CPC Life October 2014 by Christ Presbyterian Church

CPC LIFE

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WHY I

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ow we pray and when we pray and what we pray are all important, but they all flow out of why we pray. “This Day,” our current worship series on prayer, has made me reflect on my own life of prayer, with all its ups and downs. Maybe that’s a good place to start, with the admission that I believe I’m like you, and we all struggle with prayer. I pray because when I do, I sense that I am not alone. I sense that there is a God, good and great and loving and present. That there is meaning, both in my life and yours, and that I have significance, as do you. I pray because prayer gives sense to my life when otherwise life can be overwhelming. I pray because when I do I can admit that I’m not in charge, not able to save myself, that the needs of my life and this world are far beyond my feeble powers. And I pray because I’ve come to sense that there is One who can hold all things together.

Thomas Aquinas said that we are created for no greater purpose than friendship with God. Will Willimon continues that by saying, “It’s comforting to know that even

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though you don’t always feel like a Christian, though you do not always act like a Christian, much less believe like a Christian, your relationship as friend of God is not based on what you have felt, done, or believed. Rather, you are a friend with God because of God’s choice of you in Jesus. . . . Our journey with God is not a test to see if we can make the grade with God and be good enough to be friends with God. The journey begins with God in Christ calling us friends, inviting us to go because God wants us to be part of the journey.” That’s why I pray—for when I pray my eyes are opened to a larger world than the one filled with my own fears and circumstances. I’m brought into a much larger story, reminded that the God who made me came to me, loves me, and calls me on a journey. When I pray I see beyond this world where so much is not as it’s supposed to be, and instead I catch glimpses of His kingdom.

John Crosby serves as Senior Pastor. His favorite place to pray is at the lakes, walking alone at night.

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THANK YOU, CPC MEMBERS! We are grateful for all who responded to the denominational survey sent out by our Presbytery in July.

1900 83% CPC members responded

were in favor of CPC transferring our denominational affiliation to ECO (A Covenant Order of Evangelical Presbyerians).

Because of the compelling response rate and the feedback given, the Presbytery’s Administrative Commission has determined that CPC may now enter into negotiations regarding the financial terms of our move to ECO. Please continue to be in prayer for our church and its leaders during this process, which is expected to take 5-6 months. Look for more information and updates in future issues of CPC Life or visit cpconline.org/pcusa.

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WE WANT ANSWERS...

GOD WANTS US.

ne Friday morning I woke and found my husband sitting in our sunroom with a YouTube video queued up and ready to play on our TV screen. He had just come back from his early morning Bible study with a few men from CPC and other area churches. I asked him how it went, and, juxtaposed against my bleary-eyed 7:00AM post-slumber fog, his answer was particularly exuberant: “REALLY great! Watch this.” Before I even had a chance to protest that I hadn’t yet grabbed a cup of coffee, I found myself watching a fiveminute video that had the rare quality of waking me up better than that coffee ever could. The video, featuring Pastor Bill Hybels, was entirely simple. Bill stood on stage next to a rocking chair and told the story of someone who felt they truly didn’t have time to pray. The pastor replied to him, “We make time for what we value.” The man walked away, discouraged. In the face of a daily commute, family needs, and the demands and pressures of work, what could it possibly look like, in real life, to “make time” for prayer? But, by the grace of God, this man discovered that prayer didn’t need to look like another burden on his heavy checklist of responsibilities. Prayer in his daily, real life could actually look more like a rocking chair. Challenged by the idea of living what he values, he started a daily habit of rising early and taking a cup of coffee and his Bible to a rocking chair. He sat down. He asked God to help him understand and gain wisdom from

what he would read in the Bible. And he asked God to guide him in what lay ahead for that day. Day after day he went back to his chair, sat in it, and talked with God. Over the course of that year, and then many more years, stretching into decades, his “chair habit” utterly transformed him. My husband mused, “I wonder if the progress we made in our walk with God over the next six months was to find our ‘chair’ and develop a daily ‘chair habit’—I wonder if that might not be the most transforming decision we could ever make?”

“WE COMPLICATE PRAYER TO THE POINT THAT, MOST OF THE TIME, WE SIMPLY DON’T PRAY.” Where is your “chair”? Where can you put yourself, every day, with the intent simply to let God know you want to talk to Him—even if you don’t know what to say or where to begin? We complicate prayer to the point that, most of the time, we simply don’t pray. We’re afraid our prayers are too trite, our needs too specific, or our needs far too grave and the hope of answers too fleeting. We don’t want to be disappointed when it seems our prayers aren’t being answered. We don’t want to be presumptuous that we know the “right” way to pray.

