9 Habits that Will Help You Find Love
Successful people have developed certain habits related to the field they are successful in. Much like a bird learning to fly, or a child learning to crawl, habits need to be worked on in order for people to grow and become successful in whatever their journey is. (Check out www.how-to-get-men.com for more interesting articles and videos). Likewise, people looking for love need to develop certain habits to make themselves successful in finding love. Here are some habits that will help anyone find love.
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Being approachable
Making yourself more approachable is a very important quality if you are looking for love. This is because no one is going to talk to you or have the courage to approach you if you’re not approachable. Making yourself approachable is done by direct eye contact and having a good smile. These are often neglected in women who expect men to approach them and wonder why men don’t. Men will wait for eye contact before approaching a woman, and smiling at them makes things more inviting and eases their fears. They are habits that need to be practiced and not ignored if you are looking for love.
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Being sociable
Learning to be talkative and sociable will also help you find love. By learning to be the one who strikes up conversations with others, you will not only multiply the amount of guys you get to talk to and have a chance of something more developing, but people you get to know as a result of your friendly banter may know someone they think is a perfect match for you. Be more sociable in terms of knowing how to carry a conversation. Guys don’t want to do all the thinking about what they have to say next. Learn to help them out and carry your part of the conversation. In addition, don’t just talk with them. Learn to steer the conversation towards flirtier subject, your passions and his. This will make you stand
out in his mind as an interesting person. Don’t just go with the boring flow of wherever the conversation takes you, control the discussion.
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Having a positive energy
When it comes to what people feel about you, you want them to feel uplifted when they think of you. You want to have a positive energy about yourself. This is an environment that is nurturing to the growth of love. Avoid negative attitudes and moody comments you could be making. This can be done by staying on the positive side of things, and making uplifting and positive comments about people and situations. When it comes to talking with people, make a habit of giving a compliment to at least 3 people in a day. This will get you on their good side, and will make people like you better. A habit like this is how you can put out a positive energy about yourself.
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Character
Not everyone will fall in love with someone they meet right away. Many people fall in love with someone over the course of time, after they have thought it through and decided they would be a good match for each other, this is why character is important. It’s much like an interview that lasts a month; you need to be making an impression on them for a substantial amount of time in order for love to grow. Things like talking behind peoples back, being mean, and having a negative energy about you will make a negative impression on them. If this is the case, they will subconsciously decide you aren’t a good match for them. On the other hand if you have developed character, traits that people find admirable, they could decide that you’d be someone they would want to be with.
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Not getting discouraged
Persistence is needed in any endeavor if it’s to be a successful one. When it comes to finding love, people can get discouraged easily, as love doesn’t always happen according to our time frame. When discouragement comes around it can make us moody and stop our efforts in finding love. As a result we stop doing the habits that are conductive to finding love and put on habits that will actually push love away from us.
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Trying new things
Trying new things is a habit that will help in finding love on two levels. The first is that it broadens the places and people that we meet, allowing you to bump into the right person. It can also help you learn new things and hobbies that will make you more of a catch. The second is that is develops an adventurous and exciting spirit in you, something that is magnetic and exciting to people.
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Surrounding yourselves with the right people
Perhaps it’s the people you hang around with. It could be that their negative attitude pulls you down and steals any joy or positive energy you could be putting out. Or maybe they are making the wrong impression on the people around you. Either way, you may need to spend less time with them, and surround yourself with the right people.
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Sticking with your standards
Knowing your worth and not settling for any man will help you find true love. Just because you’ve met a man, doesn’t necessarily mean he’s a good man. Some men aren’t capable of giving you the true love that you deserve. Sadly many women will put up with them and as a result, lose the opportunity of meeting the right man or finding true love. Know your standards of what you want in a relationship and stick to
them. By rejecting men who don’t live up to your standards of love, you are actually making room for Mr.Right to come in.
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Healing from the past
When it comes to our past, baggage from past relationships can hurt and even prevent future relationships from forming. This is why healing from our past is important in finding love. Healing may be through; counseling, taking time for yourself, getting closure, or talking it over with someone close. Whatever the case, it is a necessary step in bettering our future relationships.
Too many people believe that love will just come along without realizing that there are things we need to do to make love come along. Developing these habits is an essential step for love to happen, so take control of your love life.
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