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FEATURE 8 • Carolinas Dental Center: Familiar Faces and a New Name Giving You The Care You Need, The Smile You Want DESTINATION 14 • Waxhaw, North Carolina OUR HEARTS ARE IN THE ARTS 22 • Where the Artists Music Guild All Began WELLBEING & BEING WELL 24 • You,Your Dog, Bonding & Separation Anxiety
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This issue, we talk with the doctors at Carolinas Dental Center – delivering happy and healthy smiles everyday. Find out more in our feature article on page 8. Photo by: Lorayn DeLuca. Cover Story by: Nancy Moore.
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I sometimes become a little melancholy while drafting Nancy’s Notes. I have so many thoughts I want to share, which is one reason I limit my word count to 400 or so and, for those of you who know me personally, you can understand the challenge! This edition’s is no different, especially as we head into the holiday season. It’s this time of year that I miss my family most (the majority of who live in Massachusetts), while, at the same time, I’m grateful for what I do have – health, a wonderful husband, amazing children, friends, etc. I’m also thankful for the little things, such as the view from my office window: lots of trees, squirrels, neighbors walking by, a couple of tomato planters, and a very busy birdfeeder. I recently returned from a fabulous trip to San Francisco. The beauty of the city, to see landmarks right before your eyes, is, quite literally, breathtaking. The Golden Gate Bridge, Lombard Street and its eight switchbacks, Fisherman’s Wharf, the sea lions at Pier 39, the iconic Buena Vista Café, the cablecars and streetcars, the Painted Ladies – sites that are at the top of so many travelers’ ‘must see’ list. Imagine my surprise when I’m chatting with a young man who is a native of San Francisco and, very matter-of-factly, he says that living there is really no big deal; he grew up there, he goes to school there, and he’s seen everything there is to see. He’s not impressed. My response to him was, “Do you realize that, every year, millions of people come here from all over the world to see this city? It’s very sad that you don’t appreciate what you have.” He thought about it and said, “I guess you’re right.” For the next few days, I recalled our conversation and his statement of nonchalance and, once again, realized that there are people living in beautiful cities all over the world (Charlotte included) who don’t appreciate what’s in their own backyard. In her song, The Stuff That Dreams Are Made Of, Carly Simon sings, “Don’t look at yourself in the same old way, take another picture. Shoot the stars off in your own backyard, don’t look any further, and you will see . . . it’s the stuff that dreams are made of.” I agree. I think we spend so much time looking for the greener grass, that we don’t see what’s beneath our feet. Before you dive into your holiday turkeys and hams, step outside your front (or back) door and take a good look at what you see. It might not be perfect, but it’s yours. Don’t be critical, just appreciate it.
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Carolinas Dental Center Familiar Faces and A New Name Giving You The Care You Need, The Smile You Want By: Nancy Moore | Photos: Lorayn DeLuca, Mama Luca Media
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The field of dentistry is always changing and, to be successful, dental practitioners must also change. Today’s offices have to be patient-centric. In keeping with the ever-changing times, Carolinas Dental Center has made the necessary changes to continue to be at the forefront of the dental field.
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r. Thomas Grimes has lived in Matthews for Two fully staffed offices almost 25 years – practically making him a native! Shortly after his arrival, Dr. Grimes established In 2008 the doctors moved to their current Matthews his dental practice in a small brick building at 510 West location at 428 North Trade Street, Ste. 101 (formerly 428 John Street. Dr. Christopher Phelps joined Dr. Grimes in Sam Newell Road). Three doctors practice in the Matthews 2003 and they formed the very successful office: Dr. Grimes, who is in the office practice, Grimes & Phelps. Together Monday through Thursday, Todd Engel, they have been featured on television, DDS, and Sarah Padolsky, DMD. Dr. radio (107.9 The Link’s Matt & Ramona Phelps treats patients in the Matthews Show), and local magazines as they’ve office on Mondays and Fridays. traveled a winding road to get to where they are now: Carolinas Dental Center. Thomas Grimes, DDS, was born in Dublin, Georgia, and raised in A new beginning Lincolnton, North Carolina. A graduate of Davidson College and the University The field of dentistry is always of North Carolina, Dr. Grimes and his changing and, to be successful, dental wife Catherine moved to Matthews in practitioners must also change. Gone 1988. They have two sons, with their are the days when dental offices could youngest in his first year of college at thrive being open Monday through Greensboro College and their oldest a Thursday, 9-5, and closed for two hours recent graduate of Western Carolina during lunch. Today’s offices have to be University. patient-centric. In keeping with the ever-changing times, Carolinas Dental Center has made the commitment A California