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From The Publisher I was having an internal debate recently (in other words talking to myself ) trying to decide if the Internet has had more of a positive effect on society, or a negative effect. It all came about as a result of what I think is a disturbing trend on social media. Democrats calling Republicans “morons” and Republicans calling Democrats “idiots,” etc. Anti-trans-rights protesters posting horrible, hurtful remarks about the transgender community and so on. It seems as though society has lost the ability to respectfully disagree on a topic … any topic. We, as adults, teach kids not to bully and then take to our keyboards to be even bigger bullies. Apparently it has become acceptable (in some circles) to make fun of someone’s appearance, their level of education, their beliefs. Just look at Facebook or Twitter and I am sure you cannot scroll through too many posts without someone saying something inappropriate. My biggest fear is that this trend is still in its infancy. If so, what does the future hold?

I have certainly had my share of vitriol lobbed at me from time to time. Some viewed my decision to invite Governor Baker to speak at Boston Spirit’s LGBT Executive Networking Night as evidence that I am an evil, horrible person who turned my back on the LGBT community. In actuality, what I was trying … trying … to do was instigate a respectful conversation and bring together two very important groups who needed to communicate. If we stop trying to reach out to those across the aisle, with respect and an open mind, the trend I mentioned above will not only continue but it is sure to grow ever larger. It was an important decision and one I do not regret in the least. So, as we bask in the glow of recent Pride celebrations, advances in trans rights and more, let’s also try and set an example for future generations and treat each other with dignity and respect … even if we disagree from time to time.

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Guest Editorial What Passage of the Transgender Rights Bill Means to Me Stan Rosenberg Massachusetts Senate President After the terrible tragedy in Orlando, it is natural to want to say that standing up for LGBTQ rights is more important than ever. But the truth is that standing up for LGBTQ rights was just as important last week as it is now. As a foster child who grew up as a ward of the state, as a gay man, and as a Jew, I understand what it is like to be cast as an outsider, and for those still considered outsiders under the law, nothing has changed. What has changed is the amount of pride I feel in the Massachusetts State Senate for voting last November to guarantee equal protection under the law for transgender people. We did this not because it was the hot button issue of the day, and not because there was political pressure. The Massachusetts State Senate voted to expand legal rights for transgender people simply because it was the right thing to do. This is nothing new in Massachusetts. Our history

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As We Go To Press Charlie Baker supports transgender accommodation rights! Woo hoo! (It took him long enough!) Now that our civil rights are complete we can all go to the beach! Um, not quite. Actually, at press time, the Massachusetts accommodations bill is still not a done deal. But it appears all but certain to become law. And so, at this point, you might pardon those of us in Massachusetts for feeling like our civil rights battles are over. And, yes, compared to Uganda, we’re doing great! But we’d like to offer a few reminders of the work that still needs to be done. First, our story on MassEquality in this issue reminds us that even here, in the liberal Bay State, young adults can still legally be subject to so-called conversion therapies. And legislative progress still needs to be made on a number of other issues. An elder cultural competency-training bill is in the works. We also need policies ensuring comprehensive, medically accurate and age appropriate sex education in Bay State schools. Work is also required to help increase much-needed access to medical and dental care for homeless youth. And that’s just on the local legislative front. Then there’s the national stage. Even as we’ve made strides in equal marriage across the country, opponents continue to try to erode those rights with so-called religious freedom laws. Transgender rights are still not ubiquitous. And, of course, one of the presumptive presidential nominees for a major political party has made it clear that he wants to nominate a Supreme Court justice who is the “closest to Scalia I can find”—a man who was no friend of LGBT equality.

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Further, the world is full of spots where LGBT people are still at risk of arrest, state harassment, imprisonment and even execution. And as the world becomes more globally tied, those LGBTs working in international business become exposed to potentially life-threatening dangers. That’s the focus of one of our stories in this issue. Consider the customs and legal implications of, for instance, a gay man with a public Facebook feed, conducting a marketing planning session for a company in, say, an opening market like Iran, which has draconian anti-gay laws. Beyond the legal and political realms is the important work of continuing to live out loud and proud. One of the major learnings from the LGBT civil rights movement—and what made the movement toward full marriage equality seem to move so fast—was the demonstrated importance of being visible. We can’t afford to retreat from being active, vocal members of society. It’s summer, and so, of course, this issue covers fun beach-style fashion and entertainment. But our stories about MassEquality and the LGBT business traveler also keep our eyes open to the vigilance we need in order to continue living in an atmosphere of “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.” So, yes, go ahead and enjoy our warm weather resorts. No soldier can be effective on the battlefield without a break now and then. Soak up the sun. And, then, let’s all pledge to come back refreshed and ready to enjoy the fight for continued justice again in the fall.

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is full of examples of certain groups both defined and vilified by the majority, and persecuted for their differences. Before the Massachusetts Declaration of Rights was written and adopted, innocent people in Salem were prosecuted and hanged for being “witches.” Yet the Supreme Judicial Court of Massachusetts was the first court in the country to recognize marriage equality, and I am proud to have been a member of the legislature when we defended that right. Thirty seven states then followed our lead until the Supreme Court of the United States upheld marriage equality and made it the law of the land. Through the perseverance of good people who stood up time after time after time for what is right, Massachusetts is on the verge of becoming the next state in the country to recognize full equal rights under the law for transgender people. It is my hope that passage of the transgender rights bill will lead to a further expansion of equal rights for all persecuted and discriminated people in the Commonwealth. Our history has shown that guaranteeing equal rights only makes us stronger. By giving every transgender person in Massachusetts the legal right to be where they need to be, whether at work, their home, or anywhere they go, free from the fear that they can be discriminated against without recourse, we are freeing them, and empowering them to work to free others from discrimination and oppression. That is the core of what passage of the transgender rights bill means to me. Am I proud? More than I can say.

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Milestones: This year marks many important landmarks and anniversaries in Rhode Island gay history.

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Spotlight Hit List Community Cliffnotes The Wicked West Pet Project House Parties Aging Together From the Blogs

What’s Next for MassEquality? Looking beyond public accommodations protection for all, statewide advocacy organization steadily focuses on other hot-button issues

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Aging Together

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“Top Chef” winner Kristen Kish. Kish, host of The Travel Channel’s foodie-jetsetter show “36 Hours,” recently signed on as the official “Food and Travel Influencer” of the W Boston Hotel. The role will see Kish curate guest recommendations, released through the hotel’s website and in other formats, on where to eat, shop and play; she’s also contributed to the hotel’s banquet menu. Kish cut her teeth as a chef here in Boston, eventually steering star restaurateur Barbara Lynch’s fine dining destination in Fort Point, Menton. She’s currently splitting her time between Boston and Charleston, South Carolina, where she plans to open her first restaurant

get to know a well-liked local radio personality as she really is. In May, WBZ NewsRadio 1030 announced that Scott Eck, the station’s traffic reporter of 19 years, was in the process of gender transition. In an interview with WBZ reporter Laurie Kirby, Eck explained that she began identifying as female in 1995; 21 years later, her familiar radio voice has finally started signing off under a new name, Kristen Eck. Eck also discussed pursuing transgender counseling services and

hormone therapy at Fenway Health, and her desire to have sex reassignment surgery soon. Speaking to Kirby, Peter Casey, WBZ’s director of news and programming, voiced his support for Eck: “I think just as we welcomed Scott Eck to WBZ 19 years ago, we also welcome Kristen Eck with the same enthusiasm, support and encouragement as we would any new voice on the radio station.” More: boston.cbslocal. com

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GIVE A CHEER for David Baggs,

a Red Sox exec who publicly came out in a recent letter to OutSports. Baggs is senior manager for the Red Sox Sales Academy, and in his letter, published on the eve of Pride Night at Fenway Park, he cited gay former MLB player Billy Bean as his inspiration for coming out. Bean visited Sox’s front office in April to speak about inclusion in sports, and Baggs wrote a letter outing himself to upper management shortly after. “I didn’t pursue a career in sports for years because I didn’t think someone who was gay could work in sports. I’d push people away because I wasn’t comfortable in my own skin,” wrote Baggs in OutSports. He concludes, “I am so happy to finally, completely, be true to myself.” And the crowd roars!

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in Massachusetts, which after a long-fought battle looks to have finally passed a bill protecting transgender people from discrimination in public accommodations, including public bathrooms. Massachusetts became the first state in two years to pass such a bill, and it stands in stark contrast to others, like North Carolina’s now-infamous HB2,

that codify discrimination against transgender people. In May, a transgender nondiscrimination bill was passed by the Massachusetts Senate; a second version, passed by the House in June, included a provision for legal action against “any person who asserts gender identity for an improper purpose.” At press time, the two versions were being reconciled, after which they will be delivered to Governor Charlie Baker’s desk. After previously punting on whether he would support the measure, Baker has now stated he will sign it. More info: glad.org

TAKE NOTE that Boston Medical Center announced in May it would begin offering maleto-female sex reassignment surgery, making it just the third academic medical center in North American to offer the procedure, and the only hospital in Massachusetts. At the time of the announcement, over 100 people were already on the waiting list to be considered for surgeries, which could begin at BMC as early as this summer. Speaking to Reuters, Doctor Joshua Safer, who oversees the hospital’s Center for Transgender Medicine and Surgery, said that the hospital plans to perform only one or two surgeries per month in the initial stage. More: bmc.org [x]

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SPOTLIGHT Youth STORY Kim Stowell Spotlighting New England LGBT organizations and the work they do. Helping you to discover some new neighbors—and fresh facts—about our diverse community.

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Providence Youth Student Movement A NEW NARRATIVE The Providence youth student movement (PRYSM) turns 15 this year, and that’s important. Begun in 2001, it was the brainchild of two young Providence men, Kohei Ishihara and Sarath Suong, who saw Southeast Asian and Pacific Islander youth like them in need. Gangs and drugs were in their neighborhoods. Parents were overworked and often still traumatized by the specter of war and genocide, as well as the diaspora that flung them into the unfamiliar world of an American city. “We came here from prisons or refugee camps. We did not fit the Asian-American model,” says founder Suong. “We did not seem to fit in anywhere. And so we started organizing.” Now 35 years old, Suong has returned to Providence to take the reins of the group he helped start so many years ago. “Back then,” he says, “I understood that the Vietnam War was such a fundamental piece of the puzzle for me, but it was only mentioned at the very end of the year in history class.” PrYSM began to organize other youth to work on issues affecting their community, focusing their first campaign on the U.S./Cambodia Repatriation Agreement, specifically on the deportation of Cambodian American refugees, who were being sent back to the country from which they fled a genocide and civil war. At the same time, they were

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testifying to press for language equity in public schools. They also started doing harm reduction work, encouraging young people to learn a trade and save money. And a rigorous orientation program was created, for all those interested in being a part of the organization. Lessons in Southeast Asian history and the legacy of the Vietnam War, systems of oppression and active participation in campaign work were all part of the program. At some point, Ishihara and Suong, both gay men, became aware that there were queer youth showing up to their rallies and events, with unique needs that were going unmet. Facing bullying, harassment, and often homelessness, they were at great risk and needed a safe space. And so PrYSM organized a group called Southeast Asian Queers United for Empowerment and Leadership, or seaQuel. In the years since, the groups have worked tirelessly to fight deportation, racial profiling, the police gang database and other social justice issues. They have mounted numerous powerful campaigns including the high visibility Do I Fit The Description? They have joined with other groups around the country, creating the national Queer Southeast Asian (QSEA) Network, which published the findings of an exhaustive survey, representing a census of the queer SEA community, in 2012.

Today, Suong says, the group is focused on the passage of the Community Safety Act, a citywide ordinance that would protect people against police misconduct in Providence. They are also working to address the school-to-prison pipeline. They continually work to nurture new leaders, among refugees, women, the incarcerated and the LGBT community. They continue to provide their powerful orientation to Southeast Asian youth. They continue to host social events for their community, like Queer & Trans Thursdays, an annual summer barbecue and a family dinner in November (not called Thanksgiving any more because of the violence inherent in the tradition). Suong, who is single (“It’s hard to date me,” he smiles), is proud of the work performed today, as it always has been, almost entirely by students. “We continue to face systemic oppression that keeps our communities disenfranchised,” he says. “We must shift power into the hands of the people, through direct action, building coalitions and empowering our youth.” Asked how he continues to find the energy to keep fighting, he says simply, “Organizing saved my life. I believe we can build a different narrative for the intersection of race and class and gender.” [x] PrYSM

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SPOTLIGHT Vacation STORY Scott Kearnan

The Wicked West PLAN A SUMMER GETAWAY TO HAMPSHIRE COUNTY

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During the hot summer months, most of us head to the cooler coasts of Provincetown and Ogunquit. But bewitching western Massachusetts is a great place to find fourseason fun in an especially LGBT-friendly environment. Hampshire County is as well known for its progressivism as its scenic byways, hills and mountains. In fact, some statistics have shown that the county seat of Northampton has the highest lesbian-identified population in the country. (Rachel Maddow is a famous nearby resident.) There’s much to see and do, whether you’re heading for a long

weekend or just a jam-packed daytrip. Here’s a quick guide to some of the top attractions. Where to stay: If you want to be in the heart of it all, head to Hotel Northampton, a historic property set in the small, quaint city of about 30,000. It’s pure old-school New England class, from the fireplace flickering in the lobby to the onsite restaurants: cozy, Colonialstyle Wiggins Tavern and the more Gilded Age-inspired Coolidge Park Café, with its wide, airy windows offering views of town. The hotel has all the modern amenities, from hotel-wide Wi-Fi to private

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Blue Heron PHOTO Bob Gourmand balconies in select rooms, required to meet the needs of famous guests like Melissa Etheridge and David Bowie. But its antique-filled charm is quintessential Yankee. For something a bit quieter and more private, check out Greens Treat Suites, a charming little setup run by John Sielski and Jim Dozmati, a loving couple of 39 years. The husbands live on a quiet side street just outside of downtown, where they run

The bar at Blue Heron PHOTO Sandra Costello two self-contained, private guest suites: the Mountain View Suite, where two bedrooms, a living room and full kitchen enjoy lovely rural vistas, and the Bamboo Suite, a hideaway cloistered in a bamboo grove with a kitchenette and cedar wet room with rain water shower. (It’s a good place to get some romantic ideas.) The gents are congenial hosts, and at these adorable accommodations from which to explore, your only neighbors

will be the chickens. Sielski and Dozmati run a small CSA program from the picturesque garden on property. Where to play: Alas, Northampton isn’t insulated from the trend of shuttering gay clubs, and unfortunately the city’s only full-time LGBT club, Diva’s, is closing in the fall—so make one last pilgrimage before the disco ball stops turning. However, there are still plenty of options for meeting

up. For one, there are plenty of social clubs. Hit up a game with the queer-minded Pioneer Valley Roller Derby, the first roller derby league to offer an all- and no-gender team, or visit Monoho (monoho.com) for a list of gay men’s sports clubs—volleyball, softball, bowling and more—to catch a game or meet up at an after-scrimmage social. And get familiar with Rebel Rise Entertainment, a nightlife events biz founded by

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Hotel Northampton Ken Rooney. By day, Rooney is product development manager for South Deerfield-based Yankee Candle. By night, he throws fun LGBT-oriented parties like Bloke, a first Saturdays DJ dance party at Bishop’s Lounge. Keep track of DJs Le Fox and Mark Louque, who run the soulful house-oriented Sugar Biscuit parties on First Fridays, and check out a show from Bon Appetit Burlesque, a troupe highlighting dancers across the gender expression spectrum.

