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Born AGAIN Have you ever wondered what the phrase “born again” means? The Bible records that Jesus used the phrase in a conversation with a man named Nicodemus. Nicodemus approached Jesus at night. He was curious about Jesus and the kingdom of God. Jesus told him: “Unless someone is born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God” (John 3:3). Nicodemus responded, “But how can anyone be born when he is old?” (John 3:4). Nicodemus was a highly moral man who obeyed God’s law. He was a respected leader of the Jewish community. No doubt he was a fine man. Yet something was lacking. Like Nicodemus, many people today confuse religion with new birth in Christ. Phrases like “I pray regularly” or “I believe there is a God” often are confused with a real new-birth experience. New birth begins with the Holy Spirit convicting a person that the person is a sinner. Because of sin, we are spiritually dead. For this reason, spiritual birth, as Jesus described it, is necessary. God loves us and gives us spiritual birth when we ask Him for it.

To believe in Jesus is to be born again. Confess your sins and ask Jesus right now to save you. “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved” (Acts 2:21). After you have received Jesus Christ into your life, share your decision with another person, and following Christ’s example, ask for baptism by immersion in your local church as a public expression of your faith (Romans 6:4; Colossians 2:6).

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The Bible says all persons are sinners (Romans 3:23). Jesus died on a cross and was raised from the dead to save sinners. To be born again means that a person admits to God that he or she is a sinner, repents of sin, believes in or trusts Christ, and confesses faith in Christ as Savior and Lord. Jesus told Nicodemus that everyone who believes in (places faith in) Christ would not perish (John 3:16). Jesus is the only One who can save us (John 14:6).

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Mary STAYED As I write, the Christmas season is underway, but my thoughts are on Easter. Every year at this time, we hear the story of the young woman chosen by God to mother His Son. What a fascinating woman! I’d like to interview Mary, not about the annunciation and nativity since Luke reveals many important facets of her character, but about the ensuing years. We don’t see much of Mary after those first years. After the family returned to Nazareth from Egypt, we read about her when 12-year-old Jesus remained in Jerusalem. Was she perplexed when He asked, “Didn’t you know that I had to be in My Father’s house?” (Luke 2:49). Why didn’t she know? But then, how could she have known? Mary was confident of Jesus’ miraculous abilities at the Galilean wedding, telling the servants, “Do whatever He tells you” (John 2:5). Later in His ministry, she and her other sons came to

see Jesus, but they met what appeared to be rejection. What was their purpose? Were they trying to warn Him about traveling such a dangerous path? Would they have urged Him to claim His appointed role as Messiah? Finally, we see Mary at the foot of the cross. The disciples had fled, but she, John, and three other women stayed. During those desperate hours, did she relive those memories she had once treasured in her heart? Did she question the assurances she had heard from Gabriel all those years ago, or did she recognize God’s redemptive plan? Only Mary witnessed the totality of the story, from birth to death to resurrection. Even in her profound grief, there must have been a deep, sustaining comprehension. So, yes, Mary stayed.

“But Mary was treasuring up all these things in her heart and meditating on them” (Luke 2:19).

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Features 8 SILVER AND GOLD Linda Tomblin

As we grow older, our friendships become more valuable than ever.

12 TRASH CAN TESTIMONY G. Warren Sears

Would you like to witness to your neighbors but don’t know how to meet them? Warren has a creative suggestion.

14 WE CANNOT GO IT ALONE Nancy Legat

Rumbling leads to grumbling which leads to stumbling — unless we place total reliance on God.

16 CHRIST ON THE CROSS: A PICTURE OF GRACE

James MacDonald What was Christ doing on the cross? Take a closer look at God’s plan to redeem mankind.

24 THE GRACE-FILLED LIFE Brenda J. Garver

God wants us to live our lives to the fullest. He’s provided role models to lead the way and peers to cheer us on.

28 FAITH WALK Farrell D’Lynn Boone

When diabetes threatened, Gaynell Tucker chose to fight back.

38 TICKET TO ADVENTURE (FICTION) Virginia Jelinek

Ellie thought she was too old to pursue her long-abandoned dream, but her husband thought otherwise.

42 MAN OF SORROWS — MAN OF JOY Ann Maniscalco

Only Jesus could bring everlasting joy from so much sorrow.

52 DADDY WARHIDE Shelley Ann Richter

One cantankerous old man taught Shelley the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation.

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1. Friends Advise, Strengthen, and Help Each Other. “Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their efforts”(Eccles. 4:9). Martha Hensley dreaded moving from her small country dwelling into a nursing home. Her biggest worry was that she’d be left alone among strangers. She was pleasantly surprised, however, to find an acquaintance, Ruth Jones, moving into the room across the hall. Ruth’s husband had owned a small convenience store in Martha’s community. Even though Martha and Ruth had only spoken in passing before, they soon became

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We might do well to remember God has a lot to say about choosing or being a friend.

hen I was young, I attended Girl Scout camp. At night we sat around a campfire, singing, “Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver and the other is gold.”

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close friends. “Ruth is always there when I need advice or someone to help,” Martha said. “She’s a person I can tell anything to and know it won’t be repeated. “When you come right down to it,” Martha continued, “there’s nothing like having a friend you can talk to … and laugh with.”

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“And pray with,” Ruth said, reaching over to take Martha’s hand. “A friend who prays with you — and for you — is more important than anything.”

1. Take time to heal, and treat

2. Friends Don’t See Age, Race, or Gender. “Let us love one another, because love is from God” (1 John 4:7). My 5-year-old grandson, Logan, came with me to visit Martha and Ruth at the nursing home. As we were getting ready to leave, he said, “Excuse me, Miss Ruth.” “Yes?” she said, turning her full attention to him. “How old are you?’ I felt like going through the floor. I couldn’t believe he had asked her that, but it didn’t seem to bother her. “Well, let’s see now,” she said. “Do you know how to count to 10?” “Yes”, he said, nodding his head. “Well, I’m nine times 10 — so let’s count it up.” As she started showing him how to count to 90 using his fingers, it was obvious she had been a teacher for most of her life. It was also clear that both Miss Ruth and Logan had gained a new friend that day. One was 85 years younger than the other, but small things like that don’t seem to matter when

LOSE A FRIEND yourself with love. Get rest and eat regularly.

2. Visit with your friend’s family, and share your memories with other friends.

3. Find a way to memorialize your friend. Journal. Write a poem or short story. Establish a scholarship.

4. Find someone to whom you can talk openly and naturally about your friend.

5. Try to get back to your daily activities as soon as possible.

6. Substitute other activities for those things you once did with your friend.

7. Allow yourself to feel. You will be sad; you may be angry. You’ll sometimes laugh at old memories or cry in the middle of a gathering. There is no one way to grieve.

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it comes to making friends. Since that time, Logan has been back to take her flowers and talk about his favorite superheroes. “Logan,” Miss Ruth asked, “do you know who is the biggest superhero of all?” “No,” he said, moving closer to her. “Who?” That’s when I slipped out in the hall to give them some space. And like true friends, they didn’t even miss me. 3. Friends Speak the Truth. “The wounds of a friend are trustworthy” (Prov. 27:6). “Being with a friend makes you feel good,” Don Campbell says. “A friend knows how to build you up and give you encouragement. But it’s also important for a friend to be able to say the hard things that need to be said sometimes. “My friend, Jimmy, and I talk for hours. We listen to each other and share our ups and downs. Sometimes we even cry. But more important, we trust each other enough to be completely honest. For example, I remember once when Jimmy had to remind me not to be so harsh in my judgment. “‘You’re my friend,’ he said, ‘but sometimes you have a tendency to rush ahead before knowing all the facts.’

