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One more trip around the sun – and what a sunny trip it will be! From the joys of the holiday season to the excitement of a New Year, there’s so much to look forward to over the next few months that it can be hard to know where to begin. But that’s where we come in. Everyone is trying to make the most of the season, but frankly, there might just be too many different ways to celebrate. On page 6 Liz Read compiles all the events, shows, choruses, and festivals in one place so you don’t miss a minute of the most wonderful time of the year. It’s one thing to give gifts this time of year, but how many of us give our time? If you are able, consider taking up a volunteer position, and if you’re dedicated, consider continuing it throughout the New Year. On page 10, Steven Froias writes about the opportunities available with the National Park Service – give back to the community by working to help it stand out! Finally, when you need a break from the wild ride over the next few weeks, treat yourself to a delicious bite at a local shop. On page 12, Stacie Charbonneau Hess highlights two of her favorites, and even reveals a delicious pastry recipe you can prepare at home, for when you get snowed in. Don’t miss out! Now, as things come to a close at the end of the year, we wanted to express our gratitude to you, our readers, for your continued dedication to Prime Times, to our advertisers for their support, and to every single person who works to bring the magazine to your hands each issue. We wish you all a happy and healthy New Year!

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Holiday happenings Compiled by E lizabeth M orse R ead

All That Glitters

The holidays will “Sparkle” through January 1 at Blithewold Mansion and Gardens in Bristol! Stroll through illuminated gardens and greenhouses, enjoy cocoa, s’mores, and carolers around the bonfire on December 21. For more info, call 401-253-2707 or go to blithewold.org. The Annual Festival of Lights at LaSalette Shrine in Attleboro will be on display through January 1 – more than 300,000 lights illuminating ten acres! For details, go to lasaletteattleboroshrine.org or call 508-222-5410. Go on candlelight tours through the 19th-century mansions of New Bedford! Mark your calendar for the 27th Annual Holiday House Tours on December 15-16! For info, visit nbpreservationsociety.org. Don’t miss the special holiday events at the elegantly-decorated Linden Place Mansion in Bristol! Bring the family to the free Holiday Family Fun Day on December 15! Listen to the Celtic Christmas Concert on December 14, and bring in the New Year with the Celtic-style singers and musicians of Windharp on December 28! For more info, call 401-253-0390 or visit lindenplace.org. Head for Bridal Path in Lakeville to see the Crazy Tech Christmas Animated Light Show with synchronized music, weather permitting, through December 31! For details, go to crazytechchristmas.com/ showinfo.

Deck the Halls! Make a trip to the Fall River Historical Society for a Victorian-era Christmas! Tour the expertly-decorated mansion, attend at High Tea at the Easton Tea Room, shop for unique holiday gifts at the Museum Shop! For a complete schedule and more info, call 508-679-1071 or visit lizzieborden.org. 6

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Don’t miss Middleboro’s Annual Festival of Lights on December 15-16 at the KOA Campground! For details, call 774-766-6335 or go to facebook.com/ middleborotoday. Buy holiday gifts, goodies and greenery at The Silverbrook Farm in Acushnet! For info, call 774-202-1027 or go to thesilverbrookfarm.com.

Stroll through the holiday splendor of “Christmas at the Newport Mansions” through January 1! Spend Holiday Evenings at The Breakers on December 22, 29, and Holiday Evening Duet at The Elms and Marble House December 15! For dates and details, go to newportmansions.org or call 401-847-1999.

Cut down your own Christmas tree at Escobar Farm in Portsmouth! For info, go to escobarfarm.com or call 401-683-1444. Find that special gift at the “Artists For The Bay” show at the Save the Bay Center, showcasing the works of local artists, artisans, and jewelers through January 26! For more info, go to savebay.org/art or call 401-272-3540 x 140. Buy your holiday trees, greenery, and gifts at Frerichs Farm in Warren! For more info, call 401-245-8245 or go to frerichsfarm.com.

Bringing in the New Year!

Celebrate the Winter Solstice on December 21 with a sunrise walk on West Island in Fairhaven! Sponsored by the Buzzards Bay Coalition. For info, go to savebuzzardsbay.org/events.

The Christmas Festival of Lights runs through January 1 at Edaville Railroad in Carver! Take the kids on heated train rides illuminated by 17 million lights throughout the park! For more info, call 508-866-8190 or go to edaville.com. Get ready for Fall River’s 3rd Annual Festival of Trees at the Government Center on December 15! For info, call 508-673-2929 or go to ahafallriver.com. Discover colonial Newport by going on a Holiday Lantern Tour! For info and tickets, call 401-841-8770 or go to newporthistorytours.org.

Get ready for the Polar Plunge at Mattapoisett’s Town Beach on New Year’s

Day! For more info, go to facebook.com/ freezinforareasonma. Take a New Year’s Day Walk through Paskamansett Woods in Dartmouth, a nature reserve operated by the Dartmouth Natural Resources Trust. For more info, visit dnrt.org. Get ready for the Fort Phoenix Polar Plunge on January 1 in Fairhaven! For more info, go to facebook.com/ fortphoenixpolarplunge. Head for Heritage State Park in Fall River for the fireworks on New Year’s Eve! Then, join the Polar Plunge at Sandy Beach in Fall River on New Year’s Day! For more info, call Forever Paws Animal Shelter at 508-677-9154. Don’t miss the groovy ‘60s New Year’s Eve Party December 31 at the Sandywoods Center for the Arts in Tiverton!! For info, go to sandywoodsmusic.com or call 401-241-7349.

Kick off the New Year at City Celebrates! New Year’s Eve on December 31 in New Bedford’s Seaport Cultural District! Don’t miss the fireworks, street performers, ice sculptures, food, live music, and outdoor dancing! For more info, go to downtownnb.org or destinationnewbedford.org.

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Photo by Steven Froias

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New Bedford buys

Perhaps your idea of a rewarding and enjoyable holiday shopping experience isn’t found online or in a giant retail store. Perhaps there are people on your shopping list who deserve something unique. Perhaps you just Sean want to discover a new local business. If this is the case, McCarthy downtown New Bedford once again enlivens its streets to provide visitors with a seasonal shopping experience found nowhere else. Throughout December more than 90 downtown stores are opening their doors to offer goods and services, most of which are unique opportunities for shoppers. It is a holiday environment found nowhere else. “For me this season recreates the landscape of my childhood when you went to a downtown area with the streets that were full of happy people,” says Lee

Heald, Director of AHA! New Bedford for the past 10 years. “New Bedford was built so that people can walk around. It has an intimate personal feel. With its cobblestone streets and wonderful lights there is the holiday feeling of being in a small village-like location. People are delighted to enjoy the environment. This is an opportunity to see New Bedford at its best.” The event that kicked off New

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Bedford’s shopping season was the “Holiday Shop & Stroll,” a shopping gala that has been held for more than 20 years and was bigger this year than ever with more businesses and volunteers becoming involved. This year the event was held on Saturday, December 1st and Sunday, December 2nd. “There’s a sense of community about this time of the year – it’s family friendly,” says Elissa Paquette, owner

of Calico as well as President of dNBInc, the organization that spearheaded the opening “Stroll” event. “People who shop downtown are contributing to something vibrant. You don’t have to wake up at 5:30 in the morning to get in line. You can buy something from a small business and directly support the local economy.” A particularly enticing feature of this year’s shopping experience is more than 40 businesses that have decorated their windows with holiday images, contributing greatly to the festive atmosphere of the area. The windows will be on display up until New Year’s and visitors will be able to use their phones to vote for their favorite windows in a variety of categories. Businesses that were unable to decorate their windows were

able to have local art students at TL6, and the Thai silks and jewelry at Intarawut Gallery. do the designs for them. For a Saturday was particularly fes$100 stipend from the Local tive including time-honored Cultural Council, the students events such as a downtown have put their holiday parade featuring Santa Claus creativity on as many as nine and Mrs. Claus that trekked store windows. up William Street to the “People like to see their city steps of the library steps on look beautiful,” says Terry Pleasant St. where Mayor Jon Wolkowicz, coordinator for Mitchell lit Deck the “Shopping local the annual Windows. Christmas “We’re makes people feel tree. Soon inspiring after that business good because Mayor owners to they know they ’ re Mitchell make their The windows choosing to invest visited Zeiterion as creative Theatre to in their local as possible. host a free There may economy ” showing even be a of the little bit of holiday-based movie, “Home friendly competition.” Alone.” Shop the city During the weekend the city “Shopping small” can have offered free family fire truck big rewards. It’s likely to introrides from Custom House duce visitors to businesses Square while Mare Studios on they will return to after the 27 Centre Street was taking holidays. Popular items are photos of children of all ages gift certificates to restaurants, with Santa Claus. museums, theaters, and other The two-day “Stroll” event local establishments that that gives a start to New will continue to bring people Bedford’s shopping season downtown. A delicious meal was directed by a conglomeracan be the conclusion of a full tion of local organizations. In day of shopping, or it can be addition to dNBInc, there is the precursor to an evening at AHA! New Bedford, the New a local theatre. Bedford Economic Develop“Shopping local makes ment Council, the New people feel good because they Bedford Office of Tourism and know they’re choosing to Deck the Windows. invest in their local economy “When you come downtown – as well as that new dress or everything you find is hand-picked by a local small holiday gift,” Paquette says. business owner, from the Among the many shopping products on the shelves destinations are the stylish right down to the font on women’s clothing and the menus,” quips Paquette. accessories found at Calico, “It’s that personal touch that the fun and festive jewelry makes New Bedford special!” at be jeweled, one-of-a-kind For further information t-shirts and skateboard on the holiday downtown merchandise at Solstice, offerings you can access Christmas ornaments and downtownnb.org and unique miscellaneous items at facebook.com/dnbinc. Bedford Merchant, creative tee shirts silk screened while you Sean McCarthy has been a wait at The Landing, the artsy freelance journalist for 27 years. gifts and handcrafted jewelry He lives in New Bedford.

