UP Wedding Guide Spring 2013

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Vendor Directory & Contents

I’m Engaged... now what? Why do you THINK you want the digital files? bridal party 101

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lets eat!

reception dinner choices FEATURED WEDDING DANIELE CAROL PHOTOgRAPHY A PEAK INSIDE! the landmark inn FEATURED WEDDING WREN PHOTOgRAPHY PINTEREST, eTsy, DIY... oh my! featured wedding freeman photography

wedding checklist

In order of Appearance L andmark Inn 906.228.2580 Joes Cakes 906.315.8116 Jandrons Fine Jewelry 906.226.8900 Utopia 906.225.1311 Daniele Carol Photography 906.250.1337 Wren Photography 906.399.3275 William Schumann Photography 906.250.2484 Freeman’s Photography 906.774.8374 Legend Entertainment 906.225.1338 Scherer Party Cakes 906.486.4535 Knots & Kisses 906.236.4810 LoneWolf Cleaning 906.869.1851 L ake Effect Entertainment 906.361.SPIN U.P. Photo booth 906.225.1338 Made to Keep info@madetokeep.com THE UP WEDDING GUIDE 906.250.1337 CONTRiBUTORS: owners & PUBLISHERS: daniele & luke miljour editorial: Chelsea Pekrul Designer: melissa miller Editor: Erin THiele Editor: Amanda kerry

1. wren photography 2. freeman photography 3. daniele carol photography 4. daniele carol photography 5. wren photgraphy 6. freeman photography 7. daniele carol photography

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I’M ENGAGED... now what?

SHOUT IT FROM THE ROOFTOPS!

in your friends. This will give you a starting point for your guest list.

1. Start Spreading the News// Kiss your fiancé, call your parents and update your Facebook status. YOU are ENGAGED. Enjoy the moment! 2. The Dirty Word: Budget// After the dust has settled and the world knows you are getting married, discuss a budget with your parents and fiancé. No one wants to put a limit on his or her wedding, but you do not want to end up in debt up to your eyeballs either. Figure out a reasonable amount to spend and where your wiggle room will be. If you budget $4000 for a dress, and you find one for $2000, great, you are ahead of the game and have money to put towards other things. 3. Seating for How Many// The number of guests you would like at your wedding will be an important factor when choosing a venue. Gather names from both sides of the families and add

4. Start Thinking About a Date// There are a lot of factors that go into finalizing a date for your big day. First, think about your schedule and favorite time of year. Next, choose a few dates and keep them in mind as you contact vendors. Cross check with everybody before choosing your date: the ceremony and reception locations; key players like your decorator, photographer, and entertainment. Their availability will help you determine which date is best. 5. Make it Official// Now that you know who and what is available to you, set your date! Have engagement photos taken as soon as possible and send out your Save the Dates, so your guests can start making their plans to celebrate this amazing time with you.

our wedding day

TIP//Keep your guests and bridal party in the know. Send a wedding day timeline

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shuttle pick up

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ceremony begins

photos

cocktail hour

dinner & dancing

with your invitations.

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ETERNITY

kaitlyn & mike live happily ever after

arrive at church

husband & wife!




DIGITAL MEDIA VS. PRINT

Why do you THINK you want the digital files?

Photographers spend a significant amount of time developing their skills to photograph and edit images. The last piece of the creative puzzle is a beautiful print. Do not let your photographer sell you short. Why walk away with a file, when you can have something tangible? Check with your photographer about your options – prints of all sizes, thank you cards, wedding albums, parent albums and wall art should all be readily available from your professional.

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BRIDALparty101

WHO WILL YOU CHOSE TO STAND BESIDE YOU?

MAID OF HONOR//Plans the shower and the bachelorette party.

She is also responsible for the bridesmaids by staying on top of fittings and other tasks the bride has delegated. The maid of honor may be asked to make a toast at the reception. Organizing and motivating are key duties here.

