Lovely doesn't mean you have to be cute. It means that you have to make people like you because of your good personality, behavior and outlook.
You ALWAYS need to be lovely!
When you are meeting new friends...
When you want to attract the boy who you like...
Or, when you need to have the first meeting with your boyfriend's parents!
All you need is - To
be LOVELY, in order to gain good
How to be a LOVELY girl?
impression. Open this user guide of “How to be a LOVELY GIRL”!
NOW!
User Manual
User Manual 3 simple Steps to make yourself to be a lovely girl!
Introduction
Content Page Introduction Step One
Girls always want to be LOVELY. When you are meeting new friends…
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How to be lovely—Through your Personality!
Step Two
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How to be lovely—Though your Behavior!
Step Three
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How to be lovely—Though your Look!
FAQ
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5 Common questions that you may encounter
Emergency Package How to act in different Scenarios.
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When you want to attract the boy you like... When you need to meet the parents of your boyfriends…
All you have to do is : BE LOVELY, in order to get good first impression from others. This user guide, is definitely a good helper for you to become lovely. No matter you are already lovely or not that lovely, this user guide teaches you how to achieve the BEST.
In this user guide, you can learn to be lovely in three different ways : Changing your PERSONALITY, BEHAVIOR and OUTLOOK. You can just simply choose any aspects you want, or go through all the aspects to become a ALL-ROUNDED LOVELY girl. Hope you can soon become a lovely and beloved girl!
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How to be lovely—Through your Personality!
Personality
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If you want to be Lovely , try to have the
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Be Real & True
Never puts on pretenses. Everyone has unique personalities. Show the true YOU.
EIGHT characters below: Be Generous Never underestimate the small acts of generosity Help the one in need can bring a great change to people’s life!.
Be Punctual Think about how you would feel if someone was late at your expense. Try to arrive at least 5 minutes earlier from now on!
Always stay positive Positive energy is the most powerful agent to cheer people up. Try to ignore every negative message.
Be Gracious A gracious smile can warm up people’s heart immediately. People will not be afraid to talk with you if they think you are easy to get along with.
Be Humble Say “It’s My Pleasure” when someone thanks you for doing something. Say “Thank you” when people praises you.
Be Smart Even you have a very attractive outlook, it is sometimes annoying to talk with a girl who is too stupid. Read more books to enrich yourself!
Be Disciplined Discipline is about routine. You should learn to love the routine, learn to love the discomfort that is self-denial. You can find pleasure in sacrifice now for forging yourself into something greater in the future.
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Behavior Do’s Smile and laugh a lot.
No one resist to see smiles. If you are a smiling person, you project a happy disposition and people are naturally attracted to you.
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Be humorous. It doesn’t mean you have to make jokes all the time. Just try to have sense of humor. Share any funny moment you encounter.
Be careful with the gestures when YOU speak.
Always be a good listener. Genuinely listen to what the people. It is a way of showing respect.
Always say “Thank You”. It is a magic word! Never hesitate to say thank you to anyone.
A good practice of having a good gestures while talking is— Look into the mirror and see how you speak. You will know that you have many tiny gestures. Look people in the eyes It is a basic component of social interaction. Look into people’s eyes gently when they are speaking. Remember! Looking, but not staring!
Behavior
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Don'ts Don't be rude. Even you are not satisfied with the action of others, try to find a peaceful way to express. Being rude cannot solve any problems and make the situation even worse.
Don’t show people that you are absence-minded. Always pay attention to what people are saying.
Do not get angry easily. When you are about to get angry, quickly stop yourself and take some deep breaths. A lovely girl do not show anger often. It is because anger will make the situation become embarrassing.
Do not cry easily. Some people may believe girl who cries is cute. However, for most of the people, they hate girl crying.
Try not to tell people you are TIRED. Even if you are tired and sleepy, don’t “fishing”, as it is very rude and not respectful .
Never shout. Projecting the voice doesn't mean you have to shout. People will be shocked if they are being shouted.
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Look
7 Rules that you MUST follow Stay Clean and tidy
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Stay Clean and tidy It gives people a good first impression if you look tidy! Even you can afford to buy beautiful clothes, a tidy one is good enough.
Stay Simple Always fit in the context
Always fit in the context
Always fit your body
Don’t wear Deep-V dress or high heels when you go hiking! Your clothing should match with the context.
Always fit your age Wear a little make up Be aware of your smell!
Always fit your body It doesn't matter if you are skinny or chubby, as long as you can find appropriate clothes which fit you body.
How to be lovely—Though your look!
Look
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FAQ
1. I want to be lovely but my appearance doesn't look good, what can I do?
Always fit your age Don’t wear canton if you are mature, don’t wear too old if you are teenagers!
Be confident to your outlook! Not everyone has prefect outlook, as long as you are confident to yourself, people will focus on your personalities rather than your outlook when they make friends with you!
2. How long will I take to really become a lovely girl?
Stay Simple Wear a little make up Make up is not really necessary, you don't have to wear heavy make up, and always dress grandly Wearing a little make up make people think that you respect the context.
It really depends. Some people may find it easy to follow the rules but some may find it hard. Don’t force yourself! Just follow the User manual and you will see your change very soon!
3. Can I only fulfill part of the criteria to be lovely? Yes if your are already confident with other part. If not, please simply follow the three steps!
4. If I want to be lovely in a short time, what should I do first?
Be aware of your smell! No matter how nice is you hair or clothes, if you smell like a pig, people still want
Find your weakest part to improve first!
5. How do I check if I have become a lovely girl? Feel it! When you realize that your friends surround you smile a lot, talk a lot. There is a change!
Emergency Package
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It is a quick start guide to help you become LOVELY in a short time! Take a look at the following scenarios and learn how to perform well.
When you are going to meet new friends, e.g. On O DAY
Tips on Looks
Scenario 1 When you are going to meet the parents of your boyfriend
Dress casually, especially in situation like O Day, people will dislike you if you are over-dressed.
Show your style! Dress the way you did. People can understand you more through your dressing.
Tips on looks:
Scenario 2
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Dress as SIMPLE as possible. Most of the parents are very traditional. Try to avoid any clothing with sharp color and too much accessories.
Tips on behavior:
Tips on Behavior
Always wear a gracious smile. People will be more willing to approach you.
Don’t hesitate to talk to more people. You should be more proactive on this day! Never wait for others to approach you.
Don’t be too shy! Feel free and causal when talking with them.
Be a good observer. Observe the way people talk and you can know how they think about you.
Show them you are a cheerful person! Laugh together. Have fun together!
Be a good listener. You should really pay attention to people when they are talking. Give appropriate response to them. It can make them feel how important they are in your mind. Also, don’t talk when they are talking!
Don’t form a “Small circle” with a few people. It’s a day that you have to meet lots of friends!
Imagine the person you have just met and are is one of your best friends. You’ll adjust unconsciously and start to smile, open up your body-language to a very friendly and warm position.
Don’t cross your arms too often. It seems impolite.
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