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Founded in 1986, the Law Offices of Paone Zaleski & Murphy is an experienced matrimonial law firm located at 120 Maple Avenue in Red Bank. This boutique law firm exclusively handles complex divorce and highend family law matters, including child custody, child and spousal support, domestic violence, equitable distribution, post-judgment actions, and more. All three partners with the firm are Certified Matrimonial Law Attorneys, which designation signifies that they demonstrate sufficient levels of experience, education, knowledge, and skill in family law; have passed a rigorous examination; and have been recognized by their peers as having sufficient skills and reputation in family law. Only 186 lawyers in the State of New Jersey are certified matrimonial law attorneys.
John P. Paone, Jr., Esq., the founding and managing partner of the firm, has over 40 years of experience in family law. Mr. Paone has worked with
hundreds of families and has held leadership roles in a variety of professional organizations, including but not limited to serving as a Diplomate of the American College of Family Trial Attorneys and Past President of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers New Jersey Chapter. Mr. Paone has received many accolades throughout his distinguished career in law, including but not limited to the International Academy of Trial Lawyers Award for Outstanding Ability in Courtroom Advocacy, Family Lawyer of the Year, and the New Jersey State Bar Association Family Law Section Tischler Award.
Paone elaborates on what his office has to offer: “I think the best quote about family law clients is that we are representing the very best people who are going through the worst times of their life. That combination sometimes clouds their judgment, and they are relying upon you to help. As family law attorneys, we are in the business of helping people.”
Cassie Murphy, Esq. is a partner with the firm and a resident of Red Bank. Among her many accolades, Ms. Murphy received the Martin S. Goldin Family Law Award for excellence in the practice of family law. Ms. Murphy was admitted as a Fellow to the American Academy of Matrimonial Attorneys New Jersey Chapter. The Academy is the most prestigious divorce and family law bar association in the nation. Most recently, Ms. Murphy was elected as Secretary of the Family Law Executive Committee of the New Jersey State Bar Association for the 2024-2025 term.
Paone adds, “One of the most important skills our attorneys bring to the table is being able to correctly assess a case and following through by being honest with the client about the strengths and weaknesses of the case.”
A Red Bank staple and prestigious institution, the Law Offices of Paone Zaleski & Murphy are here for Monmouth County.
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There is no way around it — we are in the depths of the coldest and darkest months of the year, a time when a lot of folks end up feeling down. While it may be tempting to book a plane ticket to a warm island, that can also be pricey. The good news is you can shake those winter blues while staying right here in Monmouth County. Sure, it can take a bit of effort, but there are several strategies that can help lift your mood and boost your energy during the colder, darker months. Here are some tips:
• Maximize daylight exposure: Spend time outdoors during the day, even if it’s just for a walk. Sunlight helps regulate your circadian rhythm and boosts serotonin levels. Take a brisk walk down the boardwalk in Asbury Park to remind yourself that the beach is still there, and summer is just around the corner.
• Use light therapy: Consider investing in a light therapy box, which mimics natural sunlight and can help fight Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD).
• Exercise regularly: Physical activity releases endorphins, which improve mood. Even a daily walk, stretching, or home workout can help. Plan a hike through one of Monmouth County’s many parks in order to work up a sweat and keep yourself ready for bathing suit season.
• Try indoor activities: If it’s too cold outside, consider indoor options like yoga, dance, or fitness classes.
3. Socialize and Stay Connected
• Maintain social connections: Loneliness can worsen the winter blues, so make time for socializing, whether in person or virtually. Even a quick chat with friends or family can lift your spirits. With the holidays in the rear-view mirror and the busy days of the summer still far away, now is a great time to plan a day with friends as most people’s calendars are wide open. Plan a group outing for all ages at a fun spot like iPlay America in Freehold.
• Engage in hobbies or group activities: Join a class, book club, or any activity that interests you to keep your mind engaged and positive.
4. Eat Nutritious Foods
• Eat mood-boosting foods: A balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins can help maintain stable energy levels and improve mental well-being.
• Vitamin D: Lack of sunlight can lead to vitamin D deficiency, which has been linked to depression. Consider a supplement if needed (but consult with a healthcare professional first).
5. Practice Self-care
• Create cozy rituals: Enjoy warm drinks, scented candles, reading, or listening to soothing music. These small comforts can make winter feel more enjoyable.
• Get enough sleep: Proper rest is crucial for mental health. Stick to a consistent sleep schedule and make your bedroom a relaxing space.
6. Set Small Goals and Stay Productive
• Break tasks into manageable steps: The dreariness of winter can feel overwhelming, but accomplishing small goals can give you a sense of purpose and control.
• Stay organized: Use this time to declutter or take on projects you’ve been putting off, as accomplishing tasks can improve your mood.
7. Embrace Winter Activities
• Enjoy winter sports: If you’re open to it, activities like skiing, snowboarding, ice skating, or even building a snowman can make the season more fun.
• Get creative: If you’re indoors more often, try creative pursuits like crafting, painting, or baking, which can be both therapeutic and rewarding.
8. Consider Professional Support
• If you’re feeling consistently down or struggling to cope, it may be helpful to speak with a therapist. They can offer support and coping strategies tailored to your needs.
• By focusing on self-care, staying active, and finding ways to enjoy the season, you can beat the winter blues and feel more energized and positive.
Middletown Mayor Tony Perry is in a unique position. When you think of sister cities in New Jersey, you may think of a town that you can drive to within an hour – perhaps like New Hope, Pennsylvania and Asbury Park, New Jersey.
Mayor Perry, on the other hand, went international. This week, Middletown, New Jersey, officially became symbolic sister cities with Ofakim, Israel.
“I’ve been on the [Township] Committee now for eight years, and I’ve been the mayor for seven of those years,” Perry notes. “It’s been very different over the course of these seven years, as I was sworn in before
the pandemic hit. You fast forward until now, and now we’re having international agreements signed here in town hall. It’s been an extraordinary privilege for me.”
The process of this international agreement began in January of 2024. “I traveled with a bipartisan delegation made up of legislators, educators and superintendents, and we traveled three months following the tragic events of October 7,” Perry explains.
The delegation then spent 47 hours on the ground meeting Ofakim residents – a town hit particularly hard by the attacks on October 7. Perry reflects: “To be on the ground was much different than what
you can see on the news or read in newspapers. You get a whole new perception of things. It’s a perspective that you feel a ton of emotion in the moment.” In the 12 months since the visit, Perry says that he now has an emotional tie to the visit and to the images that he saw, but what resonated with him most was the people. “What inspired me was the hope and perseverance of people that I got to meet in that short window of time.”
Perry says that 2024 was a monumental year for him, not just politically, but personally, due to the immense amount of travel he was able to experience. He treasures the different ideas and perspectives that he was able to experience and bring back home. One such perspective was that of Mayor Itzik Danino, the mayor of Ofakim, Israel.
“When I got to meet Mayor Danino in his town hall, despite the fact that there was a language barrier between the two of us, the emotional ties we had felt had transcended language. I shared in his grief, and there was an instant connection.”
Following this fateful connection, Perry began toying with the idea of a sister city agreement with Ofakim, attributing it in part to Middletown and Ofakim’s size similarity. With the Jewish Federation of Greater Metro West, the agreement was formed, and in January, “We sealed a bond forever by affixing our names to that agreement to a packed room.”
Perry lauds Middleton’s commitment to its international relations. “Middletown has never been shy about taking a stand on an issue and being at the forefront – being a leader. We want to guide and be an active voice in the state of New Jersey. Why not take the step of welcoming a foreign leader to our town? It doesn’t happen often, especially on an international scale with towns our size – but when has that stopped Middletown?”
This global agreement wasn’t the only milestone for Middletown in the past year. Back in 2020, vot-
ers of Middletown voted to increase the open space trust fund for the first time in more than 20 years. The vote passed overwhelmingly, though Perry says that at the time, many were curious as to the specifics of the funding, wondering what exactly was going to be increased. Perry is ecstatic with the results, however: “In 2024, the people of Middletown truly began to see what that investment began to accomplish – that’s going to continue in 2025.” The open space trust fund permitted the dedication to preserving tons of land in Middletown, from River Plaza to Riversink and everywhere in between.
Historical land was preserved as well. The Murray Farm House, the home of Joseph Murray, an American executed by the British in 1777, was once endangered of falling into the history books, with massive repairs needed. Now, the farmhouse has been restored. “That
was because of the investment we made from our open space trust fund.”