BRIDESMAIDS//Participates

in all pre-wedding events. Bridesmaids who live out of town may get a pass to some of the events, but do not let them off the hook entirely. They are also required to dance enthusiastically to the “Cupid Shuffle” at the reception, stay until the end of the reception, and try to accomplish everything the bride asks of them. Most importantly, they are there for the bride.

BEST MAN//

Takes care of all bachelor events and supports the groom. He keeps track of the wedding rings, even if there is a ring bearer (you don’t want to assign that task to a four-yearold). He also kicks off the toasts at the reception. A helpful tip: pick someone who gets along well with the bride and who will keep the groom out of trouble the night before the wedding.

GROOMSMEN// Also

required to participate in all pre-wedding events. Groomsmen help the best man with bachelor party plans, seat guests at the ceremony, and dance with bridesmaids at the reception. Being on standby for the bride and groom is also expected.

TIPS FOR THE BRIDAL PARTY//Ask in advance when

you are expected to be ready and where you need to be. Know where the “getting ready” location is, what time your hair appointment is, what time you need to be dressed, what time your makeup needs to be finished, and what time and where photos will begin. Be respectful of the photographer. Photographers are working, asking them to drink and party with you is nice, but after they politely decline-just drop it. They have an extremely important job to do for the bride and groom. Getting tipsy at a wedding is not one of them. * Read more tips on Page 14.

FLOWER GIRL & RING BEARER//

Be as cute as a button. You really cannot guarantee that your young attendants will walk down the aisle or cooperate for photos, so just let them be cute and have fun. This will prevent unnecessary stress for everyone involved. Your photographer will capture them with you when the timing is right. If it ends up that they do run screaming down the aisle looking for their mama, hey, at least they went down the aisle!

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let’s eat

RECEPTION DINNER CHOICES Family-Style Dinner// Cocktail Reception// - Have food served directly to your table: two - Make sure guests are aware ahead of time there will be no sit-down dinner. - Provide seating for at least 60% of your guests. - Feature hors d’oeuvres and other bite-sized foods on the menu. - Arrange for waiters serving among guests as well as stationary locations. - Keep the theme by pairing the cocktail reception with a signature cocktail. - Have your grand entrance, special dances, and cake cutting done at the beginning when the couple arrives.

Buffet Dinner// - Indicate in your invitation what time dinner will be served. - Be sure to have enough seating for everyone on your guest list. - Select from the traditional fare (meat, potatoes, vegetables) or have a more customized, modern spread (Indian, Mexican, Yooper). - Discuss with your Entertainer or DJ unique ways to release the tables. Trivia about the bride and groom, name that tune, or something that fits your theme.

Plated Dinner// - Ensure your guests are being served a hot and fresh meal, make sure they are well aware of when dinner begins. - Request a prompt response. RSVPs are essential. - Having the food served directly to the tables to make it easier for the elderly and families with small children.

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entrees, two side dishes, and the salad. - Have guests serve themselves and then pass to others. - Remember to minimize the centerpiece to provide room for serving plates. - Follow your theme by using a cake as a centerpiece for each table. A mini cake cutting at each table by the happy couple personalizes each guest’s experience.

Reception Note//

With all three of the seated dinner styles, you will find that there are two parts to your reception: the dinner and then the dancing. As the head table is served first, the bridal party usually finishes first. This is a chance for the couple to spend time with guests, to say hello and thank you, as well as photo opportunities. Keep in mind, you might not have time to say hi to everyone. Consider involving your DJ. For example, have him set a “buzzer” for each table, see how many camera phone photos you can get in before the next buzzer sounds. Just have fun! Soon enough you will be stepping out on to the floor for your first dance as husband and wife. On the other hand, a cocktail reception gives guests the freedom to eat, drink, dance, sit or socialize, as they feel comfortable.


sweets Pass It On//While this couple chose

a traditional cake to cut and share in a private moment, they selected a wide variety of mini deserts for their guests. The chef and bakers served these delicacies on vintage, antique trays. They were just too good to pass up.

