Covenant Magazine - [Summer 2005]

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The Magazine of Covenant Theological Seminary

COVENANT Vol. 20, No. 2

Living With the Gap Between Your Condition and God’s Calling

Summer 2005

Equipping the Church

The Psalms and the Pathway to Healing

Apologetics and Failure


Volume 20, No. 2 Summer 2005 FROM THE PRESIDENT

2 Several years ago, alumnus Rick Gray told a story about a psychological profile test he took for missionary service that asked, “Do you hear voices when you are alone?” He thought for a moment

The Pursuit of Excellence and the Perils of Perfectionism DR. RICHARD WINTER

and was surprised to realize that the answer was yes. We all hear voices, don’t we? They may not be audible voices but, nevertheless, somewhere in each of us we hear voices that tell us what we ought to think of ourselves. Maybe it is the critical voice that says, “You haven’t done enough yet.” Maybe it is the voice of our own

6 Living With the Gap Between Your Condition and God’s Calling REV. JOE NOVENSON

shame that says, “If I tell people how I really feel or what my life really has been like, they will reject me.” Maybe it is a voice that says, “You are going to fail and there is no hope.” I hope that this issue of Covenant magazine will help you identify some of those voices in your own life – and the sources from which they come. And just as importantly, I hope you come into contact with the greater voice of love – in Christ

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Jesus from His Word. This May, we are saying “goodbye for now” to another outstanding group of Covenant Seminary graduates. But they hear voices, too. Would you pray with me that the loudest voice in their lives is the voice of loving truth spoken in Scripture? And pray that over the coming months and years these alumni will be able to be voices. It is by being grounded in the reality of God’s love and reassured by His Word that these graduates will have a voice of love to share God’s Word wherever they are.

18 The Psalms and the Pathway to Healing Facing the Wounds of Sexual Abuse

And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? (Rom. 10:14b). Thank you for partnering with Covenant Seminary to echo the voice of Christ’s love.

REV. EWAN KENNEDY

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Bryan Chapell

24 Apologetics and Failure PART 2

Or, Why It May Be Good for Us to Lose the Argument – FRANCIS A. SCHAEFFER INSTITUTE – MARK P. RYAN

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Right: Kathy Chapell hosts a gathering in her home led by counselor and faculty wife Janet Burns to talk with seminary women about “Peacemaking: Settling Differences in the Family and Church.”

More Than Meets the Eye

As important as classroom time is at Covenant Seminary, the ministry training that takes place is not all listed on a semester’s course schedule. Many significant moments of interaction happen outside of the classroom during ministry lunches, special lectures, and other gatherings designed to help students serve the Church and live as salt and light in society. The snapshots featured on this page show a few of these significant moments of learning outside a traditional classroom from the past spring semester. Above: Daniel Oh, Director of Intercultural Ministries for OC International, speaks with an M.Div. student during a World Mission Organization Fair.

Below: Chris Granberry speaks on church planting on an Indian reservation in Washington State.

Above: Alumni John Gullet, Charles Pettijohn, and Dan Gilchrist visit the seminary with their families and lead a ministry lunch on serving as a solo pastor of a small church. Left: Andi Ashworth and Charlie Peacock-Ashworth share about “Hospitality in the Life of a Busy Family” as a prelude to the Spring Schaeffer Lectures.

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Student Profile

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DR. RICHARD WINTER Professor of Practical Theology

While waiting to board a flight to England, I found myself searching for something to read. I noticed a young woman standing alone in front of a whole wall of the latest women’s magazines. One cover proclaimed: “The Search for the Perfect Woman.” I wondered what it must be like to face such an onslaught of “perfect” models and celebrities with whom to compare one’s body, face, clothes, and hair.

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The ideas in this article, as well as additional teaching on the roots of perfectionism, are presented in greater depth in Richard Winter’s recently released book Perfecting Ourselves to Death: The Pursuit of Excellence and the Perils of Perfectionism (InterVarsity Press).


The Pursuit of Excellence and the Perils of Perfectionism

As I browsed the magazine rack myself, I encountered images and articles about “perfect abs” and huge biceps that made me feel like a wimp! Other articles highlighted the inadequacies and imperfections of my own life and made me long for a stylish, powerful car and a dream house.

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Is Anything Wrong with Perfectionism?

lthough I know that the photographs

There is debate about the assets and liabilities of

of models in magazines are computer

perfectionism in the academic and popular literature.

enhanced and the decorated homes

Some see all perfectionism as unhealthy and bad; others

are far from reality, I want to look

see perfectionism on a spectrum where only a certain

like those people. I want to live in that house. I want to believe that

degree of perfectionism is unhealthy or neurotic. The latter

it is possible to be bright and

view is illustrated by a study of 820 academically excellent, gifted sixth graders. The study found that 25 percent of

beautiful in a world where

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the children were “dysfunctional” (neurotic, unhealthy)

brains and good looks are recognized and rewarded.

perfectionists; 42 percent were healthy perfectionists,

The Triumph of Technology

pursuing excellence but not to a neurotic degree; and

We live in a world where technology helps us overcome

33 percent were non-perfectionists.

many barriers to living a more perfect life. We hold in our

It is important to note that one can have different

hands the tools to create flawless complexions, perfectly

degrees of perfectionism affecting just one or two areas –

shaped bodies (just watch The Swan, Extreme Makeover

such as how we look or the grades we achieve – or

or Nip/Tuck!), highly efficient cars, beautiful homes, and

perfectionism may affect every part of life.

instant communication. Not only do the advances of

To be more specific, normal, healthy perfectionists

technology enable us to overcome distance, time, everyday

are usually full of energy and enthusiasm, have a positive

wear and tear, and just plain old forgetfulness; technology

self-image, and rarely procrastinate over decisions.

promises to improve us at the genetic level as well.

They are realistic about their own strengths and weaknesses.

In the not-too-distant future we will be able to enhance

They are driven more by a (positive) motivation to achieve

the brain with microscopic computer implants, improving

than by a (negative) fear of failure.

memory and cognitive ability. The era of designer babies is

In contrast neurotic, unhealthy perfectionists set

already here. Today, human eggs and sperm are marketed

unrealistically high standards. Their sense of self-worth

with a high value on the donor’s intelligence and looks.

depends entirely on their performance and production

In the worlds of business, academia, and athletics,

according to the goals they have set for themselves.

striving for excellence is greatly valued and highly

Continuous self-criticism, in the form of concern over

productive, giving an edge in a very competitive arena.

mistakes and doubts about doing the right thing, is a

But could there be a dark side to this striving for perfection?

distinguishing mark of unhealthy perfectionism. 1

L.K. Silverman, “Perfectionism” (paper presented at the 11th Conference on Gifted and Talented Children, Hong Kong, 1995), 1.

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Non-perfectionists are people who have little or no

sive tendencies, difficulties recovering from failure,

shame or guilt about failing to reach high standards or to

and suicidal impulses.

be organized. They are relaxed, easygoing, and fun to be

Vince Foster, the lawyer to the Clinton White House,

around, though perhaps sometimes so laid-back that they

was first in his law school class and considered a person of

are perceived as being disorganized, unreliable, and lacking

impeccable integrity. He is reported to have possessed: ...impressive intellectual capacities, intense loyalty, and

in self-discipline.

powerful personal strength...he would research each case he

Having repeatedly discussed with friends and colleagues the issue of whether all perfectionism is unhealthy, I believe

worked on extensively, going through 20 drafts if needed. In a

it is more practical to accept the spectrum paradigm

commencement address to the University of Arkansas law school

showing differing degrees of perfectionism. This is certainly

he said, “The reputation you develop for intellectual and ethical

the view that underlies most of the latest research on

integrity will be your greatest asset or your worst enemy. Treat

perfectionism, which also describes three

every pleading, every brief, every contract,

main types of perfectionism:

every letter, every daily task as if your career

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The self-oriented perfectionist

will be judged on it. I cannot make this point

demands perfection for him or her

to you too strongly: there is no victory, no

self – this type of perfectionist is try-

advantage, no fee, no favor which is worth

ing to live up to his or her own high,

even a blemish on your reputation for intel-

and often impossible, standards. The

lect and integrity. Dents to the reputation in

socially prescribed perfectionist is

the legal profession are irreparable.”

the person who has the “ghost” of a critical parent looking over his or her shoulder or some type of voice from the outside drives this person to meet the expectations of others. Finally, the other-oriented perfectionist thinks, “Why can’t people live up to my standards and do things the way they should be done?” Each of the above three types of perfectionism may vary in intensity and in some people there is a combination

The series of events in the Clinton

Problems arise when we live under the tyranny of a belief that perfection is possible, when we have standards that are so high they are impossible to attain.

White House which led Foster to being criticized in the Wall Street Journal caused him to sink into depression. Eventually he committed suicide because he felt he was a complete failure. This sort of all-ornothing, black-or-white thinking is typical of a perfectionist. Some perfectionists, like Vince Foster, are very driven to achieve their goals, and this may be healthy. But, pushed to an extreme, this type of perfectionism, especially when other-oriented, can lead

of all three.

to controlling and self-centered behavior.

The Perils of Perfectionism

Others may be described as defeated perfectionists because

Let me say again that not all perfectionism is unhealthy.

they have given up trying to reach their impossible stan-

It is good to enjoy high standards and pursue excellence in

dards. In fact they may think of themselves as the complete

life. But sadly, the negative and unhealthy aspects of perfec-

opposite because their home is such a mess. Their all-or-

tionism can be very destructive and crippling. Problems arise

nothing thinking causes them to believe that “if it cannot be

when we live under the tyranny of a belief that perfection is

perfect then there is no point in even trying to make it so.”

possible, when we have standards that are so high that they

The driven perfectionist, under pressure, can switch to the

are impossible to attain. When a person’s self-worth depends

hopelessness of the defeated perfectionist.

on reaching those high standards, it is an inevitable script for self-defeat and creates his or her own personal hell of

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Paul L. Hewitt and Gordon L. Flett, “Perfectionism in the Self and Social Contexts: Conceptualization, Assessment, and Association with Psychopathology,” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 60, no. 3 (1991): 456-70.

