December 2023 Connections by College Church In Wheaton

DECEMBER 2023

CONNECTIONS L O C A L & G L O BA L S TO R I E S, N E W S A N D E V E N T S O F C O L L E G E C H U RC H

“My hope is that as I plan for gift giving this Christmas season, I will pause and consider that one way to give wisely is to make ‘unwise sacrifices.’” Read “The Gift List of the Magi” by Susan Zimmerman on page 18.

FACE TO FACE

SIDE BY SIDE

I BELIEVE

The Slips of Christmas Past

Sanctuary Lighting Project

God’s Unsettling

VIRGINIA HUGHES | 12

TIM HOLLINGER | 16

DAVE SECKINGTON | 26

TABLE OF CONTENTS PA GE 02

PAG E 21

December Highlights

Our Vision

PA GE 05

PAG E 22

From the Editor

The Lord of the Ringtones

WIL TRIGGS

ALEX LEE

PA GE 06

PAG E 24

ArtSpace

Global Update MARILYN ENSTROM

PA GE 07 Spotlight—WinterTales Gallery

PA GE 08 Israel and Ukraine: The Aftermath SUSAN PERLMAN

PAG E 28

PA GE 12

Post-Banquet Perspectives

The Slips of Christmas Past

SARAH LINDQUIST

VIRGINIA HUGHES

PAG E 29

PA GE 15

Sanctity of Human Life

Opportunities for Prayer

PAG E 30

PA GE 16 Major Project to Improve Sanctuary Lighting

Milestones

PA GE 18 The Gift Lists of the Magi SUSAN ZIMMERMAN

PAG E 26 DAVE SECKINGTON

SERHII SOLOGUB

P A GE 17

Angelic Chat on the Annunciation— Poem by Thomas Gaenzle

God’s Unsettling

Jesus Is Defender

TIM HOLLINGER

PAG E 25

Native God—Poem by Judith Sattler

PAG E 31 At the Bookstall

PAG E 31 Under the Radar

PAG E 33 Giving Joy: The Shocks of Giving

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CONTRIBUTORS MARILYN ENSTROM

Marilyn Enstrom and her husband, Eric, have been members of College Church for 30 years. Currently serving her third term on the Board of Missions, Marilyn retired after 33 years working at Wheaton College, and now volunteers to help the missionaries she has come to know and love over the years.

THOMAS GAENZLE

Thomas Gaenzle and his psychologist wife, Linda, enjoy the rich blessing that is College Church. Since Thomas retired from crisis counseling, he’s worked on a book telling how the Lord can assist difficult but important work at every level.

TIM HOLLINGER

has been on staff as technology director since 2004 but has been “in charge” of AV here since 1988. Tim serves in Sunday morning STARS, and he and his wife, Debbie, have three children and two grandchildren.

VIRGINIA HUGHES

has served in children’s ministries and on the deaconess board. At home, she is usually working in or planning out her garden or writing. Virginia and her husband, Roger, have three grown daughters, and are thankful for trips to Ann Arbor (MI) to visit their grandson.

ALEX LEE

and his wife, Virginia, have been members of College Church for some ten years. They are thankful for their daughter, son and four grandchildren. Alex works as a letter-carrier, and enjoys reading, writing, watching movies and going to flea markets.

SARAH LINDQUIST

serves with the Sanctity of Human Life Task Force and the Evangelism and Culture Impact Committee. She homeschools her sons and teaches at the Community School of the Arts at Wheaton College.

SUSAN PERLMAN

is a first-generation Jewish believer from Brooklyn, New York, and has served with Jews for Jesus since 1973. A College Church missionary, Susan’s greatest passion is sharing the gospel.

JUDY SATTLER

and her husband, Tim, serve as College Church missionaries. Judy supports Tim in his role as the founding partner at the Fellowship of the Word. She enjoys reading and writing.

DAVE SECKINGTON

married to Anna, is associate pastor at Trinity Church Central London. They live in Shepherd’s Bush west London, a diverse and needy area where they plan to plant a new church with a global impact for Christ.

SERHII SOLOGUB

is a pastor of Irpin Bible Church in Irpin, Ukraine. He has worked in church ministry with Charley and Cheryl Warner, and connected with John Maust and Wil and Lorraine Triggs at LittWorld conferences. This is from his new book Stories about God’s Perfections, published by Moody Press.

SUSAN ZIMMERMAN

Susan Zimmerman loves studying Scripture in Women’s Bible Study and with the small group she and her husband, Todd, attend. She is looking forward to singing with the choir for Advent services. This year Susan wants to approach her Christmas list with the gifts of the Magi in mind.

COVER IMAGE: by photographer Carolyn Walters

DECEMBER HIGHLIGHTS SUNDAY MORNING WORSHIP SERVICES Everyone welcome. Join us at 8, 9:30 and 11 a.m. Livestream broadcast is at 9:30 a.m. You can watch it at college-church.org/livestream

MORNING SERMON SERIES:

DECEMBER 17: The Promised Child, STARS Christmas Program DECEMBER 24: Christmas Eve Services, Endless Joy, John 3:16, in the Sanctuary

• Children’s Candlelight service at 4 p.m. • Candlelight services at 7 and 9 p.m.

CHRISTMAS JOY Senior Pastor Josh Moody preaching DECEMBER 3: Shocking Joy, Luke 1:26-28 Communion Service DECEMBER 10: Divine Joy, Matthew 1:22-25 DECEMBER 17: True Joy, Luke 2:8-12 DECEMBER 24: Worshipful Joy, Matthew 2:9-12 9:30 & 11 a.m. (NO 8 a.m. service)

SUNDAY EVENING WORSHIP SERVICES Everyone welcome. in the Sanctuary at 5 p.m. DECEMBER 3: Light Beyond Shadow, Adult Choir Program with Dan Forrest DECEMBER 10: At the Name of Jesus, Children’s Choir Program

ADULT COMMUNITIES NOTE: Adult Communities will meet through December 17, break for Christmas Eve and New Year’s Eve, and return on January 7. ALL NATIONS Sundays 9:30 a.m. in C104F • TEACHER: Jim Tebbe • STUDY: God’s Mission as seen in Scripture: The Life of Abraham • DESCRIPTION: Besides studying Scripture, we will have testimonies as well as information about and prayer for the church in countries around the world as a regular feature of the class FORUM 15 Sundays 8 a.m. in C104F • TEACHER: Bruce Main • STUDY: What We are Called and How We are to Live • DESCRIPTION: prayer time, singing and study with class interaction. GREEK EXEGESIS CLASS Sundays 9:30 a.m. in the Board Room • TEACHER: Jon Laansma • STUDY: 1 John • DESCRIPTION: Reading and discussion of the Greek New Testament. Knowledge of Greek is not required for this class. LIFE TOGETHER COMMUNITY Sundays 9:30 a.m. in Commons Gym

• TEACHER: Teaching Team • DESCRIPTION: Short teaching with small group discussion. Authentic, biblical community for adults ages 25–40

MEN’S BREAKFAST

LIVING WORD Sundays 9:30 a.m. in C104A & C104C • TEACHERS: Felipe Chamy, Grant Flynn and Josh Maurer • STUDY: The Letter of James • DESCRIPTION: Fellowship and exposition of James, with application to life today

SUNDAY MORNING

LOGOS Sundays 9:30 a.m. in C104E • TEACHER: Teaching team led by Josh Maurer • STUDY: 1-2 Thessalonians

CHILDREN’S CHURCH (older preschool) during second half of 11 a.m. service

THRIVE Sundays 9:30 a.m. in Crossings-Clapham Main Area

• TEACHERS: Joe Becker, Dan Haase, Dan Lindquist, Mark Odell, Dave Setran, John Yoder

DECEMBER 2: 7:30 a.m. in Commons

CHILDREN’S MINISTRIES (KIDS’ HARBOR) NURSERY (0–2) at 9:30 and 11 a.m. BIBLE SCHOOL (preschool–fifth grade) at 9:30 a.m. WONDERS OF WORSHIP “WOW” (K–third grade) during second half of 11 a.m. service

CHILDREN’S CHURCH (younger preschool) at 11 a.m.

ALL KIDS’ HARBOR SUNDAY P.M. PROGRAMS God’s Children Sing, Children’s Choirs, Preschool and Nursery

• STUDY: Gospel of John

KIDS’ HARBOR WEDNESDAY MINISTRIES

• DESCRIPTION: Fellowship, teaching and prayer with an

KIDS KORNER 9:30-11 a.m.

emphasis on applying God’s truth to our lives VERITAS Sundays 9:30 a.m. in C104B & D

• TEACHER: Neil Wright • STUDY: The Nature of God: God Is Better than You Think • DESCRIPTION: Teaching and discussion about the nature and attributes of God. All Ages Welcome.

EVENING PROGRAMS 6:45-8:15 p.m.

MIDDLE SCHOOL (KINGS MESSENGERS)—last meetings of 2023 are Dec. 13 (Wed.) and Dec. 17 (Sun.)

SUNDAYS: Commons Lower Level at 9:30-10:30 a.m., Christmas Break December 24 & 31

WEDNESDAYS: in Crossings, 6:45-8:15 p.m.

WOMEN’S MINISTRIES

DECEMBER 6:

MOM2MOM

CHRISTMAS BREAK: December 20 & 27

DECEMBER 11: Large Group Gathering, Birthday Party for Jesus, 9:30-11 a.m., Commons Hall

WOMEN’S BIBLE STUDY—last meeting of 2023 is December 6. We’re excited to be diving into the Book of Acts for the year. We hope you’ll join us! To register, visit our website. MORNING: 9:30-11 a.m. EVENING: 6:45-8:15 p.m.

WOMEN’S GATHERING DECEMBER 9: 9–10:30 a.m. in Commons

MEN’S MINISTRIES MEN’S BIBLE STUDY—last meeting of 2023 is

DECEMBER 13:

HIGH SCHOOL—last meetings of 2023 are Dec. 13 (Wed.) and Dec. 17 (Sun.)

SUNDAYS: in the Crossings at 9:30-10:30 a.m. DECEMBER 3: DECEMBER 10: DECEMBER 17: CHRISTMAS BREAK: December 24, 31 & January 7

WEDNESDAYS: 7-8:30 p.m. DECEMBER 6: Christmas Coffeehouse DECEMBER 13: CHRISTMAS BREAK: December 20, 27 & January 3

December 6.

COLLEGE GROUP

Men’s Bible Study, in Commons 6:45-8:15 p.m.