native, Dr. Todd Engel recently relocated to focus on being there when their patients really need to Charlotte. He earned his graduate degree and his them. doctorate of dental surgery degree from the University of the Pacific School of Dentistry in San Francisco. In 2005, It used to be that if you needed dental work, Dr. Engel fulfilled a lifelong dream of creating a learning whether for a routine cleaning, filling, etc., you’d have to institution where he could share, teach, and motivate take time away from your job to do so. For some, it can other dental professionals. Thus began the Engel Institute. be difficult spending time away from work – especially if Dr. Engel met Dr. Phelps five years ago when Dr. Phelps there’s significant travel time involved. Requesting the first became an instructor for the Engel Institute. Through the or last appointment of the day can also be difficult with institute, Dr. Engel, Dr. Phelps, and their team of certified many other patients having the same idea. In keeping up implant instructors teach other dental practitioners dental with their patients’ needs, Carolinas Dental Center has implant procedures. Dr. Engel is actively seeking qualified expanded their hours and are open most days from 8:00 volunteers as candidates for implants. Patients need to be a.m. to 8:00 p.m., with Friday and Saturday appointments available for a full Saturday the weekend of the seminar. now available. A significant discount is available to those patients who qualify. If you are interested in being a volunteer patient, please contact Carolinas Dental Center. NOVEMBER | DECEMBER 2012 • sclivingmag.com
Dr. Sarah Padolsky is from Roswell, Georgia. Dr. Padolsky earned her undergraduate degree at the University of Georgia and her dental degree from the Medical College of Georgia, Augusta. While a student, Dr. Padolsky helped develop a student implant training simulation for Nobel Biocare, an international company providing restorative and esthetic dental solutions and products to dental practitioners.
minor transition in staff, Dr. Phelps is seeing patients in the Waxhaw office Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays. Joining him in that office are Tori Irvine, DDS, and Henry Ernst, DMD.
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Christopher Phelps, DMD, is a native of Greensboro, NC. Dr. Phelps was inspired to become a dentist after attending a “Future Dentists of America” event in the seventh grade. He received his undergraduate degree from In November 2010 the doctors opened an office in the the University of North Carolina and his graduate degree Waxhaw/Weddington area located at 2514 Cuthbertson from Nova Southeastern University in Florida. Road, Suite A, Waxhaw. At the time, neither Dr. Grimes nor Dr. Phelps practiced in that office. Now, with a Dr. Phelps’s wife, Amber, became a patient of Dr.
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Grimes at the age of 14 – long before she met Christopher sedation dentistry. His services also include Invisalign, Phelps. Dr. Phelps and Amber have two children, ages 5 tooth extraction, and veneers. Dr. Ernst is a Fellow in the and 2. American Dental Implant Association. Dr. Tori Irvine is from Burlington, Ontario, Canada. While in high school, Dr. Irvine’s family relocated to Raleigh, NC. She earned her undergraduate degree from the University of North Carolina and her graduate degree from UNC’s School of Dentistry. Dr. Irvine accepted an offer with a practice in Washington, DC. After four years, she moved to Dallas, TX, to work in a cosmetic dentistry practice.
The doctors and staff of Carolinas Dental Center are committed to providing patients with hassle-free scheduling. As mentioned earlier, both locations offer extended hours. The Waxhaw office is open late on Tuesdays and Thursdays, and the Matthews office is open late on Mondays and Wednesdays. Both offices are open Fridays and two Saturdays a month.
Each office provides a wide array of dental services, making it very convenient for those patients who don’t like to travel from office to office to get the dental work they need. In addition, each office will work with the patient’s insurance company, process claims, maximize the patient’s benefits, HSAs (Health Savings Accounts), etc., and are inDr. Irvine brings to Carolinas Dental Center the ability network providers for Cigna and Delta Dental insurance to make patients relax before a procedure, whether simple companies. or complicated. She knows that, for many people, just the thought of going to the dentist can be discomforting. The ‘leading edge’ While in Dallas, Dr. Irvine continued her education and extensive training in the surgical and restorative aspects of dental implants, and honed her skills in root canals and sedation dentistry.
Dr. Henry Ernst is from Boca Raton, FL. Dr. Ernst earned his undergraduate degree from the University of Alabama and his dental degree, with distinction, from Nova Southeastern University, College of Dental Medicine. Like his colleague, Dr. Irvine, Dr. Ernst has extensive training in placing and restoring dental implants, oral surgery, and
Dr. Phelps likes to say that Carolinas Dental Center is “on the leading edge of technology, rather than the bleeding edge.” Using the best equipment available, this edge of technology allows them to offer services and methods that have been extensively tested and have a proven track record.