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Where to eat: If you only fly by one restaurant, make it Blue Heron in the small town of Sunderland. The lesbianowned fine-dining legend is housed inside the old town hall, a unique and elegant setting that actually hosted out “Glee” actress Jane Lynch’s wedding. It’s no surprise that she was smitten with the outstanding New American cuisine, made with ingredients sourced from over two-dozen small local farms. (Standouts include an absolutely decadent mason jar of house-made ricotta with local honey, and an expertly roasted duck with balsamic fig glaze.) You should also stop by The Sierra Grille in Northampton, an excellent little concept where guests build their entrée by choosing a protein, sauce, and various accouterments. (Trivia: the restaurant is owned by actress Susan Sarandon’s brother.) After Sierra, head right across the street to the stonelined Tunnel Bar, a striking

subterranean craft cocktail hangout inside what used to be a train tunnel. Other must-nosh spots include Northampton’s Jakes Restaurant, a fabulously crunchy little lunch-andbrunch joint, and Small Oven Bakery, an excellent little stopover for sweets and treats in neighboring Easthampton. What to do: Downtown Northampton abounds with adorable shops, from Faces, a campy department store filled with cheeky bric-a-brac, to Inspirit Crystals, a nifty New Age boutique hawking stones and talismans, and hosting tarot card readings too. Our favorite though, is probably gay-owned Hero, a men’s boutique filled with unique wares from artisans across the country, with a focus on rustic-chic stuff like beard kits, sleek sunglasses made of bright hardwoods, and candles and soaps scented like campfire and tobacco. Beer lovers can scope the various craft beers created on site at Northampton Brewery and New city Brewery, while wine aficionados can sip their way through visits to Southampton’s Black Birch Vineyard. And on the arts front, don’t miss a visit to Amherst’s Emily Dickinson Museum, the legendary poet’s birthplace and home, or time your visit to coincide with Arts Night Out, a second Fridays stroll through Northampton’s best galleries. Though however you spend your trip, we suspect it’ll be picture perfect. [x]

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Immerse yourself in the landscapes and seascapes that fueled the artist’s love affair with Appledore Island off the New Hampshire coast.

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The Peabody Essex Museum and the North Carolina Museum of Art, Raleigh, co-organized American Impressionist: Childe Hassam and the Isles of Shoals in cooperation with the Shoals Marine Laboratory. Carolyn and Peter S. Lynch and The Lynch Foundation provided generous support. The East India Marine Associates of the Peabody Essex Museum also provided support.

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Originally titled Metamorphoses: In Rodin’s Studio, the exhibition is organized by the Montreal Museum of Fine Arts, in collaboration with the Musée Rodin, Paris. The AMG Foundation sponsored the exhibition at the Peabody Essex Museum. Carolyn and Peter S. Lynch and The Lynch Foundation provided generous support. The East India Marine Associates of the Peabody Essex Museum also provided support.

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SPOTLIGHT Pets STORY Scott Kearnan

Pet Project Is your pooch stressed? Give this lesbianowned animal massage biz a call. Even pets need a spa day. So when you’re looking to spoil Fido, give Kara Lippe a call. Lippe, a longtime animal lover, is the owner of The Wag Pet Service, her one-woman enterprise focusing on “small animal massage.” Yes, massage. Though you probably associate rubdowns with sandalwoodscented Newbury Street spas that cater to pampered people, Lippe offers house calls to give dogs and cats soothing services that can reduce pet stress and anxiety, and even alleviate physical discomfort from lingering injuries. “A lot of people are really surprised to learn this exists,” says Lippe, who is a lesbian. “But it’s a really great, holistic way to calm an animal.” Lippe, a Connecticut native who now lives in Kingston, Massachusetts, has had a way with animals for as long as she can remember. And as an active volunteer with Last Hope K9 Rescue, a Boston-based nonprofit that saves abandoned and neglected dogs

from high-kill animal shelters, she’s taken in five rescues over the years; right now, she and her wife are parents to two dogs and three cats. Though her full-time job is as an executive assistant at a Boston business management-consulting firm, Lippe was looking for a way to work more with animals and earn a little extra cash. So in 2014 she graduated from Worcester’s Bancroft School of Small Animal Massage, armed with muscle-melting know-how that can lull a pet into total contentment. The Wag was born. “There are two typical clients,” says Lippe, when explaining who seeks out small animal massage services. “There are the people who never had children, and consider their dogs their children, and there are the people who just want to treat their pets like every member of their family.” And that means the occasional spoiling session, says Lippe, who typically books 30-minute sessions with a new dog, to feel out the canine’s comfort level; a full session could last an hour. (Cats, famously autonomous, usually prefer quicker, 20-minute services.) Although

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Wag 101 Lippe mainly visits homes, she also books sessions at Red Dog Pet Resort & Spa in Boston. For LGBT pet owners, who can tend to be particularly doting (yes, we’re trading in generalizations here), gifting a massage might be a way to eradicate guilt if they haven’t been as otherwise attentive to Fido as usual. But there are many other very good reasons to consider a pet massage. Lippe says that the service is particularly great for rescue animals, which may come from backgrounds of neglect and require some extra TLC to build trust and bonding in a new home. Though she’d never compare her services to those of a vet, Lippe says massage can complement other treatments for injuries. And she says that massages are also sought by owners who want to provide soothing comfort to beloved pets nearing their end of life. As for Lippe? She might be getting the most gratification of all. “Plus, my wife loves it,” laughs Lippe. “She says if I can get my fix this way, and it saves me from bringing home another pet, she’s all for it.” [x]

KARA LIPPE SHARED THREE QUICK POINTERS FOR PET OWNERS WHO WANT TO PROVIDE THEIR OWN MASSAGE. Read cues. And remember, dogs don’t express them like we do. “Yawning and licking is nearly always a sign of ‘I don’t like this,’” says Lippe. “Further, if your dog rests their head on your hands while you are touching them, it’s a huge sign to step back.” Set the scene. “Set the mood for your dog’s relaxation,” says Lippe. Turn off TVs and turn on soft music, then relocate Fido to his favorite spot.

Kara Lippe [CENTER], owner, The Wag Pet Service. “Massage is about deliberate touch and movement; it’s more then petting. Start with firm strokes from their shoulders down the back and to the tail to loosen them up.”

Take it slow. “The shoulders, chest, and neck are all good places to start for beginners,” says Lippe. “Start for about 5/10 minutes at a time, and see how receptive your pooch is.”

SPOTLIGHT Giving STORY Scott Kearnan

House Parties CHARITABLE CONCERT SERIES EMERGES AS CASUAL HOT SPOT FOR SOCIAL NETWORKING OFFLINE Salon 261 sounds like a spot where you’d score a hip new hairdo. But the stylists here are much more likely to wield a double-bass bow than a hairbrush. A jazz quartet, a Celtic music duo, a blues band: these are some of the multiinstrument acts that have taken part in Salon 261 since the launch of the small, semi-private live music series, the brainchild of Ken Barr and Michael Fenter. The culture-vulture Back Bay couple has been together for nearly 25 years, and recently rolled out a quarterly series of house concerts (261 refers to their home address) that serves several purposes: providing exposure to local artists, fostering community and raising funds for important

Guests gather in the home of Michael Fenter and Ken Barr for Salon 261, an intimate concert series benefiting local charities. nonprofits. It’s a novel idea, and the hubbies hope that it can be a model for others who want to find new ways to connect to their neighbors, and the arts, outside of

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Michael Fenter and Ken Barr co-founded the Boston order of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. Salon 261 was just one more way to give back. and launched the Boston order after moving here in 2009. Though giving back to the community is central to the Sisters’ mission, Barr and Fenter launched Salon 261 in their home as a totally separate endeavor. “It’s really just one more way to do something for the community,” says Barr. At each installment, the hubbies provide the hospitality and refreshments for about 80 guests, each of whom donates a minimum of $20 (often more) to a nonprofit selected by that salon’s participating performers.

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The house shows have hosted recent acts like Irish husband-wife duo The Lindsays and Broadway belter Terri White, and have benefited organizations that range from Camp Okizu, which supports families dealing with childhood cancer, to the Berkshire Hills Music Academy. But the evenings most benefit the attendees, giving community members an intimate opportunity to connect with local artists and meet new friends in an offline (imagine!) setting. “It can be hard to break through barriers and make friends in Boston,” says Fenter. “This is something that brings people together from all walks of live, and gives back to different charities that do great work.” “A lot of people come and wind up saying, ‘I’d love to do something like this!’” adds Barr. He says that the success of the salons underscores how many people are looking for opportunities to connect with their communities in new, more intimate ways. “It’s not that hard. You just have to start by making a commitment.” [x]

Want to attend Salon 261? Email salon261events@gmail.com to be updated on future events.

SPOTLIGHT Elder care STORY Rob Phelps

Aging Together INCLUSIVE ELDER CARE BOOK INTERWEAVES LGBT CONCERNS WITH PRACTICAL ADVICE FOR ALL Drawing from over 30 years of professional experience all over the United States and around the world, social researcher and advocate David Cleveland has come to see the American social contract as very much a work in progress. “It has serious flaws for LGBT, native people, the physically and intellectually disabled, ethnic minorities and those of varying faiths. I believe too much emphasis is placed on the mainstream and leaves major populations as footnotes in the contract,” says the author, who has written policy guides widely used by the federal government and Department of Defense. In addition to decades of public service, Cleveland’s career includes the creation of a community-based senior peer advocacy program by a private firm he established that trained more than 400 seniors, who in turn counseled several thousand other seniors struggling with alcohol and medication addiction, isolation, depression, abuse and other complex challenges. And now, “after five years of retirement, trout-fishing and working in the yard,” Cleveland has returned to his passion for helping others by writing a book on elder care that brings those living in the footnotes of America up into the central narrative. Notably, the book, “Inclusion: Eldercare for Everyone,” is perhaps the first caregiver’s guide of its kind to thoroughly integrate the personal and practical concerns of LGBT individuals into every chapter. “My knowledge of LGBT issues came from direct involvement professionally and personally living and working in diverse communities, traveling worldwide in the Navy, with family, friends and the larger community where I have witnessed many sides of human nature, family life, social views on aging, sexual lifestyles and orientations,” he says. Being inclusive, of course, means that LGBT issues are interwoven along with concerns from many other groups sharing that traditional spot in the footnote. But practically all of the advice in the book offers insight to every reader. Overall, says the author, the book’s underlying principle is that elder care is a set of well-defined caring strategies that embrace caring for all seniors

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family member, friend or stranger who may have a strained relationship, or no prior relationship at all, with the person in need of care. This book affords equal respect to everyone—caregivers, the cared-for and their whole communities. The author with his sister Martha: “The only girl in the family with five brothers. She was the caregiver to Mom, Dad and older brothers. She is a saint.” Cleveland dedicated his book to her. regardless of their uniqueness, diversity, faith, sexual orientation or identity and cultural background. “Many seniors have spent their lives struggling with hard-line discrimination based upon their race, religious belief or sexual preference and they continue to struggle with present-day racism, internalized oppression, biases and/or homophobia,” he says. “It is important to acknowledge these disparities because they are often amplified when ageism is added to the issue.” Written in a clear, friendly style, it is both a quick read that moves from early planning stages to long-term care, as well as a reference-rich tool to keep on hand for quick consultation. “Inclusion: Eldercare for Everyone” is full of tips checklists, sample conversations, legal considerations and plenty of further resources for elders, caregivers, families, friends and other community members living in urban, suburban, rural and even frontier settings. And when Cleveland says it’s “for everyone” he even includes the reluctant caregiver—a

“I hope that each reader will join in and be an advocate for community inclusiveness of all individuals socially labeled as different,” he says. “All elderly persons deserve respect, quality housing and quality long-term care.” “I could not have written this book at age 50,” he says. “After age 65 more and more issues of aging become clear. Not just the physical changes that come with aging but the sense of injustice so many elderly endure because of their diversity and uniqueness in culture, language, faith or sexual orientation. I have experienced those hidden and open biases toward these various groups, hence, the writing of this book.” Cleveland calls “Inclusion: Eldercare for Everyone” his “small contribution toward a future where all people can live safely, openly, and free from discrimination regardless of gender identity or expression, faith, disability and national origin.” If this book can make such a difference in just one person’s life, and it will, the author’s contribution will be enormous, its ripple effects helping to write a new chapter in the social contract we all share. [x] “Inclusion: Eldercare for Everyone”

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SPOTLIGHT Senior Spirit STORY Bob Linscott

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In Massachusetts We Count! THE GREAT LEAP FORWARD BY EXECUTIVE OFFICE OF ELDER AFFAIRS TO COLLECT SEXUAL ORIENTATION AND GENDER IDENTITY DATA May 11, 2016 was a landmark date in Massachusetts, even though there wasn’t any fanfare and probably most people were not aware that anything occurred. At the same time, what happened was of historic significance. On that day the Executive Office of Elder Affairs (EOEA) amended a standardized form known as the Complete Data Set (CDS) to include two new questions: one on sexual

orientation and one on gender identity. For the first time in Massachusetts history, LGBT older adults will be counted in the state’s aging services data. Prior to that date there had never been any attempt to capture information about LGBT older adults in the state’s elder service assessment tools. In fact, it could be said if you are not counted, you don’t count. And it could also be inferred

Soon we will be able to respond to the towns that tell us they don’t have any LGBT elders by saying “in fact The CDS data shows that you have 27 gay men, 31 lesbians and 12 transgender elders all over the age of 65.” that if you are not counted the state doesn’t care. The CDS is an assessment tool to determine an elder people’s income eligibility and their need for homecare services. The data from these forms are used to determine the funding for specific elder programs. So if you aren’t counted then you aren’t funded either. Of equal importance is the opportunity for elder

service providers to learn about the unique health disparities and lack of support and caregiving services for LGBT older adults compared to their heterosexual peers. Collecting this critical sexual orientation and gender identity (SO/ GI) information will be able to bring culturally competent care and services to a population that is greatly underserved.

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Bob Linscott, assistant director, LGBT Aging Project, The Fenway Institute; Dale Mitchell, executive director, Ethos; Alice Bonner, secretary of elder affairs, EOEA; Lisa Rivers, nurse manager, EOEA; Mary DeRoo, director of home and community programs, EOEA; Susan Tompkins-Hunt, assistant director of home care programs, EOEA; Lisa Krinsky, director, LGBT Aging Project, The Fenway Institute; Sean Cahill, director, Health Policy Research, The Fenway Institute; and Carole Malone, assistant secretary of elder affairs, EOEA. Courtesy of The LGBT Aging Project

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Executive Office of Health and Human Services, The Executive Office of Elder Affairs and The Department of Housing and Community Development should collect voluntary and confidential sexual orientation and gender identity data as a standard practice for individual assessments.” It is important to note that the CDS is rarely changed and the addition of these new questions is a powerful statement of how important this issue is to EOEA and how supportive they are of the LGBT community. This practice reflects a larger trend in the collection of SO/GI data by health centers across the country. The Fenway Institute at Fenway Health has been one of the nation’s leading organizations driving this game-changing policy on a federal level. In the coming

months, the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services will be requiring SO/ GI data fields in electronic health records software. The Health Resources and Service Administration (HRSA) started in May 2016 requiring that community health centers collect SO/ GI data from their patients. Currently, in addition to Massachusetts, New York and California are the only other states starting to collect SO/GI data in aging services. In the years ahead, LGBT older adults will increasingly appear on the radar screens of elder service providers and planners in every town across the state. This has a direct impact on agencies’ need for cultural competency training in LGBT aging issues, as well as their need to provide services and resources to meet

the needs of LGBT older adults. Soon we should see such additions like LGBTfriendly meal programs, support groups for older adults living with HIV, and maybe even “lavender teams” that specialize in bringing skilled, competent care into the homes of LGBT seniors. Soon we will be able to respond to the towns that tell us they don’t have any LGBT elders by saying “in fact, the CDS data shows that you have 27 gay men, 31 lesbians and 12 transgender elders all over the age of 65.” Like anything that involves change, this new effort is not free from its challenges. For our current population of LGBT elders who have spent their lives in secrecy hiding their identity, it may be a shock to be asked these questions. It is important to know that the case

managers who conduct these assessments in the homes of older adults are instructed to tell their clients that they do not have to answer any questions they don’t want to. So the SO/GI questions, like all the other questions in the CDS, are voluntary. Change is never easy at first. There is often resistance and confusion, but from that place growth occurs. In this case, the initial pushback to the sexual orientation and gender identity questions will soon give rise to a whole new commitment to the care and support of this cherished and vulnerable part of our community. LGBT older adults are the keepers of our history and a cherished asset. They deserve to be counted and cared for with respect. [x] Bob Linscott is the assistant director of the LGBT Aging Project at the Fenway Institute

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From the Blogs recognizing the civil rights of members of the LGBT community, and I am so proud that Vermont has taken a leadership role at every step of the way.”

