CPC Life May 2014 by Christ Presbyterian Church

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f only I believed” . . . “If I just had more faith” . . . “Why didn’t I pray harder?” And of course, “If I’m the only one with that question, just think how stupid I’ll look.” Sometimes doubt feels like the “dirty little secret” of the Christian faith. It’s been like that since the beginning. The Gospel of Matthew ends with Jesus’ followers seeing Him: “When they saw Him, they worshiped Him; but some doubted” (28:17). One of my mentors says Matthew speaks for all of us, for “The Christian faith is bi-polar. Disciples live their lives between worship and doubt, trust and question, hope and worry.” So why do I often feel as though I’m the only one who doubts, who still has all these questions? Part of the problem is that the Church has seldom appeared kind to doubt or the unrest caused by tough questions of the status quo. Robert Ingersoll complained, “Progress is born of doubt and inquiry. The Church never doubts, never inquires. To doubt is heresy, to inquire is to admit that you do not know—the Church does neither.” If everyone in

church seems to be certain, how can I reveal my uncertainties? Can I let you in on a secret? I know pastors—some as close as my mirror— who have doubts. What do pastors do with their doubts? Much the same as anyone: Pray harder. Avoid embarrassing conversations. Find “safer” things to talk about. Master the deflecting question: “What do you think of that?” and then hope no one notices you never answered. If, however, they have any wisdom and compassion, pastors model how to live a life that embraces both faith and doubt. Most of the biblical “heroes of the faith” struggled to have faith and were honest about their doubts. “Doubts are the ants in the pants of faith,” says Frederick Buechner, meant to stir us up, not allow us to become complacent in a bewildering world. Doubts and hard questions are not the enemy; pretending to be without doubt is the enemy! I have become convinced that doubt is essential to a growing faith, that even as I have fewer certainties, I have increased confidence in the essentials. But

how do we live a faith-filled, meaning-filled life when we have doubts? We want to spend the month of May at CPC talking about life at the intersection of faith and doubt. This would be a great time to bring a skeptical friend, so we might all learn together. I believe there might be one more thing believers must do in the face of doubt . . . for me, it’s to get clear on the most important thing—that “one thing”—and plunge in wholeheartedly. Like the Apostle Paul, for me that “one thing” is Christ Jesus, and Him crucified (1 Corinthians 2:2). The result is not to eliminate my questions or doubts but to give certainty to that “one thing”: “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8:38-39). As long as I can gain confidence in that truth, all the questions and doubts of life can be faced with humble confidence . . . together!

John Crosby serves as Senior Pastor

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Julie Baker is a CPC member and newly elected deacon

ears ago I joined Bible Study Fellowship in an attempt to get to know the Jesus I had blindly followed and revered my entire life. At that time, I would have defined my faith as solid. At the Introductory Class we were asked, “How much do you know about the Bible?” In full confidence I said, “A lot.” After all, I grew up in a Christian home, went to Sunday school and church camp, was a confirmed member of the church, participated in a small group, and taught Sunday school.

Soon into our study, however, I discovered I knew very little about the Bible. And the more I studied, the more I hungered. I realized there was so much more about this man, Jesus, that I didn’t know. Relating to many key players in the Bible helped me traverse the wild ride of my own life. Like most of them, I’ve had questions and doubts. I’ve been heartbroken and angry at God. But I’ve also been made aware of God’s ever-constant presence in my life. I have experienced a peace that surpasses understanding. I’ve learned to find joy in all circumstances. My questions and yearning to understand have made all the difference in my faith. But in the end, it is my initial saving faith in Christ that proves most valuable. In the words of Tim Keller, “It is not the quality of my faith, but the object of my faith that saves me.”

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SARAH NORTON (PICTURED WITH HER SON ALEX) SERVES AS DIRECTOR OF FAMILY MINISTRIES.

MAKING OUR KIDS’

FAITH STICK

CREATING SPACE FOR QUESTIONS AND DOUBT

One of the best parts of getting older (and yes there are a few!) is the perspective of looking back over your life and seeing God’s providence in the events, blessings, and disappointments of everyday moments and finding where He has prevailed. Along life’s journey, there have been many moments of doubts, but with faith, God has painted a beautiful canvas for my days. And now, at this present intersection of preparing to send our youngest son, Alex, off to college, there is a renewed resurgence of doubts. Whereas I have the gifts of age, faith, and community in my arena to wrestle with my doubts and fears, I hope and pray that Alex has the same allegiance of friends, caring adults, and community to do the same. As we launch him out of the nest, we are praying that his faith sticks, especially when doubts come his way. According to a study done at Fuller Seminary, seven out of every ten students are struggling with doubts, but only one or two of those ten is likely to have had conversations about those doubts with anyone. In other words, a lot of kids are wrestling with tough questions and most are likely suffering in silence. When a child leaves home, it can be even more lonely and isolating as they get settled in their new reality. Too often doubts

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go unexpressed, and unexpressed doubt can be toxic to faith, no matter our age.

to make a big church a smaller, safe community for our students of all ages.