More open spaces were utilized, opening a new skate park, a new dog park, and assuring the forever preservation of the Conover Beacon on Leonard Avenue. Additionally, several acres of land were purchased on River Plaza in order to aid pedestrians, as well as students and teachers on their walk and commute to school. “These funds are dedicated to, and cannot be spent on anything else, for purchasing open space, restoring historical landmarks, and enhancing our recreational facilities,” Perry explains.
There’s much more for Middletown residents to expect in 2025 too.
“We put a big push on the celebration of America’s 250th birthday.” Between the town and the county, events have begun to be held for the momentous anniversary, beginning in 2024
and continuing in 2025, with a large priority placed on events in 2026. “There will be a designation of certain sights and signage so that Middletown and Monmouth County can celebrate our rich history. Future generations will be aware of the role that we played in the Revolution.”
Another advent Perry is excited about that will begin early this year is the Middletown volunteer program, which offers rebates for the massive volunteer force of firefighters, OEM, and EMS in Middletown. “We want to say thank you to the men and women who dedicated nearly 75,000 hours in 2024 for incident response.”
Middletown residents have plenty to look forward to in 2025 here in New Jersey – but with the accomplishments of the town, the implications are now international.
QUESTION: My nose is always stuffy, worse on one side. And not only that...I am told by my spouse that I snore loud! What can I do?
ANSWER: Your best bet is a full evaluation by an ENT specialist who can determine what is causing your nasal obstruction and the most effective treatment. Often, once the nasal breathing is restored, the loud snoring is then diminished or even eliminated. There are several steps necessary for a thorough exam:
HISTORY: Questioning the patient about previous trauma to the nose and also anything that may cause chronic swelling inside the nasal cavity like recurrent sinus infections, allergies and overuse of intranasal sprays such as Afrin.
EXAM: Fiberoptic scope of the nose and throat to look for septal deviations, polyps, abnormal enlargements of other intranasal structures, and draining secretions which can be cultured. Check the external nasal structure for cartilage collapse that can result in a valve obstruction. Also allergy tests, home sleep studies and CT scans if indicated.
TREATMENT: Customized to the patient’s cause of obstruction. Can be as simple as a regimen of intranasal and oral medications or more complex involving surgical procedures.
ADVANCED SURGICAL TREATMENT: The latest techniques allow for quick recovery, no bruising, more precise repairs and open breathing immediately after surgery. Technology has improved with the use of 4K camera/monitors and microscopic visualization, laser guided infrared navigation and new methods and instrumentation for septum repair, turbinate reduction, valve collapse reconstruction and sinus blockage. Rhinoplasty techniques have also advanced and can often be performed at the same time if there are external nasal cosmetic concerns.
Name:
Nicole Goldsmith
Title: Teacher
Place of Employment: Oceanport
Town of Residency: Oceanport
Name: Michael Ballas
Title: Patrolman
Place of Employment:
Tinton Falls Police Department
Town of Residency: Avon-by-the-Sea
Q: What do you love about teaching, and what keeps you coming back each day?
A: My favorite thing about teaching is that every day is different. In my role as the gifted & talented teacher, I have the opportunity to work with kids from kindergarten to 8th grade and even though that is challenging, it is NEVER boring! What keeps me coming back each day is that I love to watch kids LEARN — grasp new concepts, see their curiosity, or help them work through frustration or struggle with an assignment. When a student achieves their goals, accomplishes something they thought impossible, or even gets a good grade on a project, their pride and confidence in themselves is what brings me back each day.
Q: What is the most challenging thing about working with kids?
A: I have been a teacher since 1994, and the most challenging thing in teaching in 2024, is still the same. Meeting kids where they are, each child is so wildly unique that building relationships with students takes time and trust. Every teacher knows that when a student and a teacher have a good relationship, the student will work harder for that teacher.
Q: What was your own school experience like as a kid? Did you enjoy school?
A: I loved school as a kid and I still do! If I could be a professional student, I would! I grew up in Marlboro, NJ, and had some amazing teachers who were role models for me. I still think back to some of my teachers from Central School and I know that the reason I still remember them is because of how they made me feel as a kid. I knew they cared about me.
Q: If you could add one new subject that every kid would have to take in school, what would it be and why?
A: I love this question! I would add a class on executive functioning. This is an area that I see students continually struggling with, even adults have challenges with managing time, maintaining focus, task switching, and emotional regulation. This is all a by-product of being raised in an environment with technology and social media.
Q: What is the most important thing that your students have taught you?
A: The most important thing that my students have taught me is that learning should be FUN! Kids are naturally curious beings, we, teachers, need to design our lessons so that our students can engage with new concepts and materials. Student-centered learning is important! Integrating hands-on lessons, using student voice and choice, and project-based activities that require critical thinking and inquiry are ways that I can engage students and make learning fun for them.
Q: What initially made you want to be a first responder?
A: I’m fortunate to come from a family of service. The Ballas family has served in the Armed Forces over the last five generations. After the completion of my military service, I wanted to continue to serve in law enforcement. I would also like to throw a shout out to my brother, Rob, who’s active-duty Army in Ft. Riley, Kansas right now.
Q: What do you find to be most rewarding about this kind of work?
A: Unfortunately, there are people in the community who have no one to turn to except us, whether it’s as simple as a lift assist, solving a crime that they’re a victim of or connecting with their kids who might be struggling. Just letting people know they’re not alone and that we are here to help them is a great feeling.
Q: What is the hardest aspect of the job?
A: Finding a work-life balance is a struggle. We work long, constantly changing shifts that can take a lot out of you physically, mentally and emotionally. This being said, your loved ones make a lot of sacrifices too when you’re constantly at work –you have to be present when you’re with them.
Q: Do any aspects of the job ever scare you?
A: For sure, but if you spend the time to train and never get complacent, you’ll be okay. Honestly, the most frightening thing to me is letting down the guys and girls I work with.
Q: What was your most memorable experience on the job so far?
A: I’ve been lucky enough to make several close friends over the last six years. This job can be extremely difficult, but when you surround yourself with good people it makes showing up to shift after shift way easier. We have some of the most outrageous experiences together and to me, that’s what life is all about.
BY RYAN LOUGHLIN
Of all holidays, few come with as much built-in pressure as Valentine’s Day. There are all kinds of expectations, and much time can be spent trying to figure out the perfect spot to celebrate with your sweetheart. While you can always tweak the details surrounding it, dinner is always going to play a big part in the evening. And with that in mind, here’s our list of recommendations for whatever type of V-Day dining experience you are looking for.
The Classic Valentine’s Day
When you are looking to go the classy and elegant route to impress your significant other on Valentine’s Day, you know the drill for the paint by numbers version – dozens of roses, maybe a sparkly piece of jewelry (bonus if it comes in a Tiffany blue box), Godiva chocolates, and, of course, dinner at a spot where a fabulous dress is more the norm than the exception. Monmouth County has an assortment of options for this kind of Valentine’s Day.
Right off the bat, we love Charlie’s of Lincroft for their fabulous menu of contemporary American dishes and craft cocktails served in an elegant upscale atmosphere. (CharliesofLincroft.com)
If fab French cuisine is more your speed, Pascal and Sabine in Asbury Park offers a romantic setting in the heart of the downtown area, where you can indulge in classics like escargot and one of the best charcuterie boards in the area before heading down Cookman Avenue for a nightcap at any one of the many bars that line the block. (PascalAndSabine.com)
And if you are looking for a spot to turn up the heat on your romantic evening, it’s tough to beat 618 in Freehold, which was named one of the most romantic restaurants in the country by OpenTable.com two years in a row. They offer a
brilliant and creative approach to familiar dishes (pear-stuffed pasta anyone?) and one of the most innovative cocktail menus you will find outside of NYC. Speaking of cocktails, from 6:308:30 p.m. Wednesday, Feb 12, 618 will host their Valentine’s Day Cocktail Class. Attendees will learn from 618’s master mixologists, mixing up three unique love potions, including 618’s “Be Mine Cocktail.” Light bites and a goodie bag are included. $99 per person. (618NJ.com.)