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While getting your teeth cleaned you can download and watch a movie of your choice from Netflix, plug in your iPod, or listen to satellite radio on a headset. These amenities are great when you want to block out the sound of a dental drill! For patients who have a fear of visiting the dentist, sedation is available. Carolinas Dental Center is one of the few offices in the state to offer every level of sedation as an option for their patients. This includes sleep dentistry thanks to the help of the practice’s dental anesthesiologist, Dr. Charles Cangemi. Although they still use the familiar Panorex, the practice also has a CAT scan in-office. The CAT scan uses less radiation and provides clear 3-D pictures with no distortion. The CAT scan is typically used for serious treatments such as implants, root canals, and extractions. Carolinas Dental Center is a practice of firsts; it was the first practice in the area to offer Zoom! Whitening and Dr. Grimes is one of the first doctors to use the CEREC (full or partial crowns in one visit) equipment. Carolinas Dental Center has earned the distinction of being an Invisalign (clear braces) Premier Provider by completing more cases than other general dentists. The practice also offers the NTI device – an FDA-approved dental mouthpiece that prevents migraine and tension headaches, as well as TMJ. Their latest and greatest piece of technology is the LUMISmile. LUMISmile provides doctors and patients with a glimpse of what the patient would look like with appropriate and needed treatment. It’s like seeing how you’ll look with a certain haircut or a new hair color, except you see how you’d look with a perfect smile or other cosmetic change! The LUMISmile is free and is part of the consultation.
We have the keys to your next home. Community-minded Drs. Grimes and Phelps are acutely aware of the community’s impact on their practice’s success and, in an effort to give back to the community, on December 1 Carolinas Dental Center will partner with Dentistry From the Heart to provide free dental care (extractions, cleanings, and fillings only) to low-income residents. Each office will see patients from 8:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. and patients must meet certain criteria. If you, or someone you know, are unable to pay for much needed dental care, contact the office for more information. If you have questions about the Dentistry From the Heart event, or would like to schedule an appointment with one of the doctors, contact Carolinas Dental Center at 704-246-5173 (Matthews) or 704-243-8920 (Waxhaw). ( Photos by: Lorayn DeLuca, Mama Luca Media
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axhaw, North Carolina – a town of slightly more than 10,000 just over the Union County line packs a lot into its 2.8 square miles of land. From the Charlotte metro area, it’s ‘down the road apiece’ or ‘as far as the crow flies.’ This charming town is an easy drive down Providence Road (16), Weddington Road (64), and Waxhaw Highway (75). Waxhaw was chartered in 1889 and is the third oldest town in Union County. What began as a cotton town is now a thriving destination for antiquing, dining, and strolling.
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marriage was bigamous. They ‘remarried’ in 1794. Third, Jackson has One of the biggest controversies appeared on 13 postage stamps, with in Waxhaw’s history is whether or only George Washington (included in not it is the birthplace of our seventh the Washington/Benjamin Franklin president, Andrew Jackson. Jackson series) and Abraham Lincoln ahead of was born on March 15, 1767, in the him. Waxhaws region. Both Waxhaw, NC, and Lancaster, SC, claim Jackson as Places to go, things to do, people
to see No matter how you get to Waxhaw, the best place to start your tour is in its historic downtown. Park along the railroad tracks (North Main or South Main) and enjoy the view of the designated historical district. Be sure to wear good walking shoes!
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The Waxhaws The Waxhaw Indians were a small tribe that settled near Cane Creek and it is believed that the name, Waxhaw, means “People of the Cane.” The tribe settled long before Europeans began exploring America and, as a matter of fact, the first European contact in the area was in 1566 when Captain Juan Pardo visited the tribe on his way to Mexico. The relationship ultimately had a negative effect on the Waxhaws as they became more reliant upon providing the Europeans with food and deer hides in exchange for axes and muskets. Explorer John Lawson’s survey of the area estimated that approximately 2,000 Waxhaws lived in the area. By 1720, most of the tribe had died from illnesses brought over by the Europeans, particularly smallpox. Those remaining either died during the Yamasee Wars, or assimilated themselves into the local Catawba tribe or a Seminole tribe in Florida.
