BlackPearl Magazine #002/ January 2019 by blackpearlmag

CONTENTS

COVER STORY

son of the soil David “Exit” Shikalepo. reflects on what a journey it has been and more.

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ST Y L E YO U R D AY Ally Tobias shows how to be your own stylist and what you could be missing in your wardrobe.

WEDDING EXPERIENCE December is typified by walks on the isle and one of our newly weds reflect back on what a beautiful day it was

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How to make money from your art with the Poiyah Media CEO

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DANCE AND HEAL Emancipate yourself from emotional and psychological distress through dance.

A D AY I N T H E FIELD The view from legit photography.

M O N E Y TA L K

SHOWTIME The bosslady gives us a backstage pass and talks olive entertainment agency BLACKPEARL MAGAZINE | JANUARY 2019

editor’s letter

# B EL IEVEINTH EHYP E YOH!! ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS TO EACH PERSON THAT TOOK THE TIME TO CHECKOUT AND REVIEW OUR FIRST EVER MAGAZINE ISSUE.

Thanks to every person that continues to #BelieveInTheHype. The statistics have been astoundingly #Unbelievable. Besides that, it has been very modest beginnings but we have grown on to learn that #BelievingInTheProcess is a vital component in this expedition and pursuit of artificial excellence we all embark on. But guess what? We’re back with another one. You see, “there are two means of refuge in life: music and cats”. The latter can be a story for another day but can we talk about music for this edition? I think music in itself is healing. It’s an explosive expression of humanity and something we are all touched by and so our December/January edition has been dubbed the #MusicEdition. The cover story is graced by the ever popular Son of the Soil: DAVID “EXIT” SHIKALEPO as he converses

about his over a decade long musical journey. For many of us, dancing is a fantastic way to lose ourselves in the vibrating rhythm of the music. It helps us to forget all the (or some at least) problems in our lives and to simply enjoy the present moment. It’s astonishing how many different dance forms have evolved throughout the centuries; be it modern dance styles such as dancehall, hip-hop, and dubstep or more classic styles such as ballet and tango. For that, we got the girls from DancNheels to elaborate the significance of dance in our everyday lives. So, there you have your music and your dance moves but what do you do with them? Keep them to yourself maybe? NO!! There can only be one possibility; #SHOWTIME. Julia “BossLady” Kadhikwa is well renown for attending some of the biggest shows locally and globally. In here, she gives her interpretations on showbiz and talent management in complexity. There is this famed saying I heard a few years back. I do not really know its author or origination but it goes something like; “after the rainfall comes the rainbow” and is mostly used to connote that there should be a reward for every exertion. We all almost certainly know Ilke “Cutie” Platt as one of the forerunners of showbiz in the motherland and has gathered quite a fair amount of not only fame but

EDITOR: ELIAZER SURPRISE NAILENGE eliazer@blackpearlworldwide.net

monetary reward too. Therefore, we felt the need to get her to teach us the basics on how to make a few dollars from your art because at the end of the day; mere “exposure” will never really pay a cent of your rent. With that said, we still continue with the #RISINGSTAR (as promised); the sparkling Ally Tobias came through with a couple of swag combos; and sportscaster Joaviita Kandjumbwa rounds off what we hereby present to you as #TheBeautyInTheStruggle of what you have now come to know as BLACKPEARL MAGAZINE. EDITOR: ELIAZER SURPRISE NAILENGE eliazer@blackpearlworldwide.net DIRECTOR OF PHOTOGRAPHY: DARIUS SHIYEPO darius@blackpearlworldwide.net CREATIVE DESIGN DIRECTOR: CHEGUEVARA HAMUNYELA guevara@blackpearlworldwide.net CONTRIBUTORS: RAUNA MAGONGO ANNE HAMBUDA, @EUNIKE_NALLY, JUNE SHIMUOSHILI, NATASHA DOMINGO KELVIN CHIMTENGO

education

LIFE AS A FOREIGN STUDENT by: @veronicakayone78 AND NOW I’M HERE, 4 months away from graduating and facing the cruel possibility of unemployment.... ... so let me start from the beginning. I used to be a pretty deep girl, watching foreign films, I stayed up at night, living in a Buddhist monastery in Thailand, walking the Great walls of China or crossing the London Bridge that I sang about when I was 7 years old so at that very moment I knew my life was out there. The last months of high school were pretty hard for me. I had to make life-changing decisions that would determine how my future would look like. University applications came out and yet, I still had no idea as to what I wanted for my future, where I wanted to go or what field of study I wanted to major in. I found myself unconsciously at UNAM wherein I had one of the worst experiences of my life. I blew off my homework; not because I was lazy but because I did not like the course that I was doing at the time. Making friends was so hard. I constantly felt like a tortured soul destined to lead a life of anger and pain and at that very moment I knew, I didn’t belong! I started searching for institutions abroad and watched out for any scholarship announcements. About 5 months into my studies at UNAM, I successfully got a scholarship from NSFAF to study Civil Engineering at the Nantong Vocational University in China. I still remember that very moment I stepped off the plane. I would say leaving

family behind was the hardest especially for my father since I am the youngest of his children but at the same time I was fortunate enough to have parents that understand “modern” goals and dreams of studying abroad. “I SET MY MIND AND ATTITUDE ON UNDERSTANDING CHINESE CULTURE, RATHER THAN CRITICIZE IT HASTILY. “ The two and a half years that I have spent in China have further vindicated my fascination in the region, its beautiful scenery, its unique food, culture, and most importantly its amazing people. Accepting the new culture and getting accustomed to it was the least of my worries for I had done a lot of research and had mentally prepared myself for it. I set my mind and attitude on understanding Chinese culture, rather than criticize it hastily. I gave little prominence to insignificant problems, saved my energy to enjoy the culture and when I felt stressed or anxious, I took time to reflect personally and wrote down feelings, thoughts and frustrations in a diary. The language barrier was broad in many ways. I survived the first months by getting a translating mobile App on my phone. Luckily, I did language in my first year so I am now familiar with most day-to-day words. I try and avoid using the App in order to improve my oral skills but I still carry it with me

in case I find myself in a conversation where translation is needed. Living life in a foreign country comes with so many distractions; the night life might look all fun but you must learn to live by your values, have self-discipline and constantly remind yourself to focus on the bigger picture. The fear of disappointing myself, family and people who look up to me is one of the major forces that drive me to push and study harder every day. Most people assume being abroad is a piece of cake but you will get your low days where you get home sick, worried about how your grandmother is doing, how you will miss your nephew’s first day of school since you last left him in diapers and things like that. What helped me through moments like these is having good friendships with people that I can count on. Also, I am fortunate enough to have other Namibian students on my campus who became family and a shoulder to cry on. I won’t lie, after all this time there are still things that I’m not comfortable with when it comes to Chinese culture like the ‘spitting everywhere’ or going to a bathroom in a hole but once you come to grips with it, you won’t ask why people do it or complain about how gross it is and it’s not like toilet paper doesn’t exist; you just have to bring it yourself!