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Park R anger Rufai Shardow and volunteer Stanley F. Weiner in the Visitor’s Center

B y S teven F roias

f you’re in the fortunate position of entering 2019 in good health and with some extra time on your hands, you may want to consider becoming a volunteer with the National Park Service. Stanley F. Weiner has been a volunteer with the park service for eight years and loves it. Over those eight years, the New Bedford resident has been mystified by the fact that more people don’t realize that the city is home to one of the nation’s fabled National parks. It is, indeed. The New Bedford Whaling National Historical Park is located in downtown New Bedford within a 13-block historic district of cobblestone streets. It may not boast Old Faithful, as Yellowstone National Park does, but it is a National Park all the same, complete with its own park rangers. That, and a need for volunteers. At the heart of this district is the National Park Visitor Center at 33 William Street. It’s here where you’ll find Stanley Weiner and other volunteers, as well as where you’ll

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find your opportunity to become a part of this amazing regional and national resource. New Bedford Whaling National Historical Park Ranger Andrew Schnetzer says

“we are looking for outgoing folks with a knowledge of what New Bedford has to offer to serve as park ambassador volunteers” that the park is currently recruiting for many different volunteer positions. “Traditionally, volunteers have served

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as the front-line representatives of the National Historical Park, since many of them staff our visitor center front desk,” he explains. “Often, they are the first people visitors to New Bedford interact with. So we are looking for outgoing folks with a knowledge of what New Bedford has to offer to serve as park ambassador volunteers.” As a volunteer with the National Park Service, you can expect to work two-tothree-hour shifts at the visitor’s center, which is open seven days a week, most of the year. There are also more specialized, handson opportunities to serve as a volunteer. Andrew elaborates, “the park is also seeking volunteers who can join one of our special work groups. These work groups perform specific functions. For example, the parks OPS Team volunteers travel outside the park with a pop-up visitor center. They interact with the public at festivals and other special events around Massachusetts and Rhode Island to extend the reach of New Bedford’s story.” In New Bedford, there are also plenty

of opportunities to specialize. A special a sample of their work to the review events volunteer helps create in-depth committee to be considered. public programming for the park. For Finally, Andrew says the park also has example, they could offer a kids craft an ongoing youth volunteer program event during AHA! New Bedford nights you may want to share with younger or offer walking tours of the historic family members. Youth volunteers can district – a staple of this urban national work with National Park Rangers to be park. mentored and develop their skills and National Park Ranger, Rufai Shardow experiences. shares another example: the park service If you’re interested in any of the helps program a children’s storytelling preceding, you can reach out to the New hour series with the New Bedford Free Bedford Whaling National Historical Public Library. The next one will be in Park volunteer coordinator, Ranger February. Andrew Schnetzer at 508-996-4095 or If you’re a skilled tradesperson, the andrew_schnetzer@nps.gov. park service wants you, too, Andrew Other Volunteer Opportunities says. “A facilities tech volunteer assists If you’re looking for volunteer opportuthe maintenance crew to maintain our nities throughout historic structures.” the South Coast, The visitor’s center rtists and artisans then check out is housed in just from all disciplines volunteersouthcoast. such a historic org. structure. It has are invited to submit The website is an been everything initiative provided from a bank to an by the United Way an application auto parts store of Greater Fall throughout its welland a sample of River, the United over-hundred-year Way of Greater history. their work to the New Bedford, and Adjoining it is United Way of the completely review committee the Greater Plymouth renovated Corson County to help to be considered Building, which connect people with boasts a theater for the brand new such opportunities. and a brand new Simply go to the MakerSpace. The site and click on aker pace MakerSpace hosts “Opportunities” to artists-in-residence see who is looking for what. throughout the year. You can apply to be Organizations in the area can also an artist-in-residence, too, which comes register to be on the site and post their with a financial stipend. openings. Each artist-in-residence works in the MakerSpace for a period of three months. S teven F roias is a freelance writer based Artists and artisans from all disciplines, in New Bedford and is regular contributor for including painting, crafts, woodworking, “The South Coast Insider” and “South Coast quilting, spoken word, and music are Prime Times”. He can be reached at invited to submit an application and NewBedfordNow@gmail.com

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Be part of the Zeiterion Usher Corps The Zeiterion Performing Arts Center, also in downtown New Bedford, recruits new volunteer ushers every spring. “Volunteer ushers are ambassadors of The Z and perform a pivotal role in each patron experience at every performance,” the theatre states. “If you’re a people person, can walk and stand for long periods without difficulty, enjoy music and the theatre, and are looking for an opportunity to socialize, we welcome you to consider joining our Volunteer Usher team!” To find out more about the usher program as well as other volunteer opportunities, contact their Volunteer Coordinator at 508-997-5664 ext. 123 or send an email to info@zeiterion.org.

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Title Tasty New Boston Bakery I first visited New Boston Bakery over a decade ago with a friend from Fall River, Stacie and I was so thankful Charbonneau for that introduction. Hess When you are not from a specific town, sometimes you never learn about these local gems like New Boston Bakery. Whenever I go inside New Boston Bakery, everyone is smiling: the customers, the folks behind the counter, the chef who emerges from the kitchen holding a spatula in his hand. This is a bakery with soul. The atmosphere inside New Boston Bakery at 279 New Boston Road in Fall River, invites customers to linger a while. Though outside is a commercial zone with plenty of traffic, New Boston Bakery has created a little oasis of peace, calm, and warmth on a winter day. Come in for a quick coffee, or discover the sweet outdoor patio space for a long lunch with an old friend (or more, visit newbostonbakery.com)

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Owner James Souza and his crew treat everyone like family, and family values imbue the bakery with the kindness that seems rare and nostalgic. Souza says, “When I opened New Boston Bakery in 1992, the vision was simple: make pastry the old fashioned way, from scratch. With the help of family and friends (most

notably my Mom and Dad) the bakery became an instant neighborhood success. The bakery is a throwback to days gone by where pastry is all homemade and customer satisfaction is most important. The bakery also provides a meeting place where neighbors and patrons have become close friends.”

New Boston Bakery’s R aspberry Pinwheels 2 c. butter 4 c. flour 2 c. sugar 2 teaspoons baking powder 2 teaspoons vanilla 1/2 teaspoon salt 2 eggs Mix butter with sugar until well blended. Add eggs and vanilla. Add dry ingredients and mix until stiff dough is formed. Divide dough into two equal portions. In a separate bowl, mix 1 cup coconut with 1 cup raspberry jam and 1/2 cup chopped walnuts. Roll out each portion of dough into a rectangle shape approximately 9” x 12”. Spread half of the raspberry mixture on each, starting on the longest side; roll up into a jelly roll. Freeze until solid. Cut with a knife to about 1/2 thick. Place on a baking sheet and bake at 350 degrees until light brown.

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Partners Kitchen Partners at 865 Main Road in Westport is the kind of shop that perfectly embodies small-town sensibilities. It’s part gift shop, part bookstore, part event space and, best of all, part bakery and café. It’s the perfect place to take your grandmother to lunch, meet your girlfriend for a fresh salad or bring your young child to visit on a weekend morning. The website partnersvillagestore.com boasts, “Each morning the Partners Kitchen staff create the most wonderful scones, muffins, cookies, and more – all made from scratch. You must try an apricot ginger or bacon cheddar scone! One day you may find blueberry and the next we will have cranberry mango. It’s always a pleasant surprise.” The menu changes as the season do.

Partners aims to be a true community space. This past summer, yogis gathered on the lawn, practicing asanas to the lulling sound of a live harpist! Storytellers invite youngsters to relax on the ambling porch while a sweet woman spins a yarn or reads from a children’s book. If you have not been in the space yourself, it’s worth trekking the miles of Route 88 to get to the business district of Westport and see for yourself all the unique curated gifts and fresh local food! Eat outside or in, or take out and enjoy on the patio or at home. Their soups are a great start to a winter meal.