SUNDAYS: December 10 is the last Sunday Gathering

We are studying the Book of Acts for the entire year and are encouraging men to register this year. Register here: https://tinyurl.com/4vc8smjv

before Christmas break. The first Sunday Gathering of the new year is Sunday, January 14. (continued on next page)

TUESDAYS: December 5 is the last The Table (dinner and Bible study) in Crossings at 6:30 p.m. before Christmas break.

STARS DISABILITY SUNDAYS All classes on Commons Tunnel Level. INCLUSION (Nursery-High School): rooms vary CHILD/TEEN COMMUNITY: in C001, 9:30 and 11 a.m. ADULT COMMUNITY: in C002-B, 9:30 a.m. MULTI-GENERATIONAL COMMUNITY: in C002-A, 9:30 a.m. Christmas Break: December 24 & 31

ARTSPACE

We believe in the importance of setting a biblical foundation for marriage. Becoming One is a class for engaged, soon-to-be-engaged and newly married couples. Topics included are a gospel-centered marriage, roles in marriage, communication and conflict, intimacy, and a panel discussion with Q&A (including topics of finances, relationships, expectations and more) Becoming One also includes two personal sessions with a mentor couple at another time. COST: $40 per couple covers materials and online inventory WHEN: Friday dinner, January 26, 6 p.m. and Saturday, January 27, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. (includes lunch)

Details on page 6.

YEAR-END GIVING TO COLLEGE CHURCH

GRACE GROUPS

We invite each of us to prayerfully invest in the work of the kingdom of God in and through College Church.

Mental health challenges such as depression, anxiety and other problems with mood stability are real and need compassionate support. Living Grace and Family Grace are support groups that meet weekly on Monday evenings through February 2024. Living Grace is meant for the person who is living with the pain of difficult mental and emotional issues; Family Grace is for the person who has a loved one who struggles with these issues. For more information email gracegroups@college-church.org, or register using the QR code.

ABOUT US LUNCH Would you like to learn more about College Church? We want to get to know you better too! You’re invited to a special lunch on Sunday, January 21, at noon in the lobby outside the Sanctuary. Come and meet pastors and staff, learn about College Church and find out the many ways you can get involved. Lunch is on us! RSVP to help us plan.

KEENAGERS Keenagers takes a break in December and returns Friday, January 19. Leslie Goddard is no stranger, having presented many interesting programs in the past. She returns to present the back story of the making of It’s a Wonderful Life, from the casting and the script to the technical challenges of producing this classic movie. The evening begins with a time of fellowship at 5:30, dinner at 6, and the program at 7 p.m. Reservations are required by Tuesday, January 16, by emailing keenagers@ college-church.org.

BECOMING ONE

GIFTS IN PERSON: Cash envelope contributions or checks may be dropped off at the church office until 5 p.m., Friday, December 29. And checks may be left with the receptionist. Checks may be dropped through the mail slot in the front door of the Commons until midnight on Sunday, December 31. Contributions dropped off after midnight will be credited to 2024 even if the check or cash envelope is dated 2023. CHECKS IN THE MAIL: Checks received in the mail with the envelope postmarked December 31 or earlier will be credited to 2023, but those postmarked after December 31 will be credited to 2024 even if the check is dated 2023. ONLINE GIFTS: Making online gifts is easy through our website at college-church.org and clicking on “Give Online” at the bottom of the homepage. Gifts made before midnight on December 31 will be credited to 2023. Again, online gifts made after midnight will be credited to 2024. GIFTS OF STOCKS OR MUTUAL FUNDS: In order for a stock gift to be credited for 2023, it must be received by Tuesday, December 26. To make a gift of stock or mutual funds, contact Dan Bauer, ext. 127, or Nancy Singer, ext. 113 for transfer instructions. Contact your tax adviser for specific tax advice. If you currently use contribution envelopes, a new box for 2024 with your name on it will be available in the Narthex. If you do not have contribution envelopes and would like a box, or if you would like to transition to online giving, please email Dan Bauer, Accounting Manager at dbauer@collegechurch.org for help.

FROM THE EDITOR

H O PE S AN D F E AR S

“Born in a barn?” My dad used to ask me whenever I left the door open in my southern California home. In the 70-degree winter weather there, leaving the door open was easy to do. Not so much here. It never occurred to me until I hit adulthood and started paying the utility bills that the question had natural application to the Christmas story. Yes, Jesus was born where the animals sought shelter. And life went on from there, harder, lonelier—and more glorious than any Roman king could fathom. The Christmas story in the Bible has more than its share of hard things. Herod wasn’t exactly friendly to this rival king being born and had no problem wiping out baby boys to be rid of this other king. Leaving Jesus’ family fleeing to Egypt. Life can be difficult or disappointing. It was true then and it’s true now. Think of a fire destroying the home of missionaries. The war between Israel and Hamas. The Ukraine-Russia war. On the micro level, families can be a challenge for us or let us down. Christmas is a time of crying or doing your best to make everything just right or a little bewilderment with a smart phone that might feel a little smarter than its owner might want it to be. You can find the stories of difficulties and disappointments of Christmas in this issue. We don’t really need to sugarcoat either the gospel or the Christmas story. The Holy Child descending on us doesn’t transport us to the mythical Hallmark land of Chocolatviaberg where all the hard stuff disappears and by the end of the season or the movie or this issue, we are awash in warm, happy feelings. Hopefully this issue of Connections will take you to a different and better place than that. No. There’s work to be done. Like the lighting project in our Sanctuary. Hands of care can cross oceans, like what we did for the Pehrsons after the fire. There’s rescuing to be done. Like David Seckington’s story of faith, now is the time for people who don’t believe to experience the best and most significant life change ever—Christ in me. So, work and life goes on, but also, there is Jesus, triumphant over sin, not just any sin, my sin, and yours, and even the sins of people I may not like. This is ultimate Christmas. The wars don’t just disappear, but the God of heaven and earth is there with us in the whatever. The bruised reed, the smoldering wick, these are things we as humans want to turn from. Not so with Jesus, he turns toward them, attends to them, gives his life and sends his Spirit even in places of war, tears, smartphones and people with no human hope. As you read this issue of Connections, give thanks for the writers, the artists, the words and the Word. Jesus is casting out sin and entering in all year long, not just on Christmas day.

WI L T RI GGS

Gallery

Workshops

WINTERTALES

WRITING YOUR FAITH JOURNEY

CELEBRATING ADVENT, CHRISTMAS & WINTER THROUGH ART Runs through January 13 The wonder of Advent, the joy of Christmas, the beauty of winter. Come see our winter gallery. Hours: Sun, Mon, Wed, Fri 12-2 p.m., other times available upon request. In the Crossings Building, 303 E. Front Street, Wheaton.

Gatherings A monthly coming together, where we discuss our personal projects and the many facets of creativity and God.

Tuesday, December 12, at 7 p.m. in Crossings December creativity word for the month: Joy This month we welcome Yousaf Sadiq as he presents the creativity of the Punjabi Psalms, their place in Pakistani church life and art inspired by them. Look forward to seeing you there!

January 27 | 9 a.m.- 12 p.m. | FREE In the Crossings conference room Register at college-church.org/artspace Jesus told the man liberated from demons, “Go home to your family and tell them how much the Lord has done for you, and how he has had mercy on you.” Your journey to faith may not seem as spectacular as this man’s but it is a story worth telling, nonetheless. Have you shared with your family and friends how the Lord drew you to him, and how he has continued to work in your life? More specifically, have you written this down as a record of God’s faithfulness and as an encouragement to others? In this workshop, you will receive guidance on how to write your faith story, be it the account of your conversion to Christ or the story of a different, specific experience when God intervened or moved in your life in a powerful way. You’ll also learn how to make your writing clear and compelling so that readers will stay with you to the end of the story. We’ll include time for some in-class writing, so that you’ll come away from the workshop with a good head start on writing your faith journey. John Maust is president of Media Associates International, a training ministry that equips Christian publishers and writers in the Majority World. His journey into writing and publishing began as a small-town weekly newspaper editor in Indiana, followed by several years as a news reporter for Christianity Today magazine and then extended service as a missionary journalist in Latin America.

Artist Rachael Corey instructs some of our younger ornament workshop participants.

For more information or to sign up for a gallery or workshop, visit our webpage: college-church.org/artspace.

ART SPOTLIGHT

WINTERTALES GALLERY Featured art in this issue of Connections comes from our current gallery, WinterTales running in Crossings through January 13. The 22 artisans explore winter, Advent and Christmas through a variety media— basketmaking, crochet, needlepoint, painting, papiermâché, photography, poetry, pottery, sand casting, and sculpture. Thanks to each artist who contributed to this inspiring seasonal gallery. We are delighted that it includes people as young as five to others in their twenties through their eighties. The trees on the Mezzanine are there to provide an opportunity to share a verse or prayer as an ornament and take a family photo by them as well. God has blessed us with much artistry. Enjoy the images here in Connections. Better yet, come and see the entire gallery! Odette Acuna

Stan Green

J Marr Miller

Kathy Bailey

Adeline Gregornik

Sarah Nelson

Scott Davis

Phoebe Gregornik

Don Ryan

Barbara Elsenheimer

Ruth Gregornik

Judy Sattler

Philip Hossu

Linda Fallon

Meagan Shuptar

Lynette Hoy

Liita Forsyth

Julie Turner

Ken Kroger

Nadia Gordeuk

Carolyn Walter

Kathryn McBride

Israel and Ukraine: The Aftermath

GL OBA L VOI CES

Susan Perlman

As a College Church missionary, I have

I see hatred of the Jewish people like

always felt cared for, supported, affirmed

never before in my lifetime. I hear

and loved. I’ve thought that my being a

people cheering the savage murder of

Jewish believer in Jesus was dear to the

my people. I watch the news and see

hearts of many in the church family. After

tens of thousands marching against

all, the Bible teaches that the Jewish people

Israel, wanting to see her be no more,

are the apple of God’s eye, that Jesus wept

and this is tantamount to marching

over Jerusalem, that God’s promises of

against the Jewish people, looking to see

a destiny for the Jewish people are sure.

Hitler’s final solution come to fruition.

That is not to say that God doesn’t love all the nations of the earth; just that he has this special relationship going back to the first Jew, Abraham.

If you have Jewish friends who don’t know the Lord, I can tell you they are experiencing a gamut of emotions: sadness, anger, fear, anxiety, hopelessness and even a

So why am I prefacing my comments

numbness to what’s happening. And Jew-

with this? Honestly, I look around the

ish believers are experiencing the same

world, even in our own country, and

with a different anchor.