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pursuing a career in If you are considering a career in Law, you are taking the initial step to a rewarding career in the legal profession. A Law degree is an academic degree conferred for studies in Law and is obtainable at The University of Namibia (UNAM). The Law fraternity is very dynamic and covers a wide range of career options such as a Public Prosecutor, Legal Researcher, Legal Drafter, Defence Counsel, Legal Advisor, Government Attorney and a Legal Officer to mention a few. An LLB (Literally Legum Baccalaureus) is the essential degree for any person wishing to enter the legal profession in Namibia.

career in law would be a very sound decision to any individual as they would have an assured promising future. “The faculty’s programmes offers a very challenging and intellectually stimulating experience, and by the end of the LLB degree, one will have the practical and theoretical skills to practice law”. There are many reasons one may choose to study Law.

“SOME PEOPLE HAVE INACCURATE VIEWS OF WHAT LAWYERS DO, MUCH OF A LAWYER’S WORK INVOLVES READING, RESEARCH, NEGOTIATIONS, AND DISCUSSIONS. INDEED, SOME LAWYERS HARDLY EVER SET FOOT IN A COURTROOM”

Most students are passionate about learning the skills of a lawyer and then using them in practice but on the other hand, some may simply be interested in the intricacy of the Law and seek to learn more about it. Law is a diverse career path that is why a person with a background in legal education can, in additional to practicing law, turn to other fields such as teaching, business, and advocacy. Tangi states that “Lawyers

Tshimwandi Tangi who is a final year Law student at The University of Namibia says studying Law requires a lot of hard work, commitment and determination. She stated that deciding to follow a

must have skills to communicate effectively, verbally and in writing. Lawyers must be able to examine legal issues, while keeping in mind the constantly changing Law and legal system and they also must be able to advocate, to the best of their ability, diverse interests”. “Some people have inaccurate views of what lawyers do, much of a lawyer’s work involves reading, research, negotiations, and discussions. Indeed, some lawyers hardly ever set foot in a courtroom” says Haimbili Titus an LLB degree holder. The work of a lawyer can be very interesting. You’ll find lawyers at work in the centre of the biggest deals in government, business, and the non-profit sectors. The admission requirements for a Bachelor of Laws (Honours) at UNAM, are a minimum of 30 points in 5 subjects including English on the Namibian Senior Secondary Certificate (NSSC) and at least a B symbol or better in English (NSSC-O Level) as Second language or higher.

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Respectability I’ve always found it interesting that wearing a bikini outdoors and leaving your home in your underwear, garner two different reactions from the public. Despite showing the same amount of skin in both instances, the former is completely normal and not salacious, while the latter is a heinous act, a cry for attention and sale of one’s own body. It’s interesting. The context of what is worn matters more than what is seen. This has been proven to me on many occasions. I sometimes wear revealing outfits; and even though you cannot actually see anything; the mere suggestion that I have these parts – like an exposed collarbone or some side boob – is a felony. I do not dress this way because I’m keen to sell myself to the highest bidder, or because I didn’t receive enough attention growing up (I did). The few times I do what can be deemed scandalous, it is really just because I like my body and like the way I look in particular silhouettes. It is also simply because I know that my worth and value are not attributed to my body or how much of it I choose to expose. I know that if I wear a short skirt or sheer shirt I won’t be any less intelligent, charismatic or ambitious. Enjoying being naked does not mean I am now returning my degree to my Alma Mater, or erasing my time as a well appreciated poet and writer.

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It means I’m comfortable in my skin; it means that I don’t buy into the idea that dressing a certain way makes me any more or less worthy of respect and it means that I can combine my love of my body with my poetry. As women, the world is constantly looking for ways and reasons to respect us even less, so even if we do conform to the notion that covering up makes us more worthy, we’ll probably still be crucified for our other choices. There are cultures and ideologies in which women must cover themselves from head to toe and there are others where women have their chests exposed for the world to see, but both are at risk of oppression. Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying we should all just expose ourselves all the time, or that I won’t know when to be modest and when not to be. I am just saying that either way, whatever we do, we will still be harassed and beaten on street, exploited, sold and worse. I’m saying that women in comas, half naked women, fully dressed women, young girls who aren’t even woman yet, still suffer at the hands of aggressors whether or not they are ‘appropriately’ dressed so we should all stop pretending that being protective is the motive more than just having control. For me, there is certain power in letting people know that they cannot tell me what to

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do or wear or be. Nudity - whether I post ‘racy’ photos on Instagram, or show up to an event scantily clad - is a form of protest. It is a silent cry that says, I do what I like and I won’t be defined negatively by it, and that being naked doesn’t make me any less human or any less worthy of being treated with respect. I think the categorical sexualisation of our bodies is to blame BUT sorry to break it to some of you, my breasts and the rest of my parts are more than just instruments for sexual pleasure. They are organs, they have functions, and they are nothing that I feel I should be ashamed of. Of course I do admit that there is a time and a place for every attire, but I refuse to submit to the respectability politics that try to police our existence under the guise of safety!

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cover story

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DAVID “EXIT” SHIKALEPO

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hE soil. FRESH from the fruitful release of his 8th solo album ‘Life of Kunta Kinte’, Namibian music guru David Shikalepo better known as ‘Exit’ is seemingly showing no signs of ever decelerating. His musical journey alike most successful performers in our time started back when he was just in grade 11 and attributes his inspiration to the great Eminem as well as 50 Cent’s Get Rich or Die Tryin’. Having moved to Windhoek to pursue a Media Arts degree at the University of Namibia in 2007, he then met Mushe and the two went on to form one of the best duo’s to ever graze the motherland. Put into context, it has been over a decade since the superstar first blessed us with ‘Okastyla’ and in that timeframe; a lot of new musicians have risen, a number of the old have fallen and most struggle to remain relevant but the Son of The Soil continues to maneuver the industry with ease. “I feel honored and thank god for blessing me with the talent. I am sincerely humbled by my ability to pull together a crowd of over 1000 fans in one venue; it offers me the chance to give a positive depiction of myself and my brand, which in turn influences the views of my fans and their energy in truth inspires me to do better”. The journey has definitely not been easy. It took a lot of passion, self-belief, consistency, sacrifice and discipline. With a handful accolades on his resume’, our cover star says “recognition is an excellent thing because it propels me to want to do more while subsequently preparing me for my upcoming projects”. The idea has always been to leave a long legacy of hard work, perseverance, determination and success. THE CHALLENGES Working in a creative or artistic field requires a tough skin, and the music industry is no exception. Exit acknowledges music piracy, a lack of media support, scarce means of distribution, financial hardships and a high cost of music production as some of the challenges he has had to endure in his career. Also, the Namibian industry is growing at a snail’s pace and is taking very long to be digitalized; some of the challenges we still face, he added. “For all to go according to plan, you should not just possess the talent, passion and determination because it is very essential to know the business aspect of your art too”. He further attests that the road to the top is not smooth and it gets rougher once you reach. “There is no substitute for hard work. If you are passionate about something and you are willing to put in the hard work that comes with the territory, then go for it!”.