Partners is part gift shop, part bookstore, part event space and, best of all, part bakery and café

S tacie C harbonneau -H ess is a writer and instructor of English at Bristol Community College and Northeast Maritime Institute. She lives in New Bedford with her family.

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Dre aming of the job B y L inda Forman

was speaking to some retired people the other day. We were discussing what we would consider to be our dream jobs. There are dream jobs, you know. They are the kind of position where you never want a vacation or snow day. You come to your place of employment in the morning and before a blink of an eye, it is time to go home. It’s the kind of job where you don’t have to be paid just to be there. These retired folks had been doctors lawyers, teachers, waitresses, and bank tellers. They hadn’t been unhappy in their former jobs, but the standard for dream jobdom is much higher. When we were kids and some adult asked us what we wanted to do when we grew up, we would proudly tell then we wanted to be a cowgirl or fireman or even a princess. No one ever said they wanted to repair a computer, or teach unruly teenagers, or sell mufflers. Yet this is the real world, and we end up in jobs to support our families and put food on the table. Ah, but we are talking magical jobs. One man said he had always wanted to be a court stenographer in terrifically exciting cases like those of O.J. Simpson or Bill Cosby. No traffic court for this guy.

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He wanted only murder and mayhem and a bit of celebrity. Since this man retired, he has kept himself busy and out of trouble by following famous trials and crime shows. He has become quite an

When we were kids and some adult asked us what we wanted to do when we grew up, we would proudly tell then we wanted to be a cowgirl or fireman or even a princess

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expert on all things legal too. The rule of law is now his domain in the coffee shop. A very demure woman claimed to have wanted to be an archery instructor. She had won a tournament when a senior in high school sixty years before. She thought she would be good too. Instead of carrying mace when out at night, she could be fully armed with a full quiver of sharpened arrows, new gloves, and perhaps a sporty little outfit for the great outdoors. She has no interest in hunting deer or moose, just a few students to show how to make the target sing. She had me a bit worried when she wanted to know if Amazon sold crossbows. Two sisters had wanted to become meteorologists. Weather (more particularly, bad weather) had always been fascinating to them. I believe hurricanes would have been their specialty. They could envision themselves standing on the shore in Scituate describing the accelerating winds whipping toward the flood walls. Of course, I couldn’t help but envision a good strong gust throwing them into the atmosphere. These gals were none too sturdy and even a light spring breeze could have been a problem.

One of the women I spoke to said she didn’t waste her time on thinking about a dream job All jobs have their bright points and their low times

When I asked them if they still were going to move to Florida, they reminded me that there was always the hurricane season. My own dream job would be to work for The Mahjongg League in New York designing mahjongg cards. The people in the League change a certain number of hands every year for each new card. They then play those hands and determine how hard each hand would be. They then assign points to evaluate the worth of each one. How great would that be? During our coffee break or lunchtime, we could even knock off a game or two. Of course, I realize that absolutely no one would want to play with someone who designed the card, but one has to take the bitter with the sweet. One of the women I spoke to said she didn’t waste her time on thinking about a dream job. In truth, she said, there is no such thing. All jobs have their bright points and their low times. Even the bad jobs that we had were missed at times. Many retired people admit that although they enjoyed retirement, they missed their coworkers. Some even admitted they enjoyed the times when a bunch of them got together just to complain. In fact, they get together every month just to do that. It’s called reliving the good ol’ days.

L inda Forman has been a writer and editor for various publications over the last 40 years. A lifelong resident of the South Coast, she lives in Taunton and is regular contributor for “The South Coast Insider” and “South Coast Prime Times.”

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GOOD TIMES

Teal’s textile tale A shley Lessa

Mildred “Milly” Teal’s home is gorgeous. It is historic, built in 1739 and redone by her and a boyfriend of hers years ago. Outside of her door, down a gravel driveway, bird feeders hang in view of her window.

Teal is known for creating quilts so wonderful they exude a sort of magic. On her walls some of these works of art are displayed; a four-panel creation featuring a black background with colorful frogs and butterflies in purples, greens, oranges, and reds. On another, a long panel of purple, green, and pink seagulls soaring around purple “storm cells.” The white material of the background is quilted to resemble waves around them. In nooks and over chairs, various floral quilts with intricately beaded patterns are stowed and presented. Over tables and chairs there are draped quilts and scraps of fabric. In corners, there are shelves filled with beads. This is the workspace of an artist. 90-year-old Milly Teal is a remarkable woman. She is warm, funny, and matterof-fact. She doesn’t apologize for the slight disarray of her home, the fabric

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cut-outs piled high or the bins scattered, nor should she – this is part of her process. Teal is a quilter but calling her quilts “art quilts” doesn’t do them justice. She struggles to define the works of art and settles on this. Teal’s quilts feel alive. They sparkle, made with beads, threedimensional cutouts of flowers or birds, shining fabric, and more. The materials

Teal is a quilter but calling her quilts “art quilts” doesn’t do them justice come from Salvation Army finds and fabrics people have gifted to her. She looks for unique, recycled materials, and with

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them painstakingly plans and creates each piece. Teal’s quilts are creations of an expert but she has only been avidly quilting since her late 70s, although she has known how to sew her entire life. She lived a remarkable and varied life prior to her quilting endeavors.

Patch things up She was born in Omaha, Nebraska on February 13, 1928. She entered high school at the start of World War II, and worked for Northwestern Bell Telephone Company for a while, before heading to New York City. She later moved to Cambridge, Massachusetts, to join her future husband, then-Harvard student John Teal. While he worked toward his Ph.D. in Biology, she worked at the Fogg Art Museum in the Registrar’s office. “I considered it an inexpensive way to get a degree in Fine Arts,” says Teal. She went on to work at Woods Hole Oceanographic Institute for 22 years, retiring at age 76, but not before authoring or co-authoring six books with her husband (three for children and three in a category she calls “popular science for the layman”).

Upon retirement, Teal started devoting her time more seriously to quilting, something she had dabbled in prior but hadn’t had the time to truly pursue. She joined the Shining Tides Quilt Guild, (they meet in New Bedford and Acushnet) and has since completed over 100 pieces. Her work lends itself to her history in both art and biology, with everything from birds and butterflies to storm systems and nebulas appearing on her work.

The bead goes on Teal hangs some of her work on the walls in her home. Other pieces are stored in a back room of her house, and others still have long since been given away or sold. One of her pieces stands out on her wall. It depicts a nighttime water scene, koi fish swimming below sparkling water, up through marshland, and eventually reaching the sky. Shining white birds fly up toward the moon. Dragonflies hover over the water. The koi and the sun pop out from the quilt. The water sparkles. It’s marvelous.

“For every quilt, I have to invent the process for that particular one,” Teal explains. “That one was a real exercise in mental strategy,” she says, referring to the water scene. “How to go to the bottom of the water up through to the moon?” It is an intricate scene, and it was time-consuming to create. On average, a single quilt will take her three months to finish. Teal emphasizes that this is her job and passion and she has a lot more time than others to devote to it. It’s often the fabrics she finds in secondhand stores that inspire the creations. Many of her quilts involve nature because those are the materials that are readily available. When she sees a fabric that is unusual or unique, she excitedly puts it aside.

“For every quilt, I have to invent the process for that particular one” At this point, her “stash,” or her collection of quilting materials, is enormous. She is still trying to work her way through what she has but once in a while, she finds a material she just can’t pass up. “What happens is I see a piece of fabric and I say, ‘I know what I can do with that!’” says Teal. She points out a large quilt titled “Exotic Floral” with poppylike flowers in the center she felt compelled to feature. On another, entitled “Angry Bird,” a hawk-like bird cut out from a t-shirt served as the focal point. Each of the quilts tells a story, explains Teal. In a back room of her house she

sorts through a pile of her work, pulling out one with a large tree covered in colorful birds. There is a sparkling star on top, and “snow” in the form of white beads attached to the fabric. “This one I use as a Christmas quilt for obvious reasons,” she says. “But it has a story. Most of the quilts have a built-in story. Like it’s an early snow and it caught the birds unaware and they all had to go into this big spruce tree for protection.” The story is in the details on the front, but flip any of Teal’s quilts over and the quilting itself tells a tale of patience and skill. “I excel in patience,” says Teal. Yet even a master quilter like Teal makes mistakes sometimes. The trick then is changing her process. One of Teal’s quilts titled “Honey in the Hive,” features beautiful pink roses that pop out from an intricate floral background. A golden border surrounds it with little bees woven in. Honeycombs gather at the corners. One would never know that the honeycomb details were the result of a mistake. “It started out as just one of my usual rose quilts (I have a lot of that fabric),” says Teal. “I said, ‘It needs to be quilted in black thread’ and I started quilting like mad there, and I looked and I said, ‘that’s a mistake.’” The honeycombs served as a cover-up but somehow, they make the piece. And while Teal mostly works with nature scenes, once in a while she shakes things up. Occasionally the Shining Tides Quilt Guild will hold a contest she’ll partake in, quilting popular sayings, or in one case, several parts of a quilted deck of cards. It is fun for her, but she also takes her work seriously – she remarks she isn’t sure what she would do if she couldn’t quilt. Her advice for those who aspire to take on “art quilting?” “Beware what you’re getting into!” she says laughing, before saying, in a more earnest tone, “You’ll be confronted with a lot of decisions and you have to make up your own protocol.” Now that’s just sage life advice. For more information about the Shining Tides Quilt Guild, or to look out for shows, visit them at their website shiningtidesquiltguild.com (the “logo” icon is one of Teal’s creations) or on Facebook!

