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of | THE PUBLISHER Winning Women Queens, sheroes, champions and ladies, are just a few of the exaltations that begin to express the reverence and respect we have, that we’ve saved for distinguished women in our community and in our lives. Their titles run the gamut from actress to aunt, surgeon to sister, and manager to mom. Whether they’re working to advance their careers, basking on the beach or hobnobbing at dinner parties, they are focused, engaging, and poised to embrace a lifestyle of enhancements. They understand that good health, strong family and their own personal senses of security are critical components to achievement. I am proud to be associated with McDonald’s and this impressive collection of some of the most dynamic, prolific, creative and independent women in Detroit. It was our objective to share their lives in a manner that reinforces and enhances the value of the journey of being a woman — the caretakers of a culture — for commemoration in print, spoken word and online. We hope that you will share this publication, become sages and oracles in your own right by gleaning what’s behind the women and their individual methodologies for success. What we found as they disclosed their stories was that a common thread connected one with the other— passion. That unifying theme is reflected on these pages and in their lives. They endeavor
to elevate us, and instill a sense of self-realization in those around them. Maybe called idealistic, but their ideas have been fruitful and catapulted to the heights of womanhood. The features you read here are meant to be food for thought and principles to consider while you relax and enjoy a special moment. They are blueprints for success made available to you, and at the very least offer a comprehensive and collective vision of those who are living dreams and loving life. Take the time to celebrate the women on these pages and stop at a nearby McDonald’s to share with other women and rejuvenate your appetite for achievement. Grow your mission and become one of the featured women in the Hobnob Drive publication, here or online. This resource guide is meant to be a woman’s handbook and a personal reminder to enrich your life physically and spiritually through sustainable success. Hats off to you ladies. You’re the best. Peace.
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Beauty Is Her Name
10 Foods for Flawless Skin
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How to Find and Get the Dream Job
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STYLE
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Embrace the Beauty of You You have always been beautiful. There’s no disputing that. But with that impressive physical countenance comes the need to maintain the health of both the outer and inner you. But before we delve into the inner woman, let’s take a look at a few ways to keep the physical you in great working order. HOBNOBDrive 9
STYLE
Look Fab While Saving Money
AND BEAUTY
Just because you’re constantly on the go doesn’t mean you can’t look fly in the process. Here are helpful tips to keep you looking great.
Remember the goal is to impress for less.
Here’s what’s haute and should be in your closet.
1. Black romantic, ruffled
and poet blouses
2. Wide-legged pants 3. Dresses: draping and
wrap styled
4. Flattering jeans to fit
your figure:
SHORT
A classic style is preferred. Avoid low-rise jeans altogether. CURVY
Dark stretch jeans with a slight flare. LINEAR
Linear – Straight-leg style or skinny jeans are preferred.
5. Black pencil skirt
Accessories are your friend. You can purchase them in any color you like to punch up your look. This includes chunky necklaces, handbags, clutches, cocktail rings, belts and hats. Consignment shops are the best place to find those unique accent pieces.
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6. Shoes made of patent
or smooth leather with a faux-crocodile stamp will give you a luxe look for less. HOBNOBDrive 11
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DID YOU KNOW
10 Foods for Flawless Skin “You are what you eat.” We have all heard this line a million times … and guess what? It’s true! What you eat daily can affect your body as well as your skin. We aren’t saying completely eliminate all junk foods and other guilty pleasures, but it’s all about eating healthy and in moderation. When it comes to your health, the outside reflects the inside. Here are 10 foods to help maintain a better diet and put your best face forward!
percent of your daily requirements for vitamin A. Vitamin A maintains and repairs skin cells. A deficiency of it can result in dry, flaky skin.
3. Almonds
Almonds are great for your complexion and also give you energy. They contain 150 percent of your daily need for vitamin E, which moisturizes dry skin. Its antioxidant properties protect skin against environmental damage and premature aging.
4. Cottage Cheese
Not only is daily consumption good for your bones and face, it carries an essential mineral called selenium that protects against skin cancer and fights dandruff.
5. Acerola Cherries 1. Avocados
This creamy, green fruit is abundant in the essential oils and B-complex vitamins that nourish your skin, inside and out. So, warm up some chips and load on some homemade guacamole for a yummy snack.
2. Mangoes
Not only is this fruit delicious, but it has more than 80
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These aren’t your average cherries. One of these cherries supplies 100 percent of your daily allowance for vitamin C, which is great news for your skin.
6. Oysters
Whether they are an aphrodisiac or not, oysters are a love-feast for skin. They fight pimples because they are rich in zinc, which also helps boost your skin’s elastic protein with the help of Vitamin C.
7. Baked Potatoes
A plump, steaming baked potato is good for your skin. Eat one baked potato (with the skin) to get 75 percent of your daily copper need.
8. Mushrooms
Mushrooms are rich in riboflavin, a B vitamin that’s vital to your skin. It repairs and improves skin blemishes caused by rosacea. Try garlicrosemary mushrooms.
9. Flaxseed Oil
If you aren’t a fish lover, flaxseed oil is for you. It is one of the best sources of omega-3 fatty acids for your skin.
10. Wheat Germ
Don’t let the “germ” part of the name scare you. It’s actually just the embryo within a grain of wheat, and it’s nutritious. It’s a great source of biotin, a B vitamin that’s crucial to skin health. HOBNOBDrive 13
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Dara Munson Mentoring Detroit’s Future The effects of the recession and inequitable educational system have decimated few cities in America quite like Detroit. According to the latest census results, Detroit’s population has dwindled by a startling 25 percent over the past decade. Those issues are leading to ever-increasing troubles for many of Detroit’s most at-risk youngsters. Fortunately, Dara T. Munson, the president and CEO of Big Brothers Big Sisters in Detroit is one of the brave leaders willing to tackle these issues and foster hope in the community. “It became clear early on when I was a teenager causing ruckus in Detroit that I needed my life to be of service. I always had an interest in the criminal justice system and also the funding community. Being part of this allows me to make an impact on my community for issues that affect young people,” she states.
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Munson’s social service career has included performing in multiple capacities with the United Way for Southeastern Michigan, becoming senior director of Resource Investment and Community Partnerships and eventually working with the Black Family Development Inc., where she assisted with the financial management of the program’s multimillion-dollar fund for juvenile justice services. Now at Big Brothers Big Sisters, Munson not only cares for two of her own mentees, but helps ensure that the program recruits mentors for its roster of an estimated 1,200 children per year. “Education gives you the skill set to understand the way nonprofits work,” says Munson, who hold’s a bachelor’s in criminal justice from Eastern Michigan University and a master’s in public administration from Central Michigan University. “[A] nonprofit is like a business, [we] hire and evaluate staff, do payroll and do everything that happens in a small business while focusing on the mission.” Munson hopes that her achievements, including being a 2009 honoree in Crain’s Detroit Business 40 Under 40, inspires others to find their purpose in life through service. “Find an issue you care about, research that issue in your community, find your skill set and go for the job with those skills. The most important thing about influence is to support somebody who needs it and to make sure you open doors for people coming behind you,” she says. With that attitude, the youth of Detroit appear to be in solid hands.
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BEAUTY IS HER NAME
Keshia Knight Pulliam We will never forget the heartwarming smile and witty remarks that made us all want to have a sister, daughter or friend like Rudy Huxtable of “The Cosby Show.” But today, Keshia Knight Pulliam — who brought little Rudy’s character to life in the mid-’80s — has developed into a stunningly beautiful actress with an impressive portfolio. For our Hobnob Drive interview, Pulliam donned a hot-pink blouse that hung just below a pair of skimpy leather shorts and accented with an eye-catching pair of Christian Louboutin glitter slingbacks. Effortlessly, she radiated sexiness and maintained an alluring confidence throughout the two-hour shoot. Comfortable with expressing her desires, fears and expectations, Pulliam reveals her candid thoughts on relationships. She gives insight on what it’s like to work with two of the most powerful black men in television and shares thoughts on her lasting legacy. This isn’t the tragic tale of yet another fallen child star à la “E! True Hollywood Story.” The former “Cosby kid” and Spelman College graduate has moved beyond her childhood success and is creating a legacy all her own.
All Grown Up
And people saw themselves in the family no matter where they came from. I think it showed the world how much more alike we are than different. The stories on “The Cosby Show” transcend time. That’s why I believe it still runs on several networks, and it’s syndicated all over the world. It’s so wonderful to have people from other countries come up to me and say, ”Oh, my gosh! I grew up with you and, now, my kids are growing up with you.” That’s big. You have been in the spotlight for a long time starting with “The Cosby Show.” Has that recognition caused any problems with men wanting to date you? Dating is always interesting because you men are “special.” I think you get some people who do want to be next to you because of the recognition, and you get those who are intimidated by what I’ve done and who I am. But as you get older, that’s what dating is. You sift through that and find “the diamond in the rough.” God made me, so I know he made my counterpart. So, I’m good and patient.
You have worked with two of the best: Bill Cosby and Tyler Perry. What are some of the most important things that you learned from them? With Mr. Cosby, I have such a wonderful foundation in terms of my craft, professionalism, and being with the best of the best. I’m thankful for that because I didn’t learn bad habits. I learned it the best way and the right way. He also taught me to be creative and comedic timing, which is an art form. He and Tyler Perry both are very concerned with the community, what we represent, how powerful the imagery is, and how important it is to have black leadership out there for young boys and girls.
I speak to a lot of women about shows and articles that suggest there are not enough available black men for black women. Do you think that idea is being perpetuated by the media, or is there really a lack of good black men? I don’t know if there is a “lack” of good black men. But when you haven’t taken the time to get to know yourself, be OK with you, and articulate what it is you want in a relationship, then you can’t possibly find that person for you because you don’t even know what you’re looking for. Mostly, I think that if two people don’t work out, they just aren’t the right match, and there isn’t anything wrong with that. There is someone for everyone. But if you don’t have your stuff together, it’s not going to work. You have to really judge people [based] on what’s on the inside versus the superficial.
“The Cosby Show” had a reunion on TV Land in April. What was the biggest impact of the show? It was so groundbreaking in that it was the first time that the world saw a middle to upper class black doctor and lawyer married with children.
