mehow by Chris Johnson

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Contents Introduction ........................................................................................ 1 Sin #1 ............................................................................................................ 2 Sin #2 ............................................................................................................ 4 Sin #3 ............................................................................................................ 6 Sin #4 ............................................................................................................ 8 Sin #5 ..........................................................................................................10 Sin #6 ..........................................................................................................11 Sin #7 ..........................................................................................................13 Sin #8 ..........................................................................................................15 Sin #9 ..........................................................................................................17 Sin #10........................................................................................................19 Sin #11........................................................................................................21

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Introduction Dear friend, Welcome to the “11 Sins Exposed” Mini Course. This course was developed by me as I spent year watch men make the same mistakes over and over again… usually, without even realizing it. Take your time going through this manual, make notes, and revisit this material from time to time – just to make sure you’re not slipping into old habits that can crush your love life. Enjoy!

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Sin #1 As this is your first lesson, learning the Mehow method of attraction, I am going to make this process a little easier for you to start with... Whenever I go into the field, I see a lot of guys making one HUGE mistake right from the get go. This is so natural that almost every guy I know makes this simple, but easy-to-correct mistake. So without delay, let's get to it! Sin Number 1 - "Leaning In." That's right! You are probably not even conscious of it, but odds are overwhelmingly likely that you lean in every time you talk to a woman. Just about every man, whether learning game or not, is a culprit to "leaning in." Now don't feel bad about this. It's not your fault that no one has taught you exactly how women get turned on and turned off. This is also easily corrected, and I'm here to help you! As I've said, if you lean in when meeting a woman, you are definitely not alone. Most men lean in when they meet a girl because they genuinely want to make sure that she can hear them. It's a polite concern, really. Here is what happens, however... You may be leaning in to make sure that she can hear you, especially in loud venues, but the fact of the matter is that leaning towards her doesn't make her think you are kinder or more of a gentleman. It only tells her that you are REALLY into her. Page 2

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Undeserved affection is a MAJOR TURNOFF for women. Remember this; women want to feel that you like them ONLY after you have gotten to know them! That's right... In the mind of a woman, looks alone are not a justifiable reason to date someone! This is a lesson I will cover in detail later... For now, keep this in mind: Next time you are talking to an attractive woman, pay close attention to see if you are leaning in. If you find yourself leaning in, simply correct yourself and lean back casually. All you have to do is breath deeper and project your voice so you are loud enough for not only her, but surrounding sets to hear you. If you have the right volume, you will have no inclination to lean in! Furthermore, when you lean back, it tells the woman that you are a guy who gets girls all the time. Men who get tons of women don't need to adjust their posture to accommodate anyone. When she notices this, consciously or unconsciously, she will be attracted to you. So there you have it! Sin #1 is just a simple matter of observing your body language. If you start paying attention to this small detail, it will have a huge, HUGE impact on your success rate. You will start to see results almost immediately!

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Sin #2 "Starting things off with a bunch of questions!" If you are like most guys I know, including myself, you intuitively want to start a conversation off with a question... This might be, "Hey, what is your name?" or "You come here often?" This type of questioning is problematic. In fact, it's an instant turnoff for her! Here's why... Starting off with a question makes her have to work for you immediately after meeting you. She has to spend time and energy coming up with an answer before you have demonstrated that you can add anything to her night. Both men and women are unlikely to answer any question posed to them unless it's a functional question or the person asking them is someone of value. Think about this: if a bum off the street asked you what kind of house you grew up in, would you bother answering? Here is the good news: All you have to do to start a good conversation is say things that indicate that you are a FUN person. Don't start things off with a bunch of questions! Make fun statements instead. For example, try saying, "You guys are the hottest ... space alien ... I've met all night." Page 4

~ The “11 Sins” Exposed ~ No guy is saying stuff like this to her at the bar. Once you have shown her that you are fun... she will be far more likely to answer a question you pose to her later on. Now that was easy, wasn't it?

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Sin #3 "Trying to Use Pick-up Lines as if You're Serious" I don't get why this happens, but there are guys out there who still try to use "lines." Lines are lame... and they just don't work. Some guys will actually go up to a girl and say, "Do you have a mirror in your pocket? Because I can see myself in your pants." This horrible, horrible line will get you rejected quickly, if not slapped. Girls aren't idiots when it comes to being approached, and these lines INSTANTLY convey that you want her and are TRYING to get her. Your attempt is a massive turn off for her and makes you look desperate. What women REALLY want is a guy that doesn't have to "try" at all, that has all the women in the world, and will make her fight for his affection. So by trying too hard, you automatically disqualify yourself as her ideal man and her attraction for you never gets a chance to develop. Of course, there is a saying that “everything will work, and nothing will work.” What this means is that I could give you greatest line ever invented, and you could say it in a way that would make a girl walk away from you as quickly as possible. At the same time, the line I just dismissed as terrible could legitimately work if you have very playful, unserious delivery. Don’t get me wrong, the line is TERRIBLE, but I have an experiment for you. This will show you that it isn't really the line that messes you up in the above example, but the subcommunications and delivery. Delivery changes everything. Page 6

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Try this ... Go out tonight and see what happens if you attempt to seriously deliver the above line. Then go up to a different girl and do the exact same "line" but deliver it like you are messing with her head. NOW you are showing her that you are FUN... and things will go far better! And, remember ... don't lean in!