A shley L essa is a freelance writer from Dartmouth. She spends her spare time reading and traveling.

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Medical marvels

“O brave new world that has such people in it!” - William Shakespeare, The Tempest

As the Baby Boom generation gets older and life expectancy lengthens, the need for new treatments of agingEliz abeth related medical conditions will Morse Read “boom,” too. New medical devices can help patients manage chronic conditions or detect diseases, wireless “wearables” can communicate with doctors, and customized medicines can target cancerous tumors – these possibilities are no longer the stuff of science fiction. Bionics, the intersection of engineering, technology, and medicine, will allow humans to transcend many of the limitations of disability and disease. When coupled with 3-D printing technology, which can customize prosthetics, and with organ and tissue replacements grown in labs from a patient’s own cells, humans will increasingly be

influencing their own longevity and evolution as a species.

Gene editing One of the greatest scientific advancements in history was the Human Genome Project, which mapped out the DNA sequencing and the genetic code of human beings. The project’s findings allow scientists to understand the

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function of individual genes, including ways to counter those that cause disease, disability, or death. The rapidly-developing technology called CRISPR allows scientists to block, delete, or insert specific genes into an organism’s genetic code, with the goal of someday eliminating genetic diseases, genetic mutations, and pathogens, all by “slicing and splicing” bits of DNA. There are more than 10,000 genetic diseases, and CRISPR technology has the potential to cure many of them, including sickle-cell anemia, muscular dystrophy, cystic fibrosis, hemophilia, and certain cancers.

Nanotechnology Remember that campy 1966 science-fiction movie “Fantastic Voyage,” where a medical team was miniaturized to the size of a microbe and injected into a dying scientist’s brain to perform surgery? Well,

such fictional technology has become reality. Long story short, nanotechnology allows for the manipulation of matter on the atomic and molecular scale. A nanometer (nm) is a metric unit of measure equal to onebillionth of a meter – about three-to-five atoms wide. (A virus is typically about 100 nm in size.) Researchers in Israel are developing DNA nanorobots (25-30 nm) which can target and deliver drugs to cancerous cells, and are working to program these nanorobots to act in swarms to repair nerves and tissue. Scientists at the University of California San Diego are also developing nanoscale “magic bullets” which, guided by ultrasound waves, can trigger delivery of drugs to targeted cells. These infinitesimally small nanoparticles can be programmed to deliver drugs

to dissolve With the advent of healthy blood tissue, and immunotherapy, results in clots, repair damaged multiple side doctors are brain tiseffects like sue, destroy nausea, hair now able to viruses, and loss, and create targeted, weakness. aid in the early diagnoWith the customized cancer advent sis of cancers, of infections, treatments without immunotherand diseases. apy, doctors the debilitating Clinical trials are now able are ongoto create side effects ing, and new targeted, applications customof traditional of nanotechized cancer chemotherapy nology are treatments being discovwithout the ered every day. debilitating side effects of traditional chemotherapy, using Immunotherapy a patient’s own T cells, specialThree years ago, former ized white blood cells that president Jimmy Carter was are part of the body’s natural diagnosed with metastatic immune system. TCR T-cell melanoma that had spread to therapy uses the patient’s his liver and brain. But after own immune response to undergoing immunotherapy target and attack tumors. As treatment, Carter announced the technology advances, a that, miraculously, brain scans patient’s T cells can now be no longer found signs of the sorted and identified within cancer. days, rather than months, Until recently, chemotherreducing both the cost and apy, radiation, and invasive wait time for treatment. surgery were the one-size-fitsall approaches for treating Biologics cancer. But chemotherapy An entirely new class of is inherently toxic and kills drugs called “biologics” is not only cancer cells but also already being used to treat

New hope for spinal injuries It was long believed that damaged nerve cells, especially in the spinal cord, could not regenerate. But new medical technologies may soon change that belief. Scientists at MIT are placing thinner-than-hair polymer spinal implants alongside damaged neurons that can deliver drugs, transmit electrical signals or guide light beams used as nerve switches. These nerve-repair fibers can also be assembled as scaffolds to support new nerve growth, and could be used in the future to treat other neurological disorders such as Parkinson’s disease, multiple sclerosis, or cerebral palsy.

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Faster Healing for Bone Fractures One in three healthy, active children will break a bone every year, as will millions of seniors. Until recently, recovery time for a broken thigh bone (femur) was slow – up to eight weeks for full recovery of mechanical strength. But there is now a chemical agent called DAC which, when injected intravenously, reduces femur fracture healing time by 60% – only three-to-four weeks! Ongoing clinical trials are underway for treatment of pelvic, craniofacial, and spinal fractures.

disorders and diseases like rheumatoid arthritis, osteoporosis, psoriasis, and Crohn’s disease. Unlike traditional drugs, which are basically chemicals synthesized from other chemicals, biologic drugs are genetically-engineered proteins made from living cells that zero in on the immune system’s response to the inflammation process. Because biologic drugs are “alive,” they are either injected or delivered intravenously. Although still very expensive, biologic drugs constitute the fastest-growing segment of the pharmaceutical industry, accounting for 25% of the market in 2016. Currently, new drugs are being developed to treat Stage IV cancers, diabetes, asthma, lupus, cystic fibrosis, and other autoimmune diseases.

Regenerative medicine Imagine not having to undergo a donor-organ transplant or a mechanical joint replacement, with all the risks of rejection and infection, if scientists are able to “grow” a replacement part from your own cells? Stem cells are primitive, unspecialized cells in our bodies that are revolution-

izing the concept of “regenerative medicine.” Stem cells can divide infinitely and are able to evolve into different types of body cell types (nerve, bone, skin, liver, etc.).

or dysfunctional cells, with tremendous potential for people suffering from hearing loss, COPD, diabetes, burns, blindness, cardiovascular disease, spinal cord injuries – even hair loss! [see sidebar]

Brain-machine

interface In 2014, the FIFA World Cup kick off was delivered by a paralyzed Brazilian man wearing a mind-controlled robotic exoskeleton. Brainmachine interface (BMI) technology can translate a user’s neural signals into computer-controlled limb movements, using the direct implantation of a sensor into the brain. Cochlear implants already let the deaf “hear” and experimental bionic eyes help the blind to “see.” Currently, scientists are working

Researchers are working to program a person’s stem cells

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into a patient’s body, to replace cardiac tissue damaged by a heart

attack, for instance – or, some day, an entire organ Researchers are working to program a person’s stem cells to grow into specific cell types, “growing” replacement cells in a lab and implanting them back into a patient’s body, to replace cardiac tissue damaged by a heart attack, for instance – or, some day, an entire organ. Right now, bone marrow transplant is the most common FDA-approved form of stem cell therapy. Clinical trials are in progress using stem cells to repair damaged

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on creating devices that could translate brain signals into audible speech using a voice synthesizer. Strap-on exoskeletons that allow spinal-cord injury patients to walk and myoelectric prosthetic hands (with sensors implanted in the arm muscles) that can “feel” are just a few examples of BMI technology. Ongoing clinical trials are aiming to make BMI devices that could be used safely at home, rather than just in a clinical setting.

Wearable wireless

wonders Whether you understand digital technology or not, new diagnostic tools are making it possible for you to monitor your vital signs using non-invasive devices – and even detect cancer – without having to go to the doctor’s office or rush to the emergency room. Here are a few examples: The TempTraq is a wearable patch which provides realtime temperature feedback to a mobile device, with alerts when temperatures exceed normal range. The KardiBand uses small finger pads placed near a smartphone to detect possible atrial fibrillation. For diabetics, new glucose monitoring systems include a hand-held reader with a built-in glucose meter and a disposable sensor worn on the back of the arm – no more finger-sticking! There are wristwatch wearables that can help someone quit smoking, or detect when someone has fallen. Earbud sensors can track someone’s heart rate, temperature, and blood oxygen levels. And amazingly, the iTBra uses sensors placed inside a woman’s bra to detect the earliest signs of breast cancer. With tech giants like Apple, Google, and IBM heavily invested in the wearable medical device market, the future for early diagnostic tools and self-monitoring devices is virtually limitless. O brave new world indeed!

