This One's For The Dads

By CHRISTINE JOHNSON

Summertime is upon us as we usher in the month of June. Kids everywhere are singing “School’s Out For Summer” and beginning to plan vacations with family and friends.

There are many days on the June calendar to celebrate, but perhaps none more heartfelt than Father’s Day. The third Sunday in June is a day meant to recognize and remember the endless efforts, support, love, and contributions of all “fathers” in our lives.

The role of a father is no longer as simple as what we observed on shows like “Father Knows Best” and “Leave It to Beaver.” The profile of today’s dad is much more complex, with responsibilities outside the parameters of going to work and coming home to talk with your kids at the dinner table. 2024 provides us with men who are stay-at-home dads, dads who are away serving their country, or those who are grandfathers, uncles, brothers, and friends. Families have complex situations where the role of a father is not just a title but about stepping up and giving a strong shoulder and an open heart to someone who needs the wisdom of a dad.

Perhaps nothing is more profound than when a family suffers the loss of a father, whether it’s from an illness or even a divorce. The space left empty doesn’t matter to a child; they just know that they need a dependable figure in their lives to guide them and fill the void. A man who can do this is someone special. He never questions why or says I can’t or don’t have the time.

These men, who embody the spirit of fatherhood, are a source of inspiration and love. They are the ones who say I love you, and I am there for you, and you can come to me for anything. They call and text. They give the biggest hugs. They fly across the country for your college graduation. They make you laugh through tears. They tell you how proud they are of you. They put on a suit and stand in front of a judge to legally make you their son or daughter. I am fortunate to know men like this; we are deeply grateful to have them in our lives. Saying thank you never seems like enough.

Father’s Day is a time to raise a glass of Irish whiskey, an Old Fashion, a beer, a martini, or even a mocktail and celebrate the dads in our lives and the many shapes they may come in. Thank you for what you give us each and every day. ◆