“I had to admit he was right, and I was thankful he was up front enough to discuss it with me, man-toman. I can always be certain that Jimmy will tell it to me straight. And that’s what makes a really good friend!” 4. Friends Love You — in Good Times or Bad. “A friend loves at all times” (Prov. 17:17). Dot Beattie knows from personal experience that close friends love each other through all kinds of experiences. She and her husband, Bill, became friends with Charles and Louise Melton when they were young married couples. Over the years, their friendship grew through the births of babies, anniversaries, and holiday celebrations. The two families even spent summer vacations together at the beach where they swam and raced each other down the sandy waterfront. That prize always went to Louise. No one could beat her in a race. Of course, there were tears as well as laughter.“Once Louise borrowed my grandmother’s heirloom punch bowl,” Dot said.“The next morning she called me crying, so I asked what was wrong. “‘It’s your grandmother’s punch bowl,’ she sobbed. ‘There was some punch left

in it last night, and when I took it out of the refrigerator this morning and started to wash it, the hot water broke it into a hundred pieces!’ “I loved that punch bowl, but not as much as I loved Louise. ‘It’s all right,’ I said, ‘it makes me feel a little better to know you’re not perfect.’ “‘What?’ she sputtered. Then we both started laughing. “When Louise was diagnosed with breast cancer, we grew even closer. Chemo followed surgery as we held our breaths and tried to go on with our lives. The cancer was in remission for a while, but then one day it came back worse than before. “The day she died, she was paralyzed and had to wear a huge brace to keep her neck from breaking. She’d not been able to walk for months, so when the hospice nurse turned to us and said, ‘She’s gone,’ it was almost a relief. After Charles and their son said good-bye, I gathered my friend into my arms to give her one last hug. “As I closed my eyes, I could suddenly see Louise sprinting down the beach. It was almost as if I could hear the words of Isaiah 40:31 keeping time with her steps

as she ran, ‘Those who trust in the LORD will renew their strength; they will soar on wings like eagles.’ “Her hair was long and full again, flowing gracefully in the wind behind her. ‘They will run and not grow weary; they will walk and not faint.’ “Her legs were strong once more. Her face was glowing, and she was laughing with joy. And that was when I knew without a doubt my friend had been made whole again, and I was finally able to give her up.” Gold and Silver Friendships Like Dot, Louise, Don, Jimmy, Martha, Ruth, and Logan, as one goes through life, some people will become forever friends. Other friendships will last only a brief time. Some friends will move away; others may die. Some friendships are unexpected surprises. Others settle in for the long term. In other words, some will be gold; some will be silver. But friendships, long-term or short, are gifts from God sent to keep us company until He comes again. Linda Tomblin, from Rutherfordton, N.C., is the mother of four and grandmother of 12. She has been writing for the past 30 years. She has been published in numerous publications and has taught at writers conferences and workshops across the nation.

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TRASH CAN Testimony b y G . Wa r r e n S e a r s

I LOOK FORWARD TO TRASH COLLECTION DAY WHEN EMPTY TRASH CANS ARE LEFT AT THE CURB. If the day happens to be windy, many cans end up in the street or in a neighbor’s yard. Here’s how I use this opportunity to share my faith with my neighbors. Warren Sears waves a friendly greeting as he rounds up trash cans for his neighbors.

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start my walk through the neighborhood about 9 a.m., praying as I go. I pray first for God to fill me with the Holy Spirit, and then I pray someone will catch me in the act as I retrieve the empty can, replace the lid, and noisily roll, drag, or carry it back to its owner’s house. I usually take it to the garage or place it near a gate. A barking dog is great for getting the attention I am looking for. I’m hoping that the owner will look out, see me hauling the can, and come outside to say thanks. Then, with a big smile, I say, “You’re welcome. My name is Warren, and I live in

I began this ministry only a short time ago, and so far I have met three people who politely listened to my testimony. I am not sure they had ears to hear; however, I continue to retrieve their trash cans with hopes of establishing better relationships. I have also had the pleasure of meeting two Christian neighbors who may be willing to help me hold a regular Bible study where folks can be saved and encouraged to join a good Bible-believing church. At the very least, my trash can retrieval ministry creates a cool way to meet my

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“ But how can they call on Him they have not believed in? And how can they believe without hearing about Him?” (Rom. 10:14). the third house up the street. It’s good to meet you.” After she introduces herself, I ask, “May I tell you why I do this?” I wait for permission. Then I say, “A wonderful thing happened to me when I was 29 years old. I realized my whole life was turning to trash and becoming as empty as these cans. But, I thank God, someone told me about Jesus, and I put my faith in Him as my Lord and Saviour. God forgave my sins, cleaned me up, filled me with His Holy Spirit, and gave me a new life. And He can do the same for anyone. How about you? Is your name written down in heaven?” Where I go from there depends on the neighbor’s response and the leading of the Holy Spirit. As Jesus told His disciples in Acts 1:8, “You will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come on you.”

neighbors and let them know I care about them. After introducing myself, I might say, “I was hoping to get a chance to meet you.” Then after a little small talk to break the ice, I say, “The Lord Jesus says I should love my neighbors as myself, but how can I if I don’t even know my neighbors? I’d like to be your friend. Is there any way I can pray for you? Please, if you are ever in need of something, call me.”Then I give my new friend a card with my name and phone number. I’m excited to share my trash can testimony, and I’m confident the Holy Spirit will one day lead me to that certain neighbor who is ready and waiting to hear the good news of Jesus Christ. G. Warren Sears, from Bowie, Md., is author of Adventures of a Witness for Jesus. Before retirement, Warren was an advertising artist and part-time musician.

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GO IT ALONE! by Nancy Legat

Rumbling, mumbling, grumbling, and stumbling led to my humbling.

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felt great after my morning devotional. I was “prayed up.” I’d praised and worshiped and thanked the Lord for His multitude of blessings. I’d given Him my struggles. I’d confessed times I’d failed Him, and I knew He had forgiven me. I’d been reminded of God’s precious promises; and I felt ready to face the day. Then … Rumblings began to take root in my heart and mind. Long-ago sins came back to me. Failures and shortcomings swirled in my mind. A person’s unkind treatment replayed in my brain, and a big-time pity party resulted. Then I started mumbling to myself, I thought; but then my husband asked,“Did you say something?” I realized I was murmuring out loud. At that point, I started grumbling, griping, and muttering about anything and everything: “Doesn’t anything work anymore?” I complained about a broken toaster, instead of being grateful for the bread. “Can you believe how that clerk spoke to me?” instead of feeling compassion that she was probably dealing with a difficult situation and praying for her.

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That’s when I began to stumble, responding to others in less-than-kind ways. I allowed hateful and harsh thoughts to become spoken words. I had started the day with such peace and strength, and then I lost it. My wonderful day fell apart, crumbled and disintegrated before my eyes — and more seriously, before the eyes of others. As I took stock, I realized just how badly I’d blown it. The God-blessed morning did not make it through the day because I’d left it there. I’d tried to go each step on my own instead of relying fully on His Spirit to lead, empower, and direct me. What a sobering thought! Once again, I humbled myself and confessed my need of Him each second, minute, and hour of every day He has so graciously given me. How thankful I am that God is the God of not just second chances, but trillionth chances! Nancy Legat and her husband, Dan, are members of Saluda River Baptist Church in West Columbia, S.C. Nancy is retired and enjoys calligraphy, walking, and gardening.

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CHRIST ON THE CROSS:

A Picture of Grace by James MacDonald

The cross of Jesus Christ is the signature symbol of the central event in the history of civilization.

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culminated in the governor releasing a prisoner of the people’s choice to appease their anger and reduce their frustration with the Roman occupation. This was Pilate’s opportunity to avert the murderous demands for Jesus’ death by offering either Jesus or the most notorious prisoner, Barabbas. But the crowd was irrationally determined to see Christ die. Everyone knew the evil that Barabbas had done. It is not stretching it to say that Jesus literally, physically took the cross that had been reserved for Barabbas. To understand the gospel you must first understand this idea of substitution. Jesus died first for Barabbas and then for every other human who has ever lived. I am in that line. You are, too. I deserve to die that death, but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ. That’s substitution. He’s SCANDALIZING The cross is an outrageous offense. It doesn’t matter from what vantage point you stand, the cross makes scandalous claims that cause intense reactions. The Jews, rejecting Christ, called out for His crucifixion, the most shameful, painful, awful death a person could

experience. And they wanted it for Jesus. The dictionary defines a scandal as that which causes a public outcry and produces an expression of malicious sentiment. The cross of Jesus Christ has always been an outrageous scandal. Why the irrational hatred of Jesus Christ? Why the illogical animosity toward our Lord? There’s a battle going on as Satan and his demonic army incite hatred against the cross of Jesus Christ. Very few are neutral in this battle; most are firmly entrenched and fighting on one side or the other. When you express to others the message of the cross, you’re going to experience this scandalizing hatred. What’s Jesus doing on that cross? He’s fighting for the souls of men. He’s seeking to redeem them from their own hatred. Hear the soldiers laughing as the Savior gives up His life for them. Two thousand years later, people still scream and mock the cross of Jesus. It’s a scandal! He’s SUFFERING Unlike modern ones, firstcentury executions did not seek a quick, painless death or the preservation of any measure of dignity. On the contrary, they sought an agonizing torture that