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Sidney Blatt, “The Destructiveness of Perfectionism: Implications for the Treatment of Depression,” American Psychologist 50, no. 12 (1995): 1003-4.

repeated failure and eternal regret. Perfectionism can also lead to all sorts of other problems, such as anxiety, depression, phobias, indecision, procrastination, obsessive-compul-

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Hope for Change

accepting His grace, love, and forgiveness. When we know

I strongly believe that there are practical steps we can take

that we are accepted and loved with all our imperfections,

to confront unhealthy perfectionism in our lives, but it is

we are set free to pursue excellence without fear of failure

important, first, to put those strategies on a solid theological

or rejection, and with gratitude to God.

and philosophical foundation. Almost all of the great

So, my worth in the eyes of God does not depend on

religions of the world have in them an awareness that we

my works. I do not need to live under law but under grace.

need to be better than we are. The difference between the

Many perfectionists still live under the law. They find it

religions, though, is the path we take toward becoming

hard to accept the grace of God because there is often a

better, healthier people.

basic insecurity with deep fears of rejection, of failure, and

Many religions prescribe rules and rituals which have to

of being out of control. But all these deep fears are dealt with

be followed to make us good enough to be acceptable to

by returning to a relationship with a loving God who accepts

some deity. Christianity is profoundly and

us, with all our failures and imperfections.

wonderfully different because the Biblical

But you may say, “Surely there is a

picture shows that people can never be

proof text for the perfectionist in Jesus’

good enough. Francis Schaeffer often used

own words, ‘Be perfect, therefore, as your

to say that Christianity is both the easiest

heavenly Father is perfect (Matt. 5:48)’.”

religion and the hardest. It is the easiest

The Greek word here is “teleios,” mean-

because we come with nothing, with

ing “mature, reaching an appointed goal”.

empty hands, to the foot of the cross.

We are called to maturity and holiness,

And yet it is the hardest, because our

and Jesus was pointing us in that direc-

pride says, “I want to do something to

tion. The Apostle Paul recognized that

contribute to my salvation, to being good enough.” So, when our drive for perfectionism leads to yet another defeat, we can call out to the Lord who accepts, forgives, loves, and values us not for what we do or achieve. In Christ, God offers us total acceptance as we are, because He has achieved perfection on our behalf. He

In Christ, God offers us total acceptance as we are...

gives us Christ’s righteousness when we

perfection is not here yet: “When perfection comes, the imperfect disappears” (1 Cor. 13:10). One day we will be perfect, but not now. “Not that I have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Jesus Christ took hold of me” (Phil 3:12). We have been saved and justified; we are now in the process of being changed, renewed, and perfected.

turn to Him in faith.

We are called to have our minds

The divine dilemma is that God is

renewed (Rom.12:2). Old habits of think-

pure goodness and perfection, and we are deeply flawed,

ing die hard. Insecurity, feelings of insignificance, desire to

imperfect, and wanting our own way, wanting to be in

control, fear of rejection and failure – all of these things are

control. This, ultimately, is at the root of sin. We deserve

based on lies that must be replaced with the truth. God gives

punishment and need rescue from this dilemma. The amaz-

us the Holy Spirit as the great Counselor. He also gives the

ing thing is that God sent the perfect sacrifice – Christ

practical help and support of the community of faith in this

Himself. Scripture says, “We all, like sheep, have gone astray,

renewal process which will only be completed when we are

each of us has turned to his own way; and the LORD has

with the Father in glory.

laid on him the iniquity of us all” (Isaiah 5:6). Because of

Strategies for Change

His sacrifice there can bea restoration of relationship with

There are some practical things that people who struggle

God. This is the true pathway to perfection.

with perfectionism can do to learn to live with imperfection.

This road to heaven involves letting go of ultimate

First, we must confront reality. Perfectionists can do this by continued on page 27

control and giving up trying to be God ourselves. It is about

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JOE NOVENSON Senior Pastor of Lookout Mountain Presbyterian Church Member of Covenant Seminary Board of Trustees

LIVING WITH THE

GAP Between Your Condition AND GOD’S CALLING

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Living With the Gap Between Your Condition and God’s Calling

Years ago I went to India and had an experience that I never thought I would encounter in my lifetime. While in the midst of preaching through a translator, I was approached by several policemen. They were yelling in Malayalam, a language I could not understand. My interpreter translated, saying, “They are telling you to stop preaching.” And I said, “What should I do?” He said, “My Bible has a few words in it about preaching when they tell you to stop. Does yours?” At that moment, I experienced the gap that I believe Genesis 16 and 17 depicts – the gap between the condition of God’s servants and God’s calling. Specifically, in this instance, I experienced the gap between my condition of abject terror and a calling to proclaim the Word of God.

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“You will not…you will not…you will not.” This is a classic

aybe you have felt that

presentation of a promise of sovereignty.

gap. If you have, you will want to take a moment to

Specifically, the Lord promises unilateral power to

read the account of God’s

sovereignly care for His progress in ministry. Maybe you

Word and work in the life

know all about Reformed theology and God’s sovereignty.

of His servant Abraham.

I hope you do. But I would remind you that it was 11 years

In Abraham’s life we see the

from the time when the first promise was made to Abraham

promises that God gives

until the time when he made an illicit choice. Because of

to each one of us to live with the gap between our condition

illicit thinking, Abraham made an illicit choice to have an

as God’s servants and our calling. Because no matter who

illicit relationship with Hagar and produced an illicit child

you are, you must realize that the gap is huge – it was large

in order to accomplish God’s will. You know what it took to

for Abraham and it is large for you.

break Abraham’s trust in God’s sovereignty? All it took to break that trust in Abraham’s life was the ticking of the

Unilateral Power

clock – just the passage of time.

In Genesis 17:1-14, just after the account of Ishmael’s birth,

Wouldn’t you think God would respond to that by

Abraham receives the sign of circumcision. Here God gives

saying, “You’re fired!”? Instead, we see that the Lord

a promise of several things. First, He promises power –

intensifies the promise. To a man whose condition is broken,

unilateral power. By “unilateral” I mean one-sided. Not

the Lord says, “I will…I will…you will…you will.” The Lord

bilateral. Twelve times these verses say, “I will,” “you will,”

says He will accomplish His purpose and He says He will yet

“I will make,” “you will be.” This is like a jackhammer

use His servant.

hammering on self-reliance. The Lord might as well say,

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Covenantal Promise

This means that if your life and ministry reflect parochial

The second thing that should be noted is that the promise

or colloquial values, you will fail your Master. You must

of unilateral power is undergirded by the covenant. Abraham

live prayerfully to see every sin-made barrier that exists

has already failed to be perfectly obedient to God, and he

between people torn down, and that a new humanity – the

will fail again. But remember Genesis 15. Here the Lord

Kingdom of God – would be seen on the earth. You must

tells Abraham that He will not break His covenant and that

think universally. If you have engineered your Christian life

when the human recipients of the covenant do break it,

to be only with people like yourself, you have got to change.

the Lord will take the punishment for that covenant breach

You’ve got to change.

upon Himself.

Familial Manner

It is as if God is doing the reverse of what was done to me

Third, please note that this unilateral promise of power for

when I was in high school. The upperclassmen would come

God’s mission takes place familially. Five times in Genesis

to me and say, “Do you want to flip for this coin?” I was a

17:1-14 the Lord says to Abraham,

freshman, so I said, “Yeah, sure.” And

“father…father…father…father…father.”

they would flip me and say, “Heads, I win;

Not once does He say, “preacher, pastor,

tails, you lose. Yuk, yuk, yuk.” Of course, I

evangelist, professor, scholar.” That is

would never win. In Genesis 15, God, in

not because there is anything wrong

one sense, says to Abraham, “Heads, you

with those vocations, but in this passage

win; tails, I lose. This covenant will not

the familial manner of God’s mission

be broken by me, but when it is broken, I

is emphasized.

die.” That is the imputed righteousness of Christ, God making Him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God. New Purpose, Universal Impact

The Lord also promises unilateral power to give a new purpose with universal impact. Abram means “great father.” But the Lord gives him a new name: Abraham, “father of many nations.” Abraham has a new purpose: to serve others – and not only those others who are in his immediate view. In essence,

This at least means that, whatever

...you should see yourself as having moved from being a guest (one who is served) on this planet to being a host (a servant) by God’s grace in your life.

like Abraham, you should see yourself as

your vocation, your care for your home is equal to, if not more important than, every other good thing you will do. Your relationships at home with your family are at the heart of what God is going to do in the earth. It also means that none of us has the luxury of being professionally distant from people as we “minister.” In 1780, a collection of letters by John Newton was put together and titled Voice of the Heart. In the preface of one edition, Reverend R. Cecil is quoted as saying, “With respect to his ministry,

having moved from being a guest (one who is served) on this

he appeared perhaps as least advantaged in the pulpit, as

planet to being a host (a servant) by God’s grace in your life.

he generally did not aim at accuracy, composition of his

Christian, you are to be the host of the planet.

sermons, nor at any address or delivery of them.” Cecil

God also shows that His promise is universal. In Genesis

goes on to share how one of Newton’s parishioners said,

17:4 and 5 the Lord calls Abraham “father of many nations,”

“The parent-like tenderness and affection which accompa-

and in Genesis 17:6 He says, “I’ll make you into nations.”

nied his instruction made us prefer him to other preachers,

That reference is at least multicultural – “many nations.”

who on other accounts were much more generally popular.”

But if you go back to Genesis 12:3, you will see that the

A. W. Parsons said of Newton, “Others were admired, but

Lord says, “In you [Abraham], all the families of the earth

they all loved him.” That is familial.

will be blessed.” The implication is that this promise is not multicultural, it is omnicultural. Everybody on this planet is going to be impacted.

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fight. Then look in the mirror! But the Lord promises,

Once again note that all of this is Gospel-driven. That is

“I will never stop,” and we cannot stop either.

why the Lord gives the sign of circumcision. Genesis 17:11

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says, “…[circumcision] shall be a sign of the covenant

I would like you to picture in your mind the greatest

between me and you.” Essentially God is saying, “I want

performer that you know of. I think of the time I saw

you to be marked by the promise, ultimately to be marked

Itzhak Perlman play a two-hour concert without a single

by Christ crucified and risen. I want you scarred with

note in front of him. The orchestra dripped sweat and

this promise.”

Perlman was just “cruising.”

I would like to give you a challenge. Ask the people

Imagine you are at a concert like that and you cannot

around you – your spouse, children, siblings, fellow church

afford the good seats. You are way up in the balcony. In the

members, co-workers – the same question that I asked my

middle of the concert, your favorite musician suddenly stops

three children. One at a time I asked them, “Tell me the

the concert and says, “Is [insert your

most important thing I have taught you.”

name] here?” Wouldn’t you immediately

My oldest said, “Always do right.” My

feel the “gap”? You would have a huge

second oldest said, “Always do right.”

sense of awe and apoplexy. And then the

My little girl said, “Jesus loves me.”

spotlight starts turning around until it

And I thought, “Great. I have raised

hits you, and the performer says, “I knew

two Pharisees and one Christian.” Now

you were here. Would you come down

obviously, that is not true, because God

and play the rest of the concert with me?”

kept His promise even through me!