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Vermont Governor Peter Shumlin recently signed into law— effective July 1—the prohibition of licensed professionals who counsel minors from attempting to “change” the sexual

“It’s absurd to think that being gay or transgender is something to be cured of,” Governor Shumlin stated in a press release. “Our country has come a long way in a short period of time in

“Conversion therapy has been widely discredited by the scientific community. A 2015 report from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) “found that variations in sexual orientation and gender identity are normal, and that conversion therapies or other efforts to change sexual orientation or gender identity are not effective, are harmful, and are not appropriate therapeutic practices.” The Vermont law’s passage comes as similar legislation (HB 97) in Massachusetts emerges favorably from committee and is ready to move to the Bay State

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The recipients are: The Tiffany Club of New England, GLSEN Massachusetts, NAGLY (Alliance of Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Youth), Lesbian of Color Symposium (LOCS) Collective, Voices Rising Chorus, In The Streets Productions, Mystic LGBTQ+ Youth Support Network, OUT MetroWest, New England Professional Queer WoMen of Color, Tennis4All Boston, and the Queer Asian Pacific Islander Alliance.

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against sweeping LGBT discrimination legislation passed earlier this year in North Carolina, and Boston’s city council agreed in a unanimous vote.

The following week, the state of Vermont joined Boston in issuing an official ban on state travel to North Carolina.

Zakim filed an ordinance on March 28 that aimed to prohibit the City of Boston from financing travel to the Tar Heel State. The ordinance came in response to North Carolina’s enactment of House Bill 2 (HB 2), which, the city councilor points out, “bans people from using restrooms that do not match their so-called ‘birth gender,’ creates a statewide anti-discrimination law that fails to protect the LGBTQ community, and strips municipalities of their ability to enact stronger anti-discrimination laws.”

MASS ACLU FILES CIVIL RIGHTS LAWSUIT AGAINST GORDON COLLEGE

“In Boston we take great pride in leading on issues of social justice and LGBTQ equality, and we have a continuing obligation to uphold this mission whenever there is an opportunity to do so,” said Zakim.

The Bay State branch of the ACLU is backing tenured professor Lauren Barthold against her employer, Gordon College, which strongly disciplined Barthold for speaking out against Gordon College President D. Michael Lindsay’s signing of a letter that urged President Obama to allow federal contractors to discriminate against LGBTQ people on the basis of religion. The ACLU filed a civil rights lawsuit on April 28 against the college in defense of Barthold. “This case is important to preserving academic freedom and preventing the violation, in the

Seten Hall basketball star Derrick Gordon PHOTO courtesy of Derrick Gordon/Twitter name of religion, of important rights to be free from discrimination and retaliation in the workplace,” said Joshua Solomon of Pollack Solomon Duffy LLP, cooperating attorney for the ACLU of Massachusetts. The lawsuit, filed in Essex Superior Court, contends that Gordon officials violated various state laws protecting against retaliation for opposing discrimination, sex discrimination and interference with freedom of expression and association.

FIRST-EVER BOSTON PRIDE COMMUNITY FUND GRANT RECIPIENTS ANNOUNCED The 2016 recipients of the Boston Pride Fund grant recipients comprise a rainbow of diverse small nonprofits and other groups that support New England’s LGBT community. Boston Pride President Sylvain Bruni and Vice President Linda DeMarco announced the

OPENLY GAY, FORMER UMASS BASKETBALL STAR MAKES MARCH MADNESS HISTORY Serious college basketball fans— as well as those of us who love to watch March Madness starting around Sweet Sixteen time—got a new champion to root for when former U-Mass basketball star Derrick Gordon hit the court as the first openly gay player to compete in the NCAA tournament. But one of the sweetest parts of Gordon’s history-making is how the sports world is taking the whole thing in stride. “For us, the fact that he’s gay is an old story,” Seton Hall Coach Kevin Willard told USA Today last summer. “These kids know about Derrick, they’re on social media and are very informed. This generation of athletes are much more educated on the gay athlete. I think the attention is brought on by adults. We make it a bigger deal. Some of these kids can teach us a lesson on how to handle this type of stuff.” [x]

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FEATURE Rhode Island News STORY Kim Stowell

This Just in from Little Rhody Milestones: This year marks many important landmarks and anniversaries in Rhode Island gay history. After nearly three decades of tireless work on behalf of people living with HIV/AIDS, Paul Fitzgerald stepped down as president and CEO of AIDS Care Ocean State.

The Providence Gay Men’s Chorus Turns 20 this year. Their Anniversary concert featured a greatest hits collection of musical numbers including “Over the Rainbow,” “Anything Goes,” and, of course, “YMCA.”

The Rhode Island Pride Festival turns 40. This year’s theme was XL and featured the fabulous illuminated Nighttime Parade, Drag Hangover Brunch and a dozen or more Countdown to Pride events throughout the state.

#IStandWithAshlynn Fifteen-year-old Ashlynn Ingram became the center of a sometimes incendiary debate in May about the trans community’s right to use the bathroom that best represents their gender identity. Ashlynn, who was aware of her gender identity at the young age of five, had been using the nurse’s office at her Warwick high school to change for gym class. But after a friend told her she was legally allowed to use the restroom facility she most identified with and was most comfortable in, she began to use the girl’s room. As far as she knew, everyone was generally supportive, so it came as a surprise when she learned that a Facebook page called Warwick Watch, owned by a former mayoral candidate, was blowing up with negative commentary about her. Among other uninformed and boorish comments, some individuals’ posts characterized the girl as disgusting and sick. (It turns out that many of the posts showing support

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for Ashlynn were being deleted from the thread.) Before long, however, Ashlynn’s community responded with the hashtag #IStandWithAshlynn, which began appearing with frequency on social media. And when she returned to school the following Monday, the outpouring of support was tremendous—even from teachers and other students who did not know Ashlynn—giving her the validation and encouragement she needed to put the Facebook page drama behind her. Ashlynn plans to continue with her transition, beginning hormone treatment soon, and practicing with the cheerleading squad in the meantime.

Challenging Media Bias The Providence Journal recently reported the story of a transgender woman who had been stabbed in the early hours of a Saturday in South Providence. In the story, the ProJo not only reported her name, it reported the birth name by

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which she no longer goes. In addition, the headline referred to her as a “transgender prostitute,” while providing no substantiation for this irrelevant and victim-blaming claim. The trans community, along with its allies, went right to work. It was not necessary, they insisted, to refer to the victim’s transgender status, let alone the label of sex worker. And to refer to the name she was given at birth was surprisingly inappropriate. Using social media, a call to action went out, urging people to contact the ProJo and let them know that this kind of transphobic reporting would not be tolerated. Within hours, the story had been changed online and a meeting had been set up with the editor to discuss appropriate reporting about the trans community.

Yankee Cruising Club Re-launches The YCC, New England’s club for LGBTQ boaters, is welcoming new

members, especially women. A new website, www.yankee-cruising.org, has been rolled out, as have plans for several events, and dues have been temporarily suspended.. Founded over 25 years ago, the club brings LGBT boaters together to get out on the water while meeting like-minded individuals. It is open to sailors and power boaters alike, and welcomes those who are new to boating as well. For more information or to join, visit www.yankeecruising.com.

Kitty Litter Moves Away But Doesn’t Stay Away After many tears and several goodbye parties, Kitty Litter, the self-proclaimed First lady of Providence left the state, moving to—of all places—North Carolina. Also known as Stephen Hartley, Kitty graced many a stage, raising funds for AIDS Care Ocean State as well as many other LGBT organizations, in her years in Rhode Island. Indeed, she has graced a few RI stages since her departure as well. The first

Kitty Litter PHOTO Jen Bonin Photography event, called One Night Only, was held at Providence’s Dark Lady and featured drag queens Jacqueline DiMera and Payton St. James as well as Miss Gay Rhode Island 2016 Neoki Feytal. Kitty appeared again at the RI Pride Festival, as well as a few of the associated events. It appears we have not seen the last of this very classy lady.

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A Passion for Social Justice Facing a new legislative season in the fall, MassEquality’s executive director shares a little about where she’s coming from Good things come to those who wait. After a painstaking search, in October LGBT advocacy nonprofit MassEquality appointed Deborah Shields its latest leader. Shields has a long history guarding against discrimination, particularly on behalf of the HIV/AIDS community. Fresh out of Northeastern Law School at the height of the epidemic, she spent several years at the AIDS

Law Clinic of Harvard Law School, lobbying legislators and offering legal advocacy to low-income, HIV-positive clients. Shields later helmed The AIDS Project, Maine’s largest HIV case management, prevention and education agency, guided HIV-related policies for Maine’s Department of Public Health, and served as executive director of Portland’s AIDS Lodging House, which

Deborah Shields provided housing, support and legislative advocacy. Her commitment to the HIV community extends to her work at MassEquality (see related story on page 32), where she’s doubling down on efforts to pass legislation that will provide insurance access for people with lipodystrophy, a disfiguring side effect of HIV medications. She’s also committed to finally ushering a transgender public accommodations bill through the legislature, establishing a statewide ban on so-called

“conversion therapies” aimed at LGBT youth, and other initiatives that will reassert Massachusetts reputation as a leader on LGBT issues. Raised in Detroit but armed with a passion forged by time spent in Harvey Milk-era San Francisco, Shields’ new role carries a sword that can carve a way forward. [SPIRIT] What was your experience like growing up as a young lesbian? [DEBORAH SHIELDS] I went to

12 years of Catholic school and I’m still recovering.

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Street in a clothing store. One of the greatest guys I knew, his partner was killed because he was holding hands out on the street. That hit me like bolt of lightning, a really galvanizing experience. And this was during the time of Harvey Milk. He would come into the store. After he was assassinated—I mean, that says it all. What else could you do but be an advocate?

What were early experiences working with the HIV/ AIDS community like? [DS] I worked at the AIDS

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Law Clinic of Harvard Law School in the late ’80s and early ’90s when people were dying constantly. It was so heart-wrenching. All of us who worked around the AIDS crisis during that time, we all have a little memorial in our hearts. I wanted to keep doing that work. My partner at the time moved to Maine; I moved with her. Moving to Maine was like stepping back 10 years in time. There wasn’t

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the funding there should have been, and though Maine’s coast is fairly liberal, other areas are really conservative. We were having some of the same battles in Maine that we had already settled in Massachusetts. We had to fight certain fights all over again. [SPIRIT] What are some LGBT issues we need to be talking about more? [DS] I really think we need

to talk about racial and economic justice issues. We have to keep getting the message out to people that those are all of our issues. We also have to deal with things like LGBTQ partner violence and issues that affect those with disabilities. These are things that tend to be swept to the sidelines.

[SPIRIT] The HRC’s new State Equality Index doesn’t include Massachusetts among the states most innovatively addressing LGBT issues. Do you agree with that ranking? [DS] I do agree with that

assessment. When we passed the transgender equal rights bill without public accommodations, it was something so archaic— like something from the Neanderthal age. Seventeen other states include public accommodations. Many states already ban conversion therapy for minors. There are other states that commit to insurance coverage for lipodystrophy. There are states with more progressive sex ed. So unfortunately, I think they’re correct. [x]

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What’s Next for MassEquality? Looking beyond public accommodations protection for all, statewide advocacy organization steadily focuses on other hot-button issues By the time this issue of Boston Spirit goes to press, things are looking (fingers crossed) pretty good for the Bay State’s legal expansion of public accommodations law to include transgender people. One

version overwhelmingly passed the state senate by 33 to 4 in mid-May, and only weeks later another sweepingly passed the house, 136 to 36. Governor Charlie Baker’s stance on the issue evolved from his 2010

position to veto such legislation to his May 31 public statement that he would sign it. But first, of course, the two bills must be reconciled and combined into a single bill for the governor to sign. “After that,” says Deborah Shields (see related story on page 28), executive director at MassEquality, the statewide LGBT advocacy group that has worked behind the scenes on this and so much other legendary legislation, “time and energy

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should open up—hopefully,” she adds with a laugh—“to be able to work on some of the other bills” before the current legislative session ends on July 31. Two pieces of legislation at the forefront are the conversion therapy house bill, which “would prohibit licensed professionals from trying to change the sexual orientation or gender identity of a minor,” and the elder cultural competencytraining house bill, which “would require

the Executive Office of Elder Affairs to develop a curriculum for appropriate and culturally competent services to be delivered to our LGBTQ elders,” as described by a June 8 e-blast from MassEquality. According to MassEquality, the elder cultural competency-training bill is currently included in both the house and senate budgets and is likely to move on to the budget conference committee. The anti-conversion therapy bill is all set to move out of the house committee on steering, policy and scheduling. The anti-conversion therapy bill’s timing is especially crucial since, despite outcries against this practice from the scientific community and its ban in other states including Vermont (on May 25), the practice is still being performed in Massachusetts, notably on transgender youth. However, notes, the e-blast, the current bill on Beacon Hill “exempts religious organizations, unfortunately, so they’re still allowed to ‘pray the gay away.’” Also, a bill similar to the one passed in Vermont, sadly, was recently killed in committee after successful passage in both that state’s house and senate.

Equally important to MassEquality, Shields stresses, are: house and senate bills that would require insurance companies to cover treatment for lipodystrophy, a debilitating and disfiguring side effect of HIV meds; house and senate bills that would ensure comprehensive, medically accurate and age appropriate sex education in Bay State schools; and a bill to increase access to medical and dental care for homeless youth. Except for the senate’s version of the lipodystrophy bill, which the senate unanimously passed, these bills are also currently in committee. “Unfortunately, the session is running out quickly and there’s only so much time and so many people to be able to work on the other bills. So I don’t think we’ll see as many bills passed as we would have liked this year. Because there really is a sense that there is ‘a gay agenda, Dorothy,’ and that we can only get so many of the bills passed on that agenda during any given time.” “Wizard of Oz” references aside, Shields says MassEquality aims to give each and every bill the same attention the

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“ There really is a sense that there is a ‘gay agenda,’ and that we can only get so many of the bills passed on that agenda during any given time. ” Deborah Shields organization has been devoting to the transgender public access fight. Of late, the organization’s time has been filled with “a lot of conversations with members of the house and senate, facilitating meetings between constituents and their representatives and senators “to tell their stories of what it’s like to be transgender and how important [the passage of this legislation] is to them. We’ve organized a whole lot of lobby days to bring both trans adults and children to the state house,” she says. “We’ve held community meetings in areas where a legislator is a little on the fence, or where they say ‘there’s nobody in my district who’s transgender,’ or ‘I’m hearing too much from the opposition.” With summer here, and especially between legislative sessions, now is a great time for members of the community to get involved Shields says. “We put out a call to action every other week. It’s such a hot time and the asks [from different partnering groups focusing on the specific issues] are really different but certainly everyone can plug into our MassEquality e-blasts to get involved with some of the partners who are working on these important issues.” “We love it when people donate their time or treasure,” she says. “We always love it when people throw house

parties for our causes. Or just invite us to come and talk to a community group or their employers so that we can spread the word. And we want people to volunteer to help us with various Pride events, or to help us lay the groundwork for various campaigns we’re working on.” MassEquality has a threefold mission: to advocate, to educate and to elect. A cofounding member of Freedom to Marry, the group works in coalition with other organizations. “For example, says Shields, “we’re working with partners like GLAD, AIDS Action Committee, Community Research Initiative and a whole bunch of other players” to move the lipodystrophy legislation towards passage. This summer, MassEquality is also busy screening officeseekers for endorsement. “We interview them and then we have a PAC board that votes to endorse them, and once that happens they absolutely need people in their districts to make calls, go door to door, help at rallies, fundraisers and in campaign offices.” “Right now I think most everything has stalled” up on Beacon Hill, Shields says. But it’s the perfect time to regroup and get ready to fight the good fights of the fall. [x]

To sign up for MassEqualiy eblast, learn more about the organization or lend a hand, go to massequality.org.

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Electronic Attaché Digital guide provides essential resources for the LGBT business traveler So you’ve just been offered a project that requires a trip to Saudi Arabia. You gratefully accept the opportunity, step outside your boss’s office and discreetly look around for a safe place to panic. Of course you want to go to Saudi Arabia. You’ve worked hard to earn this project. You love to travel and have always been fascinated by the cultures of the Middle East. But you’re gay. Or maybe you’re afraid to travel anywhere outside your homeland. A three-hour ride on the Acela is more your speed when it comes to business travel and now you’re faced with something a bit more challenging. And you’re gay. Saudi Arabia, after all, is one of more than 76 countries where it can be a crime to be gay-acting or -appearing. And the penalties in some of these places tend to be severe. The fact alone that there are any kinds of penalties for just being who you are—even while presenting your most professional persona—is alarming. That is why Ed Salvato and Billy Kolber, coeditors of the digital magazine “ManAboutWorld,” teamed up with sponsors Marriott International, IBM and the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce to create “The LGBT Guide to Business Travel”—an online publication that suits the needs of LGBT business travelers and their allies.