a native son. The confusion came about because the states’ borders had not yet been determined. In his adult life, Jackson claimed he was born in Lancaster County on a plantation owned by an uncle. Many believe that Jackson claimed South Carolina as his home because of a political dispute involving South Carolina and the nullification of the Tariff of 1824, which Jackson opposed. More than thirty years later evidence arose saying that Jackson may have been born in North Carolina at the home of a different uncle. As an aside, here are a few interesting facts about Andrew Jackson: First, he is the first sitting president to be the target of an assassination attempt. Second, when he married Rachel Donelson in 1791, she was not legally divorced from her first husband and the Jacksons’
Heading away from the commercial district, cross High Street to see the McCain-Coffee-Eargle House, which was built at the turn of the century, and then past Jackson Street to see both the Steele House and the Hudson-Belk House. The Steele House, built before 1900, is believed to be the oldest house in Waxhaw. The Hudson-Belk House was owned by Ralph J. Belk, manager of the local Belk store (which you’ll see further down the road). Each house has a unique sunburst pattern on the front. As you turn around to go back to the historic district, you’ll pass the David G. Barnes Children’s Park on the right. The park is a beautiful place to sit and enjoy the local sights. Be sure you stop by the Waxhaw Tack Exchange located at 103 South Church Street. It’s a great place to hang around and get caught up in local happenings. From Church Street,
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walk back up to South Main and turn right toward South Providence Street. The building on the corner is one of the first two Belk stores outside of Monroe. This is the store that was managed by Ralph Belk, founder William Henry Belk’s cousin. The store closed in 1936 and housed many other businesses, including Gambles Drug Store. In 1971 the Belk family donated the building to its present tenants, the Waxhaw Woman’s Club. At the corner of South Providence and McKibben Streets is the Dare Steele Memorial Garden. The park honors local resident and history teacher Dare Steele. If you’re up to walking a little further, walk back to East South Main Street and take a right. Walk around the bend to see the Rodman-Heath Cotton Mill, established in 1898 and Waxhaw’s largest employer from 1898 to 1946. As you turn back toward town, you’ll see the Overhead Bridge, which was built in 1888. As you walk over the bridge, think of this: until 1940, cars traveled the bridge to get over the railroad tracks! The bridge was renovated in 2007. Be sure to stop in the middle and look both ways for fantastic photo opportunities.
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Once you’ve crossed the bridge, you’ve entered into the part of town that is chock full of historic buildings with grand architecture. The bridge leads to East North Main and Providence Streets. Walk up Providence to the corner of Howie Mine Road to see the John Lafayette Rodman House (on the right), the Guion Plyler House (across from the John Lafayette Rodman House), and the Conner Steele House across the street. Walk back to East North Main Street to see the Waxhaw Volunteer Fire Department, the original Waxhaw Woman’s Club, and the BroomeRodman Building, which was built before 1910. The second story was once a hotel and the left side of the building was home to the Roco Movie Theatre, which showed silent films. From all points of the historic district visitors see the water tower. In 1940 Waxhaw town commissioners adopted a resolution to build the 100,000-gallon steel tank. The cost? $7,337. You’ll see the water tank up close from North Broome and West North Main Streets. From here you can walk down North Main Street to Church Street and step inside the Waxhaw United Methodist Church, built in 1929. The church was established in 1888 and was the first in town. The first stand-alone post office in Waxhaw is on Church Street. The next block of West North Main Street is home to the Niven-Price Company building.
did spend most of my shopping time in Tangles Knitting on Main located in the Niven-Price Company building at 200 West North Main. When I stepped in the door, I was greeted by Elizabeth Climer, Tangles’ owner. Two ladies were sitting comfortably in what could be a living room. I explained that I’m a crocheter and Elizabeth welcomed me into the shop. The yarn selection is amazing and I practically drooled room to room. Elizabeth told me that she had recently participated in the 2012 Charlotte Area Yarn Crawl – a great way for knitters, crocheters, and fiber artists to visit yarn shops throughout the area and then be eligible to win prizes. Thirteen yarn shops participated in the crawl, with shops in Charlotte, Mint Hill, Pineville, Davidson, Huntersville, Spencer, Denver, and Tangles. Elizabeth loves being a part of the Waxhaw community. She said Next-door is the McDonald Hotel, that residents are always willing to which was built in 1912. The hotel knit or crochet for charity and those operated until 1946. The building is less fortunate. now a private residence. Two notable houses follow the McDonald Hotel. The first, the William Massey House, was the first house in Waxhaw to have a furnace. The second, the HeathMassey House, was the first to have electricity.