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completely humiliated the victim. To fully appreciate the meaning of the cross of Christ, you have to comprehend the extent to which He suffered for our sin. Though it is often our focus, the physical pain was the lesser issue in Jesus’ suffering. Through endless, countless eons of time, Jesus had known only perfect unity with His Father. Now as He hung on the cross, He experienced total separation from that perfect unity. What finite mind can comprehend separating the inseparable? Forsaken by the Father? It would be one thing if Jesus was simply separated from the dark-hearted, pagan people screaming insults at Him. It’s still another thing for Jesus to be abandoned by the weak-willed disciples who followed at a distance. Certainly that was painful, but He had a realistic understanding of their weakness. But to be abandoned by God the Father — nothing compares to that. That is the suffering of the cross. He’s SATISFYING The gospel of Jesus Christ is only a concept until we comprehend the way Jesus’ death on the cross satisfied God’s wrath. The temple represented God’s presence. God dwelt,

in unapproachable holiness, behind an impenetrable curtain, called the Holy of Holies. The curtain reminded everyone of the sin that separated man and God. Jesus died as an atoning sacrifice for sin. In the instant Jesus died, God Himself reached down and tore the veil in the temple from top to bottom. Sin is now paid for. “The way is open,” He declares. “Come into My presence. My Son has paid the price for your sin. Evil, sinful men can now approach holiness.” Why? Because of the cross. Some people ask, “Why doesn’t God do something about sin?” Newsflash: He did. All God’s righteous hatred of all that sin from all human history was poured out upon Christ as He hung on that cross. A holy God poured out His wrath on His innocent Son so that we could be forgiven. When Jesus said, “It is finished,” God said, “Paid in full.” Sin has been put away now. The cross of Jesus Christ satisfied the requirements of a holy God. “But as for me, I will never boast about anything except the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ” (Gal. 6:14). Adapted from Downpour by James MacDonald (B&H Publishing Group, 2006). Used by permission.

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“‘They’ve taken away my Lord,’ she told them ‘and I don’t know where they’ve put Him.’ Having said this, she turned around and saw Jesus standing there, though she did not know it was Jesus”(John 20:13-14).

1 Numbers 22—24

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2 Numbers 25—26

Mark 5:21-43

3 Numbers 27—29

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4 Numbers 30—31

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But isn’t that the way it usually is? We see only what we expect to see. It is easy to overlook our Savior as we plunge ahead with our lives. We may get away with bypassing our neighbors and relatives but not Jesus. He wants us to recognize Him daily, hourly even, right in the middle of whatever is going on in our lives — big or small. He doesn’t want to have to tap us on the shoulder to remind us He is there. Instead of looking for what we expect to see, we need to be more perceptive to His presence. Linda Tomblin has been writing for 30 years and has articles in numerous publications.

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5 Numbers 32—33

Mark 6:33-56

6 Numbers 34—36

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7 Deut. 1—2

Mark 7:24-37

Sometimes I can be walking through the mall and pass one of my neighbors or even a member of my own family without seeing them. One day at Bible study, my friend, Donna, laughed about how I had walked right past her without seeing her. “I guess I wasn’t expecting to see you,” I said, “so I didn’t.” “Seriously, though,” she said “it does make me wonder how many times Christ is there in front of us or beside us, and we never see Him.” “I guess you’re right,” I told her. “He was standing in front of Mary Magdalene at the tomb, and she didn’t see Him. Even when He spoke to her, she didn’t recognize Him.” “Maybe she didn’t look close enough. Or maybe she was caught up in her grief.” “Or perhaps, like me, she wasn’t expecting to see Him,” I said. “She had her own agenda. She was trying desperately to get this man, whom she thought was the gardener or caretaker, to tell her where he had taken Jesus’ body.” “And all the time, Jesus was right there.” As He always is, I thought.

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10 Deut. 7—9

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12 Deut. 12—14

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13 Deut. 15—17

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14 Deut. 18—20

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15 Deut. 21—23

Mark 10:17-31

16 Deut. 24—26

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One Verse Can Make a Powerful Prayer by K ay e Jo h n s “That you may live a life worthy of the Lord” (Col. 1:10, NIV).

17 Deut. 27—28

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18 Deut. 29—30

Mark 11:12-33

19 Deut. 31—32

Mark 12:1-12

20 Deut. 33—34

Mark 12:13-27

21 Joshua 1—2

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22 Joshua 3—4

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23 Joshua 5—6

Mark 13:14-37

24 Joshua 7—8

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25 Joshua 9—10

Mark 14:12-31

26 Joshua 11—12

Mark 14:32-52

27 Joshua 13—15

Mark 14:53-72

28 Joshua 16—18

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29 Joshua 19—20

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Mark 15:40-47

31 Joshua 23—24

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Since I came to the Lord late in life, I felt totally inadequate when I prayed, until I learned to pray Scripture. I’ve learned there is nothing stronger than praying God’s Word, because He promises to answer when we pray His will. Praying Scripture is a great investment of our time, because even one verse can be a powerful prayer. Take Colossians 1:10. If we ask God to help those we love to live lives worthy of Him, we know that is His will and He will answer. Think of what this prayer might set in motion. Would He not begin working to make it happen? He doesn’t need suggestions or details, just a simple, direct request. Such a prayer may take as little as 10 seconds. Jesus said our prayers aren’t heard because we use a lot of words. He cautioned us not to fill our prayers with empty phrases. Praying Scripture prevents that. I am focused, and my mind doesn’t wander, and I don’t repeat prayers. It guarantees I have prayed something valuable and worthwhile — I’ve prayed God’s kingdom purpose for the lives of those I love. So can you, one verse at a time. For more on praying kingdom prayers, call 1-800-949-PRAY or email prayer power@learntopray.org.

Kingdom Prayer Father, Let Your kingdom purpose be accomplished as I pray for (names). May they hunger and thirst for righteousness (Matt. 5:6). Enable them to love You with all of their heart (Matt. 22:37). Lead them to live a life worthy of You (Col. 1:10). May they be people of prayer (Col. 4:2). Help them to treat others as they want to be treated (Matt. 7:12). Guide them to surrender their lives to You (Rom. 12:1-2). Inspire them to be active in sharing their faith (Philemon 6). May they love one another (John 13:34). Help them to know and experience You (John 17:3) Lead them to hide Your Word in their hearts (Ps. 119:11). Kaye Johns and her husband, Jim, have served full time with PrayerPower Ministries since 1994. Their ministry website prayerpowerministries.com offers practical prayer materials, many as free downloads.

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“The Love of God” b y Te r r y C . Te r r y How big is your God? I think God is as big as we allow Him to be. Of course He is bigger than we can think or even imagine, but some of us allow Him to be bigger than others do. Have you ever reached that point in worship when you feel you may just explode because He is so present in the person of the Holy Spirit? Maybe you sing as loudly as possible or you choose to sing so softly only He can hear. Perhaps you have felt hot tears running down your cheeks. German-born Frederick Lehman came to this country at age 4. After pastoring Nazarene churches in Illinois and Indiana, he found himself working at a packing house in Pasadena, Calif., in 1917. A Christian who rejoiced in his salvation, he had been so impacted by a sermon extolling the love of God, he one day picked up a scrap of paper, seated himself on a lemon box, and wrote the first two stanzas and the chorus of this hymn.

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The first stanza describes God’s love as beyond description. Read Romans 5:5, 5:8, and 8:38-39. It also refers to the thieves on the cross, with one being reconciled and forgiven (Luke 23:43). The second stanza speaks to the timelessness of God’s love, “everlasting” as Jeremiah calls it in 31:3. The third stanza is part of a poem, “Haddamut,” written in Aramaic by Rabbi Meir Ben Isaac Nehorai, son of a cantor in Worms, Germany in about 1096. It is still spoken on the first day of the Feast of Weeks, before the reading of the Ten Commandments. It reads: “Could we with ink the ocean fill, And were the skies of parchment made, Were every stalk on earth a quill And ev’ry man a scribe by trade; To write the love of God above Would drain the ocean dry; Nor could the scroll contain the whole, Tho’ stretched from sky to sky.” Various sources tell of the discovery of this stanza—written in English—scrawled on the wall of a prison cell, found after the death of its occupant. I am glad it found its way into Frederick Lehman’s hands. “O love of God, how rich and pure! How measureless and strong! It shall forevermore endure, The saints’ and angels’ song.” Source: Pamphlet, “History of the Song, ‘The Love of God’” published by author-composer, 1948. Quoted in Kenneth W. Osbeck, 101 More Hymn Stories. Grand Rapids, Mich.: Kregel Publications, 1985.