What do you want people to say about your legacy? I want to be remembered for my body of work and the legacy that I leave. I also want to be remembered as a person who really gave back in every way and was selfless in giving all that I could give.
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“There is someone for everyone. But if you don’t have your stuff together, it’s not going to work.”
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The Best Days of Your Life Picture today being a defining moment where you can turn long awaited dreams into blessed realities. The first step to achieving that end goal is to tap into your innermost passions. That starts now.
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How to Find and Get that Dream Job
Economic indicators show that companies are hiring again. That’s great news. But in the post-Great Recession landscape, a 2011 job seeker must use a multiplicity of strategies that weren’t necessary in 2005. Whether you are looking to segue into a new career or continue on in your current one, begin by assessing yourself in practical ways that make you more employable. As with most projects, the more information you have the better. Only now, the project is yourself.
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One great place to start is a simple assessment of your “KSA’s” — knowledge, skills, and abilities. Do you have deficiencies that prevent you from excelling in your current field? In contrast, do you have the basics to commence in a new career field? At President Barack Obama’s behest, community and trade colleges around the country have recently improved their curriculums. Upgrading your knowledge or skills may be as simple as enrolling in a class or acquiring certification. But, a career
change to an area like law or medicine may require a lifestyle change that will accommodate the high cost of retraining that normally accompanies such a move. Another assessment that is often overlooked is a personality assessment. It’s not as scary as it sounds. Annual evaluations often reveal the tell-tale signs that more insight is needed regarding how you work — and the results of those workplace efforts. Recurring statements like works hard but is not a team player or good at tasks but needs improvement on communication skills can be telling. It’s possible that knowing more about your work style can be beneficial in how you work (and succeed) with others. Talk to your human resources team about having an assessment done. If they don’t provide them, they can recommend a local firm that can. Some of the most popular ones are Myers-Briggs www. myersbriggs.org/ and DiSC www.discprofile.com/.
to paper copies, consider creating a website that showcases your résumé or portfolio in a more expansive fashion. Include quotes from clients or former managers, official letters of reference, external activities (for instance, boards of directors you serve on and successful philanthropic fundraisers). Invest in one of the top 10 books on the subject, such as Job Search Strategies: Get a Good Job...Even in a Bad Economy by Bud Clarkson and Sarah A. Clarkson. This book has a lot of important information on successful networking, negotiating the salary you deserve, creative ways to generate leads, and how to present
compelling reasons an employer should hire you without “selling” yourself. With free Wi-Fi, McDonald’s is a great place to launch a career strategy. Whatever time of day, a fresh, hot serving of oatmeal or a crisp Caesar salad with Newman’s Own Dressing are great accompaniments to one of the most important projects you’ll ever probably work on: you. If you are considering a career in the food service industry, inquire about management and owner-operator programs with McDonald’s. For more information on job opportunities at McDonald’s, visit www.mcstate.com.
Now, for the practical side of the search. Sites like The Ladders (www.theladders.com) and Indeed (www.indeed.com) can be helpful. Recruiters advise candidates to “Google” themselves. Knowledge is power — and so is knowing what is circulating on the Web about you. A flawless résumé or curriculum vitae is instrumental. For creative types, a portfolio is mandatory. In addition HOBNOBDrive 23
DREAMERS
Toya Hankins Finds a New Dream in Artist Management What do you do when you’ve reached a crossroads between your dream and the harsh reality that it may never come true? If you’re Toya Hankins you start forging ahead down a new path of dreams within your reach. That was the case when Hankins’ aspirations to become a singer hit a sour note. The epiphany led to the launch of her entertainment services company, Project Producers, which provides artist management, marketing, touring and special events production. “When I realized I couldn’t sing, I fell into the music business. It was eight years ago that I realized I really love all aspects of seeing projects come to life. So two years ago, I seriously started developing the artists that are in my camp now,” she said. Her most notable client is Motown recording artist, Kem. As manager, Hankins coordinates every facet of her client’s brands to
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ensure that everyone from publicists to legal representatives to stylists are following and expanding the vision for each artist’s career. That vision includes keeping Kem and others relevant in a competitive industry, maintaining artistic integrity and finding new creative ways to capitalize on their brands. It’s a leadership position that Hankins admits comes with a healthy amount of challenges and fear. “So many artists rise to the top and you don’t hear from them again. So every day, I am challenged to make sure Kem is relevant and that I am duplicating my own efforts. My team depends on us doing work so they can eat. So there is fear every day but it gets the blood boiling and is a motivator and driver,” she says. Hankins credits her democratic leadership style as being the driving force behind her company’s ability to transform fear into results. “I don’t consider myself a boss. [We are] a team and I couldn’t do anything without them. I try to work with people that have no problems making decisions, and [who] are leaders in their own right. That has allowed us to be successful,” she notes. Hankins allows that dealing with a personal crisis gave her the tenacity to meet business challenges. “I have a disabled mom who survived a brain aneurysm rupture 13 years ago and I survived her sickness. So that experience and losing people close makes me happy to wake up each day and work in my passion,” she says.
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certain rules to the game, ways that you should and should not conduct yourself. That is what we focus on.
Jacqueline M. Northrop A Woman about her Business Jacqueline Northrop is the owner of a successful event planning company and has now started another venture. uWhat are your two small business ventures? My first company Opal E Event Planning focuses on Wedding Event Management and Consulting. Scarlet Communications focuses on business etiquette and protocol, consulting individuals on the proper way to conduct themselves in business settings. uAs a business owner, how did you know it was time for another company? I don’t think I had much of an imagination before the age of 12 and it got all saved up for now. Now I come up with all kinds of crazy ideas and concepts that I want to implement. Scarlet Communications is a manifestation of one of those crazy ideas I came up with. uWhat is the focus of Scarlet Communications? A lot of people in the workforce are unaware of how to conduct themselves in a business setting. If you have to take a client to a bar, even to a setting that is not business related, there are
uWhat is your background? My master’s degree is in Instructional Technology, which is designing training programs. That assists a lot in creating custom training materials for individuals who need instruction in how to conduct themselves in business settings. My undergrad in Public Relations lends itself to that as well. uAs a businesswoman, what challenges have you encountered in the industry? For the wedding planning industry, it’s an equal set of men and women. In that industry, it’s not so hard, because a lot of people expect that a woman would be your wedding planner. Business and etiquette protocol is a little bit different, especially since a lot of what I like to focus on is sales based organizations. There are some challenges with having to get in front of a male audience and be convincing, persuasive, and getting them to take you seriously. uWhat inspires you? I get a huge amount of inspiration from people I know who come from nothing. Oprah is a prime example of someone who came from nothing. I get inspired at the possibility of things. uWhat advice would you give to young women who want a similar career path? I am a huge advocate of finding that person who is that deal in what you want to be and talking with them. People who are very good at their job, want to talk about it. Find someone in your industry that is willing to lend a helping hand. Take them to lunch. In a nutshell, find a mentor. Don’t waste time reinventing the wheel, find out what worked for them and what didn’t.
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Tiffany Douglass Senior Vice President, Market Manager, Bank of America When Tiffany Douglass talks about finance and corporate interests, she sounds a lot more like a community advocate than a banker. Here’s a woman of means who understands and empathizes with customers and citizens who no longer live pay check to pay check, but are instead living pay check to Monday. In that respect, Douglass is not your typical banker. She is instead a woman with her finger on the pulse of the community and the means to administer economic triage and revive Detroit’s more ailing neighborhoods. uWhat are your daily responsibilities in your capacity as a senior vice president? I am responsible for business integration, and that means dissemination of foundation dollars to leveraging our position in the community ... whether that’s coordinating volunteer initiatives or understanding the environment in which we operate. It’s a multitude of things, but primarily it’s business integration and managing a corporate social responsibility platform, meaning access to education, economic development and identifying partners to make sure that we are responding to community needs.
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uWhen did it become clear to you that you were doing what you were called to do professionally? Probably in the year 2002 when I really found my passion and understood that I could deliver for the community, and that was a wonderful feeling. I was raising money for the United Negro College Fund and I really got that I was helping a group of people who might not otherwise have had access to education. It was a tremendous feeling when you see that happen at the end of the day. uHow do you define success? I think that being successful means you’re trying your hardest and you’re doing the best that you can do on a daily basis. I don’t think it’s reaching any level or that it can be found in a title. I am not defined by my title, I don’t get better access, nor am I precluded by my title. If you can wake up in and say ‘I feel pretty good about where I am and I am happy about being in this place and space’ that’s success. uHow can black women increase their income and their net worth? The main thing for our people is education. We have to think beyond today and think about tomorrow, meaning two years or five years in the future. A lot of people get intimidated by the [present] moment and then they don’t really invest in themselves fully and take advantage of the educational opportunities in front of them. ... You have to take the means that you have and leverage them ... to move beyond your current level. That’s why access to education is the greatest thing we can have. uWhat motivates you? My kids motivate me to be the best that I can be, for them. And my community — here in Detroit we have an interesting community of people that really encourage you as a person of color to move forward. In most cases in this city, as a person of color you are not the first one to do anything which means you don’t have the excuse of saying that it hasn’t been done before. You have role models here in corporate America, in philanthropy, in community and political leadership. you see who you could be all around you here and they are great assets. HOBNOBDrive 29
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Gail Perry-Mason Financial Phenom Gail Perry-Mason: Casting Pearls To the Girls Imagine finally meeting your birth mother and asking the question, “What was I like as a baby?” When the response is “I don’t know, you were black and I didn’t want to touch you,” you might be devastated for life. Gail Perry-Mason not only survived her caucasian birth mother’s indifference, she has thrived. The Grosse Pointe resident is First Vice President of Investments of Oppenheimer & Co. Inc. and is widely regarded as one of the most influential women in the financial Industry. The author of Girl Make your Money Grow has overcome a mountain of obstacles and was approached to run on the Democratic ticket with Virg Benero for Michigan’s lieutenant governor in 2010. Perry-Mason remains uncompromisingly frank, and her casual candor resonates with women across the spectrum. uHer Career: When I was in college, I got pregnant, married and divorced all in one year. I ended up getting a job at a brokerage firm. I didn’t know what a brokerage firm did, but I was broke so I thought it was a God-send. I worked as a receptionist and then became a secretary. I watched wealthy people handle their money so I asked if I could become
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a broker. They said, ‘the answer is no.’ But someone left their book out on a table and I Xeroxed it. I studied every morning before taking my son to day care, and I ended up passing the [brokers’] test. My employer then promoted me to licensed secretary. But then I partnered with a Chicago money manager to host an investment seminar at the St. Regis Hotel. I booked the room, but I owed them $350. So the nights I didn’t go to school, I worked as a waitress ... I earned $350 in tips. Then I went to the St. Regis with all these dollar bills and quarters spilling out of my hands. I had over 100 accounts come out of that seminar. My job thought I was on to something and they put wheels on my chair, so I could sit at the brokers desk, but if it didn’t work my boss told me I could roll back over to the secretary’s desk. uWhat’s Next: I’m working on my new book From a Full-Figured Woman to A Seven-Figure Woman: A Woman’s Guide to Shifting her Assets. And I’m working on a business and I’m on top of the world about it, I’m going to have my own line of pearls. I wear pearls everyday of my life and I give away pearls all the time. I won the Role Model of the Year Award from Alternatives for Girls a couple of years ago, and I gave each girl and pearl and wrote pearls of wisdom to them. I always buy pearls and put them in a little box and write quotes to them, so my friend who owns a jewelry store suggested it. uAdvice to women: Don’t run your house like it’s a nonprofit. Don’t let your money retire before you do. Know what your net worth is. Know your liabilities. Numbers don’t lie. Stop putting your trust in money and put your money in a trust. Everyday when I wake up I pray that I make the right investments for my clients. The Bible says if you’re a good steward over your money, he’ll give you more. I think it’s the best financial book in the world. HOBNOBDrive 31
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Now that you’ve embraced your financial independence, it’s time to dive into sensible investment options. Take a mental snapshot of where you are at this exact moment financially. If you look at that picture and you are smiling, you’re one of the fortunate ones and you can stop reading now. If however, you look at that picture and there is any hint of perplexity about your current position, or concern about sustaining your current position, by all means keep reading. I have a friend whose favorite piece of financial advice is to have a real relationship with your money. “Girl, you need to make friends with your money. Get to know it well,” and that has been probably one of the most sound bits of financial advice I ever got. But there’s more. I know where every dollar is at all times, but I need my dollars to make friends with some others. If there’s truth to the adage, “You are who you associate with,” then associate yourself with money or at least people who know how to make it work.