Now you would really be in for it. You

But I learned a sobering thing. In communicating the Christian faith to my children, I was not pointing them to the cross in everything I was teaching. Everlasting

The last thing I want you to remember is that this unilateral promise of power lasts through all generations. The Lord has no Plan B. In Genesis 17:7 the Lord says, “Your offspring,” and, “throughout all

know that if you came down and played it

...join the greatest, longest-standing, most multi-national movement in the history of the world – the Church.

would be like a junior higher playing Beethoven. But the living God is pleased to have people like us take up the instrument of the Gospel so that all the glory goes to His name and the world is changed universally by a Gospel-driven, familial, eternal plan. That’s incredible! That is what you need to know as you live and follow Christ, all the while

their generations.” That is until the world

seeing the gap between God’s calling

ends. But then He says, “it is an everlast-

and your condition. n

ing covenant.” Now we are beyond the end of the world. He repeats it in Genesis 17:8, “everlasting.” Genesis 17:12 goes back to creation, twelve generations. Genesis 17:13 goes back out again, “eternal.” What the Lord is essentially saying is, join the greatest, longest-standing, most multi-national movement in the history of the world – the Church. This is an adventure. Attack of the Clones? That’s nothing. How about going for the gates of Hell? Watch the movie The Lord of the Rings and you see those weak, silly, little hobbits attempting to

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INTERCESSOR the

As Covenant Seminary exists to train servants of the triune God to walk with God, to interpret and communicate God’s Word, and to lead God’s people, we recognize the importance of prayer to guide and continue the mission. While much of our training takes place in one geographic area as students relocate for study, the mission continues in the lifetime of ministry that the Lord grants as people move on from Covenant Seminary. Therefore prayer for the seminary and its mission reflects this local, national, and global scope. We are grateful for your prayers for Covenant Seminary. We hope that this prayer calendar, which can be prayed through during the summer months, will help focus your thoughts and prayers for the seminary, its students, and alumni. As the color key indicates, the dark squares share campus concerns, the medium squares O Holy Jesus, eternal and immortal Son national concerns, and the white of God and yet partaker of our flesh and squares international concerns. blood, become like unto us in all things except sin, merciful and faithful high priest and captain of our salvation, made a little lower than the angels for the suffering of death, fill our hearts and minds with the constant remembrance of your redeeming love, for we make this prayer in Your precious and most sacred name and by the boldness of your Holy Spirit, with whom and the Father You live and reign, one God for ever and ever. Amen. – PATRICK HENRY REARDON, The St. James Daily Devotional Guide for the Christian Year 9 (Spring 2005): 10.


SUMMER2005 Tuesday

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Thursday

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Week 1

Praise the Lord for the many places of ministry He has prepared for recent graduates. Pray that, as they serve, they will be strengthened in their faith and boldly share the Gospel.

Pray for students taking part in intensive ministry internships this summer. Pray that they would grow in an understanding of leading and caring for other people as they grow in trusting Christ for their own lives.

Pray for the 33rd General Assembly in Chattanooga, Tenn., June 14-17, 2005. Pray for the leaders of the Presbyterian Church in America to glorify Christ in all they do and to give thanks for God’s grace as they meet around the theme of the “Year of the Ruling Elder.”

Pray that time in seminary would prepare married couples together for pastoral ministry. Pray for wisdom for planning the Family Nurture program schedule for 2005-6.

Pray for strong churches to be built up and planted in the Indianapolis, Ind., area. Praise the Lord for the congregations there reaching out to their community. Pray for the pastors serving in Indianapolis, including alumni Mike Bradham (M.Div.’99) and Roger Williams (M.Div.’98).

Pray for Access student Michael Miller (M.A.T.S.’08) and the ministry he leads for orphaned street children in Tegucigalpa, Honduras. Pray that these children would be protected from gang violence and that they would grow into Christian leaders.

Praise God for the new students coming to Covenant Seminary this summer. Pray that “the peace that passes all understanding will guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 4:7).

Pray for the European Leadership Forum from June 11 to 16, 2005, in Sopron, Hungary, which will bring together European evangelical leaders from over 30 countries. Pray for Prof. Jerram Barrs and Dr. Richard Winter who will both teach. Pray for their words to glorify God and help bring revival to Europe.

As Covenant Seminary reaches the end of this fiscal year (June 30, 2005), pray for the Lord’s provision of the seminary’s financial needs in order to continue its ministryequipping mission.

Pray for Covenant Seminary’s Youth in Ministry Institute Summer Conference (June 20 to 25, 2005) which will bring together high school students from across the U.S. to see how Christ is Lord of work, play, and all of life. Pray that these young people would go back to serve their churches and communities as they live out this message.

Pray for your local church. Ask that God would move powerfully through the congregation, encouraging and strengthening His people through the teaching of His Word.

Praise the Lord for His provision of Dr. Greg Perry as a recent addition to the seminary’s regular faculty. Pray for God’s continued provision of pastor/scholars to expand the seminary faculty and serve growing needs.

“How can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them?” (Rom. 10:14b). Praise God for sending out His Word.

Pray for the Doctor of Ministry students who will take time this summer to attend intensive courses at Covenant Seminary, all with a desire to better serve their congregations. Pray for their time on campus among professors and other pastors to be fruitful and a great blessing as they return to the responsibilities of church and home.

Pray for Drs. Richard Winter and Nelson Jennings. Both are focusing on cross-cultural research during their Fall 2005 sabbaticals. Pray for this research to richly inform their teaching and facilitate the furtherance of Christ’s Kingdom across racial, socio-economic, cultural, and national boundaries.

Pray for the faculty writing projects currently under way. Pray that the Lord would guide and enable the faculty in their scholarship, helping one generation tell the next of the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord. Pray for Dr. Robert Peterson as he works to complete a book on predestination and free will for P&R Publishing.

Pray for the American Theological Library Association (ATLA) board meeting which will be held June 15, 2005, in Austin, Texas. Pray for Rev. Jim Pakala, Director of Covenant Seminary’s Buswell Library and ATLA board member, to help guide the association in supporting theological libraries to benefit students both now and for years to come.

Pray for parts of our world facing serious crises that threaten to take the lives of many. Pray for relief work to be accomplished in Asian Tsunami disaster areas. Pray for Iraq, its people and government, and U.S. soldiers serving there. Pray for God’s Word to go forth in both of these areas currently enduring extreme suffering.

Praise the God who “secures justice for the poor and upholds the case of the needy” (Psalm 140:12).

Pray for Lou Best (M.Div.’04) and wife, Shirley, who have been called to plant a new PCA church in Killeen, Tex., which is the home of the Fort Hood Army base. Pray that they would be empowered by God to minister amidst the unique needs of a military community.

Pray for the May 2005 graduates as they begin a new chapter of their lives. Pray that God would use them powerfully in ministry for His glory.

Pray for Mark (M.Div.’97) and Shelly Vivian who are ministering in Australia (Westminster Presbyterian Church, Bull Creek). Pray that the light and truth of Christ would break through the secular nature of the Australians in their community. Pray for more pastors to rise up to serve in Australia.

Pray for Covenant Seminary students who are recently engaged or married. Pray that their marriages would grow in a way that demonstrates the grace of God to their families and those whom they serve.

Pray for pastors you know who are serving as solo pastors of small congregations. Pray for their peace in the midst of limited staff and many responsibilities. Thank the Lord for alumni John Gullett, Dan Gilchrist, and Charles Pettijohn, all recent graduates who have accepted calls to faithfully shepherd congregations in small towns or rural areas.

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ALUMNI If you have information for Alumni News, please mail it to Covenant Magazine or e-mail Alumni News: alumni @covenantseminary.edu Tom Sidebotham (M.Div.’72) was honorably retired by the Presbytery of Central Florida in June of 2002. Prior to retirement, Tom served as a career Navy Chaplain (retired 1982) and then served two Florida churches (Covenant in Oviedo and Willow Creek in Winter Springs) for 20 years. In 2002 Tom and his wife Dottie moved closer to their daughter’s family in Naples, Fla., were he is still active in a local church, serving as worship leader, Bible teacher, and pulpit supply. Tom and Dottie’s son is a PCA Chaplain in the Army Reserves (Colorado Springs) and their daughter is teaching for a Christian School in Naples. Tom’s focus now is to aid churches and educational systems in developing effective ministry to senior adults. George Robertson (M.Div.’91, Th.M.’97) has accepted a call to serve as Pastor of First Presbyterian Church in Augusta, Georgia. George will begin serving the church in July 2005. He currently serves as Pastor of Covenant Presbyterian Church in St. Louis, Mo., where he has ministered since 1991. For more than a decade George has been an extraordinary asset to the Covenant Seminary community as he has helped seminary students prepare for ministry through internships at Covenant Presbyterian Church and served on the seminary faculty as Adjunct Professor of Practical Theology. His regular presence among the Covenant Seminary community will be missed. Norman Reed (M.Div.’94) has been called to serve as Pastor of Good Shepherd Presbyterian

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Don Bailey (M.Div.’99), began meeting August 15, 2004, in Orlando, Florida. Matt Lowe (M.Div.’96) serves as churchplanting apprentice.

Church in St. Louis, Mo., and was installed on February 20, 2005. Dr. Jack Collins, Professor of Old Testament, preached for the installation service, Daryl Madi (M.Div.’97) gave the charge to the minister, and Dr. Phil Douglass, Associate Professor of Practical Theology, gave the charge to the congregation.

Mark (M.A.’99) and Terri Ryan began serving with L’Abri Fellowship in Bowen Island, Vancouver, B.C., on May 4, 2005. They have served with L’Abri Fellowship in Southborough, Mass., for the past four years and now will assist in establishing the newest L’Abri branch. Prior to moving to Canada, the Ryans were able to return to their native Australia for a month-long visit to introduce their 18-monthold daughter Michelle to her grandparents.

Andrew Conrad (M.Div.’97) has accepted a call to plant a church in the Richmond, Va., area starting in Summer 2005. The church plant is sponsored by Sycamore Presbyterian in Midlothian, Va., where Andrew has served as Youth Pastor since 1997. Andrew and his wife Michelle have four children: Hanan (10), Riley (8), Clara (6), and Ethan (3).

This June Shawn Slate (M.Div.’02) will begin serving as RUF Campus Minister for the University of Virginia (U.Va.) in Charlottesville. Shawn has spent the last three years serving as Assistant Pastor of Youth Nurture and Outreach for Covenant Presbyterian Church in St. Louis, Missouri. Greg Thompson (M.Div.’00), who formerly served as RUF Campus Minister for U.Va., will begin pursuing full-time Ph.D. studies in theology, ethics, and culture this fall at U.Va. and will also serve as part-time Assistant Pastor for Trinity Presbyterian Church in Charlottsville.