Terry C. Terry is retired from LifeWay Worship. He holds a Ph.D. in musicology and is worship leader for a Baptist church in Nashville. He and his wife, Marvis, love spending time with their grandson, Ethan.

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The older I get, the more thankful I am for my peers. I’m grateful I don’t have to ride off into the sunset by myself. It’s comforting to have a whole posse going with me. I’m also encouraged by those who have gone ahead of me.

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hen my mother slid into the murky waters of Alzheimer’s at 60, my siblings and I were in our 30s. Sixty seemed far away, so it was easy to push aside any concerns about getting the disease. Now as the 60 mark looms before us, we frequently do “Alzheimer checks,” masked in casual conversation. “Today, I left the vegetables in the microwave and forgot to set them on the table.” “Oh, I’ve done that.” Relief! “I forgot all about the meeting last night. I thought about it all day, put it on my calendar, and still forgot it.” “One of my friends did that just last week. She’s about our age.” More relief! Expectations Versus Reality While in middle age, most of us had rosy expectations of our retirement years, such as traveling, visiting grandkids, and pursuing hobbies. But, since wisdom comes with age, we’ve certainly realized by now that reality and expectations don’t always match up. Health concerns and financial difficulties can ruin the best of retirement plans. Whether or not our aging has progressed according to plan, having

While in middle age, most of us had rosy expectations of our retirement years. a goal to aspire to is like a carrot dangling in front of a donkey — it keeps us going. God must think so, too; that’s why He sends us role models. Biblical Role Models The Bible is filled with inspirational examples of robust aging. Consider Moses. Imagine being 80 years old and leading a million people on a 40-year journey — on foot! And technically, since he lived to be 120 years old, he was a smidgen past middle age when he accomplished this. Note this description of Moses’ last years: “Moses was 120 years old when he died; his eyes were not weak, and his vitality had not left him.” (Deut. 34:7). Wouldn’t we all love to be like Moses! Other role models lived vigorously their allotted years on earth. A middleaged Abraham heeded God’s call and left his homeland. In his old age, Abraham fathered a child with his equally elderly wife, Sarah. Current Role Models Biblical examples aside, each of us knows someone who

exemplifies aging at its best. My 88-year-old stepfather lives alone, cares for himself, and drives to church every Sunday. He mows a two-acre lawn on his riding mower and does the trim work with a push mower. Every spring, he works up a garden large enough to feed his neighbors and grows lovely flowers to take to a nursing home. He finds a sense of purpose as he “keeps on keeping on.” My stepfather is blessed with good health, but what about those who suffer from illness or age-related limitations. Can they age gracefully and live fully? Grace-filled Suffering My aunt’s testimony lives on 20 years after her death. She contracted kidney disease in young adulthood. Eventually, she was on dialysis three times a week. I knew of her many health problems, but in my naïve youth, I thought she was not overly troubled since she was always smiling and seemed to enjoy life. Not until I got older did I realize life was not easy for her. Twenty years of dialysis took its toll as one health

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problem followed another. On one visit, I noticed her normally cheerful face was downcast. She was having trouble with her vision and feared she was losing her sight. Yes, she did indeed have times of discouragement. She told of a particularly low point, many years earlier, when she poured out her anguish to God. His answer

to her was “just keep going.” My aunt drew strength and hope from God’s reply. Though life became more difficult, she never lost her steadfast spirit. Wise, Not Withered For Christians, the golden years can be a time of flourishing, growing, and producing fruit, regardless of physical or financial

“The righteous thrive like a palm tree and grow like a cedar tree in Lebanon. Planted in the house of the LORD, they thrive in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age” (Ps. 92:12-14a).

limitations. While in her 50s, my mother began visiting an elderly women at a long-term care home. Though Mother’s intention was to offer companionship, she was the one who was blessed. The woman became her spiritual mentor. Many times my mother marveled at the depths of Christ-like wisdom within her soul. Because she was “planted in the house of the LORD,” (Ps. 92:13) she flourished and produced fruit throughout her old age. God Knows Best Most of us would prefer health and vigor through our final years. Sometimes it is part of God’s plan; sometimes it’s not. The grace-filled life can end well, no matter what the circumstances, if we heed this wisdom: “Fear God and keep His commands, because this is for all humanity” (Eccles. 12:13). As for those blessed ones whose souls are burnished bright by the refiner’s fire, yet hold steadfast to the end, someday they, like my role models, will cast a lovely jeweled crown at the feet of Jesus. Brenda J. Garver and her husband of 33 years live in rural Michigan. Her love for writing dates back to childhood.

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WALK Wide open spaces to walk, fresh air to breathe, and God’s creation to embrace along the way — this is the perfect scenario for 82-yearold Gaynell Tucker of Rome, Georgia.

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ast fall, she and her husband, Max, went on their annual camping trip to celebrate such perfection. Of all the things a person could do while camping, what excites Gaynell most is the opportunity to walk. For 17 years, her love for and commitment to walking has increased with each day. It all began when her doctor told her if she didn’t make some serious life changes, she should prepare herself to start taking insulin for diabetes. Gaynell chose to make the big changes, the most significant of which was walking. She also committed to stay away from sweets. Those two commitments have changed her life, along with the lives of those around her, in incredible ways. “My advice to people is to get up and get active,” Gaynell tells everyone. Her desire to walk is, of course, to maintain and improve her health, but it is also spiritually significant. “I tell people to start walking. If they start walking, they can pray, too. It’s truly a time to talk with God. It’s my faith walk.” In 2010, Gaynell walked her 10,000th mile, accompanied by her family, friends, and her doctor, Jim Whatley, for this milestone. Gaynell’s personal pledge to walk and be healthy has been contagious. Not only is her husband an avid walker, so is her twin sister, Gaylia. This is a family affair. Gaynell and Max’s children and grandchildren often walk with them, along with friends and acquaintances. Gaynell carries a small notebook where she records her mileage. She has logged more than 11,000 miles in 17 years. With every entry logged, the book serves as evidence of her perseverance and a testament to her faith and stamina. While others might blame a rainy day or a cold breeze for failure to be active, Gaynell doesn’t allow such things to affect her. “I walk in the rain, snow, cold, and heat. I don’t let weather stop me. If for some reason it is a major obstacle, then I find a different avenue. I will walk in the mall or even on a treadmill. I’m going to find a way to walk.” And with every mile Gaynell records, she hopes to inspire others to get moving. She knows better than most that it can be a challenge to change your lifestyle and daily routine. But, as she so kindly reminds everyone, all you have to do is take it one step at a time. Farrell D’Lynn Boone is passionate about teaching 4th graders to write since writing has been her passion since she was young. Prior to teaching, she was a newspaper journalist. She and her husband, Rob, live in Nashville, Tenn.

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It’s Tomorrow in Australia by Steve Rogers

I saw a bumper sticker that read, “Why pray when you can worry?”We know we shouldn’t worry; in fact, worry is a direct contradiction of a scriptural command: “Don’t worry about anything, but in everything, through prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God” (Phil. 4:6). Still, it is easy to let the cares of life weigh us down. When you are tempted to worry, remember your prescription has already been written by Doctor Jesus. His cure for anxiety is found in the Sermon on the Mount,

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Matthew 6:25–34. Jesus admonished His disciples not to worry about what they will eat, drink, or wear. He asked, “Isn’t life more than food and the body more than clothing?” (v. 25). Citing the Father’s care for the birds, He asked, “Aren’t you worth more than they?” (v. 26). Jesus closed His prescription for worry with “Don’t worry about tomorrow. … Each day has enough trouble of its own” (v. 34). If that were all our Lord had said, we would have a strong admonition not to worry. We might say, “Doctor Jesus, I agree with your

diagnosis that I’ve got a bad case of the anxiety blues. But I need a cure!” Here’s the good news! Jesus gives the cure in verse 33: “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be provided for you.” You see, you can’t cure worry by telling yourself not to worry. The cure is to seek God’s kingdom and His righteousness before everything else. And, by the way, all of those things you were tempted to worry about — food, drink, and clothing — the Bible says “your heavenly Father knows that you need them” (v. 32). Here’s your prescription for a life well lived: Seek God, and let Him take care of everything else. In other words, don’t worry, be holy. God has promised to take care of today. And tomorrow? He’s got that under control, too. Marcie, of Charles Schulz’ iconic comic strip, “Peanuts,” put it this way: “Don’t worry about the world coming to an end tomorrow. It’s already tomorrow in Australia.” Steve Rogers is president and co-founder of the Adrian Rogers Pastor Training Institute in North Palm Beach, Fla. A well-known author, songwriter, and speaker, he co-wrote three books with his father. He and his wife, Cindi, have a daughter and a 3-year-old grandson.