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Sin #4 "Ignoring Her Friends” Now, I know what you are thinking... "This sounds harmless." Luckily, that is why I am here for you! Because...this Sin is really dangerous! If you simply walk into a group of hot girlfriends and plan on just talking to your "hottie", then you are in for a giant surprise, because if you try to isolate with her, you'll be finished quickly. Here's why: Singling out one girl FORCES her to talk only with you. Now you are making her ignore her friends. Now, she doesn't want to be mean to her friends, so she will politely -or impolitely- blow you off to rejoin her friends. Her friends don't want to be blown off either... so when they see this happening, they frequently will "save her" from you by dragging her away. You may not understand this, but this is how women think. But there is an easy solution! The solution lies in winning her and her friends over at the same time and then, and only then, talking to her separately. It really is that simple. Instead of talking to just one girl talk to the entire group. Once you have Page 8

~ The “11 Sins” Exposed ~ won the group over, you will be able to talk with the girl you are interested in.

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Sin #5 "Being a Braggart" You see, guys love to tell women all about their “phat $$$” job, their crazy car, and their insane pad on the beach. In fact, I see this all the time; guys telling women about all their worldly successes because they think that women are attracted to that. The truth is that they are ... women WANT to be with successful guys. BUT, they don't want to be with successful braggarts! When you directly tell a woman about your success, she will instantly get turned off. The reason this happens is that men of true power, the men that she craves, are so confident in themselves that they never need to advertise anything. It just comes out in conversation naturally, like: "Get this... I was sailing with my girl ... and <insert non braggy story here>." Now, she knows you are successful enough to sail without you saying anything about owning your own boat. Get it? However, when you make such communications overt, you signal to her that you are NOT her dream guy, and her attraction takes a nose dive like a plane shot out of the sky. When you make positive facts about you just "slip out," her attraction for you will increase. Page 10

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Sin #6 "Ignoring YOUR Friends" This one is simple... Let me explain: So, let's say you’re talking to a HOT girl... named "Candy"... First of all, congrats! But then, one of your friends comes up to you and says, "Hi!" and you say, "Hey bro, this is Candy... anyway..." and continue talking only to Candy! You see, you are so wrapped up in this new "Hottie" you just met, that you unintentionally ignore your friend, and continue your conversation with Candy... This is a big, big mistake... This tells Candy that a perfect stranger you just met is more important to you then your friend. She knows that she is the "perfect stranger." What do you think that says about you? It says that you are desperate, whether or not you actually are. Desperation is a major turn off because it tells her you are trying and trying very hard to get her. She already knows she has you. The chase is off and the attraction dies. So don't ignore your friends! When your friend walks up to you and her, pay more attention to him then Page 11

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Sin #7 Hello there, Let's jump straight into Sin #7 - "Buying Her Alcohol" Now, every bar I walk into, there is the 'beer guy' or 'shot guy' or 'wine guy.' You know what I mean... the guy that believes that, in order to get anywhere, he has to buy women drinks. Trust me... those guys don't get laid! So... don't be that guy! The reason this tactic doesn't work is that buying her stuff when you've just met tells her that you are TRYING. Would you buy a drink for some guy you met 2 minutes ago? Of course not. She knows that. And she knows that you are buying her drinks, and not random dudes, because she is a woman. In her mind, you are buying her drinks because of your sexual interest in her and your desire to keep hanging out with her. Guys that are awesome alphatypes have so many girls, they don't need to buy any girl anything to get laid. When you don't act like that awesome alpha-type guy, she assumes you are not of high value, and the attraction dies. But she will still use you for the rest of the night to keep drinking for free. I love it when I go out infield with my girlfriend... I never have to pay for her alcohol because she can get it off a dozen different guys every night. Now, if a girl says, "Buy me a drink!" just respond to her in a very playful Page 13

~ The “11 Sins” Exposed ~ way with "I can't do THAT!" Deliver "I can't do THAT!" as if you have known her for ever and she just asked you to run over a cat with your car and her request was an obvious joke. Bottom Line: Stop paying my bar tab!