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arents often have questions about what happens in situations that involve a child’s spouse. What happens if my daughter dies before me, does her share go to her husband? If my daughter gets divorced, can her husband take her inheritance? Truthfully, we really don’t like our son-in-law – we are afraid he will take our daughter’s inheritance or make her spend it on him. Is there any way to protect her? Most parents just want to make sure any inheritance they leave a child actually benefits that child (or if the child is deceased, their grandchildren). We can help you to create a plan that gives you peace of mind. You can know your legacy will pass to your daughter protected from her potential divorce, a son-in-law you don’t like, or to your grandchildren if your daughter dies before you. We call this bloodline planning, and we do it all the time. Your planning should be all about you, your goals for yourself, and your loved ones. Clients seem surprised when we tell them they do not have to leave anything to their son-in-law. Other than your spouse, no one else has a legal right to inherit property from you. Tell that to your children that when they get out of line! Even if you feel very comfortable and confident about your daughter’s marriage, you may worry about a potential divorce. You want to make sure your daughter’s inheritance is not taken from her in a divorce. Ask yourself, what would you do if you received an inheritance? Most of us would put the inheritance into some kind of joint account with our spouse. Once that occurs, some part of your daughter’s inheritance is likely go to her soon-to-be-ex-spouse. Even if your daughter keeps the inheritance separate from her husband, it is still likely to be divided during the divorce. Sometimes, even when you try, you just don’t like your daughter’s husband. Parents occasionally tell me that they are worried that about how their son-in-law treats their daughter or that he spend too much money, or is a bad influence. They worry that their daughter’s inheritance will be wasted on him. Your estate plan can make sure the legacy you leave your daughter is only used for your daughter and your grandchildren. We believe that your estate planning should be about you, your family and your goals. We can help you figure out the right plan for you and create that plan. You can have the peace of mind that comes from knowing your family is protected. We would love to help you. ©Surprenant & Beneski, PC, 35 Arnold St, New Bedford. This is not legal advice or attorney/client relationship. Don’t make decisions based on this; advice can only be given by an attorney.

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A dedicated and compassionate Wareham woman is determined to help put an end Alzheimer’s Disease and related disorders and increase support for research and caregivers. Her important mission continues to impact the lives of countless individuals not only throughout the Commonwealth but also throughout the nation and across the globe.

For Barbara A. Meehan, a guidance counselor who served at Old Rochester Regional High School before retiring in 2003, that mission is personal and has led her to becoming a driving force and advocate for patients, caregivers, and families affected by Alzheimer’s and dementia as neurologists and scientists work tirelessly to find a cure. Meehan’s advocacy developed when her late partner, Faye Miles, a retired Old Rochester Regional physical education teacher, gradually developed Alzheimer’s in 2007, starting a downward spiral that robs individuals of their dignity and well-being. “I knew something was wrong with her,” the educator begins, adding that “little things” such as buying duplicate items, forgetting to take medications, and getting lost while driving eventually took their toll. Meehan and Miles in 2015. Miles “When you live with passed away on October 5, 2015.

“You know in your heart and in your head that something is just not right.”

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“You need to find a support group that will help to keep you sane” someone for that long, you know that something is wrong,” Meehan shares, adding that the partners were together for 35 years. “You know in your heart and in your head that something is just not right.” As the decline progressed, Miles was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s in 2008. She had ended up getting lost one day while driving to purchase garden plants and was discovered several hours later in Concord, Massachusetts after running out of gas and having no idea as to how she arrived in that location. “She couldn’t explain her circumstances or understand why I was upset,” Meehan recalls. “That’s not the person I had known. She was my rock.” When Meehan’s father died later that year, Miles couldn’t process the death and often asked about visiting him again. Eventually Meehan sold Miles’ truck, and like so many other individuals who experience drastic changes in their lives, she lost her independence. In 2011, Miles entered a nursing home for rehabilitation, and once she recovered from an illness, returned home. “She came home and a week later it became obvious that Faye needed permanent care,” Meehan shares. “It was a sad day when I said I couldn’t take care of her any more.” Miles subsequently spent three-and-ahalf years in a dementia unit, and passed away at age 75 on October 5, 2015. “I went to see her every day of the week,”Meehan shares. “I was never far from home.” According to her partner, Miles was “smart and kind. She was an amazing athlete and she was very good to people. She kept me grounded.”

became Miles’ caregiver, she became active in supporting Alzheimer’s research both locally and nationally. She serves as Congressman Bill Keating’s Alzheimer’s Ambassador, and facilitates a telephone support group for LGBTQ individuals who are caring for a partner who has been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or a related cognitive disorder. “You need to find a support group that will help to keep you sane,” Meehan emphasizes. According to US statistics, more than 5 million Americans are living with Alzheimer’s and as many as 16 million will be diagnosed with the disease in 2050. It’s estimated that one in three seniors who die has Alzheimer’s or another form of dementia. Meehan adds that it’s vital for everyone to advocate in support of pioneering research that will help provide a care for these related diseases. She has spoken at the national Alzheimer’s Advocacy Forum, held annually in Washington, D.C., and continues to be instrumental locally and throughout the state in the Walk to End Alzheimer’s, held every September. “People can be diagnosed in their 40s and 50s,” she continues. “It’s such a devastating illness to watch. It breaks your heart every day.” Meehan says that long as she’s able, she will continue her work. “I have met some amazing people through my Alzheimer’s Advocacy work and the amazing opportunities that I have enjoyed but I would give it all up to have one more day with Faye,” she concludes.

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2018 Updates:

what you need to know On August 9, a landmark law was enacted in Massachusetts aimed at establishing an integrated comprehensive state plan to assist with the diagnosis, treatment, and care of the over 130,000 Massachusetts residents suffering from Alzheimer’s disease or dementia.

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The act requires additional training for medical professionals, focusing on recognizing the signs of symptoms of cognitive impairments, including Alzheimer’s disease and dementia, as well as new guidelines for discussing the diagnosis and treatment plan with the patient and the patient’s family, within the confines of patient confidentiality. Hospitals will be required to implement a plan for the recognition and management of patients with dementia and cognitive impairments. Finally, the new law also establishes an advisory council on research and treatment. The council will be required to submit an annual report on progress and necessary updates to the state plan in these areas. Veterans’ Benefits On the very same date, the BRAVE

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Act was also signed into law. Included in this bill was a section written by the Massachusetts Chapter of the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys specifically pertaining to the “Aid and Attendance” program. Aid and Attendance is a cash benefit offered by the Veterans Administration for qualifying veterans and their surviving spouse. This program provides for home care benefits that allow the vet or surviving spouse to remain in the community or to receive needed care in an assisted living facility, rather than a nursing home. The new bill ensures that these benefits are excluded and not considered income for MassHealth (Medicaid) eligibility services, thereby enabling veterans and their spouses to receive additional services so that they can remain in their communities.

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Community Support and Education Bristol Elder Services (508-6752101) and Coastline Elderly Services (508-999-6400) are the local aging services access points that continue to oversee community support services for the elderly, including the familiar elder nutrition program known as “Meals on Wheels.” An in-house assessment can be done to determine what other services an elder in need may qualify for, such as personal care, homemaker services, adult day care, and transportation services.

The Dementia Friendly Fall River Coalition continues to strive to make Fall River a community where those with dementia can live without the stigma attached to memory loss, visiting the familiar places they enjoy and not becoming isolated. The Alzheimer’s Association Helpline (1-800-272-3900) is manned twenty-four

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hours a day by trained clinicians who can help by offering referrals to local resources, including educational sessions, support groups, and free care consultations. The Association’s website, alz.org, is an invaluable source of information as well. The Dementia Friendly Fall River Coalition continues to strive to make Fall River a community where those with dementia can live without the stigma attached to memory loss, visiting the familiar places they enjoy and not becoming isolated. The Coalition wants to involve the entire community (area businesses in particular) in making Fall River a community that is welcoming, supportive, and helpful to those with cognitive impairment and their caregivers. To date, 55 presentations of the Dementia Friendly curriculum have been presented to over 1,200 attendees. In addition, Bristol Elder Services has recently received grant funding from the United Way of Greater Fall River to expand the Coalition’s “Purple Table” initiative to increase the availability of positive dining-out opportunities to caregivers and their loved ones with Alzheimer’s Disease, dementia, autism, PTSD, hearing or vision loss, or any

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In brief… Eliz abeth Morse Read

It may be snowy and cold outside, but there’s no time of year like the holiday season to keep you warm and busy! Bundle up and enjoy the many indoor concerts and holiday services. Brave the elements with a New Year’s Day polar plunge, or just take an after-dinner walk on a snowy road!

“Do you hear what i hear?” Experience a free Christmas Concert in Sign! Head for the Casino Theatre in Newport on December 15 to watch participants from the James L. Maher Center perform holiday songs in sign language under black light. For details, call 401-846-4600 x 3121 or visit mahercenter.org.