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ROASTED ASPARAGUS WITH LEMON SAUCE

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MAKE-AHEAD MASHED POTATOTES

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3 cups mixed greens, washed and torn 3 cups baby spinach leaves, washed 1 cup strawberries, sliced 2 kiwis, peeled and sliced ¼ cup mandarin orange slices ¼ cup mushrooms, sliced ¼ cup snow pea pods ¼ cup almonds, sliced or slivered Optional: 1 medium red onion, thinly sliced Dressing: ¼ cup orange juice 2 tablespoons honey dash salt dash black pepper 2 tablespoons olive oil In a large bowl, toss all salad ingredients. In a small bowl, combine orange juice, honey, salt, and pepper. Slowly add olive oil, whisking until thoroughly mixed. Pour on salad and toss. Yield: 6 to 8 servings

LEMON BARS 2 cups all-purpose flour 4 eggs ½ cup sugar 3 tablespoons 1 cup butter, softened lemon juice 1½ cups sugar Powdered sugar ¼ cup all-purpose flour 1 teaspoon baking powder Preheat oven to 350°. In medium bowl, mix 2 cups flour, ½ cup sugar, and butter. Press into bottom of an ungreased 13-by-9 pan. Bake for 15 to 20 minutes or until firm and golden. In another bowl, whisk together 1½ cups sugar, ¼ cup flour, and baking powder. Whisk in the eggs and lemon juice. Pour over hot crust. Bake for an additional 20 minutes or until lightly browned around the edges and center is set. The bars will firm up as they cool. Sprinkle with powdered sugar. After cooled, cut into 2-inch squares. Yield: 36 servings

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ROASTED ASPARAGUS WITH LEMON SAUCE 2 teaspoons olive oil 1/8 teaspoon salt dash black pepper 1 bunch fresh asparagus, trimmed 2 tablespoons mayonnaise (can use low fat) 2 tablespoons grated Parmesan cheese 2 tablespoons water 1 clove garlic, minced 1 tablespoon lemon juice Preheat oven to 425°. In a large bowl, mix oil, salt, and pepper. Add asparagus and toss. Spread on a baking sheet and roast in oven for 15 to 20 minutes, stirring once half way through. In a small bowl combine mayonnaise, Parmesan cheese, water, garlic, and lemon juice. Just before serving, drizzle sauce over asparagus. Yield: 6 to 8 servings

MAKE-AHEAD MASHED POTATOES 6 to 8 potatoes 1 cup milk 1 cup sour cream ½ grated Parmesan cheese, divided ½ teaspoon onion salt 1 tablespoon dried dill

¼ cup grated sharp Cheddar cheese (or Brie or Gruyere) ¼ cup butter

The night before: Peel and boil potatoes. Mash with milk. Add sour cream, ¼ cup Parmesan cheese, onion salt, and dill. Mash until all lumps are gone. Put in 13-by-9 casserole dish. Dot with butter, sprinkle with remaining Parmesan cheese and Cheddar cheese (or other optional cheese). Cover and place in refrigerator overnight. The next day: Preheat oven to 350. Bake for 30 minutes. Yield: 6 to 8 servings

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“Cross” Words by Ruth Myer

Search up, down, backward, forward, and diagonally to find words or phrases that include the word cross by substituting for cross. Unused letters spell out a Scripture related to the cross. The solution is on page 37.

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Reasons to Take Care of Your Oral Health

1. Decay. If you grew up without fluoride in toothpaste and water supplies, you probably had cavities. Regular check ups reveal decay that creeps in around old fillings. 2. Dry mouth. Saliva helps remove food particles and neutralize acids produced by plaque. Ask your dentist to recommend a mouth wash to prevent dry mouth. 3. Sensitivity. This may be due to a receding gum line as the tissue pulls away from the teeth or erosion of enamel. Select toothpaste and mouthwash products designed for sensitive teeth.

4. Inflammation. Heart disease, stroke, arthritis, and diabetes have been linked to inflammation of teeth and gums. 5. Halitosis. More than 40 million Americans have bad breath. This can hinder social life and cause self-consciousness and embarrassment. Carolyn R. Tomlin is a frequent writer for Mature Living. She is the co-founder and teacher of Boot Camp for Christian Writers. Email: Carolyn. tomlin@yahoo.com

DOS AND DON’TS OF ORAL HYGIENE Do

• Brush after each meal. Gently brush your tongue also. • Floss daily. • Practice good nutrition. Avoid sugary and starchy foods.

Don’t • Forget to change toothbrushes every three months. • Pass up dental visits twice a year. • Forget to use fluoride mouth rinse to reduce bacteria that cause plaque and gum disease.

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HOUSE Call b y J a n n e t t e M o r r o w, M . D .

My mother had osteoporosis, and now my doctor says I have it too. What can I do to protect my bones?

Since bone is living tissue, it constantly renews itself. As we age, the replacement process decreases, causing gradual thinning and weakness. Although postmenopausal women lose bone faster, men get osteoporosis too. Here are several things you can do to protect your bones.

Calcium and vitamin D. Calcium is a major component of bone while vitamin D helps your body absorb calcium, as well as keeping muscles strong. Dairy foods are great sources of calcium. Fortified milk, egg yolks, and saltwater fish provide vitamin D. Talk to your health care provider about your diet and whether you need to add supplements.

ground. Wear low-heeled, supportive shoes, even indoors. Pay attention to your environment, and remove hazards.

Exercise regularly. Weight-bearing exercises such as walking, tennis, and weight training, make your muscles and bones work against gravity. Exercise improves strength and decreases your risk of falling. Always check with your doctor before starting a new exercise program.

Take medication. Bone density tests are advisable for post-menopausal women and men over 50. If the results show decreased bone density, your doctor may prescribe medication. Most medications are taken by mouth or as a nasal spray. Let your doctor know if you have any side effects.

Avoid falls. Fall-related fractures can lead to serious complications. Consider using a cane or walker. Sprinkle salt or kitty litter on icy

Dr. Jannette Morrow is a geriatrician and internist who now writes full time after over 25 years of clinical practice. She lives in North Wilmington, Del. and is raising her younger brother, Joseph.

Avoid alcohol and smoking. Drinking 2 to 3 ounces of alcohol regularly can damage bones and make you more prone to falling. Smoking adversely affects your skeleton, as well as your heart and lungs.

This article is for informational purposes only and is not intended as a diagnosis or recommended treatment. Please consult your physician for answers to your questions.

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Imaginative Approach My grandchildren have always called broccoli “trees.” Their mother explained, “It’s easier to pronounce, and the kids aren’t influenced by the negative things they hear about broccoli. Besides, they like the idea of eating little green trees.” One evening, I served cauliflower. Apparently they weren’t familiar with it because my 8-year-old grandson, Nick, exclaimed, “Grandma! The trees got caught in a snowstorm!” –Shirley Pope Waite, Walla Walla, Wash. He Arose! My 5-year-old granddaughter, Brylie, came running out of her Sunday School class on

Easter Sunday. “Mommy,” she asked breathlessly, “did you know that Jesus died and was buried, but He came out with a rose?” –Polly Coupel, Baker, La.

the restroom,” she explained. “Pastor told him whatever he had to do, do quickly and return.” –Pauline R. Phipps, Greensboro, N.C.

Speedy Exit Our church was having a special presentation during the Easter season in which the deacons and pastor portrayed the Last Supper. I was serving in the nursery and did not see the presentation, so I asked my 4-year-old granddaughter, Tiffany, about the service. “Pastor was Jesus, and one of the men got up to go to

Purest Joy While at church on Easter morning, we noticed my 5-year-old grandson, Jay, was smiling with tears in his eyes. His mother asked, “Jay, what is it?” “I am just so happy Jesus is risen,” he replied. –Betty Gibson, Fayetteville, Ark

Drama King My grandson, Alex, age 5, got a splinter in his foot and called to tell me about it. “Granny, it’s not just a boo-boo. I’ve got a hole in my foot, and that is my favorite foot!” –Glenda Barnes, Sumter, S.C.

Send submission of 25-125 words to Grandparents’ Brag Board, Mature Living, One LifeWay Plaza, Nashville, TN 372340175 or matureliving@lifeway.com. Include name, address, phone number. Stories may be edited and will not be returned.

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No Early Riser My 6-year-old granddaughter, Keirsten, and I were talking about the Easter sunrise service at our church. Keirsten announced, “Nana, I’m not going to that rise-and-shine thing. I have to get up too early!” –Sue Hedden, Franklin, N.C.