Investment clubs
Investment clubs are a popular way for sisters to plan financially for the future. Women’s investment clubs across America continue to outperform all-male clubs by as much as 20 percent. Clubs consisting of family mem-
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Project Success: Become A Financial Giant bers, sorority members or friends meet regularly to plan investment strategies and increase their knowledge of the financial pages. The benefit of an investment club is that it combines the social aspect with the educational benefit of coming together and sharing information. It demystifies the investment process.
Build the best portfolio
Diversify your investments. I know it’s intimidating, especially now. But consider buying stock with your surplus funds. In fact do more than just consider it -make it happen. As African American women we are the most discerning consumers on the planet and literally hold the purchasing power of a nation in our hands. We make all kinds of smart purchasing decisions daily, but when it comes to stock we shut down. It doesn’t have to be that hard. Building and maintaining a well-balanced portfolio is a matter of making those types of buying decisions – matching risks against performance, monitoring the economic conditions, and then deciding the kind of assets that should be included
in the portfolio. It’s nothing you’re not capable of doing. The key objective here is to minimize the risk and maximize the return, and achieve the investment objectives. Play it safe with blue-chip, Fortune 500 company stock. Take a risk with more volatile, hightech companies whose stock value is based on future projections. You may also want to consider a mutual fund. A mutual fund can reduce overall risk by having many different investments. When some of your investments are down, others may be flying high. It’s also important to start investing as early as possible. Put your money to work as soon as you can afford it. The longer you wait to begin investing, the more money you’ll have to put away. Consider this: A 20-year-old starting out investing $20 a week can have $1 million at retirement. If you wait until you’re 30 years old, it’ll take $55 a week. Don’t let too much time tick away, Sister. Plan now for the rest of your life. HOBNOBDrive 33
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The Smell of Success You’re well on your way to experiencing unparalleled success. But before you step fully into your destiny, it’s time we take a few notes from the masters—namely the impressive female owner-operators of McDonald’s.
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Savarior Moss-Service A Lifetime of Service
Savarior Moss-Service is a rare breed. While others search a lifetime to discover their purpose, Moss-Service has known her entire life that she wanted her work to positively impact the community. Appropriately, that led her to becoming an owner-operator of a McDonald’s franchise. As Service took time to share her experiences with Hobnob Drive, it quickly became apparent that this was a woman who discovered her destiny and owned it. uTell us about your journey into the world of McDonald’s. As far back as I can remember, my family has always instilled in me the importance of strong values, spirituality, and that if you treat people the right way, good things will come to you. I took that with me, and it became an important part of who I was as a woman. When I began to learn more about McDonald’s, I began to realize that our interests and outlook on helping others aligned. It only made sense that I became a part of the McDonald’s family. uWhat are some of the life lessons that you have learned along the way? I’ve learned the value of patience and persistence. There will be times when your goals are not that easy to achieve. But if you stay patient, and continue to work hard towards accomplishing what you set out to do, then you will reap the benefit of your patience and persistence. That is perhaps the greatest lesson that I have learned. uDo you give advice to others who are interested in following in your footsteps? All the time—especially when it comes to other women. There have been so many people in my life who gave back, and helped me along the way. I want to pay that forward by reaching out to help anyone else that I can. There are a lot of talented people in this world that deserve a chance. I want to help give them that opportunity.
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Monique Vann Brown A McDonald’s Success Story
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opportunities in other industries for me to own a business,” she shares. With her MBA in tow, Brown took advantage of the management-training courses at McDonald’s and eventually found herself moving up the ranks. Advancing her education and networking more were key.
For most people, the popular 1992 McDonald’s slogan “What you want is what you get” is forever associated with quality customer service. For Detroit McDonald’s franchise owner Monique Vann Brown, the marketing theme represents something more profound: the call to pursue your dreams on your own terms.
“I wanted to learn more about running a business. Through research I learned of career opportunities to own McDonald’s restaurants. That’s why I suggest women find mentors and network in the fields that interest them in order to understand what takes place in that environment,” she advises.
After working at McDonald’s as a teenager, Brown became enthralled by the fast-paced nature of the world’s most successful restaurant chain, but knew that advancement would require a solid education. Brown attained a bachelor’s in engineering from the prestigious Purdue University. Upon graduating, she worked in the automotive industry but soon realized that she needed a greater challenge in life.
“The first thing a potential business owner must understand is you have to be able to live below your means and have the money available to invest in an opportunity should it become available,” she says.
“I wanted to learn more about the practical aspects of running a business. So I returned to Purdue for my MBA and realized there were career
In addition to her solid education, Brown believes that responsible financial management prepared her to take a calculated risk and launch a franchise.
Now, as one of the 25 percent of minorities who own a McDonald’s franchise [according to The Minority Owned Franchise Initiative — MOFI], Brown is focused on assisting others in manifesting their destinies. “What motivates me is knowing others depend on me,” Brown said. “Fortunately, I like to help people. I really feel we have a responsibility to make sure we help others pursue and achieve their goals. The best way to do that is to lead by example.” Brown is proof of the adage that hard work and preparation can lead to success.
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Yvonne Knox Putting the Community First For Yvonne Knox, an average day is anything but. Not only is she responsible for the growth and oversight of her McDonald’s franchises, but she also takes a special interest in the personal development of her employees. While the business is certainly important, their advancement in life is perhaps the one thing that provides Knox with the most personal gratification. “I have to tell you that I am truly grateful for the opportunity that I have been given with McDonald’s,” she candidly shares. Not only have I been able to accomplish many of my personal goals, but I am also extremely fortunate to be able to impact the lives of my employees. I want to see them succeed.” As a long time owner-operator, Knox has seen the positive impact that McDonald’s can have in the community. It’s one of the reasons why she takes this role so seriously. “Oh absolutely, I see it everyday,” she explains, when pressed about the community impact of McDonald’s. “One of the things that initially drew me to McDonald’s was seeing how it can positively affect the lives of the people within the community. To be able to create jobs, and provide opportunities for advancement is something that you don’t see often from large corporations. I, however, take pride in it.” What Knox also takes pride in is her standing as a female owner-operator. She both knows and understands the influence that she wields, and uses it wisely to inspire the aspirations of other women. “I hope other women look at me and refuse to settle for less,” she says. “There are so many talented women in our community, and I want to see them all succeed. If there is anything that I could ever do to help any of them, my door is always open. McDonald’s has helped me a great deal, and I just want to return the favor.”
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Taking a business trip and don’t know what to wear? It takes a little strategic thinking to select your business attire because you don’t want to take a risk and look unprofessional. The classic look can take a business traveler many miles. While the mere thought of a traditional wardrobe sounds trite, you will never go wrong with this look. Dark suits exude authority. When was the last time you saw our commander in chief wearing a light suit? Hmm. Made you think. A tailored, two- or threebuttoned suit will carry you through any business meeting or presentation. If you’re one of those people who can’t keep white white, then opt for a neutral-hued shirt, in light blue, beige or gray. Make sure your accessories aren’t distracting; choose neutral or solid colors. Hosiery and belts must always complement your attire. A blazer, crisp white shirt, black slacks or skirts, polished low-heeled black shoes and accessories create a classic and presentable look. You should wear dark or flesh-toned pantyhose. When you look good and feel good about yourself, you emanate confidence and will undoubtedly close the deal.
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The Ultimate Roadmap to Redefining Your Professional Role
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Marla Thrower McDonald’s Owner/ Operator When author Malcolm Gladwell penned the best selling novel The Tipping Point, he explored the concept of change that moves with epidemic-like speed and the types of people that are players in the phenomenon. One of those game changers, — mavens — regulate the business and social networks that drive change. McDonald’s owner/operator Marla Thrower, is one of those trusted mavens, and her business assessments provide the cornerstone for a seven-store business empire. Thrower’s special area of expertise is business administration.