While the majority of your Valentine’s gaze may be aimed directly into each other’s eyes, one can’t help but assume that a lovely view can only enhance your perfect evening. Few can top what Rooney’s in Long Branch has to offer in that department, with the sweeping oceanfront seascape visible from just about everywhere in their gorgeous restaurant. Live jazz and some of the freshest seafood money can buy make this spot an absolute bullseye for Cupid’s arrow. (RooneysOcean.com)
The Modern Valentine’s Day
Classic charm has its place, but to really add a touch of electricity and excitement into your Valentine’s Day, you can’t
go wrong with a spot that’s on the cutting edge. We can’t think of a good reason not to head to AP Rooftop, the newest, hippest and sexiest addition to the McLoone’s army of restaurants. Panoramic views of the beach, the boards and the city, sleek modern design elements and a playful menu combining everything from seafood and steaks to Italian dishes and creative cocktails, AP Rooftop sets a chic tone for any Valentine’s date. (APRooftop.com)
Or head across town to Hadaka , a super-exclusive sushi spot offering a special Valentine’s Day Omakase experience that is sure to impress. The 12-course option is $85 per person, while the 18-course version is $135 per person and both come with complimentary champagne toast, chocolate covered strawberries and dessert included. (HadakaNJ.com)
Whether you’re recently dumped, willfully single (and NOT particularly looking to mingle), or simply in possession of a deeply personal gripe with Cupid himself, you certainly aren’t alone. Plenty of folks aren’t onboard with all the sugary-sweet, lovey-dovey stuff that makes up a traditional Valentine’s celebration, and that’s ok. But a Friday night is a Friday night and there is still every reason to go out. That said, you may wish to avoid the flocks of lovebirds that will surely be painting the town as red as a heart-shaped box of Russell Stovers, so we have included a few places that should suit your anti-Valentine’s vibe just fine starting with nobody’s pick for Valentine’s Day — Windmill!
AP Rooftop
Not that we don’t absolutely love their incredibly delicious hot dogs and chili cheese fries (lord knows we do!), but we can’t imagine you’ll be running into that much sexy time down at the local Windmill location, which makes this a perfect spot to hit up on V-Day if you are looking to pretend the holiday doesn’t exist. And should you happen to fall in love at first sight with the guy slinging dogs on the grill, consider that fate in its truest form. (WindmillHotDogs.com)
For the ladies, Meximodo in Metuchen will be hosting their official Galentine’s Day event from 7-10 p.m. Thursday, Feb. 13, which features a 4-course dinner with guac, ceviche, choice of entrée and dessert as well as cocktail pairings for each course for $69.99 per person. Tickets must be purchased in advance. Grab your gal pals and forget about what’s-hisname for a night. (Meximodo.com)
Wednesday, February 12, 2025 7:00 PM 10:00 PM
5 Pearl Street Metuchen, NJ, 08840
Avoid the hassle, long waits and rush of the holiday –Reserve a special dinner with your Valentine at Meximodo! Join us for a delicious four-course dinner, perfectly paired cocktails sponsored by Patron, and fun giveaways throughout the night. This event will take place in the beautiful ambience of our Rose Room mezzanine, so tickets are limited.
Get your tickets here!
www.meximodo.com/events/p/love-without-rush
BY EMMA SYLVIA
It’s the season of love all around the country, and there’s nowhere better to celebrate than here in Monmouth County. Need an idea for what to do this Valentine’s Day? There are plenty of offerings across the county, with more than just a dinner to be had this February 14…
One of the most iconic locations in New Jersey is the Asbury Park Boardwalk. The Jersey rock sound was born here – and so can your love. Spend a day with your sweetheart enjoying all the town has to offer.
SHOP:
• Carla Gizzi - a vintage and locally owned store full of gifts, clothes, jewelry and accessories
• Asbury Galleria - a feature of authentic AP memorabilia
PLAY:
• Madame Marie - made famous by a line from The Boss, get your fortune told at New Jersey staple Madame Marie
• Silverball Retro Arcade - go back to the past in this arcade full of classic pinball machines and other retro arcade games
DINE AND DRINK:
• Iron Whale - an inventive take on seafood with a gorgeous ocean view
• Robinson’s Ale House - perfect for a quick lunch or night out, this iconic beachfront restaurant is right next to Convention Hall
Fall in Love at the Spa
Love is in the air at Kur Wellness Studios! This Valentine’s Day, give the ultimate experience – the gift of self-care and wellness. Here are some unforgettable ways to celebrate:
• Kur Couples Massages — Celebrate Valentine’s Day with side-by-side massages, where each therapist focuses on your individual needs. Schedule two massages of the same length, and we’ll connect the rooms with a special couple’s window for a memorable experience together.
• Kur Spa Day Packages — Want to give the ultimate gift to your loved one? Instead of a single service, consider giving 2.5 hours or more of pure bliss! Packages
like Perfect Touch, Spoiled Gentleman, or The Works provide a therapeutic massage, scrub or wrap with steam shower, and finish with a pampering and effective facial.
• Aromatherapy — Aromatherapy is the use of essential oils to manage health or boost well-being. Essential oils have been used for thousands of years to heal the mind, body, and spirit, returning the body to a state of equilibrium. A diffuser and specific oils or blends that match your goals can create a spa-like environment in your own home. Kur sells several ultrasonic diffusers and more than 20 essential oils and blends—perfect for gifting to a loved one this Valentine’s Day.
• Kur Gift Cards — Choose any denomination for a gift card that can be used for products, services, and gratuity. A gift card is always a great choice — it can be used anytime!
Kur Wellness Studios is located at 412 Bond St. in Asbury Park. KurStudios.com
Flowers
In need of a bouquet to treat your date? Look no further than Pantano Home & Garden in Holmdel. With an array of gorgeous arrangements available to be made by their floral designer, Travis, Pantano is able to take pre-orders and customize as needed. Rose arrangements are also available for preorder. Visit them for bouquets, as well as medium and large arrangements. Pantano Home & Garden is located at 161 Route 34 in Holmdel. PantanoOutdoorSupply.com
Need help finding gifts or something else for your special day with your love? Here’s a handy Monmouth County directory for all your Valentine’s needs.
Pantano Home and Garden 161 Route 34, Holmdel www.PantanoOutdoorSupply.com
Anna’s Flowers and Gifts 175 Monmouth Rd, West Long Branch www.AnnasFlowersAndGift.com
Freehold Flowers 10 W Main Street, Freehold www.FreeholdFlowersNJ.com
Boxwood Gardens Florists 807 River Road, Fair Haven www.BoxwoodGardenFlorist.net
Red Bank Chocolate Shoppe 17 White Street, Red Bank RedBankChocolateShoppe.com
The Caramel Shop 1215 Rt 35, Ocean Township Facebook.com/TheCaramelShoppe
River Street Sweets 550 Cookman Avenue, Asbury Park RiverStreetSweets.com
Suzi’s Sweet Shoppe 1100 Rt 35, Middletown www.SuziSweetShoppe.com
Asbury Fresh Valentine’sPop-Up Market at Porta (Noon to 4 p.m. Sun. Feb. 2 only) 911 Kingsley Street, Asbury Park • www.AsburyFresh.com
Bell Works Valentine’s Pop-Up Market (Noon to 4 p.m. Sat. Feb. 8 and 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. Wed. Feb. 12 only) 101 Crawfords Corner Road, Holmdel • www.BellworksFresh.com
Wolf Fine Jewelers 1580 NJ-35, Middletown www.WolfFineJewelers.com
Spring Lake Jewelers 1104 3rd Avenue, Spring Lake springlakejewelers.com
Bentley Diamond 1860 NJ-35, Wall Township bentleydiamond.com
The Papery of Shrewsbury 540 Broad Street, Shrewsbury ThePapery.com
The Paper Moon 315 Main Street, Allenhurst Instagram.com/thepapermoon
BY RYAN LOUGHLIN
It’s no secret that New Jersey is synonymous with great pizza. And while North Jersey often gets much of the credit for having the top pies, over the years the competition has stiffened, to the point where a valid argument could be made that Central Jersey’s pizza game is as strong or (dare we say) even STRONGER than that of our neighbors up the Parkway. The shore area in particular is a pizza powerhouse, but although there are many tasty slices to be devoured here, some spots still stand out among the greats. Here are our picks for the five best pizzas in Monmouth County:
The Sauce in Oceanport only opened a little over a year ago, but in a short time has made a big name for itself. Owner Jason Enger and his team are passionate about what they do and it shows. Quality is king here and it hasn’t gone unnoticed, as The Sauce up a finalist last year in the Asbury Park Press’ “Best Pizza at the Jersey Shore” tournament, (where they were narrowly edged out by another legend from this list, The Galley in Asbury Park.) Pretty impressive stuff for a pizza joint that only launched a few months prior. Their buffalo chicken pie is one of the best we have ever tasted and should absolutely be on your list of “must tries”, but if you are looking for a great local spot to order a classic plain pie on a Friday night, The Sauce’s is tough to beat. Paper thin crust tap-daces on the line between a classic pie and a bar pie, but is just thick enough to land on the side of the former, and the ratio of cheese to sauce is nailed masterfully. Order 10 of them for your next office party and be the hero of the day. The Sauce is located at 281 E. Main St. in Oceanport. Go to TheSaucePizzeria.com.