Cake Buffets//If you cannot pick Sweet Shop//

Here you can see this couple decided to do without the traditional cake; instead, they offered a mix of pies and other sweet treats. They used unique table dĂŠcor to personalize it and keep with their theme. It was a perfect fit and delicious.

just one cake, pick a few! As shown here, the couple had a variety of cakes, pies, cookies and chocolate covered strawberries. They still had a traditional cake to cut and also offered their guests a wide variety of sweets to enjoy throughout the night.

Keeping With Tradition//One four-tiered cake. Save the top

for our anniversary. It may be out of style to SMASH the cake, but it is still funny when the groom gets a cheek full of frosting. This cake matched their peacock-inspired theme perfectly.


DANIELE CAROL PHOTOGRAPHY featured wedding

Deanna ANDGeorge MARQUETTE, MICHIGAN

details:

FLORIST//BARB KELLY RINGS//RICHARDSON JEWELERS DRESS//JIM HELM INVITATIONS// JOHNSON’S APPETIZER CATERER//TLC: TWO LOCAL COOKS DINNER//BABY CAKES DESSERT// GOURMET GIRL LISA LATE NIGHT SNACK//BORDER GRILL TRUCK LOCATION//PRIVATE ESTATE

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WREN PHOTOGRAPHY featured wedding

Kelly A ND Daniel

DanielleA N DBrian GLADSTONE, MICHIGAN

details:

FLORIST//DELTA FLORAL CAKE//BONNIE ANDERSON RINGS//RICHARDSON JEWELERS DRESS//WATTERS (DESIGNER) INVITATIONS//BASIC INVITE
RECEPTION// PRIVATE HOME


MORE TIPS FOR THE BRIDAL PARTY//Ladies if this is your 1st

and your possible limitations. A polite way to decline is to explain you cannot afford it, but would still like to be a part of the day. You might ask to read a poem or bible verse during the ceremony. Or, the most recent trend is the usherette: girls who hand out programs and ceremony favors. The bride will be more thrilled to have you there and helping out, rather than there and in a funk because you maxed out all your credit cards to be in the wedding.

wedding as an attendant, you’ll need to know what you are expected to pay for. Usually this consists of throwing the bridal shower and bachelorette party, buying gifts, a bridesmaid dress, shoes, undergarments, hair, make-up, nails, tanning, and possible over night or travel expenses depending on the location. Being in the bridal party may cost $1000 or more, so make sure to talk with your bride about her expectations

Guys, let’s face it, besides a tux rental, a hair cut, bachelor party and maybe a new pair of undies, you got it made. All you have to do is stay sober through the nuptials and try to make it to the grand entrance. You could be “that guy, who slept at the head table” for the reception. Or you could be “that guy who found his future bride at his friend’s wedding.”

I’VE SEEN IT ALL BEFORE...

THE FLOWERS, THE DÉCOR...

ON It’s been one whole wedding season since the dawn of Pinterest! Don’t get pinned with the same wedding as everyone else…..

L.L.C

Janice Chittle - Owner p: 906.362.8909 e: jmchittle@hotmail.com EVENTS DECOR BOUTIQUE

VISIT US ONLINE AT www.panacheeventdecorboutique.com

BE THE PIN.

Do not have a cookie-cutter wedding. Think about your hobbies, cherished memories, and personalities. If you love to travel, consider naming tables after places you have visited together. Your wedding will be a thousand times more special and memorable. The best-pinned weddings are those that the bride and groom added their personal touch and style to the entire event.

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FREEMAN PHOTOGRAPHY featured wedding

details:

HAIR//SALON 325 & DESIGNING IMAGE CAKE//ANGELI’S DRESS//DAVID’S BRIDAL DJ//HOT HOT HOT RECEPTION//SCHUESSLERS DECORATOR AND FLORIST// EVER AFTER DECORATING ESCANABA TRANSPORTATION//BUCKYS LIMO

Rachel A N D Cory PESHTIGO, WI

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