In fact, the resources that this lean, easy-to-navigate tool packs onto your mobile device would be useful to any business traveler, gay, straight or fluid. It’s also equally geared for those who are and who are not out at work (including, importantly, their Human Resources department or anyone else making their travel arrangements). “A few years back, as marriage equality was becoming the law, we went into Marriott to pitch a honeymoon guide,” Kolber says. Their partners at Marriott told them they were more interested just then in something for LGBT business travelers. “At about the same time, we had a friend who worked for a large consulting firm, was HIV positive and being sent on a six-month project in Dubai. He was freaked out about whether he could bring his meds in, whether he would have to be tested for HIV, whether he would be at risk for just being gay there— these questions that ultimately found their way into the guide.” So, Salvato says, he and Kolber started thinking about what an LGBT person needs to do to stay safe and successful working in one of those 76+ zones where homosexuality is criminalized. This soon expanded to encompass places for the LGBT traveler where being gay is quite okay as well. “How do you get information, how do you talk to your HR and other associates at home,

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how do you deal with your colleagues and business partners and clients in the destination?” Salvato says. “All kinds of questions came up. And we realized this is a resource that LGBT business travelers need that matches Marriott’s desire to do more with LGBT business travelers and expand the programs that they’ve been doing for so many years.” “We didn’t want to create a phony, boring narrative but something peppered with a lot of quotes and a lot of real-world experience,” Salvato says. “So we expert-sourced this information. We conducted interviews with lots and lots of people, mostly LGBT, all over the globe to find out their experiences. So you’ll read anecdotes from people’s real lives dealing with some of the issues that we raise in this book. For one example, we reached out to a woman who had to respond anonymously because she is a lesbian with children and a partner who did business in Saudi Arabia. She has some very interesting stories.” While the breadth of “The LGBT Guide to Business Travel” is enormous—touching virtually everywhere business can be done on Earth—its 44 web pages are broken down into a handful of brief, userfriendly sections that cover

safety and security, etiquette, Internet connectivity, social engagement, advice to smallbusiness as well as corporate travelers, ideas on how to advance the cause of human rights globally and even tips on how to upgrade your travel experience. “Our main focus in the guide is to give people access to many resources that are updated regularly along with the recommendations on how to use them and how to interact with locals to protect yourself regardless of the current political and legal situation of the specific country that you’re visiting,” Kolber says. “Things change very, very quickly,” Salvato agrees. “And circumstances are very personal for each traveler so it’s hard make generalizations.” That said, there is truly something for everyone in this guide. The savvy business traveler can flip through this guide, access pertinent links about their particular destination, download choice in-flight reading and arrive with an added level of expertise. But it also pays to spend some time with the guide well before the trip. “Research and respect,” says Kobler. Two words at the core of what he and Salvato believe every traveler needs to do to stay safe and successful going into other cultures. And that’s what their guide is all about. [x] “The LGBT Guide to Business Travel”

Available at no charge by downloading the ManAboutWorld app onto a mobile phone or tablet. You can also download a PDF of the guide. To download the guide, learn more, or check out other ManAboutWorld publications, including the digitial magazine, visit www.manaboutworld.com.

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Lessons in Letting Go Faced with terminal illness, couple shares insights in life-enhancing workshop What does it mean to live with no regrets? It’s a big, weighty question. And many of us will do everything we can to avoid addressing it while we’re caught up in the breakneck pace of life—a rapidly repeating loop of office meetings, grocery trips, dinner parties and other day-to-day minutia that, we tell ourselves in the moment, will go on for us forever. To stop and think deeply about the fullness of our life and the intimacy of our relationships requires us to confront the specter of mortality. That’s a scary thing. But it’s an incredibly important thing, too. And as John Gatto and Art Shirk live out what may be the final chapter of their love story together, there’s a new urgency to answering it. Together they are navigating the reality of terminal illness, but not with despair. Instead, they are channeling the immediacy of their situation into a new, life-enhancing commitment to love harder, connect more profoundly and be more authentically present in each 36 | BOSTON SPIRIT

passing moment with each other, friends and family. And through a series of interactive workshops they’ve developed for public audiences in Boston and beyond, “Digging Deep: On Living, Loving and Dying,” they’re encouraging others to do the same—and most importantly, to do it now, rather than wait for the sunset to live boldly in the sun. Sitting on the living room couch of their Malden home, Art looks lovingly to John, and takes his hand. To his side sits a portable oxygen tank. Clear tubes snake up and around his ears to his nose. “We asked ourselves, if we’re entering the last days of our life together, what would it mean to get to the end, look back, and truly feel proud and satisfied? To have no regrets?” Answering these questions, adds Art, is what has guided them over the last year, as they’ve processed the seriousness of his prognosis. In 2014, after experiencing worsening shortness of breath, Art was diagnosed with Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis (IPF), a progressive disease that,

“Like any couple, we’ve had our ups and downs.There’d be those places where we would get into little entanglements, and then, when it would get uncomfortable to a certain degree, we’d stop. We’d say not going there.” Art Shirk

over time, turns healthy lung tissue into inflexible scar tissue. The outcome for IPF is grim. Art’s brother previously passed from the disease. The only potential cure is a lung transplant, and in October 2015, Art was deemed ineligible—in large part because of his pre-existing coronary artery disease. They faced a choice. Art could apply for a transplant—a possible but still unguaranteed cure—through a different hospital. But every time they considered the option, “the energy became so—heavy,” says John. They imagined their life together if, as Art’s condition deteriorated, they spent their dwindling days consumed with anxiety and in desperate pursuit of a tenuous lifeline that lingered just out of reach. That idea hardly honored the vibrant life they had built together over the last 14 years. In 2002, John, a longtime leader in HIV/AIDS care services and the current VP of community health at Justice Resource Institute (JRI), met Art, an executive leadership development coach and consultant, as his first date on Match. com. They’ve been together ever since, and married in 2008 in a whimsical surprise ceremony.

“We just told our friends we were having a party,” smiles John, remembering their special day. “When they showed up, there were school buses out front. We gave everyone lunch bags, and they whisked us to Arlington Street Church. Meanwhile a caterer set up the house for our return.” “Of course, it was a bunch of gay men, so they all panicked: ‘I didn’t do my hair today! Do I have time to run out and buy a new shirt?’” The couple laughs. They squeeze hands. This was the life they wanted to remember: one marked by love and sharing, not suffering and fear. So Art opted to not seek another transplant opportunity. He is pursuing a clinical trial through Yale-New Haven Hospital, but at this point the couple has reconciled themselves to the fact that their life together is coming to a close. And in confronting that reality, they found themselves asking tough questions and having uncomfortable conversations. How could Art, so autonomous by nature, allow himself to be more vulnerable—and how could John support him by being more assertive? How would John navigate a future without Art? What of the house, the dog, and the dreams they expected they would fulfill together? “Will he find a new husband?” asks Art. He pauses, and they sit together for

a moment, pained. Then, Art smirks. He chuckles lightly. “Will he be cuter than me? Is that allowed?” There is an indefatigable honesty to the couple that is inspiring. And it’s a quality they have developed consciously in response to the shortening window of opportunity they have to share it. “Like any couple, we’ve had our ups and downs,” says Art. “There’d be those places where we would get into little entanglements, and then, when it would get uncomfortable to a certain degree, we’d stop. We’d say not going there!” “This situation has forced us to say, ‘We’re going there.’ We’re swallowing our pride, letting go of our ego, and stepping into the uncomfortable territory.” To do so, says the couple, is to invite into a relationship a richness of intimacy and fullness of connection that sometimes, without the knowledge of an encroaching endpoint to inspire us, we don’t always consciously engage to the utmost. And so emerged “Digging Deep,” a halfday series that the couple has already conducted in Boston, D.C. and London, with future plans, if Art’s health allows, for Barcelona and other locales where they have built-in personal and professional networks. A natural extension of Art’s leadership-building work, the discussion

helps guests discover how they can live and love more fully. That begins, for many, with identifying what holds them back. Art and John unfurl across their living room a paper banner from a previous “Digging Deep” session, on which attendees were encouraged to write their “biggest regret.” The handwritten responses are poignant, ranging from the specific (“cheating on my husband”) to the abstract. “Fear of living and failing.” “Leaving things unsaid because it is easier.” “Not letting people see me.” The events have enriched lives and relationships for people that Art and John don’t otherwise know—and also for those closest to them. For instance, John’s sister confronted her regret that she didn’t attend her brother’s wedding—an admission that opened up a new, stronger chapter in their relationship. By dealing honesty and transparently with the prospect of loss, and by helping others live more presently now, Art and John have gained more than they could have expected. “The idea is just to be conscious of the fact that life ends, and to be conscious of living fully and being present,” says Art. “If we’re doing that, if we’re living that way, and only if we are, then perhaps we have a story to share.” And what an amazing story it is. [x]

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OVERCOMING CHALLENGES FOR THE TRANS COMMUNITY

It can be challenging to find the strength to express your authentic self. With preparation, a fulfilling transition can take place without the legal headaches. Those who have gone through the process of transitioning share similar opinions about the road ahead. It takes tenacity and patience to bounce through automated voicemail systems, telephone calls and in-person meetings with bureaucratic agencies, public and private organizations, front-desk personnel, customer service representatives and other individuals who don’t understand the issues. It takes gumption to call up HR and let them know you need to change your name and gender. When you need to explain reality and your need to reconcile documentary evidence of name and sex, there are certain things you should know.

WHAT'S IN A NAME? Well, a lot actually. And it’s amazing how many places you’re going to need to change it. The process is worth the effort though,

because it’s absolutely critical that transgender individuals reconcile documentary evidence of their chosen name and gender. Proper legal and social recognition of your identity stems from this. Having the correct legal documentation of your sex is critical for access to appropriate laws, rights, benefits, facilities, services and public accommodations. Inconsistent designations can jeopardize your physical and financial safety. The first step in rectifying and reconciling legal records of your name and gender should be through the probate and family court in your home county. Once you've done that, you’ve opened the door to change all other documents. In Massachusetts, you’re able to change your name without any advance requirement of changing your sex designation on a birth certificate and without any transition-related treatment or surgery. This is often the first legal step in gender transition.

Most states allow for amended birth certificates to change documentary evidence of sex designation. Certain other states require proof of having undergone some form of surgery. Some states will change sex designation on a birth certificate based on a physician’s letter certifying sex designation while other states require a court order. There are other documents that contain sex designations which should also be changed to reconcile identity markers. These include passports, driver’s licenses, identity cards issued by the registry of motor vehicles, insurance cards, school records, employment records, military records, census reports, deeds to real estate and Social Security cards. Make sure you reconcile all identity documents to avoid exposing yourself to extraordinary risk. Being thorough can help to facilitate a private and safe gender transition. Generally, once a legal name change is accomplished through the court, then you can use the court order to change your name on other documents. For instance, don't forget about updating your will, Heath Care Proxy and Durable Power of Attorney.

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WHAT HAPPENS AT WORK? Transgender employees face challenges in the workplace that many people never have to even think about. If you already have a job, you’ll need to notify your human resources department about the recent updates to your name and gender. When you aren’t sure how someone is going to react, this can be daunting. Many employees finish their entire careers without ever meeting with a human resource person, but transgender employees often have transition plans or special requirements that need to be communicated and supported by human resources and sometimes communicated throughout the organization. Transgender employee privacy often gives way to the disclosure of information that other employees consider so private they cannot conceive of having to discuss the subjects with coworkers. Some people are happy to discuss the reasons behind their name and gender change, but don’t feel pressured to do so if you’re uncomfortable. Being matter-

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of-fact about your name and pronoun preferences can help you proactively avoid repetitive questions. Reminding peers about your name and pronoun choices will be a constant task. Meeting dress code requirements is another circumstance where coworkers often readily accept stereotypes and face no dilemma about how to dress in the workplace. Stay in communication with human resources and your manager as much as possible to avoid any issues. If you’re looking for a job, you need to be prepared to overcome some hurdles. It’s not uncommon for transgendered job candidates to have to face disappointment in not securing a job for which they were well qualified, even after having been identified as the “leading candidate” on paper. Too often transgender employees are faced with applying to a position that mysteriously vanishes. Sure, some people simply don’t interview well, but too frequently for transgender candidates the “other” candidate turns out to be the “perfect fit” after the interview.

The Human Rights Campaign Foundation’s Corporate Equality Index is an annual report that scores major businesses according to their practices relating to LGBT employees. How well an employer treats LGBT employees, both in terms of job opportunities and conditions in the workplace, is a pretty good indicator of the probabilities of a transgender employee being treated with the same respect and dignity afforded all its employees. The simplest way for transgender employees to manage the special challenges of the workplace is to seek out employers who have policies and practices that address the needs of LGBT employees. If you’re considering transitioning, make sure you’re prepared with counsel that understands the challenges ahead. Choose someone who demonstrates more than just knowledge of statutes, regulations, agency policies and case law. This process also requires sensitivity, strategic planning, forethought and inordinate quantities of patience. Together we can build up the community with respect, understanding and knowledge.

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Summer Nights A guide to some of our favorite entertaining highlights of the season

“The crickets felt it was their duty to warn everybody that summertime cannot last for ever. Even on the most beautiful days in the whole year—the days when summer is changing into autumn—the crickets spread the rumor of sadness and change.”

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Fleeting romances, flowers in lush bloom, vacations from work and other time-managed demands, endless days that make you feel that time stretches into fresh possibility. There’s a reason people wax poetic about summer. In New England, it’s easy to find adventures to tickle the senses. From international dance performances in the woods of Western Massachusetts to classic musicals on local stages to Broadway legends happy to sing for their suppers in the picturesque towns of the region, there’s no shortage of top-notch entertainment to lure vacationers away from the beaches or the hammock. It’s summer … so pack a bag for a day trip or maybe more, and check out some of the area’s seasonal cultural offerings. Because, like the crickets said, summertime cannot last for ever. [Loren King]

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Let Him Entertain You Alan Cumming’s One-Man Show in Provincetown is Full of Unexpected Delights Alan Cumming is a sap. Deal with it. “I’m Scottish. Sentimentality is a big part of our emotional makeup,” chuckles the acclaimed, Tony-winning actor as he prepares to discuss “Alan Cumming Sings Sappy Songs,” an unapologetically earnest night of music and storytelling he’ll bring to Provincetown Town Hall on Saturday, July 16. The bisexual “Cabaret” star has always had an edge: he’s been an out activist throughout a career that has spanned big-budget Hollywood blockbusters (like the “X-Men” franchise), acclaimed television (like “The Good Wife”) and awardwinning theater work, from “Hamlet” to “Bent.” “Alan Cumming Sings Sappy Songs,” besides being a tongue twister, sees the impish actor cover music by everyone from Billy Joel to Miley Cyrus, peppered with stories from his illustrious life and career. The day after hosting the United Nations’ very first LGBT gala, Cumming spoke to Boston Spirit about being bisexual, Bernie Sanders, and the best part about visiting Provincetown. [SPIRIT] We’re speaking on the International Day of Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia. As a bi actor, what kind of prejudice have you encountered within the LGBT community? [ALAN CUMMING] From within the LGBT

community itself, it comes across more like scoffing. People don’t quite believe it, for some reason. Sure, for some people, it [bisexuality] is a steppingstone to something else—but it also exists on its own. I think there’s a certain type of gay man who believes everyone is gay, and that attitude makes it difficult to accept the concept of bisexuality. I think there’s a little bit of

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[SPIRIT] “Fluidity” is a big word right now. One recent study showed that less than 50% of UK teens identified as exclusively heterosexual.