Daryl Madi (M.Div.’97) became the National Director of Gateway Collegiate Ministries (formerly known as His Life) this past spring. Gateway Collegiate Ministries is a campus ministry associated with the Evangelical Presbyterian Church. Daryl and his wife Merry live in St. Louis, Mo., and have three children. Chris (M.Div.’98) and Carol Clark (M.A.T.S.’98), and Will (M.A.T.S., M.A.C.’00) and Kim Honeycutt would love to see people who attended seminary with them during the 2005 PCA General Assembly. If you are a classmate who is going to be in Chattanooga for the assembly and would like to join them for a reunion gathering, please e-mail the Clarks at cncclark@hotmail.com. The Clarks and Honeycutts both live in the Chattanooga, Tenn., area.

Paul Boyd (M.Div.’02) was called by the North Florida Presbytery to start a Reformed University Fellowship chapter at the University of North Florida in Jacksonville, Fla., as of June 1, 2002. On January 18, 2003, Paul was married to Rachel Pilgrim at Ortega Presbyterian Church, witnessed by groomsman Michael

Conway Community Presbyterian Church (mission), pastored by

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Graham (M.Div.’02) and ushers Justin Clement (M.Div.’03) and Jonathan Beane (M.Div.’02). Paul was ordained on October 26, 2003, at Westminster Presbyterian Church. Paul and Rachel were blessed with the birth of Paul Andrew Jr. (Drew) on May 9, 2004. George Ontko (M.Div.’02) was ordained as a transitional deacon in the Anglican Mission in America (AMiA) on January 15, 2005. The AMiA is a missionary diocese of the Province of the Episcopal Church of Rwanda. George currently serves as a nursing home chaplain and an assistant at the Anglican Church of the Resurrection in St. Louis, Mo. Candra “Candy” (Rosenburg) Penny (M.A.T.S.’02) was married to John Clifford Penny in Brampton, Ontario, on March 5, 2005. It was a cross-cultural wedding mixing U.S.-Americans and Canadians. Several of the guests were immigrant friends originally from Pakistan, India, and Bangladesh. Candy continues work with the Culture ConneXions (CCX) team through SIM (Serving In Mission) among the immigrant and refugee population in the Greater Toronto area. The new couple appreciates the prayers of others as they adjust to married life and seek God’s direction for serving Him together. David Bush (M.Div.’03) graduated from the University of Tennessee with a Master of Educational Psychology (Adult Education) in December 2004. He is currently seeking a call as an Assistant Pastor of Adult Education, Discipleship, or Small Groups. David and his wife


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Michelle have been approved for adoption and are hopeful that the Lord will bless them with a child in coming months. Ryan Laughlin (M.Div.’04) was ordained and installed as Assistant Pastor of Adult Congregational Life for McLean Presbyterian Church in McLean, Va., on November 21, 2004. Dr. Bryan Chapell gave the sermon. Chris Jennings (M.Div., M.A.C.’04) began serving as Director of Children’s Ministries for St. Andrew’s Presbyterian Church in Columbus, Ga., on April 1, 2005. Chris is serving with Bill Douglas (M.Div.’83), Senior Pastor, and David Vosseller (M.Div.’98), Youth Pastor. William Plott (M.Div.’04) was ordained on Sunday, February 20, 2005, and serves as Assistant Pastor of North Cincinnati Community Church (PCA) in Cincinnati, Ohio. Dr. Zack Eswine, Assistant Professor of Practical Theology, delivered the sermon. This past January Cordell Schulten (M.A.T.S.’04) was invited to serve in Cambodia with a team of professors and students from Korea and the U.S. who are working to establish

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a new international university in Seim Reap Province, Cambodia. Along with a proposal for the new university, to be called Angkor Global University, the team also presented a citydevelopment proposal. The project went extremely well and the provincial authorities accepted the team’s initial proposals. Cordell serves as Associate Professor of Interdisciplinary Studies for Missouri Baptist University in St. Louis, Mo.

five grandchildren, and one great-grandchild. Jan Entrekin, wife of Rod Entrekin (M.Div.’91), Assistant Pastor of Big Creek Presbyterian Church in Cumming, Ga., was called home to glory on Sunday, February 20, 2005. Jan is survived by her husband and four children.

Filling the Quiver Bill (M.Div.’95) and Martha Boyd celebrated the birth of their third child, Elizabeth “Betsy” Farrow, on February 20, 2005. Betsy joined big brothers William and August. Bill is the Pastor of All Saints Presbyterian Church in Austin, Tex., where he began serving in 2003 after eight years as RUF campus minister for the University of Texas.

With the Saints C. Howard Oakley (D.Min.’78), an honorably retired member of Covenant Presbytery, passed away on Wednesday, March 2, 2005. Among other pastoral roles, Howard served as Pastor of Covenant Presbyterian Church in Cherry Hill, N.J., and First Reformed Church in Memphis, Tenn., and Assistant Pastor of Central Church in Memphis, Tennessee. From 1961 to 1963 Howard served as a part-time homiletics professor for Covenant Seminary and as Executive Director of National Presbyterian Missions of the Reformed Presbyterian Church. Howard was also a panelist on the television show “What’s Your Faith?” Howard is survived by his wife Beverly and their three children,

Eric (M.Div.’96) and Kelly Herrenkohl welcomed William Lopez into their family this past Spring. William was born in Guatemala on August 16, 2004, and joined the Herrenkohl family through adoption. William has a big sister and brother: Eliza and Daniel. Mark (M.Div.’98) and Tara (M.A.T.S.’99) Weathers welcomed baby boy Stephen Paul into the world on February 25, 2005. Mark serves as the

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co-Pastor of Providence Presbyterian Church in Concord, N.C. This is the Weathers’ third child and third son. Noah Laing was born to Ken (M.Div.’01) and Dawn Harris on September 20, 2004. The Harrises spent this past Spring in St. Louis where Ken taught a course on Old Testament history for Covenant Seminary. Ken completed Ph.D. studies through the University of Liverpool this past May. Tim (M.Div.’02) and Judy Herrera joyfully announce the adoption of Daniel Timothy Felipe (born March 1, 1997), Angie Elise Katerine (born March 15, 1998), and Andres Joel Camilo (born March 25, 2000). They joined Tim, Judy, and sisters Rebekah (17) and Lindsay (15) on February 17, 2005, in Pereira, Colombia. Tim is the Associate Pastor of New Port Presbyterian Church in Washington, Mo., and is planting Redeeming Grace Fellowship in Owensville, Mo. Joab (M.Div.’04) and Rebekah Rico celebrated the birth of Isaiah Joab on December 4, 2004. The Ricos are living in Gainesville, Ga., where Joab is an intern with Westminster Presbyterian Church.

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EVENTS Gatherings, Conferences Yimi Summer Conference

Fall 2005 Francis A. Schaeffer Lecture Series

ONE

Two Worlds Under One Roof

DATE: June 20 to 25, 2005

This summer Covenant Seminary’s Youth in Ministry Institute (Yimi) will bring

DATE: October 21 and 22, 2005 PLENARY SPEAKER: Bill Romanowski, author of Eyes Wide Open: Looking for God

together high school students from across

PLEASE JOIN US These events are open to the public and are offered free or for a minimal charge. To learn more about any of these events, log on to www.covenantseminary.edu or call 1.800.903.4044.

in Popular Culture

the nation to help them grow in their

This fall the Francis A. Schaeffer

view of God, themselves, others, and the

Institute is teaming up with the Youth

entire world. Students will explore a

in Ministry Institute to talk about

Fall 2005 Lifetime of Ministry Courses

Biblical understanding of one truth, one

bridging the generation gap between

Register online for any of these two- to five-day

Lord, and one Church while seeing the

teenagers and adults. This conference

ministry enrichment courses. As Lifetime of Ministry courses, these classes can be audited

implications of this teaching in everyday

is geared toward anyone working with

life. The conference will take place on

youth, including youth leaders, pastors,

the campus of Covenant Seminary and

and parents.

for a minimal fee.* Find out more at www.covenantseminary.edu.

Youth Ministry Across Culture

will include intense thinking, serious questions, fun, small group interaction, and ministry trips to learn through expe-

INSTRUCTOR: Danny Kwon,

rience. A special Youth Leader track

Youth Director for Yuong Sang Presbyterian Church, Philadelphia, Pa.

(staff or volunteer) will also be offered.

DATES: September 16 and 17

Special Lectures for Youth Leaders and Parents of Teens

Planning Meaningful Worship Services INSTRUCTOR: Dr. Jeffrey Heyl, Minister of Music, Kirk of the Hills Presbyterian Church, St. Louis

SPEAKER: Walt Mueller, Founder and President

DATES: September 16 and 17

of the Center for Parent/Youth Understanding DATES: November 11 to 12, 2005 at Covenant Seminary; Saturday, 8 a.m.-4 p.m.

Urban Church Planting in North America

at Central Presbyterian Church

INSTRUCTORS: Dr. Philip Douglass and Rev. Fred

TIMES AND LOCATION: Friday, 7-9:30 p.m.

Walt Mueller will serve as a guest

Harrell, Pastor of City Church of San Francisco

lecturer on the campus of Covenant

DATES: September 30 and October 1

Seminary and at Central Presbyterian

Bioethics Seminar

Church this fall, through the sponsorship

INSTRUCTOR: Dr. David Cook,

of the Youth in Ministry Institute and

Director of the Whitfield Institute and

several local churches. Walt will address

Chaplain of Green College, Oxford University

a number of topics relevant to under-

DATES: September 30 and October 1

standing today’s youth culture. *non-transcript audit

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Sheep rest. What about Shepherds?

A conference for pastors and others who shepherd God’s people to rest and be renewed, to be equipped and encouraged, and to be further trained and sustained for a lifetime of ministry.

OCTOBER 11-12, 2005


EQUIPPING the Church Covenant Seminary’s Role in Training Lay Leaders If one were to take a picture of the seminary student body, over two thirds of the picture would include men who are training to be pastors. Who then are the rest of the people who have gathered for the photo and are not attending seminary to train for ordained pastoral ministry? These are people who desire to serve the Church as lay leaders and who are devoting a portion of their lives to becoming better trained to do so. The following article gives a snapshot of three

have been working toward will be

students who are sharpening their skills and

complete. “It is amazing to finally

deepening their knowledge of God’s Word in

reach this point by the Lord’s grace!”

order to serve the Church as equipped laity.

Patricia says. In speaking about herself, Patricia

As all Covenant Seminary students learn

comments, “I am obviously a language

together, inside and outside of the classroom, they are prepared to go out into the world to serve Christ

geek.” She speaks or reads English, French,

and His Church, in their respective capacities, together.