Don’t miss the Pilgrim Festival Chorus’ traditional “Messiah and Carol Sing” on December 14 at the First Congregational Church in Middleboro. For more info, go to pilgrimfestivalchorus.org. Plan ahead for the Newport Navy Choristers’ “Christmas in Song” concert on December 14 at St. Barnabas Church

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Sharing the bounty

Drop off your donations of animal foods and pet supplies during Easton’s “Holiday for Animals” drive through January 28 at the Natural Resources Trust of Easton’s office! All donations will be distributed to local shelters and the Animal Protection Center of Southeastern MA. For more info, call 508-238-6049 or go to nrtofeaston.org. The Salvation Army is always willing to accept bagged/boxed donations – clothing, books, furniture, and housewares. To schedule a free pickup, go to satruck.org/ pickup. Pet Food Aid collects pet food and pet supplies and distributes them to food banks and senior centers throughout Bristol County, MA. Volunteers and donations gratefully accepted. For more info, visit petfoodaid.org or call 774-204-5227. My Brother’s Keeper of Dartmouth and Easton is looking for volunteers and gently-used residential furniture for South Coast families in need. Free pickup. Call 774-305-4577 or visit mybrotherskeeper.org.

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Beat the winter blues!! Plan ahead for the 31st Newport Winter Festival February 15-24, ten days of non-stop music, food, and fun! For daily events and more info, call 401-847-7666 or visit newportwinterfestival.com. Enjoy a hot cuppa tea on a winter’s day! Make your reservation for “Tea for Two” at the Partners Village Store in Westport from January 7 until March! Enjoy sweet and savory samples and a pot of your favorite tea! For more info, call 508-6362572. Don’t miss the South Shore Food & Wine Expo on January 19 at Pilgrim Memorial Hall in Plymouth! For info and tickets, call 508-746-8008, 877-973-9613, or go to memorialhall.com. Check out the free monthly “Film and Potluck” events on the first Friday of the month through March at the Dartmouth Grange Hall! For more info, go to dartmouthgrange.org. Don’t miss the 9th Annual “Taste of the East Bay“ Savor & Sip event on January 26 at Hope and Main in Warren, a fundraiser for the RISPCA! For tickets, call 401-438-8150 or go to rispca.com. Take a bite out of winter! Check out what’s on the menu during Providence Restaurant Week January 13-21! For more info, go to goprovidence.com/rw.

Family fun

It’s time to sharpen the ice skates (or rent them)! For schedules and info about indoor skating in Fall River’s Driscoll Arena (508-679-3274), New Bedford’s Hetland Arena (508-999-9051), Taunton’s Aleixo Arena (508-824-4987), or Plymouth’s Armstrong Arena (508-7468825), go to fmcicesports.com. Take the kids to see the sixteen-foot Gingerbread Lighthouse at the Newport Visitors Center! Admission is free, but please bring non-perishable foods to fill the food-pantry sleigh! For info, go to discovernewport.org or call 401-849-8048. Enjoy free family fun and entertainment on AHA! Nights. The February 14 theme is “Please Be Seated.” For details, go to ahanewbedford.org or call 508-9968253.

Don’t miss “Disney on Ice” December 27-30, or the Monster Jam Triple Threat February 1-3 at the Dunkin Donuts Center in Providence! Check out the hockey and basketball games! For more info, go to dunkindonutscenter.com. Check out the indoor planetarium shows on Saturdays and Sundays yearround, and daily on February and April school vacation weeks, at the Museum of Natural History in Roger Williams Park in Providence! For more details, go to provideneri.gov/museum.

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Take the family to “A Jolly Holiday” at the Hedge House in Plymouth on December 15-16! For more info, visit plymouthantiquariansociety.org or call 508-746-0012. The Fall River Public Library hosts free afternoon movies (and popcorn!) every Wednesday at 1 p.m., in addition to showings on Monday nights. For more information, visit the library’s Facebook page or visit fallriverlibrary.org. Take the kids on a free scavenger hunt in Acushnet on February 9 at “Saturday at the Sawmills – The Great Valentine’s Quest”! Sponsored by the Buzzards Bay Coalition. For more info, go to savebuzzardsbay.org/events. Find out what’s going on at the Marion Museum of Natural History! Check out the after-school programs and the book club! For more info, call 508-748-2098 or go to marionmuseum.org. Brave the outdoors and go ice skating (and bumper cars!) at The Providence Rink at the Alex & Ani City Center – twice the size of the Rockefeller Center rink in New York! For more info, call 401-3315544 or go to theprovidencerink.com.

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Find out what’s going on at the Children’s Museum of Greater Fall River! For info, go to cmgfr.org or call 508-672-0033. Sharpen your skates and head for the outdoor skating rink in Newport! For schedule and info, call 401-846-3018 or go to newportskatingcenter.com. Let your kids explore the Whaling Museum in New Bedford – check out the Discovery Center! For more information, go to whalingmuseum.org ore call 508-997-0046.

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Continued from previous page Find out what’s happening at the Easton Children’s Museum! For info, visit childrensmuseumineaston.org or call 508-230-3789. Spend an afternoon in the galleries at the RISD Museum in Providence! And check out the courses, workshops and “tours for tots!” For details, call 401-4546500 or visit risdmuseum.org. Explore the Children’s Museum in Providence! Go to childrenmuseum.org or call 401-273-5437.

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Don’t miss the annual Moby Dick Marathon reading on January 4-6 at the Whaling Museum in New Bedford! For details, go to whalingmuseum.org. Start dreaming about boating season! Don’t miss the Rhode Island Boat Show January 4-6 at the Rhode Island Convention Center! For details, go to riconvention.com. Nature lovers! Don’t miss the Wildlife Education Series 2019 at New Bedford’s Buttonwood Park Zoo! The January 24 topic is “Biology of White Sharks;” on February 7, “Narragansett Bay Coyote Study.” Free for students with ID. For info, call 508-991-6178 or go to bpzoo.org. Gamers, team-builders and mysterysolvers! Head for the “Mass Escape” in downtown New Bedford! Groups of 4-8 people can work together to prevent a nuclear crisis or solve a murder mystery. For info, go to MassEscapeRoom.com. Enjoy the presentation “Art for Your Mind” on January 11 at Handy’s Tavern in Marion, sponsored by the Sippican Woman’s Club! For details, visit sippicanwomansclub.org. Check out the Newport Car Museum in Portsmouth! Sixty-plus vintage cars and driving simulators! For more info, visit newportcarmuseum.org or call 401-848-2277. Go on a guided Seal Watch boat tour from November through April with Save the Bay, departing from Bowen’s Ferry Landing in Newport! For a schedule and info, call 401-203-SEAL (7325) or visit savebay.org/seals. Take the family to New England’s only “interactive selfie museum” at The Selfie Stop in the Providence Place Mall!

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All the world’s a stage

The Attleboro Community Theatre will perform “The Trial of Ebenezer Scrooge” December 15-16, “Mom’s Gift” February 15-17, 22-24, March 1-3! For info, go to attleborocommunitytheatre.com. Don’t miss the performances of the one-act comedy “The Best Christmas Pageant Ever” on December 15-16 at the Marion Art Center! For info, call 508-7481266 or go to marionartcenter.org. Enjoy the new season at the Little Theatre of Fall River! Plan ahead for “On Golden Pond” March 14-24! For more info and tickets, call 508-675-1852 or go to littletheatre.net. Discover The Barker Playhouse on Benefit Street in Providence, the oldest continuously-running little theatre in America! Don’t miss “The Shadow Box” January 25-27, February 1-3. For more

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info, go to playersri.org or call 401-2730590. Enjoy the new season of Your Theatre in New Bedford! Don’t miss “Harvey” January 10-13, 17-20! For more info, visit yourtheatre.org. Head for the Zeiterion in New Bedford for “Legally Blonde” on February 11! For tickets and more info, call 508-994-2900 or go to zeiterion.org. Mark your calendar for the new season at Trinity Rep in Providence! “A Christmas Carol” will be performed through December 30. “Black Odyssey” will be performed January 3 to February 3, “Macbeth” January 31 to March 3, “An Iliad” February 6-20. For more info, call 401-351-4242 or go to trinityrep.com. Enjoy a dinner-theatre night out at the Newport Playhouse! “A Doublewide, Texas Christmas” will be performed through December 31. Plan ahead for “The Lone Star Love Potion” February 21 to March 31! For more info, call 401-8487529 or go to newportplayhouse.com. Don’t miss the new theatre season with The Wilbury Group in Providence! “Futurity” will be performed through December 23. “The Burn” will be

performed January 10 to February 10. For more info, go to thewilburygroup.org. Find out what’s on stage at the Providence Performing Arts Center and The VETS! Don’t miss “CATS” January 22-27, Shen Yun February 2-3, “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory” February 5-10 – and more! For info, call 401-2787 or go to ppacri.org.

Classical acts

Enjoy the new season of Festival Ballet Providence! Watch “The Nutcracker” December 21-23 at the PPAC! Plan ahead for a performance of “Mirrors” February 15-17 at the Black Box Theatre in Providence! For tickets, call 401-353-1129 or go to festivalballetprovidence.org.