You see, as a people, we’ve experienced many atrocities in our history: massacres during the Crusades, forced conversions and torture during the Spanish Inquisition, pogroms in Russia and the list goes on and on. After the Holocaust, we said, “Never again!” Israel was supposed to be the assurance that Jews would never again be the victims of mass slaughter. Israel would be able to protect not only its citizens, but also guarantee the dignity and safety of Jews around the world. That sense of security was shattered on October 7. Today many Jews, if they have children, are wondering if they should send them to school for fear of their safety. If they ordinarily wear an identifying piece of jewelry, a Star of David, a Chai, they are inclined to hide it. They may or may not be religious, but their Jewishness is front and center for them—and it is liability. I was on a visit with a Jewish couple here in California who have grandchildren living in Israel, two of whom are now called up for service with the Israel Defense Forces (IDF). I asked how they were doing. David and Judy lowered their eyes and then said, “We’re just hoping they’ll be okay.” Unlike those of us who know the Lord and know the end of the story, hope is tentative for David and Judy. I told them I was praying for their grandsons but I’m not sure how much comfort that gave them. There’s another family I have been witnessing to for years who are Israeli. One of their family members, a 19-yearold boy, is among the hostages. I agonize with them but feel somewhat helpless to offer comfort. Both families just need to know I care and that I am grieving as they are over the events of these past couple of months or so. Perhaps that’s what you can do with your Jewish friends—not offer them answers they are not ready to receive but just be there for them. I wonder if a day will come when Christians here in the U.S. will have to hide Jews from those who would do us harm. Maybe your friends need to know that you would be there for them should that happen. I posted this blog on our Jews for Jesus website with some ways Christians can help. Here is part of my post.

Israel in Crisis: How We Can Help by Susan Perlman | October 10 2023 Israel is experiencing her worst tragedy in decades, with October 7, 2023, being the deadliest day for Jewish people since the Holocaust. And the situation on the ground in Israel is changing by the minute. The number of Israeli men, women, and children murdered, injured, or taken as hostages is staggering.

For all of us outside of Israel, we are left asking ourselves, what can we do to help? How can we let the people of Israel know they are not alone? What are some of the ways we can make a difference right now? Here are some suggestions. 1. STAY UP TO DATE. Look to reliable news sources, especially those with firsthand, on the ground perspectives. Look at YNetNews.com, The Jerusalem Post, HaAretz, Arutz Sheva and The Times of Israel. As they’re reporting from amidst the situation as it unfolds, they will be the most accurate sources for updates. 2. REACH OUT. Extend support to your Israeli friends. Many have family members directly affected by the attack; others are stuck and cannot return home. Send them a meal, speak a kind word, or say a prayer. Look for ways you can love and serve them, whatever that may look like. And share words from our Hebrew Scriptures that contain ancient yet relevant messages of hope for our people. 3. INFORM OTHERS IN YOUR SPHERE OF INFLUENCE. If you are Jewish, use your own voice to raise awareness among your friends, co-workers, and neighbors—both about what’s happening in Israel, and what you’re experiencing as a Jewish person living elsewhere. It affects us all. Whether through conversation or by sharing credible information on social media (see number one), you can make those around you more aware. If you are a Christian, make sure your local church and/or small group is informed and positioned to help. Encourage your pastor to call local rabbis and offer support. Suggest that your church post something on their website and social media platforms to show they care. Mobilize your friends to pray and give to relief efforts. And make sure to let your Jewish friends know that an attack on Israel is personal to you and that you grieve alongside them. 4. LOOK FOR OPPORTUNITIES TO STAND PUBLICLY. It can be isolating to watch or read the news alone in our homes. Check online for local walks, vigils, and community acts of solidarity with Israel and the Jewish people. Find a way to stand with your community and show support to the Jewish people in Israel and around the world. 5. PRAY. Even if we’re thousands of miles away, we’re not helpless. Prayer is a very practical way to help. “The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.” (James 5:16b ESV). The God of Israel is always present. Whether (continued on next page)

you are Jewish, Christian, or both, be assured that God is hearing the prayers you bring to his throne. Here are some things to pray for:

remain in the dark about the full extent of the devastation

• Pray for the safety of those who have been taken hostage.

on our world, attempting to steal away our hope and love.

• Pray for the Israel Defense Forces (IDF) soldiers in Gaza and the North who are routing out the Hamas and Hezbollah terrorists.

But I want to share with you what we have chosen to

• Pray for the Palestinians in Gaza who are being used as human shields and are suffering terribly. • Pray for recovery for those who have been wounded by rocket fire and face-to-face attacks by the terrorists.

like these, it can feel as though evil has an unrelenting grip

do in response. Despite the burden on our hearts, we consciously decided to fight back with love. We opened our hearts and space to become a place of giving and listening. We lit candles to honor the departed but also made a stand for those still with us. There is no greater way to show our care for life than to support those fighting for our country or provide comfort and toys to those who

• Pray for Gaza and its liberation from the influence of Hamas.

have lost their homes.

• Pray for calm and peace for innocent civilians who are terribly frightened.

mourn and cry alongside those who have lost loved ones.

I often find myself wishing I could attend every funeral to The Nova Music Festival, a gathering of people many from

• Pray for provision for those whose homes were destroyed by bombs.

our neighborhood, was a stark reminder of how quickly

• Pray for the safety and security of every Jewish person globally as protests filled with antisemitism escalate.

happened to be. Today, the people of Israel unite to say

• Pray for hope for Israel, that their eyes would be fixed on the God who saves. 6. SUPPORT. You can help us right now as we assist with relief efforts by sending a donation. Our 50 missionary families are depleted by eight who are now called to the front lines. Yet we are coordinating 600 volunteers a day to meet the needs. Our team in Tel Aviv has converted our ministry center into a crisis response facility, providing food, toiletries, medical supplies, and more to those in dire need. We’re distributing 3,000 grocery packages a week, feeding hot meals to hundreds a day. We also have a station set up for mourning and prayer. Our team on the ground is also delivering care packages to Israeli soldiers with everything from socks and underwear to coffee, jackets and battery packs. We’ve also produced a whole series of videos based on the psalms that speak of hope and are going out on social media. We’re also distributing New Testaments to the many who are asking for them. You can make a difference in Israel with a special gift, and support those in need from afar. Elie Birnbaum, head of our work in Israel, wrote this letter a week after the massacre. It is personal but I believe captures what a lot of Israelis are feeling. Shalom, One week ago, we went to sleep, blissfully unaware of the tragedy that would unfold upon our country the following day. Seven days later, the wounds are still fresh, and we

and the names of those who were taken from us. In times

lives can be taken from us simply because of where one that regardless of where or how we choose to live, we stand together in solidarity. After a week of tirelessly caring for the needs of those beyond

our

immediate

community,

hosted

heartwarming event—a pet a puppy event. The relief and joy in the eyes of those who got to experience these animals’ cuteness, sweetness, and beauty after days filled with only bad news were genuinely uplifting. In these small moments, we find hope for a future that can be free from such pain. The love of Jesus and His enduring compassion inspire us to continue loving, and your prayers are a constant reminder that we are not alone in this journey. My family has had a challenging week, with each night marked by the weight of hearing about the horrors and the struggle to contribute to the cause without breaking down. However, tonight is different; it’s Shabbat— a glimpse of the peace ahead. As I look at my two boys and wife, finally smiling and sharing a moment with a playful puppy, I’m reminded that love triumphs. Hope sustains us, and faith is the guiding force that brings us back to love. Thank you for your prayers, unwavering support, and enduring belief in a better future. We are grateful for your presence and the reassurance that we are not alone in this journey. May God bless you abundantly, and may the world find peace and healing. With gratitude and hope and a solemn prayer for the return of hostages. Shabbat Shalom Eli

Jesus Is Defender Serhii Sologub For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. (Col. 1:13-14, NIV) This is the story of Denys, a volunteer. Back in 2014, Russian occupiers initiated a disgraceful war against Ukraine, targeting its eastern regions. The people in Donetsk were in dire need of humanitarian aid. Volunteers were busy distributing food, canned goods, clothing, and shoes. On one occasion, they found themselves near the frontline, having to cross a railroad track. Denys lagged behind, struggling to adapt to the helmet and heavy body armor he wasn’t used to. Climbing the hill near the railroad in that gear was particularly challenging. The rest of the group had already crossed, but one soldier remained on the hill, right in the middle of the tracks. He was waiting for Denys. After they made it over the hill, Denys asked the soldier: “Why were you standing up there, out in the open?” “I was waiting for you. In this open area, everything is clearly visible, and there’s a high chance of snipers. I stood there to protect you from being targeted by a sniper. I’d rather take the risk than see a volunteer get hurt.” Denys then understood that this Ukrainian soldier had drawn the enemy’s attention to save his life. He was willing to sacrifice himself to shield Denys.

In the Bible, we come across the story of Jesus Christ’s sacrifice. All of us have sinned and are under God’s judgment. Our sinful thoughts, words, and deeds make us deserving of eternal destruction in the face of the Almighty. We yearn for someone to cover us and save us from this misery. The miracle is that Jesus Christ did exactly that. To save us, He made a sacrificial death on the cross of Calvary for our sins. And Jesus cried out with a loud voice and gave up His spirit... (Mark 15:37) In Denys’ story, both men, thankfully, survived, but with Jesus Christ, it played out differently. He bore the punishment for our sins and physically died in our place. From that moment on, anyone who believes and accepts Christ’s sacrifice won’t face God’s judgment, for Christ has already shouldered that burden. Instead of perishing in hell, Christ’s followers will experience resurrection and eternal life with God. This is the incredible news that everyone should be aware of! The hero, Jesus, has secured you eternal life. If you haven’t already, don’t hesitate to accept this gift. Thank Christ for His sacrificial death and the blessing of eternal life. Translation by Ruth Leaf

F ACE TO F ACE

The Slips of Christmas Past Virginia Hughes

Days have grown shorter, the bright colors

to give each other on Christmas morning.

of autumn traded for the steady, dark forms

One year, my teenaged brother marched in

of trees lifting praying hands toward a dim lit

with new bed pillows for each of us. He paid

sky. The air thins and crisps as one longs for

with his earnings from frying tenderloins and

all things in the world to be better than they

hamburgers at a local restaurant. Our current

are. Way better than they could ever be within

pillows weren’t contributing anything good to

imagined or confirmed constraints. Is there such a thing as too large a hope? Thankfully, yes; and this large, impossible hope was born within the Christ child who carries the hope of salvation from ages past, into our present and future. And it is Immanuel himself who beckons us to embody that hope when Christmas is most needed to come pouring down.

