The Power of Confidence

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By Carmen Goebel

Happy January All!!!

This month I want to dive into the power of confidence. You see being a Visionary Coach I also deal with confidence. It's a vital role in moving forward in life, business and relationships.

Have you ever been too scared to walk up to someone and say “Hi”?

I must answer with a yes to that question as well. There have been times in my life where it's been a paralyzing theme, and times when I’ve been so confident that nothing could stand in my way.

Last month I wrote about vision and how I manifested my husband. It all ties together because Lynn, my husband and Garth, my first husband, were both attracted to me when I was at a high with confidence. In both situations even though I had asked for what I wanted in a love, I had then forgotten about it and gone along with my life and activities while paying no mind to the actual hunt.

That is why I say confidence is a good trait to have.

We have been told to say daily affirmations, to pick some traits or a body part that you like each day and be grateful for it. Also how to eat healthy and stay hydrated because we are 70% water and a hydrated brain and body is a confident one at that. That's all perfect, but when it comes to that essence of confidence, it just happens and you don’t even realize it until something happens to give you a compliment or you get an inspiring thought.

So many people say they just want to be happy… YES that's right although what is it that will make you happy? Possessions like cash, property, things? Or maybe careers, relationships and connections? Well whatever that is for you, is perfect!

Constantly living in disempowering and destructive thoughts leads to disaster and the person who gives expression to the words/thought in your head is YOU.

There is no judgement... The thing is, The Universe wants and needs you to be more specific otherwise it's just going to fill in the blanks and then you might not be as happy with the outcome. In connection, consider this statement from “Think and Grow Rich'' by Napoleon Hill. “All thoughts which have been emotionalized, (given feeling) and mixed with faith, begin immediately to translate themselves into their physical equivalent or counterpart.

Lets try a couple of things. 2021 is here and New Year's resolutions are on our minds. Think of a resolution like a goal. I wish to be more confident!

Confidence means happiness and what am I going to do to be happy.

• I want to lose 30 pounds.

• I want to change my career.

• I want to go to school.

• I want to save up for a trip.

• I want to buy a new car.

• I want to move to (destination).

Being confident and happy means our well being is being looked after. Feelings of being safe and secure is the ultimate goal here. These things that I’ve placed in your mind, in turn may make you feel more confident.

Now you must dissect your confidence and your goal more.

For instance, let’s dive into one… “I want to change my career.”

The job/career you have now has lost its spark and it's making you grumpy and irritable. Maybe you are not making enough money for the things you want.

Now I want you to look at your options. What do you want to do? What hobbies/ interests do you have? Does what I like to do align with a career? How much does that career generate in income potential?

The questions are an idea of the kind of things you should ask yourself. Do some research and soul searching then make a plan of action. Once you actually start with that first step towards that goal, it will in turn create momentum (like a train picking up speed) and that's exactly what you are going to want to get to your goal and be more confident.

In conclusion I want you to create your very own success story, in detail and with every step and juicy detail you can imagine. Please don’t feel like this is a burden. You're allowed to change and add to the story as each day passes.

OHHHHH and P.S. remember that you are 100% responsible for your choices. There is no blame to others or to yourself for the outcome.

I am always here for an email or message. Thanks a bunch Carmen

CREATE YOUR SOUL PURPOSED LIFE

Carmen Goebel Confidence/Visionary/Life Coach, Success Through Vision 1 (306) 728-0127