Until around 10 years ago the concept of a sesame seeded pizza was all but unheard of, but recently its taken off like a rocket, and by far the best local spot to grab one is at Esposito’s, which has locations in both Matawan and Manasquan. The dough is buttery and even the folks that generally leave the crusts on the plate can’t resist plowing right through one of these slices. They are available in a variety of topping combinations, and the best of them is the Vodka sauce Sesame Pie, which comes in swinging with a velvety vodka sauce that serves as a creamy change of pace from the more traditionally acidic tomato sauces you’ll find on most pies. The sesame crust gives the whole bite a pronounced bagel-y flavor, merging the best of both worlds in a way you never even realized you were missing out on. Esposito’s is located at 930 Rt. 34 in Matawan. Go to EspositosPizza.com.
In truth, we could have put just about any pizza from The Galley’s incredible menu on this list and it would have been a legit pick. This Asbury Park spot has become a destination pizzeria for many folks across the state and beyond thanks to its reputation for putting out some of the most consistently fabulous pies anywhere. We love everything from their bar pies to their pan pizzas — the “Station 83” with spicy salami, ricotta cheese, chili oil, fresh basil and Mike’s Hot Honey is something of a legend — but we gotta go with their Detroit-style pie for this list. A rectangular pie cut into six squares, it’s both doughy and crispy, with cheese right to the edge and a chunky tomato sauce that doesn’t fade into the background of the bite. And a small one is perfectly sized to feed two people, despite its relatively modest appearance. The Galley is located at 1313 Memorial Dr. in Asbury Park. Go to TheGalleyAsbury.com.
There is something undeniably old school about the vibe at Federici’s. This makes sense, as the Federici family has been operating restaurants in Monmouth County since 1932. The newest of the group (which includes the original Federici’s along with Frankie Fed’s — both in Freehold) is Federici’s on 10th which opened in Belmar in 2014 and serves a nearly identical menu to what you are used to from the Feds. Slide your way into one of their big, cozy booths and order up one of their signature brick oven piz -
zas (be sure to get a house salad too if you want to try the most delicious creamy Italian dressing of your life). The pizza here is the stuff of legend — the thinnest of thin crusts awaits and the crumbly charred edges make this pie nearly unbeatable. And when topped with pepperoni? Utter perfection. Federici’s has locations in Freehold and Belmar. Go to FedsPizza.com
Krispy Pizza’s legendary status began with their original shop in Dyker Heights, Brooklyn which remains one of the best pizzerias in the city. But Jersey was blessed when they began expanding to the Garden State, which now boasts four locations, including one in Freehold. They live up to their name as well, as you’d be hard pressed to find a crispier (Krispier?) slice anywhere. We love the Grandma pie, with its simple combo of mozzarella, basil leaf and one of the best sauces we have sampled anywhere. Krispy Pizza is located at 136 Schanck Road in Freehold. Go to KrispyPizza.com
BY RYAN LOUGHLIN
A roundup of new things happening at Monmouth County businesses.
A family-owned jewelry store which had been in the Monmouth Mall since 1973, Wolf Fine Jewelers has found a new home in Monmouth County. Their new luxury standalone store is now conveniently located at 1580 Route 35 South in Middletown NJ. Wolf is a custom jeweler, specializing in a one-of-a-kind products and offering a fabulous customer experience. A one stop shop for all jewelry and watch repairs, they also offer professional ear piercings. They are open Sunday from 11a.m.-3 p.m., Monday-Wednesday 10 a.m.-5 p.m., Thursday and Friday 10 a.m.-7 p.m. and Saturday 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Go to WolfFineJewelers.com or find them on Facebook and Instagram.
Freehold Montessori celebrates their silver anniversary
Freehold Montessori proudly celebrates 25 years of nurturing tomorrow’s leaders with a steadfast commitment to academic excellence, creativity, and character development. Serving students from 18 months through kindergarten, the school embraces the Montessori philosophy, fostering independent thinking, problem-solving, and a lifelong love of learning. Kindergarten graduates transition seamlessly into first grade, equipped with strong academic foundations and social skills. By creating a supportive environment, Freehold Montessori empowers students to discover their unique potential while promoting respect for others and the world. The school remains dedicated to preparing compassionate, confident, and capable leaders ready to thrive in an ever-changing world. Go to FreeholdMontessori.com
Asbury Park Roastery shutters popular location
Those looking to perk up with a latte or hot cup of coffee while strolling the Asbury Boardwalk unfortunately now have one less spot to do so. Asbury Park Roastery’s location inside Convention Hall has closed its doors after spending more than a decade in that location. Their last cup of Joe was served Dec. 29. Fans of the Roastery can still get their morning fix by heading to the shop’s other location at 803 2nd Ave. in Asbury Park. This is the second boardwalk location to close for the Roastery, who at one point also operated a location on the south end of the boardwalk as well. Go to APRoastery.com.
Heirloom changes format at the St. Laurent
Heirloom, a destination for foodies and one of the most celebrated restaurants in Asbury Park, has announced that it will officially rebrand its concept. The space, which opened in 2022 at the St. Laurent Hotel, will relaunch under current owners Neilly Robinson and David Viana as an Italian restaurant known as Judy’s, while the bar will be known as Harry’s. Both spaces are named after Robinson’s mother and father respectively. The menu at Judy’s will offer “Italian classics with a whimsical international flair,” according to a recent social media post. For more info, go to JudyAndHarrys.com
BY JUSTIN L. DRAZIN
Winter in New Jersey often brings icy sidewalks, snow-covered driveways, and slippery parking lots, creating hazardous conditions for pedestrians. Unfortunately, these conditions can lead to slip and fall accidents, often resulting in serious injuries such as fractures, head trauma, and back injuries. For victims seeking compensation, navigating a slip and fall lawsuit during the winter months presents unique challenges.
Slip and fall accidents during winter are often caused by:
• Ice Accumulation: Freezing rain, melting snow, and re-freezing overnight can create invisible layers of ice, commonly known as “black ice.”
• Improper Snow Removal: Property owners may fail to clear walkways, driveways, and parking lots adequately, leaving behind dangerous conditions.
• Clogged or Poorly Maintained Drains: When water accumulates and freezes due to clogged drains, it can create icy patches in unexpected areas.
• Lack of Warning Signs: Businesses and property owners are required to warn visitors of hazards, such as wet floors or icy patches. A failure to do so can increase the risk of accidents.
In New Jersey, property owners have a legal duty to maintain their premises in a reasonably safe condition to prevent injuries. This duty varies depending on the relationship between the property owner and the injured party:
• Invitees: Individuals invited onto the property for business purposes, such as customers, are owed the highest duty of care. Property owners must inspect for hazards and address them promptly.
• Licensees: Social guests are owed a moderate duty of care. Property owners must fix known hazards or provide warnings.
• Trespassers: Property owners owe limited duties to trespassers but cannot willfully create dangerous conditions.
During winter months, this duty often includes timely snow and ice removal and ensuring walkways are free of hazards. However, the law also accounts for practical limitations. For example, property owners are typically given a “reasonable” amount of time after a snowstorm to address hazardous conditions.
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To succeed in a slip and fall lawsuit, a claimant must prove that the property owner was negligent. This involves showing that:
• The owner knew or should have known about the hazardous condition.
• The owner failed to take reasonable steps to remedy the condition.
• The hazardous condition directly caused the claimant’s injuries.
2. Weather-Related Defenses
Property owners often argue that winter weather conditions are “natural accumulations” for which they cannot be held liable. For instance, if an accident occurs during an ongoing snowstorm, the owner may claim they were not yet obligated to clear the property.