Bill Russell reunites with old friend Janet Hood for “Unexpected Joy”

[AC] They’re more willing to play and be experimental. That’s a healthy attitude for life, let alone sexuality. The idea that people are embracing that idea makes me feel hopeful. [SPIRIT] Have any favorite memories of past Provincetown visits? [AC] The last time I was there, a couple years ago, I was supposed to do a show with Liza Minnelli. Her doctor made her cancel at the last minute. Can you imagine what it’s like to be the Alan part of “Alan and Liza,” and have to go on alone? It was the worst thing ever: “Thanks so much everybody! Not only do I have to do a whole show alone, but everyone is pissed off that Liza isn’t there.” But it was a good night. And it was kind of hilarious. It made me think of being in New York the night of 9/11, when I went to Barracuda Lounge and there was a drag queen playing. I had thought, “Oh my god, this might be the worst gig in the history of drag: having to come on stage the night of 9/11.” [SPIRIT] Do you like playing P’town? [AC] I love it. It’s this outpost at the end of the world, the end of America. My first memory was arriving at a hotel and all of a sudden seeing John Waters ride by on a bicycle. [Laughs] I love that it draws people from all the arts and literature. There’s a mythical feel to it. [SPIRIT] You call it a night of “sappy” songs, but there’s nothing ironic it. That’s unusual in a day when so much entertainment is about irony and cynicism. [AC] Right. There’s nothing ironic about it all. I put “sappy” in the title because I wanted to signal to the audience that it’s quite funny sometimes. But it’s not ironic. I really love provoking people and challenging them. When I was doing “Cabaret,” I’d put on music in my dressing room and people would ask, “What is this?” I’d say, “I’m not telling you because you’re going to make a judgment about it. I’d rather you experience it.” In this show, there are a few songs that, when I start, get a little titter. When I start a Miley Cyrus

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It was on a vacation to Provincetown last year that Tony-nominated composer Bill Russell found the home for his new musical. Russell was in Provincetown with his husband Bruce Bossard (they’ve been a couple for 37 years) when they decided to watch a run-through of “Thrill Me: The Leopold and Loeb Story” at the Wellfleet Harbor Actors Theater (WHAT). Russell loved the venue, and WHAT’s artistic director, Jeffry George, was a fan of Russell’s work. George asked if Russell had written anything that WHAT might be able to stage for 2017. The prolific Russell just happened

song, people think I’m going to take the piss out of it. But then I actually sing them completely committed, totally earnest. People see it’s really lovely and authentic. [SPIRIT] You’re a big Bernie Sanders supporter. Why Bernie? [AC] He and Hillary are both great on equality. For the first election, my vote is not necessarily connected to an LGBT stance, which is a positive thing. But speaking of authenticity, Hillary has an authenticity problem: people don’t respond to her and feel she’s honest. With Bernie, what you see is what you get. It’s actually like Trump: He’s authentic too. He’s completely that awful person, authentically. The president is a leader—someone to inspire and encourage. So I have to think, who is the most inspirational? Who has the boldest ideas? It’s Bernie, and that’s why I’m supporting him. I will vote for Hillary if she’s the candidate.

to have a musical set in Provincetown and Truro. When he read it, George liked the show so much that “Unexpected Joy,” with book and lyrics by Russell and music by Janet Hood, got the prime spot in WHAT’s 2016 summer schedule. Talk about preparation meets opportunity. Directed by Lynne Taylor-Corbett, “Unexpected Joy” will have its world premiere July 21-August 20 at WHAT. It’s about three generations of women singers. The central character, Joy, whom Russell describes as a “combination of Joni Mitchell and Mary Travers,” is a baby boomer who was once part of

[SPIRIT] You play a former AIDS activist and ACT UP member in the upcoming film “After Louie.” What drew you to the project? [AC] I really like the discussion that the film has about the schism between generations of gay men. I think it’s a really fascinating topic that I haven’t seen really discussed. It discusses the trauma of AIDS, and how there are kids who have no idea what it was like to go through what people my age and older went through. And yet, at the same time, some of those older people hold on to that as a badge of honor: a way to exclude young people and chide them for the way they live their lives. The movie is about connecting the generations, about how they can come together and help each other—and have lots of great sex along the way. [x]

popular music duo called Jump and Joy. Joy is organizing a memorial concert for the late Jump in Provincetown. Her daughter Rachel (Jump was Rachel’s father) and Joy’s granddaughter will be there. Joy has another reason for a reunion: she plans to get married to her activist girlfriend, Lou, but hasn’t told her family yet. “Janet liked the story, and she’s great at writing blues so she responded immediately,” says Russell, adding that the musical will encompass many styles from blues to folk and Motown. “‘Unexpected Joy’ continues my theme of two women singing together, from Jade and Sarsaparilla to ‘Side Show.’ I love writing for women,” he says. “Unexpected Joy” reunites Russell with longtime friend and collaborator Hood. There’s not a middle-aged lesbian in the

Northeast who has not, at some point, owned a well-worn copy Jade and Sarsaparilla’s groundbreaking album released in 1976. Russell not only managed the duo of Hood and Linda Langford but wrote all the songs on their only record—a mix of

heartfelt ballads, blues, cabaret and pop songs—that featured Hood’s accomplished jazzy piano and vocals with then-partner Langford. “To this day, it’s one of the things I’m proudest to have been involved with,” says

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Russell. “Jade and Sarsaparilla was so meaningful. That was mid-70s. It was kind of revolutionary; I’d never seen anything like it. We played gay bars but also the Sheraton Hyannis for one entire summer; the Depot in Hyannis for a summer. They were on national television; and they were always out, always open about [their relationship].” “Janet and I [remained] interested in gay issues,” says Russell. In the 1980s, they collaborated on the powerful and timely “Elegies for Angels, Punks and Raging Queens,” a musical about the AIDS epidemic that “still gets done all over world; it’s in England now,” Russell says. “‘Unexpected Joy’ is our fifth show together. [Hood] doesn’t write with anyone else. She’s a great songwriter and I love, love writing with her.” Their collaboration began back when Russell was a student at the University of Kansas and Hood was at Oberlin College; writing their first musical, the budding composers swapped work via reel to reel tapes through the mail. Then came Jade and Sarsaparilla, whose popularity also

put Russell in the spotlight. “I came out in a South Dakota newspaper in 1977 when I was interviewed about Jade and Sarsaparilla,” he recalls. This was no small thing for the son of a cowboy and the grandson of cattle ranchers in South Dakota. Fast forward nearly four decades and Russell is set to be inducted into the South Dakota Hall of Fame in September as an “exceptional playwright, lyricist and director.” That ceremony follows the first time one of his shows will be staged in his home state. Russell himself with direct “Pageant” for the Black Hills Playhouse, running June 25-July 15. “I saw shows growing up there,” says Russell, noting that “Pageant,” an audience-participation, PG-13 rated musical comedy about a regional beauty contest in which all the women’s roles are played by men, “is my most tame show. It plays with regional stereotypes but it’s not a drag show.” Arguably, Russell’s best known musical is “Side Show,” on which he collaborated with “Dreamgirls” composer Henry Krieger. “Side Show,” about Daisy and Violet Hilton, conjoined twins who

became famous stage performers in the 1930s, earned Tony nods in 1997 for Russell, Krieger and its stars Alice Ripley and Emily Skinner. The original Broadway production—the show had a Broadway revival in 2014—also starred Norm Lewis. In October, “Side Show” will head to London. “It’s thrilling because there was never a London production,” says Russell. Russell admits that although South Dakota wasn’t a hotbed of theater, he managed to find a niche growing up by participating in the annual and very popular Passion Play which was staged “in the shadow of Mount Rushmore.” He also regularly attended performances at The Matthews Opera House in Spearfish, South Dakota, including a production of “Uncle Tom’s Cabin,” performed in blackface, which Russell saw as an eight-year-old. He remembers that the child character of “Little Eva” was played by twins. “It was one of the most magical experiences of my life,” he says. “Later, I wrote a show about twins. What can I say?”[x]

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Orange, Brown and Red All Over Ryan Landry and Varla Jean Merman headline another TV homage The Emmy-winning Netflix mega-hit “Orange is the New Black”—now in its fourth season and already signed for more—has earned legions of fans for the clever way that the show both parodies and subverts the women-in-prison genre. So, how do you parody that? Put it in the hands of Ryan Landry and Varla Jean Merman. With his troupe the Gold Dust Orphans, Landry’s plays have skewered movies from “Mildred Pierce” to “Mary Poppins.” Merman, besides her own campy cabaret shows, in 2011 had the titular role in Speakeasy Stage Company’s production of Charles Busch’s “The Divine Sister,” which paid homage to nearly every nun movie ever made. Landry and Merman combined their gifts for send-up last summer in Provincetown when they headed a cast that parodied the beloved ‘80s sitcoms “The Golden Girls” and “Designing Women.” It was such a success that Landry and Merman have upped the satire ante by taking on the gals from Litchfield Penitentiary. “Brown is the New Pink” is running through Labor Day at the Art House. Like all good parodies, it starts with love of the original material, says Jeffery Roberson, whose alter ego, Varla Jean Merman, will star in “Brown is the New Pink” as Big Red, Kate Mulgrew’s formidable Russian chef in “OITNB.” “Ryan and I wanted to work together again, and when we came up with the ‘Orange is the New Black’ idea, it was, ‘Oh my God.’ We both love the show and just love all the characters. In Provincetown, people like familiarity; they know what they’re getting.”

Brown is the New Pink Landry will play Alex, the drug dealer who’s alternately central character Piper’s lover and nemesis. Olive Another plays Piper’s “WASP-y condescending mother,” says Roberson, and

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Liza Lott (“She’s an amazing mimic,” says Roberson) plays the Big Boo character made famous by Lea DeLaria. Expect to see other OITNB characters such as Nikki, Caputo, Crazy Eyes, Diaz and Morelli. “Piper will be played by a real girl. She’s the sweet girl; the rest of us are criminals,” says Roberson. Besides Lott and Olive Another, the cast includes many Gold Dust Orphan favorites including Penny Champayne, Duncan Hynes and Qya Marie. “Ryan wrote it himself but I’ve added a lot. He’s a big fan; he loves the rivalry between Red and Vee,” says Roberson. “It’s not an entire episode like ‘Golden Girls.’ It has a plot with music.” Merman will have a few songs as Red including a solo, “From Russia with Love,” and will be part of the opening group number, à la “West Side Story.” That is fitting since the plot is about two rival gangs: the Browns and the Pinks. For the one or two people in the world who may not know anything about “OITNB,” there’s no need to worry. You

don’t have to be familiar with the original, since Landry and Merman spoof all the women-behind-bars tropes that first entered popular culture with the 1950 cult classic “Caged.” And Merman knows them well. After all, she appeared in a benefit staged-reading of “Caged” alongside Lily Tomlin, Isabella Rossellini, Joan Rivers, Lorna Luft, Charles Busch and Lypsinka at New York City’s Town Hall in 2001. It will be a busy summer for Merman. Besides starring in “Brown is the New Pink,” she’ll again headline her own cabaret show—this year’s edition is “A Little White Music” — at the Art House, running to Sept. 3. Roberson said the show’s theme plays on the rise of Donald Trump and his slogan Make America Great Again. “If all we had was white culture, where would we be?” says Roberson. The production’s title “sounds racist but I wanted to reference what’s going on and find a way to show that it’s closed-minded, scared and xenophobic.” Merman’s very-far-from-theedge songs by such icons as Anne Murray, John Denver and Helen Reddy give the “A Little White Music” its “Lawrence

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Welk-y” vibe, not to mention Merman’s costumes, which will feature lots of “puffsleeves, ruffles and high collars” that were staples of ‘70s-era variety hours. Doing two shows all summer isn’t daunting for Roberson. “I love working in Provincetown; the audiences are so great. It’s taxing but I love to perform,” he says. The summer-long engagement also allows time to polish a show to perfection. “In New Orleans, I might perform on Fridays and Saturdays, not six times a week. That kind of run allows you to figure things out, get the timing right and make it a flawless, tight show,” he says. “It can take years off your life, but it’s the best way to make it work.” Of course, with a big cast in a raucous play like “Brown is the New Pink,” ad-libs and flubs are part of the fun. “If we make a mistake, we comment on it,” says Roberson, adding that with the “Golden Girls,” the audience enjoyed shouting out lines and mistakes produced more laughs. “In Provincetown, anything can happen,” he says. [x]

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MS. SMITH COMES TO BOSTON Television audiences know Anna Deavere Smith for her standout supporting roles on shows like “Nurse Jackie” and “Blackish,” among others. She also happens to be a consummate stage performer whose works such as the searing “Fires in the Mirror; “Twilight: Los Angeles, 1992” blend live theater, journalism and social commentary. As she did with “Fires in the Mirror,” Smith trains her unique lens on another complex aspect of American life with her newest creation, “Notes from the Field: Doing Time in Education, the California Chapter,” which examines the connections between America’s education system and its mass incarceration crisis. Smith, who created, wrote and performs the show (with music composed and performed by Marcus Shelby) returns to Boston in August as she continues to develop the piece at the Loeb Drama Center at Cambridge’s American Repertory Theater. Transforming herself into many different people, re-created from her extensive interviews, Smith will offer her trademark, spot-on recreations of the students, parents, teachers and administrators caught in America’s school-to-prison pipeline. A second act of facilitated discussions, in the

Fans of musical theater must make it a point to get to the North Shore Music Theater (NSMT) in Beverly this summer. This treasure outside of Boston not only has been offering its “Out at the North Shore” nights for the LGBT community for many years, but consistently presents top-notch productions of iconic shows. Get ready for the delightful Mary Poppins July 12–July 24 and all the beloved Richard M. Sherman and Robert B. Sherman songs that we remember from the 1964 Disney film. The stage version boasts a book by “Downton Abbey” creator Julian Fellowes, with new songs (in addition to the classics, of course) by Anthony Drewe and George Stiles. The Out at the North Shore night for the LGBT community is July 21, 7:30 p.m.

and includes a free post-show reception with the cast at the Backstage Bistro. From August 16 to Sept. 4, NSMT presents another great film-to-stage creation, “Singin’ in the Rain.” It’s based on the MGM film starring Gene Kelly and Debbie Reynolds that’s considered one of Hollywood’s greatest all-time musicals, with a screenplay by Betty Comden and Adolph Green and songs by Arthur Freed and Nacio Herb Brown. And we’re promised that, yes, it really will rain onstage. LGBT audiences can save the date of August 25, 7:30 p.m., for Out at the North Shore and another free, post-show reception with the cast. [LK]

For tickets and more information, go to www.nsmt.org

call and response tradition, asks audiences to evaluate their own position in a network of difficult histories and devastating social policies. The winner of a 2012 National Humanities Medal and the 2016 Guggenheim Fellowship for Theatre Arts (for the development of “Notes from the Field”), as well as a 1996 MacArthur Foundation Fellowship, Smith performed this “California Chapter” at the Berkeley Repertory Theatre, which the Los Angeles Times included among its picks for “best theater of 2015.” The “California Chapter” is the first of several planned chapters, with Baltimore (Smith’s hometown), Boston and Philadelphia to come. [LK]

For further information, go to www. americanrepertorytheater.org

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SIZZLIN’ SUMMER CINEMA FLICKERS: Rhode Island International Film Festival (RIIFF) turns 20 this year. Since its earliest years, the RIIFF, running August 9-14, has always had a strong LGBT component. “It’s part of our history and we take great pride in it,” says Shawn Quirk, RIIFF program director. The 18th annual Providence LGBTQ Film Festival, a cinematic sidebar of the FLICKERS: Rhode Island International Film Festival, runs concurrently with RIIFF at venues around the city including Bell Street Chapel, the RISD Metcalf Auditorium, and AS220 95 Empire Black Box Theater. With a diverse slate of features, shorts and documentaries, the six-day program also includes a much-anticipated party on August 13 at Providence’s popular nightclub The Dark Lady. The LGBTQ fest opens August 9 with a shorts program. Highlights include “Jamie,” director Christopher Manning’s portrait of a quiet loner in his early twenties who is clumsily looking for his first relationship. “Oh-bejoyful,” directed by Susan Jacobson, is about a feisty elder named Rita bent on dragging her granddaughter out of the closet. “Victor XX,” directed by Ian Garrido of Spain, is about the secret life of Victor, who lives in a small seaside village in Almeria with his mother and his girlfriend. But away from them, he lives as both a man and a woman. Feature highlights at the festival include director Samuel Osborne’s gritty “A Proud Woman,” about a transgender caretaker in Singapore who’s forced to fight for her job when the

