7 tips to seduce girl on a first date
Text was written by BlaBlaWriting team specialists. You finally got a first date with her. At the approach of this moment, whether we are a man or a woman, we ask ourselves a lot of questions. To prepare you well, VĂŠronique Corniola, coach in seduction and director of the French school of seduction, gives us her expert advice for men and women.
Suggest a meeting Difficult to throw yourself in the water and propose a gallant date to a person. Yet "you have to dare to take the first step. Generally, it is the men who do it. If this is not the case, the woman must know how to take matters into her own hands. To propose a date, a man will say rather "tonight, I take you to the restaurant, I pick you up at 8 or 8:30 pm? ". We speak of the Socratic method, that is to say, imposing everything while leaving the choice. The woman, instead, will be in the suggestion: "I want to eat Chinese tonight ... would that tell you? ". The most important thing is to be self-assured. If the person refuses, "do not get discouraged and accept the refusal. We can not please everyone. If this does not work this time, it will work the next time. Maybe it was not the right person ... ".
Choosing the Right Place Restaurant? Bar? Cinema? "The best is to choose a lounge bar where the atmosphere is laid, the music is not too strong. An ideal place to get to know you better. Avoid everything that is big signs like the McDonald's or the big breweries. " Noon ? The evening ? "Evening rather than noon. At the end of the day it is dark and people are less hurried, it is easier to relax. Not to be mistaken, "the
solution is to have talked with the person on the phone to find out what she likes to eat, how she likes to have fun, ...".
Know how to develop How do I dress? How do I make up? Man or woman, this question of appearance is a real headache at the arrival of a gallant rendezvous. How to do ? "The solution is to know how to show off and above all to feel good. Do not try to be at the forefront of fashion, but rather to choose a look that fits you well and that fits your personality. The woman must be feminine and chic. Everything must be in the suggestion. Why not drop a sweater over a shoulder? Play with your sensuality! For men, be elegant while remaining man. Do not try to look like "first class", stay cool and adopt a sporty / chic style. "
Look after your attitude Only one slogan: "Be elegant! ". "Look at the other in the eyes, do not shun eyes. Show that you are comfortable and that you are interested in him or her. Pay attention to how you stand and how you eat. Be in the seduction. Touch his hand or caress his face. One must dare and put one's pride aside. Those who dare, win! Whether in love or elsewhere ... "For a little lesson in seduction," watch Steve McQueen and Faye Dunamay around a game of failure in "The Thomas Crown Affair".
Interest in the other Interest in the other, probably the most important point to seduce a person. "If you are not already interested in the other, it is no use organizing this appointment. You have to be passionate about each other, be curious and listen to what he or she is telling you. The other must be made important. Stop telling yourself that you are demanding. Take the other as such and do not analyze everything he tells you based on you and your requirements. Never forget that you do not choose the person you fall in love with. Love does not command and we have many surprises! "
Stay yourself No need to play a game, it could ruin your appointment. "Be natural and stay yourself! Do not try to be the one that you think would crack the other. Listen, observe the person and learn. Do not mitigate your emotions and be sincere. Sincerity is one of the greatest assets to have to seduce a person. On the other hand, keep a part of mystery to stir up his curiosity and make him want to see you again ... "
Pitfalls to Avoid - Talking about money, politics. All these topics are really the themes to be banished from your conversation during a first appointment. You might not have the same opinion and get upset. - To speak incessantly of oneself. This could be very poorly interpreted. The person might think you have an oversized ego and aside from you, no one else is interested. - Do not feel good. Consider taking chewing gums and scenting yourself. It's primordial.
- Too much to say. The goal is to be natural and get to know you. Be sincere and do not hide your emotions.
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Sneaky First Date Seduction Technique that Never Fails, available at http://www.mensxp.com/dating/seduction-science-/461-sneaky-first-date-seductiontechnique-that-never-fails.html
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Behavior for Guys on a First Date, available at https://newyorkessays.com