German, and Nomaande, the language of the Omaande. Patricia came to Covenant Seminary

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(over the course of two furloughs) to better refine

Twenty years ago Patricia Wilkendorf (M.A.E.T.’05) set

her skills in translating Scripture.

down her roots in Cameroon, Central Africa, and began

Patricia chose the Master of Arts in Exegetical

work with Wycliffe Bible Translators. Patricia set out, in

Theology (M.A.E.T) program because it focuses on Biblical

partnership with local and international colleagues, to

languages and Biblical exegesis, or more specifically on

translate the New Testament into the language of the

finding the meaning in the text in order to ensure accurate

Omaande people. But this was not an ordinary translation

translation. With a new set of skills in hand, Patricia is

exercise. The people for whom Patricia had left her native

returning to Cameroon as a full-time translation consultant

land spoke a language that had never been written down.

for mother-tongue translators in the south-central region

So the most logical place to start was with the alphabet.

of the country.

This summer Patricia is returning to Cameroon after a

Not only is the Lord using Patricia to bless the Omaande

19-month furlough. She’ll be there just in time to celebrate.

people, she is also serving as a blessing to many others

The final revisions and checks need to be completed on the

including the Gunu, Yambetta, and Yambassa people groups,

Nomaande New Testament to get it ready for publication,

helping them to have access to God’s Word in their mother

and then the original goal that Patricia and her colleagues

tongues – the languages of their hearts.

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Rejoice and Be Glad!

Endless Theories or a Solid Framework?

It is Sunday morning at New City Fellowship in St. Louis,

During college, psychology major Kate Gerber struggled to

Mo., and Kirk Ward is introducing a new song:

sift through what she calls “endless theories” of counseling

Rejoice! Rejoice and be glad!

and psychology. “I longed to have a Biblical framework to

The kingdom is here for the poor, the weak, and the sad.

training her junior year. “I wanted to learn from Christian

Rejoice!

professors who could help me filter and process valuable

Rejoice in the Lord!

information taught by secular psychologists.”

evaluate it all,” Kate says. She began to consider seminary

By the blood of Jesus all the earth will be restored.

This May Kate will graduate from Covenant Seminary

Kirk wrote the song’s music and lyrics for the worship

with a Master of Arts in Counseling (M.A.C.). Over the

celebration in response to a sermon series being presented

past two years in the M.A.C. program, she says she has

on the beatitudes. He serves as the Music Director for New

gained a theological foundation on which to base theories

City Fellowship and is gaining more training for his work by

of personhood, change, hope, glory, and depravity that make

studying at Covenant Seminary.

up the guiding principles of counseling.

“I was interested in seminary even in high school,”

One of the seminary experiences that stands out most

Kirk says. “In college, it became clear to me that the greatest

for Kate has been her counseling practicum. Kate and a

joy I experienced in using my gifts was in service to the

group of seven other counseling students have met with

church. I came to Covenant Seminary because I wanted to

licensed counselor Diane Powell for four hours a week to

Degree Programs for NonOrdained Leadership include:* NEW

Master of Arts in Educational Ministries Master of Arts in Counseling Master of Arts in Theological Studies Master of Divinity (non-ordination track) Master of Arts in Exegetical Theology

Log on to www.covenantseminary.edu to find out more about these programs. *pastoral candidates are also able to enroll in these programs

Left (previous page): Patricia Wilkendorf (far left) and Cameroonian translation colleagues. Middle: Kirk Ward. Right: Kate Gerber

balance my undergraduate training in the more technical

discuss books, clients, counseling techniques, and more.

aspects of music with theological training. I believe that

“This time has provided me with a nurturing environment

church musicians must be well-qualified in both areas.”

in which to develop myself as a therapist,” Kate says.

Kirk is enrolled in the Master of Arts in Theological

Following graduation, Kate plans to continue to take her

Studies (M.A.T.S) program at Covenant Seminary. He says

training into a community counseling setting and hopes to

that seminary training gives him “a much stronger doctrinal

pursue further education in counseling psychology. n

foundation and Biblical framework” that he brings to every service he plans. He calls the Scripture study he engages through the seminary “fertile ground” – not only for writing music, but also for working with music volunteers and shaping a Biblical view of the life of the Church.

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THE PSALMS AND THE

Pathway TO HEALING Facing the Wounds of Sexual Abuse

“You say that the Gospel is for broken people. Do you really mean that?” Her eyes, unable to meet mine, were firmly focused on the carpet. I was a pastor, so I couldn’t really say “No” to her question. More than that, I had seen significant redemption in my own life and witnessed it in the lives of others, so I had good reason to say, “Yes.” Yet, having just graduated from seminary and recently taken a position as an assistant pastor, which involved doing some counseling, I was not fully aware of what saying yes was going to cost – not just for me, but for this woman as well. It was months later, after many meetings, that she told me

The Silent Epidemic

that she had been sexually abused as a child. In that revela-

While in seminary, I had learned that studies published in

tion came the true test of what I said I believed, for I had

the 1990s showed that one in four women had experienced

promised her that the Gospel was for her. Was it really?

sexual abuse before the age of 18 . Several studies reported

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that 23 percent of those women were victims of these devas-

Even as I continued to meet with this woman, I began

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counseling other men and women who needed guidance.

tating sexual sins before they had turned eight years old.

I never advertised a “specialty” or a particular area of

And these were conservative studies that used conservative

counseling expertise. I never sought out specific types of

definitions. These numbers were news to me. One in four

cases, and I never asked, “Have you been sexually abused?”

women! And yet, even though I had grown up in the

Yet, over the course of the next several years, consistently

church, I had never even heard this topic mentioned. I had

80 percent of the people who came to me for help revealed

never heard a sermon about it. It was simply not discussed. My post-seminary experience has validated for me the

that they had suffered sexual abuse as children.

accuracy of those studies. Sexual abuse of minors happens

That was a shockingly high statistic. But what was even more shocking to me was the fact that I was not working

more often than we would like to think and, typically, it goes

with the street children of a Third World nation, nor was

unaddressed. In our churches and from our pulpits, we pro-

I working in the inner city of an urban metropolis. These

claim that the Gospel is for “broken people.” We believe

people were my parishioners: white-collar, educated,

that a person does not have to “clean himself up” first in

middle- to upper-middle-class people. Further, 95 percent

order to come to Jesus Christ. We teach that sanctification is

of them were actively involved in our church. Scripture quotations in this article are from The Holy Bible, English Standard Version, copyright ©2001 by Crossway Bibles, a division of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

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Maxine Hancock and Karen Mains, Child Sexual Abuse: A Hope For Healing (Wheaton, Ill.: Harold Shaw, 1987), 20-21.

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David Finkelhor, “Current Information on the Scope and Nature of Child Sex Abuse,” Future of Children 4 (Summer/Fall 1994): 38-39.


The Psalms and the Pathway to Healing

for the heart and soul, not just the mind. Yet, for many of

EWAN KENNEDY (M.DIV., M.A.C.’00)

those who sit in the pew, those words do not ring true. They

Pastor of Westminster Presbyterian Church, Elgin, Ill.

have come to believe that they are too broken for the Gospel. They believe that, if they tell what happened to

I have been accustomed to call

them, the rest of us will not be able to cope. Adults who

this book, I think not inappropriately,

were victims of childhood sexual abuse carry with them a

“An Anatomy of all the Parts of the

shameful secret that continues to eat away at their hearts.

Soul;” for there is not an emotion of

The Source of Hope

which anyone can be conscious that

There is hope for survivors of sexual abuse, however, and it

is not here represented as in a mirror. Or rather, the Holy Spirit

comes, of course, from God and is expressed poignantly in

has here drawn to the life all the griefs, sorrows, fears, doubts,

the Psalms. Almost relentlessly, the Psalms invite us to

hopes, cares, perplexities, in short, all the distracting emotions

engage with God in deep and meaningful ways. They draw

with which the minds of men are wont to be agitated.

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I knew as well, even before I learned to read Hebrew, that

us to Him through their expression of praise, they console us

the Hebrew title of the book meant “Book of Public Praises.”

with their voice of comfort, and they sometimes shock us

And yet, as these men and women came to meet with

with the intensity of their lamentation and despair.

me, over and over again they opened my eyes even further

Through their wide-ranging revelation of human emotion, the Psalms “drag” our hearts to God and to His

to the Psalms. I began to realize that I had missed something

grace, even when we do not want – or feel too unworthy –

important in the Psalter. Yes, the title meant “Book of

to be taken there. While the Psalms have this effect in a

Praise,” but there are more songs of “complaint” and “strug-

general way for most believers who read them, they contain

gle” sprinkled throughout those verses than there are songs

an especially daring invitation and promise for the survivor

of what we would term “praise.” Consequently, by overlook-

of sexual abuse: bring your past pains and present hurts to

ing this, I had missed something equally important about

God for healing.

worship: Worship was meant to consist of much more than singing happy and thankful songs. And ultimately, I had

Adult victims of childhood sexual abuse do not believe that it is safe for them to disclose their past. They were

missed something about God himself – the fact that He is

coerced into keeping a shameful secret, a secret they were

not afraid of our struggle, pain, confusion, or even our anger.

told never to tell, a secret they came to believe was too big

More than that, He wants us to bring those things to Him

and too awkward for their families or their churches to bear.

in song, and He so intended to underscore this desire for us

The hurt, pain, and damage caused by the abuse do not

that He gave us more examples of tearful and pain-filled

disappear. The roots of that pain and the reasons behind it

“praising” than he did jubilant and triumphant celebration.

are kept under lock and key by shame and denial.

To wrestle with God is worship. Bring your broken and turbulent heart with you.

Yet, in His passionate love and mercy, the God of Israel does not stand far off. As the songs of the Psalter call out across the centuries, the Lord’s message is clear: He will not allow such hiding, denial, or avoidance to come between Him and His beloved children.

If Scripture regulates worship, as we believe, then it calls

As I fumbled and stumbled along in my attempts to care for these men and women who had dared to reveal their

for something more daring, more poignant, and, yes, more

secrets to me, I began almost by instinct to point them to

costly than we would prefer to give. Again and again the

the Psalms. I desperately hoped that this would provide some

message of the Psalms re-echoes: “To wrestle with God is

hope and direction for them. After all, I had grown up in

worship. Bring your broken and turbulent heart with you.”

Scotland; I knew about the Psalter! I knew what John

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The Psalms and the Pathway to Healing

pathway for reaching a measure of healing: they demand

The psalmist’s words are not rocks hurled over his shoulder as he stomps away. Rather, he is coming to his Father, his God, and his redeemer for help.

an end to denial; they give us better questions to ask;

As much as we would prefer to hear “nice words,” our

they raise the bar for our relationship with God; and they

heart’s desire is for honesty. The Psalter shows that that

emphasize the steadfastness of God’s love.

which is true for us as God’s image-bearers is also true for

1) The Psalms Demand an End to Denial

our relationship with the one whose image we bear.