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uYou and your family own several McDonald’s locations. What are your daily responsibilities as a franchise owner? My responsibilities are largely administrative. I make sure all the bills are paid, take care of my staff’s payroll, along with the insurance and taxes. I’m also responsible for operation within the stores. uWhen did it appear to you that this was something you wanted to do? My husband and I decided that we wanted to own our own business ... from there we researched companies and we found that [McDonald’s] was the best one, because they prepared you for business. The company has all kinds of programs that you can participate in and that’s when we knew this was the right business for us. uAre you planning to open more stores? We hope to. We like to continue to grow within the city of Detroit. uWhat are the three attributes that are critical to a woman entrepreneur? First, you have to be knowledgeable and know exactly what type of business you want to be in and you have to know what to do when you get there. Second, you always have to be responsible, and finally, you have to be a revolutionary and think about those who came before you and think about the second, third and fourth. uHow can women, especially African American women increase their net worth and their income? I believe you start with your character. Increase your character and your investment will come. Build relationships, believe in GOD and your family. uWhat advice can you offer to other women who wants to follow in your steps. Research and find out everything you can about the business. Get a mentor... someone who has experience. Just stay focused and always do the right thing. Stay in good credit standing because everything is always going to be turned over and examined. HOBNOBDrive 47
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Deb Virgiles With McDonald’s for Nearly 40 years and Lovin’ it! Debra Virgiles is the owner of two McDonald’s stores in Michigan. She has a crew of six department managers, 120 employees and throughout the course of any given day, interacts with more than 40 of those employees. The McDonald’s brand has run through her veins for 39 years and she sat down to give us an insider’s view of her path to success. uHow did you become an entrepreneur? I started with McDonald’s at the age of 17. I worked with my mentor for 22 years. I knew I could do this for myself. I was given the opportunity. uWith so much responsibility, how have you stayed the course for close to 40 years? I come from a family of 12. My work ethic comes from my father. I wanted to do something to give back to my immediate family. But, I also wanted to make a statement for myself. Working with McDonald’s has allowed me to do that because I work with so many employees, custom-
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ers, and the community. McDonald’s accomplishes this, as well. We are simpatico. uWhat has been your inspiration? My mentor taught me that you have to be able to transfer the knowledge. Whatever you learn, you have to be able to teach someone else. I’ve trained so many employees. Many people have come back, who have gotten jobs somewhere else and said, “Mrs. Virgiles, you were a strong leader who I modeled my own career after and I’d like to thank you.” uHow have you been able to inject creativity into your work? You have to leave a mark because tomorrow is not guaranteed. For instance, I try to put a spin on our store marketing to create a certain type of buzz. Last year when we rolled out [McCafé] Smoothies, my employees taught me a dance they created called the “Smoothie Shuffle.” When customers ordered a smoothie, we did the dance for them! uAs a leader, what are some of the values that you teach young black girls? Regardless of where you are in the organization, envision yourself as number one. I tell the girls there’s a bigger picture. Do not belittle yourself. Try to stay on top. If you want to accomplish your goals and you have a dream, step out in front of that dream and make sure you reach back for someone else and teach them.
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Stay Connected In today’s technology age, a progressive woman knows the importance of technology as it pertains to her livelihood. From social media to career connectivity, all of your cyber bases are set to be covered with the turn of this page.
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Smart Wi-fi Locales for the Business Savvy Entrepreneur An office isn’t always at your disposal for those important business meetings. Free Wi-Fi hotspots are widely available if you know where to look. Here are five locations that offer the necessary environment for the cost conscious entrepreneur:
Public Library
Cafés and Restaurants
For the traveling business person using the free Wi-Fi in the airport and the complimentary internet access at your hotel will help you stay connected to your clients no matter where you are in the world.
Many major fast food chain restaurants, like McDonald’s, offer free Wi-Fi. Some smaller coffee shops and cafés do as well. All are ideal places if you require Internet access for a breakfast or lunch meeting.
Local University or Student Lounge
Some universities and colleges have unrestricted Internet access. Student lounges usually have comfortable couches, nice chairs, and large work tables with extremely fast wireless signals.
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Your tax dollars help pay for them so why not use the library when you need to? A lot of libraries not only have free Internet access but private conference rooms as well.
Hotels/Airports
Public Parks or Downtown Areas
In most major cities many local governments have decided to provide free Wi-Fi access to residents in heavily trafficked areas. The wireless signal is usually at restaurants, shops, and open areas such as city parks.
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Tifiany Walker
Walker Search Group
Before establishing Walker Research Group, Tifiany Walker spent a decade working as a general manager for the Xerox Corporation. During her tenure at Xerox, she managed a number of healthcare and legal accounts with one of her largest charges being General Motors. And that’s where her idea was born — to establish a staffing and recruitment firm that specializes in legal, healthcare and IT personnel. Now in its third year of operations, Walker says she’s always had an entrepreneurial spirit and it was the right time to see what she could accomplish in the marketplace. An Emory and University of Michigan graduate, Walker makes it clear that education strongly contributed to her success. As a teenager, she attended boarding school and feels the experience contributed to her personal and professional qualities. “I attended Culver Military Academy, which is a prestigious prep school in Indiana. Leadership was one of the core components of our rigorous curriculum. So aside from the academic piece, the leadership focus honed and shaped me for the professional world,” she states.
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Walker says that on at least a weekly basis her decision to strike out on her own is reaffirmed. She frequently experiences those ‘aha!’ moments, fueling the fires of her professional passion. “I’ll be in a meeting or someone will say something and I’ll just know that it is actually what I am supposed to be doing. Going as hard and as fast as I possibly can go without any limitations to stop me. I find it extremely satisfying to link someone with a job that suits their skill set with an organization that has a positive environment. That’s exciting.” In keeping with that theme of matching people and jobs, Walker extends a similar philosophy to her overall picture of success. “You must have a clear understanding of the services you’re offering and how they benefit your market. It has to be a clearly defined business value proposition.” Walker, a former Ebony magazine model who readily admits that she has always been fiercely competitive, also confides that she is unwavering in her emphasis on women remaining true to themselves in all things — especially business. “You can’t pattern yourself after anyone else or your business after any other business. Sure, take note of elements where others perform well. But, you must decide who you want to be and what kind of business you want to operate.” Walker’ plans to expand Walker Search Group in the staffing arena focusing on advising companies on improving diversity within their organizations. This will strategically position the company as a prime human resource provider and problem solver in southeastern Michigan’s ever changing business industry sectors.
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E-readers and iPads Galore: More Reading, Less Fuss
Barnes and Noble Nook Color
Price: $249 The newest in the color series features a 7-inch color touch screen display with 8GB memory (about 6,000 books) and can expand to 32GB. It’s latest technology allows you to lend and borrow e-books. Nook boasts a placeholder and allows you to check your e-mail while reading. Nook readers have access to an extensive library of more than two million books. Nook extras include popular games such as Sudoku and Chess and Pandora internet radio. Free Wi-Fi at hotspots is standard for all models. The basic 6” model can be purchased for $149 with Wi-Fi or $199 to include 3G technology.
Apple iPad 2 As the world gets increasingly green, it’s time to embrace devices that allow you to read without destroying the environment. We take a brief look at the top three E-reader brands. Most models come equipped with Wi-Fi internet access. Higher priced readers feature free lifetime 3G wireless technology for instant online connections virtually anywhere.
Amazon Kindle DX
Price: $379 This unit has a 9.7 inch screen, making it ideal for reading newspapers, magazines and blogs. The “E Ink” screen simulates reading paper minus LCD screen glare. Designed for the tech savvy reader, users can post passages to Twitter and Facebook directly from the unit. The read aloud feature, combined with ability to read your Kindle books on your home computer and PDA device make this a top choice for business users. Lower priced versions have a 6” screen and a battery life lasting up to one month. The lowest price point is $139, which does not include free 3G wireless.
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Price: Starting at $499 The iPad is not just a reader. It’s a HD video camera, video editor and more. Equipped with two cameras, this is the big time. The 9.7” touch display screen is optimized for viewing movies, gaming and using any of the 65,000 other apps created just for it. It comes with an app for you to locate your unit in case you can’t find it, and if it’s lost, you can lock it or totally wipe it remotely, preventing access to your information. The AirPrint technology allows you to print directly from the iPad over Wi-Fi with no wires to connect or software to download. HOBNOBDrive 57
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Robbie Archer Balancing Justice with Family Although the Honorable Judge Roberta “Robbie” Archer serves in Detroit’s 36th District Court, a career in a robe was not her first choice as a profession. It was not until her sophomore year of college that she decided to enter the field of law. During a summer break; her father suggested that she spend time with a family friend who was a Judge. Prior to that time, she had her sights set on following in her dad’s footsteps in the field of medicine. Roberta agreed, and spent the entire summer in court. She was an unpaid intern, and didn’t even earn college credit. None of that mattered as she became a witness day after day of the inner workings of the law. Witnessing decisions handed down on the bench sparked a passion to serve as a mouthpiece in the courtroom. Mesmerized by the attorneys and their legalese, she was intrigued by the inner workings of the legal system and knew that she wanted not only to practice law, but also, to be a Judge.
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Upon her return to school with a renewed focus, she was determined to be in the courtroom as a mouthpiece and started by taking the LSAT. After obtaining her law degree, Archer was appointed to the prosecutor’s office, where she thrived on the daily courtroom trials. Speaking before a captive court audience by day, she went home every evening to prepare for the next day’s caseload. After serving for five years, she applied to be appointed to the State Bar. Upon becoming pregnant, Archer was conflicted between the desire to stay home with her firstborn and her love of the courtroom. Recognizing that her work as a prosecutor would lead to long nights at home preparing for daily trials while juggling the care of a newborn, she was at a crossroads. Near the end of her extended maternity leave, she was called to be appointed to the bar. Admitting to having great respect for those women who can juggle their work as a trial attorney and motherhood, Judge Archer stated that her appointment was perfect timing. She welcomed the transition, which would allow her to leave work at the office at the end of each day. She advises candidates to approach those professionals in their area of interest and to reach out to them for guidance in the form of mentoring. Once getting exposed to those who are experts in the field they desire, Archer further suggests they get practical experience to equip them for the long haul. Judge Archer is very active in her community and extends herself to mentoring those who desire to have a career in the field of law.