Fuller Seminary additionally asked students in college to reflect back on the doubts they remembered having during high school, and their responses tended to cluster around four central questions:

However, the church alone is not the answer. We need to continue to empower parents and develop mentors to engage with kids not only by asking questions like “How is school going?” but to really pursue conversations and discussions about faith and doubt outside the walls of the church. It’s okay not to have all the answers, and our kids will probably respect us more if we are humble and don’t pretend to have it all together. And as church leaders, we are here to help you answer questions and figure out the hard stuff.

DOES GOD EXIST? DOES GOD LOVE ME? AM I LIVING THE LIFE GOD WANTS? IS CHRISTIANITY TRUE/ THE ONLY WAY TO GOD? I am quite sure, though, that not just teenagers and college students grapple with these questions. Perhaps when we’re silent about our own faith questions, our kids do not know they can ask their own questions out loud. In Kids’ and Student Ministries we are looking to develop more and more safe spaces for young people to explore the hard questions that can deepen faith. To achieve this goal, we are going to need more adults who are willing to listen, willing to commit themselves to caring for our students as we strive

So now, as my husband and I prepare to send off Alex, I am convicted to create more space to talk about my doubts and invite my son into the conversation. I am also praying that he will lean into his own community—including his Senior High Core Group Leader and other significant adults in his life—and that he will be able to articulate all that he believes and even doubts. Chris Heuertz writes in his book, Unexpected Gifts, “By remaining faithful to God and to community through doubt, we often discover new depths of faith.” That is my prayer for Alex and all of us as Christ followers.

S T ICK Y

FA I T H :

T H E H A R D FA C T S MILLENNIALS (BORN CIRCA 1984-2002) WHO HAVE DROPPED OUT OF CHURCH

DID NOT HAVE A CLOSE FRIENDSHIP WITH AN ADULT AT CHURCH.*

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THE GOOD NEWS

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The Sticky Faith initiative gives us hope and practical means to help raise up a generation of youth that follows Jesus Christ into adulthood. CPC leadership is excited to make programming changes in Student Ministries to better equip our students, parents, and adult leaders with tools to grow an adult-size faith in our children. We need people from all generations and life stages to partner with our ministries — look for ways to volunteer in upcoming weeks.

TO LEARN MORE AND VOLUNTEER: CPCONLINE.ORG/STICKYFAITH

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Lee Hanssen, Director of Student Ministries: x267 or leeh@cpconline.org Sarah Norton, Director of Family Ministries: x208 or sarahn@cpconline.org CPC LIFE

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FAITH STORY

MELANIE

DAHLSTROM GIVES ADVICE TO ADULTS THINKING OF MENTORING TEENAGERS . . .

E DON’T BITE— W YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE AFRAID! E’RE JUST AS SCARED OF YOU W AS YOU ARE OF US. WE DEFINITELY LOOK UP TO ADULTS, BECAUSE YOU’RE GROWNUPS. WE THINK ALL ADULTS ARE COOL . . . UNLESS YOU’RE OUR PARENTS. O, DON’T . . . S TRY TO BE OUR PARENTS!

MELANIE (PICTURED WITH HER DAD, RICK) IS A 10TH GRADER AT MINNETONKA HIGH SCHOOL.

Four years ago, a friend invited me to a CPC Kids’ summer camp, and I loved it! The camp wasn’t cheesy—the leaders made it really fun to learn about God. So I told my parents about CPC, and we started attending as a family. At first it was a little hard for my parents to switch to CPC, but someone told them, “If your kid likes a certain church, count yourself lucky and go there!” I’m now a 10th grader, so I’m in a High School Ministries House Group. My small group leader is Jenny Kilber, and I love her; she’s one of the most influential people in my life. If one of us girls is having struggles, we can go out to coffee with Jenny to talk about it. If Jenny is having her own struggles, she’ll share with us and explain how it relates to faith. I think it’s one hundred percent true that it’s often easier to talk with an adult who’s not your parent when you’re going through something tough. Jenny is that person for a lot of us. We all feel very safe with her. I also lead three groups of my own: 3rd grade boys on Sundays, 6th grade girls