The Pathway to Healing

My tears have been my food day and night, While they say to me continually, “Where is your God?” Ps.43:3 For the victim of childhood sexual abuse – and for all who would engage with God – the Psalms offer a fourfold

Unfortunately, the painful truth is that, in His Sovereign

When I remember God, I moan;

love, God knows that we will not easily leave the numb

When I meditate, my spirit faints. Selah.

comfort of our denial. We will not open the door to our

You hold my eyelids open;

hidden hurts until our house of cards has finally collapsed.

I am so troubled that I cannot speak. Ps.77:3-4 Why do victims of childhood sexual abuse live in denial?

In Psalm 44 we encounter the psalmist in worship that has

This happens because the victim is told not to tell, believes

reached this level of desperation: You have made us like sheep for slaughter

he or she has no one who is safe to tell, and developmentally

and have scattered us among the nations.

cannot fully process what has happened. Often a child’s only

You have sold your people for a trifle,

recourse is denial; the event is pushed away to the edges of

demanding no high price for them.

the mind as the victim tries to get on with his or her life.

You have made us the taunt of our neighbors,

But, in His love for us, God will not allow denial. In Psalm

the derision and scorn of those around us.

77, as he worships God, the psalmist tells us that God is

You have made us a byword among the nations,

causing him to face reality – and it hurts. God is holding the

a laughingstock among the peoples.

psalmist’s eyelids open! He would like to close his eyes, to

All day long my disgrace is before me,

shut out reality, to find temporary comfort in denial, but

and shame has covered my face. Ps.44:11-16

God will not let him. This is God’s unusual love. He desires

As we read this, our eyes widen, our jaws drop, and

that we face what is true about our past pains and present hurts. According to the Psalter, we can do this in a way that

a rebuke towards the speaker forms in our mouths – until

is worshipful and godly.

we realize that this is God’s Word. How would we respond if we heard these words from a fellow believer, a Sunday

Psalm 88 underscores this truth. The God-inspired

School teacher, a worship leader, or a pastor? Yet, God not

ending of this psalm is unsettling, and startlingly honest:

only inspired the psalmist to write these words as a form

“You have caused my beloved and

of worship, He also gave them to us as a guide and an

my friend to shun me; my companions have become darkness.” Ps.88:18

example. As with the psalmist, so it is with us. God will

As abrupt and shocking as this ending is, the key –

spare nothing to challenge us, to provoke an end to our

as with all psalms of struggle and complaint – is that the

self-protective denial.

psalmist is talking to God. The psalmist’s words are not rocks

2) The Psalms Give Us Better Questions to Ask

hurled over his shoulder as he stomps away. Rather, he is

As God cracks open the door to our hidden hurts, He gives

coming to his Father, his God, and his redeemer for help.

us better questions to ask. Like all facets of fallenness in

When a loved one refuses to talk to us, when a church

God’s creation, hurts unhealed do not disappear. Worse, they

member refuses to be honest, we know we are in trouble.

can often be labeled or diagnosed incorrectly. The secondary

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Facing the Wounds of Sexual Abuse

symptoms resulting from sexual abuse will continue to recur

The Psalms also raise crucial and complicated questions

as long as their roots are untraced. As you can imagine, past

about justice, questions that may be unspoken but are never

sexual abuse can result in significant struggles such as depres-

far away: How long, O God, is the foe to scoff?

sion, self-destructive behavior, eating-disorders, substance

Is the enemy to revile your name forever?

abuse, and reckless sexual behavior. Sexual abuse may also be

Why do you hold back your hand, your right hand?

connected to anger, anxiety, feelings of isolation, difficulty in

Take it from the fold of your

trusting others, conflict avoidance, and avoidance of a healthy marital sexual relationship. One secular study

garment and destroy them! Ps.74:10-11

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suggests that, unless sexual abuse is dealt with directly – as

To bring true worship and deep healing, God has given

opposed to dealing merely with the isolated side-effects – the

us better questions than we would normally ask.

victim will not know significant healing, but will continue to suffer at some level, draining his or her life of full vitality and straining the capacity of social and health services organizations to provide assistance. What is true for those in the secular world is no less true for those in the Church. Often the denial is deep, and the shameful truth is locked away just out of reach. Unless confronted with detailed descriptions of what constitutes sexual abuse, many victims of this sin would automatically answer “no” if they were asked, “Have you experienced sexual abuse?” The questions that the Psalms ask point us to the roots of

3) The Psalms Raise the Bar

our personal struggles and force us to examine them.

The Psalms begin and accompany us along a “healing path” because they raise the bar for our relationship with God.

Psalms 42-43 provide a clear example of how we can ask better questions in our worship of God. In Psalm 42:9,

To be abused sexually is to be emotionally hurt and scarred

the psalmist brings his accusatory question to God:

in ways that affect one’s vulnerability, intimacy, and trust. One’s future relationships cannot help but be affected by

I say to God, my rock:

such far-reaching devastation. Yet, the roots of relational

“Why have you forgotten me?

difficulties typically predate the sexual abuse and in some

Why do I go mourning

way “set the scene” for it. In cases of incest, for example,

because of the oppression of the enemy?” PS.42:9

the perpetrator and the victim are, by definition, members

As he continues, he brings to God a question that, while it is attributed to “my adversaries,” ultimately bears the

of the same family. In 60 percent of non-incest sexual abuse

stamp of the Adversary, Satan:

cases, the perpetrator is known to the victim in some way. The startling reality is that those who perpetrate sexual

“As with a deadly wound in my bones,

abuse prey on children whom they know will not tell. Most

my adversaries taunt me,

often, before the abuse occurs, the child lives with some

while they say to me continually,

level of emotional neglect and loneliness. Often, his or her

‘Where is your God?’” Ps.42:10

home life is harsh, cold, and rigid. Sometimes the parent-

Finally, unsatisfied with simple, surface, or obvious questions, the psalmist latches on to a better question which

child roles have been confused or twisted. Further, before the

echoes like a refrain throughout the psalm. The force of the

abuse, these children are already familiar with the dynamics

question is, “What is going on with me? What’s at the root

of fear-induced loyalty. The abuse therefore compounds the existing relational dysfunction of the child’s life.

of this struggle?” In the psalmist’s own words, he says: “Why are you cast down, O my soul,

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and why are you in turmoil within me?” Ps.42:11

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psalmists cling to the steadfast love of God as the word

As we have seen in the verses already quoted, the Psalms

occurs again and again in the Psalms.

arise out of a very different relational context. In the Psalms

To the one who has known abuse, betrayal, fear, neglect,

God, the One True Father, declares, “You can talk to me about things that are difficult.” He promises, “You don’t have

and loneliness, the Psalms offer relationship with the God

to be afraid to tell me how you feel.” By inspiring the

whose love is steadfast. In the agonizing and awkward

psalmists to engage with him, God repeatedly provides us

process of working through their pain, the psalmists’ hope

with flesh and blood examples of what it means to have a

is based solidly on the steadfast love of God. This steadfast

relationship with Him – not just in our private prayer closet,

love is crucial in the Psalter, especially in the psalms of

but also in public worship.

complaint and struggle. It functions as the turning point from despair to hope (e.g., Ps. 5:7; 17:7; 31:7; 90:14). In

In His desire to know, love, and heal us, God will

many psalms, this steadfast love is the reason that the com-

follow us into our darkness:

plaint or struggle can be voiced (e.g., Ps. 25:6; 26:3; 51:1;

If I say, “Surely the darkness shall cover me,

57:1). In other psalms, it is the conclusion to which the

and the light about me be night,”

psalmist clings amid the chaos of life and the consequences

even the darkness is not dark to you;

of sin (e.g., Ps. 13:5; 32:10; 36:10; 42:8; 44:26).

the night is bright as the day,

We know this to be the covenant love of God, the love

for darkness is as light with you. Psalm 139:11-12

behind His grace, the love that has bound Him to humanity

Seeing this relationship lived out in the Psalms – with

despite the sins committed between Adam’s first and today’s

the psalmist going unrebuked, unshunned, and uncorrected for uttering such words – we find ourselves owning his

last. This is the love behind God’s promise that the Gospel

prayers and saying to God ourselves, “I want to be known

is for broken people. It is His loving commitment not just to

by you intimately.”

save, but also to redeem broken people. The Scripture is

Search me, O God, and know my heart!

packed with stories of God’s commitment to redeem and

Try me and know my thoughts!

restore people who are deeply broken.

And see if there be any grievous way in me,

Helping to Put the Pieces Back Together

and lead me in the way everlasting! Ps.139:23-24

I thank God that, through my time at Covenant Theological Seminary, He gave me an education and an example, not so

...perhaps the most relentless aspect of the Psalms is their constant return to the steadfast love of God.

much that I might become a “competent” counselor, but that I also might have faith to look to Him more than to my gifts or education. God gave me hope that light can shine in darkness and that human beings can love others as they have been loved by Him. The Gospel is for those who have been sexually abused.

4) The Psalms Emphasize the Steadfastness of God’s Love

God holds out the promise of significant healing to all

Finally, perhaps the most relentless aspect of the Psalms

Whether our particular culture or social group is comfortable

is their constant return to the steadfast love of God.

with this truth or not, God, through the Psalms, invites

The Hebrew noun hesed is repeated over 130 times in the

us to a full-souled worship engagement with Himself.

His children who have sinned and been sinned against.

Psalms. Hesed is translated by using a number of different

Jesus Christ indeed has risen and continues to fly to His

words in English Bibles, including love, unfailing love, and

children with healing in His wings. “But for you who fear my

lovingkindness. But unless this noun is repeatedly translated

name, the sun of righteousness shall rise with healing in its

as steadfast love (see, for example, the English Standard

wings. You shall go out leaping like calves from the stall”

Version) the English reader misses the repetition present

(Mal. 4:2). n

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APOLOGETICS FAILURE AND

PART 2

Or, Why it may Be Good for Us to Lose the Argument In part one of this two-part article series, Mark Ryan asked why we are reluctant to address and accept our failures in sharing the Christian faith. He defused the fear and shame associated with failure by addressing the difference between perceived and actual failure. In the following conclusion to this series, Mark shows how facing up to failure may actually have a positive role in helping us grow to be more faithful apologists. Log on to www.covenantseminary.edu, choose Online Resources, and type in “apologetics” to read this article in its entirety.