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Shop ‘til you drop! I admit, I’m a window shopper. I love to look at window displays and take a peek at what’s inside. There are some great shops in the historic district of Waxhaw. The window displays drew me in! Truth be told, I
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Time for a break! If you need something to eat or drink after you cross the bridge, stop by SouthSiders Public House. Established in 2006, it’s historic Waxhaw’s oldest pub. The menu is varied, with hot dogs, burgers, wraps, sandwiches, and salads for lunch and dinner. The bar menu is varied and the beer selection extensive. If you’re not hungry at that point, walk up a ways to Mamma Lena’s. Mamma Lena’s relocated to Waxhaw several years ago and I think Charlotte area residents shed a tear or two. But, as I’ve said, Waxhaw is a hop, skip, and a jump away! So, for wonderful Italian food, fresh bread, and a great wine selection, visit Mamma.
as well as DeLuxe Ice Cream made in Mooresville, NC, since 1924. Teaspoons even has penny candy (at slightly more than a penny)! Right next door to Teaspoons is Rippington’s Restaurant (109 West South Main Street). Rippington’s is elegant and upscale, but not pricey. The restaurant is open for lunch, dinner, and Sunday brunch. Dinner specialties include crab cakes, ribs, and surf ‘n’ turf, as well as salmon and specialty pastas. Many dinner entrees are available at lunch, but there are plenty of mouthwatering sandwiches. The brunch menu grabbed my attention: quiche, eggs benedict, omelets, huevos rancheros, crepes . . . I’m getting hungry just thinking about it.
Den at 407 East South Main Street (right next door to the RodmanHeath Cotton Mill). The owner of Fox’s Pizza Den, Rick Hodge, also makes ice cream in the store. Rick’s parents made ice cream at the family farm in Pennsylvania and Rick grew up making it. Each ingredient is fresh and real. So, no matter where you eat, save room for Rick’s ice cream.
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You really can make a day of it in Waxhaw. Once you’ve toured the historic district, shopped, and eaten, consider visiting the Museum of the Waxhaws and the Andrew Jackson Memorial. The museum is located at 8215 Waxhaw Highway. There are Maxwell’s Tavern is at 112 East permanent and temporary exhibits, For a great cup of coffee, stop by South Main Street. A family friendly events, and summer camps. Hours Teaspoons at 107 West South Main restaurant, the menu is similar are limited, so keep that in mind. The Street. It’s a huge coffee ‘shoppe’ to SouthSiders – salads, burgers, museum is open Fridays and Saturdays that has light sandwiches and salads, sandwiches, and local beer. If you’re 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m., and Sundays in the mood for pizza, visit Fox’s Pizza 18
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Waxhaw, North Carolina – a town of slightly more than 10,000 just over the Union County line packs a lot into its 2.8 square miles of land. From the Charlotte metro area, it’s ‘down the road apiece’ or ‘as far as the crow flies.’ This charming town is an easy drive down Providence Road (16), Weddington Road (64), and Waxhaw Highway (75). Waxhaw was chartered in 1889 and is the third oldest town in Union County. What began as a cotton town is now a thriving destination for antiquing, dining, and strolling. www.waxhaw.com
2:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Admission prices vary based on age. You can contact the museum at 704-843-1832. As you stroll and drive through town, you may notice several sculptures. These are the creation of local artist Tom Risser. Tom’s work is on display at Eight Legs Gallery located at 310 East South Main Street (across from the factory). Stop to really appreciate them – they are amazing. And, for a little town, Waxhaw is pretty amazing too. Enjoy! (
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Our Hearts Are in the Arts The Artists Music Guild
Not too long ago Almost three years ago, three men, each working in a different area of as of the entertainment industry, discussed the challenges facing up and coming artists – especially those who are young and talented, and, unfortunately, targets for scam artists. When a young person is talented and has stars in their eyes, it is easy to fall prey to someone who promises the child the world, then leaves them with nothing. David L. Cook, Chris Nowels, and Elddy Trevino realized they had the ability to make a difference in the lives of young people through mentoring and providing professional guidance.
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David L. Cook David L. Cook was born into a musical family that dates back to 1885 known as The Cook Family Singers. At the age of five, David joined his family as a performer. In 1980, the group disbanded and David became a solo performer. All told, he has 18 number one songs and, with sales reaching over the one million mark, is the number one selling Christian country artist to date. In addition to his musical career, David has won seven Emmy awards and is well respected as a singer/songwriter and comedian. The Artists Music Guild is the outcome of David’s frustration of how inexperienced artists were being taken advantage of and how poorly they were being treated. This frustration prompted him to call on Chris and Elddy to assist David in devising a way to help new artists.