But God wants us. He doesn’t want our well-scripted, fully faith-filled eloquent prayers. He wants our hearts. And our hearts are not always full of faith. Our hearts don’t always obey boundaries of how much is too much to want or to ask. Our hearts are not always pure and our will is not always aligned with God’s will. But God wants us to bring ALL of this to Him. He wants to draw us near so that He can shape our wills, purify our hearts, and hear everything that we pour out. When God invites us to pray, He is inviting us to be audacious. To risk crossing a line into territory we dare not go. To ask Him for what we need and want even if we fear it’s too much or too little or too impossible to ask. When our prayers are met with silence, when our prayers are met with more sorrow, when our prayers are met with an abundant outpouring of blessing and answers—all of these ways of God meeting us are God opening a door and beckoning us into deeper intimacy with Him. We want answers. God wants us. Every part of us. Nothing held back. Be audacious. Bring it all to our Father. He will meet you. Most of all, what He will give you is Himself. Where is your chair?

Bethany Hoang attends CPC and is an author and advisor for International Justice Mission. Her favorite place to pray is in her home near a candle. CPC LIFE

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PR AYER SHAWL MINISTRY

have learned that God can make ordinary things holy, often in times of need or life change. I experienced this in 2011 when my 92-year-old mother began the last part of life’s journey. On a day I was feeling down, I noticed a shawl draped on our sofa. A woman involved in a prayer shawl ministry had given it to my husband years before as a thankyou. I wrapped the shawl around me and enjoyed the warmth and God’s peace. I also got an unexpected “holy nudge” to start a prayer shawl ministry at CPC. God sure has a great sense of humor because not only did I have no idea what a prayer shawl ministry was, I didn’t even know how to knit! With the nudges continuing, I set up visits to area prayer shawl ministries. I learned that people knit shawls to share God’s love in a tangible way. They weave into the shawls prayers for God’s love, comfort, protection, strength, and healing. I shared my story with Jody Phenow and Debbie Manning, and they encouraged me to

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start a prayer shawl ministry at CPC. They suggested I find a co-leader who—you guessed it—knew how to knit! In the fall of 2012, with the support and knitting expertise of my coleader, Sandi Shumate, we launched CPC’s Prayer Shawl Ministry. As we begin year three, we have gifted over 118 shawls, some of which have made it to Israel, Australia, Zambia, and Spain. When we read the thankyou cards, we are blessed to see how the works of our hands are being used as instruments of God’s grace. Last year, one of our knitters began a baby shawl. Only weeks later another knitter told us she was going to be a grandma for the first time. Her grandson would be born with a very serious problem that would require much prayer and major surgeries. We prayed and knitted, focusing on this little one. The grandma later told us that whenever the shawl was laid on her grandson, he calmed. The baby is now over a year old.

We were touched to receive a note from missionaries in Spain: “When the shawls were placed around each woman, they wept, they sang, they were so grateful.” Another said, “I came to this retreat empty and am leaving full. The thing that most impacted my life was the prayer shawl. Thank you, God. He spoke to me saying that He is caring for me and other women are praying for us. I love you, appreciate you, and am sure that we all will meet some day when we celebrate in heaven with our Father.” These are just a few testimonies of God making ordinary things—such as prayer shawls knit humbly in a church parlor—holy instruments of His comfort and peace.

Pat Johnson has been a member of CPC since 2005. Her favorite time to pray is when she first awakens. To learn more about the Prayer Shawl Ministry, visit page 10.

An Ancient Prayer for Today:

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heard about the Prayer Shawl Ministry through my job at CPC and requested a shawl for my Grandma Gin, who was sick with dementia. When I went to the Parlor to receive one, I felt an overwhelming amount of peace the moment I walked into the room. I was greeted warmly and told to pick a shawl. There were beautiful hand-knit shawls spread across the table in different colors, and I chose blue because my grandma loved that color. I thought I would just take the shawl and leave, but my shawl was prayed over, and I was given a prayer card that was specifically written for my grandma. The prayer was to be read when she received the shawl. Pat told me the woman who knit the shawl was in the room and asked if I wanted a picture with her. I wrapped the warm shawl around my shoulders for the photo and afterward went back to my office to read the prayer. During Thanksgiving 2013, I said the prayer over my grandma and handed her the shawl. She couldn’t hear, but she smiled. My faith tells me she found comfort in it. I’m grateful Grandma received this gift and prayer before she passed away this past July. Her beautiful shawl was a glimpse of the future, when Jesus’ arms would comfort and hold her.

Claire Sweem serves as Ministry Assistant for Communications and as Scheduling Coordinator. Her favorite place to pray is outside. Claire is pictured above with Irene Wales, who knit the shawl.

– Saint Clement of Rome, first Apostolic Father of the Church, c. 96

disruption to find Ellie a family who was more equipped to handle her needs. Throughout the process we were able to talk to other families who also disrupted an adoption. It was through conversations with these families that we were connected with a foreverfamily for Ellie. This Christian couple had extensive experience with behavioral needs and their home functioned similarly to a residential treatment setting.