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Cracker Barrel After the snow has melted And the weather has warmed up a bit, I’m happy that spring is coming, Even though my sinuses are having a fit. –Ralph J. Polk, Jr., Warrenton, Va. Senior discounts are such fun; I love them, each and ev’ry one. I wish my doctor would agree, But he still charges his normal fee. –Sharon Dyer, Columbia, Mo. When I complain about exercise There’s one thing I dislike: My wife turns a deaf ear And says, “Go take a hike.” –Raymond Bottom, Brandon, Miss. Sometimes I speak off the top of my head, Without thinking before I do it. Then, when I think about what I’ve said, I cringe at how I blew it! –Georgia M. Shewmake, Durant, Okla. When you receive that new spring catalog And view beautiful clothes with delight, That’s the best incentive you’ll have To go — once again — on a weight loss diet. –Laverne Hart, Weatherford, Texas Last night it rained a furious rain Upon my dismal, snow-covered scene. This morning, when the sun rose again, God had replaced all that with spring! –Alice T. Weger, Afton, Okla.

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Answer to puzzle: “Come, take up the cross, and follow Me” (Mark 10:21, NKJV).

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by Vi rg i n i a Je l i n e k

â&#x20AC;&#x153;You folks wanna ride? Last ride of the night, half-price!â&#x20AC;? the stubby bearded man calls out as Sam and I stroll past the Wild Plunge roller coaster.

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ink cotton candy melting in our mouths, we’ve been recalling memories of our dating days when we frequented amusement parks. “Up for a coaster ride, Ellie, to celebrate our 48th wedding anniversary?” Impulse robs me of common sense. “Sure!” Tickets bought, we race for a seat where I sit, watching teens and young families as they board.“Sam,” I giggle, “we’re ancient compared to other riders. Can you believe we’re doing this?” “We used to ride coasters. Why shouldn’t we now?” Sam asks, as the coaster’s door slams shut. I feel trapped, hemmed in, like I did yesterday when Sam and I talked. My mind rehashes that conversation while waiting for the ride to begin.

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We were staring out our large kitchen window at the recently constructed building planted about 500 yards from the house. “Whatever are we going to do with it now?” I asked. “Ellie, things happen for a reason.” We had built a state-ofthe-art building to enlarge our farm and house more

chickens, but Sam’s back injury from the tractor accident changed everything. Sam took my hand. “I’ve been thinking. Maybe the purpose of that building has zilch to do with chickens and everything to do with you.” I ached for Sam, a good man and a great husband. He had pursued his dream of farming and then watched it crumble following the accident. However, a true visionary, Sam seemed to always have a backup plan, and this one involved — “Me, Sam?” “Yep. Remember your dream to open a quilt shop?” Sam pointed at the building. “There’s your opportunity right there. We’ll convert it into one and call it the Quilter’s Coop.” I chuckled. “Clever name, Sam, but no to your idea. I used to have that dream, but not anymore.” Sam laughed. “Look at our basement, wallpapered

with shelves of fabric bolts and often filled with people you’re teaching to quilt. That tells me you’ve still got that dream.” I yanked away from Sam. “Stop talking nonsense! Yes, I like teaching people to quilt, and I find pleasure in making quilts. But opening a quilt shop? Forget it. Who needs change at our time of life anyway? I’m happy with things as they are.” “You’re kidding yourself, Ellie.You’re not happy. My forced retirement drastically altered our lives. I keep my dream alive by managing a few coops of chickens, but now that I don’t need your assistance with farm duties, you seem lost, without purpose, and unhappy.” “So I don’t smile all the time. Is that reason to open a shop?” I snapped, turning my back on Sam. “Look, I’ve seen a change in you, that’s all I’m saying. You were always a go-getter, a people person, someone who inspired others. Now it’s you who appears to need inspiration.” Sighing, Sam continued,“Ellie, seems to me if you awaken and pursue that dream, it’ll give you fresh purpose — a mission.” I turned toward Sam and spoke briskly. “You don’t get it, do you? Sometimes you’re

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like a badger, stubbornly refusing to let go of something you think is a wonderful idea. So, I’m telling you for the last time, back off. Having a quilt shop is not my dream.” “What are you afraid of? Open your mind; at least give it some thought.” I fired back,“Sam, open your eyes. Have you forgotten? I’m 70 years old! Certainly, my age is reason enough not to entertain the idea.” Sam reached out. I pulled back. Talking about my lost dream disturbed me. Shifting my attention outside, I mentally listed yard tasks needing attention — trim shrubs, rake leaves, store lawn furniture, and so on. Sam interrupted my list-making, pointing at our yard’s largest tree. “See that walnut tree? When we moved here 30 years ago, it was already ancient. Today it still bears fruit, not letting age interfere with its purpose.” Sam took my hand. “Sweetheart, God’s purposes are often secreted within our dreams. Remember, dreams don’t have shelf lives or expiration dates. Blind to our age, they wait for us to birth them.” “Sometimes, Sam, I agree with my friend, Irene. She says dreams belong to the young.” Sam snickered. “Well, I’ve known Irene long enough to know her philosophy of life is messed up. How old is she anyway?” “You’re asking her age? Thought you just said we shouldn’t heed age — all I know is she’s younger than me.” “No way! Her continual gloomy complaints about her awful kids and the hopeless condition of the world,

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and her chronic whine, ‘I-just-wishthe-good-Lord-would-take-me-home,’ casts her as ancient. Seems she’s got one foot in the grave and can’t wait to put the other one in.” He ended his tirade with a snort of disgust. Sam hugged me. “Honey, listen to your long-ago dream. God-breathed dreams invite us to climb out of our boxed-up lives, to see new horizons, to explore life — and re-engage ourselves in living it to the max. Dreams, Ellie, infuse us with hope and energize us with fresh purpose.” I looked Sam in the eyes. “Maybe so, but … ” I sighed heavily, recalling the past, the pain of purposely burying my quilt shop dream and other dreams Sam knew nothing of for the sake of the farm and raising a family. “Sam, it seems wiser to let dreams rest dormant than to awaken them, only to watch them die again if things don’t work out.” Sam spoke tenderly, “Ellie, the outcome of dreams, their success or failure, really isn’t the issue. It’s the thrill of the ride that matters most.” *

The coaster’s movement jerks me back to the present. It starts its trek upward in a turtle-like crawl, climbing over each metal rung with a bumpclunk, bump-clunk. The combined motion and sound unsettle me. Bump-clunk. My heart races, playing fear’s rhythm. Bump-clunk. What am I doing sitting in this tin-can trap, totally vulnerable? Bump-clunk. This is an amusement park ride? Peril isn’t amusing!

Bump-clunk. The coaster reaches the pinnacle and halts. Preparing for the descent, I close my eyes tightly, and retreat within. Then, the train cuts loose. I start screaming, “Sam, you and your idiotic ideas! People our age shouldn’t … ” Plunging 50 feet downward at warp speed shuts me up. We reach the bottom. I take a breath, open my eyes, and laugh. “I’m still alive!” Sam grins. Straight ahead looms the next metal mountain, more perilous than the first. Bump-clunk. The sound challenges me: “Climb out of your tiny-sized existence, Ellie.” Bump-clunk. Eyes open wide, I defeat fear; embrace the moment. “Ellie, look. Rediscover your dreams.” Bump-clunk. Like a dam breaking, freeing a river, something within cracks. My consciousness fills with fresh purpose. Bump-clunk. The train reaches and halts at the pinnacle. Energized, fully alive, I yell,“Sam, buy another ticket. Let’s ride again!” The coaster bolts, then takes the deep plunge. Me? I’m screaming the entire 70-foot drop, “YES!” Yes, to my dreams! Yes to challenges! Yes to adventures! Yes to living life to the max! I am totally caught up in the thrill of the ride.

Recently widowed, Virginia Jelinek is especially thankful for the blessing of her family — four daughters and 10 grandchildren. As a retiree, Virginia enjoys writing as a hobby and a ministry.

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Man of Sorrows —

MAN OF JOY by Ann Maniscalco

“ He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief” (Isa. 53:3, KJV).

Ann Maniscalco is grandmother of three, mom of two, and wife of one. A member of LeMoyne Blvd. Baptist Church, she treasures organizing mission projects and serving with senior adults. Visit her at http://slimvictory.wordpress.com.