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IF YOU BRING US CANDY, WE WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER :)

on Wednesdays, and kids with special needs. I joined the Student Ministries student leadership team, IMPACT, because I’ve always wanted to be a leader. But I also joined because I remember when I was in Elevate [6th7th grades] and Commitment Class [8th grade], I really looked up to my high school leader. I wanted to grow up to be as cool as she was. And now I have kids looking up to me, which is awesome! I also chose to specifically lead in Tapestry because I have a cousin who is involved. I love him so much; he’s probably my favorite person on this earth. I want to be a teacher someday, and I’ve thought about teaching kids with special needs because of that experience. It’s hard being a leader, especially to 3rd grade boys. I hope I was never that crazy when I was their age! But I still love them. I’ve found that as a leader, you learn a lot about yourself, especially the places you can improve. But we’re told that it’s okay if we don’t have all the answers to our kids’ questions. Sometimes my 6th grade girls have

questions that I don’t know how to answer, so I ask staff people what they think. I’m thankful CPC is a safe place to ask questions about our faith. My dad and I talk about faith a lot together. While driving home after House Group, he’ll ask my friend and me what we learned. And after services at The Table, he’ll ask what I thought of the sermon and if I have questions. My dad definitely encourages open communication about faith—it’s natural for us to talk about the Bible and Jesus. My dad is a House Parent at my House Group, so he helps lead my leaders. Before we students arrive, the leaders all have dinner together, go over the lesson, and pray. It’s so fun to have my dad there. He’s so nerdy, and all the kids love him. They call him Papa Rick. He loves leading just like I do, and he loves seeing how much we kids are learning about faith. That’s ultimately why he does it. His example all these years—and his involvement—has definitely had an impact on my own desire to lead.

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Books, music, quotes, apps, art, videos, websites, people, places, & things that get us to think about God in new & exciting ways.

“D oubt is not always a sign that a man is wrong; it may be a sign that he is thinking.” Oswald Chambers

TWO BOOKS

TO MAKE FAITH STICK

Sticky Faith: Everyday Ideas to Build Lasting Faith in Your Kids

By Dr. Kara E. Powell and Dr. Chap Clark

801 Questions Kids Ask About God From Tyndale House Publishers

THE INCREDULITY OF SAINT THOMAS C A R AVA G G I O “ Take your finger and examine My hands. Take your hand and stick it in My side. Don’t be unbelieving. Believe.” Thomas said, “My Master! My God!” Jesus said, “So, you believe because you’ve seen with your own eyes. Even better blessings are in store for those who believe without seeing.” – John 20:27-29 RECOMMENDED BY JOHN CROSBY

Read an interview from Greg Boyd, Twin Cities pastor and author of Benefit of the Doubt, about the relationship between faith and doubt: rachelheldevans.com/blog/greg-boyd-interview-doubt

TWO BOOKS ON FAITH + DOUBT Benefit of the Doubt: Breaking the Idol of Certainty By Gregory Boyd

The Skeptical Believer: Telling Stories to Your Inner Atheist By Daniel Taylor CPC LIFE

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CPC Ministry Programming April-May 2014

At CPC, we seek to inspire all generations to follow Jesus, love others, and live missionally. Please look through the various programs for kids, students, and adults—and join us! For fuller descriptions and more information on any of these programs, please visit cpconline.org. them. Join anytime. Contact: James Madsen at x308; jamesm@cpconline.org.

GENERAL CPC GARDEN GROUP MEETING

Meeting: Tuesday, April 22 at 7:00PM in the Fireside Room Planting Day: Saturday, May 17 at 9:00AM The Garden Group plants and nourishes the many gardens on our church grounds. You are invited to be a part of this wonderful group of men and women who volunteer their love and time to provide beauty for everyone to enjoy! Contact: Norma Jean Barr at 952.831.2642; njb614@comcast.net.

AUTHOR MEET AND GREET

Sunday, April 27 after all services Stop by Pathway Books to meet Lee Blum, CPC member and author of Table in the Darkness. Her story of healing from an eating disorder and depression will encourage and enlighten you. Book available in Pathway Books.

MID-MONTH CHAPEL SERVICE

Wednesday, May 21 at 12:00PM A traditional service with a short message, hymns, Communion, and prayers. Lunch follows.

ADULTS IN THE WORD

Mondays, May 5-June 23 from 9:3011:30AM in Room 107 A discussion-oriented Bible study for men and women on Judges. Judges shows us that the Bible is not a series of nice stories, but it’s about real people and the God who relentlessly loves

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FAITH + DOUBT: WHEN CHRISTIANS HAVE QUESTIONS

Wednesdays, May 7-June 4 from 6:30-7:45PM in Room 108 Why do innocent people experience pain and suffering? Is Christianity the only way to Heaven? Did Jesus really rise from the dead? Is the Bible reliable? In this five-week series led by Mark Olson, we’ll examine some of the perplexing questions that test our faith and try to develop an approach for responding to these questions. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Debbie Ducar at x226; debbied@cpconline.org.

AMAZING GRACE BOOK GROUP

Monday, May 12 at 1:00PM in the Parlor We’ll discuss 7 Men and the Secrets of Their Greatness by Eric Metaxas. We will also discuss the women who we think should be part of his next book! All are welcome!