FAITH STORY

Prayer and Our

Expectations Megan + Brendan Shane

hough we have three biological children, we’d always talked about adopting from Africa. We both have adopted siblings, and as social workers, we felt equipped to this call. Despite knowing we would be challenged financially, we continually felt God’s prompting, so we wrote a fundraising letter to family and friends who were generous enough to help us reach our goal. The adoption process went quickly, and we traveled to Liberia to welcome two little children into our family just nine months later. Our son Kai had arrived at the orphanage at five months old and fifteen pounds, but by the time we adopted him at age eleven months, he was down to twelve pounds and declining rapidly. Our daughter Ellie was four years old. As social workers, we knew that adopted children could have histories that complicate life with their adopted family. This was the case with Ellie. When we got back home, we had a three-month honeymoon period with her, but then things changed. Ellie suffered from significant trauma while she was in Africa. She had a myriad of mental health, medical, and educational diagnoses. She would dissociate, unable to communicate, for long periods of time. She didn’t sleep well. She would scream for two to five hours a day. She harmed herself and was a threat to our other children. Due to all

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of this (and more), she was under constant supervision.

“WHEN I PRAY TO GOD—EVEN WHEN IT’S AN ANGRY PRAYER—I SENSE THAT GOD IS JUST PLEASED TO HEAR FROM ME.” We worked with the U of M to gain tools to help Ellie. They told us not to let anyone else touch her or hold her without our permission. She needed to learn to rely on us for everything to try to form a healthy attachment. It never happened. As two professionals, we felt we should be able to do this. We would process together every night what strategies we could try the next day. It was all Ellie, all day, every day. We didn’t have time to pour into the other kids or into our marriage. The experience took a toll on everything. I came to realize God had a different plan for our family and for Ellie. I knew as a mom I was not equipped to meet her many needs. Most of our prayers along the way were prayers to heal Ellie. But then our prayers became, “Where does she need to be?” So after two years with Ellie, we started looking into the process of adoption

Leading up to the decision to disrupt Ellie’s adoption, I could not stop crying. I was grieving. But after we dropped Ellie off, I felt like I could breathe again— Ellie was safe and so were we. But Brendan was angry. For the next six months he was depressed and would pray, “Why is she so broken? Why is this little girl so hurt and traumatized?” He was mad at God, but strangely it made his relationship with Him even better. He still says, “When I pray to God—even when it’s an angry prayer—I sense that God is just pleased to hear from me. As a parent, my child can be mad at me, and that’s fine. I just want to be with them, and God just wants to be with us.” The grief process for adoption disruption is unique. When your child dies, people surround you with support. But when you disrupt an adoption, there are a variety of emotions and opinions that get stirred up. Many friends were supportive and told us that it was God’s plan to get Ellie out of Africa, to get her diagnosed, and to get her to her forever-family. After a lot of personal prayer and processing, we, too, believe that God used us to orchestrate Ellie’s arrival in America to find her forever-family. Though those two years were the darkest period for both of us, we would go through the whole thing again. We can’t imagine not having Kai in our lives. And we can’t imagine having Ellie still in Africa. The continued trauma she would have encountered there would have likely been great. We feel like she is exactly where she needs to be. We continually pray for healing for Ellie and that someday she’ll be able to live independently. We also pray for (and with) other couples going through this difficult process. We’ve seen how broken the world is and the pain broken people experience. It just shows how much we need a Savior.

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Wednesdays, October 22-November 12 from 6:15-7:30PM in Anderson Hall

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SUNDAYS AT 5:00PM IN THE GREAT ROOM

Take part in a day of encouragement for parents with the 1 Corinthians Parenting Team.

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MINISTRY PROGRAMMING | 2014 OCTOBER ISSUE

CPC Ministry Programming October 2014

At CPC, we seek to inspire all generations to follow Jesus, love others, and live missionally. Please look through the various programs for kids, students, and adults—and join us! For fuller descriptions and more information on any of these programs, please visit cpconline.org.

GENERAL MID-MONTH CHAPEL SERVICE

Wednesday, October 15 at 12:00PM A traditional service with a short message by Rich Phenow, hymns, Communion, and prayers. Lunch follows.

ALL SAINTS’ WEEKEND

Saturday & Sunday, November 1/2 during services All Saints’ Weekend is a time to celebrate loved ones who have gone home to heaven in the past year. A slide show is shown to honor the memories of those for whom we have held a memorial service at CPC.

PATHWAY BOOKS FALL HOURS

Monday, Tuesday, Thursday: 9:00AM-4:00PM Wednesday: 9:00AM-8:00PM (closed at 4:00PM when there is no programming) Friday: 9:00AM-1:00PM Saturday: 5:00-7:00PM Sunday: 9:00AM-1:00PM & 4:45-6:30PM

ADULTS AMAZING GRACE BOOK GROUP

CPC BOOK CLUB

Thursday, October 16 at 7:00PM in the Parlor; meets 3rd Thursdays We discuss Rasputin’s Daughter by Robert Alexander. Contact: Nancy Reutiman at 952.920.1837.

LIFEKEYS: DISCOVER WHO YOU ARE

Wednesdays, October 22-November 12 OCTOBER 2014

ESSENTIALS 201: RELATIONSHIP WITH JESUS

Wednesdays through November 19 from 6:00-7:30PM in a nearby home Once you have met Jesus, you will never be the same. His teaching challenges your thinking. His love turns your life around. Led by Laura Mulliken. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Deb Carlson at x316; debc@cpconline.org.