our sleep, so the plump, fresh pillows were unexpected and well received. My

sewing

sister

fashioned

curtains

and

a matching bedspread for me from fabric decorated with smiling, dark green comical frogs, on lime green lily pads, in aqua blue water. She had also conveniently divided all girls into two categories of material and informed me that I was more of a blue-green, nature girl than a

Christmas was a time of infinite possibility in

pink-red, Strawberry Shortcake one. Which was

our young minds within our family of humble

arguable since Strawberry Shortcake had red hair

means, where secret plans turned into gifts

like mine. I was grateful for my sister’s well sewn

gifts and mused over what “nature girl,” meant, but found it difficult to be sullen or brood while cuddled by a chorus of smiling frogs. We also took turns crying on Christmas. Someone would end up crying before the day was finished, possibly even before breakfast. It was an emotional time. An upheaval of sorts. We banked on that day way too much. We believed all the “it’s a Christmas miracle” stories. Our pumps were primed. Our hopes in the happiness Christmas poised would end up dashed on the rocks of reality when a doll’s string was pulled too hard, or a toy lacked the animation touted in the TV ad. We were lots of people, lots of need and lots of wishes. Youth was on one’s side, but youth struggled to cope with the crushing disappointment of shattered hopes, and how dark and long the day feels when it doesn’t go well. There were some gut-wrenching events partly due to an unevenness in the gifting that could have been avoided. A glaring, cautionary lesson of what never to do to one’s children. Once, Dad bought three decent bikes at a police auction. There were no names on the bikes, so we squirmed with awkwardness in the moment. Whose were these really? But after staring for a while, an older sibling stepped up, divided us into bike groups and assigned us by size to the bike that may suit us. I was matched to the blue girls’ bike and informed by an older brother that the large, green boys’ bike with gears and hand brakes was off limits. His rule was soon broken as I stealthily wobbled off on the bike, wrecking it several times, hurting myself a bit and being accused of stripping the gears. These community gifts left one wanting an item of one’s own. If such a desire was voiced, a stern reprimand would be heard, “If you want your own bicycle, you can always,” (Merry Christmas, ho-ho-ho,) “get a job and spend your own money.” True, but not inspiring to children whose earning potential was pennies for summer’s dandelion weeds, coins for returned soda bottles, or minding the little wretches across the street for whatever scraps of change were shaken from their weary mom’s windbreaker pocket. Dad went through a phase of showing up on Christmas morning with various add-ins. It was a last minute, ill thought, dole out of bonuses dreamt up by a forgetful kind of boss man, who could turn Christmas into a time that looked more like a reckoning; a way to put pesky kids in their place. Rather like the grim part of a Charles Dickens’ tale where absent-cheer steals center stage; and redemption dilly-dallies in the back alley instead of spreading a warm, “God bless us everyone.” Dad’s Christmas whims went like this, “You found yourself in my favor. Have some cash. But you over there, I heard you fussing about chores; so, nothing extra for you this

year.” The tears would start with a defense, “I didn’t do that! It was So and So who fussed . . .” Attempts to defend oneself went unheeded as Dad continued, “And for reciting from memory the entire Christmas story from Luke chapter two, your sister has hereby won the grand Christmas prize of ten whole dollars.” A small voice piped up to ask, “There’s a grand Christmas prize?” The winner of this heretofore unmentioned grand prize would be frozen out by the other siblings in the household unless she found a speedy way to announce how the tendollar bounty would be shared. Most of us wonder what motivates a father to have such blind spots regarding his own children, especially on Christmas morning. Not to excuse his behavior, but to think through its possible origins, Dad was the son of an absent, traveling evangelist. An academic, high-spirited handful, Dad spent a lot of time away from home in boarding schools where lovingkindness was not sitting at the table. Fairness was not a dish passed around. The early boarding schools were followed by military boarding school which made the mean ways of the earlier school seem easy and golden. From military boarding school he enlisted into the military. He was a complicated man of deep sorrows and dearth masking an overly sensitive side underneath precise military discipline and order. Dad seemed perplexed and clueless at times about emotions within the dynamics of his own family. One of the harsh realities of being his child was dealing with the unfortunate unevenness of his Christmas gifting. There wouldn’t be coal in a Christmas stocking, rather a feeling as real as a sliver of ice slipping down one’s back or confusion entering the mind that one had no desire to wrap around oneself. If he had the perfect idea for a gift for one member of the family, he’d gift it. If he was stumped, he’d open his wallet and hand a few dollars around in the moment, or leave someone out entirely as if to say, “Today, you are simply one child too many.” Dad really needed an approved script with appropriate props and a director to help him play a kinder role on Christmas morning without trampling the feelings of his children. Us children sprang up behind the scenes with the collective strength of subterfuge. Our resistance developed into a Christmas black market of sorts, where we artfully attempted to correct Dad’s mistakes when he wasn’t looking and donate our own gifts to anyone left out. However, we couldn’t undo the hurt of his thoughtlessness. One of his worst Christmas morning comments ever, had him skipping over one of his daughters, but not before saying, “You refused to begin college studies as I warned you to do this year; so, you will . . . manage.” This

statement was leveled at a younger sister, whose empty hand withdrew as her crestfallen face crumpled into tears of disappointment. The omission revved my older sister, newly married and emboldened by independence to confront him, “You cannot do that, Dad. That is not fair!” As my sister firmly issued her challenge, the long-playing Christmas album was no longer dreaming of a white Christmas or anything it used to know. The needle completed its final rotations, lifted up and swung back to its resting place watching the scene unfold. Christmas or not, Dad issued a thundering response about impudence. My elder sister ran out of the house with her young husband on her heels, her tear-stained face matched the sister’s she defended along with the lot of us growing ever more indignant, smoldering and keeping the family tradition of crying early and often on Christmas morning. Mom drew us back from the brink of despair with homemade cinnamon rolls and hot chocolate. It steadied us a little and kept the Christmas iceberg we were suddenly sitting on from floating straight out to sea. In spite of Dad’s missteps and Christmas morning with moments full of error, we carried on celebrating, playing games, not allowing him to completely spoil our fun. Christmas company would arrive for dinner which pleased and distracted Dad, engaged him in rapt conversation mode, held him in check and helped even out the rough patches. The years rolled on and so did we who sought a brighter Christmas morning. Then came the big year for my own special gift for Mom. I had saved enough money for a new slip for her. Yes, I had made it my business to procure a new undergarment for my mother and soon chose the biggest, fullest, most sparkling, white slip from a store in our small town. I admired how it took two clerks to fold it, wrap it in white tissue paper and bind it with scads of ribbon going around and around to keep it contained. I was too enraptured by the elegance of the slip to remember the slight build of my own mother. Much to her chagrin, a teasing uncle had called her “Skinny Minnie,” in her younger days. She had remained slim even after giving birth to eight children. I surely knew this major detail about her, but completely forgot I knew it. Her thin reality was no match for my thick decision to gift her this particularly preposterous Christmas slip. When Mom carefully opened the package, and finished unwinding the skein of ribbon, the newly freed slip instantly took on a life of its own. Rising from the package it stood tall and full, needing no hanger to do so. It was

taller than all of us and had the presence of the ghost of Christmas something. “What is that?” asked a brother. An elder sister noted that it could fit under Cinderella’s ball gown or something very fancy; if she was very tall that is. “Not very practical for a pastor’s wife,” surmised another sister. Mom asked, “Honey, what on earth gave you this idea?” I didn’t want to say at the age of eleven that her greying, ratty-looking slips hanging in the closet made me so sad I could cry. I had already been in enough trouble for snooping in everyone’s stuff looking for sparks of interest. I came up with, “Every lady needs a trusty slip?” Something Mom said to me when she reminded me, “Don’t forget to wear one.” Forgetting it wasn’t polite to blurt or brag about how much one spent on a gift, I confidently revealed how the slip cost most of my Christmas budget at four whole dollars on clearance. An elder sister suggested it could be returned. I shook my head doubtfully. Hadn’t the lady said, “Are you sure, hon? It’s a final sale item.” “Mom, if you don’t want it can we have it?” asked one little sister. “We can play brides with it!” added Little Sister Two. Wait, this had taken a turn. “You don’t want it?” I asked plaintively. “Now, don’t get down in the dumps,” Mom assured, “Someone sewed it to begin with, so I can most likely sew it too. I have scissors and can work on taking some of the fullness out of it.” My eldest sister chided, “Good one. You gave Mom a big, scratchy chore for Christmas.” I kept my distance lest she add a punishing pinch and shed a few quiet tears realizing I had tried so hard to do something special, but instead had slipped up. My family did not start the tradition of crying on Christmas. No doubt the first Christmas was tiring, painful and covered in shared tears from a newborn baby and his young mother. But how we rejoice that there is no unevenness in Jesus and his gift of salvation. Shepherds, forgotten on the hills knew the light of God’s glory when angel voices invited them to come worship. Wise men, full of distant mystery and intent, journeyed with a bright sign and clear vision, gold and spices, to come and worship the king. We are all invited to share together in worshipping our Savior. Jesus came to all of us offering love, healing and food for the soul. These days if I cry before breakfast on Christmas morning it is from the overwhelming joy and gladness pouring out for all the Lord’s blessings starting with these beautiful words from John verse one, “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”

OPPORTUNITIES FOR PRAYER

God Centered Life

Call the church office or email info@collegechurch.org for details on these prayer meetings. Sunday Morning Prayer 8:15-8:40 a.m. in C101 Monday Morning Prayer 6:15-7:15 a.m. in the Board Room Wednesday Night Prayer (Zoom only) 7-8 p.m. DECEMBER 6: Jim and Julianna Gieser DECEMBER 13 : Annette Forster (Voice of the Martyrs) DECEMBER 20: Prayer and Thanksgiving DECEMBER 27: No meeting.

