Sequins. Metallic. Plaid. Oh yes!

The stockings are hung, the food is ready, the presents are wrapped and the outfit is … wait, the outfit? Cue the Home Alone “frantic” scene. The one on the airplane when we realize we forgot a child, frantic.

Okay, okay, that may be a little dramatic. But girl, I get it, we can all relate. Whether it’s the chaos of feeling like you left a child behind, having so much to do and so little time, or putting together the holiday wardrobe — it’s that time of year where the holly and jolly is front and center, our merry and bright is high, but the hustle and bustle is overwhelming.

Holiday parties here, school performances there, family celebrations and date nights all equate to late nights and early mornings.

Tis the season. The season of “what do I wear for all of this?”

For starters let’s just accept the fact that the diets are gone, m’kay? So let’s wear and buy clothes we will feel confident in, regardless of whether or not we have that dessert. Because dang, who can say no to dessert? Hint: it’s not me.

So rule number one: dress to be comfortable and confident. Dress like you. If you do not like sequins, don’t feel obligated to wear them just because “tis the season.” Girl, if wearing hot pink makes you feel good, wear that pink.

Which leads me to rule number two. The rule is: there are no rules. Dress like you. The key to dressing for the holidays is to listen to yourself. It’s normal to go shopping with our girlfriends, sisters, mom, etc., and them assisting in convincing us to buy something when we are unsure of an item; or yes, that overly bubbly sales women. When really, what matters is that we love it. We feel confident in it. We want to wear it. If you’re having issues deciding on any items, always remind yourself that you are the one that needs to feel confident, regardless of others’ opinions.

It’s always fun to play with holiday styles so here are some that I’m crushing on this year.

PLAID: A plaid button-down is a fun item you can wear different ways. Tucked in with jeans or out with leggings and high boots. Add a faux fur vest or denim jacket for a new twist. Or maybe try a fun printed vest. This is perfect for family events and the kids’ school functions.

SEQUINS: Ah, that holiday sparkle. This is my personal favorite for the holidays. From dresses to tops, skirts and leggings, there are so many fun options. But always resort to the rules above.

METALLICS: This is fun for sweaters, skirts, or ladies … the manicure! Metallic nails are so “in” right now. If you want to try this trend but it seems like a lot, try one or two nails on each hand.

A few other noteworthy suggestions: add accessories! Try belts, they don’t always need to be worn around the waist. Add a hat. Mix and match prints, it’s okay to wear polka dots with stripes.

And, of course, those dang ugly sweater parties … or are they ugly? As Fuller’s mom wisely said, “Fuller, go easy on the Pepsi.”

1. CURVY DIVAS

Great gifts to accessorize the diva in your life. 1201 13th Ave E, West Fargo : 701-532-3021

2. GUNDERSON’S

For all the latest trends, come to Gunderson's. 5601 28th Ave S, Fargo : gundersons.com

3. OLIVE STREET

She will be cozy this holiday and for months to come in these sheepskin slippers. Directly south of Costco at I-94 and Veterans Blvd. 701-639-6990 : shopolivestreet.com

4. MAINSTREAM BOUTIQUE

Shop unique holiday looks and gifts at Mainstream Boutique. Blu 32: 4200 32nd Ave Suite 108, Fargo 701-356-6684 : mainstreamboutique.com

5. STABO SCANDINAVIAN IMPORTS

Wool scarf in the tradition of rosemaling in Norway. 406 Broadway N, Fargo : 701-282-0421 : stabo-imports.com

6. TALULA

Cotton bishop sleeve sweater with mini sequins adorned with exclusive Zzan jewelry from Israel. Directly south of Costco at I-94 and Veterans Blvd . 701-532-1134

7. PRIMROSE BOUTIQUE

Pendant accessories and home decor that is sure to WOW this holiday season. 1115 9th St E, West Fargo : primroseboutiquefashion.com

8. OTHERS

Soko Jewelry is handcrafted in brass by artisans in Kenya using traditional techniques. 218 Broadway N, Fargo : 701-478-8722 : othersshop.com

9. LEELA & LAVENDER

All things cozy and warm at Leela & Lavender. Shoppes at BLU Water Creek 3265 45th St S, Fargo : leelaandlavender.com

Hair Arts Hair Wrap. Made from human hair for natural volume and texture to make it look like you have a lot of hair. Downtown Moorhead : 218-236-6000

Evo cooktops are the leading live-action display cooking equipment in the world. With it’s circular, flat-top cooking surface, Evo lets you prepare virtually any cuisine from any angle. 5675 26th Ave SW #144, Fargo 701-551-0625 : jwkitchens.com

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A great addition to any home, the Allenton comes in traditional cherry or chestnut, with two leg options.

2420 University Dr S, Fargo : 701-235-7507 kallodcarpet.com

Eco Chic Home

Barr - Co Barrel Candle and Hand & Body Caddy Set. Hand & Body Caddy Set: $34 Barrel Candle: $29.99 3265 45th St S, Fargo : 701-356-6600 : iloveecochic.com

15. BURLAP RUSTIC CHIC BOUTIQUE

Farmhouse decor with a touch of rustic, vintage and modern ... all in one. 3401 S University Dr, Fargo : 701-566-8176 : burlapfargo.com

16. VINTAGE POINT

Best selling gourmet candies from Minnesota's Abdallah, since 1909. 25th Street Marketplace : 1450 25th St S, Fargo : 701-293-6336

17. THE WHITE HOUSE CO.

Vintage meets modern Christmas décor at The White House Co. From ornaments to vintage glittered Christmas villages to typewriter, we are your on stop shop for everyone on your shopping list. 14 Roberts St N, Fargo : thewhitehouseco.com

18. DALBOL FLOWERS

Merry Vintage Christmas Bouquet by Teleflora. $45 1450 25th St S, Fargo : 701-235-5864 : dalbolflowers.com