IN THE WORD

Mondays from 9:30-11:30AM in Room 107 An intergenerational discussion-oriented study on the Gospel of Mark for men and women. Childcare available ($50/ semester). Contact: James Madsen at x308; jamesm@cpconline.org.

SUNDAY COMMUNITIES

Monday, October 13 at 1:00PM in the Parlor; meets 2nd Mondays We discuss I Am Malala. All are welcome! Contact: Carol Krebs at 952.944.6639.

from 6:15-7:30PM in Anderson Hall Join Dave Stark, author and former CPC pastor, to examine your gifts, values, and personality. Discover who God made you to be and how you can serve Him more effectively. Purchase the workbook in Pathway. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Deb Carlson at x316; debc@cpconline.org.

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Sundays at 9:30AM & 10:45AM Sunday Communities offer a place to belong and a place to grow with people in a similar life stage. This fall we have brandnew topical studies. Contact: Dan Anderson at x298; danderson@cpconline.org. MIXED TAPES (20s & 30s) Meets at 9:30AM in Fellowship Hall-W S.A.L.T. (40s & 50s) Meets at 9:30AM in Fellowship Hall-E A.C.T.S. (First-Wave Baby Boomers) Meets at 9:30AM in Fellowship Hall-C MORE (Active Retired) Meets at 10:45AM in Room 107 CREDO (Intergenerational) Meets at 10:45AM in Fellowship Hall-W

SMALL GROUPS Wherever you are in your spiritual journey, being in relationship is essential to your transformation. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Deb Carlson at x316; debc@cpconline.org.

WOMEN

NEW! EVENING MOM’S GROUP

2nd Thursdays beginning October 9 from 7:00-8:30PM Join with other moms to connect and grow together in faith. Geared toward moms with young kids through elementary age.

YOUNG WOMEN’S SMALL GROUP (20S & 30S)

Mondays from 7:00-8:45PM in the CPC Conference Room; meets 1st & 3rd Mondays Barb Olson leads a study on Priscilla Shirer’s Gideon with DVD lecture and discussion.

TUESDAY EVENING SMALL GROUP STUDY

Tuesdays through December 9 from 6:45-8:45PM in Room 10; meets 2nd & 4th Tuesdays Our fall study is Gideon by Priscilla Shirer. This study features DVD lecture, homework, small group discussion, fellowship, and prayer. Contact: Jane Pooler at jane.plr55@gmail.com.

MEN

TUESDAY EVENING GROUP

Tuesdays from 7:00-8:00PM in Room 201 All are welcome in this men’s group that recently started meeting.

DAD’S GROUP

Wednesdays from 6:15-7:30PM in the Parlor (no meeting October 15) Led by Allen Pofahl and Tom Wagner,

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this group focuses on growing in our roles as dads of young children through early high schoolers.

THURSDAY MORNING GROUP

Thursdays from 7:00-8:00AM at Patrick’s Bakery This men’s group, led by Matt Faulkner, discusses G.K. Chesterton’s book on Saint Thomas Aquinas.

NEW! FRIDAY MORNING GROUP

Fridays at 7:00-8:00AM in Room 202 This new group will begin meeting with sufficient interest. Please register first.

ADULT MIXED

FAITH, FELLOWSHIP, & FUN

2nd Sundays from 5:30-8:30PM in a nearby home This intergenerational group welcomes new members as they focus together on prayer, fellowship, and growing together.

NEW! ADOPTION SMALL GROUP

Wednesdays beginning October 1 from 6:00-7:20PM in a nearby home Join other adoptive parents and those considering adoption for a small group studying the Connected Families book Discipline That Connects with Your Child’s Heart. Led by Grant and Anna Braasch. Childcare and kids’ programming at CPC available.

COUPLES

Being in a couples’ group is a great way to strengthen your marriage and grow together. Our groups are based on age ranges and life stages and generally meet one evening a month in homes. If the days/times below don’t fit your schedule, please indicate your preferences when you register. NEW! 20s-30s 2nd Mondays at 7:00PM This group will launch with sufficient interest. 30s-40s Meets 2nd Thursdays at 7:00PM; 3rd Mondays at 7:00PM The Thursday group is open to new

members; the Monday group will launch with sufficient interest. 40s-50s Meets 2nd Mondays at 7:00PM; 1st Tuesdays at 7:00PM The Monday group is open to new members; the Tuesday group will launch with sufficient interest. NEW! 50s & UP Meets 2nd Sundays at 7:00PM

WOMEN MOM’S MORNING

Large Group Wednesdays, October 8 & 22 in the Fireside Room from 9:30-11:30AM; meets 2nd & 4th Wednesdays Join other moms for fellowship and inspirational speakers. On October 8, Anna Braasch presents “Paper Avalanche: Paper Organization in our ‘Paperless’ World.” On October 22, Jennifer Silvera speaks on “Present Parenting: Living Now with Your Kids.” Cost: $50/year; $60/child for childcare. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Tara Wagner at taramwagner@gmail.com. Small Groups Meets 1st, 3rd, & 5th Wednesdays from 9:30-11:30AM Small groups are safe places to ask questions and be honest. Groups allow you to develop relationships through Bible study, prayer, fellowship, and Christ-centered support. Cost: $60/child for childcare. Register: cpconline.org/ register. Contact: Stacia Fetters at stacia. fetters@gmail.com.