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daughter of the woman she works for, threatens to fire her. Aaron Bear’s documentary “Finding Kim” follows the honest journey of a remarkable individual managing the beginnings of gender re-assignment at 50 years old. But the film transcends issues around gender in its examination of bigger-picture issues of identity and self-acceptance. “Finding Kim” includes interviews with Dan Savage, Carmen Carerra, Calpernia Addams and Buck Angel. Another documentary “I’m a Pornstar—Gay4Pay” is director Charlie David’s look at the disproportionate percentage of men working in gay porn who identify as straight. David’s film asks the question, why would a straight man do gay porn? A variety of answers sheds fascinating light on a niche corner of gay life. On the comic front, “Shared Rooms” from director Rob Williams explores the meaning of home and family through three interrelated stories of gay men finding connections during the week between Christmas and New Year’s Day—a married couple with a foster gay teen; a pair of roommates forced to share a bed for the week; and two men looking for a quick hookup who end up finding a much stronger connection. In Casper Andreas’s romantic comedy caper “Flatbush Luck,” two cousins from Flatbush stumble across insider trading tips and start tapping a phone line to get even more. But when stock tips turn to murder plots, the hapless men are unable to go to the police and soon find themselves in over their heads. [LK]

For tickets and more information go to www.film-festival.org

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SONG AND DANCE Since its founding in 1969, the Reagle Music Theatre of Greater Boston has consistently delivered solid entertainment at its home at the Robinson Theatre in Waltham. If you live in the MetroWest area, or if you just feel like getting out of town for a show, check out the Reagle’s summer production of “Thoroughly Modern Millie.” Running July 7-17 for eight performances, “Millie,” of course, is the Tony-winning, 1920s-set musical based on the 1967 film that starred Carol Channing and Julie Andrews. It’s filled with lavish dance numbers, fabulous flappers, eccentric New Yorkers and soaring musical numbers including “Forget About the Boy,” “Only In New York” and “Falling in Love With Someone.” Richard Morris

and Dick Scanlan wrote the show’s book; Jeanine Tesori of “Fun Home” fame wrote its new music; and Scanlan contributed new lyrics. Directed by Broadway veteran Cynthia Thole (“Me and My Girl”), Millie features the Reagle Music Theater debut of Gabrielle Carrubba (“American Idol ,”Season 11, “Spring Awakening”) as Millie Dumont, a small-town girl who arrives in New York City to lead a thoroughly modern life. Millie will also feature local favorite Maryann Zschau who recreates the role that 10 years ago won her a third IRNE Award. Aschau also won IRNE awards for “A Little Night Music” (Desiree, Lyric Stage) and “Sunday in the Park with George” (Dot, Lyric Stage). Natick native and Emerson grad Mark Linehan costars as as Trevor Graydon (“Mame,” “The Music Man,” “Hairspray” and “South Pacific” at the Reagle). Then, running Aug. 4-14, the Reagle ends its summer season with its staging of the George and Ira Gershwin’s musical “Crazy for You.” [LK]

For tickets and more information, go to www. reaglemusictheatre.com

THESE ARE THE DAYS One of the highlights of the highlightfilled, Tony-winning musical “Fun Home” was Judy Kuhn’s poignant turn as Alison Bechdel’s mother and her show-stopper, “Days and Days.” That role netted Kuhn her third Tony

nomination; she had other award-winning roles in musicals including “She Loves Me,” “Chess,” “Les Misérables,” “Rags” and “The Mystery of Edwin Drood,” among many others. I could not live without her solo CDs, especially 2013’s “All This Happiness” and 1995’s “Just In Time: Judy Kuhn Sings Jule Styne” (her version of “I Fall in Love Too Easily” is a heart-wringer.) Kuhn has sung on concert stages around the world including appearances at Carnegie Hall, Avery Fisher Hall, The Royal Albert Hall in London and with Peter Nero and the Philly Pops Orchestra. Now she’ll be on the intimate Art House stage as part of Mark Cortale’s Broadway series in Provincetown for two shows only on July 29 and 30 with Seth Rudetsky. I’d pay to hear Kuhn sing anything, but “Days and Days” is priceless. [LK]

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MAYE IN AUGUST She’s the real deal: a consummate cabaret singer whose resume dates back to Steve Allen’s legendary TV talk show. Now 87, with better pipes and presence than many entertainers half her age, Marilyn Maye is one of the last of the great nightclub singers who toured the country in the ’50s and ’60s, singing jazz standards. Now a fixture at New York’s cabarets, at 54 Below last year she performed “A Tribute to Johnny Carson,” which paid homage to the host on whose late-night talk show Maye appeared 76 times, the record

for a singer. After one “Tonight Show” appearance, Carson turned to the audience and paid Maye the highest compliment with the simple accolade: “And that, young singers, is the way its done.” Maye’s still doing it. With the impeccable Billy Stritch at the piano, she will headline four shows at the Art House in Provincetown August 3-6. I’ve seen Maye in the cozy confines of the Art House, where she’s performed since the Broadway series began, drawing audiences of all ages, and I’ll never forget it. She’s an unforgettable entertainer and musical treasure. Her wide-ranging repertoire includes Maye’s signature song, “Step to the Rear”; her moving interpretations of Stephen Sondheim’s material; and her stellar renditions of Sinatra’s hits such as “Fly Me to the Moon,” “Come Fly With Me” and “I’ve Got the World On A String.” Maye’s been singing professionally since she won a 13-week

appearance on radio station WIBW in her native Topeka, Kansas, at age nine. Her album with full orchestra, “The Lamp is Low,” is considered a classic and her place in American music history was assured when the Arts Council of the Smithsonian Institution selected her LP “Too Late Now” for the Smithsonian-produced album of the 110 Best American Compositions of the Twentieth Century. Maye’s many symphony concert appearances around the country include the Florida Symphony, the Philly Pops, the Phoenix Symphony, the Kansas City Symphony and the Pasadena Symphony with frequent accompanist Michael Feinstein conducting. Her two appearances with the New York Pops at Carnegie Hall for tributes to Sondheim and Frank Loesser received show-stopping applause and rave reviews. [LK]

For tickets and information, go to www. markcortalepresents.com

EIGHTIES TIME WARP Get ready for really big hair, mullets and Michael Jackson as the annual Provincetown Carnival goes back to the ‘80s. That’s the theme of the week of events August 13-18 ranging from pool parties and boat cruises to a Back to the Future Costume Ball on August 15 at the Crown and Anchor. The highlight for many—gay and straight alike—is the Carnival Parade, one of the largest outdoor celebrations in Massachusetts that attracts anyone and everyone looking to cheer the elaborate floats, outlandish costumes and festive atmosphere along Commercial Street. The parade is August 18 starting at 3 p.m. from the Harbor Hotel down Commercial to Franklin Street. Sponsored by the Provincetown Business Guild, Carnival is said to attract some 90,000 revelers from all walks of life in this not-to-bemissed celebration of Provincetown’s glitter, glamour and good vibes. [LK]

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PILLOW TALK Jacob’s Pillow Dance in Becket, Massachusetts is lauded worldwide as a “hub and mecca of dancing” (TIME Magazine) and “one of America’s most precious cultural assets” (Mikhail Baryshnikov, no less). Not only that, but its rich history is deeply connected with LGBT history. Jacob’s Pillow celebrates its LGBT connections and community—not to mention some amazing dance performances—at its annual Weekend Out at the Pillow. Running July 22-24, there are talks, tours, exhibits and ticketed and free performances, all at the sumptuous, 220-acre National Historic Landmark, a recipient of the prestigious National Medal of Arts and home to America’s longest-running international dance festival. Highlights include the Chase Brock Experience Inside/Out performance; late night Dance Party with DJ BFG on Saturday; performances by two acclaimed

troupes, ZviDance and BalletX; a screening of the film “Feelings are Facts: The Life of Yvonne Rainer” about the work of the queer feminist choreographer; and a one-of-a-kind Ted Shawn and his Men Dancers tour led by Norton Owen, director of preservation for Jacob’s Pillow Dance Festival and the author of “A Certain Place: The Jacob’s Pillow Story.” Norton will give visitors an up-close look at the vibrant history and place in LGBT culture of Jacob’s Pillow founder Ted Shawn whose Company of Men Dancers, launched in the 1930s to showcase athletic and masculine movement, forever changed the place of male dancers in the performing arena. And then there are the shows. BalletX performs during the weekend at the Ted Shawn Theatre. Founded in 2005 and directed by Christine Cox, Philadelphia’s premier contemporary ballet company BalletX brings co-founder Matthew Neenan’s

and composer Rosie Langabeer’s dreamlike story ballet “Sunset, o639 Hours” to the Ted Shawn Theatre. Neenan’s ballet interprets the tragic true story of pilot Edwin Musick’s 1938 inaugural airmail flight across the Pacific. The romantic narrative of bravery and loss is accompanied by a live cabaret-style band, illustrating the sights and sounds of pre-World War II days of New Zealand, Samoa and Hawaii. ZviDance, under the artistic vision of Israeli-born Zvi Gotheiner, performs during the weekend at the Doris Duke Theater. The company performs its 10-dancer triptych “Escher/ Bacon/Rothko” in three distinct sections inspired by the artwork of 20th-century masters M.C. Escher, Francis Bacon and Mark Rothko. Gotheiner’s choreography illuminates each artists’ notion of modernity accompanied by an original score by composer Scott Killian. [LK]

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The Equality Fund at the Boston Foundation makes high-impact grants to innovative nonprofits that are working to improve the lives of Greater Boston’s LGBTQ individuals today and forever. Since the Fund was launched in 2012, nearly $350,000 has been awarded to 25 different LGBTQ nonprofits and organizations that focus on LGBTQ programming. We are proud to announce our 2016 grantees: Boston Alliance of LGBTQ Youth Boston Children’s Hospital Ethos Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, Inc. George H. and Irene L. Walker Home for Children, Inc. Greater Boston Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, Inc. Hispanic Black Gay Coalition Home for Little Wanderers, Inc. OUT MetroWest, Inc. Samaritans, Inc. Theater Offensive, Inc.

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AT THE MOVIES Two excellent films by accomplished gay indie filmmakers open in Boston this summer after making the festival rounds, including the Provincetown International Film Festival where both screened last month. Like his 2014 film “Love is Strange,” Ira Sachs’ new film “Little Men,” which opens in Boston in late July, is a touchingly realistic examination of the relationships between people thrown together by circumstance. In “Love is Strange,” the economics of life in New York forced a recently wed gay couple (John Lithgow and Alfred Molina) to live separately. In “Little Men,” a struggling actor (Greg Kinnear) inherits a Brooklyn building from his father and moves his own family there. Thirteen-year-old Jake (Theo Taplitz) strikes up an easy friendship with outgoing Tony (Michael Barbieri), the son of immigrant seamstress Leonor (Paulina Garcia), who’s been renting the ground floor shop in the building—at below-market rate—for several years. There isn’t anything overtly gay about the film, as with Sachs’ “Leave the Lights On” (2012) or “Love is Strange,” but “Little Men” is so wellcalibrated and the performances of the young leads so pitch perfect that it’s easy to imagine a future where one, or both, does turn out to be gay. Not that it matters. The film so effectively conveys of the ease of boyhood friendship as Jake and Tony bond over video games, skateboarding in the streets and their yearning to be artists—it’s Tony, who wants to be an actor—who Theencourages Boston Foundation first Jake’s artSpiritThe Magazine work. kids create a world that’s from thehalf petty 3.5 xseparate 10.5 vertical

jealousies, disappointments and material concerns of the adults around them. There are no heroes and villains in this tale of gentrification: just people who stumble and a movie that’s full of small but significant truths about humankind. The characters in French writer/director Catherine Corsini’s luminous “Summertime” (opening in August) will linger in memory like a vibrant sinking sun. Set in France in 1971, it’s a passionate romance between Delphine (Izïa Higelin), who moves to Paris from her conservative parents’ farm near Limoges, and Carole (Cécile de France), a feisty feminist who’s part of a group that stages street protests and other acts of political disruption. Delphine is drawn to Carole and her group’s energy and purpose—in one great scene, they spring a gay man from a psychiatric hospital. It perfectly captures the bold and daring grassroots activism of early feminist and gay rights advocates—and what an intoxicating adventure it was. When a family illness forces Delphine back to the farm, Carole decides to follow and the couple realizes that the provinces are no match for Paris. This is Corsini’s ninth feature film (she wrote it with French screenwriter and director Laurette Polmanss) and it’s assured and visually breathtaking, aided by noted cinematographer Jeanne Lapoirie whose work includes such terrific movies as “Wild Reeds,” “8 Women,” “Under the Sand” and “Gett: The Trial of Viviane Amsalem.” [LK]

“Summertime,” which was also featured in the Boston LGBT Film Festival this year, nails the heady ‘70s and its erotically charged atmosphere of liberation.

“Little Men”

“Summertime”

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Tangible Treasures History Project celebrates 36 years as keeper of memories in the making “We hold the community’s memories here.” That’s how Joan Ilacqua describes the archives of the History Project, one of the country’s largest independent archives of LGBTQ history. (It is assuredly the largest in New England.) Tucked away in a fourth floor office suite on the Back Bay/South End borderline—the same building that houses the Boston Living Center—The

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History Project holds well over 700,000 painstakingly organized and annotated items that reflect the collective memory banks of queer Boston. There are handwritten letters and journals, and timeworn photographs—from snapshots of seminal societal moments, like the advent of gay marriage in Massachusetts, to personal Polaroids from bygone trips to Provincetown. And there’s endless ephemera: matchbooks from long-shuttered Boston gay bars, a leather jacket once worn by a member of a gay motorcycle club, 1970s subway placards that controversially covered MBTA cars in activists’ renderings of a lavender rhinoceros, a uniquely Boston-born pride symbol. The items

arrive here via donations, bequeathments, and active solicitation—even, sometimes, from digging through trash. They’re all treasure. The History Project was founded in 1980 by a team that includes still-current board member Libby Bouvier, and started off by simply building educational slideshows for screenings at bars and, eventually, the era’s more progressive universities. Since then, the nonprofit, entirely volunteer-run organization has mounted major exhibitions, mounted in-depth walking tours, undertaken the collection of oral histories from prominent LGBTQ community members and started the long, laborious process of digitizing its archives.

When it comes to protecting and preserving LGBTQ history, The History Project was well ahead of the curve. But in recent years there have been hopeful signs that the country’s most authoritative conservators of culture are more willing to inclusively embrace the still-young field of queer history. In 2014, the National Park Service announced its LGBTQ Heritage Initiative to identify places associated with the community’s history. That same year, the Smithsonian Institution added to its collection hundreds of items documenting LGBTQ history, from photos and papers to props from “Will & Grace.” And

more recently, Obama has hinted that the Stonewall Inn may soon be recognized as the country’s first National Monument honoring LGBT rights. (The U.S. Secretary of the Interior has already endorsed the effort.) But Bostonians already have at their fingertips a wealth of tangible treasure related to local LGBTQ history, accessed by attending a History Project exhibition, special event or walking tour. At 28 years old, Ilacqua is younger than the organization for which she’s now a board member. And she understands firsthand the power

that LGBTQ history has on the future of the community. “Working in these archives is actually what helped me to come out,” says Ilacqua. “I was in grad school when I started here, and just seeing the evidence of all the people who worked so hard for what we have now—it really rocketed that comingout process for me.” “As gay people, we have a common culture. It terrifies me to imagine that could ever be lost.” Thanks to The History Project, that will never happen here. [x]

The following images represent just a small selection of historic photographs in The History Project’s archives. To learn more, volunteer, stay up to date on events or make a donation of time, money or materials, visit historyproject.org.

[OPPOSITE] Undated: Members of the Daughters of Bilitus playing a softball

game. Founded in San Francisco in 1955, The Daughters of Bilitus was America’s first lesbian political rights organization. The Boston chapter, which ran from 1969 to the early 2000s, was the country’s longest-running chapter.

Circa 1990: Orlando Del Valle, now a History Project board member, wearing a “Tutti Fruitti” hat at Club Antorcha. Club Antorcha, originally Latinos Unidos, was formed in 1989 to foster a social network and expand the visibility for Latino gay men in Boston. PHOTO Ken Rall

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1980: Members of The History Project, founded in February of that year, at the organization’s first Pride march. Members wore yellow handkerchiefs as homage to the “hanky code,” a method through which gay cruisers would covertly signal sexual preferences. photo J.D. Levine/Northeastern University

[OPPOSITE] 1987: The History

Project’s archives contain images from protests addressing issues that now seem unthinkable. Here a protestor at the Massachusetts State House during Boston Pride is opposing state policies that essentially excluded gay and lesbian people from becoming foster parents. Massachusetts rescinded those regulations in 1990 amid efforts from GLAD and the ACLU.