CPC BOOK GROUP

Thursday, May 15 from 7:00-8:00PM in the Parlor; meets 3rd Thursdays We’ll discuss And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini. New members welcome. Contact: Nancy Reutiman at 952.920.1837.

SUNDAY COMMUNITIES

Sundays at 9:30AM and 10:45AM; through May 18 Sunday Communities offer a place to belong and grow with people in a similar life stage. This spring, we study God’s interactions with His people in the Old Testament.

Visit cpconline.org/SC. Contact: Dan Anderson at x298; danderson@cpconline.org. MIXED TAPES (20s & 30s) Meets at 9:30AM in Fellowship Hall-W S.A.L.T. (mostly 40s & 50s) Meets at 9:30AM in Fellowship Hall-E A.C.T.S. (mostly 50s & 60s) Meets at 9:30AM in Fellowship Hall-C MORE (mostly retired folks) Meets at 10:45AM in Room 107 CREDO (intergenerational) Meets at 10:45AM in Room 108

CATALYST

Sundays at 9:30AM in Room 109 Catalyst is for young married (or soon-to-be!) couples. Join us Sunday mornings for conversation, laughter, and Bible study. Or gather with us for food and fellowship at our monthly Catalyst potluck! Learn more at cpconline.org/catalyst. Contact: Laura Crosby at lauracrosby.mn@gmail.com.

WOMEN MOM’S MORNING

Large Group Wednesdays, April 23 (Fireside Room) and May 14 (Fellowship Hall) from 9:30-11:30AM April 23: Hear from Steph Spencer, Co-Director of The Table at CPC, on realistic spiritual practices for busy moms. May 14: Enjoy a spring brunch with Megan Tamte, Founder and CEO of Hot Mama stores, who speaks on the topic of dreaming great dreams. CDs in Pathway for $3. Visit cpconline.org/momsmorning for more information. Register: Megan Bireley at meganbireley@gmail.com.

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NEEDLEWORK GUILD

Saturday, May 10 from 10:00AM2:00PM in the Fellowship Hall; meets 2nd Saturdays Our mission is to make warm garments and blankets for local agencies that serve the needy. We have yarn, fabric, and knitters to get you started. Contact: Sally Stoutenburgh at 952.927.6915.

CIRCLES

Circles combine fellowship, learning, and service in a small group setting. They consist primarily of women over 50; new members always welcome. Lydia Circle Saturday, May 17 at 9:30AM off-site; meets 3rd Saturdays Join us for brunch. Contact: Ellen Hastings at 952.896.0066. Martha Circle Wednesday, May 21 at 10:00AM in the Parlor; meets 3rd Wednesdays Contact: Pat Haberkorn at 952.941.4188. Ruth Circle Meets every Wednesday at 9:30AM We alternate between meeting for food, fellowship, devotions, and prayers and serving at CPC and FMSC. Contact: Barb Bucha at 952.470.4414.

SMALL GROUPS Please register at cpconline.org/register. Contact: Deb Carlson at x316; debc@cpconline.org.

MEN’S GROUPS

MEN’S TUESDAY EVENING Tuesdays from 7:00-8:00PM in Room 201 This group recently started and welcomes additional members. MEN’S WEDNESDAY MORNING Wednesdays from 7:00-8:00AM This group will start with sufficient interest. MEN’S THURSDAY MORNING Thursdays from 7:00-8:00AM in Room 108 Deepen your faith as we study Romans in this group led by James Madsen. Contact: James Madsen at x308; jamesm@cpconline.org. MEN’S THURSDAY MORNING Thursdays from 7:00-8:00AM in Room 201 This group, led by Matt Faulkner, digs into God’s Word together.

WOMEN’S GROUPS

TUESDAY EVENING WOMEN’S SMALL GROUP STUDY Tuesdays, April 22-July 22 from 6:45-8:45PM in Room 10; meets 2nd and 4th Tuesdays We’ll study Nehemiah by Kelly Minter. This study challenges women to let God break their hearts for a hurting, lost world. Cost: $20. Contact: Jane Pooler at jane.plr55@gmail.com.

COUPLES

NEW COUPLES’ SMALL GROUPS Our groups are based on age and life stages and generally meet one evening a month in homes. Groups are launched with sufficient interest.

50 + EDYNAMOES

Wednesdays, April 30 & May 28 at 11:30AM in the Fellowship Hall Cost: $5. Register: Judy Romine at 952.929.4983. April 30: Enjoy a spring luncheon and program, “The Versatile, Inspiring Tara B!” Tara Brueske is a professional singer, pianist, and entertainer. May 28: Join us for our pre-summer luncheon and program, “The Betty Rydell Show.” Betty will play several instruments, yodel, and sing country, ’50s, and gospel songs.