NEEDLEWORK GUILD

Saturday, October 11 from 10:00AM2:00PM in the Fellowship Hall; meets 2nd Saturdays Our mission is to make warm garments and blankets for local agencies that serve the needy. We have yarn, fabric, and knitters to get you started. Contact: Sally Stoutenburgh at 952.927.6915.

MOMS OF TEENS

Large Group Thursday, October 23 from 9:15-11:30AM in the Fellowship Hall Abby Ludvigson, founder of Abstinence Advantage, speaks on “Turning the

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Tide of our Sexualized Youth Culture.” Learn about the current state of our youth culture and practical steps to build a biblical worldview on sexuality in the hearts of our children. Moms of tweens are encouraged to come as well! Cost: $5. Contact: Colette Prohofsky at 952.920.8714; coprohof@gmail.com. Small Groups Daytime: Thursdays, October 9 & 30 from 9:30-11:15AM in Rooms 200 & 202 Evening: Mondays, October 6 & 20 from 7:00-8:30PM in Room 203 Join us for support, study, and discussion. Groups discuss a Christian parenting book and support one another on our parenting journeys. Contact: Cheryl Lamone at 612.275.3436; cheryllam@me.com.

TUESDAY AFTERNOON WOMEN’S STUDY

Tuesdays from 1:00-2:30PM in Room 107 Carolyn Beatty leads an in-depth Bible study on John. This group generates lively discussions and cares for one another. Contact: Judy Romine at 952.929.4973.

CIRCLES

Circles combine fellowship, learning, and service in a small group setting. They consist primarily of women over 50; new members always welcome. Esther Circle Saturday, October 11 at 9:30AM in the Parlor; meets 2nd Saturdays Women of CPC are welcome to join us for fellowship and a study on Elijah. Contact: Norma Jean Barr at 952.831.2642. Martha Circle Wednesday, October 15 at 10:00AM in the Parlor; meets 3rd Wednesdays Visitors and friends are warmly welcomed. Contact: Pat Haberkorn at 952.941.4188. Lydia Circle Saturday, October 25 at 9:30AM in the Parlor; meets 4th Saturdays Our guest speaker is to be determined. Visitors are welcome. Contact: Ellen Hastings at 952.896.0066. Ruth Circle Meets every Wednesday at 9:30AM On the first and third Wednesdays, we meet in a home for food, fellowship, devotions, and prayers. On the other CPC LIFE

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Wednesdays, we serve at Feed My Starving Children and at CPC. Contact: Barb Bucha at 952.470.4414

NESTERS: CPC’S ACTIVE RETIREMENTAGE COMMUNITY

Sunday, October 19; depart from CPC’s north entrance at 12:45PM Hear pianist Anna Polonsky perform at the Basilica of St. Mary with the Minnesota Sinfonia Orchestra followed by dinner at Olive Garden. Cost: your own meal. Register by October 15: Mary Allen at x243; marya@cpconline.org.

EDYNAMOES

Wednesday, October 29 at 11:30AM in the Fellowship Hall All are welcome to join the Edynamoes for lunch and a program entitled “The Edina/Faribault Connection.” Paul Mooty will explain the rebirth of the Faribault Woolen Mill! Cost: $5. Register by October 27: Judy Romine at 952.929.4983. Please bring Jerry’s cash receipts, can tabs, and Campbell’s labels.

FAMILY MINISTRIES PARENTAL GUIDANCE NECESSARY (PG)

Wednesday, October 8 from 6:157:30PM in Anderson Hall PG seeks to equip parents through the challenges and joys of raising Christian kids in a secular world. Dr. Tim Johanson, Behavioral Pediatrician, speaks on “Your Life-Ready Child: Are You a Catalyst or an Inhibitor?” Contact: Debbie Ducar at x226; debbied@cpconline.org.

HEARTCORE PARENTING CONFERENCE

Saturday, November 1 from 8:30AM2:30PM at CPC CPC is partnering with 1 Corinthians 13 Parenting Team for a day of encouragement, including worship, a keynote, breakout sessions, and lunch. Each participant receives a copy of The 1 Corinthians 13 Parent and either Raising Little Kids with Big Love or Raising Big Kids with Supernatural Love. A great event for parenting strategies, marriage enrichment, and educational tips and tools. Register: cpconline.org/register. OCTOBER 2014

CARE LAY CARE MINISTRY TRAINING

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Mondays through November 24 from 7:00-8:30PM in Anderson Hall Become a trained Lay Minister to encourage, support, and provide tangible acts of service to those who are hurting. Register: Debbie Manning at x275; debbiem@cpconline.org.