ON Keeping Kwaito alive

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“TO SAY THE GENRE IS NOW IRRELEVANT WOULD BE DENYING MY OWN RELEVANCE.” The advent of music genres such as Trap, Gqom and Afro-pop has adversely affected sales and interest in Kwaito music. This has resulted in some Kwaito groups disbanding while other musicians try to play around with their sound to produce one that is on par with modern times. Though some critics have declared Kwaito dead, Exit who was crowned best Kwaito artist of the year at the Namibian Annual Music Awards (NAMAs) 2018 maintains that it is well still alive. “To say the genre is now irrelevant would be denying my own relevance. So I pledge to continue keeping Kwaito alive for as long as I remain a musician”.

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FACTS BOX I AM a big football fan I LIKE watching authenticated and well researched documentaries I LIKE spending time with family.

New Collabs?

The new breed

Asked about which Namibian upcoming artists he sees excelling in the industry, Exit says the likes of Vikta JuiceBoy, King Biko, King Elegant, Manqoba and Vundakan are showing a very respectable potential. “I am also feeling a new sound coming from Lüderitz in the form of Zoplan, the new Brown Dash”.

“It is very essential to know the business aspect of your art too”.

If I could collaborate with any artists right now then it would most definitely be with my favorite international brother Wizkid. “We communicate a lot and I am sure we will be working on something soon. Locally, I am always willing to work with any artist that would like to work with me, whether established or not”. BLACKPEARL MAGAZINE | JANUARY 2019

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Rockaz

A message to the fans “Thank you for being with me from day one and inspiring me to be the best I can possibly be. I appreciate your loyalty and value your reliable support. Let’s do this together now and beyond”. #oRockaZa!!

Entertainment

To clear public curiosity and confusion amongst fans with regards to his esteemed record label, the Kwaito star shed light on the fact that he has no signed artists yet but embraces affiliations with artists from sister labels. “We also support artistic brands like ML, Vikta JuiceBoy and Neslow’s Kalawakotoka”, he adds.

THE LIFE OF KUNTA KINTE

Kunta Kinte is a character in the novel Roots: The Saga of an American Family by American author Alex Haley. Haley claimed that Kunta Kinte was based on one of his ancestors: a Gambian man who was born in 1750, enslaved and taken to America and who died in 1822. As for Exit, “the album title is inspired by the black consciousness movement”. The message he seeks to convey is that “the time is now for black people to do great things in the world”. what to expect in 2019

The Son of the Soil is currently working on the Rockaz School Talent Scouting Tour which is an edutainment project that aims at helping school kids understand the power and importance of education. There shall also be a number of new music videos, fresh Rockaz wear and a number of international shows whilst continuing to be the ambassador of the TB awareness campaign in association with the Ministry of Health. He says that he is also working on his next album; in pursuit of consistency and sustaining relevance in the game. “I am the core substance of greatness so you can expect nothing but greatness” he concludes cheekily.

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“Your skin is a reflection of how well your body is eliminating the toxins that build up on a daily basis. Chronic skin conditions such as acne, eczema and psoriasis stem from a combination of genetic factors, immune stress, dietary deficiencies or sensitivities, and the accumulation of toxins in the body. For our skin to be radiant and clear, it is very important that the other organs of elimination (kidneys, liver, lungs, and colon) are cleansing the body effectively. If not, the skin will be overtaxed, pores will become clogged, and eruptions of one sort or another will result” -Judyth Reichenberg-Ullman N.D.

DIY

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"a no to a glow" THE SKINCARE SOAP: contains organic sulphur and exfoliating granules to eliminate dead skin and bacteria.

DAILY ROUTINE: STEP1: Wash face with cold/lukewarm water, using gentle magic soap STEP2: Pat dry with face cloth STEP3: Use gentle magic liquid lotion as a toner STEP4: Once the toner has dried, use gentle magic face serum for the end result.

THE SKINCARE LOTION: acts as a toner. Disinfect skin and unblock clogged pores THE SKINCARE SERUM: Contains SPF20 to protect your skin against the harmful effects of the sun. Non-greasy and is an intensive light weight moisturizer.

WEEKEND ROUTINE:

MIX OATS AND HONEY and use as a face mask, keep it on for 20-30 minutes. This will keep your face hydrated. Also, you can use Rooibos Spot Control to eliminate blemishes by applying a small amount and massage on damp skin using circular movements. Rinse off with lukewarm water. HONEY: Is naturally antibacterial, so it’s great for acne treatment and prevention. Honey also helps create a Glow. OATS: Oats alone does not moisturize your skin, it is a beneficial component in a moisturizing face mask (works best when mixed with honey). It Is a humectant, which means that it helps your skin retain moisture ROOIBOS SPOT CONTROL: Contains baobab extract to help keep skin smooth and clean by eliminating scars and dark spots.

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Life as a STUDENT mom

ELLENORA DIANE KHACHAS

THIS IS MY STORY. I LOST my mother in 2008, which forced me to move to the capital the following year. Being a small town girl in a big city was both scary and exciting. I completed my high school in 2011 and enrolled with IUM in 2012. School was great but I needed money to be able to sustain myself, so I landed a job as a casual worker at my current employer. This meant getting paid every Friday at a rate of N$300.00 per day. Yippy!! Along the way, I lost focus and somehow told myself I do not need school and dropped out. I was content with what I earned until 2015 when I relocated to the North and reality kicked in. I realized that I can be much more than just a grade 12 certificate holder so the following year, I re-registered myself with IUM for my 3rd year. 2 months in my academic year, I found out I was expecting. Everyone was disappointed, especially my grandparents. It was a taboo thing in everyone’s eyes, because according to “society”, a maternity gown ought to be the last gown a woman should wear. It was difficult to be chosen for group assignments by my classmates, sometimes lecturers will punish me for missing a test because I was admitted or had a doctor’s appointment. I had to work 08h00 to 17h00 and attend part time classes from 18h00 some days until 21h00.

‘‘I am on a quest to break the stereotype of a pregnant student or with a child and all the negative connotations associated with it. I know raising a child can be difficult but it doesn’t mean that you should be victimized in society and looked down upon. Being a student mom is NOT a setback but a valuable lifelong lesson.’’ Many thought I would drop out again or take time off school and raise my son, but no! Throughout the speed bumps I completed my 3rd year. Right after exams my son was born, I was overwhelmed, accepting and thrilled by being a mother; a process that I have seen countless women go through. In between nannies, work and school, it was quite difficult to manage and just after 6 months, I had to send my boy to Windhoek. This was the hardest decision I had to make but every day I reminded myself that this is for him and as children, our role models are often our parents so I wanted him to know that his mother is a tough cookie. Finally in 2017, I completed my Honours Degree in Finance Management and wore my gown in September 2018.

I always tell myself: Whenever you feel like quitting, remember who your audience are. The order of the gowns do not matter, as long as you get the job done. Pregnancy is a very difficult yet the most exciting journey and being a student mom comes with a wealth of skills like multi-tasking, creativity, managing and/or operating on a tight budget, and problem-solving to say the least. Rest if you must, BUT do not quit. The true measure of success lies in perseverance and determination to reach the end goal! Never give up on yourself because of circumstances!

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“The body is a storyteller, the one we often silence but which we cannot run away from because the body doesn’t lie, it expresses everything it has experienced.’

