers or Historical GPS. As the name suggests, Real Time GPS tracks geo-location in real time as the subject of tracking moves. While the GPS Data Loggers records GPS data and store it for retrieval. Below are my recommended GPS trackers.

Real Time GPS Tracking Devices Spark Nano 3.0 GPS Tracker Smaller than a cell phone, the Spark Nano GPS tracking device is ideal for small business owners, spouses, parents, and anyone else who needs to keep track of what they value most. Loaded with features, this battery-powered GPS tracker gives you realtime location viewing from the comfort of your computer or smartphone; and there are no expensive apps to download. The Spark Nano's fully rechargeable battery can run for three weeks or more under normal use (~1 hour a day), and with motionactivated tracking, you won't waste any battery life when your target isn't moving. This GPS tracking device's new-andimproved weather-resistant body makes it more versatile than comparable trackers. For more information, please visit http://bit.ly/sparknano3

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The TrackPort is the easiest way to track a car or truck without worrying about battery life. Just plug the device into your car's OBD-II (On Board Diagnostic) port. Normally located under the driver's side dash, this port has been standard on all vehicles sold in the United States since 1996. Use your vehicle's existing port to supply uninterrupted power to your tracking device. Switching cars? Unlike traditional hardwired tracking devices, an


OBD GPS tracker can be easily moved from one vehicle to another with no tools and no effort. It's completely "plug and play." For more information, please visit http://bit.ly/TrackportGPS EZ Nav GPS Navigator EZ Nav Car GPS System is an all-in-one navigation GPS with covert GPS Tracking and 2-way communication device. This GPS is the newest radical unit offered in a fully-functional GPS navigation that can track in real time. Its covert GPS tracking device is hidden inside the navigation unit itself. EZ Nav GPS Offers Unlimited Real-Time 10 Second GPS Tracking Updates & Sends GPS Navigation Routes Remotely from any Computer Browser. - GPS Tracker Hidden Inside is a Fully Functional Touch Screen Navigation System - Alert Notifications can be sent via SMS or Email - Send/Receive Messages Directly On The Device for Fleet Management - Set Destinations & Re-route Vehicles From The Web ** Amazing Time Saving Function - Completely Covert Sent w/ 2 Separate Manuals: 1 Tracking, 1 Navigation Navigation Extras: Live Weather Reports, Points Of Interests, with many additional features For more information, please visit http://bit.ly/EZNavGPS

View-I Dual Car Cam GPS Logger

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Are you concerned about your new teen driver texting, blasting the stereo and not focusing on the road? Want to dispute a traffic ticket? Looking to keep records of someone's personal driving habits? Need to process an accident or personal injury claim faster? The BrickHouse View-i Dual Car Camera is the perfect solution. Instead of relying on a conventional one-camera surveillance system for capturing video evidence, this dual-camera twin audio/video recorder with GPS is an easy-to-use, self-contained alternative to larger and more complicated vehicle surveillance systems; and it's available at only a fraction of the cost. Simply attach the GPS Camera to your car's windshield using the included quick-mount car cradle, and with the single push of a button, record everything you see and hear outside and inside your vehicle. Keep crucial driving records, know for sure what happened during an accident and potentially save thousands of dollars in insurance costs. For more information, please visit, http://bit.ly/DualCarCamGPSLogger iTrail GPS Logger

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The iTrail GPS data logger is a tiny way to track what matters most. Running for up to 120 hours on a single charge, this device can be hidden in a car or in a bag and, once recovered, will give you a detailed history of where it has been. All you have to do is connect the iTrail to your computer via the included transfer cable to see its travel history.

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The iTrail is also motion activated, so you'll get detailed information only when the device moves, which not only conserves battery, but also ensures you only get the information you need. And, with no service fees, the iTrail is a great low-cost way to track. For more information, please visit, http://bit.ly/iTrailGPS

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Final Words and Conclusions Confronting a Cheating Spouse: When Caution Is Important If you want to go ahead and confront your cheating spouse then go ahead and do so. With that being said, you may want to use caution. There are times when confronting a cheating spouse can turn dangerous. If you decide to confront your cheating spouse alone, you may want to be extra careful. In fact, you may event want to hold off on the confrontation. Is your spouse known for his or her temper? If so, being alone may not be the best way to accuse your spouse of cheating on you or showing them the proof that you have. This is particularly true if you intend to end your relationship or ask for a divorce. If possible, have a trusted friend, family member, or police officer with you at your home.