ABUNDANTLY SATISFIED: WEIGHT CARE GROUP

Sundays, October 5 & 19 from 9:3010:30AM in Room 203; meets 1st & 3rd Sundays We support each other with weight issues that keep us from experiencing the abundant life God wants for us. No weigh-ins; lots of grace and support! Contact: Sandy Radeke at 952.452.1205; sandy_radeke@earthlink.net.

ALZHEIMER’S EDUCATION SERIES

Thursday, October 9 from 6:308:00PM in the Fireside Room; meets 2nd Thursdays through March A series for care partners and those with Alzheimer’s and related dementias. Debbie Richman from the Alzheimer’s Association speaks on “Know the Ten Signs.” No registration needed. Contact: Mary Allen at x243; marya@ cpconline.org.

PRAYER SHAWL MINISTRY

Friday, October 10 (Parlor) and Saturday, October 25 (Room 203) from 10:00AM-12:00PM; meets 2nd Fridays and 4th Saturdays Our mission is to prayerfully knit or crochet shawls with the hope of being vessels for God’s presence and comfort. No knitting experience needed; all are welcome. Coaching and materials can be provided. Contact: Pat Johnson at 952.947.0734.

BEGINNING AGAIN

Saturday, October 11; depart from CPC’s north entrance at 9:00AM Beginning Again is CPC’s support group for those dealing with the practical issues that follow the death of a spouse. Join to sightsee along the St. Croix River Valley. Visit an orchard, shop, and stop for lunch along the way. Cost: your own

meal. Register: Mary Allen at x243; marya@cpconline.org.

GRIEF RECOVERY

Tuesday, October 14 from 6:00-8:30PM in the Parlor; meets 2nd Tuesdays Grief Recovery is for those who have lost a loved one. We experience God’s hope and healing through fellowship, prayer, and sharing a meal. Rich Phenow is our speaker this month. Contact: Debbie Manning at x275; debbiem@cpconline.org.

GRACE & HOPE FOR OUR CHILDREN

Tuesday, October 21 from 7:00-8:30PM in the Parlor; meets 3rd Tuesdays Does your child experience emotional or mental health issues? You are not alone. Join other parents, friends, and caregivers as we care for one another on our journeys. Meetings include sharing time and occasional guest speakers. Contact: Doug Brown at 612.839.9992; dbrown@dcbrowninc.com.

MISSIONS URBAN HOMEWORKS WORKDAY

Saturdays, October 4 & November 1 from 8:30AM-3:00PM Work alongside other CPCers to rehab a home in North Minneapolis. All skill levels are welcome. Enjoy a group lunch at a local restaurant to get to know each other better. Ages 16+. Contact: Cooper Butler at 404.808.4781; cooper.butler@gmail. com. Register: cpconline.org/register.

URBAN VENTURES MOBILE FOOD MARKET

Sunday, October 12 after services (weather permitting) The Urban Ventures mobile food market provides a full selection of seasonal vegetables grown on the Urban Ventures farm and in their greenhouse. They deliver to neighborhoods where fresh food can be difficult to find. See the project CPC helped fund in the 2013 Christmas Offering in action! 100% of the proceeds go to purchasing more produce for the market locations.

EQUIP SMALL GROUP STUDY

Tuesdays, October 14-November 18 from 6:30-8:00PM in Room 202 Study When Helping Hurts to continue the discussion on better ways to engage with those in need. Facilitated

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by Eli Mansfield, Director of Missional Engagement. Materials for the study are available in Pathway for under $25. Contact: Eli Mansfield at x311; elizabethm@cpconline.org. Register: cpconline.org/register.

TAKE THE PLUNGE!

October 25, February 7, & April 25 from 9:00AM-1:00PM at Urban Ventures Will you accept the challenge to take your missional engagement to the next level? Immerse yourself in a local servicelearning opportunity, including a poverty simulation experience, in partnership with Urban Ventures. Participants learn about four distinct realities of urban life: the nature of human trafficking; effects of racism and profiling; understanding the presence of Islam; and being undocumented in a documented world. We encourage your commitment to all three dates! Ages 13+. Contact: Dee McIntosh at x214; doneilam@cpconline. org. Register: cpconline.org/register.

KIDS WEEKEND PROGRAMS

Saturday 5:15PM; Sunday 9:30AM, 11:00AM, & 6:00PM services During weekend services, we minister to children (6 weeks through 6th grade) and families by engaging kids in their relationship with Jesus. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Tammy Mitchell at x216; tammym@cpconline.org.

WEDNESDAY NIGHT PROGRAMS

Wednesdays, from 6:00-7:30PM 1st-5th grade Wednesday night programming is an opportunity for kids to learn more about God and live out their faith through music, friendship, reading the Bible, and connection with leaders. Register: cpconline.org/ register. Contact: Sara Lightbody at x203; saral@cpconline.org.