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used to dance all night long, hours on hours in my heels, dancing my feelings. I wouldn’t last long without heels. My best dance moves were created because of heels in an attempt to stay on balance. The rule was to go all the way, make sure the heels are comfortable and don’t rest because the moment you sit down the pain and fatigue starts to kick in and the moment you take your heels off, you’ve given up on your reflection. I also have to admit that I don’t have enough confidence in myself without my heels, I am a short lady you see, it’s something I’m still working on. So yes, ultimately it boils down to Confidence. No need for a heel if your confidence is high enough. Many years later, after enjoying ratchet nights in the clubs of New York as a college student, I returned to Namibia’s monotonous nightlife. My character changed status from outgoing to indoors. However, despite making a personal decision to become scarce for the sake of my personal image and that of my work, the free-spirited-outgoing-dancer inside of me needed to be fed and so in February 2017, DancN Heels was born.

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DancN Heels was born out of the need to provide a safe space for women to escape their imprisoned minds, to free themselves up in the dance and in that safe space, to nurture the relationship they have with themselves. In order to dance freely, one must become free of judgement, doubt, false beliefs about the self and its abilities. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s incredible how much the body speaks and expresses a part of your story, the knowledge and wisdom it holds. The body is a storyteller, the one we often silence but which we cannot run away from because the body doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t lie, it expresses everything it has experienced. Throughout the years, working with so many different bodies, it got easier to read body language and to use physical tension and fear as the point of therapeutic intervention to unblock the mind, body and spirit. The space that I intended for dance shaped its own purpose as I embarked on a personal journey towards finding, understanding and loving my Self. As I healed, those around me started to heal because I could share my experience as a woman with the women around me. It became evident that dance is the medium to draw women together and to become a guide for those who are suffering towards their personal journey of finding, understanding and loving the Self.

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TERESIA INDONGO “I’ve always been in love with the arts: performance and the visual aspect of it. Movement was always a big part of my life and dancing has always brought so much life to me. I have been dealing with a health issue that many women face but in my case, I’ve had to seek serious medical intervention and I was so hard on my body. I decided to join DancN Heels (when I could) to help with my anxiety and help with not feeling stagnant- to bring life to my body. It has truly been a blessing to be part of a family of women who aren’t judgemental and who come together with love in the name of dance and self-love. My body can move without limitations and I feel empowered and I *see* and *feel* my body again!”

JEARL KROHNE “As someone who studied the arts I already had a sense of what it was to perform and be on stage but what I was not confident in was creating. Having been with DancN Heels for almost as long as it has been running, I have learned to be more expressive and confident in myself and my movements. I have achieved confidence to create my own choreographies. Not only that, but also to teach. This is something I thought I’d never be able to do but having taught a few classes to the wonderful and supportive ladies I met this year (2018) has given me the ease to stand in front of them and learn with them. It’s been such a blessing finding strong female personalities that are there to support you no matter the circumstances.”

LUCREZIA STRAUSS “As a single, stay at home mom I needed a breath of fresh air. I took a risk and joined DancN Heels, not knowing what I was getting myself into. DancN Heels is a place where I can let go and fully express myself. I got the opportunity to meet amazing women with mutual interests. These ladies have made me feel like I am part of something powerful and spontaneous. I have never felt judged for simply being myself around them. Dancing in heels allows one to feel so much more confident. Just letting loose really helped me get rid of so many unwanted feelings.”

Engredients 1 WHOLE GREEN PEPPER 1 WHOLE ONION A GARLIC CLOVE 1 CUP FRESH MILK D R I E D PA R S L E Y 500 ML FULL CREAM PA P R I K A K A PA N A S P I C E B L A C K P E P P E R A N D S A LT S O U P O F YO U R C H O I C E BACON 2 CUPS RICE CHEESE 6 DRUMSTICKS

CHEESY CREAMY CHICKEN AND BACON RICE: 50 MINS

STEP 1 BOIL RICE IN SALTED WATER FOR 10 MINUTES STEP 2 SPICE YOUR CHICKEN WITH KAPANA SPICE, BLACK PEPPER AND SALT IN A DIFFERENT POT FROM THE RICE POT, FRY THE CHICKEN FOR 20 MINUTES OR UNTIL GOLDEN BROWN THAN REMOVE FROM THE POT STEP 3 CHOP BACON INTO SMALL PIECES AND FRY THEM IN THE SAME POT USED TO FRY THE CHICKEN ADD THE CHOPPED ONIONS, CRUSHED GARLIC AND GREEN PEPPER AND CONTINUE TO FRY DRAIN COOKED RICE AND ADD TO THE POT WITH BACON AND ONIONS ADD THE 1 CUPS MILK, 1 CUP WATER, 500ML CREAM AND ALL YOUR SPICES THAN MIX WELL SPRINKLE YOUR CHOICE OF SOUP AND MIX AS YOU DO SO, CONTINUE TO ADD SOUP UNTIL YOUR DESIRED THICKNESS STEP 4 ADD THE CHICKEN DRUMSTICKS AND LET SIMMER FOR 5 MINUTES REMOVE FROM STOVE AND SPRINKLE WITH CHEESE PUT IN OVEN AND BAKE FOR 20/30 MINUTES STEP 5

BON’ APPETIT!!!!

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FOOD

Engredients

1 CUP CAKE FLOUR 2 TSP BAKING POWDER 1 TSP SALT ½ CUP SUGAR 3 TBSP COCOA POWDER ½ CUP MILK 2 TBSP MELTED MARGIRINE FOR THE SAUCE YOU WILL NEED: ½ CUP SUGAR 2 TBSP COCOA POWDER 2 CUPS BOILING WATER PREHEAT OVEN TO 180C AND GREASE ANOVENPROOF DISH.

STEPS STEP 1 MIX THE FIRST FIVE INGREDIENTS TOGETHER. MIX THE MILK AND MAGERINE AND ADD TO THE DRY INGREDIENTS. MIX WELL AND SPOON INTO THE GREASED DISH.

STEP 2 MIX THE SUGAR,COCOA POWDER AND BOILING WATER, AND POUR OVER THE BATTER. BAKE FOR 30 MINUTES UNTIL COOKED. THE PUDDING WILL HAVE A CAKE LAYER ON TOP AND CHOCOLATE SAUCE AT THE BOTTOM

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BUSINESS & FINANCE

LONGRICH:

A PYRAMID SCHEME OR MULTILEVEL MARKETING Over the past months, Namibia has seen a company known as Longrich trending in noises and mixed reviews on social media. While some believe in the company and what it claims to stand for, many have questioned its ethos and operations. On the whole, questions about the company revolve around how the company generates its income and how those seeking to sell its products will make a profit. Longrich is acclaimed to be an Asian multinational company which manufactures health and beauty products and has been in operation since 1986 but Namibians only started showing interest in it nearly towards the end of 2017. Yet, a cursory review of the Company’s background using publicly available sources reveals troubling information. The first red flag is the lack of complete contact and address details. On what claims to be the Longrich Bioscience international website, which is registered with a Malaysian address, the company offers no email address, no landline contact number and no physical address. On its Twitter account @Namibia Longrich, the description reads “Longrich is a huge worldwide company that makes everyone’s dream come true. Step up, get

rich and live your own life”. The company seemingly has no formal business structure in place; a person interested in joining the company is supposedly paired up with a ‘leader’. The person must then buy stock and sell it, while also recruiting 3 other people to join the business – akin to a pyramid scheme. Longrich also claims to be one of the “largest and most advanced centres for research and development of cosmetic and healthcare products in Asia (Southern China).” The company also says it has “more than 12 000 employees, more than 35% of which are Doctorate students, field experts, and highly trained professionals. For the past 31 years the company has seen steady growth in both expansion and market share.” As of late, Longrich leaders have been reportedly asking people on social media networks such as Facebook, Twitter and WhatsApp to join the business with N$1 000, claiming they would earn guaranteed amounts of up to N$50 000 a week. A situation that has prompted many Namibians to ask: If this business is legitimate and makes its profits off the products they sell, then why are there recruitments

and joining fees? Why are business seminars exclusively held on WhatsApp? “Majority never believed Longrich weekly payments are real. They criticised and said it was never going to work. People made fun of how we are fooled to join and get products and that even if you pay you will never get your products since they will have to be shipped from South Africa” said one Diamond 2 leader. Longrich is network marketing, not a pyramid scheme or a porch whereby one has to invest a lot of money and expect high amounts in a short period of time, she concludes.

CONCLUSION Namibia is a poverty-stricken country, with a staggering 34% unemployment rate and as a result many of us often fall victim to scams, pyramid schemes and promises of overnight success and riches. In the past few years, we have seen the growth and collapse of many of these, most famously, My Life Change 247 among many others. So, can Longrich be an exception? Only time will tell.

BUSINESS & FINANCE Ilke Platt

talks on MONEY MAKING IN THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY.

there is one person in the Namibian entertainment industry who knows it all, it’s unquestionably 32 year old Ilke Henriette Platt. Having penetrated the industry in 2003 and being in all spheres of the industry from Radio to TV, she sure well knows what she is talking about. Platt recently launched her own company Poiyah Media which caters for SMEs that need a boost in terms of public relations where she has worked with entertainment brands such as Sally Boss Madam, Mshasho and Pamoja Records to mention a few. It is this reason Black Pearl sat down with her to share tips on how to make money in the entertainment business. From designers to music makers and event organisers, take your notes out because class has now commenced!

FACTS BOX Daughter of a Reverend Laughs 99% of the time Claustrophobic Did classical guitar as a junior

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Platt says, “as much as businesses are started from passion, especially those in the entertainment industry, it should also be about making money”. A crucial aspect of the model should be able to generate an income. According to her, a key driving force as an entrepreneur in the entertainment business should be bringing change which includes doing something that has not been done before. She says it should no longer be about an innovative way of doing entering the game but rather focus on how to disrupt it. “You need to be reminded of this especially when things don’t bring in that money and when times may be rough. That same determination of jumping the boat should re-spark each time you feel like giving up,” she said. When it comes to new cats entering the industry, Platt says it’s all about working smarter and not harder. One should keep in mind that each personality has something to offer to the corporate world which in return adds value to their products or services. She further added that it’s important to note that getting funding from corporates or endorsements is more sustainable than just selling albums once a year.

ILKE PLATT FOUNDER/ CEO | POIYAH MEDIA “When it comes to marketing ones brand, it’s all about your network. Poiyah Media has been able to deliver on its reputation. Being able to sell an idea is the most important part for any entrepreneur. Once that is sold, the execution should not be a problem at all,” she said. Lastly, Platt concluded with sharing her three important skills all entrepreneurs must have which include self-motivation, emotional intelligence and patience. “Always invest your time in anything that changes the landscape in any industry of interest. Poiyah Media deliberately decided to focus on SMEs, since there is a need for customisation for any new company. New companies hardly ever invest in their public relations or marketing but it’s the most critical to get them closer to their potential clients,” she said.

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“My look is just like me. Simple & elegant but edgy enough to make you wanna know a little more. I like to be comfortable but still be able to command a room. It is subtle but I stand out. I call it the “Elegant style”! It’s very simple and stylish,nothing complicated.”

Skinny Jeans - N$ 800 (Sportscene) Redbat V-neck shirt - N$ 350 (Sportscene) Redbat Jacket- N$ 1000 (Sportscene) Classic Vans High Tops - N$ 1400 (Sportscene) Vintage sunglasses - N$ 199 Chains -N$ 900

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by: @Ally_Tobias

PRICES Shirt: N$70 (MJ Vintage) Jeans: N$580 (AG Premium) Sneakers: N$200 Backpack: N$160 (Mr Price)

Casual Wear .........

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Not every day requires an exquisite look, one that needs to be really planned out and where one needs to stand out and be unique. We have a lot of clothes in the closet that can be played around with to make a good look. Casual looks are a good type of dress code especially if you are an easy going person or attending casual events, be it ice cream with the girls or for students because they can be budget friendly. A formal shirt does need to be worn formally all the time, make it work casually! I came up with an outfit that mixed formal with casual pieces to make an eloquent outgoing comfortable look. I paired the shirt with a pair of blue AG jeans (they are incredibly comfy by the way) because nothing says casual more than a pair of jeans. Playing with color coordinating, I added white sneakers to compliment the white shirt. Sneakers are good for a casual day, walking between lecture halls or around stalls at an open market. The back pack is intended to carry essentials like notepads and my bottle of water while uniting my outfit at the same time. There you have it, Eloquence in simplicity!

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Evening ......... Wear The pecks of being in the plus size side is that curves come in abundance! So instead of trying to hide them, I would rather bring them out to play and that’s why I went with this body hugging dress. Sexy is not about skin but about outlining your body’s expressiveness. And because hunnay, the curves are out to play... An unsophisticated color was suitable for this number. Olive green brings with it a feeling of maturity and class. The hair is let lose for; why not have a little flirtatiousness? Because the dress does not show much skin and does not need much jewelry accompanying it, let me show of my ankles and pedicure by having on black studded box heels, that are open-toed. In case you love being boujee (like me) spice the whole look up with an amazing hat. I’m ready, let’s go have a glass of wine shall we?!

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RISING STAR

“My passion for modeling and posing for cameras laughably started way back when I saw my first set of school photos”

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HELLO WORLD My name is Desiree Riaana Coetzee. I grew up in Okuryangava, a location in the city of Windhoek. I grew up not having much mostly due to the fact that I lost my mother at the tender age of eight (8), which has immeasurably contributed to who and how I am as a person today. Furthermore, being the oldest amongst 6 children forces me to push harder and even though one of my uncles is our legal guardian, I told myself that chasing towards my dreams can make me the “Mother figure” my siblings lack. I had a few struggles throughout my school going years; not because I’m a slow learner whatsoever but because I’ve never really given enough attentiveness in the education system that was being used at the time. I always presumed I wanted to do something different from school and thus ended up failing grade 10 two times. Ultimately, I completed my high school at Etosha Secondary School in Tsumeb. Thereafter, I took a year off to focus on what I love doing most and that started with an MK (Meriam Kaxuxwena) modelling training course. The training has helped me polish my talent and taught me how to face the challenges that come with a career in modelling. My passion for modeling and posing for cameras laughably started way back when I saw my first set of school photos. I couldn’t stop viewing the pictures and such routine continues till this day. My very first professional photo shoot was with Black Pearl in January 2018. The platform Instagram has created for us (particularly models) allowed more people to see my work and this lead to brands and artists wanting to work with me.