If your spouse is abusive, either verbally abusive or physically abusive, use your best judgment. When your spouse is abusive, either verbally or physically, you will want to proceed with extreme caution. If you intend to end your marriage due to cheating, it may be best to do so all at once. Have a trusted friend, relative, or the police on standby. If your spouse starts to get violent or upset with you for brining up their cheating, take action immediately. Call for help or get out of your house and do not return until they are gone or you have the police with you. Never put yourself in harms way when confronting a cheating spouse. Another situation where you want to be cautious when calling out a cheating spouse is if you aren’t ready to walk out the door. Yes, you have every right to be in your home and your spouse may be the one who has to or should leave, but that doesn’t mean the situation will go that way. If your spouse refuses to leave your home, even just for a temporary break, are you prepared to? What about your children, if you are a parent? If your main goal is to end your relationship with your cheating spouse, be sure to have a set plan in place for you and your family.

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As previously stated, you may not want to be alone when confronting a cheating spouse. With that said, there is someone who you do not want to have with you. That it one of your children. Never confront a cheating spouse or even accuse them of cheating in front of your children. It doesn’t matter if your children are newborns or teenagers. Teens know about cheating and you do not want drag them into your mess of a marriage. Newborns will have no clue as to what you are talking about, but the raised voices may be scary and overwhelming.

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Finally, reconsider confronting a cheating spouse if you do not have any proof. Have you seen your spouse on a date with another? Have you seen the phone or credit card bills with suspicious or out of the ordinary entries? If you haven’t, it may be best to wait until you have proof. Your spouse may completely deny having an affair. As a worst case scenario, they may not even be cheating on you!

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When to Confront Your Cheating Partner


If you want to go ahead and confront your cheating spouse then go ahead and do so. With that being said, you may want to use caution. There are times when confronting a cheating spouse can turn dangerous. If you decide to confront your cheating spouse alone, you may want to be extra careful. In fact, you may event want to hold off on the confrontation. Is your spouse known for his or her temper? If so, being alone may not be the best way to accuse your spouse of cheating on you or showing them the proof that you have. This is particularly true if you intend to end your relationship or ask for a divorce. If possible, have a trusted friend, family member, or police officer with you at your home. As previously stated, you may not want to be alone when confronting a cheating spouse. With that said, there is someone who you do not want to have with you. That it one of your children. Never confront a cheating spouse or even accuse them of cheating in front of your children. It doesn’t matter if your children are newborns or teenagers. Teens know about cheating and you do not want drag them into your mess of a marriage. Newborns will have no clue as to what you are talking about, but the raised voices may be scary and overwhelming.

Another situation where you want to be cautious when calling out a cheating spouse is if you aren’t ready to walk out the door. Yes, you have every right to be in your home and your spouse may be the one who has to or should leave, but that doesn’t mean the situation will go that way. If your spouse refuses to leave your home, even just for a temporary break, are you prepared to? What about your children, if you are a parent? If your main goal is to end your relationship with your cheating spouse, be sure to have a set plan in place for you and your family. Finally, reconsider confronting a cheating spouse if you do not have any proof. Have you seen your spouse on a date with another? Have you seen the phone or credit card bills with suspicious or out of the ordinary entries? If you haven’t, it may be best to wait until you have proof. Your spouse may completely deny having an affair. As a worst case scenario, they may not even be cheating on you!

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If your spouse is abusive, either verbally abusive or physically abusive, use your best judgment. When your spouse is abusive, either verbally or physically, you will want to proceed with extreme caution. If you intend to end your marriage due to cheating, it may be best to do so all at once. Have a trusted friend, relative, or the police on standby. If your spouse starts to get violent or upset with you for brining up their cheating, take action immediately. Call for help or get out of your house and do not return until they are gone or you have the police with you. Never put yourself in harms way when confronting a cheating spouse.

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Resources Spy Tools, GPS Tracking Devices and Hidden Camera Store 1. Brickhouse Security 2. Spy Associates 3. DynaSpy

Cell Phone Spy Software 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

Highster Mobile mSpy Mobilestealth Mobile Spy Phone Sheriff

Computer Spy Software and Key Loggers 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

SniperSpy eBlaster AceSpy SpyTech SpyAgent Realtime Spy

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