Concerts at the Point in Westport with a performance by the musicians and singers of the Handel & Haydn Society March 17. For more info, call 508-636-0698 or go to concertsatthepoint.org. Watch the Rhode Island Ballet’s “Newport Holiday,” with selections from “The Nutcracker” and “Elf on a Shelf,” at the Casino Theatre in Newport on December 16! For info and tickets, call 401-847-5301 or go to riballet.org. Don’t miss the performance by pianist Benjamin Nacar, including Beethoven’s Ninth Symphony, on December 15-16 at the RISD Museum in Providence! For details, visit risdmuseum.org or call 401-454-6500.

Listen to the performances of the Tri-County Symphonic Band! Don’t miss “Going Green” at Dartmouth High School on February 2! For tickets and info, visit tricountysymphonicband.org.

Head for the Zeiterion in New Bedford for a road trip to see the Boston Ballet’s “The Nutcracker” on December 16! For tickets and more info, call 508-994-2900 or go to zeiterion.org.

Don’t miss the performances of the New Bedford Symphony at the Zeiterion! “Fima Plays Beethoven” will be presented on January 11, and “Roses and Thorns” on February 16. For more info, call 508-999-6276 or go to zeiterion.org.

Enjoy theatre, music and dance performances at Rhode Island College in Providence! For a complete schedule, go to ric.edu/pfa or call 401-456-8144.

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Listen to performances of the South Coast Chamber Music Series! “La Grande Boucle” will be performed on January 26 at St. Gabriel’s Church in Marion and on January 27 at St. Peter’s Church in South Dartmouth. For info and tickets, call 508-999-6276 or go to nbsymphony.org/ southcoast-chamber-music-series

Fill your baskets with local produce, baked goods, and holiday decorations! To find a farm, vineyard or winter farmers market near you, visit semaponline.org, pickyourown.org, farmfreshri.org, or localharvest.org. To find food and wine events, go to farmcoast.com, coastalwinetrail.com, or ediblesouthshore.com.

Don’t miss the Plymouth Philharmonic performing “Be Our Valentine” on February 2 at Pilgrim Memorial Hall in Plymouth! For info and tickets, call 508-746-8008, 877-973-9613, or go to memorialhall.com.

Head up Main Street from Providence into Pawtucket to the Hope Artiste Village’s winter farmers market on Saturdays through April! Cash, credit, fresh bucks, WIC, SNAP/EBT accepted! For more info, go to farmfreshri.org.

Plan ahead to hear the Providence Mandolin Orchestra on February 9 at Goff Memorial Hall in Rehoboth, part of the Arts in the Village series! For more info, visit rehobothantiquarian.org.

Eat Fresh! Eat Local! Head for the winter farmers market at the Swansea Mall! For hours and more info, call 401-465-4832 or go to semaponline.org.

Don’t miss the TACO Classical performances of the Rhode Island Philharmonic Orchestra! There’s “Viennese Favorites” on January 21, “The Romance of Rachmaninoff” February 23! For more info and tickets, call 401-248-7000 or go to riphil.org. Mark your calendars for the next

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Continued from previous page free parking at the Elm St. Garage with validation. For more info, call 508-8174166 or go to coastalfoodshed.org. Head for the Mount Hope Bristol Winter Farmers Market at Mount Hope Farm on Saturdays 9 to 1. Cash, credit card, SNAP/EBT, WIC, and senior coupons accepted. For more info, go to farmfreshri.org. Take the family to the monthly Open Farm Days at Round The Bend Farm in Dartmouth! Grass-fed meats, local veggies, honey, maple syrup and botanicals! For dates and more info, call 508-9385127 or visit roundthebendfarm.org. Eat Fresh! Eat Local! Head for the winter farmers market at Old Rochester Regional HS in Mattapoisett on the second and fourth Saturday each month. For hours, go to semaponline.org. On Saturdays, visit the Aquidneck Growers Farmers Market at the Newport Vineyards in Middletown year-‘round! Cash, credit card, SNAP/ EBT, WIC and senior coupons accepted. For info, go to newportvineyards.com or farmfreshri.org or call 401-848-5161.

Living history

Explore the past at the LafayetteDurfee House in Fall River! Learn how to make tin Christmas ornaments on December 16! For complete details, go to lafayettedurfeehouse.org. Visit the whaling-era mansion and gardens at the Rotch-Jones-Duff House in New Bedford! For more info, call 508-997-1401 or go to rjdmuseum.org.

Journey through time and discover a sailor’s life at Battleship Cove in Fall River, America’s Fleet Museum (508-6781000 or battleshipcove.org), or explore the murky depths at the DIVE! exhibit at the Maritime Museum (508-674-3533 or battleshipcove.org/maritime-museum). Celebrate a “Navy Christmas” on December 15! Check out the 18th-century Home and Hearth Workshops at the Coggeshall Farm Museum in Bristol! For details, visit coggeshallfarm.org or call 401-253-9062. Explore the region’s military history at the Fort Taber-Fort Rodman Military Museum in New Bedford! For info, call 508-994-3938 or visit forttaber.org. If you’re interested in the history of Japan-America ties, visit the WhitfieldManjiro Friendship House in Fairhaven, where it all began. For details, go to wmfriendshiphouse.org or call 508-9951219.

E xplore the outdoors

Southcoast Health and the Buzzards Bay Coalition have created “Discover Buzzards Bay,” an initiative to promote active outdoor recreation. A series of guided monthly outdoor walks, called “Sunday Strolls,” and an online portal with information about more than 100 public places to walk, birdwatch, kayak/ canoe, fish or cross-country ski, can be found at savebuzzardsbay.org/discover – and check out thetrustees.org and massaudubon.org. Go “Scouting for Snowy Owls” on January 6 at Allens Pond Wildlife

Hike or snowshoe at Great Neck Wildlife Sanctuary in Wareham on January 6! Sponsored by the Appalachian Mountain Club and the Buzzards Bay Coalition. Free. For more info, go to savebuzzardsbay.org/ events.

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Sanctuary in Westport or a Winter Bird Walk on February 17! Sponsored by Mass Audubon and Buzzards Bay Coalition. For more info, go to savebuzzardsbay.org/ events. Enjoy the outdoors at the Lloyd Center for the Environment! Take the little ones to “Nature Discovery” on the third Saturday each month. For details and pre-registration, call 508-990-0505 x 31 or visit lloydcenter.org. Take a free Mindfulness Walk through the Slocum’s River Reserve in Dartmouth on January 19! Sponsored by the Buzzards Bay Coalition and Anchor Yoga. For details, go to savebuzzardsbay.org/events. Walk or snowshoe along Wareham’s Agawam River Trail on January 13, or through the Great Neck Conservation Area on February 10! Sponsored by the Buzzards Bay Coalition and the Wareham Land Trust. For details, go to savebuzzardsbay.org/events. Get in touch with nature at the Norman Bird Sanctuary in Middletown! Take a free guided Sunday Bird Walk! For details, call 401-846-2577 or go to normanbirdsanctuary.org. Take a walk through the Acushnet Sawmills public park and herring weir! Canoe/kayak launch, fishing, trails. For info, visit savebuzzardsbay.org. When you’re near Attleboro, stroll through Mass Audubon’s Oak Knoll Wildlife Sanctuary and Nature Center! For more info, call 508-223-3060 or visit massaudubon.org. Enjoy the winter weather! Explore nature trails or historic landmarks in Fall River, join a walking group – learn more at walkfallriver.org or call 508-324-2405. Explore the trails, wildlife, and scenery of the Mattapoisett River Reserve – leashed dogs welcome. Hike, bird-watch, cross-country ski! For more info, go to savebuzzardsbay.org. Take a stroll through the urban greenspace of the Allen G. Haskell Public Gardens in New Bedford! To learn more, call 508-636-4693 or go to thetrustees.org. Wander through Parsons Reserve or take a stroll through Paskamansett Woods, nature reserves operated by the

Dartmouth Natural Resources Trust. For more info, visit dnrt.org. Go for a stroll at Ballard Park in Newport! Take a Guided Walk on January 13, and plan ahead for the 13th Annual Illuminated Garden February 22-24!For more info, call 401-619-3377 or go to ballardpark.org. Take a ramble around rural Westport! Dress for the weather on a New Year’s Day Walk to the Let Conservation Area, with free parking at Sylvan Nursery! For more info, call 508-636-9228 x103 or visit westportlandtrust.org.

Staying fit

Stay in shape and engaged with your community – find out what’s going on at your local YMCA! For info on all locations, go to ymcasouthcoast.org. Check out what’s going on at the Sandywoods Center for the Arts in Tiverton! Heal with a Gong Sound Bath, or with Yoga: Mindful Flow & Meditation on Sundays, with music and movement on JourneyDance, or join in the Contra Dancing. Sign up for lessons in Zumba, Pilates or figure drawing. For a complete schedule, go to sandywoodsmusic.com or call 401-241-7349. Stay fit with Yoga with Laura at Shell Point Beach in Onset! For a schedule and more info, call 508-295-7072 or go to onsetbay.org.