3. Comparative Negligence
New Jersey follows a comparative negligence rule, which reduces a claimant’s compensation if they are found partially at fault. For example, if a claimant was not wearing appropriate footwear for icy conditions, their money damages may be reduced.
4. Evidence Collection
Preserving evidence is critical in winter slip and fall cases. Claimants must document the accident scene promptly, as conditions can change quickly due to weather or property maintenance efforts. Photographs, witness statements, and weather reports are essential in proving liability.
Slip and fall lawsuits during New Jersey’s winter months are complex, requiring careful documentation and a clear understanding of the law. While property owners have a duty to maintain safe premises, claimants must navigate weather-related defenses and establish negligence to succeed in their claims. Consulting an experienced personal injury attorney is crucial for victims seeking to recover damages for medical expenses, lost wages, and pain and suffering.
Justin L. Drazin is a personal injury and medical malpractice attorney, representing clients throughout the State of New Jersey. He grew up in Fair Haven and passionately represents his clients, like family, as Drazin and Warshaw has done for three generations.
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For more than 75 years, Drazin and Warshaw has worked tirelessly, treating every client like a member of the family to make sure they get the justice they deserve. Clients matter. Results matter. Trust matters. When you need help, call Drazin and Warshaw.
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Expanding on its successful Kids for Conservation Program, Monmouth Conservation Foundation (MCF), the county’s only nonprofit land trust, has announced the donation of the MCF Conservation Wagon by the Ray Catena Auto Group, Edison, N.J. for delivering environmental education programs throughout Monmouth County.
“Ray Catena has graciously funded the MCF Conservation Wagon – a Sprinter Cargo Van – allowing us to bring important conservation programming to students and residents of Monmouth County, with a particular emphasis on reaching our most underserved communities,” says MCF Executive Director William D. Kastning. “Topics will complement school lessons with activities that demonstrate the importance of green space and how each of us can create positive change and build hope for a sustainable future.”
Beginning in spring 2025, the new MCF Conservation Wagon will be available for community events, environmental fairs, and park and school visits throughout Monmouth County. Educational programming via the Conservation Wagon will align with MCF’s land preservation mission and include themes such as restoring biodiversity and ecosystem function, employing natural climate solutions, and taking individual action to create climate resiliency.
“We support organizations that focus on families and their well-being. This vehicle will support Monmouth Conservation Foundation’s environmental education initiative, which in turn benefits Monmouth County communities,” says Ray Catena.
Prioritizing underserved communities, the MCF Conservation Wagon is envisioned to be a free service at qualifying schools, municipal parks, and community events, and, secondarily, available on a fee basis for arranged school visits, field
trips, and private events. MCF is currently looking for sponsors and underwriters to help carry out this vision.
MCF is partnering with Monmouth University to create a lesson plan framework focused on the importance of green space, natural climate solutions, and individual action to create climate resiliency. MCF’s new Director of Educational Outreach, Doug Caum, will design public-friendly educational materials, based on these preK-12 lesson plans that meet New Jersey state standards.
To help deliver the educational programming, Caum will develop an intern and docent program of Conservation Wagon ambassadors. Students and families will ultimately participate in activities that teach actions they can take in their own home or backyard to promote the health of our environment, and in turn, improve the quality of our air and water and emphasize overall well-being and sustainability for the community – via the Conservation Wagon.
Caum will also deliver experiential learning programs for New Jersey educators as part of MCF’s work as a sub-grantee on the Expanding Access to Climate Change Education and the New Jersey Student Learning Standards (NJSLS) through Climate Change Learning Collaboratives (CCLC) grant awarded in 2024 to Monmouth University by the New Jersey Department of Education.
Future programming will involve interactive opportunities at and relating to MCF’s Scudder Preserve. MCF took ownership of the 90-acre natural site in Middletown, NJ, in April 2024, with plans to restore the natural habitat, enhance public access, and offer a living laboratory for educational activities.
To learn more, go to www.monmouthconservation.org/ wagon
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places to hang out with your pets this month and beyond
Convention Hall, Asbury Park — Love is in the air in Asbury Park, and Convention Hall is no different. This year, Friday, February 7 and Saturday, February 8, Asbury Park will be hosting their Valentine’s Bazaar. Bring your pet down to the pet-friendly Convention Hall for shopping, music, food, flowers, drinks and more! Wonder Bar, Asbury Park — Sometimes an evening out can only be improved with your dog by your side. This is a sentiment that Wonder Bar knows all too well. Customers are encouraged to bring their four-legged friend to Yappy Hour. With plenty of outdoor space, your dog can make new friends while you catch up with yours. Yappy Hour only operates when the weather cooperates, so check Wonder Bar’s Facebook page for updates in the Yappy Hour schedule. Wonder Bar is located at 1213 Ocean Ave N, Asbury Park. Wonderbarasburypark.com
Doggie Sweets Pet Cafe, Long Branch — Doggie Sweets is just the place to take your pup to spoil them for the day. Doggie Sweets’s specialty is their tasty dog treats, from frozen yogurt to baked goods. They host cafe events, so be sure to check their calendar to see if you can organize something special for your pup! They also host a food truck, allowing you to schedule them for parties and bring the festivities right to your dog! Located on 15 Morris Ave, Unit 119, Long Branch. doggiesweets.com
Birdsmouth Beer, Oceanport — An all-lager brewery located in The Commissary is dog friendly. Sit down for a beer in this cozy atmosphere, playing games with your friends and spending time with your leashed pet. Located at 674 Oceanport Way, Oceanport. birdsmouthbeer.com
Smokey’s Doggy Café, Keyport — OK, this place is truly for the dogs! Smokey’s Doggy Café offers dogs a fabulous place to hang with their humans and features an all-natural treat bar, Puppaccinos, Pawgaritas, Barkuterie boards, dog ice cream as well as a play yard! Humans are welcome to BYO food and drinks or have the option to order delivery from local restaurants. Smokey’s Doggy Café is located at 30 West Front Street in Keyport. SmokeysDoggyCafe.com.
The Hungry Puppy, Farmingdale — The Hungry Puppy may be a pet supply store first and foremost, but they also offer lots of fun events for your pet throughout the year. But one of our favorite things is their on-site free dog park, a great place to bring your dog to get those zoomies out in a fun and fenced environment. The park features two separate play areas as well as dog playground equipment for extra waggy tails! The Hungry Puppy is located at 1288 Highway 33 in Farmingdale. TheHungryPuppy.com.
The Jersey Shore Premium Outlets, Tinton Falls — Usually when you head to the mall, that means leaving your pets at home. But that’s not the case at the Jersey Shore Premium Outlets! Since the area is outdoors, dogs are welcome in all of the outdoor spaces, many of which are covered from rain. While the stores themselves may only allow service animals, it’s a great spot to go with the whole family. Let Mom run into one store while Dad and the kids hang with the hound. They even have a Starbucks onsite for extra good dogs to get their Pup Cups! PremiumOutlets.com
Winter can be tough on everyone, including your dog. While many pet owners focus on keeping their furry friends warm, grooming is often overlooked during the colder months. However, regular professional grooming is just as important in winter as it is in summer—perhaps even more so. Below, we explain why professional grooming in winter is essential for your dog’s health, comfort, and overall well-being.
Q: Why is professional grooming important for dogs during the winter months?
A: Winter brings unique challenges for your dog’s coat and skin. Cold, dry air can lead to flaky, itchy skin, while snow, ice, and road salt can irritate paws and fur. Professional grooming helps maintain a healthy coat, prevents matting caused by wet or snowy conditions, and ensures your dog’s skin stays moisturized and comfortable. Groomers can also clean and trim areas like the paw pads, which are particularly prone to collecting debris in winter.
Q: Doesn’t my dog need a thicker coat for warmth? Is grooming necessary?
A: While a dog’s coat provides natural insulation, regular grooming helps keep it in optimal condition for warmth. Matting and tangles can trap moisture, making your dog colder and more uncomfortable. Grooming removes loose fur, dirt, and debris, ensuring their coat functions as it should. A well-maintained coat provides better insulation and protection against the elements.
Q: How does grooming help protect my dog’s paws in winter?
A: Paws take a beating in winter from snow, ice, and road salt, which can cause cracking, irritation, or even cuts. Professional groomers can trim fur around the paw pads to prevent snow and ice buildup, apply protective balms, and ensure your dog’s paws are clean and healthy. Regular paw care reduces the risk of infections and keeps your dog comfortable during walks.