Chris Nowels Chris Nowels is the owner and CEO of IHN Productions in Midlothian, Texas. When David talked with Chris about
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forming an organization that would protect and mentor young artists, Chris knew he had to be a part of it. Chris is self-employed and has had his own challenges in the industry. He could clearly see the impact such an organization would have on the industry. As a television producer, Chris has worked with Soul Train and the Academy Awards. His live productions include the country music’s Alabama, George Strait, and Brooks & Dunn, comedian Jamie Fox, and several corporate events and recorded productions. Chris serves as the Guild’s executive vice president.
newcomers by providing them with the tools necessary to develop the business savvy needed to prevent them from being exploited. In an industry where who you know may outweigh your talent and ability, the Guild levels the playing field so everyone is given a fair opportunity. The Guild also works to develop the talents of children, whether in music, dance, or visual arts.
Heritage Awards The Guild’s signature event is its annual Heritage Awards held at the Heritage Conference Center in Fort Mill, SC. This year’s Heritage Awards begin with a convention on November 8 and culminate with the awards show on November 10. Tickets are on sale now and are $50 for nonGuild members. If you’re interested in attending, contact the Guild at 615-469-1595. Read more about the Guild online at www.artistsmusicguild.com. (
Elddy Trevino A Texas native, Elddy Trevino is a recording and mixing engineer with a studio in Monroe, NC. After several years working for others, Elddy established his own company, Loco Sound, in 2002. Elddy works with artists in several genres of music: Latin, pop, rock, reggae, R&B, etc., and was involved with the film, Selena, the biographical drama about the life and death of Tejano music star Selena Quintanilla-Perez starring Jennifer Lopez. With more than 25 years’ experience in the industry, Elddy was a natural fit for the Guild and serves on its board.
The beginning On January 1, 2011, the doors opened to the Artists Music Guild. In less than two years, the Guild has approximately 500 members, including lawyers, accountants, business managers, and Grammy- and Emmy-award winning writers, musicians, painters, etc. The mission of the Guild is to help in the understanding, appreciation, and advancement of the arts to American culture. The goals of the Guild are to provide members with a network of industry insiders to call on for support and professional services, as well as to mentor
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hen a dog comes into our life, whether by choice or by chance, it can be a very rewarding and fulfilling experience. Dogs are wonderful companions, remarkable listeners, and great entertainers. They become part of the family and we form strong bonds with them, and they with us.
Chemically speaking Dogs are social animals and need human interaction. The interaction between you and your dog, whether you are playing or simply relaxing side-byside, causes a chemical reaction in each of you: the production of oxytocin and cortisol. Oxytocin aids in developing the bond between dogs and their humans, and cortisol produces the ‘fight or flight’ response. Normal production of these hormones keeps everyone (including you) on an even keel; too much or too little of either can have serious consequences.
By: Nancy Moore | Photos by: Lorayn DeLuca would like nothing more than to stay home all day to play with our new friend (producing oxytocin). This isn’t possible when you have to go to work. Leaving Fido alone for extended periods of time is a stressful challenge many dog owners face. He may become agitated and stressed at the thought of his human not coming home, causing him to overproduce cortisol. As for you, knowing your dog is stressed may increase your cortisol production. In dogs, an overabundance of cortisol can lead to Cushing’s disease, while too little cortisol can cause Addison’s disease. The lack of attention also diminishes the production of oxytocin. This too can cause severe anxiety and even depression, which can then lead to ‘acting out.’
When left alone, dogs can develop separation anxiety and act out in a variety of ways – barking, crying, whining, chewing, urinating, and/or defecating. Some dogs knock over trashcans and drag the trash all over the house (this is the voice of experience). Others In the early stages of our relationship, many of us may pace uncontrollably or cause themselves harm by
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You, Your Dog, Bonding, and Separation Anxiety
repeatedly chewing or licking one area of their body. Still others may try to break the barrier between you and them, i.e., the front door or a sliding glass door. How can you as a dog owner minimize or prevent the behavior associated with separation anxiety?