STUDENTS MOSAIC WORSHIP SERVICE

Sunday, October 26 at 12:30PM in the Sanctuary Mosaic is a worship service for kids and students with special needs and their families. Noises, sounds, and movements are

welcome! Contact: Kari Dubord at x261; karid@cpconline.org.

SERVICE LEARNING NIGHT

Wednesday, October 29; various times Each grade in Student Ministries (6th12th) works on a project at CPC or in the community. A great time for parents to serve alongside their kids! Parent volunteers are needed. Contact: Erin Hettinger at x305; erinh@cpconline.org.

MIDDLE SCHOOL

ELEVATE & ENGAGE REGISTRATION

Wednesdays, October 8, 22, & November 5 from 6:15-7:30PM A night of fun, large-group learning and small-group discussion for 6th-8th graders. Please make sure your student is registered if they plan to attend this year. Contact for 6th-7th grade: Van Chounlamountry at x306; vanc@cpconline.org. Contact for 8th grade: Lexi Soldo at x279; lexis@ cpconline.org.

RUCKUS: FLYING IN THE FALL

Wednesday, October 15; meet at CPC at 5:45PM Ruckus is our fun-filled outing for Elevate and Engage students. We head to Sky Zone to bounce on their fun trampolines. Cost: $12. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Van Chounlamountry at x306; vanc@cpconline.org.

ENGAGE: ZOOAPALOOZA

Friday, October 24-Saturday, October 25: Meet at CPC at 5:30PM Spend the night sleeping at the Minnesota Zoo! Cost: $65. Register: cpconline.org/ register. Contact: Erin Hettinger at x305; erinh@cpconline.org.

HIGH SCHOOL

HSM SMALL GROUP REGISTRATION

All 9th-12th graders must register for HSM. Register: cpconline.org/register. Contact: Erin Hettinger at x305; erinh@cpconline.org.

FRESHMEN RETREAT

Thursday-Sunday, October 16-19 at Castaway Join CPC, St. Pat’s, St. Ed’s, Prince of Peace, and Family Fest Ministries on a MEA Getaway! Buses leave at 5:00PM on Thursday

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(location TBD) and return around 5:00PM on Sunday. Cost: $250. Register: cpconline. org/register. Contact: Trevor Tinsley at x304; trevort@cpconline.org.

HSM HOUSE GROUPS (9TH-11TH)

Wednesdays, October 8 & 22 from 8:00-9:15PM 9th graders meet with core groups at CPC on October 8. All following meetings will be at area homes. Contact: Brooke Toftoy at x286; brooket@cpconline.org.

HSM SENIORS

Contact: Brooke Toftoy at x286; brooket@cpconline.org.

COLLEGE

CARE PACKAGES

We are set to send out care packages for our college-age kids, but we need to know where to send them! Parents, please fill out this form so we have their most updated address and contact info: http://bit.ly/cpccarepackages.

OPPORTUNITIES TO SERVE COLLEGE STUDENTS

The involvement of the adults in our community is key to keeping our college students connected to church and their faith! To help with care packages, plan trips, host summer events, or mentor someone, contact Brooke Toftoy at x286; brooket@cpconline.org.

TABLE Q COMMONS

Thursday, October 9 from 7:009:00PM in the Sanctuary Q is a local conference for learning, inspiration, and advancing the common good. Visit qcommons.com/twincities.

WORSHIP NIGHT AT THE TABLE

Sunday, October 25 at 5:00PM

YOUNG LIFE CELEBRATION

Thursday, October 30 at 6:00PM in Minneapolis

SPECIAL GUEST DAOUD NASSER

Sunday, November 2 Palestinian Christian Daoud Nasser visits The Table and facilitates Theology on Tap afterward. CPC LIFE

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Urban Ventures’ mobile food market— our Christmas Offering in action.

The Table worships outside at Lake Normandale.

CPC staff leaders and their families enjoy a summer retreat.

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Family CONGRATULATIONS TO:

Kate Busby and Emmett Van Gorp on the birth of their son, Theodore David, on August 13. Chelsea Marie Moran and Brian Joseph Charlton, who were married on August 16. Pastor Dan Anderson officiated. Juli Ann Stensland and Paul Raymond Nordin, who were married on August 23. The Revs. Paul Tshihamba and Bob Solberg co-officiated. Claire Ellen Wooldridge and Travis James Kellner, who were married on August 31. The Rev. Rich Phenow officiated. Kristen and Michael Dunavant on the birth of their son, Fitzgerald, on September 1. Big brother is Gideon.

on September 19. Brooke Toftoy, Licensed Minister, officiated. Elizabeth Sandra Mansfield and Brian David Fudenberg, who were married on September 20. The Rev. Paul Tshihamba officiated. Megan Rae Ewing and Anthony Vernon Howard, who were married on September 26. Pastor Dan Anderson officiated.

SYMPATHY TO:

Julie Lennick on the passing of her husband, Ted Lennick, on July 20. Rich and Nancy Pointer on the passing of Rich’s mother, Lorraine Pointer, on August 20. Ann Hill on the passing of her father, Earl J. Underbrink, on August 26.