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Sin #8 Hi there, Today, I want to cover Sin #8 - "Talking To Her About Her Problems" Now, I know you have been in this situation before. I've been guilty of this myself plenty of times in the past, before I learned the truth about women and dating. You see, I would meet a hot girl, and if she started talking to me about her problems, I would be delighted to help. For example, I would start to counsel her about her messed up relationships, all the while thinking, "Why isn't she going out with ME? I mean I HELP her with all this stuff! She should go out with ME!" Guess what? She never ever went out with me. None of them did. One reason this happens is that when you talk to a woman about her problems and you haven't slept with her, you start to create a massive "friend" vibe instead of a romantic partner vibe. But it goes even deeper than that ... The biggest reason talking about her problems is bad is that problems are negative in her mind. So the more you talk about them (regardless of whether your helping her or not) the more she starts to unconsciously associate YOU with her PROBLEMS. Now, no woman wants to sleep with her problems! The solution? Page 15

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Don't be that guy. If you meet a girl and she starts to bring up her problems, switch subjects to something positive and never bring up her problems yourself! It's as easy as that!

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Sin #9 Hey, This is one Sin that almost ALL guys are guilty of... And it pisses me off! So, let's dive into Sin #9 - "Waiting Three Days To Call Her." Now, I know you do this one... Because every popular so called 'dating guru' tells you to wait three days to call after getting her number... This is TOTAL HORSESHIT! Let's think about what happens in a hot girl's life in three days... well, she meets at least two dozen more men to choose from, AND she probably spends a lot of time with her boyfriend (pretty much all hot girls have boyfriends). If you don't ping her the next day, the world, and all the other men in it, erase you from her mind. So, when you call her three days after you get her number... you are no longer a really great cool guy (if your game was tight)... but instead you are just another one of her dozen daily sex choices! The reason all of the dating gurus out there recommend the three day wait is that they don't have any real game! If you have no game and you get LUCKY enough to get a phone number, then you DO need to wait three days to call her. Reason is that you probably came off a bit needy (long discussion topic on how that happens) when you met her, so to make things work, you want to wait three days to call her. This is a last ditch effort to seem un-needy. Page 17

~ The “11 Sins” Exposed ~ But there is a much better way! You can just be totally un-needy and an EPIC cool cat when you meet her. Then you can call her the next day, or just skip all that and take her home THAT NIGHT! This way you don't get messed up by all the other potential choices she has because you didn't give the world 3 days of time to present the alternatives to her. Getting into her life as soon as possible is crucial! In fact, just to make sure that you are at the top of your "phone game"... I am going to give you a chapter out of my Get The Girl! manual, where I cover this in a lot more detail... and I am going to give it to you as a gift!

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Sin #10 "Asking Her Out On Every Phone Call" Here's how it works! So... you got a girl's phone number, and what did you do the first time you called her? Did you ask her out? Probably. That is correct actually (you got my last email, right?). But, what did she say? Probably, "NO!" Asking girls out on the phone, right after you meet them, is the right thing to do IF you do it right (hint: you are not supposed to ASK, but COMMAND). Now, I'm willing to bet money that then you tried to ask her out AGAIN the next time you got on the phone with her, or you left her a 'let's go out' voice mail or text. And if she returned your call, you probably tried to ask her out again. In fact, I bet you asked her out every single time you got her on the phone. This is a MAJOR SIN! Assuming she is indeed "Hot", you and EVERY other guy are constantly asking her out! This signals to her that you are really trying to get with her, and you are just Page 19

~ The “11 Sins” Exposed ~ like every other guy. She knows that she already has you. And do you think a woman really wants to go out with a guy that she already knows wants to get in her pants? Nope! She wants you to get the know her... and then keep her in suspense about whether or not sex will happen, until the moment you are putting 'it' in her.

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Sin #11 "Telling Her How You Feel" Many men will hang out with a girl a bit, and perhaps things were a little romantically charged at first. But then the romantic energy dies down, so the guy tells the girl, "Hey, Beth, in all the time we have spent together, I realize that I like you a lot and I want to be your boyfriend." Do you think this works? Hell no! What ropes women into bed (and committed relationships) is the sexual tension created by time you guys spend together touching and talking... but, her NOT KNOWING if you will actually sleep with her. When you tell her something like, "I like you,"' you might as well be saying... "I like you, you wanna @#*%?" The moment you tell her, "I like you," or any number of equivalent phrases, her attraction for you will sink like the Titanic. You have to keep her in suspense the whole time until you do sleep with her! So, there you have it! The Top 11 Sins that guys commit when trying to get women. I hope that this has been an eye opening experience for you. I would recommend going back and reviewing all the Sins a couple more times to reinforce these concepts. Page 21

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I cover these concepts in greater detail, and disclose some of my most coveted tricks, tips, and tactics for attracting the hottest women on on the planet, in my Get The Girl! manual. Get your hands on it today, here: http://www.mehowgetthegirl.com

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