Q: What about bathing in winter? Won’t my dog get cold?
A: Bathing is still essential in winter, but it’s best to leave it to the professionals. Groomers use temperature-controlled water and drying techniques to ensure your dog stays warm and comfortable. Regular baths remove dirt, salt, and other winter irritants while moisturizing your dog’s skin, which is prone to dryness in colder months.
Q: Where can I find professional grooming services for my dog this winter?
A: Green Leaf Pet Resort in Oakhurst offers expert grooming services tailored to your dog’s needs. Our professional groomers use gentle techniques and high-quality products to keep your dog’s coat and skin healthy all winter long. From paw care to bathing and trimming, we’ll make sure your dog is cozy, clean, and comfortable.
Keep your furry friend healthy and happy this winter with regular professional grooming. Call Green Leaf Pet Resort at (732) 2720800 to schedule an appointment or visit greenleafpetresort.com/ oakhurst for more information. Give your dog the care they deserve this winter!
Pick
Zone 1 (Colts Neck/Holmdel Area):
Dearborn Market
Pantano Home
Giannis (Colts Neck)
Colts Neck Pharmacy
Prima Pizza
Zone 2 (Rumson/Fair Haven Area):
Atlantic Eye (Little Silver)
Slices of Hope (Little Silver)
Shrewsbury Volkswagen
Shoprite (Shrewsbury)
Gianni’s (Red Bank)
Zone 3 (Jersey Shore Area):
Foodtown (Sea Girt)
Shoprite (Belmar)
Shoprite (Neptune)
Shoprite (West Long Branch)
Asbury Park City Hall
Zone 4 (Ocean Township Area):
Blue Swan
Sunset Diner
Gianni’s (Ocean)
All Seasons Diner
Atlantic Eye
Zone 5 (Middletown Area):
Shoprite (Middletown)
Booskerdoo (Middletown)
Foodtown (Atlantic Highlands)
picks for some fun nights out at
and restaurants this month
MONDAY, WEDNESDAY, FRIDAY and SATURDAY, all month long • 6 p.m.
Live music
Bar Anticipation, 703 16th Ave., Lake Como Bar-A.com
EVERY MONDAY (FEB. 3, 10, 17 and 24) • 7-10 p.m.
Pat Guadagno
Jamian’s Food and Drink, 79 Monmouth St., Red Bank JamiansFood.com
EVERY TUESDAY (FEB. 4, 11, 18 and 25) • 6 p.m. Irish Seisun
St. Stephen’s Green Publick House, RT 71, Spring Lake SSGPub.com
EVERY TUESDAY (FEB. 4, 11, 18 and 25) • ending at 10 p.m. Live music
Red Horse, 26 Ridge Road, Rumson (in the bar area) redhorsebydb.com
EVERY FRIDAY (FEB. 7, 14, 21, and 28) • 6 p.m. Live music
Atlantic Bagel Co (Atlantic Highlands)
Foodtown (Port Monmouth)
Brookdale’s Monmouth Museum
Zone 6 (Freehold Area):
Shoprite
Romeo’s Pizza
Manhattan Bagel
Rooney’s Oceanfront Restaurant, 100 Ocean Ave N., Long Branch RooneysOcean.com
FRIDAY, FEB. 14 • 5-8 p.m.
Charlie Brown
Deal Lake Bar + Co, 600 Main St., Loch Arbour DealLakeBarCo.com
SUNDAY, FEB. 16 • 7 p.m. (Doors at 6 p.m.)
Chris Pennella + 10-Piece Orchestra
Tim McLoone’s Supper Club, 1200 Ocean Ave., Asbury Park TimMcloonesSupperClub.com
THURSDAY, FEB. 20 • 8 p.m. (Doors at 7 p.m.)
High Fade
The Wonder Bar, 1213 Ocean Ave N, Asbury Park wonderbarasburypark.com
BY MAIA FRANCO
As we gravitate indoors during the cold winter weather, it can be challenging to keep children occupied and entertained on the weekends. If you are looking for indoor fun, for your kids or for the whole family, look no further!
Indoor Swimming
Winter is the perfect time to enroll kids in swim lessons and get some practice in before summer! Local swim schools include the YMCA in Red Bank, Goldfish Swim School in Middletown, and Five Star Swim School in Eatontown.
Ice Skating
There is no winter activity quite as nostalgic and quintessential as ice skating! Local ice rinks offering free skate include Jersey Shore Arena in Wall, Red Bank Armory, Middletown Ice Arena, and Howell Ice Arena.
Liberty Science Center
Looking to bring the family somewhere educational and fun? The Liberty Science Center in Jersey City has more than 20 exhibitions offering immersive educational experiences. Additionally, the Liberty Science Center is home to America’s largest planetarium! Admission to the center starts at $26 per child per day.
Indoor Trampoline Parks
With trampolines, jungle gyms, and ball pits, SkyZone in Tinton Falls and UrbanAir in Hazlet have hours of high-flying fun to offer. Check their daily schedules for prices and gym hours.
Bowling
Get the whole family together for some bowling fun! Whether you put the bumpers up or leave them lowered for
an extra challenge, bowling can provide a little bit of friendly competition for everyone!
Indoor Playgrounds
Jungle Jim and Jane in Atlantic Highlands offers arcade games, ball pit games, and climbing structures. Admission pricing for children ranges from $10-$20 per child, depending on a child’s age. An indoor playground offers a fun and warm environment to stay active!
iPlay America
Looking to bring out your competitive side? iPlay America in Freehold offers fun for the whole family. Visit iPlay America for laser tag, indoor mini roller coasters, arcade games, and more, and you can grab a bite at their new restaurant The Bistro afterwards.
Indoor Rock Climbing
Gravity Vault in Middletown has lessons and open gym sessions for children and adults. Learn to climb safely and belay your friends, all while getting in a subtle, full body strength training workout.
Color Me Mine/Time to Kiln
There is nothing like creating an art project that you can use at home. Color Me Mine in Freehold and Time to Kiln in Red Bank offer paintable pottery that can be picked up once fired. Both establishments offer appointments and parties for crafty kids and adults.
Library Storytime
For children four and under, check your local library’s website for storytime events! Having stories read at the library can promote literacy and increase socialization with other little ones.
Located near downtown Nashville, Belmont University has released its Dean List – many students of which are Monmouth County locals. They include:
Owen Flynn of Middletown
Mira Casriel of Highlands
Andrew Breen of Middletown
Denise Cherchio of Colts Neck
To earn a spot on the coveted Dean’s List, they must achieve a quality grade point average of 3.5 with no grade below a C, as well as a minimum course load of 12 hours. “Earning a place on the Dean’s List is an accomplishment that reflects the dedication, talent and resilience of our students who maintain competitive GPAs while concurrently making lasting contributions at Belmont and beyond,” said Belmont University Provost Dr. David Gregory. “These scholars have gone above and beyond, matching rigorous academic schedules with robust extracurriculars including volunteerism, student organizations, athletics, the arts, and more. It gives me great joy to acknowledge the dedicated students who embody what it means to seek excellence, academically. Their achievement is a testament not only to their hard work and intellectual aptitude but also to Belmont’s high academic standards and commitment to student success.”
Do you want to send us a student success tip? Please e-mail to info@communitymagazinenj.com
Closed Listings – Represented Seller
37 Beaver Dam Road, Colts Neck | $1,850,000
220 Doe Trail, Morganville | $1,500,000
461 Marl Road, Colts Neck | $1,475,000
Cannonade Drive, Marlboro | $999,999
Braeburn Drive, Lincroft | $910,000
Osprey Drive, South Amboy | $826,000
State Route 34, Colts Neck | $805,000
46 Berkshire Drive, Howell | $720,000 2121 Highway 35, Holmdel | $600,000
711 Northstream Drive, Toms River | $502,000 21 Helene Court, Tinton Falls | $462,500 Closed
Outsail Avenue, Barnegat | $611,990
Sweetmans Lane, Millstone | $605,000
Highway 35, Holmdel | $600,000
Childbirth options have expanded significantly in recent years, giving expectant parents a variety of choices based on personal preferences, health needs, and the type of experience they seek. Below, find an overview of some of the most common options, including home births, birthing centers, hospital births, and pain relief.
