How Much Do You Know About Love Skills? A mature and steady, can be called is the feeling of love, must personally experience these 4 cycles, each cycle in the middle of the transformation time, because people are different. The same, in different cycles, the love skills adopted are different. As long as we survive these four cycles, we can truly be together forever.
First cycle: Co-existence (sweet phase). This one cycle, that is to say, people often say “hot love”: each other is full of temptation, basically every moment want to stay with another party, the other party’s words and deeds, every move in their own eyes is all happiness, really came to the level of obsession. In this one cycle, two people are in crazy amour, what experience is the sweetness and happiness in amour. If you want to let affection be long-term, still want to overcome a few oneself, moderate “save predestination”.
The second cycle: Anti dependence (conflict latency). This cycle, the kind of passion to stick together every day has long gone, and the relationship has leveled off. One partner will be the first to step into the anti-dependency cycle, wanting more time for themselves to do what they want to do, and the other will feel left out. In this cycle of the couple, they must be rational to solve the relationship between the two people, do not because of the moment of emotional impulse and make some incorrect decisions, casually broke their feelings.
The third cycle: Independence (conflict burst period). This cycle, which can be described as the continuation of the second stage, is a particularly important stage to hone the relationship, which must be taken seriously by both parties. The one who wants to be independent will feel that they need a lot of independent time, while the one who feels left out will feel that the couple does not treat themselves well. At this point, the two of you have to find common ground, moderate plan some favorite theme activities to maintain the relationship, or compromise some, try to comply with the other’s interests.
Fourth cycle: Interdependence (development period). If everyone’s emotions have already come to this cycle, then congratulations, everyone’s feelings will eventually have a happy result. This time, you can feel that your beautiful Asian girl has become a very close and important person in your life, even if no words, just look at her, you can also understand the meaning of her eyes. We will help each other and create our own life path. We will not easily be bound by each other, but we will become each other. It is only necessary to pay attention that you should sometimes allocate some theme activities to recall the feeling of the love stage at that time and consolidate the feelings between the two people. Little do you know, in daily life, the vast majority of people did not even pass the second stage and then go their own way, it is really a pity. It is not easy to meet a person you love the most, it is not easy to meet a person who treats you well. It is the fate for two people to meet each other. Therefore, don’t give up speaking out of turn.