The Value of Facing up to Failure

What is it that God is seeking to accomplish in us

Our Setbacks and Failures Can Serve Us by Testing Our Faith

at the same time as He works through us to share

Although one of the primary tasks of the Christian

the good news with others? If we consider this

apologist is to defend the faith in such a way as to

question we can at least note the following aspects

encourage the presence of saving faith in others,

of our apologetic setbacks and failures. All of these aspects of

the truth of the matter is that God is often busy

failure are positive and each has the potential of producing

working to deepen and strengthen our own faith in the midst

something in us of lasting value.

of these experiences. One of the ways in which He chooses to do this is by testing our faith through exposing us to failure.

Our Setbacks and Failures Can Motivate Us to Improve at “Giving a Word Back”

Those of us familiar with the Bible should be more alert to this eventuality than we typically are. Think of the testing

An important benefit of studying failure, insofar as it relates

of such notable figures as Abraham (Gen. 22:1ff) and Job

to apologetics, is that understanding more about what

(Job 1:1ff), as well as the words of James that the testing of

failure is and why failure strikes should lead to a greater

faith produces endurance and maturity (Jas. 1:3-4). Perhaps

understanding of the conditions of success. Like the football

it is the unwritten “rule” that apologists have to be those

coach who watches videotapes of his team’s bad plays just to

of strong faith – the intellectually advanced and spiritually

catch and prevent the same mistakes being repeated again

indefatigable – that keeps many of us from seeing our failures

and again, so identifying the reasons for our failures adds a much-needed dimension to the study of apologetics. In a

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very real sense, reflecting on today’s failures may enable us to better prepare for greater effectiveness and the securing of favorable outcomes tomorrow.

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For the apologist “success” and “favorable outcomes” are not to be construed as merely “winning” the convert. Rather, these relate to the apologist’s obedience, especially in the following four areas: 1. To love and worship God; 2. To be a faithful servant-witness; 3. To be a hard worker; and 4. To maintain a proper attitude toward all. Adapted from: Kent & Barbara Hughes, “Feelings on Failure,” Leadership 8, no.2, (Spring 1987): 29.


Apologetics and Failure

MARK P. RYAN (M.A.T.S.’99)

in this light. Whatever it is, we need to jettison such

L’Abri Fellowship, Southborough, Mass.

misconceptions from our minds and open ourselves to the possibility that, when we discover ourselves to be shot

Our Setbacks and Failures Can Serve Us by Reminding Us of Our Limitations

through with failure, then it is (by grace) that God is actually accomplishing something marvelous within us, something

Perhaps most importantly of all,

that may well fit us all the more for future apologetic duties.

the failures that we experience in Our Setbacks and Failures Can Serve Us by Shaping Our Character

our work as apologists should serve to drive deep into our conscious-

In 1 Peter 3:15 the Apostle Peter not only issues the call to

ness an awareness of our own limitations and, subsequently,

engage in the ministry of apologetics, but he also spells out

the need for greater dependency upon God. As paradoxical

the necessary preparation which this calling requires.

as it may at first seem, I honestly believe that one of the

Specifically, Peter calls the church to personal holiness.

chief dangers into which Christian

According to Peter, we can only make our

apologists stumble is that of failing to

defense of the faith if we “revere

rely upon God. Much like the concept

Christ the Lord as Holy.” This

of failure itself, there is, for the apolo-

presupposes or involves two things:

gist, the constant danger of consigning

the initial recognition or reception

God to the fringes of our pursuits.

of Jesus Christ as Lord of our lives

Whether through the increase of

and the ongoing reign of Jesus Christ

academic knowledge and reputation

as Lord over our lives in terms of

or through the experience of success

personal holiness. With the charac2

and even applause, we can too easily

ter of the Christian apologist being

find ourselves with a deceptive

such an important aspect of the

sense of “being ready for anything,”

apologetic assignment, we need not

rather than with a vital sense of

go far to see that at least some of our

“being dependent upon God.”

failures are taken up and used by

What does it take for the

God to correct character flaws and

apologist relying on his or her

to deepen Christ-honoring character

own abilities to once again

traits in us.

become aware of personal limitations

Consider the Apostle Peter himself. He was a man

and the need for God Himself? Typically, such awareness

who knew and experienced failure more than once and

comes through failure. Failure is often an instrument in the

often in very acute ways. Yet Jesus did not reject Peter 3

hand of God to lead us to a renewed conviction regarding

(cf. Jn.21:15-17). Instead the Lord was committed to the

our need of Him. Of course, being made aware of one’s

continual molding and shaping of Peter’s personality.

limitations under God is humbling, yet it is also empowering.

Again and again Peter’s failures become opportunities to

For, by the grace of God, apologists, like all Christians, are

grow in character, so much so that Peter is a prime example

wisest and strongest when they are weak (1 Cor.1:26-30;

of how God perseveres with us and uses even our failures to

Phil. 4:13) and able to serve others best when they are

make us what He wants us to be. 2

Certainly the context in which Peter is speaking is replete with references to the central components of Christian character as demonstrated in daily, godly living; cf. 1 Pet.3:1-6.

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See: Mt.14:28-31; Mt.16:1-23; Mt.17:4-6, par.Mk.9:5-7; Mt. 26:36-46, par. Mk.14:32-42; Mt. 26:69-75, par. Mk.14:66-72.

most completely hidden in Christ (Col.3:33; Eph.6:10-17). Facing up to Our Failures Casts Us and the Whole Enterprise Back onto God

Finally, I think the greatest benefit we gain from facing up to

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Sacrifice of Praise Worship Conference Wrap-Up

whole enterprise back onto the grace of God. When we are aware of the inevitability of failure (or if we are completely

More that 280 pastors and worship leaders gathered at Covenant Seminary this past February for the Sacrifice of Praise Worship Renewal Conference. Fifty churches sent both a pastor and a worship staff person.

honest, the prevalence of failure), then our apologetics can only continue in the context of the purifying and enabling grace of God. Like every other area of life in which we must come to grips with failure, so too in apologetics we are forced

The conference focused on subjects including:

back to God and to the centrality of His sovereign grace. For in apologetics no less than the rest of life, failure can remind

What is it that makes worship Biblical, Reformed, and Gospel-driven?

us that, “The eternal God is Thy refuge, and underneath are His everlasting arms” (Deut. 33:27), and that “apart from

Can a church add a new vocabulary to its heart language of worship while remaining true to its present form of expression?

[Him] we can do nothing” (Jn.15:5). Turning Stumbling Blocks into Stepping-Stones

Doubtless there are other ways that it would serve us well

Is there any hope for churches and denominations to establish long-term unity, peace, and mutual affirmation across various worship styles?

to think about failure in relation to Christian apologetics. But it is helpful to begin by simply noting that, in spite of appearances and our initial feelings, failure can have a

Many of the plenary sessions and workshops are available in the Online Resources section of the Covenant Seminary Web site. Talks available online include:

positive role to play in our growth and maturity as apologists. Not only is God always faithful and just in the way that He deals with us, but He is always in control so that His hand can be discerned in our failures as well as in our

WORSHIP AS GOSPEL RE-PRESENTATION Dr. Bryan Chapell

successes. As we address failure as a neglected reality of

MULTI-ETHNIC WORSHIP AND THE POWER OF THE GOSPEL Dr. Jonathan Seda

apologetics, we open up real potential for advancing our spiritual growth and improving as apologists in submission to God. The words of John Hunter are helpful at this point:

ANCIENT-FUTURE WORSHIP Rev. Scotty Smith

If, in spite of our failure we come to God confessing our wretchedness, and seeking His cleansing and His power, then we turn our stumbling blocks into stepping-stones. There is still the hope of joy and blessing and fruitfulness for all who will see the promise of God and accept the victory that can be theirs.

BACH, BUBBA, AND THE BLUES BROTHERS: THE SINGING SAVIOR’S MANY VOICES Dr. Reggie Kidd

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What better response to failure can we offer than turning stumbling blocks into stepping-stones? And what greater incentive can there be, practically speaking, to embark upon the apologetic task than knowing that, under God, even our shortcomings are redeemable and our failures are valuable. Whether we are seasoned apologists or novice defenders of the faith, may God grant all of us a sense of His presence and purpose in success and failure alike. n 4

John Hunter, Limiting God (Zondervan, 1972), 92 The program was made possible through a Worship Renewal Grant from the Calvin Institute of Christian Worship, Grand Rapids, Mich., with funds provided by Lilly Endowment Inc.

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The Pursuit of Excellence and the Perils of Perfectionism

I am reminded of the wonderful story of the Velveteen

continued from page 5

Rabbit, in which we meet the toys in a children’s nursery.

evaluating the pros and cons of perfectionism – the advantages

The old Skin Horse, we are told, was balding and showing

and disadvantages. Perfectionists often have a difficult time

some of his seams. He had seen many other toys come and

seeing the disadvantages of this way of coping with life. They

eventually break apart and pass on, but being old and wise he

are convinced that their way of thinking protects them from

knew about the “strange and wonderful” nursery magic.

mediocrity and prevents mistakes. They do not see clearly

“What is REAL?” asked the Velveteen Rabbit one day when

the negative consequences of self-criticism, dissatisfaction,

they were lying side by side near the nursery fender…. “Does it

broken relationships, and vulnerability to depression. When

mean having things that buzz inside you, and a stick-out handle?”

the advantages and disadvantages are carefully defined, it is

[appearance and performance] “Real isn’t how you are made,” said

usually easy to see that the costs outweigh the benefits.

the Skin Horse. “It’s a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY

Perfectionists can also take steps toward healing by recognizing all-or-nothing thought patterns,

loves you, then you become real.” “Does it

such as “I must do everything right or not at

hurt?” asked the Rabbit. “Sometimes,” said

all.” “Are the walls in this room completely

the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful.

dirty, or are there just a few dirty marks?”

“When you are Real, you don’t mind being

New habits of thinking and feeling take a

hurt.” “Does it happen all at once, like being

long time to be established in the heart.

wound up,” he asked, “or bit by bit?” “It

Patience is needed. It is helpful to keep a

doesn’t happen all at once,” said the Skin

journal of habitual thoughts and feelings.

Horse, “you become. It takes a long time.

Until we record the pattern of our neurotic

That’s why it doesn’t often happen to people

and sinful tendencies, we often do not realize how frequently they occur. As individuals seek to deal with perfectionism it is helpful to create little goals. If one’s goal is to be less of a perfectionist about appearance, then it helps to break this down into sub-goals, like not taking more than 30 minutes to get ready to go out, being willing to miss a workout, or gaining a few pounds without becoming

Old habits of thinking die hard. Insecurity, feelings of insignificance, desire to control, fear of rejection and failure...

who break easily or have sharp edges or who have to be carefully kept [Perfectionists!]. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don’t matter at all, because once you are Real you can’t be ugly except to people who don’t understand.”