A home birth typically involves delivering the baby at home with the assistance of a midwife and possibly a doula. It is generally preferred by families seeking a natural, low-intervention birth in a familiar environment. Philomena Doula Care in Red Bank, NJ can help expecting mothers prepare for their home birth.
PROS:
• Comfort of being at home.
• Less medical intervention.
• More control over the birth environment and experience.
• Emotional support from family and partners.
CONS:
• Limited medical support in case of emergencies.
• May not be an option for high-risk pregnancies.
• The need for careful planning, including having a licensed midwife and emergency protocols in place.
• Limited pain relief options, including breathing techniques, water immersion, massage, and hypnobirthing (a technique based on relaxation, visualization, and breathing exercises to manage pain without medication)
BY MAIA FRANCO
Birthing centers are designed to provide a middle ground between home births and hospital births. They often offer a more relaxed, home-like atmosphere, but with professional medical oversight, such as midwives, doulas, and some medical equipment. TRU Birth Center in Lakewood, NJ offers complete pregnancy and birth care through doctors and midwives.
PROS:
• Less medical intervention compared to hospitals.
• A more personalized, supportive environment.
• Continuity of care with midwives or doulas who are involved in prenatal, labor, and postpartum care.
• The possibility of water birth and other natural birthing options.
CONS:
• Not suitable for high-risk pregnancies.
• Some centers may not be equipped for complex medical situations or emergencies.
• Limited pain relief options compared to hospitals
Hospital births are the most common choice and offer a medical setting with the availability of doctors, nurses, anesthesiologists, and specialized equipment. This is often the preferred option for high-risk pregnancies or women seeking access to more intensive medical care. Monmouth Medical Center has been awarded a high performing maternity hospital by US News in 2025.
PROS:
• Immediate access to medical care, including pain management and emergency interventions, such as c-sections.
• Access to a wide range of medical professionals, including obstetricians, neonatologists, and anesthesiologists.
• Option to choose between natural birth or an epidural.
CONS:
• More medical intervention
• Less control over the birth environment.
• Hospital policies and procedures may limit flexibility in the birth experience.
PAIN RELIEF — Hospitals offer a range of pain relief options:
• Epidural anesthesia: Provides pain relief during labor and delivery.
• IV pain relief: Medication can provide temporary pain relief.
• Nitrous oxide: Often available for pain relief in hospitals.
• Spinal block: Used for cesarean sections or other specific procedures.
• Natural methods: Hospitals can also support non-medical pain relief techniques like water immersion, breathing exercises, or massage.
• TENS Machine: A small device that uses electrical impulses to help with pain management. It’s used on the back or other parts of the body.
Ultimately, the choice of birthing option depends on the mother’s health, the pregnancy’s risk factors, and personal preferences. It’s crucial to discuss your options with a healthcare provider to ensure the safest and most comfortable experience for both mother and baby.
EVERY SUNDAY
Beats & Crafts with DJ Ghost Gardner
Join Ghost Gardener Studios for a lo-fi, lowkey craft night at The Asbury Hotel every Sunday.
The Asbury Hotel 210 5th Ave, Asbury Park
7pm - 10pm
For more information, visit theasburyhotel.com
EVERY TUESDAY
Bingo at the Pig and Parrot Sandbar
Head down to the Pig and Parrot Sandbar every Tuesday for weekly bingo.
Pig and Parrot Sandbar
201 Union Lane, Brielle 7pm - 10pm
For more information, visit thepigandparrot.com
SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 1
The Tempest
Your last chance to see Two River Theater’s Little Shakespeare production of The Tempest.
Two River Theater 21 Bridge Ave, Red Bank
For more information, visit tworivertheater.org
Make Your Own Vision Board
Join Monmouth Beach Yoga and Wellness’s Krista Lynn to make your vision board for 2025 and manifest a great year for yourself.
Monmouth Beach Yoga and Wellness 36 Beach Road, Suite 10, Monmouth Beach 12:30pm - 2:30pm
For more information, visit mbyogaandwellness.com
WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 5
Wondrous Winter Walk at Manasquan Reservoir
Brave the cold and explore Manasquan Reservoir on this winter walk. Manasquan Reservoir
311 Windeler Rd, Howell
10am - 11:30 am
For more information, visit monmouthcountyparks.com
THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 6
Open Mic Night at Twin Lights Brewing Join Twin Lights Brewing for their open mic night, featuring musicians, poets, and comedians.
Twin Lights Brewing 4057 Asbury Ave, Tinton Falls 6pm
For more information, visit twinlightsbrewing.com/events
SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 8
17th Annual Cupid’s Chase 5k
Visit Lake Como for their 17th annual Cupid’s Chase, with all attendees having the opportunity to fundraise for their community.
Lake Como, 1740 Main St, Lake Como 10am - 12pm
For more information, visit runsignup.com/Race/NJ/LakeComo/ CupidsChase5KLakeComo
SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 9
Valentine’s Day Brunch with the MCSPCA
Celebrate your pet this Valentine’s Day with an auction and buffet brunch to benefit the MSPCA.
Navesink Country Club
50 Luffburrow Lane, Red Bank 11am - 2pm
For more information, visit monmouthcountyspca.org
MULTIPLE DATES, FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 14SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 23
Spring Lake Theatre’s The Prom
Join The Spring Lake Theatre for the hit, heartwarming comedy “The Prom”.
Spring Lake Theatre
300 Madison Ave, Spring Lake
For more information, visit springlaketheatre.com/current-season
MULTIPLE DATES, SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 15 - SUNDAY MARCH 9
Two River Theater’s Dial M For Murder
Head to Two River Theater for their performances of the murder mystery play Dial M For Murder.
Two River Theater 21 Bridge Ave, Red Bank
For more information, tworivertheater.org/whats-on/ dial-m-for-murder/#dates-tickets
SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 15
Manasquan Beach Fun Run
Participate in the 21st Annual Manasquan Beach 2 Mile Fun Run/Walk, with donations welcome.
Leggetts Sand Bar
217 1st Ave, Manasquan 11am - 3pm
For more information, visit runsignup.com/Race/NJ/Manasquan/ ManasquanMidWinterBeachRunWalkParty
Max McNown at Asbury Lanes
Head to Asbury Lanes for live music featuring Max McNown. Asbury Lanes
209 4th Ave, Asbury Park 8pm
For more information, visit asburylanes.com
THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 20
High Fade at the Wonder Bar
Visit the Wonder Bar to see High Fade perform on their Life’s Too Fast Tour. Wonder Bar, 1213 Ocean Ave N, Asbury Park 8pm - 11:45pm
For more information, visit wonderbarasburypark.com
FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 21
Afternoon Victorian Tea
Enjoy full Victorian Afternoon Tea at Mathis House to celebrate Valentine’s Day. Mathis House, 600 Main St, Toms River 11am
For more information, visit mathishouse600main.com
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BY EMMA SYLVIA
For most high school students, just getting through the school day and the homework afterward is enough work. But that doesn’t fly for Thomas Clark, a life-long resident of Little Silver who is currently enrolled as a senior at Marine Academy of Science & Technology (MAST) in Sandy Hook. Clark has a full schedule, but all he can talk about are the pros –and he’s here to encourage all students to consider the highlight of his high school career: NJROTC.
“Applying to MAST was for academic interest. I love the ocean and being outside. I’m an avid sailor,” he says. Clark is the president of MAST’s National Honors Society (NHS), wherein he organized the school’s first ever blood drive (an event the school will be repeating this upcoming spring). Proficient in math and science, Clark also works as a peer tutor, as well as volunteering for the town as a fire cadet. What Clark emphasizes as the crux of his time at MAST, though, is NJROTC.
NJROTC, standing for Navy Junior Reserve Officers Training Corps, is a program funded by the US Military, but it’s not aimed at recruiting.
“They help give the cadets opportunities to be in charge of things and learn directly from people with military experience,” Clark explains.
With about 300 members at MAST, all marine science and tech-focused students have to participate in NJROTC.
Clark explains that he was initially intimidated by his introduction to MAST, especially as he was beginning his high school education during COVID.
“I was a little scared; all I knew was that I had to put a uniform on. But I’ve come into my own. Now, I’m in charge, and I always tell people that NJROTC is about what you put into it.”
Clark further elaborates that the military isn’t just about fighting. “I talk about this a lot with people that aren’t super interested in the programs. It doesn’t really fit the mold all the time for people that are focused on that.” Clark lauds the program and its true purpose — making people better individuals.