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[OPPOSITE] Circa 1945: Handsome servicemen in a photo from a Wellesley “Tea Party”

hosted by a local professor. Boston resident Preston Claridge recalls that the man at far right, who pops up in several photos from the era, was nicknamed “Veronica the Sailor” for his hairstyle that recalled Veronica Lake. PHOTO Susan Fleischmann)

1984: AIDS activists protesting at Boston Pride. Each date signifies the death of an untreated AIDS patient. The ‘80s also saw members of ACT/UP hold “die-ins” in the street to demand urgent action. PHOTO Debbie Rich

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1986: Members of United Fruit Company, a gay men’s guerilla theater troupe. In 1989, Abe Rybeck, third from left with arms at head, would become the founding artistic director of the still-running, still-edgy organization The Theater Offensive. PHOTO Susan Fleischmann

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[OPPOSITE] 1983: The History Project

archives contain photos from many now-shuttered gay bars and gathering spots. Pictured here is Kate Rushin, member of the Combahee River Collective, a black feminist lesbian organization active founded in Boston in 1974. She is at Oasis Coffeehouse, which featured lesbian performers on Boylston Street.

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October 2015: History happens every day, and The History Project continues to honor those who contribute to the still-unfolding LGBTQ story. Pictured here are the most recent honorees recognized at the organization’s annual HistoryMaker Awards: Christine M. Hurley, activist and organizer; Abe Rybeck, founding artistic director of The Theater Offensive; and Sandi Hammond, director of the Butterfly Music Transgender Chorus. PHOTO Marilyn Humphries

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[OPPOSITE] March 1, 1991: Ribbon cutting

to open the new Fenway Community Health Center on Haviland Street. Fenway Health, which started in 1971 as a basement drop-in center, is now a world-renowned institution headquartered at Boylston Street’s state-of-the-art Ansin Building, the largest LGBT healthcare and research facility in the country. PHOTO Debbie Rich)

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AIDS Walk Esplanade | Boston | June 5, 2016

Thousands of participants braved cloudy skies to come out and participate in the 31st annual AIDS Walk Boston & 5K Run, New England’s largest HIV/AIDS fundraising and awareness event. The 6.2-mile walk and competitive, timed 5K run drew thousands of participants. WCVB TV newscaster Randy Price emceed the event, which included a Wellness Festival and post-walk celebration Ciarra Latimer aross the finish line at the Hatch Shell.

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Randy Price and Carl Sciortino

Betty Byrnes, Carl Sciortino and Inez Folsom

Carl Sciortino and Harold du Four Anderson

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The Silver Party Brookline Holiday Inn | Boston | June 5, 2016

Elder revelers and friends filled the ballroom for the annual “Siver Party” Boston Pride tea dance, sponsored by the LGBT Senior Pride Coalition.

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The Men’s Event Marriot Copley Place | Boston | March 19, 2016

More than 1,300 gay and bisexual men, transgender people, friends and event supporters and volunteers cheered as Douglas M. Brooks received the Congressman Gerry E. Studds Visibility Award at the 2016 Men’s Event. Brooks, director of the White House’s Office of National AIDS Policy, began his career in public service at the Provincetown AIDS Support Group. This year’s festivities, which included a reception, dinner, silent auction, speakers including Boston Mayor Martin J. Walsh and dancing to funk favorites from Booty Vortex and DJ Maryalice, raised over $630,000 in cash and pledges to support the life-saving services and programs at Fenway Health.

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Boston Mayor Martin J. Walsh Douglas M. Brook Live auction Booty Vortex Fenway President & CEO Dr. Stephen Boswell White House Director of the Office of National AIDS Policy Douglas M. Brooks received the Congressman Gerry E. Studds Visibility Award at Saturday’s Men’s Event. Fenway Health Board member Benjamin Perkins; Congressman Gerry E. Studds’ widower Dean Hara; Douglas M. Brooks, Gerry E. Studds Award recipient; Fenway President & CEO Dr. Stephen Boswell; and Dr. Kenneth Mayer, medical research director and co-chair of The Fenway Institute. John Koss, Stephen Martyak, Stephen Boswell, Douglas M. Brook, Ryan Gosser and Raul G. Medina.

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The Dinner Party Marriot Copley Place | Boston | April 9, 2016

In honor of its 25th anniversary, the event previously known as the Women’s Dinner Party returned to its original name: The Dinner Party. At this year’s silver shindig, Massachusetts Attorney General Maura Healy received the 2016 Dr. Susan M. Love Award. More than 1,100 lesiban and bisexual women, transgender people, friends, and event supporters and volunteers enjoyed performances by comedians Gina Yashere and Kate Clinton, a host of speakers. Wining, dining and dancing the night away to the sounds of Splash, together they raised more than $460,000 in cash and pledges to support the life-saving services and programs at Fenway Health.

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Co-chairs throughout the years Kate Clinton Massachussetts Attorney General Maura Healy Tiffani Faison Gina Yashere The Women’s Health Team Splash Dinner Party co-chair Carol A. Roby; Fenway’s Director of Women’s Health Dr. Jennifer Potter; Fenway President & CEO Dr. Stephen L. Boswell; Massachusetts Attorney General Maura Healey; Fenway board member and Dinner Party co-chair Kendra E. Moore; Dinner Party co-chair Lauren K. Matysiak; and Gail Tsimprea, vice chair of Fenway Health’s board of directors.

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Massachusetts LGBTQ Bar Association Annual Dinner

Cape Cod & Provincetown Cabaretfest Crown and Anchor | Provincetown | June 2–5, 2-16

Boston Harbor Hotel | Boston | May 5, 2016

New England’s own Elyse Cherry, philanthropist and advocate for civil rights and economic justice, gave the keynote speech when the Massachusetts LGBTQ Bar Association served up its 2016 Annual Dinner. Amidst the festivities the following awards were presented: The Gwen Bloomingdale Pioneer Spirit Award went to Raffi Freedman-Gurspan, outreach and recruitment director for Presidential personnel and associate director for public engagement at The White House. The Kevin Larkin Memorial Award for Public Service honored the Boston Alliance of Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender Youth (BAGLY). And Bernadette Harrigan, assistant vice president and counsel of MassMutual Financial Group, received the Massachusetts Bar Association Community Service Award. Founded in 1985, the Massachusetts LGBTQ Bar Association is a voluntary state-wide professional association of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and allied lawyers and legal professionals, providing a visible LGBTQ presence within the Massachusetts legal community.

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CabaretFest reprised its fabulous music festival in Provincetown this year with a tribute to American musical legend Cole Porter who, for 20 years, had his own retreat in Provincetown. The event featured a Thursday-night launch party, a Friday-night variety show featuring professional and aspiring talent,

and a Saturday-night show with cabaret star Steve Ross as the headliner act. Along the way, there were master classes and a series of revues at various P’town venues. The event wound up with a Sunday buffet brunch where six master class candidates were chosen to wow the fans along with the pros.

Cabaretfest masterclass

Cabaretfest headliner Steve Ross

Jeff Macauley, accompanied by Ron Ormsby and Alan Clinger

Bobby Wetherbee receiving the CabaretFest 2016 Lifetime Achievement Award Show from Patricia Fitzpatrick and John O’Neil

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Safe Homes Gala

Cyprian Keyes Golf Club | Boylston | May 6, 2016

“Run for the Roses,” the sold-out, Kentucky Derby-themed 2016 benefit gala for Safe Homes, was attended by more than 220 people. This year’s People of Courage Award honorees included U.S. Rep. James McGovern; Linda Cavaioli, executive director YWCA of Central MA; Massachusetts State Senator Harriette Chandler; and Lori Wentworth, Griffin Sivret and Pagio Inc. This year’s annual event tripled the net earnings from the previous year in support of LGBTQ youths. Safe Homes is a program of The Bridge of Central Massachusetts, a human services agency headquartered in Worcester. It is the only program in the area which provides specialized services to LGBTQ youth. [1] [2]

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Guests at pre-event reception Peter Bacchiocchi, Michelle Baronas, Lori Wentworth, Donald Wentworth and Joe Mangiacotti Ken Bates, Laura Farnsworth, Congressman James McGovern and City Manager Ed Augustus Dale Lepage, Mayor Joe Petty John Guastella raising a paddle to donate

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OUTstanding! Annual Awards Dinner Franklin Institute of Technology | Boston | April 13, 2016

For its courageous and pioneering work for marriage equality in Massachusetts and LGBT rights in the Jewish community and beyond, the Jewish Community Relations Council of Greater Boston was honored at Keshet’s annual spring gala in Boston. Six current and former JCRC leaders accepted Hacham/Hachamat Lev Awards for their “wisdom and heart”; on behalf of the organization, the awards were presented to Executive Director Jeremy Burton and his immediate predecessor, Nancy K. Kaufman; board president Adam Suttin and past president Susan A. Calechman; Associate Director Nahma Nadich; and Jane Matlaw, a current JCRC council member and former chair of the board’s public policy committee.

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OUT MetroWest Annual Trivia Night Framingham High School | Framingham | April 15, 2016

Event planners exceeded their own expectations when OUT MetroWest nearly doubled its attendance from last year’s annual trivia night. With the help of 300 attendees, the nonprofit brought in $12,000 to support its programs for LGBT middle and high school youth. Along with eight rounds of diverse trivia questions, the crowd enjoyed a silent auction and pizza donated by Bertucci’s in Wellesley. The winning team, a group from The Plymouth Church in Framingham, received tickets to Showcase Cinemas. OUT MetroWest runs educational, social and supportive programs for middle and high school youth in Framingham, Newton and Wellesley.

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Pride & Passion Mariott Copley Place | Boston | May 6, 2016

Held on Mother’s Day weekend, Greater Boston PFLAG’s Pride & Passion Benefit and Auction honored one of the nation’s most inspirational moms, Cynthia Germanotta, co-founder and president of Born This Way Foundation, and the proud mother of Lady Gaga, a leading voice in the LGBTQ movement. The event celebrated mothers and all those who provide unconditional love and support to their families, friends and loved ones. Joining the celebration were honorary co-chairs Attorney General Maura Healey, and culinary chair Karen Akunowicz, executive chef at Myers & Chang and a 2015 James Beard Nominee and Top Chef contestant, and her mother Randie Akunowicz.

Pride & Passion at the Boston Marriott Copley Place

Attorney General Maura Healey

The Lemay Family

Scholarship winners at pre-event reception

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David Brown & Karen Akunowicz

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Intersectionality Conference Blackstone Community Center | Boston | March 22, 2016

Discrimination against one represents discrimination against all. That was the message that emerged from a public community forum on “intersectionality” focusing on challenges faced by trans people of color in the community. Along with a panel of distinguished guests, more than 80 people attended the event, hosted by Boston Pride, Black Pride, and Latin@Pride. The event was held at the Boston Centers for Youth & Families’ Blackstone Community Center. Intersectionality refers to social categories—like race, class, and gender—and how, when they overlap, in all kinds of circumstances, the result can lead to discrimination and disadvantage.

Karen Akunowicz and her mom Randie Akunowicz

Mimi Lemay

Brown Brothers Harriman

Wendell Chestnut and a friend

Dorothy Donohue with her son Duncan Donahue

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Dinnerfest RED Party + Auction Red Lantern | Boston | April 24, 2016

The 26th annual Dinnerfest RED Party + Auction, a culinarythemed auction, broke fundraising records, raising more than $120,000 for Victory Programs. This year, the showstopper was auctioneer Kathy Kingston, who inspired guests to give generously during the “Fund-A-Need” paddle bid. Bidding followed a moving client speaker who shared her story of recovery with the aid of Victory Programs’ life-saving programs with attendees. Victory Programs has more than 40 years of experience helping those struggling with homelessness, drug and alcohol addiction and chronic illnesses including HIV/AIDS. 5

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Alex Bruder and Aaquila Abdulnur of the VPI Development Team Sandra Wineman, Verna Turbulence and Geralyn Skinner Dinnerfest guests David Whitman, Vinny Gallucci Chuck Smith and the Hat Sisters Boston Sister of Perpetual Indulgence Gloria LeLuia at the silent auction Kathy Kingston, auctioneer Victory Programs’ President & CEO Jonathan Scott and Kathy Kingston, auctioneer Rev. Judy Mannheim and Polly Leland-Mayer

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Northampton Pride Main Street | Northampton, MA | May 7, 2016

Raindrops and cloudy skies only added to the backdrop for a great big rainbow of some 25,000 LGBTQ marchers and friends winding their way along Main Street and throught the city of Northampton to the Pride Celebration at the Tricounty Fairgrounds. This year marked the 35th anniversary of Noho Pride.

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“If/Then”

Twenty years ago, Anthony Rapp originated the role of Mark Cohen in “Rent,” a rock opera that exploded LGBT themes across Broadway. Now the self-identified queer actor is back in Boston with “If/Then,” reprising the role of Lucas, a bisexual character that Rapp also originated in the Tony-nominated Broadway production. (Coincidentally, the Broadway run reunited Rapp with his “Rent” costar Idina Menzel and director Michael Greif.) “If/Then” tracks two possible life trajectories for its protagonist Elizabeth, illustrating how a single decision can lead to radically divergent paths and different consequences. And it’s chance to grab a front row seat for Rapp, a real theater world original. WHEN

July 5 – 17

WHERE

HOW

Boston Opera House in Boston broadwayinboston.com

“The Calamari Sisters” You’ve heard of “dinner and a show?” Think of this as “light bites and brassy babes.” The Calamari Sisters are Jay Falzone and Stephen Smith, starring as Delphine Calamari and Carmela Calamari, respectively, two housecoat-chic Italian broads from Brooklyn who will sing, dance and cook their way into your hearts during an uproarious evening. Expect this drag duo to deliver full-throated renditions of Broadway and pop tunes, interactive fried dough-making lessons, and a few tastes of their signature sausage and peppers. You don’t want to miss it. Capice?

GLAD Summer Party It’s pretty hard to overstate the importance and impact of Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD). The work of this Boston legal advocacy organization reverberates around the country—and the world. Its successes in landmark cases have created new benchmarks for LGBT rights, including issues like equal marriage; it was GLAD’s Mary Bonauto who argued the case that made Massachusetts the first state in the country to welcome same-sex marriage, and it was Bonauto who stood before the Supreme Court in April to make the same case there. So sign us up to support GLAD at is annual summer fling in Provincetown, an always-fabulous fete filled with mixing, mingling, cocktails, hors d’oeuvres and some exciting auction items. Sold! WHEN

WHERE

Pilgrim Monument & Provincetown Saturday, July 30 Museum in Provincetown

HOW

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WHEN

WHERE

HOW

July 5 – September 4

Sage Inn & Lounge in Provincetown

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Provincetown Carnival: Back to the ’80s Okay, all you Material Girls and Men at Work: it’s time to dust off your denim cutoffs, dip into your neon makeup kit, and tease your bands to Flock of Seagulls heights. It’s time for Provincetown’s annual carnival, and this year’s theme is “Back to

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the 80s.” The festivities will include not only the vibrant parade through Commercial Street, but special events like the “Boys Just Want to Have Fun Pool Party” at Brass Key Guesthouse, “Back to the Future Costume Ball” at Crown & Anchor, and “It’s Raining Men Dance Party” at the A-House. Plus there’s the Provincetown debut of Levis Kreis, the out singer-songwriter and Tony award winner for “Million Dollar Quartet.” He’ll play two shows (August 16 & 17) at Paramount at the Crown & Anchor.