CARE GRACE & HOPE FOR OUR CHILDREN

Tuesdays, April 22 & May 27 from 7:00-8:30PM in the Parlor; meets 4th Tuesdays Does your child experience emotional or mental health issues? Join other parents as we care for one another on our journeys. In April, attorney Rebecca Levine speaks about guardianship for adult children with mental health issues. Contact: Doug Brown at 612.839.9992; dbrown@dcbrowninc.com.

PRAYER SHAWL MINISTRY

Thursdays, April 24 & May 22 from 7:008:30PM in Room 203; Friday, May 9 from 10:00AM -12:00PM in the Parlor Our mission is to prayerfully knit shawls with the hope that they will be vessels for God’s comfort and love.

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Men welcome. We provide coaching, materials, and fellowship. Contact: Pat Johnson at 952.947.0734.

LAY CARE CELEBRATION DINNER

Thursday, May 1 from 6:00-8:30PM in the Fellowship Hall Celebrate God’s goodness, fellowship with others who serve in Lay Care Ministries, hear stories from the field, and enjoy a delicious meal prepared by Chef Rich Phenow. RSVP: cpconline. org/register or contact Mary Allen at x243; marya@cpconline.org.

ABUDANTLY SATISFIED: WEIGHT CARE GROUP

Sundays, May 4 & 18, June 1 from 9:30-10:30AM in Room 203; meets 1st & 3rd Sunday We support each other with weight issues that keep us from experiencing the abundant life God wants for us. No weigh-ins; lots of grace and support! Contact: Sandy Radeke at 952.452.1205; sandy_radeke@earthlink.net.

GRIEF RECOVERY

Tuesday, May 13 from 6:00-8:30PM in the Parlor; meets 2nd Tuesday Grief Recovery is for those who have lost a loved one. We experience God’s hope and healing through fellowship, prayer, and sharing a meal. Contact: Debbie Manning at x275; debbiem@cpconline.org.

BEGINNING AGAIN: LIFE FOLLOWING THE DEATH OF A SPOUSE

Saturday, May 17 at 9:00AM in the Fireside Room; meets 3rd Saturday CPC’s support, resource, and friendship community for those dealing with practical issues following the death of a spouse. Details TBD. Cost: $10. Register: Mary Allen at x243; marya@cpconline.org.

MEMORIAL RECEPTION VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

We serve families at receptions held following memorial services. Contact: Karen Heine at x210; karenh@cpconline.org.

MEMORIAL COOKIE BAKERS NEEDED

Our team is looking for more bakers to provide home-baked treats for memorial receptions. There is no obligation, just a willingness to bring baked goods when it suits your schedule. Contact: Karen Heine at x210; karenh@cpconline.org. CPC LIFE

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MISSIONS SERVING SATURDAY

Saturday, May 31 from 9:30AM-1:00PM CPC will come together to love God and others through our service together on May 31. Activities for adults and kids of all ages! Please sign up early, as this helps us to ensure an appropriate amount and variety of activities for all participants. Register: cpconline.org/ register. If you have an idea for how to make Serving Saturday even better or to volunteer to serve on our coordinating team, please contact Eli Mansfield at x311 or elizabethm@cpconline.org.

TEAM WORLD VISION

Training underway; Race Day is Saturday, August 2 Run a half marathon and change lives in Moyo, Zambia! To join the CPC team and view the training plan, visit teamworldvision.org/ minnesotahalf. No running experience necessary. Contact: Erin Dahl at 612.747.9813; erin.dahl@live.com.

URBAN VENTURES VOLUNTEER OPPORTUNITIES

Urban Ventures, a CPC local mission partner, works to fight generational poverty in the Phillips neighborhood of South Minneapolis. Coaching, Mentoring, Tutoring Volunteer to work with children and youth by coaching soccer or basketball or with one-on-one tutoring. Contact: Eli Mansfield at x311; elizabethm@cpconline.org. Urban Golf Classic to Benefit UV Monday, May 19: 7:30AM round, 12:30PM lunch program, 1:30PM round; Minnesota Valley Country Club (6300 Auto Club Road, Bloomington 55438) Register: urbanventures.org/golf. html. Contact: Steve Hartwig at 612.501.1403.

MEN’S CLEARWATER FOREST WORK RETREAT

Thursday-Saturday, May 15-17 at Clearwater Forest in Brainerd Join CPC men at the 16th annual Work Retreat at Clearwater Lake in Brainerd. We will get the camp ready for summer

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with a variety of indoor and outdoor building and maintenance-related work. The camp provides meals and housing and a beautiful surrounding. Register: Ted Youel at 612.743.8928; clearwaterretreat@gmail.com.