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Scalable and accessible, social media is the new “mother’s little helper.” Available on most computers, tablets and smartphones, popular social media tools provide around-the-clock information, lines of communication, and an exchange mechanism for data. Imagine being stuck in traffic gridlock while (a) communicating with your child’s math teacher about tomorrow’s field trip, (b) receiving a tweet via Twitter from your boss that your project now has an accelerated completion date, and (c) checking your favorite working womanthemed blog for a quick and easy chicken recipe. Indispensable? Well, yeah! Let’s take a look at three commonly used social media vehicles.
Blogs
A blog is a type of website that is usually maintained with regular entries by an individual. The entries provide valuable information to the reader and support the blog’s theme. The blogosphere offers two avenues for moms to utilize social media: information distributor and clearinghouse. Understanding the value of their experiences and knowledge, many moms have turned their gift of written expression into big profits by starting a blog. This method of social media can be lucrative. Companies respect blogging moms’ influence and recognize that their opinions and endorse-
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3 Tips to Enhance Motherhood With Social Media ments matter and affect their readers’ purchasing decisions. A blogging mom’s role can be that of publicist, evangelist, marketer or video spokesperson. But, there is another group of moms who blog simply to share information and serve as a clearinghouse. These are the most popular blogging moms. This social media tool is primarily used to build networks, offer support and educate other parents about their experience with their children, illnesses, adoption, autism, budgeting, fitness, tragedy and how to find balance, etc. Popular social media mom sites include Blogher, MochaManual, CaféMom, Detroit Mommies, and FunkiDivaGirl.
Short and sweet — that’s Twitter. With a limit of 140 characters, Twitter’s main limitation is also its most powerful. A message sent on Twitter is a “tweet.” For instance, “Hon, bringing reg. mgr home 4 dinner. Sorry bout short notice” is an example of a tweet. One of its most important assets is its ease of use. With Twitter, no one has to surrender a social life:
one can follow friends, family, favorite celebrities and household brands. A tweet can bring in cost savings for a household budget. Moms who “follow” a company’s tweets whose products they use on a regular basis have access to sales and special offers often not shared with the general public. Like most social media, it’s the personal experience that is of value with Twitter.
Moms on Facebook use it primarily to keep in touch with friends and family. What better way to share family photos or treasured moments than to post to Facebook? Not surprisingly, companies have learned how to capture a broader audience base using Facebook. After all, this social media tool is primarily one giant database owned by Facebook. The “Like” button, categories about the user and their tastes, groups, events, joined “Fan Pages,” etc., all provide marketable information about the user. Bloggers also link their blogs to Facebook, making the information they share transparent and multidimensional. Facebook’s cache of privacy control options is also appealing.
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The Emancipation of the Techno-Divas While attending a women’s business conference in Detroit, I met a woman who’d authored a book on branding yourself. I asked her to explain the difference between promoting and branding. Her response: “Promoting is what you’re saying about yourself. Branding is what other people are saying about you.” Simple as that. More recently it occurred to me that I basically have the tools at my disposal to brand myself and make my entrée on the digital platform. I arrived at that decision not simply for the sake of visibility and exposure, but as a means to an end, or the proverbial pot of gold. In my pursuit of self-promotion, I researched everything from texting to tweeting, while scouring social net-
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working applications and the world of blogs. Even when interviewing women executives or females at the top of their respective games in any field, they admit that there are just some software apps and techno gadgets they just can’t live without. Technology, everybody really is doing it...that is, everybody succeeding in the world as we know it. In order to communicate your message and keep your finger on the pulse of what’s happening on many fronts at once you may need to bone up on the most efficient tools of the trade and your technology technique. So get your priorities in order and make sure to integrate these items as a part of your personal and professional repertoire.
Phones:
As women we are natural born communicators and nobody does it better than us. So topping the list of must-haves for women – the cell phone, but not just any phone, a smart phone. The BlackBerry® Bold™ smartphone integrates up to 10 email accounts into one easy-to-access place, along with your calendar, contacts and other important data - so you can conduct business almost anywhere. And with BlackBerry® 6 on the BlackBerry Bold 9780, there’s a new application switcher that makes jumping between apps even faster. P.S. Get a BlueTooth for handsfree talking. They also come in colors and you can even go dressy with rhinestone and designer accents. HOBNOBDrive 63
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jessica Care moore When Black Women Rock! When playwright-poet William Congreve wrote, “Music has charms to soothe a savage beast,” he was not referring to the screams and electric vibrations bellowed by jessica Care moore and her rock ‘n’ roll cohorts -- Black Women Rock (BWR). No, these ladies are unapologetically bold, brilliant and beautiful. They have no qualms about expressing their sexuality, sensitivity, or ethnicity while wearing feathers in their hair, rocking stiletto boots and body suits. During the National Black Arts Festival in 2005, Moore created and produced a concert series she called Black Women Rock as a way to pay tribute to funk icon Betty Davis. Now, Black Women Rock is a weekend event that showcases and pays
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homage to women of color working as musicians, educators, composers and producers within the areas of rock ‘n’ roll and funk. “I wanted to show young girls that you could play instruments, and you could be a musician and be an artist and you don’t necessarily have to go the traditional route of just a typical record deal,” explains Moore, a Detroit native. Moore carefully pieced together a Black Women Rock orchestra that would win the approval of Betty Davis herself. The ensemble is comprised of music elders and seasoned veterans to include Norma Jean Bell, Emily Rogers, Lafrae Sci, Aisha Ellis, Cecelia Sharpe, Leslie Dishazar Adams, Ashley Nelson and legendary guitarist, Kat Dyson, former guitarist for Prince, Cyndi Lauper, George Clinton, Chaka Khan, and T.I., with guest vocalists Blue Raspberry, Alicia Renee and Lulu Dahl. Moore and her sisters in rock continue to challenge the status quo of what it means to be a rock ‘n’ roll artist. We’re all the better for it and that can never be considered a bad thing. For more details about jessica Care moore or Black Women Rock, please visit www.jessicacaremoore.net.
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Sabrina Nelson Associate Director of Admissions Center for Creative Studies, Wayne State University Sabrina Nelson greeted us warmly donned in eclectically chic attire. As I followed her to through the maze of offices at the Center for Creative Studies, I was struck by the zen like quietness of the place. But the creative energy flowing through these halls was evident when I reached Nelson’s office. “First and foremost, I’m a professional artist. That is my career” she asserted.“This is my job, to be a great gatekeeper for the Center for Creative Studies and coach students on how to get in” she adds gesturing to the mounds of student applications and portfolios decorating her desk. Art colleges are notoriously difficult to win admission to and Nelson counsels potential candidates that it’s a much more serious and somber undertaking than making pretty pictures. “Art college may not be for
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everybody who’s interested … it’s a lot of hard work and it requires great will and tenacity and passion for what you do … This is not the kind of place we flutter about,” she says with emphasis. Nelson is well aware of the plight of the struggling artist, having once been denied admission to the CCS herself. That may explain her intense commitment to assist and advise young and emerging artists regarding academic and training opportunities. “I had a bad experience in the admissions process, but I knew I belonged here. Being rejected set a fire under me … when I came back and reapplied I got a scholarship and a huge amount of encouragement and I have my degree from CCS. But since I had the first hand … I felt it was my duty to come back and help people like me get in,” explains the accomplished artist. As a practicing artist in the cultural epicenter of WSU and metropolitan Detroit, Nelson doesn’t lack for sources of inspiration for her own art and vocation. But she freely admits to some sense of propriety about what happens in Detroit and the community in general. “It upsets me when I hear people talk about coming in and saving Detroit. Those who are here who have the power to do even the smallest amount to make a difference should. That’s what motivates me.” Nelson’s face lit up and she became even more animated than she had already been when paraphrasing from a speech Nelson Mandela delivered in Detroit shortly after his release from the Robin Island prison. “He said that he felt that African Americans may be afraid of their own genius … and not everybody knows that they have the courage to be genius. But, you don’t have to be a Rosa Parks to shine your beacon of light … I just don’t know how not to be what I am.”
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he energy was unusually high on the set of our cover shoot for Hobnob Drive. As invested parties bustled about making last-minute preparations, an itemized checklist was mentally scanned to make sure that everything was in place.
Is the photographer ready? Has the catering arrived? Is there anything that we’re forgetting? From a professional standpoint, those were the questions that had to be asked to ensure that this job was done to perfection. But from a personal standpoint, there was also a vested interest in ensuring that this shoot was executed without a hitch. Our cover subject, Alani “La La” Vazquez, has been a longtime friend of the publication. And with her marriage to NBA star Carmelo Anthony and new VH1 show set to air this summer chronicling their move to New York, the time had come for good friends to reunite. In our estimation, it was time to let readers hear directly from Vazquez — a move that seems archaic in the cyber-age of unnamed sources. This was our time with La La … and we enjoyed every minute of it. So La La, how does it feel to be a wife? It’s definitely a great feeling. Me and Mel [NBA star Carmelo Anthony] have been together for a long time. It was important for us to do this in front of family, friends and our son. Do you feel more responsibility now that you are a wife? Now that I am his wife, I definitely feel a little more responsibility. Now, I have to make sure things are taken care of … but I’ve been doing that throughout our entire relationship anyway. I just think that people look at you differently when you are finally a wife — especially in my situation because I had been engaged for so long, and you heard so many people saying so many different things about it.