Friday Prayer for the Persecuted Church 12-1 p.m. in the Board Room. Led by Wil and Lorraine Triggs. The weekly prayer guide is also available at our website: college-church.org/ impact/prayer

AARON-HUR PRAYER FELLOWSHIP Aaron-Hur Fellowship is not meeting in December.

the teaching ministry of Pastor Josh Moody, features Bible teaching, both online and on the radio. This exciting ministry with a global reach continues to grow in impact. Here in the U.S., the program is heard on the radio in about 70 locations. Globally, the ministry also has a mission impact. The teaching is heard online through the OnePlace and TWR360 platforms, which have extensive listenership outside North America. Imagine! More than 35,000 people have been touched with some form of gospel content through this outreach, either an online audio message, a spiritually encouraging article, or a devotional reading. You can listen locally on Moody Radio (WMBI) at 10 p.m. M-F and 7:30 p.m. on Sunday and can have daily devotionals delivered right to your inbox. Your prayers and partnership with this ministry are greatly appreciated.

godcenteredlife.org

COMMUNION AT COLLEGE CHURCH DECEMBER 3 & JANUARY 7

BARNABAS PRAYER FELLOWSHIP Barnabas Prayer Fellowship meets Wednesday, December 20, at 1:30 p.m. in the Creative Arts Room at Windsor Park to learn about the work of Dan and Michelle, who have taught in schools in both Europe and Southeast Asia. To further the welfare of the family, they are spending another year among us here. Both men and women are welcome to come and get better acquainted with them.

SI D E B Y S I DE

Major Project to Improve Sanctuary Lighting Tim Hollinger And God said, “Let there be lights in the vault of the ceiling to light the congregation and musicians and worship leaders” but many of those lights weren’t working because their sockets or dimmers had failed. And it was NOT good. With apologies for the bad paraphrase above, I’d like to enlighten you on the Sanctuary lighting project that will be taking place between Christmas and Easter including what we’ll be doing and why it’s necessary. But first some numbers. The Sanctuary which was built in 1992 includes 67 250-watt flood lights over the main floor, 37 120w floods in the balcony, 18 575w floods under the skylight, 12 750w floods left and right of the skylight, 55 100w bulbs in the chandeliers and gallery pendants, 84 60w bulbs in the curved coves over the choir loft and 25 575w spots hanging from the rail over the balcony. Including some other odds and ends, that’s 302 light bulbs and almost 68,000 watts. And every single one of those bulbs has been replaced multiple times by our faithful maintenance and AV staff using either ladders, scaffold or a lift. WHY? 30+ years of intense heat and cooling has taken its toll on

many of the fixtures that hold those bulbs. Look up at the ceiling on a Sunday morning and most of the lights that appear to be out are dark because we can no longer just replace the bulb. The fixtures themselves must be replaced. In addition, our dimmer system that controls

all those bulbs is beyond its end-of-life and replacement parts are no longer available. When the controller finally fails, all the lights would either be full on or full off. This dimmer system was installed in 2009 to replace the 1992 original, and since 2017 we have been looking for replacement options due to its potential failure. In the meantime, the LED lighting industry has matured, and we are now looking at replacing most of the fixtures themselves with LED fixtures that don’t require a separate dimmer. We will of course gain the energy savings of LED vs incandescent but the real why lies in the current and potential failures of the systems we have now. WHAT? We will replace all can lights (main floor and balcony ceilings) with new LED can fixtures. All theatrical spots and floods will be replaced with a variety of new fixtures designed for better use and coverage including the option for remotely re-aiming some and generating color with many for special events and services. The bulbs in the choir coves will get replaced by LED light strips and the chandeliers and gallery pendants will just get new dimmable LED bulbs with a new LED dimmer controlling them. Side note: the chandeliers which came out of the previous Sanctuary aren’t just for decoration. They provide an even fill of ambient light and are an essential part of special services like Good Friday and evening Christmas programs. Our color temperature is currently around 2700k (warm yellow, at the bottom end of the warm scale) and we will be generally raising that to 3500k (cool, at the bottom end of the cool white scale). Fear not, we will not be going for 5600k cold blue daylight! WHEN? Starting December 26, the Sanctuary will be prepped for work to begin. A variety of lifts will be driven in through the front doors and will be moved around the Sanctuary to reach all the lights. Pews will have to be moved or removed to accommodate the lifts. The organ chamber will be sealed off to protect the pipes and blower from inevitable dust caused by the construction work. This means that the pipe organ will not be used for services until the work is complete. Electricians and lighting specialists will work the first shift during weekdays to install the new wiring and fixtures. Part of that work will involve cutting holes in ceilings wherever they cannot access wiring from the attic above. Painters will follow them during the second shift to patch holes and paint the entire ceiling as lighting work is completed. On Saturdays lifts will be moved to the east hallway and Fireside area and Howard Kern’s maintenance crew will replace the pews so that our Sunday morning services can be held as usual although without the organ music and possibly with temporary lighting. On Sunday afternoons, the necessary pews will be removed again so work can begin on Monday

morning. No other events will be held in the Sanctuary during this time. This is a massive undertaking that has been years in planning and setting aside of budget monies. It will give us many years of maintenance-free lighting that should serve the church well. There’s much to be done and timelines will be short. Please pray for the safety of all involved and for efficiency as, Lord willing, we want to have this completed before Passion Week services and rehearsals.

M I L EST ON ES BIRTHS Joy Christine was born to Michael and Annelise Thrasher on October 18. Baby Joy joins her siblings Ezekiel and Joanna. Joy’s paternal grandparents are Bill and Penny Thrasher. Lillian Jane was born to Josh and Paige Lawrenz on October 5. She joins her older brother Haddon James. Lillian’s paternal grandmother is Ann Lawrenz.

DEATHS Pray for the family of Freda Davis, who passed into the presence of the Lord on November 12. Pray for Dick Albright and family as they grieve the loss of Dick’s wife, Roslyn, who passed away on November 11. Pray for Ray Smith and family as they grieve the loss of Ray’s wife, Lillian, who passed away on November 8. There will be a memorial service for Lillian on Friday, December 8, at 1 p.m. at Windsor Park Auditorium. Be in prayer for the family of Jean Jordan, who passed away on September 2.

L I FE L ESSONS

The Gift List of the Magi

Can “unwise gifts” end up being wise? Susan Zimmerman

One of my favorite stories to read during the Advent season

heavens for a sign and then deciding to pack my camel and

is O. Henry’s classic short story, “The Gift of the Magi.”

lug the costliest treasures of the day to find and worship a

I never tire of about Della, the young wife who cuts and

faraway newborn king.

sells her long tresses to buy a platinum watch chain as a Christmas present for her husband, Jim, who unbeknown to her had already sold his watch to buy her a coveted set of jeweled, tortoise shell combs to wear in her now shorn hair. O. Henry’s summation of his story is a surprising conclusion about how gifts are best given and received: Here I have lamely related to you the uneventful chronicle of two foolish children in a flat who most unwisely sacrificed for each other the greatest treasures of their house. But in a last word to the wise of these days let it be said that of all who give gifts these two were the wisest. Of all who give and receive gifts, such as they are wisest. Everywhere they are wisest. They are the Magi.

I’m someone who often finds choosing and giving Christmas gifts a frustrating task. We have relatives who fit the description of “the person who already has everything.” We have family who live across the country for whom we might like to buy “a little something,” but that something will cost more to ship than the original purchase price. We have grandchildren, who are of course great fun to give gifts to, but their parents are warning us that the playroom is filling up too rapidly with toys. Books and clothes are wonderful kid gifts, but perhaps more to the parents than to an excited child hoping for a new Christmas morning toy. Selecting gifts for our children and their spouses becomes harder with each passing year, as we are not aware

I enjoy pulling out this story every December, first to savor

as we once were of what our children truly want (or need).

the simple beauty of O. Henry’s prose and his surprise

Gift cards are a versatile choice but feel so impersonal.

ending (a common feature of his storytelling). But, with apologies to English teachers and literary critics who might read this, I also consider what this story is saying to me about one of the most celebrated Christmas traditions across all cultures: the giving and receiving of gifts. O. Henry’s Della and Jim are “two foolish children . . . who most unwisely sacrificed for each other” and yet they are also “the wisest” of “all who give and receive gifts. . . They are the Magi.” The reference to the Magi brings me to Matthew 2, which records the story of wise men who, based only on seeing a new star in the heavens, undertook a long and likely dangerous, even seemingly foolish, journey to find and worship the one born King of the Jews. After an unsettling encounter with King Herod, they still followed the star and found and worshipped the infant Jesus, offering him costly gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. I imagine that in the eyes of their fellow wise men back in “the east,” the Magi also “most unwisely sacrificed” to not only bring an unknown child such costly gifts, but also to risk Herod’s murderous wrath in their single-minded focus to worship the new King. How can gift giving, especially at Christmas, be truly wise, if not among the “wisest”? This question is not easy for me to answer. I’m not O. Henry’s early 1900’s Della, driven to desperation by my inability to save enough from a $20 per week salary to purchase my loved one a gift. Nor am I an ancient sage, scanning the

It’s not as if it’s wrong to give material possessions, or as other trends suggest, out-of-the-ordinary culinary treats or special experiences. Well-chosen gifts can say, “I love you; I care.” After all, the Magi, in their wisdom, brought Jesus and his family much needed gifts of great monetary value that no doubt sustained them during their flight to Egypt and in the years beyond. My inner struggle over gift giving is largely with the inescapable fact that all material possessions eventually wear out, lose their value, and even become useless. This is well illustrated in my own gift giving history of Playmobils—a trendy toy in the 90’s when our children were growing up. These incredibly realistic and detailed sets of everything from firetrucks to campers to medieval knights to princesses included numerous tiny parts and accessories. Frequent Christmas and birthday gifts, they provided hours of creative play for our son and daughter, but as the years passed, the tiny parts left their home boxes and migrated to others, making it nearly impossible to sort out which pieces belong to which set. And now, a generation later, our two oldest grandchildren have found all those boxes and completed the mashup. I’m tempted to dump the entire lot in a large plastic bin and send it off to wherever old Playmobils go to die. In hindsight, the Playmobils appear to be “unwise gifts.” But in the context of O. Henry’s Della and Jim or the Magi, (continued on next page)

wise gift giving does not merely mean choosing a more

And in this holiday and end-of-year season of giving, it could

appropriate or longer lasting item.

mean stretching to give more than I assume my budget

Della sacrificed her most treasured possession, her hair, to buy Jim the watch chain he longed for, while he in turn

allows, possibly a truly “unwise gift,” to the Lord’s work in our local church and global mission.

sacrificed his greatest material treasure, his watch, to

My list here is just a start, and perhaps, to use O. Henry’s

purchase for her “The Combs” she had long desired. The

words, “lamely related.” Reflect on the Magi, and you can

ironic ending is that neither could use the gifts they were

come up with your own list of seemingly unwise gifts that

given, yet both had received a far greater gift, the wildly

will, in the end, prove most wise.

generous sacrificial love of another.