CPC GO! TRIPS

Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Leslie Boie at x274; leslieb@cpconline.org. El Salvador Global Village with Habitat for Humanity Trip Dates: June 14-22 Cost: $1,400 (plus airfare ~$750) Contribute to Habitat’s work and create positive change in the world, learn about poverty and development challenges, and experience the community’s culture, language, and social practices. Granada, Nicaragua with Opportunity International Trip Dates: August 3-8 Cost: $1,600 (plus airfare ~$750) Serve the least-resourced country in Central America. Opportunity International shows us the best ways to empower families in breaking the bonds of poverty and the dignity that comes with success. For ages 10 and older. Lusaka, Zambia with Jubilee Centre and Willow Creek Global Leadership Summit Tentative Trip Dates: October 24-November 5 Learn about the work of Jubilee Centre, an organization dedicated to equipping and serving pastors, professionals, missionaries, and Christian leaders to bring about change in Zambia. We’ll also attend the Global Leadership Summit event with Zambian leaders and pastors.

MUSIC CHORAL SCHOLARS IN RECITAL AT CPC

Friday, May 9 at 7:30PM in the Sanctuary Jesse Fleming and Rachel Parsley, two of CPC’s Choral Scholars, and Marina Fisher, a Choral Scholar at Colonial Church, present a senior recital. All three singers are students of Catherine Larsen at the University of Northwestern – St. Paul. The program is free-of-charge

and open to the public—sponsored by the CPC Christian Fine Arts Committee.

BRAVA! SINGS

Friday, May 16 at 7:00PM in the Sanctuary Hear Brava!, one of the premier women’s choral ensembles from the Twin Cities, in a concert of inspiring and entertaining music. The program is free-of-charge and open to the public—sponsored by the CPC Christian Fine Arts Committee.

KIDS WEEKEND PROGRAMS

Saturday 5:15PM & Sunday 9:30AM, 11:00AM, & 6:00PM services During weekend services, we minister to children (6 weeks – 6th grade) and families by engaging kids in their relationship with Jesus. Summer programming begins May 24/25. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Jill Campbell at x216; jillc@cpconline.org.

2014 SUMMER CAMPS

Register at cpconline.org/kidscamps. VBS: June 10-12 OR June 17-19 (must be 3 years old by June 1, 2014 through entering kindergarten). Cost: $35. Big Fun Kix: June 23-26 (entering 1st3rd grades). Cost: $55 half day, $100/ full day. Blast: July 8-10 (entering kindergarten-5th grade). Cost: $40. Surge: July 21-24 (entering 4th & 5th grades). Cost: $150.

STUDENTS TAPESTRY

Tuesday, April 22 at 6:30PM in Room 204 A ministry for kids and students with special needs. Contact: Van Chounlamountry x306; vanc@cpconline.org.

MOSAIC WORSHIP SERVICE (TAPESTRY)

Sundays, April 27 & May 18 at 10:45AM in the Chapel; Sundays monthly Mosaic is a worship service for kids and students with special needs and their families. Noises, sounds, and movements are welcome! Contact: Kari Dubord at x261; karid@cpconline.org.

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MINISTRY STRUCTURE INFO SESSIONS

CAMP REGISTRATION IS OPEN!

following the service! We’ll have food, music, and some great games for the kids.

HIGH SCHOOL

Sunday, May 18 at 7:15PM in the Fireside Room; 3rd Sunday of the month through August Living in the Tension is a safe space intended to build bridges between the Church and the LGBT community. Through August, we are studying Andrew Marin’s book, Love Is an Orientation, using a video, participant workbook, and discussion.

Sunday, April 27 from 12:15-1:15PM in the Fellowship Hall; Wednesday, April 30 from 6:00-6:45PM in the Chapel Come hear about the exciting changes being made to make our programs more in line with our Sticky Faith vision. Contact: Erin Hettinger at x305; erinh@cpconline.org.

Camp 6:8: June 17-19 (entering 6th8th grades). Cost $80. Rockslide: June 23-27 (entering 6th & 7th grades). Cost $350. Quest: July 7-11 (entering 8th grade). Cost $475.

SERVICE LEARNING NIGHT FOR STUDENTS & PARENTS

Wednesdays, April 23 & 30 from 8:00-9:15PM If your student would like to plug into a core group, contact Trevor Tinsley at x304 or trevort@cpconline.org.

Wednesday, May 7 from 6:00-9:00PM Kids’ and Student Ministries are teaming together for a night of service! Each grade level will work on a project at CPC or out in the community. Parent volunteers are needed! Contact: Erin Hettinger at x305; erinh@cpconline.org.

CURRICULA ONLINE

Student Ministries staff writes all curricula. Visit cpconline.org/students.

MIDDLE SCHOOL ELEVATE AND COMMITMENT CLASS

Wednesdays, April 23 & 30 from 6:15-7:30PM A night of large-group learning and small-group discussion for 6th-8th graders. Contact for Elevate (6th-7th grades): Van Chounlamountry at x306; vanc@cpconline.org. Contact for CC (8th grade): Carrie Gleeson at x258; carrieg@cpconline.org.