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It is the love of God that surrounds and accepts us just as we are. And we also have the promise that we are being perfected by

upset. One can get wise input by reading 4

God – or sanctified – and one day we will

books and going to a counselor, but the optimum environment for change is in the context of a

be complete in perfection. For “we, who…all reflect the Lord’s

relationship with God and other people. A community or an

glory, are being transformed into His likeness with ever-

alternative family can be a great source of healing. If you have

increasing glory…” (2 Cor. 3:18) little by little, day by day.

never experienced acceptance and grace in your own family

One day, in glory, even our bodies will be transformed so that

of origin, then I pray that you will find a church where people

they will be like His glorious body. Until that day we groan

will accept you with your faults and imperfections. It is there

for glory (Rom. 8:23). We wait “eagerly” and “patiently” for

that the lies a perfectionist has accepted can be replaced with

that day when the Lord will return, and He will give us the perfection we long for and that He desires for us. n

the louder voice of grace and truth. We all need a safe place to take risks without fear of rejection. 4

Martin Antony and Richard Swinson, When Perfect Isn’t Good Enough: Strategies for Coping with Perfectionism (Oakland, Calif.: New Harbinger, 1998), 124-5.

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Margery Williams Bianco, The Velveteen Rabbit (New York: Avon, 1975), 16-17.

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CAMPUS For a campus calendar, log on to www.covenantseminary.edu. Perry Joins Faculty Dr. Greg Perry was appointed to Covenant Seminary’s permanent faculty this past January to serve as Assistant Professor of Biblical Studies. Dr. Perry has served as Adjunct Professor of Biblical Studies for Covenant Seminary since Fall 2003. Prior to joining the seminary faculty, Dr. Perry served for ten years in pastoral ministry and theological education in the U.S. and Australia. While teaching theology in Australia, Professor Perry helped to develop a team designed to explore church planting principles in the Australian context and train local pastors to apply those principles. He is currently a board member of Third Millennium, an organization which was created to bring theological education to second and third world countries. Dr. Perry has a heart to disciple students in creative cultural applications of the Gospel. His doctoral dissertation focuses on how Luke’s narrative helped shape Christian corporate identity as early congregations read or heard the Acts of the Apostles.

Large Mormonism Collection Donated to Buswell Library The late Rev. Wesley Walters’ (d. 1990) library of books, journals, and cassettes on Mormonism has been donated to Covenant Seminary’s Buswell Library. The Walters collection is virtually unparalleled, representing decades of research and discoveries that disproved some of Joseph Smith’s (founder of Mormonism) claims. The collection covers numerous Mormon sects, splinter groups, and other religious phenomena. Rev. Wesley Walters served as

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Pastor of Marissa Presbyterian Church in Marissa, Ill., from 1957-1990.

Faculty Itinerary

Jerram Barrs, Professor of Christianity and Contemporary Culture, in Timonium, Md., May 14 to 17, teaching for Timonium Presbyterian Church; in Sopron, Hungary, June 10 to 16, teaching for the European Leadership Forum; in Cedarville, Mich., July 2 to 9, teaching for InterVarsity Family Camp; in Liss, Hampshire, England, July 17, preaching for the International Presbyterian Church.

Seda Speaks for Graduation Rev. Dr. Jonathan Seda, Pastor of Grace Presbyterian Church in Dover, Del., will serve as the speaker for Covenant Seminary’s graduation ceremony on May 13, 2005. The Seda family will also celebrate the graduation of daughter Michelle Seda Novenson (M.A.T.S.) and son-in-law Matt Novenson (M.Div.) on that evening.

David Calhoun, Professor of Church History, in Great Britain, June 6 to 15, leading “Our Scottish Heritage Tour” for Independent Presbyterian Church of Savannah, Ga.; in Nairn, Scotland, June 15 to July 4, preaching for the Free Church.

Visiting Scholar Spends Sabbatical on Campus Dr. Paul Grabow, Associate Professor of Computer Science for Baylor University, spent his Spring 2005 sabbatical researching technology’s relationship to matters of Christian faith and practice. Among the courses Dr. Grabow teaches for Baylor University are Computers and Society and The Cultural Impact of the Computer. Teaching from Drs. Jack Collins (science and faith) and David Jones (christian ethics) helped facilitate Dr. Grabow’s sabbatical study. Dr. Grabow and his family are members of Redeemer Presbyterian Church in Waco, Texas.

Donald Guthrie, Vice President for Academics, in Wichita, Kan., May 6 to 7, teaching for Evangel Presbyterian Church Men’s Retreat.

Calhoun Helps Celebrate Anniversary of Savannah Church As a part of the 250th Anniversary celebration of Independent Presbyterian Church in Savannah, Ga., Dr. David Calhoun has presented a written history of the congregation titled The Splendor of Grace. This book is the culmination of researching the church’s history over the

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David Jones, Professor of Systematic Theology and Ethics, in Pittsburgh, Pa., July 1 and 2, speaking for the Westminster Confession into the 21st Century conference at Reformed Presbyterian Theological Seminary (Topic: “The Westminster Standards and the Structure of Christian Ethics”). Robert Peterson, Professor of Systematic Theology, in Collinsville, Ill., Sundays during the months of June, July, and August, preaching for Hope Presbyterian Church.

Nelson Jennings, Associate Professor of World Mission, in Chicago, Ill., June 17 to 19, for

Richard Winter, Professor of Practical Theology, in Sopron, Hungary, June 11 to 16, teaching for the European Leadership Forum; in various countries during Fall Sabbatical teaching and studying crosscultural counseling.

course of six years. Dr. Calhoun is also joining in the church’s celebration by teaching during the month of May and leading a tour of Great Britain from June 7 to 14, 2005. Learn more on the web at www.ipcsav.org.

in Chattanooga, Tenn.). Drs. Donald Guthrie and Bob Burns will lead a seminar addressing the topic of Sustaining Pastoral Excellence. For more information, log on to www.ga2005.com.

Faculty Teach at GA Dr. Bryan Chapell will lead a seminar on The Future of Expository Preaching during this summer’s General Assembly of the Presbyterian Church in America (June 14 to 17

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American Society of Missiology meeting; in Philippines, Malaysia, and Indonesia, portions of July and August, for sabbatical research.


Covenant magazine is published by Covenant Theological Seminary, the National Seminary of the Presbyterian Church in America. The purpose of Covenant Seminary is to train servants of the triune God to walk with God, to interpret and communicate God’s Word, and to lead God’s people. Volume 20, Number 2. ©2005 Executive Editor David Wicker Managing Editor and Writer Eileen O’Gorman

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My phone has been busy with friends of Covenant Seminary wanting information on a so-called “New Perspective on Paul.” Some Church leaders have voiced very different assessments of this perspective that has

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implications for bedrock beliefs of the Presbyterian Church in America. The responsibility of Covenant Seminary in all such controversies is not

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to embrace a view simply because it is historic or to reject a view simply because it is new. Our unchanging task is to ask, “What does the Bible say?” Then we must speak with clarity, charity, and courage. Clarity requires that we declare as best we can what God has said in His Word. Charity

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demands that we not caricature others’ arguments or judge them prematurely. Courage demands that we love the Bride of Christ enough to defend her

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from doctrinal harm. I have appealed to the great minds of our godly professors to get

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me “up to speed” on these issues. So, if you would like my decidedly non-technical explanation, I invite you to go to the seminary Web site (http://www.covenantseminary.edu/news/NewPerspective.asp). There I have done my best to use everyday words (well, maybe every-other-day words) to explain and defend God’s eternal truth for His people. Blessings,

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FIRST THINGS FIRST Samuel and Anna Chung Minister Among Korean Americans When visiting with the Samuel

to help these couples with their

(M.Div.’05) and Anna (M.A.E.M.’05)

unique challenges. A kidney condition

Chung family you will hear a mixture

prevented Samuel from being admitted

of Korean and English spoken. This is

into the chaplain candidate program,

one of the first indicators of their cross-

but he still desired to move in the

cultural experiences. You will also hear

direction of pastoral ministry.

about the life of an adult immigrant to

The Chungs surprised themselves

the U.S. (Samuel), a child immigrant

by choosing to come to Covenant

(Anna), and U.S.-born Korean-

Seminary. “Our family is in California,

Americans (Katherine and Caroline).

so it was strange for us to think about The Chung Family

The differences in their individual

going to seminary so far away,” Anna

stories come out in subtle ways, like their accents, but their

says. “But when we visited Covenant Seminary, saw the community

unity as a family is a picture of God’s grace to the Church.

atmosphere, and experienced the overall mission, we felt that this

The Chung family is especially in a unique position to serve Korean Churches in the U.S. They are part of First Korean

was where we needed to be,” Samuel adds. Since coming to Covenant Seminary, Samuel has been

Presbyterian Church of St. Louis and live the Korean-American

particularly impressed and encouraged by the value professors

experience with their fellow churchmen. In the midst of cultural

place on intellectual knowledge and personal spiritual growth.

and generational complexities, they have a message. “We all need

“The professors are not only concerned about what we know,

to find the basis for our identity in Christ,” Anna says. “This is

but also about our spiritual wellbeing,” Samuel says.

more important than our cultural heritage or skin color. It is not

Already Anna and Samuel are seeking the wellbeing of the

that culture is not important or is irrelevant; it is just that we need,

people at First Korean Presbyterian Church. Anna serves as the

first, to see who we are in Christ. All of the struggles of language

Christian Education Director while Samuel serves in children’s

and culture between Koreans and non-Koreans and between

ministry. The Chungs express great appreciation for the support,

generations within the Korean church need to be seen in this

love, and ministry opportunities the church has given them. Having

light of Christian identity.”

recently passed the licensure exam, Samuel is preparing to start a

An awareness of the need for Gospel ministry brought the Chungs to St. Louis and First Korean Presbyterian Church. One

one-year internship at their church following seminary graduation. As Samuel’s kidney condition has improved, military chaplaincy

month after immigrating to the U.S., Samuel joined the U.S. Army

is once again an option for him, but civilian pastoral ministry has

and also met Anna. Over the course of the next couple of years,

also become a possibility. Regardless of where the Chungs serve, they

they began their married lives together and saw the need for Gospel

will bring to others the good news of the Gospel and their unique

ministry in the military. They were particularly burdened for the

perspectives from cross-cultural and trans-national life experiences.

5,000 Koreans at Fort Campbell in Kentucky, many of whom were

In doing so, they will be able to reach into places that are out of

wives of American soldiers who had served in Korea. They desired

reach for many and bring with them the light of life in Jesus Christ. n

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