In O. Henry’s tale, after Della and Jim had “exchanged”

O. Henry doesn’t dwell on the biblical Magi other than to

gifts, Jim suggests to his wife, “let’s put our Christmas

comment that they were indeed wise men who brought

presents away and keep ‘em awhile. They’re too nice to

gifts to Jesus and thus “invented the art of giving Christmas

use just at present . . . And now suppose you put the

presents.” He even seems to imply they were not motivated

chops on.”

by love. But Matthew 2 makes clear they were directed by God’s wisdom. The “unwise sacrifice” of the Magi proved useful to Jesus and his family, yet also represented an authentically sacrificial gift given at great personal cost of money, time, effort and personal safety. And the ironic end to their story is that the Magi, having obediently followed the star and found and presented gifts to the King of Kings, received the far greater gift of meeting Jesus and kneeling in awe of his incarnation. My hope is that as I plan for gift giving this Christmas season, I will pause and consider that one way to give

I like the picture Jim’s words imply of this young “foolish” couple. They are still lovingly happy in each other’s company and preparing to enjoy dinner together. I feel as if they will take their mutual gift of sacrificial love and use it to continue building a strong marriage and homelife. Likewise, as the Magi “returned to their own country another way” they must have been treasuring their joy and awe of how the God of heaven had led them to worship and give gifts to the infant King, and then safely guided them to the way home. May all our gift giving this Advent season bring us joy and

wisely is to make “unwise sacrifices.”

contentment in the opportunity to ultimately receive and

Beginning from a purely practical place of what goes

the Lord Jesus Christ, who has given us the greatest sacrificial

under the tree, this could mean something as simple as

gift of all, salvation through his death on the cross.

give the love that only comes through knowing our Savior,

thinking beyond a trip to the mall or a click of the “buy now” tab. It could mean instead using my time and skills to create or make something. It could mean taking the time to focus more deeply on what would be meaningful or inspirational to a person I love rather than just checking a name off a list. It could mean working to be more observant of another to discern what might truly benefit or delight them. These are relatively minor sacrifices, but sacrifices nonetheless. Moving beyond traditional gift giving, it could mean sacrificing my own schedule to spend time with someone who is lonely or hurting. It could mean opening my home and heart in hospitality during a busy season. It could mean writing a thoughtful card or note to someone in need of a comforting word. It could mean providing a meal to someone even when I’m tired of cooking. It could mean truly listening to another when I would rather talk. It could mean volunteering to help another even when I’m tired or feeling spent. It could mean forgiving when I would rather hold on to grudges or hurts.

DECEMBER 3 | 5 PM | SANCTUARY G U E S T A R T I S T F O R U M AT 4 : 1 5 P M

O U R V I S I ON

Proclaiming the Gospel The vision of College Church is summarized in three words: “Proclaiming the Gospel.” This higher purpose elevates and focuses all our activities. We have identified five initiatives for the purpose of proclaiming the gospel. Pathway. We structure our ministries so that you can Discover Jesus, Grow in Your Faith, and Impact the World. Our goal was to call a pastor of evangelism by June 2023. Jim Johanik accepted that call and is leading the discover portion of this pathway. Community. We are a community that cultivates care, encouragement and connection. Our goal is to mobilize us all to care for each other, call a community life pastor, and have increased use of counseling with designated space in the Crossings. Discipleship. We will elevate biblically rigorous and practical discipleship. Our goal is to explore more adult communities

and two churchwide educational seminars on matters of current discipleship importance by December 2023. Campus. We will increasingly activate our campus. Our goal is to utilize the Crossings as a crossover space to reach our community, for student and family space, with phase 2 plan established and capital campaign launched by December 2023. Planting. We will leverage the church’s history of church planting, training programs, and connections across the country and world. Our goal is to plant multiple new churches in partnership with likeminded churches by 2030. UPDATE AND REFRESH: As we approach 2024, the elders and pastors are interacting with each of the initiatives and updating them for the coming year. Check back in the new year for more.

Elder Chair Howard Costley gave this end-of-year giving announcement in our worship services on November 26, 2023 Good morning. My name is Howard Costley and I serve as chair of the Council of Elders. Each year College Church, like many other churches, receives a very significant portion of its giving in the last month or two of the year. This year our unanimously congregationally approved budget means now a goal of $3 million. This is a big figure but we serve a bigger God. To reach it will require all of us to give above and beyond. Those who have much will need to give much. Those who have less will need to give too. That way all will be involved in the vision of Proclaiming the Gospel. By God’s grace, our ministries are helping more people discover Jesus (attendance up 6.5% from last year), grow in their faith (women’s and men’s ministries all increasing), and impact the world (156 missionaries, 6 short term missions team, and 4 new career missionaries this year). College Church has no endowment; all this, plus the regular ministries of reaching teenagers and children each week, is dependent upon the faithful service and generosity of God’s people. We ask that we each pray

asking God what he would have us give, and give as we believe is best with a cheerful heart. You can give simply by going to college-church.org/give. Thank you.

“Understand, Frodo. I would use this ring from a desire to do good. But through me, it would wield a power too great and terrible to imagine.” —Gandalf the Gray

LIF E LESSONS

The Lord of the Ringtones Alex Lee

It was not until spring of this year, at age

stored a full dozen photos and videos, and

sixty-three, with my head comfortably

of course I made and received calls. I was

wrapped in a turban of habits and

content with my “dumb” phone and didn’t

prejudices, that I got my very first

mind the expressions of amusement and

smart phone. It was a 2022 iPhone SE,

incredulity from those around me when

purchased for about a hundred dollars.

they saw me fiddling with what appeared

I remember gazing at it as it nestled snugly

to be an ebony paperweight. My phone

in its pristine packaging. The device was

was dumb because it was ignorant of the

a thing of beauty, still unconscious as it

Internet and was dissociated from it.

awaited activation.

I didn’t care if around the planet, using

For decades, I used several iterations

their smart phones, toddlers were looking

of an LG flip phone, initially of the 3G

up the reviews and ratings for the pull-up

generation, and then, when that became

diapers they were wearing, or that Somali

obsolete, of the 4G generation. I happily

goatherders were streaming movies while

texted whenever I needed to text, pressing

tending their flocks. I like antiques, and I was

the buttons as assiduously as a monk

content to utilize only as much technology

copying a medieval manuscript. I took and

as was necessary for running my life.

Then suddenly my flip phone died, and I was beamed up into

deals—anything at all which may be coveted. We do not

the modern world. My wife and I promptly found ourselves

bid the phones to come to us; rather, the phones bid us

at an ATT store, where we picked out a sleek black SE, and

seductively to approach them.

signed a service contract. My new phone was activated, and I timidly learned how to use it. The marvelous capacities of the device were quickly evident, and my eyes and forefinger were inexorably drawn to the ever-shifting screen, which obeyed my every swipe and tap. The excitement induced in me by my new gadget may be described as a blend of three swirling emotions—a child’s joy as he unwraps his gifts on Christmas morning—the flabbergasted awe of a tribesman when, for the first time, he sees a photograph of himself—and, more to the point, Gollum’s obsession with his “precious” love—Gollum, Tolkien’s wretched, stunted creature, who found the One Ring that was forged by the

A grimmer Nazgul clutching at us through our phones is

materialist

philosophy,

which

reduces

human

consciousness to a matter of neural synapses and (soon, why not?) A.I.’s gigabytes. Our mind is being manipulated by algorithms in nano-circuitries conjured by other minds. We photoshop our images, excising blemishes from perception as though our souls were irrelevant or did not exist. “Friending” is conflated with friendship. Our profiles and posts on social media have replaced the real us, with our wrinkles and bad breath and insecurities. We must understand, more imperatively than ever,

Dark Lord Sauron.

that we were made in the image of God, and the single,

A smart phone is a kind of ring of power. It connects us to

only through the blood of Jesus Christ.

the World Wide Web, whose silken strands make us quiver even as they ensnare us. The phone provides access to knowledge, which is power, and, like a genie, it allows us instant gratification, our every wish its command. One touch, and our groceries are ordered and assembled, without ever

necessary, consequential upgrade to our lives is possible

Sensuality, too, is in hot pursuit of our attention. A smart phone opens the portal to Internet porn, and leads to dark, digital tunnels, much like the mines of Moria, which crawl with online sexual predators malevolent as orcs. Proverbs

handling a cart. We can listen to music and commentary,

warns: “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines

read books, watch videos and play video games, make bets,

the course of your life.” Even a mighty wizard like Gandalf

translate languages, get directions, look up the weather and

feared to descend the depths of Khazad-dum, where dwelt

stock prices and slow-cooker recipes, gossip, touch base,

the demon of the netherworld.

and rage against the universe, all without lifting our heads. We use our phones “from a desire to do good,” and yet. . .

The darkest Black Rider is idolatry, and the most innocuous in appearance—for what could be more harmless than a

Lest we lose ourselves in their spell, remember that the nine

selfie. Ah, the deceptions of the devil, nurturing narcissism

rings of power given to the race of Men were subservient

one photo at a time. By taking a selfie in front of the Grand

to the One Ring, worn and wielded by Sauron, he of the

Canyon or Lincoln’s tomb, are we presenting our smiling

evil red eye which never slept. In our day, we try not to

faces as larger in significance than history, and more

think overmuch about evil, and instead of sinister names

attractive than nature itself? A selfie says to the world: “FYI,

like “Sauron” and “Saruman,” our modern masters call

world, you’re only the background—I’m the glory.” Is that

themselves Alphabet and Apple and Amazon, words which

not the essence of idolatry—the substitution of ourselves or

have a nice, well, ring to them.

of something else for God?

How can we be sure that when we use our smart phone,

Google has acquired your personal data, knows your

it isn’t the phone actually using us? Every time we unlock

shopping habits, your proclivities, your whereabouts.

the screen, what manner of Ringwraiths do we alert and

Google tracks your comings and goings, through six-minute

unleash against ourselves?

traffic delays, hotel reservations, and tip amounts at your

Consumerism is one such enemy of our souls—the antithesis of the tenth commandment. Annually, when Apple introduces its latest iPhone model, lines of shoppers show up to trade in their old phones for the new, fancier ones— even though the old phones work brilliantly, and have not been utilized to their full potential, or been completely paid

favorite diner. Your identity and privacy might appear to be at the mercy of corporate hands, yet it is God, ultimately, who numbers our days (Psalm 139:16). God counts the hairs on your head (Luke 12:7). God sends us a notification whenever a sparrow falls from the sky, even when we silence our spirit’s notification function.

for. As consumers, we are drawn to cool features and funky

I look at my iPhone SE now with some bewilderment. My phone

colors and larger screens and multiple lenses and better

is plainly in my hand. Do I hold my faith as firmly, I wonder?