The modeling trade is still very minor in Namibia and not really acknowledged as a serious career but I am ready to work hard and reap the rewards that are supposed to come with this gift I was given by God. As for you guys, being yourself is a very vital element when pursuing career success. Don’t just dream big! Go big and continuously take risks and challenge yourself while you have the chance because remember, You Only Live Once!! I made my first music video appearance in a song by Dope Boys in 2010. At present I have done 6 videos in 2018 alone, of which 3 are with international artists. My aspirations are to work with more local artists like Gazza and Dice. Globally, I dream of working with Drake and WizKid.

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A DAY IN THE FIELD WITH LEGIT PHOTOGRAPHY

fter scooping the Favourite Photographer at the 2017 SYM Fashion and Lifestyle Awards, 25-year old Oshakati born Andrew Ingo from Legit Photography has gone on to become one of Namibia’s most distinguished photographers. Boasting a highly decorated catalogue that includes working with the likes of South African fashion designer David Tlale, ex-BBA contestant Luis Munana and South African paramour Khanyi Mbau, the self-taught youngster has been in the photography industry for over a good eight (8) years and educates himself by making sure that every new shoot he does is better than the previous. Our journalists for these reasons felt the need to take some time out to garner insights on the work ethic, preferences and a few photography tips from one of the finest in the game. Black Pearl (BP): Why did you choose to pursue a career as a Photographer? Andrew Ingo (AI): If you see every place, person, or an animal or anything from the camera point of view, then photography is meant for you because ccreativity is the essence of choosing this career option. The creative traits which are present in the person have to be realized and if the

realization persists, then photography is right for you; that’s why I choose to become one.

andrew ingo

BP: Whose work has influenced you most? AI: @GeoLeon from Orlando, Florida.

BP: Which is your favourite lens? AI: Well, each lens has its pros and cons depending on what you are photographing and what look and feel you are after! I Choose Canon/Nikon 35mm f/1.4 BP: Why? AI: Focal Length – In terms of composition, the 35mm lens is the closest to the focal composition of the human eye Versatility – The 35mm lens can be used for almost anything: Landscapes, portraits, travel shots, macro photography, street photography, real estate photography, product photography – just about everything. The 35mm lens is considered the very beginning of wide angle lenses. It is the most subtle wide angle on the market and that is why it consistently delivers great shots. It is certainly not fish eye, certainly not super wide angle, but it is wide enough to capture a subject interacting with their environment. BP: What Photo-Editing Program do you use? AI: Adobe Photoshop and Adobe Lightroom

BP: What type of Cameras do you shoot with? AI: Canon Brand BP: What is the most difficult part of being a photographer for you? AI: Well to be honest, NOTHING! BP: What do you like least about being a photographer? AI: You never have a day off

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Ourwedding experience Experience.

IT GOES without saying that most girls dream about their wedding day! Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a magical day, when two people pledge a commitment to one another and unite in love and holy matrimony. Two families come together to celebrate a man and a woman coming together before God. But all brides and grooms can tell you that there is more to a wedding than meets the eye. Our experience was special and unique. We both come from an Oshiwambo speaking background, which in most respects we subscribe too, along with our Christian background. That goes without saying that we are modern millennials who grew up with little exposure to extensive cultural practises and norms (i.e. city kids). So that goes without saying that wedding preparations for us were both a learning experience, a hot pot of compromise and an adventure.

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We had to decide what kind of wedding we wanted to have. Where would we have our ceremony? Our reception? What style of wedding we wanted? What would our ceremony look like? For us the main goal was to make sure people were happy on our special day, not only us but also our guests. We wanted to focus on what the day truly symbolized. We decided to be married in a church, as per our belief; but also because we intended on making God the bedrock of our marriage. We also decided that we would have the ceremony and reception in the area known as the north/ovamboland. One should know that when people say the north they forget to mention that distances from the church and each homestead and the homesteads from each other can be hundreds of kilometres. As was in our case the church was 290 km from the grooms home and 123 km from the venue for the second reception, mind you this distance has to be travelled forth and back several time leading up to the wedding day and on the wedding by all the guests of the couple. To say the least, we were exhausted, but it was a happy exhaustion because at the end of it all we would be married and for us the marriage was the most important thing.

With that said, at the end of the day the distance didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t matter, it all seemed minute details to the end goal and on the day we were filled with joy and surrounded by love, completely forgetting that we hadnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t had a full nights rest for over a week. With all the festivities that go on around that day. In conclusion, our wedding experience was made GREAT by people who made our day so special and awesome. A wise woman once told me: Onkhulu wo nale okwati shiwa ovanhu (loose translation people are the salt of the earth) and this was made evident to us on our wedding day. Our value to each other, the value of our parents, our family, our friends and all those people that came to lend a helping hand, to give words of encouragement and make a joke made our wedding memorable, relaxed and happy. We were humbled and will forever be grateful.

= Mr & Mrs Ndaitwah

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FICTION STORY

He replied with an ok and that put her at ease, however she was still quite nervous. Anna also felt that it was time she told her best friend the secret she’s been keeping so she invited her to join them later that evening too. Dylan was getting ready to go meet Anna when he received a Text from Tyler that read “I forgive you for knocking me out the other day and I apologize for calling Anna a bitch because she is much worse, she is a shameless prostitute, a whore. I will name a brothel after her. I hope the screenshots below will finally open your eyes big bro” Reading the screenshots infuriated Dylan and he knew none of it was a set up because the number was not saved, and he knew her number by heart. He skimmed through the shots and was starting to fume. “You can only pay cash and we have to use protection, it’s double the price with no protection and you have to bring your latest HIV test results” was one of the texts that she wrote. He threw his phone against the wall as he could not read on any further and then he

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stormed off. Anna’s heart skipped a beat when she saw Dylan from the restaurants entrance, when he reached the table, Anna stood up to hug him, but he simply gazed over at Ruth and started talking to her, Anna felt so humiliated, but she humbled herself and took a sit. The atmosphere was awkward, so Anna decided to break the ice. “It’s really good to see you again Dylan” to which he replied “Too bad the feeling is not mutual” Ruth laughed so loud, the people around started to stare. Anna was really hurt by the way he was treating her, but she at least had hope that after she tells him why she did what she did, they would work things out and everything would be okay again, so she kept making small conversations till Dylan finally said “Enough! We all know you are far from innocent, just say what you have to say and get this over and done with, jeez.” Anna held back tears and finally spoke “Dylan, I am really sorry for what I did to you. I never meant to hurt you, I-…” “Wait, was this before or after you decided to get in bed with ben? Or was it during the time

mike was sweating on top of you... Answer me dammit! At what point exactly did you realize that you never meant to hurt me? “Awkward” said Ruth as she continued to sip on her coffee. “Dylan please…” Sobbed Anna. “Don’t you dare act like the victim here Anna, I have always respected you, and I never ever did anything to hurt you but you? You just went out there and held a yard sale: ‘With protectionN$300 or you can go for the skin to skin package-just double the price’” At this point Anna was in tears but managed to speak “Dylan! Can you let me speak, let me explain myself please? This is too much, I…” Dylan cut her off again, standing up this time “You don’t have to explain yourself to me, we are even” “What…What do you mean, where are you going?” “I have to go, this was a waste of time” Anna sighed. “I can see now that nothing I say or do will ever make you forgive me” “You bet!” He said with no