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Did you feel pressured to get married because of the talk? No, not at all. If we [had] felt pressured, we would have done it a long time ago. We’ve been together for seven years, and it took us that long to get married. We never got caught up in that because we knew that we had a strong, solid relationship. Marriage wasn’t something we talked about a lot; we had our son and we were raising him. Finally, we both decided that now was the time and we just did it. How do you balance being friends and being a wife? Well, I think it’s a very healthy thing for us to have other friends. It’s also important for us to have independence, and give each other HOBNOBDrive 69
space. Mel and I are not together all the time; we like to give each other space. I think that’s what keeps us going … he’s on the road working, and I’m working. It also gives me plenty of time to be with my son and hang out with my friends. You just wanna stay busy so your dude doesn’t get tired of you. What do you think about open relationships? I wouldn’t want my man sleeping around with other people. Even if he told me, I would not be OK with that. I do know people who do it, and it works for them. I think you have to have a lot of confidence, and be very secure in your relationship to allow each other to stray and do different things. That just wouldn’t work for me though. What about divorce? If two people aren’t happy, then they shouldn’t be together. I think that in life you see so many people staying in relationships and they are miserable. I know so many people — friends and family … [that] either don’t want a divorce or to be by themselves. I think that if you and the person have tried to make it work and it’s not healthy for you or them, get out of it. If you’re not happy, you simply should not be with that person. So you wouldn’t stay in a loveless marriage for the sake of your child? No I would not, because I feel like if I’m not happy in my household, then my son is not going to be happy either. My energy and vibe is going to reflect on him, and I don’t want that. But even outside of that, I certainly wouldn’t want to stay in any situation if I wasn’t happy.
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Express Yourself There’s something liberating about expressing yourself. It’s an admirable trait found in every one of our featured Hobnob women. In an effort to spread the wealth of knowledge, we sought out some of those same influencers to glean nuggets of wisdom that may prove helpful on your own journey of self-expression.
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4 Steps To An Empowering Summer It would be easy enough to write an article detailing ways to spend your summer months immersed in “typical girl fun.” You know the rundown: spa days, vacays with the girls, poolside tanning with a good book. But 2011 is all about shaking up the status quo, and that can start with the way you approach your summer. Here are four ways to live in the moment and enjoy a thoroughly gratifying and empowering summer.
Change your hair.
What better way to feel liberated than to make a drastic change with your hair. Tired of that same old look? Well, attempt a bold new cut, or if you’re really feeling adventurous, explore a new color all together. This summer is all about taking chances, and this may be the best first step.
Climb a mountain, jump out of a plane, etc.
Remember those fears you had about heights? It’s time to tackle those and a host of others by immersing yourself in adventure activities. Picture the exhilaration of the open air pressed against your face as you desert an airplane 3500 feet in the air with nothing separating you and the ground but your trusty parachute. Sounds exciting, right? We thought so too. The benefits of engaging in adventure activities are innumerable, as you not only overcome fears, but you also have a boatload of fun in the process.
Write a memoir.
That journal you’ve been keep-
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ing by the bed should be channeled into something greater. Spend your summer organizing those scattered thoughts into a thoughtful look at your life. Even if it becomes a read for your eyes only, this may be one of your life’s most gratifying achievements.
Help the community … by building a house.
This summer, traditional community service avenues no longer apply. It’s time to get down and dirty by flexing those muscles with Habitat for Humanity, or another service organization that requires manual labor. By giving back in a way that’s atypical for a woman of your stature, what you’re essentially telling the world is that it’s impossible to place you in a box.
The Outlook:
Are there other, less drastic ways to experience an empowering summer? Of course there are. But taking the easy way out isn’t our modus operandi for the warm summer months of 2011. It shouldn’t be for you either.
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Angela Bassett Love Is All She Needs Angela Bassett is a bona fide star. And there aren’t many who would even attempt to debate that point. But after a quick conversation with the successful veteran actress, it became abundantly clear that she relishes her life off the screen even more than her career. As a dedicated wife and mother, Bassett glowed with an unmistakable sense of satisfaction while reflecting on the special bond shared between she, her husband (actor Courtney Vance) and their twins, Bronwyn and Slater. In fact, Hollywood could take a permanent back seat as far as she is concerned — which is refreshing, considering the number of stars who seem disinterested in maintaining a healthy household. But that’s where Bassett separates herself from the pack; and it’s the primary reason that we love her so much. You and your husband have a great relationship. How did you know that he was the one for you? I just had a sense of peace. There were no questions in my mind or heart. I just looked at him and knew that he was a kind person whose core burned pure. Now he makes mistakes and so do I, but I always try to do the right thing and I feel like I’ve found someone who tries to as well. And it doesn’t hurt that he’s really cute too. What else attracts you to your husband? Well, I think his heart is in the right place when it comes to me. And I honestly believe that he sees me and is interested in me, and not just what I do. Because I’m not always acting. Sometimes I have to let my guard down and be vulnerable. He sees that and still accepts me. I just shot a pilot for a show called “Identity” and the premise is that inside of each of us, there is more than one of us. So you might look at me and see this face and it looks like I’m happy, but moments before I ar76 HOBNOBDrive
rived here, I could have been at home crying my eyes out. All of that is to say that I have different moments where I could be experiencing indecision, doubt or whatever, but through it all he still accepts and loves me. Describe your relationship with your children. I feel like a lioness. I was up with them this morning, and they asked me to sit in between them. So I sat in the middle and they buried their heads into me, and we just had such a special moment. I’m the one they do that with … now, they could do it with their dad, but he’s HOBNOBDrive 77
more of the disciplinarian. So I just enjoy those moments. I really try my best to encourage them to love each other and be there for each other. And I just pray that they take the lessons that we try to instill in them, and just try to be better people. I always tell them to leave places better than how they found them. That’s what I try to do in my own life, and that’s the one thing that I hope they always strive to do … I want them to leave this world better than they found it. Tell us more about your and your husband’s parenting style. I am the nurturer, and my husband is definitely the disciplinarian. But it works. The kids know, though, that we both love them very dearly, and think the world of them. That’s the most important thing. We’re working to teach them and make them better people, but that means nothing if they don’t know that their parents love them. I would never tell someone how to raise their children; but what I will encourage them to do is make sure that their kids understand that they love them … that is so important.
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Balancing Nutrition, Fitness and Fun Leading a balanced and active lifestyle is the key to staying healthy. That doesn’t mean denying yourself treats from time to time, but it’s also important to incorporate fitness activities along with a balanced menu of various foods that will keep you fueled. Did you know you can have that balanced lifestyle and still eat at McDonald’s? Below are some key facts that might make you feel good about your next visit to the Golden Arches.
Did you know? • McDonald’s has worked with Produce for Better Health (PBH) Foundation since 2004 to educate consumers on the benefits of eating fruits and vegetables. In 2008, McDonald’s became a sponsor of PBH’s Campaign for Children’s Health, a program that encourages the nation’s children to eat more fruits and vegetables for better health. • McDonald’s and the National Association for Sport and Physical Education (NASPE) have worked together to create Passport to Play, an in-school program that encourages children to be more active. www. passport2play.com
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• In 2004, McDonald’s introduced Happy Meal Choices, which offer parents the opportunity to combine an entrée with a choice of beverage: lowfat white milk, chocolate milk or apple juice. • In 1973, McDonald’s became the first quick-service restaurant to provide nutrition information to customers helping them to manage their diets. The Bag-A-McMeal tool on mcdonalds.com allows visitors to get nutrition facts and customize options to meet specific nutritional needs. Knowing the nutritional facts on the food you like to eat will help you to make the best decision for leading a balanced lifestyle filled with great choices.
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Celebrity Trainer Jeanette Jenkins Gives Helpful Fitness Tips 3 Tips to Help You Follow Through on Fitness Goals 1. Accept change. If you want a new outcome, you must accept that it’s time to do things in a new way. Success is a state of mind. Once you accept it and are really [ready] to do what it takes to achieve your goals, then nothing can stop you. When there is a will, there always is a way. 2. Schedule your workouts into your weekly agenda like any of your important meetings. This is the meeting with your health: mind, body and spirit. 3.Follow a healthy meal
plan with my 80/20 rule: Eighty percent of the time, or Monday through Friday, eat healthy, organic whole food and unprocessed meals. Twenty percent of the time [weekend], have a few treats and indulge in a couple of things you have been craving.
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A-list stars Serena Williams, Queen Latifah, Kimora Lee Simmons, NFL player Ty Law, Paula Patton and Mara Brock Akil are all singing the praises of celebrity fitness trainer Jeanette Jenkins. If you can’t join one of her popular group classes at L.A.’s top fitness clubs, you know the ones that are always overflowing with celebrity regulars and fitness fiends, then don’t fret. Jenkins’ two new fat blasting workout DVDs, titled Blast the Belly Fat and Power Yoga, will help you meet your fitness goals.
What is your training philosophy?
Healthy living is the sum of all of its parts. You must address all the components of fitness as well as nutrition, the mind, the spirit and the environment to successfully achieve a healthy dance in life.
How often do you work out?
I work out 4 to 6 times a week but I also live an active lifestyle. I walk to the store, I walk my dogs, I go snowboarding and surfing with my friends, I keep it moving.
How do you keep your clients motivated?
It’s easy for me to keep my clients motivated because I love what I do so I am constantly studying and reading and learning and sharing that information with my clients. I also make sure I tailor programs for their specific needs and personality so they have a great time while getting healthy.
The new releases mark Jenkins’ 13th and 14th titles in the Hollywood Trainer collection. The entire Hollywood Trainer series is available online at www.thehollywoodtrainer.com
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Enjoy Life Life is what you make it. And here at Hobnob Drive, we’re dedicated to helping you enjoy the best possible life. From precious family time to tips on how to conquer your office space, here’s to a better life.
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The Savvy 16: 16 Women Behind Detroit’s Revival Share Keys to Success
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16 Women Behind Detroit’s Revival Share Keys to Success Women of substance and service are the driving force behind Detroit’s miraculous Phoenix-like rise. Here’s a closer look at these influential women and their 16 keys to success. 1. Balance Honorable Judge Roberta “Robbie”Archer, Detroit’s 36th District Court Judge Archer obtained her law degree, served five years in the prosecutor’s office, and was later appointed to the State Bar. Balance is key in Judge Archer’s life, as a mother and a career woman, and she is very active in her community, and mentoring those who desire to enter law.
2. Network McDonald’s franchise owner Monique Vann Brown Brown attained a bachelor’s degree in engineering, and an MBA from the prestigious Purdue University. Networking, research and education are key ingredients for running a successful business, Brown advises. “I suggest women find mentors and network in the fields that interest them in order to understand what takes place in that environment.”
4. Fearlessness Toya Hankins, founder of Project Producers, artist management, marketing, touring and special events company Hankins’ company represents Motown recording sensation Kem among others. The music industry is as unpredictable as it is challenging and that fear factor drives Hankins and her team to succeed. “My team depends on us doing work so they can eat,” she says. “So there is fear every day but it gets the blood boiling and is a motivator and driver.”