SID E B Y S ID E

Global Update Marilyn Enstrom

Christmas came early to Papua New Guinea this

Thinking someone was breaking in, she woke Ben.

year! After a devastating loss, College Church

They went to the living room where they saw fire

missionaries Ben and Mandy Pehrson are praising

coming up through their porch. Ben quickly ran

God for his mercy to their family through the

and woke up son Jacob and daughter Jenny Beth.

generosity of his people.

They all escaped in their pajamas just as the house went up in flames. The Pehrsons lost their house,

It happened just a few days after the Pehrsons

two vehicles (one of which was an all-terrain ve-

returned from the U.S. to PNG, where they have

hicle for the very difficult, rutted, often muddy,

served for many years. At 3:45 a.m. on July 13,

roads and stream crossings in PNG), a Honda 90

Mandy was awakened by the sound of lumber fall-

all-terrain motorcycle, two cellos, a violin, guitars,

ing to the floor at the opposite end of their house.

all their computers, cell phones, passports, credit cards, cash in three currencies,

books,

digital photo and home video drives, recipes,

clothes,

shoes, food, appliances, linens, cookware...basically everything. The task of replacing lost items was daunting.

PNG

underdeveloped, so many goods are not available within the country. In addition, shipping items to PNG is difficult and very expensive. But God’s people rose to the challenge of helping the Pehrsons

replace

many of the things they lost. Some per-

The items were sent to College Church and then repackaged in boxes which could be shipped to PNG. In just over one month, more than 300 items were purchased and shipped. In addition, monetary gifts were donated to assist with the high cost of shipping items safely to PNG. The Pehrsons have been overwhelmed by the outpouring of love and care demonstrated through the generous gifts of God’s people. And we have had the privilege of being a small part of what God is doing through the Pehrsons to bring God’s Word to Papua New Guineans, resulting in sonal and sentimental things could not be replaced, and the

changed lives and transformed communities.

heartache of that loss was great. But members of College

The Pehrsons still need funds for big-ticket items such as

Church and the other consortium churches were able to pur-

vehicles. To donate funds to the Pehrsons, you can access

chase hundreds of items from an Amazon “wish list” creat-

their GiveSendGo page: https://www.givesendgo.com/

ed for Ben and Mandy to use to communicate their needs.

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ANGELIC CHAT ON THE ANNUNCIATION By Thomas Gaenzle

Gabriel, tell me once again That deepest treasure offered men I long to glimpse that unseen thing1 Love deep beyond astonishing Michael, The High One bowed—got small The Everlasting, The All in All In a girl called Mary He cocooned The All of Love in her—marooned Gabriel, explain this thing called grace This deep love for the human race He loves us angels who He owns If we rebel, He then disowns Michael, such love must mystify How can He love when they defy? How can their dismal hopes suffice Without some Richer Sacrifice? 1 Pet 1:12b (CSB) “These things have now been announced to you through those who preached the gospel to you by the Holy Spirit sent from heaven—angels long to catch a glimpse of these things.” 1

I BELIEVE

My story, as is true of us all, is a story of God and his grace. Though raised in a Christian family, I intentionally rejected Jesus when I was 19 years old. Yet now at age 37, here I am, loving Jesus as my Lord and my Savior and planting a church to spread his gospel further in west London. Let me tell you the story. I was raised in south-west London in a loving Christian home. We went to a good local church. I understood and knew the gospel. I would have said I was a Christian. However, none in

God’s Unsettling

my friendship circle at school were Christians and, as teenage years came along with parties and girls, they exposed an idol, and I desperately did not want to be left out. I led two lives in my teens. I attended church as little as possible, while partying with my friends but not going as far as they did. In

Dave Seckington

this tension, I felt great guilt and frustration. I blamed God. Why did it have to be so difficult? Why didn’t he just save us all from the start? Why was it so wrong to party? At 18, I left for university in Sheffield, northern England. Now, away from home, my involvement in church was utterly up to me. I kept a Bible by my bed, but I don’t remember opening it. As I made non-Christian friends at university, the tensions, guilt and frustrations in my heart and mind increased, until at the ripe old age of 19, I vividly remember hitting a wall and thinking, “If I believed in Jesus, I would want to live his way. I don’t want to live his way, so I must not believe. I am finished with this!” Perhaps somewhere deep down, I thought I could come back to it. Looking back, what is scary is how hard and how quickly my heart hardened. I took step after step into sin, feeling more and more comfortable, and within months I lived like any other unbeliever. I had no desire to open the door again and talk about Jesus. Through university and my first jobs, I pursued my desires and got them—friends, popularity, women and a cool job working in football [soccer]. My life became a quest constant adulation and popularity, and my entire moral system deteriorated as I pursued those goals. However, in God’s grace, he did not let me remain in the domain of darkness. In fact, all through these years of my rebellion, he kept speaking into my life in various ways. There was the year I found myself serving on a Christian summer camp. Another time, I was at a conference with my family that was all about heaven and hell, and all throughout, my parents lived out their consistent faith as they followed Jesus. In my mid-twenties, I had much of what I thought I wanted. Yet I was not satisfied. Nothing went dramatically wrong, but God became to unsettle me. I particularly remember times lying in bed at night, vividly aware that I was living solely for popularity, and it had taken over my life, so that I had lost track of what I believed about anything. I knew I was lost, and I was scared.

Right at this time, God brought a young Christian named

others from Europe, Asia, Africa, the Caribbean and other

Rupert into my life. He wasn’t some amazing evangelist—

nations. We believe the best way to reach these people is the

he simply asked me if I wanted to watch football some

gospel going forward through the local church. We hunger to

time. I found myself saying yes after many years of running

see God unite a diverse family together in his Son. So, we are

miles from Christians. And a few months later I met his

starting Shepherd’s Church, for Shepherd’s Bush. We have

friend Malcolm at a Christmas party. Malcolm asked if we’d

nine core team members and recently launched a weekly

like to read the Bible together some time. I said yes and

Bible study with 15 people coming. College Church has been

simultaneously thought, “I can’t believe I just said yes!” We

an amazing support to Malcolm, Karis and now Anna and me

started meeting at 8.30 on a Sunday morning for an English

through these years, for which we are enormously grateful.

breakfast and to read Colossians. I could ask Malcolm any question and the three of us always had a good time and a few laughs. I started to go back to the church they were at, which was also my parents’ church, where I used to find the

It is an amazing story of God taking a rebellious sinner to now planting a church to share his gospel with the nations—all praise to him!

music and sermons especially powerful. It was no different now. As I tried to sing words about Jesus and his love for us, I wept, knowing the reality of my years of running from him. And then the sermons were like a knife to my now softened heart, as though God was speaking directly to me. After six months, on one particular Sunday, the preacher spoke on John 20, when Jesus appears to Thomas, and says “stop doubting and believe.” Those were the final words I needed. I knew I didn’t doubt anymore, and that I had a choice. Either hold on to what I had (which I knew was empty) or repent, put my faith in Jesus’ death for my sins and start following him. I knew I would lose much of what I had built up, but it was a no-brainer. Plus it was Mother’s Day, which my mum took as a deeply generous gift from God. That was nine years ago, and I have never looked back.

This year’s Christmas Store will take place on Saturday, December 9. There are several ways you can help. • You can give a gift to the Outreach Christmas Store. Online gift registries: Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/mte7268u Target: https://tinyurl.com/4a5rhv39 Drop off gifts here are College Church on: December 7 • You can give a gift to Outreach to help cover costs for the Christmas.

Malcolm and his wife, Karis, started a new church just a few

• You can volunteer on the day of the event.

months later, which I joined. It started with seven people in

Let’s all pray that this year’s Christmas Store reaches a great number of families and helps point them to the best Christmas gift ever, Jesus.

one living room which meant I was very involved and known. God also started chipping away at my idol of popularity immediately. I had many occasions I had to choose between Jesus and man, and Jesus grew me hugely through these times, including the mistakes. Two years after the church started, Malcolm approached me about training in pastoral ministry. He had some funding and thought it could be a good next step. I said yes, completed the seven years of training, and am now the associate pastor at the church. The church has grown enormously in these years, from seven to more than 150 people from 20 nations. We praise God for all of it. I also married my wife, Anna, in 2019, who I met in the music team. We moved to Shepherd’s Bush in west London and God has increasingly burdened our hearts for our area. There are over 50,000 people living here and, from our estimates, only 100-150 mature Christians to reach them. Residents come from some of the hardest-to-reach nations on earth including Syria, Somalia, Iran and Iraq. There are

LOCA L L Y S OUR CED

Post-Banquet Perspectives Sarah Lindquist

I have been incredibly encouraged by my involvement

people, the highest number ever in Caring Network’s 42

in Caring Network, so I was excited to attend its annual

years of ministry] as well as hundreds participating online,

banquet on October 19. I loved hearing about the

in a state that is one of the leading abortion providers.

ministry, seeing pro-life friends at the banquet and

Dr. Ben Carson was at the same time brilliant, funny, and

making new pro-life connections. There is nothing like

humble. But it was the small children on stage with their

hearing from clients who chose life for their children,

mothers who reinforced the purpose of the evening—

gaining confidence and support they needed to parent.

saving lives, two at a time.”

Stories of clients accepting Christ and turning back to him are amazing.

the abolitionists in his talk at the Caring Network banquet.

The evening banquet featured Caring Network staff that

He was happy that those committed Christians then didn’t

included Rev. Michael Wright, its president Kirt Wiggins

respond to their critics with ‘I believe that slavery is wrong,

and vice-president, Denise Winkelmann, three clients

but I respect your choice to disagree, and to continue

with their children and their pregnancy consultants. All shared the vision and impact of Caring Network, including stories of clients who have come to faith. The keynote speaker, Dr. Ben Carson, brought his pro-life perspective

considering and treating black people as subhuman.” Until those courageous Christians worked tirelessly to abolish that prevailing and inconvenient so-called belief about black people, slavery was considered good and was legal.

that developed in his youth and medical career.

Aren’t we in a similar spiritual battle today? Shouldn’t we

Caring Network provides free pregnancy services such as

the unborn are fully human?” —Paul and Elin Klauke

pregnancy tests, ultrasounds, consultations, resources and referrals, gospel witness, as well as support and counseling for post-abortive women and men in our community. They do not receive any government funding but rely on donations to serve the community. The annual banquet provides a significant portion of the Caring

be doing everything in our power to convince people that

This was Kaye Waugh’s first Caring Network banquet. “It was wonderful to meet the great people behind this organization. What really stood out to me were the testimonies of the three young women that were helped, cared for and assisted by Caring Network. These young

Network budget.

mothers contemplated abortion because they were

Dave and Julie Sohmer were some of the College Church

intervention of Caring Network, mothers and babies are

members who attended the banquet. “We always love

alive, well, cared for and loved.”

attending the banquet to hear the stories of women who choose life and to see the precious children that were saved. Julie and I leave feeling inspired and motivated to continue our involvement in this incredibly important work,” commented Dave.