The Go-Go’s Farewell Tour ’

WHEN

WHERE

HOW

August 13 – 19

Throughout Provincetown

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Ever since the 80s, The Go-Go’s have had a strong following in the LGBT community. Plenty of young lesbians had their first girl crush on the members of this rollicking new wave band, the first (and still only) all-female rock group to hit the top of the Billboard charts by both writing their own songs and playing their own instruments. And front-woman Belinda Carlisle has been vocal in support of LGBT rights; her gay son, James Duke Mason, is a 24-year old out politician in West Hollywood. Sadly, the girls have promised that this tour will be their last go-round. They’ve still got the beat, so take a “Vacation” day and make sure you catch them before their lips are sealed—forever. WHEN/WHERE

HOW

Monday, August 8 at House of Blues, Boston; Wednesday, August 10 at Ridgefield Playhouse in Ridgefield, CT

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New London Weekend Out at the Pillow Pride Jacob’s Pillow Festival is famous in the dance world for the caliber of its international talent. And it’s legendary in LGBT history for its founder, modern dance pioneer Ted Shawn, who blazed trails with an all-male troupe that included his longtime lover. A gay-focused weekend at the Pillow is a natural fit, and bursts with special exhibits, performances, tours and socials. Besides the expected excellent dance performances, special “Weekend OUT” events include a late night dance party with DJ BFG and a screening of the documentary “Feelings are Facts: The Life of Yvonne Rainer” about the work of the queer feminist choreographer. WHEN

WHERE

HOW

Friday, July 22 through Sunday, July 24

Jacob’s Pillow Dance in Becket, MA

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June is the officially designated LGBT Pride Month. (Thanks, Obama!) But it’s nice to have something to look forward to later in the summer—you know, after you’ve sufficiently recovered from the back-to-back parties. If you haven’t yet experienced Pride in The Constitution State, head to the seaport of New London for weekend festivities that include a Friday night drag contest, Saturday lineup of live entertainment on an Oceanside boardwalk, and a beachside festival with volleyball courts and plenty of vendors. Burst out of your Boston-centric bubble and celebrate in the summer sun. WHEN

WHERE

HOW

August 26, 27 New London, CT newlondonpride.com

Wanda Sykes With so many film, TV, and standup comedy show credits to her name, we’ve known for a long time that Wanda Sykes is one of the funniest women in the entertainment business. But when she came out in 2008 at an equal marriage rally in Las Vegas, we learned she was one of the bravest too. Since then the GLAAD award winner has become one of the gay community’s most prominent comedians. In fact, when she was the featured entertainer for the White House Correspondents’ Association dinner in 2009, she became both the first African American woman and the first openly LGBT person to fill that role. Here’s a chance to check out her always-uproarious standup show, where nothing – from politics to pop culture – will be off limits. WHEN

WHERE

HOW

Saturday, August 6

Foxwoods Resort Casino in Mashantucket, CT

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Nick Offerman & Megan Providence Mullally—Summer of 69: LGBTQ Film No Apostrophe Tour Festival The downside to creating an indelible character is that it’s hard to be seen as someone else. And to the gay community, Megan Mullally will forever be linked to Karen Walker, the pill-popping, vodka-swilling, bon mot-dropping rich bitch of “Will & Grace.” But to be honest, she might be even funnier when she’s just being Megan Mullally—especially when she’s paired with her husband, “Parks and Recreation” star Nick Offerman, in this uproarious show. It’s a naughty night of song, dance and raunchy storytelling skits that sees the couple open up the door to their bedroom and recount to the audience sordid tales from their early courtship to present sex lives. And it’s all gust busting hilarious, even without Karen Walker in sight. WHEN/WHERE

HOW

August 26 at The Wilbur Theatre in Boston; August 27 at Foxwoods Resort Casino in Mashantucket, CT; August 30 at Merrill Auditorium in Portland, ME; August 31 at Flynn Center for the Performing Arts in Burlington, VT

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The Ocean State is ready for its close-up. Film has always been a powerful medium for sharing stories that reflect the LGBT experience, and the 17th annual installment of this queer film fest will bring together over 40 films—from comedies to dramas to documentaries—that give insight to our lives. Screenings will be held around the city, though concentrated at Bell Street Chapel Theatre, and there’s also a closing night block party at gay club The Dark Lady that will give attendees a chance to mix and mingle with some of the visiting filmmakers. Lights, camera, action! WHEN

WHERE

HOW

Throughout film-festival.org/prov. August 9 – 14 Providence, RI glbt.fest.php

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The “boutique” styled all-inclusive fertility center allows patients to experience treatment in a smaller, more intimate environment, with absolute focus on the patient. Individualized treatment plans for each unique story and frequent physician contact at each visit is the exclusive difference for a patient at Fertility Solutions. The in-house, nationally recognized ART lab, ensures tighter controls and top-notch security for the best chance at successful treatment. We are “Your solution to Building a Family.” . 781-326-2451 fertilitysolutionsne.com

Osorio Dental Group

We offer exceptional dentistry in a caring, non-judgmental environment. Our LGBTQ supportive dentists and staff will ensure your comfort.

Friendly, personalized dental care

State of the Art Technology

James R. Seligman, DMD

“Best of the South End” — SOUTH END NEWS

SouthEndDental.com

1180 Washington Street Boston, MA 02118 617.451.0011

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Personalized dental care; healthy, beautiful smiles; comfortable, caring service in our state-of-the-art dental facility in the heart of the South End. It’s no secret that healthy teeth and a radiant smile can improve your appearance, your self-esteem and your overall health. Whether your goal is to restore your smile or maintain good oral health, you can benefit from Dr. James R. Seligman’s comprehensive approach to dental care. 617-451-0011 SouthEndDental.com

Wellspring Weight Loss

Your Weight. Your Life. Take Control. The country’s largest and most respected network of weight loss programs, includes an adults-only residential facility with upscale amenities, state-of-the art facilities, and chef prepared meals. or call us at 1-866-364-0808 wellspringweightloss.com

 COMMUNITY | NONPROFIT Planned Giving at DanaFarber Cancer Institute

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Invest in a future without cancer Include Dana-Farber Cancer Institute and the Jimmy Fund in your estate plans to reach your financial goals and help fight cancer. 800-535-5577 Dana-Farber.org/spirit

www.osoriodentalboston.com

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 HOME | GARDEN Circle Furniture

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Furniture ... Made for Real Life Circle Furniture offers an eclectic selection of furniture for traditional and contemporary homes, fast delivery times for made-to-order items, corporate philanthropy, support of the regional economy, and most of all, fun. 31 St. James Ave. Boston, MA 617-778-0887 www.circlefurniture.com

Looking for a beautiful apartment with stunning views of the Boston Harbor, a building full of first-class amenities and a vibrant community to live in? Get it all at Portside at East Pier. Whether you want to relax in comfort at home, walk the waterfront, explore the outdoors or find some of the best food in Boston, there’s plenty of action to be had here. Plus, with convenient access to the T at Maverick Station, the rest of the city is just a short train ride away. Come experience a place where discovery lies around every corner. It’s East Boston. But when you live at Portside at East Pier, you’ll just call it home. GoEastPier.com

Dover Rug

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New Showroom Now Open Dover Rug & Home Dover Rug & Home offers the largest selection of fine floor coverings and window treatments in New England. Visit their BRAND NEW location at 721 Worcester Street in Natick (RT-9) As the “Best of Boston Home 2011” recipient, their larger showroom has something for every budget. Dover Rug & Home is headquartered at 721 Worcester Road (Route 9), Natick, MA 508-651-3500. Dover-Boston is located at 390 Stuart Street in the Back Bay, Boston 617-266-3600. 721 Worcester Street (Route 9) Natick, MA 508-651-3500 www.doverrug.com

Gardner Mattress

617-345-3000 www.burnslev.com

Harvard University

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Harvard University Careers If you can work, you can work at Harvard! We are so much more than just students and professors. We are the 5th largest private employer in Massachusetts, with over 16,000 employees. Almost any job you can think of exists at the University. employment.harvard.edu

UBS Financial Services, Inc.

Peter Hamilton Nee and Robert S. Edmunds UBS is proud to support Boston Spirit magazine, and salutes Fenway Health for their faithful service to our community. Please contact us any time. Peter Hamilton Nee, AIF, CRPC, VP, Investments and Robert S. Edmunds, CFP, CRPC ubs.com/team/neeedmunds.

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bright ideas begin at lucia Lucia Lighting & Design Our unique lighting store features 12 showrooms in 8,000 square feet of a lovingly restored mansion staffed with certified lighting specialists who are both educated and customer focused. Whether you want to visit our showroom or have one of our team visit you at your location in the Boston area, lucÃa lighting & design is the answer.

Great Location. Great Amenities. 9 Boston Marriott Copley Place Located in the Back Bay and a few blocks from the South End, the Boston Marriott Copley Place is perfect for business or leisure travel. The hotel features deluxe rooms, Champions, Connexion Lounge, Starbucks, indoor pool, fitness center, 70,000 sq. ft. of meeting space and is minutes from top attractions. 110 Huntington Avenue (Boston) , MA 617-236-5800 goo.gl/soiy38

Royal Sonesta Hotel Boston

Spectacular city views, luxury accommodations, regional cuisine, and contemporary art All of our 400 well-appointed guest rooms and suites offer guests the comforts of home with first-class amenities and overlook the Charles River, Cambridge or Boston's stunning skyline. The Royal Sonesta Hotel Boston features both casual and elegant dining and delicious inspired cuisine in two highly acclaimed riverfront restaurants with seasonal patios, ArtBar and Restaurant Dante. 40 Edwin H. Land Boulevard Cambridge, MA 617-806-4200 www.sonesta.com/Boston/

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Burns & Levinson LLP, a leading mid-size law firm with a client-centric culture, has over 125 attorneys in Massachusetts, Rhode Island and the District of Columbia. We work with entrepreneurs, emerging businesses, private and public companies and individuals in sophisticated business transactions, litigation and private client services—family law, trusts & estates, marriage and divorce law.

 TRAVEL | ADVENTURE

www.GardnerMattress.com

311 Western Ave. (RT-107 Lynn, MA 781-595-0026 www.lucialighting.com

Burns & Levinson, LLP

Wellesley, MA 781-446-8918 or 800-828-0717 ubs.com/team/neeedmunds

Gardner Mattress Corporation A New England favorite for generations, Gardner Mattress has been manufacturing quality custom-sized, odd-sized and handmade mattresses in their Salem factory for over 70 years! Though their landmark location is North of Boston in Salem, they also service satisfied customers throughout New England. At Gardner Mattress, you’ll find mattresses including lacetufted, layered latex, pocketed coil, quilted cotton and ivory plush, all handmade with natural materials. Located in Salem, Woburn and Newton, MA and Rye, NH.

Lucia Lighting

1265 Massachusetts Avenue Lexington, MA 781-861-1200 seasonsfour.com

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The Outdoor Living Store For over 40 years, Seasons Four has been a destination for everyone in New England that values outdoor spaces. We are a trusted source for quality, heirloom furniture for your sunroom, porch, patio, deck, and garden. We also provide unique plant material, statuary, fountains and garden accessories to complete your outdoor room.

 WEDDING | EVENTS Accent Limousine

LGBT Owned & Operated Accent Limousine & Car Service We provide professional transportation services throughout Greater Boston and the Metro-West. We grow our client base every year because we care for our clients as only a ‘Family’ business can. Our chauffeurs are professionally attired, knowledgeable, reliable, and friendly, and their professionalism and driving abilities will immediately earn your trust and confidence. We look forward to driving you on your next special occasion.

ha c o M DJ

www.accentlimo.com/spirit

DJ Mocha

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Affordable great music for your party! Boston Spirit’s official Cruise DJ for four years. Bringing, Great Music and Fun to your Events! All genres: pop, jazz, techno, world beat, swing, disco & more! 617-784-1663 MochaDJ.com

Gourmet Caterers

Peace of mind. Now that’s a wedding vow. This is a day when only perfection will do. GourmetCaterers’ attention to detail means peace of mind, so you can enjoy your wedding along with your guests. Whether your dream wedding is a large event or intimate affair, Gourmet’s team of innovative planners, chefs, stylists and servers will be by your side to ensure that everything is perfectly, uniquely, your own. GourmetCaterers.com

www.mochadj.com

Konditor Meister

Konditor Meister—Voted #1 Wedding Cakes in Boston Extraordinarily Beautiful & Elaborate Wedding Cakes & fine European pastries. Delicious Custom Holiday & Party Cakes for all occasions. 32 Wood Road (Just South of Boston) Braintree, MA 781-849-1970 KonditorMeister.com

Lombardo’s

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Lombardo’s has been providing the highest quality of hospitality and cuisine for over 50 years. From innovative menus to an upscale atmosphere, Lombardo’s ensures every wedding will exceed their client’s expectations.

RELAX | RENEW | REFLECT

World-Class Luxury Guesthouse and Spa

781-986-5000 www.lombardos.com

Long's Jewelers

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Your Source for Diamonds, Wedding Rings, Fine Jewelry & Watches Long's Jewelers has been in the business of happy moments since 1878. We're honored to help our customers celebrate milestones like engagements, weddings, birthdays, anniversaries, and retirements and not to mention "just because" moments! Whether you're looking for diamonds, wedding rings, fine jewelry, Swiss watches, awards, or corporate gifts, Long's has you covered. Boston, Braintree, Burlington, Natick, and Peabody, MA 877-845-6647 www.longsjewelers.com

Ptown Parties

Catering | Events The premier caterer on the lower cape, Ptown Parties is a full service catering and event planning company. Let them cater your next cocktail party, clambake or wedding, in your home, inn, rental condo or yacht. Let Ptown Parties take care of all the hassles, so you can enjoy a carefree day in Provincetown, and a great party that night! 508-487-6450 Ptownparties.com

14 Johnson Street, Provincetown | 800.487.0132

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CODA Song STORY Scott Kearnan friends in a lot of different cliques to the point where I made it through unscathed. [SPIRIT] You’re in the new movie “Opening Night,” about the tribulations of a high school drama club. What advice would you give to your younger self about the biz?

‘Renaissance’ Man With a passion for P’town, Broadway’s Cheyenne Jackson performs his new American songbook album at Provincetown Town Hall Actor-singer Cheyenne Jackson has starred alongside the hottest names of stage and screen, from checking into “American Horror Story: Hotel” with Lady Gaga to shooting the upcoming musical film “Hello Again” with Audra McDonald. But when he plays Provincetown Town Hall on July 3, it’s as his own man. The dreamy Renaissance man will highlight his new solo album, “Renaissance,” a record that revives his love for the timeless appeal of the Great American Songbook. Jackson, whose film “Opening Night” just debuted on Video On Demand platforms, spoke with Boston Spirit about growing up gay, good advice for young actors—and even his favorite guilty pleasures. (For more information and tickets to his Provincetown show, visit ptownarthouse.com)

[SPIRIT] Have you had a chance to visit Provincetown before? [CHEYENNE JACKSON ]I love P’town. I’ve only been twice and I could never spend enough time there. I want to really go in wintertime; I’m told it’s a totally difference experience. I love the whole idea of it, its history as an art colony. There’s nothing like it. I love the energy, and I love it when it rains and everyone huddles together under umbrellas on steps. The whole energy is typically great. Everyone’s always talking about where they’re going to go to dinner and what show they’re going to see. Everybody gets pizza from the same place. It feels timeless in a way. [SPIRIT] What can we

expect from this show? [CJ] It stems from a big show I did at Carnegie Hall, “Music of the Mad Men

Era.” People always tell me I was born during the wrong time, and over the last couple years I started honing in on what I really love to do, music-wise: the American songbook, beautiful melodies of the ‘50s and ‘60s, mainly. It kind of runs the gamut but it’s based on those shows. There’s “Feeling Good,” and an arrangement of “A Song For You” loosely based on Donny Hathaway’s version.

[SPIRIT] Your P’town show benefits the Tyler Clementi Foundation. Growing up, what was your experience with anti-gay bullying? [CJ] The town I’m from is a very small, very Christian, Republican town in the northwest: Newport, Washington. Growing up gay in a little town like that, you learn you’re different from the get-go. I wasn’t really bullied in the way that we think about it. There were a couple instances where I got “fag” written on my locker. People called me “sissy” and the usual shit— but because I was a big guy and ran track, I had enough

[CJ] First, I’d say start sooner. I didn’t move to New York start Broadway until I was 27. I wish I had started sooner—but I guess you start doing it when you’re supposed to be doing it. Another piece of advice I’d give my younger self: relax! It’s not that big of a deal. It’s all going to be okay. I spent so much of my life worrying and comparing myself to other people. It’s not worth it. [SPIRIT] Are there any LGBT issues you’d love to tackle on stage or screen? [CJ] It’s a story that keeps getting told, but also one that needs to keep getting told—and that’s the story of the AIDS crisis. I’ve worked with amfAR for many years now and because of PrEP, and because of the sense that a positive HIV diagnosis isn’t necessarily a death sentence, people are being infected at a really crazy rate. I would love to have done a project like “The Normal Heart” or what Dustin Lance Black is doing, [the upcoming mini-series] “When We Rise.” I want the younger generation to know what happened: to know what their gay brothers and sister have had to go through so that they could have the freedom that we have now. If you don’t know where you came from, you can’t get anywhere. [SPIRIT] This year’s P’town carnival theme is “Back to the ‘80s.” What’s your ‘80s guilty pleasure? [CJ] I would have to say “The Goonies.” I watch it more often than I care to admit. It makes me feel cozy and little and safe! [x]

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