Marcy Eileen Warren and Samuel Elliott Eccles, who were married on September 5. Debbie Manning, Licensed Minister, officiated.

Susie and Brad Baker on the passing of Susie’s mother, Carol Weber, on August 28.

Christine Ann Fullerton and Judd Starr Kirklin, who were married on September 5. The Rev. Rich Phenow officiated.

Brian and Lisa Cook on the passing of their son, Russ Cook, on August 31.

Kristin and John Lonsbury on the birth of their daughter, Layla Marie, on September 9. Grandparents are John and Bev Lonsbury and Great-Grandma is Joan Lonsbury.

Lynn and Tim Jarvis on the passing of Lynn’s mother, Caryl Gregory, on September 2.

Liza Jean Huber and Erik Nicholas Quarberg, who were married on September 12. The Rev. Dr. John Crosby officiated. Sarah Jane Bolton and Daniel Andrew Waltenberg, who were married on September 13. The Rev. Rich Phenow officiated. Annie Elizabeth Geyer and Brett Edward Wondra, who were married

Gladys Kamanga-Sollo on the passing of her mother, Rebecca KamangaSollo, on September 6. Family and friends of Donna Merchant, who passed away on September 20.

Jenny Perusse Doug Drake Judie Hoppe Nicole Dean Ann Birt Paula Uvodich Harry Baker Irene Wales

STAFF TRANSITIONS:

Lee Hanssen steps down as Director of Student Ministries effective October 8. Lee began at CPC as Director of Commitment Class in August 2010 and transitioned to his role as Director of Student Ministries in 2013. Lee moves with his wife, Hallie, to Rapid City, SD, where he will continue to disciple men and women in the name of Jesus. Carrie Gleeson transitions from Director of Commitment Class to Director of Student Ministries. Lexi Soldo joins Student Ministries as Director of Engage/Commitment Class.

FINANCIAL UPDATE

August 1, 2014 – August 31, 2014 Ministry Offering Budget: $930,055.02 Actual Offering: $888,726.35 Variance: ($41,328.67) August Mission Focus (GO! Trip Scholarships):$3,704.51 YTD Mission Focus Total: $20,191.89 Expenses are under budget year-to-date.

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“Prayer is where the action is."

Books, music, quotes, apps, art, videos, websites, people, places, & things that get us to think about God in new & exciting ways.

- John Wesley

“God shapes the world by prayer. The more prayer there is in the world the better the world will be, the mightier the forces against evil.”

TWO EXCELLENT BOOKS ON PRAYER FROM TWO VERY DIFFERENT CHRISTIANS

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The Practice of the Presence of God

Help, Thanks, Wow: The Three Essential Prayers

– BROTHER LAWRENCE

– ANNE LAMOTT

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STAFF SPOTLIGHT:

Michelle Durrett Michelle has served as Manager of Pathway Bookstore since June 2013 and has been on staff since May 2010.

She most often prays in her car.

Q Tell us about Pathway Bookstore and your work there.

I focus a lot of my time on buying books for the store, which is a fun challenge—I love finding the “new stuff” people will like. It’s also so cool to be able to pray for people in the store. One day a gal was sitting in the corner, and I asked her if there was anything she needed help with. She started telling me about a conflict in her life. I listened and asked if she wanted to pray, which we did. I feel God orchestrating these meetings in the store, which is really neat.

Q As a co-leader of the Prayer and Healing team, can you tell us about your ministry?

Our new mission statement is “Loving God and others through prayer.” We have a large, diverse group of people on our team, all called to pray for people in need. We are available in the Prayer Room after services, during Communion, and for special prayer services—lifting up people before surgeries, after the loss of a loved one, and during times of difficulty. We are blessed by getting to step into these holy places. Our team is not made up of “professional prayers.” We just trust that God will provide what’s needed for that person at that time. We aren’t there to provide counseling or answers, but we’re there to love them. There are moments when I don’t have words for a particular situation. People undergo horrendous tragedies. So I ask God, “Show me how to love right now. Give me the words.”

Q What fires you up in life?

In this busy season of life, it’s really easy to keep looking ahead to what’s coming next. So I am continually asking myself if I’m “all in” in the way I’m living now. To do this, I try to find ways to love my family and friends. When my husband and I look at a photo, he notices the setting, but I always comment on the people. He teases me: “It’s all about the people with you!” And it’s true—that’s just the way I’m wired! I love building meaningful and deep relationships with people. It’s kind of my thing.

FAST FACTS ABOUT MICHELLE

Hometown: White Bear Lake, MN Family: Husband, Don; children, Amelia (12th grade), Mitchell (10th grade), and Lydia (7th grade) Hobbies: Reading and deep conversations with friends

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TAKE THE PLUNGE TO SERVE & LEARN! Saturday, October 25 FROM 9:00AM-1:00PM AT URBAN VENTURES

Immerse yourself in a local service-learning experience with other CPCers. Learn about four realities of urban life: human trafficking, racism, Islam, and being undocumented. Ages 13 +