RUCKUS: GUT BALL

Friday, April 25 from 6:00-9:00PM; meet at CPC Ruckus is our fun-filled monthly outing for Elevate and Commitment Class students. Join us for a progressive dining adventure followed by Gut Ball at CPC! Cost: $8 (includes transportation and dinner). Register: cpconline.org/register.

COMMITMENT CLASS SPRING RETREAT

Tuesday, April 29 from 6:00-7:00PM at CPC: CC Celebration Service Wednesday, April 30 from 6:15-7:30PM: Elder Visits Sunday, May 4 at the 9:30 & 11:00AM services: Commitment Class Sunday Learn more at cpconline.org/cc.

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CAMP REGISTRATION IS OPEN!

612 Experience: July 7-11 (entering 9th-12th grades). Cost: $150. Frontier: June 21-28 (entering 9th grade). Cost: $625. Summit: July 19-25 (entering 10th12th grades). Cost: $695.

MAY TERM AT THE TABLE

Sundays, May 4, 11, & 18 from 6:00-7:00PM Join us at The Table to worship together as an HSM community. Worshiping at The Table gives students the chance to plug into a community where they can worship during the summer.

COLLEGE COLLEGE CHICAGO TRIP

May 30-June 2 This trip is a remix of Mission Chicago, but just for college students! Warm weather, great organizations, and new adventures! Cost: $275. Contact: Brooke Toftoy at x286; brooket@cpconline.org.

THE TABLE THEOLOGY ON TAP

Sunday, May 11 at 7:30PM in the Fireside Room Together we engage in facilitated dialogue around topics that affect our everyday lives. Speakers TBD.

TABLE HANGOUT

Sunday, May 18 at 7:00PM at CPC Help us welcome the end of the school year with a party on the blacktop

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SUMMER STUDY PREVIEW Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Debbie Ducar at x226; debbied@cpconline.org.

BRO’ TIME BIBLE STUDY

Mondays, June 2-August 25 from 8:009:00PM in the Fireside Room A group of men from area churches meet in the summer with a commitment to studying God’s Word and drawing closer to Him. This summer we study the book of Ephesians. All experience levels are welcome. Books available at Pathway.

CLEAR EXPLANATIONS FOR DIFFICULT SCRIPTURE

Thursdays, June 19-August 14 from 9:00-10:30AM in the Parlor Have you read verses in the Bible that you found hard to understand? Dr. Ron Rhodes’s book Commonly Misunderstood Bible Verses will guide our journey together, stimulate personal growth, and bolster our confidence in the Word of God. Books available on the first day of class. Led by Dawn Allan.

DECISIONS: SEEKING GOD’S GUIDANCE

Wednesdays, June 25-August 13 from 6:30-8:00PM in the Fireside Room While the Bible cannot give us the answer to every decision we face, it does teach us how to make decisions. In this study, led by Janice Velgersdyk, you will learn how prayer, study, the Holy Spirit, our circumstances, and counsel from others play a role as God leads us in making decisions.

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Family CONGRATULATIONS TO:

STAFF TRANSITIONS

Luann Ruth Dammann and John Christopher Cosgrove, who were married March 1. The Rev. Rich Phenow officiated. Mark and Kim Thompson on the birth of their granddaughter, Adelynn Clara Evans, on March 2.

Linda Schwitzer, Associate Children’s Choir Director, is retiring after 20 years on CPC staff. Since the fall of 1993, Linda has used her passions, creativity, energy, and giftedness to teach and share the love of God through music to our CPC children. We wish her a blessed retirement!

SYMPATHY TO:

Karen Heine joins staff as Wedding, Memorial Services, and Membership Coordinator.

Bonnie Scaife on the passing of her husband, Fred Scaife, on March 8. Dean Knutson and sons, John and Peter, on the passing of Dean’s wife, Brenda Knutson, on March 10. Lindsey Alms and family on the passing of Lindsey’s father, John Dignan, on March 25. The family and friends of Julia M. Hildebrandt, who passed away on March 29. Jill Tinsley and family on the passing of Jill’s father, Jerry Gorton, on March 30. Wayne Sundberg and son, Mark Sundberg, on the passing of Wayne’s wife, Gaye Sundberg, on March 16.

FINANCIAL UPDATE JUNE 1, 2013-MARCH 31, 2014 Ministry Offering Budget: $4,328,199.42 Actual Offering: $4,139,700.60 Variance: ($188,418.82) February Missions Focus (Syria): $83,659.24 March Missions Focus (GO! Trip Scholarships): $16,364.76 YTD Mission of the Month Total: $348,240.13 Expenses are under budget year-to-date.

