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the railways, and he knew a guy who said, “Come home and meet my sister-in-law,” so Dad came home and met her on the first night, on the second night they went to the movies, on the third night they got engaged. Then Dad had to leave and Mum went back to Whangārei. Six months later they got together again and got married. Our parents have been a huge influence on me: I am who I am because of them. There’s no two ways about it. The determination and sacrifice I’ve seen from Mum. The faith I’ve seen from Dad. After he’d stopped going to Mass it took a while for healing to happen, but it did, and he came back. He’s such a prayerful, faithful, humble man. His ability to treat everybody exactly the same. If a gang member came in here to the shop, or a little old lady, I’d treat them the same - sure, you’d relate to them slightly differently, but with the same respect - and I’ve learnt that from my father. Also, in marriage, sacrifice. Decision - we decide to love each other, even when we don’t feel like it at times. We put the other person first. A shared purpose. Passion. You’ve got to have passion - if a couple don’t have passion it’s like, “Oh, for goodness’ sake!” Sometimes in the Church when it comes to sex people say, “I don’t want to talk about that,” but God created sex, it’s actually good! A gift. Passion is really important. And really good conversation. We’re fortunate, we think alike on a lot of things. But that shared purpose, that’s the main thing. Our purpose would be to be the light of Christ. We are a Catholic family, people know it. We want to be a bit of refuge for people, to have people visit, or a family to stay in this big house. Mum and Dad live in a unit here with us, so they’re our mission at the moment, sharing life with them. It’s funny, Dad’s humility and simplicity: he would be happy with just a scrap of bread every day, and he’d say, “That’s the best thing I’ve ever eaten!” That’s the secret - to be happy wherever God places you, whether it’s with a lot or a little. There’s been so much turmoil in our country and Church about different things, and the endless debate and discussion can take our focus away from Jesus. We need to let it go and get back to what’s important. When you stop putting your security in material things, or systems, or your job or house, and put it in Jesus and in his providence you think, “I’m actually quite free.” We just want to share that idea, and be good stewards of all that God has given us, and be generous. God is so good!

SIX QUICK CATHOLIC QUESTIONS

1. In his latest film, actor (and soon-to-be New Zealand burger chain owner) Mark Wahlberg plays a what? a) policeman b) priest c) paramedic d) plumber

2. What links the town of St Jean Pied-de-Port, France, and the city of Santiago de Compostela, Spain?

3. Finish this line from Bishop Pompallier’s lyrics for the hymn Mo Maria: “Kia kaha rā tatou …”

4. What was the name of the prophet who “worshipped night and day with fasting and prayer” and after meeting Jesus spoke about him “to all who were awaiting the redemption of Jerusalem”?

5. Chapter 14 of the Book of Daniel is known as the story of Who and the Dragon? a) Abel b) Bill c) Bilbo d) Bel

6. What is the name of the cathedral for the Diocese of Palmerston North?

Answers on page 29.