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s Golgotha loomed ever closer, Jesus shared some parting words with the men in whom He had invested three years. After explaining the necessity and blessedness of abiding in Him, Jesus said, “I have spoken these things to you so that My joy may be in you and your joy may be complete” (John 15:11). Jesus often referred to joy or rejoicing. Why then, is the Messiah described as a “man of sorrows”? We find the answer in Isaiah 53:4: “Yet He Himself bore our sicknesses, and He carried our pains; but we in turn regarded Him stricken, struck down by God, and afflicted.” This poignantly details the great exchange of Scripture described in 2 Corinthians 5:21: “He made the One who did not know sin to be sin for us, so that we might become the righteousness of God in Him.” For that to happen, Jesus became the man of sorrows during the torturous hours of the crucifixion. All the sins and sorrows of all mankind for all time were thrust upon Him, and He willingly accepted them. He “for the joy that lay before Him endured a cross and despised the shame and has sat down at the right hand of God’s throne” (Heb. 12:2). Think of it — our Saviour took our sorrows and gave us His joy; He took our sins and gave us His righteousness! May these glorious truths cause us to celebrate His resurrection with a renewal of fervent love that bursts forth in wholehearted obedience. “Man of Sorrows! What a name for the Son of God, who came ruined sinners to reclaim. Hallelujah! What a Saviour!” (“Hallelujah, What a Savior” by Philip Paul Bliss)

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Our bus made its way from London down country roads, alongside fields of brightly colored canola plants, bordered by stately horse chestnut trees. We wound our way through tiny hamlets and unspoiled country vales in a manner I could never match traveling by car. It was an affordable option that included a tour guide who gave a compelling narrative of the itinerary. I could sense the peace and serenity of Old England—the smells of mown grass and roses, the sounds of distant church bells, the sights of moats and bridges at ancient castles, and the touch of a soft rain keeping the land verdant. Cathedrals and Chapels England’s exalted churches and cathedrals are highly esteemed historic structures. They also reveal the heart and soul of the country. Be it the splendor and majesty of St. Paul’s Cathedral in London, or small village chapels, a clear sense of pride and patriotism can be found in the English houses of worship. Reverence for the spiritual experience reflects the national identity as much as Wimbledon and four o’clock tea. Salisbury. Pilgrims have been visiting the immense

cathedral for 750 years. It has the oldest working clock in the world and the highest spire in Europe. The cathedral holds one of the four original copies of the Magna Carter which is the basis for the U.S. Constitution. Stamford. Elaborate clerestories, such as the 13th century Christ Church, allow heavenly light to reach the faithful in prayer, a perfect symmetry of the Holy Spirit and man’s search for salvation. Winchester Cathedral. An entire wall of stained glass windows, depicting the life of Christ, was destroyed by anti-Christian forces. It was then incredibly reassembled, piece by piece, by the devout townspeople. It is an exquisite work of art designed in homage to God. These elegant spiritual edifices remain eloquent

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witnesses to the faith and dedication of those who designed and sculpted them centuries ago and those who maintain them today. More Must-see Sites Chartwell. A visit to the estate of Winston Churchill, south of London, offers a glimpse of the former prime minister’s life. Churchill once said: “A day away from Chartwell is a wasted day.” In the war planning room, the maps, messages, and memos for the Allied generals gave a sense of the forces facing the world during the storms of World War II. Cotswolds. Entering England’s most popular walking destination, I was struck by endless, low-lying

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The Salisbury Cathedral was built between 1220 and 1258.

stone walls bordering the roads. Small thatch-roofed cottages and family-run inns are covered with climbing clematis and bramble roses. Tall church steeples signal small villages ahead with ancient names like Borley Green and Toddington. Literary Centers Stratford-on-Avon. My favorite places were England’s literary centers. A tour of Shakespeare’s birthplace was enhanced by a drama in the courtyard, presented by actors in full Renaissance dress. The Fourteas 1940s Tea Room was a rare find. Dressed in clothing of the era, the servers served tea and scones with clotted cream. Posters on the wall signaled the sacrifices of the

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war years: “Make do and mend” and “Save bread, serve potatoes.” Bowness-on-Windermere. Traveling northwest toward Scotland, we arrived at The World of Beatrix Potter Attraction, named for the well-loved children’s author. Visitors of all ages were captivated by displays of lifelike stuffed animals, including Peter Rabbit, Flopsy, Mopsy, and Cottontail. Bowness is the heart of the beautiful Lakes District. We enjoyed a cruise on Lake Windermere, England’s largest lake, with views of shaded woodlands, secluded bays, and historic Lakeland villages, all in a moving panorama of natural beauty. The Vale of Grasmere. This pretty village in the heart of the Lakes District is an inspiration for romantic poets and artists. One can walk in the footsteps of the district’s favorite poet, William Wordsworth, who is buried here. Wordsworth called Grasmere “the fairest spot of earth.” Haworth. This sweet village is the home of England’s most famous literary family, the Bronte sisters. Their parsonage home is preserved as it was when the sisters wrote Jane Eyre and Wuthering Heights. The passionate intensity of their

writing and the wild beauty of the nearby moorlands were a potent mix for literary excellence. For information, see visitbritain.com. Back in London The city was in full swing, preparing for the 2012 Summer Olympics. The world’s greatest sports event provided an incredible opportunity for missions teams to reach people from around the world. The International Mission Board (IMB) sent more than 300 volunteers, led by Doug and Marcy Shaw. Quoted in the Baptist Press, Doug said, “To my knowledge, this is the largest Southern Baptist volunteer response to any single event outside the U.S.” The massive crowds and friendly atmosphere brought opportunities for Christians to engage strangers. One such discussion at an open cafe prompted 400 guests to visit a local church for the first time. Bill and Pat Curl, recently retired from 18 years of service in Wales as IMB missionaries, didn’t have a strong desire to be in London during the Olympics — until God called them to volunteer. Through “More Than Gold,” a ministry that connects churches and

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volunteers with Olympic ministry opportunities, along with representing both the IMB and the North American Mission Board, they helped reach not only the city of London, but the whole world with the gospel of Jesus Christ. Now that the 2012 Olympics are part of history, images of London may return to icons such as Big Ben and Buckingham Palace. But London is no longer defined by British traditions. The influence of the Christian faith, once so prominent in Great Britain, has faded. Beyond that, the population of 11.9 million people is characterized by diversity and multiculturalism. An estimated 300 languages are spoken, and a wide mixture of religions, including Islam and Hinduism, are making their presence know. In London, missions opportunities are vast, and the need is great for people to go in the name of Jesus to minister and share the gospel in this great city. For information about missions opportunities in Great Britain,visit going.imb.org/ volunteers.

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Marci DeWolf is a widely published travel journalist, writing for Travel News Service. She has two daughters and two grandchildren.

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Your Credit Score By Ron Kelley

“In this regard, it is expected of managers that each one of them be found faithful” (1 Cor. 4:2).

Importance of a Credit Score Although some Christian financial advisors advise having a zero credit score, in reality, most of us have financed a purchase, such as

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Years ago when I secured my first job out of college, I applied for a credit card. I was shocked when the response from my application was rejected. Rejected? There I was, a college grad with a great job, ready to conquer the world — and I was rejected? Upon further review, I discovered the reason for my rejection in the fine print. I did not have a credit score. The credit score originated back in the 1950s. Lenders wanted a financial profile on consumers who wished to borrow money. The key questions were whether an individual was able to repay a loan and what percentage of risk might be involved. In 1971, Congress passed the Fair Credit Reporting Act to establish formal guidelines for fair practices regarding the use of credit scoring. As followers of Christ, we have a biblical responsibility to pay what we owe in a prompt manner. “When it is in your power, don’t withhold good from the one it belongs to. Don’t say to your neighbor, ‘Go away! Come back later. I’ll give it tomorrow’—when it is there with you” (Prov. 3:27-28).