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houses away, across the road. When she entered her room, someone barged in after her. It was her sister Cleo. “What the hell…?” Cleo was upset. “Why the hell did I just see you and Dylan kissing?” “Cause you like sticking your giant nose where it doesn’t belong!” Smirked Ruth. “That’s not funny Ruth, how do you think Anna will feel when she finds out her best friend and boyfriend kissed?” “That’s not all we did.” She giggled. Cleo was somehow appalled by the level of wickedness her sister possessed and said, “Why do you always do this to people who care about you. Anna has always been there for you! Remember the time you got suspended from school, she put in a good word for you! The time mom found cigarettes in your room, she pretended they were hers and got in trouble with her dad! The time-…” “SHUT UP! Just shut the hell up before I slap the life out of you. I am sick and tired of Anna always being an angel. Anna... Anna… Anna, little miss perfect. Do you know that your perfect Anna cheated on Dylan and that’s why he dumped her…? You know nothing, so stay the hell out of my business! As a matter of fact, GET OUT! Get out of my room. Shouted Ruth as she pushed Cleo out the door. The next morning Anna spotted Dylan and Ruth together in a corner, they seemed to be having a rather amusing conversation as Ruth couldn’t

stop smiling. She waited till Dylan was gone and went up to Ruth. “Uhm hey, why do you have that creepy smile on your face?” asked Ruth. “I just want to thank you for what you’re doing for me” “What…What are you talking about Anna?” “I saw you talking to Dylan. You’re trying to get us back together, aren’t you? You are such a good friend” Ruth broke down in laughter “Why the hell would I do that?” “Uhm I thought, well I saw you two together and I assumed-…” Ruth cut her off. “You assumed I was asking him to take you back…Hahaha oh Anna, I would never do that, not even for you. Dylan and I were talking about last night’s soccer match” “Since when, I never knew you and Dylan were that close?” said Anna softly. “I never knew you slept with men for money!” said Ruth. “Wow, that’s low. Even for you Ruth” Anna walked away very upset. TO BE CONTINUED.......... SEE NOVEMBER ISSUE FOR PART ONE ||||||| CHECK OUT OUR NEXT ISSUE FOR PART THREE OF ANNA’S SECRET

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Oldies #But firsties #Goldies

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That caption though!! Peep the date on it @marianepembe #2014

This was one of our first Matric/Couple Photoshoot (and no, they were not a real item) back in September, when we were quite clueless about couple photoshoots .

#classics s e i d l #O

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It was never part of the plan to have the car as part of the shoot, but the opportunity pres...... Maaan!! lets just say it was a DRIVE-BY SHOOT. killed it tho! @mawaugelwi #2013

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THE PRICE OF BISEXUALITY unny how most people think bisexual people are confused.

Being queer is always an adventure. On the other hand it can be super freeing; isn’t it nice to not have to be limited by the gender of anyone to be sexually and romantically attracted to them? For me, at least, that’s a huge plus, knowing the very high ratio of creepy douchebag dudes out on the prowl. But sometimes being queer can be hugely frustrating.

FOR INSTANCE + Men assume that being

“bi” means that you want to have a threesome; to have the best of both worlds.

+ Bi people face an immense amount of hostility from the gay community… which is ironic and sad.

+ If you come out at a

younger age, you’re bound to get the “but how do you know you like girls if you’ve never slept with one” question. And my answer would be, probably the same way you know you like people of the opposite sex!?

+ When you date some-

one of the opposite sex and people say “when you were lesbian.” Yet again, that is so wrong. Still bisexual.

+ Straight girls saying, “I’m

fed up of guys; I might go for girls, it must be so much easier.” It’s called LGBTQ for a reason. There’s a B in it and it doesn’t mean badass! Okay it kind of does but it also means Bi. People actually need to take time out and educate themselves on what bisexuality really means. But first, it all starts with acceptance.

AND LOVE? Let’s not even come to love. Bisexuals have their own ways of dealing with the potential biases of others in the dating world. Some don’t come clean about it until a little way into a relationship; others deliberately test the waters on the first date by mentioning ex-girlfriends or boyfriends, to see if the person has any issues. Also, misconceptions about bisexuality are myriad... They generally come down to a basic definitional issue. People assume that being attracted to both genders means that we are having a lot of sex with both genders, and that attraction to one partner can never be sufficiently “complete” to ensure fidelity. It’s mistaking the fundamentals of attraction for some kind of deep abiding “pull” to bed

everything in sight. For many ignorant people, they say that any man with a penis who is attracted to another man is gay; their world is divided exclusively into gay and straight. But it’s just not that simple. How “bisexuality” is applied depends a great deal upon who is using it. For them, being a man still means being a husband and father while anything else is deviant. I don’t really care much if bisexuality is defined as attraction or reaching into someone’s pants if it helps to avoid feelings of shame and disconnection. All of us are worthy of being loved, and when labels are used to divide and reject, they are destructive. We seek to enjoy the feeling of love and belonging, and our wish to connect with others is the reason we’re here.

entertainment

ARTIST NAME: ETHNIX SONG TITLE: OMARONGA [Chorus] Mama uandjipa omaronga omaua, Tate uendjikurisa mongaro osemba, Amatja muatje uandje peratena, muatje uandje hivirika x2

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[Verse 1] (Page) Mee Kasisi ngwee, o’ndekwiinekela Moshikundu shoye keshe efiku o’ndamakela Mee Kasisi ngwee, ‘kwiinekela Mayele wapange ameshe ondemiikomangela Toti! “Nekwa lyatsima oye ngaa nyoko” (mmhmm) Nekwa lyatsima oye ngaa nyoko (yeah)! You’re my one and only son Inolitula momilaulu niikolwifa Ou wete kutya paife ohaikulupa Uunona vange kaleni hamu dulika (dulikaaa) [Chorus] [Verse 2] (Etjo) Omutima uandje urira omahoze uandje jetota Vandu otjipo tjizamejuva, muhona omasa meisapi Vandu ovanene vandjeveripi? Ami meja kove, kove ndjambi, amerikotamene kove, jambeka omake uoje korutu ruandje Ovina Vjouje ovizeu Ndjipomasa mbituuringe mu avihe, ovina vjouje ovizeu

Ethnix

[Chorus] [Bridge] O-ho, O-ho, x4 Yeahiii x4 [Chorus]

“This song basically talks about how we are brought up, the morality our parents bring us up with and all the trials and tribulations they go through just for their kids. So the whole aim of this song is to honour and appreciate all the struggles our elders endured in order to make us who we are today”. FOLLOW :