NJROTC emphasizes responsibility, with opportunities to be put into positions one might not have initially considered.
“You get a taste of a leadership position that helps you in the long run. It’s a helpful push that sparked my interest.” There’s also a striving for attention to detail, as the cadets are inspected each week. Clark denounces the idea of it being pointless, saying: “We learn honor, courage, and commitment. We take opportunities for ourselves. We stay committed to our obligation.”
An average day for a cadet at MAST involves waking up at 6 a.m. and then meeting with naval science instructors. Cadets will later get inspected (on a uniform day). With a block schedule, students finish the day — except Clark stays later, practicing with the drill team, which competes both locally and nationally, with MAST placing highly for the national level last year.
Clark, a reflection of NJROTC’s diligence, already has his plan for college.
“There’s the college program, ROTC. It’s at a lot of universities. I myself have committed to the naval academy in Annapolis, Maryland. I’m excited to be able to go there and continue my interest and simultaneously get one of the best educations.” Shortly after high school graduation, Clark will head to the academy to start plebe summer, essentially a boot camp.
“It’s very difficult, but I’m excited,” he insists. “It’s going to be good to further my educational experience.”
When asked about the stress of the NJROTC program, Clark thinks that it’s entirely worth it.
“A lot of universities love it, it shows that we’re committed to our country and are willing to sacrifice our personal time for something that isn’t always appreciated. It sets you up for success,” Clark says.
“For example, part of my job is giving speeches. I’ve had to get used to public speaking, and now it’s something I love. If you said that to me in eighth grade, I would’ve said you’re crazy. But the program gives you the tools.”
But would Clark trade the program
for a more lax high school experience?
“Absolutely not; I wouldn’t trade it. The program has given me opportunities I never would have had,” he says, emphatically.
One such opportunity was participating in the leadership academy at a naval station in Newport, RI. As one of the members of the platoon, he was taught additional sailing and leadership skills from former navy personnel. Later, he was able to return and oversee an entire platoon. “It was such a unique experience that really prepared me well for the future. Nowhere else is that trust put in someone.”
“I had 33 parents counting on me to make sure these kids learned and had a safe time. That’s what it comes down to — a lot of parents are scared. But getting to lead and be an example to those students is something I really hold dearly.”
There’s an end piece of advice from Clark that he offers to students: “At the very least, we’re in difficult times. A lot of people have preconceived notions about what the military is. I’d say keep an open mind for students and parents and get involved. Let your kids get involved and know about opportunities like this.”
BY EMMA SYLVIA
EZ Docks Unlimited Marine Construction, based in Belford, NJ, is here for you every step of the way when designing and laying out your dock. When aiming to complete your next big project, they’re here to make the job both easy and perfect, while ensuring longevity for your enjoyment for years to come.
One such example of their work is the Colony House, an apartment complex in Red Bank. EZ Docks Unlimited Marine Construction was brought in to remove and replace the existing bulkhead that was nearing the end of its useful life, as well as build a high end 1,670 square-foot waterfront deck enabling the property to capitalize on and enhance its gorgeous waterfront view. The project was completed in August of 2024.
Eli Newman, the VP of Development at Signature Communities, who are the owner/operators of the Colony House, lauds EZ Docks’s involvement.
“This was a challenging job. It wasn’t a job for every contractor out there. It was tricky, there was existing drainage, grade changes and some tight spaces near neighboring properties that needed finesse.” Newman explains. “Rick [Hibell] and his team’s expertise and professionalism were critical to the success of the project. Additionally, we had zero complaints from our tenants about the work going on, which isn’t common. The entire EZ Docks team was a pleasure to work with.”
Newman goes on to highlight the property itself, including the massive upgrades that breathed new life into the building as well as adding many new amenities. “The waterfront amenity is unique as it has the best views of the Navesink Riv-
er, which is really maximized with the deck and new bulkhead. Our landscape designer Melillo Bauer, Carmen, designed it to be really something special – one of a kind. The breathtaking views, functionality, and tranquility – it all came together beautifully. It is gratifying to see our residents and their guests enjoying it – the granite and porcelain grill station, fire tables for cooler weather, chaise lounges, dining and entertaining furniture on the waterfront deck, dog park, hundreds of stunning plantings, a sound system, tons of seating and free wi-fi, of course. Interestingly, shortly after the space opened, we had a wedding group show up unannounced at the space to use the amenity for a photo shoot!”
Newman elaborates that EZ Docks’s work set the stage for them to be able to cultivate the potential of the space, calling the 13,000 square feet of visible space a “waterfront paradise”.
Rick Hibell, Founder and Operator at EZ Docks Unlimited Marine Construction, is proud of the work done at the Colony House. “We built it very heavy duty for years of use,” he says. “We were part of transforming the entire space with them, requiring barge work in the water and heavy equipment on land. It was a project you finished and went ‘wow.’ It’s nice to be connected to something like this. The bulkhead and the deck were the key to everything we did there. We don’t just build docks – we’re part of the whole puzzle.”
Interested in applying for available apartments? Visit www.colonyhouseredbank.com
To learn more about EZ Docks, visit www.ez-docks.com
Middletown Township held its annual reorganization meeting on Sunday, 1/5. Tony Perry, who was elected in November, was sworn into the Township Committee to serve his three-year term.
The Township Committee selected Tony Perry to serve his seventh consecutive year as mayor, making him Middletown’s longest serving mayor in over 75 years. Rick Hibell was also chosen to serve as deputy mayor for his fifth consecutive year. The duo is the longest-serving mayor and deputy mayor leadership team in Middletown’s history.
Christine Hanlon from the Monmouth County Clerk’s
Office led the Pledge of Allegiance and Father Jeff Kegley of Saint Mary, Mother of God Church performed the invocation. The 2025 Middletown Township Fire Department and Township of Middletown EMS chiefs were also sworn in by Mayor Perry. The meeting ended with volunteers from various boards, committees, and commissions reciting their Oath of Office.
Editorial credit:
Middletown NJ Town Hall Facebook page
Photo credit: Patrick Olivero
Congratulations to Lincroft’s newest culinary destination, Falcone! This historic building, one of the oldest in Lincroft, now proudly houses a restaurant dedicated to serving authentic, homemade Italian cuisine. It was an honor for Mayor Perry to cut the ribbon and welcome Falcone to Middletown as they prepare to serve the community with their incredible flavors.
The Highlands Business Partnership’s 13th Annual Chili Cook Off fundraiser will be held on Sunday, February 23, 2025 from 3-7 p.m. at the Saltwater Social, 128 Bay Ave., Highlands, NJ. Tickets are $40.00 and include samplings of chilis, two beer tickets and two voting ballots. There will be performances by bag pipe bands and Daly's Irish Dancers. All proceeds will benefit the Highlands 2025 St. Patrick’s Day Parade, taking place on March 22, at 2 p.m. There will be two Chili Cook Off contests. The Professional Cook Off (commercial) will begin at 4 p.m. sharp and the Amateur Cook Off (residents) will begin promptly at 5 p.m. Once the attendees have tasted all contestants’ chili, they will vote for their favorite and drop their ballot in the ballot box. The results will be tallied, and the winners will be announced at 6:00 p.m. Prizes will be awarded to the winner of each contest. In addition to the People’s Choice, there will also be an independent panel of judges.
at a temperature of 180 degrees.
Chili tasting cups, spoons, and napkins will be provided. Contestants must bring their own fixings, such as cheese, scallions or any other garnish they wish to present with the sample. Contestants should arrive at least 30 minutes prior to the start of the contest to set up. There will be a maximum of 12 Amateur Chili Cooks (residential) and 12 Professional Chili Cooks (Commercial).
There is a $10 entry fee and you are required to pre-register and make a minimum of 5 lbs of chili. Chili must be presented in a sanitary crock-pot or similar pot and served
To compete, you must register at https://highlandsnj. wufoo.com/forms/ro1bckd09og7vv/
For tickets, go to https://highlandsnj.wufoo.com/forms/ x1143gq00px174y/
tlantic Highlands Council President Brian Dougherty and Councilman Jose Pujols were officially sworn in to office on Jan. 1. Congressman Frank Pallone was on hand as well to do the honors. Congratulations to both! Credit: Atlantic Highlands Democratic Club Facebook page
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