Quality time Before leaving home, spend quality time with her (saying goodbye) and when the time comes, tell her to be good, say goodbye, and simply leave. Your return home should be just as low key. While you’re just as excited to see your dog as she is to see you, that continued feeling of euphoria can lead to your dog developing separation anxiety. When you do get home, try to spend at least thirty minutes focusing on your dog. Take a walk or play outdoors. Remember, you’re helping yourself as much as you’re helping him. On the weekend, take your dog to a dog-friendly restaurant. A pet owner’s favorite is visiting the local pet Adjusting to change store. Dogs love the sights and smells in a pet store and If you find your dog is developing separation anxiety, it oftentimes gives them the opportunity to interact with give some thought as to what is causing it. Are you other dogs. spending more time at work? Is there a new baby in the house? Have you gotten married? Have you moved? How long is too long? The length of time dogs can be left alone largely depends on the age of the dog. Puppies need more breaks during the day than adult dogs. If possible, don’t leave puppies alone for more than three hours at a stretch. If you’re going to be out of the house for a full workday, leave plenty of puppy pads! While adult dogs can be left alone for longer periods, try not to go beyond eight to nine hours. Always leave fresh water. Consider hiring a dog sitter/dog walker, trading services with a neighbor or responsible child, or enrolling in a doggy daycare. Designate special toys that your dog can play with only when she is alone, such as toys that can be filled with treats. She’ll play with the toy, get a treat, and associate that with being alone. Put the toy away when you return. Although all breeds can develop separation anxiety, some breeds are more prone to it than others, such as springer spaniels, German shorthaired pointers, weimaraners, German shepherds, and Airedales.
Just as these events upset and impact your routine, they upset your dog. A new baby means a lot of attention to the little one in the crib and less to your dog. The same goes with a new spouse. Your dog may act out as a response to the change in his lifestyle. It’s important to keep in mind that he’s not being ‘bad,’ he just doesn’t know how to control what he’s feeling. Dogs add so much to our life. Developing the bond will make it even better. (
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A Touch of Comfort
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believe that everyone has a talent – whether it’s musical ability, woodworking, comedic timing, or handwork such as knitting, crochet, needlepoint, or quilting. Finding likeminded individuals enhances the joy and sense of accomplishment one feels after completing a project or, in the case of musicians, sounding really, really good. We at the magazine estimate that we have 100,000 unique readers, which means 100,000 different people are reading each issue. If most of our readers live in the South Charlotte area, that’s a lot of talented people!
By Nancy Moore
Quilting is a needlework technique using at least two layers of fabric with some form of padding in between. The art of quilting has been around for centuries with quilted slippers being found in Asia and Europe between the sixth and ninth centuries. Without the use of modern automation, quilts today are not made much differently than they were in the fifteenth century. Many quilters still prefer to sew the pieces of the top of the quilt by hand. The real quilting begins when the layers are sewn together in a decorative pattern. Again, there are quilters who, rather than using a machine, quilt by hand. Other quilters use a sewing machine to piece the top together and have another person do the quilting.
I recently had the good fortune to spend some time with three wonderful women, Kay Horn of Matthews, Loretta Kelley of Charlotte, and Floy Herbener of Indian Trail, who were brought together through their love of Sure, the layers of fabric and filler keep you warm on a quilting. While quilting may be a shared hobby, it’s their cold day, but so does the thought of knowing that the quilt dedication to making a difference in the lives of strangers covering was made by one, two, three, or more people just that strengthened their friendships. for you.
In addition to the full-size quilts for Quilts of Valor, smaller quilts are made for children in Charlotte-area The Charlotte Quilters’ Guild, along with quilt guilds hospitals. around the country, participates in a program called Quilts for Soldiers, which then works with the Quilts of Made with TLC Valor Foundation to deliver handmade quilts to men and women currently in combat or returning home injured, as Kay, 77, and Floy, 76, have been quilting for 25 years, well as to military veterans. while Loretta, 70, began quilting about ten years ago. 26
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Layer upon layer of warmth
They are completely dedicated to providing homemade comfort to our military men and women, and hospitalized children. Kay enjoys quilting because it is relaxing. Quilts of Valor are special, says Kay, because she knows that the quilts provide physical and emotional warmth to those who need it. Kay assembles the entire quilt on her own, from piecing to quilting and has made 25 Quilts of Valor. Floy has always enjoyed sewing, so learning to quilt came naturally. She currently has three wall hangings on display in the Levine Children’s Hospital. Loretta, who is the newest to the craft, also has a background in sewing and used to make doll clothing for the porcelain dolls she created. Both women make cuddle quilts, rather than Quilts of Valor. Yes, these are talented women. Besides quilting, these ladies are involved in other outreach projects that include making pillowcase dresses for the organization Little Dresses for Africa and receiving blankets for babies in Uganda. A fourth friend, who was not available on the day I met Kay, Floy, and Loretta, is Peggy Alstad of Matthews. Peggy crochets colorful hats for babies in Africa.