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THIS IS WHAT JULIA “BOSSLADY” KADHIKWA HAD TO SAY YOU’VE PROBABLY seen her snap with your celebrity crush every seventh day or spotted her in the VIP segment at every big musical event you’ve been too recently. She dressed Trey Songz at the age of 22 and has been to some of the major concerts in Dubai, South Africa and Angola to mention a few. She has brought the likes of Minnie Dlamini, Cassper Nyovest, Ice Prince and AKA to the land of the brave and also engineered international collaborations for Tate Buti and Leather Mein. Put simply, Tsumeb born 25 year old entertainment guru Julia Ndapewa Kadhikwa better known as Julia Boss Lady is always looking to advance her circle and lives by the motto “your network is your net-worth”. She continues persevering to achieve her dream of being documented in Forbes 30 under 30 and lives to see the Namibian entertainment industry escalate to greater heights. The prodigious artist manager cum event planner took a little time out to speak to us about her lifestyle, her brand, experiences and showbiz overall. BLACK PEARL (BP): What inspired you to venture into the entertainment industry, and how did you get started with your career? JULIA KADHIKWA (JK): My unending passion for music enthused me most. I started when I was just 14 years old, still a high school kid. My first experience came during a school holiday back home in Ongwediva at an event held in Bennies Entertainment Park wherein the organizers offered me a chance to be one of the girls hosting the artists backstage. It was so fascinating meeting ‘people from TV’ and a few of them thankfully got to know my name as the entire atmosphere started getting more relaxed with each minute that lapsed. From that day on, I came to a realization that ‘celebrities’ are also just regular people like the rest of us. An average normal being gets star struck meeting their idols and nervousness guarantees ‘weird’ excessive behavior most times so I thank God for giving me a chance to be exposed

to big stars at such an early age, which has fortified me with all the moral and conduct skills needed in handling ‘golden surroundings’. BP: What 3 things do you consider anyone starting in your industry needs to know? JK: Persistence. Passion. Professionalism. These three Ps should be key if you want all to work out. BP: Which people have had the most influence on your growth, and how did they help you grow? JK: I’ll start with Chally 100 who was one of the first promoters to give me a glimpse of the ‘big-time’. Then comes Knowledge Iipinge (The Dogg’s manager at the time) who was undeniably one of my role models growing up. Most people only glorify the ‘actors’ and forget to give tribute to the ‘directors’, so I always saw things contrarily. I later met Sula from Ogopa Butterfly and he gave me a chance to host Psquare and to give Trey Songz the shirt he wore during his performance in Namibia. I think that’s where I got my overall breakthrough because if it wasn’t for Sula’s platform then I would probably still just be another unknown girl in showbiz. BP: What inspires you to achieve more? JK: I always had one drive; to be a “rich wife” rather than to be married to a “rich husband”. I don’t believe in shortcuts or handouts and I’m also a firm advocate of feminism. BP: What is the most courageous thing you have done thus far? JK: I obtained a VVIP ticket through a phone call at the Global Citizen Festival held in Johannesburg on 2 December 2018. This was Africa’s biggest concert of the year with big acts like Jay-Z and Beyoncé so security was at its tightest but the hunger in me still pushed me into finding a way to get a full access pass. To top it off, I managed to get a pass for my DJ (Cappuccino) too. That took courage! BP: What’s your work ethic? Uhm...before I do any move or if I want to achieve something particularly, I visualise how exactly I want it to happen. I send out lots of energy and when the time comes I just watch everything manifest effortlessly, hence why sometimes you can’t stop or sabo-

tage me because the universe won’t let you! I believe that everything is driven by #ENERGY!! BP: Tell us about “Olive Entertainment Agency and “V Lifestyle” JK: Olive Entertainment was founded in 2016 and is (in my opinion) one of the most connected and influential agencies Namibia has ever had. We are “The Plug” and characterized by an ability to get things done in an instant (not kidding). The agency specializes in artist management, radio and TV sampling, PR & Marketing as well as sponsorship procurement. On 4 August 2018, V Lifestyle; an initiative that turns people’s fantasies into a reality was successfully launched. In simpler terms, V Lifestyle organizes delicate and exclusive events where you get to party with your idols without any bouncer intervention. The V stands for VIP by the way (smiles). BP: As an artist manager, what is your style? JK: Well, I don’t really have a definite way of doing things but I’m all about the ‘vibe-energy’. I first need to vibe with you regardless of your talent and that’s why I’m very selective with who I work with. You must be able to be my best friend because there’ll come a time when it’s just the two of us traveling the world and who wants to travel with someone they don’t really vibe with? BP: Which artists are currently being managed by your agency? JK: At the moment, we only have Himba Boi and female table-turner DJ Cappuccino. Himba Boi’s first ever music video dropped on MTV Base as an exclusive premiere and that was basically his breakthrough. 2018 was more of a branding phase for my artists but I can guarantee that 2019 will come with a bang. BP: Any last words? JK: God will never give you a wooden chair or bed. He only gives you a tree so it is up to you to decide what to do with the tree. DID YOU KNOW? Julia has NEVER in her 25 years of existence consumed alcohol

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JOAVIITA KANDJUMBWA OBJECTS TO BE THE NAMIBIAN CAROL TSHABALALA JOAVIITA KANDJUMBWA is setting the bar high in the media sports industry. The 23-year-old starlet has made a name for herself by being amongst a few female sport anchors in the country. Given her passion for sports especially football, Kandjumbwa says her most noteworthy exploit so far was presenting the 2018 FIFA World Cup and the 2017 Skorpion Zinc Cup. Kandjumbwa highlights that she has always had an eye for media but was unambiguously looking for something that stands out; a career that is not normally done in the Namibian media industry and as a result chose sports presenting. â&#x20AC;&#x153;While I was exploring my options, I recall seeing

Carol Tshabalala pitch side during the 2014 FIFA World Cup in Brazil and I can say she instantly became some kind of perfect role model for me. I embarked on a journey to become something similar and I have not looked back sinceâ&#x20AC;? she said.

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“Working with people has also really taken me out of my comfort zone and my social skills have improved drastically,”

Driven by her love for football, she says that anyone starting in the sports presenting fraternity needs to know the industry from grass root level as it will help to better understand how to go about it. Kandjumbwa also says that one should pick an emphasis sport to report on e.g. cricket, rugby, soccer and etc. Over the 4 years of her career, she has gained tons of experience in the sports broadcasting industry, the most important one being able to find her journalistic voice and being able to stand on her ground. “Working with people has also really taken me out of my comfort zone and my social skills have improved drastically,” she said.

Kandjumbwa also underlined the importance of youth involvement in sports. “We need to do more for the youth, there is so much talent in this country and we are not doing enough for these sportsmen and women; sport should become a career option and not a part time thing or a hobby.” On the expectations for this year, the cheerful pundit confirmed a new show coming next month on local broadcasters. Also, the Rugby World Cup, AFCON and Cricket World Cup are all happening this year so be braced to be seeing more of Joaviita Kandjumbwa in 2019.

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LAKE MALAWI | MANGOCHI, MALAWI Lake Malawi is the 3rd largest lake in Africa. It is a fresh lake because it has an outlet, Shire river. This empties onto Zambezi river, up to the Indian ocean. The lake was formed due to rift valley which starts very far away to the north and ends some where in Mozambique

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