South Coast sounds

The Narrows Center for the Arts in Fall River has a fabulous lineup. For a complete schedule, visit narrowscenter.com or call 508-324-1926. Head for Running Brook Vineyards in Dartmouth for free live music every weekend year-round! For info, go to runningbrookwine.com/entertainment or call 508-985-1998. Don’t miss “Panic! At the Disco” January 19 at the Dunkin Donuts Center in Providence! For more info, go to dunkindonutscenter.com. Find out who’s performing at the Columbus Theatre in Providence – don’t miss Neko Case January 23! For more info, visit columbustheatre.com or call 401-621-9660. Head for the Zeiterion in New Bedford for the NBSO “Family Holiday Pops” December 15, “White Christmas” Singa-long Movie December 16, A Christmas

Celtic Sojourn December 19, NBSO’s Fima Plays Beethoven January 11, Get the Led Out January 24, Drumline Live January 26, Troy McLaughlin January 31, Illuminate February 7, Darlene Love February 9, NBSO Roses and Thorns February 16 – and more! For tickets and more info, call 508-994-2900 or go to zeiterion.org. Find out who’s on stage the District Center for the Arts in Taunton! The Wali Ali Band will perform on January 25, Ivory Jones and White Chocolate on February 16. For more info and tickets, visit thedistrictcenterforarts.com or call 508-386-9413. Head for Pilgrim Memorial Hall in Plymouth for great entertainment! Don’t miss Not So Silent Night December 14! For tickets and info, call 877-973-9613 or go to memorialhall.com. Find out what’s on tap and on the menu – and who’s on stage – at the Greasy Luck Brew Pub in downtown New Bedford! Plan ahead for the Vault Punk Fest January 6, Stryper February 2! For more info, go to greasyluckbrewpub.com. Check out what’s going on at the Sandywoods Center for the Arts in Tiverton! For a complete schedule and more info, go to sandywoodsmusic.com or call 401-241-7349. Find out who’s on stage at the Spire Center for the Performing Arts of Greater Plymouth! For tickets and info, call 508-746-4488 or visit spirecenter.org.

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Get back to your musical roots with Common Fence Music! Don’t miss Lula Wiles on December 14, New Year’s Eve Folkstravaganza on December 31, both at Hope & Main in Warren. For tickets and info, call 401-683-5085 or go to commonfencemusic.org. Find out what’s on stage at the Providence Performing Arts Center and The VETS! Don’t miss A Christmas Celtic Sojourn December 20, FBP’s “The Nutcracker” December 21-23, A Magical Cirque Christmas at the VETS December 23 – and more! For info, call 401-2787 or go to ppacri.org. If you’re a fan of Americana and roots music, check out “Music in the Gallery” at the Wamsutta Club in New Bedford! For tickets or info, go to brownpapertickets. com/events or contact korolenko8523@ charter.net or call 508-673-8523.

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Dust and smoke There aren’t enough senior discounts in the world to make up for the pain found in being the right age to qualify for them. I turned 65 recently, Paul K andarian and besides being walloped with insurance email spam, I got hit with sudden unexpected amounts of pain in places that either never hurt before, or which did and got worse. How does the body know? Is there an inner set of gears that get rusty and cranky and seize up and send white-hot shards of pain shooting around your body like starburst fireworks the second you hit 65? Granted, senior discounts are good, free coffee on certain days, reduced hotel stays, etc. But there’s some weird ones. I Googled and found one for McDonald’s Death Fries which is my name for them, but c’mon. We’re old, we have clogged arteries, too many pounds, and high cholesterol and you’re giving us a discount on another nail for our coffins? Thanks, I’ll pass. Then I got sucked into the confusing morass of Social Security and Medicare and researched it to the point of making my eyes bleed and coming away with absolutely no clarity. The other day I had a question about benefits and called and got put on hold for 15 years, so I just went to my local Social Security office to ask one very simple question. Mind you, I’d never set foot in a Social Security office before and my big takeaway was that it’s where sick, angry people go to die. There were literally 100 surly souls in the waiting room coughing and complaining and drowning in the sheer depths of abject unhappiness, which made me think I’d died on the way through the door and this was Hell, or just some dysfunctional family reunion. It was like a giant, hot, sweaty grumpy petri dish of airborne communicable diseases. Virtually everyone was sneezing and wheezing and blowing their noses to

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the point I wished I were entombed in a hazmat suit. Know that scene in “Goodfellas” where Karen visits Henry in prison and it’s and loud and crazy and chaotic? Yeah, pretty sure they filmed that in a Social Security waiting room. Seriously, the only calm but equally grumpy person in there was the guard at the door, who was armed. Do they know something I don’t about Social Security waiting rooms? Or is it that if you’ve been there long enough, you can request to be shot? I can understand that.

I visited a local Social Security office today and frankly it was like a waiting room in a Tim Burton film I couldn’t take it so I left and called Medicare from home, opting for “live” chat which might be overstating it since I’m pretty sure it was a robot. But I asked my question and got no answer and then the “live” chat guy, who said he was Benjamin, which is as good a name for a robot as, say, C-3PO and easier to remember, asked if I had any other general questions he could in all likelihood not help me with whatsoever. “No,” I told Benjamin the robot, “I visited a local Social Security office today and frankly it was like a waiting room in a Tim Burton film, so I’ll take my chances on a hellishly long phone hold instead. Thanks though.” Humorless Benjamin answered, “The chat session has ended. Thank you for contacting Medicare.gov Live Chat. Have a nice day.” I’ll try, Benjamin, I truly will. As to the literal ache of aging, I kid you not, I was on the john the other day, got up and one knee started killing me for no other reason than there must be senior citizen gods of cruelty somewhere throwing darts at a board of body parts

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and where it lands, you hurt. Because then the next day, poof, it went away. I’m not worried, I’m sure it’ll come back somewhere else after the next dart game of the gods. For long-term pain, I have a bum shoulder that’s hurt forever, and I know the rotator cuff needs repair. But honestly, once I hit 65 it got worse. Instead of hurting just once in a while, like after playing hockey, it was like the pain meter went from dull ache to WTF! overnight. So I went to New England Baptist, the best of the orthopedic best. My doc came in, sat down, looked at my x-ray and went “Oh…” and rubbed her face, which didn’t exactly fill me with confidence. “Oh, that’s not good, you’re doing the face rub thing” I said. “What, doc, what is it?” Turns out it’s bone-on-bone arthritis, meaning a complete shoulder replacement which I didn’t even know was a thing until Dr. Face Rub told me. But I won’t do it. I’m all about alternative medicine, especially the stuff predating Western medicine, the motto of which is “Under the Knife is the Best Way of Life!” And the best thing I’ve found is pot, not smoking it the way I did back in my foggy Cheech ‘n Chong days, but CBD oil, the non-psychoactive stuff they make out of pot. I started taking it and found two things: 1) It’s amaaaaaaazingly effective at reducing inflammation and lessening the pain a lot, and 2) I don’t miss getting high at all, because frankly, at my age not being in constant pain is all the high I need. Of course senior discounts don’t hurt. Now if only I can find them for CBD oil, Reiki, acupuncture, and anything else that’ll keep face-rubbing doctors away, I’ll be a very happy old man.

Paul K andarian is a lifelong area resident and has been a professional writer, since 1982, as columnist, contributor in national magazines, websites and other publications.

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The “Inn” at Clifton Offers a Careful Balance of Elegance and Affordability....... Imagine, living in a beautiful New England country inn that overlooks scenic Mount Hope Bay. Discover a carefree senior lifestyle that provides a wonderful new feeling of comfort and security. Contrary to living alone in a large oversized house, especially when assistance is needed, the “Inn” at Clifton can be significantly less worrisome and less expensive. At the “Inn” we have no typical apartments—each one is different and prices do vary according to apartment size, location and specific features. When compared to other assisted living communities, the “Inn” offers so much more. Clifton’s almost all-inclusive rates consist of amenities that many other facilities charge extra for, including.......  Three delicious Meals Daily  Personal Care Services  Green House  Medication Management  Scheduled Transportation  Walking Paths  Step-In Showers  24-hour CNA Staffing  Emergency Monitoring Systems  Library with Fireplace

 Daily Activities  Registered Nurses to monitor your health and well-being  Garden & Water Views  Walk-In Closets  Housekeeping and Laundry Services  Fitness Area  Non-Denominational Chapel  Whirl Pool Spa  And Much, Much More…

And.......here at the “Inn” we deal with the challenges brought on by severe winter weather. We do all of the shoveling. We clean off the frozen windows of your car. Your mail and newspapers are delivered inside. We face the bitter cold outside…while our residents can sit around the fireplaces in the Dining Room, the Parlor and the Library. With family, good friends, a cup of Hot Cider, Cocoa or Coffee, they can capture the special cozy, warm feeling that is unique to the traditional inns of New England.

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444 WILBUR AVENUE, SOMERSET, MA 02725  508-324-0200 