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a home mortgage or an automobile, at some point in time. Our goal should be to have the highest credit score possible in every season of life. A bad score can cost you tens of thousands of dollars in extra payments. Credit scores range from 300 to 850 and grade your credit risk as follows: Credit Score 720 – 850 620 – 720 580 – 620 500 – 580 Below 500

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Your credit score is an ever-changing value with the five main factors that make up your score and their weighted percentage: • payment history (35 percent) •o utstanding credit card balances (30 percent) • credit history (15 percent) • type of credit (10 percent) • credit history inquiries (10 percent) A poor score can cost a consumer in added payment dollars, so it is imperative for followers of Christ to be faithful stewards and good managers with the provision the Lord has provided. For example: Individual A has a credit score of over 720 and is able to secure a $20,000 car loan at a rate of 7.9 percent for a five-year-term. The principle and interest monthly payment would amount to $404.75. The total amount Individual A would pay on this 5-year loan would equal $24,274. Individual B, on the other hand, has a lower credit score of 580, so he is only able to secure this same 5-year $20,000 loan at a higher interest rate of 18.9 percent. Thus his monthly payment on principle and interest

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would amount to $518.70. The total amount he pays on this 5-year $20,000 loan will equal $31,122. When comparing how much more Individual B would have to pay for the same car, we’re looking at a difference of $113.95 per month, and $6,848 in additional payments over the life of the loan. I don’t know about you, but I would like to have an extra $6,848 in my pocket. Also, when comparing a “good” versus a “less desirable” credit score, think of the savings if we were talking about a 30-year home mortgage? Credit Score Deductions Financial Event Deduction Score Maxed-out card -10 to -45 30-day late payment -60 to -110 Debt settlement -105 to -125 Foreclosure -85 to -160 Bankruptcy -130 to -240 Improving a Bad Credit Score The only way to build a positive credit score is to pay bills on time and reduce debt. Shy away from maxing out credit cards and make sure you are not carrying monthly balances that exceed 30 percent of your assigned credit limit. For example, your credit score will be greatly reduced if you have a credit card with a $9,000 credit limit and you carry a balance of $3,000 or greater from one month to another. And here’s one last tip: It takes two years of on-time payments to restore a score deduction received for a single late payment. Ron Kelley is the director of the Prestonwood Foundation in Dallas, Texas, providing biblical guidance and training in the area of stewardship, personal finances, and Kingdom Significance estate planning. He and his wife, Gwen, have two children.

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HIS HANDS AND FEET

WIDOWS

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When my husband died from a heart attack, I was sustained by Psalm 46:10 “Be still, and know that I am God” (KJV).

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Leaving the hospital that night, I said, “I will not fear.” The velvet-black sky and countless stars illuminated my awareness that I’d just become a widow. I was surprised to feel stereotyped. Friends expected me to make big changes. They seemed frustrated when I chose to retain my personal goals and rural lifestyle rather than choosing to travel or purchase a new automobile. When a pastor said singles comprise approximately 50 percent of the population,

I listened. When he said that singles with nothing between them and God can change the world, I felt God calling me to start an organization for widows. My son, who was active in a men’s ministry, encouraged me and offered to help me with the format. But we never talked again. Within days, he died. During my son’s funeral, I recalled our plans and assumed the project would end. Instead, I heard God say, “Continue. That’s how you will handle your grief.”

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Beginning the Ministry In June 2000, three widows, responding to a news release, attended a presentation I had scheduled at the local library. By 2001, 10 charter members hosted the first jamboree of Widows of America. Inspired by the hymn, we chose “In the Garden” as our theme. Our guest speaker, a state representative and also a widow, commented,“I’m pleased to be with a group that no one wishes to belong to.” Programs and Presentations Widows love good food, good company, and practical help. We seek to help our members develop interpersonal communication skills and increase their confidence toward roles within the family, church, community, and workplace. Programs for the monthly meetings are planned around relevant topics, such as moving on after grieving, conquering the fear of public speaking, and decision-making. We also receive outside help. A local cooperative electric company gave a grant of $1,497 to help promote technology and cut electricity costs. Jamborees Each year we plan a WOA jamboree, an all-day event

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LEARN MORE Widows of America, Inc. has room for more roses. All newcomers at a WOA meeting receive a long-stem silk rose, signifying the opportunities for growth that come after the thorns of loss. Each woman is encouraged to see herself as special, worthy, and welcome. Widows of America is a regional organization located in Texas. If you would like more information, write to: Widows of America, Inc. 6230 Florence Road Justin, TX 76247

featuring entertainment, speakers, door prizes, and, of course, food. We invite entertainers who have grown beyond their personal thorns. One retired country-western singer expressed our feelings when she sang Gene Autry’s 1940s hit, “Don’t Fence Me In,” from her wheelchair. Other jamboree entertainers have included an artist, a pianist, and a tap dancer. These women had returned to and redeveloped their childhood talents after being widowed. Promoting Faith Knowing that God led me to this ministry for widows, I want to honor Him through Widows of America. Each meeting opens with prayer and Scripture. With hundreds of Bible verses pertaining to widows, we

find plenty of inspiration and truth to consider. Not all our members have a strong spiritual background, but most widows understand that faith in God sustains, protects, and helps us cope. My burden is for the women who do not know Christ to come to know Him, those who are not involved in church to do so, and those who are active, to become confident in new roles of service and leadership. As founder-director of Widows of America, I envision an estimated 13 million U.S. widows as stars, illuminating faith and hope and offering widows a sense of purpose and place. E. Curina Morris has been widowed for 27 years. She writes from her home in rural Texas and is often published in area newspapers. She serves as organist at Fairview Baptist Church in Rhome, Texas.

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Daddy WARHIDE

by Shelley Anne Richter

orking in a retirement community, I dealt with people who appreciated the many activities that enriched their lives. Then there were others who struggled with a profound sense of loss. I still remember the call light that went on at 2:30 a.m. in room 257. “Mr. Warhide,” I groaned. He must have fallen again. I didn’t know why he had to be so stubborn when it came to using his walker. Stepping off the elevator and sprinting down the hall to his room, I knocked on the door. I heard a feeble voice say,“Call my daughter.” Feeling a sense of urgency, I opened the door with my passkey. Mr. Warhide lay curled on the floor. I knelt beside him and grabbed a pillow for his head. “Where do you hurt?” “I don’t want you!” he snapped. “I want my daughter!” Hurrying back down the hall, I wondered why Roberta hadn’t shut her father out of her life. She had ample reason to. When I entered the office, I didn’t need to check for Roberta’s telephone number. This was the fourth time in two weeks that her father had fallen in the wee hours of the morning. I had her number memorized. After dialing, I heard a drowsy voice answer, “Hello?” “This is Shelley calling from Highland Ridge Retirement Community. Your father has fallen again, and he asked me to call you.”

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“Is he in pain?” “I think his pride is what hurts the most,” I said. “I’ll be right there.” I heard the phone click. Within minutes, Roberta arrived, and we rushed to her father’s room. She leaned over him and asked, “Where’s your walker?” Mr. Warhide bristled. “I told you before, I have no use for it!” “Let’s try to get him up,” I suggested. Roberta sighed. “No. I want him checked out at the ER.” I called 911. Paramedics arrived at the scene and transported Mr. Warhide to the hospital. Roberta stayed behind to collect her father’s prescriptions, knowing the doctor would need them. As I filled out an incident report, Roberta came down to sign out. “You sure are a considerate daughter,” I said.“Your father’s tongue can be sharp at times.”

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Zig Warhide was perhaps the most obstinate, cranky, critical human being I’d ever met. But in the early morning hours of September 8, 2000, this man changed my life.

Roberta smiled. “He’s actually my stepfather.” My jaw dropped. Roberta continued.“When Zig married my mother, my brother, Ted, and I thought we were doomed, because he never minced words. But after a few months, we fondly called him Daddy Warhide. He provided for us as if we were his blood children, making sure we had plenty to eat, nice clothes to wear, and a good education. Though he made only $35 a week during the Great Depression, he saved enough to send me to law school and my brother to medical school.” “He must have been really good at saving money to live here,” I marveled.“This is a pretty expensive place.” “Daddy Warhide doesn’t have any money,” Roberta responded.“My brother and I vowed we would take care of him as long as he lived. This is our payback for love.” She turned and disappeared out the door. Roberta’s words acted as a wake-up call for me. I knew too much time had elapsed since I had spoken to my own father. When I got home that morning, I decided to put all my feelings of resentment aside. Though Daddy and I hadn’t talked in more than a dozen years, I realized how desperately I wanted a relationship with him before reconciliation became impossible.

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“Forgive us … as we also have forgiven” (Matt. 6:12). My hand trembled when I dialed his number. My stepmother answered the phone with a cheerful greeting. “Virginia,” I said. “This is Shelley. Is Daddy there?” She hesitated for a moment then said. “Your father is suffering from Alzheimer’s and is confined to a nursing home. At this stage, I doubt he would know you.” A knot formed in my throat. “I’m sorry it’s taken me so many years to get over my anger. But after he left .…”

“I know it’s been difficult,” answered Virginia.“If you’d like, you can send him a card. I’ll make sure he gets it.” A moment later we said good-bye. Myrtle Beach was almost 1,200 miles away. But I was determined to make amends with my father. Two weeks later, I stepped off a plane and took a cab to the nursing home. When I walked into Daddy’s room, he sat in a wheelchair. His face reflected the emptiness I had witnessed so many times

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