The Charlotte Quilters’ Guild, and many quilt guilds around the country, participate in Quilts for Soldiers, in connection with the Quilts of Valor Foundation to deliver handmade quilts to men and women in combat, those returning home injured, and to military veterans.
Do you want to make a Quilt of Valor? If you are a quilter, or would like to learn how to quilt, and would like to make a quilt for a soldier, contact the Charlotte Quilters’ Guild via email at info@ charlottequiltersguild.org. There are several (but simple) requirements that must be met in order for the quilt to be considered a Quilt of Valor. For example, the fabric must be 100% cotton, the batting must be low-loft, the quilt must measure 55”/70” x 65”/90”, and it must be placed in a coordinating bag/case. It’s never too late to learn something new and it’s always the perfect time to do something for someone else. Is there a particularly talented/crafty person in your life whom you would like me to meet? Contact me at nancy@ sclivingmag.com. I’d love to meet both of you! ( NOVEMBER | DECEMBER 2012 • sclivingmag.com
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The Fat Man goes to
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the beer didn’t taste right. She apologized and took the glass. After a minute or so, she came back to say that the beer was at the bottom of the barrel and it appeared the CO2 wasn’t working correctly. She offered me another beer, compliments of Big View (she didn’t charge me for the Copper either). I had one of my fallbacks, Fat Tire, and my lunch companion had Yuengling, both of which The Big View’s outdoor lighting is bright and colorful, are on tap. without being gaudy. It has that throwback look of both art deco and 1970s funk. The interior is definitely more The menu is very large, but not overwhelming. We art deco with each part of the restaurant being assigned its started out with the crispy zucchini fries (which I could ‘department’: Bakery, Kitchen, Counter Service, etc. The probably eat until I couldn’t walk, they are that good) and hostess asked us if we wanted to eat outside, but, with the I had a bowl of French onion soup. French onion soup is outdoor temperature heating up, we decided to enjoy the one of those foods that, once you find a place that does it indoor air conditioning. right, you’ll keep going back for more. Big View does it right. We walked past the bakery on the way to our booth. I’m pretty sure this was a deliberate attempt to make our It didn’t take us long to decide what to order for our mouths water. More on that later. The counter service main meal; I went with the veal meatloaf and my buddy reminded me of diners from my childhood, but with ordered the chicken potpie. When the plates came out comfortable seats instead of stools. We were seated in a they looked amazing, and smelled even better. The veal booth in the center of the room. meatloaf was tender and juicy with pieces of mushrooms throughout and a Cabernet reduction that enhanced the Our friendly waitress came to take our drink orders. flavor of the meat. Served alongside the meatloaf was a Here’s the upscale part: Big View has hand-crafted cocktails pile of potatoes whipped with butter, salt, and pepper, and including margaritas, martinis, and bloody Marys, as well green beans that were slightly crunchy, but tender, and as local craft beers on tap and a limited wine selection. seasoned with the right amount of salt and pepper. I enjoy a local craft brew when the opportunity presents itself, so I had a pint of Copper from Olde Mecklenburg The chicken potpie was in a bowl shaped like a boat. Brewery. Copper is one of my favorites and, with the first Clearly homemade, it was topped with a golden brown sip, I knew something wasn’t right. I took a couple more crust with the filling bubbling through. The crust was swallows (just to be sure) before telling our waitress that flaky and buttery, and the pie was loaded with tender
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fter having driven by the Big View Diner several times, located at 16637 Lancaster Highway, I invited a friend to join me for lunch to give it a try. Don’t be fooled by the name – this is not your bottomless cup of coffee greasy spoon diner. This is an upscale diner. I know, you’re probably thinking, “An upscale diner?”
chicken (as opposed to a few bites), carrots, celery, peas, mushrooms, and potatoes. I’ve mentioned our waitress earlier and I’m sorry to say that I cannot recall her name (Sarah? Rachael?). She was attentive and friendly, without hovering. She didn’t stop by our table every other minute to make sure everything was all right; she came by at appropriate times to check our drinks and to ask how we liked our entrees. Save room for dessert. Everything in the bakery is homemade. Cookies, cakes, cupcakes, cheesecakes . . . it’s a sugar lover’s paradise. The ice cream flavors are unique and worth trying, but you can’t go wrong with the baklava. The bottom line: If you’re looking for great ambiance and great food, give the Big View Diner a try. It’s a great place for a date, family event, or business lunch. Tell them the Fat Man sent you. (
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