Paul and Elin Klauke liked how “Dr. Ben Carson mentioned

confused, shamed and had nowhere to go. Through the

In August, Caring Network did the most ultrasounds in a month ever. They served the largest number of abortion minded clients per quarter. For two quarters, a record number of women chose life. A fundraiser for a new downtown Aurora pregnancy center took place and a center

For Jim and Janet Vanne, the banquet was an unforgettable

build out accomplished. Caring Network staff established

evening. “It was both shocking and encouraging at the

medical linear service models for future locations and an

same time to see the banquet hall at capacity [1,400

additional doctor joined the medical staff.

With its 18 abortion clinics, the largest number of abortions happen in Chicago. Caring Network’s goal is to go where the need is greatest—in areas with abortion clinics but without local pregnancy centers. Caring Network prioritizes reaching clients with targeted marketing online—and 61% choose life when visiting Caring Network prior to an abortion clinic. Caring Network equips clients to choose life by overcoming barriers, holistic care connecting them to housing, employment, food pantries, medical care and

sanctity of human life

a network of emotional and spiritual support through

CARING NETWORK BABY BANK DONATION CRIB

local churches and individuals.

Shannon was in an unstable relationship with her boyfriend when she found out she was pregnant. Concerned about being tied to him in the future and worried about finances, she scheduled an abortion. Before her abortion, she came to Caring Network where she spoke with a pregnancy consultant. When she saw her baby by ultrasound, she was very moved. Shannon stated that her main concern was being able to afford caring for a baby as a single mother. Her consultant provided her with community resources and pointed out her strengths, empowering her to choose life for her baby. Shannon said, “You’re right. I can do this. I’m going to cancel the (abortion) appointment.” Praise God!

“I support Caring Network because years ago, when our children were young, my sister worked for CareNet in Westmont as director of development and public relations,” relates Sue Phillip. “We became increasingly convicted about the dignity and value of every human life, from conception to natural death. Caring Network’s Restore program for abortion recovery is a wonderful ministry for which there is tremendous need. There truly is hope, healing and restoration from our tender, merciful heavenly Father for those who have experienced abortion. The Caring Network banquet is a wonderful evening of fellowshipping with like-minded friends and hearing the update of Caring Network news of the past year. To see how the Lord has provided for so many is truly his amazing grace. I am honored and privileged to support Caring Network.” This year’s banquet theme verse was Proverbs 24:10-12, “If you faint in the day of adversity, your faith is small. Rescue those who are being taken away to death; hold back those who are stumbling to the slaughter. If you say, ‘Behold, we did not know this,’ does not he who weighs the heart perceive it? Does not he who keeps watch over your soul know it, and will he not repay man according to his work?” How can we be a blessing to this crucial ministry? How can we put faith into action in this day of adversity to rescue those who are stumbling to death? Be a Connections support group for a mother who has

Before leaving, she said, “Thanks so much. You really helped a lot. I want you to know that the work you do here is important. It helped me and I know it has helped a lot of other women.” “Caring Network helps mothers be able to see the life that is inside of them, their baby. If I am able to save a life by helping bring items that are donated to the Baby Bank Crib, items needed by mothers that choose life, that makes me happy to know I am playing a small part of their choice to choose life for their baby.” —Brockton Diebold NEED: Diapers, wipes, baby lotion, shampoo and wash, diaper cream and formula Sunday, December 3, outside the Sanctuary For the rest of December, donation crib will be near the Commons reception desk. Scan the QR Code for Amazon ordering. Select “Church of the Resurrection’s Gift Registry Address” for where to ship.

mother. Work at Caring Network as a career, volunteer at

PRO-LIFE ACTION LEAGUE CAROLING ACROSS FROM PLANNED PARENTHOOD AURORA

their office, or support the Restore after abortion clients.

Saturday, December 16, at 9 a.m.

Donate financial support so Caring Network can open

Planned Parenthood 3051 E. New York Street, Aurora

centers strategically in Chicago neighborhoods where the

www.caringnetwork.com/facility-volunteers

SOHL will participate in Pro-Life Action League’s “Peace in the Womb” Caroling Day, bringing the Christmas message of peace and joy to the darkness of the abortion clinic. Join as we sing our favorite carols reminding abortion-bound mothers that the salvation of the world came through an unplanned pregnancy!

www.caringnetwork.com/donate

prolifeaction.org/event/dupagecaroling2023

chosen life or become a Journey one on one mentor to a

abortion numbers are among the highest. www.caringnetwork.com/connections-journey www.caringnetwork.com/careers

December at the Bookstall FEATURED TITLES FROM

BIBLE READING

BOOK OF THE MONTH

Reading Between the Lines, Volumes 1 & 2

Sunday Matters

by Glen Scrivener

A new devotional for Sunday

by Paul Tripp morning to help prepare our hearts

Glen Scrivener provides an OT

for worship with the body of Christ.

volume with 181 readings and a NT

Designed to help us cast away all

Volume with 184 readings. Glen’s

the things that easily crowd our

devotionals draw out little nuggets

minds on a Sunday as we get ready

that help tug our hearts toward Jesus. When combined these two volumes provide nearly a year of daily readings Bookstall Price: $10 each

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KIDS The Green Ember

BIOGRAPHY

by S.D. Smith

War and Grace

This is a captivating fantasy

by Don Stephens

about brother and sister

This is a series of shorter

rabbits, Heather and Picket.

biographies focusing on soldiers

Their normal lives turn

of the World Wars. Some were

into adventure as they find

converted to Christ during the

themselves in a new world

wars and all were used of Christ

with new friends, defending

in unique ways. This is a great

a kingdom they only heard about in stories. Will they be able to save their family? How will they best serve the heir to the throne? Bookstall Price: $12

Christmas gift for veterans and those who love history. Bookstall Price: $12

UNDER THE RADAR It’s no fun to hear about an event after the fact. That’s why we feature Under the Radar. If you know of a local event that includes College Church members or attenders or may be of interest to them, email connections@college-church.org with the details and we may be able to include your event in this space.

How Great Our Joy

Ukrainian Slavic Christmas Concert

A Suzuki Strings Christmas Concert

HIGHPOINT CHURCH, WHEATON

EDMAN CHAPEL, WHEATON COLLEGE

December 5 | 5 p.m.

Saturday, December 9, 2023 | 10 a.m. Admission is free for this family-friendly event Community School of the Arts violin, viola, cello, bass, and guitar students ages 4 through high school will perform familiar Christmas favorites such as “How Great our Joy,” “Joy to the World,” and “Ding Dong Merrily on High.” csa.wheaton.edu

Farmhouse Guided Tour KLINE CREEK FARM December 8, 17, 22 | 10AM – 4PM Join us for a guided tour of the 1890s farmhouse focusing on winter holiday traditions. Learn how farm families decorated the tree, exchanged gifts, and prepared food for the holidays. Suggested admission donation: $5 per person ages three and up to enter the farm.

Camerata Chicago 2023 Handel’s Messiah December 15 | Chicago December 16 | Wheaton December 17 | Naperville Our Annual festive family-friendly series of the Messiah Part I Christmas Portion by Handel and sing-along Hallelujah Chorus with the Camerata Chicago Orchestra and Choir and four world class soloists. For tickets and information visit www.cameratachicago.org

Christkindlmarket Aurora RIVEREDGE PARK, 360 N. BROADWAY, AURORA December 18-20 | 11 a.m.-7 p.m. Christmas Eve | 11 a.m.-4 p.m.

Illumination: Tree Lights at the Morton Aboretum November 18, 2023 through January 6, 2024.

Marvel at how light transforms a magnificent landscape.

The Shocks of Giving Anonymous When I was a kid, and even into my early adult years, the gifts I received at Christmas were more of the focus than the gifts I gave to others. I am not proud of that, but it’s true. I knew the saying “It’s better to give than receive,” but I didn’t know it was based on Scripture. Honestly, I imagined its application in life to encourage people to give bigger and nicer presents to, you guessed it, me. I think it takes some kind of shock to upend that perspective into the opposite Christ-like perspective. The first such shock came when a family member became critically ill. He didn’t want a home health nurse to come to him. He didn’t want his brother, or medically trained friend of the family. He wanted me. This was a shock. I had no idea because in many ways we had not been close. But as he grew closer to death, he wanted to see me more. I grew to understand that just my presence near him was a gift, better than any gift I could send to him.

whose church attendance was hit or miss. The next afternoon, the neighbor wife and mine chatted in the backyard while the kids napped. She could tell my wife was unusually tired and grouchy, so my wife explained about the meeting. We were shocked that the neighbor was intrigued by the polity. The idea that we had a say and that the money we gave funded our church rather than a myriad of other things within a denomination sounded fresh and appealing to her. She described the money-raising tactics and strategies she had always known within her church. Her description was not positive, and her tone was almost envious that we had such a church. We began to see giving to our church as a unique gift and privilege. Our church isn’t funded by an outside denominational government. It’s just us. That turned out

The second shock was when I met my wife. I started to think of gifts to give her especially at Christmas. My perspective shifted from focusing on what I wanted to what I want to give to this person I love. With children entering our lives, of course, the shift is even greater. Gifts for me didn’t matter anymore and gifts to her or our children took on a whole new meaning and significance. Even then, the giving began to shift not to “my” wife or “my” children, but to them as individuals apart from me and eventually shifting over to family projects where we give money or time or presence to people and situations apart from us.

to be an opportunity for gospel witness we never would

The third shock came about church. We had a contentious congregational meeting that felt like it went on too long and was divisive over budget issues. Our Roman Catholic neighbors who were Notre Dame grads and loyal RCs

I can do better in giving to the church. Sometimes I still

have expected. The longer I live the more I believe that I’ll always receive more than I give. It’s true with God—no matter how much I give, nothing will ever come close to the incarnation, crucifixion, resurrection and ascension of Jesus. The free and full gift of surrender. We give because of his gift. But also, the church is our eternal family, so just as I give good gifts to my earthly children, I long to give and take special joy in giving gifts to my heavenly family—the church.

can feel selfish, but God gives me little shocks here and there to make things right and focus my heart on the family of heaven.