AN UPDATE ON GIVING AT CPC I love to discuss with the New Members’ Class how CPC lives into our value of being a generous faith community. I use this quote from John Crosby: “Generosity, real generosity, is always initiated by love. God loved. God gave. God brought life, and He invites us to do the same.” This past November, a thousand copies of The Treasure Principle were handed out to the CPC community as well as a challenge to increase the giving of our time and incomes by an additional 1% in 2014. The response from many has been overwhelming: 250 families and individuals increased their commitments; 50 individuals/ families made commitments for the first time; and the average commitment increased by 9%. This was exciting news to share with our newest members, but what was most fun were the responses when folks were asked: “Describe a gift you have given or a time you have volunteered or served that gave you the greatest joy.” The stories, smiles, and tears were beautiful to behold. May is the last month of our fiscal year at CPC and an important time for the Session and Resources Committee to have a “family meeting” with the congregation. We urge those who have not yet made commitments or financial contributions to CPC to do so (please visit cpconline.org/give). Your generosity has the power to change the world in Jesus’ name!

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STAFF SPOTLIGHT:

Trevor Tinsley Trevor has served as the Co-Director of High School Ministries (HSM) since June 2013

Q You came to CPC as a student. How did you get plugged in?

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When I was in 7th grade, a friend invited me to attend Wednesday nights at CPC. One of the first weeks I was here, Kyle Jackson [former Director of Elevate] saw me in the Great Room and asked my name. We chatted for a minute, and when I came back the following week, Kyle said to me, “Trevor, I’m so glad you came back!” In that instant I knew CPC was the place for me: The leader knew me by name, and so I naturally felt he cared about me. Our family started coming to church here, I got really plugged in as both a student and student leader, and I served here throughout college.

Q How did you end up on full-time staff? I studied Youth Ministry at Bethel, hoping that someday I would get my dream job working at CPC. I figured I would put in five or six years at a smaller church and then apply here. But I got an interview late in my senior year of college as Matt Moberg [Co-Director of The Table] made his transition out of HSM, and I accepted the position a few weeks before graduation. Sometimes I still catch myself thinking, “I can’t believe I really get to work here!” I love being in relationship with people, hearing stories of how God is working in others’ lives.

Q CPC Kids’ and Student Ministries are pushing a new Sticky Faith initiative [see pages 4-6]. What is your take on this faith model? It’s all about parents and other leaders having a positive impact on students’ faith journeys. When I was in middle school, I had a high schooler lead my small group. We were rowdy and terrible to teach, but I knew he cared because he kept showing up and was interested in my life. I wanted to do the same for a group when I was in high school. Of course, I was given an equally rambunctious group! It honestly was sometimes hard to show up each week. But by the time these boys were in high school, they were interested to know why I had stuck with them regardless of how wild they had been. And it felt great to say, “If I had left, I wouldn’t have communicated the way God loves you unconditionally.” A lot of parents are uncomfortable talking about faith with their kids. They drop them off on Wednesday nights, thinking, “You youth leaders are the professionals. You should teach my kids about faith, because I don’t have all the answers.” But kids need their parents and other adults to pour God’s love and truth into their lives, too! My dad used to drive me to middle school each day, and he would always pray for me before I got out of the car. I just hated it; it was so embarrassing. But looking back, my dad both modeled what it looks like to be a Christian as well as showed me how much he cares about me. Had he followed my lead and stopped praying because I was an embarrassed teenager, he wouldn’t have had the same faith impact on me as he did.

Q What are some of your personal interests? I’m constantly reading books, blogs, and articles. In the Student Ministries Office I’m known as the “resource guy.” In college, our professors told us that we have to be constantly learning because we aren’t always going to be in the same culture as our students are. When I was talking to the 7th graders recently, I mentioned Facebook, and they all said, “No one uses Facebook anymore.” I thought, “Oh my gosh, I’m only 22, and it’s already happened—I’m old.” But they still put up with me! And I’m still learning.

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CURRENT WORSHIP SERIES: Faith + Doubt Many people equate faith with certainty, so when we wrestle with doubts, we think something is wrong. We find ourselves wondering, “Am I the only one who has questions about my faith?” In this sermon series, we’ll explore the relationship between faith and doubt and examine how they can exist side-by-side on the Christian journey.

April 26/27 | Idol of Certainty and Hope of Faith (John 20:24-29)

Matt Moberg speaking at all services May 3/4 | Faith that Wrestles with God (Luke 7:18-30)

Carrie Gleeson speaking; Worship Night at The Table May 10/11 | We Are Not Alone in Our Doubts (John 21:1-14)

Debbie Manning speaking; Steph Spencer at The Table May 17/18 | Covenant Not Contract (Hebrews 11)

John Crosby speaking; Matt Moberg at The Table

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