3. Education Tiffany Douglass, Senior Vice President, Market Manager, Bank of America
5. Service Yvonne Knox, McDonald’s Franchise Owner
Tiffany Douglass’ role in Detroit’s revival is to fund the causes, programs and projects that are making a difference in the community.
Knox is responsible for the growth and oversight of her McDonald’s franchises, and she takes special pride in the personal development of her employees.
The road to financial sustainability begins with education and a future plan, Douglass says. “A lot of people get intimidated by the [present] moment and then they don’t really invest in themselves fully and take advantage of the educational opportunities in front of them. ….Access to education is the greatest thing we can have.”
“If there is anything that I could ever do to help any of them, my door is always open. McDonald’s has helped me a great deal, and I just want to return the favor.” 6. Tenacity Gail Perry-Mason, First Vice President of Investments of Oppenheimer & Co. Inc.
Gail Perry-Mason faced adversity in her career, but she always made a path. While a secretary at a brokerage firm, PerryMason was told that she couldn’t become a broker. “But someone left their book out on a table and I Xeroxed it. I studied every morning before taking my son to daycare, and I ended up passing the [brokers’] test,” she states. And the rest is history.
8. Creativity Jessica Care Moore, Founder, Black Women Rock Today Black Women Rock, founded in 2005, lives as a weekend event that showcases and pays homage to women of color working as musicians, educators, composers and producers within the areas of rock ‘n’ roll and funk. Detroit native Moore wanted to show that “you don’t necessarily have to go the traditional route of just a typical record deal.” 9. Persistence Savarior Moss-Service, owner-operator of a McDonald’s Franchise The overnight success may not happen overnight, so you have to keep at it, advises Savarior Moss-Service.
7. Mentorship Dara T. Munson, CEO of Big Brothers Big Sisters in Detroit Munson cares for two of her own mentees, and ensures that the program recruits mentors for its roster of an estimated 1,200 children per year. Munson holds a bachelor’s degree in criminal justice from Eastern Michigan University and a master’s in public administration from Central Michigan University. She inspires others to find their purpose in life through service and mentorship. “The most important thing about influence is to support somebody who needs it and to make sure you open doors for people coming behind you,” she says.
“There will be times when your goals are not that easy to achieve. But if you stay patient, and continue to work hard towards accomplishing what you set out to do, then you will reap the benefit of your patience and persistence.” 10. Authenticity Sabrina Nelson, Associate Director of Admissions Center for Creative Studies, Wayne State University Art must be authentic, and Nelson, an accomplished artist herself, instills that ideal in others. “Art college may not be for everybody who’s interested ... it’s a lot of hard work and it requires great will and tenacity and passion for what you do.”
11. Business Etiquette Jacqueline M. Northrop, professional event planner, Opal E Event Planning, and Scarlet Communications There are unwritten rules of business that can help or hurt a career, says Jacqueline M. Northrop. Northrop studied public relations and holds a master’s degree in Instructional Technology. “A lot of people in the workforce are unaware of how to conduct themselves in a business setting. If you have to take a client to a bar, ...there are certain rules to the game, ways that you should and should not conduct yourself. That is what we focus on.”
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12. Confidence Marissa Thrower, Assistant Manager, McDonald’s Thrower, a Marquette University graduate, provides excellent customer service and develops the skill sets of employees and managers. (Thrower’s parents own several McDonald’s franchises.) “A lot of successful women I have observed have coached me in some measure in my life. They all had the same qualities and confidence and always told me that whatever I do in life, I can be successful.”
16. Vision Tifiany Walker, Founder, Walker Search Group Walker had the vision to establish a staffing and recruitment firm that specializes in legal, healthcare and IT personnel after working with the Xerox Corporation. “You must have a clear understanding of the services you’re offering and how they benefit your market,” Walker states. “It has to be a clearly defined business value proposition.”
13. Moral Character Marla Thrower McDonald’s Owner/Operator Organizational skills are essential for McDonald’s owner/ operator Marla Thrower, whose responsibilities are largely administrative--and an upstanding character is expected. “I believe you start with your character. Increase your character and your investment will come,” Thrower advises. “Build relationships, believe in GOD and your family.” 15. Loyalty Deb Virgiles, owner of two McDonald’s stores The McDonald’s brand has run through Deb Virgiles’ veins for 39 years. She uses that collective experience to positively influence her surrounding community. “My mentor taught me that you have to be able to transfer the knowledge. Whatever you learn, you have to be able to teach someone else.”
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14. Visibility Lauren Turner, Detroit’s Gossip Girl You must be seen making moves; just ask Lauren Turner, the official gossip girl for Detroit’s CW network. Turner’s gig requires countless nights on the social scene, and that allows Turner to flex her people skills and for her influence to be witnessed by the masses. “There are so many interesting things to learn about others, and I try to learn all that I can while sharing with the masses the cool things about this city.”
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A Closer Look at LisaRaye When actress LisaRaye McCoy’s hit reality show first debuted on TV One, there was a steady stream of criticism and head scratching among the general public and in media circles alike. It was difficult to fathom why McCoy was making such a curious move. Why would someone fresh off a nasty divorce from the chief minister of Turks & Caicos suddenly want to turn the cameras on and have everyone in her business? But that move signified a new lease on life for McCoy that she hoped would inspire other women. “I know that there were a lot of people that didn’t understand why I decided to let the cameras into my world,” she shares. “But it was something that I needed to do. I needed to get my story out there, and do it on my terms. Doing that helped me a lot, and it helped other women out there as well. “ The help McCoy is referring to came in the form of her showing other women how to bounce back from their lowest point. For her to rebound from the painful ending of her storybook wedding, and use that journey to encourage others, was impressive — and unexpected. “I honestly didn’t expect that many people to be interested in my life,” she confesses. “After the show first aired, so many women would come up to me and tell me thank you, and tell me to keep my head up. That encouraged me so much. To see that I was helping other people, it ended up helping me. I am a better woman because of this.” Time has passed since McCoy was robbed of her titles of wife and first lady. But what initially appeared to be a loss for McCoy has proven to be an indubitable gain. She is now a role model, a friend to women, and a trendsetter. But more than that, she’s happy again, and that makes the trade-off worth it.
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“To see that I was helping other people, it ended up helping me. I am a better woman because of this.�
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Lauren Turner More Than Meets The Eye There has always been something burning inside of Lauren Turner—something poking, prodding and pushing her to greatness. No matter how she tried to ignore it, there was always something bubbling under the surface that hungered for the spotlight. Now, as the official gossip girl for Detroit’s CW network, Turner is fulfilling a calling that has always burned deep within. For Turner, the chance to be on television in her hometown is a dream come true. It’s an opportunity that few get, and one that she wouldn’t dare think of taking for granted. “I can’t tell you how happy I am to be in this position,” she shares with a beaming smile. “To be a part of this community, in this way, is more than I could have ever hoped for.” The job, which requires countless nights on the social scene, allows Turner to utilize perhaps her greatest skill: that of connecting with people. “ I love meeting new people,” she explains. “That’s probably the greatest thing about being Detroit’s Gossip Girl. I find myself out and about almost every night, which gives me a great opportunity to meet new people. There are so many interesting things to learn about others, and I try to learn all that I can while sharing with the masses the cool things about this city.” As a native daughter of Detroit, Turner works hard to balance both her love for the city, and her unmistakable global appeal. “I will always love Detroit, and it will always have a special place in my heart,” she confesses. “So if I’m able to continue along this path and be an example to others while still living in Detroit then I’m for it. I sometimes think that people feel like they have to leave their city in order to accomplish great things. But I don’t necessarily feel that way. I just want to continue to grow and positively affect the community through my work. If that is able to happen here in Detroit, then I would be totally happy with that storybook ending. “
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Narrowing our list to the 10 best spots in Detroit was an enormous task. But with broad mix of ethnicities and neighborhoods we were determined to identify our favs in a few select categories. So we got the girls together and set out on a mission to hit some of the hottest venues in the city, which is actually code for “we had a great time.” BEST RESTAURANTS In the restaurant category, the girlfriends were unanimous about ROAST in the old Book Cadillac, now the Westin Hotel. The restaurant is the brainchild of Michael Symon, winner of season one of the Next Iron Chef. Taste the cuisine, you’ll agree with the judges. But for ambiance we couldn’t ignore the authenticity of LA DOLCE VITA with it’s superb menu that is only upstaged by the divine decor. We’d be remiss if we didn’t mention the enticing ambiance and exquisite dining at MOSAIC in Greektown. BEST NIGHTCLUBS The spectacular CLUB AMNESIA it the Motor City Casino with it’s floor to ceiling wall of glass offering dramatic views of the city, the Detroit river and Windsor. The club tops the list for the see and be
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seen crowd. We ran into one of Detroit’s favorite sons, John Salley, the night we stopped by. But not to be outdone V at the MGM Grand Casino, is ripe with dark mystery, perfect for discrete and clandestine rendezvous. BEST BLING TAPPERS Jewelry Store - The store’s selection of handpicked precious gems coupled with unparalleled customer service make the whole experience luxurious. The store is also customizing a line of pearl jewelry for one of our favorite Hobnobbers, Gail Perry-mason. BEST BOUTIQUE BIZ-R in Detroit’s New
Center One is still the reigning queen of women’s designer apparel. Owned by Jeff Axt, one of the region’s most fashionable designers, Biz-R offers fabulous clothing, amazing shoes, stunning hats and todie-for accessories in a variety of price ranges as varied as the store’s collection.
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every vixen. BEST B & B The Inn on Ferry Street at 84 Ferry Street was just chosen as an Expedia 2010 Insider’s Select hotel. Identified as consistently delivering superior services, the charming façade will compel you to stay. BEST SPA - and we wind back at one of Detroit’s most exciting and lavish venues for the final indulgence. IMMERSE spa at the MGM Grand Casino is the place to soothe away your cares and revitalize your spirit in this tranquil sanctuary. The mesmerizing water, the aroma — the whole aura — is a total sensory experience. THE BUCKET LIST Dine at Coach Insignia at the top of the Marriott for dinner with a view. After-dinner at The Whitney for a decadent desert in elegant surrounding. (Note to self: crème brulee.) Cliff Bell’s for classic cocktails and mood music.
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There is something truly admirable about the spirit of Detroit. It’s loyal, it’s diligent, and it most of all possesses the type of blue-collar energy that this country was built upon. If any other city had experienced the type of hardships that Detroit was faced with, they would have surely withered up and waved the white flag by now. But that’s not how things are done in Detroit. It’s also why this city holds some key characteristics that any and every city should aspire to. Let’s take a look at some of the obvious, and not so obvious. A Love For Home- You can take the man or woman out of Detroit, but you will never take Detroit out of them. It is perhaps one of the most admirable qualities of the city. The pride of native Detroiters is unmistakable, and it is the tie that binds them all—no matter what their physical location may be. An Impressive Talent Base- From Aretha Franklin to Eminem, the talent level of the city of Detroit can rival that of any of city. Musicians, artists, painters, critical thinkers—the city has birthed them all, and the world is a better place thanks to the daily contributions of Detroiters worldwide. Hidden Gems- If you took the time to explore, there are countless hid-
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den gems in the city of Detroit. From Belle Isle, to countless eateries and local landmarks, the city is filled to the brim with exciting to-do’s that are off the beaten path. A Promising Future- The future looks bright in the Motor City. With the auto, entertainment and green industries
on an upward trend, as well as a young crop of talented young men and women primed to make their mark on the world, Detroit is in good hands with the current and future generations. It’s well deserved for a city that is so admirable for the way it weathered the storm while holding its collective head high. HOBNOBDrive 99
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Create Your Own Family Traditions The new austerity has us moving faster and doing more, making for longer days. Carving out quality time for family can be a challenge. Rethink how this can be accomplished. It is highly possible that many day-to-day activities can simply be re-engineered into unique family traditions. Here are a few to get those creative juices flowing:
Family Game Night
Taboo, Scrabble, Pictionary, Spades, Nintendo Wii … take your pick!
Adopt a charity and volunteer together
Whether local or on the other side of the world, nonprofits need volunteer help now more than ever. A family that volunteers together will share memorable experiences for a lifetime. Check out www.volunteermatch. org to find a nonprofit.
Eat Dinner Together
Choose one night a week to share dinner. Everyone in the family should be expected to attend. Missed meals should have consequences. For instance, miss dinner night and you’ll wear a funny hat at the table during the next meal. Don’t forget to invite aging family members to participate in this family tradition as well.
Morning Prayer or Affirmations
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moment to confirm a positive outcome in each family member’s life.
Gratitude Journal
Each member should keep a daily gratitude journal. Read from a few of the year’s entries at the Thanksgiving table or at other notable events.
Commit to the Tie That Binds: Love
Simply say, “I love you” at least once a day to each family member.
Take a Sunday Afternoon Walk
Pick a route and walk it on Sunday afternoons. Note the changes in the landscape, foliage, neighborhood, etc.
Strengthen Father-Daughter Bond
The relationship a girl has with her father will affect the relationship she has with men as an adult. Quality time should include face-to-face discussion.
First Day of School Each Year
Grab the Flip video camera or the iPhone and videotape a 3 – 5 minute interview with each child. Ask a pointed question like, What will you accomplish this school year?
Pick a Season to Plant Flowers Together
Pansies and daffodil bulbs in the fall, daisies in the spring — visit the garden center and pick
a flower to nurture and share.
Birthday Meal
It’s a special day and that deserves a special meal. Each family member will have their favorite birthday meal prepared for them each year. One person coordinates, but everyone should participate, especially young children.
Mother’s Day Photos
The best photos are the informal ones. With cell phone and digital cameras, everyone can participate and take photos the entire day. Everyone can share online.
Father’s Day T-shirts
Visit the local craft store and purchase t-shirt paint, stencils, appliqués, etc. and make Pop an annual T-shirt. Each family member should participate, if only to sign the shirt.
Celebrate Kwanzaa
This post-Christmas holiday is a weeklong celebration honoring African American heritage and ingenuity. The possibilities are endless!
Play Secret Santa
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Marissa Thrower Continuing The Family Business Marissa Thrower attended Marquette University on a basketball scholarship. After completing her academic career, Thrower returned home to join the family business. Her parents own several McDonald’s franchises. Thrower explains why being an assistant manager is a perfect fit for her. uWhat are your primary daily responsibilities? My number one responsibility is to service the needs of customers making sure we are getting them in and out of line fast and providing good customer service. Also, we make sure that our managers are being developed so that they are promotable. Basic operations and scheduling are skill sets we value a lot.
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although we need to be fast, we need to be friendly. I tell the crew sometimes it’s OK to slow down. We do want to get customers out fast. But, also we want to listen and understand what they have to say. Don’t rush the customer, feel them out and be patient. uWhat is your leadership style? As a leader, I am confident but not overly aggressive. I try to communicate with people so they know what my standards are. If there is any breakdown in communication, I will sit down and try to understand where it occurred. uWhere do you draw your inspiration from? My parents inspired me and got me involved with the business at a young age. They taught me to be an entrepreneur. A lot of successful women I have observed have coached me in some measure in my life. They all had the same qualities and confidence and always told me that whatever I do in life, I can be successful.
uHow are you able to be efficient in such a fastpaced environment? McDonald’s wants you to represent the brand and
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Location
Look around — where is the unused space in your home? Often a guest bedroom is the obvious choice. But, if you have frequent overnight guests, this can quickly turn into a chore as you constantly move your office to other areas of the house.
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Creating the Perfect Office Space Chances are that in the last year or so you’ve received a small pay raise (if any) and the offer of some choice perks. With companies hoarding their cash in response to the Great Recession, perks in lieu of substantial pay raises are quite common. A popular idea with dual merits is the work at home option or telecommuting. Companies like the fact that they can associate themselves with the green movement by taking cars off the road. At four dollars a gallon for gas, employees see “hundreds” of merits with this perk, too. But, since home and office have long been separate entities, how should one merge the two — even on a temporary basis? Before you pull out the paint swatches and fabric samples, consider what your home office needs are. Think with practicality in mind: location, size, furniture, equipment and so on. These are the cornerstones of good planning that will drive the aesthetics of your home office space.
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Unused space in a finished garage is practical. But, if the garage is detached, dredging through snow and ice on foot makes this option less appealing. Another consideration is that garages must be climate controlled with good ventilation to prevent carbon monoxide inhalation. Women are masters at working with what they have. Don’t have much? Look at spare closet space, an under stair nook, the pantry or a retrofitted armoire. Most of this work can be done in a day. On the other hand, a complete overhaul of your space, i.e., moving walls, etc., will likely require the services of an electrician or carpenter (or both), which means a bigger investment of your time and hard-earned money. But it still might be a win if the renovation adds value to your home.
Equipment and Shelving
Think about your traditional office space. What’s there? Chances are you will need the
same in your home office. Will your company provide any equipment? If so, is it compatible with what you have at home? High-speed DSL and cable modems are de rigueur, but so is wireless technology for the home. Whenever possible, free your space from tethering (cords and cables). Telecommuting is a perk because one can work poolside or on the patio. Toiling next to your printer lessens the value of this perk. If others in your home compute for school or work, it may be time to invest in a home office package from a vendor like Dell. An added benefit of this is the ability to keep an eye on what your kids are doing on the Web. Costco and the Container Store sell great shelving systems. If the new austerity has you in its grips, Target sells basic shelving systems at a lower price point.
Furniture
Once again, it’s prudent to consider what you use in your traditional office space — and how you use it. Flat surface needs can vary. Creative types will possibly need a desk and a draftsman-type table. Staples and Office Depot sell designer office furniture complete with work station armoires. With many white-collar workers in transition, Craig’s List can be a goldmine for nearly new furniture. It will be worth the effort to look around your home for existing pieces that will work in your new home office, too. With a new decent lamp costing upward of $200, reallocating one to your office means money saved or put to use for another need. But, think twice about converting a family antique. Consider what’s more important — escalating value or practicality today? There’s a lot to consider but pre-planning can result in a successful outcome within budget and on schedule. You’ll be glad you took the effort. The next phase will go much smoother. Now, you can gather the paint swatches and fabric samples and head to McDonald’s for a cool McCafé Mocha Iced Latte. HOBNOBDrive 105
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12 Haute Summer Travel Tips: 1. Be flexible with travel and consider leaving midweek to get the best fares … remember the best days to fly for less are Tuesday, Wednesday and Saturday. 2. Check airline fares after midnight to capture discounted tickets because those deals will often go away before anybody knows about them.
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3. Before you go, compare rates for airfare, hotels, resorts and cruise lines on their sites to sites like Travelzoo, Travelocity, Cheap Caribbean.com or Hotwire so that you’ll know what the cheaper tickets look like ahead of time. 4. Ask the properties for discounts and compare competitor’s rates — become a bargain shopper.
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5. Travel to places where the dollar is strong.
If you’re dreaming of jetting off to a sandy beach or an exotic location for your summer vacation, don’t let the challenging economy keep you home.
6. When traveling to Europe in the summer, consider renting an apartment to save money.
Here are 12 money saving travel tips from the creator of the Haute Travels Blog that will get you out of the house and on the road to a memorable vacation with more cash in your wallet.
7. Travel with friends and share the costs or try house swaps — exchange homes with other travelers.
8. Cut out airfare and drive to a coastal or mountain area near your home. 9. When booking high-end properties like the Four Seasons, Park Hyatt or Ritz Carlton compare the value-added extras — spa and meal credits, airport transfers and arrival gifts. 10. Look for properties offering free nights with paid nights to stretch your travel dollar and your length of stay. 11. Carry your luggage on board the plane to avoid fees for checked baggage. 12. Head to haute spots like Las Vegas where rooms are going for as little as $20 a night! Remember it’s a buyer’s market and deals are plentiful whether you’re looking for a 10-day cruise or weekend getaway. Plan ahead, but not too far ahead because most deals worth taking advantage of occur within one month of departure. Just be patient, do your homework and you’ll save money and your sanity. To learn more, visit Haute Travels Blog hautetravels.blogspot.com/ HOBNOBDrive 107
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